Cheryl Hines: Stories From “Curb Your Enthusiasm” and Sticking by RFK on His Way to the White House

24 Oct 2025 · 2 h 8 min · 44 chapters

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In short

Cheryl Hines discusses her career path from Orlando to Los Angeles, early acting breakthroughs, how she joined Curb Your Enthusiasm, and the personal/professional fallout of marrying Robert F. Kennedy Jr. during the COVID era. She also shares a “predator” story from an alleged James Toback encounter and reflects on Hollywood power dynamics and public polarization.

Guest backgrounds

Cheryl Hines is an actress and comedian who studied improv at Groundlings Theater, later became a long-running cast member on Curb Your Enthusiasm (24 years/12 seasons). She met RFK Jr. through Larry David at a Waterkeeper event; RFK Jr. is an environmental attorney and later a highly controversial political figure.

Key claims

  1. LA is portrayed as full of ambitious people and power imbalances that can take advantage of them.
  2. She describes a director/writer James Toback allegedly using manipulative, sexually provocative tactics; she credits friends knocking on the door as preventing harm.
  3. She says her husband’s COVID/vaccine stance created intense conflict in LA, including claims that some people didn’t want her work.
  4. She argues polarization turns conversations into “courtroom” debates rather than problem-solving.

Notable examples

  • Her first major role: Swamp Thing (TV series), where she dies in a “beeping” death scene.
  • How she got Curb: a sketch she wrote about earthquake survival and refusing to drink her own urine impressed Larry David.
  • Her Toback story: being asked to remove one boot; friends intervene at the door.
  • RFK Jr. example: she describes “The Real Anthony Fauci” research days filled with citations and footnotes.

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Cheryl's Journey to LA

0:34 to 3:56

Cheryl shares her background, moving to LA, and her early experiences as an actress.

“Your life, the trajectory is like pretty amazing.”

Facing Rejection in Acting

3:56 to 7:20

Cheryl discusses the emotional challenges of facing rejection as an aspiring actress.

“Usually when you see people clapping, they're not actually making noise.”

Auditioning for Roles

7:20 to 11:36

Cheryl recounts how she strategically submitted herself for auditions, including one for Nancy Kerrigan.

“And I thought, well, is my life going to be over at 25?”

Cheryl's First Acting Job

13:12 to 14:00

Cheryl shares her first acting job experience with the show Swamp Thing.

“Investing has risks like the loss of principle.”

Cheryl Hines Reflects on Her Early Acting Career

14:18 to 17:22

Cheryl shares her experiences and challenges in early acting roles, particularly in 'Swamp Thing'.

“Well, that's when I was living in Orlando.”

The Struggles of Making It in Hollywood

17:23 to 18:28

Discussing the long journey to success in LA and the predatory nature of the industry.

“when it came out and I said, so did you watch it?”

A Creepy Encounter with a Director

18:29 to 24:13

Cheryl recounts a strange meeting with a director and reflects on the industry's darker side.

“And at that point I had a different agent.”

The Vulnerability of Acting

28:35 to 30:08

Cheryl discusses the strange and vulnerable aspects of acting.

“It never occurred to me that this would do.”

Auditioning for Curb Your Enthusiasm

30:10 to 31:59

Cheryl shares her journey to audition for 'Curb Your Enthusiasm'.

“It was something about taking advantage.”

The Sketch That Opened Doors

32:00 to 34:46

Cheryl reveals the sketch that led to her role on the show.

“And so I wasn't, it was probably good that I didn't, because I wasn't intimidated, because I didn't even know who he was.”
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The Duration of the Show

34:47 to 35:19

Cheryl talks about the long run and breaks of the show.

“Well, that does sound like something from Curb Your Enthusiasm.”

Getting to Know Larry David

35:20 to 37:38

Cheryl shares insights into Larry David's character and work style.

“Because it was Larry David and Larry wanted to only do shows when he felt inspired.”

Friendships Formed on Set

39:27 to 40:21

Cheryl reflects on lasting friendships and family ties from the show.

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Friendships Formed on Set

40:27 to 42:09

Cheryl reflects on lasting friendships and family ties from the show.

“.com 24 years is a long time to spend with the same people.”

Reflections on Pleated Khakis

42:09 to 43:56

Discussion about the fashion statement of pleated khakis and their cultural implications.

“I think growing up in Tallahassee, I had a lot of guy friends that wore pleated khakis.”

From Acquaintances to Partners

43:56 to 45:58

Cheryl shares her journey of getting to know Bobby during their divorces.

“And he was always pleasant, always nice, but I really never even spoke to him that much because it was always a big event.”

Navigating Fame and Marriage

45:58 to 48:22

How both Cheryl and Bobby managed their relationship amidst their public lives.

“But it wasn't, it didn't seem like it was going to be anything permanent.”

The Impact of COVID on Public Perception

48:22 to 50:45

Discussion on the shifting public perceptions of Bobby during the pandemic.

“And I said, I don't really want to get married if we're going to live in different states.”

The Vaccine Debate and Personal Struggles

50:45 to 54:08

Cheryl reflects on the intense discussions surrounding vaccines and personal losses.

“if we don't all take this vaccine, we're all going to die.”

The Role of Dialogue in Crisis

54:08 to 56:00

Exploring the importance of constructive dialogue in addressing societal issues.

“But when it goes quickly from you skip over that conversation, it was just hard.”

The Impact of Political Discussions

56:00 to 1:00:04

Explore how open conversations can ease tensions in divided opinions.

“Why aren't these two sides working together?”

Navigating Controversy in Relationships

1:00:04 to 1:02:16

Cheryl shares her experiences of balancing personal and public life amidst controversy.

“Yes, this is the beginning of a journey.”

Public Responses and Social Media

1:02:16 to 1:05:23

Discussion on the social media backlash faced by Cheryl due to her husband's views.

“So it's, but it was hard because at the time, I mean, I've really loved all the people I've worked with.”

Cultural Monochrome in Los Angeles

1:05:23 to 1:08:58

Investigate the lack of diverse perspectives in Hollywood and its effects.

“And, you know, I know Bradley and he's an acquaintance.”

Surprise Presidential Announcement

1:08:58 to 1:10:05

Cheryl recounts her shock upon learning about her husband's presidential aspirations.

“Yeah, it sounds like you're, just by the way you talk, that you were not super political.”

Cheryl's Reaction to RFK's Presidential Run

1:10:05 to 1:12:04

Learn about Cheryl Hines' initial shock and reflections regarding her husband's presidential ambitions.

“So when your husband said, oh, by the way, just so you know, I may run for president.”

The Impact of Relationships on Risk

1:12:04 to 1:13:39

Explore how relationships complicate the decision-making process when taking risks.

“But it's sort of a harder, of course, situation.”

Hollywood's Response to RFK's Campaign

1:13:39 to 1:15:24

Discover the mixed reactions from Hollywood regarding RFK's presidential campaign against Biden.

“He's the fourth Kennedy to run for president and the only one not to get the support of Hollywood.”

Emotional Challenges During the Campaign

1:15:24 to 1:18:15

Hear about the emotional toll and changes in work dynamics during RFK's campaign.

“So it was, so I was probably, Bobby was probably running for maybe two months, like maybe a two month overlap or something.”

The Dark Side of Political Connections

1:18:15 to 1:20:31

Cheryl discusses the troubling mindset that associates individuals with the actions of their relatives.

“they were ending the series and going on late night talk shows and talking about the show.”

Lack of Support for Security Measures

1:20:31 to 1:24:01

Delve into the concerns over the lack of Secret Service protection for RFK during his campaign.

“But she said, I wonder what Melania is going to do now.”

Concerns About Security for RFK Jr.

1:24:01 to 1:25:40

Exploring the lack of Secret Service protection for RFK Jr. during his candidacy.

“But the security thing, that was very upsetting to me.”

Political Maneuvering Against RFK Jr.

1:25:40 to 1:27:50

Discussion on political strategies aimed at undermining RFK Jr.'s campaign.

“Because that was also part of what, you know, there were so many things that were very surreal about it, about Bobby running.”

Escalating Threats and Personal Safety

1:27:50 to 1:31:44

Anecdotes about threats against RFK Jr. and personal safety concerns.

“And then, you know, the, what we could hear people talk about not in front of the camera was also he's, we're going to make sure he has to spend a lot of money on security.”

Trump's Relationship with RFK Jr.

1:31:44 to 1:33:54

Insights on the evolving relationship between Trump and RFK Jr.

“I know that there were a few members of the family that I know that inquired.”

Meeting Donald Trump: A Surprising Experience

1:33:54 to 1:38:01

Cheryl Hines shares her unexpected experience meeting Donald Trump.

“I mean, the Trump people who very much wanted, I know, you know, Bobby's endorsement wanted him to campaign with them, wanted to bring on the administration, knew that your opinion was really important to him.”

Meeting Trump: Surprising Insights

1:38:01 to 1:45:40

Cheryl Hines shares her unexpected impressions of Donald Trump during a meeting.

“Donald Trump's the enemy and all of a sudden you're like in a meeting with him?”

Meeting Melania Trump: A Positive Encounter

1:45:41 to 1:47:28

Hines discusses her brief but pleasant interactions with Melania Trump.

“Did you call your friend in LA and say, actually, she's pretty cool?”

Vaccine Controversy: A Discussion

1:47:29 to 1:52:00

The conversation shifts to the controversial topic of vaccines and personal experiences related to them.

“I like them as people, you know, as someone to hang out with and talk to at the dinner party.”

Vaccine Injuries and Compensation Discussion

1:52:00 to 1:56:32

A conversation about vaccine injuries, compensation, and societal views on vaccines.

“There's the vaccine injury compensation program that's paid out $5.4 billion.”

The Ritualistic Nature of Vaccination

1:56:32 to 1:59:09

Exploring the spiritual and ritualistic elements surrounding vaccinations.

“There's the baby Jesus getting needles in him.”

Reflections on Personal Growth and Politics

1:59:09 to 2:06:05

Cheryl Hines reflects on personal growth, family, and her unexpected journey into politics.

“So I've met very few people who've had a life with the trajectory that yours has had.”

Cheryl Hines on Staying Engaged in Life

2:06:05 to 2:07:20

Cheryl Hines shares her thoughts on staying active and engaged as life changes in her 60s.

“You're still interested in stuff, which is pretty great at 60.”

Cheryl Hines on Staying Engaged in Life

2:07:28 to 2:09:31

Cheryl Hines shares her thoughts on staying active and engaged as life changes in her 60s.

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0:36Your life, the trajectory is like pretty amazing. You are very far from where you started. That is true. Where did you start? I started in Florida, in Orlando, Florida. You know, I grew up in Orlando and Tallahassee. and then one day I drove my Toyota Tercel across the country to Los Angeles. By yourself? No, I was dating a guy and I said, you know, I'm moving to LA and when it came time to move, he was very sad and he said, can I ride with you? And I said, please don't. And he said, no, please, please. I just want to get out of, I want to see the country. I've never seen the country. And so we broke up and then we drove across the country together.

1:27Well, that's awkward. It was very awkward.

1:50Why did you move to LA? Why did I move to LA? Yeah. Because I knew I was going to move to, because I always wanted to be an actress. And I knew it was going to be New York or LA, but I knew two people in LA. One guy from my high school and another guy who was a family friend, one of my brother's best friends. So I knew two people. So I thought, okay, then that makes more sense, LA. Were they like at CIA? Were they like powerful agents, those two people? No. No, no, not at all. Well, actually, so one of my best friends, Paul Beckett, we ended up high school together and he moved out there and he was a professional background actor.

2:38What's a background actor? Like an extra. Is that what they call him? Background actor? Yes. Yes. What is that life like? He loved it because it was, you know, day to day. You get a project. You don't have to prepare much. You just show up. Lines to memorize. No lines to memorize. You know what the hardest thing about doing background work? Have you ever done background work? No, I've been in the background in a lot of events, but I've never been paid for it. It's harder than it seems because, you know, if they're shooting a party scene and your background, you have to stand behind the main actors and act like you're talking, but you can never say anything.

3:24So it's a lot of... Or you can't actually speak out loud. No, you can't speak out loud, but you just, you just, you act like you're talking and you make eye contact with the person that you're talking to. And then you take turns mouthing words, but try not to look crazy doing it. That sounds really hard, actually. It's hard. I found it to be hard. Oh, you did it? Oh, yeah, because you have to do it as an actor too. Because sometimes, you know, you're shooting something in somebody else's coverage. And so they ask you not to actually say words out loud while they're doing their dialogue. It's even like clapping.

4:03Usually when you see people clapping, they're not actually making noise. Seriously? They put that in later, yeah. Do they have like hand muffs to keep it from? No, you're just a professional and you know not to... Not to touch. Not to touch. So how did you go? So you show up not knowing anybody except one extra. I went to your high school and then you wind up succeeding. How hard is that? It was hard. Yeah. It was hard. I, you know, I got a bartending job, which actually was also hard. You wouldn't... Yeah, it's a hard job. It's a hard job. And in LA, it was hard to get a job as a bartender or as a waitress because everybody's doing that because everybody is trying to, you know, get a job as an actor or writer.

4:52So even to get those jobs are hard in LA. But I've managed to get a job in this hotel in downtown LA. It was the Intercontinental. I think they've changed it since then. But so that was good. I did that. And then it just, it took a year for me to work in that hotel, in that bar, to just sort of get used to LA. And at that time, you would send out your headshot and resume to all of the agents in town and hope that somebody would be interested in, just from looking at your picture, be interested in meeting with you. And I didn't do it. I wasn't ready for the rejection because I thought, what if I send out a picture and resume to every agent in this town and none of them want me?

5:48I wasn't ready. I didn't have a plan. What would be the plan? So until I was ready with that, that form of rejection, I couldn't bring myself to do it. How did you get, how do you prepare for that kind of rejection? a lot of self pep talks. You know, I would just say, okay, what's going to happen? This is probably going to happen. Probably not one person is going to respond. And who are you going to be? Is it going to change you if nobody responds? And for the first year of my life there, I thought, yeah, it'll change me. It'll break me. it'll, this is the only thing I've ever wanted to do. So, but, but after I was there for a while, I realized, okay, my self-worth doesn't depend on if somebody looks at my picture and decides they want to represent me or not.

6:49I finally got to that place where I realized, okay, life is going to go on. I'm going to be the same person. I'm still going to be an actress. I'll just have to do it a different way. And this was before you'd sent a single headshot to a single agent. That's pretty self-aware. Well, I guess I just didn't want to, I didn't want to, even though it was the only thing I wanted to do. It's the only thing I've ever wanted to accomplish. And I thought, well, is my life going to be over at 25? If I can't, am I going to let them decide if I'm successful or not, these agents? So yeah, I had to, I had to get to that place.

7:41So then how did you get in? Well, then I sent them all out and I did get a response. And let's just say it wasn't one of the big agencies. But was it a legitimate agency? I'll say yes. There are so many agencies in Los Angeles. Oh, I know. And really, there are a handful that are, I mean, there are a lot that are legitimate, but there are really only a handful that are powerful. Yes. It wasn't one of the powerful ones. As a matter of fact, I wasn't getting any auditions. They never sent me out on one audition. But remember the Tonya Harding and Nancy Kerrigan? Very well. And Jeff Galooly? Yes.

8:36And Jeff Galooly. And so there was a, you can, you used to be able to see the breakdowns for what they were casting. They would come out on something. So I would read the breakdowns to see what people were casting for. And at the time, people were telling me I looked like Nancy Kerrigan. Yeah. So I thought, okay, well, maybe I should, there was a TV movie for this, for Tanya Hardy and Nancy Kerrigan. So I thought I should at least go in. And so I knew my agent was not submitting me or if they did, nobody's opening that. Or I thought they probably weren't. So I put my headshot and resume in. I put a post-it on my picture that said, you should see her for Nancy!

9:30Exclamation point. I didn't sign it because I didn't want anyone to think that I was doing anything underhanded. And then for the return address, I put my agent's address and I got called in. Wait, you pitched yourself on behalf of your agent? That's correct. Did your agent get a cut of the fee? Well, I didn't book it. But my agent called and was like, guess what? I've got an audition for you. I was like, uh-huh. Well, Nancy Kerrion. Actually, but I did have a really good audition. And I may have been called back because there was a lot of talk about ice skating. Did I know how to ice skate? And growing up in Tallahassee, probably a pretty good ice skater.

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14:17Thank you. So what was the first actual part that you got? Well, that's when I was living in Orlando. It was for Swamp Thing, the TV show inspired by the movie, Swamp Thing. I missed the whole Swamp Thing genre. Yeah, it's too bad. Was it a straight-to-video enterprise or what was it? What, Swamp Thing? Yeah. The movie? Yeah. No, it was a hit movie. Actually? Yes. Yes. Wow, I'm embarrassed. You should be. Sorry, I was in boarding school, I think. Yeah. No movies. You guys weren't allowed to watch that. And then the TV show, I was an evil scientist. and in the show, I am holding a gun. I'm like about to shoot another scientist and I hear a beeping sound because earlier in the episode, I had pulled the plug on my stepfather's life support machine.

15:33And now I'm hearing a beeping sound and it's driving me crazy. And then I dropped the gun, I clutched my heart and I die. And I said to the director, I said, before we shot it, I said, just so I'm clear, what exactly am I dying of? I mean, I know, you know, we're talking about telltale heart where the beeping is driving you crazy and can anybody else hear it? All of that. I said, but what is the thing that's actually killing me? And he said, Cheryl, we don't have time for this. You just need to drop the gun. And then the gun handler who, you know, with somebody on set that's there for gun safety and shows you how to handle the gun.

16:17He was like, please don't drop the gun. He said, if you could just, can you lay it on the couch on your way down to the floor? I was like, oh, okay. So I had to, he said, the director was like, just clutch your heart. It's, I said, so a heart attack? And he's like, that's fine. Yeah, let's see. that's fine we gotta go so that was my so i died big death scene exciting um and that was my big first role that's why i moved to uh la because you were hooked well because i this was my springboard to stardom. No, I'm not mocking. Oh, because I just got this role and there was nothing else really shooting in Orlando.

17:07Probably not. So I thought, okay, this is a good time to go to LA. Swamp thing is going to come out. The agents in LA are going to see it. And my phone will ring off the hook. And then I called my sister because she was still in Orlando. when it came out and I said, so did you watch it? How was it? Because, you know, we were three hours later, earlier, later. And she said, you should start drinking now.

17:42So we did. Then we had a Swamp Thing watch party. And it was fun. I mean, this was not like a... Nobody got golden globes from Swamp Thing. No one? No, no, no. And my phone didn't ring after. So how long did it take you from the day you got to LA till you thought I'm successful now?

18:1310 years. 10 years? Yeah. Wow. Yeah. How predatory is LA? It feels that way to me. in what way it feels like there's a lot of ambitious people and then there are a lot of people with power taking advantage of those ambitious people that's the way it feels there is definitely that there is definitely that I had one experience that I actually talked about in my book unscripted where there was a director that approached me and said, will you meet me in my hotel room? I want to talk to you about a film. And at that point I had a different agent. I had a better agent. And I was on Curb at the time.

19:11And I said, well, I talked to my agent and I said - You're on Curb Your Enthusiasm when he called you? You know what? I think we had shot it, but it hadn't aired. Oh, because I met him in a drugstore in LA. Yeah. I mean, this person has since been exposed, if you will. And he came up to me and said, oh, you know, I mean, I guess I could tell you the name. yeah go ahead okay it's james tobac james tobac so he wrote um what did he write that a bugsy he wrote the film bugsy he's a successful director writer and i thought well this is a legitimate person and my agent said i think you should meet him and i said even if it's at in his hotel room it's a little weird how about the polo lounge Yeah.

20:16And he said, you know, people do this all the time. This was a while ago. This was probably what I was, this was probably how long ago? 20 years ago. No, no, more than that. 25 years ago, at least. And I felt strange going into a man's hotel room on a Friday night. So I asked my friends to come with me. I said, will you guys wait in the polo lounge? I said, this is - Oh, it was in the Beverly Hills Hotel. Yes. Well, that's just perfect. Am I allowed to say that? And then I gave him the room number. I said, if you don't hear from me in whatever it was, 30 minutes, come knock on this room. Because I don't know if I'm going to have phone reception.

21:01I don't know what's going to happen. It's probably all going to be fine. But if you don't hear from me, just come to the room. And so when I got to his room, I said, just so you know, I have, my friends are waiting for me downstairs and, you know, he said, okay, or whatever. I did not get the vibe that it was a weird situation. And then he starts talking and then he's, you know, telling me, you really have to be willing to step out of your comfort zone as an actor. You have to. You know, and he's asking me, do you feel like you can do that? And I said, well, of course I can. I'm an actress. I'm a trained actress is what we do all the time.

21:54And so then he starts asking me strange questions. Like what? Do I have a lot of body hair? Do you have a lot of body hair? Wow. That's not usually part of the woo. It's really not. And I thought that's so crazy. For an opening line, that doesn't seem effective to me. I'm not a woman though. Does that work? Oh yeah. I fell madly in love that night. We had tons of kids and we're happy. I was like, okay, well, I can't say that I do. I'm like looking at the hair on my arms. I'm like, you can't really see it. I don't know. I don't know where this is going, you know? And then he says, you want to take off your shoes and get comfortable.

22:42I said, oh, I'm comfortable. And he said, you don't want to take off your shoes? And I said, I don't. I'm totally comfortable. Don't worry about me. And I was wearing boots. And he said, why don't you take off one boot? And at this point, I'm like, men are so creepy. I'm like, One boot. And I'm thinking to myself, why one boot? Like, where is this going? Why would it be one boot? But for whatever reason, I was sort of intrigued. Like, why one boot? So I took off one boot. I left my sock on. And then he starts talking again. And then my friends knock on the door. And I said, oh, that must be my friends.

23:33And he looked at me like, what are you talking about? And I went and I opened the door and they were all, it was like an episode of Friends where all their heads are in the doorway. Like, Cheryl, one of my friends looked at my feet and he said, where's your boot? I said, oh, it's over by the couch. And he goes, get your boot, we're going. And they were all like, yeah, get your boot. You're out of here. And I said, yeah, it is weird, isn't it? And they said, yeah, it's weird. It's so weird. And then I left. Did you ever talk to him again? No, but, you know, he was sued by a lot of women because he would, this is what he'd do.

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28:31Visit store for full terms. Yeah. I don't see feed as sexually provocative. Maybe I'm the weirdo. No, same. And in the moment, I don't know. It never occurred to me that this would do. It never occurred to me that this is a weird guy who's trying to, you know, do something sexual. I mean,

29:05I guess it's sort of a slow burn, because a lot of stuff you do as an actor is weird. There are a lot of things that are not normal, that are odd, that are out of your comfort zone. You're showing up on a set and kissing a person that you just met and that's part of your job. If that's your role, that's the scene. So there are things that happen that are just strange and also normal at the same time. So, you know, taking one boot off, I just didn't think that that was... That the script called for that. No, I didn't. I had no idea if the script would go for that, but I didn't... I can understand how a woman that's in a spot like that, it's a very vulnerable place for them to be.

29:59And if I didn't have my friends on the other side of the door, I don't know what would have happened. I don't know. But anyway, what was your question? It was something about taking advantage. Yeah, are there predators in Hollywood? And that's my predator story. So how did you wind up on Curb Your Enthusiasm? Hmm. Well, I started studying at the Groundlings Theater in LA, which is, um, it's an improv and sketch comedy theater. And I was studying improv and performing. And, uh, at that point I had gotten a better agent and, um, and I started to go out on auditions. I was auditioning for different pilots, different TV shows.

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30:53And I got called in to audition for a one-hour special. They were just calling it the Larry David unscripted or untitled special. And so I went in and, well, I was scheduled to audition and then they called me and they said, we're running behind because there's no script. It's all improvised and it's taking longer than we thought. So I don't know when you're going to be able to go in. And then that night I was performing in a sketch comedy show. And I was performing a sketch that I had written and the producer, director of the one hour show was in the audience and really liked the sketch and thought that my sense of humor and Larry's would match up.

31:55You didn't know him. I never met him. Did you know who he was? You know, I knew that he co-created Seinfeld with Jerry Seinfeld. Yeah. That's all I knew. Yeah, he was not a public figure. I didn't know what he looked like. I didn't know anything about him. And so I wasn't, it was probably good that I didn't, because I wasn't intimidated, because I didn't even know who he was. I knew he was a lot older than me. And I knew I was going in to play, to audition for his wife. and I felt like I'm, I don't know if I'm right for this part, but I'll go in and try to have a great audition and see what happens.

32:35Maybe there's a different part, you know? And then when I walked in, I mean, the sketch that sort of opened the door for me was about a woman in her workplace and this guy comes in to do a safety, like go over safety procedures in an earthquake. And everybody in the office seemed to know what to do in case of an earthquake. And they were answering all the questions, right? Oh, if, do you light a match after an earthquake? And somebody said, no, because there could be a gas leak. And I'm thinking, whoa, how did they even know that? And, you know, should you walk around without shoes on? No, because there could be broken glass.

33:38And then they said, what do you do if your water supply runs out? And I said, well, if push comes to shove, you can drink your own urine. and my coworkers were like, that's gross. I said, well, no, I mean, I don't. And they said, that's really gross. And so the rest of the sketch was, they're trying to move on, you know, okay, let's, do you call your friends? And I go, just to be clear, I don't drink my own urine. I'm not gonna come home and drink my own urine. And they're like, we get it. We've got to finish this seminar. And I won't let it go. And I said, look, I'm going to say right now, I'm not going to drink my own urine.

34:22Even if there's an apocalypse and the only way to survive is to drink your urine. I'm not drinking my urine. I want you guys to know right now, I'm not drinking my urine. So that was the sketch that Bob Whitey saw. And he brought me in the next day to meet Larry. And then when I walked in for the audition, he said, oh, the urine girl is here. So that's the sketch that you wrote. Yeah, that's the sketch that I wrote. Well, that does sound like something from Curb Your Enthusiasm. So Rob thought that Larry would appreciate that sort of sense of humor. Yeah, well, that turns out to be a perfect match.

34:58Yeah. How long were you on that show? The show was on for 24 years. 24 years? Well, it took 24 years. Yes, and there were 12 seasons. So there were some seasons when there were some, there was like a four hour, a four hour, a four year break between some seasons. It wasn't consecutive. Like most TV shows. Why? Because it was Larry David and Larry wanted to only do shows when he felt inspired. Smart. Yeah. So he felt like after, even after the first season, I thought that was the end of the show. Cause he said that was the end of the show. And then I get a call and say, oh, we're going to do another season.

35:48I was like, that's amazing. So every season it was like that. And then one time I got a call from him and he said, I've got some bad news. I said, okay. And he said, we're going to do another season, but you're not going to be in it. I said, okay. I mean, that's okay. And then they did a season in New York that I wasn't in. And in the show, Larry and I had gotten divorced. And then the season after that, he brought me back into the show as his ex-wife. but it was over 24 years that all this took place that's wild so you got to know him well of course what's he like um well of course he's very very smart very funny um he he's very caring I know it doesn't seem like it but he's he's very caring about people close to him uh and uh he's neurotic yeah so basically I'm not breaking news so basically it's real it's a lot of it's real yeah Yeah.

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40:46And you know what? It was very sweet too, because there was so much time that was passing and we all were, we had kids and then we watched our kids grow up. And then we, you know, some cast members would have their kids as interns on the show. So it was sweet. You know, they were just a real part of my life. Yeah. It sounds like that was a lot of your adult life. Yeah, it was. Yeah. And you met your husband through the show or through Larry? Yeah, through Larry. I mean, I met Bobby Robert Kennedy Jr. through, I mean, Larry just introduced us, you know, I, Larry and I went to a water keeper event and he just introduced me to Bobby, not in any way like you guys should, you know, have anything to do with each other.

41:41It was just like, this is Cheryl, this is Bobby. So that was the first time I met him. Yeah. What'd you think? I thought he, I thought it was nice.

41:54he you know he was a great speaker bobby was a great speaker i saw him speak at the event and also i just remember oh that's a pleated khakis guy a pleated khakis guy yeah you know a guy that wears pleated khakis is that a plus or a minus well hmm is it a plus or a minus I think growing up in Tallahassee, I had a lot of guy friends that wore pleated khakis. And it was kind of a, it reminds me of a, hmm, like a football coach type of a, it's to me at the time, it felt like not a creative type person that I was used to. I don't know if that makes sense. The pleated khakis are the more non-creative.

42:47Yeah. Interesting. I don't think pleated khakis exists anymore. I'm glad. I am too. That was a sad face in this country's history. It was a sad face. I agree. I mean, listen, they weren't good for guys or girls. Right. I agree. I never fell for it. I'm not bragging. Okay. No. That's good. So, yeah. I forgot that even happened. It was burned into my brain. It was. So it was part of the appeal, I got to fix this. No, I mean, that part of the thing was just like, oh, he's a pleated khakis guy. You know, okay, that's nice. Yeah. So, but yes, then when years later, when we got together, I was. Oh, it was years.

43:28Oh yeah. Because when I met him, he was, he was married. I was married to different people. So it was not at all like, there was no spark or interest or anything like that. It was just a casual acquaintance. And then I stayed involved with Waterkeeper and I would see Bobby once a year, I think, at a Waterkeeper event. And he was always pleasant, always nice, but I really never even spoke to him that much because it was always a big event. and then I got divorced, he got divorced. We were going through divorce and I was gonna see him and I thought, oh, this is interesting. Like six years later or however long, it'll be interesting to see him because it's hard going through a divorce and it's hard even talking to somebody about it because nobody, unless you're going through it, nobody wants to talk about it.

44:35No, that's right. And even if you're going through it, you might not want to talk about it. But anyway, when I saw him, I said, how are you doing? And he said, good. I said, how are you really doing? And he said, good. Well, we should talk. He said, okay. And then we started talking and I just, it was really the first time I talked to him as a person, as a, and he was,

45:03very, very dynamic. You know, he's a dynamic person. And I just saw him in a different way for the first time. And I, I was really taken with him. What did your friends think? They, you know, my friends, they thought it was fun. But, you know, at the time, Bobby was living in New York. I was living in L.A. Bobby was an environmental attorney. And everybody loved him. I remember. Except for the big corporations that he was suing. Yeah. So, you know, it was just a kind of a fun situation. And they wanted to hear the highlights, you know. my friends. But it wasn't, it didn't seem like it was going to be anything permanent.

46:09So, I don't know. But it was just the, wasn't, didn't seem like a big thing at first. Yeah. Well, a lot of things start that way. Yeah. So then you marry him. You're famous. He's famous. Probably easier to marry someone who understands what that is, I would think. Seems like it. I understand why people, I mean, it has its pluses and minuses, right? Of course. Because probably two people that are known or, you know, well-known or whatever that looks like, they're only known in certain circles. uh so i don't know there are probably two famous people that feel somebody feels left out while the other person's shining or whatever that looks like so there might be that um i know that should be true with friends that are actors you know two actors together and sometimes or a director and an actor and their career is doing great and the other one is you know in a different pocket in their career.

47:24That can be tough, but it was good for me and Bobby because we were in different worlds. Completely. Yeah. And I remember early on when we were going through the airport together and somebody stopped him and said, you know, what you're doing is amazing. What you're doing is so important for the environment, for our country, for people, for people's health. Thank you so much. Almost in tears. And I said, wow, that was really nice. And then we keep going through. And then this guy said, oh my gosh, that diarrhea scene that you did in the car wash, that killed me. And I was like, thank you. And I look at Bobby like, ha ha, you're not the only one.

48:13So we had a, it was fun getting together with him in that way. And then he moved out to LA. Well, then he asked me to marry him. And I said, I don't really want to get married if we're going to live in different states. Fair. Right? And he said, okay, I'll come out there. Wow. I mean, I'm making it sound easy. It wasn't an easy decision, but yeah, that's what happened. And just from the outside looking in, things go great and then COVID happens. and Bobby goes from being controversial to being really controversial. Yes, you can say that. Yeah. Fair. That's very fair to say. And more love too, not just more hated, but more prominent.

49:04That's also true. Also more prominent and started really speaking to a lot of people and it was hard too being in L.O.A. or challenging perhaps because I would say the majority of the people in LA that I was encountering did not agree with him. And they could not imagine anybody agreeing with him. But the reality was there were millions of people across the country that were agreeing with him. Oh, yeah. But it was hard to see that in LA. But that's what was happening. Did anyone say anything to you about it? Like at work? Yes. What did they say? I'm so impressed by how brave your husband is. Actually, I did get some of those.

50:06I bet you did. I did get some of those. But I also got, what is he doing? You've got to stop him. Um, you've got to stop him. I got a lot of that. Really? Yeah. Yeah. Wow. Like it's, um, you know, the whole, I can't believe I'm the first one saying it. The whole vaccine issue, people were so, um, passionate about it one way or the other. and the people, and there were a lot of people that felt like, if we don't all take this vaccine, we're all going to die. And if you don't take it, you're going to kill us. So people really felt like that and would tell me that. Actually? Yeah. You know, I didn't have very strong feelings about vaccines one way or the other my whole life.

51:07I never really thought about it. I didn't realize that it was a religion to a lot of people. And political. Well, but that, you know, it's religion because that doesn't make any sense. If the vaccine is effective and you take it, then you're good to go. Right. Why does it matter if I take it? Somebody else does it. Did anyone, I heard smart people make that case. People I thought were smart, but it doesn't make any sense just on the face of it. No, it doesn't make any sense. And that wasn't enough for people. It wasn't. No, it wasn't enough for someone to be able to take the vaccine and feel like, whew, I'm okay now.

51:46I don't care what you do. Right. It wasn't enough. So the my body, my choice was not a real thing, it turned out. No, no. It was like, and I need to get involved with your body. Yeah, it's your body, my choice. Your body, my choice, yeah. And feminism is also obviously fake because why would you hold a woman responsible for her husband's views? That's a fair question. You'd be like, well, you know, you're a human being like with autonomy and stuff and you're responsible for your views. But your husband is a different person, not the same as you. And he's got his views. So they're not your fault, right?

52:22That one would think, but that's also not the case. Yeah. Interesting. How did, so as, but this went on and on and on. It wasn't like a flu season. It was like years and it got more intense. Yes. What was that like for you? It was stressful. It was stressful. And it was loud. You know, it felt like the conversation was loud. And it was, you know, what was really hard, I thought, was, like I said, both sides, I felt like both sides were pretty loud. And so even if you would find out that maybe somebody had passed away, it seemed like both sides wanted to know, was that person vaccinated? Was that the reason?

53:16They weren't. Or is that the reason? And it made me sad because I had several friends that passed away during that time. And it felt like we were talking about the wrong things at the moment. You think? It's like, wow, why are we talking about the person that just passed away and who they were and how they affected our lives, you know? So I hated it. I hated that. How can I use other people's deaths to score political points? Yeah, I hated it. Yeah, well, good. So that was hard. That's a measure of your decency that you hated that. No, it is. Someone dies, you should mourn the person's death, right?

53:58That's what it's all about. Who was that person? How did they remain in your life? Yes. And what do they leave behind? Exactly. But when it goes quickly from you skip over that conversation, it was just hard. I think it was hard for people to accept that vaccinated people ever die because it's magic and you live forever when you get a vaccine. And I think they were like, oh, there's got to be some way to explain that. Like, how could a vaccinated person die? Well, it felt like both. Once again, it felt like both sides were. Well, yes, they got the vaccine and then they got COVID, but they would have died if they did get the vaccine.

54:44You know, it's sort of like you could fit different scenarios into your own narrative, which was also annoying. And, you know, studies. Somebody talks of studies. Well, I can show you a study that shows this. I can show you a study that shows that. And it's just about back and forth. And it's like being in a courtroom. And you're watching both sides. You have an expert. And the expert will say 100%, you know, if you pick up this glass, you will die. And then the other experts say, 100%, that is not true. Here's a study that shows something completely different. So it just felt like there was a lot of that going on.

55:32It still is a lot of that going on. Instead of, to me, what I have a hard time understanding is instead of always pointing the finger and saying, you're wrong. You better listen to me. You're wrong. Instead of that and two people saying, okay, let's talk about this because it is a problem. Right. There's a huge problem here. It's a crisis. A lot of people are suffering. How can we figure it out? Like, show me what you've got. I'll show you what I've got. Let's, is there a cross section? Why aren't these two sides working together? That's what I don't understand. Well, it's helpful to begin the conversation with, here's how I've been wrong.

56:21And then everyone calms down, you know. Does anybody start with that? It works. It does work. Yeah, because it's the ultimate display of good faith. I've been wrong and here's how. and then you deescalate immediately. But when you begin with, you know, here are the eight things I don't like about you. Yeah. It doesn't go very far. So at this time, your husband is at home writing The Real Anthony Fauci. Mm-hmm. An amazing book, bestseller. Mm-hmm. Despite long odds. And what was that like? Did you talk to him about it as he was writing it? Um.

56:57There was a lot of Anthony Fauci talk in our house for good reason. Of course, he's pro or con.

57:09And there was a, you know, he worked really hard on it and he, he spent a lot of time citing sources in that book. Yeah, I noticed. So, you know, there were a lot of days that were just filled with citing sources by, you know, this article, that study, this goes in page two, this goes in. So it was, it took up a lot of space in our lives. Yeah. I mean, there are thousands of footnotes in that book and it's a very long book. Yeah. So it was, you know, was it important? Yes. Was it joyful? No. Yeah. Wasn't like. No spouse of a writer is ever happy about books. Yeah. I've had children cry to me when, I'm going to write a book, another book.

58:03Everyone cries. Please don't. Yeah, it's very unhappy. No, I know. It is hard to write a book, isn't it? It's awful, but it's terrible for the people around you. Yeah. Yeah, no, I'm very aware of that. I've received that feedback. I hear you. Sitting alone in your office. I'll try to do better. Jane smoking, feeling angry. No, no. Yeah, no, I know that well. So were you ever worried that, I mean, this is getting more and more and more controversial. You marry this man and you're in separate worlds, as you said, and that's a wonderful thing. He's a star in his world. You're a star in your world.

58:39They don't really collide. They don't even intersect. No, they don't. And people in your world think Bobby Kennedy's pretty cool because he's like a Kennedy and they're like sort of, you know, Democratic Party royalty and liberal in a wholesome way. And like not a scary liberal, but like a do-gooder liberal. Yeah. Like everyone kind of likes that. Yeah. Clean water. And you're on the coolest show in America. And of course everyone loves that. And all of a sudden everyone in LA is pissed about COVID and there's your husband who's in his office writing this book. Right. accusing Fauci of like starting the pandemic.

59:14Yes. Were you worried that that was going to affect you, your life?

59:22I mean, was I worried?

59:29Yes, but it was more than worry. It was affecting my life. So it wasn't even like, but I was concerned. to, I was concerned. I didn't know if this was going to be something that we move through, that I moved through that, whoa, that was a crazy time. And now things are back to normal. Did that happen? It did not. No. There is no normal. No. We broke normal a long time ago. Yes, this is the beginning of a journey. As I said at the outset, you're in a place I doubt you anticipated being. Yeah, I did not expect that. So that was when I realized, oh, this is changing everything. So it was publicly reported that people in Los Angeles were like, maybe we shouldn't give Cheryl Hines work because of her husband.

1:00:32Do you think that's real? uh i do think that's real i think i find that shocking i do sorry well i mean some people are just so they are so um taken with politics they're so upset by politics that even to see me is upsetting to them. Can I suggest something though that this is why it matters? It's not just about getting parts in TV shows or writing books about Fauci. It's a genocidal mindset. It's the mindset that says, well, we hurt the guilty, but we also hurt his family. And that's a genocidal mindset. And it's weirdly common in elite circles in the United States. It's like, what do you have to do with this?

1:01:28Nothing. You married the guy. And by the way, you were already successful when you married him. You already had your own thing. Yeah. And you're already famous and you marry him. You're not writing a book on Dr. Fauci, but let's hurt her because she's related to him. That's where genocide comes from, that way of thinking. It is strange. It's very strange to me. And at the same time, on the opposite side, yes, there are people that I'm probably not going to work with again. And there are people that I will be working with that have reached out to me. Yeah. And that are in this business that are very successful people that say, oh, I want to work with you.

1:02:15Well, that's a great way. That's a great way to look at it. Yeah. So it's, but it was hard because at the time, I mean, I've really loved all the people I've worked with. It sounds like you did. And I really have appreciated them. And I also know, you know, we're sort of generalizing. There are plenty of people that I have worked with that have reached out to me and, you know, will say, I can't wait to work with you again. They're not doing it publicly, but the other people aren't doing it publicly either. Nobody's, you know, besides Bradley Whitford. Nobody's going on, you know. What did Bradley Whitford say?

1:02:56Oh, gosh. You didn't hear that dumb tweet? I try and stay away from all things Bradley Whitford related. But don't tell me. I can't wait for the new outrage. What is it? Oh my gosh. I don't know. It's when Bobby, I guess it's when Bobby backed President Trump. And I just woke up. I woke up and I had people texting me. And I was trying to stay off social media too, because nothing good comes from it. You think? And I'm looking at my phone and I'm seeing texts from my friends saying, you know, what an asshole. I'm not thinking who, oh, who's the asshole today? It's always somebody. And then somebody sent me his, something that he posted on X.

1:03:47And it was something like, I bet my nephew Jackson would know it by heart. But it was something like, hey, Cheryl Hines, something like insulted Donald Trump. And then, of course, insulted Bobby and said, oh, this is a real good setting a great example for the kids. Talking about me. And a real profile in courage. I was like...

1:04:26What, what, first of all, what kids, what, what kids am I setting an example for? And if the example that I'm setting is that I'm supporting my husband, I'm glad. That's the example for the kids. Best example you could set. So that was strange. and then Profile and Courage, just because that's the name of the book that John F. Kennedy wrote. But, you know, no explanation other than, he just sort of called me out for not - Like it's your fault. Being outraged at my husband. I'm not even sure what he was hoping that I would publicly - Denounce your husband. Yeah, I guess, right? That's it, I'm getting a divorce.

1:05:16You're right, Bradley. You know, it was so strange to me. I was just like, whoa, what? Yeah. And, you know, I know Bradley and he's an acquaintance. And if I saw him at a party, we'd hang out and laugh and talk. But so for him to just suddenly come after me in a tweet was just weird. Yeah. But kind of consistent with the culture of the city that you live in, right? Well. There's not a lot of... I mean, it's so monochromatic. It's like everybody has the same views on everything. You know what's interesting? After the first, after the election with Trump and Hillary, I remember going to work and I remember I was in the green room up somewhere and people were talking about the election.

1:06:11And everybody was saying, I can't believe Trump won. who voted for this person? And there was one actor that said, oh, I voted for him. And everybody looked at him like, what? And I love this actor. I'm not going to say his name because - Is he still working? Yes, and he's still working. And I said, oh, that's so interesting. And I said, why did you? And I wanted to hear, I wanted to talk to him because I felt like, oh, tell me why. Because what am I missing? You know, and everybody else was just acted like he was a leper in the moment. Just like, what? And I remember thinking at the time, like, this is so strange.

1:06:59Yeah. Because that's not an environment conducive to creativity. No. Creative people are open-minded. Yeah. And willing to entertain all kinds of wild notions, some of which are wrong. Yeah. And curious. Curious. About other people, especially. Exactly. Nicely put. They're curious about other people. Exactly. So it's odd to me. Well, yeah. And, you know, maybe it has something to do with the decline in creative output in Los Angeles. I'm just guessing. I can't speak to that. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I know. Listen, the people in this country in the entertainment business are the best in the world.

1:07:41They're the best in the world. Yeah. And, um, but a lot of it's being made outside of LA. Right. I mean, yeah, that's the unfortunate part. A lot of the industry has been driven out. Yeah. I mean, I always defend Los Angeles. I lived there as a child. I think it's the most American of all cities. I love it. I was just there. I, I'm probably the only person with my voting record who defends LA, but I always do. But I just notice that it's when I was a child, it's, it did seem open-minded. Yeah. Maybe too much, probably famously too open-minded. Like some things are not a good idea. Do whatever.

1:08:18Be the person you want to be. Clearly, that's not the road to happiness. On the other hand, it is the road to creativity. Right. Well, that's why I find it odd. LA, I find it odd that on the one hand, you have a lot of people saying, yeah, let people be people and love the person, no matter who they are. I mean, that was the feeling I always felt in LA. Unless you're married to someone who writes a book I don't like. In which case, cut them off. Let them starve to death. I was like, oh, I didn't see the fine print. Okay, I know now, I know now. Weird. It is weird. Weird. Yeah, it sounds like you're, just by the way you talk, that you were not super political.

1:09:07No, I wasn't political at all. I was, uh... You know, the only thing I had ever posted was to vote. I didn't say who I think you should vote for. It was just like. But personally, you weren't like yelling about politics at dinner most nights. No. Yeah, I can feel that. And by the way, I never knew what politics my friends or coworkers had. Yeah. Because I would never be the person to bring up politics unless they were talking about it. I would chime in. But it just was not, I was not that person that was interested. I was interested in entertainment and writing and producing and directing and acting.

1:09:52And to me, and so inspired by the people around me in LA. So inspired by them. So yeah, politics was just for what other people do. Yeah. I think most people felt that way. So when your husband said, oh, by the way, just so you know, I may run for president. What did you think of that? I was shocked. This is not something you thought of before. No. No. Yeah, I said president of what? I was hoping it was like a board or a company. Homeowners Association. The Homeowners Association. I can support that. I was shocked. And I, you know, I was like, well, I need a minute to think about this. I mean, do I have to give you an answer right now?

1:10:54Is this something that I have to answer now? And he said, no, I just, I need to know how you feel about it because I can't do it. I won't do it unless it's okay with you and you're supportive of it. And I said, I have to really think about it, you know, because I knew, I knew that it would be life-changing. And it's hard when... Did you know how much?

1:11:24No, no. But I knew it would be big, you know, I knew it would be. and I think what's really hard is I've always been very independent in my life right I moved to LA I lived on my own I sort of you know made my own path to do this and that you know other things and however I got there was not the normal way I was doing it my own way so I was used to taking risks for myself and knowing, well, this might not work out. This might work out, might not, but that's okay. I'm taking the risk. But it's sort of a harder, of course, situation. And this is with everybody, right? Anybody who's in a relationship, anybody who has kids, anybody who loves somebody else, when they want to take a risk and they're doing it because they want to accomplish something or do something,

1:12:34it's harder when they're the ones making the decision, but you know that it's going to really change your life too. Oh, yeah. Harder. So what did, was the show still going? I can't remember when. Show is still going. What did they say when you show up at work and you're like, hey, guys? Didn't love it. I bet.

1:13:05You know, they were always very loving to me and even to Bobby. as a person. So I never felt hate coming at me or towards Bobby, but definitely there was strong opinions about should he be running for president against Joe Biden? Well, that's how it all started, right? He's the fourth Kennedy to run for president and the only one not to get the support of Hollywood.

1:13:47interesting yeah it was it was an interesting time and i i did have um maybe one um discussion with someone on the set where that person said well he bobby has to drop out he cannot be running against joe biden on the set somebody's up this Well, you know, it was. Yeah, but at work. Yeah, at work. And I said, well, I said, you know, I don't know that Biden is a strong candidate.

1:14:24Well, you are Ms. Understatement, aren't you? I know that Joe Biden is a strong candidate. Because that's what they asked me. He's like asleep in his peas at this point. He's like, a strong candidate. They said, why is Bobby running? And I said, because perhaps Joe Biden is not a strong candidate. And that was probably as heated as it got. But it was clear that a lot of people in town did not want Bobby running against Joe Biden. A lot of people in the country. A lot of Democrats. Democrats were not supportive of Bobby. Well, some were. Yeah, some were. Some were. Yeah, definitely. On the margins.

1:15:09but the party itself was adamantly opposed. Yes. Wow. So how long did you do the show during the campaign? Oh, we just had our last season.

1:15:24So it was, so I was probably, Bobby was probably running for maybe two months, like maybe a two month overlap or something. What'd you think of that experience?

1:15:42I don't want to get emotional I thought it was

1:15:50it's alright that stuff is pretty heavy yeah I mean

1:16:06it was hard because it may be sad. Yeah.

1:16:15Because I, you know, I had been working on this show for a long time and it was always pure joy. Yeah.

1:16:30And I mean, even when the vaccines of it all were introduced, There started to be an element that made its way into conversations at work that up until that moment had, like I said, only been pure joy. so and and you know not to say that people through the years didn't have health issues didn't have relatives who passed away and so we you know we were there for each other um so but it started to divide your friendships yeah Yeah.

1:17:24And it's... Is that because you showed up and said you have to vote for Bobby for president or else I'm not going to be your friend? Or was it because people were cruel to you because of your husband? Well, you know, I don't know if I'd use the word cruel, but yeah, I never told anybody they needed to vote for Bobby. somehow I didn't think you did um I uh so yeah so that part of it made me sad that that was how the show was ending for me you know and it was just personal for me it was for everybody else it was it was fine and it was normal it was usual they were ending the series and going on late night talk shows and talking about the show.

1:18:25And they could talk about the show. They could talk about Curb without talking about politics, without anybody asking them questions about their spouses. Yeah. But that was not the world for me. and so that was You couldn't go anywhere without having to answer questions about your husband Right It's still a conversation Yeah, I'm for conversation I'm not for punishing the innocent because that again is the genocidal mindset that I object to completely and I just can't imagine I'm shocked to learn how many people have that mindset and think it's okay to torment people because of their relatives thank God I'm not held accountable for my relatives.

1:19:17I haven't been for most of my life. You know what I mean? Right, I know. All of us, I think, feel that way. But the idea that you would attack someone for a relative is, man, that's so dark, I think. I think it's really strange. It's strange. You're a nice person. I can tell you're restraining yourself. You just see so much of this and that's the same attitude, you know, like, well, let's kill the Tootsies because they're Tootsies and their parents are bad. So let's kill the kids. Like, that's just not the way to think. That's not the Christian way to think. It's not the humane way to think. And it was never the American way to think.

1:19:54And it is all of a sudden. And you're a victim of it. Yeah, well, it's an odd place to be. It's a straight, it's a very odd place. You know what? Something that stood out to me, like during all this time, when tables were sort of turning. After the 2020 election and Biden became president, I had a friend, a good friend of mine, who's no longer speaking to me. But she said, I wonder what Melania is going to do now. this is after the election. I said, oh, I don't know. She can probably do anything she wants. She goes, I hope she can't. I hope she can't do anything. And I was like, what are you talking about?

1:20:55And she said, well, if she is married to Donald Trump, I hope she can't do anything. And I just, it was eye-opening to me. I thought, whoa.

1:21:10that's odd. That's hate. That's actual hate. I said, so and she said, haven't you thought that? And I said, I have not. No. I said, I have not spent one moment hoping something horrible for somebody else. It was so, but just to know like that's what's living on in her mind. Like she has spent, even if it's two minutes of her day, but it clearly it sounded like it was more than that. Must spend time like wishing. And by the way, everything that I know about Melania Trump is pretty amazing. She only, she does a lot of work for children.

1:22:08and she does it quietly and she doesn't need fanfare for it, but she really works hard

1:22:17to try to reunite children with their parents for the, a lot of different programs that she works. But so for one of my friends to be wishing something on somebody that she doesn't even know this person. I don't know. It was eye-opening to me. Well, again, it's back to the same mindset. So she didn't say, I hate Melania because of these three things she did. It was her connection to someone she doesn't like that made her guilty. You know what? I don't know why that brings such clarity to me. Because like I said, now this friend does not talk to me. Yeah. Because you're married to the wrong person.

1:23:02Oh my gosh. I never, why did I never connect that? Well, this is like the root of like a lot of the world's problems. It's like, let's kill their families too. It's what's happening in a lot of places in the world right now. And it's happening in Los Angeles. It's pretty crazy. Yeah. And I thought it was crazy at the time. It's like, well, you hate her only because she's married to somebody else you hate. And she won't speak to you. this is a coworker friend from your business. I had been friends with her since, uh, for 30 years. Oh gosh. Oh, I'm sorry. Well, thank you. And you know, I've come to, did you have to ask yourself, well, if that's who this person is, is that who I, well, that's right.

1:23:57Yeah. Yeah. No, I think that's right. So one more sore subject, But the security thing, that was very upsetting to me. I mean, I know your husband and I really love your husband. So that was part of it. But even if I didn't like your husband, I would, and I very much do, but I would, even if I didn't, I would think, hmm, presidential candidates ought to have secret service protection if it's real candidacy, traveling around the country with staff, which he was, packing venues, which he was, very famous person. And then, of course, the whole his family backstory is like so unbelievable. Right. So we don't need to be reminded of what could happen.

1:24:36It's obvious. And yet he did not have Secret Service protection from the Biden administration. He did not. Okay. They wanted him out of the race one way or the other. I think that's the obvious conclusion there. That's so dark and sick. But here's my question. I didn't see many prominent people stand up, including people he's related to, and say, Whoa, wait a second. this man needs secret service. His father was murdered. Are you joking? Like, what was that? Why was there no outcry over that? I was with him in some city, New York, I think. Oh, it was at MSG. It was last, I don't know when it was, whatever I traveled to, but it was somewhere.

1:25:17And I was walking down the street with him. No, it was in DC. And he had no secret service protection at all. Yeah. And I was like, what is going on? Yeah. Why didn't people say, why didn't prominent people? Isn't it crazy? It is crazy to me. Do you notice this? Oh yeah. Well, I do. I talk about this in my book too, unscripted. Because that was also part of what, you know, there were so many things that were very surreal about it, about Bobby running. But that was one of them where, you know, that was a big concern. The biggest concern about him running is, was security because I, you know, I'm like, this is your putting yourself out there.

1:26:20And yes, your father was assassinated while he was running for president. Your uncle was assassinated when he was president. Um, that is, this is so dangerous. And, And then I thought at the beginning, I thought, okay, he's announcing he's running for president. We'll see what happens in the primaries because in the primaries, we'll know if he has support or not and it'll go one way or the other. So I thought maybe this is going to go on. Maybe he'll be running for, I don't know, five or six months or something. Um, and we had a private security, um, and he, you know, applied for, for a secret service.

1:27:13And first, first of all, they didn't even respond to him in a, um, in a, um, normal timeline. so it was just like well we'll wait we'll see we'll see we'll see and then when bobby switched to running as an independent the democrats came out basically and said on tv i watched an interview where they said no we are going to make sure that um rfk jr spends all of his money on lawsuits. We're going to keep suing him. So he has no money for his campaign. And then, you know, the, what we could hear people talk about not in front of the camera was also he's, we're going to make sure he has to spend a lot of money on security.

1:28:13So he doesn't have money for his campaign. And also heard, if he was given secret service, then it would legitimize him as a candidate and they didn't want that. So all of that was happening. And then yes, you had some family members who came out publicly against Bobby and said, but we love him. but I never saw any of them publicly say, even though we don't agree with him politically, we are concerned about his safety. You didn't hear any say that. I did not. Of his siblings, no, I did not. Sick. It's the sickest thing. Sorry, you don't have to say that. I mean - It's your, they're your in-laws, but I mean, I can't imagine anything more loathsome than that.

1:29:12It was hard to believe, really hard to believe. And then, you know, I went down a rabbit hole when I was writing this book because at the time people, different outlets would give different reasons why, of course, Robert Kennedy didn't get Secret Service. It's too early. But then you would look, I would look up and Barack Obama got it 300 and something days. before the election. You know, people got it 200 days before the election. So that was not it. Some people got it before they even announced that they were running. So whatever people were saying, they always were trying to make Bobby look like he's being ridiculous.

1:30:11you're being ridiculous for asking you're not even a real candidate and meanwhile you know he had someone show up at one of his rallies with loaded weapons you know pretending to be a federal agent flashing badges and they arrested him but then I was home watching when a guy came over my back fence and was approaching the house. I was doing an Instagram Live with my friend from Tallahassee. And I said, I see this guy out the window and she said, are you okay? I said, I think I have to go. Something's happening. And then I see our security guard take his weapon out. And I'm watching this on Instagram Live.

1:31:05And I said, I really do have to wrap it up. So yeah, that guy was apprehended, was arrested by LAPD, was released, and then took an Uber back to our house and was arrested again the same day. And both of those events were publicized. People knew about it. I was in LA when it happened, when the one guy was arrested at the rally, it made the local news. I don't know if it made the national news, but people knew. People in the administration knew. People in Bobby's family knew. And it's not everybody. I know that there were a few members of the family that I know that inquired. issuing a public statement and calling Joe Biden to provide their brother with Secret Service would have fixed that in about two seconds that's what President Trump did oh I know it's just crazy that it took Trump to provide protection to Bobby Kennedy a year and a half later you know Bobby had been running for a year and a half by that point so okay the night Trump is shot in Butler, Bobby and Trump speak for the first time and start kind of feeling each other out about maybe we could team up.

1:32:39Maybe Bobby could endorse Trump, which at the time seemed completely crazy, but it was clearly possible. From your perspective, like what? First your husband comes out against vaccines, then he attacks Fauci, then he runs for president. and now he's thinking about endorsing Donald Trump. I mean, these are, like how many more red lines are there in Hollywood? I think, yeah, that was definitely the last strike. Yeah, that was it, huh? Yeah, that was beyond anything anybody could take. Some people, some people. But yeah, it was, that was, that it's all been a learning process for me, you know, and to, to, it's been, um,

1:33:40it's, it's sometimes it has tested me to take a step back and get a different perspective. You know, because like you said, that was something I could not have ever imagined. Yeah. Well, it was a big deal. I mean, the Trump people who very much wanted, I know, you know, Bobby's endorsement wanted him to campaign with them, wanted to bring on the administration, knew that your opinion was really important to him. Obviously, you're his wife, but he really cared about what you thought. And they were like, they were focused on that. So when was your, when was the first time you met Donald Trump? I met him, he was, the assassination attempt was on a Saturday and I met him on that Monday morning.

1:34:34I don't remember the dates by any means, but - That was July, mid-July. Yeah, so that was right before the Republican convention was starting. Yeah, it started Monday night. Right. So, so President Trump wanted to meet with Bobby that morning in Milwaukee. They had talked for the first time on Saturday. And then by Monday, you were out there. That's right. They work fast. Well, we see that in this administration. They work fast. Yeah. So. Yeah, everything was happening quickly. But, you know, there was a, there was a shift there was a huge shift when there there was the assassination attempts on donald trump it was a shit you know so many people were a lot of americans felt like that this is too much.

1:35:33Yeah. And now we really have to get behind Trump. This is too much. So there was that shift going on. And at the same time, it was,

1:35:53had to be emotional for President Trump and his family. I mean, the bullet came very close to killing him in inches. That's dramatic. So there was a lot going on and a lot of even emotions happening. So when they started talking on Saturday, they said they wanted to meet on Monday. I was going to meet Bobby after this meeting. He was going to sit down with the president. They were going to talk and see what was, what, if anything, they, if they wanted to work together, if they didn't, if they agreed on things, if they didn't. And I was going to meet with Bobby after that meeting. But when I landed in Milwaukee, the security said, oh, we're taking you straight to the meeting.

1:37:03I said, I'm going to the meeting. So it was interesting. That was the first time I walked in and it was Bobby and Amaryllis, who was my daughter-in-law. yeah, who was running Bobby's campaign at the time. Susie Wiles, who was running Donald Trump's campaign and Donald Trump. And that was the first time I met him and he shook my hand. And, you know, he, he was a very genuine person. And it was, I don't know. I, I, I don't want to say surprising, but maybe surprising. Out-of-body experience. I mean, here you work on Curb Your Enthusiasm. You live in LA for 30 years. I know. Donald Trump's the enemy and all of a sudden you're like in a meeting with him?

1:38:03I know. By the way, there's an episode of Curb where Larry wears a MAGA hat to repel people in LA so he doesn't have to have lunch with people, which is funny, but it's also true, which is also funny. But, but yeah, so, so I was, I don't know. I was expecting something else. What were you expecting? Corn, sulfur?

1:38:35I was expecting, I think I was expecting somebody who didn't listen to other people, wouldn't be interested in other people.

1:38:52And that's not who I met. I met somebody who was very interested in other people, really wanted to hear what somebody else had to say. I think that was very surprising to me. Did you call back to LA and say, hey guys, he's actually cool. Good news, guys.

1:39:17I didn't even tell anybody at the time. And it was so stressful. There was stress for so many reasons at that time. Security, number one reason, right? I mean, this just happened with Donald Trump with Secret Service protection. And Bobby still didn't have Secret Service protection. And during that meeting, President Trump posted, Bobby Kennedy should have Secret Service protection. This is ridiculous. And that day, Bobby got Secret Service protection. I mean, were the wheels already in motion? Perhaps. But the other thing about, so he ended up getting Secret Service protection. It was a presidential, an executive order, which was fine.

1:40:13But usually when a presidential candidate gets secret service protection, when they're running, their spouse, their family also has protection. But because this was an executive order, it was just for Bobby. which was also strange because suddenly I'm in the house. I'm in my house. Now we have secret service. Bobby has secret service. So I will be in the house with the kids for two days. And then Bobby's coming into town and then we have to evacuate the house so they can do a bomb sweep before Bobby gets there. And your house. Yeah. I'm thinking, oh, the house that we've just been in for three days, nobody cared about the bomb then.

1:41:03This is weird. But yeah, that's how it was. So, so it was straight. I thought that was strange too. So it was just a very, it was a very stressful time. So after, so during that meeting, right? So I mean, stressful already that there was an assassination attempt on Donald Trump. That's so stressful. That's so awful. And what does that say about us? And then now he's meeting with Bobby because they're talking about perhaps working together. Oh, so stressful. And then that day we get secret service protection. So that's another crazy thing that's happening. because now you're talking about police, you know, sheriffs everywhere around your house and motorcades everywhere.

1:42:09Bobby goes, everywhere Bobby goes. Just like motorcade. I'm sure the neighbors didn't love it. And the dogs, you know, now we had bomb sniffing dogs and we already had our crazy dogs. It was just, all of it was a lot happening. At once. Yeah, that's when I was just telling you, I broke into hives. And then later that day, while I was in Milwaukee, my lips started swelling. I mean, a crazy amount. It is a crazy amount. So much so that I had to go to the emergency room because I was worried that my throat might close up. It was all from stress. That's wild. It's crazy.

1:43:04So when was the first time you told people back home that Trump was actually kind of normal in person?

1:43:16Well, I really didn't tell my friends.

1:43:23I told my, I'm very close to my sister and my brother. So they're really the, you know, my sounding board. One of my best friends back in LA, I mean, I have a few best friends back in LA. I wouldn't even tell them that because I didn't want them to be stressed about it. I didn't want people to know because I don't need other people asking them about it because I know that people are already mad because I'm married to Bobby. I don't need people being mad at my friends because I'm married to Bobby and they're friends with me. So I wasn't even telling people, I don't want to put them in a position of, oh my God, I can't believe your friend did this.

1:44:18Does that make sense? Of course. I mean, it makes sense if you live in a completely insane world where talking to Donald Trump is a death penalty offense. I mean, it's so fucking nuts that it's hard to know how even to assess it. No, it's crazy. Yeah. But, you know, my family, my sister and my brother, they were like, yeah, that, that makes sense. That's really interesting. You know, they were very curious to hear, hear about it and how, what I thought about it and what I, how I found Donald Trump to be. They were like that. Wow. That's so interesting. But I guess that makes sense because you do hear that about him.

1:45:02You hear that he's, people say he's charming and I understand why because somebody who is somebody that you meet that feels completely comfortable with who they are completely comfortable in their own skin they come across as charming of course because it's like oh i'm not i don't need to put on any airs i don't need to be anybody other than I am. And that's who I found him to be. I found him to be just a genuine person. Did you ever meet Melania? Yes. I've met her a few times. What do you think? I really like her. Did you call your friend in LA and say, actually, she's pretty cool? I did. Did you actually?

1:45:51Yeah. I mean, Melania, I haven't had, I've definitely had more time

1:46:00with President Trump than Melania, just a few moments with Melania. But she was so sweet to me. One of the first things that we went to after the administration started was the governor's dinner at the White House. It was a very beautiful dinner with all the governors. and I just had one tiny moment with Melania and she asked me how I was finding DC and how I was doing with everything and she said, you should really try to enjoy it. And I took that in because I thought, yeah, you're right. Because up until that moment, I was thinking, I don't know if I'm going to like this. I don't know if I am ready for this.

1:46:55I don't know. And then when she said that, I thought, yeah, why don't I try to enjoy it? Yeah, why not? And then it really, I don't know. It really like, those were the words I needed to hear at that moment. Have you enjoyed it? Yeah. Really? Not all of it, but I've enjoyed, um, I enjoy the people that I spend time with in DC. I really like the people that Bobby works with. Yes. I like their spouses. I like them as people, you know, as someone to hang out with and talk to at the dinner party. I really like them. You had an appearance in The View the other day, which I saw part of it. And they immediately started attacking you for your husband.

1:47:49because they're feminists. You know, that makes sense. And they were, the criticism of him and then to direct it at you, because I've said it eight times, but I really mean it is insane. But it's all about the vaccines. Like, what is that? Why is it that someone, because he has said many times, including to me, against vaccines on principle, but some of these vaccines are clearly dangerous. And they are, and that's proven. And why wouldn't we try to make them safer? Like, why would that be a controversial statement? I'm honestly confused. So am I. I am honestly confused by that. And I'm confused by people attacking the parents who say, my child is different since they received the vaccine.

1:48:45It's very strange for other people. people say, you are crazy. How dare you say that? How dare you blame the vaccine? And these are parents who said, oh, I'm just telling you my experience. My experience was my child was hitting developmental markers. My child was hitting milestones and then they got the vaccine and everything changed. Why are we yelling at those parents? And why are, that's what I really don't understand either. Why are, when did that start? You know, I don't know anyone like that just because I shield myself from anyone who would even, even gives a hint of having those attitudes because I can't deal with it.

1:49:35So I don't know the answer, but you're, I mean, you know a lot of these people personally. Like, what do you think the answer is?

1:49:47there's something about vaccines that they've made, people have made very political in a way that's hard to understand because it's, if you're talking about cancer or you're talking about, you know, different ways to treat cancer, people don't get upset about it. No, that's right. People don't yell at you about it. They don't say - You're not taking chemo, just radiation? Damn you! Right. Right. So there's something about the mindset of people. The mindset of some people is you are putting everybody in danger if you don't get vaccinated. And once again, it goes back to what you said. Well, if you have the vaccine, you should feel pretty good that you're not going to get it because that's why you got the vaccine.

1:50:39Right. But - It's like yelling at me for not wearing a seatbelt. Right. What does that have to do with you? Right. And somehow it's, I don't, I really don't understand it. I don't understand. I don't understand how when people got mad at other people, also women turning on each other, I find motherhood is challenging enough, parenthood. If another mother is telling me, wow this is what happened this was my experience with me and my child why would I be judging that person because I did because I think she's lying to me why would she be lying who's lying about this why does why what why would somebody lie about it doesn't make sense to me.

1:51:34Nobody's gaining anything by sharing their story.

1:51:41I don't know why they're so mad about vaccines. People are worried that if you question the safety or if you, like I said on The View, I said, can we do better? Can we make them safer so there aren't as many injuries? There are a lot of injuries. A lot. There's the vaccine injury compensation program that's paid out $5.4 billion. That's what I told him on The View and no response. Nobody said anything like, oh, wow. I mean, no. Whoopi asked me if it was just COVID. I said, no. I think it was for all vaccines. But can we just look at that without thinking about it in a political way and say, oh, well, people are...

1:52:30People are being paid, compensated for vaccine injuries. There's a whole service set up for it. Can we just say, can we, can both sides agree? Oh, you're right. Somebody has been injured by it. They proved it in court. So can we start there? It's like you're saying, can we just start at one place where we all agree on something? And then say, well, can we do a vaccine where less people are injured? Yeah. Why is that? Same vaccine, fewer deaths. Yeah. Is that crazy? Why is that? Why does that make people mad? I don't know. I really don't know. You really don't. I really don't. It does seem, I mean, I'm trying to, I've thought about this for years ever since your husband kind of blew up this topic.

1:53:28I've been thinking about it many years ago. He wrote that Rolling Stone piece 15, 20 years ago. And I knew him and I admired him as a writer. He's a great writer. And in addition to other things, and I watched him just like literally end his career and all these friendships. And Bobby Kennedy was like, he's a Kennedy. That's so cool. It went from that to Bobby Kennedy's name may not be spoken because he criticized vaccines. And I've been trying to figure out what that's about. Ever since. Yeah, what do you think it's about? I think there's a spiritual element to it. I think there's a, this is a religion.

1:54:02This is not rational. That's the first thing I noticed. Second, this is longstanding. Diego Rivera, the communist Mexican muralist, wrote, or drew, painted a fairly famous mural of a child getting vaccines. And it looks like the kind of classic Christian Christmas image of Jesus in the manger, but instead of a cross, it's vaccines. And that was painted in the 30s. It was like a WPA program or something. You can look it up on the internet. It's really interesting for what it reveals of the mindset around vaccines, but it's like a ritual. This is not, because again, it's not a question about like, what's the most effective oncology, right?

1:54:44Right. It's way deeper and like pre-rational. So that's religion. That's not science. That's religion. Well, it's interesting when you're talking about it that way. It is interesting because it's probably the only thing that people are asked to do as a group, regardless of who you are, regardless of what your religion, what your health is. You're asked to take the vaccine. and don't ask questions. Yes. So I guess maybe that's where it started, right? They had to convince people that, no, this is for everybody and you can't ask questions. Everybody's doing it. Just everybody's doing it. That's all you need to know.

1:55:47Well, yeah, but I mean, for sure. People used to burn widows, you know, or whatever. You know, people had all kinds of ugly, primitive rituals that they were ultimately talked out of that were once compulsory, which are now reviled. Like, I get it. But this one has been the same for 90 years. Like, there's something piercing the skin, injecting something into somebody. I mean, there's a control element, but there's also a ritualistic component to this. That's so crazy. Go look up the Diego Rivera, and I hope I'm not screwing this up, but I don't think that I am, mural. I mean, that's wild. Like, he just lays it out there.

1:56:30Like, this is your new religion, vaccines. There's the baby Jesus getting needles in him. It's so crazy. Right? I mean, there's like ritual bloodletting. I mean, look, I've arrived at this over many years of thinking about it because I can't think of another explanation. It is really hard. I mean, yeah, don't question authority. And then punish the guy's relatives who questions it? That part. There is that part. But the other thing, too, that I have a hard time understanding.

1:57:06the people that are saying that, you know, vaccines were tested however long ago, 40 years ago, 20 years ago, and they were tested to be fine. Yeah. So stop asking questions about it. There are drugs on the market all the time that are approved. then 10 years later, 20 years later, you see a lot of people have been injured and they pulled a drug because they're like, this is not working. I mean, they used to x-ray women when they were pregnant in the 50s. They gave them thalidomide. Because they thought it was a great, you know, new technology to... Nilla wafers were considered a health food when I was a kid because they had weed in them.

1:57:59Because they had weed in them. Remember smoking? Like your parents would be in a car with the windows rolled up and smoking. 100%. But they didn't know that at the time that they were harmful or causing cancer to the kids in the bag. No, it's delicious. And then at some point, you know, there's a stop down. People say, oh, we just learned that this is not good for you. That you shouldn't be taking this. That this drug isn't working. that you learn things all the time and everybody stops down and makes a new choice, right? And says, oh, okay, yeah, I'm gonna stop using that. So it happens all the time.

1:58:39So for people to say it can absolutely not happen with vaccines, there's no way to make them better or to, because they're great already. It's like, so strange. No, but it's a religious concept. Not one word can be added or deleted. It's perfect. It's holy writ. It cannot be changed. It came from God himself. These are the tablets right here. I mean, this is, I know it's hard. Meditate on this. I know. I'm going to think about this. No, I have never connected. So I've met very few people who've had a life with the trajectory that yours has had. I don't even, it's not really an arc. It's more like, as you described, a hairpin turn.

1:59:27Yeah. In this direction, the last, you know, so you grew up in one world and are a completely different world, rise to the top of that world. And then all of a sudden you're in a completely different world. Like, what are the conclusions you draw from this? What have you learned? And it's still ongoing, by the way. So I can't, I don't expect. So watch what you say. No, you know what? I've learned, I mean, I've learned a lot of things, of course. Yeah. I've learned, and I always felt like I knew what really matters. My family has always been the most important thing to me. That's why the best thing about getting married is that you get to pick a family member.

2:00:13It's the only time in your life where you get to pick somebody to be a part of your family. And that's pretty amazing. I learned that that is really the only thing that matters. Yes. It's your family. So for me, I mean, there have been times with Bobby that when I get frustrated and I feel like, I can't believe you said that or said it like that. And I'm like, why would you do that? And it doesn't matter so little in the big scheme of things. Yes. what matters is how you love people. And I think too, how you receive love. So even some of my friendships that did not survive this, right? It's too emotional for them to be friends with me because of what Bobby does.

2:01:17I learned to you know it's a that's okay and I can still love who they are and what we had together I don't have to spend time

2:01:33missing it or being sad or whatever that is I can step back and say oh that person was the right time, the right person at the right time. And I loved what, what we had. Yes. And I, and I'm not angry or sad about it. And, and at the same time, you know, I just turned 60 and I'm at a place where I really have learned a lot just in terms of learning brand new things in my life that I never thought I would. And it's not, this isn't like we talked about politics. I never set out to, I can't wait to learn a lot about politics. But I did, you know, even in the election, I learned a lot about how to run a campaign, what it looks like from the inside of a presidential campaign.

2:02:40You learn about press and rumors. And if somebody says something enough times, then it becomes the truth to people. So I learned all of that. And even when Bobby switched to being an independent, just learning every state, you have to have a certain amount of signatures from different people. and you turn them in at different times in the calendar year. So even learning that stuff, which I never wanted to learn, but I know it now. Fascinating to me that now being in DC and now being, being, sitting where I am and seeing what I see and being around the people that I, I'm around. I can say that the, People in the cabinet, people in the administration really want what's best for this country.

2:03:57And

2:04:02And it may sound silly that I didn't recognize that before because I felt like, well, I'm sure there are people that are in it for themselves and that want, you know, but where I see it, that is not the case. The case is that everybody sits at the table and they say, what can we do to make the country better, to work together? And that was, that's interesting to me. And I keep, I keep, I'm learning more now about politics, about how things, what has to happen to change a law or to, or to get something done in DC or to make a change in the nation. I'm learning all these, you know, sort of big concepts that I otherwise would not have thought about.

2:05:06And I find it fascinating. I find the people that I'm sitting next to at dinner fascinating. They're smart. And they have hard jobs, very difficult jobs. Yes. And I think a lot of people, you know, people, people maybe in LA that sit around and say, oh, I could do it so much better. It's like, I don't think so. Otherwise you'd be doing it.

2:05:39How long were you in LA? Over 30. Yeah, over 30 years. I mean, it just seems to me that given how fast everything is changing, you're so blessed to be in part doing something different, learning new things. I agree with that. Yeah. And I mean, sometimes what we think are tragedies turn out to be like the greatest blessings. And I mean, I don't know. You're still interested in stuff, which is pretty great at 60. Yeah. Listen, I have a lot of friends who, their kids have grown up and moved out and now they're bored and they're trying to figure out how to fill the day. Yes. I don't have that. And the business they were in is dying or changing really fast.

2:06:27Really hard. Yeah. It's very, the entertainment industry is really a tough place to be in right now. So, yeah, I'm like, I find it fascinating And maybe because I have been in the entertainment industry and, you know, I mean, there are a lot of films, TV shows about politics and politicians because it's fascinating. And so we like to watch it. We like to watch it play out on the screen, but then to now be in the middle of it, seeing it. it's pretty great I love that Cheryl Hines you're a deep person and I'm grateful that you came thank you Tucker I really like talking to you

2:07:28we've got a new website we hope you will visit it's called new commission now dot com and it refers to a new 9-11 commission. So we spent months putting together our 9-11 documentary series. And if there's one thing we learned, it's that in fact, there was foreknowledge of the attacks. People knew. The American public deserves to know. We're shocked actually to learn that, to have that confirmed. But it's true. The evidence is overwhelming. The CIA, for example, knew the hijackers were here in the United States. They knew they were planning an act of terror. In his passport is a visa to go to the United States of America.

2:08:05A foreign national was caught celebrating as the World Trade Center fell and later said he was in New York, quote, to document the event. I didn't know there would be an event to document in the first place because he had foreknowledge. And maybe most amazingly, somebody, an unknown investor, shorted American Airlines and United Airlines, the companies whose planes the attackers used on 9-11, as well as the banks that were inside the Twin Towers just before the attacks. They made money on the 9-11 attacks because they knew they were coming. Who did that? You have to look at the evidence. The U.S.

2:08:40government learned the name of that investor, but never released it. Maybe there's an instant explanation for all this, but there isn't actually. And by the way, it doesn't matter whether there is or not. The public deserves to know what the hell that was. How did people know ahead of time why was no one ever punished for it? 9-11 Commission, the original one, was a fraud. It was fake. Its conclusions were written before the investigation. That's true. And it's outrageous. This country needs a new 9-11 Commission. one that actually tells the truth that tries to get to the bottom of the story. We can't just move on like nothing happened.

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From the publisher

If Cheryl Hines hadn’t married Bobby Kennedy, she might never have known just how cruel and intolerant Hollywood is.

(00:00) The Odd Beginnings of Cheryl’s Acting Career

(15:56) The Predatory Nature of Hollywood

(26:54) How Cheryl Secured Her Role in “Curb Your Enthusiasm”

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(36:18) How Larry David Introduced Cheryl to Bobby Kennedy Jr.

(53:28) How Did Bobby's Political Career Impact Cheryl's Acting Career?

(1:27:26) Cheryl's Reaction to Bobby's Endorsement of Donald Trump

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