How To Shift Your FREQUENCY To Attract ABUNDANCE In Every Area Of Your Life | Danny Morel

0:00There are two big things happening at one time that I've never done before. I'm going on a book tour for my new book, Make Money Easy, and I'm doing a podcast tour at the same time. It is going to be big, and I'm going to seven cities in 10 days. Get your friends, get your family, bring everyone you know to these cities. I'm coming to Austin, Texas, New York, Boston. We're going to Nashville. Then we're going to Los Angeles, San Diego, and San Francisco. Make sure to get your tickets right now. Go to lewishouse.com slash tour. Again, bring everyone you know if you're looking to create more financial freedom and abundance in your life.

0:40And you want to see a massive guest live on the School of Greatness show. Get your tickets. I can't wait to see you there. Thank you so much for being here. I've got a couple of big announcements. And if you follow me on social media, then you might have seen that last week I got married. That's right. your boy Lewis Howes got married. It took me a while. It took me lots of lessons, let's say, different relationships that taught me how to heal, how to grow, how to develop, how to become a better partner, all these different things. And I finally got married. And I'll tell you what, it was an incredible weekend.

1:22I'm not going to lie. It was beautiful. It was magical. It was special. I had all my closest family, friends, Martha's closest family and friends. We kept it as intimate as possible. It was challenging because we have so many friends, but we wanted to keep it as small as possible. So we really just had people that we spend the most time with there and it was a special weekend. If you want to see more, you can check out on social media, more of my accounts and what I've been posting, photos, videos, all that stuff. But I am just a blessed and grateful man. And I'm so grateful for Martha in my life.

2:04If you've been listening or watching this show for a while, you hear me speak about Martha a lot in our relationship. She truly is a special, one-of-a-kind human being. And she fully accepts me. And that's probably the thing that made me love her the most is because I have big dreams and big passions and I'm a committed human being to so many different things. She just fully accepts me. All the good things about me, all the flaws that I have, the imperfections, she accepts it. And her willingness to want to grow and be on the journey of personal growth together is a blessing. I'm telling you what, when you are with a partner who is open-minded at least to learning something or to reading a book with you once in a while or going to a workshop or doing counseling together and just creating healthy conversations that might be uncomfortable.

2:56It is incredible to feel that. So we had an amazing weekend. If you want to hear more about it, just let me know somewhere. Send me a message over on Instagram or DM me or message me somewhere letting me know. Maybe we will do a full recap of our wedding experience, lessons learned, because there were some challenges actually leading into the wedding that we had to overcome, but all beautiful things that supported us in our growth. We did a lot of communicating and agreements before leading into marriage, and I feel so grateful that we did because it just feels good. It feels strong. It feels good, and it's setting us up for the next chapter.

3:39So I'm very grateful, excited. I'm a little worn down, I'll tell you that. A little worn down, so I've been recovering, relaxing, and getting ready for my book tour. That's right. I'm going around the country in March. So if you haven't seen that yet, go to the link in the description just below here on the podcast. Come say hi to me on tour for the Make Money Easy book tour and also the School of Greatness podcast tour at the same time. Guys, it's going to be amazing. I'm excited to see all of you give you high fives, hugs. and I'm going to Austin, Texas. I'm going into Boston. I'm going to New York, Nashville.

4:16Then we're coming back to the West Coast. We're going to Los Angeles, San Diego, and San Francisco. So make sure to get your tickets. Please bring your friends, your family. Bring everyone you know. It's going to be a fun evening of greatness with all of you, and I can't wait to see you there. Also, the book is coming out very soon. Make sure to go to makemoneyeasybook.com where you can preorder the book. You can get tickets to the events as well. And I hope to see you on the book tour or at least with a book in your hands. So please pre-order that book right now and help us get it up on the charts on Amazon and all the different places online.

4:55Because if you want to transform your relationship with money, if you want to feel more abundant with money, if you want to make money easy instead of making it hard in your life, then this is the book for you. Make sure to pick up a copy of Make Money Easy today. Pre-order it right now as it comes out in less than a month. But today, I'm sitting down with Danny Morrell, who I've been following this guy online for probably the last year and a half and just really appreciate his content. We're going to be drawing from his own journey of external success and inner transformation. He's really sharing today how our earliest childhood experiences create the subconscious is programming that shapes our relationship with love, safety, and abundance, and how healing those core wounds is the key to creating lasting fulfillment.

5:41It's a lot about what I talk about in my book, Make Money Easy as well, which is understanding your money story, your unique money style today, so you can learn what those money wounds are for you and break through for more financial abundance and inner abundance as well. We've got some powerful insights that Danny is going to be sharing with you today. I'm so excited this. So let's go ahead and dive in with the one and only Danny Morrell. Welcome back everyone to the School of Greatness. Very excited about our guest. We have the inspiring Danny Morrell in the house. Good to see you, man. Welcome.

6:17Welcome. Thank you. You have a quote I want to start with that I want to read. Okay. It's a quote that you said that said, from the moment we're born, we're taught that life is a balancing act, a struggle between work, relationships, health, and finances. The secret is for true success and personal fulfillment, one must have it all. Financial freedom, great health, rewarding relationships, and meaningful work. You must live a life of abundance. You can have it all. What we are talking about right before this is that a lot of people have pain, sadness, and suffering in their lives. And a lot of people don't feel like they have it all.

6:58What is the root cause of the pain, suffering, and sadness that a lot of people are feeling in the world right now that's keeping them blocked from having it all? Okay. We're going there. I love it. Let's do it. So it all starts when you're born. if you think about it you are in the comfort the safety the protection of your mother's womb and you don't need anything yeah you're you're getting fed you're getting your nutrients there's there's nothing to do do masculine right and then you are born and all of a sudden the lights are on so think about this you go from dark to light that's the polarity that's where it all begins And in that moment you cry, that's where fear enters your life.

7:47The mother's womb is love, the feminine, right? And then the lights and the crying, that is essentially, that's the masculine. That's your mind going, what's going on? The senses. That's right. And how can I keep safe, right? So now when you're born, you're literally, just picture yourself as a baby right now. And I would love for your listeners to just like connect to the child right in them, the innocence of them. You're born and you're on your back and you're helpless and defenseless. Right. Your entire life is dependent upon these two people, which are your caretakers, which is your mother and your father.

8:28What you eat and if you eat or don't eat, what you feel, all of it, just from the way that they are looking down on you, they immediately start to imprint into your subconscious mind your beliefs around life. So if your parents look down on you like this, you are thinking, oh, my God, life is awesome. Right. But if your parents were in the middle of maybe a divorce or an argument or money issues or stress, anxiety, maybe drug issues, maybe maybe abuse. You know, these are real things that happen in life. Then you are looking up like, I don't know if this thing called life is safe. As a matter of fact, I feel like this thing called life is meant to be struggle.

9:17and you are thrust out of your heart, love, abundance, you are it all, connection with God into the mind. And immediately your whole focus is how do I protect myself and keep myself alive? Basically, right? Now, here's the issue. You keep growing on. And as you start to develop, right, you start learning from this mother and this father and this mother and this father, based off of their woundings and based off of their life's experiences, pass down and into you more love or more fear, further thrusting you into one or the other. In my case, when I looked up, I saw a beautiful mom. And my mom's mom died when she was only 13 days old.

10:09The mother is the feminine. The feminine is the heart. So that means that my mom did not grow up with literally the frequency or the energy of love because the mother is the source of love, right? This is why God made the woman to have breasts and to give milk because... Next to the heart. And next to the heart, absolutely, because it's the love coming from her sustaining the life in the child, right? The father is meant to be a source of guidance, direction, masculine, right? My father was the result of an affair. And so his dad disowned him. And I'll tell you something else that's really interesting.

10:52My dad, to this day, can't complete a sentence without a stutter. And I always wondered, like, this doesn't make sense. Because like, for me, communication is pretty easy right come to find out his dad was like the local politician business person and it it finally all made sense so i had a masculine wound and a feminine wound so what happens is that when we have these woundings we are essentially taught like i'm not getting the love that i i i should be getting you may never be thinking it you're just feeling something's off Lewis, it's so deep. It is no here. It's everywhere. And you start to create this story in the first seven years of your life.

11:39I'm not lovable. I'm not enough. I'm not enough. And maybe sometimes I can't be me. Maybe sometimes it's, I can't speak my truth because my dad told me to shut up. Maybe I can't express my emotions because every time I want to cry, my mom says, I'll give you something to cry about. And when the mother, the source of love does that, get ready because your throat chakra locked up. Man, my throat was locked for 30 plus years of my life, you know, until I started to use it in certain ways. I mean, it wasn't even until even almost a year ago when I had to learn how to use it in different ways. It's like I still had to keep unlocking different levels of using my voice in business, intimacy, relationships, friends, family, like different levels.

12:26That's right. Absolutely. And you know what the crazy thing, Lewis, is like you mentioned those pillars, like there are three energies of human mastery. We're a soul having a human experience. And so when we come into this world, we have an opportunity to master these three energies, money, sex, and food, right? Think about most of our issues. Most of our issues are all surrounded around money. Do I have enough? Am I going to survive? You know, sex, relationships, can I connect, right? And then food, diet, body, right? So when we don't receive love from our mother and father in the purest form, which by the way, let me let you in on the secret, there's no way they can give it to you.

13:09Right. Yeah. Right? There's no perfect parents. No, and as a matter of fact, they were perfect for you because your soul chose them. You're here on a journey, right? And your soul looked down before you came to earth and said, those two. And I know that might be hard because in the work that I do, I've heard of dads that rape women. I've heard of drug abuse. I've heard of physical beatings. All of it. all of it lends to a human being who starts looking outside of them for love so how do we look for love we look for love through success we look for love through power we look for love through admiration of the body this is where a lot of our women are at right now beauty right we look through love through materialism we look for love through yes money right when we're in the wrong energies and we look for love through relationships when am i going to find the one right the journey of life is about returning to that that that that child and reconnecting with that child and understanding that everything that happened was perfect because it brought you to this moment and once you're in this moment right then you can start the process of healing and you can start the process of moving from the frequency of fear into the frequency of love and when you do that, Lewis, what happens is you return here and then you go, okay, what do I want in my life?

14:42Not because I'm searching for it. Not because the world tells me that I need it. No. What do I want for my life? What is the truth? What is my truth? Who am I? Right? Not because I'm afraid because my dad didn't give me guidance and I'm afraid to hold the camera up or not because I'm afraid to speak my truth not because I need outside validation. No, no, no, no, no, no. What is my truth? What do I want? And then from there it's a process of awakening and healing. And Louis once you get there you can have it all because you literally are it all. Yeah. You literally are it all. That's a beautiful explanation and I you know I've read part of your bio and your story where you, you know, you were married, you have multiple children, and you built a massive real estate business that did a billion dollars in transactions from real estate, you know, hundreds of employees, all the success was there.

15:44Yeah. But a lot of it went crashing down. Yeah. Where was the biggest pain in your life that you've had to face and start to overcome? And what was on the other side of facing and overcoming that pain or fear? Yeah. everything we have ever wanted is just on the other side of fear and the thing that i realized i was the most afraid of was knowing who i am and living from that truth i'm gonna like who are you i'm love who were you before i was fear yeah in every way shape or form so like my money a billion dollars in sales right i had the car i had the house i had it all right but what was i what was the energy inside of me that wanted that i wanted what was on the other side of that i wanted the validation the acceptance the success which my subconscious thought love right the relationship i was married for 13 years and i can tell you louis i remember the day at my wedding day when the cameraman came up to me and said, what do you want to tell your beautiful wife to be?

17:00And I literally thought, oh shit, what do I say? Because I wasn't in love. Wow. I was just doing the next thing that society tells me I needed to do. And I was searching for love outside of me. So I thought once I get married, I have happy, I'll be happy. And when that wasn't enough, it was once I have kids I'll be happy and then finally when my mom died that's when everything came crashing down because when I discovered that man I discovered oh my god I'm not happy how old were you then

17:3639 yeah 40 some way back yeah so you realize after your mom passed you're like oh you're started having an awakening of I have it all but I have nothing and I'm not happy and I'm not happy and I'm going to events by the way who took who give me a wheel and talk to me about the balance of life and Lewis every year and it's like they make you like scribble in like and every year is like out of balance out of balance and no matter what I did I was like okay this time I'm gonna wake up earlier or this time I'm gonna go on a date night right or or this time I'm gonna like go on a diet and every year was out of balance it was because it's always meant to be out of balance if you're living life from the outside in.

18:20When life, when your relationship, your money, your health, all of it is just a reflection of what's in here, there is no work-life balance. It's just who you are. It's just who you are. So when people feel out of balance in their life, what is their life actually saying to them? that there's a part of them that they have yet to access that most likely they've been afraid to access so someone's struggling with their money or someone's struggling with their health or their relationship feels like it's falling apart let's start with money yeah if someone is struggling with money they have to understand that money is simply energy it's just energy and we are just energy.

19:07So then the money that you earn or don't earn is very simply a reflection of the energy that you live with inside of yourself. The thoughts, feelings, and emotions that you have within yourself. I'll give you an example. Your mind goes, it's time to start a business, right? But then that subconscious story, maybe the one that your dad taught you, your mom taught you, your aunts and uncles taught you, the TV taught you, will ask how, and you're stuck. And you stay stuck in the land of how. Yeah, it's the wrong question. It's the wrong question, right. But we've been so programmed to ask the wrong questions, right?

19:47I'll give you another example. What's the question we should be asking around that? Why? Why? Why do you want more money? Because I want to be free to live my life. Because I want to give my family whatever they want. because I don't want to be trapped, because I want to give back and I want to contribute to other people because I want to leave a legacy for my family, because I want to live life on my terms without restrictions. Okay, you really want that? Do you really want that? What's the price you got to pay to get it? What's the price you got to pay? And here it is. Deal with how. Deal with how that word has been stopping you in every part of your life because it doesn't just stop you in your money.

20:30it stops you in your relationships it stops you in your body it stops you in all three of the energies of human mastery it's your mind it's your ego's little trick that it's been using on you to keep you from greatness and you haven't been aware of it so you have to go into how right you have to go into the fear right what if it all fails okay what would you learn from that

20:57like glitch in the matrix right who do you become right what are the lessons that you learn from that what if i make the video and they don't like it okay what would that teach you right who what what's what new strategy would you have to implement or are you going to give all of your life's meaning and all of your financial worth to someone not liking the video which you're free to do like god gave us the ability to to choose and and that's that's the biggest thing is you can always choose to make something wrong or you could choose to make it perfect you know what i mean yeah like my dad wasn't in my life my mom didn't know how to love me for so long man i harbored so much negative emotions towards my dad.

21:45I hated him, quite frankly. And what I didn't realize is that when I or we as human beings hate or have unresolved negative energy with our father, we actually have unresolved negative energy and hate with the masculine part of ourselves. Wow. And with God, Lewis. And with God. We're resenting, why did God have my father do this to me or not be there for me? All of it. All of it. Because you have to understand, when you go back to that little baby version of you, no one's taught you about church yet. No one's taught you about religion yet. None of that has set in. So who on earth do you think God is?

22:27The mom and the dad. The mom and the dad. The masculine and the feminine. So when you have unresolved anger with your dad, there is unresolved anger with your masculine, and it is going to block your life's capacity to go out and envision and create the life of your dreams. If you're a woman who has unresolved resentment or trauma or stress with your father, bingo, whether he was in your life or he wasn't in your life and you have that energy towards your father, whether he's alive or he's dead, I'll tell you exactly what's going to happen. What is going to happen for a woman in their life unless they learn to either forgive or transform that energy into love and meaning right so number one she will create a story subconsciously she doesn't grab a book and go this is my life story no dude it's it's like it's it's in her it's in her cells it's in her dna and that story will say something along the lines of from this day forward my heart has been broken and i will never allow my heart to be broken by a man ever again for as long as I live.

23:35And so what I am going to do subconsciously and energetically is put a trap door around my heart. And I'm going to go and live life from my mind. And I will be my own protector. And I will be my own provider. And I will give myself what my dad was never able to give me. Now watch. That's all great. But then what happens when you're looking for love? What happens when that woman is looking for real love? Well, the only way she'll access it is to reopen her heart. The only way she'll access it is to go back and heal that story, which is the scariest thing for a human being to do. Because guess what that means, Louis?

24:24That means you have to go back to the very place that you promised yourself. Not consciously. I would never go to see it. unconsciously i will never let this happen i will never let this happen again and the and the defensiveness and the and the walls have to fall you have to open yourself up and go that part of me i'm gonna allow it to die yes to die because if not here's the kind of man she will attract she will attract a man by the way and the life financially that will keep her constantly chasing, that will keep her constantly protecting, that will keep her constantly providing, which by the way, the world today is encouraging that.

25:07It's encouraging that. And there's a dark spiritual reason for why that's happening. But if you are the man, then how can you attract a man? So you'll attract a male, he'll have a penis. Yes. Don't get me wrong. Yes. But energetically, he'll be in his wounded masculine or in his feminine energy. What is a wounded masculine energy? It's a lack of courage. It's a lack of self-worth. It's a lack. It's timidity. It's not being able to speak your truth. It shows up in a lot of different ways. Sometimes it's manipulative. Sometimes it's highly driven sexually. And so it'll go out and conquer, conquer, conquer, conquer, conquer.

25:56And get, get, get, get, get. Because it's looking for love, love, love, love, love. That it never got from its mother. So it taught itself, I'm going to live through the body. Right? I'm not going to feel. I'm just going to go. Right? It's manipulative and controlling at times with money, with finances. but in that case with the woman that we're describing the man will most likely be for lack of better words weak yeah it's where you see those relationships my mom wore the pants yes it's right because the because that woman remember what she said unconsciously i will never let this be accessed ever again right so energetically you ain't even doing this consciously You ain't even swiping and going, you know what?

26:51That one looks weak. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. You're literally, Louis, energetically, subconsciously attracting and calling in only the man that is in the feminine because you energetically know you can control him. Wow. And if you can control him, Louis, the mind, if you can control him, guess what he can never do? Hurt you.

27:21So when someone is looking to manifest or attract a relationship, an opportunity, financial abundance from a masculine wound or feminine wound, and they get the result they want, you created the business from the wound, you attracted more money, more success, notoriety, fame, whatever it might be. That's right. When we attract or manifest from a wounded place and we actually receive the thing we wanted, what happens? There will be a cost. A very deep, profound cost. For me, it was my body. I was 70 pounds overweight. I saw some old photos of you. Yeah, dude. I looked like I had like 20 pizzas.

28:07My head was literally like this. And I want to explain that, right? you see my soul and my heart knew that something was wrong yeah but but but i didn't know how to access it i didn't know that i wasn't living in my truth and so what happened was i finally had the money i had the big house i remember i i bought a piece of land and i built this big massive italian tuscan villa i i had i had the stuff right but I couldn't sit still I couldn't meditate meditate my mind was always racing I couldn't I couldn't make love I couldn't I couldn't look at my wife and I couldn't connect I wasn't connected to myself I couldn't receive her love she never had a shot with me she never had a chance because my heart was closed so it's like you're doing the thing right you're you're you're looking good on camera you're looking good on instagram every year passes you're putting the little the little the little cake and and your ego feels really i've been married for 25 years people you're miserable you're miserable because you cannot give or receive what you don't energetically have with yourself and i never knew that man i was just living for the show wow yeah when was the moment that you started to i guess kill off the old ego that was holding you back it the way i see it my mom died and it was a soul contract that we had and i'd love to explain that a little bit you know what is a soul contract a soul contract that just just picture like you and your parent right and you're hovering up as little angels and you guys have a plan and the plan is that like danny it's your term time to go heal so here's what we're gonna do i'm gonna go down first i'm gonna experience and call in my mom dying at 13 days old so that i could be wounded in this way so that I could never know how to give you love so that you can feel everything that you need to feel so that when I die, boom, it all comes online.

30:30And that's why Lewis, most transformation comes after a death or near death or a loss of a job or loss of a relationship is because our souls are calling this all in. If we could finally allow ourselves to look back and look at everything that has happened in life, that ex that you attracted, yeah, that narcissist one too, right? The one that treated you bad, your mother and their relationship with your father, that job that you almost got, but you didn't get all of it. And instead of judging it all as bad and as poor me, which keeps us in victim energy, check this out. People hate it when I say this, because the ego in them hates it because the ego knows that if you finally accept what I'm about to tell you, part of the ego must die.

31:24You were the creator of it all.

31:29All of it. Because it's either we're a victim or a creator. And when we create from a victim mindset, what happens? When we create from a victim mindset. Or we live life from a victim mindset. Yeah, because I don't know that with it. Well, no, no, we when we live life from a victim mindset, we are constantly calling in the right partner, the right career, the right everything to keep us in the victim mindset. Wow. So what needs to happen for us to switch from victim to creator? Because a lot of people who are in that victim space, and I've been there in the past. So I know the energy it's all consuming it's all encompassing of there's no way out everyone else is to blame right these things happen to me and so this is why i'm here yeah i feel emotionally depressed mentally psychologically overwhelmed that i have no energy to go create i love you so how can i even think of a life or a dream when i'm so much sadness and suffering and so much is against me emotionally physically broken everything is broken in my life yeah and no one is there to support me yeah so everyone everyone the world is against me right so why should i even create what's the point it's not going to work out i've tried in the past yeah it doesn't worry i want to be very sensitive to this person right now because there's a lot of people out there like that there's a lot of people out there right now and i'm sending you all my sincerest love because i and the work we do lewis I have dealt with, you see, that's a frequency.