In short
Co-sleeping safety and experiences with a newborn; “pay-to-play” youth sports costs (especially soccer) and how it affects participation, competitiveness, and long-term talent; plus parenting-life tangents (sleep, texting/email overload, routines), and pop culture/travel updates.
Guest backgrounds
No traditional guests. The hosts are parents (Christy from Lululemon appears briefly as an ad read/intro). The main speakers are the “two parents” hosts: Jules, Harrison, and Alex (mentioned), plus occasional references to their families/support staff (e.g., a night nurse/nanny Diana).
Key claims
Co-sleeping is “glorious” but generally not recommended until the baby is 3–4 months old; it requires sound-sober conditions and careful setup to reduce rolling/cover risks. Youth sports in the U.S. are expensive “pay-to-play,” leading kids to stop around age 11–12, reducing access and fun; travel and intense competition further push specialization. Chance of reaching pro levels is very low, so parents question why they invest heavily.
Notable examples
Co-sleeping on the chest vs “C-position” with a sleep sack; Unisom dosing discussion; camp letters scanned then texted instantly; Summer House Canada filming in Muskoka; youth-sports cost estimates ($1,500 average, up to $25,000 high end) and pro-draft odds example (NFL roughly 1 in 1,000).
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Chapters
Tap a time to open that second in VOParents and Predictions
0:49 to 2:52
Hosts share reflections on parenting and life changes in the early months.
“Then she shows it's got two hours left of drying.”
Life Milestones and Emotional Moments
2:52 to 4:24
Discussion on the emotional milestones of parenting and baby growth.
“We have talked about that many, many times.”
Generational Differences in Communication
4:24 to 8:00
Exploration of how communication methods have changed across generations.
“right it is it would be this would be a july yeah i feel like this is when we figured it out directionally this would be when I got pregnant?”
The Evolving Nature of Mail and Spam
8:00 to 10:39
Hosts discuss the increase in spam mail and changes in correspondence.
“They don't do emails, but I just heard about this yesterday The kids these days at camp are writing the letters and then the counselors are scanning it and then texting it directly to the parents That's not happening.”
Managing Notifications and Texts
13:09 to 14:00
Hosts share their strategies for managing notifications and text messages.
“Like my friends, they think I'm serial killer because I have like all of the red notifications on my app.”
Text Management Discussion
14:00 to 14:54
The hosts discuss their methods for managing text messages efficiently.
Pizza Night Debate
15:18 to 16:39
A light-hearted debate about cheese choices on pizza during family pizza night.
“Number one, Harrison, can you defend yourself for making us pizza with three cheese, Mexican cheese blend cheese?”
Planning a Trip to Paris
16:39 to 18:04
Discussion about a potential trip to Paris and considerations for traveling with kids.
“I guarantee if I blind taste tested you, like the cheese blends, you wouldn't notice.”
Exploring Co-Sleeping
18:04 to 22:08
One host shares her personal experience with co-sleeping and safety concerns.
“I just want you to pick it and plan it all and then I'll come.”
Stress and Sleep Quality
22:08 to 23:32
The hosts discuss sleep quality, stress factors, and a listener's tip about cortisol.
“Thank you to the person that commented this.”
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Discussion of Sleep Aids
23:51 to 28:01
Hosts talk about sleep aids, including Unisom, and their personal experiences with sleep medications.
“And then that takes, when you combine that with all the life components, like even the home renovation, like I find the backyard renovation.”
The Pros and Cons of Social Media Deletion
28:01 to 29:15
Discussing the benefits and drawbacks of deleting social media from their lives.
“But it is nice when you see somebody that's like a third circle friend.”
The Instax Photo Printer Craze
29:16 to 30:26
Sharing excitement about the Instax mini photo printer and its family uses.
“And then I came home yesterday and Maria, she was like, I printed out some photos of the girls.”
The Role of Jules on the Podcast
30:27 to 32:25
Exploring Jules' contributions and character development on the show.
“I was reading your guys' phone contacts.”
Traveling with Support: The Colorado Trip
33:32 to 35:57
Discussing their recent trip to Colorado and the logistics of traveling with a nanny.
“How did you structure working hours versus fun time?”
Exciting News: Summer House Canada
35:58 to 37:46
Revealing the production of a Canadian version of Summer House and discussing its location.
“A 10-episode Canadian version of Summer House is starting production in Muskoka.”
Reality TV Aspirations and Travel Experiences
37:47 to 42:00
Debating the idea of involvement in reality TV and reminiscing on travel experiences.
“I wonder if we should respond and be like, do you know anybody that's been cast on Summer House?”
Dog Sitting and Playful Banter
42:00 to 44:48
The hosts discuss dog sitting arrangements and playful interactions among friends.
“Because one of my friends posted yesterday, like, do you know a dog house sitter?”
Introducing Summer House Canada
44:49 to 46:31
The conversation shifts to the announcement of Summer House Canada and its unique logistics.
“We got to talk about pay to play in sports, and we do.”
The Pay-to-Play Sports Problem
46:32 to 53:10
An in-depth discussion on the issues surrounding expensive youth sports in the U.S.
“I'm not, like, fully up to speed on what's being said on the Internet.”
Youth Sports Accessibility Discussion
54:05 to 56:00
Exploring the accessibility of youth sports and recent congressional actions to improve it.
“One went to Penn State to play volleyball.”
The Accessibility Problem in Youth Sports
56:00 to 1:01:22
Discussing the financial barriers in youth sports and potential legislative solutions.
“Because we're kind of throwing out a bunch of dynamics and numbers.”
The Competitive Sports Landscape
1:01:22 to 1:02:06
Exploring the pressures and anxieties parents face regarding youth participation in competitive sports.
“But I think the one last thing that I don't know if we fully harped on, which I think is pretty interesting.”
Waymo's Controversial Incident
1:02:06 to 1:03:14
Analyzing the implications of a Waymo incident involving teenagers and self-driving technology.
“Did you see the topic on autonomous vehicles?”
The Rise of AI Actors in Film
1:03:14 to 1:07:18
Discussing the implications of AI actors in the movie industry and audience reception.
“Well, what I read was that it said that it was having technical difficulties.”
United Airlines' Controversial Window Seats
1:07:18 to 1:09:02
Examining a lawsuit against United Airlines regarding misleading window seat tickets.
“But I would think if people were into it, there would be more than 164 ,000 followers on Instagram.”
Airline Pricing Tactics and Accountability
1:10:00 to 1:11:24
Explore the complexities of airline pricing and service upselling.
Transcript
Automatic transcript. May contain errors.0:00Hey, it's Christy from Lululemon and I'm here at the office checking out the Shake It Out shorts. These have been my go-tos and I kind of think of them as a middle ground between a true run short and a more playful, athletic, sporty short. They have all the performance you want for running, so a comfy liner, our lightweight, swift fabric, even a pocket for your keys. But what I really like is the flowy fit and layered hem. It gives it a little bit of volume, a little bit of fun, so they feel as good on a run as they do just at coffee afterwards. You can find the Shake It Out shorts in-store now or online at lululemon.com.
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0:36okay i'm gonna do a big sneeze do you know they say if you look at the sun or a light then you won't well just look at you then oh the ray of sunshine or a light of your life or both all right welcome back to another episode of two parents in a podcast oh happy friday you guys um okay i just saw something talking about how women are going to start doing laundry like men barbecue okay so she puts the laundry in i think i'm gonna love this she cracks open a cold one she just sits there and watches it you know dry and then the kids come. Nope. Go ask your daddy. I'm busy. Come on. Is that not the best thing ever?
1:29I'm processing. Then the kids come. It's not done yet. Then she shows it's got two hours left of drying. It's the best ever. To take it a step further, especially on the Traeger. The Traeger, you set the temperature so there's no guesswork. and you're slow cooking. So often you're cooking for 3, 6, 8, 12 hours. Yep. That's pretty good. The internet sometimes, man, they're so funny. They're so funny sometimes. I just, I die. All right. I've got an exercise to start us off today. Ready? It's just, it takes me 35 years to figure out which one I wanted to do. Oh, I told Rocky this morning about how 49 % of American adults under the age of 30 lived with their parents last year.
2:27And you're telling him he was going to live with his parents until he was 30? Just warming him up. Just letting him know. All right. It is crazy how, like, looking back at kind of predictions or reflections we made through Tate's first one to two years versus, like, what's coming to reality. The change at three months, we talked about that. We have talked about that many, many times. How, like, at three months, the baby becomes just so different. Oh, yeah. Couldn't be more true. Rocky, it is night. Like, it is true night and day. Oh, I'm so emotional about it, though. Tomorrow is his three-month-old birthday.
3:12Last night, though, you guys, he went to bed at 11, and he woke up at 5.30. Good boy. That is so many hours to sleep straight for a sweet little boy. But he's making noises. He's awake, like, a lot. And he goes, ooh. And he's, like, smiling. Like, he's interacting. It's just the first three months. like you don't you get sleep you get pretty much sleep and and some rare eye-opening occasions he um i got chills bored no i was just thinking of that that fourth trimester that's what i was gonna say it's the fourth trimester yeah it makes the last three months yeah and it's like like a light switch is that a song like a light switch out like a light switch by charlie poof hold on no it's a rap song so does this mean hold on if this is his three-month birthday and you're pregnant for nine months does this mean this is my one year of getting pregnant i can't i don't know it's it wouldn't i don't think it's his three month birthday is it that you're one it would be his 12 week birthday it's his 12 week which is a different than three months and that's where we got in trouble last time right right right right but this is their inner around when i got pregnant right it is it would be this would be a july yeah i feel like this is when we figured it out directionally this would be when I got pregnant?
4:36My brain. Happy one year to me. Happy one year to you. My rave sunshine. Thank you, the light of your life. Oh, so exciting to not be pregnant this time. Yay. Well, do you want to talk about kids living at home? Yeah. What was the exercise you were going to start with? Well, I was going to start with the exercise of back in my day, we walked uphill both ways in the snow to school. What is the that of our generation? I like that one. So I'll ask you, okay, what is the, right, insert thing here, back in my day we walked uphill both ways in the snow to school, right? What is the that of our generation?
5:17For example, I did four years of school without Chad GBT. Yeah, but our parents would just say, I did four years of school without a laptop. Well, also it used to be for us, like we can tell our kids, it used to be if we missed a show, it was gone forever. Like if I missed an episode of Arthur, I had to wait until it was a rerun. Or friends, yeah. One person could call at a time on the phone. So like if you were on the phone, your mom also couldn't be on the phone. Like you and I could be on the phone at the exact same time. They like, when did phones penetrate homes? Our grandparents did not have phones.
5:58well i mean at some point they did so well my my all my grandparents had iphones well no not all of them but two of my grandparents had iphones the home phones became popular in the 1920s okay so they were around for the for the home phones um used a regular map now i we use maps we we use we went we use map quest you remember map quest yes my dad used to print out directions for me at the very beginning very very beginning but then when did i get an iphone when did the i when did the iphone come out i got an iphone when i was right when when we started our global anxiety pandemic so and i was 12 in nine uh 2008 oh that's not right so i didn't get an i i didn't get my first phone was a motorola something flip phone yeah there was no razor no not the razor I couldn't get the Razor.
6:52Ooh, the Razor was. Senior year I got the Razor. Actually, I got the Crazer and it was blue. Of course you did. The skinny one. Yeah. But I wanted the Juicy Couture Sidekick. My friend had it, Jordan. And I wasn't allowed to get it. And I really wanted it. There was the Paris Hilton collab too that was bedazzled. It was unbelievable. Do you want to know something pretty funny? 2007? I don't think that that phone ever made it to Canada. You didn't know. You didn't. What was the flip phone called? I just lost the name and I just said it. Well, the Razor was huge in Canada. The Sidekick. What was the one?
7:35Sidekick? Yeah, the Sidekick. That was the one that could go up. Yeah, the Juicy Couture. Probably. They have a Juicy Couture one. I feel like this would have been a thing with the girls of our. Yeah, Juicy Couture Sidekick. Did it make it to Canada?
7:54I have an idea on Doesn't seem like it Oh you didn't have it up there It's awesome Okay so then I have another one Well used a regular map Typed on T9 And then okay so did you guys ever go to camp And write letters home to your parents Yes amazing So we used to do that We would write the letter Then you would put it in the mail And they would send it back Guess what they do these days Don't tell me they do emails. They don't do emails, but I just heard about this yesterday The kids these days at camp are writing the letters and then the counselors are scanning it and then texting it directly to the parents That's not happening.
8:33They're getting it immediately not happening. Yes, they are they're getting it immediately So you don't have the five to six day for the delay for it to get to them Then your parents open it read it then they write you back We are doing letters with our children. This is a non-negotiable ten days. It's I'll say I'll put it round trip. It's a non-negotiable with the camp we send them to. If the camp we send them to won't let us do letters, I'm out on that camp. Well, no, they're letting them do letters, but they're just, they're getting it back instantly. Mail the letters. If they don't, if they will not facilitate the mailing of letters, they're not, then I'm out on that camp.
9:04But what if all camps are doing this? Here's the thing. We'll find camps that don't. That do snail mail. Yeah. Just snail mail. Like it was the best when you had, they would say, oh, you've got mail from your parents and they would give it to you and maybe they colored on it or something. It was so magical. But I fear if you show it to them just on a cell phone, here you can read it. That sucks. Can we talk about how out of hand mail has gotten? Like, if you were to look at all the mail we get, for every 30 pieces of mail we get, one of them is useful and 29 of them is spam. Well, it's the same thing with my calls.
9:41I mean we are just getting inundated with spam but I understand the calls because the cost of the call I feel like is a lot lower than the cost of sending on that mail no honey because you got to hire somebody to make the call automated until you answer yeah but I think that mail is very inexpensive it's all being done internationally where the wages are next to nothing I think mail is very inexpensive I think it's one of the most inexpensive ways to do things easily. What's the cost of sending a package? It's like, it's not cheap.
10:23Like sending a mailer costs between 30 cents and$3 per piece. But these aren't mailers. How much is a... A basic combo. How much is a stamp? 99 cents. Yeah, that's how much it costs. For how little it's opened like i assume for every 100 pieces of mail that these companies are sending like best case one of 100 are being opened see i think you and i i think you and i got on some list somewhere we have an odd amount of mail this is how it's always been for me it's you then because it has not always been this way for me jules do you know i think i think i don't check my mail that's like one thing about me i check it about every three months me too jules like i would i'm not bringing and every three months roughly how many pieces of mail do you have zero i mean like hundreds i once got a notice from my mail man that said can you please check your mail because it will just be stuffed but nothing's for me that's about that's one thing about our generation if they need us they're emailing us like if you really need me it's an email yeah but now the problem is like my core gmail is is overwhelmed yeah i don't check that either i'm i'm like and then i was on my uh my naked market email which has now been overwhelmed and i'm like i feel like i'm spending like 15 minutes a day just deleting spam so i find the important stuff i gotta say this i think i need a new secret email What happened to me on maternity leave was I also let my email go.
11:59And now I fear it's past the point of no return. I don't know if I'm going to be able to sit down and do it. I trust you. You guys know I am all about trying to save time for myself. For example, ordering my food and household items online, hard-boiling eggs for the entire week and parking somewhere. Maybe I shouldn't park just because it's a better spot and it's closer because I think time is money. and we all have our own time-saving hacks for everyday life. But if you're a business owner, how can you save time hiring? Well, ZipRecruiter. ZipRecruiter has a new feature that quickly lets you see the most interested qualified candidates first.
12:35So you save time by meeting the right people faster. And right now, you can try ZipRecruiter for free at ZipRecruiter.com slash Alex. ZipRecruiter's powerful matching technology finds qualified candidates quickly. No wonder ZipRecruiter is the number one rated hiring site based on G2. Save time and meet great candidates sooner with ZipRecruiter. Four out of five employers who post on ZipRecruiter get a quality candidate within the first day. Try it for free at ZipRecruiter.com slash Alex. That's ZipRecruiter.com slash Alex. Meet your match on ZipRecruiter. Do notifications bother you guys? Why?
13:11I have my sub stack notifications on. I'm really enjoying that. Like my friends, they think I'm serial killer because I have like all of the red notifications on my app. Oh, yeah, I have those. And they just don't bother me. So I don't like. What's your calendar? Calendar? I have 15 on there. Oh. My example would be text. Like I have 262 unread texts. But they're all junk texts and I don't. But the number there doesn't bother me. How many texts do you have? How many unread texts? i'm at 384 i have 93 but those 93 are like going to be responded to in the next 48 hours he does he does them i was talking to someone yesterday and they were like they're real 90 crazy thing about harrison is he'll respond to your message three weeks later with the answer that you're looking for but but here's here's why i want to explain how i do my texting i don't text from my phone i text to my laptop and so what i'll do is typically once a day i'll just sit at my laptop click view on red and go through and then just go through them just we should do that with our text we should clear them out but but it doesn't but like i know that i've responded to everyone that needs to be responded to so what are those texts like freaking my botox place from new york telling me that botox is 50 off okay like you know you reply if somebody needs a response yeah okay i think i'm really a pretty good texter i think you are too okay well then i need to go through mine and I can do that on my laptop you're saying yeah you can just view as unread and then you can whip through them all okay well okay fascinating so um yeah I like that little prompt all right we're gonna discuss today's episode oh if you're listening subscribe I haven't said that in so long but we're doing three episodes a week now so hit us with a little subscribe button we've got a good episode for you guys we're gonna talk about co-sleeping because I tried it and it was just glorious.
15:09Summer House Canada, huge news. Some soccer news, some AI. Just we got a lot of things. We got a good episode. So we're going to dive in. Number one, Harrison, can you defend yourself for making us pizza with three cheese, Mexican cheese blend cheese? Because you were on pizza duty. But you've done it before and I've never called it out. But I saw family pizza night. It looked really fun. it is crazy to put Mexican three cheese blend on a pepperoni pizza. Jules is so nice. She starts out by saying it looked really fun. It's really not. Yes, it is. It's really not. Well, I don't know anything about cheese, so I'm relying on you.
15:51So I think the background on - And the other two people in the room think it's crazy. To mansplain cheese on pizza. Mozzarella is the most commonly used cheese on pizza. Okay. Okay. I love a multi-cheese pizza. Okay? Okay. I think cheddar is highly underrated on pizza. Okay. We were in a, like, when we're doing a quick pizza night, the quickest and most efficient way for me to get a multi-cheese pizza is to do Mexican three cheese. It's like cheddar, Colby Jack, and something else I'm blanking on. Is it not mozzarella? No, but we bought mozzarella as well. Did we put that on there? We put it on the barbecue.
16:34I put like a, I'll be honest. I was planning on putting it on the pepperoni. I didn't. I thought the pizza was really good. It just, it's just a little shocking. A bit of a diabolical move by you, huh? I guarantee if I blind taste tested you, like the cheese blends, you wouldn't notice. And you'd actually like the multi cheese blend more. There's just, it packs so much more flavor. Really? Yeah. What'd you have? Mozzarella is really bland. I love mozzarella relative to the other ones mozzarella is so good and provolone I would do mozzarella provolone on pizza whoa provolone yeah would it melt yeah that's what at the restaurant I worked at that's what cheese blend it was a pizza shop what's the restaurant you worked at let's give them some love Santo's Italian restaurant in Middleburg Heights Ohio there it is from Jules let's take a trip the best I'd love to but yeah I don't know I guess I'd be interested to hear from the audience what their take on the cheeses.
17:32Oh, Jules with the audience question. Yeah. Yeah, I'm just going to do a live, just a little friendly reminder to Harry Bears. Let's stop checking the phone. I'm getting so distracted by something. I'm sorry. Do you want to tell the class? I can't. It's very unfortunate. Did you get my Substack note to you today? So Harrison has my Substack notifications on and I said my husband has my notifications on and then in parentheses I put supportive king, but I would love to go to Paris and see the sunset so if you could please make that happen. Love you. Did you read it? Okay, I didn't. I didn't see that.
18:04Apparently the sun sets at 10 p.m. there. And it's beautiful in July. Would we bring Bubba and Rocky or no? I don't know. I just want you to pick it and plan it all and then I'll come. We're probably going to have to go next year though because we're not going to be able to make it to Paris in July this year. But there's always next year. We've got a window. For July? Not this year. okay ambiguous my dear all right so I tried co-sleeping you guys and the reason I tried it was simply because I wanted to and I was like I just want to see what's going on with co-sleeping like I just I was missing Rocky and I didn't want to put him down and so I was like I'm sleeping with him and so I started out with him on my chest and it was the cutest most cuddly sleep ever except for then I had to pee.
18:54At 2.30 I had to pee. And he was not awake yet. He was still snoozer doodles as we call it. So I was like crap. So I got up and I tried to keep him there while I went to pee. But then he woke up obviously. And then he was hungry. So I had to feed him. So I'm wondering how people pee if they co-sleep with their baby on their chest. Because you can co-sleep with two ways. Okay. Yeah I was just going to say give us the. Number one. You can co-sleep with them on your chest obviously. And then I was barricaded by pillows beside me. or number two, you can put the baby down and you kind of make a C around it.
19:27You put your arm like this and then you put your legs sort of, it would look almost like the fetal position on your side. That guarantees you don't roll over on them. But then in this instance, you only can put the covers up halfway on you and then they're in a sleep sack. So they're, they're warm too, right? But they have to have their arms out. Very important part. So then I tried sleeping like that in the C position around him. He slept good, but I wasn't sleeping so good. So I, I didn't sleep very much, but I loved it. So I think I could co-sleep maybe twice a week. I was thinking Monday nights and Wednesday nights.
20:02Cause we don't record Tuesdays and Thursdays. And then I was able to put my alarm for two hours. Like once I woke up, then I just, I went back to sleep for two hours. So I don't know. I loved the co-sleeping, but I don't know how people, how are they sleeping? I don't understand. And I trust you've gotten well-versed on the safety of this. So, yes, I have gotten well-versed on the safety of it. Now, here's the thing, because you kind of can go down a rabbit hole of this. They really don't recommend it until the baby's turned three or four months old. Okay. Now, if you've been drinking at all, any substance abuse, like any of that, absolutely a no-go.
20:41Okay, so if anybody's listening, like, because you, it's very dangerous to have your baby in the bed with you. So you really have to be, and I think that's why I didn't sleep so well. Now, the other thing is back in the day, kids all slept with their parents because it's confusing, actually. When babies are born compared to other species, babies, like, they're cold because in the womb, they're like 98 degrees or something. They're very cozy. And they come out, and a lot of times, you know how they're so cold. Yeah. So back in the day when they didn't have blankets and things, like, of course babies would sleep with their moms.
21:13And then it's easier to breastfeed them. So co-sleeping was how it used to go back in the day. We didn't even, until the 1920s or something around there, didn't even start giving kids their own room. I mean, think about where we've gotten with that. Now we've taken it so far, we're doing nurseries. We're doing paint. I mean, we are striping walls in our house. Wallpapering in the other one. And the babies don't even sleep in there. They don't even sleep in there. You give them a whole room in the house. So we used to do, all kids would sleep in the bed, and it was like a lot of co-sleeping happening.
21:45But we learned. But I also assume that that stopped for a reason. But we've learned safety-wise, like the parents really have to be of sound mind. You really can't be rolling over. I mean, it has to be done very safely. So I wanted to try it because I felt very confident in my ability to do so. And it was honestly, it was so cute. So sweet. yeah it sounds like you're being very intentional about it and and did we wake you up no i had another 3 30 wake up last night i could tell some someone said you have um high cortisol well thank thank them for telling us that how do they know it would make sense i i i have I'm juggling so much on my plate right now that that makes a lot of sense.
22:35They sent a tip. So one second. Oh, love a tip. Thank you to the person that commented this. It's Sadie on Spotify. Thank you, Sadie on Spotify. Harrison, you're waking up in the middle of the night because your cortisol is high. Get the thorn. Oh, this is turning into an ad. Get the thorn adrenal cortex supplement. It has saved me so much sleep when stress is higher. and avoid caffeine until one to two hours after waking up. Okay, Sadie, thank you very much. We do not do caffeine one to two hours. Wait, sorry. Actually, I kind of do when I take you to the coffee shop. So the best I can do when I wake up is I try to wait 30 to 45 minutes, and I do a pretty good job of that.
23:22And I do notice it makes a massive difference if you don't wake up and shock your system. So just try to wait a little longer. And then do you want to get this adrenal support? Yeah. So I think for me, like what I really appreciate that and like what's landing is the stress call out because it is true. Like I feel like my plate is just very, very full right now. Largely on the work front. Like the work stuff is just firing on all cylinders. And so. Sadie's letting you know. And then that takes, when you combine that with all the life components, like even the home renovation, like I find the backyard renovation.
24:03It's a backyard renovation. His mom called him and was like, what are you renovating in your house? I was like, nothing. It is stressing me out. There's just like so, there's consistently so many like things that we need answered. It's like. Today are they, are they, oh, you got a blonde hair, honey. You got one of my hairs in your beard. um today are they aren't they like jacking up the concrete h this is that's strike three on the phone i'm i was gonna text the pool guys well we can do that well we don't need to do that just because i mentioned it um okay harrison's sending a text message i h we're gonna leave all this in but you do have to put the phone up thank you that's perfect okay guys i have the hardest time talking when you're on when you're i know i'm just there's so many things going can i please text the pool guy no it's okay we'll just do it after we'll just remember okay can we set a reminder please um i do it on my phone but i get yelled at you don't get yelled at but i do good call out i don't get yelled at i just get i just get looks you get looks and i just i beg and i plead please put the phone up uh did you guys see brett chody's tiktok speaking of not sleeping about unisom yes have Have you guys ever taken Unisom?
25:14No. Okay, so I have. One Unisom knocks me like out into oblivion. If I take it at 9 p.m. the next morning, I'm still groggy at 9 a.m. So she had never taken it, and she was like, do you have something to help me sleep? Because I think there was jet lag or something. Maybe her sister was like. I thought maybe she was. Is Unisom for like nausea? No. Oh, what is Unisom for? Sleeping. Oh, I didn't know that. Then I don't know. They prescribe to pregnant people B6 and Unisom. Yeah. That helps with nausea, but the problem is it does make you tired. Oh. So Unisom is for sleeping. So on Unisom, it says adults ages 12 and over take two.
25:56So she took two, and she was like, I have just been so passed out. And I was like, dude, two is gnarly. Like half a Unisom will get you through. A fourth a Unisom. Everyone in the comments was like, I take half. I take one full one in my third trimester with like the worst pregnancy insomnia. And then I don't take it in otherwise. Thoughts? No thoughts. No thoughts. I think this is my thought on you. You've never taken any sleeping meds, have you? I dabbled with some melatonin probably 20 years ago. Probably when you were 15? Yeah, I think in high school I took some melatonin and then like opportunistically when I would travel.
26:43What I was thinking is being off of social media, I was thinking this before, how non-up-to-date I am with certain people. I was thinking about Alex and her pregnancy. I was like, what is going on with her pregnancy? I was following that from social media, not from an IRL perspective. Not from a... a human to human communication perspective. And so like you're just out of the loop on so many things. All right. I got to ask the obvious question in the room now. So let's say we saw Brett. Okay. Like, do you know where Brett's at right now? I know that Brett is on a brand trip with Hannah because I'm playing golf with Chad on Saturday.
27:29Okay. Like I know they're in Nantucket. Right. And like we, I think we all three know that. Yeah. Okay. So if we ran into them, you have to say like what have you guys been up to like you don't have as many talking points whereas i can be like brett the two unison was insane how was the brand trip hannah i loved your pink outfit but i think i get the notables i think i get the notable things going on like in moments like this and i still do get some desktop action okay but do you see what i'm saying here i think there's a lot of pros to deleting social media like you have like i am such a big clearly not my cortisol being lower yeah true clearly that's not helping but like i think in theory i would tell everybody yeah oh my gosh so beautiful if you could delete social media but now i'm thinking about one pro of it is like when i run into somebody loosely i'm like oh my gosh i just saw you in italy how was that there's a lot of pros to it the the core reason that i deleted it is because of just like the doom scrolling.
28:29Like it was killing me during the day. But it is nice when you see somebody that's like a third circle friend. You're like, oh, I did just see you were in Europe. How was it? I think about that because like I have friends that I mainly keep up with on social media, but I don't post on social media. So like I know so much about their lives going on and they just like don't know about my life. I think about that often. Jules, good job on the post by the way yesterday. Thank you. Yeah, Jules posted for Harrison. You're welcome. Very nice. I really like that initial photo. It's a great family photo.
29:00Why don't we frame it? It's so funny. I'm so good at printing out photos usually. Actually, the Instax. Instax. I am obsessed with it. It's so cool. I did an ad for you guys. It's the mini photo printer that I have. It is the coolest thing ever. And then I came home yesterday and Maria, she was like, I printed out some photos of the girls. I was like, it's adorable. Maria's using it? Yeah, she's using it. I'm like, you can print as many photos as you want. It's really cool. I'm obsessed with it. Because it makes it... It looks like a picture that you took on an instant camera. And it's just from your phone.
29:34It's so cool. It's the Bluetooth dude. It's actually very cool. I have a question. Yes? What percentage of the time do you think Jules talks on the podcast? 20. It depends on the episode. But generally. 20. Directionally. 20. You? That's, that sounds right, but I think, I just find it, like, fascinating how, like, how much, I guess character is the word, like, how much of a character she's become on the show. Well, the podcast is far better. Like, she didn't used to have a mic. Yeah, well, we - You didn't used to have a mic. Right. But yeah. Jules is the perfect person to have a mic because she knows so much about so much.
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30:22She's a mediator as well. A she's a mediator but B like you know a lot of information yeah sure and I know how to google that's what I feel like my main job is sometimes and she's a good googler okay I'm moving us along ready traveling with should we get a little picture of Jules to go in the an instax no on the cover photo oh like a little mini Jules the other day P said should we start putting you in the thumbnails I said no That would be so cute I would love to have Jules on the thumbnail No thank you Did you guys see that I was in the latest clip though? No Because the camera looks good now I can't look at my phone I don't have social media We tried it And nothing happened Which is that's fine Yay You know what it's Jules' option Obviously if she wants to be In the clips or not and I'm happy to hear that.
31:23What was the clip? The Taylor Swift one. Of course. I was reading your guys' phone contacts. People only have like 50 phone contacts in the comments. People are like, how do you guys have 2 ,500 phone contacts? I have 53. No way. No way somebody gets 53. How old are they? I don't know. I just was laughing. A lot of people had like 500-ish. That to me seems like a very normal matter. I think it's highly correlated to how many cities you've lived in. I was going to say, we've moved a lot, all three of us. Here's what I think the power of Jules is. Obviously, her being very well-read. Extremely well-read.
32:06I also think the power of having a third is just, it's super beneficial. Because when I don't have something to say or you don't have something to say. Jules does. Jules is going to. And a lot of times. Who runs at the combo. She furthers what we're thinking, which is nice. She takes it to a deeper level. Or explains what we're thinking to each other. I can tell she would love nothing more than for us to move on at this moment. Let's keep on rituals. A new school year means a fresh start. For families that are looking for a new path to help their child succeed, K-12 could be the perfect fit. K-12-powered schools offer tuition-free, accredited online public education for students in kindergarten through 12th grade.
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33:20Enroll online today at k12.com slash two parents. That's the letter K, the number 12.com slash two parents. k12.com slash two parents. Traveling with, I, this, this is traveling with help. I don't love the term. Traveling with our two angels. How did you structure working hours versus fun time? This specific listener is thinking about bringing a college student with them on their next trip. So. I have a first question. What? Should we clarify what happened? Sure. Yeah. Okay. What? You went on a trip to Colorado. We went on a trip to Colorado. So we took our night nurse, Diana, and the neighbors took Mimi, Maria.
34:01Yeah. And I think. We didn't take both. But my question is, you took Diana not as a night nurse. Right. You took her as a nanny. Right. because she knows she knows tate and rocky and then like they both know all the kids we're like we'll take her and then because we stayed at separate airbnbs um in separate areas and so because we booked it first and then the neighbors we were like guys book book the fourth with us book the fourth and they finally did so then they took maria so obviously the girls all hung out during the day but yeah we had two different like each family had somebody to help them and we get like how you know we understand how fortunate what a fortunate position we are to travel with with support yeah of course like that goes without saying we've said that that is not lost on us of course but how did we so how did how did we go about the you guys Harrison is so he has the brain of like I was like we're gonna have to make a daily schedule I was very overwhelmed by that because I was like how are we gonna do it so Harrison who you have like a very organized brain and he was like 12 to 8 every day is when they're on technically.
35:07Yeah, and a lot of that time, it was always the idea of we'll make sure that the mornings are kids' activities and then the afternoons are very much TBD. And so it felt like for a lot of the afternoons, we ended up having with the kids and they were either with us or not with us. And then some afternoons, we got to go and do just parenting. So it was a great balance. Yeah, so it was great. So every day at 12, we would put the kids down for a nap and then like we would go walk around. But Diana would stay there and obviously be on call for them napping. Then whenever they woke up, they would go out and maybe go to the park X, Y, Z.
35:43And if we wanted to do dinners together, like the night we went to Whitehorse and got the burger, like we just all go. But if Harrison and I were going out like for my birthday dinner, you know, then we just go out to dinner and then we come back. And so it was 12 to 8. And I thought that was a very good schedule. Or like at least it worked for us. So, yeah, that's how we structured it. Anything else to say on the matter? Okay, honey, some exciting news. Let's hear it. In the pop culture world. Summer House Canada. Summer House Canada. Can you believe? A 10-episode Canadian version of Summer House is starting production in Muskoka.
36:24I've heard you or your mom talk about Muskoka a lot. Where is it? It's just outside Toronto. It's where Dan goes. It's where Dan goes in the summer. I knew. Okay. I knew I had heard somebody talk about it. This is very funny. It's pretty. It's beautiful. It's true lake country. I think if you were to compare the aesthetic, it would be Ozark. If you were to compare the bougie-ness, it would be Hamptons. Oh, so this will be good. This will be good. Yeah. The homes are homes. I'm excited. I'm curious if I know the people I googled the cast isn't released yet what Jules Jules is Jaws I assume no I was just thinking about the fact that you could know some of the people the other thing is I knew Muskoka and it's because that's where the cabin or the cottage in heated rivalry is in real life I knew it sounded familiar for some reason that's how I'm excited about this Me too.
37:30And it airs in 2027. Yeah. Not that far away. But yeah, the cast is not released yet. I don't know. So Muskoka, the boating culture is very heavy. And so you'll be at, we call them cottages. Okay. And you boat from cottage to cottage. You boat to people's cottages. Dan just texted us. I wonder if we should respond and be like, do you know anybody that's been cast on Summer House? Canada. Yeah, that was... We gotta ask. It would be so cool if you knew somebody. Because the Summer House... Well, the problem is there's likely an age issue. I was gonna say, are they gonna go old or are they gonna go young?
38:12They'll probably be with the two handle. And so it'll be out. We're getting old. In another lifetime, could have been me and the boys. Good man, you and the boys on Summer House Canada. I do think in some lifetime you were on Summer House. well that's that poses a whole other question you and i haven't talked about do you think people come back like re and like in terms of reincarnation like a version of you do you know what i mean like do you think somebody's like a cat okay we're gonna not do that i thought you were gonna ask like would you ever be on reality tv sound off in the comments if you if you believe in reincarnation i will wholeheartedly say my answer to that question is no with the exception of survivor reality and the amazing race i would do the amazing race you'd be so good on survivor when do we get a new episode i would not do the amazing race with you i harrison i would be very good at the amazing race i would beat you we're on a team and i would do the amazing race but you just said you wouldn't do it with me i would not but i would then i would beat you i would do it with alex cost we would win uh like we would win some unfortunate information i just learned about you and alex Cost.
39:22What? Because another fun fact, you guys, the way that we met Diana was through Alex Cost. She told me you two are the same person, so I think you guys would self-implode. You need to have different... I think him and I have been to 30 to 40 countries together. We know how to... It doesn't mean you would win the amazing race. One-two punch travel. No, I... Okay, maybe. Well, okay, that's a pretty good... If you've actually been... Our communication on a tuk-tuk, very good. What's a tuk-tuk? It's like the little vehicles in Thailand. Like how do you communicate? Like what is required to communicate with there?
39:58Just more like our ability to be in a foreign country, get on a vehicle. Oftentimes if someone doesn't speak English and communicate where we need to go, very high. And who does? Like remote random cities. Who does the main communicating? We bounce off of it. It's different time, different place. Ying and yang? Okay. I think that possibly the best like if you had to do an application video the best thing you could say is like we've been to 40 countries together and we're business partners I mean that's pretty good but from what I heard you both leave the door open I heard you both leave doors open we know how to divide and conquer yeah I was I was doubled over laughing it was so Diana was so funny she's like him Alex cost exact same person I was like I know so cute if we could get you two on The Amazing Race.
40:50But my priority is Survivor. And do you think you'll ever send in a video about that? I think if we sat down and did it next week, then yes. So it has to be next week? If it's still open, I think we should do it. Is it quite busy next week? I'm a little concerned that I wouldn't be good on Survivor. Wait, what? If we're putting it out there. We are being very honest. Why do you not think you'll be good on Survivor? You'd be great. You're not afraid of bugs. and you're strong. I have a bug question for you. Yes. When you see a bug and you're alone, do you react to it? Or is your reaction for the benefit or detriment of others?
41:35I'm staying at my friend's house watching their dogs, and I saw a palmetto bug, and I didn't react. But I think if someone was there, I might have been like, ah! That's such a funny question. It's a good question, Joel. Do I scream when I'm at myself is sort of the question. Yeah, I still do. Oh. Or I get very flustered and hot and I immediately call Harrison to tell him about it. How is dog sitting the neighbor's dog? Oh, it's great. He's the best. Do you want to be a dog sitter? Because one of my friends posted yesterday, like, do you know a dog house sitter? And I responded and said yes, but then I was like, I should ask Julie.
42:09Are you getting paid for this? Yeah. Okay. Oh, well, not when I do it for my friends because we just swap services. But the neighbors paid you? Yeah. Okay. Most people pay for a dog sitter. So do you want to do that? I'm totally going to mess with them now. And say like you should have paid Jules? No, you know what I'm going to say? What? I'm going to say I can't believe you guys didn't give Jules a bonus. No, they paid me more than enough and I told them they didn't need to pay me. Oh my God. I'm going to mess with them. I'm happy to watch a dog. They're so generous that it'll break the brain.
42:42Do not. Please. Yeah, don't do that to Jules. like i the problem i'm gonna not say what i was gonna say like yes or no it depends it just depends it depends how much it like inconveniences me right i know this person lives on the east side no is it a big dog or small dog i don't know i've never seen the dog it just depends like if my dog gets along with the dog oh i gotta show you guys the videos of jenny and and neighbor dog oh really Yeah, it was funny. Were they playing? They didn't really know how to play with each other. Yeah, different sizes. Like, Ginny's like, and he just smacks the floor with his little paws.
43:20Yeah, it was fun. Okay, well, that's it. So we'll see if you're a dog sitter. Yeah. I put you both up for dog sitting opportunities because you both love dogs. All right, Harrison took that opportunity to check his phone, which we can, that's so exciting. He probably just freaking sent them a text saying, I'm complaining. Harrison, he texted. Harrison.
43:46I'm going to text them. It's a really funny text. What did he say? Just let him reply. I think you guys owe Jules money. She just slightly mentioned it. Oh my God. Harrison, stop. She responded and said, wait, I paid her last week. Like, she said, you overpaid. And we're very nice. She just said, I wanted to die. It was... That's evil. You know, Mark. I'm trying not to say it again. It's so not their style. So, like, you just hit them in there.
44:32Get everyone going. Oh, that's so mean. Harrison, like, lives to mess with them. He just loves it. Okay. She goes, I literally just panicked. Did it not go through? So mean, Harrison. He loves a good joke. Okay. Summer House Canada, we did. All right. We got to talk about pay to play in sports, and we do. Anything else? What do we say on Summer House Canada? We just ran an ad for it? How could we not talk about Summer House Canada? Yeah, like we can't. Jules can't know that it's existing and then not tell us. it was that was it was announced yesterday here here could be one of the tough dynamics is the logistics of muskoka aren't as easy as the logistics of the hamptons but they hardly leave the house you know one thing we never talked about what about summer house is that they have to drive themselves there instead of what like i don't know i saw an interview once and it alluded to them, I think, that being in the contract.
45:37That they had to. That they have to because I think that for content and for drama, they probably think that that's important. I think that they probably don't want a lot of the icebreaker conversations to be happening in the house, and it's also a great way to pin people against each other. Also, okay. Because you have a lot of ISO combos. I also think going to the Hamptons I think the train is like the most fun way to get there but other than that like I would like to drive myself I saw a podcast clip of Paige Storbo saying that her dad told her she wasn't allowed to try that's what I saw I was like that checks out she is so funny to me like I just think her one-liners are hilarious okay let's talk about pay to play Let's do it.
46:23All right. It's a big topic online with soccer. I'm going to do my best to explain this. Literally, when we're talking about pay to play, I'm talking about sports and kids and how all these other countries in the World Cup, it's exacerbating the fact that these kids grow up playing soccer. Is this correct so far? Now, soccer here. I'm not, like, fully up to speed on what's being said on the Internet. I read about it. I'm going to need this explained. Like soccer here is very expensive and you have to pay in order to play. So a lot of kids by the age, what I read was around 11 or 12, they stop playing because it's expensive.
46:57Now, the equivalent to this to me is an AAU basketball team or a club volleyball team. Yeah, the price of soccer in the U.S. is really no different than the cost of the other major sports. okay but other countries make it free am i understanding this correctly yeah so jules why don't you explain what the internet's saying and then i'll give added color or like what people are really worked up about right now i think i think overall on the internet people are worked up over the price of playing any youth sport at a competitive level in the united states because we have a pay to play model and a lot of the club teams are as i understand it like privatized or owned by private equity yes and it's very expensive and it's become a very large industry youth sports in yes and not just soccer not just is the big point like the cost of basketball the cost of soccer is largely the same however right what's being talked about a ton online right now is like why is the U.S.
48:10so bad at soccer? It's just the conversations about soccer because of the World Cup right now. Yes. And yes, my understanding of what Alex said is accurate. It's like it costs too much to play soccer. Kids are stopping. And also it costs so much. And then they're not incentivized to cut people. So then there's just a bunch of people that aren't good at the sport that can't afford it playing. And that is long-term detriment to the sport overall. And then in other countries, they're just never going to let cost be a problem if someone has the talent. And something like the professional leagues that give grants to the club, the young club teams.
48:52Yeah, they have youth teams. Yeah, they have these youth teams. And, like, they're incentivized if those kids make it to the pro, the pros pay the youth teams and so on and so forth. that there's just like a different culture around playing sports there where money isn't the issue and then one more thing that i'm thinking about now is what i read yesterday was it has become too expensive and too intensely competitive that it's taking the fun out of it now there was there was a team in the olympics remember this who had who had um i i think it could have been the Netherlands. I think it was the Netherlands and they the way that they do what was it hockey was it's all fun or something like that.
49:37Yeah it's largely no it's all sports are largely open until you're 16 like there's no specialization. They're all open. So you play everything and you play for fun. And you yes you play for fun. And I think like that they were finding out and wasn't the Netherlands very good at something. Yes and and one of the core drivers of that often is the people who perform best at 12 aren't the people that are performing best at 16. And so a lot of these 12, 13-year-olds, 14-year-olds are getting pushed in a certain direction that is best for them in the moment, but isn't best for them in the long run. But I think that we're mixing a bunch of different issues here, which I think on one bucket, We have the structural industry of youth sports and how expensive it is and how competitive it is.
50:32And a very large driver of that is the travel component of it. And so I think on average, a parent is spending$1 ,500 per year on children's sports. but when you get to the high end that number can be upwards of$25 ,000
50:56and I think the big it's tough because our kids are so far away from this but to me the big question is just the why are we pushing our kids down these paths um why are we why aren't we embracing recreational sports teams and are pushing kids to do travel um especially when you look at like the the chances of going to the next level are so low so i give you a look at something like football let's say there's 250 000 seniors in the u.s that play football and so are going to have the opportunity to play um to play college football call it six percent of those kids are going to make it um because i think you have like 80 ,000 college football players a year and that's kind of divided between five years so like call it 16 000 incoming college freshman a year um so your kid has like a unless they're one of the top two players on their team top player on their team like chances of them going to college are very very low it's like why are the parents putting all this time energy and effort and money behind it is it because of bonding and that's it's the way for them to create friends or is it because like the why is it that they're feeling pressure to do that because the coaches are saying you know if you don't do it your kid's going to fall behind and this not to mention the chance of going pro where like if you have 20 ,000 uh I honestly classes a year 20 ,000 like you know freshmen a year 257 of those 260 of those are getting drafted in the NFL so your chance of getting drafted in the NFL as an overall football player if you played senior high school football is one in a thousand.
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54:54One went to TCU. One went to Baylor. One went to Penn State to play volleyball. I mean, they all went on to play volleyball. The really good girls on the club team, right? Yeah. So I think, like, if your kid now wants to play, every level has gotten higher. so to play like high school a sport right you must play the club off season of that sport probably in some of these sports that make sense like the bar has just been risen at every level like you can no longer just like i don't know i would assume 50 years ago like yeah i think basketball i think what i find so interesting about that is when you look at um there's a a study that was recently done on, uh, on pro hockey players.
55:43And when you looked at the amount of sports they played at a high level through the end of high school, the mass, mass majority of NHL players were two, were at least two sport athletes. And a lot of times in high school, they say you have to quit your other sport and you just have to play this sport. Yeah. So I guess, where are we going with this? Because we're kind of throwing out a bunch of dynamics and numbers. I think where we're going with it is I think the big thing is it would be really cool if, listen, sports having a high price tag on it is going to weed out a lot of people, even with scholarships being there.
56:18Weeds out a ton of people. And that to me isn't fair because sports should be accessible to everyone. I would assume that's where we're going. Well, and what's happening right now is there's like bipartisan alignment behind this, like it's called Let Kids Play Act, that they're just starting to have hearings for this in somewhere. I don't know that like is making it so that that like the PE funds that it says PE funds invested in youth sports are being considered vulture investors. They're requiring divestment within two years, refunding families for junk fees and creating one million dollar penalties for firms that don't comply.
56:59So like there's there's people in Congress right now in the House trying to essentially make what's going on in youth sports illegal so that is more accessible. And so and as they should, because sports keep because sports have a lot of a lot, a lot, a lot of pros to them. and I think one is they simply kept me out of trouble. So I think I have a good way to tie this all together. Okay. Okay. Because the U.S. is very, very good at sports. Yeah. As a whole. We know this. We have a lot of people. But we just shine light on one sport where we are trailing the world. Soccer. A la soccer. A la. And I think what that puts the spotlight on is...
57:47the why and interestingly how much better we could be at these other sports if we took out the pain components and we're not even at equipment yet have you seen the trend online probably not where the mom's like want to see my five thousand dollar bag and she just picks up her son's baseball bag and she's like and here's the bat and here's the helmet like we're not even into equipment yet because so many of the great athletes are being pushed away and and there's a stat that I didn't have a chance to pull up, but I was talking to someone about that participation rates in sports are collapsing generally with this generation.
58:27Yeah, I believe that. There's a lot of concerns from the major sports leagues now on what viewership looks like in 10 to 20 years. Football's the one. We're really good at football, and we don't have club. But no one else really plays. No other countries play football. Yeah, but I'm just saying, I think that... And the same thing, like when you look at the amount of people that play basketball here, it vastly outnumbers the rest of the world. Yeah, but we also, we have club basketball. We don't have club football, right? Well, I'm the Canadian here. My understanding is that the high school infrastructure around football is so dominant that that takes away the need for the supplemental leagues versus basketball where the dominant circuit is AAU, not necessarily high school.
59:27I know, but if we could reverse the two, then we could make it more accessible. Football's a good structure because schools provide, I think, everything but cleats. Maybe not pants. I mean, you know, and so then you're not having to pay a ton. Makes it a pretty accessible sport. Yeah, I don't know the solve. I don't know the solve. I'm new to this, and I find it really interesting. Me too, because I'm a big believer in sports. Like, I think sports for youth in an accessible way is obviously ideal. I'm only a believer in sport for the right reason, for the right motivation. like i'm a believer in sports for relationship building for teaching about overcoming challenges and adversity losing you're gonna lose you're not gonna win them all how to be a good team player how to find your role on a team team player is probably the biggest one i'm not a proponent of sports to like be a professional athlete because the odds are so so low that you're not positioning your kid for success if the odds are one in a thousand like when they need to go to five different camps big camps so you don't think bubber's the next alex morgan i think that bubber should play whatever sport she's naturally drawn to and reap the benefits of team sport and if she turns out to be like a absolute stud on the field then great and she can get competitive with it but I don't want to pressure her to do that I'm kidding we're not going to but I do think it's also good for self-esteem yeah for sure it can help with that so anyways we're gonna I you know let us know what you know but we should just like follow along how that let kids play thing is going yeah and I want to like this is something I want a better understanding can and get smarter on because it is very interesting.
1:01:26But I think the one last thing that I don't know if we fully harped on, which I think is pretty interesting. We love a last thing. Is that I've been told about, and actually it's really just building off what you said, but is the driver of anxiety in putting your kids into club and travel sports where the coach is telling the parent, while your kid may fall behind and this and that. And so that's why the parents are doing it. Oh, they got to play club. And then the parents are like, okay, I got to take out a second mortgage on the house. Like, that's crazy. Yeah. I agree. But it's because the bar has become more competitive.
1:02:04And then the parents, I saw Statter, spending about 13 and a half hours a week on their kids' sports. Well, until self-driving cars come. Autonomous vehicles. Shopping. Could solve that. Did you see the topic on autonomous vehicles? No. Scroll to the bottom. What do we have? Oh, I did read this, Jules. I was... I'll give you a live review. I was sat for this one. Live reaction. Waymo calls cops on two 15-year-old passengers. The kids were drinking and shooting water beads while riding a self-driving Waymo around town. Waymo, like, kept them in the car, essentially. The cops came, and then the cops detained them.
1:02:46And did you see Waymo told these kids that they were having technical difficulties getting the doors open so waymo did a little soft lie there okay but they were they were recording the kids that's kind of like kidnapping yeah a bit like that but like i gotta say like i love them calling the cops i do not love them locking those kids in like that's kidnapping yeah that is like that is kidnapping maybe it kept driving i don't know don't quote me on that but didn't but somehow it's that's a very important detail. Well, what I read was that it said that it was having technical difficulties. You can't be kidnapping people.
1:03:20I don't think Waymo's kidnapping people. I think that would be a lawsuit. But here's the thing. Okay, I'll say this. I'm going to take the opposite side of the thing here. Yeah. A lot of kids underage drink. I'm not condoning it by any means. I'm just saying I think some do. What I'd never want is one of those kids to then drive if they have to go somewhere. But I don't think they called it for the drinking. It sounded like they called it for them doing a bunch of other stuff. Well, I don't know what shooting water beads is. Like Orbeez? You know what Orbeez are? You guys are going to know what Orbeez are eventually.
1:03:55They're just like, are these little beads, they put them in water and they grow. But I think they have little water guns of them. So they were shooting water guns? Essentially. They're like little beads. Like a BB gun? Yeah, but more harmless. I need to know what these things look like. Did Waymo think they had a real gun? I don't know. The photo I saw, too, the alcohol was in a Gatorade can. So I'm like, how did Waymo? That checks out. It really shows the surveillance that's going on. That's what people were mad about. They're like, Waymo, why? But I don't know. I think that it's something you guys can do.
1:04:33Yeah, you can't be shooting those out of cars. Oh, they were shooting it out of the car. Yeah, out of the window. You can't be doing that. Oh, yeah, you can't. I'm sorry. I was thinking they were just like in there shooting each other. Or drinking, which is like, come on. What am I like? Let us live. But they're 15. Oh. Oh, the officers were, or sorry, the occupants were not locked in, and they did have the ability to exit the vehicle. Oh. I stand corrected. This is not a good recap. Well, anyways. You just said a bunch of random stuff. The point is, that's wild. In summation, crazy.
1:05:19I just thought it was crazy. Yeah, because on one end, I love how, in theory, Waymo can keep us protected. But on the other end, it's like the line of violation gets crossed really fast. Yeah. All right. And in other news, but sort of the same news, an AI actor. AI actor Tilly Norwood will star in a movie unlike many human performers whose auditions don't even help them land better catering gigs. I didn't understand that. This came from Harrison. It's very simple. Basically the TLDR is like they're gonna have an AI actor in an AI movie but the plot of the movie is what's crazy. So basically it'll be set in the Tillyverse which is a digital world where the actor quote unquote will portray an AI person with no real body or lived experience in a coming-of-age story infused with existential AI chaos.
1:06:15My brain breaks. I think this is interesting because there's all these talks about what industries— Does she look like a human? AI is—yeah, I assume so. AI is going to go after them where jobs are going to be lost. Hollywood is under the microscope. And so I'm fascinated to see it. How does this movie do? Is it good? Is it entertaining? doesn't flop but like whose sense of humor will tilly norwood have did she get a robot sense of humor like she have her own sense of humor but then like if she has a sense of humor it's programmed by a human like do you see what i'm saying she can read lines but the lines are gonna have to be programmed by a human so no but i think that a script was written by ai for the whole thing is ai So it's all AI, AI, AI.
1:07:03And obviously you have a human controlling the prompts, but... But underneath it all, this is AI. I think she's going to flop. She only has 164 ,000 followers on Instagram. And she's an AI person. She's an AI actress. But I would think if people were into it, there would be more than 164 ,000 followers on Instagram. Does she look like a person or does she look like a robot? No, she's a girl. And could you tell she was AI? No. Honestly, no. Like, on the cusp. Wow. Tilly Norwood. So she's fake. What's her bio? Welcome to the Tillyverse. Just another AI actor. Okay, so she's telling us she's an AI actor.
1:07:48You'll either get it or pretend you don't. Tilly's a little sassy. How many followers does little Mikayla have? She's like the OG. Who's a little Mikayla? Is she an AI actor? The OG AI influencer. little Michaela is little her first name little Michaela has 2.2 million wow but she's been at it oh and she like look little Michaela looks like AI little Michaela should have been cast in the movie little Michaela like followed by Harrison Bugman there was a period of time where she could have been massive this was like she was started in 2019 like in San Francisco do you think she replies to all of her DMs immediately I don't know like do you think that's like an AI thing she's 23 like how does she have an age like who decided she was just 23 she hasn't been around for 23 years like that's not fair she doesn't have 23 years under her belt do they have birth certificates no Speaking of which, Rocky, we got Rocky's birth certificate.
1:09:00All right, last story before we go. Does that work? Yeah. United is being sued over the window seats that lack windows, as they should. And then they tried to appeal this, and the judge threw it out. The judge was like, no, you're going to sit here with no window. Like, because, here's the problem. People were paying to upgrade to a window seat, and on the little map it says window. And then you get there and you look to your left and there's no window. It's actually kind of crazy. I'm a huge proponent of airline accountability. Same. I'm a huge proponent of airline accountability. It's like getting in the car and it's just like, that window doesn't work and it's black.
1:09:39Like, if you want to sit by the window, you want to sit by the window. I really get that. It's so like anxiety inducing. The amount of like, and United's particularly bad. The amount of cross-selling that is happening where it's like, all right, do you want economy basic? economy open for two more inches economy open plus premium economy premium plus economy light business class business class business class plus like what and it's all and that they're just pricing them out differently and all they've done is like add two to three inches in between the seats make them probably not even wider what i don't understand there's eight different economy options now and now they're doing like half free wi-fi i mean the airlines have really figured out how to upsell us and my favorite one is this well you got to pay to check your bag like what of course i'm traveling with the bag when i got to pay 50 more dollars to check it i'm like if you run the math on that they're making like five thousand dollars per plane of bags no okay it depends on the size of the plane yeah i'm i'm all i'm all for airline accountability plain and simple like the experience I just think one thing that they could do is they could just make one blanket like we offer two tiers of tickets because the other thing they do the more popular the flight gets the higher the prices go you notice have you ever noticed you go to American.com to look at a flight from here to Denver and it's$100 and then you go back five minutes later and now it's 150.
1:11:18Yep. I've always thought that's crazy. I do need to go. Okay. Well then we're going to wrap here. You guys, that was a lovely episode. Happy Friday. We love you guys. Thanks for listening and have a great weekend. Thank you for listening. Thanks for listening to another episode of two parents in a podcast powered by just media house. If you enjoyed the show, don't forget to like subscribe, comment, rate, and review. Stay connected on Instagram, Tik TOK, YouTube, and Facebook at two parents in a pod. Welcome to our home, Sorry It's So Messy, new episodes every Thursday.
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This week on Two Parents & A Podcast, happy Friday!!! Rocky is officially out of the 4th trimester 🥹 (it truly is like a light switch flips at 3 months). Speaking of new milestones, Alex tried co-sleeping with him for the first time now that he's past the safe age - the review: loved every second of it but didn't get a whole lot of sleep lol.
We start with a trending topic: what is the "back in my day we walked uphill both ways" of our generation?! (i.e. we made it through 4 years of college without ChatGPT!!). Which lead us to an insane discovery… did you know kids at camp are now getting their letters SCANNED and texted to their parents instantly?! Whatever happened to snail mail?
Some fun things: spam mail is getting out of hand, Harrison put a Mexican 3-cheese blend on our pizza (thoughts?), and he pulls a text prank on our neighbors (and Jules) live on the pod 💀
Then the announcement that was MADE for this pod: Summer House Canada is officially happening (10 episodes in Muskoka!!) 🇨🇦. Which leads to Alex asking Harrison if he believes in reincarnation… and whether he would ever go on reality TV himself.
Then the big topic: the pay-to-play sports crisis in America. Apparently, it costs between $1,500 and $25,000+ a YEAR for kids to play club sports?! We get into the Let Kids Play Act, why the US is falling behind in soccer, and why kids are dropping out of sports altogether.
Plus in THINGS WE DMED: Waymo called the cops on two 15 year olds shooting Orbeez, the first AI actor is starring in a movie (welcome to the "Tillyverse"), and United is officially being SUED over window seats… without windows.
LOVE YOU GUYS!
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00:00:00 Welcome back to Two Parents & A Podcast!
00:01:50 Rocky is officially OUT of the 4th trimester
00:04:22 What is the "Back in my day we walked uphill, both ways, in the snow to school" of our generation?
00:08:53 Is spam mail (AND calls AND email) officially out of hand?!
00:14:49 Has anyone else tried Mexican 3 cheese blend on pizza?!
00:18:02 Our experience co-sleeping with Rocky for the first time
00:26:11 Being off social media makes you SO out of the loop
00:32:58 Traveling with support: how we structured our Colorado trip
00:35:34 Summer House CANADA is officially happening
00:45:50 The PAY-TO-PLAY sports crisis in America (+ the "Let Kids Play Act"!)
01:01:38 Waymo called the cops on two 15 year olds shooting Orbeez
01:05:00 The FIRST AI actor is starring in a movie??
01:08:27 United is officially being SUED over window seats without windows
01:10:50 LOVE YOU GUYS!
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