She Doesn't Even Know: Tuesday, September 9th, 2025

9 Sep 2025 · 1 h 14 min

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Podcast Episode Notes: The Toast - She Doesn't Even Know: Tuesday, September 9th, 2025

Episode Overview

  • Hosts: Jackie & Claudia Oshry
  • Episode Duration: 1 hour 8 minutes
  • Key Topics:
  • Celebrity relationships
  • Personal anecdotes
  • Advice segment ("Dear Toasters")

Key Discussions

  1. Olivia Jade & Jacob Elordi
  2. Recent Developments: Olivia Jade reunites with Jacob Elordi in Toronto shortly after her rumored date with Glen Powell.
  3. Context: They attended the Toronto International Film Festival (TIFF) premiere of Jacob's film "Frankenstein".
  4. Speculation: Discussed whether this reunion indicates they are back together or if they were never truly apart.
  1. Coldplay Controversy
  2. Headline: Husband of the woman caught on camera with her boss at a Coldplay concert speaks out amid divorce.
  3. Highlights:
  4. The woman, Kristen Cabot, was filmed in a compromising situation.
  5. Her husband clarified their separation history before the incident, seeking to quell public speculation.
  6. Discussion on the implications of their actions and societal judgment.
  1. Glen Powell's Vulnerability
  2. Interview Coverage: Glen Powell discusses his brand of masculinity in a GQ cover story.
  3. Insights: He talks about the challenges of fitting into Hollywood trends, particularly with changing ideals of masculinity among younger generations.
  1. Scarlett Johansson's Film
  2. Highlight: Scarlett Johansson casts real Holocaust survivors for her movie "Eleanor the Great".
  3. Discussion Points:
  4. The choice of casting adds authenticity and depth to the narrative.
  5. The importance of respectful representation of Holocaust stories in film.
  1. Desperate Housewives News
  2. Announcement: Andrea Bowen, who played Julie Mayer, and her husband Josh Zuckerman are expecting their first child.
  3. Context: Their relationship parallels the dramatic storylines from "Desperate Housewives", adding a layer of irony to their real-life happiness.

Advice Segment

Dear Toasters (58:47)

Overview and Introductions

  • Hosts introduce the "Dear Toasters" advice segment, inviting listeners to submit their questions.

Featured Questions

Question 1

Workplace Copycat

  • A listener reports a coworker stealing jokes and stories from "The Toast".
  • Hosts' Response:
  • They empathize with the listener's frustration.
  • Suggests that while imitation is annoying, it's a testament to the show's influence and humor.
  • Encourages the listener to focus on their own experiences.

Question 2

Nudity in Relationships

  • A listener contemplates sending nudes to their boyfriend and asks if it's common.
  • Hosts' Response:
  • They discuss the trendiness of sending nudes, the risks involved, and their personal stance on the topic.
  • Urges caution and emphasizes that no regrets can come from choosing not to send.

Question 3

Divorce Announcement via Cameo

  • A listener plans to use Cameo to announce their divorce in a lighthearted manner.
  • Hosts' Response:
  • They suggest various celebrities for the cameo, including Nikki Blonski and Teresa Giudice, emphasizing humor in the approach.

Key Takeaways

  • Empowerment in Personal Lives: The discussion highlights the importance of personal choice and empowerment, especially in romantic relationships and lifestyle decisions.
  • Cultural Reflection: The hosts navigate pop culture with humor and critical insight, reflecting societal trends and challenges.
  • Celebrity Influence: The discussions about celebrity relationships and personal choices underline the pervasive influence of pop culture on everyday life.

Conclusion This episode of "The Toast" showcases Jackie and Claudia's engaging dynamic while tackling serious topics with humor and relatability. The advice segment adds personal touches that resonate with listeners, making the podcast both entertaining and thought-provoking.

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0:20I sound amazing. welcome back to the toast and happy tuesday it's a big day if you're a member of the dtq it's a big day if you're a big woman and i am oh speaking of i weighed myself this morning sorry not to just like start on such a negative note hey jacks how you doing hey turtle you did weigh yourself this morning you called me and i actually am thinking about weighing myself now like oh wow i'm just curious this whole pregnancy especially because i feel like i i packed on a lot fast and I was like I don't want to know every doctor's appointment I'm like I don't want to know I've just chugged my simple modern 40 ounce tumbler like and you're weighing me I don't want to know but now like I'm curious you know I feel like now the number that I think it's going to be like super high like it's a point of pride almost so like I have to say as an outsider you know complete third party with no particular interest in the matter I think you look very good I think you'll be surprised that you don't like look so crazy I think I'm gonna weigh myself tomorrow morning because I like to know the stats so I've got to include it in my lifelong note on my phone of my weight throughout the years I weighed myself like before the summer you know it was like two months after no like five weeks after baby and I was really pleasantly like not terribly unhappy I mean I wasn't thrilled but it was fine and then I just lived it up lived it up and I gained 13 pounds over the summer so seriously don't fucking talk to me um I didn't want to make you feel worse but You know what else I was thinking?

1:47What? Like we've been home for two weeks, both being extremely slender. And you've probably. I definitely gained more. Yeah. You've probably lost weight since you've been home. So you probably gained more. The thing is, I don't even know why I weighed myself because I'm really not going to do anything about it. Like maybe I'll think twice before the second cookie, but like I'm really not going to do anything about it. So I just have this information in my hands and I kind of wish I didn't. Yeah. Same. I don't know what to do for you because. And you know what? I don't even want to talk about it.

2:19Well, first of all, I just want to say I haven't, visibly you look beautiful. I never said you were ugly. But you don't look any different than you did at the beginning of the summer. But it's just a tough time where you can't take extreme measures. Of course, you can't go on a GLP-1 when you're breastfeeding as of this moment. You can't even starve if you wanted to because you are breastfeeding. And I don't want to. And you can't. Like literally, I've never been hungrier in my life than when I was breastfeeding. It's fine. It's fine. You know, it is what it is. And it was what it was. And maybe it is going to be a BGF after all.

2:53Yeah. And it will be what it's going to be. I think you're doing great. This is going to be just like a blip on the radar screen of your life. Like it will all, it's so soon. It's actually going to be a blimp. It's so soon that you'll be like back doing your snatchy things. and you'll remember this time fondly. Don't get hung up on it. I know easier said than done. It's fine. Moving on. You've inspired me. You've inspired me to take the plunge. I am an inspiration. Yeah. So I'll let you, you'll be getting FaceTime from me tomorrow.

3:30It's Tuesday, means there's your toasters. We actually have something kind of major going on this week. You mean tomorrow? like this week is major this week is major i agree if you're a member of the dtq yeah we have two days of deer toasters this week because we have a sponsored segment tomorrow yeah somebody wanted to come in and sponsor deer toasters and i said you know i'll put your money where your mouth is we'll do two one regular one sponsored so stay tuned tomorrow to find out who the sponsor is it's actually a really good one today's is just a regular old dtq and then tomorrow's is a a little bit more thematic.

4:06The theme is mother-in-law. Double DT, double the fun. Double the D, double the fun. Double trouble, just like us. Toil and trouble. I'm wearing jeans today. So crazy. And they like looked really cute. I posted a picture on my Instagram. You can check them out. But when I went to sit, they wouldn't stay buttoned. It wasn't so cute. They are open. Like, I don't know if you can see. Maybe my leg is covering the fact that my jeans are open. If you can see, just, you know, eyes up here, okay? My eyes are here. I'm wearing a pair of$200 sweatpants. So like that's how far I've fallen, you know? Who makes them?

4:41Lesse. Are there sweatpants though? They're not silk? No, no, no. I have the silk ones too. I'm in a place where like I'm just buying things that fit. You know, it's like the price is just is what it is. The price is right. Yeah. Every price is right. No, the drawstring like pant, like wearing pants right now, like not even like wide leg. They're just like pants. I can't explain it. Like that's what's in. That's what really what I'm feeling. Like when I get dressed in the morning, I'm like, what pants are we wearing? Oh, a thousand percent. And I feel like there was a time in my life where like I really valued elasticity, like elastic pants, which, of course, I love an elastic waistband.

5:15But there's really something to be said about a drawstring. I don't know. I wore a drawstring yesterday, maybe because of the way I had it placed, because I had to wear it so high up. Like it looked so funny, these strings hanging out of my belly. Well, also like the art of the string, you know, they can't be too long. They can't be too short. You don't want to be in like a knot. you need a pretty little bow it's delicate but we as women we can figure it out at one point like i would get dressed every morning i'd be like okay i'm wearing leggings and what and these days it's like okay i'm wearing pants and what and it's just like a a shift that i've noticed that i welcome i personally was inspired by molly may like shopping maybe made me start dressing like that but i see it's happening to women all over speaking of women all over i did something crazy last night oh god what'd you do what'd you do jissy jackie what'd you do jessel tank jackie i did something crazy last night you watched real housewives of miami jackie like i'm trying to quote us sorry i'm cutting something yeah crack i did something crazier cork cork meth i said meth meth crazier what i started season two of with love megan Okay.

6:26And it pretty much started and stopped within like 30 minutes. No, 15 minutes. It was really dreadful. And I watched with Ben and I watched through the lens of like he thought he was just sitting down to like a Pardy cooking show. And we actually watched Ina after. We watched a lot of cooking shows. So I thought Ben actually might enjoy it. But like she didn't cook. She like invited people over and she already had onion tarts made. And she didn't show us how to make them. And she had over like really legit people like the starters of Momofuku and Milk Bar. They're like, yeah, I think they're married.

6:55and she made them a little gift, and so she handed them the box, and then the show paused. She was like, let me show you how I made these gifts. And so it cuts a pre-made package of her dyeing silk scarves. Dyeing them? Yeah, and she was like, let me show you how I do it. It's so easy. And then she showed us, and she was like, this is my first time ever doing this. Why don't I do it more? I'm like, but you're giving a tutorial. How can you give a tutorial on something you've never done? Yeah, it's tough. That's like a tough feature of the show. I actually had seen some people messaging me being like it looks like they took some of your feedback from last season.

7:29Because I just like wanted more I want more info like why do you like when do you cook why do you cook when did you start to cook like just like more backstory. And I thought maybe they included more of that but no like more Pinterest projects like on the fly like no you don't make scarves. Yeah more on the fly Pinterest projects that's exactly what it was. Don't make them for us. And Jackie there was more. Daniel. He was in the first episode, the makeup artist. Maybe he had a high Q score. They obviously didn't ask me. I didn't watch more than like maybe 10 minutes. Ben was like genuinely horrified.

8:06Like he was like, like I watch it for fun and like, there's like elements of it. It's the craziest, stupidest, like most amazing show. But like I watch it through my own lens. Ben really watches it. Like Ben takes notes when he watches Ina. Like she made this chicken cooked in butter yesterday. Ben couldn't get over it. So he watches them really like critically and like a, I think he's an ideal viewer. Like he's looking to learn. He's looking to learn, but I can learn. And let me tell you, he was not learning anything from With Love, Megan, unfortunately. And Farch. She makes a nice frittata. We didn't get to the frittata.

8:39She did fry an egg. And then Momofuku Man actually like fixed it for her because she did it wrong. He was like, you have to do this. And I think he put like a little water or something. I don't know. Oh no, he put a plate on top. these are the tips that we come for momofuku should have a show i bet he does yeah like i bet he does did ben start his bread this morning of course not he you're lying yeah i'm not he had an appointment to get his uh his ben's life has been defined recently by this custom set of golf clubs that he's making so you know you buy golf clubs and you know they have special sizes it's based on your height weight so like you get one for like one who a person who's six foot like it's all pretty general it's like a shoe you know but i guess when you get to a level that's like you're really good at golf you have custom made for like your exact hip range elbow size i don't fucking know does it like change based on your weight kind of it's like a wedding dress like you go into fittings but like what if you gain or lose weight and that's let me tell you ben is gaining and losing weight like yeah no he's he's he fluctuates yeah he's a little girly like that actually the way Ben fluctuates so he went for like his custom fitting this morning because I I heard you talking to him on the phone last night telling him exactly what to do wake up do the fold and stretch whatever because let me tell you call me at five o 'clock last night saying I'm about to start my loaf I was like what are you going to wake up in the middle of the night and do stretch and folds like you can't start like it's a 12 hour process so let's start in the morning yeah you should or like yeah somewhat time when you're going to be up 12 hours later like not in the evening so we made a whole plan for him to start like at 7 30 or 8 whenever he gets up and starts his day he woke up and went right to try back to get fitted for his golf clubs like he's another fitting he's literally getting married so he said golf over loaf correct he said flog over full but when is he gonna start his loaf tomorrow were you check it i don't know like i'll tell you he's not serious about it i'm telling you i know i think he liked the idea of like having a starter you know And then beyond that, I don't know if he thought past that.

10:40Well, just wait till he makes like a pargy loaf of bread because that feeling is addicting. But I do worry that that feeling won't come for a while because it's a lot of trial and error. But I actually think he's going to have success with it. I think going with Chachi PT like accompanying you is a great idea. I would recommend it to all sourdough swirlies. I actually changed my cook times based on Chachi PT. And it worked? Yeah. Because I was feeling like it's not perfect every time. It's great. it's delicious but like it's not perfect like not something i would like sell in a store right and we're always looking for store-worthy bread yeah yeah so what else can i tell you what else can you tell me turdy i watched some real houses in miami last night but i just i couldn't i couldn't stay focused i lost focus so i called it a night that's okay yeah i have a busy day today so I was like let's get some z's trying to think like what else do I want to tell my sister Jax I don't even know we like we did something kind of bad today me and you we FaceTimed this morning we FaceTimed before the show because I wanted to tell Jackie that I weighed myself and I feel like I compromised the quality of the show no I don't think you did because like we just had a conversation that one we've all had on the show before and two that we wouldn't be having on the show today which is like can you go on ozempic while you're breastfeeding and like you i don't know how i feel it's not my favorite idea i feel like the show we were gonna have before the face time and the show we're gonna have now after the face time are two different shows it's sliding doors you know what it's giving it's giving like back in the day toast of like we just have to jump into the stories because we know too much about each other we're up each other no we're so familiar it's disgusting yeah so like that's why we have to talk about the stories because we have nothing to talk about well why do you well we do have dear toasters so we have a long show today the stories are are interessant what's the leading one olivia jade and like jacob already oh you you're saying that the leading story is trini was right you were right about glenn powell not dating olivia jade but like you never when olivia and jacob broke up you never said no they're still together no i didn't say that but i did not say it you know you did leave it open like to them being together but we did like take the opportunity to take a big like duty on him and like be excited for how well she's going to do after this so now we kind of have to like go back to the place of like shipping them which I've so moved on from I'm at the place in my Olivia Jade Stanhood but like whatever Olivia wants Olivia gets and like I support you know I'm trusting my fave trusting your I completely agree trusting my fave I did want to tell you something I saw on TikTok because I know you didn't see it um so there is an Instagram a tiktok account called like the toast fan whatever they like post like really cute pargy clips of us guys yeah um she's a bit as active as i had wanted recently but like i know her she's actually she started like the morning like she was the morning uh the morning breathers instagram girl her name is sophie do you know her she's like an og fan she's like always clipping us like helping us go viral can't appreciate her enough she made a video on the page like talking to camera i was like oh my god what's going on with self like what's going on she actually is going to be on the season of Survivor.

13:53She wants to tell everyone, like, toasters who love Survivor, tune in because, yeah, you're a girl's on the season. I feel like maybe she won or something. I don't know why. I just, like, have a feeling. Is it she already filmed it? Yeah, I think that's how Survivor works, right? Who knows? Actually, I'm not sure. Well, if you're a toaster, if you're a surviving toaster, make sure to root for Sophie. Yeah, also, message to all toasters. Like, go on reality shows so we can root for you. Like, we love. Jackie, message for all toasters. Go on reality shows so you can wear our merch. And so you can like quote us.

14:25Yeah. We love like watching shows with toasters in them. It makes it so much more fun. Speaking of quoting us, we have the craziest Dear Toasters today that directly involves us. There's like a girl writing in about like. Is it a love you situation? A love you situation? You know a lot of people like have gotten into a pickle in new relationships because they like sign off everything. Love you, bye. And then. Oh. Like we've gotten Dear Toasters. That's funny. We've gotten to your toasters about that where like they prematurely say I love you, but they didn't say I love you. They said love you.

14:53Bye. Right. They're like LARPing as us. No, that's not the situation. This one's actually crazier. And that's that's just a little tease for what's to come. We're doing a lot of teasing, but not a lot of substance. OK, so we're like every other podcast out there. No, this is what we should be doing. We're going to have record numbers. Have you heard about this thing called like podcast farming? No, I read an article about it. and i guess it's true when you swipe through social media tiktok or instagram like you see a million like podcast clips right it's like a man with a microphone talking to a camera all the time that's my that's my whole feed so apparently like 90 of those clips and a woman yeah of course and woman apparently like 90 of those clips are not from real podcasts it's called like podcast farming and it's a way of like generating content because podcast clips perform really well but like they don't want to host whole podcasts so they just like get in the studio and like make some clips i love that with us what came first the podcast or the clips it's the podcast but for most people it's like what came first the clips yeah but there's no podcast to back it up you're saying there's no associated episode i kind of love that because i enjoy the clips i really i can't remember like a time when a clip compelled me to listen to a podcast i had previously never heard of um and sometimes people's clips are better than their show you know because it's like a highlight reel yeah not us i would say with no i would say with us like our clips barely scratch the surface of the substance that's that's being churned out here it's true like you can have a taste but if you want the whole treat like it's the show and people who watch i know some people just keep up with us through reels and they're enjoying their life too and i'm happy for them but they don't even know they're missing the good stuff whereas for other shows like that's the good stuff what's the story she doesn't even know what's that from it's a song yeah it's like a song in a movie that like yeah probably like euro trip something like that she does is it scotty doesn't know i don't think so someone will comment it oh it's like bothering me right now she's lucy wyman claudia i was thinking about lucy wyman this morning as i was picking up my sweater i'm like oh my god i felt so good oh i feel like i feel like satchel would know if i asked her no i feel like ben would know i feel like it's a boy thing olivia why don't you voice note the whole family and whoever comes back first will win a prize what's the prize our love with love megan with love megan guys what movie is this from she doesn't even know okay sent thank you i think that's good you can also ask chat gbt do you think chat would know we should start asking you can also talk to chat like um voice memo i think feel free to ask me about anything hi i'm trying to remember what movie this line is from oh wait am i talking yep i can hear you just fine if you want to tell me the line go ahead and i'll do my best to help you figure out which movie it's from she doesn't even know i think it's like a part of a song or something from a movie let me know thanks uh that line is pretty iconic it's from the movie mean girls there's a whole scene where they do that song at the talent show and one of the lines is exactly that she doesn't even go here no she's wrong you got it wrong you got it wrong and you're stupid and go back to school i thought for sure they were gonna have gotten it that'd be so crazy oh my god i can't believe they were wrong like chat has been slipping i know you know i actually read something that chat's data like that what they're working with um it's only from 2012 and then i asked chat because we were on long island and i wanted to go to a container store i'm like can you give me a container store between here and my house like that's on the way i don't want to get out of the way and they gave me a store that closed like six years ago so i actually feel I like that person who told me that.

18:55And they say that the most up-to-date chat, the up-to-date AI is Grok. Like they use data from 2024. Ask Grok. I actually wouldn't even know how to use Grok. Like where do you go? Do you have to like tweet at it? Is it an app? Oh, because that's so embarrassing. You have to like tweet all your AI. Go for the Morning Toast account. No, I won't. And does Grok answer? I'll just wait for Margot and Olivia to answer. I feel like does Grok answer every tweet that's directed at him? I feel like only the like most popular ones get answered. Don't you feel? I actually don't even know what Grok is, if I'm being honest.

19:27Like, I know it's AI that Twitter makes, but, like, it's an account or it's a service that you pay for. It's a separate app. So it's just like ChatGPT, but it's integrated with X because it's made by Elon. So, like, you can just, like, tweet at Grok your questions. Okay, but then it's all public. Yeah, no, no, but people use it to flex. Of course, of course. Someone says something wrong. They're like, at Grok, what's the back story here? I will never give up on chat because if you ask chat what the most popular pop culture podcast is like chat does say us really let me go yeah i'm not what do you think i'm lying i don't know i just feel like some days they might say us some days they might not like and some days i correct chat because i'm like they called us the morning toast because they're using old data and i said chat that's wrong okay what's the most popular pop culture podcast fingers crossed i think they also threw the new york times one in there um like the pop pop they have one called like it's hosted by two men okay like they gave me five and never heard of one of them and we're not there okay then obviously chat doesn't know you like chat knows me or maybe chat knows that he's talking to me do you want me to pull the current top ranked pop culture podcast for this week yeah like no what else I want you to pull a piece of duty out of your butt oh no maybe chat be slipping I'm telling you chat be slipping

20:55you're useless were we in there they didn't even they just like sent me links to apple charts like i'm sorry oh yeah i can do that myself i could do that myself these will show you the current number one pop culture but like pop culture isn't a category so maybe that's why chad is struggling like i don't know what is the most popular pop culture podcast out there but pop culture isn't a category. That's like a miss. I guess that would be like society and culture. Pop culture. Should we move categories? Nah. Why would they put New Heights? That's a sports podcast. Claudia. New Heights didn't call her daddy.

21:32Okay, I take it back. Everything good I said about chat. Like, they fell in their head. Literally. Toast erasure. Toast erasure. Maybe they have caught up.

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26:39Thank you, Turta. You're welcome. Our first story, as we teased, Olivia Jade reunited with Jacob Elordi in Toronto days after quote unquote date night with Glenn Powell and weeks after it was reported that they split. So she supported Jacob at the TIFF, Toronto International Film Festival premiere of his new horror film, Frankenstein, where she attempted to go incognito per a video captured by people. He posed solo for photographers on the red carpet before meeting her and ushering up the stairs to the Princess of Wales theater. Yeah, so obsessed. You know, I loved these two together. We're so back.

27:17We're so back. They actually, I feel like, had broken up once before. Like, they were first spotted together and dated, like, briefly. Then they were broken up. And I think everybody thought they were broken up, but then they just had been together this whole time. And so this is, like, what they do. you know I'm not worried that's my girl he's so lucky to be in her orbit like I hope he treats her like the queen that she is and I know that they broke up because like she was over him because she thought he was like boring or she was like I want to be engaged and like if it doesn't happen you know you're getting to that point that's interesting but I feel like she doesn't I feel like she's calling the shots here yeah so I love that like this could either be like you know close to the end breaking up or sometimes like a breakup makes you stronger yeah you know because it's like you're getting you're getting serious because also like you have to break up with someone because they didn't do the things that you want but if you get back together it means that they did them so like maybe she's concealing a ring or whatever she wants maybe although i don't find just like as olivia jade fan and i like watch her youtube i don't find that like that's what she wants although like i don't know you know yeah well she's 25 so it's yeah yeah it's young but like she might be like thinking about it soon and it's young but if she were to get engaged should be like a perfectly normal time yeah I think I got engaged at 25 married at 26 normal yeah I felt like that when I was doing it it felt like a little like late oh now in hindsight I don't know if times have changed so much in the last few years but like in hindsight I'm like oh that's super young it's also cultural you know like what how you grew up obviously coming from modern modern orthodox community yeah 25 can feel a little a little late um not all of us can get of gaged at 21 um yeah so yeah i hear you yeah and again i really just like see her akin to like sophia richie yeah who locked it down big time and i feel like that's what she might want you know she comes from like a loving stable relationship yeah and like yeah this is a time in your life when you start to think about those things so i feel like 1000 i feel like it was like this breakup has made them more serious in my like fan fiction in my head she looked angelic in that white gown like truly an angel waiting for him at the end of the red carpet she almost got away with like people not knowing she was there there was one sneaky little video that they caught and then he like helped her with her train yeah as he should and i love when like it's obviously his big night him and his silly little movie right but it's all about frankenstein like yeah like okay yeah even though he gives such frankenstein energy if you would have asked me like we're making him i didn't even know they were making a new frankenstein but if you would have said like we're making a modern frankenstein who would you cast obviously him he's so big we cast him in everything too that's so true um and don't forget about warthering heights i haven't actually i meant to tell you i watched the trailer and i thought you did a great job of describing it it was extremely like erotic yeah in a tactile sort of way yeah and like with a lot of innuendo yeah not a lot of actual skin and then i saw a theory on tiktok that i'm now like taking as my own like i i believe i agree with this girl like she figured it out because the poster says wuthering heights in quotation marks right and if you watch the trailer it actually looks like they're in two different time periods yes they're all both like old timey periods but one looks to be like the 1800s and one appears to be like the 1900s or whatever okay um and so with the quotation mark somebody thinks that like somebody in the 1900s is like reading the book and like inserting herself in it.

30:48Cause like Margot, I don't know. Actually, I'm not doing a good job of explaining the girl's take. I saw someone set out to do a take of why it was in quotes and I scrolled on right by. Well, people are trying to figure out why is it in quotes? I don't know. It could have just been like a rights thing, like in order to get the movie, like the title might be copyrighted or something. Maybe. That's like not a thing. Or like maybe in old, like cause the poster is like old timey. It also looks like vampire-y. it does it looks kind of frankenstein yeah it does like it's not really like i don't know romantic like you know withering heights bloodsuckers right withering yeah yeah yeah yeah withering heights um so i thought maybe it's like an old style of doing movie posters is to have it in quotes like something just like really like surface level like not right Right.

31:40Not so deep. I guess we'll find out. Yeah, we will find out. And I hope that that movie is big for him so that like he can afford the ring that she deserves and the life that she deserves. Yeah. And so I think I will go and see it just. But, you know, to support her. Jacob Allerty is going to have to work hard because Olivia Jade grew up low key very well. She also is successful in her own right. So I think like when she wants something nice, she just like gets it for herself. and so his little frankenstein like independent films at the toronto film festival like it's not gonna work we're gonna need a big budget production get back to work on euphoria maybe she was there celebrating saying sweetie this is your last independent film yes like love the indie life for you but it's not gonna cut it you know we're going back to hollywood right we're going back to the studio yeah blockbuster season babe yeah and i know this is gonna sound crazy because he's like so famous but what really has jacob malorty done besides euphoria is huge right but it's like a tv show and it's never coming back um and of course there was the kissing booth but like why is jacob alorty what like why is he the leading actor what is he in well it was he was in that elvis movie that nobody saw priscilla yeah it was really kissing booth like you can't understand how huge that was nobody watched it more times that like catapulted him to be like a heart throb a teenage heart throb in a time where there was a dearth yeah and then like Noah Centennial was another one but he then took himself out of the he didn't take it so seriously like Jacob is trying and I guess Euphoria is really big though I don't watch it but it was just like he was kind of like the heartthrob star we needed at a time when we didn't have one it's oh Salt Burn Salt Burn was huge Salt Burn Salt Burn was huge yeah the kissing booth that's what comes up first on his IMDB then Euphoria he needs to start like talking to Tom cruise and like getting in some real movies yeah and i always just feel like we're talking about like him getting cast and stuff and like all the hype but it's like the pre-production and it's like where's the film well that's like why wuthering heights is a big deal we talked about the cast coming out we got the trailer it's coming out and i think margot robbie like doesn't miss so i just want to say i know you guys are anything i'm crazy like i just don't feel like he's that successful no i i don't but i think he could have a big future i feel like we've just been saying that for quite some time and it's like the future is now yeah i agree i agree that's just my hot take of the day are you like olivia jade is more successful than him sorry well it depends how you quantify success correct are you ready for our next story a little more cold play couple news because the husband of the woman who was caught on camera is speaking out amid his divorce from her a few months after the video that shocked the world.

34:32So Kristen Cabot, who's the woman in the video with the CEO of Astronomer, news of her filing for divorce from her husband recently made headlines weeks after she was caught on a so-called kiss cam with her then boss, I guess he was. But a spokesperson for Andrew, her ex-husband, told People Magazine that they were privately and amicably separated several weeks before the Coldplay concert. Their decision to divorce was already underway prior to that evening. Now that the divorce filing is public, Andrew hopes this provides respectful closure to speculation and allows his family to the privacy they've always valued.

35:04No further public comment will be made. So when I heard this, I was like, okay, so that makes her participation in this like less bad, but still bad because the other guy was married. Yeah, because she's like with a married man. Correct. However, I could also see a world in which like, even though she cheated on her husband, the fallout from this like public scandal was so bad and so hard on her even though like he's the injured party here he is saying this just so people like lay off to help her because it's like the mother of your children and like you were married to her for a while so yeah she like you know ruined your life but what what happened to her in return was so much worse than any punishment he could and like he ends up winning um so i could feel like maybe he's lying let me flip it on his head for one second say what he's saying is true they were separated she's single he might have even been dating say like that yeah that happens and this all happened and everyone's coming down on her and agreed like I'm not going to take away from the fact that she chose to be with married man even if she's single but in that moment when the whole world was against her and he could have kind of like cleared her name and been like no we're not we're separated we're getting divorced he didn't and now when the dust is settled like because the divorce papers are out we now know that they were getting divorced and it's like so like now he's coming forward when it's like too little too late not saying I'm right or you're wrong but like it could have gone that way too it could have although i don't know that like her falling into this relationship with a married man making a mess of her life is his fucking problem honestly not at all because the choice to like take your newfound singleness and break up someone else's family like is a bad choice but she was being accused of two crimes one that she actually hadn't committed and the person who could have exaggerated cleared it but i am of the mind it's like seriously not his problem well yes like you got yourself into this mess i'm not your husband anymore you can get yourself out yeah no no i agree with that but like to then say something dogs you get fleets but it's like to say something now is useless i'd rather almost like him not because he looks like he's coming interesting he thinks he's like if this is the case by the way in this scenario he thinks he's like oh coming to clear her name and it's like if if you wanted to help the time was a few months ago like we've all forgot about these people big time yeah now he's like doing his little interview right having his moment in the sun making it about andrew right right um it does beg the question i guess like they still hid from the camera because he was married and because they were co-workers it was like multiple levels to why they would hide and i guess her being technically separated like makes her like a little bit better but sorry she's still a slot like she's still sleeping with a married man which is bad if you're single married divorced separated don't do it right right and it begs the question like okay maybe she was divorced or separated at the moment of the video but like they could have been they looked very intimate like they had been together for a while like maybe the affair stemmed her divorce perhaps but he's kind of saying here that it didn't that it's all about he didn't say outright I'm just saying.

38:08I'm just saying. Yeah, no, I feel like he's coming in like the knight in China armor. Too little, too late. It's just a little too late. Because the damage is done from this. Yeah, although it wasn't his mess to clean up, so I stand with Andrew. No, and I do feel like the man, as he should, Andy Byron, like got the. Yeah, I don't even think she lost her job. He had to step down, but she didn't. He got most of the heat. Right. And I do think it's because like the way it went down, like he was clearly cheating on his wife who'd had no idea. You know, she took him out of the, she changed her name.

38:49And like, we're seeing that on his end, like, oh my God. And on her end, it always, people were like, oh, they're kind of separated. Like, yeah, it's not, you know, so he took the brunt. It's crazy that he has a spokesperson. Cause he's just regular people. Yeah. I think I remember when it all went down, they were saying like her ex, Her husband came from like a very wealthy family in Boston. Movie time. Yes. Who are we casting? Gwyneth is obviously the lady. Gwyneth is obviously. And then the connection to Coldplay. Oh, well, she's she maybe is a little too close to it because remember a Sean Omer hired her.

39:24Yeah. Let me look at her. Who could it be? Him is giving like. Who was the guy from The Founder? Is that Michael Fassbender? No. Michael Keaton. Michael Keaton. Yeah. Totally. He's the CEO. That's really good. And like Laura Lane, the mom from Nanny Diaries. So cute. So cute. Such a good movie. But they'll have to wait to see how it plays out. Though they never do. Yeah, of course. They never do. They make these movies so premature. Too quick. Yeah. Are you ready for our next story? Speaking of the movies. The talkies? Speaking of someone we've been talking about this week, which is now like putting more things into context.

40:06Glenn Powell's on the cover of GQ. So Glenn Powell's making news this week. He's decided he wants to be in the press. Like he has a movie coming out. I think that also might be why he was like out and about with the Giannulli girlies. He's on the cover of GQ looking extremely weird. Did you see the picture? Because he's wearing the big legs. He's wearing leggings that are like fake big legs. And then inside the magazine, he's like wearing more like fake muscle stuff. And he's promoting Chad Powers. Is that correct? Is he? Which I think is like this Hulu thing where he's like playing like a big southern man.

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40:47Like I think it's a play on that, I think. Got it. Because I was reading some of this article and it's all about like how his brand of masculinity fits into Hollywood. And I guess, you know, for a little while in his early days, like there wasn't really a place for Glenn. Oh. Oh, the poor handsome shirt. Striking funny man. What is Glenn's brand of masculinity? So you know what? He actually cited some good references because he said when he was like starting out, it was very much like the Twilight era. Like people were looking for like Robert Pattinson, like moody. Romantic. Moody brooding type of male leads.

41:21That's not him. He said he felt very encouraged when Chris Pratt has had success in Guardians of the Galaxy because it's like this like macho. All American. Macho funny guy. Yeah. And that really is what Glenn is. He's a combination of like brawn and chuckle. I didn't realize that like sometimes nobody wants that. Right. Sure. Trends change. No. And like you have to think Gen Z, like what their type is. They like like very like skinny.

41:53Intellectual sort of leads. Not like we grew up like big buff all American. They like Tim Lee Chalamet, Barry Keoghan. Right, right, right. Like kind of like. Rat boy, they call it. Yes, and like in another world, like someone could say ugly. I wouldn't, but somebody could. No, Timothy's not ugly. He's beautiful. I thought you were going to say. Beautiful is a good word. I thought you were going to say girly. Oh, yeah, abyssal feminine, yeah. But just like not how I grew up. Jeremy Allen White. Like the most conventionally handsome. Jeremy Allen? Yeah, like from certain angles, like a little ugly.

42:31Yeah, and or girly. yes they love a girly man these young girls these young gals yeah so i think for glenn's self he was like where do i fit into this equation and he really you know trends change and he found his niche within hollywood which again must have been hard for like an incredibly attractive tall funny successful charming guy like it's always them that are left behind um so yeah check it out gq i will yeah that's like two goofy gq covers in a row because the last one was travis i was thinking the same thing like what is this at those unique creative direction it's giving like remember mad of course it's giving mad like it's like parody well i think like gq is a publication for men and i think like men these days like as a gender like they don't there's no uniformity like I don't think they know what's going on with men.

43:26So I think this is reflective of that. Do you know what I mean? I also think, I guess if it's like a magazine for men, about men, they don't want to see sexy men pictures. It's not like for women. Right, but magazines inherently are girly. Like a magazine for men, like it's just weird. Yeah. You know? Yeah, yeah. Okay, go off Glenn. Yeah. Are you ready for our next story? Four? Four. Yeah. Really nice story, actually, because Scarlett Johansson is casting real Holocaust survivors for her movie, Eleanor the Great. So Scarlett Johansson has made her directorial debut at the TIFF, Toronto International Film Festival.

44:10It's called Eleanor the Great, and it is about a Holocaust survivor played by... Mark Schoenrutter. Girl, you don't know... what june squib you're lying june squib is in a starring in a film june squib is starring in a film directed by scarlett johansson that features holocaust survivors and so june squib plays like a survivor so yes she will be playing the titular character of a holocaust survivor who becomes uh friendly with a college student that's the premise of the film and then other holocaust survivors were cast to like round out the cast that's really sweet really sweet she talked about how she went about like finding people who might want to participate um like getting in with the community she said like at the time there was like 250 000 survivors living of course it's every year it's much less so we were able to identify that it's a community and was really helpful um they also reach out to the show a foundation to find like survivors interested in acting okay like Like one thing about Scarlett Johansson, I just fucking love that bitch.

45:17Like she's such a queen. She's there when it counts. And I trust her. She's there when it counts. Like she makes like either a lot of Jews in Hollywood, some of them disappointing, some of them great. And like Scarlett's just, she's a good one. She's there when it counts. And I love her. She's not like always the loudest and like every single time. But like when it counts, she does the right thing. And it doesn't hurt that she's like so beautiful, you know? Like that's just a bonus. And so with these Holocaust stories, I find, you know, more and more Hollywood like to be like kind of disappointing in telling the stories of our people so i actually trust scarlet i love that she's in the directorial seat and i hope the film is an immense success yeah and june squibb your girl well this just has the toast written all over it yeah it really does you don't know june squibb i didn't and now i do and now i'll know her even more and do you find that ever since i like enlightened you and and showed you june squibb that she just pops up everywhere i noticed her more it's definitely like the june squib effect it's kind of june's world yeah and we're just living in it it's true um i want to get to our fifth and final story and i think you're ready and i think you're gonna be really excited about this news on a lot of friends like it's jam-packed i don't think i'm ready though no but i think you're ready i think you're just getting excited and you're like losing sight of the readiness okay fine sorry so this and by the way I'm dying to know what the story is.

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53:20Eddie the serial killer. The murderer. Who tried to kill her. Who tried to kill Lynette. Oh and her yeah. Yeah he was her stalker. Are expecting their first baby together. Okay so I recently when I did my rewatch I found out that they were married. They got married very recently. Susan Meyer was in attendance. Terry Hatcher. And now they're expecting a baby. And it's kind of full circle because when he tried to kill Lynette she was nine months pregnant. she actually gave birth while being held hostage this is when the show got like a little nuts she was actually giving birth in the living room of the abandoned house where he killed his mom and she went over to check on him didn't know he was a serial killer and then he was like i'm the serial killer i was gonna flee to florida but now i have to hold you hostage because you know that i'm the killer and all the stress put her into early labor and he ends up delivering the baby before the police arrive life imitates art you know when i saw that two desperate housewives actors like were married i had to google him because i didn't recognize him because he looks like very like handsome and normal in this picture and then i saw not like a he's not a resident of wasseria lane he actually lives like a few blocks over in like a bad neighborhood and he's not like a title character no no no so then i saw a friend of lynette's kid so then i saw like he's eddie i'm like well who's eddie and then he has different hair he's so different he like plays the villain he was crazy looking he plays a serial killer and now they are happily married and more than that this article includes the fact that she has started a new desperate housewives rewatch podcast with terry hatcher yeah so it seems like everybody on the cast fucking hates terry hatcher except for the girl who played her daughter which is a is a point in terry's column and i'm sure that like the relationship that terry had with the other women you know competing and it was very different than the relationship she had with the young actress who played her daughter they probably had just like a different relationship than you would have with a a colleague who you're in competition with although if i'm julie meyer and i'm starting a rewatch podcast obviously i want to have on as many castmates as i can i'm not choosing terry hatcher yeah marcia cross isn't going on eva longoria is not going on i don't think felicity huffman's like doing a lot of podcast interviews since leaving prison but she's certainly not doing it now that terry hatcher's the co-host so i feel as though the podcast has an expiration date because they're not going to get many people to agree to come on no but it's just then it won't be about co-hosts like maybe they're taking a page out of the toast book like you and I we've got this like every episode we don't need anyone and they have plenty of episodes of Desperate Housewives to talk about like I'm telling you Mark Cherry's not going on maybe Josh made friends on set that he's gonna bring in who's Josh Zuckerman her husband Eddie oh he's a Jew oh yeah I guess he's a Jew and she's not Bowen I wouldn't say but that's cool it's cool interfaith marriage you love to see it the article doesn't include anything about their religions is he wearing a yarmulke uh i don't see wedding photos i'm just seeing sonogram that's really cute i yeah oh i would have to i don't know where the it's always crazy when people from a tv show it's more so crazy when they were like romantically linked on the show like emily van campen from revenge her and that guy are still married he's so hot like four feet tall it's crazy that like he held her hostage he didn't actually he tried to choke her while she was taking out the trash oh julie yeah oh well it's just he held lynette hostage got it no but then gave birth to her daughter lynette not julie no julie you're thinking julie actually julie and lynette were both held hostage in the grocery store remember when that woman um she holds up the grocery store with a gun because her husband owns a grocery store and she finds out he's having an affair damn and you know who gets killed you guys might not remember nora tom scavo's ex-girlfriend who never told tom that she got pregnant and so tom finds out they have this like eight-year-old daughter kayla and she's like this nightmare bitch to let it kayla kayla scavo yeah and remember that tiktok and her mom nora like really wants to get back with tom remember that tiktok of course i sent it to you right Yeah, some creator who ran into Tom Scavo.

57:26The actor who plays Tom Scavo when he just started filming, he was like, you are the worst, like, ever. And the actor who plays Tom Scavo, like, he kind of knows that, but he obviously feels this, like, deep connection to Tom. So he's like, oh, come on, no, he's not. And, like, he really is. There's so many. I actually cannot go on my Tom Scavo rant. No, no, no, you can't. Because. Let's bring it back to the happy couple. No, I just want to say. I'm not going to go on my Tom Scavo rant, but, like, the pizza shop. the rewatch podcast i look forward to hearing like terry's take on it i don't like maybe she'll have some tea maybe they'll be making be making headlines felicity huffman like doesn't do press so we never hear from her we hear a lot from eva longoria because she's always like promoting something she's going on watch up inside and andy's always like is it gonna go back um and i just know aside from like the terry hatchet drama like they had the best time on that show yeah it It was a moment in time.

58:20It was lightning in a bottle. It was. And Eva Longoria said like literally best job ever. However, like everything that has like happened since, like they've just ruined the show. Of course. Like Marsha Cross's social media footprint has ruined the show. She's so crazy. She's so crazy. Has ruined the show. Don't bring it back. Just. Appreciate it for what it was at the time that we had it. It was literally a movie. And I don't mean that like in a movie sense. I understand. Okay. Are you ready for Dear Toasters? I'm going to start with the one that I teased, okay?

58:54Wait, I have to find it. Okay. I bolded it. Where did it go?

59:04Sometimes when I bold things, I accidentally delete it. Hold on. Classic.

59:11That's okay. I found it. Okay. All right. Welcome to Dear Toasters, our weekly advice segment. This week it's going to be bi-weekly. actually no bi-weekly means every other week but you know twice a week bi-weekly should mean twice a week i just want to say that do you agree yeah and what's the word for bi-weekly for twice a week yeah twice a week sucks um it's not a word it's a phrase our weekly advice segment where jackie and i try to help toasters in need if you are ever going through something with a friend a romantic partner a health issue we literally like there's no quandary we won't take email us dear toasters at gmail.com or just head over to our website the toast podcast.com there's a little submission box when you scroll down it says dear toasters both of them are totally anonymous okay this one directly involves us we are the injured party oh i'm mad hey jackson turdy i have kind of a meta issue a girl i work with at work is constantly telling stories sharing takes with our co-workers that is just literally verbatim what you say on the podcast she says it's she says it like it's an original thought though or a personal experience to her i've mentioned that i also listened to the toast thinking she would say something like i heard this on you know a garage podcast when sharing an anecdote but no she just shares stories that you girls tell like it's her own do i call her out people think she's so hilarious and has the best takes but it's so freaky to me that she acts like these things are coming from her brain i hope she hears this dear toasters sincerely a corporate toaster ako taco but you're saying we're hilarious and have the best takes i know and the one hand i'm like mad because i want everyone to know like no this was my joke my story I took my pants off of physical therapy but on the other hand like the fact that we're empowering young women to just like stand out at work I don't feel like injured by this like I want people to like take something from this show and let it enrich their lives I feel bad for the girl who's like yeah has like knows that this girl is like she knows too much she knows too much knows that this girl is lying like there's obviously like a little bit of a fraudster because you could also like say things and there's a way to caveat like oh I heard like an interesting story and say like I heard on the toast or whatever and you'll still get the points for having known it.

1:01:18But you are just like being more honest. So I'm just like frustrated for this girl because that must be like really annoying to know that like this girl is getting undue credit. But like you could also do the same thing.

1:01:35She could do the same thing. She's Lucy Wyman now. oh yeah she's a c-lineman now or like you could do the same thing but like i don't know obviously this the girl who's stealing from us like is fucking crazy so at least you have a leg up on everybody else because everybody's like oh sarah from accounting is so funny and cool and you know she's actually a sociopath um so that's cool for you just let it go you know i think people like really look too much and this might be a hot take people like look too much into their their work relationships like even like the best girl you know from work like she's still your co-worker like so just like leave this at at the office go home and talk to your real friends about it yeah or you could like call her out and be like oh that's like that happened to call her yeah like but you also might wind up like looking like small and like everyone was enjoying the moment and you just ruined it so i see this happen like not to make everything about myself but when he farted he's like convulsed okay oh my god is he okay i think he's okay he's just wake him up he's an active sleeper jackie his eyes are like rolling behind his head look at him up bruto i swear bruto how does he look he's fine he's fine okay oh my gosh but jackie he was like this he's an active sleeper that was really that was a lot and i feel like if i didn't address it people would be like what is bruno he was having a bad dream my baby maybe he was dreaming being pulled away from his auntie it's true now not to make this to your toasters about myself but i do you see this happen a lot on TikTok when like there's a big social, like a pop culture thing and somebody will make like a TikTok.

1:03:08It's like a take. And it's like literally exactly what we said on the toast. And then I go and like, I see that they follow us in the toast. And so on the one hand, I'm like grateful for the support, but on the other, it's like, you just stole my, my joke. Cause they're like stealing our share of voice, which is the internet. Yeah. Like, yeah, right. You want to steal the water cooler? You could have it. And like, we're here to serve. Like I want to like bring value to your life. And, and we do say like, we want, like we do this show so you can have like interesting takes if you want to take them to say take them to the cocktail party yeah we kind of told the girl to do this now saying like a story that happened to me that happened to you like that's like another level of like crazy but you know what i don't give a fuck as long as you're subscribing like totally that's all i care about like if you're maybe using all of them just like also be a patreon yeah you do have to pay to steal stop the steal by the way you do have to pay honestly if this girl's not a patreon member then i have an issue let us know if she's a patreon member she probably is to get more stories because that's also right and you know what personal story you are paying for that privilege yeah i agree what you're not gonna find me doing is caring okay hi swirlies love you gals let's get to it my boyfriend and i are both 23 we've been together for over a year i recently got dinner with some friends and they're in relationships too and they talked about how they often send nudes to their partners to spice up their love lives i've never sent one to my boyfriend because we see each other like two to three times a week and call me crazy but I feel like he sees it in person enough and I don't really need a digital footprint like that but am I approved what's your opinion on nudes is it more common for people to send them than I think this also got me thinking do you guys think do you think guys ever delete the nudes that they've received in the past do they all just have nudes like a hall of fame would love to hear your take on this I guess we've never like shared our stance on nudes like well I think in order to have a stance you have to have sent them and I haven't.

1:04:58Well that would be your stance that you've never sent a nude which I wonder like what percentage of people nowadays of young people have never. Well to answer your question she said is it more common than I think. I think pretty much everyone does. Send nudes. Yeah and my take on it is that like I can see a world in which you regret sending a nude but I don't see a world in which you regret not sending one and for me that's how I've made the decision to not do it. Yeah it's not something that I've ever like strongly considered or felt compelled to do I to do I don't want to like break the internet when I share this but I've never sent a nude um which is probably really shocking um but like I understand like people who do I don't think men delete them why would they like literally don't what why would they delete them like and it's just unfair because like yeah men and women both send it but like I like mostly guys just like send it up their penis and like it's not attached to you right but girls you know we're artists we are proud of our bodies especially boobs like they're close to your face so it's like usually a recognizable photo which makes it you know linked to you forever and so I think it's a bigger deal um so if you're on the fence about it I say no if you're on the fence about it I say no as well like if something is holding you back from doing it like just listen to your gut um but if you're doing it like great everybody does it and that's how young people communicate nowadays and and yeah men say them but like i'm gonna go further and maybe it's just because like i'm a mom but i'm gonna say something and i'm i don't judge anybody who sends nudes but like a guy who's asking you for a nude like he doesn't love you yeah that might be like one of my hotter takes what about what if it's like your husband maybe he's off well you could tell your husband to fuck all the way off like that's a good thing about being married like maybe you have love and you have trust and he's off like working on an oil rig and he needs a little something from his lady love even with somebody who's totally trustworthy and totally safe like phones are not right like people get hacked all the time like that's on a small scale like it's it's about the trust of the person but it's also the trust of the technology phones which i don't have a lot in yeah i don't i just i don't really ever see a good reason i'm sorry i don't and i don't think that we should be sending them I am in agreement that's how I live my life and yeah I think what if he's in the military well thank you for your service and we can have sex when you get home but it's like months at a time and he's missing his darling okay well you know they didn't have cell phones in Vietnam but they sent the mail who knows what was in there yeah like a little sexy Polaroid but it was definitely a cute picture of your face Like everyone would have a picture of like their sweetheart, you know?

1:07:43Yeah. And like they weren't nudes, but they would like send a picture like of the little cleavage and it would be like crazy. They would hide it in their bunker. Yeah. Like we need to turn back the clock on that. We've gotten too far. No, like our holes are all over the internet now. It's crazy. Yeah. So and I do think like men keep them because seriously, why would they delete them? Like they have like free nudes. By the way, here's a good example. Like this is such a random example. But like Raquel, Tom and Ariana, right? Ariana. No, sorry. Raquel and Tom were exchanging photos. And they trusted one another.

1:08:17And Tom, those photos got leaked. She ended up like suing Ariana. And it wasn't because of Tom. Yeah. Now, obviously, she was having a relationship with a man in a relationship. But even in a situation where the photos get out, not through the fault of the person you sent them to. Yeah. Plus, not to mention hacking, phone transfers, sharing a cloud with your family. It's just a nightmare. the fact that this girl is on the fence about it i say absolutely not but to the girls listening who maybe do send it i would recommend actually not honestly sorry like not to be a grandma over here yeah i do i don't really see the purpose in it and most of the time it's like not with the great love of your life it's with a guy who like you like and he just like wants to see your boobs yeah and i would hope with the great love of your life like barring the oil rig or the military like you guys are together all the time and here you go right and it's nice like maybe he's on a work trip okay so a little uh a little tension never hurt no one you know a little anticipation all right our third and final is hilarious hello swirlies i'm thinking about buying a cameo to tell my close friends and family members that i'm getting a divorce oh we're not we're not parting on bad terms or anything it just needs to happen and i want to bring some light to the situation so who should i use to tell my parents that i'm getting divorced now there's so many great people on cameo and i do think a real housewife delivers all types of news in a part delicious way but might i suggest the great nikki blonski oh that is good i also think i don't know what your goals are in life but like you have an opportunity not that this would have catapulted you into anything like long lasting but like i could see this going viral viral um so who do you want to take viral with you obviously like who do you want to bring up countess luann comes to mind right her smoky robinson chinooka happy chinooka um but nikki blonski like is the face of cameo and i feel like she needs this although i don't know if your parents would know who she is i feel like parents do keep up like a little bit with some of the real housewives brandy glanville yeah hers are a little all over the place you also want somebody like direct to get the message across because you don't want them to be confused and sometimes people like wax on on these cameos like for minutes and you have no idea what they're talking about yeah Teresa does a good one she just reads she reads exactly what you ask her to yeah lots of good options yeah maybe it's the time of year where we go check who's on cameo who are the number ones right now or right you should do um who was just on cameo that we wanted to support um maybe you could do Jalen from Love Island I don't think that they would know and by the way call me old I don't know any of the people who are in the top 10 on cameo.

1:10:58Hold on, I'm on my way. The Naked Cowboy you can book. That's not my vibe.

1:11:09Cameo. I don't know these people. Lisa Rinna. Kevin O 'Leary. Oh, you mean Kendra? What was her name? Lekarin. Kevin O 'Leary. Yeah. Yeah, and he would give some great advice on like the business of divorce. Yeah, he would. I feel like he might not like what he has to say. Which is what? I don't know. I feel like he might like make you like second guess your choice. Jax Taylor. I put him in the bucket of one of the people who was like rambling on and he won't ever get to the point. Yeah. I'd love this for you though. I'm sorry you're getting divorced but I think you have a great approach to it I've always said that like if you're not if you're divorcing like without kids because that's sad obviously but if you're just like you made a mistake and you're divorcing and like you have an ex-husband and people are like really deeply ashamed of that we need to totally get rid of the stigma on having an ex-husband I think it's incredibly chic especially if it's a situation without kids yeah it's like it's really no big deal but sometimes people you know you realize you married the wrong person and it just happens and it's fine but then you like have this chip on your shoulder that you have a an ex-husband at like 27 it's really not a big deal I think You should have Manti Teo do it.

1:12:26That's like, obviously you're getting a great product, but you're also sending the money to a great place. A great cause. Well, yeah, he's a person, not a charity. No, the cause of uplifting Manti Teo after what the world did to him. Yeah. Correct. Raising his star. Thank you to everybody who wrote into Dear Toasters. And the amazing news is you can tune back in tomorrow for another dose of Dear Toasters. And this one's going to be all about toxic mother-in-laws. So that's the tease. And we'll see you then. Thank you so much for listening to the chosen Monday morning show where we deliver the past life stories.

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