Would You Let Your Partner Go On A Solo Holiday? Jude Bellingham, Fake Hobbies & Exposed Feet | The SheerLuxe Podcast

23:24And also, it's controversial, but DiCaprio's getting there for me. Yeah. Like, I see him in anything, I'm just like, That's just, you know, the guy from Wolf of Wall Street. Do you think they're all too famous now? Maybe, yeah. Or is there a lack of like... No, it's not a lack, is there? Maybe there's too much fourth wall breaking. So going back to the social conversation, we're seeing Timmy like front row of the Knicks. Yeah, I think it's that. It's too much. We know them too well. Yeah. I do like to not really know anything about a film before I go and watch it. Just know that if certain people like it or it's kind of, you know, that it's generally raved about and you know that it'll be a good, not a risky watch.

24:04That makes me sound so boring, doesn't it? No, I completely agree. Someone else likes it. Is there a risk analysis before going to the cinema? It's a really risky business. Okay, so what were your thoughts? It was really good. The only bit, I mean, this is quite a classic criticism, but the kind of way the fight at the end was so, So just like, that's what breaks the fourth wall for me. So choreographed. Yeah, it's like, it just wouldn't happen. I'd want a bit more realism. It was like a dance really, wasn't it? Yeah, there was no - I didn't really get that. It was like the amount of people that he killed in a space of like - Okay, you know, that actually did occur to me.

24:44I know, but Harvey, at that point, we've had like cyclopses and like - Yeah, I know. There's quite a lot of - That's the thing that annoyed me, weirdly. And that's so unrealistic. The cyclopses, legit. Yeah, because you're like, that's part of that world. Yeah, that's true. But he's still a man. He's not, he's not. Is he godlike? Superhuman. No. No, he's just got the gods on his side. Right. Okay, so there's a sort of. I did think, God, it's like, they're all rubbish and he's really good. But I did also think, oh, they're playing. It's kind of hot that you can just absolutely annihilate all these people.

25:13For a bit of context, this is at the end of the film. I don't think it's a spoiler on a 2 ,000-year-old text to say that Matt Damon kind of re-emerges into Ithaca where he's been trying to get back for 20 years and a battle ensues between him and lots of men. That is the context, yes. Also, we've got to talk about Tom Holland. And I'm sorry, the man can't act. Like, come on now. He's so sweet. The whole, he's so sweet. I like him so much. But you know that meme from Harry Potter where he says, not me, not Hermione, you. That was the whole film. Literally, that was the whole movie. I haven't seen much else with him in it.

25:48Is that his general kind of acting style? or was it for that character that he was creating? I was saying to you that I couldn't tell whether I found him annoying, as in Tom Holland, or whether I just found his character really irritating and pathetic. I think maybe it was a mix of the two, because he, in comparison, could not fight at all. He doesn't kill anyone, does he? He's really trying, but he's just a bit like... But that's okay, that's the character. That is the character, but then... Well, you said you didn't love his American accent. No, I just don't. He's just, I know he does it in Spider-Man.

26:21He's a decent Spider-Man, but I think it's such a different, like. Spider-Man is a bit of a nerd, isn't he? Yeah. Yeah, fair. Like Peter Parker. I did watch him in that. There was an Apple TV show that he made, which I can't remember the name of. Oh, Crowded Room? Yes. He was really good in that. He was really good in that. So maybe he should just stick to, maybe he needs to be better challenged and just not play sort of boy. That's a good point. Because that was quite a heavy show. Yeah, that's a good point. He was really good in that. Yeah, he was. What were your views of the Odyssey? I mean, I loved it.

26:51I think like, I agree with you on the actor thing and taking you out. Not quite as much as when, do you remember when Ed Sheeran was in Game of Thrones? Oh my God. Oh my God. That's, yes. Talking about taking you out of the show. So I do agree with that point. But I just, I think as a kind of, the world of what Nolan created and just an enjoyable watch, it was, I thought it was great. And I guess like, I also do find it quite refreshing that a lot of it's done in camera and not CGI. Because I think, I mean, there's a huge thing with CGI now, isn't it? It's like got worse than it was like 20 years ago.

27:25Yeah, they're too realistic. I saw a thing comparing like the original, it would compare to Cat from the original Toy Story to Toy Story Now. And it's like, now it's almost, the realism's too strong. Like you don't need to just watch a fake. It's like all these, you know, the Disney films that they're making and the live action. It's like, you're just, you're not changing anything. You're not doing anything. And almost the beauty of watching CGI The guy was the kind of cartoon, that's obviously for a cartoon, but was the same nature of it. Stylized element of it. Exactly. Probably not his best film.

27:54What's his best film? I think Interstellar. Okay, yeah. It's unreal. Just one of the best films of all time.

28:03Let's move on. Fashion finds. What's everybody got their eye on? So we're writing a piece, we, I'm writing a piece at the moment. Yeah, own it. On SL Man of kind of like summer sneakers, summer trainers. so that's been my world at the moment there was a I think it's from Lacoste called Lacoste Aura and some plimsolls from I think it's Morjas which is a Spanish brand they've got this kind of like fanned tongue so it's like kind of got a kind of texture to it so it's a plimsoll normally but then it has this kind of interesting detail what like the Adidas superstars have? no no no it's just like a tongue that's kind of crumpled a little bit but it looks quite elegant um like a pleat yeah that's actually what i'm trying to explain oh okay yeah like the la mer meals yes exactly yeah yeah so then next low profile oh yeah next so this is like a recreation of the classic low profile sneakers that i've been doing the rounds recently but this looks like a really really good version really sleek so if you're looking something a little bit more affordable in that kind of nice summer lightweight style.

29:14That's a good one. I think that dark trainers are quite hard to know how to style. So are the Lacoste ones, they're dark brown. They look dark brown. How are you wearing them to make them look cool? I hadn't really thought about that. Okay, well. I would go with, you know, keep the outfit darker. So like maybe dark brown trousers and just kind of keep it in that world. Color block it. Yeah. Okay, nice. Adam, what are you wearing? We'll do the boys first. Well, I have had my eye on a pair of sandals. Because this is what we were talking about. Yes. So these are like Huarachi sandals that are, they're hard to explain.

29:51They're a classic Huarachi, but they are, they're from Chamula. And - What's the words I don't understand? They're kind of, I know. What is this language you're speaking? What? So the brand is called Chamula. And they're Huarachi sandal. but they're basically like a sandal that covers your foot. So like the materials like woven instead of like a strappy sandal because I just can't even in the hottest of summer days get on board with the idea of getting my feet out. So what do you wear on holiday currently? Like to the beach, I'd probably just take like a pair of, no I would get my feet out of the beach obviously.

30:29But that's like, it's a natural environment to do it. I feel like London is quite a hard place to have your feet out in general, for me anyway. Like, because it's dangerous? No. Like, because you stubbed your toe or something? No, I just feel a little bit exposed. You should play with fire every day. I feel a little bit exposed. Maybe I haven't done it enough. Maybe we don't get to do it enough because we don't really have summers like we've been having. So I'm just not used to it. No, I really, like, appreciate a man who respects that not everybody wants to see men's feet. Yeah, and that too, yeah.

30:59You have to look after your feet as a man, I think, if you're going to get them out. And so many men don't. Do you feel you get dirty in the day if you're wearing sandals? Yes, they actually do. I don't really have a problem with that. Once or twice that I've worn closed shoes in the past three months, I've just died of heat. It is so much airier to be able to have them. I wouldn't even think twice about seeing women's feet out. That's because women have pedicures. Yeah, and they're much better looking, the feet. Yeah, I just think women's feet are generally prettier, whereas men's are a bit wider.

31:27Longer and elegant, mostly. Yeah, exactly. Yes. I suppose you've got quite long feet, though. Maybe yours is nice. Are yours long and elegant? or? I think they're alright. Back them. Do you get your feet out on the weekend? I've got nine and a half sized feet so for a tall guy that's actually not that big. So it might look quite elegant actually. It might. Maybe I do have elegant feet. Maybe. Do you get your feet out on the weekend? I'll let my hair down and get my feet out. I treat myself to a little bit of exposure. Yeah. Yeah. And on holiday I would probably I only wear sandals. What kind of sandals though?

32:06I like a nice elegant leather black. Quite chic. Would you wear a flip-flop? Yeah, I would. Because of this season, how trendy they are. I'd get into it. This is my two pence worth. I think if you're a man, you're going to have your feet out, you just need to be wearing a trouser. So don't do shorts with an exposed foot. Oh, yeah, no. One or the other. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I don't know. I kind of like it. if like if man's got like good legs, they wear like quite a short pair of like sporty nylon shorts with a pair of flip flops, I think that's kind of a vibe. I agree with that, that's just a very specific look.

32:38Yeah, if they're shorty shorts. That's so much skin from shorts to feet. You've got the smallest feet, smallest thing you can put on your feet and the smallest thing you can put on your legs. Maybe I'm a pervert. Maybe you can just like legs. I'd be walking around feeling quite exposed. The idea of having your feet out as feeling exposing though is funny to me. Like I don't think I'd be like, oh my feet are out. Yeah, I know. Yeah, it's quite a head award. It is. Yes, it is. I tried. I'm cool. You can't get on boards. That's fair. You've also got P. Johnson here. Yeah, P. Johnson's. P. Johnson are an Australian, kind of primarily tailoring brand.

33:14They opened a store in Burlington Street last year, but I just think Sabal Rowan around that area, I guess have lots of heritage tailoring brands around there. And I guess the idea is it can feel a little bit intimidating and stuffy. They are kind of a very sort of attainable, what word am I looking for? Not a tailable. Approachable. Approachable approach to tailoring. Tailoring is expensive, right? So as an entry point to the brand, they do these exclusive hats and t-shirt drops every like two or three months. And they go like that. Like if you're not buying them within the first 10 seconds, they are gone.

33:44And it's quite a nice, like they've kind of developed a bit of a cult status from those things. And I just think they're really cool. They're almost like bringing back the kind of Armani fit from the nineties that feels like flowy. And because they're from Australia, They're using fabrics a little bit more lightweight. So they drape better, but they're just a really cool brand. For women listening, is it a good brand to know to send men to for work, for weddings, or is it a bit more sort of lifestyle? Definitely weddings, for sure. I got my wedding suit from there. And the experience in store is really great.

34:15Like I say, it's not intimidating and they give you as many appointments as you need to kind of get the fit right. It's nice and drapey. They kind of come from the idea of like what tailoring should be and how it should fit as opposed to like, you know, somebody going in there and like choosing what they want from a made to measure shoot. So they're very much like, then they know what they're talking about. And you know, if you listen to them, I guess you can kind of come away with something that you didn't expect because tailoring is quite hard for guys. I think at times, if you're not doing it regularly or if you don't know what you're looking for, it's like, where do I go?

34:48Yeah. It's a weird thing that you have to sort of duck into like sometimes in your life that you don't otherwise. exactly. My husband has had quite a few pieces made at suit supply. which is obviously like more affordable, a bit more mass, but like in terms of the product that you get, if you don't wanna go like super high street, but you also don't wanna go, you know, you're not getting something special made, this is just for work, or you've got a couple of weddings and like honestly recommend so highly. I think they've really come along in the last few years. And it's never gonna be the luxurious experience that it is going to like a really bespoke tailor, but they do everything bespoke.

35:17He's had shirts made from scratch, lasers, suit, the whole lot. And yeah, they've nailed that section of the market that know what they're looking for, want something custom. It's really custom, isn't it? But don't want to pay Savile Row prices. I feel like I've noticed a real trend in non-fashion guys wearing colour suits this season, wearing sages or, you know, like a nice kind of taupe-y colour. I think that there's a... Men kind of as a mass seem to be a bit bolder in terms of embracing not just navy. Yeah, which is nice. Which is nice. There's a guy on socials, I can't remember his name, but he has been doing videos on like just educating men on how to wear suits that are not just like your bog standard you might have seen it he's like you don't have to wear like matching top and bottom you can do like a chino or like just a different colour and I've sent them to my husband because I mean I don't even know the rules around men's tailoring but it's kind of fascinating I feel like I should have made a note of what his handle is but I'm sure you can find it well stick it on the screen I'll find it and we'll stick it on the screen Polly fashion finds What are you loving right now?

36:23Well, I was going to talk about the ASOS collab, and then we've already talked about that. But I was going to shout out a pair of Deji Studio shorts, which are a kind of longer Bermuda style, but they're like a cotton material and a kind of pin-tuck pleat. Obviously, Bermuda shorts are not anything new, but I think the next evolution is going for a slightly more femme material style or whatever. I've seen some lacy trim ones because I think by nature, that sort of style is quite mask, which I love, but it's quite nice this time of year to make it a little bit more floaty and fun. And these particular ones are elasticated, which is very important for me in my condition.

37:01In your situation. How are you styling long Bermudas, feminine or not? I think it's the shoe that's the important bit for me. So I think I would go for a slimline sandal or a little ballet flat. Just nothing too chunky on the bottom, I think is what is the balance. I think top you can be a little bit more experimental, but I guess like with it being a slightly more masculine short, a feminine top is quite nice or something slim. Or a backwards shirt. Or a backwards shirt. Stranger things have happened. I bought knitwear this weekend. Whoa, okay. I bought two jumpers. Summer knitwear or? No, no.

37:41Oh no, I bought cashwear. She's ready, I'm ready. No, I bought, it was the end of the MyTeresus, I mean the sale, the summer sales are coming to an end and so bought two totem jumpers. I bought a proper chunky roll neck and a proper chunky cardigan, which I'm quite excited about. Because now's the time. I've been having that urge, that excitement for autumn dressing again. It's quite exciting. And then Elaine just poked her head over our desk and she was like, Coz has got some really good knitwear. You know, actually, I did, when I was scrolling Coz the other day, see a really chunky, gorgeous, I think it was just their bog sanders.

38:09Was it the gray one? The cashmere gray one. I was just like, that's the first time so far this summer, I feel like, ooh, I'm excited. I'm quite excited. It's July though, guys. It's too early. No, I know, we've got ages. Yeah. But I said this a couple of weeks ago and I maintain it that like, don't buy any more summer stuff now. No, I don't think. Yeah, that's true. Like there's four weeks left and then there's gonna be like seven months of winter, you know. Yeah. Although sometimes September like surprises you, doesn't it? That's true. I love that really short period of time, sort of spring and autumn where it's like shorts and a sweatshirt.

38:38Best. I feel like we get about three days of that in September, don't we? It goes from really hot to really shit. Well, I don't know. Three days. Like I've always found my birthday, it's running out of October. Yeah. Noted. If you want to get any presents. Yeah, that feels like the beginning of November, basically. It's like, that's when it shit. It's actually quite good in like September or October. Yeah, you're right. That's the best. It's like cooling down a bit, but you can still have warm days and it's quite sunny. Around Halloween, it's pretty grim, isn't it? Yeah, but October is the best.

39:09That's why I love October. Because you can wear knitwear. It's not hot. It's not t-shirt weather. But it's just like you've got that crunch and you can go back to coffee in the mornings. I've got like, oh, it's not as depressing as like. Pumpkin spice latte. Pumpkin spice latte, get your rugs out. Best time of year. The other thing actually just on shopping that I wanted to call out was the Pandora Harry Lambert collection. Oh my God, it's so good. It's so good. This is late. It dropped a couple of weeks ago, but I just wanted to give it some love because it is genuinely so cool. So Pandora have started a series of collabing with big stylist Harry Lambert.

39:39People will know as Harry Styles' stylist. He did a collab with Zara last year. So he's very well known. And Pandora have done the cleverest thing over the past couple of years where they have really straddled their classic identity, what people know and love them for, you know, the charm bracelets. That's a huge percentage of their business. They haven't kind of neglected that side of things. They've also really shown up in the fashion space. And, you know, they've been a big they've been the jewellery sponsor of London Fashion Week for the past couple of years. And they have been a big sponsor of the Fashion Awards.

40:05And, you know, they're really kind of working hard in that space, too. Also, their jewellery innovation has been amazing. They have worked really hard on the Lab Diamond front. And they're basically just doing it all. And this collab is genuinely so cool. He's basically taken pearls, like freshwater pearls. So they've got that really kind of cool molten shape and turned them into little baby animal charms. So there's the XL ones have sold out, which is really sad, but they might be able to get them on store. They're just sold out. They dropped exclusively at Dover Street Market and then also on Pandora.

40:34By the way, this isn't an ad. I just genuinely am really sold on these pieces. The chunky ones, there's a big frog and the frog like hangs down from your necklace with his little gold hands. but the small collection has got a little octopus and a little mouse and it's all just all made out of piles and it's all really sweet and dainty and really cool. They're cute. They're a bit of fun. They're really cute and they're really fun. Yeah. I really feel like, you know, if you'll pardon the pun, everything he touches turns to gold. He's so talented. He's just got such a cool eye. I sat next to him at an eBay thing maybe like a year and a half ago and he was also really nice.

41:07Aw. Which is so, I don't want to say it, but like quite unusual sometimes He just sits next to these big dogs at fashion events and he just was really kind and gave me the time of day. I had a lovely chat with him. I actually went to Paris with him for the launch of this collection and went to the, like work slash fashion parties are not always fun and actually often not. They threw like an actually good party. Which is quite rare. People danced, like really danced. That is unusual.

41:36Celeb slash sports slash culture moment. That's a snappy title for the next section. Harvey let's talk talk to us about this word that we don't know how to pronounce right I feel like we need a token Gen Z to talk about this don't we Egyo Egyo yeah so it's it's this kind of K-pop inspired kind of phenomenon I suppose but Egyo is like technically the kind of puff under your eye that when you it's kind of like quite a cute thing if you have that that's like I just wake up your natural Egyo Yeah, your natural egg yo. Oh, adorable. Yeah, yeah, oh, how cute. So it's now been kind of put into celebrity context now.

42:18So people are being described as like developing their natural egg yo. And kind of, I guess it's a bit like aura farming, isn't it? Or no. Are they saying it's like about them being really authentic? Yeah, yeah, that's it. Approachable type people. Yeah, their authentic self in situations you wouldn't expect them to be like really cute and charming. end up being that. Got it. So it's nothing to do, so it's not about people developing. No, that's where it's come from. I see, I see, I see. And I've been seeing kind of like Jude Bellingham being put into this kind of world, but quite a few other people as well.

42:53So all of those like montages that I get served with Jude Bellingham, just like doing really sweet things with kids and stuff. That's his natural eggy. 100%. Got it. Yeah. Which I just, I find it quite weird actually. Oh, why? it's so cute it's so great so weird this is maybe a strange take but it doesn't really represent that person in their entirety and I know celebrity culture isn't going to be the most complex version of what that person is they're going to take tropes and build it but you know Bellingham is like a complicated person quite a strong character he's a leader I guess they're trying to show that he has this other sweet side to him.

43:41I did see a lot of videos with him chatting to kids. Everyone else ignored this person and then he would go and talk to him. The Venezuelan interviewer, yeah. He speaks Spanish, doesn't he? That's true. Which is so hot, I didn't realise it. And then I saw a video of him and he was just... Yeah. Well, he's hot. That isn't unrelated to somebody, but yes. It's hot and he speaks Spanish, yes. He's objectifying Jude Beningham. I didn't see it before, but as soon as I hadn't spoken Spanish. Yeah, like, you know. He's asked to it, doesn't he? He's also been called out in the past for, like, making the gestures when he scored and doing it banned in the Euros for a game.

44:18Oh, really? So he's like, he necessarily has to be arrogant because he's so confident and is a leader. But, you know, people are complex. Well, it's that authenticity thing again, isn't it? Like, and I think what is refreshing about him, especially watching his interviews after the games at the World Cup and Thomas Tuchel is like, there's an honesty there that hasn't been present in footballers, especially for a long time. And I don't know, is that Eggeo? I have no idea. What do you think about what his comments after the match against Norway, where he kind of bit back at Tuchel? I mean, I think like neither of them, because there's this whole thing wasn't there about like, who was the reporter at fault?

45:00Like, I guess he's doing his job, but he did drop it on Bellingham after, you know a lot of hard work in the azteca stadium he's just somebody that's got a bit of of character and i think you need that in sports and football and it's a slightly related question who's the cutest celebrity related oh egg yo yeah okay yeah um who do you think like embodies that

45:27it probably is yeah i had a berry i think she's whenever i see her in interviews and She's just like really smiley and lovely. I think she seems like a good, nice. Is she in the back? Yeah. Olivia Rodrigo is quite cute. Sabrina. There's a difference between cutesy and cute though, isn't there? Yeah, not twee. Not twee. Do you think Tom Holland would still be the cutest if he was - Tall. A couple of feet taller. Probably not. It's probably his height. It's just like a little munchkin that you want to put in your pocket. So sweet. I think what you're describing Harvey is exactly what we were saying before, which is about like people projecting something onto somebody right so you're basically saying bellingham isn't this person yeah everybody's just decided he's cute and that's the online rhetoric that's what i'm saying yeah i think um i feel like that with harlan because i before the world cup i found him just like quite scary because he's quite an intimidating looking guy and now i'm like oh he's just this like little fairy prince who loves his best friend jude bellingham and he's just like so jokes and he's so online but again that's probably like not the whole now you've seen him ai as a as a girl yes and actually no he's got loads of like lookalike oh my god the girl the female lookalikes yeah Yeah, that's so funny.

46:33But he's another one, he's another one doing it, bringing authenticity into football. And it's like, what's good about it is that he can be so unserious. And I mean, that's another thing, it's just like, instead of being this serious, this interview and it's just all media train stuff, he's so unserious, doing what he wants to do. And he's also probably like top three best players in the world. Yeah, which is such good role modeling. Like it's so good to see that, but that you can be - A bit silly. A bit silly, yeah. That's why I've got no time for Sinner. Because like, no offense, obviously excellent player, but just like so boring, so boring, so unexciting.

47:10So it's quite, you want to back a personality when you're backing a sportsman and he doesn't have that. Who's the guy that is the personality in, is it Nick? Nick Kyrgios. Nick Kyrgios, yeah. He's a bit, I would say, a bit much. Provisive. Well, he's yeah. He's not necessarily like funny and silly. He's just like a bit rude sometimes. But like that's why Djokovic I think is just like in his prime now because he's the older he's Gotten that it's not that he's taking the tennis any less seriously But he has shown more and more of his personality and more and more jokes on the court and yeah I like him has developed more of a fandom

47:46Hot topic Adam what's something everyone pretends to enjoy? Yeah, I mean I don't really have any answers I just thought it was a good question to throw out there Yeah, good chat. Because we were talking about it earlier. I was just like, yeah, I'm putting that in. But it's good. It's like a good thing to like, camping. Yeah, I do pretend to enjoy it. Yeah, I think people are telling about that. Queen pick me sometimes. I am so, no I am. You've had to pretend to enjoy a lot of stuff. God, yeah, I pretended to enjoy so many things that my husband's into. Sailing, for example. It makes me feel deathly sick.

48:19It's just all the things that make me feel sick actually that he loves. Like flying small airplanes, that also makes me feel sick. I tried to enjoy that. Cycling, he took me to the Himalayas where it was really unpleasant. I had terrible altitude sickness, but I still went. Can I just go instead of you on all these trips? 100%. I keep saying to him, please just take a friend who would like to go. I think it's wasted on me. Yeah, I've pretended to enjoy so many things. Running, is that one? I know a lot of people love it. Okay, so with running, the point is you're not meant to enjoy it. It's not there to be enjoyed.

48:53No, people do enjoy running. No, no, no, it's inherently not a nice experience. No, no, no. Actually there are points like during it where I'm like, I'm in a bit of a flow state and I'm just like, yeah, I feel like a boss. I promise you Ben enjoys it while he's doing it. Yeah, he definitely enjoys it. He's not running hard enough. No, Javi. Honestly, he's fine. I actually can't say this about Javi. He's fine. I'd love to rinse him, but he actually is. He's like, no, like, I'm with, I agree, like exercise. Who the fuck actually enjoys exercise? But like, what does she do? I must have loads of these.

49:22I sometimes, I would say maybe I pretend to enjoy really big stadium shows because I think it's just too big. Like, getting out sucks because you've got to get out of the transport and there's too many bloody people. Can't really see, can't really hear that well. Sounds and quality's not always that great. I'm just going to put it out there. Yeah, you're right. Gigs. Depends who you're seeing though, doesn't it? Yeah, I know. You've got to love, if you love the artist. I saw Bad Bunny like a month ago and it was literally a religious experience. Like truly, truly top three things I've ever done, ever.

49:55Was it a one-off? He did two nights in London at Spurs Stadium. There are some moments where you just remember why live music. I love live music, but I just don't like the kind of like Wembley size. I've got one. Stadium. Going for a walk. I have actually zero interest ever in going for a walk. I don't enjoy anything about going for a walk. I hate standing up. I hate standing up. I literally hate standing up so much. I honestly would always rather just be sat down or lying down. I agree both. Pretending to enjoy standing up. Pretending to enjoy. People who are like, oh, I just love going for it.

50:28Or people who are like, I just needed to get out into nature. Like, I kind of relate to that in absolutely no way. I don't mind walking if there's some, like a destination. Correct. Like, if it walks for the sake of a walk, no, I'm not interested. I've learned to love it. My husband says, like, if we didn't have a dog, like, what would be the point of going for a walk? And I disagree with that, but he thinks that it's pointless. I would never leave my house if I didn't have a dog. My pardon, I go to work. Standing up is the worst. I do hate standing up so much. I was at a wedding yesterday and they did it in their garden, which was a really lovely thing to do, but the garden was like, there was a slope here and a flat bit here.

51:07So obviously they could only put chairs on the flat bit. So there was quite a few people out to stand. The wedding was lovely, but I just was like, I'd rather be sitting down. And also like, if you're not wearing shoes that are like the most comfortable, it's an unpleasant experience. Even just like I don't like standing next to someone's desk. I just don't want to have to stand up. I know that's not like a thing that people that you have to pretend to enjoy. Yeah. How are you going to get over that? What's the solution? Well, sit down more. Yeah, just more chair. Maybe I should carry a portable chair.

51:33Little fold away thing. Foldable chair. That's pretty cool. Yeah. Yeah. Imagine if I just walked around the office with a portable chair. Pitched up next to everybody's desk. Where would be the weirdest place to pitch it up? Like the tube. Would it? Yeah. Like waiting on a platform. That would be. in a foldable chair. That would be really weird. Yeah, I quite like that. You also said, do you say please to chat to EPT? I've stopped. I've stopped doing it because it's really, it's an extra layer that's bad for the environment. Yeah. I mean, yeah. I mean, I wasn't going down that angle, but. Sorry to bring the day down.

52:06But you have to, you can't be too polite to it because A, you need to train it and B, it is bad. But also, we discussed this and I said that I worry that in like an AI uprising, they might be like, You were polite, you weren't, you died. No, they wouldn't respect you. What do you mean? Yeah, yeah, yeah. You've got to not say please. You've got to out for them. Okay. Yeah, yeah, that's true. You think they would be like, you're pathetic, you try to say please to me. Yeah, you're a weakling, you're immediately out. Oh God, okay, good to know. They're looking for strength, and we're just saying, please.

52:36Might, could you buy? Give me some recommendations for what to do with my living room. So ChatGPC has brought back my olive tree from the brink of death, which I won't bore you with, but somebody, a gardener came and killed my olive tree and now I've restored it thanks to ChatGPT. But I uploaded a photo this weekend to show it as progress and it replied saying, this is so amazing. It actually brought a smile to my face. And I was like, whoa, whoa, whoa, no, no. Let's like. Sorry. I know. Let's go on a computer. Back up. You replied to it to show it the progress. That's quite cute. As in like, you thought it'd be invested in your.

53:08It's so invested. It is so invested. It brought a smile to its face. It's been so helpful, honestly. It is invested. and I've been listen I just needed I had some follow up questions no I had follow up questions because I wanted to be like this is where it's come now what do you reckon ends anyway but the fact that it said that it brought a smart to its face kind of icked me out I probably should have said to it don't say that to me follow up questions I'm glad sorry I'm glad I'm glad that you've mentioned that because I thought you were just like tell my friend no no although I will at the end I actually I will I'll be like look what you did because then when they uprise that one will be my friend yeah

53:47if you like what you're seeing or hearing then please do subscribe it really helps us out and actually what you can do now is subscribe to both the sherlock's youtube account and the sl man youtube account because it has its own youtube so please do subscribe to both if you haven't already okay listener dilemmas i'm so looking forward to these because i feel like male and female perspective is so interesting on these kind of questions. Yes. Okay. Okay. If he's not setting up the next date immediately, is he just not that into you? The age old question. Well, immediately. I think within a day. Let's say within a day.

54:22Yeah. Yeah. Within a day. You sort of, if you do want to take it forward naturally, you're both kind of like, when's that happening again? I think at least some conversation of, of like progression. I'm not sure you'd have to set up a date with him No Do you think the whole he's just not that into you rule Is as black and white as that That like if he's not calling you If he's not messaging Like are the old like excuses sometimes valid Or is it just Is it as simple as like If he's into you he'll make the effort I think more so than not But there are exceptions What would be an exception Went away for a week and was really busy or something Yeah like life does happen so there are legitimate reasons for not getting that date but like as in you would still be messaging the girl if you were away right depends what you're up to see that's weird to me I like to be present if I'm doing something and I do like to just not have my phone so it'll be like maybe on the flight home when I'll then like start to think about my phone admin stuff see I think boys compartmentalise like that I'm so bad with that and then like three weeks later I'll look at a message that I haven't replied to and I'm like, oh shit, I really should have done that.

55:39And it could be someone that like, like is a really good friend and I need to have that conversation. I've just totally put it away somewhere. Yeah, I really need to text my mate, Rob actually. Rob, if you're listening. It's been too long. Would you rather have a partner who's always right or one who's never on time? Always right or never on time. I have one who's never on time already. So I might as well just say it. Yeah, so I'll go with that. It would be really annoying to always be, well, like if they were always right and then on the occasions you argue you're always wrong they're literally always right or they just think that they're always right no i think they are always they are always right they're like when you think you're right they're actually right oh wow okay i mean like is i guess yeah impressive traits to be right about everything i suppose but should we ask ben what it's like

56:27um i think one who's never on time is the worst thing in the whole world it's so irritating I hate being late and I have this like dead weight that makes me late wherever we go. He's just always late. What main things would make him late? Honestly, he just faffs. Yeah. Just dicking around, sitting on the loo on his phone. I'll text him and be like, get off your phone. We need to go. He'll like take the opportunity for some quiet time in the toilet. Oh, that's such sacred time. Like two minutes before we go somewhere. Take it earlier. Okay, so what's everyone's quickfire answer to that? Probably always right.

56:59Always late. It's gotta be always late. Okay, finally, your partner says they need a solo vacation without you, green flag or red flag. Depends how they say it. Yeah, it depends how they say it. Harry actually did come to me the other day and very sheepishly said, so can I just ask, I mean, you can tell me I'm a complete dick for even asking this question, but like in November, when you're going to be eight months pregnant, can I go on a sailing trip to the British Virgin Islands? I was like, no. Well, I actually said yes. Did you? Because bargaining tool, I think. I can use it as bargaining tool.

57:28I also don't want to go either. So I was just like, you know, fine, fill your boots. That might be your last hurrah for a while. Yeah. Is it safe enough away from... It's like, yeah, I think it's far enough away. Like, I think anyway. I mean, it's a bit of a concern, I suppose. I think I would have said no. It's a bit too late for that now. I think there's a difference between a holiday that you are not going on and a solo holiday. Yeah, that's... Solo holiday, like, is a bit weird. Yeah, like if Ben wanted to go away with friends, sure. but if he was like I need a break and I'm from you like solo is weird yeah that is odd yeah I'd find that a bit like if he was just going alone there'd be so many questions wouldn't there so many questions I've got an enforced solo holiday coming up oh what does that mean well she's going away to see her family for two weeks in Canada so I'm just sort of left by myself without Casper as well so I'm like what do I do it's like the other way around no I think I'm going to go to the Lake District and do exercise eyes yeah by yourself yeah i think so maybe i'll go camping one night we are the least casual people ever that's a minor of help i'm thrilled for you yeah i know i don't know i just i just feel like i need it okay fair enough bit of pressure what was the actual question again your partner says they need a solo vacation without you green flag or red flag it's definitely not green flag no it's not green it's definitely we're in we're in the red zone yeah amber at best better leave it there thanks team good stuff enjoying that that is a wrap thank you for tuning in if you enjoyed listening to us today then please do subscribe on all platforms Spotify ACAST wherever you get your podcasts and we'll see you next time bye bye

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