275. Why your 13th hire is like puberty (and what to do about it), with Steve Kemish

12 Feb 2026 · 54 min · 22 chapters

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Podcast Episode Summary: Truth, Lies and Work - Episode 275

Episode Title

Why your 13th hire is like puberty (and what to do about it), with Steve Kemish

Episode Overview

In this episode of *Truth, Lies & Work*, hosts Leanne and Al Elliott welcome Steve Kemish to discuss the pivotal moments of company growth, particularly when a business transitions from a close-knit team to a structured organization. Steve refers to this phase as the "puberty" of a company, particularly highlighting the critical transition that occurs around the 13th to 20th employee.

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Key Takeaways

  1. The Nature of Growth
  2. Complexity of Scaling: Growth introduces significant challenges, including communication breakdowns, cultural shifts, and the need for formal processes.
  3. Reality Check for Founders: Many founders mistakenly view growth as purely positive, but it brings unexpected complexities that can disrupt previously successful workflows.
  1. Understanding the “Puberty Phase”
  2. Key Transition: The jump from approximately 13 to 20 employees represents a crucial turning point where organizations must shift from instinct-based operations to structured processes.
  3. Identity Crisis: Founders must adapt their roles from doers to leaders, transitioning to a mindset focused on enabling others to make decisions.
  1. Cultural Pressures
  2. Impact of New Hires: As new employees join, they bring diverse perspectives and expectations that can put pressure on existing workplace culture.
  3. Intentionality in Culture: Leaders need to be proactive in shaping and nurturing company culture rather than relying on past methods.
  1. Communication Challenges
  2. Evolving Communication Needs: Increased team size complicates informal communication, necessitating clearer, more structured communication practices.
  3. Importance of Clarity: Leaders must learn to communicate consistently and effectively as teams grow.
  1. Navigating Recognition
  2. Individual Approaches: Recognition varies significantly from person to person; what motivates one employee may not resonate with another.
  3. Asking for Feedback: Leaders should actively seek employees' input on how they prefer to be recognized and rewarded.
  1. Operational Fairness vs. Equality
  2. Adapting Recognition: It’s essential to treat employees fairly rather than equally, recognizing that different roles and individuals have unique needs.
  3. Maintaining Values: Leaders should align their recognition and reward practices with the company values while being fair to all employees.

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Importance of this Episode

This episode serves as a guide for founders, leaders, and managers facing rapid growth. Steve Kemish offers practical advice on navigating the complexities of scaling a business, emphasizing the importance of understanding the cultural and operational shifts that accompany growth.

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Connect with Steve Kemish

  • LinkedIn: [Steve Kemish](https://www.linkedin.com/in/skemish/)
  • Website: [Intermediate Global](http://www.intermedia-global.com)

Connect with the Hosts

  • Al Elliott: [LinkedIn](https://www.linkedin.com/in/thisisalelliott/)
  • Leanne Elliott: [LinkedIn](https://www.linkedin.com/in/meetleanne)

Additional Resources

  • Mental Health Resources:
  • UK: [Mind](https://www.mind.org.uk)
  • UK Samaritans: [Samaritans](https://www.samaritans.org)
  • US: [988 Lifeline](https://988lifeline.org)
  • International: [Open Counseling](https://www.opencounseling.com/suicide-hotlines)

Conclusion

In navigating the volatile phase of growth, understanding the shifts in culture, communication, and recognition is crucial for sustainable success. As companies grow, the need for intentional leadership and adaptability becomes more significant than ever.

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Chapters

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Understanding Business Puberty

1:32 to 2:16

Discussion on the critical changes as a business grows past 13 employees.

“I'm a Chartered Occupational Psychologist.”

Steve Kemmish's Background

3:02 to 4:25

Steve shares his experiences and insights on marketing and business growth.

“Steve Kemmish, I am the CEO of an organisation called Intermedia Global, or IMG for shorthand.”

The Ego Trap in Business Growth

4:25 to 5:55

Steve discusses the pitfalls of growing a business for the sake of ego.

“And so during that second arc, if we'd have been doing this back 2011 now, I think retrospectively, my ego might have said, yeah, well, look, well, let's grow.”

Business Adolescence

5:55 to 7:56

Exploring the concept of business adolescence and its challenges.

The Importance of Recognition

7:56 to 10:17

Understanding the nuanced concept of recognition in the workplace.

Implementing Recognition Strategies

10:17 to 13:20

Steve discusses how to effectively implement recognition strategies in a growing organization.

“But internally, it can just sometimes be good to go, well, the CEO said I did a good job.”

One-on-One Management Techniques

13:20 to 14:00

Insights on effective management practices during one-on-one meetings.

“Whatever you do, smaller is not always better.”

Creating Trust in Conversations

14:00 to 16:30

Learn how to foster a trustworthy environment for open communication.

The Importance of Values in Leadership

16:30 to 19:00

Discover how personal values influence management and team dynamics.

“You're just listening to what people want and trying your best to give it to them where you can.”

Understanding Professional Development

19:00 to 23:00

Explore the role of professional development in employee retention and satisfaction.

“us um rather than we tested it did you learn i didn't have time so 2007 2008 i think was the the year that you went out kind of on your own.”
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The Need for Recognition in the Workplace

23:00 to 27:00

Examine the varying forms of recognition that employees seek and their impact.

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Tailoring Recognition to Individual Needs

27:00 to 28:00

Learn strategies for recognizing and motivating diverse employee preferences.

Navigating Employee Benefits and Growth

28:00 to 30:00

Discover innovative employee benefit schemes to enhance satisfaction and retention.

Understanding Financial Management in Business

30:00 to 31:20

Learn about maintaining financial balance while investing in employee perks.

Lessons from a Young Entrepreneur's Mistake

31:20 to 33:40

Hear a story about early entrepreneurial challenges and managing staff expectations.

Recognizing Patterns in Business Challenges

33:40 to 38:00

Explore the importance of recognizing patterns in business and employee behavior.

The Value of Experience in Business

38:00 to 41:40

Understand how experience can inform better decision-making and problem-solving.

Identifying Cultural Signals in Organizations

41:40 to 42:05

Learn to recognize cultural cues that signal underlying issues within teams.

Understanding Employee Recognition During Growth

42:05 to 44:09

Learn the importance of recognizing employees during both good and tough times.

“My mindset is, okay, I've got to look after it.”

Personal Experiences with Redundancies

44:10 to 47:18

Hear personal stories about the impact of redundancy decisions on small teams.

“But even then, I think if you've done everything in a respectful, decent way, people understand, people get it.”

Creating a Positive Work Environment

47:19 to 51:15

Discover how to foster a workplace culture that retains employees and promotes kindness.

“So therefore, keep who you've got close.”

Key Lessons for Growing Businesses

51:16 to 53:04

Understand the top three lessons for managing growth and employee recognition.

“Which again, it's almost a full loop back to if we'll allow reward and recognition to be saying bedfellows, then there we are.”
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Transcript

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0:00Steve Kemish:There's a moment where your company hits 13 people where everything changes. This isn't gradual. This is sudden. Our guest today calls it business puberty and he's lived through it three times.

0:10Truth, Lies and Work Host:I've been through three companies that have gone from less than about 12 to 15, 16 people through to greater than that. In fact, this organisation, we went through that period in about four months. And I always say that it's worth learning that if you're going to be involved in running a business, you wouldn't recommend to your younger self to go through puberty in four months. And it's a real challenge with an organisation.

0:31Steve Kemish:Steve Chemish is the CEO of Intermediate Global, currently ranked 38th fastest growing company in the UK. Here's what makes Steve different. He's not chasing growth for ego. He's been through the painful transition of business puberty multiple times and he knows exactly where the bodies are buried. That 13th hire, it's not just another person. It's the moment you stop being a close-knit group of people who know everything about each other's work, and become a company that actually has needs for brace yourself, processes, structures, and all that grown-up stuff. And if you think you can skip this phase or power through it, Steve's got news for you.

1:10Steve Kemish:You cannot. But you can survive it if you understand what's really happening and why recognition becomes the most critical tool you have. Hello and welcome to Truth, Lies and Work, the award-winning podcast where behavioural science meets workplace culture, brought to you by the HubSpot Podcast Network, the audio destination for business professionals. My name is Leanne. I'm a Chartered Occupational Psychologist. My name is Al. I'm a business owner. And we are here to help you simplify the science of work. If you are running a company somewhere between 10 and 50 people, today's episode might be the most important one you listen to this year, because there's a specific moment around that 13th to 15th employee where companies either figure it out or fall apart.

1:54Steve Kemish:And here's where it connects to something even more critical, recognition. Because when your company hits puberty, the old ways of showing appreciation, well, they stop working. What motivated your first 12 people won't motivate your next 25. So after this break, Steve's going to walk us through exactly what happens at each growth stage, why recognition becomes your secret weapon, and how to avoid the ego traps that killed his first attempt at this to don't go anywhere. HubSpot makes impossible growth impossibly easy for their customers. And here's a perfect example. Lee, your turn. Morehouse College needed to reach new students with fresh, engaging content.

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3:02Truth, Lies and Work Host:Steve Kemmish, I am the CEO of an organisation called Intermedia Global, or IMG for shorthand. We're a marketing services agency based in the UK, but we work pretty much, as the name suggests, globally. we work with a whole range of organizations um normally fixing um ours probably the best way to put it the messy cable drawer of life if you were to describe that if you're interested in anything to do with marketing when modern marketing is technology data process content all sorts of stuff if that's all a bit of a mess and we tend to reorganize that messy cable drawer for lots of

3:38Steve Kemish:different organizations just to give people an idea the fact that you do know what you're talking about i believe you've just been named as one of the fastest growing companies on what was the

3:47Truth, Lies and Work Host:um 38th fastest growing so we have we're a top 40 hit uh which madonna did with vogue at the same time she went up to be number one i doubt we'll do that but yeah if if it gives endorsement um externally that what we do is is relevant and useful to organizations that's definitely part of it um more importantly actually for me with colleagues it's not just me there's there's about 40 of us that all worry about these things so it's endorsement to all of those guys as well that we are relevant we are useful we we know some stuff that's worth knowing i sense in the agency world

4:20Steve Kemish:there's a lot of people who just grow for the sake of growing acquisitions mergers all that

4:25Truth, Lies and Work Host:kind of thing what's your thoughts on that i think i was probably one of them back in the day so i've been i was client side my marketing career started um in various organizations up until about 2007 seven, eight, when I left to become agency and consultative. And so during that second arc, if we'd have been doing this back 2011 now, I think retrospectively, my ego might have said, yeah, well, look, well, let's grow. Bigger is better. And I've certainly learned the hard way that just building for the sake of it and saying, oh, I run a company of, and by the way, I never introduced myself as running a company.

5:01Truth, Lies and Work Host:I work in marketing. That's as far as I'm concerned, it needs to go i have a job title that's different to others that do it but back then you may have felt like well you could puff your chest out i run a company of 50 people um but that is really in a service-based industry which typically marketing is that is a really tough gig and i think therefore if you just do it yourself um in terms of organic growth that's one thing m and a is a completely different matter again and that's a bit like trying to weld families together um you know I'm sure there are people that are listening that resonate that they've got step siblings, or maybe they've got children that are stepchildren.

5:38Truth, Lies and Work Host:They don't always necessarily get on just because you shove them in the same house together. There's all sorts of big and very small things that are different in different cultures and organisations that if you just put them together for the sake of it, it may not be a harmonious family life that you lead.

5:53Steve Kemish:What are the things you worried about when you were 20 that you maybe don't worry so much about when you're 50?

5:59Truth, Lies and Work Host:If we rewind back from 20, where I think it's really important, and I've seen this a few times in that second half of my career agency side is when you go through the puberty of running a business or being in a business so you know we all know um hopefully all of us that are on this call that the struggle that is adolescence um when a company and i've been through three companies that have gone from less than about 12 to 15 16 people through to greater than that going through as in fact this organization we went through that period in about four months and i always say that it's worth learning that if you're going to be involved in running a business you wouldn't recommend to your younger self to go through puberty in four months and it's a real challenge with an organization because you change from a room of people that everybody knows everything that everybody else is doing and it's in my head or it's in al's head or in someone else's head to your proper company where you need process and you need all the grown-up stuff and i think there's there's almost this business adolescence that i think is really important to call out for that change in organization you see culture shift again by the way when the business gets a bit bigger i think when you get to more like where we are actually 30 40 people and i'm sure there are bigger shifts but i've always been in organizations that have been around this size so around the 50 or below um so i can't talk to greater than that interesting interesting

7:16Steve Kemish:i've never heard that term adolescence or business adolescence i've only just coined it i mean it's

7:21Truth, Lies and Work Host:not that it no well it's just what i've always thought is it feels like you're going through puberty or business change so it's just a good way of analogizing for me so i tend to work in analogies because my brain's quite simple if i get it in another walk of my life i normally get it in the primary function i'm trying to understand when we last spoke you were you were using the word

7:41Steve Kemish:recognition quite a lot now i i sense that some people might not fully understand what recognition is so what do you mean when you say recognition is a big part of growing i think it's a really

7:53Truth, Lies and Work Host:very complex word recognition it should be quite simple and um if you bring in its cousin reward it's a conversation we have quite a lot this end in fact i had this conversation on an all hands meeting with all colleagues yesterday this week where if you think about reward and recognition is the same if i can meld them when you try and ask a team of 40 people um so 39 others i'll get 39 different responses to what recognition reward means and that's an important first point is you'll never get a dictionary definition of what recognition means what i might want to give or receive as recognition may be entirely different to those 39 others and that doesn't mean you can necessarily always offer that or adapt for that but trying to recognize that recognition is a is an individual thing is important in a business so that when you shape things like employee benefits and simple things like for example we have unlimited staff holiday now that's a really big thing to say um and we put it in four years ago um but it's a it's a brush strokes right it's a one size fits all and the the element of worry when we put it in was will it work we'd read that much larger organizations actually have used this over the last 10-15 years um rather cynically actually i think that it tends to reduce the number of holiday days people take um i've studied behavioral science so i find the framing of these sort of things fascinating is that if you put a particular number in front of people higher or lower then it tends to change behaviors um so unlimited is one that's just difficult because like what does that mean i don't know whether i'm taking enough holiday but in reality what we found is we are on average people are taking slightly more than they would have done on our role scheme um there's a couple of outliers who take a lot more but not because they're lazy or they don't do a great job the nuance of their work means they can and their recognition their reward system is we like to take a break i like to go on holiday others in the organization that you know what they want from recognition and reward will be entirely different um i don't work i'm lucky um that i don't work with people that are wholly money focused i'm not in that sort of company or industry but but there's nothing wrong with that either and we all have to pay bills so if recognition is actually the picture of the king on the back of a note or many of them that's all right the key thing is to try and understand what does an individual people you work with and you care about what do they need from recognition um not kind of a metaphysical pat on the head but sometimes particularly actually in my role i have a job title that i absolutely hate ceo it just sounds like frankly awful um You know, it can be used quite effectively at times, but I tend to avoid using it.

10:37Truth, Lies and Work Host:But internally, it can just sometimes be good to go, well, the CEO said I did a good job. Just for the tape as well, you said you thought I was a great guy earlier, just in case that gets missed from the cut from this. As he puts his ego back in. But it's, you know, sometimes you need to recognize that just being a nice person and a kind person with your seniority, with your experience can go an awful long way. That's recognition for some. But others, you know, actually it needs to link to something tangible.

11:07Steve Kemish:Well, this is perfect segue. Because you said if you ask 40 people what recognition means, you'll get 40 different answers. You've just given us two potentially amazing ways in which you can provide recognition. but that's only satisfied two of your 40 people so how do you how do you even reconcile this how did you how do you work out what you're going to do to recognize people well you need to spend

11:30Truth, Lies and Work Host:time with them first so um when we as i mentioned earlier we we forged three businesses together about five years ago now the collective sum of that company new company was only about 15 people so smaller than it is and that's part of as you've said we've grown um and the sunday times thing right we're really proud of it but it's just a headline number there's stuff underneath it that that's more important to us but but a part of that is when you've got more work you need more people um it's not quite a linear line um but when i first came in and it's something i try and do with everybody that starts is i have this basic stop start continue principle with one-to-one people which when we first all came is like look you don't know we did know each other not as well as we did from the three different practices was okay look in your view what what do you think in your day job micro or a macro level in the company we should stop doing we should start doing we mustn't we must continue to do see you know i'm lucky because it's the size of organization and i i'm i'm interested in people's views to try and disseminate those to get some input rather than just in an ivory tower that said that the test and learn i'm a marketeer my whole professional being has been taught that you have to test and learn you'll never get it right first time so you can take that culture I think into trying to make change around if we're talking about reward systems or recognition of peers be it colleagues or otherwise try it if it doesn't seem to to work then change it it's in it's in the gift of a much smaller business it's one of the reasons I love now working in a smaller company in my client side days when I started my career I worked in very large organizations and I learned so much but you move at the speed of a super tanker and you're a tiny cog in that super tanker that you know if you if the cog fell out the bit the ship may not notice whereas when you're this size everybody's got a voice and it makes a difference you also can go a lot faster which is terrifying in some ways because um i don't know if you've ever been on a speedboat um and i don't think i've ever been on a speedboat but i've been on boats that go fast and that feels quite terrifying and compared to the safety of something bigger so So it's not always the case for everybody career-wise.

13:40Truth, Lies and Work Host:Whatever you do, smaller is not always better. It can be quite terrifying and it's not the right journey. Safety in the big ship or in the slower moving kind of waters of what we do.

13:51Steve Kemish:So I want to move on to the impact and I'm going to start quite specific and then move a bit more general. So something you said there, stop, start, continue. First of all, can you tell us, give us an example of how you might implement that one-to-one and then also what the impact that has on the person you're talking to i mean my basic for 22

14:11Truth, Lies and Work Host:years of managing people i have a very basic rule which if you and i this is ridiculous al because we're on a podcast but if you and i were in a one-to-one i have two rules which are look we're in a virtual physical room the door's shut nothing leaves this room unless we both agree it leaves the room um i.e you can tell me whatever you want and back to my point around job title earlier that gets harder when your job title changes and and the bigger the company because it's like well i don't know them very well can i trust him his job title says that he could fire me you know those are all the cynical bits in the unconscious brain that might come out so it's a case of step one is look nothing leaves i'm here to to collaborate with you um and second point is the only exception and i've said this for 23 years and never used it is unless you tell me something so heinous i think i have to take it out on behalf of both of us but i've never needed that so it's i think first is setting an environment and whether that fully works all the time or not and it's my way of doing it rather than the way it's try and get people comfortable to go look you can trust me tell me what you mean and tell me stuff that you think i might not know i'm not interested in good news it's always nice to get plaudits right but for me you can't change and improve a business or a working relationship if you just focus on how great it is well what's what's not what's getting to you what's the bit of grit in your shoe that if you leave it in there will become a blister and become uncomfortable and therefore what you tend to get the you the really interesting stuff are quite small minutiae that um get quite big change the um the one percent change from somebody saying do you know what i wish we didn't do these meetings well why are we doing them don't know we always have and that you know that legacy of or somebody i don't know somebody set it up once we just do it we humans form habits quite quickly um that can be quite important to somebody or my desk I could do with this thing and I won't give you specific examples because I wouldn't want to embarrass anybody but they're often quite small requests that feel like they're a big thing to ask for it's like oh great yeah we can do that we can make immediate change good yeah absolutely and then it becomes a bit viral because everyone else goes well well yeah that would be useful to me as well and and then suddenly one person's confidence to go this could be better if we started doing this or stop doing that.

16:23Truth, Lies and Work Host:You've got a whole complete business change without really much effort. And it's not come from on top. It's come from, you know, you're not dictating, we will now do this. You're just listening to what people want and trying your best to give it to them where you can.

16:35Steve Kemish:So for someone who's not doing this, they might think, oh, that sounds like a lot of work. I sense there's a lot more reward for you in doing it than not doing it. Definitely, yeah.

16:47Truth, Lies and Work Host:I take greatest pleasure in working with people and seeing people achieve and succeed. Minor things, major things. So again, back to our values, right? And this is where, not unashamedly, I don't think it's quite the right word, but I have had a heavy influence on the values that we work to just because I've been around longer than others that I work with. I'm not necessarily the oldest in the company, but I'm one of the most experienced in the company. And the two top ones for me are make people look good or make others look good and make their problems go away and and it's quite easy to that first one to have been made customers look good but it's in it's intentionally others and that could be a colleague um it should be a colleague right there shouldn't be an ego in this so if you and i are working on something and my position is more senior or different to yours um why can't you have the credit for it you might be the one that asked the seemingly daft question um which was a or gave a daft answer but someone else in the room went well no that's not right but i wouldn't have thought of this and i've now thought of that well that should probably trace back to that's something you've done i've been in rooms in my earlier career where people will ignore me or steal my good ideas or make me feel like the one thing that i used to dislike the most at large companies is if you haven't got the right job title you shouldn't possibly speak that kind of culture and and it wasn't we're talking a long time ago but and and it was it was rare but it happened i've always thought well i don't want to i want the person that's got um and again actually one of our values is experience is not necessarily a monopoly on good ideas just because i'm older than you doesn't mean i've got a better idea the most insightful people are often ones that come in and go oh hiya this is why i do the stop start continue where i can is that people have come in new and go sorry this is a really dumb question but why do you do that why do we do that and everyone looks around and goes no if there's not a good answer then it's just it's that it's that kind of inertia that's crept in that we just have always done it let's change it and i think that is my being but it's also professionally because marketing is always about test and learn um three words there right not one test easily done in marketing and learn is the bit that often gets missed well what has that taught us um rather than we tested it did you learn i didn't have time so 2007 2008 i think was the

19:09Steve Kemish:the year that you went out kind of on your own. Client side, that's right, yeah, and hoped. Well, when you jumped into that pool, had you already learned the lesson that recognition was going to be a large way of your management style?

19:21Truth, Lies and Work Host:No, I don't think so. I didn't even think I had a management style and I don't necessarily think I do now. I just, I try and treat people like they're decent human beings and treat them with respect where I can. I don't care what your job title is or your functional experience. You're human, you should be kind of respected and looked after. um so no i don't think i did and i didn't actually leave client i was managing a team when i left but i went from that to be a consultant kind of i'm going to tell the world things that uh i need i need to tell them plus also to be honest al the main reason i left if i'm being brutally honest is i worked and i loved the brands i worked for but they were big companies that no one's ever heard of because they were in business to business industries um and i just thought i'm sick of my mum asking me what I do so I was like right sod it I'm going to try and work for companies she might have heard of and I was very fortunate my first two consultancy jobs were with British Airways and Skype now Skype in 2007 was a big deal right for this post kind of Zoom Teams era Skype is probably known but it was it was really growing and I was terrified going into both of those organizations and Skype if you don't know is from Estonia Estonia's got a really good history of of innovative startups but that was based in london but british airways everyone you heard of them and it was like oh my god what am i going to know how am i going to be relevant in there but the interesting thing um and it's a drift off management but i think it's a useful one for anyone that's in whatever career you're in if you're considering that move from being client side um to supply side so whether it's a consultant agency for me or whatever version in your industry it might be um fundamentally most companies have the same problems in the worlds that i work in um my stock phrase now 20 years later is if you change the surnames you change the haircuts and the logo nothing else changes and and therefore i learned this in british airways in their headquarters near heathrow putting in a room i was like okay he's he's the expert he'll know i said well just explain to me the context and i was like oh yeah this is like everything else i've learned in the last 10 years it's just a different industry but it's the same problem So I think there's a comfort in that confidence that if it's back to management style or dealing with and just working with people, yes, there are nuances.

21:38Truth, Lies and Work Host:Different people need different things. Back to the starting point of this whole thing around recognition. But ultimately, the more you kind of invest in trying to understand them, the more actually you can be relevant and helpful because often quite a lot of us need or want for similar things. It just may not always come out in the same language, but it will probably be getting to the same sort of heart of it.

21:58Steve Kemish:It's so interesting. What you've just said there has clicked in my head that marketing is a psychology of finding what people want and giving it to them. And what you've just described there is that workplace culture is kind of finding what your employees want and giving it.

22:11Truth, Lies and Work Host:Yeah, I always say if I get bored at a dinner party, not that I go to dinner parties anymore because it's post-COVID times, but the idea that I will often say, you know, marketing fundamentally is to get you to want things you don't need. That's at its more cynical core of it, which I don't know that that is a bit too cynical for me but the idea of actually marketing is a very much a behavioral science topic hence as I was saying to you I think offline I've studied behavioral economics I find it a fascinating subject to understand what is it that makes people decide to do or not do something when it comes to in the context for behavioral economics of commerce but in in life that can be used the government should and they do use behavioral economics, but not enough, in my opinion, to try and make changes to society in a good way.

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23:34Steve Kemish:Some people think that professional development is a type of recognition and some people argue that, well, they should have that anyway. Where do you stand on that thought?

23:43Truth, Lies and Work Host:If I come back slightly from it, so I don't always look at, I don't ever look at somebody in our organisation or any organisation I've worked in if it's their job. What they are is they're with us for a period of their career so for me professional development would be that's something that makes complete sense for the organization to offer in the same way they'd offer a desk and maybe water and coffee is that if you want somebody to flourish then that professional development you i think you have a responsibility as an employer to try and make the your colleagues as effective as possible and if you do that you will benefit from them in the period they're with you um now that's not enough alone but my my my experience is if you create an environment where people are happy are rewarded are recognized as safe then they don't necessarily have as much reason to leave you um and therefore it's you know i think it's a bit short-termistic professional development we're just going to improve their career cv for the next job well yeah you are but they may not take that next job for a number maybe two years uh later than they would have done without it and just think about the recruitment savings in terms of cost as well as effort and the continuity of having somebody and the fact that they might also not leave because you can open up a new job because that professional development helped them to be better at something that means they fulfill a new role in a senior position or in a new position or wherever it may be so yeah I'm a huge I studied I spent 12 years teaching as a lecturer alongside my day job so everything to do with education to me is really important particularly in work is you should never stop learning um and again not to make this about our seven values but um always be curious is really important but you can always learn something um so why not go and do it if that's packaged in professional development great if it's unprofessional development i.e it's unstructured learning then that's also good as well just being curious curiosity didn't seem to kill the cat it just made the cat smarter i think do you think everyone on some level needs recognition or are

25:44Steve Kemish:there just some people out there who can just crack on with the job and they don't care i'm

25:47Truth, Lies and Work Host:not a psychologist but um my gut says everybody does it's just different recognition so for some it might just be a kind of an unemotional a kind of rational practical well done cheers thank you versus some people need it much more open and much grander um for some they're and it's why link recognition to reward their reward system i remember when when we worked um when i worked client side in a large department we were allowed to go home half an hour early on a friday it's like it's like we've won the lottery it was amazing and not least because i worked on a business part that if you left the standard time everyone else did it took you an hour to get off there and so there were i think there were quite small gestures but if you've got family for example we're pretty flexible this end that we're lucky right we're in an organization size with people that we don't need to monitor and track they have a job they know what their job is if they can do that whilst also going to pick up or drop off children or go to sports day or something like that the important stuff there's the practical i've just got to do it so recognition might be oh he's a great job on that look i know you've got this come out just get out early and do it or go out do that get back later and pick up the work the work will be there we know we trust that you'll do it that's a real privilege in our industry in our company i know there'll be people listening in that might take jobs where it is much more structured i used to work in retail when i was much younger um i couldn't just disappear off the shop floor of clark's shoes in oxford whilst i was doing my a not whilst doing my a levels on a saturday for my a levels i'd be i'd be in trouble um so i get that as well but i think there is even within there the ability to just be a little bit more human with humans to to try and support and and and recognize it's a long answer but yeah everybody's different um i think everybody wants some form of recognition it will just be different

27:40Steve Kemish:recognition this is coming back to what you said at the beginning is that you know you get 40 different definitions of recognition based on what they personally want i apologize for asking this again but i'm still just trying to get my head around if you've got 40 people and they all might want different things where do i even start working out how to motivate each one or recognize

28:03Truth, Lies and Work Host:each individual individual well it's not a it's not a one-player game again so you know i don't i don't manage 39 people there are there's lines of management in there so there's a collective of if we we can kind of um i was going to say divide and conquer but that sounds the wrong phrase but we can just divide and succeed in terms of helping people we i think in an organization of any size there are benefit systems that are much more progressive these days so um whether it's um salary sacrifice schemes for example in the uk which are pretty popular the ability to say well rather than um i don't know what's an example the ride to work scheme okay that's been around for a few years where you get a tax efficient way of buying a bicycle that arguably speaking as long as hmrc aren't listening in people will use for commute but they also will get benefit outside of work as well that's just a great scheme but not everyone wants to ride a bike um where i think you can go a bit further so if i'd had 39 people and 24 said i want a bike and 15 others don't want a bike then a bike scheme is going to be roughly about what 57 successful um salary sacrifice and benefits modern benefit schemes um allow for flex we have a a system through a company where it's got a collection of different subscriptions so some of it's for mindfulness apps for well-being apps for weight loss apps for addiction apps so giving up smoking or and then in the post-modern world vaping and gym membership heavily discounted or free there's quite a smorgasbord of stuff in there and that's um a relatively easy way to solve the problem you've rightly posed which is you can't necessarily do one size fits all um again are we unique no we're a fast-growing company we are profitable in as much as we want to we need to make more money than we spend but not we're not gratuitously so it's not again i don't think what i've described there is no i couldn't be the gift of most organizations in most industries you you want to um to use if it's such a thing as a steveism i always talk to staff about keeping a grip on finances and i can almost see colleagues here we go again um but grip stands for growth reward uh investment and protection so running a small business this is very important that when you've got excess money and again i've just coined this as a way to try and say to people that rewards really important but we also must grow as an organization we need to um grow as individuals we must invest and p is for protection that's making sure we've got a rainy day or a rainy month or a rainy year fund the best we can so i'm not advocating just go and spend it all on cool perks see that as part of the mix as i said earlier with professional development if you give benefits to people um i think you're just being a decent human being firstly but more than that if you need to make a return on that investment you may well keep the people you retain staff longer and that just takes away the stress and hassle or minimizes the stress and hassle of recruitment of continuity loss when you've you know that member of staff that's gone on to another thing or indeed you find you get loyalty in a different way it doesn't all just become i want more money i want more money that people are much more grown up and mature about the world um to just stick with you when times are tough and we don't get me wrong our we've we've had an amazing four years but we've had tough times through it too and when you're a service-based business as we are it is you are constantly fighting the have we got enough work have we got enough of the right kind of people and that is an impossible marriage to ever remedy and rectify it's always going to be a case of you've either got too much work too few people or both so it's not all a bowl of cherries from 38th fastest growing sounds sexy and we've got a cool little red piece of acrylic somewhere in the office but there's a lot more underneath it that can be difficult so i think i'm i'd like to think i'm fairly representative of a business rather than just that's just a glamour business it is uh humans are humans we're dealing with the same sort of challenges in any as any business would do like you said change the haircuts change the surnames and it's the same problem change the logos yeah correct absolutely agree i don't mean that ghibli by the way i think it just gives a confidence to people that if you are thinking can would i know anything in outside of my business yeah you probably would in your particular discipline you'll find quite quickly similar patterns the clue is normally you sit with somebody go have you worked in our industry no I haven't okay well our industry is a bit different to other industries that's normally the tale for me that it won't be different at all but you you want to enumer that and go okay well have you got these challenges in my world is it do you have challenges with sales and marketing alignment people getting one in those two functions is your data bad have you got too much marketing technology too little times process difficult is it hard to get campaigns out the door is it hard to measure campaigns is attribution the holy grail of what you do i.e you spent some money on sales and marketing but you can't tell what it is you spent it on that's been effective yeah and and again that's well that's because in pretty much every organization you ever work in those of the problems relevant to where i come into a business everyone here listening in will have their own version of it depending on their skill or professionalism what

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33:12Steve Kemish:they do let me get some advice from steve so 25 year old al okay almost 25 years ago 25 year old al had a company which delivered beer um to students late at night um and this was like wait before uber wait for anything like that and so um i had about sort of 20 part-time staff um and in the morning about seven o 'clock in the morning when we all finished i used to say to everyone go and get a beer from downstairs want one and i and send someone off to the sandwich shop to get bacon butties for everyone i was like cool all right one morning one of my members of staff said to me i don't want a bacon butty can i have the money instead at the time i went uh okay but now i'm like i don't think i handle that well because then should i have just given everyone the money instead should i have just denied it what would what would what would uncle steve say

34:01Truth, Lies and Work Host:i think you've got no perfect answer to that but i think you've got the wrong employee in that team and that's not to persecute them but somewhere along the way they've lost we're talking cost versus value and the value i suspect to everybody else was well that's good for that particular individual um their their cost value set is different i'd say it doesn't make them wrong but it makes them different that's kind of it's a really difficult one to answer because i think the other aspect is yeah if i'm going to just abortion blame us well you're the manager i always think it's like if you've got it's like children right if you've got you've got to blame the parents if there's a badly behaving child or and dare i say a sweary child or a racist child shouting out something horrific i'm a big sports fan multiple sports and i wince at some of the stuff i might hear so it's not their fault it's the parent so if you've got a child or a colleague who's thought well i'll have the three pound fifty four pound fifty i think the environment's wrong i don't know that's a very long answer to a really easy but difficult scenario i think it for me it boils back and i think that where's the lesson here for anyone else listening in is you've got to always make sure that people see the value um over here i appreciate for podcasts i'm raising my left hand um and then you've got to see the cost over there and lower a level when it's you know in the scales of things so when actually um we are working with clients or pricing things up or or anyone's doing that if you sell on cost you're in trouble because you'll get a scenario like that if you can sell on value of look what we've given you is this and it includes this item then maybe you've got a chance i don't know i'm i've so pained for you that's such a difficult thing to have to deal with particularly such a young tender age al to be fair i went

35:48Steve Kemish:bankrupt four years later so uh that one that wasn't the biggest problem i said of my um well

35:55Truth, Lies and Work Host:you might link back to it um this is a complete segue but i was thinking about it earlier we we work with a data partner who's really good at predictive models i mean they've been very good at this for years but they um they can work out when a company is showing signs they're about to go within a kind of 18 month window of going bust and by behaviors very weirdly i was just thinking about this before we did the session today for a different reason um that they've got so much data over millions of companies over decades that it's just repeating patterns but they'll see patterns and things so there could be even if we were to go back and go that that person asking for that thing in your response to that did that was that a micro moment that triggered a kind of a period or a pattern by the way actually if i may just on the patterns it's the other thing that back to that what would i teach my 20 year old self and i know that wasn't quite your question but um the the conversation i have with colleagues i've got you know a number of incredibly smart colleagues but who are just younger than me their passport picture is kinder um and and i always say i'm not necessarily smarter than you i'm just older than you i've seen more patterns and i've recognized more of them because i've done this a long time and i don't think you should ever misunderstand the value of just doing or being doing something for a long time so again back to my slightly glib point around um change the hair name uh surnames and haircuts hair names um good combo that you end up seeing repeat patterns um and not just when it comes to my professional life in terms of marketing but running a business you can when you can smell people problems quite early and go hold on we're gonna have an early warning sign here just because you've seen it before and i think if i may the other side of the coin is there's rightly maybe i'm more it resonates it's more because i will begin with a five age-wise not long in not long time in the next year that there are an awful lot of incredibly experienced people that are put on the sidelines because they begin with a five or i don't know 55 and above the data is shocking in terms of not hiring for roles so if you're if you're listening into this if there's one person listening in that's got a startup got a brilliant idea you're a bright young thing it doesn't hurt to have some really bright old things around you as well because they'll see things that you won't know are things because you just won't have seen them yet so um if i may and that's not me advocating for anyone particularly but i think uh experience can be really valuable uh from that pattern watching sorry that's a real segue forgive me no because i want to go into that because because

38:25Steve Kemish:i like this i like this in the pro in the programming coding web development world they call it a code smell it's not a bug but it's the it's the underlying we're going down a bad road here so what is forgive my terminology but what is a people smell what's a culture smell i think

38:43Truth, Lies and Work Host:it can be very varied i mean it will depend on um or so you've just given one actually in your last example of that got that person that went can have the money for there that that's not somebody for whatever reason and as i said blame the parents the work parents they're not in that right place in my world where i worry is when there's not playing to some of our values not because there are values but our values as i've said are baked out of just collectively a lot of experience so when you've got people that aren't willing to adapt or listen to others in the room um so if we're we're often collaborating right we're working on projects where we're trying to come up with a solution and if you if you sense from a senior person particularly that and i have had this a couple of times with people that thankfully I no longer work with but they were just almost disrespectful of anyone that didn't have the same in one instance qualification or in another in terms of just the same lineage as them when it came to the role well I've done this more and I'm always nervous of a combination of opinion and lack of subject matter experience in another walk of life i'm really terrified of stupid um noisy people um and i see that because i love sport and i watch sport and and therefore i might stand or sit or watch sport and and the judgment towards the coach or the manager of that particular sporting team there's a lot of people on the sidelines that know better but they probably don't so um i there's there's no one tell i think it's if i may have almost a spidey sense again it's back to that and it's probably unconscious which is why it's not talked about as much as i can see a pattern uh and again from a psychology point of view we drift in and out of sub and unconscious thought is that my unconscious thought of my the unconscious part of my brain has smelt something it's become conscious but i don't understand what it is because it's conscious and the conscious and unconscious brain can't talk particularly well together and therefore the simple version of that is my spidey sense is tingling i can't exactly put my finger on it but something isn't quite right here and it's because you can't access the bit of your brain that goes we've got a whole library of these sort of things before you just can't access it in your unconscious brain um again an entirely different segue again but it's it's a fascinating part of the human brain that we're constantly taking in everything around us almost like we're a human alexa or a google assistant if you think about when you're um out and about having conversations particularly in large busy rooms you and i might be chatting and there's lots of other people in this room talking about things, a networking event or in a pub or a bar, and then you hear your name.

41:19Truth, Lies and Work Host:Now, you weren't listening to that conversation at all, but you had to have been at an unconscious level. Your brain was scanning almost like an Alexa listening for its trigger word. And Al is an important word to you. If it was Al Elliott, the alarms would be going off as to there. So you and I were chatting and you weren't giving me the illusion that you were consciously listening to their conversation. It's just happening so i think we pick up a lot of these signals unconsciously of what's going to be a behavior that as i said earlier for a different reason somebody's got a bit of grit in the shoe or collective shoe that grit left will be a little bit annoying but will turn into a blister that becomes really uncomfortable and we can't walk we can't move so i think it it's a back back to experience without necessarily giving you a particularly uh coherent or strong answer and it will be these three things that you must always look for let's think about someone who

42:09Steve Kemish:thinks they're doing everything right in terms of recognition but they've not quite got it what do you think they might be missing well i think the first thing is back to actually uh kind of

42:22Truth, Lies and Work Host:conscious unconscious it may not surface and and when when times are good that's not a problem um i we've had as i said a really really rapid growth in four years that's been a headline level like oh well done you guys but under the surface like oh my god hold on to the rope and and develop process and within it um just keep up with all the things you need to keep up when you go through puberty in three months and you go from x to y um you're not really tested on these things when times are good i think it's well if you are then you definitely have you know from a from a management or leadership or cultural standpoint there's something wrong um the the challenge i think is when times are tough you really understand whether you've got people around you that care and are loyal um and back the other way whether your loyalty to them is in balance so it's easy to reward um when times are good if you are that way inclined it's much harder when times are hard and and therefore if you've got people that you know people have bills to pay people have family i we're not a charitable organization no no private organization really is um and therefore if you don't recognize at basic level if you can't provide for your employees I have, I always say to people, if there's a company of 40 people, I have 40 mortgages, 39 of them aren't mine.

43:50Truth, Lies and Work Host:My mindset is, okay, I've got to look after it. I've got to make decisions to protect everyone. So I think if you've got, and again, this isn't about me, but it's my version of where if you've got a company that is doing all the right things and times are good, then actually I think you'll find that you're not going to struggle in the same way when times are bad. That doesn't mean you won't have to make tough decisions with people. But even then, I think if you've done everything in a respectful, decent way, people understand, people get it. I've been in this situation twice over my arc of running or owning businesses to have to make redundancies.

44:26Truth, Lies and Work Host:It's a brutal thing to do when you're in a smaller company. Horrible. And I've suffered redundancy in client-side when there's thousands of people. And you see like, I don't know, 300 names, but they're just names on a telephone call list. when there's 40 50 people and you have to get rid of some people it's real people that you know their families and you know that but without question when you've done it and i've seen it done and and experienced it when it's done properly and if you do everything right in terms of for the right reasons then i think you're less likely to suffer when the times are tough but that's when it comes out times are good everything's easy it's when things are tough or hard or you get a sudden rug pull of a situation that's when you really see whether you've invested right in your

45:12Steve Kemish:approach to people i think you're right i think was it um patrick collinson from stripe i think they did some redundancy and they did it really nicely a few years ago um i can't remember the

45:22Truth, Lies and Work Host:exact situation i mean it's a really hard one i i can tell you stories of do of experiencing it not done nicely i did work for a company once where again this was client side 4 000 employees and it was a very simple oh okay tomorrow between 8 30 and 9 if you get a phone call you're being made redundant if you get a phone call between 9 and 9 30 you're being redeployed and if you don't get a phone call at 9 30 come in as normal um and it was just you know okay so you can imagine queue the next day 4 000 people including me laying under my duvet just not under not everyone under my duvet out that big a bed um under our own individual duvets or whatever we use for bedding purposes or just hiding kind of counting down between eight that's the longest half an hour in the world um and my phone went at quarter to nine because a mate phoned me to say he'd been let go and it's like only a terrifying ringtone um even more terrifying than the clip from the earlier in this conversation so yeah if you just you know be it is such a cliche or trope but it It can be anything.

46:29Truth, Lies and Work Host:Just be nice to people. And I think actually it's bankable being nice. Nice is a terrible word. Kind of a nice walk. But just be a decent human being. Be straight with people. Be good to people. And it plays out. We're really fortunate that we have incredible retention and loyalty in our organization. Companies that have stayed with us for a really long time. Because we're good at what we do. And we're good in the way that we try and do it. We're not there to try and make a quick buck or to rip anybody off in or out of the business. And that plays out in retention. That makes life way easier in a small business because new business is so difficult.

47:06Truth, Lies and Work Host:Anyone listening in, if you're not hit by about 10 people trying to sell you lead generation services via LinkedIn every hour, then why aren't you? And if you are, why are they doing that? Because it's such a difficult thing to do to get new business in whatever industry you're in. So therefore, keep who you've got close. It's much, much better for you.

47:26Steve Kemish:So we've talked a lot about how you give the 39 other people, and I'm rounding up to 40, the 39 other people in IMG, you've given them the recognition. What about yourself? How about the people at the top? How are you getting recognition?

47:40Truth, Lies and Work Host:Well, we're all part of the same team, right? So from a point of view of the schemes that we have, we try and make them universal. I worked this principle of operation fairness. um i can't you can't always be uh equal with everybody but you can be fair to everybody so there will be different kind of elements reward that we have to have for slightly different roles um i take the greatest pride in there's two things for me that are really important working with people that i enjoy working with that's massive um i have to pay my bills as well and as i said i'll put it as a side point um i have bills to pay i everybody has a life to lead And I think, therefore, if you can balance the two, that you're doing a job that you enjoy with people you really enjoy doing it with, maybe we've got time to talk about Dylan's in a minute, which is our kind of internal language for people and organisations we just don't want to work with.

48:35Truth, Lies and Work Host:Then if you can balance the fact that you can pay for your life and you enjoy your work at the same time, then I think that's win. That's massive for me. i'm really fortunate since 2007 it's why i left mainly not just to work with companies my mum had heard of more because i had that sunday evening thing oh god it's monday tomorrow i haven't had that since then i've been really fortunate that i've really enjoyed what i've done and i've done it because i enjoyed it because i've done it with people that i just think are brilliant enjoyable rewarding good people to spend time with and that goes further just employees as i said dylan's just a kind of catch-all for us in the organization that says if it's somebody that smells like they might be difficult as an individual um and and companies don't really this is a funny statement but companies don't really exist companies are just collections of people and there's big collections of people big companies and smaller ones and so therefore the idea that i don't want to work with that company's got a bad culture it's not the company it's people and therefore we do all we can and this plays back to the ego point now it's probably quite a nice circle to end on is um when i was previously in an agency we went from three to fifty people in about three or four years so similar ish to today um i thought it was a big deal but really what that meant is we built a payroll and a hungry hungry machine that we had to feed every month with jobs and that meant we made decisions to say yes to people that we knew in our heart of hearts like oh they're going to be a nightmare they're going to be difficult they're going to be hard and those are dylan's and we try really hard now to go no actually for everybody satisfaction my own personal but for everyone collectively let's not spend our time with people working with or for or around people that are not nice people that don't play in the way that our values say and then actually that for me goes a long way because you you've got good retention you're working with people you like and they like you you've got good staff retention because you've got people in an environment that enjoy that because that's a real luxury to have where you're working with people and you're not being hit and beaten down by the man all the time you get flexibility you've got back to and i hate it but there are times where in our industry there's the four o 'clock on a friday call of doom sorry al sorry steve i know it's four o 'clock on a friday but i'm in trouble um could you possibly get something back to me by midday on monday and and that should not wipe out the weekend but i like the idea that we go well we're trying to make them look good and we're trying to make their problems go away and a few other things besides so i think if you can surround yourself with good people which was probably the best advice i ever given years ago steve surround yourself with good people the rest will follow for sure and those good people you can try and do good things for them along the way best you can you can say what you want about to me i've got pretty thick skin but if you're going to upset people that i work with then i will not be very happy about it because i have a responsibility for people that i work with to make sure that they're in a safe, rewarding environment.

51:33Truth, Lies and Work Host:Which again, it's almost a full loop back to if we'll allow reward and recognition to be saying bedfellows, then there we are.

51:39Steve Kemish:That was Steve Chemish. And I wish all the founders we work with had heard this conversation before they hired employee number 13. Let's just wrap up with the top three takeaways for business owners navigating this kind of growth. Lesson one, business puberty is real and unavoidable. At 12 to 15 people, you stop being a room where everyone knows everything and become a company that needs processes. And you can't skip this phase. You can only prepare for it by understanding it's coming and that it will be uncomfortable. Lesson two, recognition isn't necessarily reward and it is different for every single person.

52:14Steve Kemish:So don't assume that unlimited holiday or bonuses is going to work for everyone. Some people want time off, some people want public praise and some want private acknowledgement. Best thing to do is ask them and then deliver on it. And lesson three, operational fairness beats equality every time. You can't treat everyone exactly the same when you're growing, but you can be fair by adapting your approach to individual needs, all while maintaining your values and your culture. Now, Steve's done this three times and he's learned from every painful moment. This business adolescence metaphor isn't just clever, it's a warning.

52:49Steve Kemish:If you're approaching 15 people, you're about to hit puberty whether you like it or not. You can find Steve at intermediate-global.com or search for him on LinkedIn. His surname is Kemish, that's K-E-M-I-S-H. And if you're going through this growth phase right now, send us a DM. Maybe we can help. That's all for today. Remember, growth isn't just about adding headcount. It's about evolving your culture, your systems, and most importantly, how you recognize the humans who are building this thing with you. This is Truth, Lies & Work. We will see you next week. Bye.

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What happens when a small, tight-knit team suddenly starts to grow fast?

This week on Truth, Lies & Work, we’re joined by Steve Kemish to talk about the most uncomfortable phase of company growth. The moment when your business moves from a handful of people to a real organisation. Steve calls it the puberty of a company and if you have ever scaled a team, you will know exactly what he means.

Steve has grown a marketing agency from a small team into a business approaching 50 people. In this conversation, he shares what leaders rarely talk about when growth accelerates. The identity crisis, the culture wobble, the communication breakdowns and the leadership shifts that suddenly become unavoidable.

This episode is packed with practical advice for founders, leaders and managers navigating rapid growth.

Key Takeaways

Why growth changes everythingMany founders assume growth is purely positive. In reality, scaling introduces new complexity overnight. Communication becomes harder. Informal processes stop working. Leaders who once knew everything now have to learn to let go.

The “puberty phase” of organisationsSteve explains why the jump from around 13 to 20 employees is a major turning point. This is when businesses must move from instinct and intuition to structure and systems. Without that shift, chaos quickly follows.

The leadership identity shiftThe skills that help you start a business are not the same skills needed to scale one. Founders must evolve from doers into leaders, from decision-makers into decision-enablers.

Culture under pressureGrowth puts pressure on culture. New hires bring fresh perspectives, expectations and habits. Leaders must become intentional about culture rather than relying on “how things have always been.”

Communication becomes the biggest challengeAs teams grow, assumptions and informal conversations stop working. Leaders must learn to communicate clearly, consistently and at scale.

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If you are hiring quickly, planning to scale or feeling the growing pains of expansion, this conversation offers a roadmap for navigating one of the most challenging phases of leadership.

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