279. The Leadership Assessment Tool we're ALL using wrong, with Chartered Occupational Psychologist, Juliette Alban-Metcalfe

26 Feb 2026 · 45 min · 17 chapters

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Podcast Episode Summary: Truth, Lies and Work - Episode 279

Overview Podcast Title: Truth, Lies and Work Episode Title: The Leadership Assessment Tool we're ALL using wrong, with Chartered Occupational Psychologist, Juliette Alban-Metcalfe Hosts: Leanne Elliott and Al Elliott Guest: Juliette Alban-Metcalfe, Chartered Occupational Psychologist and CEO of Real World Group Release Date: [Insert Release Date] Duration: [Insert Duration]

This episode explores the limitations of traditional personality assessments in leadership development, emphasizing the importance of behavioral assessments and 360-degree feedback.

Key Themes and Discussions

Personality vs. Behaviour

  • Main Argument:
  • Personality assessments (e.g., DISC, Myers-Briggs, Enneagram) provide limited insight into leadership effectiveness.
  • Juliette Alban-Metcalfe asserts that behavior, specifically observable actions, is a far more accurate predictor of leadership success.
  • Key Points:
  • Only a small fraction of leadership success can be attributed to personality traits.
  • Effective leadership is characterized by specific behaviors that engage teams and foster motivation.

The "Accidental Manager" Trap

  • Issue Identified:
  • Founders and technical experts often struggle to transition into effective leadership roles due to a lack of awareness about their behaviors and their impact on team dynamics.
  • Solution:
  • Implementing 360-degree feedback mechanisms allows leaders to gain insights into their leadership style from multiple perspectives, bridging the gap between intention and actual impact.

Predictive Validity of Leadership Behaviours

  • Key Insight:
  • Leadership behaviors can predict up to 60% of a team's motivation and fulfillment.
  • This highlights the need for assessments that focus on what leaders do, rather than who they are based on personality tests.

Building Psychological Safety

  • Importance of Trust:
  • Tools should be used to foster a sense of psychological safety, allowing for open communication and constructive feedback without fear of judgment or repercussions.

Actionable Advice for Leaders

  • Two Immediate Steps:
  • Cultivate self-awareness about personal leadership styles and behaviors.
  • Engage with team members to improve connection and appreciation, enhancing overall team morale and performance.

Insights from Juliette Alban-Metcalfe Leadership Assessments

  • Juliette advocates for using the TLQ 360 assessment to measure engaging leadership, emphasizing that feedback should be gathered from multiple stakeholders, including direct reports and peers, to provide a holistic view of a leader's impact.

Organizational Culture Change

  • Top-Down Approach:
  • Culture change is significantly influenced by the behaviors of top executives. Their actions set the tone for the entire organization.
  • Implementation Strategy:
  • Leaders should undergo 360 feedback processes to understand how their behaviors affect organizational culture and employee engagement.

Reflections and Takeaways

  1. Stop Relying on Personality Tests:
  2. Focus on behavioral assessments for leadership development.
  1. Utilize 360-Degree Feedback:
  2. Ensure that the feedback process is development-focused and allows leaders to choose their reviewers to promote safety and honesty.
  1. Recognize the Role of Leaders in Culture:
  2. Understand that leaders' behaviors, even when not visible, significantly impact the organization's culture.

Conclusion This episode challenges conventional wisdom around personality assessments in leadership and provides actionable strategies for leaders to enhance their effectiveness through behavior-focused assessments and feedback mechanisms.

Connect with Juliette Alban-Metcalfe

  • LinkedIn: [Juliette Alban-Metcalfe](https://www.linkedin.com)
  • Website: [Real World Group](https://realworld-group.com)

Connect with Al & Leanne

  • LinkedIn: [Truth, Lies & Work](https://www.linkedin.com)
  • Email: hello@truthliesandwork.com

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This episode serves as a thought-provoking reminder that true leadership effectiveness stems from understanding and improving behaviors rather than relying solely on personality traits.

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Chapters

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The Disconnect in Self-Assessment

1:24 to 2:22

Exploration of the gap between self-perception and team perception in management.

“My name is Leanne, I'm a choice occupational psychologist.”

Problems with Traditional Assessment Tools

2:22 to 3:11

Discussion on why conventional 360 reviews may not be effective.

“So after this short break, we'll find out why the review mechanism sitting in your HR toolkit probably isn't doing what you think it is.”

Juliette's Perspective on Organizational Assessment

3:11 to 4:48

Juliette discusses the significance of behavior over personality in assessments.

“So, we are joined here by an incredible woman who is following very much in the footsteps of her mother by producing some incredible stuff.”

Understanding Predictive Validity in Assessments

4:48 to 7:00

Insight into predictive validity and its relevance to leadership assessments.

“organization or a team to understand the way people behave in certain ways.”

Limitations of Personality Assessments

7:00 to 8:35

A critical look at how personality assessments fall short in predicting leadership effectiveness.

“You know, it's a bit like that old adage.”

Behavior’s Role in Leadership Success

8:35 to 9:56

Discussion on how leadership behavior directly impacts team motivation and performance.

“improve team performance or it will then improve leadership performance or it will then make you a better performer in the in the role and and the bottom line is it won't do that to a great degree.”

Real-World Application for Founders

9:56 to 12:22

Advice for founders on using behavioral assessments to enhance leadership.

“And there is lots and lots of good stuff about the personality approach.”

The Importance of 360 Feedback in Leadership

14:03 to 20:38

Learn about the critical role of 360 feedback for effective leadership development.

“which measures engaging leadership, because what that will allow the person to do is to get feedback from stakeholders around them.”

Challenges and Solutions in the 360 Process

20:38 to 26:53

Discover how to approach 360 feedback safely and effectively to enhance leadership.

“It wouldn't necessarily be a comfortable experience for a lot of people.”

Real-World Examples of Successful 360 Implementations

27:26 to 28:00

Hear about anonymized success stories of organizations that improved through 360 feedback.

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The Role of Leadership in Culture Change

28:00 to 29:50

Learn how top leadership influences organizational culture and change.

“But anyway, what's critical in any culture change is that the top team recognise that they are part of the problem.”

Strategies for Effective Leadership Feedback

29:50 to 35:20

Explore methods for gathering feedback from stakeholders to improve leadership.

“It doesn't have to be incredibly complex.”

Addressing Leadership Challenges in Creative Agencies

35:20 to 39:20

Understand how leaders can regain control and focus on their core passions.

“and what we do and that it tends to be you know different whether it's a high performing team but high-performing organisations or a low-performing organisation, that tends to be what's not been happening.”

Key Recommendations for Leaders

39:20 to 40:50

Discover two critical actions leaders should take to improve connections and appreciation in their teams.

“more of the, you know, at the further end of, you know, what's needed.”

The Importance of Human Connection in Leadership

42:04 to 42:55

Learn why fostering human connections and showing appreciation are vital for leaders.

“But yeah, so notice having the human connections and making sure that you show appreciation.”

Finding the Right Resources for Leadership Development

42:55 to 43:23

Discover where to find valuable resources for leadership development.

“think, yep, real world group is for me, where's the best place for them to go?”

Key Takeaways for Effective Leadership

43:23 to 44:32

Understand the three essential lessons for leaders to improve their effectiveness.

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0:00Quick question. How good a manager do you think you are? Out of 10, whatever number just popped into your head, the science says your team almost certainly disagrees. Not a little bit and not in a few areas, almost completely.

0:13Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:There tends to be pretty much zero correlation between self-perception and that of managers, of peers, of direct reports, of colleagues in direct reports. But those people tend to agree actually about their reflection. So they tend to correlate with each other, which suggests that as human beings, we're not very good at being accurate in self-reflection. Our guest today, Juliette Alban-Metcraft, is a chartered occupational psychologist and CEO of Real World Group. She spent 25 years helping organisations figure out why good intentions at the top produce terrible results at the bottom. And she's got a very specific problem with the tools that most of us are already using.

0:51You know that 360 did last year? Well, Juliet says it might not be the best way to learn anything useful about you or your people. Today we're asking, what's the one tool that can genuinely transform how your whole organisation behaves? And more importantly, how do we use it correctly? Yes, today we are talking about the 360 review and Juliet tells us we've been using it all wrong. Welcome to Truth, Lies and Work, the award-winning podcast where behavioural science meets workplace culture. Brought to you by the HubSpot Podcast Network, the audio destination for business professionals. My name is Leanne, I'm a choice occupational psychologist.

1:30My name is Al, I'm a business owner. And we are here to help you simplify the science of work. Now here's something I found genuinely uncomfortable preparing for this episode because I have been a founder. I did at one point have around 30 staff and I genuinely believed I was a pretty decent manager because I cared about them. I worked hard. I led by example. And according to the research Juliet's about to share, my self-assessment was probably wildly inaccurate in ways I couldn't even see. Juliet is CEO of Real World Group and a chartered occupational psychologist, like me, who specializes in using evidence-based assessments to strengthen leadership and culture, all the way from founders with small teams up to executive boards.

2:10She follows in the footsteps of her mother, Professor Beverly Alimo Metcalf, an incredibly influential leadership researcher who founded Real World Group over 25 years ago. So after this short break, we'll find out why the review mechanism sitting in your HR toolkit probably isn't doing what you think it is. See you in a second. HubSpot makes impossible growth impossibly easy for their customers. And here's a perfect example. Lee, your turn. Morehouse College needed to reach new students with fresh, engaging content. But with a massive 900-page website, even the tiniest updates took 30 minutes to publish.

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3:11So, we are joined here by an incredible woman who is following very much in the footsteps of her mother by producing some incredible stuff. I don't want to introduce her because I'm going to make a mess of this. So, Julia, can you tell us who you are and what you do?

3:25Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:I'm a tasked occupational psychologist, like your lovely wife, and I'm the CEO of Real World Group. And what we do is we create evidence-based assessments and also provide consultancy to help organisations to strengthen leadership culture, team performance, all the way up to board level, and whole organisation culture. through applying psychology, organizational psychology specifically, to create like basically a win-win between organizations and the employees. So the conditions where employees are giving their very best, creating their best performance for the good of the organization, their customers, their stakeholders, but at the same time, the way that the culture is, it's maximized for their benefit too.

4:12Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:So they're maximally well at work, they're maximally motivated, satisfied, fulfilled and so on. So it's about, essentially, it's about creating that win-win between the organization's aims and the individual's needs and desires. So I want to talk about the assessments here. I think a lot of people, when they think about assessments, they kind of think of DISC or Myers-Briggs. This is not what we're talking about, is it? So in answer to your question, Al, they are similar in the sense that the application is similar. So people would apply something like DISC or Myers-Briggs if they wanted to help leaders understand better how they operate or to help teams understand why individuals in the team behave as they do, which might then help an organization or a team to understand the way people behave in certain ways.

5:01Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:But what we do is rather than looking at personality, which is what things like DISC and Myers-Briggs do, we go straight to looking at behavior, which is kind of, it's hard to describe in a podcast without using visuals. But if you think about what predicts performance that an individual influences, whether they're a leader or whether they're, you know, just a non-positional leader, someone in a team, then, of course, it's useful to understand what their motivations and preferences and values are, which is where the personality bit comes in. those things that are sort of stable and consistent over time, you know, in us as human beings.

5:43Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:But there's another layer between that and performance. And that is then how people actually, you know, enact their behavior day to day. So if you start looking at behavior rather than, you know, looking at personality, then what you're doing is you're getting much closer to understanding how this person performs in the job. And that's ultimately what, you know, we should be concerned about. Not to say that personality doesn't have its place because it can be really valuable. But what we're sort of saying is that when it comes to predicting performance, you're going to get much more value from looking at behavior rather than looking at personality because there's very little aspects of personality that predict performance in role.

6:28Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:It's more about what behaviors you choose regardless of your personality type. It's kind of like i said it's a bit easier to explain with a visual but it's all about predictive um you know validity basically a bit of a technical term i threw in i love it i love it i learn every single day i learn something from from leanne and and today i've learned this predictive what was the term you used predictive predictive validity which is one of the things that um it's a scientific term from the sort of the world of of psychometric center statistics and what it's saying is that you You know, it's a bit like that old adage.

7:04Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:Do you remember that? I think it was a cuprinol or something. They used to have an advertising slogan, which was does what it says on the tin. And that's, you know, a form of predictive validity. It's saying, you know, can you trust that this product will actually achieve the results that you want? And so a nice way of using that in our world is sort of saying, you know, you can do a nice or, you know, an engaging and a colorful personality assessment. assessment, you know, and we all, as human beings, we tend to enjoy self-reflection and, you know, you know, safe self-reflection, obviously, you know, things like therapy can be uncomfortable, but we tend as human beings to like to do things like complete personality tests.

7:44Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:So, you know, this is why the, you know, we get, we go down, you know, internet wormholes when it sort of says, oh, test your IQ type or test your personality type or, oh, do you have ADHD or whatever it is, people love that sort of thing because we love to be able to basically predict the future. And looking at personality and understanding our different preferences and traits and so on is one way of us having a sense of control. So we like doing that sort of thing. And it can be really fun. And then you can sort of debate, well, I'm an INTJ, well, I'm an ENFP, or I'm a fiery red or amber you know whatever it is but the the problem the problem lies where people overextend um their sort of assertions that you know this understanding personality will then improve team performance or it will then improve leadership performance or it will then make you a better performer in the in the role and and the bottom line is it won't do that to a great degree.

8:49Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:It definitely is useful for things like understanding job person fit. So it can be really good for helping people to understand, am I in the right role? Do I have a good alignment of what is required of me professionally and competently to do this job well? It can help with things like interpersonal relationships. You know, a lot of people don't understand or don't fully grasp that we all see the world very differently. And so if you explore a personality, for example, in a teen, then it can help us to start to build that level of understanding of the very different perspectives we come from. Or it can also help us to understand, well, now I can understand why Dave behaves in this kind of way when I approach him with something, or I can understand why Carly likes to work in this sort of way.

9:38Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:And that's where personality can be really, really useful. There are some great tools as well that explore things like, Like, you know, do you have a style under pressure as a leader that is more or less likely to derail you, basically? Because, of course, our behavior could be quite different under pressure. That's all the good stuff. And there is lots and lots of good stuff about the personality approach. The challenge is around, like I said, the overpromise of predictive validity. because people will run whole leadership programs around personality tools with the mistaken belief that that will then enable them to develop the leaders and they won't need any other type of introspection.

10:20Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:What they're doing is they are looking at some aspects of what makes a good leader. We need to understand, do I actually want to lead people? Do I actually want to influence in this particular way? you know, this is a good role for me fundamentally. But a very, very large proportion of what it takes to be a good leader, and you know, just to sort of give you a sense of how much, sort of 85 % or more is not explained by personality. Whereas if you look at things like, you know, aspects of leadership behavior, they can predict like 60 or more percent of how much people feel motivated in their role, how much they feel satisfied, how much they feel fulfilled.

11:07Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:So in other words, it helps to predict critical parts of leadership, which is all about how do I influence and motivate and engage my people so that we can really get the job done. This predictability is really, really important. You need to know it's about the right tool for the job, basically. That's what it comes down to. And being able to show that what you're looking at really does have an impact rather than just feeling nice or being fun or enjoyable. So we've just heard Juliet explain why personality tools like DISC and Myers-Briggs aren't great in measuring behaviour. In fact, I think Leanne will go so far as to say they're not really useful at all in the modern workplace.

11:45And I'll be honest, I think Juliet was being quite diplomatic and polite there. She was much more polite than I am when I talk about said assessment tools. But the thing is, as Juliet says, 85 % or more of what makes somebody an effective leader is simply not explained by personality. And that's not a small gap. That's most of the picture. So let's go back to Juliet and talk about real world scenarios. No pun intended. I think this is the bit that every founder and leader needs to hear before anything else. So imagine I'm a founder. I've got like 25 people I've built this business and I don't really know what I'm doing with my people I've just I know how to build a business but now I'm an accidental manager firstly what tool in the real world group do you think that I should go through and secondly what would the actual results look like for this fictional founder

12:36Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:the interesting thing about founders is that they've got lots of obviously fantastic things going for them they've got you know presumably they're entrepreneurial they're likely to be very passionate about what they do. They might have a deep technical knowledge, although that's not always necessarily critical for a leadership role, but of course it will be probably important for the product or service that they're providing. They've got loads going for them. But the big gap probably is in self-awareness around how their behaviour is impacting on other people. Sometimes what founders get challenged by is not understanding when they're being appropriately demanding or overly demanding of other people.

13:22Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:Or, for example, when they are involving them appropriately or not involving them. So people might feel sort of disenfranchised because the founders are making all the decisions. So that's just a couple of examples. In essence, what's really, really critical for an organisation when it moves into further phases of growth is do the leaders, especially the most senior leaders in the organisation, understand the impact they're having on other people? And are they truly bringing them with them rather than just continuing with a single-minded vision of what they want the organisation to be? because, you know, so in answer to your question, I would suggest that they would look at a 360 like the TLQ 360, which measures engaging leadership, because what that will allow the person to do is to get feedback from stakeholders around them.

14:15Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:So they might have, you know, for example, they might be so bold as to invite investors to give them feedback in how they lead. But certainly the most important thing will be to do is to invite people from inside the organisation to give them feedback about how they lead and the influence that they're having, because that will enable them to get, you know, make more of what they have. Basically, the bottom line is, if people, if leaders, you know, carry on doing whatever they're doing, however successful it is at that point, without gathering feedback from other people, then things might not go horribly wrong.

14:50Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:Things might continue to grow exponentially, but they're missing out on a huge amount of potential and, you know, further possibility for innovation, for productivity, for, you know, all those things that comes with effective leadership. So it's about, you know, gathering 360 feedback, learning from it, you know, understanding what it is that you're doing really well, that people love, you know, about your passion and your enthusiasm. And you might be very you might be already you know appropriately caring all those kind of involving all those sorts of things so that you don't stop doing those things as things get bigger and more complex and more demanding and then of course learning from the areas where you um you know might be falling short for people so that you can actually you know address that and therefore continue to maximize all or start to further maximize the potential of your people i founded a couple of companies before and there was one where I had about 30 staff and I had absolutely no idea what I was doing.

15:54And I know that I expected them to care as much as I did. I'd worked, you know, 17 hours a day and I couldn't believe why they'd want to go home at five o 'clock because there's still cool things to do. So this is, I think what's cool about this is I would learn then what I'm doing well and what I'm doing badly, which a personality test wouldn't tell me. juliette would other other tests is it just me who should do this as a founder should do this um this assessment or are there other assessments that perhaps i could do with some of my other

16:27Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:teams or leaders one of the things you know as you probably gathered from what i've just said in response to the previous question one of the things that is consistently found in research around what is you know correlated with effective leadership is is self-awareness and that is because as human beings, we tend not to be particularly self-aware. When you look at data, large-scale data around how people tend to rate themselves in terms of their leadership approach and how other people rate them, there tends to be pretty much zero correlation between self-perception and that of managers, of peers, of direct reports, of colleagues in direct reports.

17:07Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:But those people tend to agree, actually, about their reflection. So they tend to correlate with each other, which suggests that as human beings we're not very good at being self accurate and self-reflection that said doesn't mean that you know of course you know we naturally think well does that mean that you know i'm worse than i think that other people think i am and the answer is not not always no it tends to be a mix of areas where you underrate yourself and areas where you overrate yourself so all leaders need to be reflecting about how they're having an impact on other people and you know when we talk about leadership at real world group we don't just mean leadership in positional power we also mean that everybody in an organization you know is a leader of some kind because all of us are representing the organization all of us have a role to play and we want ideally everyone to be sufficiently engaged with our organization that they feel responsible for you know supporting the right kind of culture serving our customers or our Service users in the right kind of way.

18:08Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:So we want everybody, ideally, to be taking, to see themselves as a leader of some form or another. So in answer to the question, you know, all leaders and organisations need to be undertaking 360 at some point in their, you know, well, ideally some point in the year. You don't want to overdo 360. So you don't want to do it more than once every, say, 12 to 18 months. But, you know, all organisations should be doing it at all levels. If you take organisations like, you know, the fire service, there are fire services that we're working with. Most people in the UK will probably be familiar with the Wilshire Report, which was looking into, you know, bullying and sexism and racism and all kinds of, you know, inappropriate behaviour in the fire service that was holding back, you know, the mission, which was to save lives and prevent accidents.

18:59Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:So in response to that, the Wilshire report says, you know, that all fire services, you know, must have 360 for leaders in the organisation. Now, some of the most forward-thinking fire services that we work with have gone so far as to not only provide it for all the leaders in their organisation, but also frontline. So we've created 360 tools that are for, and to be fair, we've had these for years, but we've adapted them as well, specifically for fire service, that are not only for people in positional leadership roles. That's what, you know, it should absolutely be rolled out to all leaders so they understand how they impact positively and negatively, but also people in every role.

19:39Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:So it's about getting a 360 perspective, obviously less extensive and less sophisticated as the leaders that are on the strategic roles, but still, you know, everybody ideally needs to get feedback on how are they contributing to the mission? How are they contributing to the positive culture in the team, which is mission critical? Everything we do in organisations is mission critical. And if it isn't, then we shouldn't be doing it. So if we take the point, we take the perspective that what everybody does is mission critical, then everybody should be provided with an opportunity to reflect on their behaviour.

20:14Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:So starting with something like that is key. And then you can look at how teams work and you can sort of extend it further. I want to go into the teams in a second because that's interesting on the lips of most people who lead. But before I do that, what happens if I do this 360 and I don't like the results? Is that likely that I'm not going to like all the results from it? It wouldn't necessarily be a comfortable experience for a lot of people. I think people, what we find, we've been doing this for 25 years in all different countries, all around the world, in all different sectors. we've got tons of experience of this what we find is that the the thought of 360 is much scarier than the reality because people think oh my gosh this is so exposing you know how's it going to how's it going to feel you know if I really want to hear from people about you know about how they feel one of the things that we've put in place as a really important um well I say rule more than even guidance is you know people who are at the center of the 360 a technical term for someone who's having a 360 done to them is called the target manager.

21:24Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:Of course, that term is an old fashioned term. It's kind of been in the parlance, you know, in this sector for years. But of course, it will just be a target person if it's someone who's not in a managerial role. So the target manager must be able to choose their own reviewers. And that might seem counterintuitive to getting honest feedback. But the bottom line is, we've got to work with we're working with human beings here, like everything in organisations, you've got to be aware of, you know, what are the ways that we as human beings respond to, you know, stimulus. And in the case of things like feedback, you know, even just hearing the word feedback, most people's echoes rise, you know, they kind of like, they get to, they start with a little threat response in their brains, rather than, you know, an opportunity response.

22:10Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:We need to be aware that because we're working with human beings, we can lead a horse to water, but we can't make it drink. That sounds a bit weird, isn't it, saying human beings and using a horse analogy? But I hope you get what I mean. We need to accept that we're working with people and we can present with all the data in the world. The way that our brains work is that we will naturally go to ego protection. That's just how we work. That's how our brains work. Now, what that means is that if I was to say, for example, present you with data, Al, that I'd collected from colleagues of yours, that you didn't necessarily, you might not even know who they were.

22:47Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:It might be a random selection. Or it could be you know who they are, but you didn't get a say in who I chose. And I'm going, well, actually, you know, I think Al needs some feedback on how he works with some of the stakeholders. So I'm going to ask the ones that I know he has a more challenging relationship with to give him feedback. There's all kinds of different ways in which people might select, you know, who's going to give you feedback. But all the ways in which I do it and you don't get a say in it gives you more and more excuses to say, well, actually, they don't know me or they don't value me or actually they've got an agenda that is, you know, not actually in the best interests of me or the company.

23:25Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:or they could say, you know, you could say to yourself things like, you know, well, they've got it in for me, we've never got on. There's all kinds of, you know, cognitive resources you can use to actually reject the feedback. And, you know, that's what your brain will do if it doesn't like what it's seeing. So we need to start a 360 process by saying, look, first of all, we will make it a safe process in inverted commas, which means that we won't use the 360 for performance appraisal. We would strongly advise it doesn't get used for things like remuneration committees. Because when you know that it's safe, that it's for development only, which is how 360 should only really be used, when it's for development only, then you will feel much safer inviting people that you need to hear from that aren't necessarily your best pals or the ones that you get on best with.

24:17Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:And that will give you some feedback that might be more challenging than, you know, than you might get if you, for example, were doing it for remuneration or for performance appraisal or something like that. So we create the conditions where it's sort of safe. And we say, look, it's really critical. If you want people to actually take on board the feedback, then you must let them choose their reviewers. So, you know, it's safe. So then you choose your reviewers. And then when the feedback comes back and it's not that favorable, there are some things that, you know, there'll be lots of positives.

24:47Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:because hopefully lots of positive things that you do do as a leader but when there are things that you need to learn from we've created the conditions where you can actually take it on you can actually accept that feedback it might feel a bit unfronting but you might you'll eventually accept it and you'll be able to work with it whereas if you don't put those conditions in place you know hopefully I've explained the reasons why as human beings we will find it really difficult to accept. We'll put it into the too difficult, too fronting box in our brains. And we might go through the motions of, yeah, yeah, no, that's interesting.

25:20Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:Yeah, no, I'll learn from that. Yeah. But secretly we're thinking, you know, what a load of rubbish, you know, or what do they know? Or whatever else we want to use to protect our ego. And it will be pointless. So it's about, if you want to get value from a 360 process, you've got to use it in the right way, you know. And if you do that, you can achieve huge transformational change in organizations we've we've worked with organizations that have really transformed their cultures because they've approached things like 360 and you know that wider support in a way that is not affronting and it's a way that enables people to take it on board any any kind of any kind of forced behavior change does doesn't you know in that kind of way doesn't happen now i'm not saying that people should be allowed to behave how they want to behave but if you want to force behavior change 360 is not a tool to do it with okay so let me just reiterate what we've just heard because i think it's so so important a 360 only works if the person at the center of it genuine believes the feedback is safe development focused and comes from people they trust get any of those conditions wrong and your brain will reject it which is very human, but also means most 360s done badly are basically a waste of everybody's time.

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27:26you just mentioned there that you've seen some massive changes in organizations after using 360s now i'm pretty sure that you can't name anyone but speaking anonymously can you give us an example of of of a situation where an organization did use a 360 and change dramatically

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27:42Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:for the better so we work with organizations that are you know really challenged and ones that are doing really well and you know both can be really really stressful because you know either you're doing really badly and people are on your back or you're doing really well and and nowhere else is there to go apart from down you know so so they can be equally challenging situations but if you focus on the ones that are that have been really really challenged and like you said obviously it's a bit it's a bit sensitive we can't really name names in this and in this although we do have case studies and things on our website where we can where we do talk about organizations and they've given their permission to have shared.

28:19Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:But anyway, what's critical in any culture change is that the top team recognise that they are part of the problem. One of the biggest barriers to culture change in any organisation is the top team, because those are the people that we know as, you know, organisational behaviour experts or, you know, OD practitioners and so on, or even just from our day-to-day experience as people in organisations, we know that culture lies with the top teams so so very much so it's the things that they do or don't do that get replicated throughout the organization and when you look at the research around why culture change programs or leadership development programs and so on fail to have the desired effect the core reasons tend to be the behavior of the board or the executive team or equivalent in thinking that in not understanding that they are part of the problem, in not recognizing just how powerful their behavior is, or, for example, thinking that their behavior isn't noticed or isn't observed.

29:25Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:They think the decisions they take behind closed doors, you know, remain behind closed doors. They don't realize that they have these effects in, you know, let's say that they institute a change in things and people at the bottom, you know, all the front line of the organization will be saying, you know, whose idea was this and why won't we consult with them? Don't they realize there's knock-on effects? That's just one small example of how the behavior at the top of the organization influences all the way through. So to create effective culture change, you've got to start at that point and you've got to talk to those people and persuade them that they are key to, you know, well, they are a fundamental part of why the organization is as it is now, but that they have the keys to transforming the situation from the top of the organisation, from how they behave day to day.

30:17Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:And it's simple common sense stuff. It doesn't have to be incredibly complex. It doesn't have to be about, you know, introducing a whole new strategy. You don't need to have a complicated. It's about, first of all, it comes back to understanding the impact they're having. So what we do with these kinds of organisations where we help to transform their performance, we start by saying to the executive team or board, you know, Undertaker 360 as a team, get feedback, you know, again, same as with an individual 360, they choose their reviewers, you know, they need to believe in the feedback that's coming back.

30:51Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:But get some feedback from, if there's a governance, you know, body of some kind above you, get feedback from them. If there are partners, strategic partners that you work with or JV partners, whatever it is, get feedback from them on how you're leading and how you're, you're consulting, building shared vision with them, whether you're honest and consistent in the way that you behave. All those things are fundamental to any stakeholder on an executive team. Certainly get feedback from direct reports to the board or the executive team about how you lead and the kind of behaviours that you enact and the kind of behaviours that you encourage.

31:25Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:For example, boards often and executive teams equally often say to us, well, you know, we've told people to be innovative we've asked you know we've said to them we want your ideas and suggestions and to do things differently why aren't they doing it and then you do something like a board 360 or a deck team 360 and you realize that the reason is because they've created a culture where when things go wrong they shoot first and ask questions later that is coming from directly from their behavior fully in their control but having a huge impact on the wider organization. So that's just one small example again.

32:00Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:So starting by them getting stakeholder feedback from people in the organization and outside the organization, reflecting on that in the context of their strategy, their priorities, their challenges, you know, all those external pressures that they have, and then working to address that, working to adapt their behavior, whether they're lacking certain competencies in leading, or whether it's the behaviors that to change or whether it's how they work as a team or not because of course one of the big challenges to performance is silo working isn't it and that starts from the top two so for example it might be about you know them becoming a stronger team so those are the three things that we look at we look at engaging leadership governance competencies high performing team behaviors of those top teams when they've done that work and worked out how they need to lead better and differently together they then do individual 360 whether they're a non-exec or an exec and that is really really critical we you know sorry i'm going to go off on a tangent but non-execs need to understand that they have as much influence not as much influence but they do have a significant influence on the culture even if they are non-exec we did some work for the australian institute of company directors a few years ago and they asked us to help create an assessment for their for their boards and in Australia boards are 90 % non-execs you know you might have a chief exec on the board but they would be typically they would be invited as opposed to you know a permanent member and the Australian Institute recognised that the non-execs have such a powerful influence on the culture so which is why they invite us to ask us to work with them on this this piece of work but that that's really really important for organizations to understand and then what you do is you would then you would want to take a culture survey of a whole organisation in one way or another.

33:47Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:What is it that people experience from their leaders? What do they experience from their day-to-day leader? What do they experience from their, how do they experience the executive team or board, even if they don't even know who they are? Because we can have, we can be impacted by the top team without even knowing who their face is. We wouldn't recognise them if we tripped over them in the corridor. And that, of course, is part of the problem often. But the point is, they still have an influence so understanding they're not not doing a blanket approach to development but truly understanding and engaging the whole organization in saying this is how you feel this is what you've told us how you feel about your part of the organization and what what is it that needs to change so galvanizing their ideas their suggestions you know really listening to people and finding out what is it that will help them to achieve the mission?

34:38Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:You know, not just about serving their needs, but what will help them help the organisation? It's kind of a no-brainer. These are not high-cost initiatives at all. These are low-cost initiatives that basically realise so much potential in an organisation. So you've got your 360, you've got your individual 360, you've got your leadership culture survey, then you're fully engaged in the workforce and helping to find solutions. And we use things like appreciative inquiry and other techniques to really help to not just problem solve but you know go further than that and help to create to create the possibilities in an organization you know to really really help them maximize their potential um you know that that's in a nutshell and what we do and that it tends to be you know different whether it's a high performing team but high-performing organisations or a low-performing organisation, that tends to be what's not been happening.

35:34Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:And then that can have such a transformative effect on performance and people and sickness and all those things that are affected by culture when it's right or when it's wrong. Fabulous answer. And I think it totally explains everything. Can I give you a fictitious situation? so imagine we have a um someone who's got a creative agency they are they're very they've started it because they love you know creative digital creative they started it they're now up to about sort of 30 40 employees um and they find that they're doing they're answering more emails and creating stuff they're basically just a ceo rather than someone who started that agency they want to escape they either want to go back to doing the creative stuff or they might want to go and start another agency they just basically don't want this anymore so if they came to you and said i've got a budget i want to do it what would be the plan to help them to get a bit more freedom from the just that what they see is the daily grind boring stuff of dealing with emails and hr one of the things that we would be wanting to explore with them the the first thing you know not not to not to not answer your question now but the first thing is every organization and every leader is really unique and that is why um the way that we approach um using diagnostics and assessments is starting by truly understanding that particular context and situation because the answer for that sort of person might be actually i don't have the right um people around me or working to me to take on more of the stuff that i don't want to do or that i don't need to do or it could be I'm not letting them because of how I'm behaving you know not realizing it probably um or you know it's got to be a question of like what why isn't that person if there are things that he or she or they are doing that aren't that they don't need to do that somebody else can do the why might be a complex mixture of not the right people don't trust them not used to it have the confidence to do it or they don't have the confidence to do it you know it could be a myriad factors as not perhaps not myriad factors but there'll be a number of factors as to why that is a situation and we wouldn't sort of be able to go in with a formula around this is what they need to do but it never sort of fails to surprise me just how common it is that leaders or executive teams even in much much larger organizations are still doing the job of the people that they've employed at the next level because that's where their comfort zone is you know and actually they don't necessarily have the confidence to take themselves out of the weeds into the bigger picture um and it can also and i said like i said it can be because of a mixture of concern about competence or effectiveness or you know um trusting the people that work to them.

38:40Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:But there's always a solution. There's always a solution, whether it is upskilling those people further, whether it's coaching and mentoring them to take over parts of the CEO role that the CEO doesn't need to do, or whether it's a question of, you know, helping them to find the right role for them and moving somebody else into that role, you know. And of course, that might mean exit. But the point is, though, that if the CEO of that creative agency is not happy, then that's not sustainable for the organisation. And they need to, you know, fix that issue one way or the other. So, you know, it might, in certain cases, and these tend to be more of the, you know, at the further end of, you know, what's needed.

39:25Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:It might be about changing the people that work to you. But more often than not, it's about letting go and, you know, fixing whatever it is that's stopping you from letting go. Like I said, whether it's confidence or competence or whatever it is. So that's what I would suggest. And then of course, you know, every organisation needs to always be thinking about talent, talent, you know, development and growth. So it's about exploring in your organisation as a whole, how much do you have a leadership culture that is empowering and supportive and developmental? Are there things happening that stopping that happening you know do people think that actually we haven't got time for this because we're so busy well then it might be a question of looking at how people that you know how people value or prioritize time with their teams versus you know fighting fires ultimately to get off the treadmill in that way you know the very top of the organization might require supporting people to get off the treadmill at the other levels of the organization too so that you know more potential can be realized and those benefits can flow up the organization i think julia we need a part two on this because we're gonna this is this has just been brilliant i'm very respectful of your time i know we've only got a couple of minutes left um so i suppose i want to ask you where people can find you but before i do that if our listeners could take just one thing from all the amazing things you've said do one thing over the next sort of six months what would you recommend it would be Can I have two?

41:07Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:Sorry, right, two. There's two things that I think are really critical. The first thing is connection. And, you know, and part of that is feedback. So it's sort of saying, you know, asking yourself, are you really having those conversations about other people's needs or are most of the conversations you're having about just the job in hand? Because as we get busier and busier, you know, we forget to have conversations about, you know, how you, you know, what's going on for you, you know. And linked to that is my second thing, which is about appreciation. so are you having these connective conversations where you're saying to people at different parts of your organization how are you how's it going and noticing what they're doing well trying to find out so you can say thank you and say you know i noticed that you worked really hard last week i'd like to say thanks for that you know i noticed that you managed to pull off that really tough deal um you know or at least you got the best outcome you could have done thank you for that I really appreciate it because you cannot it's not possible to overemphasize just how much thanks motivates people and gets them to continue giving in the organization so so first of all make sure that you're having those human connections is there anything I can do for you to support you you know that that's all part of that human connection bit and then the second bit is in that take all the opportunities you can to thank people for what they're doing well you know there might be things that need to be addressed.

42:41Juliette Alban-Metcalfe:So I've got to stop at two. But yeah, so notice having the human connections and making sure that you show appreciation. Those are the two things I think when we're as busy leaders, we've got to keep an eye on. If someone's listening and they think, yep, real world group is for me, where's the best place for them to go? Well, the best place to go would be to our website, which is realworld-group.com. And I would be just conscious that there are a few companies called Real World out there and they can seem like us, but they're not us. And we are realworld-group.com. That was Juliet Albin Metcalf from the Real World Group.

43:22And I came into this episode, I'll be honest, I'm thinking I knew what a 360 was. I did not. Well, I'm glad you learned something today, Elle. And I think these are the three takeaways I would recommend any leader puts in their little pocket of knowledge. An obvious one, stop using personality tests as your main leadership tool. If you are running leadership development programs built entirely around personality tools, you're working with the wrong data. You should be measuring behaviours, not personalities. Lesson two, get a 360. Specifically get one where you choose your reviewers. It's used purely for a development, not pay or performance review, and make sure you have a proper debrief to make sense of it.

44:06The research is pretty clear. You and your team almost certainly see your leadership very differently. And that gap is probably costing you. And number three, culture change starts at the very top. And that means you. Juliet made this point brilliantly. The things leaders do behind closed doors aren't actually behind closed doors. Your team replicates whatever they see from you, the good stuff and the stuff you don't even know you're doing. You can find Juliet and the full case studies she mentions at realworld-group.com she was really clear there are other companies called real world out there so make sure it is realworld-group.com the link is in the show notes that's the safest place to go this is truth lies and work we will see you next week

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In the corporate world, we are obsessed with personality. We use DISC, Myers-Briggs, and Enneagrams to "colour-code" our colleagues and predict who will be a great leader. But what if we’ve been looking at the wrong data?

In this episode, we sit down with Juliette Alban-Metcalfe, a Chartered Occupational Psychologist and CEO of Real World Group. Juliette is at the forefront of leadership research, building on the groundbreaking work of her mother, Professor Beverly Alimo-Metcalfe.

Juliette argues that personality only explains a tiny fraction of leadership success. Instead, the real "magic sauce" is behaviour—the specific, observable actions that leaders take to engage their teams and foster success.

In this episode, we discuss:

Personality vs. Behaviour: Why what you do matters infinitely more than who you are according to your personality test results.

The "Accidental Manager" Trap: Why founders and technical experts often struggle to transition into leadership and how 360-degree feedback can bridge the gap.

Predictive Validity: The science behind why leadership behaviours can predict up to 60% of a team's motivation and fulfilment.

Psychological Safety: How to use assessments to build trust and development rather than fear and judgement.

Actionable Advice for Leaders: Two simple things every leader can do today to immediately improve team engagement.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re "not a natural leader" or if you're an HR professional frustrated with the lack of ROI from personality workshops, this episode is a masterclass in the science of what actually works.

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