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Podcast Summary: The GaryVee Audio Experience - "Your Marketing, Your Business, Your Team… Fixed in One Episode"
Episode Overview In this episode, Gary Vaynerchuk provides end-of-year advice for improving leadership, brand cohesion, team accountability, and navigating contemporary marketing challenges, especially in the context of social media and technology.
Key Themes & Topics
- Transparency in Leadership
- Truth vs. Optimism:
- Leaders should strive for transparency but must balance honesty with optimism to avoid creating panic among employees.
- Example: Discussing the potential job loss due to AI while maintaining a hopeful outlook.
- Brand Cohesion
- Relevance Over Cohesion:
- Gary argues that strict cohesion can stifle creativity. Brands should focus on being relevant rather than adhering to rigid color palettes or themes.
- Instagram Grid:
- Critiques the obsession with a visually perfect Instagram grid, emphasizing that content engagement in feeds is what truly matters.
- Side Hustles & Accountability
- Find Your Passion:
- Gary emphasizes the importance of self-awareness in choosing side hustles. Individuals should focus on what they love to maintain motivation.
- Job Dissatisfaction:
- Encourages those who hate their jobs to actively seek new opportunities and create content to position themselves for new roles.
- Digital Marketing vs. Events
- And, Not Or:
- In business, both digital marketing and events are crucial. Gary highlights the importance of integrating various marketing strategies rather than choosing one over the other.
- Business Naming & Branding
- Names Are Made, Not Born:
- The success of a brand is determined by execution rather than the name itself. Names like McDonald's or Toyota had no inherent meaning; their success is due to effective branding and marketing.
- Human Connection in AI Era
- Stay Human:
- In a world increasingly influenced by AI, maintaining human connection and authenticity is critical. Being genuine in content creation can bridge the gap where technology falls short.
- Content Creation and Marketing Strategies
- Focus on Engagement:
- Effective content should resonate with the audience, aiming to provide entertainment and information rather than mere self-promotion.
- Authenticity Over Expertise:
- Gary encourages individuals to document their journeys rather than pretending to be experts. Authenticity attracts engagement.
Key Takeaways
- Transparency is essential in leadership, but it should be balanced with a positive outlook.
- Relevance in branding often trumps cohesion; brands should adapt and stay creative.
- Accountability is key for both teams and individuals, especially when dealing with job dissatisfaction.
- Digital marketing and events should be viewed as complementary strategies, not mutually exclusive.
- Names matter less than execution in branding; focus on delivering value.
- In the age of AI, maintaining human connection and authenticity in content is vital.
Conclusion This episode is rich with insights that encourage listeners to improve their leadership abilities, enhance brand relevance, and approach marketing with a well-rounded strategy. By focusing on authenticity and self-awareness, individuals can foster stronger connections and success in both their professional and personal lives.
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Transcript
Automatic transcript. May contain errors.0:00Before you go to the podcast, I've got a big announcement. I know several years ago, a lot of you bought 12 books of 12 and a half to get the NFT, the book games NFT. I also know that a lot of people have dropped off on their journey with VFriends, which is a massive mistake because what we're doing on Burn Island and what we're doing on base with book games is remarkable. So you need to go to VEEFriends, VFriends.com slash old books. Go to VFriends.com slash old books with an S. You will go to that landing page and we will help you explain if you are trying to figure out where your NFTs are, how to bring them over to the website, and how to start activating them so that you can start using them for all the incredible exchanges and draws and raffles and experiences that we're doing for people that actually own the book games.
0:50So please go to vfriends.com slash old books where you can start your journey on reactivating your book games journey. This is the Gary Vee Audio Experience. Gary, Math A Plus asks, what's the best advice you're gonna give my team? I'm talking to them before the end of the year. The best advice is the truth that they can hear. Jack Nicholson in that movie with fucking Tom Cruise was right. Like, you can't handle the truth. All employees are like, I just want transparency from my bosses. But then when the boss comes on and goes, look, 70 % of you over the next 12 months I probably could lose your job because of AI everyone shits their fucking pants so for me you know this you've seen a lot of my all hands I try to give as much as I can that's authentic to them and optimistic and real and honest but then you have to hold back some a little something because you don't want to create panic
1:49if the president of the United States came out and was like you know next two years like probably a war with China the fuck do you think happens like What are we like, I'll go, let's go to the, fuck it, you wanna go out tonight for the beer? Like, we gotta fucking, as leaders, you gotta give as much as you can, my man, but you gotta, like, you gotta contain some of your fears and figure them out so that you can deliver. Math A Academy, love it. Emmy's Kitchen UK. Emmy's Kitchen UK is wondering about brand cohesion. How do I start to have more cohesion across my brand? By having less cohesion. People have this fucking ideology about brand cohesion.
2:25People want relevance. It's not cohesion. Cohesion leads to lack of creativity and boardroom bullshit. It leads to fucking following the same adjectives, the same color schemes, and it's all subjective opinions of three fucking individuals in straight politics on what is cohesive and on brand. I hate that shit. Yes, Sid? What's your opinion on the Instagram grid? What is my opinion about the Instagram grid? You know what my opinion on the Instagram grid is. The Instagram grid is killing people's lives on this chat. There are people, thank you for coming from the text, Roberto. There are people here, how many people just came from my text that are thrilled to come here because you actually have a TikTok?
3:06It actually came out real quick. What's that? Look at the thumb. That's the thumb? That's the thumb? Oh, that's awesome. No way. How many people came from the text and are thrilled that I'm live on TikTok because you actually have a TikTok? but I'm always pushing you whatnot and you don't want to download another app so you're finally here and you're happy. Scott Samson wants to know as a... Let me finish this real quick. I apologize. The grid is fucking everyone up. All of you are so worried about the grid when 99 % of the content that's being consumed from you comes in the feed and you want your grid to look right.
3:40Me and Mona have this fight all the time. She's all about her grid. I'm definitely not about her grid. At least not that grid. So I hate it. I hate that people are locked into the fucking grid. They like this fancy fucking grid. Nobody gives a fuck about your grid. If you don't make content that's gonna be seen on the fucking feed, in the feed, no one's gonna end up being in your grid. How the fuck can you get people to your grid if your content gets 13 fucking views because you love your fucking grid? Big shout out to War Thunder Crane. All right, you're asking? Hey everybody, I hope you're enjoying the podcast right now.
4:14Make sure you follow the podcast. That's why I'm interrupting. Let's keep going on this show, but follow the podcast. It'll make my mom super happy. Where would you suggest to go sell a Marvel and DC comic collection? It was my dad's collection asks Sue. Sue, I would first highly recommend looking up the individual comics on eBay. Then I would go to a local comic store. I find that local comic stores have very good intent. They're not looking to rip people off to just get a sense of the collection but I would do the work yourself first. I would definitely do the work yourself first to make sure you know what it is.
4:50And so eBay, four or five hours, like really, really do the work. I think a lot of times people are not looking to do the work and that is a mistake. I believe that. A lot of times we're just like, oh, I'm gonna just trust this comic book expert and then that's it. You know what I mean? People want to know where do you get these hats? This hat is available at vfriends.com when we launch them. So there's a at friends cap on Instagram. if somebody from the team, I don't know what's going on with mods from V friends or from Team Gary V, but if we can spam heavy. Shout out Elizabeth. Yeah, Elizabeth.
5:26I just made my first 100 bucks. Nice. eBay sale five minutes ago. Let's go, Liz. I wonder what it was. I love it. My only problem is location where I am. Behind the scenes, then use eBay. Just look it up. Look it all up. Because of you, I got over myself, started posting and it's so fun. Thank you. Can you get the strategy as to this morning going live on whatnot for a show and now TikTok? Yeah, I'm just doing different things. You know, I'm a multidimensional boy. You know? And that's what it is. And I'm trying different platforms. I'm trying different things. You ain't your first Snickers ever?
6:00Ever. It was the craziest. It was mid. It was a little mid. Okay. You don't like it. What do you like? Tyler was flaming me. I said Milky Way's my favorite. Jesus Christ. Milky Way's glowing. I actually think Milky Way might be the worst candy bar. I actually think it's the same. No, no, no. I've never had a Snickers with, I like Milky Way. But it's chocolate and it's caramel. How's that bad? It's classic. It's a bottom tier. It's a bottom tier. So what's your top three? Charleston Shoe. Charleston Shoe. The best candy bar of all time is whatchamacallit. And then 100 Grand. 100 Grand is really good.
6:42I do like 100 Grand. I just fucking crushed it. Watch how happy everyone is. Everyone's like definitely giving me love. Those are three gangsters. Where are you on the candy bar game? I like Three Musketeers. Three? Three Reese's. Honestly, I've been enjoying Peaceful's, Peanut Butter Coach, more than Peaceful's. Oh, a little Peaceful's. The three Musketeers hate that I got this morning. What would the top three skills you would focus on to stay valuable in the next five years? Pretty broad question. have your entire AI app game down. It is a requirement. It's no different than knowing how to navigate the internet or how to use a computer in different generations.
7:19No one watching this, no one watching this is allowed to fucking mail it in on AI. Every single person here must, must go to ChatGPT and type in every week what are the five AI apps that have exploded this year for lawyers, for accountants, for marketers. Like you must, must, must do that. And it is just a requirement. So that's number one. Number two, the reverse. The complete other side of the pillow. The human skills. The looking in the eye. The saying hello. Asking a boy or girl out on a date. Rolling up on someone in a cafeteria or airport and say what's up. Human, human skills. Not being shy.
8:05Not being insecure. Like really pushing yourself on human skills. All the good things that happen in life come from other humans and your relationship with other humans. Everyone in here who's like, I fucking hate humans. Humans suck. I like dogs and I hate humans because dogs unconditionally love you and humans are all fucked up. Your relationship, ready? Everybody, what do you feel about humans right now? The rest of humans, other humans, from one to 10, give me a number and a sentence or two. Everyone's a sellout. I think when people struggle with other people, that's something we need to work on.
8:42And governments, politicians, the media have done a great job of getting us to be scared of each other. Scared of each other. Like make us hate each other. And I'm telling you, your feeling towards everybody else right now, strength in seven, thank you so much, going crazy, strength in seven, is he trying to win this shit? What's he doing? He's trying to move up the leaderboard. Yeah, straight out of seven is like, he's a 12, he's like, yeah, he's just moving, moving. Anyway, your relationship, oh, Mikey B, been a fan since then, actually, Mikey B, thank you for that. Anyway, let me finish my thought.
9:20The way you view the rest of people, like your relationship with Gen Pop, not a person, not like a couple people in your class. I'm talking about like people as a whole is the great indicator of what's gonna happen in your life. Hey, everybody. Hope you're enjoying the podcast right now. Make sure you follow the podcast. That's why I'm interrupting. Let's keep going on this show, but follow the podcast. It'll make my mom super happy. Do you think a clothing brand for babies slash children could become successful if marketed properly? No.
9:54Marianne. Let's do Morgan. I'm ready for Morgan. Marianne seems very interesting. Mike is hot? This mic? I don't know. Are we double? How are we? We'll see. How are we? What's sound, everybody? Thank you for coming from Texas. Happy Halloween. Lovely Anne. Great to see you. Oh, we got Morgan coming, I think. Yes. Hey, Morgan. Hi, Gary. How are you? Good. Where are you? I am currently from home. Okay. So I actually just step away. I'll put myself away with it so I can jump on. I'll just hide and do more. Well, it's a pleasure to see you. How are things? Good. Things are going. I've been trying to work on my advice for my nine to five years, but I'm just actually going through.
10:43Hey, Morg, do you have me on the show? Do you have me on your phone or something? There's a little bit of feedback with you talking. Yeah, I have you on my phone. All right, now we're good. Go ahead. So I was looking to find any tips or tricks that you could provide trying to work on a side hustle with my nine to five. Got it. Okay, cool. Side hustles, I think, are required. You can take her off. Thank you because of the echoing. Great. Thank you for being on. I'll answer this for you. Side hustles require self-awareness. You know, one of my favorite VFriends, if you don't know what VFriends is, it's my Pokemon meets Marvel universe.
11:22Please go to VFriends and learn about it. If you don't know VFriends. And you know the rest. Maybe that will stop the AI algorithm. If you don't know, if you don't know what self-awareness is if you don't know who the self-aware hair is my little favorite rabbit in V-Bren's world you're making a huge mistake because side hustles require you loving it. You need to really love it everybody. If you're gonna do a side hustle please make it about something you love because you're working on it from 6, 7 p.m. until midnight. What do I get that for? Will it tell me? Redirects users to purchase products outside.
11:58Love it, love it. I love it. What's that? yeah that's good I'm impressed AI I love you TikTok AI we're friends no no no it's 10 minutes it won't recommend me for a while but I'm not scared because all these people share share share this show watch how many people share the show now it's us against the AI we're gonna win this we're definitely not I'm a real person I really really really think that it requires you to love it like if Train was like Gary what do I do as a side hustle I'm like flip Star Wars stuff because if you're working all day from 7 to midnight like you're gonna need the ability to have the energy to go crazy like side hustles require going crazy and like you have to go hard and you're only gonna go hard about something you like The stuff you would go home and use to relax is the stuff that your side hustle should be about.
13:03Right? If you go home and watch sports, it might be about sports, sports betting. If you're video games, you know, cocktails. You know, I hope you're not working all day. How many of you go home, how many of you hate your job so much you go nine to five, you come home and you need a beverage or a recreational thing to like unwind? Say, that's me. Because like, you know, like that's what you want to avoid. If you're using alcohol or natural plants to get yourself right after a day of work, you need another job. Crazy underscore lady needs a different job. And then if Amy's hot mess era, if she's like, that's me, if she's like, easy for you to say, Gary, no, it's easy to get another job.
13:46It's called realizing that you hate it and instead of coming home and having some Jack Daniels, have some LinkedIn. Don't drink Jack Daniels. execute on LinkedIn. Andy, what is up? Andy's in the building. Our old friend. Anyway, yes, there's also real life networking. Very nice, Amy. I had an interview yesterday. Please, everybody, every, listen, this is something I've never said so eloquently because I can feel it's about to come out. The number one thing, who hates their job? Everybody, put H job in the chat. I need everybody right now of all 500 of you trained, trained. That's good. I need everybody to tell me if you hate your job, say hate job in here.
14:30I need it. Don't say love job. Don't say unemployed. Just please, like, the chat's fast enough. I need just hate job. All right? If you hate your job, friends, you must understand this. Your number one job when you hate your job is to be interviewing, making content on LinkedIn. Like, there's nothing else. There's nothing else you should be doing. definitely after your job definitely on the weekends and fuck it even though I own a company that has 2 ,500 people right now many of which are not working even though I'm paying them even when you're not even when you're in your job your job is to interview and reach out to other jobs and make content for jobs like this is it friends this is it you must get out having a job you hate that takes up half your hours in a week is just insanity and must be addressed.
15:25And again, oh Gary, you're delusional. It's hard out here. People are losing jobs like crazy. AI, no shit, dick, but you're miserable. The fuck do you want from me? You're miserable. And you're telling me, no, no, no? How about you're lazy, lazy, lazy? Maybe you hate your job because you suck at your job and they hate you. If you are not willing to fight to get out of a job you fucking hate, what the fuck are you doing? So that's it, no fucking excuses. Ayo! We established that here last time. Accountability and optimism. Just so all of you, who's here for the first time ever? Who's here for the first time ever?
16:07Who's here for the first time ever? Say first time ever, because then you don't know what Ayo is. How many people are here for the second time from yesterday and you know exactly what Ayo is? What's up? I'm gonna get the camera there. There we go. What's your name, bro? Where are you from? Rob D from originally New York, Long Island, New York, but now down in South Carolina. All right. So I'm part of the fan store, first of all, so thank you for that. Nice. I'm going to give you a little bit of traction. I'm getting a bunch of people to draw my community, which is cool. Amazing. My question, though, has to do with, I have a record store, and my capital, like, my cash flow is pretty small.
16:47I have the opportunity to buy some large record collections, but I do not have the money to do so. what some of the creative things you can come up with. I got it. You ready? Yeah. I want you to create the SPV program at your record store and email all your customers. What SPV stands for in investing world is special purpose vehicle. You are gonna email out to your community. I assume you have an email service, maybe text, social media, yes? Yeah. You're gonna email announcing the Black Circle Records SPV program. SPV stands for special purpose vehicle. Some of you are in finance and investing and you know what this means.
17:26I'm creating the version of that for my record store. What does this mean? It means I have opportunities often to buy crazy big collections, but sometimes the nature of my business restricts cash flow. In the SPV program, you, customer, or investor, can put up the dollars. You then get, then the dollars that you put up. Give me an example of a big record collection that you could buy that you think you could sell in a year. Give me a for instance. There's one out in Chicago that's probably upwards of$10 ,000 that I could probably turn into about$50 ,000 in a year. Great. You say, hey, the SPB program is$10 ,000.
18:09You investor in my community put up 10K. When I start selling this, the first$10 ,000 I get back from this goes to you. you the investor and then every dollar of profit that I make in investment land it's 80-20 right where you keep 80 after you pay back they get you know 20 excuse me you get 20 you give them so basically you say you give me$10 ,000 and then every dollar I make after that you get 80 cents on the dollar and I get 20 cents on the dollar now you can be more aggressive and be 50-50 you can play with it a little bit 10 ,000 is not a lot of money so like it's a lot of money but it might not be a lot of money for someone who's used to investing.
18:51There may be somebody in your customer base who wants to give you 10K when they get on a call with you and have the real conversation. If you say, hey, it's 50, you say, hey, conservatively, I think I can get 40 in a year. If they're like, wait, so I put up 10K, I get the first 10K back honor system so they have to trust you. You will pay them back and then the next 30 ,000 that's made in profit, I get 15 ,000 and you get 15 ,000. there are people who are gonna do that. We need to turn down Gary's mic. Yeah, thank you. Thank you. Well, no, I mean, what do you mean? Did you court? We're good. Yeah, it's good now.
19:28Okay, it's good now. Should I hold it, you think? No, you're good. Yeah, good, okay.
19:34Okay. That's it. That's what we need to do. Gary, thank you so much. Does that make sense? Does that make sense to you? It makes a lot of sense and it's something I never thought about and I'm not very business savvy so you just gave me a great idea. Thank you. Well, good news for you. I am very business savvy and I've thought about it a lot. That's why I asked. That's why I'm fucking here, baby. Let's go, Rob D. Let's go, Rob D. Let's go. All right, good luck, bro. Here's a simple one we got. Go ahead. What's trending? What's trending? That's a good question. I really do think that AI content and AI influencers is a very big trend.
20:23I believe that people should pay attention to that. I believe that there's a lot going on with clean eating. So I'm very bullish on healthy and clean product. So obviously I'm very affected by knowing that because of my wife Mona's so deep in that world but I can see so many, so many people getting into a place where people are trying to eat the same thing. Like what's the clean, Court brought up, Beastables, but there's also like, you know, it gets Justin's that make like the cleaner, like people try to eat the cleaner version of what they love. So like, how do I have a milkshake that's clean?
21:00Right? Like Mona has like, was craving like bagel and, oh, we need a, he's still in here. Is that on us or is that on him? It's on me. You got it, no worries. You know, like cream cheese made out of parsnips. that are fermented. Like actually, right? So like the clean movement I think is a huge trend. I have a deep cut trend. I think somewhere in the next five years we're gonna go to the clean shaven trend again. Like the friends era. I feel like facial hair has now been locked in for 20 years. Train's rocking it right now. I feel like facial hair has been rocking it, owning it for like 20 years.
21:40I have a feeling like something's gonna happen and like the clean, clean, I actually think both clean and the dress up. I feel somewhere in the next five to 10 years, the 27 year old dude is literally suited up 1920 style and clean shaven. Just because we've gotten so casual and so facial hair that after a while it goes the other way. And I view this like jeans, right? Jeans were fully baggy when I was coming up. Then tight, real tight. Tight jeans really. Inappropriately tight. I think dudes that look back at their jeans in 20, eight, seven, 16 are like, what the fuck? And now we're baggy as fuck, 90s.
22:19Jeans shorts are back. Yeah, shorts are back. I don't want to think of the clean shaven. You know, that was always true. Well, that's because you can't grow. You can't grow. There was that part. You were clean shaven by requirement. Genetics. Genetics. I'm very big on people. Another big trend that I'm obsessed with is businesses that have nothing to do with technology. rock climbing hiking walk clubs restaurants that do not let you use devices in them actually that's a good one of course would you go to if you were like if you were just like in the office and someone was this restaurant's killer but it's kind of crazy like you literally have to put your phone in a locker when you come how do you react to that right now Sid Train I'm into this it'd be good discipline I'd like it I'd be awesome I already have a flip phone and that's like music to my ears.
23:10Are you fully flipped? No, no, I have this, but like when I go home and... But I like it. I like it. I got my own flip phone too. That's like me saying I have a bike. I also have a bicycle. I have a bicycle. Doesn't mean I fucking ride my bike to work. Come on, Charlie. Jesus. Kind of a milky way. Are you having me talking about paying someone to go for a walk with you for quite some time? Yes. someone's asking all about that. Look everybody, I think you should make a, this is gonna blow you away. I think a lot of you should make a video. I really like this for, I really like this for Facebook.
23:48Actually let me break this down. You know, usually you wouldn't have a lot of time. I can really break this down. I'm gonna really break it down for you. Here's the video. I'm gonna literally actually do it. Let me say first that you're gonna post this video on Facebook and then you're gonna run$40 worth of ads in a 10 mile radius of your home. The reason I wanna do Facebook is I actually want the person that pays you to be between 50 and 80 years old and you can reach a lot more of that audience on that platform than you can in other places even though they show up in other places. Hey everybody, it's Carl.
24:22You're seeing this because I ran ads within 10 miles of my home here in rural St. Louis. I'm starting a new business. I don't know if you've ever heard of this guy Gary Vee but he's been talking about it so I said, why not, let me try. I'm starting a business around companionship, health and wellness and just humanity. It's called Walk With Me with Carl. Walk With Me is me actually coming to your home and taking a walk around the neighborhood. Obviously, you gotta fill out a form. I'll do a background check, blah, blah, blah. But this is literally me coming and doing a one-hour walk with you around the neighborhood.
24:52We can tell stories, become acquaintances, get to know each other. You know, sometimes it's just for health and wellness. Some of you wanna take a walk, but you don't wanna do it by yourself or maybe you're scared to do it. I would do that with you. some of you just want to get your tough feelings out and you don't want to do therapy and you can't tell your friends and family and so good old Carl can do that for you. So for$90 for an hour you can see that in the link in my copy here you can go to my website and check out my stand store you can do that. You can book an appointment. I'm a really good guy you can do some homework on me I'm happy to get on a pre-Zoom for 20 minutes just so you get to know me in case you think this is weird I know this is a little weird for me too like this is new but I do think like Gary Vee said as the world goes more digital more real life businesses are here and like I like to walk and I like to talk and my name's Carl and book me this day so see you soon everyone bye bye Gary Vee I like to walk and I like to talk and my name's Carl the new just doing I like to walk and I like to talk I believe if people are watching right now that are unemployed hate their job if they did the video I just did and posted it on Facebook organically but then bought ads when you boost it or you buy ads and if you don't know how to do ads on Facebook you literally go to ChatGPT and say I don't know how to run$40 worth of ads locally on Facebook tell me how and I will give you the answer I'm leading you all to the water everyone but I need you to drink I need you to drink and so I really think how many people here believe the business I just showed you for$90 for a walk that if you spent$40 you could you get somebody to buy that.
26:34In fact, how many people here without trolling would buy that? $40 an hour for what? $90. Me neither. I'll talk to myself. Yeah, I think$90 is high. Other people, again, obviously$90 in Manhattan is different than$90 in rural Wyoming. So there's also that. Please play your numbers. But again, notice how a lot of people who are$90 are high. Let me teach you one of the great lessons in business. Never say no for the customer. These people right now are saying no for the customer. 90's too high, 90's too high. You're not the customer, you're the seller in this situation. You know what's amazing about posting it at$90?
27:13If nobody buys it, you can lower it to 80. You know what sucks about saying no for the customer and making it for 40? You don't know if you could have sold it for 90. Ooh! Show this, boy, show this. He can't see me. He can't see me. He can't see me. Lesson of the day. It is a lesson. stop saying no for the customer so many of you are so insecure and don't have confidence $90 for an hour like walking and talking taking on someone's emotional fucking what do you think a therapist says they don't even walk you like that quote taking on someone's trauma is fucking heavy walking sucks for me too by the way I would never do this business actually I've gotten into walking a little bit more lately but anybody I really hope that helped you.
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28:02So what is your therapy? My cocoon. I therapy myself. I've got a very weird system. The jets are my therapy. Yeah. Life, the way I look at life is me being in therapy at all times. I think I'm in therapy in every minute. I'm self-aware. I'm grateful. I'm accountable. I just live with what it is. It's just, I don't know. I just, I'm very accepting. I don't have expectations. I think people have way too many expectations on other people. Like, people are like, I'm hurting, so I expect you train to make me feel better without understanding, like, maybe train's hurting. This lack of, like, compassion and sympathy and empathy for others.
28:46Just because, like, just because your older brother might have more money than you doesn't mean he's happy. So you think he has to help you, but, like, what if he's fucked up? Like, I don't know, we just, too much expectations. too much expectations of others you know I like relying on myself I like being accountable I like knowing that I make my bed so I don't want to cry about things because I created the problem so I can get out if somebody else created the problem I still think I could have not walked into the problem that's a big one if somebody else created the problem I still hold myself accountable that I walk into the problem.
29:32You know? That's what I think about. Look at that. Strength. Strength and seven. That's a beast of a gun. Diamond gun. Diamond gun? Diamond gun forever. All right. Let's... Court, you can throw up anybody you want. Everybody get in here. Casa de Abuela is going to be joining us in a second. Earl, how did I just contradict myself? give it to me. Let's make sure so I can break it down because a lot of times that's exactly I'm not contradiction. I'm pulling from opposite directions and that's where the balance comes from and people think it's a contradiction. Earl, ask to be requested to get here so we can talk it out because I think a lot of people struggle with thinking certain things are contradictions when they're nuanced balance stretchers.
30:18I love everyone. I don't give a fuck what anyone thinks. Mmm, weird. Care what everyone, like I take in what everyone says. I don't give a fuck what anyone says. Contradiction? No. Exactly right. All right. How are you, darling? Hello. Can you hear me? I sure can. What's your name? Oh, man. I've been watching you for 10 years. Let me tell you. Love you. All the way. So, thanks to you, I got a TikTok. I started a multiple with my seasoning. We've been going strong for the past four weeks. And I have 600 followers. My question to you is, how can I get my seasoning in their hands? It's done. We will, why don't you, how do we do this?
31:00Team, can someone DM her the address to Vayner and then can someone on Team Gary really pay attention, make sure they find it and let's put it on our little shelf. We'll try it out. That's it, it's done. Blessings, my friend. Thank you. You're awesome. You're a motivator. You are everything that everybody needs out here right now. Human connection, number one. AI, my assistant. and that's how I did my business. I quit a month ago and I'm here. I love it. Good luck to you. Good luck to you. I love it. I love it. So, I love it. She's like really grinding. She came on here. Thank you. Thank you so much.
31:39Yep, we're good. Thank you so much. Oh, I like that little spin. That's good. She came on here and she fucking right hooked the fuck out of me. Right? She just came on here and fucking threw a straight Mike Tyson hook to my face. It landed. I got knocked the fuck out and now we're moving on. No question. She had no question. She's like, motherfucker, I want to get my product in your motherfucking hands. It was subtle though. It was a little sweet up front, but it was kind of subtle in the same way like when you roll up in the bar and you're like, oh, nice hair. Do you want to go upstairs? I mean, there was not that much.
32:07There was not that much. There was not that much, bro. There was not that much. I don't feel like I got really romanced there. I don't feel like you were 24. I don't know. You guys don't want to pop out until I started my business yesterday I don't know, bro. I don't know, bro. I don't feel like she gave me that much. I feel like I got a nice smile. Here's my key to my room. I don't feel like I really got romance there. She just executed. She right hooked. Respect. All right. Everybody, let's go community. Ask your questions. Go. Dingin for Bricks asks, I have a Lego account that's growing very quickly.
32:46How do I monetize? Many ways. Start selling Legos. become a TikTok affiliate? TikTok affiliate. Everybody, if you don't know what TikTok affiliate is, I highly recommend it. Please Google or ChatGPT or search in TikTok what TikTok affiliate, how you sign up to be a TikTok affiliate. He can literally affiliate other people's product. He doesn't even have to hold the inventory. He's just making content and it's selling. You can cook. TikTok affiliates are going crazy. I could not recommend TikTok affiliates more. And if his Lego account's crushing somewhere else, stand it up on TikTok and build and siphon the office over here so you can do the affiliate.
33:21The affiliate's crazy. You can sell swag, make some hoodies and t-shirts, right? You can start doing live social shopping and build out your custom Legos and sell them. There's a lot to do there. There's a lot to do there. You can create a stand store and sell how to build a Lego account to go viral on social media and sell that for 50 bucks, an e-book, and maybe 50 bucks for a 30-minute coaching because you just did it and that's what stand stores for. So there's a lot of things to think through. Have you ever built a Lego set? No. Never played with Legos once in your life? No. Have you flipped Legos?
33:54Yes, many Legos, minifigures early in the days. I played with Legos a little bit in like 85, but not like the way it became like now. I'm also OG, I'm fucking 49. I played with Lincoln Logs. I was a Lincoln Logs kid when I was six. I played a little Lincoln Logs when I was six. I fucked around with a tiny bit of Legos when I was like nine or 10. Tiny Ben I was too much into wrestling figures Court show this behind a tie guy but the Legos then were more just like here's a bag of Legos that's what I played with these fuckers oh Court I forgot about that part Junkyard Dog SD Jones Greg the Hammer Valentine Andre the Giant Big John Stud Jimmy Snuka that's what I was about I was about that wrestling WWF life fuck the E alright what else you got Gary we had someone in the chat earlier just opened their own a brick and mortar collectible store.
34:46Yes. What's more important? Events or digital marketing? Yes. This is, I will pound this into everyone's head as long as they're willing to listen to me. Life is about and, not or. I could not explain to you more. In marketing and business, it's and, not or. But in life, always fight for and. Why do you think I have three admins and do so many meetings? It's always and. And oh Gary, big meeting with Sid about Team Gary or client fire over here or a huge opportunity for VFriends. The answer's and. You know what the biggest mistake a lot of you are making? You have two hour meetings doing nothing.
35:29Who wants to be vulnerable in the chat and admit that they go to two hour meetings doing nothing? Say two hours in the chat. You're like in meetings that fucking mean nothing. Say two hours in the chat. You're in those fucking meetings. I'm in that, you've already seen the difference. Like you've been here you've got the freshest eyes. You see what it is. It's and. You know like fucking people out here with big ambitions taking three hour lunches. Pulling fucking lettuce out their teeth. Somebody caught a stray. Somebody just caught a stray for just not wanting lettuce in their teeth. I don't even have time to take the lettuce out of my teeth.
36:09The funniest thing when someone feels me is that this hasn't happened train recently but like that's a nice sort of one strong finish what is that strong finish some of these are fire I don't even tie my shoes slip them on and your tongue gets all like right like I don't tie for that shit court you really don't tie your shoes at times and it does throw me off yeah because I'm like literally like fuck I need this hundredth of a second and I'm not going to trick CJ Neves if you on Instagram at Tyler DM me we will talk about how we can get V friends in partnership with you and your local store. Amazing.
36:48Bump it up to Tyler so he can find it. Cause Tyler has been known to miss a DM. Yep. That's why I like, that's why I put Zach. No, no. I don't know. I've seen it. Distro, Schmistro, Ristro, every row. Schmistro and Ristro. You absolutely miss it. All right, let's keep it going. How do you find a good business name? This individual. Names me nothing. Fucking McDonald's court. if you didn't know McDonald's was McDonald's and I said I'm starting a business called McDonald's what would you think the business does? Irish pub? Sure. Great. Right? Yeah. Construction company. Construction company? Yeah man what the fuck's a Google?
37:29What's Nike? You gotta make it mean something. Names are made. I'm fucking Gary Vee with two silent E's. Horrible execution. I'm serious. Gary Vee with two silent E's is fucking terrible. You all know I have two silent E's. There you go, train. I'm teaching you daily out here. Gary Vee with two silent E's is horrible branding. The fuck do you need the two silent E's for? People type in Gary, like when people are first learning me, they're like Gary Vee, they go Gary Vee with a V. They find that Filipino fucking rock star singer. It's me and Gary Vee in the Philippines. We've been battling for years.
38:08I finally took him over a couple years ago. We were battling. Gary Vee had to take the L. Pop star in the Philippines. You did a good job with that. Yeah, no, listen, I'm me. And I'm that. And he's he. And I'm him. But, names are fucking made. McDonald's means nothing. Toyota means nothing. Mentos means nothing. Sprite means, this shit doesn't mean anything. Execution's the game. Fucking names. I hate when people are like, oh, you need a great name. I'm like, no, you need to be great at marketing. Right? Right. Thank you. Best part about being a father, Gary? I mean, if you're not one, you're just randomly curious.
38:48I mean, like, the best part about being a father is the level of unconditional love that you feel for the first time in your life that you can't comprehend. And I was incredibly, and I'm incredibly close to my parents and my family. I'm immigrant life. Like, I'm an emotional dude I love. But, like, Misha and Xander is just different they're just really it's very hard to put into words you know Sid you know this you're new to this game newer to the game some of you will go through this in your life in this room and on the call like it's really a level of love that is pretty profound you know you just you love it so much in an epic way and you know for me I'm like I don't want to make the cliche mistakes that parents make like Like, I don't lead with fear.
39:37I don't love them so much that I try to put them into boxes. I don't want to over-coddle them. I want them to be, hey, yo! Right? I want them to be accountable and optimistic. But, like, it takes everything I've got and I've got a lot to not want to make them soft-coddled, coddled, non-functional humans. That's how much you love them. That's why I know why there's so many soft people out there. like it's really easy for parents to create entitlement and coddleness because kids get fucked on both sides and then they fuck their kids on both sides either the parent is really broken and going through their own shit and they're not giving love or they're on completely the other side and they're over coddling and they love so much that they made a puss the middle is the only answer it's like politics it's all purple it'll always be purple so what does it feel like?
40:37the best but it's like intense and epic and great and like this afternoon is Halloween and my son last year asked me to take him and his two boys trick or treating and like now last year we were in 6th grade and it was like they were like dudes like let's get some pizza I was like pizza on the Upper West Side and then like I could tell they didn't want to go trick or treating I'm like you guys want to play basketball? I'm like yeah Yeah. So then we played basketball last year and then this year, this week, Monday, I'm gonna say my brother, because it's so wild how much I learned parenting by having an 11 year younger brother.
41:12I don't know if you heard that. I started to say my brother. My son was like, yo, me and my seven friends wanna play basketball with you. That's our new tradition. And like when you hear that, right? Or like the hug I gave to my daughter this morning at 7.30 in the morning, because I was taking standard school but I caught her because she was late for the bus. you know I can't replicate that with my parents or my siblings or my loved ones or my friends and it's an incredible version of love that is unachievable anywhere else and it is intoxicating and invigorating and that is the answer Game 6 tonight Yep Who you got?
41:51The Blue Jays Take them at home? At home? I want the Blue Jays to win badly yeah I don't want the Dodgers to win they won last year it's not like I hate the Dodgers Freddie Freeman great dude Otani maybe the best ever like I don't have any hate towards the Dodgers but I'd like to see the Blue Jays win Canada gets a nice little lift oh and actually selfishly VaynerSports notice I didn't start with this but obviously VaynerSports reps Alejandro Kirk and Beau Bichette and so we're rooting for the Blue Jays plus I love Toronto well you love Drake that's why I love Drake and Kendrick and your mama and everyone I love everyone Zachary I know you do okay so what the fuck do you want I'm just happy to say that yeah I'm just saying too I like it I love you I love you I love you too alright let's keep it going what do we got let's go scroll down scroll down give me give me Dame Dame lucky man deal soldier group and Arizona stoner is fighting Arizona stoner is saying St.
43:08Christopher I need the five spot oh hi how are you I'm awesome go J's girl I'm in Toronto oh coach nice we got a Toronto head I love it are you now what's your name My real name was Kelly. Kelly, I need you to be honest with me. Are you a real Jays fan or you've jumped on the bandwagon, you're casual, if not interesting, you're just pro-Toronto and you've jumped on the fucking bandwagon? I've jumped on the fucking bandwagon. I respect you. Go ahead, Kel. What can I answer for you? I missed you in Portugal. Oh, yes, at that event. We were in and out. Train got lost in Portugal. It was great. Yes, and that is my industry.
43:58You're in gaming. And I am the only licensed by the Alcohol and Gaming Commission influencer for casinos in Ontario. That is incredible. Good for you. And yeah, so I'm Dave LaPizzo. I specialize in all 30 of the land-based casinos. I also have affiliates with iGaming on my website, and I have an affiliate with Ticketmaster. Good for you. I need to know how to help it out because I'm so busy trying to make content and get my name known as my brand. I'm trademarked, I'm incorporated.
44:43My marketing is really good. You check out my website. I have a really great website, but I need to make sales. I need to make contracts for casinos in Canada they don't let us live stream at the casinos that's okay live streaming is not the only requirement but I need you to really recognize something your marketing isn't good
45:09okay let's talk about why I'm saying that without looking at it yeah marketing is not a standalone function marketing is the offense of a team of a business right Right? So marketing is the offense of a business. So now let's use sports. If you were a football team and you scored no points every game, you wouldn't tell me your offense is good. Okay. So you're saying your marketing's good, your website's good, but you're not scoring any points. I need you to start, I want to start with you on this because this will help you. Okay, I'm all ears. Great. So first we just got to make sure that you are not judging your content and your marketing based on your opinion of yourself.
45:57Okay. So let's get to the punchline. You are making content. What are you selling? So I understand it completely.
46:10Oh, I don't hear you. I want to be the face of it. Okay, I understand. and I understand what you want to happen. That's not the question. What are you selling? How do you make money? I'm not right now. That's the problem. I know. How do you, no shit. How do you think you're gonna make money? Through the affiliates, through the iGaming. Great. So it sounds like you make money by getting people to come to you and then through you going into a gambling environment where they become a player and they start playing and you make a commission or an onboarding referral fee, yes? Yes. Great. So one of the things you might be making a mistake on is how are you trying to get people to go to that place, whether on your website or some other website of an affiliate?
47:08Okay, so I've been building the platform and now I'm ready to start doing the marketing and that's why I wanted to talk to you because I missed Portugal. Understood. I was at the Canadian gaming conference and literally everybody knew who I was. I gave out landers and kind of CPEGs attached to it. I'm getting... Everybody knew who you... But everybody knew who you were in the gaming community, right? In the business of gaming. Right. Your problem is you want players. You need to be known by them. Right, so I've built up to this point to where now I can start to attract players and that's where I need your help.
47:54Well, it comes through content, I assume, through social, right? Yeah, I was going to start going by five days a week. Well, that's a good start. I want, like, I have a... Are you trying to live sale, Picketmaster? probably but there's some you gotta I don't I'm not I'd like you to go live and that's fine because you have a great personality and I see it but I want you to get great at individual social media posts with links in your bios and in the copy if you get great at that you will convert okay but you've got to go after people with high net worth like your number one platform is Facebook yes I actually just just popped 1 ,600 followers great I mean followers don't mean anything anymore it's all about the content my 55 million followers versus your 1 ,600 followers means nothing anymore I have no advantage over you every day it's about making the best content you possibly can make alright so what I want you to do is go to garyvee.com slash attention and check that out I made a 44 page deck that will help you how to make really good content.
49:13GaryVee.com forward slash attention. Yep. I want it. Alright, good luck with that. Start playing with that for 100 days. Make three, four pieces of content a day based on that deck and then we'll reconvene in 100 days. How can we reconvene in 100 days? How can I connect with you in 100 days? I'm going to be streaming on TikTok like this for the rest of my life. Yeehaw! They're really hard on us. I'm trying to connect with somebody at TikTok, but in Canada, it's really difficult. There's no connecting. It's difficult in America. It's difficult in China. TikTok's a multi-trillion dollar corporation.
49:52They don't give a fuck about you. Yeah, because I need to be able to get the approval because I have the license. Got it, got it, got it. That's a little bit different to your credit. use chat GPT to figure out where you need to go okay what's your URL so people can check you out in Canada at DaveLucky.com love it awesome see ya come on thank you we're good court alright everybody take care of everybody who's got questions I just saw a question I love go ahead if AI is creating with us now how do we keep the human spark leading the art by being human like again people are going into these deep philosophical like Gary how do we keep the human element?
50:35I don't know, but being the human that does it. Like you do know, like if you're the human that uses the AI tool, by nature it has the human element.
50:47People go, I'm telling you, this is what I do. Like keep it basic. Keep it common sense. Break down the question. People get into the hype. They're like, somebody a week ago was like, Gary, you don't get it. They're stopping me. I said, who's they? Like literally rolled up at me like, Gary Vee, I love it. I'm like, yeah, but you don't get it. They stopping me. I was like, who's they? They.
51:17How does a shy person get used to self-promotion? By realizing it doesn't, I don't think I do self, how about this? On the record. This is a good one. I do not think I do self-promotion.
51:31What do you do? I do entertainment and information. I do entertainment and information. I mean, I hope that really hit. I know that a lot of people think it's defined as self-promotion, and I think by defining it's self-promotion, that becomes an issue. Do you know how many people, watch this, how many people were yucked out when the term personal brand came out? They were like, oh, that's stupid. How many people were yucked out when they heard personal brand? They were like, ugh, you know? Like, I don't wanna do that. That's like, especially marketing people, business people. Like, you know, Andrew felt it.
52:09Like, I don't look at it as personal brand. I look at it as reputation. Right, it felt self-absorbed. I don't feel like it's self-absorbed when you're putting out content with the hope that it helps others. I actually think it's the reverse. I think it's selflessly absorbed. Am I aware that it can lead to opportunity? Am I aware that I sell VFriends and I want them to buy it? That's not called self-promotion. That's called brand and product promotion. I'm promoting VFriends.
52:40I understand that it brings awareness towards me. People are aware of who I am. But I think a shy person needs to understand why are they shy. Why are they insecure? a lot of people struggle with posting because they want to post in a category where they don't know anything that's real they want to be like a news anchor and they don't know anything about the news they want to be like put out skateboard content because they like skateboarding but they don't know skateboarding I say this all the time actually can everybody answer this how long have you been following me answer that real quick put number of years two, three, four, five and you're open about that but attempting to be an expert if you're not document don't create versus be expert like people are just full of shit they're not authentic to your point if you want to make skateboard content make it about this journey of learning how to skateboard Rips what don't you know how to do that you've been wanting to do or let me open this already that you want to do currently let me open it what's this great Rips putting out content on nice court Rips putting out content that's alright we're gonna get it down we're gonna get that remote down Rip's putting out content about him like if it was called ripping my way to Mozart like you know like ripping to Mozart if your show was called ripping to Mozart and it was all about you trying to learn if you're looking to learn how to do the piano everybody lean into authenticity we'll see you next time everybody if you enjoyed this podcast please go back and look at the prior episodes they're loaded, I appreciate your attention and thanks for being part of this journey.
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In this episode, I share end-of-year advice for leading your team, building a cohesive brand, and staying ahead of what’s trending. We talk about whether your Instagram grid really matters, how to name your business, and what side hustles actually require to succeed. I also dive into accountability, dealing with difficult people, the realities of hating your job, and whether events or digital marketing matter more for brick-and-mortar businesses. If you want clearer leadership, stronger branding, and sharper execution, this episode is for you.
