315. How to Handle Crisis in the Workplace, with Andrew Blotky, Facebook's first Director of Global Internal Communications

2 Jul 2026 · 51 min · 19 chapters

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In short

How leaders should communicate during workplace crises (scandals, layoffs, recalls, AI-driven job cuts) without obfuscation or silence, using values-based preparation and grounded, honest messaging.

Guest backgrounds

Andrew Blotky is Facebook/Meta’s first Director of Global Internal Communications; he built and ran Facebook’s Crisis Playbook and later worked at Johnson & Johnson in employee/HR communications. Earlier, he worked in US politics on media relations and as a press spokesperson for members of Congress. He now consults and coaches; author of Honestly Speaking, and teaches yoga and meditation.

Key claims

Most leaders fail by going “bunker mode” or staying silent. People have high “BS meters” and will invent narratives when leaders don’t speak early. Honest communication means being honest with yourself (values, audience, purpose), admitting “we don’t know yet,” and sharing process/timelines. Compassionate crisis communication still must match business reality.

Notable examples

George Floyd-era corporate responses; AI-related mass layoffs (e.g., Oracle/Blotky references) and how “AI is replacing me” narratives worsen anxiety; listening sessions and always-on employee feedback forums.

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Chapters

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Understanding Crisis Communication

1:22 to 2:27

Learn about the importance of honesty and transparency in crisis situations.

“And we are here to help you simplify the science of work.”

Andrew Blotky's Background and Insights

2:36 to 4:21

Explore Andrew's career and his take on effective crisis management.

“So I started my career working in US politics, both doing media relations and being a press spokesperson for members of Congress and then spent time working in-house that it was then Facebook.”

First Steps in Crisis Management

4:21 to 6:01

Understand the initial steps leaders should take when a crisis arises.

“your question around leadership is so important.”

The Importance of Early Communication

6:01 to 7:56

Learn why timely communication is crucial during a crisis.

“So even if you don't have full information, even if you don't know everything, even if you don't have your plan set, it's still better for people to hear from you as a leader.”

Honest Communication in Crisis

7:56 to 12:00

Discover what honest communication looks like in crisis situations.

“Because how they come to, what conclusion they come to may actually not be accurate.”

The Leader's Values and Public Perception

12:00 to 14:00

Explore how a leader's values influence their response to crises.

“What percentage of leaders do you think know that ahead of going into a crisis?”

The Importance of Leadership in Crisis

14:00 to 19:36

Learn how effective leadership inspires confidence during crises.

“that they should follow me when maybe they have the choice not to?”

The Importance of Leadership in Crisis

19:46 to 20:40

Learn how effective leadership inspires confidence during crises.

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Navigating Layoffs and AI Impact

20:41 to 28:01

Explore the emotional and organizational effects of layoffs driven by AI.

“about not giving people agency is in terms of the mass layoffs we've seen.”

Listening and Managing Emotions in Crisis

28:01 to 29:49

Learn how to effectively listen and manage emotions during workplace crises.

“I've seen many people end up working with each other at different companies over time in their careers.”
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Levels of Listening in Organizations

29:50 to 31:42

Discover the two levels of listening and their impact on workplace communication.

“I'm listening to you, already pre-planning my response on what I'm going to say.”

Crisis Management Strategies for Leaders

31:43 to 34:29

Understand the importance of involving the right people in crisis management decisions.

“Did you have to completely change how you thought about a crisis or approached a crisis?”

Case Studies of Effective Crisis Management

34:30 to 38:17

Examine real-world examples of organizations handling crises effectively.

“crisis all of that all of that is so valuable so that you're better able and better equipped to deal with the crisis, which inevitably we know you're going to have to deal with at some point.”

Balancing Listening with Work Responsibilities

38:18 to 40:59

Learn how to balance listening to employees with ongoing work demands.

“You mentioned George Floyd, which had massive ripples.”

The Role of Managers in Communication

41:00 to 42:00

Explore how managers influence ongoing communication and crisis preparedness.

“Every quarter or every month or every week, he's providing forums or I have an opportunity.”

Crisis Communication in Organizations

42:00 to 44:22

Learn how effective communication can help leaders navigate crises.

“managers especially being either turned to individual contributor roles all laid off.”

The Importance of Authentic Leadership

44:22 to 45:46

Discover why authentic communication is key for leaders during crises.

“And it's so individual to an organization that, you know, we want people to really be able to lead and speak from a place of confidence and clarity and authenticity.”

Understanding Human Nature and Leadership

45:46 to 49:29

Explore how historical wisdom informs modern leadership and compassion.

“A lot of times leaders will start speaking, especially when that fight or flight mode, that sort of frenetic, nervous energy is around without really being clear.”

Key Takeaways from Andrew Blotky

49:29 to 49:44

Gain insights on handling workplace crises effectively from Andrew.

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Transcript

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0:00When some of the world's best known brands hit a very public crisis, like a scandal or a mass layoff or a product recall, somebody has to decide what that company says in the next hour, not in the next week. Our guest today is that person. Andrew Blotky started his career working in US politics, both doing media relations and as a press spokesperson for members of Congress. He then went on to build and run the Crisis Playbook from inside Facebook, as well as Johnson & Johnson. He's coached leaders through COVID, racial justice reckonings, and more recently, the AI layoffs dominating headlines right now.

0:35And he says most leaders make the exact same mistake when trying to handle public crisis.

0:40Andrew Blotky:A lot of times people sort of go into bunker mode. And the reality is we all live in a world where people, their BS meters are pretty high. They're pretty sensitive to like fake information. They can tell when somebody's lying and not being direct with them. And so what we don't want to do is in any way feel like we're obfuscating or being dishonest. That one line explains why so many layoffs, AI-driven or otherwise, land so badly. Today we're asking, what if silence, not honesty, is the real crisis? Hello and welcome to Truth, Lies and Work, the award-winning podcast where behavioral science meets workplace culture.

1:17Brought to you by the HubSpot Podcast Network, the audio destination for business professionals. My name is Leanne, I'm a chartered occupational psychologist. My name is Al, I'm a business owner. And we are here to help you simplify the science of work. Our guest today is Andrew Blocky, a leadership coach, consultant and author of Honestly Speaking. Oh, and he teaches yoga and meditation, which turns out to matter more than you'd think when you're the one holding the room together while everything's on fire. His take is refreshingly simple. It's not about having the perfect words. It's about doing the work on your values before the crisis ever hits.

1:51So after this short break, we'll join Leanne and Andrew, and by the end of it, you'll finally know exactly what to do the next time a crisis lands on your desk. Does your experience with AI sound a little like this? You prompt for 20 minutes, the output is polished, is confident, and is completely flipping useless. Well, that's what happens when AI doesn't know anything about your business. But you know what does know something about your business? HubSpot. HubSpot's AI. It works with your actual customer data. every interaction, every signal your team has generated over time. So instead of prompting and hoping, you ask once and ship it.

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2:36Andrew Blotky:So I started my career working in US politics, both doing media relations and being a press spokesperson for members of Congress and then spent time working in-house that it was then Facebook. It's now Meta. I built and led the employee communications function there globally. Loved my time there. And then I've also spent time running employee communications and HR communications at Johnson & Johnson for a couple of years. And I currently now run my own consulting business. I wrote a book a few years ago called Honestly Speaking, How the Way We Communicate Transforms Leadership, Love and Life, meant to sort of really pull together some sort of stories and lessons around how we all can communicate in a more authentic way in all parts of our life.

3:25Andrew Blotky:Happy to talk about that. And in another part of my life, I'm a longtime student and teacher of yoga and meditation. Which I'd imagine is very important to feel grounded and centered when you're in this this type of work and I mean crisis is is a is a broad term and I think particularly more recently there's I don't know if we've been maybe more normalized to or numb to it because there's so much going on um but I guess I want to I would love to start by understanding if there's any common threads in terms of how good leaders manage a crisis or is it completely different every time. You know, I really think you're so spot on, which like we just seem to be living from one crisis to another.

4:11Andrew Blotky:And things that maybe aren't even a real legitimate crisis for some people, people still operate as though it were a crisis no matter what. So I think that your question around leadership is so important. And I think that, you know, the really the best leaders that I've worked with and the ones that I sort of advise have a balance of sort of humanity and there's a human sort of really emotional aspect to how they show up. And then they've also planned for, and there's a very thoughtful way of approaching a crisis. So I'm happy to talk about both, but, you know, I think finding the grounding and finding the connection and the humanness, especially if you're a leader of an organization is really important as is making sure that you have plans and a process in place so that when the crisis comes up, you can walk through it and manage it in as sort of rational and clear and sort of really responsible way as possible.

5:06Andrew Blotky:I see leaders who get into trouble when they don't have one or two of those things. Can you talk us through then in terms of if there's a starting point, say a crisis hit, somebody comes and says, this is happening, we need to tell somebody, everybody, what's the kind of the first step of that management process? So I think that one of the things that you want to think about is what type of crisis is it? Because that will help guide you in terms of how you communicate and how you react. So is it sort of a earth type crisis, like a hurricane or something that's sort of a, you know, out of our control, or is it sort of a man-made crisis?

5:44Andrew Blotky:And if it's a man-made crisis, then maybe there's some sort of more delicate or political sort of issue that you need to navigate through. And then you want to sort of think about, okay, hey, where did it happen? Who is affected? Who might we need to talk to? And I think a lot of times leaders will get into trouble when they don't speak early. So even if you don't have full information, even if you don't know everything, even if you don't have your plan set, it's still better for people to hear from you as a leader. This is what we know. This is what we're doing. We will come back to you by X time.

6:17Andrew Blotky:I think when leaders get into trouble is when they sort of just go into like bunker mode mentality. especially if it's a crisis that's man-made, but that maybe is of the corporation or the company's doing. So for example, maybe they would need to admit wrongdoing or some mistake or error or something. A lot of times people sort of go into bunker mode. And the reality is we all live in a world where people, their BS meters are pretty high. They're pretty sensitive to like fake information. They can tell when somebody's lying and not being direct with them. We all carry devices around that show us, you know, people can get information very quickly.

6:55Andrew Blotky:And so what we don't want to do is in any way feel like we're obfuscating or being dishonest. So really, the first step is assess what did you do? What is the situation? Is it something that's in our control to change, that's out of our control to change? Because that'll help guide you what direction to go. And then how can I speak in a way that is sort of honest and grounded, even if I don't have full information or all the answers where's the line between responding in the moment in a way that doesn't cause more fear or panic or backlash and taking time to set a plan um just to to share why there might sometimes be backlash um it's more than just do people like it or do they not but it's in the absence of information or in the absence of a statement people will impute their own story.

7:46Andrew Blotky:They will create a narrative. It's how the human mind works. We're very good at storytelling, storymaking. We develop narratives in our mind. So in the absence of it, people will come to their own conclusions. And so as a leader, I want to be in the place of, I want to try to guide and control to the extent that I can, what people will think about me or my political party or my organization more than letting other people do it. Because how they come to, what conclusion they come to may actually not be accurate. It may not be what I want them to come to. So that's why we want to be out there a little bit sooner.

8:18Andrew Blotky:And it also is the kind of thing that people just want to hear from you. So this is why when you're not in a crisis, it's really important to do some of the work of what do we do when there is a crisis? What are the criteria that we think about? Or what are the values that we stand for? The companies, political parties all come back to what do we stand for? What are our values? Because those will ground you. They will tell you what the answer is when it isn't obvious what the answer should be. That's what really good values should do. So for me, you want to do the work beforehand. And when you don't, people will come to their own conclusions.

8:53Andrew Blotky:And oftentimes they're far more exaggerated or negative or critical, especially in our political world right now, than otherwise maybe they would be. I'm curious, what does honest communication actually mean when you're in a situation where you feel like things are falling apart. Because again, I'm thinking leaders are thinking when that initial conversation, I can't tell people everything either because I don't know yet or I haven't decided how to fully respond to it yet. Yeah. Well, so the honestly speaking is really about being honest with yourself. Anything that's worth communicating is worth communicating because you want someone to know something or to feel something or to do something.

9:34Andrew Blotky:And so in order to be able to tell what is my audience likely to receive? I need to kind of understand who am I talking to? Is this a bunch of people who are going to be like my supporters? Are these people who are immediately going to be skeptical of me no matter what I say? Are these people who are feeling an immense sense of disappointment? Are they people who are on my side? Try to understand the audience and try to be really honest with yourself about what is it that I want this group of people to feel or to know or do I need them to do something? And so again, we want to do some of that work of like self-reflection.

10:10Andrew Blotky:What do I stand for? What are my values? What does the company stand for? What does my political party stand for, regardless of how any particular election went? You know, we went through this. We've gone through this a lot here in the United States. It's happening a lot of different countries around the world, different, very strongly held oppositional beliefs are being challenged and being, you know, voted on left and right? And there's big swings. And so it's important to be able to state where you stand for. And when you're honest and or when you've done the work of being honest for yourself, it allows you to then know, hey, look, this election didn't turn out really well for us.

10:47Andrew Blotky:Or, hey, you know what? The company made an error. Our product didn't work. Here's what we're going to do to fix it. We assume responsibility. We're going to move forward. But it gives you those values and the sort of thinking through carefully, what do I really stand for? Who am I? What do I really trying to convey here, that really helps. The last thing I'll just say is it doesn't require an immense amount of work or time to do that. Sometimes it's a, huh, okay, I have to go give a press conference in a few minutes. I probably should speak. What is the one or two things that I really want to convey?

11:19Andrew Blotky:What really feels most true to me? And you want to surround yourself, obviously, as a leader, I work on this with my coaching clients all the time. Surround yourself with people who can be honest with you about how are they experiencing you, not just yes people, but people who will be honest with you, and then sort of think, huh, what is it that I want to say? Being honest includes saying, we haven't figured it out yet. We don't have all the answers. Here's that we can't tell you these things for these reasons. Maybe we'll never be able to tell them for a wrench of privacy or legal reasons, but here's the process that we will use to go through to come to the decision or come to the outcome.

11:56Andrew Blotky:That's honest. being super honest people will respond far better to you if you say i don't know we're going to look up the answer and we're going to figure it out hey we lost the election it wasn't good we need to clearly regroup we will run a process to do that we want to hear from people we want to get input from people but um being honest is just you know people can tell when you're not and it undermines long-term trust i really enjoyed what you were saying about knowing honest communication about knowing yourself, knowing your values, knowing what you stand for and what you want to change in the world.

12:34What percentage of leaders do you think know that ahead of going into a crisis? I would say very few, unfortunately.

12:44Andrew Blotky:And I think, you know, what we want to do is try to think out again, what's the system that this leader is operating in? So in a world of politics, for example, a leader is both representative of a party or a political movement and obviously representing her or his constituents but really it's that person it's them like they we are electing a person we're electing donald trump or barack obama or whoever and if you're a leader of a company you in some ways are less about you personally as the leader always and you're really representing the brand or the shareholders or the patients or the buyers the consumers of your product so it kind of the system that you're operating in as a leader will guide you a little bit but i think that very few leaders have actually done the work it's one of the reasons why i do the work now that i do around leadership is because it's sort of like huh what are the values that motivate you as a leader not what are your company values not what are the progressive party values but what do you stand for?

13:50Andrew Blotky:How do I show up? How do I motivate? How do I inspire people? How do I bring people along with me? How do I show hair for people and get them to believe that they should follow me when maybe they have the choice not to? It's my favorite definition as leadership is like, people will follow you when they have a choice not to. So what is it about what you're saying or doing or how you're showing up that really inspires, inspires people to want to follow you. And I'd say, unfortunately, not many have done that work from what I can see. What's the difference in practical terms compared to the leaders who haven't done that and the leaders that have done that?

14:29Is there a visible difference in terms of how successful those crisis communications are?

14:33Andrew Blotky:I think so. I think you see, you know, you use that term grounding earlier in our conversation. And I love that because I think it's really a feeling both of the speaker or the leader, but also if you and I are on the receiving end of it, you and I can tell, huh, this leader seems like they know what they're doing. They feel steady. I feel a sense of confidence because, you know, it's not just the leader who will be shaken by a crisis. The audience will be, and they're looking to this leader to have some sort of sense of steady hand on the wheel, has some sense of direction, or at least has some moral compass that they're going to use to decide where and how and what direction to move in.

15:15Andrew Blotky:So for me, I think it's like you You really can actually tell it's a felt sense. And then you also can just tell because when people don't have this kind of, you know, sense of grounding in their values or in a company's values or haven't done the preparation, you can kind of see because it'll start to seem erratic. Like maybe some leaders will start to speak pretty quickly. Maybe they won't speak at all. Maybe there'll be like cross communications that are like, you know, mixed, missed information or sort of cross messages that are confusing to people. So you start to see it when it starts to get loud and that nervous energy starts to spool up, if you will.

15:54What do you think is the one biggest mistake that a leader could make in say the first 24, 48 hours of a crisis hitting?

16:02Andrew Blotky:I would say to not speak honestly. Like, worse to speak and say the wrong thing or to say something that's not true. But it's also really not a good thing to just be totally silent, right? If you're a leader, part of your job is to bring people along with you and help them understand how to make sense of something that may seem a little bit disordered. So again, if it's a natural disaster, if there's an act of war, if there's some massive product recall to your company, whatever it is, people want to hear from their leader. They want to know, they want a sense of confidence and grounding. So as much as what you say, it's how you say it.

16:44Andrew Blotky:Again, the way that you show up the grounding, you don't have to have all the answers. You don't have to know all the five part plan of how you're going to fix it in the first 24 hours. But to not say anything and to not be visible for the reasons we talked about earlier is just people will impute their own narrative and it's a lot harder to get that back and re-correl it. Have you ever had to communicate something that you didn't personally believe in? Oh yeah. And you know, this happens a lot and I love this question because a lot of times we'll think about a leader as like a president or a prime minister or a CEO.

17:17Andrew Blotky:And really leaders are anybody who's in a position of leadership or influence over other people. So it could be a middle manager. It could be a communications director in a United States senator's office leading just the comms team within that office, for example. So leaders can be in many different places. And I think where this is really challenging is in those sort of middle management layers where maybe the company is making a decision and they're hearing it from the people above them and then they're charged with communicating it to their direct teams. oftentimes the problem isn't so much that they disagree but they don't necessarily understand the reasoning behind it i think the biggest thing that i work on with companies around this and i do a lot of consulting with companies around their employee engagement and experience around this is not every leader is always going to 100 of the time agree with 100 of the decisions a company makes that's we expect that that's fine but what problematic is when people don't trust that there was a thoughtful process or a rationale behind why a company was making a decision that it is, for example, especially if it involves maybe taking something away or changing something that people don't like.

18:31Andrew Blotky:You want to make sure that people really have a sense for, hey, you know what? Look, I don't really like the decision that Andrew made, but at least I can respect him because I think he went through a thoughtful process. He gathered input and heard the feedback from us in making that decision. It's when people feel like it's a leader who's just sort of acting sort of, it's like their fiefdom and they're acting sort of by fiat. People don't like that. And they really like when they can experience or have some sense of agency or at least involvement in the conversation. And the last thing I'll just say about this is it's important, not just in the crisis moment, But that sense of agency that employees feel is what is one of the main motivating factors for them doing their best work, wanting to stay at the organization, wanting to be contributors to the culture.

19:20Andrew Blotky:So if you're not, if you don't feel like your boss cares or the company leadership cares about you and the values, what you're saying, you've not just lost them in the crisis moment, but you've also probably lost them from being able to do their best work and be super committed. School might soon be out for summer, but Marketing School is here to stay. And it is brought to you by the HubSpot Podcast Network, the audio destination for business professionals. Genuine marketing legends Neil Patel and Eric Su bring you daily actionable digital marketing lessons learned from years in the trenches. With nearly 100 million downloads, probably a million of those are from me actually, and over 2 ,500 episodes, Marketing School delivers bite-sized marketing wisdom you can implement immediately.

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20:39I feel that one of the most extreme examples we've seen recently about not giving people agency is in terms of the mass layoffs we've seen. Recently, primarily because of AI, I'm thinking of Blot and Oracle and tens of thousands of people with the reasoning being, and, you know, as you said, you know, if you can explain the decision, and we did see from Jack Dorsey, you know, an open kind of communication on on that but people are still hearing it is I'm replaceable AI is replacing me and I feel like that's different to other layoffs we've seen in terms of the people that stay in the company and how they're you know valued and how they feel about it I mean what what's your take on on the layoffs we've seen because of AI the reasoning that's been communicated publicly and as you said right at the top of our call you know holding on to that humanity aspect it feels like this is just a yeah it's an example I'd love your your insights on

21:38Andrew Blotky:yeah and you know I love this I mean I don't love the topic because it's very hard for people but I really like it because it goes to a couple of things that I think I just care a lot about so the first thing I'll just say is I've both been laid off and I've laid people off and it's that there's never a good way to do it. I've worked with lots of companies, I've advised them on how to communicate about them. And there just is not a great way to do something that's hard. So we'll just start there. I would say that, especially around some of the layoffs that people are experiencing now, it's hard when people don't really, you know, have a sense that in many industries, this is actually a normal course of business.

22:21Andrew Blotky:And so what we want to do is be having an ongoing conversation around what are the expectations around job performance, around how people progress in an organization, and around how we value people. It's sort of like we were saying with crisis earlier, the time to sort of focus on your planning is not when you're in the crisis. It's when you're not in a crisis that you want to develop your plans for what my criteria are. Same concept here. When you're not in a moment of re-orging and relaying and laying people off, that's when you want to focus on, here's what our expectations are around performance.

22:54Andrew Blotky:Here's what we want. Here's the culture that we want. Because it goes to this idea of like, yeah, it's really hard to be out of a job. But also, if you're one of the people who still has a job, your job has been changed. When other people that you've worked with are laid off, you've probably had to assume much more responsibility. You've had to take on a lot more work. And you're having to do the emotional sort of upheaval of not only, oh gee one of my best friends my work colleagues just got laid off i'm not going to see them anymore i miss that that feels empty to me but also you're wondering am i next is this going to come again when is this going to come again what do i need to do so there's an immense amount of anxiety that is created inside of organizations among the people who are left people sometimes talk about it as like survival guilt but there's really other various aspects and so for me it's about regularly talking openly about here's what the company's going here's what our plans are here's what our expectations are i'm working currently with several clients who are at companies where there have been layoffs there will continue to be layoffs and i see it personally with the clients that i work with it's very anxiety producing i think the narrative around ai is through and it is maybe a little bit oversimplified and so sometimes i'll hear this idea that people say of like oh you know ai isn't going to take away your job but it's somebody who doesn't know how to do ai is why you're going to lose your job and it's like well i think most people in the professional world at least that i tend to have experience with tend to now have some familiarity with some availability a lot of companies are not just encouraging but requiring people to use some of their ai tools for their work and to experiment so again one of the things that's most important as a leader and i took a course on this through stanford university last summer one of the main things we talked about was the importance of framing as a leader for your organization why are we doing this what do we want people to do how do we want people to experiment and where do we want to go so layoffs are never easy ai is definitely changing the ways of people working for sure um and it doesn't take away that discomfort but again it's when leaders don't communicate regularly in a sort of a compassionate way that it's problematic, not just for the people who've lost their job, but especially for the people who are left behind.

25:14Where do you find the compassion in that moment? I'm thinking kind of, you know, the big tech companies, I'm thinking about Oracle, tens of thousands of people, the official word being because we're reinvesting that in AI. And by the way, we posted record profits last quarter. Like, how do you do that compassionately when clearly it is a very cold commercial decision?

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25:36Andrew Blotky:I think you're hitting on it, which is at the end of the day, it's a business decision. And one of the things that we've signed up for when we work in corporations like that, no matter whether it's my former employers or Oracle or any of the other companies that you could name, that's part of the contract that you engage in as an employee is that this is a commercial venture. And so I think some companies, to their detriment, have sort of invested too hard culturally on the idea of, oh, we're a family. We want to treat each other like a family in this culture. It's like, well, you don't lay off members of your family.

26:13Andrew Blotky:You don't just cut them out when it's sort of financially not. So it's just not really a parallel or a good analog. and so I think we want to again as I said at the beginning be honest about well what are the values that we expect we want to treat people with respect we want people to hold each other to high standards we want people to continue to experiment and do good work and we will show care in the best ways that we can for people and their families but this is not a family like we're not a family and so it feels especially this compassionate or not compassionate when that's sort of the expectation that you've laid, and then they have to make a hard business decision.

26:51Andrew Blotky:So it's better to actually just be more real and more consistent the whole time. And that might feel a little bit cold to people. And unfortunately, the reality is, is companies will make business decisions all the time. What you don't want is to create some sense of false hope or false compassion or false, you know, we care about you. I've worked in companies before where it was sort of this culture of just expectation of being nice and friendly. And then it's like, well, look, when the rubber meets the road, it's a business. And so I think it actually feels quite jarring to people when they don't have that sort of, maybe even slightly more skeptical lens.

27:29Andrew Blotky:I would say the last thing is what you don't wanna hear as somebody who's being laid off, for example, is like a fake niceness or a fake false compassion that doesn't match the facts and the reality. Deal in the facts, deal in the reality, because if people hear one thing and they're experiencing another, it makes the person who's saying those things feel more disingenuous. And that actually like hurts more and feels like less good. And, you know, at the end of the day, a lot of times the people that we work with in these jobs and in these roles, you know, industries are small. I've seen many people end up working with each other at different companies over time in their careers.

28:07Andrew Blotky:Always just better to treat people transparently with respect because you never know. somebody that I hired and maybe had to lay off they may end up being my boss someday so we want to make sure that we're sort of really just um you know trying to in the workplace trying to treat each other respectfully in the contours of it's a business what does listening look like in a crisis you've mentioned a couple of times about involving people in that that consultation how do you do that in a way that isn't overwhelming as a leader when people are kind of in that you know emotional reactive state but in a way that's going to give you what you need to hear to help you move forward whenever you're in something that feels scary or uncomfortable or feels like a crisis the human brain it's like the fight or flight mode takes over that sort of base part of our protect you know protective brain takes over and so any tools that we have whatever it is to be able to sort of get out of the fight or flight mode and to move more through like the parasympathetic nervous system so that we're in more of that sort of rational brain space the better because when we can do that we have a little bit more space between what our emotional feeling is and then what our speech or our action is and so listening to me if it's done really well is done in a sort of open curious kind of way and so whether that's i'm going to do all of the preparation in advance so that when there's a crisis i know my playbook i know my plan i've got the grounding of that to fall back on to i'm going to do some really basic deep belly breathing just take a couple of deep even breaths that immediately calms taking a break pausing space is really useful especially in the coaching work that we do we talk sometimes about two layers or two levels of listening level one listening is what most of us tend to do which is i'm listening to you speak from the lens of my own perspective.

30:06Andrew Blotky:I'm listening to you, already pre-planning my response on what I'm going to say. I'm already pre-planning. I'm imputing, oh, I had experience like that. I'm really interested. I'm going to tell her my story about something when she did the same thing. Level two listening is really trying to shut off my own internal narrative and really be curious and open to what is this person saying. They may have gone on the exact same place that I went on vacation last summer, but I'm really curious about their experience being there. I'm not thinking about, oh, I had my own experience there. I want to tell her about that experience.

30:39Andrew Blotky:So it's really about just a more conscious, deliberative way of just sort of being and receiving. In an organization, I also sort of think sometimes we need to invite feedback or invite people to tell us things. So people will often in an organization not tell you if they're nervous or they're uncomfortable. So you need to create surveys or forums or just indirect conversations with people. And I find that asking open-ended questions, I work on this again with leaders a lot. How can you ask open-ended questions that get you a lot of data? It'll give you data, not just about what the words that are people saying, what are they not saying?

31:20Andrew Blotky:What are they focused on? You might be focused over here, but they're focused over here. That's data for you too. So we listen from a place of groundedness and curiosity. But again, all of that can come if we've done the work of sort of maybe some mindfulness, maybe some groundedness, and also probably some preparation before a crisis. You know, you have worked at Facebook Now Matter and Johnson & Johnson, very different places, very different organizations. Did you have to completely change how you thought about a crisis or approached a crisis? Well, I think probably not honestly too much. I think one of the things that I've learned over my time, both in both of those organizations and, you know, through 2020, 2021, I consulted with a lot of companies, media companies, tech companies around, you know, it was COVID at first and then it was sort of racial justice in the United States at that time.

32:20Andrew Blotky:So a lot of hard, you know, crisis type issues. And one of the things that I realized is that you want to make sure that you've got, you know, as a leader, you've surrounded yourself with people who can help you come to the right decision. None of these responses, you know, especially if you're a company, are best done as like in a closet by yourself as like a single leader. So we want to make sure that we've got the right people who have a seat at the table. Maybe you've got your human resources team. Maybe you've got your legal team. Maybe you've got the communications team. maybe you've got sort of a scientific team or an engineering team whatever it is with doesn't matter that's again why you want to start what's this what's the nature of the crisis was an earthquake or was it like a product recall and I also sort of think that over time what I've seen is that the best leaders who manage through crises are people who you know you may not always agree with them but that they have sort of a collegial respectful way of working so that when things are in crisis, that's when people's stress gets high, their patience gets low, the emotions run a little bit more deeply.

33:22And so the more even we can be, um, as leaders, the, um, you know, the best,

33:29Andrew Blotky:that's the best way to react. And, you know, that's why you want to sort of think about, okay, what are the things at the end of the day that, um, are the values that undergird where we, where we operate, you know? So I've worked in companies before where the primary focus was just sort of like, what are we doing for the people who rely on us externally? How are we taking care of our employees? Are they geographically? Are they in a space that they need some support, that they need care for? Not all companies operate that way. There are some that really care a lot about their employees. So again, what are the criteria that we use?

34:02Andrew Blotky:And that helps align people when they otherwise might disagree. So that it's not like, oh, I think the process should be A and somebody else thinks, oh, and then you argue over the process. It's like, here's what the aligned process is let's just calmly walk through it and then make sure that we get to the right outcome it's not always easy it's not always clear but that's again those values point you to what the answer should be when it's not immediately clear what it should be so the more sophisticated those pre-planning the relationship building when you're not in a crisis all of that all of that is so valuable so that you're better able and better equipped to deal with the crisis, which inevitably we know you're going to have to deal with at some point.

34:45Andrew Blotky:Crises come up. Is there an example of maybe an organization, how they've handled a crisis, whether it be one that you've worked with or not, that you could maybe share with us in terms of why you think it was handled particularly well? Yeah. So in the immediate aftermath of, you know, George Floyd's murder, and then there were, you know, several really just powerful protests all throughout the United States. I know there were protests in the UK and elsewhere around the world, a lot of companies and leaders had to sort of come to terms with sort of what did they stand for and also what did they, what were they doing?

35:18Andrew Blotky:So what were the programmatic things that they were doing, not just the words that they were speaking to show that they both for their customers or their consumers, but especially for their employees, heard about and understood the people who worked in those organizations. And so while our sort of relationship to diversity or inclusion has changed a lot for better and worse over the last couple of years, especially here in the United States. What is interesting to see are the companies that have remained really steadfast to their commitments, whatever the words are that they use, to programs that help support and really allow people to do their best work and to feel that they belong inside of an organization.

36:01Andrew Blotky:And so I worked with a lot of companies. So initially it was sort of a crisis because they weren't saying anything. To go to our earlier conversation, they sort of went into bunker mentality. And then people assume, oh, they don't care about any kind of racial justice in the United States. Or, oh, they must be this way or that way. And I think one of the things that I learned was, you know, to speak from a place of, again, I don't know. I want to learn. Be honest with yourself. Here's what we stand for as a company. And we are going to run a process. We don't know what the process will be to get there.

36:32Andrew Blotky:But here's what we're thinking. Here are the criteria that we're going to use. And I saw a couple of companies do this really quite well, but the ones that have done it the best are the ones that also, they put their money where their mouth was, right? So they put money behind programs, whether it be for, again, customers or for employees, for education, whatever it is. It doesn't have to be around racial justice. It could be around any issue. It could be around reproductive health benefits in places that maybe in the United States, for example, state legislatures are trying to close down on that, but yet it's aligned with the company's values to provide that for their employees.

37:09Andrew Blotky:I've seen that. I've seen it with companies who, you know, soon after the 2016 election, President Trump instituted a Muslim ban in the United States. Well, what did that feel like for Muslim employees at a company or people who are working in Muslim-based countries? So we have listening sessions and conversations i've seen lots of companies do that to make sure again leaders were seen as curious and seeking to understand hearing a lot of times i'll just say on these issues so much of what is at the root of these issues in the problem is when people don't feel like their most core desire to be heard and acknowledged by other people is met and so the more we can do as a leader sort of say, I hear you, I see you, I value you, I'm giving you the space.

38:02Andrew Blotky:We will hear what you're saying and probably use what you're saying to input to help make us better, the better. But it's when people don't feel like they've been heard or when they've had a chance to be seen that I think leaders get into problem, especially in these crisis moments. You mentioned George Floyd, which had massive ripples. There was me too. There's been things around reproductive health, pushbacks on LGBTQ plus rights. There's been wars started. We've got election anxieties in terms of far right leaders getting into power. As a small business leader, if I have a listening event after every single one, just to make sure my people feel heard, when am I going to have time to do the work?

38:46Andrew Blotky:That's a very good and very legitimate question. And I think this goes back to, again, one of the things that we started our conversation with today, which is what are the values? What do you stand for? And I think one of those ways that you plan for a crisis is what are the criteria that we care about? Because those criteria will guide you to what action do I take and do I speak? Because it's not reasonable to expect. It's actually kind of unreasonable to expect that every company or every leader will speak out on every social issue. It's actually just not, frankly, right. And it's also just like, if you do, your credibility is going to be like, no one's going to listen to you.

39:27Andrew Blotky:It's like, oh, Andrew's speaking on every single issue. Does he actually, what does he actually care about? Does he believe in anything? So one of the things that we want to do is come up with some criteria that describe, we will speak out if our products or our services were directly involved, or if we had employees directly involved, or if we are uniquely able, because of what services we offer, to help make the situation better so that we don't come across as being opportunistic, for example. And one of the things that's really important is not so much externally, but internally for an organization, you will inevitably have employees who will care deeply about an issue and they'll want you to speak out.

40:08Andrew Blotky:And what you need to do is have those criteria so that you can say, look, we hear you, we value you, really understand. For us as a company, that doesn't meet the criteria for how we would actually influence the conversation in a credible way. You want to speak when, again, you want people to know, feel, or do something. So do you as a leader or a company have the unique credibility with your audience to be able to speak in that way? And that will help guide you so that then you're not doing a listening session or you're not doing a public statement on every single issue. I also think that it's always valuable to have regular opportunities, again, not in a crisis, where leaders can be listening to their employees so that you don't just wait until after there's a crisis to then be like, oh, now I need to listen to people.

40:57Andrew Blotky:Because it gives people an opportunity to be like, oh, you know what? Andrew is a leader. He's always listening to me. Every quarter or every month or every week, he's providing forums or I have an opportunity. Maybe there's different kind of interesting ways that you can survey your employee population, for example, so that it doesn't feel like only one time a year are they asking about employee benefits. Maybe there's a way that they can just be talking and having an ongoing light conversation. You know, I've worked with companies that do sort of an always on employee listening where they'll sort of randomly survey groups of employees and then they'll see different questions in so that you kind of pulse the organization over time.

41:36Andrew Blotky:you're always in conversation with people. That I think is really the most important. I agree. And I think that managers have such an important role to play. And as you said before, it's not always necessarily the CEO, it's leaders across levels that are influenced by people and can serve this role. We're also seeing hierarchies being flattened, managers especially being either turned to individual contributor roles all laid off. Does this concern you in terms of that ongoing communication, ongoing, I guess, crisis management? Could that have an impact on how effective organizations deal with these things ahead of time if they haven't got the managers in the organization to be, you know, initiating these ongoing conversations?

42:23Andrew Blotky:It absolutely does. And I think you're so just spot on here. I mean, I'm working, for example, with a current client who told me in our last conversation that, you know found out recently that the team that they are working with is about to expand to like 50 or maybe more people and he has a pretty small team currently and it's all because of just you know changes in the organization the management layers being changed and so one of the things that that means is that how leaders these middle manager leaders who are inheriting large groups of people how you communicate and how you bring people along with you how you communicate expectations performance direct strategic direction all of that is going to change and a lot of times people get into these roles they're put into these roles without having either experience or really the proper training on just like how to communicate so all the things that you and i are talking about today like we need to make sure that leaders have these sort of these tools and the sort of experience and the judgment, the confidence to be able to really communicate.

43:31Andrew Blotky:So for me, that's like the biggest challenge. It's less like specific navigating of any one particular crisis. And it's more, I want to give people really the tools, both again, as we started, the heart, the grounding, the emotional grounding, but also then the sort of tools and the playbook or the plan, the criteria, so that helps equip them with both in order to communicate effectively. And for leaders listening who are completely on board with this, maybe haven't started, you know, planning this ahead of a potential crisis or feel like they're constantly fighting fires in terms of what's going on.

44:06Is there one thing that they could do today that would help them feel more grounded, feel more balanced, but also more start that, I guess, that playbook of preparations?

44:15Andrew Blotky:Well, they could give me a call and I'd be happy to talk with them and work with them. But I would say that this is so individual to a person. And it's so individual to an organization that, you know, we want people to really be able to lead and speak from a place of confidence and clarity and authenticity. And it's really why I wrote the book that I did, because I want people to be honest with themselves. it's not what Andrew is telling you to do or how to communicate it's really about you doing a little bit of that investigation and that work for yourself so that you show up as the leader that you want to be and that people will respond to authenticity we use that word a lot it's maybe a little overused but it really is about finding your own voice and your own authenticity you know really just way of showing up so that people will believe you and follow you and feel good so for me it's about just starting a little bit of the work and then the two questions that i always ask people to just really think carefully about before they um communicate anything is who is my audience and what's my purpose so who really am i communicating with this one-on-one conversation a group of a thousand people an email it doesn't matter but try to be as nuanced an understanding of who you're speaking to or you're communicating with as you can be because you want to meet people where they are.

45:33Andrew Blotky:It doesn't matter what you say. What matters is what people hear. And so your job is you try to get people to hear maximally what you want them to hear. And then being very clear, what is it that I want to communicate to convey here? A lot of times leaders will start speaking, especially when that fight or flight mode, that sort of frenetic, nervous energy is around without really being clear. What do I want this person to feel? What do I want this person to know? What do I want this person to do? It doesn't have to be all three it could be just one but being really honest for yourself hey i need this organization to know i'm grateful for the work grateful for everybody's contributions we don't need to ask anything of you today thank you for your work that could be enough i want people to feel good or it's like a hey in the next 24 hours we need everyone to do a b and c things here's why so whatever it is just be clear for yourself who's my audience what's my purpose and then you kind can go from there.

46:28Honestly, it's so wonderful to hear all the words that, you know, an org psych wants to hear around, you know, consulting people and bringing them in authenticity and compassion. And yes, it's still business, but we can do it in a healthier way. We're also seeing though, behaviors, leadership behaviors that are fairly coercive, being normalized at scale through various politicians not just on on your side our side as well where they're winning votes still but we know that they've lied we know that they haven't delivered what they promised we know that they're accepting bribes and yet people are still voting people are still following what's your view i guess in terms of the communication of of that are they just brilliant communicators that are just batting these things away so people just accept them blindly or is it more that this is they're kind of building up to a breaking point where it's all

47:26Andrew Blotky:all going to fall apart you know i think that it's a longer broader conversation and it's probably beyond my pay grade so to speak um because i do think it goes to more much more than um just communication or um even just but it is really around questions of leadership and where when i really go back to is um you know some of the ancient really truly ancient traditions in this world that have transcended generations that have transcended geographic boundaries the wisdom and the stories that so many of the um that come out of in the yoga tradition the buddhist tradition for example all are about just the human condition about the ego and about how um the end and the influence of power over other people and over time big picture time history time generation time we see that you know humans are imperfect we will continue to be imperfect but that really this idea of like evenness kindness compassion these are things that are uniquely human they make it's what separates humans from other species all of the other species and if you just look like Yes, it can be painful.

48:42Andrew Blotky:Yes, history repeats itself. Yes, humans are imperfect. But over time, you know, these stories, they're ancient. They're thousands of years old, and they contain within them a lot of wisdom about how humans can not just persevere, but actually really thrive over time, overcome the sort of infallibility, the imperfection of people who maybe make harmful decisions, who maybe don't care about anybody but themselves, who, as you say, are very dishonest. In the end, there will be a big wake of destruction in their past. And still, we're here. And we're here over time. So how can I, every day, show up and take care of people to the best of my ability?

49:26Andrew Blotky:How can I be a kind of a leader that I want to follow and feel good about? you know these are the things that i can control and that ultimately history tells us despite the destruction despite the pain despite the loss still perseveres over time that was andrew blocky and i think the we are not a family line made lehan's day it really did it really did it is one of the biggest mistakes i see founders and and leaders making and andrew sums up perfectly you wouldn't fire a member of your family but you might need to fight a member of staff therefore Or it is not a family. Yeah. Okay, three takeaways.

50:04Number one, silence is the real crisis. In the absence of information, people are going to write their own story. And usually it's much worse than the truth. And two, know your two questions before you ever need them. Who's my audience? What's my purpose? And three, unfortunately, you have to do some work. But you need to do some work on your values right now. Not mid-crisis. You need to know the answer's already there when things get loud. Oh, and go and get Andrew's book. Honestly Speaking. It's a long form version of everything we've talked about here and also follow him on LinkedIn. And you can find out more about his work at azureleadership.com.

50:41That's A-Z-U-R-E leadership.com. And even if you're elbows deep in a crisis, remember this too shall pass. But it's how you show up while it does is what people remember. This is Truth, Lies and Work. We will see you next week.

51:00Thank you.

From the publisher

Welcome to Truth, Lies & Work, the award-winning workplace podcast where behavioural science meets workplace culture.

How do you steady your team and maintain trust when everything around you is chaotic?

This week, we are joined by Andrew Blotky, an executive coach, author, and the founder of Azure Leadership Group. Andrew has managed internal communications at global scales, building Facebook’s first global employee communications function during a period of intense growth and scrutiny, and leading HR communications at Johnson & Johnson.

In this episode, Andrew shares practical wisdom on leading with integrity through periods of change, crisis, and uncertainty. Moving past standard PR templates, he dives deep into the human side of leadership, discussing how authenticity, self-reflection, and mindfulness can help you stay grounded when you are under fire.

💡 Key Takeaways From This Episode

The First 24 Hours: Why speaking early—even without all the answers—is critical to preventing people from creating their own negative narratives.

Honesty vs. Oversharing: Navigating the boundaries of what you can say, what you can't, and how to admit uncertainty without losing your credibility.

The Power of Pre-Work: Why the best crisis management happens long before the crisis hits by grounding your organisation in true core values.

Compassion in Commercial Decisions: Dealing with the fallout of modern workplace challenges, like mass layoffs and the anxiety surrounding generative AI.

Level 2 Listening: How to move out of a reactive "fight-or-flight" state and practice deep, curious listening to understand what your team truly needs.

👤 About the Guest

Guest Name: Andrew Blotky

Job Title: Executive Coach, Founder/CEO

Organisation: Azure Leadership Group

Website: https://www.azureleadership.com

LinkedIn Profile: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andrewblotky/

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Andrew’s Book: Honestly Speaking: How the Way We Communicate Transforms Leadership, Love, and Life

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