Why Is Meta In Crisis?; Google Search Is Over; AI Gets Booed by Graduates

21 May 2026 · 40 min · 13 chapters

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In short

Wired’s Uncanny Valley discusses Meta’s crisis (mass layoffs plus intrusive AI monitoring), Google Search’s shift toward conversational and agentic search, public backlash to AI from graduates, and how AI obsession is straining some marriages.

Guests

Alessandra Ram (Wired contributor; reported on “sad wives of AI” in Bay Area tech households; interviewed postpartum-therapy clients and couples affected by AI work obsession). Hosts are Zoe Schiffer, Brian Barrett, and Leah Figer (Wired staff).

Key claims

Meta cut ~10% of staff (~8,000) while pushing employees to use AI; employees can’t opt out of laptop spyware used to train internal AI; remaining staff are “drafted” into AI teams. Google I/O previewed AI-driven search that increasingly replaces links with chat/graphics and adds agentic monitoring (e.g., celebrity shoe-collab alerts). Graduates booed Eric Schmidt and real estate exec Gloria Caulfield for pro-AI commencement remarks; Gen Z AI hope fell (Gallup: 27% to 18% for ages 14–29). Women married to AI “bros” report emotional unavailability and household disruption.

Notable examples

Meta keystroke/cursor monitoring; “raptured” into AI ranks; Google Gemini Spark (autonomous assistant with access to Gmail/calendar/search); Schmidt booing at University of Arizona; Caulfield booing at UCF; Gallup stats; entry-level job postings down ~35% since Jan 2023.

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Meta's Crisis: Layoffs and Morale

2:26 to 3:23

Discussion on mass layoffs at Meta and their impact on employee morale.

“Today on the show, we're discussing the complete meltdown over mass layoffs at Meta.”

Internal Changes and AI Adoption at Meta

3:23 to 8:01

Exploration of how AI integration affects remaining employees at Meta.

“So first up, let's dive into what is happening at Meta.”

Job Replacement and AI's Impact

8:01 to 10:29

Analyzing AI's role in job loss and the future of employment.

“Yeah, and there seems to be sort of a little bit, I think in our reporting has shown a little bit of like mission drift within the company, right?”

Elon Musk vs. OpenAI: Legal Battle Insights

10:29 to 14:05

Insights into the lawsuit Musk filed against OpenAI and its implications.

“Or are we just going to see hiring just stagnant across the board?”

Analysis of Elon Musk and OpenAI's Future

14:05 to 15:28

Exploring the implications of Musk's influence on OpenAI and its IPO prospects.

“I was editing the pre-writes and Paresh DeVay, one of our great reporters, had written three versions.”

Debate on Google I.O. and Search Evolution

15:29 to 19:28

Discussing the significance of Google I.O. and the transformation of the search engine.

“Everyone's using a fancy butt cushion on those rock hard seats.”

The Rise of AI Agents and Their Impact

19:29 to 23:48

Examining how AI agents are changing the way we interact with the web.

“A really important moment to say, please subscribe to Wired.com.”

Public Reception of AI at Graduation Ceremonies

23:49 to 27:04

Analyzing the backlash against AI discussed by executives at graduation events.

“Well, speaking of the major AI players, I think that we all know that the reputation of AI in the public eye has taken a little bit of a nosedive, which I personally love.”

Generational Discontent Towards AI

27:05 to 28:00

Discussing the sentiments of Gen Z towards AI and its impact on their job prospects.

“But like you said, they're pissed because they are graduating into a job market where people aren't hiring.”

The Impact of AI on Gen Z's Mental Health

28:00 to 30:25

Explore statistical insights into Gen Z's perception of AI and job market trends.

“You're telling me a billionaire wasn't self-aware about the people?”
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The Emotional Toll of AI on Family Life

32:32 to 38:34

Discussion on how AI obsession impacts family dynamics and relationships.

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Historical Context of Tech Booms

38:35 to 42:00

Understand how the current AI boom compares to past technological revolutions.

“So people are losing their jobs or they're trying to get these jobs.”

The Importance of Being Present in an AI World

42:00 to 43:58

Discussion on the need to focus on relationships and the present moment despite AI advances.

“And I guess more broadly, what would you like for AI obsessed husbands or bros to take away from it?”
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1:55That's P-R-O-T-O-N-V-P-N dot com slash uncanny for 70 % off your two-year plan. That's ProtonVPN.com slash uncanny. Welcome to Wired's Uncanny Valley. I'm Zoe Schiffer, Director of Business and Industry. I'm Brian Barrett, Executive Editor. And I'm Leah Figer, Director of Politics and Science. And we're all in the same room. Oh my gosh! For the first time. Same room! I got invited to the group chat. You did. Look at that. Today on the show, we're discussing the complete meltdown over mass layoffs at Meta. We spoke to more than a dozen employees, and it turns out the job cuts are far from the only reason why Meta employees are really going through it.

2:39And of course, we wouldn't skip the Elon Musk verdict. He lost his lawsuit against Sam Altman and OpenAI. in really as full a way as you can, as dramatically as possible. I know, Zoe, you're looking forward to talking about that. And I'm looking forward to talking about Google's annual developer conference, I.O., where it debuted some dramatic changes to search. And you might have seen that Google's former CEO, Eric Schmidt, recently got booed by graduating students after he praised AI in a commencement speech. We're going to get into why young adults might be using AI, but they have very complicated feelings about it.

3:14And later in the show, we're going to hear about why women married to AI bros have had enough.

3:23So first up, let's dive into what is happening at Meta. This week, the company is letting go of roughly 10 % of its workforce, which is about 8 ,000 employees total. It's the latest round of job cuts, adding to the roughly 25 ,000 jobs that have been cut in the past few years as part of Mark Zuckerberg's kind of year of efficiency that started in 2023 and now the latest AI forward workplace, which he is trying to develop and impose. And while these latest cuts are not as big as some of the rounds of layoffs that have already happened, they're getting a ton of attention because Mark Zuckerberg, the CEO, has said that the reason they're happening, in part at least, in large part, is because the company is spending so much money on AI and data centers.

4:12So we record this on a Tuesday. But the reason we're able to talk so fully about this, constantly about this, is because Meta announced this a while ago. Oh, yeah. They didn't announce it. The news leaked. But then they acknowledged it. Weeks and weeks later. Yes. But still, it's been a long time that this has been out in the open, which has resulted in, I think, a little bit of chaos time inside of Meta because you've got like a what? A one in 10 chance of not having your job anymore? Yeah. It's, I mean, suffice to say, impacting morale in really horrific ways. But it's not the only thing. Like we said, Mark Zuckerberg is also really encouraging.

4:51employees to use AI. There've been all of these changes internally to that end. Some people really like it and are adopting it. Some people are really pushing back on it. But I think for a lot of employees who joined Meta during this era of like endless perks, lots of job security, kind of like a chiller atmosphere compared to some of the other startups in the Valley. Rest and vest. They had that going for a while. I mean, kind of. It wasn't full Google, but I feel like it was somewhat there. I think to me, someone so on the outside of this in every single way, I know about these layoffs because they've been A, so chaotic, but B, in some ways like needlessly so.

5:29I'm not to say that like other tech companies aren't firing scores of workers all the time. That feels like something we discuss on this podcast frequently. But this is happening with such a large runway and in a way that's making employees feel so terrible about themselves. Well, because it's not just the layoffs, right? It's also even if you stay there, if you're not culled from the herd, you are going to have to deal with this world in which you've got spyware on your laptops. Wow. Training AI to probably take your job at some point, right? I mean, explain that a little bit. So they announced, Meta announced, and this was more public, that they were going to put software on employee laptops that would monitor like their keystrokes and how they move their cursors and basically how they do their job as meta engineers and use that as training data for their own internal models to try to make their AI models better because they're running out of other sources.

6:22Could you opt out of that, Brian? You could not. Absolutely. That's a great question. I'm so glad you asked. You could not opt out. I felt like you didn't know the answer to that one. In fact, when an employee asked in a very public forum within Meta, hey, could we not do this? Zoe, the response was? Oh, absolutely. You're going to do this. And shame on you for asking. Yeah, how dare you? And some of the employees who are staying, actually thousands of the employees who are staying, are getting drafted into the AI ranks. We published a piece today that was kind of about the morale inside the company, but also how there's been this mad dash to use up perks and stipends that employees have.

6:56But one of the things that said at the end was that remaining employees are being asked to like join AI teams. So whatever your job was previously, they're calling internally like getting drafted. You're getting drafted into the AI ranks. Now your job is going to look quite different. That's like 7 ,000 people. I've actually heard people use the word raptured. Oh, yeah. Isn't that? And I wish we had that in the story. I'm so sorry. But like raptured into other teams. All of a sudden, one day they've just disappeared. After this, after this layoff, has Zuckerberg & Co. proposed like a sort of coherent leadership plan or proposal?

7:28Like what happens after this? This is the confusing thing, according to employees I have talked to, because the tough thing about what's happening right now is that Meta is actually experiencing record or near record profits and revenue growth. Like the company is doing exceptionally well, but the company is not doing exceptionally well because of artificial intelligence. I talk to employees who are on Instagram and they say, look, our main competitor is TikTok. TikTok's not an AI company. So in fact, you're trying to index on this thing that's really not at all why we're printing money. And now you're laying a bunch of us off because of that thing, when actually we're doing our jobs quite well because again, the company's printing money.

8:03Yeah, and there seems to be sort of a little bit, I think in our reporting has shown a little bit of like mission drift within the company, right? And you've seen that not just with AI. You've seen that, I think for a long time when you see this$80 billion bet or whatever it was on the metaverse and then saying, oh, nevermind, here's this new shiny thing. AI is not another metaverse. AI, I think, has a better business case behind it. But at the same time, to your point, it's not right now. It's not making money. No, and I talked to two people who were like personally recruited by Mark Zuckerberg to join the kind of very fancy AI effort.

8:35And both of them said, look, the vision was AI-generated slop for Instagram and the other meta properties. Like it just wasn't uninspiring. Meanwhile, you have OpenAI and Anthropic, you know, not to say they've done it, but their mission is we're going to completely change the economy and cure cancer. As opposed to make your grandmother's feed the most destructive sign you can ever see. So people are just like not inspired. And even Meta has acknowledged that 10 %-ish of its ad revenue comes from scams. They're like, yes, we know there are scams. We know we make a lot of money off them. And, you know, there's a presumed like we're on it, but not enough probably.

9:12And we're seeing layoffs or announcements of layoffs in a lot of places, right? Like Microsoft, Coinbase, Cisco announced it was laying off like 4 ,000 employees. Is this the spring of layoffs? What are we looking at here? Yeah, I think it's the same conversation, I think, that is evolving a little bit where a lot of times it's cover for having overhired. But increasingly, I think, so you've made this point, it actually is getting to be the point where AI can replace some engineers or not entirely, but at least you can have like a couple of engineers overseeing some agentic AI is as or more effective than 50 engineers.

9:46I have talked to a ton of people about this. And my opinion, which I'm open to evolving over time, is that if you have really talented, high-level engineers, they can manage agents that will do the work of lower-level engineers. And so what you're losing out on is like the entry-level jobs. And we're seeing that in studies. So when we look at job loss and AI job replacement, What's happening is that entry-level jobs are being replaced by artificial intelligence. I feel like you have evolved on this in some ways. Like over the time that we've been talking about this, you really went from like, no, people aren't losing their jobs yet.

10:19We're now in like, this is starting to happen, as Brian said. What's the next stage of this? Just like tons more layoffs. Is this going to happen in a bigger, faster way? Or are we just going to see hiring just stagnant across the board? You know, it's interesting. Brian brought up Google I.O., which I am reluctant to talk about. This is crazy to me. Go ahead. We'll get there. It is. We'll get there. Temes Asabes talked to Will Knight, one of our reporters today, and he said, I don't think that we should be having layoffs. I think that AI should create more productivity and we should be doing more.

10:49And so I think you're going to see companies that are like, yeah, we can do even more than we could previously. We're just going to do more things, build more things, ship more product. But then I think you are going to see a lot of companies that say, we can build and run Shopify with a handful of engineers, not the team of hundreds that we had previously. That's just an example. Speaking of ways in which AI companies grow and change, Elon Musk officially lost his lawsuit to Sam Altman and OpenAI this week. Such a special moment. It was. It was a special moment to get people caught up a little bit who have not been tracking this as obsessively as I know Zoe has and as Leah has too.

11:23Elon Musk had sued over claims that OpenAI illegally abandoned its nonprofit mission and turned into this for-profit giant. It took a jury slightly less than two hours to say, no, go away. But it was interesting, too. The reason that they said that, they didn't even bother dealing with the merits. The statute of limitations had expired on this, basically. And they said, you cannot, it's too late to bring this. If you would want to do this, you should have done this a while ago. And even beyond the statute of limitations, maybe you have more credibility if you're doing this before you are building your own giant competitor to open AI and have such a clear monetary.

12:00interest beyond whatever like compensation you get from the trial. When the decision was released on Monday, Judge Yvonne Gonzalez Rogers said that in her eyes, the trial had been worthwhile to bring clarity to the dispute and that there was, quote, a substantial amount of evidence to support the jury's findings, which is why I was prepared to accept the jury's findings and dismiss on the spot. Right. Which, just to clarify, the jury decision was only one step. We needed the judge to also make their own determination, which happened almost immediately. I was talking to someone about this yesterday, and I think that Elon Musk was trying to make the case that the clock should only have started when he realized there was a breach of the trust, basically, when he realized that OpenAI was no longer a nonprofit.

12:45And he was allowed to, like, make that case in court. I do think a lot of people were confused on this point because they were like, a statute of limitations thing seems like something he could have been told before. But I think you are allowed to argue the point. But this is why the entire trial we were like, He has to make a very compelling argument that he didn't find out that OpenAI was starting this for-profit until 2023. And that's just, the evidence did not back it up. No, I think I also should say, to no one's surprise, Elon Musk is going to appeal or says he's going to appeal. He does have infinite money.

13:20Mark Toberop had one word, one word leaving that courtroom, Elon Musk's lawyer. He just said, appeal. Yeah. He also unsurprisingly posted about it on X, saying of the judge, she just handed out a free license to loot charities if you can keep the looting quiet for a few years. I like that he called her an activist judge. I think that that has taken on like a new realm of popularity in the Trump era of like determining that these judges and this like very specific branch of the government is in fact acting against one's best interest. And again, there were emails where Elon Musk was very aware that they were starting a for-profit arm of the company, that they needed to do that to raise money.

13:58He even tried to start an AI lab within Tesla that he wanted to recruit Sam Altman to join. And then he wanted Tesla, a for-profit company famously, to buy open AI or like acquire it. I was editing the pre-writes and Paresh DeVay, one of our great reporters, had written three versions. And the first version I edited was like, Elon Musk wins. And I was just like, there's no way this person has ever seen the light of day. You didn't need to write that. What does this mean going forward for OpenAI? You know, it's interesting. I actually think it gives them a lot of momentum. And now they're going to like go full speed ahead.

14:31I do think the image of OpenAI and Sam Altman in particular has been a bit tarnished throughout this trial. It came on the heels of like a series of reporting about his allegedly duplicitous behavior. And I don't think he looks necessarily better coming out of the trial. But I think the company, you know, is really bullish on its IPO, which could come as soon as this year. Like it's full steam ahead on enterprise code, which is kind of the phrase of Silicon Valley right now. And so I think people are feeling really, really good over there. I do think that to your point about this was also a trial in the court of public opinion, right?

15:06A lot of this was trying to like embarrass the opponent. But it was just a mud fight where everybody got dirty, right? Nobody came out of this looking great. Nobody came out of this. I don't think anyone changed anybody's minds about, oh, no, you should be entrusted with the future of this, like, powerful technology. The maker of butt pillows for courtrooms. They're the real winners. That was a fantastic. Rambant butt pillow usage in the courtroom by – and different brands of butt pillow, too. Different brands of butt pillow. Yeah, fancy ones, cheaper ones. Everyone's using a fancy butt cushion on those rock hard seats.

15:42Yeah, I mean, I think Elon Musk is a very litigious figure. I think he is willing to roll the dice and try for a lawsuit on the off chance that it could be successful. But I also think he knew that, and he said this in text messages that were revealed as part of the trial when, you know, there was settlement conversations before it started. And he said, you being Sam Altman and Greg Brockman are going to be, you know, the most hated men in America by the end of this. And I think that was partially his intent, at least we think. I'm about to be the most hated man on this podcast. So ready. Couldn't be more ready.

16:16Because, and I don't know why this was contentious. I'm genuinely baffled. So, again, we're recording this on Tuesday. Google had its I.O. conference. It's its big developer conference every year. And when we started playing with this podcast, I said, hey, we should probably talk about Google I.O. And you both said, oh, my God, yes, we love Google I.O. Strongly disagreed. I acted like I had a head growing out of my neck, a second head growing out of my neck, like I was suggesting the most insane thing in the world. Before we talk about Google I.O., why? Why? I have my own reasons. I'm curious what Zoe's are.

16:52Yeah, it's boring. Okay. Okay, good. Okay. Yes, moving on. I feel funky sometimes when we're being spoon-fed news by these tech companies or by the U.S. government or by whatever entity we're reporting on, which isn't to say that reporting on these very important changes to, I don't know, the world's largest and most impactful and powerful search engine isn't entirely valuable. But is it something that I want to speak about in this sacred space of the podcast? I guess what I would say is, as with anything, we don't transcribe what they say at these events. We put them in proper context and do the reporting to back it up.

17:31We have a great team of gear reporters who do phenomenal work and did phenomenal work today. Without a doubt, in full love and support of them. So I appreciate where you're coming from, but you're both wrong. Wow. And he's our boss, so we're going to say. Here's why. Google search is changing more than it ever has. Okay. They are, think of search now instead of as a search box. It's been drifting this way. Like it's no longer 10 links, but it's not even like even one link now. Google search is now like basically a chat bot. Like it's a conversational query. Like it'll expand where you put in like, what do you, you know, hey, what do you think Google's?

18:09Should I do this? Whatever. And it'll not just show you sort of text necessarily. It'll also show you an interactive graphic that it just cooked up. It'll show you different, like it'll, instead of saying, I want to go to Google Images for this. It'll be like, here's your images. And also, here's this. That's phase one. Phase two is going to be agentic search. So that means you go to Google and you say, hey, let me know. The example they gave was something to the effect of, let me know when my favorite celebrities are dropping new shoe collabs. And that's it. And you're done. Google agents will then, AI agents, will then monitor the web for you.

18:46They will do the searching for you. And they will send you a notification through your Google app that says, hey, this thing just dropped that you're looking for. The idea is not only that you're not going to visit websites anymore because it's all going to be within Google, you're not going to search anymore. You're not going to use the internet anymore because agents are going to do it for you. Google is going to mediate every interaction you have with the web. It's a really, really significant change. And I think it's one that is definitely worth talking about. What does it mean for us? What does it mean for Wired.com?

19:19Not good? Okay. But I think we and other publishers have sort of been assuming that we can't rely on Google for a while now. That's why a direct relationship with our audience is so important, and we sort of invest in different things along those lines. A really important moment to say, please subscribe to Wired.com. Please subscribe to Wired.com. Please go to—you can mark Wired as a preferred source in Google, all those things. But I think everybody's sort of embracing for this moment. It's just—it feels more like it's here than it has in a while because there's sort of this general AI overviews.

19:49But no, now AI Review is the whole thing. Yeah. And again, like you said, we've known that Google was headed in this direction. But I do think it's a really interesting moment for the company because search is such a big part of its business model. And ads on search are such a big part of its business model. And so it feels a little bit like it's cannibalizing itself while at the same time preparing for a new future. Like I'm curious. I mean, I assume there'll be stuffing ads in this thing and that will be how they make money. But like you would imagine that they're also going to take an interim hit.

20:21I mean, the branding of it aside of like what that's going to look like, what your search experience is going forward. I have to assume there's going to be at least like some teething issues there. Yeah, I'm sure. I think that in the same way that a lot of people don't love AI overviews and have been begging for a way to turn it off and haven't really had an easy way to do it. I think that's going to be the same thing. But there's also not much you can do about it. Google's very clearly committed to this. It's clearly how they want the web to work. What I worry about even more than that, like Google's bottom line, is something, again, it's the sort of same themes but accelerated.

20:54The idea that once you sort of stop going to websites and once you stop, once it's only agents, only bots are visiting websites, you're choking off the supply of information, right? You are, you know, smaller publishers. Well, you're going to run out at some point. Exactly. So, you, like, the web itself kind of shriveled up into a Google-shaped hole. Mm-hmm. Yeah, I know. No, I feel like Sam Altman has been asked about this recently. Like, what happens to publishers in this world? And the answer is like micropayments. And I'm like, look, our industry is not going to be held up by like 10 cents or even, you know, point.

21:27I don't know what it's going to be. Every six years, someone decides micropayments are going to save journalism. Every time I hear that, I see red. I talk to people in the industry. They'll say like, you know, that's the future. And also, I loved that this like, you know, 6 ,000 word story you did on like the sand that makes the iPhone or whatever. And I'm like, guess how much that story cost to report? Like just the payment to the freelancer. Like it's thousands. I'm going to pull this back from implications for us and focus again on the broader implications. Because there's one other part. There were a lot of announcements today.

22:02Search to me was the biggest one. I'll say, too, like Google has announced big changes before and then like not actually gotten there and not gotten aware in the way that they initially proposed. So there's a little bit of an asterisk next to a lot of this. I think it's probably mostly coming, though. But they also announced something called Gemini Spark, which I just want to talk about very briefly. Gemini Spark is Google's answer to OpenClaw. We remember OpenClaw. We had fun with OpenClaw. Yeah, definitely. Delightful. OpenClaw, a little agent that can sort of just like run autonomously, has access to all your stuff.

22:31Yeah. Gemini Spark is Google's answer to OpenClaw. It's the same sort of autonomous assistant that can do all the things. But because it's Google, it has access to everything that you do on Google or any app that you tie in. So you can see how that becomes really powerful and a real sort of, you know, OpenClaw is already kind of a privacy question mark. This even more so. It's like you have it, give it access to your Gmail, give it access to your calendar, give it access to like everything that you touch online, all of your entire search history. and just say, hey, go do this. Remind me of this.

23:03Do that. I couldn't be less interested in a product. We know. But here's the thing. I agree. It's not for me, but it's the kind of thing where this is going to be presented eventually to billions of people, right? The scale is the thing who don't necessarily know or understand or appreciate, not talking down to anybody, but this is the way in which this thing will have access to your stuff, can go wrong potentially. I would say that OpenClaw was kind of a one-man project. Like the founder is now part of OpenAI, but this was kind of a bootleg kind of experiment. I would imagine that when Google does it, they're implementing more safety cards.

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23:42I'm not saying it's nothing. I'm sure the security team— Fingers crossed up and down the line. But I would expect that if they're rolling it out to millions or billions of people that we were going to see some additional checks and balances. Probably. Here's to hoping. Well, speaking of the major AI players, I think that we all know that the reputation of AI in the public eye has taken a little bit of a nosedive, which I personally love. I am loving the backlash. Yeah, Leah's personally behind it. Yes, exactly. Dark money, Leah better. Every single little story and comment warms my AI Grinch heart.

24:17And we're continuing to see reports of people really not happy about data centers being built near their homes to power all of this AI, raising their electricity bill while at it. And then there's the effect of AI in an increasingly tough workplace. We were just talking about the metal layoffs, et cetera. So it's not probably a huge surprise to everyone here that last week when former Google CEO Eric Schmidt took to the podium to speak to the graduating class at the University of Arizona, he brought up AI. and things didn't go particularly well. It will touch every profession, every classroom, every hospital, every laboratory, every person, and every relationship you have.

24:57I know what many of you are feeling about that. I can hear you. There is a fear...

25:08There is a fear in your generation is that the future has already been written, that the machines are coming. And I understand that fear. And Schmidt's not even the only speaker who has received this kind of response from graduating students, the very people who are supposedly wholeheartedly embracing this technology. Real estate executive Gloria Caulfield was also booed after she referred to AI as the next industrial revolution during a commencement address at the University of Central Florida. The rise of artificial intelligence is the next industrial revolution. Oh, whoa.

25:55What happened? Okay, I struck a chord. I am just beaming, you guys. How can you, I, sorry, I suffer from secondhand embarrassment and can't handle it. These are high-profile, wealthy executives who are entirely insulated, them, their families, their children, their grandchildren, from the effects of AI now and future on the workplace. These people are not concerned about AI taking their jobs. These people are not graduating into a market where everyone's going, I don't need an assistant. Have you heard of OpenClaw? Of course everyone's flipping out at them. There is an entire category of our population that doesn't know how they're going to get work experience to all of a sudden not be considered irrelevant by our tech overlords.

26:42Of course, they're booing. Here's the thing. I think there's an argument, don't boo me, that they're not wrong that this could be the next industrial revolution. But it's sort of like saying, so get ready to head into those factories, right? Like it's the wrong message to the wrong set of people. It's the wrong tone, I would say. Definitely the wrong tone. What's interesting about this to me is that we know college students are using AI. But like you said, they're pissed because they are graduating into a job market where people aren't hiring. And there's a couple reasons for that. Like, I don't think it's just that AI is already taking a trail of jobs.

27:17It's happening on some level, but not super, super widespread quite yet. It's also that people aren't leaving jobs because they're scared. And so there's just not a lot of movement in the market right now. It's a fantastic market, and you're looking at the Iran war, and you're looking at rising gas prices. People aren't changing things up during an election year historically. There's so many reasons for that. So these people are graduating into a market that I do not envy them for so many reasons. To me, I'm a little bit like, I guess there's two parts to this. I'm very much confused as to why both Schmidt and Caulfield thought that this was like the appropriate message, but also even, as Zoe said, the appropriate tact.

27:54Like, I'm kind of wondering if it's like in this beautiful world of changing technologies, you can go out and create changing technologies. The world is your oyster. You're telling me a billionaire wasn't self-aware about the people? Kill me. Madness. There's actual statistics, I'll say, behind just how bad Gen Z feels about AI. A recent study from Gallup showed the percentage of respondents ages 14 to 29 who said they felt hopeful about AI declined down from 27 percent last year to 18 percent. Wow. That's very, very, very few people. Yeah. And postings for entry level jobs in the U.S. overall have declined about 35 percent since January 2023.

28:36So it's real. I mean, there is an impact on the market. I mean, I actually think that this is going to be an issue in the next election, which is so interesting because I definitely wouldn't have said that a few months ago. But I think, I mean, and this is, you know, Maxwell Zaf, one of our great AI reporters, has reported about Greg Brockman's donations to Trump and other MAGA leaders. And he's talked to Greg Brockman, president of OpenAI, who said that he feels like it's really important to give money to politicians who are bullish on AI. And I think the subtext there is that OpenAI and other companies are actually concerned about the lack of popularity for what they're building.

29:13Quick thing on Greg Brockman, I think we should mention, too, he is putting he is literally putting his money where his mouth is. He donated twenty five million dollars to MAGA Inc., which is the big Trump super PAC. There's real money in here in the pro database side. There's less on the anti database side as these things tend to go. But it is like across party lines. The opposition is really interesting. You've got Democrats, you've got Republicans pushing back in a way that is going to make for some weird coalitions. It's going to be really interesting because I went down to Abilene, Texas with OpenAI a few months ago.

29:44And I was really struck. Ted Cruz was there. The like mayor of the town was there. Like it seemed like there was so much political support for this initiative. And I was immediately thinking like, I think that this is going to turn at a certain point. Like right now you're like, look, it's going to create all these jobs. It's going to be so great. We're going into these areas that didn't have a lot of economic opportunity and we're creating it. But the thing about data centers is not only do they spike the water bills of the people who live close by, energy bill, all of that. But even if they create a certain amount of jobs at the beginning, and many of those jobs are being brought in from other states, like you don't need that many people to run a data center once it's up.

30:21So lots of fun happening at the moment with AI World. Coming up after the break, we're going to dive into a fascinating story about why women in marriages to men obsessed with AI have just about had enough.

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33:03And I hope you'll join us for The New Yorker Radio Hour. So beyond the ever-increasing spending on AI, the latest releases, the suspected IPOs, yada yada, there is also a more personal and strange side effect to the AI boom right now. What it is doing to family dynamics, particularly what it's doing to the wives of men who work in AI or would like to be working in AI. specifically the fact that these women are completely sick and tired of the whole damn thing. Wired contributor Alessandra Ram reported on how AI has taken over some women's home lives, and she's joining us now to talk about that piece.

33:46Hi, everyone. I'm excited to chat with you. Hello. Hey, so happy you're here. I absolutely loved this piece. I laughed out loud multiple times. You refer to women who are married to AI-pilled men as the, quote, sad wives of AI, and you include yourself in that group. So what do you all have in common? What do you share? And when did you first realize that this was not just something you were experiencing in your personal life, but was actually a pattern? The sad wives of AI are a sort of symptom of the AI tech boom, especially here in the Bay Area. And I noticed this because it was happening in my own life, in my own house.

34:30So I recently had a baby, so I've been home a lot more. And my husband has taken on a very intense job where he's building AI for his company. So, you know, unfortunately, he married a journalist. So I'm just noticing and studying things and thinking about, you know, if there's anything here to write about, because it started to really affect the dynamics of the household. He was totally consumed by building this AI tool at this company where the demands just seemed out of control. He's up all hours of the night. I'm up all hours of the night with the baby. So it was just like there was this tension in the house and he was increasingly obsessed.

35:18And I was just sort of like pulling back less interested in what he was doing because I have to focus on everything else. Right. Right. So I started noticing that this was also happening to friends of mine. You know, I live here in the Bay Area. A lot of people work in tech. And in my friend group, most of those people are actually the male partners, if we're talking about, you know, heterosexual relationships, which I did for the purposes of this piece. And some of those men work in AI or are trying to work in an AI. And they sort of described the same thing that I was experiencing each day and night, just like this sort of obsession, you know, even just like this passion, they would say about Claude Code and every iteration of Claude Code, which as we know is every week, just the excitement and sort of like my friends are like dying inside a little bit, right?

36:18Every week was their Super Bowl. Yeah. I loved how you framed it in the article of like, we both have a baby to take care of. Mine is our literal human child and his is an AI tool. We're both passionate about it, let me tell you. And, you know, I noticed because it was happening to myself, but also friends and then friends of friends, culminating in really when I spoke to my therapist, she had to sort of interrupt me during the session because she was like, Oh, what does your partner do again? And, you know, I was like, well, you know, he's, he's an AI, he's building an AI tool for his company.

36:54And she was like, oh, this is, this is a phenomenon. Actually, she used the word phenomenon that she's, she's based here in the Bay Area. So a lot of her clients, you know, she has kind of a very specific clientele where it's, it's a postpartum therapist. So she works with women that are pregnant or postpartum. And of course, they're going through kind of this emotional rollercoaster themselves, but the majority of them are partnered with people in tech and particularly that work in AI or adjacent to AI is how she explained it to me. And she's just said it's causing them to be emotionally, mentally unavailable because they're totally consumed by what they're doing at work.

37:35One thing you mentioned, Alessandra, in this story that I thought was also I hadn't thought through all the way, but like it's not just people who are sort of being obsessed with this AI world and getting caught up in it. It's also people who've kind of washed out or not been able to get in and who are disappointed and feel like they failed in some way. So there's emotional labor that goes with that along with the sort of actual literal labor that goes along with, you know, when they're working long hours. How endemic does that feel at this point? That's sort of just, you know, the many ways that people have to deal with this.

38:06Right. That's a good point. And I think, you know, some people like I've seen some comments that this is maybe like told from a more privileged perspective. But really, like this is actually if you're living here in the Bay Area, like I think I can see that this is affecting people across kind of the economic spectrum. People and even like students, right, that are graduating or trying to get a job. And it's a very terrible job market. It's very volatile. So is AI. Actually, the AI industry is very volatile. So people are losing their jobs or they're trying to get these jobs. And it's very competitive because there's supposed to be high salaries and it's supposed to be sort of the unlock to economic success.

38:50So that's causing a lot of stress on people, on marriages, on families when one person, say, for example, loses their job or is desperately trying to get a job in AI because they think that that's, you know, going to help them financially or, you know, make them rich, to be honest. That's also another component here. Right. That was the two-part thing that I was thinking about when I was reading it, which is on one level, there are people who are just so excited about the technological innovations and just really nerd out on the releases, like you said. Like, there's a new model. It's so cool.

39:27You can do all these things. You feel like you're using agents and suddenly you have superpowers. But then there's also this factor, and I also live in the Bay Area, so I see this a lot, where, like, a not small number of people have made generational wealth in the last six years. And I think the idea that like, you know, someone who just happened to get in early to one of the labs, obviously, it may be very smart, whatever, but like is now a multi-multi-millionaire and like that could be me. I think that idea feels pretty pervasive, particularly if you're like an engineer of any sort. Yeah, it's FOMO.

39:59Yeah, exactly. And I think kind of to take this into like a more historical lens a little bit, you know, you spoke with an expert that told you that this is all really a continuation of how tech booms have happened in the past, right? Whether it's the industrial revolution or the dot-com boom. And mainstream figures around these movements have really often been white men, whether that's Steve Jobs, Larry Page, Tim Cook. And so they're the ones that are reaping most of the benefits here. How would you say that the AI boom compares? What did you find in your reporting? Well, it's really interesting because when I spoke with the professor at Rutgers who really took me through sort of these iterations of the tech boom, which kind of a lot of this stuff happened in California, right?

40:41The gold rush, the dot-com, and now here we are with the AI boom. This feels bigger, is what she said. And it's sort of when I spoke with multiple people, that's kind of where everyone landed, is that this actually just feels even more seismic. And maybe it could also be like the messaging that everybody is receiving, probably from these AI companies that have these sort of enormous evaluations that we all have to adopt this technology or we're all going to just completely combust. lost so what was interesting here is that then so for example you're in a family unit there's one person this happened in the gold rush to you know like they go off west and that's usually the man right to sort of find his fortune leaving the family behind and that's kind of what we're seeing here with this new iteration of a boom right is that someone else is leaving the household whether maybe they're still working remotely at home, so they're in the household, but they're technically, mentally, they're checked out, right?

41:47They are sole, they're focused, they're tunnel visioned on this sort of quest to make it here. I have to ask, has anything changed in your own relationship since you embarked upon this reporting? And I guess more broadly, what would you like for AI obsessed husbands or bros to take away from it? You know, I think it's to be just present in the moment. I think we're like looking really far into the future. People are obviously getting excited. People are getting, people are afraid because again, this messaging that we have to adopt or die. But I think like myself included, like I think we just all need to be a little bit more present, even though it feels right now like things are really hard, especially.

42:34It's hard to be present. You kind of want to escape. But I think that relationships are the most important thing in our lives, right? Community and relationships. So I think not to lose sight of that. I will say in my own household, my husband knew I was writing this article and I think he was just sort of genuinely curious what I was going to say. I don't think he thought I was going to hold back at all. But now he's probably just excited that I am talking about AI more. So there's actually more things for us to talk about. He's like, there's an upside here. Incredible. Yeah. But I have noticed he has been, since this came out, which was I think not even a week ago, he has been helping around the house more without being asked.

43:27Accountability journalism, baby. We love to see it. Yeah. So that's a lesson here. Just maybe write something for a national magazine and, you know, somebody's going to Yeah, just do that. It's going to help. Change things in your own life. I mean, I saw him last night washing the dishes without being asked. And I think he might have been listening to a podcast about AI or the Knicks. Yeah, which we'll take it. We'll take it. As long as it's getting done. Alessandra, thank you so much for joining us. Thank you. This was fun. That's our show for today. We'll link to all the stories we spoke about in the show notes.

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