How To ATTRACT Your Ideal Relationship & Create Healthy, Lasting Love | Danny Morel

28:38Yes. Yeah. And so there was, that was one thing. It was like, okay, I never thought I would date an actress being in LA. You grew up in kind of in this area. You lived in this area for a while. Maybe the, like the thought of like, oh, a celebrity actress would be kind of fun or cool. Right. But I never heard good stories and I'm sure there's great actresses out there, but I just like the stereotypical like they're all about themselves they're egotistical it's like they're dramatic whatever it might be and I was like I don't want that yeah but I ultimately attracted that in other ways anyways so I was like I never thought I would date an actress and she's an actress and so I okay let's try this out let's do this I dove into it um I never thought I would be with someone who'd been married before she's been married and divorced it was like a very quick like nine month or it happened quickly that she you know kind of woke up right afterwards and it wasn't the right thing i never thought i would be with someone like that so i had to face that within me like okay she's already experienced this i haven't how do i feel about that i had to navigate that and what am i what does that mean to me or what am i making it yeah and i didn't like it i had some like issues with it early on kind of initially but then i was like okay what is what is it i truly want what is my vision for a beautiful healthy conscious relationship and maybe this is perfect for me you know it's like maybe it's perfect for me and also i don't think i've ever been with a woman who has fully appreciated and loved me the way i've wanted to be loved and appreciated and i think because of all of her past relationship experiences she sees me and she's so grateful for what i contribute to the relationship yeah and so had she not experienced those things that i don't like maybe i want to have what i want bingo and so i learned to be like okay i've had to learn how to accept that right and choose to be grateful for it right and really appreciate it because it's creating something that i want in my life the third thing which i never thought i would do it kind of broke my paradigm is being with someone older than me she's not that much older but it's like i've always dated like three five seven years younger than you right and you know i've had to break that paradigm okay She's only, I don't know, it's like six months or maybe it's a year or something like that, six or nine months.

30:53But I've had to break that paradigm and be like, God, she's got so much more wisdom, patience, love than any younger woman I've ever been with. And if I want peace, she's got it. She is peace. This is it. This is it. I'm not saying you can't find that with a younger woman. No. But I wasn't able to find that. I think what we're both saying for the listener, I want you guys to really pay attention to how both of us, the partner that we found made us deal with and look at parts of ourselves that maybe we haven't looked at or been wanting to deal with. Like for me, it was scary, bro. It brought me to the core of, and this is why I think I speak so much about masculine and feminine.

31:36Because honestly, I was masculine in some ways, but in many ways, I wasn't, Luz. 100%. I wasn't. Me too. Straight up. Me too. Straight up, right? And this is why I get so passionate about it. Because it's like if we can help the world awaken to this, right? That all of you, whether you're a woman or a man, and you all have masculine and feminine parts of you energetically. I called in the perfect partner, like it seems you did, right? To heal those parts of you. Like maybe where you judged yourself in the past. Sure. Right? She accepts my past. It's crazy. I'm like, I never could accept them before.

32:13I was always in shame. Yes. And trip out on this. And I would just be like, I would tell her and be waiting for a reaction. It's just like, okay. It's okay. I was like, what? Every other person like freaked out on me. for Louis for me was my body so like for me like if I if I have too many carbs like you know it like little little chubby Danny comes back and I would wait and I would look at Jen loves me exactly who I am how I am you know how to feel the shame I don't have to feel anything I'm free yeah yeah it's it's just beautiful man that's amazing yeah yeah and what I realized is like these few things that maybe I never thought I would be in a relationship if someone had these things or whatever.

32:53What I was really doing the work and healing on before meeting her was what I really want alignment with for my soulmate or my partner to be is someone who's in alignment on values, vision, and lifestyle. Because those three things were always off in previous relationships and it created so much friction. And I said, if I can be with someone where I accept myself fully they accept themselves fully and we accept each other's missions and life separate of us fully that's right and we can find alignment not perfection but alignment on our values for where we are and where we want to be our vision for where we are where we want to be and our lifestyle we have a similar lifestyle needs and desires right and if we can learn to communicate and create agreements on what works and what doesn't work so we minimize disease and discomfort that's right because life is going to bring us challenges that's right but we don't need to be out of agreement and alignment adding on to it right we need the energy to be able to take on challenge that's right that's right and if i can create a relationship with someone where we can build that together we can create all the love and abundance that we want and we desire together Amen.

34:10And I've just never felt this much peace and abundance internally. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Not necessarily externally, although that's there, but just the feeling of gratitude and love and abundance for having all that. Well, hang on, Lewis. Do you remember how we started? We said life, when you heal, is a reflection of the inside. Yes. So when you feel peace, love, and abundance inside, guess what you attract? Yeah. A partner that mirrors that frequency. Yes. So then it's all about, guys, please listen to me. What is in your life that is robbing you of peace, love, and abundance? You know, sometimes I've had to work with some of my clients that it's their mother.

34:59Oh, yeah. Like the mom shows up drunk, as abusive, as judgmental. It's the father. I made a quote the other day and it said, don't allow the family you came from to ruin the family you're creating. Yes. And this is a message to the men out there. Like a lot of men out there, you have like some of these, you know, manipulative parents. Yes. Who, by the way, are doing it because it's their form of loving you. It's just a wounded form of love. Right. If you allow that to take priority over your wife, you're never going to have freedom. You're going to have to find, remember, the courage to speak up to your family.

35:43Create boundaries. Right? And realize that my family is from me down. That means me, my partner, my parents. Man, and that's when you come from a Hispanic culture. Oh, brother. Everything is the family. Everyone above is the family. Yeah. And they get intertwined. That's right. And a lot of it, I mean, maybe this is true in different cultures as well, but a lot of like Hispanic people live with their parents or their grandparents until they're much older. Which research shows there's like beauty in that. Of course. Because, you know, but it's like just understand that there's a cost to it. The price you pay for everything.

36:23There's a reward and there's a price. That's right. That's right. Yeah, there is beauty to it also. Yeah, absolutely. Yeah, I mean, more in the Western tradition, it's like, okay, you're out at 18 and then go, you're separate from your parents, so your grandparents, and you never see them until they're in, like, the hospital when they're about to die. Yeah. There's an extreme the other way as well. Yeah. Hyper-independence. Hyper, right. You know, and I think there's a beauty to having a, you know, an in the middle somewhere. Yeah, yeah. You have this seven signs on how you found your soulmate or not.

36:54I don't know if you remember these seven signs. I'll read them out. Okay. You're from a social media post. These are the seven signs you have found your soulmate. Okay. One is deep connection and understanding. Two is effortless communication, which I want to dive in deeper on that. Three is emotional safety and trust. Yeah. Four is alignment and values. Five is feeling at home together. Six is mutual growth and support. And seven is magnetic attraction. these are the seven signs that you've found your soulmate. I mean, heck yeah. Like, I'm up for that. Yeah, right? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah. Most people, I feel like, don't have any of those.

37:35And they stay in a relationship, they get in a relationship because they find some type of chemical attraction. Right. Sexual attraction, or the sex is great, or we have this energy. It just feels electric. Yeah. But they lack deep connection, understanding. Yeah. Communication is actually chaotic. It's not effortless. Yeah. They don't feel safe. They feel anxious actually, which kind of creates that chemical explosion. They don't feel trust because they're checking their phone or the other person or they're asking them, where'd you go? They don't have that trust. They actually haven't talked about alignment on values.

38:08Like what do you actually value? They might think they know, but they don't know. They don't feel at home. Maybe they do right after they have sex, but other than that, they don't feel safe emotionally at home. Yeah. They're actually not encouraging each other to grow, and they haven't found out if this person's on a growth trajectory or not. Right. Maybe they do have magnetic attraction, but it's not magnetic spiritual attraction. And I think that might be the caveat, magnetic spiritual attraction, to know that you've got your soulmate. Yeah. Why do you think so many people struggle from creating that and asking about all these things within the partner?

38:53Everything you just described is the outcome of fear. And when I say fear, you ever heard of Maya Angelou's poem? She said, the greatest fear we have is not that we are inadequate, but it's that we are like, I'm going to butcher this. I think it's Mandela, actually, originally. Is that what it is? It was Mandela originally. Essentially what it says is the greatest fear is that we are like we're the one where as powerful as can be. Right. And so this all remember it. I feel like a broken record sometimes, but it all comes back to whatever you're experiencing on the outside is just a match for how you're living on the inside.

39:37So all of that is correct. Absolutely. I lived it. You lived it. And we can all go back and look at the fact that all of us in some way, shape or form had the frequency of fear inside of us. Fear of speaking my truth, fear of being seen, fear of being accepted for who I am, fear. Right. When you decide, because this is what I decided, Louis, I after 13 years of being married. Right. Which I'm grateful for. To this day, I love her i support her i provide for her um my dream actually has finally come true we are we're all like everyone is cool like everything is great right now right but i i i had to come to a realization and i said okay i know what it feels like to not have peace yeah right not fun not fun at all, man.

40:29Not fun at all. Because when you don't have peace in your life, that lack of peace shows up, listen to me, in your money. Literally, the lack of peace that you have within attracts clients, partners, careers that will give you more lack of peace because you're the one creating it. Right? And so it shows up in every facet of life. So, Lewis, I said to myself, if I'm gonna be with anyone, my number one priority is peace. I know. So key, man. That was my thing too. That, yeah. My three things is funny because four, it was four, four and a half years ago, I started healing within a previous relationship because I wanted to get out, but the therapist that I just started working with, she was like, you can get out and run away but you're probably going to attract and recreate this again unless you heal within it which is which was our previous conversation start the journey of healing and and diving all into the relationship like and creating the boundaries and speaking up and doing all the things you've been afraid to do because you get a reaction from the person and how could if you could sit in the fire and actually own your power and own your voice and if she runs away if she screams and she says like okay it is what it is but I'm gonna stand up for me yeah I'm gonna be there for the little boy in me that never got to speak up that's right when I started to do that it was probably like a six-month journey of doing this and it was a freaking nightmare we were living together I would you know create a boundary loving and consciously calmly and then screaming and go together in the silent treatment for days and the whole thing right and I had to learn how to sit with it person that you're pouring into is giving you the silent treatment for days blaming you, making you wrong for not giving in to what they want, right?

42:22I need to learn to say, okay, you do you. I'm going to be okay. I'm safe. I'm creating my own home, right? Which is very healthy masculine energy, by the way. Yeah. Very healthy masculine energy. And by the way, that is wounded feminine energy. And I can see it. That's right. Yeah, yeah. That's right. And I was like, okay, she's in her process. I'm going to let her be her thing. And it's not what I want. This isn't what I want. It's not my vision, right? But I'm going to keep processing this and keep stepping up for me in this process from a conscious, loving way.

42:59And everything I said to the therapist that I was working with was, she asked me, what do you want? And I said, I want three things. I knew right away, my body just spoke it. I want peace, clarity, and freedom. Because I didn't feel like I had any of it in the relationship. Peace, clarity, and freedom. That was the whole thing I wanted. Right. Can you pause right there? Yes. Do you guys remember what I told you? I said at the very beginning or maybe in the previous episode that if you could finally look at everything that has been in your life and accept it and thank it. Mm-hmm. Because it will be the greatest teacher and give you the greatest gift of your life when you finally allow yourself to do it.

43:41literally you going through that relationship showed you what you no longer wanted I don't want this showed you what you wanted and attracted your new fiance exactly yeah yeah it was beautiful but if I had a if I would have run away and kind of gone into my old pattern I'm like okay I'm just gonna be single for a while and then go have fun and then right get in the next relationship where I feel something yeah it would just kept repeating it yeah and so I really was just like okay I need to sit with this and really do this work and heal this part of me that's been attracting from a wound. That's right, yeah.

44:12Because I felt like I was doing better. I was healing over the last 10 years in other areas of my life, but I still in intimacy struggled. Sounds like something you did too. Yeah, yeah. And so in the dating phase with Martha, I was just like, I need to do everything different than what I did before and how I attracted and how I got into a relationship. and that was be a 100 % authentically myself, say 100 % the truth, not like hide a little bit of things where I think maybe they're going to explode. I was just like, this is what I've done in my past. This is who I am. This is what I want in my future.

44:49Just like all of it. Yeah. If she can't accept it, then I can't be with her. That's right. And I had to accept all of her stuff too. Everything from her past. And if I can't accept it, I shouldn't be with her. It's simple. I shouldn't be with you. That's right. I can't blame you for something you already did. And that's why whenever I deal with couples who are like, the one has cheated. Yes. It's either. You're going to accept it, go into it and heal it. And by the way, understand that if they cheated, you co-created that. Yeah, which no one wants to hear. No one wants to hear that. They're the victim.

45:19It's a lot of people who say, well, I didn't do that. Listen to me. They cheated for a reason so that you could heal part of you that attracted someone that was going to cheat. Period. End of story. I know, but people don't like hearing that. It's the truth. I understand it's the truth, but people don't like hearing it. Yeah. People are going to be really frustrated because a lot of people have been watching or listening or who've been cheated and they said, I did nothing wrong. I gave to this man. I gave to this woman everything. I gave her all my money. I gave her all my love, my support. I raised the kids.

45:46I did everything and they cheated. Right. Screw them. It's their fault. I'm not to blame. What are you talking about, Danny? I can guarantee you there was a part of you that wasn't in your power, that wasn't in your authenticity. But that's not my fault. They cheated. 100 % anything that you are in or not in is 100 % your creation. 100%. I kind of like hearing that. It's the truth. But they gave everything, and they still cheated. They tried everything, and they still cheated. Maybe they gave too much, so much so that they didn't honor themselves. There's always a reason. There's always a reason.

46:22So I gave so much love, should I stop giving all my love? I'm going to block my love. Hang on, because let's talk about this. Because what is cheating? cheating is you being with someone else without telling the without consent that's it yes yes because i know throuples for right i know open relationships i know as long as you have consent it's not cheating yes right so so hang on a second so then your partner had some sort of hidden desire that they didn't feel comfortable sharing with you why didn't they feel comfortable sharing them with you maybe just maybe could you have not provided a comfortable and open space where they could share everything maybe maybe i'm gonna be devil's advocate here what if okay sure i provided a safe space for them to talk but they still cheated they still went with their temptations their pleasures the desires and they didn't commit to the relationship they let all the temptation and our relationship go out the window for outside pleasure.

47:25Well, then just stay there and watch it happen again. I know. Yeah, yeah. Or, I hear what you're saying. I know, I know, I know. By the way, this is, I only speak of the things that I, I cheated. I had an affair. Louis, I was that guy that when like all of the husbands were going on a guy's trip, the wives would only allow their husbands to go if Danny was going. Oh, wow. Because I was Mr. Goody Two Shoes. Wow. Because I wanted to create this facade that I had it all together. And deep inside, it was all a lie. Wow. It was all a lie, man. So I created it. Yeah? And by the way, so did my ex. I know she may not want to hear that, but we couldn't speak about this stuff.

48:12We couldn't. I couldn't even share the truth as to why I forgot the milk at the grocery store, let alone that. Right. If I forgot the milk at the grocery store, I would get my balls chopped off. Are you kidding me? I would never hear the end of it. And then if I said, the, did you just say the? It was like a, it was like a, there was nothing I could do. You're wrong no matter what. I'm wrong no matter what. So tell me something. Yeah. If that's how you, if that's how you react. Yeah. What do you think is happening? What do you, what do you, what do you, what do you think? And people used to tell me all the time.

48:48People used to say, you know, everyone makes mistakes. Because trust me, man, I dealt with the guilt of that. That was a very deep, dark journey. You got to live with that. I lived with it, you know, and I don't wish that on anybody. I really don't because I am aware of the pain that it caused. But you know, ultimately, what both of us discovered? Like, we were trying to hold on to each other for all the wrong reasons. We, we, there wasn't real love. There was just the facade. And so like when I look back, it's like, it wasn't a mistake. It was, it was like, it was the, the, the key that unlocked both of us from the cage.

49:33Yes. Like if you could really allow yourself to look at things from like, from like a different perspective, like that's where you'll find your healing then. Where do you think most people, the biggest problem is for most people today in getting into a relationship or being in an unhealthy relationship? It's the lack of being able to speak your authentic truth, period, in the story. And is a lack of speaking your authentic truth coming from a wounded self? It's coming from, there's an energy within you from a spiritual energetic perspective. fifth, your throat chakra is blocked. You had an experience as a little boy or as a little girl where you weren't seen or accepted for your truth.

50:18And your mother or your father told you that your voice in some way, shape or form, because this is how this all happens. And then you attract someone from that wounding. And then both of you never share your truth. Or when you finally do, it comes out in anger because that's the other side of the wounding basically. And then when it comes out like that, there's no reflection. Like, don't get me wrong. Me and Jen, we get into our situations, but we always like, here, I'm going to leave you like this. If you get this, you'll heal your relationship. But this takes immense amount of courage. From this day forward, everything that happens in your relationship, every argument, every disagreement, everything that goes wrong, if you are ready to heal your relationship, here's what I want you to do.

51:06Make it your fault. everything everything um what's that book that jocko wrote uh something uh responsibility uh something responsibility there's something about like yeah discipline equals freedom i think it's yeah but there was there was one he wrote about something like responsibility accept 100 responsibility and you know what i started realizing i started realizing that everything that I would blame Jen for, like secretly there was something I did. Maybe it was the energy in which I came to the conversation. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But maybe it was the fact that I wanted to get into an argument with her.

51:50Maybe it was the fact that I didn't share my truth. Whatever it was. And when you can learn to accept ownership and responsibility for everything, here's what you do. Then you communicate it. And you say, you say, baby, I realized that the way I showed up was wrong. I wasn't being authentic or, you know, the energy in which I was speaking from, it was manipulative and I'm sorry. And I'm not aware of why I did that, but I can see it's a pattern that has been showing up in my life for so long. Cause that's what started happening, man. Here's my dream woman. And she would start saying the exact same thing that my ex would say about me.

52:33So it's either they're crazy or I'm crazy. Right? And once I realized I was the crazy one, well, then I got to go into it. Wow. What was your current wife saying that your previous wife used to say? Yeah, they would both say, but Danny, you don't understand. It's the energy in which you say it. And I'd be like, no, I'm being nice. So then I was. Yeah, it's the energy. I was like, I was coming into this with a charge. Sure. Right. I was coming into it expecting to not be heard. So, of course, they're not going to hear me. So who created it? Me. What are women getting wrong in the Western world today with choosing a certain type of men?

53:23Well, I don't want to say that they're getting it wrong. What is creating more pain than peace? The greatest pain that is being created inside the life of women today is that they have been taught several things that are keeping them disconnected from love. Number one, they're in a competition with other women. They need to realize that other women are their sisters. And whenever they're in competition with other women, they're actually in competition with themselves. Whenever they judge other women, they're actually judging themselves. The second thing that is keeping women from their heart is women have been taught that their value is on the outside.

54:06And so women, and I say this lovingly, but women are so preoccupied with changing, adding, removing their outside. And the message that I think love has for them is that they are perfect exactly the way they are. And there's a reason why they were born the way that they were born. and the moment that they start to cherish and honor and accept themselves for who they are and not change to conform to what society wants of them or for what a man wants of them, they'll be in their power. And from that power, they will attract, guess what? A man that is also in love with himself for who he is, right?

54:50And the third thing that I think is keeping women from the love they truly desire is that they will not allow a man to fully love them, protect them, and provide for them. Because they have been the man in their life. They have been the masculine in their life. And the only way, the only way for a man, a masculine man, a safe man, a loving man to come into your life is if you stop being the man in your life. Oh, my gosh. I don't think women like hearing that, though. Women don't like hearing that, but women love hearing that. Mm-hmm. Why is it so hard for women to allow a man to love them, protect them, and provide for them?

55:43Because the man that was supposed to protect them, love them, and provide for them didn't. He broke their hearts. Mm-hmm. He wasn't there for them. And he taught them that trusting and leaning on and counting on a man was the last thing they should ever do in their life. It's a father wound. Or it could be a mother wound in where they saw their mother be defenseless with their father. And they told themselves, I will never be that ever again. What is the mind to all women to be more in their protector-provider mode and maybe telling men to be less in their protector -provider mode, what seems to look like in society more than ever before right now?

56:37Why is that happening? Because the energy of society, it's a fear consciousness. I'm gonna be very gentle with this, but let's just look at the recent election, okay? Let's talk about fear and victim energy. By the way, I didn't vote, so I'm not... I have no fight in this game. Yes. Because I decided a couple years ago that the game of politics is actually the game of separation. It's a losing game. It's a losing game. It's a game of pitting one against the other. So watch this. Someone loses. Someone loses. Half the country loses, half the world loses, whatever it is. And by the way, someone's right and someone's wrong.

57:18Yeah. And when someone's right and someone's wrong, we're all wrong. That's right. That is separation. We used to walk around planet Earth butt naked, loving each other. That's who we are at our core. We're love, right? And so when you're in victim energy, all of your energy and fear energy is put into something outside of you. So you are on pins and needles for your person to win. Because if and when they win, my life will be different. There is no more deeper bullshit that you are falling into than that. you are the president of your life period end of story you are the creator of your life but then watch this victim fear energy which is literally all of hollywood all of the news all of the machine which wants to keep you in it they're constantly just programming you with fear right so then when your person win or doesn't win guess what happens you go into fear oh my god my how could i live in this world, this world, this world with so much bad things happening in this world.

58:33What if you shut off the damn program? Yeah, you don't see it. What if you shut off the TV? True story. I don't know what the hell is going on in the world because it was shown to me very clearly that the TV is the very thing that is being used to program us and keep us in fear. I don't know who's at war. I don't know who won the game. I don't know. I'm oblivious because I want to stay here. I don't need that to entertain me or to fill me. I'm filled in here. You want life? Close your eyes. Sit in silence. You want to meet God, by the way? Go sit in nature for 30 minutes. Take a deep breath in.

59:15Hold that breath. Release it. Do that six, seven, eight, nine times, and then just sit in stillness. Watch all of your ailments. Watch your body heal, your life heal. Because you're going to meet God. You're going to meet God. You're going to meet the creator. You want to manifest it here. You, the center of the universe, is literally all right here. But you're being told that it is out there. Why do we seem to have more men not stepping into their power? By the way, so let me keep going. Thank you. So what does fear want? Fear wants chaos. Fear wants darkness. So fear and the consciousness of fear and separation devises this plan.

1:00:05I know what we're going to do. We're going to make the women men and the men women. Because when those energies come together, guess what happens? We will create children that are in the energies of chaos, guilt, and shame. They can't be in their power. Because when they're in their power, they're being shown by a man, a father, what true masculinity is, and by a woman, what true femininity is. And the more and more that these babies are being created in chaos, guilt, and shame, the more that darkness can live. The last thing it wants is for men to be in their masculine and women to be in their ephemera.

1:00:45Because if that happens, guess what will happen here on earth, Lewis? Heaven on earth. Love. Love. Love. The heaven that religion tells you that you need to wait for someday out there, you will literally experience it here on earth. And if you want that, remove all separation that is within you. Remove all racism that is within you. Start there. Start there. Anything in you that sees yourself as less than or greater than someone else. I used to be in real estate, and I used to be a part of a club that was only for, like, Hispanic real estate agents. That's me creating and filling the energy of racism.

1:01:27Wow. I'm the one creating it. If I'm walking down... Can't you be, you know, inspired by your culture and your country and... You are not your culture. You are not your country. You are you. I'm not Hispanic. I'm not American. I'm a human being and my country is the world and my religion is love. Period on the story. Watch what happens when you start going on that journey. Watch how beautiful life gets. Money. Dream partner. Because you have finally gotten it. That you are love. Yeah. And the biggest thing separating people from love is what? well the world that we live in the the the the the game is this that was you come down into this world and the world is made to take you from your power all of your power believes in and listens to everybody else you listen to your mom and dad you listen to your teacher then you listen to the government then you listen to the preacher you listen to everybody but you and that shows you to be separate from God.

1:02:42So you're praying and hoping, God, please change my life. Please change my life. Please change my life. Until one day you realize, this ain't working. This ain't working. Because they keep attracting the same thing. Right? And then you go on the journey. You go on the journey of no longer believing what the world, society, religion, when nothing has told you, you go on the journey of finding the truth for yourself and discovering who you are. And when you do that and you have the courage to unravel everything within you that has anything to do with fear, anything to do with not honoring your truth, guess what you discover, man?

1:03:24You discover exactly what Jesus said when they asked him, Who are you? Who are you? And what did he say? I am that I am. They say, You're God. Are you God? God, I and the Father are one. And that very thing is available for all of humanity. That's beautiful, man. Thank you. There's a lot more we could talk about here about relationships. I felt we just scratched the surface, but you've got a lot of great content in your own podcast about relationships as well. And also on your Instagram, Danny Morrell, DannyMorrell.com. You've got an amazing three-day event that you do that helps people step into their power, own their voice, heal, and start the journey of healing that they can get at dannymorrell.com is where they can find that information.

1:04:17Backslash awaken. Backslash awaken. Or rakenyou.co. Is that the site for the... Yeah, or dannymorrell.com backslash awakenyou. Okay, cool. How many times do you do that event a year? If I could, every day of my life. Yeah, but how many is it happening? We will do 10 of them in 2020. 10 of them? Yeah. Wow, man. Almost every month you're doing an event. I just, I. That's great. Louis, there's nothing on planet Earth like you seeing a human being uncover their eyes and look at you with tears going, I get it. Yeah. It's powerful. There's nothing. Yeah, I get it. I get it. No, I understand. So if people want to check out more from you, you've got a podcast.

1:04:59Is it the Higher Self podcast or is it a different one now? Yeah, we've got two. It's the Higher Self. And then with my wife, we do finding the one. Oh, that's good. Okay So if you want more of the relationship stuff go to check out finding them one podcast with you and your wife Also, just Danny morale calm will have all this stuff linked up and we'll link it up all as well I've got two final questions for you Danny. Let's do it Before I ask them I want to acknowledge you Danny for your transformation Thank you man for your constant journey of transforming and healing and growing Which it's going to be a journey for both of us till we die sure and for your courage to let go of an old self that no longer served you or humanity in the highest level, for the courage to let go of the, you know, the big businesses and do more of the work you're doing and things like that.

1:05:43And to find ways to create healing with your previous wife, to bring that family and merge it in a certain way that has boundaries and healthy love as well with your current life and new child that you have. So congratulations on being a model and example and breaking the mold of Hispanic culture, even though you're not Hispanic culture, but you come from that culture that has a stereotype and a mold that a man needs to be a certain way. And I appreciate you being a voice and being an example for men from that culture to say, oh, if I want peace and freedom, maybe it doesn't have to look this way that my great-grandfather and grandfather and father all did.

1:06:26Maybe I can be the one in my family to change the legacy moving forward. That's right. So I acknowledge you for that as well. This is a question I ask everyone towards the end called the three truths. Hypothetical question. Imagine you get to live as long as you want to live. But it's the last day for you. You accomplish all of your dreams. You see your kids grow up and they accomplish their dreams. But it's your last day on earth. And for whatever reason in this hypothetical scenario, all of your work has to go with you. Or we don't get to keep it on this earth. It's gone. This conversation gone.

1:07:01all the videos you've created, books, workshops, it's all gone. But you get to leave behind three truths. And we would get to keep this. This is all Earth would have of your kind of teachings or memories or lessons. What would those three lessons or three truths be for you? Everything you've ever wanted and every question you've ever answered is already within you. there is no separation between you the plants the animals your brothers and sisters as you are all one and you and god are one

1:07:50very good awesome it's kind of all it's almost all in one all three of them are one yeah you are one with everything. Final question. What's your definition of greatness? Discovering yourself and living from your authentic self. Danny, thanks for being here, man. Thank you. Appreciate you, brother. Thank you, man. I hope you enjoyed today's episode and it inspired you on your journey towards greatness. Make sure to check out the show notes in the description for a full rundown of today's episode with all the important links. And if you want weekly, exclusive bonus episodes with me personally, as well as ad-free listening, then make sure to subscribe to our Greatness Plus channel exclusively on Apple Podcasts.

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