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The GaryVee Audio Experience - Episode Summary
Episode Title
Why AI Will Force You to Grow | Aspire Keynote 2025
Podcast Description In this episode, Gary Vaynerchuk delivers a keynote at the Aspire 2025 event, where he discusses the rapid growth of AI and its implications for entrepreneurs, creators, and leaders. He emphasizes the necessity of evolving one’s mindset and skillset in the face of technological advancements.
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Key Concepts and Takeaways
The Impact of AI
- AI's Pervasiveness: Gary describes AI as a transformative force that will significantly change how we live and do business.
- Branding vs. Convenience: He stresses that as AI makes choices for us (e.g., ordering food), brands that lack recognition will suffer. Consumers will default to platforms that offer convenience, not brand loyalty.
The Importance of Personal Branding
- Building Your Brand: In a world dominated by AI, having a recognizable brand is crucial. Consumers will increasingly rely on personal brands when making decisions, especially as AI simplifies options.
Adapting to Change
- Embrace Learning: Gary calls on individuals to invest time (50-100 hours) into understanding AI and its potential impact on their businesses. He encourages hands-on experience with AI tools like ChatGPT.
- The Danger of Complacency: He warns against the complacency that can come from familiarity and urges listeners to actively engage with emerging technologies.
The Evolution of Social Media
- Shifting Landscape: Gary predicts that the current era of social media is nearing its peak, as platforms will evolve with new technologies (e.g., AR, VR).
- Opportunity in Live Shopping: He mentions that live social shopping is a burgeoning trend, especially in platforms like TikTok and Whatnot, and urges businesses to explore these avenues.
Personal Accountability and Mindset
- Self-Empowerment: Gary emphasizes the importance of individual responsibility and the need to stop blaming external factors (like parents or societal norms) for one's circumstances.
- Positive Mindset: He advises listeners to curate their social media feeds to foster positivity and self-esteem, urging them to engage with uplifting content.
The Long Game
- Patience and Persistence: Gary reflects on his long-term vision with projects like VFriends, illustrating the importance of patience and commitment to long-term goals over immediate gains.
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Practical Advice
- Content Strategy: Create a comprehensive content strategy across multiple platforms to maximize organic reach.
- Embrace AI: Experiment with AI tools to understand their potential applications in your business.
- Change Negativity: Actively work to eliminate negative influences and curate a positive digital environment.
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Final Thoughts Gary Vaynerchuk delivers a passionate and urgent message about the importance of adapting to change, leveraging AI, and taking personal responsibility. His insights encourage listeners to not only understand emerging technologies but also to foster a positive mindset that prioritizes growth and adaptability in a rapidly evolving landscape.
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Transcript
Automatic transcript. May contain errors.0:00I was watching recently a video you were making on content. Imagine that. And you talked about something in that I said, man, I want to ask you about this. You were talking about, uh, you were having a conversation about AI. Yes. And you said, uh, people are going to regret not them, their brand as AI is getting bigger and bigger and bigger. And you were tying AI and what it's going to do into you needing to make sure you have built your brand. What's the connection between those two? The connection there is AI is, I'm going to stand up for this because I got excited.
0:36AI is so fucking big that it's like almost hard to like break it down. Like whatever the fuck you think it is, it's crazier. The speed in which AI is gonna really affect our lives is substantial. Let me give you an example. AI getting really strong and voice devices are gonna really confuse people. For example, the Alexa in your home, and I know a lot of people like shut it off because they're like, gets spying on me. I'm like, that's fine. Like Jeff Bezos doesn't give that much fucks about you, by the way. But I think that when you come home, and like this is the world I see, when you walk into your kitchen and you're like, Alexa, my son is having a sleepover tonight.
1:24Three friends are coming over. One's lactose intolerant. One's gluten-free. Two of them love spicy food and one kid is Persian and I'd love for him to feel at home. Can you please order dinner for all of us? We're going to eat at 7.30 tonight. Thanks. When that then takes that and orders from four different places and delivers you a perfect meal in what I just said, for real, you have to understand then in that scenario Amazon has all the leverage because it's going to decide where that sale is going to go. that's called not having brand. Alexa, can you send me a pizza tonight? I have 20 people over.
2:06That's different than Alexa, send me Pizza Hut tonight. I've got 20 people. Got it? We are going into a place where all that's been happening over the last forever, but accelerating the last 30, 40 years, is we choose convenience over everything. There are people here that are fucking broke ordering fucking$28 bagels on fucking Seamless.
2:34That's how much we give a shit about convenience. Even when we can't afford stuff, we'll pay for time. AI is going to make everything convenient. You're going to have AI agents shop for you in the background. Like you have no idea how big this is going to be. And so if you're not a brand, the human is not going to choose you. You're going to choose it generically. You're going to talk and make decisions based on general principles. I need sneakers versus I need Reeboks. I need pizza versus Pizza Hut. I need business advice versus I need business advice from Gary Vee. Brand is the only thing left in a world of technology at scale.
3:15And that's what's going to happen. Wow. So in that example there, what you're saying is because when you hit that example of AI, if they don't know your brand, you're basically leaving it up to whoever, let's example, Amazon, to decide. Whoever sits in the middle, whoever's the toll booth wins, right? Seamless comes in and now it has leverage. Uber Eats has leverage. You're not ordering direct from the restaurant because we all remember, if you're over 40, you remember like literally having a menu in your fucking kitchen drawer, getting the phone number, calling the fucking place. kids it was wild now we love an Uber Eats or a seamless that's so much faster that's gonna feel in 15 years the way it felt to call a restaurant and stay on hold because AI is gonna do it for you in a way that's good we're gonna be so connected you're gonna be wearing devices of your health the fucking device is gonna order you food based on how you're feeling that minute it friends you're fucking robots you just don't realize it yet i'm being dead serious brother in 15 years i believe most of us will be wearing some form of health device and that device is going to order us dinner not us and we're going to love it
4:37so what happens in that sense you're not making the fucking choice you're not deciding to go to fucking Luigi's tonight and get pasta. But if you love Luigi's enough or you give a fuck enough, you will override. We still are not like completely helpless to this technology. But I don't think people realize how few things they give a shit about. And that is going to play out and that is where all the opportunity and all the vulnerability is as all of you game plan for the next 10 years. so on that on that note i mean the crowd is like dead silence well people are like fuck what the fuck are the robots they're like gary are the robots gonna kill my kids yeah motherfucker you better be ready so in that example there uh let's can you break it a little bit into what someone should be doing then, whether this is five years off, 10 years off, I'm sick and tired of you fucking being right and me like, I don't fucking know, maybe.
5:41And then I'm getting my ass handed to me five years later on some shit. So it's a big deal. Like, let me give you an example. Who's in real estate here? Hans, have you guys seen what happened to the company in Portugal that created an AI bot and did 100 million in sales? Anybody aware of that? Make some noise.
6:03yeah exactly my friends this isn't coming this is here i really need you listen this is this is super important we are by nature as humans hypocrites you're gonna go home tonight and scold your children about get educated it's important to have knowledge this and the other thing and meanwhile this AI thing is happening and you're putting your head in the sand. What should everyone do tonight? They should go home and start the journey of spending 50 to 100 hours of research time on what's going on in AI and what does it mean for their business and how do you do that? You do that by actually using AI.
6:43Download chat gbt and be like chat gbt what does AI mean to real estate? You know like we've got to put in the work. This is coming and and it's coming fast, and it's disrupting everything, and it's just gonna be the same old movie. Some people here are winning on social, but they don't wanna learn a whole new thing like AI. Again, this is just the way it is, and so I think people are very naive to what's going on out there. Let me give you another one. Everybody now wants to be a fuckin' influencer, right? Well, bad news. Virtual influencers are coming, and they're gonna win. There's a lot of people here already following someone who's not actually a human being.
7:23They don't even realize it. That's how good the tech is. I've dated seven of them online. It's like, wait, you're not real? And by the way, on that joke, in Japan, this is very advanced. VTubers, there are people in Japan that are married to virtual people. Married. Forget about getting tricked and it's like an OnlyFans thing. No, no, no. All the way. I am married to a person that doesn't exist. most of the people in this room will have a grandchild who will date a non-human. Thank you. See you next time. But you know what's funny about that moment? Like when you're like, you know what my favorite moment is when I say something like that?
8:07Right now, so many people in the audience were like, no way, Gary, no. And then I remind them that you do understand that if we went to your great, great grandparents' grave right now because there's some new technology and we can rebirth them by putting a little pill in it and sprayed the fucking thing and they popped up and let's say that existed. If we all went to our great, great grandparents' grave right now, sprayed it, they popped up, they're alive, they would fucking want to go back into the ground because the shit that we're living blows their mind. Like people are, listen, I was an atrocious student but I was good at history and I never understood why I liked it until I got older where I realized how much I rely on it to make my decisions.
8:53The reason I end up being right when I do predict-ish is because I ground myself in history. Let me give you an example. I know a lot of you don't know this, but it would help you understand why I see the world the way I do. When electricity was invented, do you know that most people were scared to put it into their home and continue to use candles because the word on the street was there were demons in the electricity? and do I have to remind some of the 40 and over crowd here who said they would never give up their BlackBerry because it had buttons on it? That one hurt. That would stop. I did that one.
9:32And again, over 40-year-old crowd, let these 20-year-olds know the stigma of online dating in 2003, 4, 5, 6. People met on Match.com and lied how they met because it was so embarrassing. Now it's the only way people do it. my friends, shit changes whether you like it or not. And when I think about coming to things like this, I always think about like, how do I bring value? Like why do people want to continue to listen to me? People paid, people stayed to the end. How do I bring value? If I can bring you any value, it's that if you say the word no in business, you're already in trouble. The only word if you're a no person that you're allowed to change that to is maybe.
10:21Because so many of you are going to lose or limit your upside because you're addicted to the word no. And that is the most dangerous word in business. With technology, you must, with consumer trends, with the way the world moves, you must be committed to maybe. not yes that's where you get in trouble the other way too you get too ahead of yourselves and no has value in other places protecting your time keeping you away from things but when it comes to what's happening in the world you can't use no and so many of you love to use excuses to not do new shit you know what was the big one last year two years ago everyone's like oh gary tiktok I can't do it.
11:13Fucking China. You know, people love to do some USA American fucking pride to disguise you're fucking lazy. Yeah, is it correct, you know? That's a true American trait right now. We're lazy. Yeah. We're fucking soft. Because we've had too much prosperity. You must go do your 50 to 100 hours of AI research or it will fuck you.
11:48I got a little bit of a bone to pick with you please okay so we're gonna pick a bone okay uh so about uh maybe seven months ago you were at an event me and you were backstage I was talking to you I said okay Gary you see what we do it's like your second or third event I was like what what piece of advice would you give me uh of what we could do for marketing different we are now okay I don't know if you remember this yet or not. And you thought there for a second about like that. We were like, hmm. And you said, I tell you what I would do. I would take part of your marketing budget and I would, instead of running ads, I would hire a full-time TikTok-only person.
12:24Yep. And you said all I would have that guy or girl do is just TikTok, TikTok, TikTok. And you said, you don't understand. You're like, you have no idea what will go viral. Like, the thing you think will go viral won't. And this stupid shit of, like, it's Magic Johnson dropping a cup goes viral. Remember this horrible story you told me? so I did that shit okay okay uh the dude's right here we hired him from California he moved to Florida to do TikToks we're gonna fire him today now listen I need you to fire him so check this out bro so we he was he's a great he's doing great and we've had some his chef hit bang bang whatever He does aspire.
13:02He's doing something for me. Listen to this, bro.
13:07He had this video they wanted to shoot. I shoot this video for him. Four days ago, this fucking thing, it finally hit. It hit 2.2 million views, like 200 ,000 comments on this one stupid ass TikTok video that we shot. then then people magazine reached out and said we wanted an interview newsweek reached out we wanted an interview uh today uh a show reached out and said we wanted an interview uh inside of this so my issue is i should have done this like 20 years ago uh where the fuck were you 20 years ago in my life because that's all free. Like, you know how hard it is to get on people to get interviewed for that shit, and it worked.
14:00It fucking worked, bro. Yeah, I mean, look, I think for everyone here, I need to say this very clearly. This era that we're in right now where you can post something on a social network and it's free, I just need everyone to wrap their head around what I'm saying here. It's free when you post it. of course you can run ads, but the story he's telling right now, it's free. This era that we're in is going to go away. And everybody here who's been listening, you know, when you just said, where were you? I was fucking here. You were there. I don't know what the fuck you were doing, but I think a lot of people, like a lot of people know I've been on this shit for 20 years.
14:46And I've been very consistent. I wrote Crush It! in 2008. Right? It came out in 2009. We're talking about 17 years ago. Wow. I've been, you know, if that made some of you feel old, trust me, I get it. So I've been here. This era will go away. The phone that a lot of you are holding right now is going to look ancient in a decade. We are literally within the decade of glasses or something else circumventing the phone. Once the phone does not become the primary device, the social networks and the feeds don't work the same. When the printing press was the most important, the people that wrote books and newspapers won.
15:29When the radio became the most important, the people that spoke in it and were listened to became the device. Then the television came along and completely changed our society. This social network moment is incredibly important for us. Unlike every other medium, there were gatekeepers and very heavy expenses to have big moments. Now all of us with our phone in there for free can change the course of our life, our business, our passions. You know, I could literally end this talk right now on this rant. And I mean this from the bottom of my heart. The only agenda I have to get across to everybody here, regardless if you're the biggest fan of me, and have consumed me for 15 years, or you have no idea who I am right now as you sit here, is for all of you to understand how significant the opportunity is in front of us to take advantage of the last five or six years of this window that has created a level of democracy and meritocracy around opportunity that has never in the history of the world been accessible to a human being.
16:44I could not implore you and for most of you if not all of you social has been around for long enough that you're taking it for granted you're taking it for granted and just like what you just felt a lot of you've been posting for a long time and the thing hasn't happened and that's because you just might suck at it but what's cool about being sucky at something is all of you sucked at walking. Like you couldn't walk and then you learned. And so the reason I've been doing what I'm doing and continue to be passionate about this is I know that once people in this audience get over their insecurities of worrying about people leaving negative comments or being insecure that they only get seven views and they think that that's bad or all the normal things that humans go through in their journey of getting to actual self-esteem and comfort and self-love, once they get over that hump, which more than half of this room has not gotten over yet, then you get into the second part, which is the tactics.
17:56The reason I wrote my last book, Day Trading Attention, was I went very deep into the tactics. Thank you. And so, you know, look, I really don't know how else to say this other than if you do not attack the free social network, and I mean all of them. Another issue here is for some of the people that are winning, they're only winning on TikTok or Instagram. And I will tell you right now, the most important platform for me of the last month for me and my team is Facebook proper. Classic Facebook. So I think most people here are not on enough platforms. And definitely most people here don't take the thumbnail the first three seconds, the copy, the strategies, the real skills of actually getting your video to get 500 ,000 views instead of 49.
18:50But all roads, politically, socially, and definitely in business and marketing, all roads, what's today's date? The 13th, 17th, what's today? 12th. All roads on March 12th, 2025, lead to social media organic content. Organic, not paid. All roads lead there. And regardless of what you want to accomplish in this room, every person sells something, get clients, become famous, or something much more noble. Raise a couple bucks for your PTA, win local office because you want to fix the pothole on Main Street, be a better father or mother. all roads lead to this distribution platform. And I could not implore all of you to get more fucking serious about it.
19:43Thank you. Okay, so you just said something that's very unique. So obviously platforms have been around for, we're coming on 20, 25 years. They've really been around. You just said that in the last, let's say the next, you know, the next crystal ball, but within 10 years that you think this whole thing is going to change on his face basically. I do. So we're on the, you're saying we're on the back half and on the way down of the hill on social media. Not the growth of it, but it going away and changing something else. Look, I get a lot of credit for predicting things. I don't predict things. I just am always on it and then I talk about it, right?
20:24For example, right now, how many people here sell something physical? Can you make some noise? Just make some noise so I get a sense. So every person that raised their hand and made some noise, every one of them should be paying attention to live social shopping. TikTok shop, whatnot, Fanatics Live, eBay Live. Like that is not me predicting. Whatnot's doing three billion in gross sales on the platform. Most people here have no idea who the fuck whatnot or whatnot is. Three billion. So I'm not predicting that live social shopping is happening. It's already happened. it's been happened in China for 10 years.
21:05And whether you sell t-shirts or vitamins or bikinis or sneakers or banana chips, you should be really focusing on live social shopping because it's the next frontier of opportunity over the next 36 to 48 months. And first mover advantage really matters. I can promise you, like you, a lot of people here wish they got more serious about TikTok when I was yelling at the top of my lungs in 2017. I'm sure of it. So I'm not, you know, I don't like to predict. I like to move fast when shit's happening. But it is very clear to me that Meta, Facebook Inc, has a major agenda to get us off the phone and onto their device.
21:47And they are pop committed to these glasses. I also have the luxury to have witnessed future forms of the glasses by going out there and playing with it. it is very clear to me that whether it's them or Apple or Google or Microsoft or a Chinese company, that we are only going in one direction in technology. Innovation continues to happen. I'm sure a lot of you are thinking about how AI might hurt you. Let me just remind you, technology is undefeated it's undefeated there was when the car was being made the guy that owned 30 ,000 horses made fun of the car and said it wouldn't work not because he was dumb but because he had financial vested interest in the car not winning a lot of people here are making decisions about things because it isn't what they want to be happening the only reason I think I've been successful in business is I know that business doesn't give a fuck about my feelings.
22:53Zero for sure. So, I don't want to predict, but I think it's unlikely that in 10 years that the mobile device, the way we know it, is as primary as it is right this nanosecond. And if that's true, the way social plays is going to be different. And that's where AR and VR and other things that are looming that we've heard about for a long time start to become serious. So, yeah, I mean, I guess for me, none of us know, but what we all know is that every day, businesses and humans are going viral at scale and it's changing their outcomes. Or if you don't even go viral, if you're just good at it, your business or your financial impact goes up by 20 or 30 % because you're good at it and that's good too.
23:42So I just want people to take it more serious. Let me think of this. I was interviewing Mark Cuban a while back, and I was in Dallas, and I asked about AI. I said, what's your thoughts on AI? And his answer was, he's like, how often do you use apps on a daily basis? And if you stop to think about it, it's like nonstop. You're constantly, when you open your phone, then it goes to an app immediately, right? And his answer was, he said, as much as you use an app on a daily basis of your life, AI is 10 times more powerful and will be bigger than all those apps combined. that was his point of the AI.
24:18And I'm sure he knows this. You know, it's 10 ,000 times. It's not 10. This is really big. Again, bringing it, we've gone pretty high level here today on the first couple things.
24:33If you decided to come to this, this is a good place to go. If you're here, my brain goes to like, what the fuck are you doing here? Right? And where that goes next is this is a room full of people who are hungry and ambitious to do something. Right? Like you decided to fucking come. Like I don't know. I don't, I mean, you didn't come here to fucking sit in dark and just hang out. Like you fucking came because you're trying to make something happen, I assume. What bothers me about something like that is just coming to consume this information isn't doing anything. You could have laid in bed and consumed.
25:15please act. Please act. And so very simply, I'm gonna make this simple. This is like a foolproof formula in my opinion. Pretty basic. And guess what? The cost of it is free 99. What I'm about to tell you is free. But you have to do something. Number one, you must have a comprehensive plan on making content for social networks. There's seven of them. There's LinkedIn and YouTube shorts, not just TikTok and Instagram. Facebook regular is exploding again. There's Twitter. It fucking matters. And number two, you must do 50 to 100 hours of research on AI. You must touch it. If you do not have chat GPT on your phone right now, the fuck are you doing?
26:02The fuck are you doing? And don't give me like, I don't believe in AI. No, you're fucking lazy. You're fucking entitled. or maybe you're of a certain age where you're just hoping that you could just ride it out before it takes you out. No, really, people do that. They're like, Gary, you don't get it. I'm 60. I'm like, what the, you're 60? Like, I'm like, are you retiring in the next three years? If they're like, yes, I'm like, okay, but even in the next 40 years of your life when you're retired, you probably want to use these tools to just make your life better. but people use these noble political frameworks to actually use as full pledge disguises to the truth which is you're fucking lazy.
26:53Yeah, that's exactly right. Notice how the claps were not as strong on that? We love to tell everybody else to do work but ourselves. This is work. this is work by the way on the record technology doesn't come natural to me either I don't like to do shit mean it I get pissed when new shit comes along like I get I do well with it but when I saw Musical.ly which became TikTok I was like oh fuck like another thing I have like I'm not pumped either like if the world would slow down I'd be chilling I'm winning but it's just not the way it is the game is not built that way and what's crazy is it's high stakes poker these new things that come along you either ride them and explode or you kind of put your head in the sand and they start to chip away and fuck you and so please do not underestimate what's happening here let me uh ask this question to you because this is something that i i i would think a lot of times back in the day when i would look at you uh and you say shit right and so probably maybe some of the crowd is saying this shit to themselves which was a hypothetical excuse for me to be lazy and that was uh i was like yeah but gary has a whole team right gary doesn't actually do social media like gary doesn't he's not actually doing it he's got 25 people motherfucker he's out here doing uh and i just just to be clear i have seen you backstage on your phone posting shit i've seen you do it uh there was also the seven and a half years that i did it every single day before where I had one employee.
28:30Five years ago. That's right. There's, you know, there's that part too, y 'all. Like, you know, like, people are just always like, so confused, like, listen, work is part of the equation. I know that we got like weird for like 10 years where people trying to convince you like, work wasn't part of the equation. You know, I remember like people got mad at me for using the word hustle. I was like, fine, I'll change it to hard work. Like, work is part of the equation. But yes, go ahead. It was an excuse that I came up with that... Or what people do, I apologize, is not in my industry. Gary, you're right, but not in restaurants.
29:14Or Gary, cool, but not... No, no, you. Technology is coming for you. You ever see Friday the 13th? that motherfucker is coming for you like it's I do not understand how people don't get it and so one of the reasons I want you to use social is if you're doing social heavy it doesn't make the jump to AI feel as hard when you do AI it's you know if you're staying on the sidelines it just gets it gets further and further away from you it's hard to like go to the glasses when you're still on a flip phone you know and so we just need practice it's i'll use this analogy i'm trying to get y 'all to do shit every day like you're training for a marathon so you can then run the marathon it's hard to go like eating chips and fucking beef jerky on your couch and drinking beers and not doing anything physical for a year and then just getting up in the morning and running the fucking new york marathon that's what a lot of you are doing with your business by not doing all the steps every day as the technology keeps moving it gets harder for you and the gap gets bigger you become more discouraged and it's fucking game over but it's shockingly easy even for the least discipline in the room when you realize how much pain is on the other side if you don't do it and more importantly how much once you look at it from a different angle it becomes a lot easier by the the way I lived this.
30:47For the first 38 years of my life, going to the gym and eating well was the worst. To this day, 11 years later, I still struggle. This morning my trainer's like, I need you to get into the gym. I'm like, oh, but I gotta go to Florida. You know, like I'm fucking, when it comes to working out in the gym, I'm loaded with excuses, which is why I know when I see it on your faces when it comes to business. In business, I have none. I'm a fucking robot. I can go 19 hours a day, every day, and this is why I talk about liking what you do. The reason I can do that, and this probably will resonate to you because I feel like you'll have this angle.
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31:25You may know this. I don't try to maximize for money. There's a lot of people you know that are similar to me that are not at the same tier as me that maximize for money way better than I do. I maximize for liking what I do, which then enables you to do it at all times. when friends struggle with this, I'm always like, well, what do you like the most? And like one friend will be like, I like to ski. That's my favorite thing in the world, right? I'm like, well, imagine if you skied for 15 hours a day for a profession. He was like, that's fucking awesome. I'm like, that's how work is for me. And so I'm very disciplined at work because I love it.
32:05But I'm not disciplined in the gym because I fucking hate it. But I do it because I'd like to live longer and a higher quality of life. You know, if you want things financially, being good at business is a good idea. Otherwise, shut the fuck up. And I'm serious about that. That wasn't a joke, that's the poison of complaining and entitlement. A big thing that's holding a lot of people back is jealousy and envy and pointing fingers. If you use the word that person is lucky, you've lost. if you weaponize luck you fucking lost even the one that's so easy oh that kid was born into a family with a hundred million dollars they're so lucky I don't know if you guys know rich kids they're predominantly fucking losers Eddie yeah
33:06look it's it's one of the most devastating things for somebody that comes from little when they build, they see their kids. It's very hard to be hungry when you're constantly fed. Yeah. Let me ask this question here. I'm going to piggyback on something you said and tie it into a big piece I want to talk to you about. A while ago, you were talking about, which is very true of how you do this. You do not try to monetize everything that you do or every little detail. You do not play that game. When I look at you though, I've never seen anybody play a better long game than you. You have a great long game.
33:50And when I think about the long game right now in your life, I think about V Friends. Yeah. And your fucking long game on that is out of, like I'm a visionary, but that shit is like wild how far along you play. How many people here would consider they are a fan of me, follow my stuff, know me a little bit, just make some noise? Thank you. I would tell you that 95 to 98 % of the people that just gave me that love have no clue of what I'm doing with this defense thing for two reasons. One, I am playing long and I'm patient. Two, the NFT thing, the news cycle got weird. It got too hot too fast and then all the greed and the scam came in and like the brand of that kind of like tilted the conversation.
34:37but I sit here in front of all of you right now and I'm telling you to your face that over the next 30 to 40 years, I am building a Pokemon Marvel-like world for real. Like your fucking grandkids are coming to my amusement park and I'm doing it and I'm doing it day by day, quietly, which is weird because I'm so public but to your point, you pay attention. Like if you watch carefully, you can see it. ironically this May 7th my VFriends Topps Chrome comes out which is going to be trading cards in every hobby store in the country which will be like another brick in the process that may hit some people's radar but yeah I like marathons like this was earlier to the comment I made like in 2005 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12 when I was doing it all by myself 15 hours a day answering I replied to every single person that tweeted at me from 2007 to 2011.
35:38I literally went to sleep at four o 'clock in the morning every day. Like literally did that. So that's what VFriends is now, which is really fun because I'm such a public figure now. It's hard to do something in the shadows, which is ironically my preference. I'll give you another thing. For as many people that know me here, almost no one here realizes that VaynerX, VaynerMedia, my advertising agency, I don't think most people realize that it's 2 ,500 employees. I don't think most people realize it's a$400 million a year business that I started from scratch. Most of those people have no idea that I co-founded Resi.
36:15And like I do, it's funny for such a loud guy, the things that I'm kind of most proud about and do best, even my nonprofit work or things of that nature, I almost analyze myself as I'm halfway through this journey. Like I think about being 100 years old and I turned 50 later this year, which is fucking insane. Thank you, but it's in November. And my mom would be super pissed that you wish me a happy birthday before my birthday, big Russian superstition. Yeah, it is interesting how I play. You're right, I definitely think I play, I always say like, I'm a marathon runner in a sprinter's world. Most of my contemporaries run fast.
36:58They're trying to make as much money as humanly possible, as quickly as possible. And really in a lot of ways, A lot of my contemporaries give no fucks about the collateral damage that comes along with that. And I don't judge, actually. Like, everybody has their own circumstances. I'm not even sure if I'm right. By the way, when you play long, I could be a very, very resentful old man. I'm being serious. I think about it a lot. I'm gonna be very vulnerable here. I am playing so long. I'm leaving so much money on the table, so much on the table, that if it doesn't work out, like, you know, I could be 83 and be sitting there and be like, fuck, man, maybe I was too far to this side.
37:34and like I think about those things but at the end of the day and I think this will resonate with a lot of people at the end of the day for a lot of us we are who the fuck we are with all our strengths and our weaknesses it's in my soul to play it long when again a lot of people talk about playing the long game not everybody does when you see V Friends right because I remember when I launched Money Is and I went to your office to do the first podcast right and I remember getting there to Hudson Yards, walking in and thinking, they gave me a tour, and I was walking around this place thinking, what the fuck?
38:11Because I thought you had like 30, 40 staff people there. Because you never lead with all the other stuff. Well, most people think I'm a motivational speaker and I like, you know, a public. Social media guy. Yeah. And I don't think most people realize how much of a side hustle Gary Vee, the whole thing is. it's a web that's huge of what's inside of it i've tried it in research and it's like there's so many different things uh that are happening inside of it in that just without getting into all of them do you play that daily ceo role of all of those i am the active ceo of vayner x and of v friends for sure vayner sports um is run by my brother but i'm very involved then there's VaynerWatt which is fairly new which is a TV production company there's not a I mean I have a lot of businesses and in all of them I am minimally an active chairman you know at a minimum right the two things that I don't run day to day are VaynerWatt and VaynerSports and I'm very involved in the TV production company which is new for me and you'll start seeing our logo on TV shows next year it's super cool I can't wait for that and but I'm yeah I'm very in it look I work I work 12 to 17 hours a day and I don't eat lunch or breakfast and when I say I work like I'm looking at Dustin ironically like he knows like when I say work like I don't do lunch like I barely go to the bathroom like every minute is fully booked and I love that and that works for me now but if I wake up tomorrow and I'm like I don't want to do this.
39:55I'm working too much or this and that. And I've been flowed. I used to travel all the time. Post COVID I travel less. This year I'm starting to travel a little bit more. You know, I think one of the biggest mistakes that people in this room make is they judge themselves negatively without realizing they could just change. Like if I wake up right now and be like, what the fuck? If I look back at this clip in a year and be like, what? I'm an idiot. I should have spent more time with family or this, that. Like, I can. Like I don't know why we cry over spilled milk. I don't care how fucked up you are.
40:29That was yesterday. It's a really big deal.
40:36Like, it's very, this is really important for everyone here. Like, regardless of like, like I have no idea why you would ever not be your biggest fan. Like everybody else is gonna boo you. Don't join them. especially when you are actually capable of changing your shit. It's real talk. It's real talk. So, you know, that's where I'm at. Very good. We'll put the hint here. Let me... Can we go a little extra? It's your role, bro. Girl, let's keep going. You have more business. You have more business stuff? I'll fucking do anything. I was gonna ask you on a different note. The Jets. All right. see everybody yeah the jets oh boy everyone he's still on a yes yes i would love i think it'd be really cool if i went from a russian immigrant who's family didn't have enough money to enough money to buy a jersey to go through life and get to a place for the american dream to buy the actual team i think that'd be really cool but again to me the enjoyment of trying to buy the Jets is dramatically more exciting to me than if I actually buy the New York Jets.
41:53Like people ask me a lot like what if blah blah blah like like I'll give you a great example what if my dream was to buy the Dallas Mavericks right I would have been like okay Cuban's there he's not that much older than me maybe when I'm 90 I'll be able to buy them for a couple of years if I outlive him and then out of nowhere he sold and I would have not been ready if the if the Johnson family decides today to sell the jets i'm not there you know i've done really well i'm very proud of my life financially but i'm not in striking distance i need another 15 or 20 years to really get there so to me what's what's been awesome about it is i will be super fine and very happy for the person that buys the Jets if I'm unable to.
42:45But I really enjoy trying. And I think, I just wish more people in this audience, I really do believe the unlock for you to get more financially successful is you falling in love with the trying versus the obsession of the achieving. You know? It reminds me of Nick Saban. He's such big on, you have to enjoy the journey, the practice to win the championship. It's not about winning the championship. It's about enjoying that practice to make sure you hit it. I think I'm so psycho. I don't even like the wins. Like, my brother's really all over me on this. He's like, yo, you're broken. Like, good things happen.
43:25Like, we sell Rezzy for hundreds of millions of dollars or all these things that happen to me. And, like, I'm a little bit like, eh. Like, you know, I'll give you a good example. I don't know how you all roll with vacations, but when I have a vacation, The best part of a vacation is the weeks leading up to the vacation. Like the second we get there, I'm like, eh, it's over. And so I got very blessed in that my hard wiring enjoys the process. I like the losing. I like the pain, right? Like I really do. Like I'll use a fighting analogy. If I was a boxer, I would prefer to get knocked down in the first round and like lose a tooth and like try to battle up from that.
44:09Most people fold. And I've spent a lot of my life in the last 20 years trying to get all of you to not. Because why? And I've come to learn so much of it is outside validation. I'm just shocked and devastated and pray that more people in this room could stop worrying about other people's judgment on their lives. Definitely strangers. the stranger the social media stranger thing blows my mind you are not following your dreams because SallyPants96 leaves a comment that says you're fat there are literally people here who are not chasing their dreams because Donnie Knoxville463 said you're stupid like people are literally there are grown ass fucking people in this room thinking they're still in fucking 6th grade I don't want that for them I don't even want them to listen to their parents or spouses or siblings imagine what I think about them listening to fucking strangers who don't know who the fuck you are we gotta get insular you gotta get into your cocoon you need to get into your fucking place where it's fucking you and you it's fucking you and you and you need to realize you're the fucking best you're also fucking human so you will make unlimited mistakes but good news here's the secret everybody else sucks too so you're good and I need people to get into that fucking mindset because me telling you to do AI or social or all this other stuff if your fucking foundation of the way you fucking feel about yourself is broken you've lost and I want to remind you that if you sit here right now and you do not have self-esteem you don't feel good that's other people putting that shit in you and unfortunately you decided to listen.
46:06Get that shit out of your fucking body, whether it's therapy, whether it's fucking meditation, whether it's canceling people in your fucking life. If your fucking sister is miserable, if your sister is miserable, maybe you don't need to talk to her four times a day. Maybe you can talk to her once every four days. I'm not saying cancel your mom or dad, but I'm saying you gotta limit negativity. so many of you were crippled because you watched too much fucking Fox News and CNN stop watching politics stop letting negativity into your fucking body no matter what the source is the news, social your fucking siblings, your mom and by the way back to social unlike the news and your auntie social is you if you don't like what your news feed is sending you start searching positive things on Instagram and liking it all.
47:04Watch your newsfeed change. Your newsfeed is not pushing propaganda on you. Your newsfeed is exposing who the fuck you are. It's real. My friends, I'm telling you right now, if you do not believe me, I'm telling you, fuck the, I'm not, I'll even let you wait a couple weeks to do your hundred hours of AI. I need you to leave here, literally type in an Instagram search, Sunshine, rainbows, bunnies, puppies. Search it, click on posts, like all of them. Wake up next week and be like, watch, you open up my fucking Instagram, it's all fucking New York Jets, fucking sunshine, rainbows, puppy, it's fucking positive as fuck.
47:50China and Zucks did not give me a pass. I control my life. You control your life.
48:05and parents while I'm on this roll you don't like like I get this DM every day I don't like TikTok on my kid's phone I'm like good motherfucker be a parent and delete it don't fucking yell at me be a fucking parent if you don't think that your kid you don't like that TikTok's on your kid's phone delete it and don't give me well their friends have it be a fucking parent
48:32the second the second you realize you are 100 000 percent in charge of your life you win back to what florida's all excited about that everyone moved here that's what those people did they they didn't like paying state taxes they didn't like the politics they moved here By the way, you don't like America? Good news, you can go to fucking Sweden.
49:02You don't like your boss? Be a fucking big girl and fucking quit. You don't like your fucking dopey husband? Divorce that motherfucker. I'm being dead serious. I need everybody to understand this. all of your unhappiness is that you've believed all the people that told you they're gonna take care of you and you're not in control. All of the happiness in life is realizing you are 100 % in control of your life and you are capable of making tough decisions that might hurt for a couple of weeks and months but can lead to long-term happiness. So stop fucking crying. stop pointing fingers at everybody else.
49:49At what age? At what age? 42. At what age is it finally time to stop blaming your parents and realizing you're a big fucking boy and girl and can change the outcome of your life? What is the age? Is it 18? Is it 22? There's literally 54 year olds sitting here right now that still blame some shit their mom did in 1971.
50:18no shit everybody had parents that did dumb shit you do dumb shit too it is time to be fully fucking accountable and realizing you're in control and then I promise you my friends once you cross over to the best side of the world which is fully accountable side every little fucking dream you have becomes achievable and until then you're gonna keep going to conferences and thinking you're doing something
50:54when you when you look at so listen this is the truth man I've interviewed you I don't know six times now and I've never interviewed you like this like you you are on fire tonight bro I'm on fire and I know I need to go I'll tell you why I feel a huge sense of responsibility I got lucky that I am able to communicate. Right? Some of you are just super attractive. Some of you are athletic. Some of you are, I don't know, good at carpentry. You know, I got gifted with the ability to communicate. What I just did for seven minutes is the most fucking universal truth. It is a hundred. It's a hundred.
51:36I'm not sure about a lot of things. I'm super sure about the last six minutes of that rant. And yeah, I feel motivated today. I want it so bad for you honestly I want it you know I just want it you have no idea how delicious it gets once you stop complaining and once you stop blaming you have no fucking idea how good life gets I love that idea about even you said even before you do the AI shit like go change your news feed your FYP in a real way bro that is like in a real way we get bombarded and we think oh man And this is what they're sending me. No, you fucking clicked on that shit. And based off what you clicked is what they used to do that stuff inside of it.
52:19That is genius. And we don't ever think about it, though. You know what I mean? Like, you never think about, like, oh, I should go click on puppies and just click on 15 fucking puppy posts. And I bet you in the morning when I wake up and watch a puppy run across the yard, I'll be way happier. In a way that would make your head spin. Stop, stop, stop. It's so easy to blame. It's so fucking easy to blame. that's why it doesn't have good results. Everything good in life is hard. Get to fucking work. I'm out of here. Fair of beat.
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In this keynote from the Aspire 2025 event, GaryVee unpacks the rapid rise of AI and what it means for entrepreneurs, leaders, and creators. He explains why the biggest risk in this new era isn’t AI itself, but failing to grow, adapt, and strengthen your mindset. From practical examples of how technology is reshaping our daily lives to timeless lessons on human potential, this talk is a wake-up call to build the skills that truly matter in business and beyond.

