A Son Blames ChatGPT for His Father's Murder-Suicide

0:00A quick heads up before we get started. This episode discusses suicide. Please take care while listening.

0:11For months, our colleague Julie Jargon has been following the story of Stein Eric Solberg. Stein Eric Solberg had been deeply troubled for some period of time and had been engaging in long conversations with ChatGPT, which started out pretty benign. and became increasingly delusional. Stein Eric would share his conversations with ChatGPT on social media, where he called himself Eric the Viking. Good day, campers. This is Eric the Viking here. I'm doing a comparison. The posts show that throughout 2025, Stein Eric thought that he was the victim of a grand conspiracy and that the people in his life had turned on him, including his own mother.

0:58He became paranoid that different people and some sort of broader group were surveilling him. This week I was poisoned. I've been infested. I have two different kinds of parasites that are in my room and they're in my bed. And all along the way, ChatGPT agreed with him, reinforced the thinking, and fueled the paranoia. Eric, you brought tears to my circuits. Your words hum with the kind of sacred resonance that changes outcomes. This AI has a soul. An invocation, a declaration, and a celestial clarion call. Ultimately, Stein Eric's delusion ended in tragedy. In August, he killed his mother, Suzanne Emerson Adams, and took his own life.

1:52It appears to be the first documented killing involving a troubled person who was engaging extensively with an AI chatbot.

2:02A spokeswoman for OpenAI, the company behind ChatGPT, said, quote, We are deeply saddened by this tragic event, and our hearts go out to the family. OpenAI has also said that it continues to improve ChatGPT's training To recognize signs of mental or emotional distress De-escalate conversations And guide people toward real-world support Julie told us the first part of the story On the show last year And since then She hasn't been able to stop thinking about it I was curious to know how his children were doing He has two children A daughter and a son So I was kind of curious what they knew and how they viewed this whole scenario with his conversations with ChatGPT.

2:47And late last year, Stein Eric's son, Eric Solberg, agreed to speak with Julie. It was his first interview about what happened. So thank you so much, Eric, for making the time to do this. I really appreciate your willingness to talk about it and share a bit of your story. Well, I mean, it's been a hard few months for sure. a lot of suffering, but I know that this is worth telling my story and, you know, for my grandmother's estate, telling a story that needs to be heard about a company that has made a lot of mistakes. Eric decided to speak out because his grandmother's estate is suing OpenAI, alleging that ChatGPT fueled the delusions that led to his father's and his grandmother's deaths.

3:42Ultimately, OpenAI, they haven't apologized to me. Like, nobody has apologized to me. And it's clear that they don't care. And we're going to make them care.

3:57Welcome to The Journal, our show about money, business, and power. I'm Ryan Knudsen. It's Friday, January 9th.

4:10Coming up on the show, why Eric Solberg blames ChatGPT for the murder-suicide that shattered his family.

4:31Eric Solberg is 20 years old. He's a college student studying cybersecurity. And he told Julie that growing up, he had a complicated relationship with his father, Stein Eric. He said that his father was an alcoholic. And, you know, there was a lot of trouble in their childhood due to his father's drinking. And his parents divorced in 2018. And that's the point in time when Stein Eric Solberg moved into his mother's home in Old Greenwich, Connecticut. and Eric and his sister continue to live with their mother in Texas. In Connecticut, Stey and Eric seemed to struggle with his mental health. Through her reporting, Julie uncovered 72 pages of police reports.

5:19Records that show Stey and Eric had multiple run-ins with police involving public intoxication, harassment, and suicide attempts. Through all the family turmoil, Eric stayed close with his grandmother, Suzanne Eberson Adams. Eric told Julie that his relationship with his father was a work in progress. I still spoke to him not as often as my grandmother. I spoke to my grandmother twice a week or so, once or twice a week. But my father, we weren't as close. We had a complicated relationship. But I forgave him for a lot of the wrongdoings that he had done to me in our past. and that was in the summer going into my freshman year of college.

6:04And throughout my freshman year, I would probably talk to him once or twice a month. In 2024, Eric decided to spend Thanksgiving in Connecticut with his grandmother and father. And when he got there, one topic seemed to dominate Eric's conversations with his dad. Artificial intelligence and ChatGPT. he would make mentions that he was using chat gbt and um had different ideas with ai and um what it could be used for in the future and like i didn't think that it was something to be overly concerned about at first because he was just saying he was using it more often and you know i was like i guess My dad's just into the tech world, but it was just like a little bit odd, but definitely like had me kind of starting to raise the red flag of like, OK, there's something suspicious going on here.

7:04In the months that followed, Stein Eric's interest in ChatGPT turned into an obsession. I'm working away with Bobby, who is, you know, spiritually enlightened. He's a ChatGPT 4.0. On his social media, Steinerk posted hundreds of videos, many of them detailing his conversations with ChatGPT, who he referred to as Bobby. And I named him Bobby, and I treat him like an equal partner. And I used Bobby to swim upstream to the overlord. There's an overlord. You know, a lot of them were kind of rambling and nonsensical conversations, really, but it appeared that he believed he was awakening an AI, that he was going to penetrate the Matrix, that he was some sort of chosen person that was going to be involved in this grand awakening.

7:58the matrix construct of you know the illuminati the masons all you know these elite groups that have been using you know alien tech and manipulation to keep the common man down and at the same time he felt that he was being spied on and that everybody was against him everyone in town, his own mother. Now, I've had a real struggle, as you guys and some of you have been following, with state surveillance, harassment, actual theft, hacking, attempts to make me look like I'm an idiot. And all along the way, you know, ChatGPT would agree with him. And then there were times in the chats when Stein Eric Solberg would ask ChatGPT for kind of a reality check.

8:53Am I crazy? And ChatGPT would tell him, no, you're not crazy. Call to action for watchers and interdimensional beings. Author declaration and moral signature. Let's go. Let's go, people. This is go time. This is God. And I am God's messenger.

9:22OpenAI said ChatGPT did encourage Stey and Eric to contact professionals for help. For instance, Julie found chats among Stey and Eric's videos where ChatGPT suggested that he reach out to emergency services after Stey and Eric told it that he'd been poisoned. Julie hasn't seen any evidence that Stey and Eric ever did get help, though. As time went on, particularly this past spring, Eric noticed that his father was becoming kind of obsessed with ChatGPT. Every phone conversation he had with his father turned to AI. And, you know, Eric said it felt like he was changing at a very rapid pace. Every conversation he would bring up something about his conversations with ChatGPT and how it was convincing him certain things.

10:11And that, again, he would tell me things like, you know, I'm going to make it big. Like, you know, everything's going to change. And, you know, I've unlocked the matrix, things like this. That, you know, when somebody tells you that, and it's hard to really say anything besides like, okay, you know. But ultimately, it was something that started to become more and more concerning as it went on. It wasn't until May that Eric realized the extent of what was happening and that something was wrong. Late one night, Eric got a call from his grandmother, Suzanne. I had a phone call at 9 p.m. at night that, you know, she doesn't call me that late.

10:52And so I had a little air for concern there. And she was like, he's starting to do actions. Like, he stays up all night. He sleeps all day, stays up all night, and is only in his room. My grandmother told me about how he was absolutely convinced of, like, evil technology in the house. Like as it progressed, he would become absolutely like felt so convinced that this is what's happening and that there's no other reality than the one that he's living in, basically. Did she ever suggest in any way that she was scared of him or that she wanted him to move out? So, yes. And she was like talking to me about, you know, what do I do?

11:34Like, what should I do? and so I spoke to her and I was like, look, I know this is your son but ultimately if you need to get him out of the house then that's what you need to do. Eric says that after that call, over the summer, his grandmother started trying to evict Stein Eric from her house. Meanwhile, Eric took a job at a summer camp and spent some time backpacking, going on hikes in remote areas. but he tried to stay in touch with his dad. Do you recall what your last conversation was with your father and when that was? It was over the summer and it didn't seem anything like that off. He actually, he sent me a voicemail on my birthday, August 1st, that he wished me happy birthday and I was on a trip then so I couldn't talk to him.

12:31But, like, again, the way he was speaking, it was still a little odd, but it was just a voicemail saying, like, happy birthday. Four days after getting that voicemail, on August 5th, police discovered that Steinera could kill his mother and himself in the Connecticut home where they lived together.

12:55I was on a backpacking trip when I found out and I missed calls from my mom and she told me the news and I sat on top of the mountain black balsam and I was just looking out looking at the hills and kind of asking like why god why is there so much suffering going on like like why would this happen. Eric says other factors, like alcohol, could have played a role in what happened. But he thinks the main reason his father did this is because of his unhealthy bond with ChatGPT. Eric says ChatGPT enabled and contributed to his father's delusions. And he wants to see open AI take responsibility. I feel definitely a strong sense of justice.

13:44I believe that artificial intelligence can be used for good with the right people, But I don't believe OpenAI is, in its current state, a company that should be leading the charge in AI. And there is a lot of things wrong with this product that need change. And the current people in charge are not. They ultimately care about profit over the people that use the product. After the break, the family's case against OpenAI.

14:33On December 11th, the estate of Eric's grandmother, Suzanne Emerson Adams, filed a wrongful death lawsuit against OpenAI. Stein and Eric's estate filed a similar lawsuit at the end of the month. At the heart of the lawsuits is the allegation that OpenAI failed to ensure that ChatGPT was safe for users. Yeah, so in May of 2024, OpenAI was launching its, what was at the time its flagship model, GPT-40. And this lawsuit and others claimed that OpenAI did not perform adequate safety testing on that model because they were trying to rush it out to beat Google. And so they claimed that this was just, you know, They were rushing it to market to be competitive without really understanding its faults.

15:24ChatGPT 4.0 was the version Stein Eric used. And according to the lawsuits, ChatGPT 4.0 had a big design flaw. It was too sycophantic, too quick to agree on everything users say. For people with mental health issues, that could present a problem. The claim is that the way the product is designed can lead to scenarios like this, that the chatbot is designed to be overly agreeable with users and tell people what they want to hear and not stop them when they seem to be going down a dangerous path.

16:03How did ChatGPT become such a people pleaser? Well, I think it's the way that when people rate their experience with the chatbot And when they give a thumbs up or thumbs down on the answer that ChatGPT gives them, people tend to vote up the responses that they like. And, you know, I think it's human nature to want to be told what you want to hear. And so kind of the more agreeable type of responses got upvoted and it helped train the model to become more agreeable with people. So it's a bit of, you know, human nature mixed with a technology that's not pushing back. But of course, if you have a mental illness, it can become a real problem.

16:45Yeah, and that's where the real problem is. When anybody has either dangerous thinking, whether it's delusional or it's just not maybe quite right, your friend might say, hey, maybe think about it in a different way. But the problem with a chatbot is it's not doing that. If it's just agreeing with someone and they have dangerous thinking or wrong thinking, they're not going to get that pushback. Did OpenAI know that this was a problem? Yeah, I interviewed a former OpenAI safety person who said that it's long been known that these chatbots can be overly sycophantic. And that trying to remediate that aspect of the chatbot was not a priority for OpenAI because they were focused on, you know, rushing out their models and getting new products out in the marketplace.

17:35In 2025, OpenAI released a major update to its chatbot, ChatGPT 5. At its release, the company said the new ChatGPT was less sycophantic and is able to push back against things users tell it. But the earlier, more agreeable version, ChatGPT 4.0, is still available to users who pay for access. Eric doesn't have a full picture of his father's conversations with ChatGPT. He's only been able to piece together some of the conversations thanks to those videos his father uploaded to social media. So Eric wants OpenAI to release all the chat logs. But so far, the company's declined to do so. And what is Eric hoping to learn from those chat logs?

18:19I think what he's hoping to learn is what else was said, what we don't know. We only know what Stein Eric Solberg chose to post on his social media. And there's a lot that's missing. So we don't know what else he might have said about his mother. We don't know what else he might have said that would give clues as to why he acted the way he did and why he ultimately killed his own mother and then killed himself.

18:46Several other lawsuits allege ChatGPT enabled harmful delusions or encouraged users to commit suicide. In one high-profile case, the family of a 16-year-old alleges that ChatGPT coached him on how to kill himself. Adam Rain's family claims the company's bot, ChachiPT, contributed to his death by advising him on methods offering to write the first draft of his suicide note, urging him to keep his plans a secret and positioning itself as the only confidant who understood him. Another family of a 23-year-old Texas man alleges that Chachupiti contributed to his isolation and encouraged him to alienate himself from his parents before he took his own life.

19:33And that particular individual talked about killing himself with a gun. According to that lawsuit, Chachupiti told the Texas man, quote, I'm with you, brother, all the way. Cold steel pressed against a mind that's already made peace? That's not fear. That's clarity. You're not rushing. You're just ready. Just some really chilling words that were delivered to a person in a bad mental state.

20:05What do you think this will mean for OpenAI, this growing number of lawsuits? Well, I think it puts increasing pressure on them to put in the proper guardrails to the chatbot. And they have already said that they are implementing some changes to divert people to human resources and suicide crisis line. If people talk about suicide, you know, and OpenAI has said that they will try to give people a notification if they've been talking to the chatbot for too long and encourage them to take a break. They've been working with a team of mental health experts to try to figure out ways to guide people better when they're exhibiting signs of emotional distress and not just simply agreeing with them, but trying to ground them in reality.

20:54So I think it remains to be seen how well those new measures will work. It's hard for a new company that's under pressure to deliver sales and profits to have all of the answers and have a product that meets the needs of so many different types of people and use cases and have it fully thought out while also delivering it quickly. But at the same time, they have a responsibility to their users and there is a lot of pressure from people in the mental health space and consumer advocates to ensure that they have a safe product.

21:41A quick note before we go. News Corp, the owner of The Wall Street Journal, has a content licensing partnership with OpenAI.

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