In short
How to protect people (and yourself) in uncertain times, focusing on job uncertainty, layoffs, trust breakdown, and what people managers can do when orgs flatten and managers are overloaded.
Guests
Leanne Elliott (chartered occupational psychologist; co-host of Truth, Lies & Work) and Al Elliott (business owner; co-host). They’re interviewed by John White and Nick Courting of Nerd Journey (former IT operations guys now in tech pre-sales).
Key claims
UK businesses are shifting from growth to “lifestyle” and efficiency/automation; employment-law uncertainty increases hiring caution and may push more contractors. Layoffs and poor manager training drive flattening, higher manager-to-IC ratios (15–20), and workplace incivility. Blanket laws and spreadsheet-based CFO thinking can wrongly treat managers as “trim the fat.” Managers should prevent “workplace trauma” by building task cohesion first, then team cohesion.
Notable examples
“Phone call manager” reassurance after layoffs; weekly Tuesday check-ins; incivility/gossip as a trust crisis; probation/training changes affecting risk.
Written by AI. May contain mistakes. Listen to the episode to check what was said.
Chapters
Tap a time to open that second in VOSetting the Scene for Relaxed Conversations
0:45 to 2:45
Hosts discuss their recent break and share plans for upcoming episodes.
“Our friends in the UK, particularly in Manchester, yeah, I'm sorry about that.”
Setting the Scene for Relaxed Conversations
2:47 to 3:00
Hosts discuss their recent break and share plans for upcoming episodes.
“the agentic customer platform for growing businesses.”
Introduction to Nerd Journey Podcast
3:00 to 5:30
Introduction to the Nerd Journey podcast and its hosts, John and Nick.
“Our goal is to help you, the technology professional, accelerate your career progression, increase your job satisfaction, and be more effective in your existing role.”
Discussion on Job Uncertainty
5:30 to 6:40
Al and Leanne discuss the impact of job and economic uncertainty.
“It's so weird being together, but yeah, we both individually loved our experience on their journey.”
UK Business Landscape
6:40 to 7:55
Insights into how UK businesses are responding to current uncertainties.
“parts of the room to get the entire picture, so to speak.”
The Impact of Employment Laws
7:55 to 9:00
Discussion on new employment laws and their effects on businesses.
“And I mean, I don't know whether there's similar stats in the US, but in the UK, I think it's something like 96 % of the people are employed by small businesses.”
Entrepreneurial Spirit Amidst Challenges
9:00 to 10:10
Exploration of how entrepreneurs navigate fear and uncertainty.
“extremely mindful about their employees' lifestyle too?”
Lifestyle Businesses and Side Hustles
10:10 to 12:20
How entrepreneurs are shifting towards lifestyle businesses and side projects.
“these new rules or they'll change how they're employing people in certain ways, maybe engaging more contractors than full-time employees.”
Comparing Employment Laws: UK vs US
12:20 to 14:00
Discussion on how employment laws affect business transitions in the UK and US.
“another person because, oh my goodness, I've got to think about all these other things that the Labour government brought in.”
Navigating Employment Law and Business Growth
14:00 to 19:20
Learn about the complexities of employment law and its impact on small businesses and growth strategies.
“So I think we're seeing people diversify a little bit what they're doing with their business, but much more on an individual level than an organizational one.”
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Navigating Employment Law and Business Growth
19:21 to 19:37
Learn about the complexities of employment law and its impact on small businesses and growth strategies.
“We both use behavioural science to help people do better at work.”
Navigating Employment Law and Business Growth
19:40 to 20:30
Learn about the complexities of employment law and its impact on small businesses and growth strategies.
“Tell us about your latest episode, Phil.”
The Impact of Managerial Changes in Organizations
20:31 to 28:00
Explore the reasons behind flattening management structures and the consequences for employees.
“Definitely come back, because Nudge isn't as good as this, so come back.”
Building Task and Team Cohesion
28:00 to 29:05
Learn how to foster both task cohesion and team cohesion through effective communication.
Effective Check-Ins for Managers
29:05 to 30:20
Understand the importance of informal check-ins and prioritizing team needs.
“And that can be a really effective way of kind of troubleshooting and putting out those little fires in a much more time-effective way than if you need to sit and do these more formal one-to-ones and reviews.”
Managing Team Dynamics and Challenges
30:20 to 31:40
Explore how to identify and address team challenges efficiently.
“It's just a five minute quick email or a Slack or something of just going, how are you getting on with that thing?”
Navigating Difficult Conversations
31:40 to 32:50
Learn how to approach difficult conversations with team members effectively.
“And then the first one earlier point was the myth of the peanut butter spreading of your time, right, across everybody.”
The Importance of Manager-Employee Relationships
32:50 to 35:00
Discover how strong manager-employee relationships can ease anxiety and foster trust.
“It's not that you want to think the worst thing, but it's something unexpected.”
Addressing Trauma in the Workplace
35:00 to 36:25
Examine how past experiences can affect employee interactions and how managers can mitigate this.
“I think two sides to the coin based on everything we talked about.”
Establishing Effective Communication Rhythms
36:25 to 37:55
Learn strategies for establishing regular check-ins to enhance communication.
“I think this might be one of those cultural shifts because 30 years ago, telephone is exactly how people communicated.”
Intentional Conversations for Managers
37:55 to 40:05
Understand the need for intentional and meaningful conversations between managers and employees.
Coaching Skills for Managers
40:05 to 43:35
Explore the coaching skills that can enhance a manager’s ability to connect with their team.
“that people will actually feel that they're able to authentically open up so it can't just be yeah I'm going to call you every Tuesday for 10 seconds and make sure you're still alive.”
Resources for Managing Uncertainty
43:35 to 45:03
Discover valuable resources for managers facing uncertainty and layoffs.
“I'm afraid we'll have to cut it right there this time.”
Transcript
Automatic transcript. May contain errors.0:02Hello and welcome to Truth, Lies and Work, the award-winning podcast where behavioural science meets workplace culture. We are brought to you by the HubSpot Podcast Network, the audio destination for business professionals. My name is Leanne and believe it or not, I am still a chartered occupational psychologist.
0:18Al Elliott:Until they strike you off. My name is Al. I'm a business owner. Until I go bankrupt. Again. Again. If you've listened, you already know. But anyway, we're here to help you simplify the science of work. Kind of. This August, we've been practising what we preach and actually taking some time off to charge. Yeah, but we're not leaving you hanging, obviously. Every Tuesday, we're still sharing something a little bit more relaxed, usually recorded on the terrace with a glass of wine. Not today, though, because it's raining today. It's raining. How rude. I know. To be fair, first rainy day. Since June.
0:50Al Elliott:Since June. So, yeah. Our friends in the UK, particularly in Manchester, yeah, I'm sorry about that. Yeah, but we're still bringing you something a little lighthearted, albeit on this rainy, what do they call it? rainy day play day yeah well he's to call it school he's called it school wet play but that's that's something we don't it's not a word not a term we really want to be using in these times say it out loud yeah moving on problematic but if you do want something a bit more serious not too serious not too serious but check out thursdays and this thursday you'll actually hear from a guest who's all about bringing joy back into the workplace this week that's joel zeff he's an improv comedian and author who's also worked with Microsoft, McDonald's, American Express and Wells Fargo.
1:33Al Elliott:Very fancy and also just a really genuinely nice guy. Very, very happy. But today it is Tuesday. So we've got part one of our chat with the brilliant guys at Nerd Journey. That's John White and Nick Courting. Now their podcast helps tech professionals grow their careers and they've got nearly 350 episodes of insights in everything from management, careers and over-acoupling obstacles to just how to be professional nerd. Yeah, it's an awesome podcast that we've had the real privilege of being on in the past and more recently. And that's the episode we're going to be sharing with you today. So after this very short break, you'll hear part one of our conversation with Nick and John on the Nerd Journey podcast.
2:11Don't go anywhere.
2:12Al Elliott:The dirty little secret is that most businesses think they know their customers. They have the data, the records, the history, but it's scattered across three teams and four systems. and in our case, it's about 216 ,000 spreadsheets, which means nobody can actually use it. What you should be doing is using HubSpot because why? HubSpot connects it all. Every interaction, every support ticket, every conversation into one platform every team can work from. So when sales talks to a customer, marketing already narrows the full story and when you know more, you grow more. Nice. Check out HubSpot.com, the agentic customer platform for growing businesses.
3:00Welcome to the Nerd Journey podcast. Our goal is to help you, the technology professional, accelerate your career progression, increase your job satisfaction, and be more effective in your existing role. We want to bring listeners like you the career advice we wish we'd been given earlier in our careers. I'm John White, at VJourneyman on Twitter, sharing co-host duties with Nick Cordy at Network Nerd underscore. We're two former IT operations guys who have moved on to pre-sales roles with technology vendors. We have our opinions, but we also like to highlight the journeys of others and see what we can learn from them.
3:37We'd also like to ask for your feedback to make this a conversation, not a one-way broadcast. Email us at nerdjourneypodcast at gmail.com or DM us at nerdjourney on Twitter. So come join us on our nerd journey. Let's take a trip. Episode 340. What happens when you're expected to lead a large team as a people manager? How exactly are you going to succeed in doing that? According to business psychologist Leanne Elliott, one way to produce team cohesion might just be to focus on task cohesion. Leanne and her husband Al, a business owner, are the co-hosts of the Truth, Lies, and Work podcast. Both Leanne and Al have been former guests on our show, but we've never had them on together until today.
4:28Here's what you can expect to learn from part one of our discussion this week with Leanne and Al. We'll talk about the uncertainties in the world and how those have impacted business owners, entrepreneurs, and especially people managers. You'll hear about the industry trend of layoffs, how and why this might be leading to flatter organizations and larger teams for people managers to lead. But despite all these challenges, despite the environmental situation, we talk through some practical ways that people managers can still succeed, address the problems, deliver the results, and manage to support positive change and positive relationships with the members of their team.
5:11Let's get you to part one of our discussion with Al and Leanne Elliott.
5:29Al and Leanne Elliott, welcome back to the Nerd Journey. Thank you so much for having us. It's such a joy to be back.
5:36Al Elliott:It really is. It's so weird being together, but yeah, we both individually loved our experience on their journey. That's right. We had you on individually because I think scheduling-wise, it just didn't quite work out to have you together. I do want to say that each of those interviews went amazingly well, and I think that we got just tons and tons of positive feedback on each one of them. We're really happy to have you back jointly this time. Well, thank you so much for inviting us. We love our conversation with you. Yeah, they're awesome. We wanted a discussion, I guess, centered in job uncertainty and maybe economic uncertain times.
6:15It's just a theme that we're revisiting in this cyclical world, right? A few years back, it was all about boom times and, you know, should you leave your job after one year for a better job and, you know, advising people on that. And right now it's advising people in times of uncertainty. So we definitely wanted to have you on because, you know, we knew that you have, you know, fairly unique takes on that. And we also want to shine the light on the elephant from different parts of the room to get the entire picture, so to speak. We're fairly US-centric, so we don't necessarily see a worldwide view of economic uncertainty and job uncertainties.
6:56Can you give us a little bit of a different perspective, do you think? In the UK, especially there, uncertainty is the perfect word for it, John. There is a lot of uncertainty and with that a lot of businesses are some are making layoffs but I think generally speaking in comparison to the US there's more of a pause and that pause means a lack of growth a lack of investment sales are slowing down revenue slowing down people are fearful because they can see that in the business and a phrase that I've been hearing a lot recently from UK business owners and I don't know if this is maybe a lag from the pandemic or with the general uncertainty we're seeing in the world in terms of geopolitics and climate change and everything else.
7:38Now, business owners in the UK aren't pursuing growth, they're pursuing a lifestyle business. So a business that is big enough to provide the lifestyle that they want and provide the purpose of meaning in their work that they want. But rapid hyper growth is no longer the number one priority. Yeah.
7:55Al Elliott:And I mean, I don't know whether there's similar stats in the US, but in the UK, I think it's something like 96 % of the people are employed by small businesses. And when they say small businesses, 250 people or below. So they're responsible. Small businesses are responsible for the majority of people, the vast majority of people getting employed. And my personal political views aside, I think almost universally it's accepted to this government in the UK, the Labour government, which I think is your government, your Democrats. They're not really doing the things that they need to do to stabilize business and stabilize sort of commerce in the UK.
8:34Al Elliott:And it's meaning that a lot of people like Leanne said, there are big businesses who are frightened as in like, I might lose my job and a new CEO come in. But the smaller businesses would say 50, 60 employees are frightened going, if I don't get this right, I'm going to lose everything and everyone's going to lose their jobs. So I think you're right. Uncertainty is, unfortunately, that. He looks like he's going to be here to stay for a little bit. Does the focus on lifestyle that you spoke to, Leanne, from the top of those small businesses, do you think they're also being extremely mindful about their employees' lifestyle too?
9:10Or is it more centric toward the top? From the business owners I've spoke to and heard of through colleagues, they are mindful of their employees. Mindful in that let's not pursue growth necessarily during a time of uncertainty and take that risk that as I'll said could derail the entire business rather let's just sit with what we've got focus on quality focus on efficiencies and automations rather than necessarily pursuing growth at this time. I think the other main issue for UK businesses as I said with the Labour government coming in we've seen a lot of new employment laws coming in that on paper sound great but in execution actually bring a lot of risk for businesses so for example rights to flexible working on day one the national living wage basically more rights for employees which is great but what that means is when an organization doesn't feel equipped to embed those new laws very effectively aren't sure how and aren't given the guidance from the government in terms of how to do that they hesitate so they won't make any new hires under these new rules or they'll change how they're employing people in certain ways, maybe engaging more contractors than full-time employees.
10:21So I think, yes, they're mindful. I'm not sure they're putting them maybe front and center of every business decision they're making. I honestly think that is being driven at the moment by a lot of uncertainty, a lot of ambiguity, and if I'm being honest, a bit of fear. And does that fear crush the entrepreneurial spirit, Al, for those people who are really love being entrepreneurs and starting up new businesses, for example, or maybe they already have a business and they're the top person at that small business and they founded it. Kind of back to your story in episodes 235 and 36. I'd love to get your take on that.
11:00Al Elliott:I think true entrepreneurs, they live for challenges. And when things are going well, that's when they normally mess it up. So they'll get year five, year six, year seven, they've had plateaued in revenue, but still doing very well. And they will just crash the business if they're left to their own devices. So I think entrepreneurs react well to challenges in the first of three to four years of their business. So this is just another challenge where I think the problem might lie is back in the UK, there was something called IR 35, which was in and revenue 35 was a statute which allowed you to employ contractors to do basically your job, or do jobs, rather than employing them permanently.
11:43Al Elliott:Because when you employ them permanently, you had to make sure you give pension stuff, you had to pay sort of a national insurance. I know these are UK-centric terms, but I'm sure it's very, very similar across in the US. And so a lot of people would just go into this IR35. So they go, I'll have a contractor because it's so much simpler, I can just end their contract. And then I think a lot of people over the last 10 years have moved into like, oh, no, no, it's safe. we were going to have, we will have proper employees who are properly employed because, you know, it's a bit more flexible and it's a proper way of doing it.
12:11Al Elliott:And I fear we're going to go back to that way because as Leanne says, and Leanne can talk much, much more to the, to the actual legislation than I can, but it just feels an entrepreneur, like it's a risk to employ another person because, oh my goodness, I've got to think about all these other things that the Labour government brought in. And also, are the Labour government going to say that I can't, I can't fire anyone? Are they going to say that if I fire someone, I have to give them six months, like in Lithuania, in a lot of Europe, if you fire someone, Spain, if you fire someone, you have to give them six months salary.
12:40Al Elliott:That's just a huge risk in terms of employing people. And that could genuinely bring a young business down. So I think I would like to think that entrepreneurs are sort of glass half full. They're like, okay, this is another challenge. We'll work our way around it but I can see having a big impact on the decision of whether how quickly to scale with with employing people what are your thoughts yeah I agree and I think it's it's remembering that I mean globally and in the UK as well it has been relentless for business owners since 2016 you know we had the referendum then we had the pandemic we've gone through five prime ministers in as many years we've just had a recent complete government change it has been so much disruption and so much change that I honestly think entrepreneurs, business leaders are exhausted.
13:32They're burning out. And with that, like you say, an entrepreneur wants to keep fighting, they want to keep going, but it's how they invest that energy. Another thing that we've seen from business owners in the UK is choosing this lifestyle business. And with the extra time, they're freeing up through this improved quality of process and automation. It's actually spending more time on on side hustles on passion projects so actually looking at what they've enjoyed most about building their business and setting up another stream of their business that focuses purely on that whether that be talent management acquisition training and development but yes certain aspects that they gain energy from so during this period where the business may be fairly stable they're finding other ways to fill that entrepreneurial need and that that meaningful work that they're currently lacking in a business that isn't in a growth stage, which is hard for an entrepreneur.
14:23So I think we're seeing people diversify a little bit what they're doing with their business, but much more on an individual level than an organizational one. Is it similar in the UK to the US where a lot of these laws apply basically at the verge where you're transitioning from small to medium-sized business, or maybe from very small business to small business. So we have some things where it's like, oh yeah, here's this amount of protection that you get, but that's for businesses above 25 people. Or does it kind of apply across the board? I'm not an expert in employment law, but my understanding is it doesn't matter how small or large your organization is.
15:04Your first employee, these employment laws apply. And that's why for small businesses, it's such a drastic shift and such higher risk. that as i'll said businesses are just choosing not not to really focus on growth and until they figured out exactly how this all all applies and how it's going to work out i think that maybe there's this danger of basically growing your organization to a certain size and then there's like a chilling effect potentially at least in the u.s to to grow beyond a certain size which kind of feeds into this idea of like well maybe i'll start a new business with this these things that i've learned and I'll just have maybe five very small businesses each kind of having this like diversified source of income rather than take on the additional risk of growing beyond a certain size.
15:54I can understand, you know, different laws in different locales. And, you know, I'm sure in the States it's like, you know, this state has this law and this state has this other law. So I'm sure it's very, very, you know, you get these like microclimates, right, of innovation and business friendliness versus employee protection. Maybe this leads to venue shopping, right? Like I'm going to start a business in this area, but not this area. I'll hire people from here and have them travel in or something like that.
16:21Al Elliott:This is not going to fly with my wife and co-host, but there's something around the countries which allow businesses to employ and fire fairly easily in a short period of time because you can then just sort of like build something without worrying that you've got to pay someone six months worth of salary if you do fire them. Whereas there are some places where, I don't know what it's like in the US, but where you can just go, right, let's try them out. Let's try them out for six weeks. And if they're no good, fine, on your bike. And that does allow an entrepreneur to go, okay, I feel a bit freer and a bit safer about recruiting people.
16:56Al Elliott:But as I say, that's not going to fly with the culture experts because that's probably not the way you do it. I think it's a balance. And I think my understanding thing is in terms of UK law there is a window whether it be three months or six months or you could have probation periods where the full kind of rights of employees weren't fully applied until you passed that said probation period that is what has now been scrapped so you have the same rights as an employee's been there six years on the first day that you've been in work so the fact is that I could turn up to work and go off on my first day go off six for six months and and still get you know the pay that the company promises to pay and the statutory sick pay and things like that there's a trust issue.
17:31I actually had somebody on the show, a wonderful up-and-coming psychologist, and she was pointing out that there's a trust crisis at the minute because we've had so much push and pull and power swings over the last few years. Sometimes the employees have the power and they can move on, as you were saying, after a year in the job for a higher salary. And then we saw all the layoffs and then there's a fear from employees so people stay longer. And I think with the changes in laws geopolitics there's so much conflict in every sense of the word society and in our workplaces people are just lacking trust trust in their businesses lacking trust in their leaders lacking trust in their colleagues we're seeing massive increases in what we call workplace incivility at the minute which isn't bullying or harassment it's a level down from that but equally problematic where it's um infighting it's gossiping it's withholding information from a colleague that's on the rise because there's this issue with trust so I think having these laws come in are great on paper but as always with seems to be the UK government what's great on paper and it comes from the right place the execution is never thought through it's never thought through well how does actually this same law apply as you were saying John to a business that has 10 employees are expected to meet and work to the same expectations and laws and legalities as a business with 10 ,000 employees.
18:51The impact of going through a tribunal is very different for an organisation of 10 ,000 with the internal resources to manage that than a small business with only 10 people. So these blanket laws aren't necessarily helping businesses. I don't think they're always helping employees in the way that they're intended to. Yeah, the idea's in the right place, the execution, they haven't quite got right. Did you know that the UK's number one management podcast, that's us by the way, and the UK's number one marketing podcast are both on the same podcast network.
19:20Al Elliott:We actually have a lot in common. We both use behavioural science to help people do better at work. And we both had to wrangle Rory Sutherland on an episode. And two out of three of us are devilishly good looking. And you're not going to say wit. Fell, host of Nudge, UK's number one marketing podcast. It's brought to you, we need to do this in threes. The HubSpot Podcast Network. The audio destination. Or business professional. Seamless. Seamless. Tell us about your latest episode, Phil. We've just done an episode on fake fandom and how New York indie bands are paying agencies to create fake TikTok videos about how much they like their work.
19:57Al Elliott:And we talk about the behavioural science behind fandom and how that encourages people to enjoy the music and all of that good stuff. And do some big things about how this affects the world of politics, business and brands as well. It is. It's such a good show. Of course, you'll hear all the stuff you want to hear about how to grow your business by using behavioural science in your marketing. But there's also just some really interesting episodes that will be right up your street. Personally, I enjoyed Can Balsamic Vinegar Make Beer Taste Better? It can. And are we all just status-seeking monkeys?
20:25Al Elliott:I am. Go and listen to Nudge wherever you get your podcasts. But come back. Yeah, come back. Definitely come back, because Nudge isn't as good as this, so come back. I'll cut that out. Keep that in.
20:40Workplace incivility at scale and the trust crisis at scale, to me, translates to, oh, I'm seeing all these layoffs from large companies and flattening of management layers and things like that. I think this naturally leads us into that topic. Why do you think so many of these organizations, at least the ones we hear about in articles and on LinkedIn and from people we know, are choosing to flatten out some of the management layers and increase those manager to individual contributor ratios? Because that's part of the byproduct of some of these layoffs, seems like. I think there's a few reasons.
21:20All of these things are cyclical. I think it's going back in Inver again to have less hierarchy there's a belief that that kind of more I guess more startup structure is better for innovation and collaboration which is lacking in our workplaces right now I'm not I don't think it's because of the structure of the organization but it's lacking another big one is that it's been very publicized over the last 18 months or so that the issue we have with not training our managers sufficiently there's been like 82 percent of managers was accidental and they didn't necessarily envisage managing people as part of their role but that was just the next step up so they took it.
21:56I read a stat yesterday I think it's like only 44 % of managers have ever had any form of training so more than half of our managers aren't equipped with the skills they need to lead our people and they're the people the managers have the single biggest impact on employee performance, motivation, engagement, outcomes, productivity. So for an organization who is hearing these things and looking at their business of where to make cuts there's an element of well if our managers are inefficient we could train them or we could just let them go because they have the highest salaries too so actually from a bottom line perspective that makes sense i can't imagine that it's a thought through seriously considered approach because for me if you have great managers they're the people that drive the success of your business i think when we talked last time we called you know managers or culture keepers a lovely phrase that you came up with nick and they really are i think it's naive to think that removing a manager is going to solve all these problems it's not because people still want and need people to to look to in an organization when there's a there's a distance and a sense of removal from senior leadership but i i think there may be the reasons why they're the higher paid there's a it seems that it's in vogue right now to flatten out our organizations to be more agile which seems to be back in in fashion as well an element that it's been very publicized managers have the single biggest impact if we're not willing to invest in great managers let's just
23:20Al Elliott:remove them but you've got to remember though that if you're looking at a like a p &l or you know a financial statement then if you were to attribute the revenue then it's very difficult to attribute revenue directly to a manager but it's easy to attribute it to an ic or someone on the production line or whatever or sales or something like that. So the temptation for a brutal CFO to sit there and go, well, let's just cut the meat, trim the fat, I think is the term, isn't it? Because it's difficult when you're looking at a spreadsheet to see the impact of what a manager does. And particularly if you are, if that's what you live in, if you live in spreadsheets and you're making the decisions based on numbers, it's a no-brainer.
24:00Al Elliott:Get rid of these people. I think exactly what Leanne's saying, what they don't understand is that the IC produces$10 ,000,$100 ,000 a week in terms of revenue because they've got an amazing manager. The CFO doesn't always see that. And I'm not necessarily picking on CFOs here, but anyone who's making decisions on spreadsheets, it's natural to come to that conclusion, I think. And oh, by the way, if you're one of those managers who hasn't been trained and you stay, you get more people too, on top of perhaps the inexperience and lack of training. We're going to ask you to maybe double the number of employees that you're managing.
24:40Yeah, I've been hearing ratios of managers managing 15, even teams of 20 people. And I tried to do 30-minute one-on-ones with every single employee on my team. And then if you count the additional upstream meetings that you have and lateral meetings that you have with 20 people, there's just no way that you have that level of attention, right? No, because I'm sure also that these managers aren't given more time to manage with a bigger team. They still have to do everything else they need to do in terms of their administration or their job in general. They just now have more people to manage. So we're not freeing up more time.
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25:16What's problematic about that, and it comes down to a fundamental misunderstanding of relationships within the workplace and teams in the workplace. Is it Daniel Priestley that said like the magic number is 12?
25:27Al Elliott:Yes, he's 13th higher. 13th hire is a small business if you're a small business your 13th hire is when you're going to start to see people problems potentially because at that point as a group of size people start to break off into smaller teams or leaks will start to form it becomes a number that is just too difficult to manage as you said john in a very cohesive time efficient way so for an organization who's now expecting middle managers senior managers to manage teams that are 15 to 20 is hugely problematic, particularly if they're not trained. We're setting up our managers yet again for failure.
26:03Seems like it's a much larger, more impactful failure if you didn't do well, or you were shown the door after being put in that situation, but you still wanted to be a manager someday. It seems like it'd be much more difficult to get back to that somewhere. yeah we're very good at internalizing our failures and not very good at internalizing our achievements and our successes that's why you know we get we hear up to 80 percent of people will report feelings of imposter syndrome that's what imposter syndrome stems from an inability to internalize our achievements so for a manager particularly a manager who wants to be a great manager you know the intention is there to have gone through that that experience and that potential failure is going to be, it's what we call workplace trauma that we've talked about as well before, trauma with a lowercase t.
26:52And that is devastating to somebody's career, their self-efficacy, their belief that they can do their job well. It's detrimental. It's psychological harm we are causing potentially to these managers by not giving them the tools and the resource and the support that they need. It's highly irresponsible from organizations to take this approach. Even in that type of environment where it's challenging, is there a way that the managers who are in those seats, who really care about doing a good job, who are willing to dig in and do it, can be effective? Absolutely. I think my first advice would be we want to focus on the relationships, right?
27:30Because that's where all the good stuff comes from. We've got great relationships with our people. when you're dealing with a team of this size 15 to 20 people that's really hard to manage effectively particularly if you're a new manager or an experienced manager my advice to any manager in that situation is to focus on task cohesion which is much more transactional and much easier to get right so what's the workflow who's doing what who does what in what order how does that contribute to the overall outcomes we're trying to deliver and how does Al's role feed into my role and what do I do to make Al's job easier if we can build in the systems and the processes that mean that task cohesion is really strong then that means that over time we're going to build team cohesion as a byproduct of that because you'll know anecdotally if you work with a colleague that you don't know particularly well but oh my gosh they make your job so much easier you love them you want to have a conversation with them over coffee you want to get to know a bit more you want to learn more about what they do and who they are and where they're from because it it breeds what the opposite of incivility is not surprising is workplace civility it's that respect it's that mutual appreciation that can be much more easily achieved by striving for task cohesion and then once you've got that right then you can start to nurture the the team cohesion that people need and i guess from a relationship perspective in terms of of helping your team operate in an environment that feels functional it's really understanding everything we talked about before when we've had the previous conversation in terms of this team chart what does great look like to us what behaviors are acceptable which aren't but more so than that it's taking the time to check in it doesn't need to be a formal 30 minute one-to-one it could be a five-minute phone call on a tuesday afternoon saying how you doing anything making your job harder today what can i do to make your job easier as a manager what's really bugging you because if you just have those little check-ins which seem much less time intensive you'll start to see the themes coming across and the issues that are bugging people across the team.
29:27And that can be a really effective way of kind of troubleshooting and putting out those little fires in a much more time-effective way than if you need to sit and do these more formal one-to-ones and reviews. Of course, that might be an obligation you have within the organisation. But if you don't, I'd focus more on just that genuine checking in, genuine care of actually what can I do to make your job easier to do.
29:48Al Elliott:And there's the Pareto, isn't there, of the 80-20, where 80 % of your problems are to come from 20 % of your team. and then you go one step further into the 80-20 of the 80-20 and then like I think it's like 64 % of your problems come from 4 % of your team or something like that. Please correct me if this is if you disagree with this but I think a lot of managers go I've got 20 people I need to go and spend an hour with every single of those 20 people this week and that's 20 hours and then I've got another 10 hours of meetings what am I going to get my work done? When actual fact if you were to sort of prioritize and go, well, actually, really the problem, the fires are here.
30:23Al Elliott:So that's why you spend an hour. I don't like the answer. It's just a five minute quick email or a Slack or something of just going, how are you getting on with that thing? Or, you know, I heard that X happened. Are you okay? That sort of stuff. I don't know. It feels like that's a bit more manageable to me for managing 20 people than just going, I'm going to have to do an hour for each one of them a week. What are your thoughts? Absolutely. The only thing I'd say is make it phone call and I know that can be can be a bit difficult especially for us millennials and and gen zed we're much more used to messaging and slacks and that type of thing but it provides another task that I'm I now have to add to my list my manager sent me a message I'm gonna have to reply and I'm fine actually but it's that distraction that I'm gonna have to have to go back to or actually there's a massive problem I don't know how to approach and I'm gonna overthink about it for the next three hours and and that's gonna distract me from what I'm doing pick up the phone I know it might not always feel the most comfortable thing to do but honestly once you get into the habit of it and once your employees get into the habit of that that more vocal check-ins it's much more time efficient and and less emotional load potentially you touched upon a couple things there one is the the thing that you just mentioned which is you know make those connections actually count and just because you're going through the motions of a connection task doesn't mean that you're you're making quality connections so strive for the quality connections over checking off the tasks.
31:42And then the first one earlier point was the myth of the peanut butter spreading of your time, right, across everybody. Like, oh, I'm going to give everybody an equal amount of time because that's fair. But it's probably not fair in the application, right? Like there's people who need way more time and people who need way less time. So to give everybody equal time doesn't serve everybody yeah and a really good clue as well is if you have a member of your team that you really don't want to have that conversation with because they they feel a bit they're a bit more challenging they feel a bit more challenging that is an absolute sign that there's a difficult conversation need to be had that you should have had already so i think if you're looking at who who needs time and intention today think about the people that really don't want to want to pick up the phone too because there's probably something there that But yeah, there needs to be a conversation.
32:35I think that if you have worked somewhere that has had a trend of layoffs, as we see, and you kind of get this unannounced call from your boss, you get that principal's office feeling, you know, and it's just an instant. It just happens. It's not that you want to think the worst thing, but it's something unexpected. affected, you might have some trauma that's still there, a little PTSD or whatever we want to call it. But when the manager says, hey, this is a good news call, or I just need to check in on this one thing and they get right to it. I think that helps.
33:11Al Elliott:If you get PTSD or anxiety when a manager books a call in with you, then your manager's not talking to you enough, are they? Because if that's what's triggering, then you're like, I haven't spoken to this person for six months. Last time, it was a bit of a warning. That's not a great manager, is it? Because a great manager is someone who does call you every week and says, how's it going? I heard that this happened. Did it work out all right? Yeah, 100%. You know what? I'm reflecting now. I was made redundant back in 2015, still one of the hardest things to go through. And I had a great relationship with my manager.
33:43We'd speak probably, if not every day, every other day, whether it just be for, honestly, sometimes just for a quick chat, sometimes for a check-in, sometimes you need a quick answer. I answered the phone. I was like, hi, John, everything all right? I went, not really. we need to have a conversation I was like oh and that for me was the complete opposite I was used to having those really positive conversations with my managers so that yeah I don't know just reflecting on on my own experience I think I was absolutely right that you want that relationship where that's the last thing on your mind that could be what's about to happen of course in the current climate it is on everybody's mind but I think that reassurance that it's yeah the relationship is is the the primary reason always that phone call I saw on LinkedIn I'm not sure it was this week or last week a really lovely post from a manager who worked in a tech organization had stayed in the organization had seen layoffs and very honestly said how devastating it was how sad it was this was the support he's going to provide for the people who were leaving the organization that he was reaching out to various contacts and putting together various lists of roles available to the people that stayed we do have this survivor's guilt this is what I'm feeling is what my survivor's guilt currently looks like um let's look after each other during this time and for me that was such a wonderful way to kind of go kind of a ground everyone and go this is really hard this is what i'm feeling this is what i'm going to try and do to help what else do we need what else can we do and i think it's managers like that that you're never going to be afraid to get a phone call from because even if it is the worst they've done everything they can to protect
35:13Al Elliott:you in in the lead up to that moment and also just a real quick one with that and i know that's something you want to go into but with that phone call you didn't go yeah good good you know do you have some time on friday i want you know we'll just want to do a little bit of a chat i might bring hr it was a no there's bad news this is the bad news and because the relationship was there i'm guessing then the bad news was devastating but at the same time you're like well i know you i mean i don't know why wasn't there yeah exactly it was devastating but it was he will now help me figure out how I move on from this in the immediate future where I have to lay off my entire team before I'm also laid off myself and what work potentially looks like in the near future.
35:55I think two sides to the coin based on everything we talked about. Absolutely, yes, you want to have a great relationship with your manager so that you don't immediately think those things. But I think that each person has their own level of trauma and PTSD that they're suffering from based on the environment, regardless of whether you have a great manager or not, that they probably have to fight. Those are the two kind of sides of the scale, I think. Obviously, if you have both, then you're really going to have the anxiety about it. I think this might be one of those cultural shifts because 30 years ago, telephone is exactly how people communicated.
36:35So getting a phone call was not like really a traumatic thing. Whereas today, you know, even if my family members phone me instead of text me, I get the spike in adrenaline and cortisol like, oh no, what's happened? So maybe for a manager who's trying to establish that rhythm, maybe there could be some kind of intermediate step where they text or message ahead of time, you know, if it's just a few minutes saying, hey, I noticed you had this spot in your schedule open. Do you have time for an informal chat? I'm just trying to meet up and check in on how things are going. So it's just that preparation and then paving the way.
37:20And then once that's the established rhythm of, oh yes, this manager checks in with me for five minutes by phone, then doing it out of the blue becomes less of a trauma you know potential like triggering event definitely definitely and i think absolute clarity is key so even saying just one i'm wondering if you've got half an hour for quick informal still is a bit of ambiguity there i think if it's as simple as going everything's good nothing's wrong just going to give you a call at this time to check in or what i did hear another manager do during the early stages of covid which i thought was really really positive and proactive would basically say I'm gonna I'm gonna call you at two o 'clock every Tuesday just check in no agenda nothing you know on the cards just to just to see how you're doing and to check in another really nice organic way of doing it is when you have team meetings anyway or resume is allow the first five ten minutes just be like hey how's it going how's how's your sister how did they get on with this or how's that project going in oh that client's been in right pain haven't they and just having an actual conversation allowing that time that five to ten minutes at the beginning of a meeting it just establishes that this is part of our team culture this is part of our way of work and our way of operating having these more informal conversations so then as you say john during that transition period um it feels more comfortable a lot less scary and we'll just yeah very quickly
38:43Al Elliott:become more natural and then why why shouldn't you be the manager who just does things differently why shouldn't you just be the person who goes well you go and work on on derek's team over there you know he's going to call you just so you know guys he's going to call you just out of the blue don't worry it's just him checking in on you why shouldn't you be that manager because let's be honest you're going to be there's going to be stories about you in the organization you're going to be known as the phone call manager as the boomer manager perhaps as your nickname because you pick up the phone and you talk to someone you know i think you're right as long as you're aware that you are potentially triggering someone if they have been through that i'm sorry bad news phone call but at the same time it like leanne said it only takes two or three phone calls and it all to be good news and you're going okay right nothing's wrong just want to check in on you yeah and it can't be performative it has to be with some intention it's not enough to just ring someone and go everything all right because we go yeah fine well at least at least brits do yeah fine yeah fine you need a bit a bit more of an intentional question a bit more of a coaching question so i like i noticed this email coming from bob and it seemed it seemed a little bit direct is what's going on is everything all right you okay how did you take that it's almost digging in a little bit more and finding a specific thing to talk about which every good manager does anyway in terms of giving any type of feedback it'll be very specific and rooted in context it's the same for these casual phone calls if you've got something rooted in context it's going to help that conversation flow it's going to start to breed that word of the moment psychological safety that people will actually feel that they're able to authentically open up so it can't just be yeah I'm going to call you every Tuesday for 10 seconds and make sure you're still alive.
40:17It needs to be. I'm going to phone you. We're going to have a conversation because I'm genuinely interested in how you're doing, what's going on in your work world and if appropriate beyond that. Here's what I just heard in my head when you and Al were talking, Leanne. What I heard you both kind of say was managers should be really good at interviewing people, not just in job interviews, but just in general to start and continue good conversations. That's a really nice way to frame it. Yeah. Maybe that's a skill that the potential manager could highlight that they've gotten good at. You know what I mean?
40:55Like if you are someone who has become quite skilled in this area, maybe that's something that you talk up during your interview if you want to be a people manager.
41:05Al Elliott:Yeah, potentially. But also there are a lot of managers out there. and I don't know if it's the same in the US, but in the UK, you get on a train, used to do it back 20 years ago, you get on a train and there'd always be someone sitting at a train table, they'd open their laptop, they'd get their mouse out, they'd get their phone out and they'd go, yeah, no, I can't really talk, I'm on the train and they've made the phone call and the point of that was just them going, look how important I am. Now they weren't a manager because they wanted to lead people, they weren't a manager because they cared about people, they weren't a manager because they wanted to interview people, they weren't a manager because they wanted to tell everyone they got a promotion at work and they were important and i think that leslie-ann pointed out there's a lot of people who've fallen into that um and what is it what was the statter and 44 percent of people never got training was it yeah yeah um and so they just think that's what being a manager is because what they've seen the the loud mouths who have been managers before and they're really important people who run around with papers in the hand and they don't know that actually being a manager is almost the opposite is being quiet not loud yeah that's a lovely turn a phrase about being quiet not loud I think interviewing questions or interviewing skills yes and I understand the perfect um kind of crossover skill you've you've got there Nick where I just nudge it slightly is it's less interviewing and more coaching questions ah okay so I think it's things like being genuinely inquisitive or asking questions that help somebody lead somebody to the next point of their thought process or the next thing that's that's troubling them.
42:28For anyone out there who wants to be a manager, is a manager, and hasn't been trained with this already, look at skills that are very embedded in coaching, things like listening skills. Do a listening skills course. That's going to help you loads. I mean, if you can, if you've got the resources, go on a coaching course. It will be such a transformative experience for you in terms of your emotional intelligence, your self-awareness, how to engage with other people, how to interact with other people without agenda, without judgment. That's what I'd say is to highlight their skills, your curiosity, your ability to coach, your ability to listen.
43:02I would snap up anyone, even if they had no experience at all. I would snap up anyone with their skills into a management role.
43:35I'm afraid we'll have to cut it right there this time. If you're one of those managers out there who isn't getting trained, you can find that training elsewhere. Whether it's going to a seminar, reading a book, listening to some podcasts, or as Leanne suggested, taking some coaching courses. to make you more effective at asking questions, communicating with your team, building those relationships, and driving the results you need to as a people leader. I liked Al's encouragement to all of us that it's okay for a manager to do things a little bit differently, to have that quirkiness, that stylistic imprint in the way you lead your team that produces a positive impact, of course.
44:19If you're looking for more on those topics of uncertainty, I have a couple of links for you. First, check out our layoff resources page at nerd-journey.com slash layoff resources. On that page, you can find the most impactful conversations we've had on the topic of layoffs with experts like Leanne Elliott, for example, and many technologists who've shared their stories of layoff and the steps they took to get that next role. Hopefully you can find something there that's an encouragement and a help to you. We also have our Career Uncertainty Action Guide which has the five pillars of career resilience and some AI prompts that can help you work through overwhelm, financial planning, and navigating a layoff.
45:02Have you subscribed to the Truth, Lies, and Work podcast yet? If you haven't, now's a good time to do that because part two of our discussion with Al and Leanne Elliott happens next week where we'll flip the script and talk about what it's like to be an individual contributor on a large team. How can you stand out? Farewell, listeners. Tune in next time as the journey continues. I'm John White at Be Journeyman. For Nick Corte at Network Nerd underscore, signing off. Adios.
45:39That was John White and Nick Corte from Nerd Journey podcast for part two of this conversation. Yes, there is more and more than 300 more episodes. Go and find Nerd Journey wherever you get your podcasts.
45:53Al Elliott:Yeah, thank you so much, guys. They are such good interviewers. And I tell you what is really cool about them. They are both interviewing from remotely. And there's two interviews, which we've done this once or twice before. And it's really, really difficult. And they just know who's going to say what. And I suppose after a 340-odd episode, you do know that. But they are really professional, really nice guys. if you if you are invited on their podcast which i hope you are then um yeah it's gonna be a really nice time it is it is a long record it was about an hour and a half two hours it was about two hours and and but i enjoy that because it allows for a full conversation they edit it down in such a brilliant way um that yeah just just so much good and particularly in these times layoffs tech industry under pressure navigating navigating career changes and transitions is really tough they've got so many episodes and guests and experts and resources do go and check out their podcast also their website where they keep all the good stuff like the resources and things like that i'll leave links to both of those in the show notes and thank you so much again to john and nick um we love you guys and loved coming on your show and love nerd jenny so join us thursday where joel's app shows us how to have more fun at work without losing productivity i really push back on this with joel because i'm like no i don't believe you and he's like shut up al it's true i've worked i've worked with american express who the hell have you worked with and i was like yeah i'll just why I'm a necking.
47:13There you go. If you want to hear that, B for tuning in on Tuesday. See you guys. Thursday. Bye.
47:18Al Elliott:Bye.
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