Session 94: Rickey Thompson

22:38Right, and like, it's different. It's different. And like, did you watch last season of Love Island though? I did. So are you watching Beyond the Villa? I am. Kayla's bringing it. I love it. No, I live, I live, I just love like Serena. I love... Oh, Serena's made for TV. She really is. Serena and Kayla. She really woke up Love Island. Like, that's the reason why, like, come on. A hundred percent. She woke it up. She did. Well, she crashed out about Cordell. Period. That crash out was so valid. I love her. Oh, a hundred percent. And I think that's, but she did an interview and she was like, I didn't think anyone watched the U.S.

23:11respectfully until once I found out that, like, when everyone watched my season, I was like, oh, everyone saw me crash out. Yeah. And I loved it. I was like, girl, this is so real. Like, I would do the same thing, too. Like, how you gonna mess on and come back with that girl? That was crazy. That was awful. And where is she now? Where is she now? I'm like, hey. Well. Well, Ricky, what are you therapist about today? What am I therapist about today? Oh, my goodness. Just men in general. Right. Honestly. Like, I feel like dating is just so bad right now. Like, are you dating? I'm trying to. What do you mean trying?

23:45Are you on apps? Like, I'm on apps, but it's so hard to. Like, there was, I'm going on a date this Friday. Uh-oh. No, no. But then he was like, but maybe we, it's a party. And maybe we should invite other people. So I'm like, I'm like, oh, that's like a friend, girl. You know, I hope you find your love, girl. I won't. Is he hot? This guy? Yeah. Was it like he described him? He has like facial hair. Yes. Meow. Right. Oh, yes. Six foot something. I love a six foot something. Right. He's really, really, really hot. I just don't know if what I'm going to experience Friday night is a date or a hangout.

24:24Well maybe he's gonna like You know introduce his friends first Maybe that's like You know the first move I'm not looking for new friends Oh period Are you? No I'm so over it I'm so over the guy Let me get to know you I just need a ring now Have you ever Have you ever been on a date And the guy's been like By the way this isn't a date Yes Me too And I wanna cry What happened to you? So basically I was like really into this guy Like I was really into him I was like oh my god Like he finally has to hang out And then we get there He was like you know what I'm just letting you know right now I'm not looking for a relationship I'm just trying to like figure things out This isn't a date, it's like a hangout And I was like okay and I had to pay for the meal That's the same thing happened to me The same thing happened to me I was like okay, you're like you can't crash out Cause I'm like I don't think I still really want you Wait you can't be like well date me Right, I can't decide, you real crazy Like no I don't want that but yeah it was really awful It really hurt I had like a pussy come up to me After I was told that it wasn't a date I love how you call them pussies, I live for it I love it, I love it And they said, I'm sorry, I don't mean to interrupt you on your date.

25:28And I was like. Oh, God. On a date. And I paid. Wow. How did that make you feel? I wrote a song about it. No way. You're really heartbroken. I was really. I'm like, I made a comedy album. But this is the one song that everyone was like, I don't think you were kidding. I'm sad. And it was like embarrassing. But it's a banger. Oh, Louise. Just thank you. Are you going to release it? Did you release it? Oh, yeah, I sing it on tour. Tea. I smell Grammy. It's coming. No. Did you and Denzel ever take the podcast on tour? No. Before we could actually, like, do it, it stopped, so. I miss it every year.

26:10I miss it so much. We talk about, like, if the podcast was on, we would have had the whole cast of the violin on there right now. We would have got to the nitty gritty girl. Also, I want to see, I need to know, I need somebody in the villa to tell me what it was like when Sierra was removed. right? I want to know. I want to know. Because I saw Amaya. Amaya didn't really get the full information. I said, I know something else went down. Wait, what did Amaya say? She said when she was on the Call of Duty episode, she was like, you know, we didn't even know. Like, she just went away and she was just gone.

26:34No, girl. Was that true? Remember that clip? Was that her crying in the back? Did you remember that? Oh, when, um, who was in the interview? Laundrie. Yeah, Laundrie was in the interview and then you hear no, no, in the back. This episode of Therapist is brought to you by SeatGeek. It has never been easier to buy tickets to a live event than on SeatGeek. First of all, everyone's on tour right now. I'm about to go to New York. I'm about to see Tate's Miss Possessive World Tour. I think I might see Haim if I have time. There are so many people on tour right now. Renee is about to go on her Bite Me tour.

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29:53Him? Ooh, I voted for... I did vote for them. I did, because I love Alondria. I love her. I love how real she is. She's everything. I love her, but I was also getting upset with her. I was like, girl, this man does not want you. Wake up, wake up, wake up. But I get it, though. Nick is... Nick is... Nick is better for her. And they look so good together. Yeah, what did I... And she brings out a finer side of him, too. Right. Well, they're, like, obsessed with each other. I know. I want that so bad. I know. Do you believe in Huda, or not Huda, Amaya and her guy? Do you believe that, like, what love island relationships do you believe are not real?

30:21I was talking to Jens about it. I was like, who do you think is the first love island couple to break up? And he said Amaya and Brian. I see that. I see it, too, because I feel like Brian was in the villa enough. You know, he saw the ticket, child, and he went for it. But I don't know. Maybe he's, like, liking her now, because how can you not like her? Like, I'd be obsessed with her. She's so fucking funny. She is so fucking funny. I love her. She's everything. How do you think they're going to, like, change the season for next season? I don't know. But this season was undoubtedly a disaster. It was a disaster.

30:50Like, literally. I've never been more mad at TV before in my life. Wait, really? I was so sick and tired. I was like, there's a video my friend was like, he was on TikTok Live. I was like, oh, I'm sick of this show, like, in the background. Like, I was at the club watching it on my phone. But people weren't happy about watching it. It was so bad. It was badly edited. it was just like it was so much background stuff going down you had people getting kicked out left and right for being racist like Jesus Christ there was no background nothing nothing like the girl you Lisa you Lisa whatever oh yeah she was kicked out like day two girl right they said wake up

31:24they're like you gotta get out girl out the villa I thought now she's over here doing meet and greets no way yes she's doing meet and greets hey you guys we're gonna meet and greet at the dolphin mall I saw that I'm like okay girl Like people are coming up to her. She's like, I love my fans. I'm like, girl. Wasn't she in for two episodes? Uh-uh. I think she left episode two. I think they're like, yeah, you left the villa. And I was like, oh, wow, damn. But it's like, let's be, I wish they were messy and they would show, like old reality television would show people leaving. I know. I want to say a crash out full down.

31:58I don't like it. Do you ever watch old reality TV? Oh, yes, of course. Bad Girls Club? Of course, yes. I love Bad Girls Club. It's my favorite show of all time. I love it. But I really will say this. I hate the way Natalie is now. Me too. I hate it. I really hate it. Did you watch Baddies? I watched one of those. I couldn't do it. It's too much, girl. Okay, I watched Baddies South. Oh, we got a fan in the house. I watched Baddies Southwest, and then I fell off on Midwest. Girl, I didn't even know they had a Midwest. No, they have Southwest, Midwest, Caribbean, and Africa. How do you know that?

32:30Because I am like - Are you describing to Zeus? Yes. Period. I can't I feel like that TV right there will fuck with my mind No and it did I just I missed Bad Girls Club so much What Bad Girls was to me as a kid was like What was your favorite season of Bad Girls Club? My favorite season When I had to be with Julie With New Orleans I'm rewatching New Orleans I loved her on the show Tiara was my favorite What was the other girl Anastasia who beat the girl up for having yeah Anastasia love it she said I'm gonna give you five seconds boop boop boop see I missed that now the fights you have hit breaking teeth and all the stuff I can't use you and it's not for me well okay so you don't watch but like basically every episode of Baddies goes like this group meeting group meeting cause they have to go out for the night and they're like and then every every single episode without fail you get one confessional of a girl goes you know when Natalie calls a group meeting you know some shit's about to go down.

33:33Every episode. That's every episode? And then they get in the group meeting, and Natalie says, before we go out, we need to squash our problems. And then somebody stands up and fights somebody else, and then somebody else stands up and fights somebody else, and then - This is every episode? That is the rundown of Baddies. But what is also, like, the premise of the show? Like, I just said, get this bag, get this money. What money are you getting? Okay, so it actually used to be real. Like, Baddies South, they had, like, they would go and do club appearances, and they would make money. So that was the bag they were getting.

34:02And like, the drama on Baddie South felt real to me. Oh. But you know what season of Bad Girls Club I did just watch? What? Did you ever watch season five with Kristen Kelly? No, which, oh. Miami. I haven't watched it in years. Okay. Oh, I do remember when they went to Miami. And they had that cute little house. It was on South Beach, right? Well, there's two Miamis. Oh, okay. One's a more recent Miami, which was the worst. Do any of you watch Bad Girls Club? Did either of you? Oh, my God. Really? Y 'all didn't watch Bad Girls? What? You missed out. Oh, wow. Live out loud. Oxygen. I miss Oxygen.

34:36Is Oxygen a thing? Is this a good? Oh, wow. I don't think so. Well, no, it must be. On Oxygen, I used to watch everything. Everything. Reruns of America's Next Top Model. Reruns of Bad Girls Club. What was it? The murder show? Snapped. Snapped. Oh! Girl, I was like, I'll be angry. Snapped was my favorite. So good. Oxygen was the best channel. It was. It was. It was everything. I don't know why they got rid of it. because I guess reality TV just like changed now. Well, do you want to know what really changed about reality television was the drinking rule? Oh, I know. So they used to be like, you guys can black out.

35:08Right. And like, if you watch Old Bad Girls Club, like they literally black out and like they don't, they wake up the next morning and they're like, sorry. But like on Love Island, they're like two drink max. I understand that though. Like I feel like if they really were allowed to get, like it's only wine too. If they would get some tequila up in there, it would be a big problem and liability and stuff, you know? Because the girls have to sue nowadays. So it's like, yeah. Right. Well, you know what ended Bad Girls Club, right? Oh, the whole thing with the twins? Yes. That was too much. That was...

35:38That would say you took it too far. Well, the producers encouraged it. Yeah. And they were like... Yeah, tear her shit up. Do that, do that. And they were like PA-ing and like... Girl, I wish somebody would. Oh, my gosh. Oh, I would have left in handcuffs that day. Yeah. Sometimes I watch that show and I'm like, how did... Like, do you remember in Julie's season when they tried to kick Julie out? Yes. They took her, and then Julie took Shelly's girlfriend's thing. Or do you remember? I served you breakfast in bed. That was awful. Priscilla literally beat her bloody. Literally. What was that season?

36:09Kevin. No, what was the one they pushed homegirl in the pool when she broke her ankle? Flo? Flo for. Flo. Them throwing water balloons at her. That was Natalie's season. Really? Yes. Oh, wow. I miss that Natalie. Yes. She was fab. That was like, I run LA. I run LA. She did completely change. Like, why? You got a little way more, you know, a little rough on it. I'm like, girl, what's going on, girl? That's crazy. You love baddies like that. Wow. The only reason I subscribed to Deuce Network was for Tokyo Tony's dating show. How is it? I love it. How is it? It was the funniest show ever. Like, that was TV.

36:44She's hilarious. She is. Have you seen her interview with Megan James? No. It is unbelievable. I need to watch. Because I love Tokyo Tony. She said, she's the one where Megan is like, so you make your money from bookings and stuff? And she said, no, I have businesses. Like Tokyo Tony trucking. Yeah, she does. You see her Enterprise building? No way. You didn't see that on TikTok? No. She was like, you know, we have a place you do massages, you get your nails done. It's literally just a townhome. And it's called Tokyo Tony. Yeah, Tokyo Tony Enterprises. You walk in, you can do tattoos, you can get a massage, you can do hair, nails, lashes.

37:17Where is it located? I think in D.C. D.C., yeah, she's from the DMV. I have to. I have to go. I want to go. I will go with you. I'm actually scared to go. Well, her show with Blac Chyna. Oh, I loved it. Was that on Zeus, right? No? I forget. I don't think so. Zeus wasn't until recent. No, I think there was Zeus. Because who's, you know, like who, like who's buying that show? Yeah. I was like, I wasn't VH1. Oh, and I miss VH1. VH1. I mean, I still watch because they do like love and hip hop on there. Oh, yeah. They do, yeah. Oh, that's where that show is? I used to watch Rock of Love. Oh, love Rock of Love.

37:55I used to watch Charm School. Yes. Which was where the Rock of Love girls would go to be charmed by Sharon Osbourne. And then I would watch, was Tila Tequila a shot of love with IMTV or BH1? My mom was so, like, worried I was watching that show. Yeah, me too. Like, that show was, that's like the first, like, I didn't know about bisexuality. Me either. Until Tila Tequila. Did you ever watch Paris Hilton's My New BFF? Oh my gosh, yes. Did you really? I did. Did she actually keep in touch with? No, I don't think so. I don't think so. But then I watched Flavor of Love. Oh, Flavor of Love was everything.

38:28And I love New York. I love New York. New York gets a job. Everything. Or was it New York Goes to Work or something? New York Goes to Work. What else did we have? We also had... Or there was the series like I Love the 2000s, I Love the 90s, I Love the 80s. Or did you watch the Money Show where they'll pick the people from different shows that you get the money? Like Big Money or something like that. Do you remember that? Yes. Yeah, you see it? You see it now? Yeah. Wait, what was that? Oh my gosh. Because they had like Reel Enchants on there. Yes. What the fuck was that show? You see it, don't you?

38:59Yes. It was a VH1 like reality game show. Yep, yep, yep, yep. But it was like they were all in a house together. Uh-huh. Oh, I'm gonna go crazy. That was a good one. That was a great one. And there was like the Pussycat Doll show. Like finding the next like doll. Right. Then there was Dr. Drew. Yeah, I actually like Dr. Drew. Me too. Oh my gosh. Celebrities have problems. I did not. Yeah, Celebrity Rehab. Loved it. Loved it. VH1 was the shit. I used to watch videos on it. Literally. It was better than MTV. Because MTV had really shows. Jersey Shore. Jersey Shore. I miss Jersey Shore. I mean, that, talk about my everything.

39:31I love it. I don't really watch the new season, do you? They're like old now. So it's like, damn. They can't party how they used to. No, but like, I went out with Snooki once and she blacked out and lost her wallet. Period. I love her. See, come on. Have some fun. That is who she is. Yeah. Okay, do you want to get into the tummy what's wrong? Oh my God. Get into it. Okay. I feel like you're going to really like these. Oh, yes. That's a thick envelope, girl No, it's thicker than usual these days Oh

39:58My boyfriend of three years broke up with me with no closure We share a friend group and all of us went in on a summer house Our whole situation is so fucked up Help Girl, I mean Why are you still hanging out with your ex-boyfriend's friends? Are they together? No, they broke up Yeah, but I think it was in the same friend group the whole time Ooh Yeah, I wouldn't go Even if she paid for the house? I wouldn't go I would say you guys are going to give me a deposit or something. I can't do that. I can't. Would you? No. Yeah. But if you paid for the house, would you still go? Yeah. I'm sorry. That's so awkward.

40:30What if he has a new girl? Oh, I'd be Huda. Period. He's knocking everything down. Yeah. Bitch. Oh, yeah. No. Sorry, girl. That sucks. My boyfriend just joined an acapella group. Oh.

40:46Next. Oh, my gosh. Like he's super talented But this group is only guys Which is fine But overall just fully gave me the ick We've been together for over three years Oh girl Ick down What is this glee? No No girl I think I would get an ick If someone did an acapella I would be Oh my god I'm mad She starts I'd be sick Like you are your own instrument That's not it Oh my god Oh my god And what if he does like that thing Like I feel like acapella like brothers are so strong Like what if he's like Does something romantic And they all come out singing to you at dinner Oh my god I would be Oh, wait, we're done.

41:19But it's three years. I don't care. Next? Next. Oh, my God. Ew. Sorry, girl. Right? How old is the guy? Do we know? It's giving college. Okay, I'm about to say, I thought he was like, you know, 30, going to acapella group. Is that so much better? I mean, yeah. I mean, no. Or worse. It's worse. It's worse. I feel like, you know, that's something you do in high school. What's the strongest ick you've ever gotten from a guy? The strongest ick. Oh, my God. The strongest ick I got was, I was talking to this guy. He was younger than me, and he called me his elder. What? Yeah, he was like, aw, my elder, you're cute.

41:54I was like, the ick I got? Ew, gross. He was like 26. I'm like, what, like three years older than him? And in the moment, like, what did you feel? Oh, my God, I felt like an old bitch. I was like an old bag of bones, girl. I was done. Next. And did you break up with him? I did. So my roommate has no boundaries and keeps bringing her girlfriend into our shared dorm. Her girlfriend lives a literal five doors away. I'm so bad at confrontation, but be so serious.

42:23I mean, I don't know. Doesn't the girlfriend have a roommate too? She must be upset. Where are they supposed to go? Literally, I don't know. What if you? This is my girl.

42:37My best friend stopped talking to me, and when I confronted her, she said, I think we outgrew each other, and I haven't thought that much about you, to be honest. oh i'd have stung down oh my god i would fall to my knees i would feel so sick i like oh wow let me she don't give a fuck about you girl has that ever happened to you before that's happened to me um like younger but that's happened to me i've done that to somebody actually no ricky yeah i've just gone completely ghost that's so wrong with me i know like what do you mean you just stop responding as being an aquarium it's like we can get over things very quickly really i can mess up and be friends for 10 years you do one thing to piss me off i'll be done with you drop you down like no problem are you serious yes and you feel nothing feel nothing i sleep good at night It's so awful.

43:15It's so bad. It's so bad. I'm trying to, like, be, like, more sentimental. I'm such a realist. Like, if I know. So what happened with this one person? Oh, this one person. Well, okay. I had a very valid reason. This one person was, like, talking to this dude that I was, like, we broke up. And then he was, like, oh, well, you guys broke up. So why can't I talk to him? I was, like, I was done. But it was, like, you know. Gay men are diabolical. They really are. Like, I don't know what it is about us. But if we want something, we're going to get it. It's, like, do or die. Literally. I remember one time I was dating this guy, and I'll never get this.

43:46And this is why my ex was like, you're just too much. I was hot in this situation. We were at the club. And this guy was like, ooh, your man is fine. I said, yeah, girl, I know he's mine. Well, can we not share? Bitch. I got into a big argument. He had to pull me back. And then my ex was like, you are too much. I'm like, you wouldn't be? Are you serious? Can we share? Can we share? We can't share? Ooh, bitch. Girl. Depends, girl. No, no, no, no. Oh, speaking of ghosting. Okay. My ex-best friend ghosted our whole group. Now she's inviting us to her birthday party. Like, everything's fine. Love her.

44:19I don't want drama, but I also don't want to go. Help. Oh, I kind of, like, live for her that little bit. She's like, girl, just come to the party. I need people to come to the party. Just come to the party, girl. Just come to the party, y 'all. I also am like, at least she's inviting you. Wouldn't you be more mad if she didn't invite you? Literally. Right, and maybe she'll tell you why she ghosted you. Maybe, like, okay, when I think about this, when people ghost you, they're probably going through something really, really bad that you don't know what other people are going through. Right. So it's like, hear them out.

44:44That's why, I mean, I've been through that. My friend's like, damn, bitch, you've ghosted us. I was like, girl, I was going through it. And I don't want to share my problems with you, too. Right. Are you easy to open up and share your problems? Or do you keep them to yourself? I hold my problems up, but when I get drunk, it's when I let them all out. Me, too. I'm like, bitch, remember two years ago when you did this to me? It was actually awful. Yeah. So I'm like, mm-mm. But I feel uncomfortable when people are like, it's going to be okay. Sympathy makes me so uncomfortable. Oh, okay. So I actually love when people pity me.

45:10Mm-mm. It makes me so uncomfortable. Why? I don't like it. They hug me like, no. Uh-huh. Yeah. Yeah. Are you and Denzel like similar people or does he like pity? Oh, my God. I'm too much. He's like someone who's like very hardcore. I love to compliment him, love on him. He's like, please don't touch me. Too many compliments. 100%. Have you and Denzel figured out your Halloween costume this year? Oh, my goodness. Well. You know my favorite Halloween costume from you and Denzel. What is it? Cheetah Girls. Period. We ate that. No, that was sickening. Was that the one with the Cinderella one? Yes.

45:45I don't want to be a Cinderella. We literally cut up fabric and made those costumes ourselves. It was spot on. It was spot on. We ate it up. But this year, I don't know. We may be traveling during Halloween this year. Doing what? I mean, I'm not going to. L.A. Halloween is so boring, girl. L.A. is boring. It's the same thing. It's every year. But we may be going to Ghana in October. What's your favorite place you've ever been? Hmm. I will say recently. Madrid. Have you been? No. Oh. What? Is that in Spain? Yeah. Okay. You should definitely go. And I've been to Barcelona. Oh, I hate Barcelona. Why?

46:22It's so boring. What? Madrid is like more of the party lifestyle. Ooh. Yeah. And the men there are so fine, girl. Wow. Really? Oh, my God, yes. So where do you go out, though, in Madrid? Well, my friend lives there. He's in, like, the hottest, cute, like, gay clubs. They're so fab. I want to go to Madrid. You should go to Madrid. I go doing Pride every year. I was just there last Did you have a good pride this year? I went I don't do pride in America Oh Yeah I'm thinking about it You really do travel I do I think I'm going to Ibiza In the beginning I was just there So fab Love Ibiza And I think I'm gonna go back Will you text me Like maybe recommendations for hotels Yes I got you I am like the travel queen Okay I love travel I didn't know this about you Well every summer I do like a European summer Do you really stay here During the summer time?

47:03Can you bring the pod on the road? I mean like I know I could I guess But I was in France They're so rude They're just If you can't speak their language They like Overly talk in French To try to embarrass you It's not my team And there's not really That many guys in France And also the liquor there Is awful Like there's no like So what's the appeal about Madrid? The men Okay That's it girl The Madrid men Yes I think I need to go Yes you do ASAP I think I need to go I made out Oh I want to know If this has ever happened to you I made out with my neighbor And now every time I park He comes outside Coincidentally shirtless Oh my god yes That's happened to you?

47:39It's like a different type of situation. I've had a moment where I've hooked up with somebody at the gym, and they will be in the bathroom at the same time as me every single time. I'm like, oh, girl, not again. Have you ever done the steam room? I'm too terrified to do that. Have you? No. I thought she would be a little bit more different. I thought she would be the quiet ones, but she gets down with the get down. No, no. I'm so timid. I'm scared. I'm like, actually, I feel like I've gotten uncomfortable when I've, like, gone to, like, gay parties, like, overseas. Oh, God, girl. There's a whole lot different scene over there.

48:13What? They're just, like? You know, just touching and stuff. I can see it. I'm like, oh, my God. But, oh, my God. They just have sex in public. Yes, they do. So, I'm like, mm. Wow. I know. It's actually amazing, but it's, like, I feel like I can do it because I don't want to be like, oh, my God, like, I know you. That's how I feel sometimes. That's how big it is. You know, it's like. But like if I, I would, I would partake. I would partake down in it. Are you kidding me? I would go in that sauna. I'm just so scared. Oh my God. Yeah, right? That's what I get scared about. I remember one time I went to a bathhouse in Barcelona because I went for pride.

48:44Uh-huh. The first person. Oh my God, you're Ricky, right? I'm like, bitch, you butt ass naked right now. Oh my God. And everybody's just like fucking everywhere. Really? Yeah. See that, I want to partake. I want to so bad. I'm the girl in the corner with her towel. Just like, aw. Like so bad, but I know I can't do it. I can't. All right, last one. I slept with a guy and he had a name tattooed on his chest. I said, aw, that's cute. Is that your sister? And it was his ex.

49:16I don't really see the problem. You don't? I do. Well, like he must have been so in love. Well, that means you don't love me. Because I'm so sorry. I feel like if you have your ex sad on you, that means you think about you're gonna get back together with them. That's happened to me before. I will never forget that. There was this guy I was talking to so hot. So hot girl. I still think about him to this day. Like oh my gosh. I remember he had like an A on his wrist. I was like what does it mean? Oh no it's my friend. And I met his ex. I said what's your name? Yeah. I was like oh wow. And then that was it.

49:45That was it. I was like oh you still love him. They got back together too. No. What's the hardest you've ever crashed out over a guy? Oh my gosh. I crashed out. There's actually a picture of me crashing out of the club one time. Someone got out like this to somebody. Could you try my man? Yeah. When I'm with my man, don't try him. Don't look at him. Don't say he's fine. Don't touch him. Don't buy him a drink. Don't do nothing. And I don't want you talking to him either. I don't want my man talking to you either. I love my man. Quiet. On mute. Thank you. Thank you. I speak for you. I need to see this photo.

50:18I need to find it. I'm going to find it. Will you send it to me? I got you. It's crazy. Well, Ricky, what did we learn today? That man ain't shit. Yeah. And it's okay to crash out, you know. Maybe I need to watch Real Housewives of Orange County. You do need to. I'm trying to tell you it's actually tea. This season's good. It's good. It's good. Okay, well, Ricky, thanks for coming on the show. I love this. Did you have fun? I had the best time ever. I had so much fun with you. This is my girl. I love it. Let's, like, actually hang out. Let's do it. Let's get you out the house. Yeah, bring me outside of the house.

50:46I got you, babe. Okay, well, do you want to give a little bye, pussies? Bye, pussies. We're all.

51:17We'll be right back. next day on Hulu. Side effects may include laughing, cheering, and lots of high fives.