How we built community on our street, rule breakers vs. followers & is it too early for Halloween?!

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1:08Okay. Okay. Let's start with the opening off the top. Welcome back to another episode of Two Parents in a Podcast. Nori Minich is in my DMs. Oh, what is she saying? I haven't read it yet. Oh, was it last night? Yeah. What was she responding to? I have no clue, but she was, I could tell she was like kind of on a tear last night. She kept sending me Instagrams and stuff. Do you remember the first time your parents embarrassed you?

1:41No. Do you? No, I want to dig deep on this one because I'm sure there's a funny like second or third grade story in there. Because that would be like peak when it would probably happen and you could remember it. You know, I don't think my parents have embarrassed me. like I don't think they've like done something where I was like oh that was embarrassing like my dad will I mean he does it on purpose like we'll be like uh checking out at the grocery store he'll be like this one's on you I'll be like no it's not like that kind of stuff yeah that's funny that's funny though I don't I don't know I don't really get embarrassed like that here's more so what I'm talking about like I remember uh like uh growing up when my mom would pick me up from elementary school she'd pick me up in in a convertible and i remember like i found the music that i'm like in sixth or seventh grade the music she was listening to like wasn't like the cool music for a sixth grader and like i was so embarrassed of the music yeah do you kind of get what i'm getting at like really dumb stuff right i truly can't think of one like i'm trying to think of a time i don't have one okay i don't have one yeah which is gonna be my goal for rubber oh i'm gonna embarrass rubber all the time are you kidding me but i think there's a difference between like jokely embarrassing and then like actually embarrassed like you know if your mom turns up whitney houston to come and get you like that's funny

3:08right yeah as opposed to like i'm actually embarrassed at what my mom wears type thing my mom wore a lot of brown growing up i remember that that's so funny embarrassing well jules you were traveling yeah new york how was it oh it was great yeah i was at the youtube well google um offices for a youtube podcast event okay very nice we love youtube we love google and everyone was super nice no super fun you love gemini and how how are the travels the travels weren't good and the travels weren't especially good it's because like i'd wake up at four o 'clock in the morning not great and then the plane didn't end up taking off until 10 30 okay and why is that jules why is that because her pilot was a big fat liar jules caught her pilot lying and like the airline didn't what what happened the flight attendants caught the air the airline lying because this this is one you know when when when a friend uh and i know jules wouldn't let me call her friend so work colleague you know says something to you and like you know it's about to just kind of brush by and then you realize like well like this is major that's what happened with jules jules like shares this story and we're like no no no no no proper like this this is this is This is not okay.

4:30So you had a big, like, I think you had a big thing happen. Yeah. So my flight was supposed to take off at 6.50 AM. And at 6.50, we got a notification that there was a 20 minute delay. And the flight attendant did say something to us of like, oh, they're just trying to figure out something with the pilot's timing. Hold on. Are you boarded? Are you on the plane? We are boarded. We are on the plane. We've been on the plane for, you know, a normal amount of time and we just get the notification that, hey, it's delayed 20 minutes. And then like after that, we suddenly get the notification that it has been delayed multiple hours.

5:08And then we get, they deplane us and they make everyone stand in the waiting area and they say, we will be giving you an announcement soon. Just stand here and wait. And what they told us was that the pilot had timed out, which like, okay, great. But then they go into the details of why the pilot timed out, which was that pilots need a full eight hours of rest from the time that they clock out to the time that they clock in the next day. Our pilot fudged his timesheet and future timed or future dated in the time that he got in so that it was a full eight hours from the time that he clocked out the night before.

5:48And someone caught him because it was future timed and he didn't have the full eight hours rest and he lied it's a huge deal because had some so the reason this feels like a 10 out of 10 problem to me like in terms of no you can't call it a 10 out of 10 because 10 out of 10 would be like a drunk pilot so like we can't give this no but i i kind of gotta put this like lying is bad lying is bad like i'm not saying it's not no So like to me, my question very much goes like if you're doing this, which is one like not OK, where else are you pushing the line? And like pilots with with the with the vehicle they are operating and how many people are in there like we can have zero leniency on the rules.

6:36Well, so I so the eight hour rest time was enacted for a very good reason. And they do the same thing with truck drivers, semi drivers. Like when you're operating these large vehicles, you do like you can sleep one hour and go drive your own car. Yeah. You know, but I think that these commercially driven vehicles, they've enacted this rest time for a reason. And I actually think the rest time should be longer. I agree. You're going to get eight hours of sleep. Exactly. You can't get eight hours of sleep if you just have eight hours in between. You're going to get five hours of sleep. So like I really agree with you on that.

7:05But to lie about it and then if something would have gone wrong on that airplane, like he would be. and i am anti anti like cancel culture fire them this fire than that this to me feels like a fireball offense well like i just i and my only thing is i i was really appreciated appreciative of like the um folks for telling us what happened just because like i don't know it's nice to know why you are delayed but like he should have had to tell us himself that that was my thing i agree he should had to get on the mic and say i i lied i lied but here's my question and not a fireball fence a serious serious suspension should be suspended yeah how but i'm wondering how often does this happen is this something is this a wink between pilots where they do fudge it and this guy just got caught i hope not and and i really really hope not i don't think so because it is so easy to track like i assume that like julie kind of explained the math on when the flight before landed because like she was taking that same flight home the next day it's like pretty hot especially in an airport like austin not a very big airport pretty easy to track when when the flights are coming in and when they're going out i just would i'd like i'd like to know and what i will say is i feel like often when i'm on a flight the pilots and the flight attendants are talking about like where they're going and where they came from.

8:36So I feel like that's a lot of like small talk between everyone. Like, where'd you fly in from? Where'd you like, where are you going next? And so I think I was like, well, if you came in last night, yeah, that's not that's not eight hours, buddy. I don't know. I don't think people are down to have their lives messed with and the people on the plane's lives messed with. And so shout out to the flight attendant or whoever caught them. Yeah. Shout out to whoever caught them. and I'm glad they told you because I think a lot of times they're like, there's a timing issue so we're not going to take off and it's like, what does that mean?

9:07Yeah. As opposed to this, I'm like, okay, great catch. I don't want him flying the plane. Here's my only thing. My only thing, Jules. Mm-hmm. Jules has said she does not want to share the airline. No. Okay? I don't want to share the airline. And here's my only question to you on that. Do you, do we not think that like, that it is critical that accountability is served here? Yeah, but I think - I want to know what happened. I think the airline did a really good job handling and managing it. I agree with that. But I don't want this pilot. I want to know from this airline that this pilot is being seriously reprimanded for this.

9:44Yeah, but I just don't feel comfortable doxing the airline. I also agree that the airline did a really good job catching it. But what if the airline puts them on another plane? If someone wants to look up who does three flights a day from Austin, Texas to JFK at 6 a.m. noon and 4 p.m., they'll find out. Yeah, but it's not about people figuring it out. It's about like, do we want to take this to the airline and make sure they're holding the pilot accountable? They will. Maybe I'll DM their customer service. Okay, can we do that? Sure. That's what I'm happy with. I'm happy to do that. I'm not into the public shaming.

10:18I actually am not at all. That's not my goal here. my goal though is that is i am very concerned if i were to be on a plane and this pilot would be flying i yeah okay yeah yeah yeah that's very we'll do that okay perfect other than that though jules did you have a good trip it was a great trip on to my favorite restaurant where'd you go westville westville okay talk tell us about the menu i've only ever gotten one thing off chicken Caesar salad what did you get chicken it's a chicken it's chicken Caesar salad with the chicken cutlet. Chuck cutlet. Sorry, cutlet. A side of fries. The look you gave me when I said pie yard versus cutlet.

10:55I've never heard of pie yard in my life. What? Chicken pie yard? I don't know what that word is. It's a thing. We can put a picture up of it. Okay, cool. And a Diet Coke with a lemon. A crisp Diet Coke. And I've only ordered ever one thing there. My friends are like, oh, what should I get? I was, this is what you should get. And they went off path. Oh, they veered. But it's so good. How many people went? Four. okay so fun yeah and just to be clear jules loves this place so much that i asked her i was like hey is there anywhere you'd like me to make a reservation for you jules loves taylor swift you want to go corner store do you want to do the jewels had no nothing nothing she wanted to go westville that's what she wanted that's me i like what i like i don't necessarily like something fancy or because other people like it now i'm the same i have a new annoying thing that we're doing or maybe what we or padel went to padel and are we calling it padel or are we calling it paddle i don't want to love padel i think i love padel i don't want to love it i like i feel like every time someone talks about padel i'm just like come on stop it i think i love it okay it's coming full steam ahead though here's what my dad sent me a statistic and this is a rough stat but maybe there was a thousand courts i do believe we're going to increase we pull the receipts but okay sorry first for the people at home padel is different than paddle ball yes pickleball pickleball pickleball yes yes there's a wall in padel or paddle yeah it's a little more elevated to say like well it's okay there were 30 padel courts in the united states in 2020 the number has since jumped to 1 000 and is expected to top 20 000 padel courts in 2030 okay so basically what padel is is it's pickleball but the court is bigger and you have a wall around it and you can hit the ball off the wall so it's almost like pickleball meets squash okay yes and I've been hearing rumblings about how great it is and for some reason I just like I wanted to hate it and then we went and we played with two friends and we love it and we signed up for lessons we're doing four straight weeks of lessons I think you want to hate it because of the name yes I think so is that that must be it it's taking itself too seriously Padell or Padell I also I hated the pickleball name the pickle pickleball didn't take itself seriously enough okay Padell's taking itself too seriously I'm so excited to play Padell I'm so excited we almost went and played last night it's so fun i was so sore i was sweating my butt off but i i didn't even realize that i was it was a great exercise good for coordination i loved it and do you know a great thing about padel what i mean i say the word i want to punch myself in the face it uh it's a four per it's a doubles game so it's so good to do with that with another couple this is kind of like your first um couple's extracurricular that you're doing together it is yeah i would agree with that and there's a unbelievable uh it's actually crazy i like saw videos about it on on the internet beforehand i didn't realize it was here but it's called padel 39 not an ad at all and it's just like this amazing padel kind of uh the new padel place the new padel place oh i'm familiar with the new padel place it's on the east side yeah and they got all these tvs for games and it's just like it was uh here's my problem with rec sports and it's part of why i actually love high rocks is i find too often like the process of going and doing the rec sport is like kind of depressing.

14:29Like you go to the kickball field and it's some like torn up field and no one's really there. And the lighting's, you know, it's a good point. Not great. And you're going to play at 10 PM and you're playing it. You're playing at a terrible time. Thank you, Jules. And I go to this Padel, this Padel 39 and the energy there was amazing. Every court was full. People were hanging out. Like I was just happy to be there. Everyone's saying hi. so i'm into it second secondarily we went um hit balls last week too with all of our like we went to the public um golf course here and we just put all the kids in the middle and like we all went and like hit balls i was being active the number one underappreciated family activity in austin is to go to the muni golf course at lions and hang out in this little don't tell people uh no we actually need to tell people because the golf course is under there's this whole save the muni golf course because i think there's some questions about if it's going to get sold or not uh and it's they've got this so you have the driving range and behind the driving range there's this covered outdoor area it's not covered are there trees over it oh i mean it's shaded i guess sorry shaded but don't go when it's raining yeah good call it's the shaded area where you can hang out the kids can run around and then they've got food.

15:51We actually talked about it. Should this be a cause that we take on? Maybe. Saving the golf course? Should we? If we go two more times, I'll take it on as a cause. I don't have the bandwidth. I need to talk to the people. I don't have the bandwidth to take on random causes, but I can take it on perhaps. I agree. And I need to talk. I need. But wait, wait, Olivia wants to go tonight. Do you want to go tonight from five to six? This episode is brought to you by Honest. Being a parent of a five month old and a two year old is genuinely just a thousand little decisions a day. From what goes on their skin to what you trust for the everyday messes, the cuddles, the bath time, and the cleanups.

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18:42Nobody on the street listens to this. So we have one neighbor who I call the true north of all things etiquette, happiness. I don't know how to describe them, but like they're the coziest, happiest, comfiest. Here's how I describe them. Okay. They're - They have life figured out. They're the types of people that, and this is something that we're actually going to talk about on the panel tomorrow is when you look 10 to 20 years out and you say, do I want my life to look like this? The answer is yes. Like from, you know, their social life to parenting, parenting, their relationship with their kids, what their kids have turned out like their relationship with each other.

19:27They, they really, they're, they're, they're, they're a great example of how we want life to look in 10 to 20 years. So they have already decorated their house for Halloween. She decorates. Her birthday is September 14th. She says, I always decorate one week after my birthday. Their house looks incredible. She's got pink skeletons, witch hats, and candles hanging from her front porch that light up at night. It looks unbelievable. And it's already out there. And every day when Tate walks by, Tate says skeleton. And she's very obsessed with what's going on in the front porch. So I was like, well, we have to decorate our front porch.

20:07And she's now just texted me telling me she's ordered me the pink skeletons. And she wants to do on our house because our house is flat. We're going to do spiders crawling up it. Are they disco ball pink skeletons? No. I have a vision for your house. And it's like disco cowgirl skeletons. I'm so into the disco. I know. And the cowgirl. And the cowgirl. pink cowgirl hats on disco skeletons bubber just came back her her birthday uh outfit arrived the one uh and arrived after the party and it had a cowboy hat to it and she walked in and she saw that cowboy hat and it was game over she ran right put the hat on very excited so we're gonna go big on halloween because bubber i wasn't sure how we felt about skeletons like i wasn't we went to cvs and there was one of those like things that lights up and the head spins around and I was like are you gonna like this or not and there's a button you push you know in the head the lights go green and it's very scary she loved it she sat there and talked to it so I was like okay we can do scary Halloween because she's she's gonna be into it and I don't want to do too scary of Halloween but I didn't know if we were gonna do skeletons at all if we were just gonna be a pumpkin patch she loves the pink skeletons she loves them I know it's September 25th but like Have you guys decided on the family slash neighbor costume yet?

21:32Yes. So we decided on it last year and we did that the year before. Yeah. So I just am not so sure that this one's going to be feasible. It is. This one's intense. It is so good. Okay. We could tell you. No. No need. But yes, Jules, we do know what it is. We need to start soon because it's going to sneak up on us. What we didn't appreciate, though, is how hard it's going to be. It's going to be great. We're going to have to change one piece of it, though, which is actually going to make it easier. But as long as the answer to your question is, yes, we've thought about it. OK. Do you want another piece we're going to have to change?

22:12No. OK. Yeah. So we are going to be decorating soon. Our pool permit got approved. So we're now we're off to the races on the yard again. Yeah. I would like this yard done ASAP because what I did not account for is that it's time to decorate and our yard has bricks laying in it. Like we got to get this stuff in order so I can decorate the house. Okay. All right. So let's talk about the kiddos. Rocket Man had a play date yesterday for one hour. Adorable. And he started going to the nanny share. and I think I know Rocky's just five months old but I think there's something to babies being around other babies and what it does for them because what it does for Rocky we're noticing and all the kids his wake windows are longer he's staying awake more during the day and he's sleeping better at night so maybe there's something to routine or structure but maybe there's something to him being around other babies and I can just tell like he really likes that he's got I know he's five months old but I swear the kid has a pep in his step well to me the the most interesting thing to track is going to be how he develops relative to Tate.

23:24Yes. Yes. Because him and well, Tate also went to the nanny share early though. She went at four months. He's five months. Yes. But what I think could be very different is he is looking at kids that are six months older and a year and a half older. Got it. And I'm starting to see him do things that Tate was doing way later. Yeah. Yeah, maybe that maybe he will develop faster because he's around kids that are walking and crawling. He's really trying to move. Yeah, he's really trying to move right now. So maybe there will be maybe there's some scientific something to that. But all I have to say is like the nanny share.

24:02It feels good because we're also in a routine. And we know from eight to five, Rocky is also at what we call school. And like yesterday, he wears overalls like he's taking it so seriously. He wears overalls. he's starting to go into, we call it the DJ booth, which is that little table that spins around. And a lot of people were asking me, how did you know he was ready for that? He, he was starting to jump. So he really wants to stand upright and he's got full neck strength. We're also doing the baby bouncer, like Rocky's in activity time. Things are rolling with him. So he's also, yes, he is still in the snoo, but we've moved because the way you transition out of the snooze, you go from we call it the straight jacket to then you put your arms out so he's got his arms out this week so next week he will transition out of the snoo and we'll keep you posted on how he sleeps out of the snoo but he's been giving us five six hour stretches this week since he started the nanny share so we're good on all things sleep right now with rocky jules how's your coffee today it's great yeah it's iced yeah how's your coffee it's really good it's really good i brought that topic to so many people oh oh my god i did great or did you not uh okay what i was trying to do there i didn't land what you want to sip of your coffee no you want to what's your favorite coffee shop perhaps give out uh the 100 gift card to the coffee girl yeah the comments were so good like people i was i was on there reading looking at these coffee shops that people love that are local and i'm very proud of everyone for going to their local coffee shops me as well who's our winner Jules um her name is Jetta Jetta Grubbs I love that name love the name and her favorite coffee shop is Hattie's Coffee House in Whitestown Indiana okay okay and then she said is everyone partial to their regular coffee shop yeah yeah I think so oh yeah like she probably thinks what's hers called Hattie's Coffee House she probably thinks Hattie's is the best ever I think Swedish Hill's the best ever my my palate is trained to this iced coffee that when I get it somewhere else it just doesn't land the same way uh and it was the same way when i lived in venice like the coffee shop by her office that was i like my true north as alex would say well i told jetta i i told her in the comments to dm us because i think that's the easiest way to coordinate but if if you're listening jetta please dm us on dm the pod yeah the pod account on jetta please dm the pod um and congratulations hundred dollar gift card coming to you hattie's coffee house I also love the name Hattie.

26:35I love the name Jetta. Do you want to hear my idea? I guess first what I'd love for people to know is should we kind of keep with this trend of giving away things of topic to the pod? I think it's fun because we learn about the audience. Like I learned a lot about where they're from, what kind of places they go to. Totally agree.

27:02We'll do more giveaways throughout but can i can i'm gonna bury them in the episodes okay because i have an idea for one what is it so i'm planning a date night for us right now okay okay and what is one of my favorite things for us to do on date nights go to a restaurant like a special date night oh the comedy club or yeah i mean within that guys concerts concerts concerts yeah go to an event. Yes. So you know what I want to do for one of our listeners? I want to treat them to a date night event. And so what I'd love the listeners to do is comment on an event happening in their city. It can be a sports game.

27:43It can be a concert. It can be a comedy show. And then we'll pick one and we'll buy them. We'll buy them tickets. Go to SeatGeek and hook them up. Not an ad. So wait, you want people to comment like, hi. Like, hey, Dave Chappelle is in town next week we're gonna buy tickets we'd love to go to a show i'd love to go to a show with my wife or with my husband and we'll do that or you know maybe a celine dion show or uh got it got it got it maybe jonas jonas brothers concert maybe jonas brothers concert that would be the best one okay so that's what you want people to do that's something fun like that okay cool comment that yeah that'll be wow that's an intense one that's fun very nice of you speaking of date nights kind Kind of.

28:29We booked our first couples trip. And what we realized with the neighbors is like, we have never hung out with them, just them. Just the four of us. It's always in with kids. Think about how crazy that is. We see these people anywhere from five to seven times a week. And we can't recall one moment where it was just the four of us. What if you guys get awkward? Like, I don't know what to talk about. And we thought - What did we do? Well, we went for drinks once and we thought that we didn't have any kids there because they went for dinner after. But then we realized we brought Tate. Tate was like four months old at the time.

29:11And we had to bring her because we didn't have a babysitter, but they did. They did. Yeah. And we had to sit outside in the back because it was a no kids place. Like our best friends, like family members, We've never been on a double date because anytime we're out for dinner with him, other couples are there or the kids are there. Speaking of our neighbors, let's talk about this. I like this comment on - Well, can we tell them what we're doing? Sure. So it's neighbor T's birthday. Yep. And so we are taking them to Jackson Hole. Nice. Because he loves the outdoors. Is that why Alex wore that shirt tonight?

29:44Oh, no. But should I wear this to Jackson Hole or absolutely not? Yeah. And we're staying at this incredible hotel called Hotel Yellowstone. We're really excited. it yeah i can't wait wait is hotel yellowstone it's related to the wait isn't that called yellowstone ranch my my nobody can wrap their minds around this why is hotel yellowstone in jackson home i don't know but it looks awesome is that brand not called yellowstone ranch no no no that's called um diamond diamond cross okay never mind sorry sorry sorry do we think we should go to diamond cross ranch while we're there and get some irl merch do they sell irl merch i would guess So do they have a brick and mortar?

30:21I don't know. We'll have to look. I love Jackson Hole. We're going to go to Cowboy Bar. I do love the iconic Cowboy Bar. Yeah. I had a friend get married in Jackson Hole and it was really fun. Okay. Let's talk about this comment. Please dig deep on the podcast about the community y 'all have created because it's effing cool. I, this is about our street. and two things we've already talked about so far is one of our neighbors is decorating our house and the other one we're going on a couple's trip with. And I do think our community on our street is like unbelievable. And it really boils down what?

31:00It feels like it's out of a movie. It does. It is a rare thing where it feels like it's out of a movie. I feel very, very grateful that the street, everyone just like has committed to it the way they they do um so that's number one and i actually want to deep dive into the into the dynamic of how that all played out i don't like have that answer but i do think one really uh i do think one really i think a lot of it's out of your control number one but when i look at what is in our control and i do think one thing that really does bring the block together. And if you're looking at bringing your street together, what I would suggest you do is host a streetwide barbecue.

31:47We've said this before, but really do it because I think that our street feels like we put in the time and invest in our street and then. And if you were to ask me to draw back, like when did the street, when did I really start to see our relationship develop? It was following the crawfish boil. And after that crawfish boil, it felt like things just continued to build. And it just having the time for everyone to come together, eat, have a drink, and importantly, like show like you're committed to the community. So that would be my take on if you're looking to connect with your street and you want to do one thing, bring everyone together for a barbecue.

32:29Like we came home yesterday and we had three packages on our porch from people just on our block. but we do the same thing we're always baking something or we're drawing something or giving some kind of gift we're very good at remembering birthdays on our block and so I do think it's just this outpouring community we just love each other on our street yeah I feel very grateful and for the crawfish boil didn't you kind of just like print the flyers before you had the whole thing yes gotta go before you're ready print them before because you don't need a lot you can just make burgers in the street and tell everyone to BYOB or potluck it even too love a potluck yeah love a potluck we've got i feel like that removes like a cost barrier to entry do you know my latest idea what for the street i'm going to preview here uh the latest idea for the street is to host an outdoor super bowl party oh with a giant screen and so get a big giant outdoor screen and bring everyone together so that's what neighbor T and I are cooking up right now.

33:34Nice. I also still want to do a progressive dinner on the street. I just think picking four houses and having, you know, apps at one dinner, I think it'd be so fun. But that's it. And all for you to take the lead the same way I'll take the lead on the Super Bowl party. Well, I don't want to. I'm not ready to do mine yet. Are you going to project on the side of a house? There's blow up giant screens you can get. Yeah. We used to project on a garage door. Love. That is so classic and cool. the problem with the super bowl party might be is it going to be dark enough it's february it should be good you should just check that you guys could also do a halloween party jules i've been thinking about that the reason why we can't oh we have a halloween everyone goes to the park yeah in our neighborhood which like we just need to call out like there will be over 200 kids at our neighborhood park so we go there yeah and everyone on our street goes there.

34:29And you trick or treat there? Then you all walk and trick or treat together. Oh. While I love Halloween in the neighborhood, it doesn't feel like trick or treating is a big part of it. It feels like the big thing is everyone goes to the park. Like we didn't get a lot of trick or treaters. Then we all go to a spooky street. Yeah. It's a unique street. Like there are hundreds of kids at the park with their parents and everyone's running around. It's madness. It's a blast. And then everyone walks over to this other street and just kind of hangs it on that street. Gotcha. And I guess that street has the treats.

35:02Yeah. We had the Halloween house and then the Halloween party at our neighbors next door. Wait, that's cool. You had the Halloween house. Krispy Kreme donuts as well. More Minich. That's awesome. No, no, no. That's a Jeffrey S. Minich original. The Halloween house. No way. Oh, yeah. Don't tell us more. No, like my dad does like, we got coffins. we got um werewolves we got it's like a creepy halloween house okay um and my mom counts the trick-or-treaters i think we had 500 last jam no way shut up yeah like see we have nothing like it's like a thing we have nothing like and there's another one there's another one like up the street our neighborhood take a hot spot for it because people people go big what about your neighborhood my parents always wanted to have more trick-or-treaters and i but i think what you said was like your houses were far apart yes like i my neighborhood is also like let's call it seven minutes outside of downtown and the houses are right next to each other and i think that that is like a huge part of why your neighborhood is the way it is and like why my neighborhood is the way it was is like you're just all up in each other's business all the time you don't have a choice and like we would we would do these party not part like my neighbors would host the party but our house is right there and all the kids are coming through and all the parents are hanging out at my neighbor's house eating Krispy Kreme donuts and drinking Baileys.