In short
The UK’s “Broken Plate” report on the rising cost of healthy eating and widening health inequalities; whether sleep trackers worsen sleep via “orthosomnia”; Gen Z beach-body anxiety; and backlash against “peak optimization” culture (using Stephen Bartlett as a jumping-off point).
Guests/backgrounds
No external guests. Hosts are Ella Mills and Rhiannon Lambert, both wellness-industry professionals and parents. Rhiannon also works with campaigning in children’s food (Food Foundation, VegPower) and runs community programs (Retrition Plus, menopause journey).
Key claims
Families with children in lower-income groups must spend 85% of disposable income to meet the Eat Well Guide; healthy foods cost about twice as much per calorie; unhealthy foods dominate promotions and marketing; sleep trackers can drive anxiety and fixation because they don’t measure brain activity; body-image insecurity is widespread (82% embarrassed, 39% don’t talk about it); optimization can remove flexibility and joy.
Notable examples
Teen sugar/fiber stats; 56% higher per-calorie cost for pre-packaged plant-based alternatives; 74% of baby/toddler snacks carry sugar-related claims; orthosomnia/“dull optimized lives” quotes; Stephen Bartlett’s “two glasses of wine ruined three days” domino effect.
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Chapters
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1:24 to 1:46
Hosts outline the topics for today's discussion.
“I have to say I have a very old sleeping dog on my feet and he's being so sweet.”
Personal Updates and Context
1:46 to 2:45
Hosts share personal experiences and news relevant to the podcast topics.
“Are they actually making our sleep worse?”
Social Media Ban Discussion
2:45 to 4:24
Hosts discuss the implications of a new social media ban for teenagers.
“But Ella, what have you been up to this week?”
Nutrition Education for Kids
4:24 to 5:36
Discussion on teaching children about healthy foods through engaging methods.
“I was welling up when I saw the parents of those that sadly, their children have lost their lives.”
Healthy Eating Motivation
5:36 to 7:18
Hosts talk about the motivation behind healthy eating and understanding nutrition.
“It just goes to show, I think there's ways of framing conversations and we're moving well past that old boiled bit of carrot or broccoli that as children, Ella and I were definitely faced with.”
Mental Health and Community
7:18 to 9:20
Hosts discuss the role of community and mental health in wellness.
“Oh, my gosh, turning into a monk day by day.”
The Broken Plate Report Introduction
9:20 to 10:35
Introduction to the Broken Plate Report and its significance on food affordability.
“So please keep us updated as I know you will, but broken plate report.”
Food Costs and Health Disparities
10:35 to 14:01
Hosts delve into the alarming statistics regarding food costs and health disparities in the UK.
“And as a result, it's incredibly important.”
The Cost of Healthy Eating vs. Unhealthy Options
14:01 to 28:01
Explore how pricing disparities make healthy eating less accessible for lower-income groups.
“So sort of generally awful, but because of those small shifts in price incrementally, that has added up to that significant rise for people in lower income groups.”
The Importance of Sharing Struggles
28:01 to 28:53
Discussing the commonality of personal struggles and the value of community support.
“There's many, many facets, health issues, like so many different reasons.”
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Nordstrom Rack Promotions
30:26 to 31:00
Highlighting current sales and promotions at Nordstrom Rack.
“New markdowns up to 70 % off are at Nordstrom Rack stores now.”
The Era of Optimization: A Double-Edged Sword
31:00 to 37:45
Examining the obsession with optimization and its potential downsides.
“Right, Rhi, what is our third headline today?”
The Backlash Against Health Tracking
37:45 to 42:00
Discussing the negative consequences of relying on health trackers and optimization.
“So this has been everywhere over the last few weeks.”
The Dangers of Health Optimization
42:00 to 45:31
Explore the issues with extreme health optimization and its impact on mental well-being.
“They get very excited about their subject area and they lack the nuance and understanding that on a public health level.”
Finding Balance in Wellness
45:31 to 51:19
Discuss the importance of flexibility and enjoyment in a healthy lifestyle.
“We know it's linked to cancer, stroke, cardiovascular health, everything.”
Navigating Wellness Pressures
51:19 to 53:06
Understand the pressures of the wellness industry and how to avoid falling victim.
“should have a fifth pillar for health and it should be wellness groups like a socialization aspect that is completely and utterly lost with the disconnect of modern tech and the world that we live in.”
Transcript
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0:56Welcome to The Wellness Scoop, your weekly dose of health and wellness inspiration. and as always we're both here as your host I'm Ella Mills and I'm Rhiannon Lambert and after a decade in the wellness industry we know how overwhelming and confusing health advice can be and that's why we're both here with our podcast to cut through the noise and make healthier living simple fun and personal.
1:24I have to say I have a very old sleeping dog on my feet and he's being so sweet. But if you hear a little dog action, guys, that is my very old Cocker Spaniel who is going, I know it's actually, he's going a little bit mad. Anyways, Rhi, what is coming up on today's show other than my slightly old and mad dog? Today, we have got a very big show actually. We're discussing the new broken plate report and the alarming state of our food system here in the UK. Then we're moving on to sleep trackers. Are they actually making our sleep worse? Then why one in four Gen Z adults avoid the beach and the Stephen Bartlett backlash and whether we have actually reached peak optimization.
2:07Plus, when does healthy become unhealthy? So Ella, what a show. I actually kind of forgot what we were talking about today, if I'm completely honest, but now I remember it. Guys, it's going to be quite a chatty show, I'm going to say today. The broken plate report probably less so, but I feel like we have a lot of personal opinion here and I'm very excited about it. And we've had a really busy morning, Ella and I. I know there's always different things going on in the morning. I'm surrounded by scaffolding, so apologies in advance for me there as well with any bangs in the background. I'd much rather have a sleepy dog that needs cuddles than the scaffolding I've got.
2:45But Ella, what have you been up to this week? I'll tell you what, Rhea, I'm just back from the gym. I have been exercising a lot recently and I'm just feeling so good for it. Lots of like 20 minute, 30 minute, nothing kind of really hardcore, but very consistent. And I've been very consistent kind of on and off, obviously for the last like nine months. And I really feel like my back is stronger. I feel like my posture is getting better. I feel really good. I'll tell you that. But what have I been up to? First of all, guys, amazing news. Hot off the press as of yesterday, social media ban, a serious social media ban, ID checks under 16s, late night scrolling, looking like it's going to be stopped.
3:25I mean, I think this is a million miles past what either of us, or really, I think what anybody expected. And it's very, very different to the noises that the government had been making when they really were very against any intervention. Interestingly, lots of people saying this is, you know, maybe Keir Starmer trying to create a positive legacy because I think the general consensus has not been a particularly impactful government. Anyway, it's whatever reason it's happened and there's been this crazy U-turn. It's unbelievable news and I am so thrilled. We were so happy to see it. And I have to say, my entire social media feed yesterday was just filled with the speech that he gave, everybody giving and voicing their opinions.
4:05There's always two sides to everything. And I'm sure for current teenagers that are this age, it must be extremely hard to have been exposed to social media and then suddenly have this ban come in place. But for those like Ella and I, who are parents of children that are younger, and this is going to hopefully protect in the years to come. I got emotional, Ella. I was welling up when I saw the parents of those that sadly, their children have lost their lives. And social media being the main cause, they were all sat they're on the BBC news feature desk and they were all celebrating it was very emotional.
4:40I actually feel very emotional about it as well and I have to say I feel exceptionally grateful I don't think parenting a teenager is not easy at the best of times but you know from everyone you you know you talk to I think parenting a teenager in the age of social media and the comparison culture and all of the things that come with it is incredibly difficult and I just feel really really lucky honestly with the help that we have been given by having this taken out of our hands same with smoking taken away for our children I think it's a gift and we'll talk about this a bit in the broken plate report but it is a gift to parents I think to bring in some of this legislation I'll tell you one cool thing I did really you'll love this on Friday my daughter who's in reception her teacher was like oh we love having some of the children's teachers in to chat about like their jobs and what they do one of the moms is a dentist and came to talk them about their teeth and she was like come and chat to them about what you do and teaching people about healthy food and then it ended up being like reception year one year two so many children they were so cute and we read the belly bugs book yeah he has recommended this so many times it is absolutely amazing and talked all about our belly bugs and how we have to feed the belly bugs and it's unbelievable and like one of this reception teachers was saying at lunch yesterday you know some of the children like i don't want my vegetables and she was like well you fed you what about your bugs?
5:56And then they like gobbled them up. Anyway, so that was very cool. I really enjoyed that. I love that. It just goes to show, I think there's ways of framing conversations and we're moving well past that old boiled bit of carrot or broccoli that as children, Ella and I were definitely faced with. But we're the same, aren't we, as adults? Like, I don't want to be told you've got to do this. I'm like, why do I need to do this? It's like eat your five a day. Cool. Over 99 % of the population know we need to do it. We don't do it. Don't just tell people to do it. Explain like, this is why it will help you to do it.
6:28And I think it's really interesting when you, when you give that to people, cause I find that I know for me, when I changed my diet, it was when I went and I read all about, okay, well, this is how energy is made. This is how your brain is fired. And this is how your body works. And so it needs these vitamins and these minerals. And you're like, oh, okay, cool. I'm suddenly so motivated to make broccoli delicious or make lentils delicious. Cause I understand that I really need it as opposed to being told eat your vegetables and make their grows. I think we're definitely at this crossover point as a generation on a whole.
6:58I think if you're a millennial, you are or were one of the first generations exposed to in many walks of life. Let's explain the why. And I think previously, we were just told this is right. This is wrong. Black and white. Yes, no. And we're opening our minds a bit more. And that includes how we eat our vegetables. And Ella, you've been meditating. So actually, you have been busy. Oh, my gosh, turning into a monk day by day. silent retreat is coming oh my god yeah one day one day actually do you know what someone emailed us at the wellness scoops tell me about some places to go but actually lots of those ones are 10 days and it's a bit much obviously at the moment but do you know I've been so I've run um my zoom meditation and breath work and and the focus is really like community and just helping people find a slice of peace in their life essentially anyway I can't tell you how much I enjoy teaching it it's like such a highlight along with this of my week but it's like 50 people in each class at the moment.
7:53I just love it. That's so nice. Anyway, if anyone ever wants to join, I send the links out every week in my Substack newsletter. And we normally do 12.30s, 12.30s, 12.30 midweek lunchtimes, and then Sunday evenings. And it is bliss. Absolute bliss. It's exactly what I need in my day. Yeah. Rhi, tell me about you. We've just been busy at Rhi Trishon on a whole. I'm finishing up a big written project, which I'll hopefully be able to share soon. But with the campaigning side of things, there's a lot of movement in the food space for children. I've mentioned on here before, but I'm really throwing a lot of my weight behind work that we're doing alongside the Food Foundation and VegPower.
8:34So that's keeping me very, very busy as well. It's actually the US pub day of Fibre Formula today as we're recording. Congratulations. So anyone in the US, yeah, you can finally get your hands on the Fibre Formula. And then it's the menopause journey on the Retrition Plus community that I have that honestly, Ella, I have been reading people's experiences and we've got a lovely group chat that comes alongside this. And I have cried. I'm just going to be honest. I've cried because it just feels like we're really all in it together. And I know that the women paving and carving the way right now by sharing their experiences and speaking out and the education that we are able to provide at Retrition Plus, the eight week course is hopefully helping and then we're going to launch the food um freedom course very soon and that'll be a four-week nutrition psychology journey as well so i will really have to keep everyone posted on that because that's something we get so many questions about but um no let's why you do what you do isn't it it's absolutely amazing meaningful week everybody for both ella and i so talking a meaningful ella let's do the headlines that matter yes let's and also have to say though we want to be in the loop with your campaigning and how any of us can support you as well as we go into that, because obviously children's nutrition is absolutely vital for a healthy population as a whole as well.
9:53So please keep us updated as I know you will, but broken plate report. This is huge guys. If you were listening last year, first of all, thanks for staying with us. But this comes out every single year. This is from an amazing organization called the Food Foundation who really started to work with. They're absolutely fantastic. And they produce this report every year, looking at the state of the cost of food and healthy food and the gaps that we see between different households in this country. It's a very, very important piece of research. I'm going to hand over to Reid to talk through the headlines of it.
10:31I'm going to be honest, we're going to move. End of the episode is going to be chatty. I think it's going to be fun. This is, please don't turn this off. It's really, really important. It's not fun. It's actually dire. And as a result, it's incredibly important. It is dire. I'll reel off a few of the stats and Ella, I'll let you discuss the affordability factor actually as well. I think we could both dissect this quite well. But the reason that we're having a hard time in the world is many different factors. But we have to face that families with children in the lower income group in the UK currently would need to spend 85 % of their disposable income just to meet the standards that we have here in this country, the Eat Well Guide, which every country has its different standards.
11:14You may remember we've discussed the American food pyramid before. We've discussed Scandinavia's different Eat Well criteria. And healthy foods remain twice as expensive per calorie as less healthy food. So I think there's always that big debate, oh, it's cheaper if you just cook. Actually, it's not anymore because of so many factors that, you know, we could go into, but there's lots of wars in the world. There's lots of reasons that food costs are going up, demands on population, agriculture, global warming, all those sorts of things. I don't want to be all doom and gloom. Concerning for me as well, because I feel like teenagers are a forgotten group, Ella, is that 95 % of teens consume more free sugars than recommended.
11:55And then for children, only one in 10 children's breakfast cereals on the shelves are high in fiber, while one in five are high in sugar. And there's now a nearly 20 year gap, which we've discussed from the headlines before, in a healthy life expectancy between the most and the least deprived communities. You may recall Ella and I discussing different boroughs in the UK and London. So Richmond being one of those, it's quite affluent and they had a better life expectancy than those that perhaps lived in a different borough in London. And I think it's really, really important that we don't dismiss this report because we had a similar, equally damning one last 2025 in January.
12:38Yeah. And that's what I really wanted to pick up on there. And thank you for that, is that when we looked at this last year, so the exact same report, same data inputs, just a year ago, we haven't moved on a huge amount, you'd think, in a year, except we have. So if we look at the report from 2025, it showed the most deprived fifth of the population in the UK would need to spend 45 % on their disposable income on food to afford the eat well play as we said. But that would rise to 70 % for households with children. Well, we just talked about the fact that just one year later, it's now 85%. That is an absolutely staggering jump.
13:19And obviously, if that trend continued, it's already impossible. 70%, 85 % is even more impossible for a better word. But obviously, we see the same continuum, same kind of chart, then it just becomes absurd as a concept. And I think that's a really, really important thing. We're seeing this inflation hit food so badly. And I know everyone will notice it on their shops. I'm sure lots of you are feeling that as well. But the impact it's having on making healthy eating plausible for people is huge. For everybody as a whole, healthy eating healthier foods, it's the same. It remains almost twice as expensive per calorie and that's the same as it was last year.
14:03So sort of generally awful, but because of those small shifts in price incrementally, that has added up to that significant rise for people in lower income groups. So it's incredibly concerning. And this is why Ella and I wax lyrical about beans and impulses is one thing because some of the stats we have was that if you're buying pre-prepared, you know, plant-based alternatives, they are 56 % more expensive per calorie than the equivalent options, the more unhealthy options, I would say, or the meat-based ones. And there was a quote, I was, you know, it was an LBC News Ella and I was listening, I think it was the day this report came out.
14:42And one of the presenters, I think it was James O 'Brien, was reporting that it's just insane that we can buy a chicken based meal for two pounds and expect that to be nourishing and quality food for us whereas the healthier options and he's quite right to say it that contain the beans and the pulses if you're buying it pre-packaged rather than making it at home as we've got here is 56 percent um more expensive and then the unhealthy food that's what dominates the price promotions Ella and you'll understand all of this and you could explain it a bit more but we've got 40 % of all food non-alcoholic drink promotions the foods that are high in fat salt or sugar basically are just more expensive you know are the cheaper options than the healthy options this country's got it all backwards yeah and in that note on promotions I mean generally speaking what that is, is that unhealthy foods, foods that are made less of like actual food, and that also have very, very long shelf lives, they have really high margins.
15:48So they have scope to be able to do, you know, buy one, get one free, you know, buy two, get one free, whatever, all of these different offers, because they can afford it. Essentially, they've got massive, massive room, generally speaking in their margins. And the real challenge that people have when you're creating healthier options, or it's just like a single item is generally speaking, these things are much more expensive to produce. And so you just don't have that same margin. Like I would imagine that the margin that our supermarkets make on a broccoli is much, much lower than the margin that they will make on crisps that allows these really deep promotions.
16:27And also it's a kind of mechanism and where these supermarkets now run on promotions, people expect them all the time. You know, they shop by promotion, you go to the category and you're like, oh, what's the offer on biscuits today? And then that's how people shop. So it's a huge sort of, yeah, consumer man. And then, you know, we see fruit and fed account for just 3 % of advertising spent. That's because like, you think, right, if you imagine now, like bring to the front of mind five massive food brands, I think you'd be thinking like Heinz baked beans or Heinz tomato ketchup or like - Cadbury's.
16:57Yeah. Cadbury's Dairy Milk or like Walker's Salt-N-Villinger Crisps or something like that. I feel like these are the brands that we would be thinking. Well, like Jaffa Cakes, Diet Coke, those sorts of things. Not Gala Apples or anything like that. These are mega brands, right? These are multinational brands. They have these multi-million pound marketing budgets. Can anybody think of a fruit and veg brand? Like they're not like brands, they're just products as they should be, but they're like Tesco own brand most of the time or, you know, whoever own brand. And so, yeah, it's just not, it's not marketing because you don't, you're not trying to get people, you know, all of these big companies that are always trying to get themselves front of mind.
17:38It's like the Coke Christmas advert, you know, they're trying to get Coke to be at the front of your mind. And let's be honest, Ella, that's a legendary advert. I mean, holidays are coming. Everyone knows it. Excellent ad. Yeah. And that's all about exactly putting the brand front and center. and you know the budgets just aren't there for for the fruit and veg so it's a kind of margin um and sort of company thing anyway there might be people listening who who work for companies that make fruit and veg like produce and sell so if you you know please please tell us um your experience in it as well but that's my experience within within the food industry and it is you know and and also what then happens is big companies you know they have joint business plans for supermarkets So it's all like, how do we sell more?
18:22And I think the other thing to say is that supermarkets in this country also, although they're enormous, their margins are tiny. And so they also need these companies or they'd all go bust. So it's a very, very complicated situation. It's not as simple as if they all just stop selling these products tomorrow, they'd probably all go bust. So we have no food system. So it's very, very complicated. Well, we'd be going back to corner shops, but equally those are closing down left, right and center. No one can afford to have their own business anymore. It's a very difficult time. And what is also very concerning, especially, and it's been on the news a lot recently, is the infant and toddler food market.
18:59Because of course, all these UPF packaged foods also make up a high percentage. And what's scary is that 74 % of baby and toddler snacks still carry, you know, front of pack claims. and they all do have medium or high levels of sugar. They're not healthy items, a lot of them, Ella, that are being marketed towards children that are being sold. So our food environment at the moment that we live in is driving the health of our nation and we cannot step away from that fact at all. Interestingly, though, there are more guidelines coming in about what can be sold to babies and toddlers and a lot of products being up-aged.
19:38So that's quite interesting. again shows these things can be done anyway but you read this and you just think first of all you know for anyone struggling with including all these foods in their life clearly it's a structural issue and i think that's a really important point but second of all i think you know everyone's personal advocacy for change is incredibly important it really is like we do need huge wholesale change there needs to be pressure on governments and you see what just happened with social media bans. We've just seen it with smoking. These things can be done. It is completely possible, complicated as it is.
20:14And so I think that conversation just needs to keep going. And that's why reports like this are really, really important. And it does have in here healthy, we've talked about this before, but healthy life expectancy, not life expectancy a whole that hasn't really changed, but healthy life expectancy is now at its lowest level since around 2013 to 2015. So yeah, we're really, really going backwards. Well, the outlets that are targeted at those people that are in the lower demographics that are really suffering from these statistics here is that one in four outlets in the UK overall are fast food.
20:47Now, we know that these should be occasional items, but they do become everyday items when you have a low budget. And that rises to more than one in three outlets in the most deprived communities. And this is where we're going wrong. I mean, you'll have heard me go on and on about the fiber crisis. We've only 4 % of adults getting enough. But when we talk about children, 86 % of children aren't hitting the fiber targets. We're consuming too many UPFs and the entire food landscape 100 % needs to change. So I think we can round it up there with it just being, it's not black and white. Like we said at the beginning, there's always factors.
21:22And like Ella said, supermarkets have to make money. These small fast food chains are probably family-run businesses sometimes they need to make money so where do we break the circle yeah it's a very complex um circle to break and as i said with people like we just shouldn't sell it it's like well we can't just stop selling overnight because retailers can't afford to do that and we need retailers to buy the healthy items too so yeah it's very very complicated but let's watch this space okay headline two is quite interesting i saw this in the times why gen zedders is that how you say it? Do we think Gen Z is?
21:58I would say Gen Z because it's American, but yeah, I guess over here we should say Gen Zedders. Gen Zedders. Okay, why Gen Zedders? Like me, avoid the beach. A quarter of young Brits feel insecure about being seen in swimwear. I felt that my whole life, Ella. But equally, I don't actually like the beach because I don't like sand sticking to my feet after the water and it gets in all my bags and I cannot bear it. I am actually more of a poor gal as well. We really don't live life on the edge. My boys love the beach. My boys love the beach. One of the girls feels the same about sand as we do. But no, I do like the beach.
22:35A nationwide survey of 15 ,000 adults in the UK found that 82 % of Britons feel embarrassed or self-conscious about their bodies. 63 % said that those feelings affect their daily lives. 39 % said they never speak about these feelings with anyone, which really made me feel this was important for the wellness scoop. And then among Gen ZZ, however we want to call it adults 24 % then said as a result they avoid going to the beach which is where um the headlines come from even though the actual study itself is the nationwide survey that we don't feel secure in our body image yeah and I just think you know what as you said really like this is a I don't want to say but it's kind of a tale as old as time like I don't think there's anything crazy here but I just feel ahead of summer heat wave hitting I just think it's important to say it's a very sad statistic, but you know, four fifths of us feel embarrassed or self-conscious about our bodies.
23:30So if you are in that cohort, please don't feel alone in it. I think the really concerning stat as well is that almost, you know, over a third of people don't want to talk to people about that. And actually it turns out it is actually very normal to feel self-conscious about your body. So I think we've got to talk about it. Let's just put a little bit of emphasis on why everybody here in the UK also perhaps may also be feeling self-conscious. And this isn't detracting from the psychological components of this type of survey, but we are covered up most of the year. And then summer suddenly hits, which is why there's always this big press jargon around that time of year.
24:08Because we get ready for what, six, eight weeks of the year of sun. And then the rest of the time we're in jumpers and trousers. And that's a complete separate side note to how we're feeling about our body image. But it just stems into, once again, we're not the healthiest nation we could be. And that also probably impacts our mental health massively. There's so many facets to this conversation of which direction it could go. But the fact we're not speaking about it is really worrying. And the trend that we discussed before with going back to size zero and all these different sorts of things circulating, it feels like we don't belong anywhere and we don't fit in our bodies and any type of ideal that's portrayed in the media and that's worrying it's a very good point i actually think you're so right though it's funny it's like obviously when we had the last heat wave a few weeks ago you know before that it was horrible last week it was literally pouring with rain all day every single day i was freezing i was like back in a winter coat it's like december and now it's gonna be 30 degrees again and so it is you are as you write you're like super covered up and then suddenly you're like i've got to stand in a bikini in front of everyone.
25:13Probably not quite so dramatic as that. Most of us aren't doing like bikini competitions, but you get the gist. Anyway, I just think it's, you know, I think we've all felt that way. It's completely normal or feel that way at points. But I agree. I think it's, I don't know. It's hard to say that the online world in general, and I don't just mean social media, I mean like a Daily Mail online or any of the rest of it where we just see loads and loads of images of people's bodies doesn't make it worse. As I said, like I've been going to gym more and like feeling great for it. But now my whole algorithm, whenever I go on, it's like, you know, how to tone up in six weeks and like how to do this.
25:52And I'm like, I don't want to do that. I just really fed up of having hunched over posture. We don't see everyone's shapes here, do we? That's what I mean is, is that if you live in a warmer climate all year round, you're exposed to different body shapes I think more because you will be wearing less and around lots of different body ideas whereas here you're just exposed to that algorithm yeah and it's very it's just super unrealistic isn't it and then as you said at the same time there's the kind of celebrity size zero return that's you know very very very dominant it's really hard to miss and then if you start thinking that that's normal then you're not going to feel great I mean if I I was looking at that all day, every day.
26:32It doesn't make me feel great. Especially as we age. And I think there's this very strange, as we've discussed a lot, anti-aging kind of culture comes down to muscle mass, cellulite, body fat storage. But especially for women, we go through so much in so many different phases. And this is what we were discussing on the menopause journey is the fact that when you've got celebrities in their 50s, 60s going through menopause who appear on the outside, the aesthetic of not having an ounce of body fat and all these different things. Yeah, that's one of the most common concerns that women have is they're changing body as our hormones fluctuate.
27:06We don't have many role models that are out there existing today. I think it's the same for the men and it leads us back to that conversation we had on the manosphere, you know, how toxically shocking that is for men as well. So this and the social media ban, thank goodness, because maybe that will take a few teenage minds off body ideals when they are going through that hard time. I know, but don't we? Maybe we all need it. So look, you are not alone. I think it's a very important thing to do. But if you are feeling like it's affecting you, it's so important to talk to someone, just talk to a friend.
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27:41And I have to say the thing that I have learned, because everyone knows I'm on my, I was about to say my woo-woo journey, but my more esoteric journey at the moment. And I do lots of courses and all the rest of it. And you often talk about why are you here? Like what got you interested in mindfulness or anything? And people will always talk about, you know, going through a hard time and it might be grief. It might be burnout and work. There's many, many facets, health issues, like so many different reasons. But I just feel what I noticed time and time again. And, you know, we chatting to people all the time is like everyone's going through something at some point and no one is alone in that.
28:19And I just think actually what's interesting is when you say to someone, I'm struggling with this. I think what you find more often than not is they're like, oh my God, me too. Thanks for saying it. Yeah, 100 % Ella. And like we said, friendships are very difficult to navigate in life as well. And there are pockets and communities in different places. But I think listening to the wellness group is a very good start because we'll try and take you out of your head for that one moment and focus on proactive things we can do, be it breathing, be it walking, the social interaction we're all missing.
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30:59Okay, welcome back. Right, Rhi, what is our third headline today? I think it leads really nicely on to the fact we're starting to notice that all these techs and gadgets may not be so good for us. So are we obsessed with a perfect night's sleep? You might actually be making it worse, Zella. It was an interesting piece this week, looking at something called orthosomnia, which is essentially an unhealthy preoccupation with achieving perfect sleep. I had it when I was getting numb with babies, Zella, that's for sure. So orthosomnia was first introduced by researchers back in 2017. So it's been around nine years now.
31:35and it was used to describe people who have become so focused on improving their sleep data that they were spending longer in bed repeatedly changing their routines and becoming increasingly anxious about getting a perfect night's sleep and the irony there being that all this focus on the different behaviors were actually making insomnia and sleep quality worse and I think when this was first being discussed it was seen as this like quite niche phenomenon but obviously we've then seen over this last decade, this crazy rise in sleep trackers and all of these different devices that people are wearing all the time.
32:10So you've got sleep scores, recovery scores, readiness scores, all these different terms that the various different tracking devices use. And they become part of an everyday conversation. Like I remember when the aura ring got popular, Kim Kardashian and Gwyneth Paltrow were having like a public debate on like their readiness score. Oh, wow. I missed that. We should dig that out. We should dig that. That's an archive conversation. yeah exactly and like who is more ready for the day yeah so it's the idea like comparing those numbers with friends um using them i guess as like instead of saying to yourself how do i feel today you're like these are my data points so i'm just gonna let this tell me how i feel anyway i think it's interesting because i think it extends way past sleep it preys on our adaption and our biology to be our best versions of ourselves massively so there's a big wellness loop and circle it's why we buy supplements, why we buy trackers.
33:02I feel like we want to learn so much and discover so much about ourselves, but to our own detriment that it becomes a fixation. Because if you think about it, for most of human history, you know, we just accepted there were good and bad times. And that's kind of what happens with our sleep. And I think the more that you suddenly focus on it, like imagine one night you wake up feeling, you woke up feeling great, but then you discover actually because your aura ring or your tracker says you didn't get a good night's sleep, do you then behave differently the next day? Does that initiate a behavior change for the better or for the worse?
33:40Yeah, exactly. That is so interesting. And if we look at it in the UK, between 35 and 46%, so that's 20 to 25 million UK adults have a tracker. Really? Yeah. Interestingly with young adults, so that's 18 to 34. Oh my gosh, not a young adult anymore. I know. Welcome to my world. I'm older than Ella by about two years, year and a half. Yeah. Nearly 47 % wear a tracker. So almost half of young adults have one. Women, slightly more proactive trackers overalls. Yeah. So more popular with women. Anyway, it's so interesting, I think, to see just how popular this has become. And lots of experts basically weighing in on this conversation with orthosomnia saying this kind of is a bit of an issue now where exactly as you said, you become increasingly uncomfortable with fluctuations.
34:32And that was one of the things that I think was really important to pull out from this, which is like, as humans, emotionally, physically, we do ebb and flow. Like you, you know, you have a day where you feel great, you have a week, a month, a period where you feel great. And then you'll have a day where you don't feel so good or a day where you don't sleep so well and there's no rhyme or reason like maybe it's the moon i mean is in like to that extent like who knows why like there's no doesn't have to be it's almost like we just think we're robots and everything has to be so similar hormonal whatever it's like we're not robots we're living breathing very very complex organisms and we do just fluctuate we do and there's some research actually that men require less sleep than women and that's purely because of the hormonal fluctuations we go through throughout our lives so I'm not surprised you see more women that are interested because women are more predisposed to conditions like anemia throughout their lives then they go through the menopause and it's one of the big symptoms but the trackers aren't accurate Ella and I think that's one of the most important things as well to understand is that most consumer sleep trackers so they estimate your sleep using movement heart rate and then the physiological symptoms so they don't measure the brain actively.
35:48And when you're in a sleep clinic or you go to one of these places, I know Dr. Guy Meadows runs one in the UK, it's fantastic. The gold standard remains that something called polysomnography and that's like an overnight sleep study and it records your brain waves, your oxygen levels, your eye movement, are you going into that REM sleep, that rapid eye movement, the heart activity. So it's got more of an all-rounded measurement than these sleep trackers are also providing. It's just like when you jump on, like I used to do a cross trainer in the gym and you put your hands on that heart rate monitor and all of those machines are up to 40 % inaccurate, potentially more.
36:28So we're taking data just like we did with calories again. Well, we talked about this as well, didn't we, with the kind of at home glucose monitors where these things aren't a perfect science. You know, if you need to get an absolutely accurate reading of your blood sugar, of your sleep scores, of whatever reason, for medical reasons, like you are genuinely struggling with insomnia. You're just not, the data that you're getting on these at-home devices isn't necessarily as accurate. And I know some people find having a kind of general scope helpful. I think type A's among us probably, probably it's not helpful because you can get very hung up on data that's not wholly accurate.
37:08And then you start, instead of being like, how do I feel today? Okay, cool. You're like, oh, my watch tells me that I feel X and you kind of believe it. And then you almost expect yourself to be a robot. Anyway, it's very interesting. And I think we should let this carry on outside of sleep and go in to the optimization backlash. I agree because even the word, let's just quickly just summarize the word orthosomnia almost sounds like something like orthorexia, or again, you know, we're developing because of the state of the world at the moment, these conditions and people have had enough. So our trend today, as Ella said, was the Stephen Bartlett backlash on the optimization trap.
37:50Okay. So this has been everywhere over the last few weeks. I think it just has really struck a nerve with people, which is why it's so interesting to talk about. Now, I would like to say, Ria, I'm sure we feel the same about this. We actually almost never talk about individual people on this show. We don't bring up like a particular person and kind of dissect them. That's not what the show is about. It's not what we're about. This is not an anti or a pro, Stephen Bartlett. Everyone has their own opinions on him. What it is though, isn't a conversation that he had that kicked off a much, much wider discussion way beyond him about optimization.
38:28So we just want to reference him in context of this conversation on optimization because it is, I personally believe a very, very important conversation. And I think that's why everyone, like whether it's people on socials, every news outlet has started talking about this because it's not really about him. It's just about this as a jumping off point for how we don't. One is enough enough. Yeah. Have we just gone too far? So he did this interview. Weirdly, actually it was at the beginning of the year and somehow it just went by on early June. Very random. Not sure why the internet works in mysterious ways but let's just play the clip so we're all kind of on the same page with what we're discussing it's one of those areas where you don't understand the hidden cost until you really give it up for a while and and i think about my own relationship with drinking and i stopped drinking at 30 years old i'm now 33 and i had just drank because i just drank i'd never ran the experiment of just giving it up for a while and i and then like i don't know maybe i was at 31 i thought you know i'll have a drink again because now i could really a b test it i I had a year of not drinking, decided to have a drink again.
39:29It ruined three days of my life. I had a couple of glasses of wine, didn't get drunk. It ruined three days of my life because of the domino effect it caused. So it meant that I got worse sleep that night. And then because I got worse sleep that night, I ate more poorly the next day because my dopamine system or whatever, the cortisol system was all messed up. And then I podcasted worse. I didn't go to the gym the day after, that day or the day after because of that, because I felt really bad. I then slept worse. and I could track all of this on my week, hashtag ad, hashtag sponsor, hashtag investor, whatever.
39:59And I was like, oh my God, those three glasses of wine had this hidden domino effect that I must have been living with for my whole life. Can I read out two quotes from two different news outlets that I think are interesting on this point? Okay, so the Guardian had a piece on it and it said, the health tracker backlash is here. Ditch the data and set yourself free. A rebellion is rising against the dull, highly optimized lives big tech want for us. That's the Guardian. Business Insider, it's a very different outlet, had, for most of human history, sleep, be it good, bad, or ugly, was simply something you experienced.
40:37Increasingly, it has become something you monitor, analyze, and attempt to optimize. Somewhere along the way, many of us seem to have stopped trusting our own experiences and started outsourcing the verdict to a score, a graph, or a number delivered before we've even sat up in bed. Now, many think that fewer than eight hours mean they failed. And I think failed is an important word there. And I think those speak quite nicely to this idea that we are just, first of all, we're outsourcing trust in ourselves. And second of all, we are taking normal things and almost trying to pathologize them. So like, you know, you had six hours of sleep, suddenly like you have a problem and it's like, you might not have a problem.
41:14it's also um a deeper underlying element of the type of industry Stephen Bartlett said obviously um you can't deny successful CEOs work very hard no one's detracting that away from him we're using this as Ella said at the beginning as an example of the optimization discussion but I feel like we've had enough of being sold to you know sold a promise sold a um a solution basically for like you said, things that are perfectly normal. Things we don't need solutions to often times. These podcasts, those types of ones, there's a reason they have controversial, I won't even call them experts, controversial scientists on the show.
41:57A lot of the time, there are a few gems, but most of the time they are people that are researching something very interesting. They get very excited about their subject area and they lack the nuance and understanding that on a public health level. It's just not that simple. It becomes for clicks and likes and for business. And the entire conversation that that particular podcast will have is not for the greater good of helping you learn. It is for you to be invested and to buy into this machine. And I think that's what people are perhaps getting a bit fed up with. They're like, I don't want to buy into this machine anymore.
42:30You know, you're now talking about, but it's become so unrelatable, Ella, that that's why the backlash to the particular comment of a couple of glasses of wine, you know, that is a normal thing to lots of people who are trying to improve their drinking or work on themselves. And the way he catastrophized the conversation because of his gadget, his whoop, wasn't it? The gadget he said. I think it makes people see these gadgets in a different light and realize maybe that's not quite normal maybe he's got either he's selling to me or maybe he's got his own psychological concerns there with optimization yeah and i think that's the interesting thing right like this has got and i guess also to be super clear this isn't about encouraging alcohol from from our side when we're talking about like let things go but equally for most people you know a couple of glasses of wine on the weekend with their friends this is a very normal thing to do.
43:26And in context, it does not have to be an inherently unhealthy thing. And I think it's the idea that this one thing, and it could be drinking, it could be many, many other things, but this one thing could trigger so much regret, self-analysis, like so much time spent on what is actually quite a simple thing. It's like, oh my goodness, I ate some crisps. This is a disaster. Well, it's disordered behavior patterns. and I'm not going to lay, I don't know anything about Stephen and his life. I can't just say, oh, he's clearly got X, Y, Z. We were not that type of podcast, as Ella said, we are not those people.
44:01We understand how clips can be taken out of context completely. It's happened to lots of people before. But it's this slippery slope that I think we wanted to talk about between paying attention to our health, very, very important, incredibly important, not something that we should ignore and obsessing over it. And this tipping point between like, I try and eat more chickpeas and like, I'm going to make a stir fry tonight. And like, I'm going to go for a walk on my lunch break and I'm going to make an effort to go to the gym or Pilates class or whatever you'd like to do or do a YouTube video at home.
44:32And I can't enjoy pizza with my friends or go for margaritas and Mexican food or have popcorn with my children, whatever it is, I can't do these things because it's not perfect. Or I can't stay up late with my girlfriend's having my gadget says I'm it's not good for me today and that to me is what this conversation symbolizes and I think that's why people were like thank you goodness me let's get rid of optimization it is sucking joy from our life because it's this idea like I can't stay up late nattering away and putting the world's to right with my girlfriends I need to go to bed early I can't have that glass of wine in that chat because I won't be kind of doing things perfectly The word that we use in clinic that differentiates between when something becomes disordered and when something becomes just a thoughtful process is flexibility.
45:22The way he described this is that he has complete and utter zero tolerance and zero flexibility in his life. We all know the research. Alcohol is not good for us. We know that. We know it's linked to cancer, stroke, cardiovascular health, everything. but the idea that like you've just said a couple of drinks then initiates there's zero flexibility because three whole days of regret self-analysis and scrutiny basically it is very disordered and I think it was that in itself that was what was so shocking perhaps I mean he's going to regret saying that massively yeah unless it's got him loads of clicks and likes on the podcast you know Well, you know, look, let's put him front and center.
46:05And I think, you know, that is a business model that a lot of people in the public eye have to use because you've always got to be different. You've always got to have newness, doing the same things on repeat, which is fundamentally what health is, is like kind of consistency and repetition and quite boring things again and again. That doesn't get you clicks. And so like to cut through, you need novelty. So maybe actually it's been a great thing. But anyway, I just think it's a really important thing because yes, health is really important, but so is fun. So is spontaneity. So is pleasure, connection, joy.
46:40And that does not need to be found through drinking, but it does need to be this point where we don't feel that we can't be flexible and enjoy things and also make a, you know, lovely batch cook on Sunday night to eat for work that week. like the two things can be true at the same time they can coexist and they need to in order to make healthy fun and not to shy away from this conversation because actually um i was wondering if i play a clip of it but the language is so terrible i don't i don't feel like i can but there was a very outspoken biohacking influencer that was calling everyone gob swearing at every person that says oh why do we need a study to say that something works you know I'm selling my powders and I'm doing this.
47:26You know, one of those influencers has said, if you buy my powder, your menopause will be better instantly. You know, that type of promising and things. And I'm sure for lots of people, there's placebos or effects, but she was basically putting down every, she said, anyone that sits on the sofa on TV, like a medic or a health professional that tries to cite research is full of BS. And it's very confusing when you've got these two dogmatic extremes. And like you said, thoughts should coexist and there's elements of biohacking that I'm sure can be very helpful for people and interesting but the thing we cannot shy away from in this conversation is like I said when the flexibility becomes rigid and then we've got people that think they're portraying to the outside world something helpful but it's actually orthorexia it's perfectionism it's not good for their health long term and you you can tell that they're obsessing over it and then it becomes their business model and they lose their own identity because lots of these influencers out there lose their core sense of self because where's the line?
48:27Are you a biohacker that's selling XYZ for a living? How else do you be? How do you reject the optimization bandwagon that you are now on and projecting everywhere? Look at Kim Kardashian with her 35 supplements. um i just feel like we cannot ignore the the disordered behaviors of the wellness industry yeah i think that to me as so the nail on the head is the disordered nature that i think we see so much time look i have tried kind of tracking doing things quote unquote perfectly those are like my least happy things you know i remember wearing that that ring for the first few weeks of this year.
49:09And I was like, I was really, it made me really unhappy. And I'll be the first to say, like, I, I have what people always call, I don't know if it's like a type D personality, where you're like half type A, like got to do things right. And then half like so lazy. That's me. But with this kind of thing, I would wake up, I would look at my score and, you know, throughout the day, I'm like, what's happening? Am I stressed? Am I not stressed? What do I need to do? I could see the tipping point. I was like, this can take over my life. It doesn't do that to those people, those people love it. And it's amazing.
49:37And it's a great tool. And that's great. If you can still have your flexibility and you don't live by metrics, I think that's great. But I just worry for normal people. And I don't mean athletes, people who must optimize for their livelihood. That's just a completely different beast, but normal quote unquote, people with a normal job living a kind of normal life where optimization is really just small tweaks to feel a little bit better, a little bit more energized, a little bit brighter every day. You just don't need to be perfect to get the benefits. Yeah, because the challenge comes when the numbers become the goal rather than the information behind them.
50:15It's like a step count, a sleep score, heart rate, you know, you name it. They don't tell the whole story like Ella just said. And if you're exercising to feel good, but your tracker is telling you all those other parts that you actually probably didn't want, need to know, and now you're exposed to it, you can't help but switch on that trigger in your mind. Research is actually increasingly exploring what some experts call the quantified self phenomenon, which is where constant monitoring, it's measured now, does heighten stress, perfectionism, and health anxiety is actually very, very big in particular individuals.
50:49Some of us are more prone to this than others. And I think we all know, and Ella's very open about herself, and I know I'm probably, I've never had the health tracker, it never arrived that ring back in the day and I'm actually quite grateful for it but I'm sure it wouldn't do me any good either and I think we have to encourage talking to yourself and say is this data helping me make decisions or is it controlling my decisions and that's when it becomes distressing because health is not just metrics like we discussed in the wellness group we said we should have a fifth pillar for health and it should be wellness groups like a socialization aspect that is completely and utterly lost with the disconnect of modern tech and the world that we live in.
51:31Yeah. And don't forget, like, you know, connection is one of the most important things for your health. You know, having a long dinner with your girlfriends over a bottle of wine, you know, or not. I'm not saying you have to drink. I'm just saying that's a very normal, conventional way of getting together in this country. If you had a long Friday night dinner over a bottle of wine with your girlfriends, that is probably better for your health in so many ways than other things because that connection is so important to your health so when you start saying like oh i can't do that because i don't want to eat those things or drink that thing whatever it is that's when i think it is you know it's important and there's people preying on your vulnerability so just before we close today ella and i could very easily if we wanted to make an absolute buck you know we could say something it's so extreme and controversial on the podcast get it picked up by national press and I'm sure that that's how lots of people on the internet make a living and they do it in a calculated way and it will prey on your vulnerability and I think we all just need to keep our detective hats on and like Ella said this is your safe space here on the wellness group where hopefully we can have these conversations in a fair balanced balanced way we know everyone's different some things will work for you some things won't but there are sadly lots of people out there that are looking to prey on all of our vulnerability and Ella and I both fall for things too.
52:49We're very open and honest about that. I spoke to Ellie yesterday in tears about conversation I'd had and we all just have different things happening every day. Life is hard everyone. Let's just focus on what we can do that's not overwhelming. Exactly that. Have a great day guys. Don't you feel overly pressured? Do the best you can. You're doing a great job. Yeah you're doing a great job. See you on Thursday. Bye.
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