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3:33Okay. So do you have anything you'd like to say? Welcome. Welcome. Thank you for listening. Do you want to ask them to please subscribe? Oh, yes, it is. Valentine's Day just happened. And if you didn't get a Alex, a Valentine's Day gift, please do so by liking and subscribing. What about you? What about your Valentine's Day gift? My Valentine's Day gift is a gift is any, any. a gift for me is a gift for you yes thank you did she did you say welcome yeah yeah when she started i started there's no preamble today i missed it that's the word we're using preamble pre-ramble so you didn't go to workout this morning do you want to explain to the class why that is uh because i i'm now 12 o 'clock workouts tuesday through friday oh so every day now i was talking about this yesterday i think harrison's doing something very very smart which is he has realized he's most productive in the mornings.

4:29So instead of getting up and going and working out and then being productive, he just starts his day, just gets that laptop. He gets right on it. And then at noon he goes and works out and then it gives you a little energy boost for the rest of the day. Yeah. I mean, if you, if you have a work setting that enables or that allows a 12 o 'clock workout is truly, um, it is truly a game changer for me. Uh, I can't believe you're doing it and you're loving it you know i feel like we haven't talked a lot about ai lately okay i had a morning of emails yeah okay and i know if it i'm sure it's on most people's radars if it is not chat gbt for emails it is truly a game changer like i did a full day's worth of emails before 9 30 so it's really high it's really being a time saver for you yeah when used correctly When used correctly, need to proof it all.

5:26And they still do absolutely short circuit. But I called Alex Hatch. I cannot believe that like this list of 12 things I could get all done this morning. Well, I almost used it to write my – did we say on here that we had the wrong couch delivered again? Can we have the apology? Yes. We did. I don't know if we said it. I don't know if we did. I don't think we did. I think we said it on the Insta story. Oh. So what happened is we had anthropology has delivered us yet again, the wrong couch. And this time instead of calling, cause I spent a lot of time on the phone with their customer service. I've decided to put it in writing, but I wrote the email myself.

6:05Although I wanted to use chat. Perfect example for chat. Yeah. It would be great. It would have been great. The thing, here's the other thing that happened this morning. The Bubberator got up at, at four 30 and she was just ready to start her day. and we we weren't quite ready to start our day so but did you hear what i was singing her um twinkle twinkle little star and she loved it it would calm her down so now but i'll tell you what i had to twink like i don't have the i had to stop for a lot of breaths could you hear me you did a phenomenal job i couldn't get through a whole sentence anyways bubs was bubs got up a little early this morning so i did it i did an hour and then harrison did the rest because i wanted to do an hour because i just feel like you're no don't feel you i'm happy to to do it all it's the least i can do it's not fair though when it's 4 30 i mean it is completely out of our control so thank you very much for taking an hour duty today but i am happy to do it anytime so i thought that I I okay it's my pleasure it's Chick-fil-a my pleasure it's my pleasure do you think it is their pleasure we don't eat a lot of Chick-fil-a in our house we eat basically no Chick-fil-a in our house we had Chick-fil-a once when we got here and we hosted a pregame for UT Georgia well the nugget the nugget platters are the best thing for game day they're they're the best I thought about I was surprised we didn't do it for the Super Bowl well they make me sick when I'm pregnant.

7:40And they recently switched their oil. Is anybody else onto this? They used to have no peanut oil. Now there's peanuts in the oil. I saw some kids with allergies. I saw this kind of hit my feet a little bit. So they did an oil swap and it's not as good for you anymore. But I think peanut oil is actually better oil than the oil they would have been using. I feel like that's actually an upgrade. No, I think they did a downgrade. I noticed their food tastes different. I have no clue. But P and I, when we were talking about showering at the gym, we were just doing a little research for captioning on social.

8:16And Equinox, they changed from the Kiehl's products to a new product, I forget what. And it has peanuts in it. And now all of the peanut allergy people, like, they're kind of screwed at Equinox. Okay. We think it's pretty messed up. This to me is I want to go to our friend chat here. How many people in America have peanut allergies? I would love to know this. A lot. Well, that's why I'm curious. What is our number? One second, please. It's probably one of the higher allergies. What do you think? Are you using 5.2? Yes, I certainly am. Okay, perfect. That is something. Often the models are not updated to the most up-to-date model.

9:01So what would your guess be? Is this a percent or a people? A percent. I will say half a percent. 2.9. That's a lot. Yeah. What's the number one allergy among them? Yeah, I'm just thinking. So like if you're saying that at an equinox, three in 100 people, I would assume that the highest allergy that has potential for harm is probably going to be peanuts because like I'm sure gluten is higher, but gluten doesn't inflict real harm. Dairy. Dairy is the number one. Yeah. The lot of people out there, we can't process. Right. We're mammals and we can't process dairy. Very different experience. We went into anaphylactic shock with milk.

9:49Well, unless you're celiac, gluten can really hurt you. Yeah. But does anyone go into anaphylaxis over dairy? I think you've got to ask. I don't, yeah. Ask the chatterator back. I would assume not. I feel like it's a different profile of allergy. And so is everything chat's responding right now 100 % true? No, that's the problem. That is a problem. Let's say everything needs to be proofread. People can go into anaphylaxis from dairy. That's crazy. But anyways, I think - From dairy? What about from gluten? Yeah, from gluten. For sure. For gluten, for sure. Really? Yeah, yeah. Okay, well, I retract.

10:21I just think it's wild to do the nuts in the soap at Equinox. Well, I think it's, to me, it was, I wanted to know, like, what percentage of their clientele is allergic to this? And at 3%, I agree, that's a crazy move. It's crazy. But my gut is the person that made the switch at Equinox didn't think about this and now is really thinking about it. I would totally agree. I think they were like, let's make the switch. Maybe they saved some money. Maybe they did a new brand deal with somebody. And then they're like, oh, my God, there's peanuts. Peanut or Trina, I guess I got a, I don't remember off the top of my head.

10:54But they probably had no idea. And you just wouldn't think, you'd never think that there'd be peanuts in a shampoo. I know. Like as a business, I think that they're probably like, oh no. And they'll probably switch back. My studio uses Mullen and goats. Oh. I like it. And you do like it? Yeah. And do you use my shampoo? At home? Uh-huh. I use Bondi Boost. And I'll tell you, I really enjoyed it. And I never looked at what I was using. I like the bottles. I like the smell. And then I looked at the brand the other day and I saw his Bondi Boost. I was like, oh my goodness. Like you've worked with them in the past.

11:32Yeah, it smells really good. I got very excited about that. And you know what it's good for? Hair growth. Hair growth.

11:40I'm like a natural fan of Bondi Boost. So yes, I do use yours. I thought so because I threw yours out. Yeah. What was yours? Ooh, didn't love mine. It was Huron. Okay. yeah and those little yeah i found that i get a lot like uh is bondage good for skin sensitivity it's natural okay because i feel like that here on one i was i would get the bumps on my face a lot what would a two-in-one um shampoo be or like an all-in-one shampoo body wash be a deal breaker for me yeah if he used it yeah no i'd love it i'd love it i would understand i don't want it i do not want an all-in-one that feels like that feels like a new business opportunity for for men oh i think they've made that it exists they've got a thousand you let me go okay yeah i feel like the connotation of these two and ones and three and ones is like they're terrible and so like give me a nice clean two or one or three or one but i here's the thing i gotta i gotta push back on this clean thing if you're so this is why i'm for a three and one for a guy because your hair is not colored but like p and i we cannot use a three in one the color will strip out of our hair i just feel like when i think about the traditional three ones they're like full of just like crazy toxic chemicals sometimes you need you well guess what hair dye is chemicals but i don't want chemicals on my hair i want just clean natural stuff no i agree with that i think like you could wash your hair with like a like a body of a bar of soap theoretically yeah i just want natural simple Simple, natural.

13:12But we need chemical on top. I think like you have to fight fire with fire. Not a business idea. Let me re-ask the listener any good ones that they would recommend. Well, here's another business idea. Dumb business idea of the week. But I sent it just so we're clear. Here is Harrison's news segment. Best worst idea of the week. Thank you. Best worst idea of the week. And here's the thing. Anything that starts out with this usually gets my attention. Okay, I'm stoned. Like I'll just, I'll read it. You've got me listening. okay I'm stoned but this seems like a good idea what if there was an app that both you and your partner have where you both swipe right or left on movies that are streaming on services and you find a match and it lets you know yeah I was gonna say I actually think that that exists no way but here's what I'd need I needed to take it to the next level where it would connect to like your Netflix and your prime and your peacock and that way when you log on it's like for your suggested it it's like suggested for the two of you no it's just matches yeah so it's just guaranteed matches yeah it happened it exists sorry what's it called matched matched i mean that's a good name here's the thing instead of scrolling i would love to just be able to click on an app and watch like five movie previews and be like yeah i'd watch that i'd watch that and swipe right or left on them and i'd love to know our matches wow so the best worst idea of the week exists but they're not doing a good enough job promoing it i've never heard of that i've only like heard of it on the internet yeah i would like to use that let's try it we'll try it let's let's try it a little tick tock starting something new isn't just hard it's terrifying you guys so much work goes into the thing that you're not entirely sure will work out and it can be hard to make that leap of faith especially if you're an entrepreneur when i started in podcasting your content or any kind of business that I've ever done, at first you think, I'm not sure I know what I'm doing.

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16:24I don't know if it's like lack of, I don't know, but my teeth are so much more sensitive. And then the other day I was eating a gummy and one of my caps just popped right off, which happened when I was pregnant with Tate. And now it's happening this time. And I posted it and people DMed me and I had so many DMs of people being like, I had so many dental issues. And when I went to the dentist, she was like, we see pregnant people all the time and they can't numb you when you're pregnant. So this girl said, I had a piece of tooth or bone, not sure which one, pushed through my gums in my third trimester and I could barely chew on that side of my mouth.

17:00The dentist and the oral surgeon both thought I was making it up until it finally came out and I took a picture of it. Ow. These changes, I mean, terrible. Intuitively, they like make sense that if your body is undergoing such tremendous change that it's going to affect you in a variety of ways like a la mouth structure well you bruise easier too and your gums bleed more yeah but i get it like you are growing thing you are growing a human and as such like i it just naturally makes sense that it's something with like an influx of hormones too i think it would affect your teeth there's also like a change in lifestyle factors is what i'm seeing online like you're probably eating different foods like for cravings and it says like for throwing up causes a lot of teeth issues as well well and i you know what i noticed about me because i started i felt this cap getting loose and i realized i was chewing an insane amount of gum on this side and i would nap with gum in my mouth because the taste in my mouth was so bad that I would take a nap with gum right there.

18:09So I thought I got a cavity, but in fact, I guess my cap was just loosed. Second one. Okay. I'm so glad it's not just me. My teeth were chipping and my gums would randomly bleed. So many weird symptoms out there. And then this one, I'm 32 weeks pregnant and had to have an emergency removal of a tooth implant a few weeks ago. Somebody else told me that her middle tooth or her front tooth just chipped in half. so she had to get a full new tooth yeah i'm not i'm i'm not i'm not surprised um i also we're gonna so this is the q a episode which we haven't said yet which is so weird of us but we're gonna do the q a but before that h i want to ask you because i think that our mommy daughter dance class has set a record of most dads attended because there's four kids in the class and we've now had three out of the four dads come to dance class um and you've been twice and so what's your take on on mommy daughter dance dad edition um what do you mean what's my take well do you get like so it's one of the highlights of my week i get so excited to do it with her and i get really proud of her do you have those feelings yeah i love it i love seeing her in new environments and new environments that challenge her, where she's interacting with other kids, where she's learning.

19:29Like, I think it's where she's having fun. I think it's great. The dad thing is phenomenal. Like, it was almost to the point that, like, when the fourth mom walked in without the dad there, I was like, oh, like, I wonder, I, like, kind of assumed he was parking. um so love the dual parenting turnout the dad involvement and um that's an that's an our generation thing though i think like dads want to be more involved to the tune that in our mommy daughter dance class we have more than 50 of dads come like that's crazy i think i think it's and i think it's a couple things number one i think people have more flexible work schedules now I think COVID caused that more people work from home.

20:21Like, I just think people are able to do that and they want to do it. And then let me ask you this. If you were like, I'm not coming to dad, to mommy daughter class. Okay. Let's say you had that mentality. Yeah. Which you don't. Cause you're like, I want to go, but let's pretend for a second, put yourself in the shoes of somebody that's like, okay, I don't want to go. Cause that's mommy and daughter's thing. And then I came home and I was like, Hey, there was two dads there. Would that entice you to come or you wouldn't care? Well, you don't want to go where you're not welcome, right? And so regardless of the activity, like if you're doing a girls Mahjong thing and I'm not invited, like I'm not invited.

21:05But I asked the first time because I remember... But the first time you said it was moms and daughters. Yes, and then I asked her while I was there. I think we have that on record. But I asked her while I was there because I truly got winded during the class. I think that there's this, what's the saying? And I think it's implied more so to dating. Like if he wanted to, he would. Yes. I think that that's very applicable to going to dance class, to mommy, daughter, dance class. Like if you want to, you would. You can. You can always, like generally speaking, it's at 5.15. and so carving out a window is is possible like you can you know i think most people can carve out time from 5 15 to 6 to um to spend time with their kids but i'm looking at a music class which is at 10 30 a.m on fridays very different i know you are not attending well and And if that was the only time to attend and it was a marquee event, then I would, you know, I'm also in a fortunate position where I have a lot of control on my calendar that I, if that needed to be prioritized, it could.

22:18I'm just saying this thing, like this is at 5.15, like most work days, regardless of your industry, end at 5.15. Well, and then, but I mean, you have to account for like if work ends at five, then you, and you're 30 minutes away, like you can't make it. Maybe you can make the end. But one of the dads came late. one of the dads did come late he did come late I don't think you need to be there the you know both parents can trade on and off which obviously we do but let me but okay but if you heard other dads were going would that entice you to go more or no

22:55for sure I just want to figure out why I think yeah yeah just simply put yes okay do you know what one thing I'm like Like, I don't know how to explain it. Like, you want to go where you're welcome. Yeah, of course. And you don't want to invade. But you also want to participate. If this is an activity, I guess here's what it is. If this is an activity for you and Tate, I don't want to invade on that. But if it's a family activity, I want to fully embrace it. Yeah. Because I think Tate and I will have things that we do, just the two of us. So speaking of, that is going to be the father-daughter dance.

23:34Are you familiar? yes and no the daddy daughter dances did you guys have these in canada did hayley and your dad go to daddy daughter dance i don't think so what are they like it's like homecoming but with your dad yeah and you go in the little girls how old six mine was like all through grade school so kindergarten to eighth grade yeah and we had them in high school too but i went to an all-girls school. And the dad brings a little what's it called? A corsage? Corsage. Corsage and you put it on her wrist with a flower. No, she gets dressed up. You get dressed up and you take her to the daddy daughter dance.

24:14And they have like a professional photographer. They got music. Line dances. Slow dances. It's the cutest thing. Wait, so what ages? Shirley Temple's. Donuts. We had donuts. What ages? Kindergarten. Five to. Mine was till eighth grade. Mine was not till eighth grade. Mine I think was through fifth grade. So the reason why I may not have known is because my sister's two years older than me. And so if she was doing this in fifth grade and I'm in third grade, my memory probably isn't going to tap into that. So I don't know. But I also don't remember it happening when I was growing up. I don't remember the girls that we went to school with having that.

24:58Because what would the guys do? My brother and mom had mother-son dances. really yeah okay thank goodness because i was feeling left out yeah but what they do with daddy daughter like we i think we took a i think we rented a limo one year and put like all the dad and daughters in it i think i gotta i gotta think back but i do remember it i remember that donuts were part of one i remember my dress for one a lovely experience no no and they wear like really cute like tutu dresses yeah sounds like a lovely experience i thought you're gonna be so much more excited about this that bubber and i get to do yeah it's amazing well i guess that's what i didn't click in is like are bubber and i gonna get to do this yes how do you know i just like of course you are just like at it's hosted by the schools if you don't will we will throw one yeah of course me doing things bubber is my favorite but i do have a great birthday party idea okay i have another place i want to go after this okay i think a really good birthday party is a mommy and me dance class like i i asked our place i was like do you guys do um like birthdays and they were like of course so i think on a saturday like the dads come and you do half mom half dad you get some donuts etc i think it's a really cute idea for the kids and they put on a dance class because the dance class they're not sitting there like pointing their toes they're like running they run with scarves it's more of a play class with music on in the background exactly it's a play class where they run from the green dot to the red dot yeah um speaking of activities yeah i gotta give your uh female friend group in austin some flowers on something that they do that oh i can't like it to me this is the best example of something that like people say they're going to do and then they maybe do it once and then they never do it again but these theme dinners that your girlfriends do it's unbelievable are truly 10 out of 10 well and what makes them so good is that okay so i have a group of friends here who i love i can't explain to you how much i love them and they every month they rotate from who hosts okay and then they have a theme so one was a spelling bee one was college night and they truly they have a spelling bee and they had a winner of the spelling bee and then they had college night where they played beer pong and everyone dressed up in like college outfits you know and they wore like the skirts we used to wear back in college and then they just had and they had like all of your and i like only like kind of knew about that like knew about what was going on because i got a message being like, hey, can you please get me some pictures of Alex from college?

27:46And I was like, sure. But like, why? And then I didn't realize that these like dinners you guys are doing were themed dinners. Yeah. And so the girl that hosted it was our neighbors. They printed out photos of everyone. She printed out photos of everyone in college. So the way I'm in this friend group, because I so speaking of this being a questions episode, a big Q &A that I get is how do you make friends in your adult life and what I got where I got so lucky is our neighbor um the mom neighbor who I love and she's one of my best friends here she has this like friend group that I've now become friends with so I think you call that by proxy yeah by proxy in laws friend in laws and they host all of these dinners so last night was mob wife dinner and they all wore like to the floor fur coats and makeup and like they really do the theme yeah and and what what has almost what i love so much is it happens once a month every thursday rain or shine like i've just been watching these things now happen and okay i'm gonna put you on the spot yes if we were hosting next month and i had to think of the theme right now and you have under a minute to think of the theme, what's my theme?

28:59Canadian themed. Oh, great. Genius. And what are we serving? We are doing Caesars, which is our versions of Bloody Mary. Genius. We are doing breakfast for dinner with Canadian maple syrup, Canadian bacon. And what's the thing we got? Those fries? Poutine. Breakfast poutine. Breakfast poutine. We, in terms of attire, you're either going to wear a Canadian tuxedo or a hockey jersey. Anyone who's a parent knows feeding decisions aren't a one-time thing. You make them again and again, stage after stage, which is why Little Spoon is so incredible. Because here's the thing, they support your feeding journey from the baby stage to the toddler stage to the big kid stage.

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31:47And I didn't notice until a couple years ago. Because growing up in high school, you don't care how your burgers are cooked, right? You're just looking for the cheapest burger on the menu. And then by the time I went to the U.S. and moved to New York, and they started asking how you want your burger done, I just thought that was a New York fancy pants thing. Oh my gosh Yeah You didn't know And so the first time Somebody said How do you want your burger cooked What did you say Like I want it round Not square What are my options Yeah What do I What do I get to pick from You know what I've always said And I'm like Completely Bringing this in on the fly However the chef recommends it You do say that Is that why Because you don't know Your options That's clearly why Aww But And then Now I'm kind of In a world where If I'm at a really nice restaurant and I know it's a good cut of meat, then I will say medium rare.

32:44Also, has the world come around that the best way to eat a steak is now medium? Has that become consensus? Medium rare is out and medium is in? In your world or? Is the world, is this a thing yet or no? I'm not the person to ask. I love a medium rare steak, so why are you saying that? Medium rare plus. i just feel like we've historically or like everyone's i feel like medium rare has been the default order forever right you i mean let's chat gbt this what's the most commonly cooked i would assume that 70 percent of steak 75 percent of steaks ordered in in the u.s are done medium rare i think so too because why why why would you want to do a medium well medium well you can't even taste it it just tastes like charcoal yeah most common is medium rare yeah but what i've come to kind of learn amongst my friend group here is it just feels like medium is much better the only thing i can think of is that restaurants started making medium rare more rare so people started ordering medium which is the new medium rare but i think that most people like a little bit of pink in the middle of their steak.

34:03Okay. I actually, I think that I am going to marry that with my initial statement. Okay. I actually totally agree. But I think, I think what it is, is that when you have a medium rare steak and it's comes out too rare, it ruins the steak versus if you have a medium rare steak and it comes out medium, it's still good. And so you're just safest going medium, but I like the flavor of medium the most. Like I think medium is the best. It's the most flavorful way to eat it. I find that rare is too chewy and I find often medium rare is too chewy. And Alex Kost got me on it. He was always medium and I would chirp him forever.

34:45And then I started going medium. It's just like way better. But I think that you nailed part of why it's way better is you avoid it coming too rare. Let me ask you this. What is your definition of medium? medium my definition of medium is like a faint faint pink color because pink to me is where the flavor comes from now the other caveat here is this if it comes out too rare you can send it back and say can they cook it a little more if it comes out too well done then you gotta ask for a whole new steak i am think i'm just out on sending food back harrison what i don't think i so as i i used to be i i maybe i used to be a big sender backer i don't know the last time i sent something back and i ask i say call me on it no no i think that you will send you are for getting the meal correct so i think you'll send a drink back you'll ask for more something on a drink and you will send a meal back for sure entirely me no when is the last time i've sent a meal back well i think that i think i don't know i can't i don't know i can't like put a finger on it i think you like your food correct if uh i don't remember now but if a if you get a iced coffee instead of a cold brew or whatever one you like okay so there are a couple things that as i think about this when i ask when i ask for fries extra crispy i was just about and they don't come extra crispy that is it and that i got from um my friend's dad growing up would always whenever the fries would come it was an ongoing joke like the fries are cold and he'd always send back the fries.

36:34And I'd be like, even if the fries weren't cold, it was like, it was an automatic reaction. But, I think I've become that man as a fries extra crispy. The other thing you do is if my meal's not right, you definitely send it back, which is nice of you. But the other thing you do is if you order an Aperol spritz, it's nine times out of 10 we're asking for soda water. Well, here's the thing about ordering the Aperol spritz is you can't order the Aperol spritz with extra soda water because it turns the whole, for whatever reason, something gets lost in translation there. That's why with the Aperol spritz, I go can have, it's getting Aperol spritz and a side of soda water.

37:20So that way I can control how much extra goes in. Yeah. You're just, you, you do care about taste. You, you care about your meals. I, I, I cannot put my finger on a time that you've said it will fry as always. But definitely. The mains, like, I don't think I do. I really don't. Maybe you don't. I can't think of a time, so you must not. You always do it in a very polite way. And you always ask me if you're allowed to do it. Which I appreciate. Okay, if we don't get into the questions, then we're never going to get into the questions. So I'm just going to move us along here. Is that okay with you?

37:55Yeah. Okay, question number one. Are you going to do a gift from the new baby to Tate once he's born? a gift from the new baby to tate once he's born okay i'm gonna say no to this because i don't want to set the precedent that like when something big happens to tate that she gets a gift like i think we should be very picky with when we give gifts um because i don't want to set the precedent that she's like always like do i get a gift for this well to me there's there's kind of two pieces to this is on the gift she's not old enough to appreciate gifts so i don't think a gift would really be digested in in any way um because i think we just have like an age age mismatch but where my brain went on the question is what i really want to do over you know the the first 6 12 18 24 months is just give her a ton of responsibility as it pertains to the baby and so like even when it comes to to like changing the baby like hey take can you please hand me the diaper hey take can you please hand me the wipes and that way she doesn't feel like she's just being neglected she feels like she's involved in the process and a caretaker and i don't know if i would have thought like i think part of why my brain is going here is because i'm watching how involved she is on the cooking front and how much she gets it this morning by the way we were cooking and um i was just doing quick eggs and she like i had her on the thing and i had three eggs on the on the table and i went to um get the sausages out of the fridge and they were like so out of her reach and she like reached over grabbed it and just smashed the egg yeah because that's what she thought she was supposed to do so you did you get you said good job yeah of course yeah well this morning okay so the hour i had her i was making eggs and she was just like begging me to put her up in her stool to come do them with me so the point the point being is i i think that as i've watched her really lean into cooking and take the responsibility of cooking on like i think she'll really understand the responsibility of helping the baby, whether it's with their food, with cleanup, with changing, with putting him to bed.

40:22She would love giving him the PASI before bed. So I have a couple of thoughts now that you're saying this. Okay. Number one, I think she should always pick out his outfit because she loves to pick out her outfit. Exactly. So we can give her two options on the outfit. Number two, the only gift I could see, and I would need an expert to weigh in on this. The only gift I could see for a little brother to give his big sister once he's born is a baby doll. So like mom has a baby and then Tate has a baby. Because she likes to do what I do. Like she likes to put her makeup on if I put makeup on. And so if she sees me holding a baby, maybe she would like to have her baby doll that she could also hold.