The CEO Who Saved Homebuyers A Billion Dollars: Why Founder Mode Is A Lie | Glenn Kelman

4 Aug 2026 · 45 min · 24 chapters

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In short

Founder mode, truth-telling, and values-driven leadership in CEO decision-making; how to recruit and work with boards; why “fancy” severance talk and avoiding hard conversations are warning signs.

Guests

Glenn Kelman, former CEO of Redfin; co-founded Plumtree Software (1997), took it through IPO; spent decades at Redfin transforming it into a technology-powered real estate brokerage and “saving consumers billions.” Hosts: Jessica Neal (ex-Graylock) and Patti McCord; Jeff Markowitz (venture/HR recruiting background).

Key claims

Great leaders create space for candid truth; if you’re not excited to hire, don’t; look for reasons someone won’t work, then reassess; founder mode can be a lie used to steamroll; boards work best when founders stop blaming and tell the truth; love drives trust and conflict resolution.

Notable examples

Hiring story where a candidate refused severance and was hired; Plumtree portal software vs “count calories” idea; Redfin rental expansion debt during 2021 rate boom; Rocket acquisition where Glenn rewrote emails 83 times to disagree; board candor after quoting Colonel Jessup; “Let My Love Open the Door” walk with James Slackitt.

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Chapters

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A Job Offer with a Twist

0:00 to 0:31

Discover the unexpected path to a job offer amidst uncertainty.

“He offered the job to somebody else because I said I still might go to medical school, but I need a job today.”

Introducing Glenn Kelman

1:14 to 4:16

A deep dive into Glenn's background, achievements, and leadership style.

“Welcome to another episode of TruthWorks.”

Early Inspirations and Aspirations

4:17 to 5:21

Glenn reflects on his childhood and early career aspirations before entrepreneurship.

“I have to say that Jeff was my favorite partner at any venture firm.”

The Writer's Journey

5:24 to 7:17

Glenn shares his experience of writing and the creative process.

“and the hand of God just came down and redirected me toward amazing people.”

Discovering the Business World

7:18 to 9:19

Glenn recounts how he found his passion for business in Silicon Valley.

“there are some amazing people who can do that.”

Founding Plumtree Software

9:20 to 11:00

Exploring the inception of Plumtree Software and its initial challenges.

“And it continues to be a beautiful movement, you know.”

Transitioning to Redfin

11:03 to 13:41

Glenn discusses his journey from Plumtree to Redfin and his motivations.

“I mean, it's so different from Plumtree.”

Finding Purpose in Real Estate

13:43 to 14:00

Glenn shares his passion for the real estate industry and its impact.

“Well, I had been watching Oprah Winfrey in the middle of the day with Mark, my older brother, and just getting bluer and bluer because he wasn't getting any better.”

The Job Offer and Its Consequences

14:00 to 15:11

Glenn shares his unique journey to securing a job in real estate.

“And then I just felt like I have to find a job today.”

Insights on Hiring and Negotiation

15:12 to 16:19

Discussion on the nuances of hiring and what candidates reveal during negotiations.

“Jeff, do you agree, though, that when people start getting fancy about severance, it's a bad sign.”
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The Challenge of Assessing Talent

16:20 to 18:23

Exploration of the difficulties in determining the right fit during interviews.

“at deciding who was going to be good, who was going to be bad, which grain will grow.”

Leading with Gut Instincts

18:24 to 20:44

The importance of trusting intuition in decision-making and leadership.

“And they're not always answered technically.”

Building a Relationship with the Board

20:45 to 23:59

Glenn discusses the evolution of his relationship with his board and its impact.

“And then they do exactly what you were going to do, which was not cancel the wedding and keep going down the path and not listening to that, like whatever gut thing is happening.”

Navigating Board Challenges and Growth

24:00 to 28:00

Insights on dealing with board challenges and the evolution of entrepreneur-board relations.

“And I think your board members would say you excelled at that.”

Navigating VC Relationships and CEO Growth

28:00 to 29:28

Explore the complexities of CEO relationships with VCs and personal growth experiences.

“And then I think that VCs are a little less likely to really invest in making you better and having a hard conversation.”

Lessons from Real Estate Agents

29:28 to 31:39

Learn about the transformative lessons Glenn gained from working closely with real estate agents.

“Well, I think a lot of it is about love.”

Hard Truths in Leadership

31:39 to 34:16

Discuss the importance of communicating hard truths and accountability in leadership roles.

“Incredibly, incredibly hard to accomplish.”

Lessons in Accessibility and Vulnerability

34:16 to 37:48

Understand the challenges of accessibility and vulnerability in leadership and organizational culture.

“Then I'm going to crumple up that piece of paper and throw it out.”

The Impact of Near-Death Experiences on Leadership

37:48 to 41:08

Examine how challenging experiences shape leadership values and decision making.

“but I now learn I want to work much harder to make it easier.”

Effective Decision-Making as a CEO

41:08 to 42:01

Learn about the critical importance of decision-making and creating a feedback-rich environment.

“And I think the founders that I know that have this, it is true.”

The Challenges of Decision-Making as a CEO

42:01 to 43:10

Learn about the importance of thoughtful decision-making in leadership roles.

“way, but you really appreciated and respected where they came from.”

The Power of Love in Leadership

43:10 to 44:28

Discover how showing love and care can impact leadership and team dynamics.

“And I'm so glad that Jeff got you to come on the show because you...”

Letting Love Show

44:28 to 44:41

Understanding that showing love can help overcome mistakes in leadership.

Weather Warnings and Show Closure

44:41 to 45:05

A light-hearted moment about weather alerts followed by the show’s conclusion.

“I think we need to end now before it touches down.”
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0:00He offered the job to somebody else because I said I still might go to medical school, but I need a job today. But then the other guy asked for severance. And then he called me back and said, the other guy wants severance. Do you want severance? And I said, no, if you fire me, I don't deserve diddly squat. And he's like, you're hired. And the rest is history, as they say.

0:18Jeff Markowitz:I love that. Didn't want to give him a severance. Jeff, do you agree, though, that when people start getting fancy about severance, it's a bad sign. It's a bad sign. Yeah, especially in the negotiation process.

0:36Jeff Markowitz:What would happen if we just told the truth? Welcome to TruthWorks, where we dig into the nitty gritty of leadership and work. And what needs to change? I'm Jessica Neal. And I'm Patti McCord. Our journey together started in HR, but trust us, it's evolved into something wild, honest, and well, a bit rebellious. So throw out the handbook. We're here to redefine rules to work for us, not against us. Let's dive into another episode.

1:13Jeff Markowitz:Hi, everyone. Welcome to another episode of TruthWorks. I'm Jessica Neal, your host, and I'm here with my co-host, Jeff Markowitz. Hi, Jeff. How are you? I'm great. I'm good. Yeah, I might get sucked up in a tornado, but other than that, I'm great. that'll be an experience to talk about for sure it would be it would be a little a little fun and a little drama for the podcast but we've got bad weather in texas but um but i am good but you are going to introduce our guest today who i'm so excited about i am i am so excited to introduce glenn as you know i used to be at graylock and i feel very confident saying that glenn was my favorite CEO to work with.

2:02And look, yeah, he's like, no question. We just, we bonded. Come on. We sold it out together. He's just an amazing person, an amazing leader. And I got to know Glenn when I joined Greylock in 2011 or 12. Well, I probably got to know you in 2012 because I and joined in late 2011. But Glenn co-founded Plumtree Software in 1997. He took it through its IPO and he joined Redfin. And I think he spent a couple decades at Redfin, if I have it correctly. Two. And just transformed it into the leading technology-powered real estate brokerage in the world and saved consumers billions of dollars, I would say.

2:55So Glenn's ability to attract leaders, to attract great board members, I think is just unprecedented because of the way he operates. So I'm really happy to have him on.

3:10Jeff Markowitz:Now I'm excited too. Man, I'm embarrassed, Jeff. You're embarrassed? You should be flattered. Yeah, that's really sweet. Yeah, that is sweet. I'm going to ask you a question, Jeff, because you work with so many CEOs and founders, and you mentioned a couple of things about Glenn, but what made him different from everybody else? You know, I think a combination of tremendous passion for everything he was doing, at least when I interacted with him. I think Glenn just showed up and was always on. And I don't think that that was artificial. I think that's just who he is. And, you know, people, I worked with Glenn on a bunch of board stuff and, you know, he was able to attract amazing people to his board because his energy is just infectious.

4:01And look, when you believe so passionately in what you're doing, people see it. And I think that's, it was not just a job for Glenn.

4:12Jeff Markowitz:Yeah. That's my interpretation. Well, Glenn, welcome. And look at you. Geez, thanks for the kind words, Jeff. I have to say that Jeff was my favorite partner at any venture firm. We had this soulful relationship. You really struggle when you're trying to bring on executives and board members, whether you have someone who's going to go the long, hard way with you. And I sometimes felt self-conscious saying why I didn't like someone or what I was looking for. And Jeff created this space where I could be my complete self and connect with other humans who would expand that complete self. And so that's why we have such a wiki bond.

4:55It's really deep.

4:56Jeff Markowitz:Well, I love that. I love this. So, Glenn, we always like to go back in time a little bit because you probably didn't plan out that you were going to be the founder of Plumtree and CEO of Redfin. How did this all happen? Where did it start? I think I am the luckiest person on the face of this earth. I tried to screw up my life over and over and over again, and the hand of God just came down and redirected me toward amazing people. I read somewhere that you were going to write a book, and you didn't really like the business world. You didn't want to be a part of it or something. I don't know. Well, I think we all grow up wanting to do something really good, and I just couldn't figure out what that was.

5:44I am the son of a Jewish father, and he once told me this story about the three kinds of Jews. So a long time ago, Peter the Great said that Jews can't own land, and therefore a small number were allowed to go to university. So there were farmer Jews that were kind of banished, and then there were the university Jews, doctors, lawyers, accountants. And then everybody else had no way to make a living. And they were the absolute lowest of the low. They were the wheeler dealer Jews. And so I think he was worried that I would become a wheeler dealer Jew, which is just another word for an entrepreneur.

6:22Right. But I tried to go to medical school. I thought about law school. I thought about becoming an academic. I didn't know what to do with myself. And when I got out of college, I tried to write a book. And my girlfriend broke up with me because I'd been unemployed for so long. And eventually I ended up at a little tech startup and that saved my life.

6:44Jeff Markowitz:Wow. So what were you writing a book on? What was it going to be about? Well, whenever you're 21 years old and writing a novel, the only subject is yourself. I'd grown up in this crazy family and I was trying to write a story about that family. My older brother had struggles with drug addiction. My dad wanted to sail a boat around the world that was about the length of my desk. Each of us was crazy in his own way. And so I just wanted to tell that story. But what I found out, and I think this is relevant to the whole conversation we're going to have, is that when you go into a little room with your computer and try to be creative all by yourself, there are some amazing people who can do that.

7:24Leo Tolstoy or Mark Twain or Virginia Woolf. And then there's the rest of us who just get really blue. I didn't think that could happen to me, but it did. And that's how I discovered that I wanted to be creative, but with other people. And that's just another word for business.

7:41Jeff Markowitz:Right. And so you go to a technology company and it saves your life and you just decide then that this is what I'm doing. Yeah. Well, there's a few components to that. I mean, the name of the company was Stanford Technology Group and it employed, it was three Stanford founders who were about 25 and they employed three Berkeley people. and I'd learned that I should ask about the business. Did they treat you poorly? Well, I should explain. They were the best people ever. I still love those three guys, but their business model was three Stanford people start the company and three Berkeley people do all the work.

8:15And I had such low self-esteem that that seemed like a good deal.

8:20Jeff Markowitz:Right. But they were all geniuses. Of course. And still really young. And I think if I'd worked for a 45-year-old person coming out of school, I would have said, well, I have to learn how this whole business world works. But instead being firsthand with three dingbats, figuring it out as they went, I thought I can do this. And so a couple of years later, that gave me the confidence to go out with one of them, actually, to start Plumtree. But it was just a really entrepreneurial, weird environment. And I felt like I loved it. If it had been all stuffy and suits and ties and stuff like that, I probably would have tried to be an artist again or do something else.

9:03But Silicon Valley really spoke to me in the 90s that you could build a business and be kind of countercultural or your goofy self. And it felt very messianic and mission driven. And I wanted to do all that. And so I just got sucked up into the most beautiful movement ever.

9:19Jeff Markowitz:Yeah, no. And it continues to be a beautiful movement, you know. Yeah. So tell us about Plumtree because that was really your first startup and it was wildly successful, which is kind of rare. I think it was medium successful. We started it in 1997. Sequoia backed it. The idea was to build portal software, to take all the stuff in big databases somewhere on a corporation's local network and put it all on the web so that people could see all this information on the web. and still today we talk about portals. And I think the big lesson from that was that I had such low self-esteem. We were talking about doing Quicken for food, where it would measure your calories instead of how much money you had.

10:07And our rationale was it was so small and unpleasant that no one else would want to do it. And then my partner, Kirill, one of the 3P partners actually, said, why don't we do the big thing, which was to take everything and all these big backends and put it on the web. And I don't know if it seems big now, but it seemed huge to me at the time. And I felt like that gave us more room to move, more latitude to make mistakes, but more excitement to share with people. When we were recruiting and talking to people about counting calories, I could see their face fall. But when we said, we're going to take everything in a corporation and put it outside on the web, people were like, oh, that sounds kind of big and exciting.

10:46and so now I have a bias towards tilting at windmills, trying to do something big because I think everybody wants to be a part of it.

10:54Jeff Markowitz:Yeah, absolutely. Go ahead, Jeff. No, I was going to lead into, you know, I don't even know if I've ever heard this story, but leading into Redfin. So how do you get to Redfin? I mean, it's so different from Plumtree. Yeah. Well, I mean, I should back up a step. I almost went to medical school right before starting Plumtree because I just wanted to do something good. I felt like I'd been given some modest amount of talent. I should use it to make the world better. And then I just decided that software was so creative and exciting that I wanted to do it. But by the time I got done with Plumtree, I felt like enterprise software is sometimes kind of neutral where good companies use it, bad companies use it.

11:42You're selling it to everyone. and I'd had sort of a great night of the soul. I know this is kind of meandering and weird, but that's the way life really is, isn't it? My older brother, who I'd already mentioned, couldn't stop drinking. He called me when I was still at Palm Tree and he said that he thought he was going to die and I thought I could talk him out of it. So I came up to the Northwest to sit with him every day and tell him, don't have that beer. And I found out, by the way, two things. Number one, you can't get somebody to stop drinking unless he wants to stop. But number two, we went to the emergency room so often that I would argue with his wife about which one to drive to.

12:23We drove because one had better food, but it was a little further away. So if it seemed like he was kind of okay, we'd go to the one with better food. And then he would come in really angry because he was dying. And these doctors who had seen him the week before and the week before that and the week before that didn't do the calculation that a business person would do, that there was no percentage in this person that he was a lost cause. They work their tails off to save his life every week. And I thought, man, I haven't met people like that. I want to be good like that. I just want to be good like that.

12:56And so I almost went to medical school again in my 30s, but it wasn't for me. And I thought, I'm going to do something good in business. And that led me to a business where you're working directly with consumers. You try to find an industry where you can make a difference. And real estate is perfect for that. I felt like housing is this fundamental need. There's a massive amount of data around it because public records were created. Writing was created to store who had which property. And so I could use all my nerdy stuff to help people get into homes. And I thought I would do it for a few years and then move on to something else.

13:33And I got addicted to it. And we can talk about why if you want. But I think I've said enough here. It was the luckiest thing that ever happened to me that I happened on to.

13:41Jeff Markowitz:How did it come about? Did they reach out? Or how did you stumble upon it? Well, I had been watching Oprah Winfrey in the middle of the day with Mark, my older brother, and just getting bluer and bluer because he wasn't getting any better. And then I just felt like I have to find a job today. like I went downtown to Seattle met all the VCs in one day and said I will take whatever you have even if you think it's not going to work we're going to make it work but it just has to be something good and Paul Goodrich over at Madrona my longtime friend and partner had just put in $500 ,000 to this real estate website that had been left for dead and I said that's the greatest idea in the history of capitalism put all the listings on a map which is an idea that some other websites ended up copying.

14:38We're going to revive it and make it go nationwide and figure out a business model for it where we can actually make housing better. Put me in coach. And then I think he actually offered, I do remember now he offered the job to somebody else because I said, I still might go to medical school, but I need a job today. But then the other guy asked for severance. And then he called me back and said, the other guy wants severance. Do you want severance? I said, no, if you fire me, I don't deserve diddly squat. And he's like, you're hired. And the rest is history, as they say.

15:10Jeff Markowitz:I love that. Didn't want to give him a severance. Jeff, do you agree, though, that when people start getting fancy about severance, it's a bad sign. It's a bad sign. Yeah, especially in the negotiation process, like towards the end. because it's like, I don't know, either they're too worried about it, right? Or they're not confident in themselves. I don't know. Yeah. Or they're not worried enough because they actually are likely to get fired. Yeah. I don't know. Yeah. I don't know either. But yes, you and you have hired many people too over the years. And Jeff and I know this because we were raised in recruiting, but it's very telling when you get to the negotiations of what people's priorities are and some of the true colors come out.

16:00Jeff Markowitz:And I've passed on so many people at that moment just because of how they're handling those conversations. Can we talk about that? Because I am in awe of Jeff and I'm probably going to be in awe of you. No, no, no. I want to talk about this. This is for my benefit. I felt like I tried so hard to get better at deciding who was going to be good, who was going to be bad, which grain will grow. And maybe I got 1 % better over 20 or 30 years, but mostly I still think it's a crapshoot. It is so hard to do that. And I just wondered what you learned about it. Yeah. Well, Jeff, you want to go? About getting better at the recruiting side?

16:48Jeff Markowitz:How do you know whether somebody's going to be great or not? I don't think you know, but I always used to tell people that when you're interviewing and spending time with somebody, you're looking for all the reasons why they wouldn't be right. Because if you're looking for reasons why they wouldn't be right, then if they're going to get over the bar, they got to be pretty darn good. Because you've essentially gone in saying this person's not right, and I'm going to find all the reasons they're not right. But it's just one step of it. No, that's really wise. You know what you told me a long time ago that really liberated me to get better at recruiting?

17:33I felt like I'd put this person through his paces. Dinner, drinks, references. And I wasn't excited about hiring him. But we'd come so far. I was walking down the aisle. I couldn't cancel the wedding now. and you told me if you are not excited, truly excited to hire this person, we're not doing it. And of course, the headhunter who was paid a fee on that pooped his pants when I called and said, Jeff Markowitz gave me permission to wait for somebody I really love. But you have to have that confidence. And I think it's hard when you're 25 and it's easier when you're 35 or 45. It's interesting. It's a bit of a segue, not to the recruitment side, but a little bit of what you were just talking about.

18:23You've really always said like the hardest business problems are really questions of sort of the heart and the soul. And they're not always answered technically. And so talk a little bit about that for the audience. Like how I think people lots of times don't trust their gut and their instincts, kind of the heart and soul side of it. And therefore they make bad decisions. But that's not how you operated. And not to say that you never made bad decisions, but you always led from your gut was my impression. I tried. another person gave me permission to do that it's Peter Churnin he ran Fox Entertainment for a long time reported to Rupert Murdoch liberal Jewish person who praised Rupert as the last great buccaneer greenlit the Titanic the Simpsons in Living Color and one time I saw him I think at a Greylock event where he was talking about green lighting the Titanic which was like a three and a half hour historical epic.

19:37There's never been a movie that made money like that. And he said, the only thing I really know is what I like. And I decided I liked this movie. And if I was going to go down, it wasn't going to be for something that other people liked. It was going to be for something that I liked. And I used to feel that subjectivity was a bug, not a feature, that admitting this person just isn't my cup of tea, we're not going to work well together, was something I had to get over so I could be objective. And Peter, not that I know I'm on a first name basis, but Mr. Churden gave me this permission to kind of embrace my subjectivity and say, well, this is who I am.

20:20This is the kind of team I'm trying to build. And so what I feel about this person paying attention to just, do I want this interview to keep going? Or, oh my God, He was so smart and he had all the right qualities, but I'm just really glad I'm done. With that interview, I guess I got that from Peter Chernin's decision to greenlight the Titanic. I think it's so important what you're bringing up because a lot of people, maybe they don't have a Peter or a Jeff in their life and they don't get this permission or this advice.

20:55Jeff Markowitz:And then they do exactly what you were going to do, which was not cancel the wedding and keep going down the path and not listening to that, like whatever gut thing is happening. Right. And then they they end up doing it and it ends up not being great. And it's not because the person's not great. They're just not great in your construct. Right. And then, you know, three to six months later, you're back at it again. And then you've just lost all this time, a lot of money, maybe, you know, because you're, you know, you're, you're looking at the wrong signals, I think, because you're looking at like, like, I should like this person because they check this box, they check that box.

21:38But it's always a conflict, too, because you're essentially in conflict with what you truly believe, and you're making decisions for reasons that don't align with your values. And I think Glenn, and I think your board, because I know you had such a soulful connection with your board, Glenn, and you could talk a little bit about that. You made decisions that were aligned with your values, and it was very obvious when you were faced with something that wasn't aligned with your values because it created a problem for you. Yeah, I used to feel embarrassed about that. I always felt like I was this Berkeley hippie who was pretending to be a business person and saying that a decision would be values-driven instead of profit-driven seemed shameful or embarrassing.

22:30And then actually this one board member you helped me recruit, Austin Ligon, who used to run CarMax, he was the founder of it, just told me, name a great entrepreneur who's completely rational. you know the strawberries are so much better than they have to be at whole foods because i think it's john mack whoever the founder was of whole foods was just crazy about fruit yeah john mackie and and apple was that way with design and and everybody's got something that they really care about and most businesses don't have a real relationship with consumer because consumer knows it's just one profit calculation after another but when you pick up an iphone one of those first ones and you think someone crazy made this product someone cared too much about the beveled edges or whatever it might be you don't feel like such a sucker for falling in love with a corporation or a corporation's product and so the board really gave me permission to do that sometimes too much and by the way I had such a fraught relationship with our board at the beginning.

23:37It didn't start out the way that it ended. And Jeff was the one who told me, we can fix this. And some of it was about bringing different people on the board. But a lot of it actually was about me growing up and not blaming the board for problems that were my creation. So we could talk about that if you want. Yeah, let's talk about it. piece because I think entrepreneurs, I don't believe they always understand how to work with a board in a productive manner. And I think you excelled at that. And I think your board members would say you excelled at that. So explain how you thought about the relationship between you and your board.

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24:23I know you went on walks with them. You went on runs with them. yeah yeah I'll talk about that for sure but I should just start with how bad it was I think I had led a board meeting by quoting a Yates poem where an animal you know assaulted a a person I quoted Colonel Jessup from a few good men saying you want me on that wall you need me on that wall I was crazy and what made me crazy was most people who start businesses or run businesses have a problem with authority. I wanted to blame daddy every time we didn't sell enough houses. I often meet CEOs who complain about their board when the root issue is the product isn't working as well as we want it to and we're not getting enough sales.

25:16And actually right after that board meeting where I quoted Colonel Jessup, the great James Slavitt from Greylock, took me on a walk. It was by a bunch of airport hotels near SFO. It wasn't very scenic. And I don't remember anything he said, but if I had to name the soundtrack for that walk, it would be Let My Love Open the Door, where he just said, I really believe in you. And I need you to start telling me the truth about what's going on in the business, because I promise you I can handle it. And then I said, well, I don't know how to do this one thing. And this part of our product isn't working at all.

25:53And nobody wants this other thing that we've been trying to sell for years. And he said, oh, well, we should have a board meeting about all that stuff. And that refocused me on the proper subject of every board meeting, which is what is really going on in this business? So many people, I remember once an exec was about to go in for her first board meeting, and we had this remarkable moment of candor where I said, Karen, what is your goal? And she thought about it. She was a diminutive person, but formidable. And she drew herself up and she said, I want to do well. I said, let's set that aside.

26:32You're going to do great. But if all you want to do is tap dance and put on a show and have everybody say you did a great job, it'll be a waste of the board's time. Do you have another goal, like a problem that we need to solve where we could actually get help from human beings who have paid a crap load of money to fly here and think about our problems. And that was the beginning of a much better dialogue.

26:52Jeff Markowitz:Yeah, it is so interesting because so many founders do struggle. And I think boards, they evolve and transition as well. And maybe in the beginning, you have a bunch of investors in the board, and then you kind of move to where you have more independence. But that relationship, when it's healthy, it's so great for the business and for the founder. But some are very resistant to really opening up and having partners. Yeah, I think there's been some changes in the venture world that make it harder. One is just the$50 million seed round at a$400 million pre-price. every bit of growth for the next four years is priced into that round and so this idea that we're learning and figuring out you know james used to ask me we spent 10 million dollars on this failed initiative you know what can we learn from it so that we can do better the next time and you know that's easier to say when it's 10 million instead of we spent a hundred million on something.

28:00Jeff Markowitz:Yeah, it's true. So there's that pressure. And then I think that VCs are a little less likely to really invest in making you better and having a hard conversation. James did it in a very loving way, but there was another component to that, which is that I need you to show up in a different way. And many VCs won't do that because they're worried about deal flow. So they talk bad stuff about... the entrepreneur when that person isn't there, but mostly they want that entrepreneur to like them and to send them more deals. And I feel a little sad about that because James and some other VCs like Paul and Pierre Lamond at Sequoia were real mentors to me.

28:52And sometimes they just told me, what you're doing right now is bullshit. It is bullshit and it needs to change. And not many people are willing to tell a CEO that, which is why most of us, including me, can be so insufferable.

29:07Jeff Markowitz:You seem so insufferable, really. Quite the opposite. So as you've grown as a CEO and obviously you've navigated some very complex stuff, when you walked away from Redfin, So what were you walking away with knowing differently? What were your biggest lessons? Well, I think a lot of it is about love. So I know that sounds trite, but what else is there in this world? I started as sort of a nerdy software person. I still remember Redfin decided not just to be a real estate website, but to be the real estate agent. And at first we thought we could automate all of it, but we ended up hiring real estate agents.

29:51And I thought, this is such a, like these people didn't go to Harvard and study computer science. I want to be like Steve Jobs. I want to be cool. And here I am hanging out with real estate agents. And one of them was working with this Vietnamese family where the parents didn't understand English and the kid was brought in and we're trying to get through this contract. And I was trying to like write a spec or do something with code or some nerdy thing. and I'm like, this is annoying. These people keep talking. I grabbed the door and went to close it to performatively show that they were making too much noise.

30:27But those people wore me down. My favorite people at Redfin are real estate agents. I think I went back to San Francisco one time because I was up in Seattle for Redfin. I still am. And one of my friends introduced me, look, Glenn, he's back from Seattle. He's become a real estate agent now. And I'm like, I don't appreciate that. But later it kind of became this badge of courage. And the reason it did is our agents worked their tails off. And what they really loved was helping other people. And they wanted to know all about my family. And at first I thought it was so they could kiss up or something like that, but now I'm not even there.

31:04And I'm texting like a million of them about what's going on with their kids and whatever happened to this or that. And I don't know how to describe it, but it just felt like a sea of love. And I used to think business was all ones and zeros. And basically I learned that from people who were just much better human beings than me. And it really changed me. Like if you'd interviewed me at the beginning of that, I would have been trying to sound super smart and saying pseudo intellectual things instead of trying to really get at the heart of it, which is trying to get a bunch of humans rowing in the same direction.

31:40Jeff Markowitz:Glenn, what were... Yes. Incredibly, incredibly hard to accomplish. What were some of the toughest learning moments for you at Redfin? Name two or three. Name one. Gosh, well, I mean, the thing that... No, I can... The hard part is trying to choose. It's sort of name your favorite food. Well, can I choose pizza? And what I really regret, we got into a competitive a situation where we had to have rental listings and not just for sale listings. And the cost of buying a rentals website was seven or$800 million. We tried to do it for less and we couldn't. And we just took on a boatload of debt to buy a company.

32:22And it was in 2021 when interest rates were near zero and the housing market was booming. And there was an intellectual part of me that knows that when the music stops playing, a lot of bad things happen all at once. Fewer people buy homes, which affects our sales, and our investors are going to want their money back in a different way. But nothing can prepare you for the actual shoot feeling of that music stopping. And so we hired somebody to run the rentals business. And I sort of pussyfooted around with him about we needed to generate a lot of cash to pay off the debt. And maybe we put him in an unfair situation, but that was undeniably and indisputably the situation.

33:10And therefore, what I needed to do was to tell him in the most unvarnished way, this is what I need. And if you don't do it, leave. And I'd had some experience with that. I was nearly fired from the company I started, Plumtree. And this is a VC, Pierre Lamont, who just took me into his office and said, I wasn't delegating enough. And the way he said it, he was talking, it was like he was talking about a car that had been dented to a mechanic that needed to be repaired, except the car was my heart and the mechanic was me. And he did it in like 30 seconds. And, and then I, by the way, I cried. And then I told him, I am going to do a 180.

33:49I'm going to delegate everything. People are going to be begging me to get more involved. You should give me my job back. And then he said, okay, which was crazy, which brings me back to I'm the luckiest person ever. But the moral of the whole story is that you want to be a kind person. We all value social cohesion and getting along with people. But now I feel like there's something I need to tell someone and I am going to do it. I'm going to write it down. Then I'm going to crumple up that piece of paper and throw it out. And I'm going to say what's on the piece of paper.

34:22Jeff Markowitz:Yeah. It's a great lesson. And many, a founder, but I would just say leaders in general and people in general, don't learn that skill because it's hard to tell people the truth. And you'd rather avoid the conflict. You know, you're being too kind. Or you wait. Yeah. Yeah, you wait and it's too late. Yeah, and then you explode. You're like, oh my gosh, why haven't you taken out the garbage? Yeah. And you think, and I think there's a lot of times like you're suggesting, you're subtly dropping hints and you think that they should just know. But they really don't know until you exactly tell them what you want and you're super clear.

35:16Yeah. I mean, a long time ago, Plumtree CFO said, management's easy. You just tell people what you want them to do. And I think that's actually hard to do, but it is the essence of it. Most people want to figure out what their manager wants. And often the manager just struggles to say, this is what I want. I think the other part of it that I really learned going through an acquisition that I want to make sure I speak to. Everyone thinks he's accessible, that you can tell the truth to me. And then Redfin got bought by Rocket, the CEO of Rocket, Varun Krishna, is just the nicest guy in the world.

35:57But I found it hard to tell him things that were disagreeable to him. If he believed in one strategy and I believed in a different one, I rewrote the email 83 times and I'd never rewritten an email twice. And it made me realize how much harder I need to work when I get in another CEO role to make it really easy for people to tell you the thing that you need to know the most. Some people, you get in a car with them and you just get some windshield time and they start talking crazy stuff and it's really good. But a lot of it is It's just when you hear things that you don't want to hear, instead of making that face, you have to say, thank you.

36:42Why was it so hard for you to write those emails to the Rocket CEO? Because it's counter to how you wanted your team to operate at Redfin. You then became the subject. Well, I think part of it is that Rocket just had given us a couple billion dollars and I wanted to figure out how that culture worked. And I wanted the people who worked for me to fit in at Rocket and find their career path. I wasn't sure how long I was going to make it. But also, I just felt like an undomesticated animal who'd been invited into the house. I didn't know how to work in that larger organization. And so I tried not to poop on the carpet.

37:28I tried not to eat off the dinner table. and it just meant that I wasn't my full self. And there's a lesson for me there in how I handled Rocket, but also a lesson for me there in how I was as a CEO at Redfin where I thought everybody could tell me the truth, but I now learn I want to work much harder to make it easier. So it's a way to... Yeah. Yeah. Well, it's partly what's made it hard for me to find something. I think I'm more likely to start a company than I am to come in as a CEO because I'm such an odd little duck trying to build a culture and find a mission that works for me isn't easy.

38:14And so building that trust with the team when you're the new CEO and they're all wondering, is he going to fire half the executives is always hard. But regardless, I think a lot of it, I used to just want to try to be the smartest person in the room. I know it's obvious to not do that, but it's hard to not do that when you're 25 or 35. And just being a little goofy and making jokes about yourself and saying over and over again, that's my fault. I was wrong. I thought that was the right thing to do and it wasn't. teaches people that you can stand up to Glenn and disagree with him profitably, where it can lead to a better outcome.

39:00A lot of times you want to say, well, you kind of told me what to do, but I actually figured it out. No, thank God you spoke up. You saved me. That's, I think, the way you want to empower people.

39:14Jeff Markowitz:Absolutely. And do you think that It just comes with, because I worked with Reed for many, many, many, many eons. And he was very good at that. And, you know, he created the space for people to tell them the truth. He was always honest and owned his mistakes and was real about them and never blamed. Right. You know, he had another company before for Netflix where he learned a lot of these lessons. But do you think that comes with just time and experience and wisdom and age? Or is it just like a human trait, like that it's in your DNA to be that way? I think you have to go through some kind of near-death experience, some deeply humbling experience.

39:59Because I was going to say that it comes with being a founder and not having to worry so much about being fired and just finally being secure in yourself. but I've met some founders who basically think they're infallible. If we had time, I'd probably go off a little bit on founder mode, which has a real kernel of true insight, but has also been a license to ill where you use it to steamroll other people and treat them badly and only one person has great ideas. That is just not true. If you have to get into founder mode all the time, you have a bad team or you have a bad management style where you can't learn from other people.

40:44So I would bet that somewhere in his life, Reed had some experience where he dialed 1-800-EAT-SHIP. That's what did it for me.

40:57Jeff Markowitz:I'm sure he did. Yes. Yeah. And then you feel really grateful for the people around you who were trying to tell you and you think, oh my God, I can't believe I nearly didn't listen. Yeah. No, it's so true. And I think the founders that I know that have this, it is true. They have had those moments where it was like, okay, I'm going to listen now. Can I just tell you one other thing that James taught me? Because I had a really hard time with James is the guy from Greylock, let my love open the door walk. He told me that every once in a while you do have to go kind of, for want of a better phrase, founder mode and just say, listen, I know you really wanted me to go left, but we're going to go right.

41:40And even if eight people want you to go left and you believe you have to go right, go right. And he said, but can you just do me one favor at the end of that? Can you call those people and tell them how much you appreciated, like replay their arguments and tell them that you actually heard them.

41:57Jeff Markowitz:Yeah. And that it was a hard thing for you, but you are going to go the other way, but you really appreciated and respected where they came from. And I said, okay, I'll do it. And I put it off because I thought, I don't really feel like doing that. And then after I did one, they're like, oh, thank you. You didn't have to call me, but I really appreciate that. And I feel really heard and respected. And then it got really easy to do that all the time. And sometimes by the way, when I did that call, I realized, oh, I don't understand your argument as well as I thought I did. Let me reconsider it one more time.

42:27Because basically, the last thing I'll tell you about being a CEO is that I work my ass off. I work like 15, 16 hours a day sometimes. And there were like four or five decisions where if I just made better decisions, those four or five decisions, which each could have been made, I guess, in a minute, I would have created more enterprise value than all those 14-hour days. And so I try to make time really slow down. I have to make a big decision and create an environment where everyone can say what they really think and where we can make the best possible decision. Because there have been, you know, three I got right and two I got wrong, or maybe it was the other way.

43:05I don't know. But I think about those a lot.

43:09Jeff Markowitz:Well, I just adore you. And I'm so glad that Jeff got you to come on the show because you... Thanks. You are different. Yes. I, you know, and I love it. I don't think so. I don't think so. I think you are. I think you are. Jeff and I, we have a lot of data. We have a lot of data on this issue. We've met a lot of people and there's something special about you. We always put a little pressure on our guest and you've already given us so much insight and inspiration, but we always like to have you leave us a little bit of inspiration to think about as for the listeners. So is there anything that you want to gift our listeners with today?

43:54I would just go back to the love thing. I screwed up in every single way you possibly could, but all my crimes were crimes of passion. And if people see that, if they see that you really care about them, but you didn't handle a situation with them well, or you really care about the company, but you drove it into a ditch. If people just see how much love you have, they will let you get away with almost anything and flip side if they don't feel the love you know you can make the tiniest little mistake and they'll jump on you and say what is that yeah yeah and so i just think you know i hope i can give people the confidence to let their love show i know it sounds very hallmark but there it is that all life is a bunch of cliches i love that

44:40Jeff Markowitz:and the soundtrack let my love open the door it's gonna be in my head all day sorry i've already Don't get sucked up into a tornado. I think we need to end now before it touches down. I heard it. I did get an alert on the phone, but it was only for a flash flood. You're crazy. You're crazy. I don't want blood on my hands, Jessica. Let me know you're okay. Thanks for listening to TruthWorks.

From the publisher

Glenn Kelman ran Redfin for 20 years. He says the most important thing he learned had nothing to do with software.

Glenn joins Jessica Neal and co-host Jeff Markowitz on Truth Works for an unusually honest conversation about love, leadership, boards, and the handful of decisions that actually decide a company's fate.

Glenn is not your typical tech CEO.

At 21 he tried to write a novel, got nowhere, and his girlfriend broke up with him for being unemployed too long. He nearly went to medical school twice. He co-founded Plumtree Software in 1997 and took it public, then almost got fired from the company he started. He joined a nearly dead real estate website that a Seattle VC had put $500,000 into, and spent the next two decades turning it into Redfin, a business that saved consumers roughly a billion dollars in commissions before Rocket acquired it for $1.75 billion.

In this episode, Glenn traces the whole thing back to his older brother's struggle with alcohol, the emergency room doctors who kept fighting for a patient any business person would have written off, and the moment he decided he wanted to be good like that.

He is candid about the parts most CEOs edit out. The board meeting where he quoted Yeats and Colonel Jessup from A Few Good Men. The walk with a Greylock partner that reset his entire relationship with his board. The rentals acquisition he financed with debt in 2021, right before the music stopped. Rewriting a single email 83 times because he could not figure out how to disagree with his new parent company's CEO.

Jeff and Jessica bring two decades of executive search experience to the hiring question Glenn admits he never fully solved, including the advice from Jeff that gave Glenn permission to walk away from a candidate he had already taken to dinner, drinks, and references.

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TOPICS COVERED

FINDING THE WORK
→ Why writing alone in a room made him depressed, and why business is just being creative with other people
→ Working for three founders barely older than him and realising he could do it too
→ Picking the big idea over the small one, and why ambition makes recruiting easier
→ His brother's addiction, the ER doctors, and the decision to do something good inside business

HIRING AND JUDGEMENT
→ Jeff's method: go in looking for every reason the person is wrong
→ Never hiring someone you are not genuinely excited about, even when you have come too far to stop
→ What negotiating severance reveals about a candidate before they start
→ Why subjectivity is a feature, not a bug, and the Peter Chernin story behind it

BOARDS AND CEO GROWTH
→ How a fraught, adversarial board became one of his greatest assets
→ Blaming the board when the real problem is the product
→ The one question that turns a board meeting from a performance into a working session
→ Why $50M seed rounds at $400M valuations have made honest board conversations harder

LEADERSHIP AND THE HARD CONVERSATION
→ Being too kind for too long, and the cost of hints instead of clarity
→ Writing down what you need to say, then throwing the paper away and saying it anyway
→ Getting nearly fired at Plumtree in a 30-second conversation, and the turnaround that followed
→ Why founder mode has a real insight buried inside a bad excuse
→ Making the call people disagree with, then calling them afterwards to replay their argument back

WHAT HE ACTUALLY LEARNED
→ Working 15-hour days when four or five one-minute decisions created more value than all of them
→ Why he stopped trying to be the smartest person in the room
→ Real estate agents, a sea of love, and how they changed how he sees business
→ His closing gift to listeners: if people feel the love, they will forgive almost anything

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