Sports fan red flags, social media's addictive design & 5 baby products worth the money

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0:43You can pretty much get in any restaurant you want. It feels just very slow. But yesterday was the first. So I know everyone's always like, the heat. We're not going to talk about the weather on this podcast. But I did feel it yesterday when it was like, what do you want to do? I was like, I just want to be like, whatever we do, I want to be inside. or I wanted to be on the lake but we're members of a boat club which we've talked about but um the boats were they were sold out yesterday we couldn't get on so we couldn't go and yeah that was the first time where I was like wow I can't believe I'm saying that usually I'm like get over and go outside it's too hot no it's hot yesterday yeah I didn't even notice and not talk about the rain but the day before the rain was insane that wasn't it was cozy though it could be delaying the yard we had a great yard meeting today but they're they're the um they're saying that the what the rain may now delay oh why yeah um because they can't they don't work in the rain but is it supposed to rain this week apparently no that's what the the weekly recap email said oh you do you get weekly recap emails on the yard yeah do you send them or who sends them they send them who's they the general contractor contractor i don't know if we know that but we went with contractor on yard no we don't know that okay it um he's awesome it was solidified when in the process of moving the pipes is i realized this project is i bit off more than i can chew we're gonna pay the premium uh just making sure everything ties together was was it got a little overwhelming for me because like you do what should I should I talk about this or is it gonna get boring it's gonna get a little boring okay so I'll stop but there's just a lot of moving pieces you retaining walls your fences you have stairs there's also rocks I have a question guys do you guys look at the weather or do you just live your life regardless you know I don't look at the weather this is the thing about me I don't look at the weather because it makes me in like in a bad mood so i don't want to be proactively in a poor mood like if it's going to rain on wednesday also why make why look at the weather when the probability of it being correct especially in austin is so wrong so that's one thing that's gotten more interesting i remember weather i thought used to be primarily always accurate like if it said it was going to rain it always rained now i've really noticed we saw rain on the weather forecast for weeks and it never rained like i'm kind of a bit shocked we're getting this far off i would think our weatherometer you know the national weather center is in oklahoma yeah middle of the united states look at that um it's p's birthday happy birthday p happy birthday she is can we say how old you are the ripe age of 23 just imagine being 23 how old do you feel 28 i feel 27 how old do you feel 18?

3:45I feel 23. She feels 23. I felt 23 at 23. I only started feeling younger than my age once I hit the three handle. That actually might be true. I probably did feel 23 at 23. What did you do on your 23rd birthday? Ooh, that would have been New York, Manhattan.

4:06I've never been a big birthday guy, but I had a really fun crew of friends at that point, a bunch of Canadians who had just moved to the city. who were just the most caring people, and I assumed they would have done something very nice and sweet for me. That's awesome. I can't remember what I did. That was like Meryl and Rob and all them. So you had a fun night in the city. Mackenzie. Funny enough, I meant to send this text, but do you guys have this where your calendar populates with the most random birthdays? Yes, yes. My dad's friend Greg McDougal. it's like Greg McDougal's 72nd birthday isn't that because your dad sent you Greg's contact and it had the birthday in it yeah yeah wow and if you wish someone happy birthday it'll like populate it into their contact I believe interesting which you probably never wished Greg happy birthday but your dad there was a friend of mine from that uh who I was very close with in New York named Mackenzie Yeats and it was her birthday last Friday I meant to text her because we probably haven't spoken in like five six years being like oh my god I saw it's your birthday on my calendar screenshot it and set but she's doing very good home design work in toronto oh that's cute yeah so i follow her home renovation journey you know there's this guy kevin williams you know i'm uh caitlin's brother okay who you know i go three four years without seeing every year he's one of the first 10 to wish me happy birthday i text him back then he texts me back again like I hope the families do and it's just like it's the and that's all our texts are we don't talk to each other any other time during the year but I just think Kevin how do you know it's my birthday I well there's a lot of different ways to know Facebook Instagram yeah but it's so sweet in the calendar people like that are so sweet yeah I just love like we have all you know every relationship fits in its different lane and just embracing it not fighting and trying to make a relationship something that it doesn't necessarily need to be yeah I'm gonna text him though and say thanks for always telling me happy birthday i like that i hope i don't fall off the list you know like i'd like to stay on that because i think i you know i think i would notice actually one year if you didn't i like that on this crazy on the topic of relationships fitting in lanes okay where i had an i had an interesting interaction on saturday okay so saturday was you had a girl's night and day and day i actually had a play date and then i had book club yeah we actually had solo days and so I went and watched it was raining so I ended up watching soccer and skipping out on golf and then after soccer I was like you know what I want to go home spend spend the evening with Bob's and put her to bed and then go to go to Jeffrey's and get a burger a solo burger we can walk it's walking distance from our house yeah I think it's the best burger in Austin it's a fancy burger so I think you can only have it like a couple times a year but it's a very very good burger it's a the bar there is very intimate and every time i go to jeffrey's i typically know someone like in the bar area but i've never been sat at the bar besides someone i know i get sat at the bar it's like 8 30 and guy puts his hand on my shoulder and it's a guy i know and a guy really really like on a date he's on a date like a new date i don't know i don't know him well enough to know oh like you know how you have those people that like you really like when you see them you have long conversations you have a lot in common but like the relation yeah we've never texted and juggling this dynamic of like how you handle it was the only seat at the bar available oh i was only available in the bar I wasn't going to give up my seat so it was just like it was a real social uh juggle a real social management situation so I think we collectively did really well I got right ahead and by the way I showed up I'm I'm wearing an outfit very similar to this and I showed up with a notepad because I was going to write take notes down and I was like hey guys like this I saw him I was super excited to see him i clocked that he was on a date i was like hey i'm very sorry that i'm i'm now doing this like the i'm here i'm here to do some work i'm here to hammer a burger please like do not let me invade this in any way and he's like well you are you're literally sitting beside me we did a very good like mutual like i wrote with my shoulder blocking him he turned good his back to me i I thought about pulling out my headphones and putting in the all-in pod.

8:56I didn't. Sometimes I do do that at the Jeffries Bar. But I stayed very focused. There was enough distance, enough noise. There was no overhearing conversation. Good. And then partway through, I got a little nervous. I was like, uh-oh, I don't want to now be rude. Luckily, after he ordered the bill, there was a closing. We had a nice little three to five-minute outro. Mm-hmm. uh spoke to the person he was with very lovely and then he went so i think it went as smooth as possible but like we both had to manage this like hiccup in the night yeah yeah i mean that is tough but that that's the thing about sitting at the and we're sitting like close well when you sit at the bar on a date you do run the risk of i guess somebody that you know sitting beside you but you also do it at those sometimes those tables get really tight i've never thought about that if you were on a date and like somebody you know what like one of your parents friends sits beside you.

9:53Like, the problem is at the tables, you're fine. You can't overhear. If we don't both angle accordingly, you could have over, there could be full overhearing. Harrison, at those tables in the bar at Jeffrey's and some restaurants, they're so close together, you're basically eating together. Yeah. He did a very good job, though. I got to give him a lot. And she did, it was, it went as smooth as it could have, but I'd like, Now you're bonded. I had 15 seconds of panic when I sat down. Of like. Because getting up would have been more awkward. Yeah. Right. You can't be like, you know what, I'm going to let you guys do this, so I'm going to go sit somewhere else.

10:25It takes a lot of strength not to eavesdrop. Totally. I totally agree. I would have listened the whole time, if I'm being honest. The only other awkward date story I can think of is... Do you want to know what I did? What? So, I'm not sure if you saw, but on Saturday, I sent a sub stack to you guys. Did you see that? Yes, I read it. What was it? Jules, did you see? Probably. Wow I saw it Weekends are for weekending Fuck Okay So in the sub stack I alluded to a part two Oh did you send it via email? Yeah Oh I definitely didn't see that Oh no I didn't see that I was writing I was writing the part two By hand Feel free to put those in text No because I didn't want to interrupt Most visibility So I had something to do And I didn't Here's why I didn't eavesdrop Because I know If situations are reversed And I was on a date it would drive me crazy if I even felt the inkling that they were eavesdropping.

11:24I totally agree. So I had to commit to the work, and I really respect this guy. Yeah, I think the way that it was all handled is fabulous and perfect. And now next time you see him, you guys can laugh. I'm excited for that moment. The only other awkward date that I can think of that I know of is I had a friend, and she went on, she was going on a first date. It was a bumble date. Or it was a hinge date. And she meets him there and they're like, she really likes him at first sight, blah, blah, blah. He goes to check in and the guy's like, I've got two reservations under this last name. His dad and his mom were also eating at the restaurant that night.

12:05And so on the first date, she met his parents. I don't hate that. I don't hate me either. I'm just saying that. You could have a lot of fun with it. But that to me is an awkward-ish, like, oh boy. Well, is it a red flag to not know where your parents are having dinner? Well, this was in New York City, so not at all. I think, like, people run around. Yeah, no. You guys know there's nothing I love more than online shopping. If I'm up in the middle of the night with Rocky, I don't like to scroll social media. But I do sometimes need something to do. And you know what? Sometimes that's shopping. I buy everything online from my workout sets to our couch.

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14:04What? Oh my gosh. He's talked about this. Oh, I actually kind of remember that. I think we put it in the title of the episode. Yeah, it was a riot date or it was some form of dating app date. And I showed up. It was just like inherently not the person in the photo. Like at all, right? Not even remotely. Yeah, I just, and I can't believe. So the Jay that we talked about for the Dicocondex. So a bunch of people, apparently Jay's a big Dicocondex guy. A bunch of people sent him that being like, but now I have another very good friend, Jay in New York. Okay. A lot of people know I'm friends with that, the other Jay.

14:43And Jay was like, did I say this? He's like, it sounds like something I'd say, but did I come up with that? I was like, no, Jay, that is not you. But the Jay that didn't send the Dicoke index, he called that it was a catfish. He was like, there's something wrong with this profile because she was messaging, like the way she was messaging the way the photos were he sniffed it out but then but then i thought sometimes with catfishing they just like don't show up on the date to send like someone that's not the person in the photos is just like obviously you're gonna be like what it depends oh i i feel like sometimes they go sometimes they don't oh did you watch that show yes that show well it was a doc it was a it was very loosely the person like i i watched the guy the football a player that got catfished.

15:35It's not like the person in the photos was like... Mante Teo? Yeah. That was... Wild. All time. Oh, I heard such a good conspiracy theory on that that I'm trying to pull in right now. Hold on. I want to do this. I want to go... Okay, so guys, also, if you're listening, subscribe. Please. Please subscribe. Thank you for listening. And we're going to do some Rocky updates, some Tate updates, and then we've got lots of just like fun little... Should we do World Cup beforehand? I want to do Watching Sports Might Be the ultimate dating litmus test. Okay, so do you want to do sports and kids or kids and sports?

16:05Sports and kids. Okay. I had a breakthrough of an observation while I was watching the England-Norweg game on Saturday. Which was what? I think I know why the U.S. isn't good at soccer. Why? Because diving is such a big part of soccer and diving is so against u.s sport culture like the u.s team is terrible at diving the argentinian team is unbelievable at diving when you grow up in sports if you dive and roll around and and cry and then get up and keep playing because like there's no penalty called like you get cut from the team like we don't tolerate that type of behavior it's very much a like play tough mindset versus soccer like you see these guys they go down they hold their ankles they scream scream they wait for the whistle if the whistle doesn't come they just hop right up like we gotta show some videos and you look at it like the argentinian team has has gotten a penalty shot penalty kick in every single game but one the u.s didn't get one penalty shot all tournament right so like it's actually part of the game that we aren't down with like flopping flopping flopping i don't understand diving diving flopping thank you and so do you think that soccer like people that play soccer only play soccer or as opposed like if you dive in football then like you that what do you think the crossover.

17:47If you're like that, we called that behavior growing up in sports being a crybaby. Like, you weren't allowed to do it. Like a flopper. You're a flopper. You'd get cut from teams. But what do you think about like, you know how Michael Jordan went and played baseball? Yes. What do you, what do you think the likelihood is that another athlete could play soccer? Do you think like, soccer lives in its own world? Well, soccer is very much a game of skill. As opposed to the other ones are a game of athleticism? They all, have athleticism. So I don't want to get nailed on that. But soccer leans more skill a la golf versus football and basketball lean more athleticism.

18:28So okay. So what you're saying is like you could take a basketball player and put him in football and he could do okay. Well there's a lot of basketball and football overlap. Right. College sports. But what you're saying is you couldn't There's not a lot of soccer and there's I'd go as far as saying there's probably zero soccer basketball overlap. There is some soccer lacrosse overlap, though. Right. Now, those two seem similar to me. Yeah, but could we put Tom Brady on the soccer field and have him score a goal? I don't know. But here is the bigger take. Okay? Flop, flop. I loved the World Cup.

19:03I loved it. I am so happy it's over. It's over? It's not over. It's over this week. You're going tomorrow. It's over Sunday. Harrison is going to the game tomorrow in Dallas. You've got to let me finish. You've got to let me go with this. soccer home stretch it is a place in my life once every four years I'm I'm I am really getting to the end and becoming done with it like the flopping the offsides the crazy the crazy var replay overrules the inherent wild bias like very excited for the last three games the bias is insane but we're done like we're done this game it's it's got too many things that don't work for me the the the diving or flopping whatever you want to call it that's number one it irks me too much we got to fix it we fixed it in hockey hockey we have very consistent diving penalties in in soccer they just make them up whenever they want them they had a crazy penalties it seems they had a crazy one in the switzerland game the off sides in soccer are just they kill the flow of the game they need to switch to the off this is how you fix soccer for you want america to love soccer here's the changes you implement strict penalties around flopping and diving okay the second is you switch the off sides to reflect the nature of hockey off sides okay which is you just need to have one part of your body on sides and the rest of your body can be off sides not the opposite way and then the third is you gotta kill replay review on penalties because it's it's puts way too much um it puts the potential for it puts the potential for referee bias to absolutely kill a game like what we saw in the Norway-England game.

21:00So what I was going to say... In football, you don't review for penalties. It opens up a can of worms. Yeah, because your first instinct is what the referees need to go off of. Maybe they missed an angle. But what's going on with the biases with soccer? FIFA is consistently accused of being a corrupt organization. Okay? Yeah. Which we see when they go back and review a play. Then we see a ref kind of... Argentina is consistently amongst the highest grossing viewed games, the highest ticket sales. Everyone wants to see Messi. So viewership is going to be a lot higher if Argentina advances versus Belgium versus Egypt versus, you know, whoever.

21:52So then the refs are biased towards Messi. Argentina is getting a lot of calls. All right. And it's less the in-call games that are killing me. It's like it's the stopping the game and reviewing these penalties. There's a penalty on every fucking play. Right. Like. Who is playing tomorrow? France, Spain. So that is Taylor Swift versus. The Kardashians. The Kardashians. That's a great game. Yeah. So you're going to go. Yeah. And are you going to like wear a jersey? you gonna go for a team no i i'm there for the experience not for the game i like i care just as much about what happens from the 11 to 2 o 'clock window before the game then i do what happens like during the game like i'm there for the people i've never been to uh it's at uh where the cowboys play i've never been to that apparently it's an unbelievable stadium it is it's one of the newer ones like it was the first of its kind when they did it didn't it wasn't it Yeah, I find a lot of these newer ones like it's a it's a newer one that apparently has been done right.

22:58There's a lot of newer ones, which is like like Levi's Stadium, which I love. But like, OK, well, that's in San Francisco. I think that's going to be I was going to watch it because Harrison's going with a bunch of guys. So all the girls of the guys I was going to watch it with. But then I realized that, too, just kind of in the middle of the day. Yeah. But if it was at seven, I don't think I would go. Really? Yeah. Why? Because we're leaving at 8 a.m. We're getting there at 11 a.m. We have three hours of pregame, then 2 o 'clock game, and then I'm going to come back that night. I'm going to get to wake Bubba up, see you before I go to bed and wake Bubba up in the morning.

23:32I think it's very exciting. Yeah. I'm excited for you. I'm very glad you're going. I think it's such a fun thing to do the middle of the week. And like the World Cup once every four years, and it's in your state, so you've got to go. I just got to get my final World Cup juice out of me. Okay. Jules is bored. Move on. All right. Watching sports might be the ultimate dating litmus test. Love this. Read this beforehand. Love it. But how do I read it? Like, I know you... You can click the arrows and go to the very end. So do you see the picture? Yeah. Okay, there's arrows on the right side. Now keep clicking to the very end.

24:01Oh, my God. Those are the red flags of sports watching. I always tried to go in. Oh, damn. See there? I did it. I did it. I went into the post. Abort. Notion. But see, even at the end of the post... The red flags. Did you see it? I'm too. Okay. red flags to watch out for ready can we set this up a little bit more can we what set this up a little bit okay yeah so so the article i think what we should say what the article says or the post says i think is different than what we want to talk about which is like the red flags of watching sports with a man so if you're if you're new to dating and your guy is doing this these the article calls this out as true red flags which i think we should go through versus is like the whole yeah there's kind of like this mushy pushy pipe which i didn't read all i thought about it was like you know how they say to go on a vacation with your partner and then you learn how they really are it's like this is like kind of the early stage of that it's more accessible yes so early early on i think if a guy okay early on in a relationship i think it's a really good idea to go watch a sports game with a guy that you're dating about a team that he cares about or vice versa.

25:13I also think if the guy is just like constantly talking about sports, then it's a bit interesting for you to clock because, you know, I love sports, right? We love sports. We're very into them. But they can't affect your mood afterwards because, like, you didn't play. But that's where we're going to get. It's not a direct reflection of anything you did. All right, here we go. Red flags to watch out for when dating somebody when it pertains to sports. Number one, their mood is negatively impacted by their team losing. Can you imagine? If you came upstairs and you were like, the USA lost the World Cup, I would be like, go back down there, get it together, and come back.

25:48What's the appropriate window that you can be either happy or mad following win or loss? Five minutes. I was going to say the same thing. Okay, I was going to say 15 minutes. No, five. Enough for a drink. You didn't play. I know, but like your team won, you have another drink. Or your team lost, you have another drink. No, like you didn't play. Yeah, but we're talking a five to 15 minute window. You were just cheering for other guys playing. I'm with you. I'm fully with you. I'm fully with you. Okay? Like, you can be mad at yourself for your marathon time. You can't be, like, throwing a fit over somebody else's.

26:22Yes. Okay. Yes. To the point, I think that is it. Is your success or happiness being dictated by another person's output? And that's what I love about this is, like, if you run a marathon and you want to run sub three and a half hours, and you do 340, I think that is something that you can be upset with yourself for. You can spend the day being mad. Day or two. Yeah. All right. Number two, they respond to their team winning or losing by binge drinking or excessively partying. Okay. Now this in college, I remember if OU won a game. Hold on. We have an important caveat. If OU won a game, we were very excited.

27:02But we have an important caveat. We're talking, this is behavior north of 30. I agree. Or north of 25? 27. Okay, north of 27. Because when I was 21, that was your day. Yeah, if OU won, we were so excited. I think you should rush to field, pay the fine, go to the bars. Now, if they lost, it definitely did not ruin my day. But your 14-year-old kid, when their team wins or loses, it'll be very exciting. Yes, and as it should be. okay there are pv's don't apply to you're exempt from these number three they are annoyed if you talk or ask questions during the game that's that's being way too intense if if a guy yeah i'm i'm with you like i'm completely with you on this if if a guy in general in any capacity of life is annoyed that you are talking during anything other than a movie at a movie theater i'll accept that that's the one time where i think you're like maybe let's talk afterwards i'm good with that otherwise i think i can talk to you at any time okay if you're on a meeting if you're in a meeting yes yeah i think it's very you're watching a movie you pause the movie it's very nice yeah well number four they make fun of you for not knowing the rules oh that's a massive red flag because what if also what a cute fun dating thing that they can teach you the rules yep opportunity they bet on sports in a risky way now i will be the first to say this i love your little 50 bets you do in the middle of the game and you tell us what the odds are i call them punts yes harrison does these little punts i'm all for that because it makes the game exciting and then we learn what the odds are but like if you're betting and and here's the thing harrison's rule with betting he always bets money he expects to lose I bet for fun not to make money totally so if he bets$50 he assumes he lost the$50 sometimes he gets you know 250 back and that's exciting but it's not expected so yeah I think if somebody's betting in a way that's risky no and like if they lose the bet they're like whole day in the next day's run that's not good yeah well the the odd when it comes to betting like the odds are inherently against you and so to go into something where you are like mathematically proven to lose more than you win it's it's a bad recipe to have your expectation be any other way and especially when you look at betting platforms and how much of the profits come from a very very small percentage of the users like i think that there was just an article that came out uh on calci where 0.1 of users were uh took on north of 60 percent of of winnings on on the platform and like typically i think it's somewhere between three to five percent of bettors end up winning uh or end up up on a year wow wow that's so that's such a small percentage yeah you got to bet for fun not for and what i mean by that is like the amount of people if you start with$100 in your account end up with more than 100 not lose the hundred but three to five percent end up with more than the hundred yeah that's not that many ninety five percent end up with something generally below the hundred is is the stat that someone's just telling me about it's very important to understand like I love it I love betting I love gambling but I think it's important to room to do it under with the right motivations yeah for fun where if you lose the bed it doesn't affect you at all this is like a bigger problem that we should talk about at a later point what betting for some people?

30:44Yeah, I think that there's definitely like a dark side of betting that is developing. Well, it's addictive. It's one of the things people, I mean, you can have a gambling addiction. You know, so there's also a dark side of drinking. There's also a dark side of lots of things that are addictive behavior, drugs. Parallel has genuinely been one of my favorite pregnancy and postpartum finds, you guys. OBGYN-founded, third-party tested, and a Clean Label Project Purity Award winner. What I love the most is that parallel changes as your pregnancy changes with separate packs for trying to conceive, egg freezing, first trimester, second trimester, third trimester, postpartum, and more.

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33:00Right. Like what? Yeah. If you don't give a shit about soccer. Fine. It's still fun to cheer on America's team. Yeah. Like the whole country. And listen, soccer got pretty simple at the end. Big US soccer fan. You watched it. I did watch it. But like it was good pop culture talk for the last two months. That's how I like to have my interest in sports. There was enough going on around it. Now we've got Taylor Swift's football team. You can at least watch people get into that. There is a pop culture element happening to all sports. Okay, for the NBA finals, I was really into Ben Stiller going. He just kept going.

33:37I thought that was really fun. And Jordan Woods' purse. Jordan Woods' purse, yes. Timothy and Kylie. Was that Jordan Woods' sneaky comeback onto the scene? Yeah, for sure. A bit. Is it Carl Anthony Towns? Is that the one? I think so, yeah. Yeah. because he was a guy that had a lot of shade towards him. She was a girl with a lot of shade towards him. And so that's what I mean, is you kind of had these two people that had the shade who have now... Is she back? Yeah. Her and Kylie were undoubtedly excited to see each other. Oh, wow. Yeah. Wow. I forgot about all of that. Yeah, I really did. Or as Winnie would say, wow.

34:17Wow. On the court afterwards, after the game, I don't remember if it was one in New York, But Timothy walked over, like dabbed up Karl-Anthony, and then gave Jordan a hug, right? Yeah. And Kylie did the exact same thing. Yeah. Wow. Yeah. I'm going to, I just want to get this on the record. I think that, you know, I actually saw a clip of Tristan Thompson talking about the way the Kardashian-Genders treat you if you're in their wheelhouse at all. Yeah. And he said it starts with Kris. Like there, if you are, you know, Tristan could kind of be viewed as like, dude, come on. Like you messed around on Chloe XYZ.

34:52But when his mom was really sick, Kim called him and was like, hey, take my jet. Go see your mom. Like I want to make sure you can get to her and I want you to get to her comfortably. Like take, you know. And he was saying it starts with Chris and how if you're in their web at all, but like you are really family. I think that's cool. Even if you're not. It's really cool. It is interesting, though, like the amount of bullshit that they are prepared to accept. Like, where is their line? It just feels like it doesn't matter, like, what anyone does to anyone. Like, it's all. Oh, I see. Yeah. Like, they take a lot of trash from their partners.

35:35Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's correct. like you always want to you know be nice and be warm and be welcoming but it's just like at what point do you draw the line and stand up for yourself well maybe maybe chloe did stand up for herself by saying tristan get out but also you're the father of my kids so we're gonna treat you nice yeah i just know not the problem is this is a great example me not knowing enough about any of the situations other than it seems like that like there's a crazy amount of cheating that goes on and a lot of different baby daddies yeah but i do think the way that they treat them in the way that they stay a family is cool.

36:08For sure. For the sake of the kids. Yeah, for the sake of the kids. Yeah. Yeah, yeah. There's not a lot of petty happening. You know, I do think Kanye is out. Not a lot of petty happening in the open. He's got the boot. Has he? So then they have you on the line. Yeah. Okay, that's good. Come on. This is me talking about something I don't know. Tristan was on Chloe's podcast kind of recently, and they just talked about all the boundaries that they have. It's really interesting. They're very open about it. But like she if he wanted to stay in their kid's life, he had to get a vasectomy. And they talked about it on the pod.

36:40Like, that's a boundary. I thought that was cool. She wasn't going to have it. That is a phenomenal boundary. It's like, OK. She said you could get with whoever you want. But like, I don't we don't need more children running around. That is a power move. Yeah. No, I'm telling you, you pay close enough attention. Does he have any other kids? Yeah, he has a bunch of other kids. I don't want to say a bunch, but he has a handful of other kids, I believe. did you see nick cannon clip he stitched somebody talking about him and she was like uh oh it was hannah burner she was like nick cannon you know he's got 11 baby mamas he's like 12 it was so funny and i didn't watch the rest of the clip but i thought his 12 was really funny he was just a little correction the other thing that we've never talked about on here that i think i've put on programming a couple times is like they also had embryos on ice and he signed over the rights to the embryos to her and like that's apparently like the newest thing in prenups and in divorces is who's getting the rights to the embryos it's really interesting yes because in the show that kim's the lawyer in what's that show um and remind me the embryo is the fertilized is the fertilized egg and sperm correct yes so if she so she could in theory so she could have another kid he would be the father from a dna perspective but when it comes to actual day-to-day like upbringing she is the mom and he has no responsibility he has no parental rights parental rights thank you um all's fair is the name yes all's fair they they had this embryo um kind of war happening yeah apparently it's just like the newest i don't know what element to divorce and prenups as well and you know it's very interesting because Because we didn't used to have them, but they're one of the most significant properties, probably.

38:36So that's crazy. So she could have another kid. He would biologically be the dad, but he has no parental rights. Correct. But they clearly have a good enough relationship where he's coming on the pod. Yeah. He can come by if he wants, it appears. I just think it's interesting outside of them. Yeah. Yeah. You know what? I will do everything in my human power to keep this unit happy and together. What, are you family in it? Yeah. Same. That's when I hear about co-parenting. It's like I understand it happens a lot. People do a really good job at it. People do it really well, but I want to put as much humanly love and energy and effort into us not going down that path.

39:23And that's why we talk a lot about our priorities and what's important to us. Just so everyone knows, a lot of internal conversations we have. Also, we have the moments where Harrison says, talk to me about Europe. And I say, okay, we're going to go next summer. And he's like, or we could do Paris in August. And I'm like, no, we can't. That's a day in my life. Apparently there's a direct flight now. Don't tell us that. That's what all the commenters are telling me. well we cannot go the hack I figured out oh but Tayden Paris would be cute but I figured out a bit of a hack on how to get there best how we gotta connect in New York connecting in New York makes life 20 times easier Bubba does not want to be on a plane for this long she just doesn't she really doesn't but I would really have fun unpacking her for her Paris outfit.

40:21Bubber in Paris? She could go on the boat. We could teach her Eiffel Tower. She would love the Eiffel Tower. Oh, I have a thing that you did to me that I did to you that I don't know if I ever told you. What, you've never been to the Eiffel Tower? No. Remember how you went to the museum? I went outside. You went to the Louvre. You took a photo of it. No, not the Louvre. The other one. The Pompidou. The Pompidou? The Pompidou. Okay. Well, you know that boat tour I told you to go on? Yes. Yeah, I never went on that. Wow. Yeah, that was a recommendation from Amber. Well, I don't know who Amber is, but.