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Podcast Episode Notes: Brain Surgeon Reveals the Purpose of Dreams & What They Truly Mean! | Dr. Rahul Jandial
Overview In this episode of *The School of Greatness*, host Lewis Howes interviews Dr. Rahul Jandial, a dual-trained neurosurgeon and neuroscientist, about the fascinating world of dreams. Dr. Jandial shares insights from his book, *This Is Why You Dream*, exploring the significance of dreams, their impact on our waking life, and the mystical workings of the mind during sleep.
Key Takeaways
- Understanding the Purpose of Dreams
- Dreams are a fundamental aspect of the human mind and serve important psychological functions.
- Dr. Jandial believes that we sleep primarily to dream, as dreaming contributes to cognitive flexibility and emotional regulation.
- Types of Dreams
- Lucid Dreams: Dreams where the individual is aware they are dreaming and can often control the dream's narrative.
- Nightmares: Universal experiences that can indicate underlying emotional distress or trauma.
- Erotic Dreams: Common among adolescents; they can represent the development and exploration of sexual desire.
- How Dreams Relate to Waking Life
- Dreams can reflect our daily worries, goals, and desires. For example, dreams about missing a flight may manifest from anxieties about punctuality.
- Waking life experiences can influence dream content, as noted with the introduction of color television affecting dream reports.
- Science Behind Dreaming
- The brain is never truly "off"; even during sleep, it remains active in complex ways.
- Brain scans reveal that during REM sleep (the dreaming phase), certain brain regions responsible for logic are dampened, allowing for more imaginative and emotional thinking.
- The pineal gland, often referred to in mystical contexts, does not play a significant role in the dreaming process as per Dr. Jandial's clinical observations.
Discussion Points
- Impact of Sleep on Creativity
- Dr. Jandial discusses how the dreaming state can contribute to creative thought, suggesting that individuals can use dreams to innovate and problem-solve.
- The transition from sleep to wakefulness (sleep exit) can be leveraged for idea generation and personal insight.
- Nightmares and Their Role
- Nightmares may serve as tools for emotional processing, allowing individuals to confront fears in a safe setting.
- Educating children about nightmares can help them differentiate between dreams and reality, fostering emotional resilience.
- Memory and Dreaming
- The process of remembering dreams links to various memory types, emphasizing the importance of self-examination in understanding their meanings.
Strategies for Engaging with Dreams
- Dream Journaling: Writing down dreams can enhance recall and provide insights into one's emotional and psychological state.
- Waking Up Naturally: Allowing oneself to wake naturally rather than abruptly with an alarm can help retain dream content and promote a more gradual transition to waking consciousness.
Conclusion Dr. Jandial's insights underscore the importance of dreams in understanding the intricacies of the human mind. By exploring dreams, individuals can unlock deeper aspects of themselves, leading to greater emotional awareness and personal growth.
Further Resources
- Book: [This Is Why You Dream: What Your Sleeping Brain Reveals About Your Waking Life](https://www.amazon.com/This-Why-You-Dream-Sleeping/dp/B0CDQKB8DF#:~:text=This%20Is%20Why%20You%20Dream%20explores%20the%20landscape%20of%20our,our%20ability%20to%20regulate%20emotions.)
- Website: [Lewis Howes](http://www.lewishowes.com/1603)
Next Steps For those intrigued by the topics discussed, consider exploring Dr. Jandial's book and engaging in practices that encourage dream recall and interpretation.
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Transcript
Automatic transcript. May contain errors.0:00The ultimate gift of the human mind, I think, is dreaming. Love and all those things, yes, but the process of dreaming. Now I'm going to be bold here. This is a conversation. I think we sleep because we must do. He is a dual-trained neurosurgeon who has both an MD and PhD, and he's based out of the world-famous City of Hope Hospital here in Los Angeles. He's a researcher and author of 10 books and countless academic papers on the brain. Dr. Rahul Jandah. Why, after dozens of years of doing brain surgeries, Being a PhD in neuroscience and understanding the mind, did you want to dive into understanding dreams?
0:36I mean, you've put it right where it needs to be. This is a big topic. When Color TV showed up, the dream reports of thousands of people being asked, woken up in their sleep, what are you dreaming about? The dream started to be more in color. I've woken up, but not been able to move or speak. Yeah. And I feel like I'm screaming, but nothing's coming out. Yeah. What is that? Sleep paralysis. What you describe about... This is great. Just give me a minute to take this one, because this one I got a lot of science. What the... Do you think our dreams have meaning in our waking life? Well, that's the massive question, right?
1:09So that's the... What I would say is... Welcome back, everyone, to the School of Greatness. Very excited about our guest. We have the inspiring Dr. Rahul John Diao in the house. Good to see you, man. Welcome back. My pleasure. The last interview we did blew up. People were fascinated by it. You are a neuroscientist who studies the mind, but also a brain surgeon who has been helping remove cancer for dozens of years to over thousands of patients. And so you studied the material brain, but also the spiritual side of the brain as well, the mind, let's say. Yeah. And you're an expert in both. And the last interview we did, we talked about many different things around these topics.
1:54but you have a new book called This Is Why You Dream, What Your Sleeping Brain Reveals About Your Waking Life. And this is interesting because we were talking before that there's not really anyone who is a scientist of dreams out in the world yet, except for you're starting this path. You're starting to talk about the neuroscience of dreaming, which I think is fascinating because you told me about a third of the time we don't remember what we're doing in our lives. A third of the time we're asleep and a lot of us don't remember our dreams. We don't understand our dreams. They don't make sense to us.
2:30We have nightmares. We have erotic dreams. We have inspiring dreams. We have dreams where you feel like we're falling or dreams where you feel like we're about to die and then we wake up in a shock. We have all these weird moments. Sometimes we remember and we overemphasize what the dream was, but it really didn't happen. And then other times we have no clue what happened in our dreams. And so why, after dozens of years of doing brain surgeries, being a PhD in neuroscience and understanding the mind, did you want to dive into understanding dreams? I mean, you've put it right where it needs to be.
3:08This is a big topic. There's a reason people haven't been tackling it because it's like trying to grab a cloud or like trying to hold on to something That's just like we all know what it is. We know what dreams are We all have had dreams I don't have to explain to you what a nightmare is. You know what it is. I know what it is We don't talk about it We can't really wrap our minds around it, but it's something we all experience is something we all undergo so your question about Why did I want to? Write a book on dreams What I would tell you is I was asked to write this book So the way I've, my journey that's ended up here, a lot of it is, you know, I have sons.
3:45I have three, as we were talking about, they're 18, 19, and 22. I've taken care of thousands of cancer patients. I've done surgery in South America. These experiences are also part of my resume. Now, I happen to have a PhD in neuroscience, and I'm a neurosurgeon, but there are other neuroscientists, there are other neurosurgeons. I believe and in this conversation when you see me hear me say I believe or I wonder or could it be it's out of respect for you and your listeners because you you don't want anybody come in on this topic and think aha I got it all figured out one two three no it's an exploration I'm looking at fragments and pieces across broad scientific things I'm bringing my own stories into my own experiences and I'm saying look look at these little they're almost like fireflies these little glimpses of knowledge that we now have or that 3 000 years ago they were talking about lucid dreaming they being Aristotle like what is the consistent pattern uh not not my dream not your dream but what if we look at 10 000 dreams do we start to see some pattern we do then we'll get into that.
4:58Nightmares and erotic dreams are essentially universal. Falling dreams and teeth falling out have happened for hundreds of years across cultures. Like when you went from carriages to cars to electric vehicles to television, those dreaming patterns are consistent. So the first thing I thought, wait, wait a second, they're being driven by the brain. Then when Technicolor came in, dream reports, people cataloging what dreams are going on, right? That's where I'm studying is like, what dreams happen most commonly? What dreams don't happen at all? So two things popped into my mind. I was looking at this and saying, when color TV showed up, the dream reports of thousands of people being asked and woken up in their sleep, what are you dreaming about?
5:43The dream started to be more in color. So clearly waking life fed dreaming life. And then the other thing I noticed was rarely did they report math in dreams. Yeah, I don't think I'm going to have a math dream. Thank God. That doesn't sound fun. But most people, we look at 10 ,000 dreams, everybody's had a nightmare, nearly everyone. In science, when I say everybody, I don't mean 100%. It's like above 90-ish, it gets to be essentially universal nightmares and erotic dreams. Very few, lots of emotional dreams, lots of visual dreams, a lot of movement dreams, and we'll get into that. But very few math dreams, right like very few people said and even the scientists I say I came up with the idea of dreaming it's a visual thing like the snake eating itself or two comets moving apart and what I realize now that those you know what we dream and now in the last 20-30 years we could have brain scans that's a that's a simple word but we're going to dissect that in this conversation like the metabolism how much glucose your brain is using where is that glucose being used what's the electricity.
6:49So when I say brain scan, there's a lot of different ways of scanning brain information. The brain scans at night in a machine with people sleeping, with people dreaming, they were notably dampened. Not off. Let's change all of this. There's no part of your brain that's off. Otherwise it'd be a stroke. That part would die. But everything in the brain is a modulation. it's always like 51 49 nothing is ever on or off it's not a switch there's blood flow always going everywhere okay if a branch is blocked then you have a stroke what happens is the executive network in the prefrontal cortex just the part of the brain behind the forehead the part that does reason and logic and math it's it's 49 it's 48 during that right now it's probably 51 52 but it's dampened at night and so dampening the executive network in our dreams allows for them to be illogical allows them for be wild in my opinion and also explains why you're not doing math because that's needed for math interesting so that i just it took my breath away i was like wait a second so some patterns of dreaming from thousands of dreams can be explained by some patterns of the dreaming brain.
8:08And that was the idea in my head. And my publisher in London, Penguin UK, we were talking about doing a different book. That's going to be the next one, hopefully. But she said, we need, and I think she meant the publishing world and readers and people in general. They put out books that are like French fries. I love French fries. But they also want to put out some stuff like, look, this is an important book. We need a book about dreams explained about the science of it, the story of it, a love letter to dreams. Because there is no dream scientist. It's not a field. I'm a neuroscientist with live experiences trying to put together brain scans dream reports uh neurons in a petri dish to to put together a story of what i think is happening in dreams and dreaming wow that's how this started wow and it's just once that happened has been an ignition in my mind for about 18 months so there's been a there have been reports on lots of different dreams right there's been like people documenting their dreams yeah and there's there's studies around that great question first of all again not my dream or your dream but there are great dream banks uh-huh uh people for decades have uh woken people up in sleep labs they put an electrode on to make sure they're sleeping they say hey wake up what are you dreaming about and they write it down yeah so that that world's been happening okay that's where i'm getting like the uh you know a certain percentage report dreams of falling certain percentage dreams of uh you know uh being chased a certain percentage of math really that's sound very low yeah everybody nightmares everybody's sexual erotic dreams okay so that pattern is not mine right it's what other people methodically have been cataloging by people either sending in writing journaling uh or sleep labs being you know woken up and that that's where i'm getting those patterns do you think our dreams have meaning in our waking life well that is the that's the massive question right so that's the that's the um um what i would say is let's go backwards a little my answer is yes but but to be able to share with you how to go by go about extracting that meaning yes one is going to be individual i i can't tell you what your dreams are about and you can't tell me what my dreams are about So it's a process of self-examination.
10:49Yes, dreams have meaning. Not all dreams, right? Not all awakening thoughts are fresh or important or worth holding on to. But let's get to that is do dreams have meaning? But with your permission, let's equip people with what is happening in the dreaming brain. Yes. And then what different dreams mean. So then they have a playbook at the end. yeah and what I would say is the dreaming brain is this was the essential question is okay so you got all the dream patterns right so we got what we dream you're looking at what people catalog to make sense of why we dream that's your essential question that we get to and then there's this like this this thing like like the dreaming brain and the waking brain right And I believe these big ideas are applicable to everybody like getting groceries, frustrated.
11:49Why am I stressed out? Why am I overreacting? Like all the things for living a better waking life, you can't separate them from that third of your life you spend sleeping and potentially dreaming, right? So I go way back to try to understand this and to make sense of it for myself. and and i think you'll find there's there's science and there's stories but there's synthesis so first thing is all life is is governed by the rotation of the planet let's just start with square one like yeah let's just get to the basic here like like whether it's like those hot springs deep in the ocean and there's some bacteria there or a venus fly trap that opens and closes or the moon and the tides or sleep, right?
12:38Like this is governed because that was the foundation on which life arose, right? And when you look at that, what I would say is the material, the living material on planet Earth follows that, whether it's the tide or the plankton or fish or, you know, all migration, but also the material in our brain really like there's nothing in our skull that if you pieced it out there's no special ingredient like from krypton or something everything in nature is also everything inside our skull in these brains right that's connected differently it's functioning differently but that was like the first thing that really tripped me out i was like we too follow the laws, fundamental laws of Earth's rotation, these circadian rhythms you're hearing about and cycles and seasons.
13:34And that was the first time I said, okay, so the brain is, the brain is, the waking brain and the sleeping brain are doing a 24-hour cycle for as long as the run you have on this planet. That's the first thing. That cycle, it actually, you know, There was like, I love this topic, by the way. There were like people who go into canes for like six months. It's still in a cycle. Like it's not based just on dark blackout shades or not. Like we, the tissue in our bodies, the cells, we're following this earth's rotation. Okay. So if we say that there's the waking brain and the sleeping brain and every 24 hours it does its things.
14:19Two-third waking, one-third sleeping. and that happens for the most part, you know, for how long you live. Now, a surgeon in training, I might skip a few nights. So maybe I've had 500 or 1 ,000 nights, but overwhelmingly I follow this cycle too. And in that cycle, we have to ask ourselves, well, what's going on in the dreaming brain? And right away I'll tell you, it's so important there's something called sleep pressure. You could defy a lot of things, but you go a day without sleeping, there's something building inside you saying sleep, sleep, sleep. You'll fall asleep in a dangerous spot. You'll fall asleep standing up sometimes.
15:02You'll fall asleep even though you haven't eaten. There's something fundamental called sleep pressure that makes us follow that rhythm, right? Your body will force you to sleep eventually. Well, I would say your brain. Your brain just shuts off. It builds a pressure. you can startle people and they'll wake up but at some point there's this pressure that's bringing you down to sleep really? you see that, I think torture techniques were based off of that, we saw that nobody could stay up a third night in the hospital they tried to get us to a long time ago, the battle day really? yeah, but second night you could do third night, so there's a sleep pressure that the brain generates not the body, the brain just to give you just examples like we were talking about regular examples, we're not trying to get we'll bring the science in but the the complexity is in the um in the concept i can we can put hearts from one to another livers from one to another lungs from one to another uh they all follow the that person's brains order so really what we're talking about is the brain is saying i need to sleep brain thing i need to sleep brain is saying okay there's some threat going on or you've got some some demands you're running an ultra marathon you're a surgeon on call i can go a day, but I need to sleep.
16:17So that's the first thing in this discussion is, why do we need to sleep? Now I'm going to be bold here. This is a conversation. I think we sleep because we must dream. Now let me just set that up for you. Wow. What happens when you go without sleep, you have surges in REM and dreaming sleep right away. First thing you do when you've gone a day without sleep if you put that person in a brain scan but there's exquisite ways of checking it is that they didn't first thing they do is they dream wildly right like so that's that's an interesting thing to me the longer we go in our night of rest quote restful sleep the more you're dreaming on the tail end right so maybe mental clarity if we take that phrase comes from having that longer night's sleep.
17:10Well, what happens in that fifth, sixth, and seventh hour? You're dreaming more. So when I start to see these patterns, I wonder, one, the brain, not the body, needs to sleep. And then what is the brain doing in sleep? I just checked this out, man. It's doing something that if you put electrodes on the surface of our scalps and we all fall asleep At night, during the day, the waves, the measurements are sort of wavy. There's different ones depending on how you're engaging. At night, there are some sharp 90-minute patterns. Run, run, run, run, run, run, run, run. That stuff is designed. That's built in.
17:56Really? Yeah. So that's not new. We don't have that when we're awake. No. If something startles us, the electricity will be different. if we meditate the electricity will be different during waking but at night you're all you're on something program then that's not new lewis that's the stuff that i we i've known for 20 years and sleep people know for 40 years what i'm trying to do is give you an explanation a synthesis that's not random that's not a glitch seven billion brains on a 24-hour cycle sleep pressure you've got to lie down, you've got to sleep. The brain is saying you've got to sleep.
18:35And when it's sleeping, it's doing this. 90 crisp cycles, REM sleep. You've seen the charts. They look like the top of a Tetris thing or a Lego thing. That is something fundamental that's happening, in my opinion. And so that's why I think we must sleep. But I think what's The most important part of sleep is the dreaming. My kidney and my liver don't need to sleep. You can take part of the liver from a mom and put it in the child. It's no longer connected, the transplanted liver, to the web of nerves. Liver's fine. Lungs are fine moving between humans. Wow. Right? So what I'm trying to point out there is that it's the brain that's running the show.
19:23It's on the earthly pattern. it wants to sleep and in that sleep what is it doing it's dreaming the brain in my opinion with respect and humility the brain needs to dream the the sleep is so that the brain can dream and stay fine-tuned and stay fully adapted and stay fully enriched in all the corners of its mind without just the boring boring part of our day right if the brain only did what we did driving the 101 or doing this, which is fantastic, but it would become rigid, right? It would become like an arm that's never stretched past a certain distance, right? You get a contracture. Well, the brain tissue, my opinion, that dreaming is the brain's way.
20:09Now, the people have other ideas, like it's threat training or it's a nighttime therapist. I get that, and I think in some capacity, but at the most fundamental level, it's like high-intensity training for your mind. At night, it just goes wild to make sure all those capacities and resources, imaginations, if you will, are accessible to you if you needed them during the day, if the environment or evolution needed it. So that's the big explanation about what's happening when we sleep. We're dreaming. Dreaming is important. It's metabolically active. It's us at risk. And even if you are in danger, your brain will force you to lie down so it can sleep to dream.
20:53That's how fundamental I think dreams are. Now, what if people, that's powerful. I'm glad you shared that. And what if people are listening or watching say, well, I can't remember any of my dreams and I don't think I dream at all because I can't remember them. So what's wrong with me? And should I be worried if I don't have dreams? Well, I would say the genius is built in. So that's happening whether you want it or not. And the essential question of, I've had people ask me that, like, well, if I don't remember my dreams, is it useful? I mean, what is it? Well, if you're not remembering them, so let me take that one apart a little bit.
21:28Here's my thinking on it. We'll bring in imagination and even sports visualization to try to understand that. And we'll bring in something called autobiographical memory. So let's start with memory first, okay? It's not what you're seeing on TV or like, you know, remembering names or addresses. I like my iPhone. I don't remember phone number again, you know. Like there's that kind of memory. Then there's procedural memory, like riding a bike, tying your shoelaces. Then there's episodic memory, remembering episodes of your life, right? So we have lots of different shades and types of memory. and the one that connects me to the fact that I was here with you maybe about two years ago is something called autobiographical memory.
22:18When I, I have gone through so many different things in so many different countries and places, but I feel as if I have been the, I've inhabited and lived through all of those experiences. Think about that, right? What's the thing that stitches all my life together? That's a type of memory. It's called autobiographical memory and and so I think by design by and importance it it's to some rare cases it's to away avoid waking and dream confusion so it has this wild run at night but when you wake up and we'll talk about that transition like this the transition between a dreaming brain and waking brain.
23:06It's not a hard line. It's a little, it can be fuzzy in the morning. And that's why some people report sleep paralysis and goblins and weird stuff. But the autobiographical memory has to come back into command because that's what stitches our waking life together. That's what's get food, get to work, get on the subway. So the autobiographical memory takes over every morning when we wake up. and for it, I think for us to stay, to not be confused about what reality is because we had such a wild ride, the memory is designed to have dreaming fade to the background. And so I think it's happening, electrically it's happening and what we're catching are a few glimpses of it bleeding into our waking brain and say, oof, last night, what was going on in my head?
23:57Right. Those are the glimpses and the flares of the dreaming brain bleeding into the waking life. Those are the ones that we want to pay attention to. So that's the way I'm thinking about dreaming and trying to explain it too. Okay, there's so many questions I want to ask here. Let's do it. There's different types of dreams. There's nightmares. There's erotic dreams. There's weird, crazy dreams. There's sleep paralysis. And I think I know what that is because I think I've had that a few different times. So I'd love to start there because this is something I can relate to where I've woken up but not been able to move or speak.
24:35Yeah. And I feel like I'm screaming but nothing's coming out. Yeah. What is that? That's terrifying. I know, right? But you're asking me to tackle giants of mystery. Tell me everything what it is. In one afternoon, you know. But again, with humility, if you hold on to the concept, if you just say, look, that was, we don't have to do a study, but I get what he's saying. We're on planet Earth. We clearly have to sleep, right? Our brain, I believe him. Our brain is the thing that needs to sleep. And now what he's saying is that, hey, check this out. While you're sleeping, you're dreaming. whether you remember none of it a little of it or some of it you're dreaming okay if we if we if we hold on to that and then always come back to like if one person later on is like huh i am a cycle of waking brain dreaming brain just if you just walk away one thing like you're waking brain dreaming brain 24 hours waking times whatever life is waking brain and just to ask yourself is this contribution to my thinking to my emotion from the waking brain or the dreaming brain or or somewhere where it where blends so when you uh sleep paralysis um a third of people have experienced it i haven't but when i wrote i started writing about sleep paralysis, what you describe about, this is great, just give me a minute to take this one, because this one I got a lot of science.
26:19What the dreaming brain also does is not just hyper-emotional and hyper-visual and dampened logic, right? That we opened with hyper-emotional, hyper visual dampened logic okay so that's there what it also does is it locks down your body so you're temporarily paralyzed right there's some exceptions or reflexes or sleepwalking but in general you're temporarily paralyzed so the dreaming brain can let loose be emotional be wild and in the morning that paralysis has to come off interesting like that's an that we can all agree on, right? That's the dreaming brain and the waking brain. When there is a mismatch of you waking your dreaming brain, the mind is coming to, but the chemicals that have locked down your body, right?
27:18The chemical paralysis is still there. People will wake up locked in their body. That's kind of what you're describing. And then on top of that, they start describing goblins and monsters and different things, lurking intruders. I've never experienced that. I've never experienced that either. But that's described so much so that if you go to Italy, you go to Africa, you go to other places, they all have a similar story of being locked in the body and having a threatening presence in the room and sometimes a feeling of suffocation. Wow. That grouping is something humans experience and something cultures have come up with their own stories about.
27:56So if people want to look it up, it's like succubus, the incubus and succubus come from that. And it's a famous painting with a goblin on top of a woman who's asleep. What I want people to go is, ah, I see. That sleep paralysis that Lewis brought up was because the dreaming brain and the waking brain, they don't just snap to the next phase. Sometimes they bleed into each other. And that's called sleep exit. That little window is called sleep exit sleep entry is a fascinating one too but sleep exit i've almost i've had it a couple times at night like in the beginning of sleeping also where i've like fallen asleep but like 30 minutes later i've like woken up it's almost i'm not asleep yet that's my favorite time i am for a minute and so my fiance says i mean this is just from her uh theories but she says you know that's you entering a lucid dreaming like allowing that to happen allowing up sleep paralysis to happen because you're half awake, half asleep.
28:50And if you stay there and you don't freak out and scream, like try to scream, you could actually enter. She says that's what happens for her and she enters the most incredible lucid dreams that are vivid in memories for her. She's not wrong. And so it's more of just like surrendering to, I can't move. So she's not wrong. But again, so, you know, people are like, what are they talking about? If you just, if you keep this conversation on the framework of dreaming brain, and dreaming brain and waking brain, then you know where the explanations land. So what you're talking about is the waking brain entering the sleeping brain.
29:31The sleep world, yeah. Yeah. Very good. And that, again, doesn't happen like in a millisecond. Like a switch. You don't blink your eyes and go into that mode. It bleeds. And I remember this, how do I explain? I was diving away. I don't do it anymore, but I was diving in the caverns like the Yucatan and where the freshwater meets the ocean water. Oh, it's crazy. There's like four feet where it's like blurry. And I was like, yeah, it's not going to go from freshwater river to ocean and like, what, like a hair? Yeah, right. There's a period of overlap. Interesting. And so if you hold on to that, your waking brain is starting to enter your dreaming, your sleeping brain.
30:11That window, there's a word for it. It's called hypnagogic and hypnopompic. Forget about that. I like because I want to have a conversation sleep entry sleep entry is also a 15 20 minute period where you can kind of be in these liminal spaces where you're you're like I'm remembering a lot but man I'm having some wild thoughts lucid dreaming is when you've been asleep and then the awareness you're in a dream come returns that's a whole different topic so she's right it's a blended state uh your significant other but sleep entry has been channeled by salvador dolly and others and in movie inception as a place to extract fresh ideas your fresh ideas might be great my fresh ideas might be bad i'm not saying that's the way to become a creative genius but people have used that window and now there's some devices that when they see you feel you fall into sleep, they'll wake you up.
31:05So sleep entry is the blurry movement from the waking brain to the dreaming brain. And that is an interesting space for creativity. Sleep exit is the dreaming brain to the waking brain. And sometimes the body stays locked in and locked down and the mind comes back and that freaks people out. That's called sleep paralysis. Wow. That's my synthesis. and i that's interesting now this might be off topic here but i'm curious to have an optimal day is it better to wake up organically without an alarm or to wake up with something that is alarming you okay when you wake up so great question first of all because now we have the concept so if you believe your dreaming thoughts are ones you want to hold on to if they're nightmares maybe you want to forget but nightmares won't let you forget that's a different topic they're they arrive in children for a different reason but what i do now because i have the luxury of a bed and curtains so it's out of respect for all the people in this world that don't have that but i believe when i have had a good idea actually forget that my last hundred bad ideas have come from somewhere in sleep entry and sleep exit and when i'm driving around la or whatever i'm you know, I'm in LAX or Heathrow, whatever it is, when I go, oh, interesting thought.
32:35It's not an aha moment, but when you have a thought that you don't know where it came from, I believe it's from that nightly process that's going from that work you're putting in at night on your own, the design for the brain to dream, to stay creative, to stay enriched, to activate emotions and sights that are way beyond what you would even choose for during the day, right? We'd become so boring if our brains didn't dream at night, right? The capacity would be constrained. So when I have an interesting idea, I try to think about, did that come from my dreaming brain or have I been working with that?
33:10So I've been giving these talks on creativity and people are, so there's an incubation period and extraction period. I believe habits during the day was like like colored television more colored dreams put some red colored goggles on people and they had more red colored dreams I believe like I do things like I like to flip through magazines or I listen to different music and I I take different routes home I believe I'm feeding my dream life and then at dream at sleep entry or sleep exit I try to hold on to what was I thinking about what was I thinking about how did I feel about that what was that going on and to do that you you can't have the alarm which is a luxury and the first thing you can't check is your phone because the minute you check your phone that auto right that autobiography autobiographical memories onto the day what you want is that autobiographical memory thing that stitches every day together not to come on so fast and to some people I mean you can read about it But the concept is there to slow down the sleep exit or to pay attention to the sleep entry and jot down or hold on to those windows.
34:23And I believe, for me, whether it's coming up with a new surgery, coming up with an idea for science or working with the L.A. ballet now or writing, like, when I have had a good idea, it's come from those spaces. Interesting. so not from being rushed and waking up with an alarm and going yeah that's important you got to you know shelter and food and get you've got to stay staying employed showing up on time like i'm not it's a luxury but if you're really trying to take yourself to the next level my process for extracting ideas uh is to work with my dreaming life wow that's amazing so you mentioned nightmares why do you think kids have nightmares and also kids or teens start to have erotic dreams at the same time yeah um and i'm sure they wish they had more erotic dreams than nightmares but why do you why do we need both erotic dreams and nightmares as we're growing up all right so again we return to the the foundation of our conversation that um these are back to what we dream okay like that's been described for a long time i'm not coming i'm not coming at this new right like and so when we look at the pattern of what people dream um you know the simple stuff like oh you you have a flight tomorrow you have a dream about missing your flight you don't need to interpret that you know what that is or you got a presentation tomorrow you have a dream of showing up naked or something behind the podium like we know we get that uh but why would you have nightmares like this chapter two for a reason because i wanted to come across and just say look this is a work of imagination yes that there's nobody that can take these few glimpses of science and life and come up with like a foolproof yeah i got it all figured out story so here's what's interesting about nightmares um if there's anything that would make somebody say look hey this dreaming thing is not good for us why do we have nightmares like that's like it feels like a glitch, right?
36:24It feels like the mind, like a mind's mistake, if you will. I don't think it is. But so when you look at the patterns, to understand it, there are two types of nightmares. And there's the one with the big idea. But let me get to the other one that's easier. If you have been traumatized, assaulted, PTSD nightmares are flashbacks. It's a bad memory on loop stamped with raw emotion. Can't shake it. That we have some firmer understanding of. So if you're struggling and you have worsening headaches, you say, hey, I got to think about seeing a doctor. If you're an athlete, you have worsening pain. The key is if you have worsening new onset and progressive nightmares, talk to your doctor or therapist about it.
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37:11It could be a psychological thermometer that things aren't going well for you. That's a big topic. And I I think other people are in that space. I'll leave that one there. Yeah. The one that interests me is having three sons. And is each of them at one point, I had to say to them, it's all right. It was only a nightmare. It was only a dream. So the first thing I thought was, does that mean they didn't? And I'm looking at, I'm looking at now, I'm looking at neurodevelopment. To understand this, I went into a whole different space. like how you know we're not born walking and talking right so you see kids they're putting things together the movements become fluid you're physically mature not born made and you're cultivated physically right i believe the mind is also being cultivated internally and one example would be you got to remind kids it's only a dream so that means at some point when they're young likely they're confusing or cannot separate dreaming thoughts and waking thoughts.
38:18And at that time, when you ask them what they think about it, it's very, in general, I mean, this one kid might tell you the wildest thing. I'm not telling that person or that parent that that's not what they're experiencing. But the pattern is the dream reports of children, and some families signed up for this. I studied it. They follow their dream reports from like age 2 to 20. Wow. Longitudinally, like, what are you dreaming about now? What are you dreaming about now? And their dreams are simple. It's like a table or a blanket. Interestingly, when they dream of animals, they're not often pets.
38:53They're like beasts and monsters and teddy bears. So I can't explain all of that, but that's what they're describing. It's not the pet that they have that's in their dream. And as we're learning to walk and talk to age two, three, four, something's going on in the mind. There are some structures. I need a moment for this one. There's a type of cognition that's developing. First is visual spatial. And then these developmental scientists, they looked at it that the wildness of kids' dreams correlates more to the complexity of how they navigate visual spatial things. They have a test called block design.
39:36It's not how well they can spell or remember. The more three-dimensional they are, that parallels complexity of dreaming in a child. So all the parents out there, you don't make them memorize, you know? In my opinion, I had to like cultivate their sense of gymnastics, classics, music, art, whatever you can, different foods, different diversity experiences, it's not being correlated to logic. Right. So that also makes me feel like that guides a little bit. And then what happens is they develop this thing called, at some point they realize, it's just an example, that teacher or that uncle or that person that they're smiling and saying, hey, I want to help you.
40:25But the capacity develops. It's called theory of mind, where you start to read the other person's intention beyond just what they're saying. Interesting. Yeah. That develops. Kids are gullible. That develops. Theory of mind. Yeah. T-O-A. People can look it up. Theory of mind. So that's just like there's a, I mean, I could throw the ball. That develops at a certain age, around five or six, seven. and the idea of that person's intentions may not be completely clear or they might be misrepresenting their intentions or maybe I shouldn't trust them or maybe they would hurt me. These important concepts arrive in the brain at the same time as nightmares arrive.
41:09Wow. So I think if I were to say why do we and then these nightmares all go away for kids and then as adults we get them if we have trauma they come as a wave interesting it's crazy wow i might be completely wrong but i you know i would love to hear somebody come up with a better so you're not just gullible all the time what everyone says i think nightmares make the mind nightmares make the mind yeah they make you sharp they give you a sense of self versus other they make you less gullible they create a sense of threat they they the fleeing and the terror I think it guides the cultivation of this thing called theory of mind, where you realize just because the person's smiling, that doesn't mean they have good intentions.
41:52Interesting. And that is, it's cool, right? I mean, that's, they, they're not arriving for all of us at age eight, six, seven, eight, and then fading for most of us as we get into adolescence without a reason. like that's not that's not a glitch in the system wow my belief i wonder again with humility and i'm taking on big things here so if that's not what it is for you i i believe it i'm not saying i got it all figured out but i'm just here to show you like and then people and that we are in many ways still that dynamic as adults so whatever you're at the grounded level you're struggling with your lover or you struggle with your partner, like you're a dynamic ecosystem of mind and body.
42:37And I just want to take people back to like, look at that. Like we're not, and there's a certain part of the brain that gives you that capacity. Like there's, it's, we'll get into that some other day, but in that part, the newest part of the brain that pushed the forward forward, there's a part that when it's injured, it doesn't work well. We can't like make new opinions or we become gullible like this. There's some cellular basis to the theory of mind. Wow. But again, I think nightmares arriving for all of us at the same time as we're becoming like, oh, that person might hurt me. Or what do I want?
43:10Self versus other. I mean, self in italics. I think that's all happening in parallel for a reason. I think that's all happening in parallel. Chapter two, right out the gates. So if nightmares make the mind, what do erotic dreams do? Okay. So these are my, that's why it's just chapter three. I know everybody's going to want to hear about this one, but it's, you know, it's PG-13, but I think the concepts are, you know, very mature. So, again, we return to our primer that there's this, we are waking brain and dreaming brain, and they intersect. We stab. I think everybody knows that. It's a matter of to what degree and how.
43:53That's the other universal dream. you know i've never had a dream of teeth falling out but it's been reported for centuries i've had it yeah yeah a few times so their dreams follow patterns right um people have dreams of falling but that's like 20 60 like you know i had that too yeah but but i've had dreams of falling but not you know but everybody's had essentially i mean there'll be some people say no i've never had a sexual game okay i'm not here to a majority majority i mean the way in scientific terms everybody yeah yeah so I call those two universal dreams nightmares and erotic dreams universal universal dreams and I think when something is universal a part of our this awesome feels out there like evolutionary psychology like the gifts their strengths and weaknesses today aren't just physical that we're inheriting thinking patterns, dreaming patterns.
44:53This is mind blowing, but this has been well known. I'm just able to put it, I think, into a framework now is falling teeth dreams. They don't follow. They don't teeth falling out. It doesn't follow a pattern in people. But nightmares cluster in families. When I say exactly how the same. Yeah. And I've known that because I went to medical school and they said that i just didn't have a understanding of it but i believe and there is evidence that we inherit not just our physical traits but our cognitive traits oh yeah and if we inherit our uh risk aversion or or probability to risk if we inherit our uh our parents coping mechanisms or failure to cope um you know we may be inheriting dreaming pattern interesting and i think that that we have to be open to that that that's why nightmares arrive for every kid man that's not happening by chance I may not have the explanation for it I think it cultivates the sense of self uh and sense it gives you mind reading ability with somebody else uh that's called theory of mind that's my opinion then the next one comes is uh sexual dreams and this one is is uh interesting because let me break this down for you it's different because when when my sons were born and we're born with like the marble you you know it's and what you you've heard this use it or lose it you know like if you cover a child's eye because they have some health issues that part that goes to the right side of the brain the left side one each eye goes to both occipital lobes.
46:33It's not this one to this one, it's this crossing. If you cover those parts with or they repurpose, it's an adaptive system. Use it or lose it. You got the neurons, the 100 billion neurons, they're like microscopic jellyfish. Use them or you're going to lose them. That makes sense. And that's what happens for vision, hearing, taste, movement. If you wrap somebody's arm, the motor area will wither. Wow. Okay. So that's, that's built in, but this is, but how does a touch become a caress? That's a capacity from the same, from the same sensation. Now it can become erogenous. Right. Right. There are new nerves being laid down in our fingertips.
47:24Right. But when a lover's touch is different than an intention, even it touches. So that capacity develops in the human brain around the time of 11, 12, and 13. Interesting. And it's not after puberty. It's not like puberty, however people conceive puberty. But you don't go through bodily puberty and then say, I think I'm turned on. It's different. your brain develops the ability to be turned on I believe through erotic dreams that erotic dreams are again the mind's cultivation for desire and then you start to see changes in the sensation part of the brain where now it's not just now erotic touch is possible without getting too deep into like child rearing and all that but sensuality arrives it's not prepubescent it's not it's not there it must come at a certain time and around that time people who have never had intercourse people who have been castrated chemically for cancer treatment people who have had chemotherapy people have had their ovaries removed they still have erotic dreams really it's not the body saying i like it let's think more about it i think it's the other way around wow and that it arrives and the biggest sense wouldn't that be an important thing for for people to procreate that desire arrives and the fact that it arrives before so here it's not use it or lose it, you know, it's here you go.
49:18It's time to use it. It comes before it's ready. Very good. Yeah. So it's something that I would love a conversation at a different time with somebody else with that. That doesn't follow normal neurodevelopment of pathways. Usually it's like, yeah, I can see. And if I cover an eye, I lose that ability. You're sort of equipped and then you cultivate. Here it arrives. And the, again, erotic dreams, like in that j cole song wet dreams he says he i think i'm smashing but i'm but i'm sleeping wow so before he has his first relationship intimate relationship with this person uh he's he's rapping about like he's he's performing the act in his dreams and his erotic dreams before they even happen in real life that's not the usual order of how the brain and nerves work.
50:06So again, my humble opinion is erotic dreams are the embodiment of desire. They make sure that we want, and that's advantageous for us as creatures, species, and people. Do you think the brain and the mind have to dream something first before it can actualize it in real life? That's a big question. Do they have to dream something or think something first before they can actualize it? I think there's two ways to think of that. There's the things you, there's the things you want and you pursue. And the way I would look at that is, returning to another example is that the the dreaming brain and the waking brain is one is one way to understand it but the structures in the brain during waking life they're called the executive network the one we talked about are dampened down so if you have a goal pursue it this conversation is not to be like hey just dream around all the time like you got to get after stuff.
51:18You got to get things done. And that's the executive network. And that's what drives you to your goals. You can think about your goals. You can choose your desires. And I, that's, that's been most of my life. Um, but then the role of dreams in that, I think are twofold. One, cause I have thought about this for myself and it's, again, it's my story. I, with respect, I believe that if I have chosen a goal with my waking brain, contributions are coming from my dreaming brain. I'm incubating thoughts. It's feeding me. It's feeding some aha moments. I'm using sleep entry. I'm using sleep exit. And then the bigger one for me is, are there things I want?
52:03Are there things I hope for that my waking brain just does not have access to? and that's the big question the beginning like what's the meaning of dreams and then you know if we look at what is happening in the dreaming brain returning to our is that it's hyper emotional it's hyper visual and this is some real profound stuff when I was learning about this and reading about it the and I can't get into brain anatomy too much but I would just say, if you flatten out your brain, the executive network would be like different continents and countries revving up a little bit. And the imagination network, which is liberated in the dreaming brain, is other countries coming up.
52:54It's like Bellagio Waterfall. Some come up, some comes down. Yeah, sure. It's a toggle. um and so your brain at its most emotional metabolically electrically is in dreaming you can't you can't rock that hard during the day really yeah by measurement so then it says to me so if there is a meaning if the if if i can gain further insight into myself I must look at the ways my dreaming brain is exceptional. I'm not going to look at my dreaming brain for a math solution, but I might look at what my dream brain is putting forth for an emotional solution, an emotional insight, right? Like that's the thing that really, I mean, a lot of this is um but the meaning of dreams is that the act of self-examination with the recognition that i hope you leave today is that's a hyper emotional state what is the value of emotion yes it's profound when people have injury to these areas they can't even make any decisions like decision making requires emotion instinct requires emotion my my dog Frankie she knows when I'm sitting the booby trap like hey we're going out for date night Frankie come here she's like there's some brilliance to emotion right and we have become again don't get me wrong you got to wake up you got to go to work you got to get it done like that and that takes the waking brain and that takes the executive network.
54:33But if you want insights that can't be gained through the executive network, through always focusing outward, then you are getting glimpses of your own brain, your own life's hyper emotional states through dreaming. And I think there's insight to be found in that. And that that is the way to dream interpretation is to recognize the ways that your dreaming brain is exceptional. So the way I look at dream interpretation, if I could just jump into that, that's like the last chapter. We could rock all day, but this is like, if it fits nicely here, is there are dreams, you know what they are. It's like naked behind a podium when you had a speech to get late for a flight.
55:20There's no dream interpretation there. You know what that is. There are dreams that make no sense at all. There's no emotional stamp on them. It's just clutter. We have thoughts during the day we don't pay attention to. There are dreams that parallel your life. And the two most important ones are end of life dreams and pregnancy dreams. Really? If, as reported, when people are pregnant, patients are pregnant, they have a lot of dreams about babies and rolling over babies and everything, you know. So that doesn't need interpretation. And people at the end of life with a cancer diagnosis, and then my patients tell me that they're thinking about like finish lines and visiting people from the past.
56:00Really? The dreams are accompanying you, right? Because you're making those dreams. So of course the dreams fit what's going on in your life. Wow. Again, those don't need to be interpreted. You know what's going on. Sure. You're dying and your dreams are comforting you. You've worked on a lot of people who've only had a year or a few years left to live. Right. Cancer patients. What are most of those dreams of people who are dying? Okay, that's a big question. That goes back to the last conversation we had. I am surprised by how valiant most cancer patients are. When I look at cancer patients in general, I would think most of it would fall apart, right?
56:38Because it's quite the word. It's quite the journey. But it's overwhelming. Not all. Some suffer. Some handle it poorly, understandably. But they do well. They show up for their appointments. they're brave. They dig down for strength and composure and they find meaning. Sometimes they are able to enjoy some things more knowing that the finish line is in view. They're not encumbered, as I mentioned last time, with fuss. And those patients, when you talk to them, they will report again not all i'll make a simple statements here but a lot of them report that the dreams they have are positive wow they're helpful they're not of being eaten alive they're not of what did i do to get this interesting it's reconciling with lovers and family it's having an expansive view of their life the dreams in these cancer patients and this is reported in other other people study this uh dreams comfort you toward the end of life wow and so again um the hyper emotional dream um so if we have dreams that don't need interpretation because you're falling or you're flying you're flying and you're falling or you're giving a talk and you show up naked or you're you're it's end of life and it's comforting you or it's just there's no emotional feeling to, I believe, if you are to go after a dream to really reflect upon, you wake up and that intense dreaming life gives you a little glimpse, a little peek at something.
58:23Don't waste that. And the one to choose is the one with a powerful central image and a powerful emotion. And that to me, that makes sense with what's going on in the brain. Hyper-emotional, hyper-visual, right? I'm trying to make sense of it. And just be aware that a lot of times it's symbolic. It's not going to be literal, right? Because we talked about the executive network is dampened. And hyper-emotional, hyper-visual brain, it's a storyteller. You want to extract the meaning out of the story, much like a good movie. And it's not, hey, why am I... So, for example, some veterans, when they're having trouble with a marriage, will have dreams of war, but they don't generally dream of war.
59:14So you have to be able to think about it and try to... I can't give you that answer. I don't know if you're a veteran or not. I think that's where it's hard to go online and say, I dreamt of a leaf or a bridge. What does it mean? No, it's different for its individual. And you may not be able to figure it out, let alone somebody else. But if you have the luxury to remember your dream, or through auto-suggestion and journaling, you're trying to remember dreams more, which can happen, those are the ones to go after. The hyper-emotional ones, the hyper-visual ones. And just keep them here. You know, you got 15 things in front of you.
59:56you're focusing out where your executive network is on, but don't forget about that glimpse you got into your hyper-emotional brain and what it produced about you, for you. Wow. That was fascinating. I feel like we're like 1 % of all the things we could be talking about right now.
1:00:18Why do some people have lucid dreams? Why are lucid dreams important? and how can we enter lucid dreams faster? Okay. That got two chapters out of nine. So that's a big one. And just to be clear what lucid dreams are, I have not had them, but Aristotle wrote about them 3 ,000 years ago. So this is not like, it's not some current thing. Okay. What is new is the understanding. Again, we return to your body's locked down, executive network and logic are dampened, emotions are up, vision's up. When your body is locked down in lucid dreaming, what happens is there's one part of the body that's still not locked down, one of those eyeballs.
1:01:16So when you're waking up in the morning, it just happens that the muscles to the eyeballs are not locked down and the muscles to the breathing of course right because you're still breathing in lucid dream or in dreaming in general so what lucid dream experts and people looking into that have started just recently after 3 000 years of many different cultures and books writing about i felt i was awake in my dream and i could steer the direction of the dream so not only were you an actor in the dream you're the director interesting right that's been written about for thousands of years. Right, right, right.
1:01:51But what they can do now is in these sleep laboratories, they put the stickers on their head to measure the electricity to prove they're asleep. Because I could imagine like, you know, some of my friends, they'd be like, I just, I woke up. How do you know you didn't just wake up? Right. How do you know you're awake in a dream? So you have to prove you're asleep through the whole time. Because otherwise you might just wake up and say, yeah, I'm lucid dreaming and then fall back asleep. Right. So some essential questions to be asked. So the electrical measurements or the stickers on the head, the sleep spindles is a certain spike that proves your sleep.
1:02:28You can't fake being asleep to the EKG of your mind, if you will, right? The EKG. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, yeah. And then, you know, they started communicating with them. They'll say certain things and they'll, they come up with this technique called left, right, left, right. And they'll move their eyeballs left, right, left, right, answer simple questions. and that's progressed to some people being able to demonstrate when they enter, when lucidity arrives within their dream, they will signal to the people standing outside the window. And so there are these back and forth experiments going on. So far as even basic things like, oh, what's two plus two?
1:03:12And they'll try to do a left, right, left, right four times. And some of you might say, well, I thought you couldn't do math, but that's part of the magic and the mystery of lucid dreaming is that the executive network is coming back online a little bit. So for that awareness to happen inside your dream, proven by sleep spindles on an EKG, EEG you can't fake, when the awareness comes back, that primer we're talking about, the executive network comes back too. So they can do a little bit of basic math. So it's like when you talked about the beginning, what is it called? Like 49, 51. Yeah, so where is that when the lucid dreaming is happening?
1:03:49What is happening? Is it kind of rocking back and forth like this constantly, or is it one side and then it goes back? That's a good question. It's fragile. That's a very good question. So you've gone from dreaming brain, you've gone from waking brain to dreaming brain, and what happens is a little bit of the waking brain returns, but it a little flourishes. It's not like, hey, I'm lucid dreaming. I got 90 minutes let's ride this like I get it like I just you know somebody might be able to but I want to I want to leave you with the fascination like these overlap states which are really fascinating sleep entry sleep exit a bit of awareness returning and with improved in sleep that it's that it is something that it's something it's something fragile it's something fleeting think Think of like birds and murmurations and aurora borealis.
1:04:44We're not talking about... And that's also the lesson for people who are listening is stop thinking that your brain is wires and on and off. Think of it as dreaming brain, waking brain, waking brain, dreaming brain. Think of it as executive network mostly interacting here. A little bit of imagination network returning because I'm daydreaming while we're talking, a little bit of blend, right? Well, lucid dreaming is coming to awareness that you're dreaming within your dream and for some people being able to steer the content of their dream. That's crazy. Stuff like Christopher Nolan likes to talk about in movies and stuff like that.
1:05:22But what I'm here to tell you is it exists. They have proven that it exists. I'm not saying you lucid dream. I have not. Aristotle wrote about it, but they have proven with responses from preserved eyeball movements, documentation that that person is asleep with the electricity of sleep that they're they have been able to communicate with people uh who are in dreams it's crazy that they can steer their dreams that's what they report isn't that crazy yeah but if you if you step back a little bit and stop thinking of it as the brain on off wired hardwired not if you start to think of it as states as tides, as flows, as seasons, and every night there's the waking brain and dreaming brain, and there's sleep entry, and there's sleep exit, and sometimes lucidity returns, it starts to make sense of a lot of the stuff I've been seeing in the hospital.
1:06:16Really? Well, I mean, people wake up from anesthesia. People are awake. They communicate in anesthesia during our awake brain surgery. Really? People wake up, and they're dreaming gnarly stuff. You can give people certain medicines and they have more lucid dreaming, something based on acetylcholamine. The reports of lucid dreaming go up with galantamine. So what that tells me, not to get too medically about it, is that when you mess with pills and drugs and the dreams change, this is a biological process. Wow. It's not coming from the heavens. It's coming from our brain. Really? Yeah. Speaking of the heavens, when we dream, are our dreams in our brain or in our minds?
1:07:00And is our mind on this earth and planet or is it in another realm? Big stuff, man. We could be like around a fire 500 years ago. 3 a.m. I mean, that's why this is so special for me. And you may not have the answers. No, I mean, I have some direction to those questions. I mean, if somebody told me, just the fact that you asked me that question means like I'm doing all right. No, no. But I am fortunate to have people ask me just to weigh in on that. And what I'm trying to do is build it on science, but bring it to you in a way where you can go home and talk to your family about it. What is your thoughts on that?
1:07:48So the first thing is the brain and mind thing can't be separated. It's not like software hardware. The brain, that's a whole big topic, but the mind is an emergent phenomenon that comes from the brain. One example would be like we see it, the crystals form. We see it in organic matter, right? It's a self-organizing thing. Termites can make mounds. Stadiums with a roar outside is more than the 80 ,000 individuals inside. That roar is my best way of understanding what 100 billion neurons do. The mind comes from it. Wow. Now, what we think can go back and shape the brain. So it's a reciprocal interaction.
1:08:32Our habits can shape the brain. Our brain creates the habits. So the brain-mind, I don't think you can really separate it out. The ultimate gift of the human mind, I think, is dreaming. love and all those things yes but the process of dreaming um so let's let's for one second say we're talking about brain and mind is one thing okay we just call it brain slash mind um and i was reading about this oh this is this is great um here's a story of course they had to come from the heavens till about our understanding till about 100 years ago You plop down. You're not doing anything. And then you wake up and whether you tell somebody or not, you're like, man, I was on fire last night with my thoughts.
1:09:18Right. So if you're asleep and you're hibernating or you're deactivated or whatever the phrase was, it had to come from something external. It's in there. How could inactive flesh of the brain, the resting brain, the brain doesn't rest at night. It's active. Brain doesn't rest at night. Brain rests when you're dead. Right. There's no, there's no, like, like I said, the electricity in sleep is so similar to the electricity during waking. They call it paradoxical sleep. Like you're, you're on when you're asleep. Okay. So, but they didn't know that. Nobody could know that until, and so this is a great story.
1:09:59I don't think it's been told, but it's the story that I've come to understand. so that makes sense it had to come from something outside of us you're out cold and you're thinking that kind of stuff monsters and pterodactyls and erotic dreams and nightmare okay so that came from the heavens or the gods they're omens but what happened was somebody about a hundred years ago did a surgery for a brain tumor then there was a physician there and they had just figured out at that time that you could put a wire wasn't just for sending electricity, it was for measuring it. So when we put a sticker on your heart and you know the electricity of a heart, it's from the nerves on the surface of the heart, it's not from the muscle.
1:10:42Interesting. EKG is the measurement of the electricity in the nerves on top of your heart. When we shock you to recharge your heart, we're just shocking the three nerves not the muscle muscle just listens um well what if you put 96 stickers on your brain you would get a measurement that's called eeg okay what he did was he put a sticker on right on top of the hole like a skull had a hole but the stitch work the flesh was covered we do that still sometimes but in that area where there was no skull but the size of coin he put a little sticker on there a little wire on the brain no or just on the skull yeah But there was a hole.
1:11:19Surgeons do it on the brain, but. There was a hole. And healed flesh. He put it just on top of the flesh with the hole underneath. He thought he's going to get better readout, I guess, right? The hole that would be a direct line to the brain. Yes. But not touching the brain. Well said. And then he got squiggles. And that was where the EEG was invented about 100 years ago. Wow. The interesting part was when they all left the room or whatever they were doing and person fell asleep nobody paid attention to it but the squiggles were happening at night it was a squiggles during the day and a flat line right at night so somebody could have said at that point like wait a second that flesh is not inactive then 60 years ago somebody in Montreal Dr.
1:12:06Penfield, he was... So now he's numbing up the scalp, laying it open. Patient is on relaxing medications but not on a machine. Drills the hole like ice fishing, takes it off, sees the covering of the brain called the dura and sizes it. The surface of the brain is there and then they lighten up her medication. And he's got like a little fountain pen that delivers a little electricity. and he's mapping it and he's trying to find the thing the patient has seizures and says before the seizure I always get this feeling this aura he thinks if he can find where that feeling originates dissect out a little bit of that tissue he can break the seizures and he ended up being right it's a massive field now major centers around the world seizure surgery but at some times when he would zap because he's marking, you know, the patient reports desire.
1:13:07And one patient reported a night, a recurrent nightmare that they had been having. Interesting. You zap the surface of the brain with a little faint electricity. The brain doesn't have nerve endings of its own, so you can touch it, you wouldn't know. Wouldn't feel it. Yeah, not you, but this is known, and I've done the surgery, this is established stuff. Awake brain surgery, you can cut the brain. You won't feel the pain. No. You only feel it only feels through its tentacles So when you're doing an awake brain surgery you only only the scalp feels it But we numb it up the patient is awake And you're in there and they can talk to you and you can dissect the brain and they don't feel a thing Is this the one what I mean you see the videos of like I guess yeah We got play our violin or guitar where it's like okay, you know connecting.
1:13:51It's so crazy, but when he was mapping it a Nightmare which is a type of dream was her turn and he took the pen off. The nightmare broke. Wow. At that moment, we knew that dreams, the only thing I can say with certainty today is dreams come from our brain. They do not come from the heavens. Wow. That I can say with certainty. Everything else, this has just been a fascinating ride. And the ride will continue, you know. But that we can say with certain. Dreams are an electrical process of the human brain. When you've done brain surgeries, have you noticed people six months later saying, I used to have this type of dream and now those are gone or I have these different dreams now after brain surgery?
1:14:39Have you ever - That's a good question. A lot of dreaming changes. Very good question. And I've tried to keep the medical world out of it, even though it informs dreaming quite a bit but the patterns I saw from like drug dreams, anesthetic dreams are just I couldn't find a way and that's also again to let you know like if it didn't fit if there wasn't a if it wasn't going to be a thoughtful um love letter to dreams and dreaming I'll tell you and I'll tell you I can't the the pattern of dreams that happen with anesthetics and stuff I can't say, aha, this one causes this and this could mean, I can't find meaning in it, it's that wild.
1:15:24The ones that you're seeing here, I feel good about. But patients with brain injury, brain surgery, on medications, on steroids for swelling, their dreams change completely. There's a brand new dream life. And what it says to me is, again, dreams come from the brain. If you take a pill that goes in your blood to your brain, chemicals change, it's great different dreams. Electro, yeah. Interesting. That's yet another example of dreams must come from the brain. Interesting. Yeah. Not from some other realm. Right. What about the pineal gland? you hear a lot of this in you know ancient texts and mystics and meditators and yogis talking about the pineal gland like the power of the pineal gland to activate the mind and the brain and create more powerful visions and and i'm happy to get into all of these things like aura is a thing a-u-r-a people look it up that's a that's a hunch so i'm not i think a lot of this stuff is real, I just think it's muddy and it's easy to manipulate.
1:16:39So I would say be careful. So the pineal gland has been, because of its location, people thought it's the mind's eye. I think our philosophers have commented about it. What I can tell you is - As a brain surgeon, what is it for you? I can take it out and the person is exactly the same. Really? Pineal gland surgery. Pineal cytomas, pineal gland - Have you ever taken one out? Yeah. It's part of neurosurgery. You've taken one out of her. Yeah. You come in through the back here. It sits between the lobes. So people can look that up is pineal gland. It's a gland, whether it's got cancer in it or whether it's just a cyst, non-cancerous but growing and pushing, whether it's normal pineal or abnormal, when you remove it, they have almost no significant consequences.
1:17:30Really? And the melatonin is bottomed out and they still sleep okay. So I'm not here to go against the whole world of things that are out there. But again, if we're having a conversation, you come into my house, we're hanging out, we're taking a walk and you ask me that question. I'm trying to come to you both with things I can't make sense of, anesthetic dreams. Pineal gland, no, they're being removed across the world, and there isn't the pituitary gland. If you take that out, you got to take a bunch of hormones in medicine. That's a big deal. The pineal gland, the ones that has been given sort of this transcendent value, that comes out and goes in the canister.
1:18:15It's fine. And the next day, we don't change the stuff the patient's on. They don't need some replacement thing. And it makes melatonin, and I wrote about it in my last book, when the melatonin drops to zero or nothing, they're still sleeping all right. Really? I'm not going to say don't take melatonin or take melatonin. We're not doing health advice. I mean, I don't mean like we can't go there, but where I'm at is concepts, exploration. And what about, and does the phenyl gland impact dreams or dreaming? Do you know? after you remove it, people still dream? It doesn't have those kind of connections.
1:18:52Interesting. Back to the dreaming. When I talked to you about like if the brain was laid flat and different continents and countries are up, the imagination network liberated in the dreaming brain. Different countries and continents and oceans are up for the executive network trying to get the day's work done. The pineal is like, it's irrelevant in that map of things that come up when you sleep. Huh. That thing that goes 51 % when you sleep, pineal gland has it. Not even a bench warmer. What's the primary purpose of the pineal gland? We don't think it has a primary purpose. Really? We can look it up, but there are parts of the body, it's like the appendix of the brain.
1:19:34We can remove it and it doesn't change much. And people still live long lives. Oh, yeah. You don't have to... What part of the brain, if you remove it, is going to be, you're not going to be able to perform the same way? Well, okay, that's a bigger concept. And how much of the brain can you still have? Yeah. Can you remove or have left to still live a great life? Yeah. So let's take that. That's an interesting question. When you, if you think of the brain laid flat as different continents and countries, right? It's like a mosaic. It's like a puzzle. If you cut out half of the continent. Well, we do surgeries in children where we remove half the brain, hemispherectomy.
1:20:16Half? Half the brain? Yeah. Not the reptilian and not the emotional instinct, but half the hemisphere, the two walnut. So what that points to is this. It's what we call some areas you bump into it with a suction at 20x and it leads to a change. some areas um nail gun injuries happen and you take out that part of the brain you know like carp like you know like framers they use the pneumatic nail guns and when they kick up a little higher they'll spray a nail through the thin floor the rear yeah this part of neurosurgery is taking out the penetrate it's called penetrating trauma depending on where it goes they can handle a nail in one frontal lobe or the other, but hitting both frontal lobes, it changes the person.
1:21:07So some areas have redundancy. Other areas can't take a joke. Some areas, you could take one occipital lobe and you basically just lose your rear view mirror. You don't lose sight, but if you take both or injure both. So that's what neurosurgery is about, is knowing what you can go through, what to expect in the person waking up after you do that. That's neurosurgery. But it It also informs that we have to stop looking at the brain as some homogenous thing. That you return to like a slice through and you'll see all different shapes in there. It's not like cake. It's not like flour. Right, right, right.
1:21:43Like liver, it looks the same. Yeah. This is diverse. Brain is diverse. Oh yeah. Structures and connections in there is beautiful. So, I mean, how many people have you seen have a nail gun like in their brain? Six. Six? When I was training, yeah. Really? Really? Gunshot wounds, nail gun injuries, fights, you know. So you learn with trauma what parts of the brain can handle trauma. Because you're not doing those types of surgeries. You're doing cancer removal. Now it's cancer. Right. But that informs me if I'm getting to a deeper tumor and it's inside and it's got a normal brain on the outside, that has informed me along with mapping, what is the route that I can get to the tumor - This is fascinating.
1:22:23But not injure the person. That's neurosurgery. It's not the chopsticks in a jar. Like, the hands, it requires skill. But there's something more to it that I love. And the stories from the patients informed the last decade and a half and still are informing this book. And so it's the patient stories and the neuroscience on top of the nail gun. That's what we open with. Look, I'm trying to come at you with, like, Petri dish stuff, nail gun stuff. Wow. Heavens, networks. I'm trying to bring it all in. to have done a real proper look at dreams and dreaming? This is why you dream, Dr. Rahul. This is powerful.
1:23:06I want to do a two-part with you. Okay. Because I feel like there's so many more questions I want to dive into that we've gone like 5 % of what I want to talk about. But I want people to get this book because I think this would be a great baseline for you to understand a lot more about the neuroscience and the remarkable meaning behind your dreams, understanding your dreams better, and having a better roadmap for navigating your dreams for the future. But I'd love to have you come back on and do part two of this. I think it'd be really powerful. Well, I think, you know, you said something really important there that in trying to understand dreams and dreaming, I understood myself better.
1:23:48in trying to, if you read this book and you find something interesting, learning more about your brain and mind will inform your waking life. So then when people say, the brain is this, you'll say, wait a second, because you're going to walk away learning about neuroscience. You're going to walk away learning about art and literature, nightmares, erotic dreams. And more importantly, you know, for me, it was, it's sort of my, it's my gift. This is my legacy that somebody tried to put together something that, like, how is somebody going to do it, you know, take a proper shot at this? And I'm very happy with the honesty there.
1:24:34And you'll see phrases like, could it be, I wonder. I'm tempted to speculate. So I'm not just telling you. I'm taking you through how I'm thinking. And so, you know. How long have you been a brain surgeon for now? Wow. 25 years. 25 years. And what it sounds like is you've had 25 years plus your residency, so 30 plus years of researching the brain and as a PhD in neuroscience and understanding the mind. when you first came on, you talked about the brain as kind of these waves and patterns. I remember you talking about like birds moving in waves and patterns. The electricity does move like that.
1:25:16It's not on off. Exactly. It's not a switch. And then to me, it sounds like, you know, last 30 years, you've been able to interpret these waves and patterns through all the different operations you've done, through the different case studies you've seen of people coming in before and after, and now deepening your research in understanding the brain, the mind with dreaming. And so I'm so excited for people to get this book, This Is Why You Dream. And I'm excited to dive in more with you. I think we got to do probably multiple episodes on this because I'm fascinated by this. I want to know more about how also, you know, the health benefits of dreaming, how much we should be sleeping to maximize our dreams and our optimal health.
1:26:00and so many other questions around this. If you guys have a question on dreams, leave a question below and we'll try to get to that in our next episode in the future whenever we can get you back on. Pleasure. But Rahul, this has been super inspiring. How can we get a copy? How can we support you? And what else can we do to support this? Yeah, I'm feeling good about it. And I think the usual things, where to get a copy on Amazon on where the publishers are just doing a massive thing. They sold it. It's already picked up in 22 translations. I think they believe in it. And they've been reading this material and the two things that really touched me were, this can never be explained.
1:26:44Like, you know, cause I, I'm a surgeon. I want answers. I want to fix, but they're like, this can, it's dreaming Rahul. It'll never be fully explained. We want to know what you think and pull from everything you've lived through it. Amazing. And then the New York publisher just was like this email and just the first sentence just took my breath away a little bit. It just put, this book is important. Wow. Period. I was like, okay. It's a mic drop moment for me. I'm excited for this. Where are you spending most of your time online? Should we follow you on social media, your website? Instagram, Dr.
1:27:22John Deall, but you know, I'm an old timer, man. Dr. John Deall. You're a young old timer, right? You're still young. Do you have a website also, though? No. Okay. I mean, I... Instagram. Yeah. Instagram. Follow you there and get the book. This is going to be powerful. For anyone that you know in your life who maybe talks about dreams, they're going to be fascinated by this as well. So get a couple copies. Give it to a friend. Again, Rahul. I'm very excited about this. This is Why You Dream. Make sure you guys get a copy. Appreciate you very much for being on. And for part one of hopefully many on this topic, because there's so many more follow-up questions I have, but I want to let people start with this first.
1:28:05So we can take each chapter deeper. Well, let's do it. I appreciate you being here. I hope you enjoyed today's episode and it inspired you on your journey towards greatness. Make sure to check out the show notes in the description for a full rundown of today's episode with all the important links. And if you want weekly exclusive bonus episodes with me personally, as well as ad-free listening, then make sure to subscribe to our Greatness Plus channel exclusively on Apple Podcasts. Share this with a friend on social media and leave us a review on Apple Podcasts as well. Let me know what you enjoyed about this episode in that review.
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Welcome to The School of Greatness! I'm your host, Lewis Howes, and today we're diving into the fascinating world of dreams with our guest, Dr. Rahul Jandial. Dr. Jandial is not only a renowned neurosurgeon but also a neuroscientist with a deep understanding of the human brain. In this episode, we'll explore the significance of dreams, their impact on our waking life, and the mysterious workings of our minds during sleep. Whether you're curious about lucid dreams, the role of nightmares, or the connection between dreams and reality, this conversation promises to enlighten and inspire. So, get ready to unlock the secrets of your dreams and discover how they shape our lives. Let's jump right in!
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