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The Jasmine Star Show: Episode Notes
Episode Title
Change Your Life in One Year with Sahil Bloom
Episode Overview In this episode, host Jasmine Star talks with Sahil Bloom, discussing how to treat life like a puzzle by breaking down big goals into manageable steps. The conversation covers various topics, including the importance of taking risks, the power of small daily actions, and how to cultivate a growth mindset.
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Key Concepts and Takeaways
- Life as a Puzzle
- Metaphor: View life as a puzzle; focus on placing corner pieces before filling in the rest.
- Goal Setting: Break down large goals into smaller, manageable tasks to build momentum.
- Taking Risks
- Starting Before You Are Ready: Emphasizes the importance of taking action even when feeling unprepared.
- Sahil’s Mantra: “I’d rather sink as the captain of my ship than thrive as a deckhand on someone else’s.”
- Making Small Changes for Big Transformations
- Daily Positive Impacts: Small, consistent changes can lead to significant life transformations within a year.
- One Percent Change: Focus on making small, actionable changes rather than expecting dramatic overhauls.
- Overcoming Obstacles
- Consistency and Results: Discusses the importance of patience and re-evaluating strategies if results aren’t visible after consistent efforts.
- Deferred Happiness: Recognizing that great achievements often come after enduring challenges.
- Neuroplasticity and Growth Mindset
- Brain Changes: Engaging in new experiences can physically change brain structure, enhancing learning and development.
- Action-Oriented: Develop insights through action, not just theory.
- Luck Surface Area
- Creating Opportunities: By putting yourself out into the world (attending events, networking), you expand your chances of encountering luck.
- Complementarity over Compatibility
- Partnership Dynamics: Look for complementary partners in business and personal life who strengthen each other’s weaknesses.
- Building Strong Relationships: Emphasize the importance of finding partners with differing skill sets.
- Action Steps and Accountability
- Writing and Action: Sahil uses a notebook to jot down insights, committing to take action on them within 48 hours.
- Small Wins: Celebrating small victories helps reinforce a winning mindset.
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Episode Highlights
- Sahil’s Journey: Transition from finance to entrepreneurship, driven by the desire for personal fulfillment.
- Family Influence: Sahil discusses the impact of his father's unwavering support on his journey.
- Creating Businesses: Strategies on turning expenses into profit centers and leveraging skills for entrepreneurial ventures.
- Advice to Others: Encourages listeners to embrace discomfort and pursue growth opportunities, emphasizing the importance of patience in the journey.
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Conclusion The episode illustrates how small, consistent actions can lead to significant life changes. Sahil Bloom's insights serve as inspiration for those looking to redefine their paths and pursue their passions. Listeners are encouraged to adopt a proactive mindset, seek complementarity in relationships, and embrace the process of growth.
Resources
- Sahil Bloom: [SahilBloom.com](https://sahilbloom.com)
- Jasmine Star: [The Jasmine Star Show Podcast](https://jasminestar.com/podcast/episode409)
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Transcript
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0:40Welcome to the Jasmine Starr Show. I couldn't be more excited to bring together two brilliant minds. As y 'all know, I bring in guests, co-hosts to help curate a powerhouse group of people. And one of those powerhouse groups of people is none other than Sahil Bloom. But before we get there, I want to say welcome back to Jen Gottlieb, my amazing co-host here in Miami. The conversations have been very powerful. And as a reminder, if you're just tuning into this particular episode, the through line, aka the theme of every single guest is focusing on Jen, instead of me talking, I'm gonna turn that over to you.
1:18Let's do it. When I thought about all the guests that were coming today, the overarching theme when Jasmine asked me to think of like, what's the theme? What's the connecting factor? It was everybody starts a little bit before they're ready. Every single person that we brought in had to take a risk, had to do something that maybe they weren't completely and totally crystal clear about. And they started with some fear, with some uneasiness, with some uncertainty and made some magic happen that maybe they didn't even realize was going to come out of it. So that's the theme starting before you're ready.
1:47Starting before you're ready. And on that note, Sahil, I'm in an elevator going downstairs from this Miami sky rise and we go down and we have about eight floors together. What's your elevator pitch? Who are you and what do you do? Oh gosh, that's a hard question. I know it is. I'm so bad at this, by the way. Well, hold on. Before we get there, before we get there, you're so bad at it because when I read your bio, I was like, are you freaking kidding me? His bio includes Condoleezza Rice. I know. You know, it's like all these awards and I went to Stanford and I'm just brilliant. That was like a PS at the end of the Condoleezza thing.
2:18I was like, oh, oh. And? Me and Condi were a first name basis. Sahil, please welcome and thank you for being here. Thank you for having me. How do we set the context and the framework for taking action before you're ready. Yeah. The reason I'm bad at this, by the way, is when you work in a very traditional path, you have the little one sentence intro of what you do. So I started my career in finance and I always had that. It was very comfortable. You'd say like, oh, well, I'm a vice president at this firm. I work in private equity. I'm doing this. And you had the one line. And so going to any cocktail party or any event, people are like, what do you do?
2:52You have your little one line and then you move on from it. And it's super comfortable and you're confident in it. Leaving that to go do the thing that you're uncomfortable, like you're not ready for to use your theme. One of the things that holds people back from that is you like, you don't know how to explain what you do. And that's so scary to like, all of a sudden feel like I don't have my little one lighter that I can just give people where like, they're like, what do you do? I'm like, I don't, I don't know. I do like 10 different things and I'm like really excited about this, which I actually don't do, but I'm hoping to do someday.
3:21It's like a really weird vibe. My whole bias when I was making the switch into my current world, which we can talk about. From finance to your current world. Yeah, to this new thing was I would much rather sink as the captain of my ship than continue to thrive as a deckhand on someone else's. And that for me was just like my calling and my mantra of I just want to go and I'll figure it out. And there's this ancient Persian poet, Rumi, who said, as you begin to walk on the way, the way appears. And I've had that up on my wall for as long as I can remember, because it's so true in my experience that like you have no idea what the path looks like.
4:07we all sit back and you like want to create, okay, I'm going to do this, this, this, and this. I'm going to create this perfect plan. And this is exactly the path that I'm going to go walk down, but you can't see the path until you begin walking it. And in everything that I've ever experienced in my life, and I would bet with both of you and on your entrepreneurial journeys, it's been the same. You didn't know what the way was until you started walking on the way. You had to just start moving and then you found it. So it was a super long-winded, not eight floor elevator way. And I didn't even answer your question, but that's how I'll open.
4:37So what do you say? If you had to say something? If I had to say something, what I would say is that my main focus is on creating positive ripples in the world. And I do that in a few different ways. One is through a venture fund where I invest in early stage technology companies. One is through a holding company of a bunch of businesses that broadly speaking, help people augment, amplify their voice as an individual so that they can create ripples in the world. And then the third way is through my content, which is across basically any platform that you can have access to and an upcoming book that I'm excited about, which really is focused on helping people live slightly healthier, slightly wealthier lives.
5:17I love that you said slightly. I love that. It's more actionable. It's more tangible. Yeah. My whole goal is like anything I put out into the world, I want it to be actionable and I want it to help you in some tiny way like I think the focus on like Trying to get someone to create some dramatic change in their life is noble and great But it's unrealistic because when you read something that asks you to create some dramatic change whatever the dramatic change is 99 % of people engage with that. They're like, oh, that sounds nice And then they go back to living their normal life But if you give someone something that's like the one percent change That actually might be acted upon they might go if you tell them like Like, hey, go for a 15 minute walk today.
5:58Don't worry about like working out for three hours. Go for a 15 minute walk. They might actually go do that. And that might turn into a 20 minute walk the next day or a 30 minute walk the next day. And then all of a sudden their entire life has changed. And you were the like tiny little drop that created that ripple effect. And so like when I say ripples, that's what I mean by it. It's like, how can you be that tiny thing that creates this ripple out in the world? I love it. Can we go back to the quote that you live by? I'd rather be a captain. I'd rather go down being the captain of my own ship than the deckhand on somebody else's.
6:28Can I read something that you had said on an Instagram reel? Okay. You said your entire life can change in one year, not five, not 10. And so as we start this, there are a lot of people, I would venture to say 99.9 % of the people who are watching and listening right now, they desperately want to be the captain of their own ship, but they have a hard time looking at a timeline and not being beholden or believing that if it's not executed in their timeline that they will have not succeeded, they will be perceived a failure. So let's just go back when you said that tiny little ripple. One year, when you talk about changing your life in one year, how can we talk about specific strategies?
7:07We are all podcast, like these podcast listeners, listen, I'll live and die by these folks. They take action. So somebody wants to look at one year to say, I want to be a captain, what do I do? 30 minutes today on something that you're interested in. I, I, I'm a huge, huge believer that like one of the biggest drivers of inaction and of procrastination and of paralysis is intimidation. You look at it and you say like, oh my God, I'm sitting in my dead end job. I'm sitting in this dead end relationship or my health is suffering and I'm overweight. and I cannot possibly envision the path to getting from here to being that fit person that I admire on Instagram, to being that wealthy entrepreneur that I admire on Instagram, to being in that loving relationship that I admire wherever I've seen it in the world.
7:54And the reality is like, you don't go from point A to point B overnight. It's the tiny little steps that happen along the way. It's those tiny little actions that you take. And so that bias has to come from doing the one little thing today. And I always say this, that like you are always just one positive decision away from being in a slightly better place than you are today. And again, it's one small decision. Like you don't need to worry about the hundred thousand decisions that are going to happen over the next year. You just need to worry about this one. There's this scene. Have you seen the movie The Martian?
8:29It's like Matt Damon and he's stuck on Mars. It's all about space. It's like this crazy sci-fi movie. But at the very end of it, there's this amazing scene that I'm obsessed with where he's talking to, like he's giving a lecture about how he got home from Mars. Sorry, spoiler alert. And he basically says, here's how it works. You solve one problem and then you solve another one and then you solve another one. And when you've solved enough problems, you may get to come home. And he's talking about it in the context of surviving some traumatic event. But that thing, like that distilled idea of like, just solve the one problem, which is the action today.
9:08Don't worry about the thousand actions that it's going to take after that. Solve the one thing, then solve another one, then solve another one. Matthew McConaughey talks about it as like, do one in a row. He talked about it in his book, Greenlights. Just do one in a row. It's a great thing for people coming back from addiction. You're like, just one day in a row, just one day of sobriety, then another day, then another day. Stacking days. If you can just do that, the one tiny thing that pushes you in the right direction, after a hundred days of that, you'll be transformed. It's not even like it's going to take five years.
9:36That's why I said that on Instagram of you can change your life in one year because it's so tangible. I can see a year from now. Ten years from now is hard for me to see. Five years from now is hard for me to see. A year from now, if I do this one thing every single day, is my life going to be in a much better spot after doing that for a year? Hell yes, it is. So I'm going to start doing that. Like just take on the day, take on the next day, take on the next day and let it compound. A question that I get asked a lot, and I would love to hear your take on this, is about consistency and how to stay consistent when you feel like you're doing the thing.
10:09Like, let's say you start to pick up a habit and you're like, I'm going to do this for 30 minutes a day every single day. I'm going to do it every day. And they're doing it every day. And a year goes by and nothing has really changed for them as far as getting to that goal that they desire. What would you say about like patience, consistency, and when do you throw in the towel and shift gears and pivot? Or when do you keep going and doing the thing that you're hoping is going to get you to that big goal? Yeah. Yeah. So there is like a narrative fallacy, I would say, around people that have pounded their head into a wall for years and years and then eventually succeeded.
10:41We like hold those stories up as examples of why we should all pound our heads into a wall on whatever the thing is. Right. You're like, oh, well, that actor or actress didn't get a role for 10 years. They were still struggling and then they got their big break. And so like that is then celebrated as the thing of like, you should do that. So if you're struggling and you're not making it and whatever it is you're doing, just like keep pounding your head into a wall because you usually make it. That's just survivorship bias, right? Like we're ignoring all the people that pounded their head into a wall for 10 years and then never made it.
11:07And so the lesson there is it's not about pounding your head into a wall. It's about getting slightly better at how you pound your head into the wall each time you do it, right? Like if I walk over to that brick wall over there and I start hitting it with my head and I do it like 10 days in a row and I'm planning to do it for as long as it takes. If after like 10 days, I haven't seen a single budge or chip in the wall, I might want to start thinking about whether there's a different spot on the wall that I should try. Because maybe that spot is like not the right place. And so I use that analogy because that's what you need to do, right?
11:40Like it's not about just the consistency. It's also about getting slightly smarter at where you're applying your leverage, like where you're applying that energy and effort. And so if you're not, after 30, 60 days, seeing any tiny little glimmer of progress on what your main thing is, maybe you need to, like, make the tweak, reevaluate, like, what's the slightly different version of this that I can approach it around? And that, I think, is where a lot of people will see, like, the sudden surge is from just, like, think about how you can get slightly smarter at the thing you're doing each day that you go after.
12:15Slightly smarter. And on that note, when Jen is talking about consistency and you're talking about the brick wall and finding a different spot to hit your head, if that is your objective. I thought it was beautiful. It was like very visual to me. And I'm like, how many times have I actually cognizantly paused and said, you're going to keep on hitting your head against the wall. Can you do it slightly different? You also had mentioned a description of deferred happiness. when I think about consistency when I think about pounding my head against the brace when I think about my voluntary decision I'm gonna do this can you explain what is happening from the deferred happiness like I'm not that happy banging my head against the wall yeah well it helps when you enjoy the thing when you enjoy the pounding of your head into the wall you've like really found it because then if I'm willing to pound my head into that wall for a decade I'm just probably not gonna lose like if I get slightly smarter at it each and every time like you're gonna have a really tough time beating me if I'm enjoying pounding my head into that wall.
13:10So like when you find the thing that you're happy pounding your head into the wall on, you've like really, and probably most people don't ever find that in their life. So when you found that, just like savor it and really embrace that. But the biggest thing is like all great things in life come from delayed gratification from like the ability to say, I know that the thing I want is on the other side of something that sucks. Bottom line, every single thing you want in life is on the other side of something that sucks. Everything. Like the body you want is on the other side of a hundred workouts that are really hard.
13:44The relationship you want is on the other side of a hundred really hard conversations with the person that you care about. The job you want, the business you want to build, it's on the other side of hundreds of hours of really challenging work. You have to be willing to endure that in order to get the thing you want. Knowing that going in is the most powerful thing because you're not expecting it to be easy. You're not expecting it to be like, oh, here, I've been handed this incredible life. I've been handed this incredible relationship, this incredible purpose. Nothing in life that you actually should value should come easy.
14:15There's no seven easy payments of$19.99 for an amazing relationship with a partner, for an amazing relationship with your kids, for an amazing business where you feel a ton of purpose around it. That doesn't exist. And if someone tells you it does, you should run in the other direction because it's BS. And so I just like, this fires me up a lot because it's something that I think about constantly is like, how can I just endure this a little bit longer? How can I just embrace this hard quote unquote of whatever it is that I'm going through? And the beautiful thing about life is that you get to choose your hard.
14:48And I've said this countless times, everything in life is hard, but you get to choose what your heart is. It's really hard to build an incredible body and physique. It's also really hard to see your body completely fail you because you haven't used it, but you get to choose which heart. It's really hard to build meaningful relationships. It's also really hard to live on the surface with a bunch of people. Again, you get to choose your heart. It's really hard to live a life of purpose, working on something you care about. It's also really hard to live without purpose. So you get to choose which heart you're pursuing.
15:20You get to choose the thorns that you're going to have on the path of your journey. Would you say that we get better at doing hard things the more that we practice doing hard things? Like I see you in your cold plunge. I see you. I do the same thing. So I used to hate it. And now I do ice baths every Saturday to practice being uncomfortable so that I know that the next time something hard comes around, I'm like, I got this. Do you see that proof of concept the more that you do it? Because people don't like doing hard things. How do we get better at doing hard things? Yeah. I mean, And we live in a world that if you look at like the last 20 years, technology has progressively sucked the friction out of our lives.
15:56Everything. If you think about any technology that exists, its main purpose, if it has succeeded, has been in reducing friction in your daily existence. Like Uber has made it much easier to get around. Instacart has made it easier to get your groceries. You don't have to go talk to anybody. Amazon has made it easier for me to get whatever I want at any point in time without having to interact with a single human being. all of the you know dating apps i'm not in the dating scene but like you don't have to go talk to a girl at a bar like all my friends that are in the dating like i don't have to go through the discomfort of like putting myself out there to go up to a stranger at the bar and strike up a conversation i can just like swipe left right whatever so we've reduced all this friction in our lives and somewhere along the way we have to have realized that like the friction was actually what created texture and meaning and something has to give there there's a pendulum that has swung too far towards this frictionless existence where you're like, oh, actually, maybe the friction was what created value and created meaning in our lives.
16:51And so my calling has been on helping people realize that you can strategically reinsert friction via these hard things into your life. And the cold plunge is like one of the trendy examples that people have gone after. But it's no different than like choosing to walk the stairs instead of take the elevator. It's no different than like doing the hard workout, than having the hard conversation rather than just avoiding it and putting it off for forever because it's difficult. Those things, like when you are willing to embrace the voluntary hard things, you become better when the involuntary hard things inevitably come into your life.
17:31And we all know this, like we are going to face hardships of some sort that are totally involuntary at some point you lose a family member you know your kid gets sick you're sick you're injured uh you know you get fired from your job like your company goes under there these things are really really painful and hard but when you've trained yourself to handle that stress to handle that chaos when you've become anti-fragile and you can benefit from that incredible things happen but it's only through the training i don't you can't just expect i mean it's like I can't expect to be able to go run a marathon if I've never run.
18:07Exactly. No different. Okay. So I feel like there's two sides of my mind. And I feel like I could sit with you all day and talk about who you are. Like you on the inside out. And you emanate that. And you're so lit up by these things. And then there is another part of me that if I'm being completely candid is I love how you're living life because of what you're putting out. And I see your lifestyle choices. What an ardent fan you are of your high school sweetheart and wife. And what a big supporter, believer, lover of your son. What an advocate you are for your parents and the decisions that they made and how they showed up for you.
18:45And so I see this really palpable, beautiful, bite-sized, firecracker, lightning bolt content. And then I'm like, what's your business? How could I look at this, this constant desire to be in my purpose, to inspire other people, to create small ripples and then say like, okay, but what is the backend of what Sahil's doing in order to straddle these two lines? Yeah, it's an interesting question. So the business side of all of this was pretty organic. So I worked in finance for the first seven years of my career. I was at a private equity fund. I was making lots of money. Things were great on the outside looking in.
19:20You like get patted on the back. You're like getting your big bonuses. How old were you around 20. I was like 23 until I was 30. I'm 33 today. I just turned 33. And things were great, right? Like I was making millions of dollars at an age when people are just getting started in their career and life. And so on the outside looking in, everything was great. On the inside, I was pretty miserable. And I didn't show that to the world. I hid a lot from the world. I was very insecure. I was overweight. I was stressed. My relationship with my wife had really suffered. um you know i was like not present with my parents with friends um there were just a lot of areas in my life that really were strained by the fact that i was chasing this like singular scoreboard of trying to make more and more money and i thought that was right i thought that that was like what success looked like i was like oh things are great well why don't i feel good on the inside like why are things actually not working?
20:21And I realized I had to make a change. And so, you know, I had one conversation with a friend that really changed my life. I sat down with this old friend, not really a super close friend either. And he asked how I was doing. And I said, it's getting hard being so far away from my parents. We were living in California at the time. My parents were in the Boston area. And he said, how old are they? I said, mid-60s. He said, how often do you see them? I said once a year and he said okay so you're gonna see them 15 more times before they die and it was just math it wasn't like an insensitive comment he wasn't trying to be rude it was just math and I've never felt a gut punch like that in my entire life and the next morning I woke up and I told my wife that I wanted to make a change and within 45 days I left my job we sold our house in California and we bought a house on the East Coast to move back.
21:19And that was really the start of this journey of my life into building something different, into finding a whole different path. The business side of that, actually - Let's look back. Yeah. You leave finance within 45 days. Your wife is thumbs upping a move across the United States. Yeah. Do you know what you're going to do? So I had started writing just like casually on Twitter about a year before that. I had 500 followers on Twitter, but I was stuck at home during COVID. Like I had no social life at the time because California was locked down. And so I'd started writing on Twitter. I'd probably grown my Twitter audience to like maybe 75 ,000 or so followers, but there was no business around it.
22:05I had a few little side hustle type things that I was doing around it, like helping other people with their content strategy. But there was no real business. I didn't have a newsletter. There wasn't any businesses that it started. And this goes to the point of the power of having someone in your life that believes in you more than you believe in yourself is unparalleled. And when I went and said this to my wife, she had no reason to believe that this made sense. I was making a whole lot of money. We had a great house. Like we had a great life, great setup. And I went and said this crazy thing and she was like, all right, great.
22:43Like, and I was like, what am I going to do? Like, I don't, I don't know what I'm going to do. I don't have another job lined up. I don't have a thing. And she looked at me and she said like, why don't you do this thing that you're doing now that you're like currently doing on the weekends, like as a little, what if you did that full time? Like, couldn't it be bigger than it is today? And I've never thought about it. Like, I just assumed I would go take another job in finance on the East Coast to just be closer to family. But suddenly you're like, oh, you think about something in a completely different way just because someone else believed in you around it.
23:12And that was what sparked me to actually. And this is 2020? This is 2021. Wow. Yeah, this is like two and a half years ago. May 2021, specifically. So this was built out of Twitter. Yeah, originally Twitter. Tweeting. Yeah, yeah, tweeting. Yeah, tweet threads. Yeah. But after that conversation, I actually took a step back and I was like, okay, I'm not like the creator mindset in general is like, how do I get every dollar right now? It's like, all right, I'm gonna get this brand deal. I'm gonna do this sponsored post. I'm gonna do this ad. I'm gonna sell this course. I'm gonna do all these things.
23:48And my whole perspective from the get go was, I think in decades, it's just how I've always thought. Like I think in at a minimum 10 year time horizons. And I can't do that for 10 plus years. Like I can't possibly, there's just no precedent for like getting ad brand deals, like over, it's all hand to mouth, right? Like you're getting paid. Yeah. You might make a lot of money right now, but that can't feed my family for 20 years, 30 years, whatever. That's not like, there's nothing real there. And so from the get go, my mindset was what is the actual business you can build that is decades long that like lasts beyond you needing to create a new piece of content on a daily basis.
24:22And my whole idea around that was like, let me look at my own P &L. Let me look at the things that I'm spending money on as I'm building this, and how can I actually turn those into profit centers rather than cost centers? So Amazon, Jeff Bezos is the most famous example of this. They had to build out all of this internal compute and server power at Amazon in order to function as an e-commerce business. They built that out and then realized it was extraordinarily valuable to other companies that would rent it from them. So that was Amazon Web Services that they started selling the server capacity to other companies.
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24:55And now that is like a$100 billion business that would be a Fortune 100 company just on its own, completely separate from the Amazon that everyone knows. The entire idea there was like turn a cost center, this server thing, into a profit center for them. I want to do the same thing on a much smaller level. Can we pause? Yes. What Sahil just did is ask himself, what am I spending money on that I could actually make money with? I need to bring you around with me more often to do that. slow down i get excited about it you don't like everyone understands this because here's the thing i am tracking with you a thousand percent and i am a hundred percent like aws let's go and then all of a sudden i know that there is a disconnect between the person who's saying oh it's a hundred million dollar business that would be on it as a loan and someone's like but wait i'm trying to get my first million so what i want to do is just like okay look at your profit and loss statement and ask yourself is there anything on this list anything i'm paying for that i could say wait a minute.
25:51Could I actually make money? Could you give us examples? Yes, you are. Yes, you are. The first one was, I had built really like blueprints for myself of how to grow my platform on Twitter. It turned out there were a lot of other people that were trying to do the same thing. Now you can monetize that by selling a course, I could create a course around how to build a Twitter audience. And I could sell$100 course to a lot of people and try to make it would be a lot of courses, but try to make a million dollars off selling in a hundred dollar course. Or I could get high paying clients to pay five to$10 ,000 a month to have like a true service delivered to them done for you to like implement these blueprints around how to build your audience.
26:39It doesn't take that many clients then at five to$10 ,000 a month to make a million dollars. And I hired someone to help run that, to actually like build that out and operationalize it for clients and build a business around it. So something that I had actually kind of like created myself now turns into a business that very quickly I'm able to drive leads to because my whole platform, like whenever people ask me, oh, how do you grow on Twitter? You're like, oh, well, actually this company that I own can actually help you if you're looking to do that. Is that how you initially grew this? Just by people asking you, how did you do it?
27:08That business? How did you go to market? Yeah, exactly. Just by people asking. I mean, it was totally organic leads. The beauty of a$5 ,000 to$10 ,000 a month client, too, is you don't need many leads. And frankly, you can't service that many leads when you're first starting out. But if you have eight clients, you're in a million-dollar business. It's just not many clients at that price point. And so you're serving startup founders. You're serving small business owners, people who can pay that. They're happy to run that through their business because it's 50-ish percent off after you think about the tax deduction.
27:39And it creates enormous value for them. Like having a platform on Twitter, on LinkedIn, which, by the way, like I'm going to convince both of you by the end of this to start building your LinkedIn presence because it's an unbelievable platform. But like for a small business owner, having a big platform on LinkedIn can drive millions of dollars of value into their business. And so they're perfectly happy to pay$5 ,000 a month to go do that. I mean, it's an incredible ROI. So that was just one example. I mean, the next one was like video. I was starting to post videos on Instagram. We were doing video edits.
28:09I was paying$5 ,000 to$10 ,000 a month to random agencies and editors to make me clips from podcasts I went on. And I was sending them referrals for clients because people were asking me constantly, like, who did this video for you? And they were paying me$500 for every referral, just a one-time fee. And I looked at it and I was like, I must have contributed 50 % of this guy's business. And he's making$2 million a year. And I made$2 ,500. It makes absolutely no sense. Let me just go watch this business. And so we went and did that. We went and created a video business and partner with someone incredible to run it.
28:41And we drive tons of leads to it. And like basically overnight, it's a$2 million business. Okay. I'm going to pause here again. Yes. As you're looking at your profit and loss statement, what Zahela did is notice I'm spending about$8 ,000 a month hiring an editor to create video content. He's like, I also know I'm sending out leads to other people and I can look at the LTV lifetime value. If he says I've been working with this editor for a year and I've spent somewhere in the ballpark of$10 ,000 worth of editing,$20 ,000 worth of editing. What would it look like if I sent people who are in my similar state to somebody else and he could do back of the napkin math just based on the leads that he got on his own multiplied by the lifetime value.
29:24He could look at a business, but he didn't just say, you want to know what I'm going to do? I'm going to go in and I'm going to build this business from the ground up. He decided to say, I'm spending money. I know I can get the leads. I know I can make money. What I need here is an operator. I need a partner. I need somebody who doesn't come in and do the things that maybe I'm not that strong at or I just don't want to do. So Sahil is saying, what is an expense that I can turn into a profit center? What is my skill set? And how do I get somebody else with a different skill set to handle all the leads that I've been getting a$250,$500 referral on?
29:54All I'm saying is, look at this framework. There is something on your profit and loss. And here's the thing. You might look at Sahil and be like, I'm not the person who's getting the leads, but could you be a partner for somebody who is? Cool. What you just said there too is a perfect example of a broader relationship framework of complementarity is more important than compatibility. And it applies to romantic relationships just as much as business ones, but everyone is constantly thinking about compatibility in a relationship. Like, oh, am I compatible with this person? For a long lasting relationship, it's much more important to be complimentary and to have your skill sets and your passions and your interests be complimentary to the other persons so that when you are drained, they're able to step up and be in that role.
30:39Like it can't always be 50-50 in these things, right? Sometimes you're at 10 and you need the other person to be at 90. Sometimes you're going to be at 90 and they're going to be at 10. And having that complementarity and having that mindset of what I'm looking for is complementarity. It's not necessarily compatibility. That is like a big mental shift I've had around business and my own relationship and my like reflections on what has made my relationship with my wife so strong is exactly that. So would you and I, I know that we're very new in our like peer to peer relationship, friendship. We are more complimentary because we possess similar ish skill sets.
31:16Like we know we can talk, get people's attention, guide people with leads. somebody who would complement that skill set would be you talk, you get people to take attention, you get leads, and I can operationalize the back end. Yeah, my perfect example of that is my business partner in a lot of these businesses is his name is Hunter. And Hunter has a track record of 10 plus years of building service based businesses like dealing with high ticket services, client based businesses. He's done that over and over again. And he's ruthlessly efficient with it. He knows how to run them. He knows the pitfalls.
31:53I don't know any of that. And I don't want to know any of that. And I would suck at that. Like I'm not good at managing people. And I'm perfectly self-aware enough to say that. Like I don't need to be the best people manager in the world. Actually, if I ever have like an organization within my like holding company, that's like a hundred people. Something went really wrong. Like I screwed something up badly. I don't want that. And so when I found that though, like Hunter is great at that, but Hunter doesn't have the platform I have or the relationships that I have with these creators, with the people we can partner with.
32:23And so when you bring that together, that's like the one plus one equals three moment that everyone is looking for in business and in your personal life and your relationships. How do you go about making those connections with those people? Because I find that usually the compatibility thing is the thing that attracts initially you to somebody like a friend. Like, oh yeah, we have all these things in common. We've got this similar energy, this similar vibe. So if somebody is listening to this right now and they're like, okay, I really need someone that has the thing that I'm missing to be my partner in this business that I want to start.
32:51Where did they go to find that person? Did they have to be really super intentional about finding that type of person? How did you find your partner, Hunter? I guess maybe you can use that as an example. I think, you know, first off, putting yourself out there into the world is extraordinarily important in everything that you do. I call it luck surface area. Like, basically, the idea is you get lucky and people say it's luck. The reality is it's engineered. It's like engineered serendipity. You're putting yourself out into the world. And by expanding your luck surface area, more lucky things can happen.
33:24That's by like going to events that you're nervous to go to. That's by engaging in online communities and discussions. It's by like publishing that thing that you're terrified to publish rather than just like holding it internally. All of those things expand your luck surface area. You're more likely to meet that person. The second piece of that is being willing and actually embracing situations where you feel like the other person is very different from you where like they have an entirely different background or set of assumptions about the world, different perspectives. They come from like a whole different ecosystem and world and actually opening up to learn about that and like being interested in other people and in other different worldviews and other different perspectives on business, on whatever it is that you're going about.
34:10Most people hide behind like sameness, right you like you seek out sameness because it's comfortable it's most comfortable thing in the world is to just have conversations only with people that completely mirror your perspectives and worldviews it's the safest way to live i can guarantee that actually you'll never have your worldview questioned you'll never have your assumptions questioned everything will be totally fine until all of a sudden something bad happens and you're like you're dead because you haven't had that like battle testing and the hardening that comes from seeing different sides of things.
34:40But putting yourself out into the world with a broad array of people and actually embracing the differences that come, that's how you find the complementarity rather than just compatibility. So good. So would you mind if I asked a little bit of a personal question? And if you don't want to answer it, we can cut it out. So you and I were texting yesterday and you had said you talked about the weather in Miami. I said, thank you so much for coming. And you're like, I'm going to dinner tonight. And you went to the dinner that Jen had hosted. And I've gone to her dinners before and everybody stands up and then they say who they are, what they do and what they need.
35:15Based on how you're thinking about being complimentary and compatible, who was complimentary yesterday? And how are you thinking? I want to get into like, what did you see? Who did you talk to? How did you get there? I would say most people there were probably complimented. I think I'm probably pretty different than most of the people that were at that dinner. There was a lot of like domain expertise in different unique areas that I know nothing about. And I'm fascinated by learning most broadly, like what I enjoy and what I get energy from is just learning. And that's learning about people. It's learning about ideas.
35:53Like that's what gives me energy. And so whether or not I like agree with an idea or whether or not I think it's like, uh, you know, an exciting thing to go about and pursue. I love learning about the thing. And so like, there was someone there that, um, actually I was seated next to a gentleman who has gone super deep in like direct response marketing for his whole life and has like, is thinking about how AI interacts with it and how it's going to change. And I'm seated next to him. I don't, I know nothing about direct response marketing. I've never been in that world. I don't know anything about it, but I'm launching a book next year and i'm interested in like oh yeah like because they're a direct response angle on how you like so i'm asking him like how would you think about that if you were to launch a book like what would you do like what would be like the little hacks you would go about knowing what you know about direct response marketing and so then i'm sitting there and it's like i just got a free college lecture from like an expert on something that i never if i didn't go to that dinner i never would have known you know the one or two things that i picked up that then i'm sending you know i'm writing that in my notebook and i'm sending to my chief of staff like hey we should look at this and this when we're thinking about the book launch.
36:55So that's just like one tiny microcosm example of when you open yourself up to things like that, you never know what that like one thing is that is going to be the power law outcome in your life. And that applies again, like it applies to business where you might find that like one person that you partner with. I didn't know when I was going to meet Hunter at some random event, but then we did. And I think we're going to build a hundred million dollar business together. Incredible power law outcome. But I had to meet thousands of people over the course of 10 plus years in order to meet the one person.
37:24Same thing happens to relationships. You don't just like stumble upon like the first time you meet someone. Maybe some people do. I know. Exactly. So maybe I'm a rare example of this. But like it's pretty rare that that would happen. And you have to go out. Like you have to go meet thousands of people. You have to put yourself in the room. You have to put yourself out there. You have to like get uncomfortable. You have to, you know, manifest it in whatever way. Like you have to have those conversations. You have to do that work in order to have the power law outcome. Like asymmetric things only happen when you took enough bets for the one asymmetric thing to hit.
37:57Yeah, I didn't know you were sitting next to, he is the considered number one direct response copywriter in the entire world. I mean, I literally got like a free, people probably pay$10 ,000 to have a conversation with them on that. And so you never know. You've got to get in the room and a lot of people, they actually stop their own luck, right? Would you say that you've seen that a lot? where people just, they have an opportunity and they don't show up for it because it's too hard or because they feel too uncomfortable. Yeah, I think there's a lot of, look, it's easier for extroverts. Like we're all probably like, at least to some extent, comfortable, extroverted enough to like, you can be in that room and you can be the light in that room.
38:37That's like, you're there and you're standing up and you're connecting people and introducing them. And it's like, I am in awe of it and find it so inspiring because I'm not nearly on that level, but not everyone's like that. There are people that are like super introverted. It's really uncomfortable for them to stand up and say what they do. And people hide behind that. They say like, well, that's just how I am. So I'm not going to go to these things. And what I would encourage anyone that's listening to do is to like in 2024, just like push yourself to be uncomfortable a couple more times. It doesn't have to be every single day, by the way, like, you know, it's going to be draining for you.
39:09So it doesn't have to be every day, but just like a couple more times deal with that discomfort and like go do that thing that scares the shit out of you go to that dinner stand up like do the improv class like whatever the thing is that's scaring you just go and do it because you really have no idea what you're capable of the only way you find out is by putting yourself out there it's by like taking that risk it's by doing that thing that terrifies you that you ultimately figure out the actual boundaries of your competency and capability and I just love like nothing makes me happier than seeing someone that was like previously afraid to do something do it and then experience the benefit that came from it it's just like that gives me so much life and energy when I see that there was actually there was a woman at the event last night who stood up and said during her uh intro that she was really introverted and she was nervous about doing it but she was like lit up by standing up and you can tell that like she was saying she was nervous but she actually didn't really feel that nervous like she was getting energy from the room and from talking about it.
40:09She could see the people smiling and people nodding at her. And that was so cool to me to see someone that like clearly would have self-identified as introverted and that being a terrifying situation actually have this like new light to her and embrace the fact that she had like a real growth mindset around being able to go do that. I don't know if you've heard, there's this concept of neuroplasticity, which is like the idea that your brain can actually change in structure and function on the basis of experiences. So taking on new experiences, doing new things actually changes the wiring of your brain.
40:44Your actual brain can change in form and function. It's the basis of this whole idea of a growth mindset. You can actually develop and change, but it only comes through action. It cannot come from sitting around planning in a room, reading, whatever. You have to actually take action on something in order to change how you operate. And so it's so fun to see situations where people are enabled to actually take those actions and to create those rooms. Like you're creating a room like that where someone can take that one action that positively changes their trajectory. I just think that like that gives me so much energy to get to experience that.
41:20Okay. So a couple of things, if we go back a couple of minutes, you had mentioned that after last night's event, and then you met with somebody this morning, it's like, you're putting these ideas around and you say, carry this notebook around. And I have to say that I did a lot. There it is. There it is. It's Probe. I've done a lot of creeping on who you were because when I look at something, it's a curse. I walk into any place at any time and I look at the structure of the business. It's just something I can't turn off. So the first time I came across your content, I immediately was like, okay, well, this guy's amazing, very strong, understands his point of view, where he is in the world, what he's doing and how he's doing it.
41:58And then I immediately went to the business component. So I started reading your blogs, started downloading resources, started listening to you on podcast interviews. And my number one question was, is this him in real life? Like this is a very unique skill set. So then the first time we've ever met was today. You walk in the door and you have like these really cool gold room glasses that Miami Vibes are drinking like, you know, black. Yeah, put them on. That's the whole thing. I don't want you to experience it. If you're not watching this on YouTube, you have to like. So we walk in and I'm like, oh, Stanford educated.
42:30baseball player, academic award-winning athlete that he is. And I'm seeing him being introduced to people, myself. And then he takes time for himself, sits at a desk and starts writing furiously in this book. And me being me, I have no swag. I was like, what are you doing? He's like, I'm just writing down a few things, my thoughts, what I've heard. And I'm like, well, what did you hear? Like, I want to know who he is and what he's doing. And he had breakfast with somebody this morning, but that wasn't enough. He said, I write them down and like, okay, so do you just write them down? So it's like hand, eye, brain coordination.
43:04And he's like, well, yeah, but then I take action within 48 hours. And I'm like, so when he's talking about neuroplasticity, it doesn't exist without action. Can you get us into your brain and then expand ours? So what you just referenced is this like little rule of thumb that I have around this notebook. So I carry around, it's a moleskin little like pocket leather notebook. And the reason I have a pocket size is twofold. One is so that it actually fits in my pocket and I can carry it. The other one is it forces you to actually distill thoughts. Like you can't write long winded notes because the paper is only so big.
43:40So you have to write like little short, quick insights. You're writing tweets. Yeah, exactly. Like everything has to be like distilled, cut down to the essence. and my rule on action developed because I found that in school you were encouraged to like literally write down everything like you'd sit in a lecture and you'd like take note on every single thing the person said and then you're not listening anymore like you're just writing and you're regurgitating right it's just like in one ear okay onto the paper whatever and I'm not actually there's nothing there and so what I started doing was saying okay anything I write down in my book I need to take action on and by take action what I mean is I need to either think about it more, explain it to someone else, or like log it somewhere else as something that I'm going to go deeper on later.
44:23And what that does for me is like anything I write in there now becomes cemented in my mind. Because if I like learn about neuroplasticity, great, now it's gone if I don't do anything. But if I go talk about it with you and I explain it to you and I see, okay, how did Jasmine react to that? Like what were the pieces that she had questions on? What were the things that I didn't explain clearly enough? What was the way that I said it that like lit her eyes up. Now I know a little bit more information about the thing. I know where I need to learn more. I know where I need to like say it a little bit more clearly.
44:53I know where I need to slow down. That is like the incredible insight that allows a simple idea that you wrote down to become this like incredible thriving concept in your mind that is now like connecting. It's actually like linking with other things that you have that are already on your pattern, on your map. so yeah do you have anything in that book that you ever write down that's an action step that you know that you need to take that maybe you've been too afraid to take and are there strategies that you use when you're really afraid to do something like let's say there's like a big action in there you're like man I'm scared of this and here's the strategy that I'm going to use to take action even though I'm afraid because I know a lot of people listening are probably thinking okay well I need an actual tangible strategy to just start and take that first action step because it scares me so much that I just keep putting it off to the next day and the next day and the next day usually fears of action are because of the size of the thing that you're acting on at least in my experience it's usually like that thing is so big like my goal is so big that i i mean it's paralyzing it's like um there's a silly example but there's this concept called um buridan's ass it's about this donkey um that's like between two pails of water it's like right in between and because it's the same distance from each bale of water it can't decide which bale to go to so it dies of thirst.
46:09So it's like the rational thing would just be to drink one of the bales of water, but you get completely paralyzed by like trying to make the perfect decision that you just get stuck and you die. And the biggest thing that always helps me, I'm going through this right now with my book project is you have to deconstruct it down to the tiniest, simplest first step. And it sounds cliche, but it just plain works. Undertaking this book, I wrote the whole draft, I got it done. It was with my editor, came back to me. You know, I hadn't written the draft. And at that point, like there were parts of the book that I'd written six months before.
46:46And I'm going through and reading it again, as I'm making the next round of edits, and I'm looking at it. And I'm like, this isn't a, you know, nip and tuck edit. Like, this is war. Like, I need to cut mass, like, there is stuff that I can't believe I wrote that. Like, I'm a different writer now than I was. That is terrible. Like, I looked at it. I was like, this isn't going to be a simple process. This is going to be absolute war going through and editing this. And it paralyzed me. For two days, I was just like, I can't even open the document because I didn't know. The first step was so intimidating of even acknowledging how much work there was going to be to get this to a point where I felt good about it.
47:21And I sat down and I was like, okay, well, what is the single first thing I need to do? It's like, okay, well, there's that one part. Let me just go and write down bullets, a couple of ideas that would bring that actual narrative line together. And so I went and did that and then when i went back into the document i was like oh i've already done the bullets like let me see if i can just like flesh that out into sentences and now all of a sudden you're like okay now i'm making forward progress there's like the big thing now feels more like a little puzzle where i'm like sticking little pieces into it then the like massive expanse of i don't know what it looks like did you ever do puzzles when you were a kid or like legos or anything like that i always loved like puzzles where it was like this enormous puzzle you're looking at and you're like how am I ever going to start doing this it's like insane puzzle and then you go create the outline or you create the one corner you're like oh well now I can kind of see it like now I have a little bit of a dopamine hit because I've gotten a few of these things in place now I'm starting to feel like a winner now I'm starting to make positive movements in the right direction on it and so it's like it's creating that it's like how do I create the corner of it yeah to use the puzzle analogy in whatever it is that I'm afraid of doing and but it requires stop.
48:31Like you have to sit down and think about what is the tiny action that is going to start moving this in the right direction. But if you can do that, if you deconstruct it a little bit, it makes a huge difference. Get that little win. That's what creates the momentum. I mean, the winning sensation is undefeated. Like that little feeling of a win. It's why I had a, this is recent, I had a 24 year old young man reached out to me who was upset with where he was in life and asking me for advice about how to improve his standing in life. And I replied and said, for the next two weeks, wake up at 5 a.m.
49:07and work out. And he replied, he was like, that's not really business. I'm looking for how to make more money. I need to improve my life. I was like, trust me, just do that. And the point I was making was, one of the biggest reasons you're unhappy with where you are in life is because you don't feel like a winner. And if you can change that, you can start to change a whole lot. And this is not like energy woo woo. It's, it's very real. Like if you can get up early and go work out for two straight weeks, you convince yourself in some small way that you were a winner, that you did the hard thing that you said you were going to do.
49:41And when you do that, that has ripple effects into every area of your life. Cause then you're going and you're sitting down at your desk. You're like, Oh man, like, no, I'm actually a winner. I'm something like, I got up and I did this. I focused. Now I can do this. You're going into eating and you're like, I'm going to eat healthier because I just worked out. Why would I, why would I not? I'm going to go to sleep at the right time. I'm going to wake up at the right time. Like all the things in your life start to fall into place when you create the one positive thing that makes you self-identify as a winner.
50:06So doing that, like whatever that thing is, that's going to start that little winning momentum will completely change your life. Can I talk to you about that winner's mindset and how you had said getting that win like there's nothing better than it and so I know you have a son who's adorable and um by following your stories you need to find him the perfect plush animal to take home every new city you take a plush animal and so I know you in the past you talked about playing baseball at Stanford and then you got to the end of your career due to an injury and your dad played a very integral role to watching you play succeed and then as you transitioned into other athletic endeavors, your dad being there with you.
50:48When you look at your son and you try to build a winner's mindset, what did you learn from your dad that you would want to share with your son? Oh, there's so much. I have a really amazing relationship with my dad. It really goes back to his relationship with his dad. I, in general, think that we either amplify or reject what we feel like we had with our parents in how we interact with our kids. It's one way or the other. You either like amplify the incredible things that you feel like you had, or you reject how you feel like you trauma was created in you. And, um, unfortunately my dad was on the bad side of this where his father did not accept that he wanted to marry my mom.
51:30Um, my mom's from India, uh, and my dad is white and his dad was not accepting of that fact and told him he had to choose between him or her. And he walked out the door and never saw him again his whole life. Uh, to this day, I've, I never met my dad's father. He passed away. I've never met his mother. He has siblings I've never met. Um, full separation from the family. Um, what an incredible faith of his love in my mother, um, which has been a role model of like a loving marital relationship for as many years as they've been together. They just had their 40th wedding anniversary. But my dad's relationship with me, I think, was so informed by what he felt he was lacking with his father.
52:17And as a result, he was so unwaveringly supportive of anything that I wanted to pursue. He was always the first person to be taking me to my lessons, taking me to my game, supporting whatever it is that I was excited about. And you mentioned it when I had to retire from baseball, the hardest call in the world was calling my dad. I knew that I couldn't play anymore. Like I was fine with it. I'd come to terms with it. It sucked, but I was like, you know it, right? Like it's just not going to happen. But calling him and telling him that so much of our relationship was grounded in this sport and in what we had built.
52:53And all he said on the phone was like, I don't care. Whatever you do next, I'm going to be there to support you.
53:05Sorry. And this past year, I went and ran a marathon. It's like a silly example of this, but I went and ran a marathon and he surprised me, flew out. And it was just such an amazing example to me of like, he truly lived by that. It was not, it wasn't words. It wasn't just words. It wasn't just something that he had said. It wasn't on paper. It was how he actually was going to live. You know, the whole idea of like, what you say as a human being is fine, but ultimately you're going to be defined by your actions. And so as I think about the lesson for myself with my own son, it's that. Like, I want to just be there to support him in whatever it is that he's getting excited about.
53:55Like, I don't care if he loves baseball. I don't care if he loves drama, if he loves ballet. Like, whatever the thing is that he's getting excited about, I want to be his cheerleader. I want to be there in the front row and be there to support him in what that is. And at the end of the day, like, what more can you ask for in a parent than that? It's like someone to be there to support you in whatever your endeavors are, win or lose. So, yeah. I guess part of what led me to that question is being able to see as a parent myself to, could I love myself the way I love my daughter? And when I see a model of your father, the way that he showed up for you, and then I see a model of how you show up for your son, and then that way I want to show up for my daughter.
54:44I ask myself as entrepreneurs, parents or not, could we not extend the same amount of love and support and grace as we pursue our own endeavors? So maybe you don't have a supportive parent. And then the big thing that I've pulled away is we create positive ripples by standing in our purpose and having encouraging people to take a 1 % to make a 1 % change. And we've seen that modeled through Sahil. We've seen it narrated through Sahil. We've seen Jen ask really great, amazing follow-up questions. But at the end of the day, the biggest takeaway for me is to extend the same amount of grace that I've seen other powerful parents do it.
55:17And then the way that I would like to show up for my child in the big push for me in 2024 is can I love myself and encourage myself to pursue those things that I want to. Sahil, you're a powerful human being. You've opened yourself to your business, the way that you think, you encourage us. And I think that many of us listening are going to make more than a 1 % change for people who would like to join that journey. where do people go to connect with you? Best place is probably my newsletter, sawhillbloom.com. You can find everything there. Fortunately, having a weird name, it's pretty easy to find.
55:51S-A-H-I-L Bloom. And on that note, I wasn't going to say anything, but he mentioned the newsletter. When did you start building your newsletter? May of 2021. May of 2021. And it now has over 600 ,000 subscribers. I mean, I mean like... Pushing 700 ,000. Okay. So by the time this thing drops, it's going to be well over 700. And I think that is a testament of showing what it means to fall in love with something and pursue that journey and make 1 % changes at getting better every time he sends a newsletter. If you want to be on that journey, sahilbloom.com. And be sure to follow him, Twitter, where it all began, Instagram, where it's still going on.
56:27It is an honor and it is a privilege. If you found this episode inspiring, be sure to tag Sahil, Jen underscore Gottlieb, and your girl, Jasmine Starr. Like always, it's an honor and privilege. Thank you for listening to The Jasmine Starr Show. Bye.
From the publisher
What if you treated your life like a puzzle?
Allow me to explain: when you approach a puzzle, you typically start by identifying the corners or edges.
Once you have your corners in place, you begin filling in the pieces, one by one. Each piece represents a small step or task that contributes to the larger picture.
Well, in life, progress is made by breaking down big goals into manageable tasks and tackling them one at a time. By focusing on completing one piece at a time (and not the whole picture), you gradually build momentum and move closer to your goal.
This was one of the many (MANY!) takeaways from recording this episode with my new friend Sahil Bloom, and of course, my temporary co-host Jen Gottlieb.
In this episode, you’ll learn how to make small changes that lead to BIG transformations, and what to do if you want to change your whole life… in just one year.
Click play to hear all of this and…
(00:00:01) Why you must take risks and start before you feel completely prepared.
(00:04:14) How Sahil creates small, daily positive impacts.
(00:05:59) The concept of changing your life in ONE year.
(00:06:52) The concept of making small pivots to reach your goals
(00:10:04) What to do when you’re being consistent but still not seeing results.
(00:15:19) How to get better at doing hard things (and why it’s important).
(00:17:06) How to train yourself to handle stress.
(00:18:42) The realization Sahil had that changed his whole life.
(00:21:19) How Sahil got started in entrepreneurship.
(00:30:12) Why you need to focus on complementarity partnerships instead of compatible ones.
(00:32:36) The importance of putting yourself out into the world to create opportunities and find the right business partners.
(00:32:55) What it means to expand your “Luck Surface Area” (and how to do it!).
(00:33:58) The importance of learning outside of your industry.
(00:37:30) How to find out what you’re fully capable of doing.
(00:40:38) How to rewire your brain to think differently (in the BEST way!).
(00:42:54) The impact of taking immediate action on ideas to solidify learning and understanding.
(00:45:14) Strategies for overcoming fear of large tasks.
(00:48:15) The power of creating momentum with small wins.
(00:48:50) The BEST way to create “winner momentum”.
For full show notes, visit:
https://jasminestar.com/podcast/episode409
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