334. Overthinking, holiday hoarding and Gail's menopause plan. PLUS! Can you bank sleep?

8 Sep 2026 · 56 min · 20 chapters

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In short

Overthinking and rumination (MindFlex AI companion); holiday hoarding (UK workers not using annual leave, linked to burnout); Gail’s menopause plan (UK employer action ahead of new laws); “sleep banking” (can you pre-sleep extra to cover future sleep loss?); workplace surgery on remote-team visibility and whether burnout is individual vs business/work-design responsibility.

Guests

No external guests. Hosts are Al (business owner) and Leanne (Chartered Occupational Psychologist).

Key claims

  • Rumination is stuck repeated thinking; linked to worse mood and higher anxiety/depression risk; MindFlex aims to improve “psychological flexibility” via weekly AI voice calls.
  • Holiday hoarding is workers retaining leave; about half of UK workers didn’t use full entitlement; job insecurity and workload drive it; over a third still get contacted while away; nearly half report burnout.
  • Gail’s plans menopause support (manager/team education, conversation normalization, 24/7 digital GP, flexible working elements) ahead of UK requirements.
  • Sleep banking is likely a “lie” or at least not reliably transferable; benefits may reflect catching up on sleep debt rather than true surplus.

Notable examples

  • MindFlex: AI proactive weekly voice call; ACT-based psychological flexibility tracking.
  • Sleep banking studies: US Army 2009 (10h vs 7h then 3h); French 2015 (38h awake); 2025 challenge using 12–14h time-in-bed showing people can’t sleep beyond body needs.

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Returning from the Break

2:13 to 4:26

Hosts discuss their break, listener engagement, and podcast highlights.

“Right, so if you've been skipping our, if you've been skipping the summer season, you've missed some beauties.”

Listener Feedback and Reactions

4:26 to 5:54

Hosts read and react to listener comments and feedback from previous episodes.

“Yeah, we had a guy called Brad, I think.”

The Problem of Overthinking

5:54 to 7:40

Discussion on overthinking and an app designed to combat it, MindFlex.

“I'll tell you, as an early perimenopausal woman, I'm not appreciating it being 38 degrees every day.”

Psychological Flexibility and AI

7:40 to 13:00

Exploration of psychological flexibility and how MindFlex aims to help users.

“Yeah, so rumination is when we get stuck.”

Wrap Up and Future Insights

13:00 to 14:01

Hosts summarize the discussion and insights from the episode, including looking ahead.

“Yeah, but then having something like, I think, if you're in America on Google Maps, it shows the Lake America or something.”

Discussion on Mind Flex App

14:01 to 14:40

Exploring the potential benefits of a new app for mental reframing.

“So if this app does help with that, or at least start to help us with the reframing of things, particularly with younger people, then I think that could be a really positive thing.”

Personal Updates and Reflections

14:40 to 15:24

Sharing personal experiences and reflections on work habits over the past month.

“Jake, who's been trolling us relentlessly for basically being very European and not working in August.”

Understanding Holiday Hoarding

15:24 to 18:56

Discussing the trend of employees not taking their full holiday entitlement and its implications.

“and we had lots of lovely meetings and I got into Hermes in a big way.”

Workplace Culture and Leave Policies

18:56 to 20:32

Examining how workplace culture affects employees' ability to take time off.

“So, yeah, it does talk a little bit about evaluating performance by output rather than hours, which we've talked about lots and lots on this pod.”

Gail's Menopause Support Plan

20:32 to 24:40

Analyzing Gail's proactive approach to supporting menopausal employees.

“You know, Gail, do you remember when, a couple of years ago, I went to HubSpot's Grow, plug for the sponsor.”
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The Importance of Menopause Awareness

24:40 to 26:49

Discussing the need for awareness and education around menopause in workplaces.

“I just think it's actual practical things as well in terms of the working day as well as education and health support.”

The Importance of Menopause Awareness

27:21 to 27:51

Discussing the need for awareness and education around menopause in workplaces.

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Truth or Lie: Sleep Banking

27:51 to 28:01

Initiating a discussion on the concept of sleep banking and its relevance.

“Let's return to the scheduled programming.”

Truth or Lie: The Concept of Sleep Banking

28:01 to 37:53

Learn about the concept of sleep banking and its potential benefits and drawbacks based on research.

“It's that time of the week where we take a popular workplace idea and ask if the research actually bakes it up.”

Managing Remote Teams Effectively

37:53 to 42:00

Discover strategies for maintaining visibility and support for remote teams without micromanaging.

“I'm struggling with something I've something I never really had in the office.”

Exploring Employee Engagement and Support

42:00 to 43:38

Learn how to identify employee needs and foster engagement in remote teams.

“hours in than you should be is there anything else that that you need in terms of support And on the flip side, do you have enough to do?”

Understanding Burnout and Work Design

43:38 to 45:29

Discover the intricacies of burnout and how work design impacts employee well-being.

“So addressing well-being at an individual level as a business owner or leader is really hard and you can't really do that.”

The Importance of Role Clarity in Reducing Stress

45:29 to 48:51

Explore how role clarity and organizational policies affect mental health and engagement.

“Role overload, which is where we talked about kind of the workload.”

Coping Mechanisms for Focus Time

48:51 to 53:00

Learn about creative strategies employees use to protect their focus time at work.

“with the wonderful kate donovan who's arguably the world expert on burnout episode 329 302 and 185.”

Teasers for Upcoming Episodes

53:00 to 55:59

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0:02Coming up this week in work. Wow, it's a long time to have said that. are you an overthinker well psychologists may have found a way to help you stop and it involves an ai companion giving you a call like a phone call to see how you're doing is this a big step forward in mental health support or another threat to true human connection stay tuned to find out more also this week most of us are back at our desks now holiday season's behind us but be honest how much of your leave did you actually use i mean if you're us then used all of it but But today I've got a new word for you, one you've probably never heard, describing something an awful lot of us are guilty of.

0:40And in truth or lie, can we bank sleep? So psychologists started studying this in 2009 and TikTok has just caught on with influencers sharing their tips on banking 10 hours of sleep a night before a week of deadlines, long travel days or whatever else we'll be keeping them up at night. Is it true? Can we deposit sleep into our body's bank account and withdraw it when we need it? Or is this all wishful thinking? I've read the research and I've got a verdict. And in the workplace surgery, one listener asks, is burnout an individual issue or a business issue? They've noticed members of the team are stretched and want ways to genuinely help them cope.

1:16This is Truth Eyes and Work, the award-winning podcast where behavioural science meets workplace culture. Brought to you by the HubSpot Podcast Network, the audio destination for business professionals. My name is Al, I'm a business owner and I'm here to ask the questions you might be afraid to. My name is Leanne. I'm a Chartered Occupational Psychologist and I'm here to answer them. And together we'll help you simplify the science of work and build amazing workplace cultures. Be right back after a quick word from our lovely sponsors. Does your experience with AI sound a little like this? You prompt for 20 minutes, the output is polished, is confident and is completely flipping useless.

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2:17Hello, hello, welcome back. Right, so if you've been skipping our, if you've been skipping the summer season, you've missed some beauties. Oh, you've missed some brilliant stuff. But obviously summer season was a little bit fun. Some of those were pre, well, all of them pre-recorded. So we got a little bit of time off. Back in the seat, forgotten how to use a microphone. Yeah. What, about five weeks since we've done this? Yeah, maybe five weeks. So we're back in to the This Week in Work format, which is what our Tuesday sessions. If you're brand new, welcome, welcome, welcome. Welcome. Get on LinkedIn, finally, Anne, and tell her how you found us.

2:50That would be interesting if you're brand new today. And we'll give you a shout out on the next episode. Absolutely. In fact, we should give, because we've had some comments on the old Spotify. Let me log in. Real time, people. Real time. Phil, Al. Phil. We want to know what you've been up to. I don't quite know how you do that. Would you just go on LinkedIn and send you a message and go, I went to Rhodes and it was very nice. I don't know. People might. They might leave a comment if they're listening on Spotify. Leave a comment. If you're on Spotify, leave a comment. Tell us what you've been up to.

3:19We read every single one and Leanne replies to every single one, even the nasty ones. Go, Lee. Yeah, so we've got Ang87. Oh, yeah, the 87th of the Ang tribe. Yes. It says, I can't believe I just found this podcast. I was so bored of the typical safe and robotic HR podcast. This made my day. Thank you, smiley face. Would that possibly be Ang? A-N-G. Ang? I think it's probably more like it. It's more like it to be Ang. Ang not with an E? Yeah, I don't know. Maybe, I don't know. I know, but can you guess what episode they were listening to when they left that comment? Emma Jameel. Yeah. Yeah, Emma G.

3:53Meal's episode has done extremely, extremely well. Bare-ass Brenda. Bare-ass Brenda. We had all kinds of fun there. What else? Andrea Clare said, I've just discovered this podcast and I really enjoyed the first episode I listened to. Both presenters are easy to listen to and very knowledgeable. Oh, I don't think I've ever been called knowledgeable before I like that. And that was on episode 320, Can You Bullshit a Bullshitter? That's going back a bit, isn't it? Yeah. Jamie Susan said, I'm so glad I found this podcast. Somebody else said, totally agree on the importance of investing in managers.

4:27One thing I used to talk about all the time in manager training in a global hospitality company was when your employees think of the organisation, you are what they think of, not the value on the wall, not the name badge, not the travel discounts. Yeah, we had a guy called Brad, I think. I can't remember his surname, but it was way back in like the teens episodes or the 20s. and he's got a great book about brand. I'll try and dig it out and put in the show notes and also put a link to that particular episode. So yeah, it's really good. Anyway, it's all about values. What else have you seen? What else do the people need to know about you?

5:00Can I just also read this one out just because we've got a lovely comment on Mike Hall's episode. Oh, we love Mike. We love Mike. Just in case you're not listening to that, Mike Hall was Jimmy Carr's first manager and he's the guy who told Jimmy Carr to quit and go and pursue comedy. Also, the nicest guy in the world. Yeah, nicest guy. This is from Roland Tate. It said, Mike Hall is indeed a highly inspirational and selfless leader and a rarely found curator of talent, an example for every boss to aspire to. I wonder if Roland Tate knows him personally. I know that Mike has, when I spoke to Mike afterwards, he said a lot of his friends listened to it.

5:34And they said that a lot of them didn't know the story. Really? Because it's the first time it's ever been published, ever. Wow. So go and check that out. That's episode 313. if you haven't heard about, yeah, how Mike basically told Jimmy Carter to get out of shell. Yeah. Quick like. What else to tell you? Nothing much. I'm sick of the heat. I'm sick of the heat. I'll tell you, as an early perimenopausal woman, I'm not appreciating it being 38 degrees every day. It has been. It's been relentless here in the Balkans. I know it's also been like that in the UK and across a lot of places. Yeah, we're waking up and it's just 38 every single day.

6:12We reckon five weeks now we've not dropped below 36. Yep. As highs. Yeah. Like it goes to about 20 overnight. And also it's not rained for about five weeks. No. No, everything's looking a bit yellow, isn't it? A bit yellow, yeah. A few fires. It was all yellow. But yeah. Anyway. Anyway. Anyway. We should probably do a podcast, right? Yes, it is. So it's time for the news roundup. Leanne, we don't cue the jingle anymore, do we? We don't. We've got feedback that people don't like it. But if you miss the jingle, let us know. Yeah. We'll get the jingle back. It's on my hard drive somewhere. Leanne, what have you seen?

6:51Do you overthink? Are you an overthinker, Al? Mm-hmm. I want to know what an overthinker actually is. Because you like to define things. So what is an overthinker? And I'll tell you. So basically, if like, say you got a weird email from like a client. Yeah. would you have like like a three-hour tailspin in your mind about what that could mean and what it no no okay so no not really then but i do overthink like like things we're doing so we're like all right we're gonna launch it by the way top secret we're launching some tools recently soon you're a tool we're launching launching some tools for managers and um i have been spending i've been obsessing about about what they look like yeah the the ux of that but so yes maybe yes and maybe no anyway i've hijacked your piece no worries so a team of psychologists in berlin have launched an app specifically designed for people who ever think it's called mind flex and the company describes it as a kind of psychological ai essentially an ai companion designed around established psychological techniques rather than just kind of being a generic chatbot this is the important bit of the context so this story comes i must admit from a press release issued itself by mindflex so this is obviously going to be bigging up the mindflex i haven't looked at this app i haven't tried this app so i don't know but i thought it was interesting um so just yeah bear that in mind so the psychology they're trying to tackle um is is pretty interesting so the release sites research suggests that um 73 percent of adults aged 25 to 35 identifies over thinkers and points to the work of psychologist Susan Nolan Hoxheimer on rumination.

8:37Rumination, what a word. Yeah, so rumination is when we get stuck. So repeatedly thinking about the same problem without actually getting anywhere with it. So your example about the tools. Yeah. Is that word funny now? The tools.

8:54Yes, you were thinking about it a lot, but you weren't focusing on just one specific aspect of it, were you? You weren't kind of stuck in that. why have you stopped because i'm i'm trying to get some feedback from you but you just what are you googling i'll tell you in a minute where were we up to i wasn't listening i know so anyway yes um where was i um so yeah so rather the difference is rather than thinking to help you solve the problem. Rumination is basically just getting stuck on it, not getting out with it. And it's linked to worse mood, poorer problem solving and increased risk of anxiety and depression.

9:37So MindFlex, the app is trying to intervene in that cycle. The app is inspired by acceptance and commitment theory or ACT, sorry, theory, therapy, and particularly the idea of psychological flexibility so very simply that's our ability to experience quite uncomfortable thoughts without needing to get rid of them before we can kind of carry on doing things so rather than kind of thinking i need to stop worrying about this presentation before i can start preparing it it's kind of going i'm worrying about this presentation fine i'm going to prepare for it yeah that makes sense yeah so mind flex gives users a personalized plan and uses a validated questionnaire this all from the press release to track psychological flexibility over time and they've also built in a feature that ai contacts you so it can remember previous conversations follow up on something you've talked about several days ago and proactively check in rather than waiting for you to open the app so users get a weekly voice call from their ai companion and you can connect it apparently to apple watch and apple health and stuff like that Anyway, I should mention their co-founder, who is a psychotherapist, Felix Mai, describes what they're trying to solve as a timing problem.

10:53So his argument is that people can spend months struggling with things before getting support, whereas the AI companion can notice, remember, and ask them first our thoughts. I think it's a good idea. I do think that AI can also contribute towards overthinking, particularly ChatGPT. who's very keen on when you ask it a question, going, right, now next things I can do is this and this and this, rather than actually going, well, shall I just go and do this thing? So I think that AI actually contributes a little bit towards overthinking. I didn't realise it was so many people, 73 % of people. And it's weird or interesting that they are targeting younger.

11:32Yeah, 25 to 35, we're no longer relevant to marketers. No longer relevant. We're the people with the money, surely. And also, 25 to 35-year-olds, what percentage of those answer their pissing phone? True that. They ain't getting a phone call, accepting a phone call, are they? I read something this morning that Gen Z, that there's a new greeting with Gen Z, they just don't answer the phone and don't say anything. Right. Because there's so many like spam calls that they just answer the phone and just say silent and wait for the other person because if they're human, they go, hello, are you there?

12:03Yeah. But if they're not, they go, hi, how are you? So, yeah, I think there's a big problem here that they actually get people to call you and nobody's answering the phone design floor design floor but um but anyway no i think this is a really good idea i think it's nice and from a psychological point of view is it a good thing is it a value add i don't know i mean mind flex themselves are very clear they aren't positioning this app as therapy even though it is designed kind of on kind of principles of act and they're describing it as a mental wellness product um rather than again any kind of kind of medical or crisis service.

12:40I think psychological flexibility to me makes a lot of sense and particularly in an environment that is constantly changing to the point where we've all got a bit of whiplash. Did you freaking hear that PT changed the name of Lake Ontario? Like, honestly, I was thinking the other day, if I was in a simulation, I think I'd feel relieved at this point. I'd be like, oh, thank God for that. I thought that was all real. Wow. Yeah, but then having something like, I think, if you're in America on Google Maps, it shows the Lake America or something. If you're anywhere else in the world, it shows Lake Ontario.

13:20And it's the same with the Gulf of America, which was the Gulf of Mexico. If you're in America, it shows that. Which is, again, that weird thing that you're in this echo chamber if you're in America. Because you're like, oh yeah, it's changed. Of course it's changed. It's on the maps, it's changed. Whereas everyone else in the world is going, you idiots, it's not changed. Shh, don't tell them. It's a bit like the Truman Show or something. Let them believe it. Yeah. Let them believe it. I heard that as well, that PT, now his next target is New Mexico. Oh God, what's he going to do? New America.

13:49New America or something probably. He's not very creative with his renaming, is he? But my point of all that was, there's so much craziness and chaos in the world. It's psychological flexibility as a way of kind of being resilient, I think is a good thing. So if this app does help with that, or at least start to help us with the reframing of things, particularly with younger people, then I think that could be a really positive thing. So like I said, I haven't tried it yet. I did get in touch with one of the founders to mention we were going to put it on the show to see if I might be able to get a little free login to test it out.

14:21I haven't heard back yet. He's maybe overthinking about the, overthinking that. Yeah, maybe. He's a bit worried about the appearance on the pod. Don't worry, don't worry. Yeah, so... We said nice things about it, but balanced because we've not tried it. Yeah, we basically said what the press release said and gave some opinions. so that's called Mind Flex I'll leave a link in the show notes Al what have you seen these past five weeks or so I have actually seen quite a lot and I have actually saved quite a lot I use something called Matter which is a bookmarking app and I have saved quite a lot and then I can see when I looked over my archive today I could see that I was giving less and less of a shit as the August went on because I was saving just stuff which I was like that's not interesting I just saved it or saving less like the first week I was saving like probably two or three stories a day and I'm not even sure I saved one in the last week.

15:10A big shout out to Dr. Jake, who's been trolling us relentlessly for basically being very European and not working in August. But it was glorious. And we did work. We did work. We just didn't podcast. We didn't podcast and we talked about a lot and we spoke about a lot of things and we had lots of lovely meetings and I got into Hermes in a big way. Not the handbag, the actual bot. Spent the entire month building out Hermes. Very cool. Anyway, so new word for you this week. It is called holiday hoarding. Guesses. What are you laughing at? You're a whore. Can't say that. Not that kind of whore. Holiday hoarding.

15:48Holiday hoarding. Is that when people will save all of their holidays to then take off a massive, big, big holiday? Yes. Except no. Yes, it is. Yes, but no. In many ways, yes. but also in many other ways. But in the important ways, no. No. It's almost that. It's basically a growing trend of workers hanging on to their annual leave but not taking it. So there's new data from Breathe HR found that around half of UK workers didn't use their full holiday entitlement last year and it's getting worse, not better because one in four are planning to take even less time off this year than last year. Why?

16:29So, well, I'm going to get on to that. Good question. Good question, Leanne. And thank you for the chip up. A big drive apparently here, according to the article, is job insecurity. One in five workers say they're holding back leave because they're worried it'll make them look less committed in a shaky job market. Other things the article said was a third of workers said their workload is what's actually stopping them taking their leave. So this is basically more like rather than people are scared to take holidays, people literally can't take holiday vacation, sorry, if you cross the pond, which is obviously a big issue.

16:58There is another one. They did say that a lot of people said they can't track their holidays, how much they've taken and how much they haven't. Really simple solution. That could be a spreadsheet. I'm sure there's apps out there. Worker Day, I think. I think the majority of HR systems have that built in, don't they? I think so. But here's the thing, which the survey did bring up. And Leanne, you're going to get angry about this. I'm going to try not to get angry. Over a third of people who do take holidays still get contacted by their manager when they're away. So even when they do switch off, work follows them, which is a bit shit.

17:35Thoughts? I often get asked by business owners about well-being. They want to do something around well-being and support their people. And maybe it's an app or maybe it's a mindfulness at lunch or maybe it's some kind of meditation room or whatever else. And my first question is always how, what percent of your staff take their full annual leave allowance? And if it's not 100%, that's your well-being intervention. You know, that's how you help people detach from work. That's how they switch off. That's how they rest and recover and build the resilience they need to go again. And that includes not contacting them when they're on holiday.

18:14That is not cool. That doesn't help. so I think for any business owner out there who's looking at their team and seeing that they're a bit fatigued or maybe starting to burn out or they're just not as innovative or creative as they once used to be or maybe not speaking up in meetings as much and they're thinking I might need to invest in well-being here how much annual leave are they taking and clearly not enough you have these policies in place for a reason right use what you've got already before start throwing money at apps that aren't going to do anything love that there you go so there's a Really quick fix for you.

18:45Just to round this off, the article did say that almost half of the people who were classed as holiday hoarders reported being burnt out by the end of the year. What a big surprise. Shocker. Shocker. So, yeah, it does talk a little bit about evaluating performance by output rather than hours, which we've talked about lots and lots on this pod. But really, the key thing is, as you say, is just take your full allowance of holiday. make it and it's that is a cultural thing because i think most people would want to take their full allowance but they stop like they've got the reasons here because one they can't because the work isn't they won't allow them to them it doesn't matter because the manager will follow them to the beach anyway um and three the culture is oh well if you take it a bit of a slacker um which is not cool yeah at all yeah exactly and and it's i think it's the same with there was was it a certain percentage of people said that they're reluctant because they can't take time off or like the work won't get done yeah let me just find what that was it was a third of them said that their workload is what's stopping them taking leave yeah so again this is where well-being is really operational like where's the kind of the handover and then hand back in in that scenario like do you have a buddy is it spread amongst the team is it just that work doesn't get done for two weeks but of course it you know you can't come back to twice the work um you know really good managers are going to have this whole process figured out so people know that one they can take time off and not have to worry about how the work's getting done and two come back and know that everything's in order because their team have helped them take care of all their clients all the work that needed to be done and and they don't walk into this big stress ball of an environment after two weeks on the beach in Greece you know well-being is as operational as it is anything else exactly what What else have you seen, my love?

20:33Gail is turning up for the gals. Who's Gail? You know, Gail, do you remember when, a couple of years ago, I went to HubSpot's Grow, plug for the sponsor. You're welcome, HubSpot. Please give us some extra money. HubSpot's European, like, summit is called Grow. Oh, right. And I went to the one in London. Oh, yes, I remember. Do you remember? And I got a coffee before I got on the tube. It was in London. Before I got on the tube to go into central London. And I put it on my joint card. and Al also gets notifications when things are spent on the joint card and you were like, who the fuck is Gail and why does she want£7.20?

21:12Gail is the posh coffee shop. £7.20 for a cup? Sorry, I dropped an F-bomb there. I'm so sorry. I'm in a holiday, right? £7.20 for a cup of coffee. Get in the sea. £7.20. I'd want a massage for that as well. So funny there. Here's Gail. So yes, Gail is the cough, the cough, the posh coffee shop. Poffee. Yes, I saw this in the Sunday Times. And it's basically about Gail's becoming one of the first big brands to reveal how it's planning to support employees going through menopause ahead of new employment laws coming in next year. Oh, I didn't know that. Yeah. So Gail has around 200 bakeries across Britain.

21:52The vast majority are south of Birmingham because you will find no respect, a self-respecting northerner. He's going to pay£7.20 for a cup of coffee.

22:03So, yeah, so it's kind of overhauling a lot of its HR following the Labour Employment Rights Act and the changes around menopause. So from next year, employers with more than 250 workers, this is in the UK, will be asked to set out plans for how they support employees dealing with the menopause. And Gayle has decided to kind of get ahead of it. And it's probably a bit of good PR, isn't it, Gayle? Let's not lie. So they've created what it calls a menopause action plan designed to make it easier for employees to actually talk about what their experience at work. Obviously, menopause can look very different for different people.

22:40But if you're not sure, symptoms can include things like hot flushes, disrupted sleep, brain fog and changes in mood, all of which can, of course, potentially affect somebody during their working day. So Miranda Burgum, who is Gail's people director, told the Sunday Times, all we're trying to do is talk freely and for it not to be a forbidden subject. She says that part of the aim is helping managers and teams understand that menopause isn't a taboo. And the plan is as much about actual help as it is starting these conversations. So according to the Times, Gail's is also introducing additional internal benefits, including 24-7 access to a digital GP.

23:21So Gales is essentially getting its approach in place now before larger employers are expected to start publishing their own menopause support action plans. Our thoughts? I think this is, obviously this is great. Anything that helps menopausal women is great. But I also think there would be a great addition if they could teach us men what to say and how to start a conversation elegantly. Because I think that, like, I can imagine being in office and then Martha walks in and me going, oh are you menopausal today martha that's not you know we've got a new character

24:01bare ass brenda a menopausal martha uh so i wouldn't know like so i would i would default to not saying anything yeah you know but i would like i want to say are you okay is there anything i can do but i just feel like that would be as a minefield so we need dr any doyle here to talk about that kind of thing yeah yeah so yeah so that's what i would want that's what i would want as a man out of it which is which is interesting that i have managed to insert my my mate god menopause literally has the word men in it we should be more included

24:38that's funny and i know actually that's not your intention and i think it's actually a really good idea education and for everybody like i i have been learning more and more about perimenopause and menopause and it is mind-blowing the symptoms that come with it all sorts like vertigo and feeling like like you can't get enough air or that you're choking that's all part of of perimenopause symptoms it's so hormonal obviously um but it has such physical um and psychological symptoms it's it's quite it's quite incredible how women for so long have been going through this for a decade by the way it can last for 10 years are going through that and still functioning society to the point where the majority of women under 30 and men know nothing about it no that's how freaking cool women are that they can get on with that and nobody even knows whereas you get a sniffle that's true that's true men in general very very sexist there I'm sorry but my point being I look forward to your letters and your comments the only thing I would say to this policy just if there are other organisations listening or maybe you're a small business owner and think I might need to think about this I think the 24-7 access GP is great I think they also talked about an EAP programme which is fine I think also it's looking at things again like flexible working, working from home certain times.

26:07I just think it's actual practical things as well in terms of the working day as well as education and health support. But interesting anyway, I'll leave a link in the show notes. They do a good coffee, I'm not going to lie. The coffee is good. Better I'd be. Better I'd be for what? £7.20 is around about 14. so it's around about 18 marks in our local currency and a coffee around here is around about 3 marks I mean the pastries look incredible as well but I've never been able to purchase one because they're so expensive because that remortgage hasn't come through yet anyway building a house £7.20 is like a sink over here yeah it genuinely is Lee I think it's time we take a little break hear something lovely from our sponsors actually from us but it's about our sponsors and we will see you after the break for our Truth or Lie and our World Famous Weekly Work episode.

26:58You'll put your questions to the end. See, I did it. I remembered it. Yay. See you in a second. Welcome to the break. Yes, my favourite part of the show. These two idiots have stopped talking. Yes, I want to tell you about my new favourite podcast. No, that's a lie. It's my old favourite podcast. I've been on this one for a while. Didn't know where that was going. Didn't know where that was going. It is called I Digress. It is hosted by Troy Sandidge and it is brought to you by the HubSpot Podcast Network, the audio destination for business professionals. Yes, it's got shows that are under 30 minutes and I Digress helps eliminate complexity, complications and confusion in your business with frameworks and strategies that achieve scalable and sustainable success.

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27:34At least that's what it says here. And if you do want to hear a really personal story, go to episode 136. This is Troy's honest account of fatherhood, killing hustle culture, and what really matters when you stop performing and start living with intention. Listen to I Digress wherever you get your podcasts. That concludes the break. Let's return to the scheduled programming. Back to the studio.

28:00Okay, welcome back. It is truth or lie time. It's that time of the week where we take a popular workplace idea and ask if the research actually bakes it up. God, it has been a while. Baks it up. Thinking about pastries again. Link, we are talking about a workplace idea, but this isn't actually, this isn't fitting to the workplace directly, is it? What are we talking about today? Sleep banking. Got to be careful I say that. Yeah, you do, don't you? Yeah, you do. He's a proper sleep banker, him. Oh, yeah.

28:29William's a proper sleep banker. Is he sleep banking again?

28:36William, cut it out. We've got clients in the office. I feel like I've ruined this. It's not even started. Okay, Lee, talk us through it. So, yeah, the term sleep banking is about 15 years old, 2009. and it was coined by a team of researchers working with the US Army led by somebody very famous in this world called Tracy Rupp. They were trying to solve a pretty practical problem. So soldiers often go into missions already short on sleep. So the researchers wanted to know if you give someone extra sleep beforehand, does it protect them later? This is all about, because we know how important sleep is for mental health, for physical health, for all the health, right?

29:19so this isn't necessarily workplace based but if we're not getting sleep we ain't gonna be we ain't gonna be working very well are we um so yeah so one study kicked all of this off and since then researchers have tested this idea on shift workers athletes and people doing simulated um all-nighters in a lab and all asking the same basic question so the theory claims that sleep banking um you can sleep extra hours before a stretch when you know you'll be short of sleep so say you've got a long flight or you're on you're on longer shifts if you for the week before that spend 10 hours in bed rather than eight the idea is can you bank the sleep to help you when you're oh sorry when you're then deprived in the future yes makes sense cool so let's start with the original study for the four side of the argument in support so in 2009 u.s army funded a trial of 24 people half slept 10 hours a night for a week the other slept their normal seven then everyone was cut down to just three hours a night for a full week so the group who had banked extra sleep beforehand kept their attention and reaction speeds sharper throughout the week where they're only getting three hours a night and they also recovered faster once normal sleep came back.

30:41I see so that's a very convincing four. Yes yes and this was a study that everything else builds on. So 2015 a French team tested it with 14 men sleeping either eight hours or 10 hours a night for six nights then everyone stayed awake for 38 hours straight no sleep at all brutal. the group with extra sleep beforehand made about half as many attention mistakes on a reaction test they also had far fewer micro sleeps we call them micro snoozes don't we love the time in like few seconds when you kind of brain switches off um go on no no i was just thinking that maybe maybe i did that a bit earlier when you were when i was googling ruminate how rude um so yeah and they We found that the benefit was still there the next day.

31:32So even after a full night of recovery sleep, the people who had banked sleep were still performing better. The team ran a follow-up in 2016, this time on physical endurance. So 12 men did six nights of extra sleep, then a full night with zero sleep, then a leg muscle endurance test. And they lasted about 8 % longer than after a normal week of sleep and said it felt easier. So the important thing about this one is their muscles weren't any stronger. It was the extra sleep was helping them push through the fatigue. This is all sounding good. Yeah, all sounding good. Then there was a basketball study.

32:09So 11 college players extend their sleep to 10 hours a night for five to seven weeks. Their sprint times improved from 16.2 seconds to 15.5. So that's quite a difference, isn't it? Nearly a full second. Their shooting accuracy went up about 9%. but the only flaw in this study was that nobody deprived them of sleep afterwards to test if it kind of held. So it was kind of the banking sleep without then the deprivation. Oh, okay. So I guess it's really showing that if you're well rested, you perform better. Yeah, well, that's probably more like the real life because in real life, you probably wouldn't go 38 hours straight.

32:46You might be a health professional. True, true, true, true. And one more piece, the study of 14 men had a week of extra sleep and researchers found it raised a hormone called IGF-1, which helps repair tissue and helps with brain functions. That might give an eye hint at a possible reason as to why sleep banking might work. It's hormonal change in the body. Got it. So that's all the evidence for. It's pretty highly stacked, I can see. So is there any evidence against? Yeah. So not everybody agrees that sleep banking is real. So this is very recent. 2025, a sleep researcher named Elizabeth Klerman led a team that published a pretty formal challenge to the whole idea.

33:29Their argument was that sleep isn't like a piggy bank where you can kind of put extra in now and take it out later. It's more like a credit card so you can borrow against sleep, but you're going to owe it back afterwards. I tell you what, Elizabeth, what a lovely analogy. Yeah. That is brilliant. I like that. It's nice that, isn't it? Well done, Lizzie. So yeah, so she said you can't bank, you can't kind of have this build up the surplus in advance right um the kind of idea that they had to test this was that if sleep banking is a really a thing can you actually fall asleep when you're not tired because it's almost like well you should be able to because you're banking asleep you don't need it now but you're banking it for the future so to test it researchers gave people way more time in bed than they needed 12 to 14 hours a night for weeks um and as i said with that logic that if people can sleep on demand, they'll use all of that time.

34:24And if they can't, they'll run out of tiredness and just kind of lie there awake. And that is exactly what happened. For the first few nights, people slept through most of the extended time because they were catching up on existing tiredness. But once they caught up, they started lying awake for long stretches, night after night, even with all that time available, their body simply stopped wanting more sleep. so the conclusion from them was that nobody could sleep past the point their body actually didn't need anymore so there's no evidence that anyone can sleep um kind of before it's owed which means there's no way to build a surplus in advance and that's exactly what sleep banking would require um there is another study worth mentioning so 70 people went through two rough weeks in a row of sleep so just um five nights of just four hours sleep then five more nights of the same and in between those two weeks they got one night's sleep um as much one night's sleep as much they wanted um and if banking worked that one good night should have made the second rough week earlier so that makes sense they had five nights of four hours and one night of normal sleep and another five nights of four hours so so it would be that uh if you can sleep bank then like you said that one night is going to make the second week better than the first week because you didn't bank on the first week.

35:47Yes, got it. Yeah, but it didn't. People's performance kept getting worse either way. So what mattered was their sleep pattern over time, not that one night in the middle. And then the other problem as well is that extra sleep didn't make people feel less tired. So actually, if you look at the original studies, both the 2009 and 2015 studies, people who banked extra sleep performed better on tests, but still reported feeling very, very sleepy just as sleepy and tired as as everybody else um so yeah the banking is is pretty hard to pull off in real life and the other thing i think i need to point out as part of the again is if we look back at the original samples one only on men didn't include any any women in there um and very small sample sizes 24 people or is it 14 people 24 athletes very very small sample sizes so the verdict is see i was convinced you could up until you gave me all the against and so now i feel like i want to go back to elizabeth's analogy of credit card not savings account yeah yeah is that what you think that's what i'm thinking that's what i'm getting from it yeah i agree i agree so yeah sleep banking truth or lie i think the official answer needs to be that more research is needed we don't really know yet um extending sleep before kind of a tough stretch does seem to improve in those smaller samples things like attention and reaction time and endurance but as you rightly said Al we don't know whether it's actually banked or whether it's actually more that we're paying it back afterwards so yeah the improvements could be because of a genuine kind of reserve or more than likely could be because people are catching up on debt that they didn't realize that they had um so yeah i guess sleep banking do you know but probably the better idea is just try and sleep more and more consistently um and you'll likely perform better so sleep banking truth or lie if i had to decide i'd probably say a lie okay fantastic thank you leanne i'm guessing all of the links will be in the show notes like a proper scientist uh if you have your own idea for truth or lie then get in touch just check the show notes um look at our brand new website truthliesandwork.com you'll see there's lots on there there's lots on there that's one of the things that hermes has been helping me with it's been uh yes you can go on there you can find all of the previous questions i think there's about 300 of them i know sorry previous i've talked about workplace the previous truth and lie which is probably about 40 50 of them i think i'm doing doing for almost a year um and if you have your own idea then there's ways to get in touch in the show notes we'd love to hear from you even if it's just a study or something that's been bothering you yeah you're like hmm i wonder if that's true or not yeah we'll find out okay so it is now time for my favorite time of the week it's the time for the world famous weekly workplace surgery where i put your questions to leanne leanne i've got three questions are you ready yeah on my first whistle okay so there's so this person writes if says they say i feel like i've lost visibility of my remote team now this is really really we've i'm not going to name who it is but i've spoke to someone quite recently who's saying the same thing that i do oh remote team.

38:51Oh really? Yeah, lost visibility. So there could be a tool around that. You're a tool. So hi Al and Leanne. I manage a fully remote team. I'm struggling with something I've something I never really had in the office. I can see when work gets delivered but I can't easily tell who's overloading, who's coasting and who might be struggling. I absolutely do not want to start monitoring people or constantly checking up on them but equally I feel like I'm managing these people with only half the information I used to have. Lee, is there any way to get proper visibility of a remote team without using one of these nasty little trackers or being a nasty little micromanager.

39:26Yeah, it can feel a bit tricky, Con. I mean, I've managed teams remotely or remote teams for like, God, 15 years? Some of those people you've never met, haven't you? Yeah, yeah, many of them never met. So I understand that it can feel like a shift, particularly when you're used to managing people in person. The truth is there's no difference to it. there's no different techniques to managing a remark team it's just a bit more intention and probably a lot more frequency in terms of communication i understand what you're saying about tracking i have worked in teams in both scenarios one that we didn't track but we had very very clear um targeted outcomes and one where we did track where we still had an end product but the route to get there could vary massively we did use a tracking in in the latter just to see where people more to to identify training and development where if a task was taking people a bit too long then there's something there that either something in the process wasn't working they were really unlucky and just getting kind of all the difficult clients or there is a training need there um and would obviously then from a time perspective see people who were just massively um overextending themselves in in general over a week so i think it depends on the culture of the organization how the team is set up so i wouldn't rule out time monitoring but be very very clear about what its purpose is and what you're going to get out of it as a manager more than likely all you need to do is just start having more conversations with people you're not going to bump into people in the kitchen over a cup of tea so you're going to have to pick up the slack or the phone or the the facetime and actually have more regular check-ins with people and that could be a quick quick five minutes every morning just to kind of debrief on what's been happening it could be a more time-based one-to-one once a week half an hour with people and you can see you know if they don't want to switch on their camera ever or they're just starting to look a bit tired you can still see these cues through video and actually having these conversations and asking people directly because we know from the research that one of the main risks of working from home or working remotely is that people do tend to blur their boundaries between work and life more and do tend to work more hours and it's quite significant it's something like 15 to 20 percent more hours people work as they're working from home so you can just assume from kind of typical data these people are probably stretching themselves more than they should be so it's having that honest conversation you know I know this is a common trap that people can fall in how do you find you know you're balancing your time at the minute do you feel that you're working more hours in than you should be is there anything else that that you need in terms of support And on the flip side, do you have enough to do?

42:10You know, is how long is the things taking you? Are you challenged? Are you interested? Some job crafting type things. Are we using your strengths? What other tasks or responsibilities could you have that are going to feel more fulfilling? It's having these very open, direct manager conversations, coaching conversations, as you would with an in-office team. You just have to be a bit more intentional, probably a bit more, do them a bit more regularly. and in terms of people slacking off this really frustrates me with remeric teams if you're managing by kind of outcomes and you've you've kind of saying your question you've got you know that things are being delivered doesn't really matter does it really matter because I think it's more of a question that these people it matters from an engagement perspective that they're probably going to get bored and might leave so it's the same questions again in terms of are you being challenged enough what is it you could be doing that you'd find more enjoyable or more purposeful or bringing more meaning in the meantime as long as they're delivering then cool it's these conversations are going to help you figure out and i don't want to see people slacking off but maybe people that are just more efficient than than you realize or aren't being as challenged as much they should be okay great all right we've got another a similar question here i grouped this one because this one's quite similar so this is about uh it's about whether the employees burnout is actually my responsibility as the manager i run a growing business and i've started noticing signs that some people are stretched my instinct is to offer more support encourage time off maybe bring in some well-being stuff go back and listen to the beginning of this episode but part of me wonders whether that's just dodging the real question leanne will have some opinions on that how do you work out whether burnout is an individual problem or a business design problem it's both okay it's both it's it's an individual thing and it's a business or more accurately work design problem.

44:01So you know how they talk about people have their own windows of tolerance and people have very different experiences in life and different genetics and their kind of tolerance for pressure and workload is going to differ from individual to individual. So addressing well-being at an individual level as a business owner or leader is really hard and you can't really do that. You're signposting people either through an EAP or GP services or counselling services or whatever else like you you as an individual manager or business owner it's difficult to have a direct impact on individual well-being by just focusing on the individual because you're not really qualified to do that and it's not really your kind of in your area of control and expertise or indeed at times responsibility but what you're creating in terms of the work environment the impact that has on the individual experience and their well-being that is absolutely your responsibility and as i alluded to before with the the um holiday allowance it's often things like that around work design and policy that have much more to do with well-being than an app or mindfulness or free meals or whatever else um so it's always going to be things of course around workload but the interesting thing about workload i was reading some more recent research in this recently i'm such a nerd this is how i spent my holiday there's a new meta analysis out that looked at like 60 years of research into role stresses right and they basically found through and it was a massive sample in the end i think it was like more than half a million huge huge sample and they basically found that in terms of job stresses that's things like um role overload which would be kind of too much work um role ambiguity so that's not really understanding what it is your responsibility are and role conflict and kind of how these three interact with the individual experience in terms of performance in terms of mental health in terms of kind of other outputs so they found that role ambiguity so not kind of understanding responsibility to role had a negative impact mainly on things around attitudes and performance so it meant lower job satisfaction, lower work engagement, lower organizational commitment, lower task performance.

46:25That was kind of the role ambiguity. Role overload, which is where we talked about kind of the workload. Yes, it did have an impact more on things like negative mood and symptoms. But in terms of burnout, role conflict was the most important predictor. So that's when we have like competing demands on our time whether that be from a manager or a customer or a peer or there's arguments in terms of whose job is it to do that that was the biggest predictor of burnout of psychological distress of counterproductive behaviors in the workplace and of intention to leave wow yeah so we can often think that workload is the problem and often it's a bit more nuanced it's more about why is that workload feeling that heavy and it's probably more than likely because we also know that these three things are correlated that they're also experiencing work overload and role sorry role ambiguity and role conflict so all that to say work design is so important it's often in very operational transactional elements that you wouldn't think were associated with mental health and burnout so checking things around role clarity, role conflict, looking at things like relationships within the workplace, is there any infighting, is there any incivility?

47:46Meaning is a big one. Do people understand what the organization is trying to do? Do they understand their role in delivering that? Meaningful work is one of the biggest predictors of work engagement, which from a psychological perspective is basically the opposite of burnout. So there's lots of things that we can do in terms of work design to improve well-being um before we try and dip into the individual side that let's be honest it's a whole other freaking industry in terms of mental health and wellness practitioners that that are there to do just that um so yeah look at your work design and the three things i would always start with reason why is your organization there what is it trying to achieve and how do people how can people relate to that role are people clear on what they they have to do in their role are workloads evenly distributed and are we making sure there's no role conflict and recognition are people being fairly paid are they being recognized in terms of their performance and also in terms of their career development they're three really nice places to start me excellent excellent and if you want to know more about burnout then we've got three episodes with the wonderful kate donovan who's arguably the world expert on burnout episode 329 302 and 185.

49:00Don't worry, I'll put the links in the show notes. Or you can just go on to truthliesandwork.com, click on guests, find Kate, and it'll show you all of them, and you can just click play and listen to them at you, and they've got the segments, they've got all of the transcript. Yeah, it's beautiful. Go check out truthliesandwork.com. Yeah, lovely. Okay, so last question here. I kind of like this one. My direct report has been faking meetings to get work done. So he said, a guy on my team has been blocking out a couple of hours every afternoon with fake meetings he told me he started doing it because whenever he puts focus time in his calendar people just book over it so now he uses boring meeting titles and everyone leaves him alone i love this the problem is my manager has now asked me which client he keeps meeting with because he she wants to join one of the calls i don't want to lie for him but i also understand why he's doing it so do i grass on him do i snitches get stitches do i tell my manager what's going on or keep Snitches get stitches.

49:57Do you know what kind of, in this scenario, I wouldn't grasp on it. Because I think what this person has done has found basically their own coping mechanism to remain productive and effective in an environment that isn't allowing them to be productive and effective. They're a great member of staff to take this initiative, to see that then their time is getting booked out anywhere and they put focus time, so then to change it. Like it shouldn't be that. it should be that focus time is respected but good for them for finding a way to remain productive and efficient in their role so i think it's a case of kind of guarantee manager go oh um maybe maybe just fudge something so oh it's just that client you know that that client that always needs a bit more time or oh actually i think i think that was put a mistake in the diary actually and you know just fluff around it just get make it go away or say oh do you know what if you want to sit on a call this client is really good sitting on that meeting if you want to you want to sit in on something redirect what do you do with the dog training al uh don't do this do this yeah stop doing that do this exactly not this that yes not this that is much better way exactly so just not this that with with your manager to get them in terms of of a call and i think it's then going to your team member and go one bravo two i'm so sorry that you had to do this to be able to have your focus time respected it shouldn't be that way i would ask questions like is there one person in particular was always booking in around focus time was it in general was it ever me and figure out exactly because it might just be one person that you might just need to go to a manager like if they've got focus time in the diary do not book that in or give you permission as an employee that if it's booked in during focus time that you can decline it yes yes that's it that's that's it that's it to quite it yeah so i think it's just giving setting some some clear expectations if somebody has focus working in their diary that that has to be respected and what that person can do to make sure that it is and this goes for everybody in in you know in the team it can be hard for some people to understand that people need this focus time i remember on my team like i had i had a person who who really needed focus time it's really hard because we worked in a community center so they asked me if they could come in an hour earlier and leave an hour like an hour earlier um so they basically have an hour before anyone else came where it'd be quiet and i was like yeah of course um and then i had a member of staff kind of go oh why does this person leave early i said well because they're doing that you're welcome to do the same if you'd rather have you know have that time um but they were like no because then i have to get an extra early bus and i don't want to do that it's like well there you go you know flexibility isn't it so i think i think that's what i'd say protect the focus time and and just distract your manager not this that you don't want to listen to that and also i think leanne said all along that a great manager tends to sort of protect their team from anything external imagine yourself as like the first line of defense um and that's what you're doing this does remind me of um i saw this thing on it was a tweet or something i don't know it was a little while ago and someone saying i only discovered today that my diary was public when my manager emailed me and said we have a meeting this afternoon but you've got in your diary get a chicken any chance you can move that for this meeting he's like oh shit and also made me think are you actually getting like a roast chicken are you going out and getting a live like a rotisserie chicken yeah so the hands have a hungry day today you should have seen her face when i said rotisserie chicken like we don't even eat that much meat i don't even eat chicken no i'm like i could eat chicken get me to Asda and get me a rotisserie chicken oh yeah one of those days where you just want to sit in your car and eat a rotisserie chicken with your hands yeah yeah I agree oh god that's going to make me hungry right okay let's go and find the vegetarian equivalent of a rotisserie chicken there is none there is none boom so this Thursday we're joined by we don't know we've got three people and we haven't quite decided who's going to come on yet or have we?

53:58I don't know we've got some cool people coming up though do you want to tease a couple of them? Yeah, it sounds like we've got cool people coming up. Not this Thursday, they're shit. No, well, in general, we generally can't say we've got three interviews we pre-recorded before the summer break. And we're like, which one do we do first? It's all too exciting. So we've got someone who's going to talk about the history of personality tests and a workshop on how to choose a personality test. Because Leanne's always saying, don't use Myers-Briggs. But then she doesn't often say, well, you probably do actually be in the comments.

54:24In every post, I do. Whenever I slug off Myers-Briggs, I give it an alternative. But does anyone listen to that? No, do they? No. So we got in a crazy mad scientist who knows everything about this, who's going to talk us through that. Psychologists listening will know exactly who that is. Yes, yes, he's very well known. We've also got someone who can talk about the medical factors of work, how it actually physiologically changes stuff in your body. And the third person is a fabulous storyteller who will teach you how to be a, basically how to tell stories at work, not in a bad way, but in a great way.

54:57and he also apparently he ruined star wars he used to work with the muppets he's just such the coolest guy ever oh that's what i'd do today i'm on the first day of my period if you hadn't clocked on but i want a rotisserie chicken and i want to watch the muppets oh that's what we can do right we'll go and do that so we'll see you next week in the meantime oh and also on next tuesday sorry i'll sorry to over talk about no um we also are bringing back our guests our guest hosts on Tuesdays. Yes. So next Tuesday we are joined by the one and only Mr. Danny Wareham. DW! Yay! Yeah, he's great. And then we've also got Bill Yost, I think, coming up as well, I think.

55:39Yeah! We've got Paula Brockwell. We've got Nicole Williams. Oh, he's going to be great. Oh, it's so good. And of course, Jakey Jake will be back sometime soon. We just can't shake him off. We just can't. We can't. Okay, right. So if you're listening, Jake, we love you. We do. Alright, so we will see you on Thursday for this interview see you next Tuesday for some more Tuesday fondness in the meantime it would mean genuinely the world if you'd have to review for us on Spotify or Apple Podcasts we probably get about four or five a week and each time we get one it just makes our flipping day so yeah go and do that brilliant anything else to add Leanne?

56:12Nope bye bye bye bye

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Welcome back to Truth, Lies & Work, the award-winning workplace podcast where behavioural science meets workplace culture. This week on This Week in Work, we explore AI for mental health, annual leave trends, and progressive workplace policies, plus dive into sleep research and take on your workplace surgery questions.

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AI for Overthinkers

Psychologists in Berlin have launched Mindflex, a psychological AI designed around Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) to support the 73% of young adults who overthink. Is an AI companion reaching out to check on you a breakthrough or a threat to real human connection?

Source: https://www.einpresswire.com/article/939689893/berlin-psychologists-launch-mindflex-a-psychological-ai-for-the-73-percent-of-young-adults-who-overthink

The "Holiday Hoarding" Crisis

With half of UK workers failing to use their full holiday entitlement due to job insecurity and workload pressure, holiday hoarding is driving massive year-end burnout. We explore why leaders need to evaluate performance based on output rather than hours logged.

Source: https://www.fastcompany.com/91589261/holiday-hoarding-is-a-workplace-crisis

Gail’s Menopause Action Plan

Ahead of upcoming UK employment legislation, Gail’s Bakery is breaking workplace taboos by introducing menopause action plans and 24/7 digital GP access for employees across its 200 locations.

Source: https://www.thetimes.com/business/companies-markets/article/gails-menopause-plan-djlnj706k

🧠 Truth or Lie: Can You Bank Sleep?

Can you deposit extra hours of sleep before a hectic week or long trip and withdraw them when you need them? Leanne breaks down the science—from 2009 US Army studies to new research challenging the piggy bank model.

Sleep research sources:

https://sleepdebtcalc.com/blog/can-you-bank-sleep-before-a-busy-week

https://sleepdebtcalc.com/blog/weekend-sleep-catchup

Klerman, E. B., Banks, S., & Roenneberg, T. (2025). Con: sleep is a credit card, not a piggy bank. SLEEPJ, 48(12), zsaf251.

Thompson, M. A., Jones, C. B., & Thornburg, C. J. (2017). Sleep banking. Mil Rev, 97(1), 91-97.

💬 Workplace Surgery

This week we answer three listener questions:

"I manage a fully remote team and I’m struggling with something I never really had in an office. I can see whether work gets delivered, but I can’t easily tell who’s overloaded, who’s coasting, or who might quietly be struggling. How do you get proper visibility of a remote team without turning into a micromanager?"

"I run a growing business and I’ve started noticing signs that some people are stretched. How do you work out whether burnout is an individual issue or a business design problem?"

"A guy on my team has been blocking out a couple of hours every afternoon with fake meetings because whenever he puts 'focus time' in his calendar, people book over it. My manager has now asked me which client he keeps meeting with. Do I tell my manager what’s going on?"

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