Journalist Jodi Kantor On Finding Your Life’s Work

12 May 2026 · 34 min · 14 chapters

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In short

Jodi Kantor discusses her commencement address and new book, How to Start Discovering Your Life’s Work, about how graduates can build fulfilling careers amid economic uncertainty and AI reshaping work. She argues for durable career agency through “craft” plus “need,” and defines a good working life as financial stability, fulfillment, and contribution.

Guest backgrounds

Jodi Kantor is a New York Times investigative journalist and author of She Said, co-reporting the Harvey Weinstein sexual misconduct story that helped launch the Me Too movement. She also reports on digitization of work. Interviewer: 1A’s Nyla Boodoo.

Key claims

Students shouldn’t only “learn AI,” but understand how systems are built and governed. Hiring is becoming “cold” and digital. Work is an “engine of progress.” Craft protects workers from being disposable; need provides propulsion.

Notable examples

Exaria Meekly (Columbia class of 2025) lost research pay due to budget cuts yet worked unpaid; her goal is addiction-treatment research. Kantor describes the Weinstein reporting day as the “best day at work,” emphasizing teamwork and institutional support. She contrasts “JOB” text-chain fear (J*B) with the need for stimulating first jobs (e.g., political campaigns).

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Introduction to Jodi Kantor and Career Guidance

0:24 to 1:40

Exploration of the challenges graduates face in today's job market.

“We're entering college graduation season, and for many seniors, the best way to kill the excitement about this milestone is to ask, what's your plan for after graduation?”

The Genesis of Jodi Kantor's Book

3:11 to 7:12

Jodi discusses her commencement speech and the book's themes.

“Let's talk about the genesis of your book.”

Exaria Meekly's Inspiring Story

7:12 to 11:44

Jodi shares the story of a talented student overcoming obstacles.

“and make you feel like you can be the author of your own life and give you some hope that you might actually derive great happiness and success from the workplace.”

Defining Success in Work

11:44 to 14:10

Jodi outlines what constitutes a successful and fulfilling career.

“The work she wants to do is so important.”

Three Goals for a Fulfilling Career

14:10 to 16:44

Learn about the three essential goals for a satisfying working life: financial stability, fulfillment, and contribution.

“you want financial stability plus, right?”

The Importance of Craft in Your Career

16:44 to 17:45

Discover why developing a craft is vital for career success and personal satisfaction.

“By craft, I mean a special skill, an expertise, something you know how to do that other people don't.”

The Best Day at Work

17:45 to 18:21

Hear about the powerful moment of confronting Harvey Weinstein and the fulfillment it brought.

“mistakes and the growth and you have real mastery, it feels incredible to exercise those skills.”

Craft Meets Need: Keys to Career Success

18:54 to 22:56

Explore the concept of pairing craft with societal needs to enhance career trajectory.

“It's based on a commencement address she gave last year to students at Columbia University.”

Navigating Career Confusion Post-Graduation

22:56 to 25:58

Gain insights on how to deal with uncertainty in career choices after graduation.

“the conventional wisdom changes on the thing you supposedly have to study?”

The Value of College in Today's Economy

25:58 to 28:00

Discuss the importance of a college education amid rising student debt and economic uncertainty.

“I would say, let's talk about what it means for you to have a great struggle.”
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The Value of College in Today's Job Market

28:00 to 29:30

Jodi Kantor discusses the importance of college and its role in finding one's life work amidst financial struggles.

“Student debt sounds like it could destroy me with what degree I want to pursue.”

Understanding Job Fulfillment Beyond Wealth

29:30 to 31:16

Kantor shares insights on how fulfillment in work is attainable for everyone, regardless of financial background.

“You know, one side of it is students and parents who are saying, this cost an unbelievable amount of money.”

The Importance of Taking Risks in Careers

31:16 to 33:14

A discussion on the necessity of taking risks to achieve career satisfaction, supported by personal anecdotes.

“I tell the story of one person from a background of struggle who I think is honestly like the happiest person I spoke to in the book.”

Jodi's Journey: From Law School to Journalism

33:14 to 34:25

Kantor recounts her decision to leave law school for journalism, emphasizing the importance of following one's passion.

“reintroduce risk to the equation in this environment?”
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0:24We're entering college graduation season, and for many seniors, the best way to kill the excitement about this milestone is to ask, what's your plan for after graduation? That's a particularly fraught question this year with an uncertain economy, high cost of living, and AI poised to remake the workplace. In the midst of all of that, how can young people build fulfilling, empowering careers and establish themselves as authors of their own lives? This morning, I'm bringing you everything I've learned that can help. That's Jodi Kantor, New York Times investigative journalist and author of She Said, about a reporting on Harvey Weinstein's sexual misconduct that helped launch the Me Too movement.

1:06What you just heard was a moment from a commencement speech she gave last year at Columbia University. She spoke at a moment when the university's funding had been cut by the Trump administration, and the campus had been roiled by tensions over the war in Gaza. Following that speech, Cantor became focused on the question of how students in today's environment can establish themselves in a career and fill their days with vitality and meaning. The result is a new book, How to Start Discovering Your Life's Work. Jodi Cantor sat down with 1A's Nyla Boodoo to share what she learned. I'm Jen White. You're listening to the 1A Podcast.

1:41We'll be right back with their conversation. Stay with us.

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2:05Jodi Kantor:We flush a lot of things down the toilet. You know, the obvious ones, but drugs like cocaine are also going down the drain and into our waterways. That's changing the animals that live in it. It's definitely present in most ecosystems on earth now, unfortunately. We're only sort of really starting to scratch the surface into understanding the potential consequences of that. Forget cocaine bear. Learn about cocaine salmon on Shortwave, in the NPR app, or wherever you get your podcasts. This message comes from Jerry. Are you tired of your car insurance rate going up, even with a clean driving record?

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3:18When you first got tapped to begin the talk, you said you didn't know where to begin. Can you just set the scene for us of reminding us what that was like last year? Well, it's a huge honor, of course, to be asked to give a commencement speech at your alma mater. But in this case, to be honest, it was kind of a bad offer because you remember what was going on at Columbia at the time. I mean, the place was just roiled by controversy. It felt totally toxic. And, you know, my friends from college actually tried to stop me. They were like, don't do it. Call in sick. but something in me felt like, give me those kids for 15 minutes.

4:02Like as a mom, as an alum, I'm just upset by all the negativity here and I want my chance to say something to them. But I really initially did not know what to say because the assignment of a commencement speech is that you have to be uplifting. Like if you give a really negative speech, you've completely failed the assignment. And yet things at Columbia had been so, so tough. So the students gave me the gift of a great and really hard question. We got on a Zoom and they said, we don't want to talk about Israel. We don't want to talk about Gaza. We don't want to talk about President Trump. We don't even want to talk about the university administration we're all mad at.

4:42They said, our class, despite its political differences is united in one question, how in this crazy environment do we find and start our life's work? And you write about this, right, that college used to feel like hope and opportunity. We just got this email from one of our listeners, Nolan, who runs an organization in Atlanta that helps prepare kids from underserved communities. And Nolan writes, the real challenge now is that young people are entering a workforce being reshaped by AI, automation, cloud infrastructure. Many are being told to, quote, learn AI, but they're not being taught how systems actually work, how companies hire, how infrastructure supports the digital economy.

5:27The workforce conversation cannot just be about adapting to AI. It has to be about preparing young people to build, manage, secure, and govern the systems AI depends on. Is that what you were trying to set out with this book in terms of just trying to create a little bit more information for people who are out there? I wanted to ask and try to answer the question, what are students supposed to actually do, right? Like my newspaper, your radio network has reported tons of bad news about the entry-level job market. We all know that AI may turn into a real threat to entry-level work, but that doesn't, It's important to be aware of that happening, but young people or anybody trying to change careers right now has a more practical challenge, which is what does a positive and productive response look like in this moment?

6:25And I identify with the writer's question because, you know, part of the reason the Columbia students question gripped me was because I've covered employment for a long time. Megan Toohey and I broke the Harvey Weinstein story in 2017. But I've also been writing for about a decade about the digitization of work, kind of leading us to this AI moment, the idea that machines can do more and more and something human is being lost. Look, we don't know what the workplace is going to look like in five or 10 years. So I don't think that like a kind of glib self-help book would speak to students right now.

7:05I was trying to go for something deeper and say, given the instability right now, I want to reach for really time-tested, durable materials that are going to give you agency and make you feel like you can be the author of your own life and give you some hope that you might actually derive great happiness and success from the workplace. I do want to ask you about your work as a labor reporter. And as you're thinking about this moment, does it feel more pessimistic than you've seen in the past from your long view of the labor market? Yeah, well, I've seen it rising year after year. You know what my real index was?

7:46So after Megan and I broke the Weinstein story, we were invited to tons of campuses to speak. And that's where I saw a change. It corresponded to things I was seeing in my reporting. But year over year from, it's been almost a decade, right? 2017 to now, I could feel a rising sense of disenchantment, apprehension, fear about the workplace. And listen, starting has always been hard. It's always been scary, you know, to try to figure out your life's work. But this was something different. I mean, we usually associate graduation with feelings of excitement and experimentation and opportunity and wonder.

8:33And I felt less and less of that and more a feeling among young people that work was like this dystopian place. It got to the point where I found this vein of students starting at Stanford, but then at other universities too, who had an inside joke where in their text chains, they wouldn't type the word J-O-B. They typed it J asterisk B because the real word was too scary. And it was like, this is Stanford. This is like maybe our nation's most storied generator of wealth and success. I'm speaking to Jodi Cantor. She's a New York Times investigative reporter, and we're talking about her new book, How to Start.

9:18Jodi, I want to ask you about one of the students that you feature in the beginning of the book. Can you tell us a little bit more about her, how you met her, and how her story shaped what you wrote? Yeah, her story really motivated me to write the book. Okay, so Exaria Meekly was a member of that Columbia class of 2025, graduating last year. and Exaria had and has a fierce desire to become a research psychologist. And I mean, I'll be honest, she was one of those students where when you meet her, you're just like blown away by how talented she is. She came from an economically depressed background.

9:58Her mom waited tables and then got a license as a medical technician, but she had a 4.0 GPA and was about to graduate from Columbia and had already faced enormous obstacles because of the tough environment. For instance, if you want to be a research psychologist, you need research experience. It's ferociously competitive to get into these programs and doing research is what distinguishes you. So she had a work-study job doing research at Columbia and halfway through the year, They told her they couldn't pay her because of the budget cuts. She was so devoted that she kept working at the lab for free and bartended at night.

10:41And so her motivation is really very special and very tragic, which is that when she was 11 years old, her older brother, Keith, died of an overdose. And her motivation for getting a psych PhD is that she wants to devote her life to improving addiction treatment. So when I met her just before graduation, I have to tell you, I mean, she was almost ready to give up. She said to me, this was like on a group Zoom with other people, she made an offhand remark to me and she said, maybe I have to accept that Columbia won't really change my life. Maybe I have to accept that I'm just going to go back to this economically depressed town in upstate New York, and this education won't transform me.

11:33She had applied for like job after job and, you know, very typical story in this environment. Not only was she not getting jobs, she wasn't even getting responses or bites. And honestly, hearing her story, like something in me broke. She is so promising. The work she wants to do is so important. Her motivation for wanting to do it is like so sacred and pure. And I just said, I can't, like something in me cannot, you know, I'm a reporter. I'm not used to stepping in the middle of situations. I'm a professional observer who stays on the sidelines, but some combination of mom and citizen and Colombian and writer in me just had a moment where I said, this cannot stand.

12:23We cannot let these kids give up on the workplace. They can't afford it individually. We want them to, you know, prosper and work and thrive and whatnot, but we can't afford it collectively. Work is our engine of progress. Even now at this very difficult time, if we want new addiction therapies or new cancer therapies or new aircraft or new great TV shows, we need people to believe in the workplace. Well, and to that idea that work is our engine of progress, when you talk to people, especially young people, about success in a career, how would you define that then? This book is like a little bit like a lunchbox note.

13:08You put, like my daughter is 20. I have a college kid. And I've put, I've like left notes for her throughout her life. This book is like a 90-page note that I am leaving for every young person I can. And I'm doing it in part because I see a lot of them getting either bad advice or no advice. Because part of the result of the digitization of the workplace that we were just talking about is that hiring has become very cold, very digital, very sterile, and they're just not meeting as many people we did in the course of seeking work. For those of us who have not applied for a job in a while, it's really hard to understand how it's changed.

13:51Like at every book event I do, I try to get somebody who has done an AI interview to stand up and tell the story. And people gasp in the audience because they hear people describe being interviewed for jobs by machines instead of by people. But to get back to your question, what I would say is that there are three goals to a good working life. you want financial stability plus, right? You want to earn, you don't want to be without, maybe you even do better than that, but we don't want anyone to suffer or not be able to pay rent, et cetera, et cetera. Okay. That's number one. Number two is fulfillment.

14:36You know, pop quiz, if we pop in on you at 1030 in the morning on a Thursday, do you feel connected to the task risk before you? No job is all fun, but is work providing you a reasonable amount of satisfaction? Because at the end of the day, work is how we spend our time. And I mean, maybe you have met somebody in life who is miserable at work, but happy overall. I've never met anybody like that. Work determines a lot of our happiness. Number three, you want to contribute something to other people. Like, I don't want to define what that is. It could be through business. It could be through something more altruistic, but your work is a big part of your contribution to the world.

15:25And, you know, you want to make some sort of positive impact. So, and I don't really know why universities don't set that three-part system out as an explicit goal. Like it leaves a lot of young people saying, well, should I do what I love, but then I won't earn any money? And they see it as kind of like a binary division. And I want to push them on saying, well, the aspiration, like not all of us will get there, but let's at least set an aspiration for doing both, right? Making it an and and not having to choose and having some of these values in balance. One of the things you write about is this idea of developing a craft, which I think gets to what you're talking about here.

16:13Can you explain what you mean by that? Yes. So I was looking for something to give these students that would actually help in terms of setting aspirations and knowing what they're even going for. And not just looking for a job because looking for a job is very hard right now, but sort of aiming their sights higher. And what I want to do is challenge all young people to find two things to pair because I think the best careers are built for marrying two things, a craft and a need. By craft, I mean a special skill, an expertise, something you know how to do that other people don't. This is what gives you value in the market, and it can be a lot of different things.

17:02I mean, surgery obviously is one of the classic crafts, but so is writing a great home recipe. Like I look at the recipes in NYT cooking that my colleagues make and they turn out really well, even if you're not an experienced chef. And that's because the recipes are well crafted. Craft is really important right now because too many workers are being treated as disposable or interchangeable, and you want to protect yourself from that as much as possible. Craft is also important, and this is very hard for young people to see, because it feels awesome. Like when you have really worked at something for 20 years and done the repetition and the mistakes and the growth and you have real mastery, it feels incredible to exercise those skills.

17:52Like when Megan and I speak about the Harvey Weinstein story to students, they always say, how did you bear it? How did you deal with the trauma? And we love to shock them with the answer. We say, yeah, it was horrible. We shed tears in private. But the day you get to confront Harvey Weinstein is the best day at the office ever. So craft is really important. And then I think when you pair it with need, that's when you're cooking. After the break, 1A's Nyla Boodoo asks Jodi to take us back to that best day ever at the office. That's coming up. You're listening to 1A.

18:32Jodi Kantor:It can be hard to keep up with all the new movies on streaming services. How do you tell the good ones worth watching from the bad? Or the silly ones you can laugh along with? Or at? On NPR's Pop Culture Happy Hour, we're recommending some fun movies you may have missed. Listen via the NPR app or wherever you get your podcasts. Let's get back to our recent conversation between 1A's Nyla Boodoo and New York Times journalist Jodi Kantor about Kantor's new book, How to Start, Discovering Your Life's Work. It's based on a commencement address she gave last year to students at Columbia University. Jodi, just before the break, we were talking about the idea of craft and your work with Harvey Weinstein and the Me Too movement.

19:17Can you take us back to that day? You said the question you often get is people ask about, understandably, the trauma of the work and hearing from survivors. But can you tell us a little bit about how you got to, as you said, the best day at work when you get to confront someone like Harvey Weinstein? So let me say two different things about that story and about the culminating days. First of all, I just want to say that I was kicked off my college paper when I was a senior at Columbia at a column and a spectator. I was fired from it. The story's in the book, if you're interested. But it took me 20 years to get from those early fumblings in journalism to being at the point where I could co-author the Harvey Weinstein story.

20:04And so I think it just speaks to the lack of instant gratification in most really rewarding careers, the sense that you are working overtime to a goal. In terms of that day, I think the other thing I want to talk about is the teamwork. You know, were we a little nervous to confront Weinstein? Sure, but not as nervous as many people would assume we were. Because when you're involved in a really great work situation, you have the pleasure and potency of teamwork. And Megan and I were not alone. All of the New York Times was standing behind us, three top editors, our top lawyer. And more than that, like, I remember on that day, I very much felt like the heir to decades and decades of newspaper tradition.

20:58And that we were protecting our sources and going after the truth, aided by this very long tradition that was supporting us and holding us up. during this really tense moment. So, you know, whatever the ambitions and dreams are of the people who are listening to this, I just want to let them know that that's possible. You know, I think we had another reminder of that with, I don't know if you fell down the rabbit hole than I did of watching the astronaut videos from the recent moon mission. Yes. But it was - Who did not. Yeah, right? Yeah, I mean, it was like the most positive display of the workplace that I've seen in years, right?

21:43Like these people, their technical skill, their mastery, their respect for one another, right? Like their sense of mission and values, their professionalism, right? Because they were like, they were very funny and warm on camera, but ultimately also very professional. And together they accomplished something that still seems impossible. Like, yeah, we intellectually know that we've gotten to the moon before, but it's still, it's a crazy thing to do and they made it happen. Jodi, that I think is a perfect example of what you write about in the book, which is pairing craft with need. And I think the astronauts are maybe like a very high-end example of the far end of the spectrum if you want to super succeed, right?

22:30But can you tell us a little bit about that notion of craft and need and how those two coming together can create success in a career and help you figure out what that might be? Yes. So if craft is authority, need is propulsion. The way I came up with the need concept is that I looked back on my life and I don't know about you, but like, have you noticed that every couple of years, the conventional wisdom changes on the thing you supposedly have to study? When I was in high school, it was Japanese. And we were told, this was the 80s, we were told that if we did not learn to speak Japanese fluently, we were going to be left behind because the Japanese were poised to take over the world economy.

23:17Meanwhile, the Japanese stock market actually slumped for 30 years. And so then it was like genetics, Mandarin, computer coding. And these are all great pursuits. I'm not knocking these things or anybody who studies them. But the idea that they're golden tickets, I think is just like a kind of herd thinking. and especially because the future is so uncertain, I want to challenge young people to answer the following question and it may take years and a lot of exploration to answer. Using your own eyes and ears, what is your independent assessment of what society will need most during your working years?

24:02What kind of products? What kind of services? What kind of information? And do you want a career that in some way answers that need. It could be like a fun need, like my brother makes outdoor pizza ovens. So the need he's fulfilling is like for really good crusts and hanging out outdoors. But it could also be something very serious. A lot of the truly great careers are answers to some sort of bad or wrong in the world. It could be a business need. But the point is that if you pair your craft with a need, the need is going to pull you along. Like instead of a painful, slow paddle against the current, you are going to be carried forward by a kind of rushing river of what other human beings need.

24:54What other specific advice do you have for this year's graduates, especially maybe the ones who are feeling a bit lost as to what they want to do with their lives? Like, how would you suggest they even get started if they're at the end of graduation and still don't know what to do? I love those people. Those are my people. I mean, I was totally like that. I think the confusion is a sign of intelligence. Look, God bless these people who like know they want to be neurologists at age 17 or whatever. I wasn't like that. I find that very hard to identify with. And some of those people are right and just have that compass from the beginning, but other people who leap to an answer too quickly, they are adapting a kind of false certainty that can almost lead to a distortion, I think, because they're trying to bypass struggle and struggle makes you who you are.

25:46And some struggle in this difficult employment time is bad and depressing and degrading, but not all struggle is, right? I mean, struggle can also be self discovery, self-articulation. So I would say a couple of things. I would say, let's talk about what it means for you to have a great struggle. If there's no bypassing struggle, then let's figure out how to make it as fruitful as possible for you because you may be the better for it in the end. I would say, get the most stimulating first job you can. For some people, it's hard to get a job full stop. So like we can't be overly prescriptive or fussy, but generally careers are made from stimulation.

26:30And I'm not crazy about the really quiet first jobs, like being a receptionist in an art gallery where nobody walks in, it may seem kind of prestigious or glamorous because of the art world, but you're just not going to, like, you're not going to have enough action. Like this is why a political campaign is a classic great first job because political campaigns are nuts, right? Like you're confronting ideas and citizens and social problems and fundraising many and events and the outcome really matters and young people are entrusted with a lot of really important work. I would look, you know, in the absence of like some other compass, I would look for a high stimulation job because it's really hard to figure out who you want to be when you're sitting in a university library.

27:21Like libraries are very isolated places and I, you know, very few people have met their destinies sitting in a pretty book lined room and like marinating in their own aspiration and fear. I'm talking to Jodi Cantor. She's a New York Times investigative reporter. We're talking about her new book, How to Start. We got this email from Nathan I wanted to read to you. I'm 21 in Indiana and luckily got a job with the Postal Service right before the job market crash. Unfortunately for me, though, it's hard to see a future for myself. I have other aspirations and carrying mail, but going to college right now seems impossible.

27:58FAFSA support is so low. Student debt sounds like it could destroy me with what degree I want to pursue. So I guess I'm just going to work until Trump is out of office. Thanks for that email, Nathan. Jodi, I guess that leads to my even harder question for you. For the high school seniors out there or for people like Nathan, do you think college is still an important choice? Or why do you think college is still such an important choice when so many are struggling with whether or not they can afford it? Well, first of all, I just, if Nathan's listening, I just really want to say I'm sorry and I hear you and I'm glad you wrote in and I'm glad you said that because other people need to understand that this is the way so many young people are feeling.

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28:40You know, I'm a little reluctant to give direct advice to Nathan or like sweepingly on whether people should go to college or not because the world is like filled with people saying to other people, even though you're a stranger to me, I know exactly what you should do. And I kind of like don't want to be in that club. However, I'll answer your question a little differently, which is that if you do go to college and if you decide to spend the money, I think there is a way to hack and adapt college to help put you on a path to your life's work. A big debate in education right now, and it's like pretty touchy and painful to be honest, is about whether colleges are doing enough to help students find jobs and whether they can do more.

29:34You know, one side of it is students and parents who are saying, this cost an unbelievable amount of money. We did a college in order to have a successful and satisfying life's work. And, you know, hey, universities, many of you, not all of them, Some of them have great career centers. Many of you are abdicating the responsibility to address this horrible job market and this glaring need among young people. Among colleges, there's a mixed response. Some are trying to do more. There's a lot of hustling to do AI stuff. But there's also a core feeling in academia that it's not their job to get people jobs, right?

30:21The universities are places of scholarship. So my advice is that if you're going to go to college, whether it's you spending the money or you've been able to secure financial aid, I think there's a way through this book, through other people who can advise you to make sure that you are getting the most career-wise out of it. and that college really consists in part of a search for your craft and need and an opportunity to experiment with several versions of them. Do you think the idea of finding meaning in your work or pursuing your dream job is something that only people who are already wealthy can afford to do?

31:04No, no, no. And I feel super strongly about that. I am offended by the idea that only rich people deserve to enjoy their work. I tell the story of one person from a background of struggle who I think is honestly like the happiest person I spoke to in the book. She's a historian. She's the daughter of a housekeeper. But, you know, when I did all those visits to college campuses, I did feel like there was a divide. I felt like the first gen kids and the ones who are from rougher backgrounds were so weighted towards their feelings of obligation and duty and like, I have to earn every last dollar I can earn.

31:53I have to make good on this opportunity that nobody else in my family has had, that I want to be a little bit of a counterweight for those kids. and say, you deserve to enjoy your life too. You deserve a feeling of fulfillment as much as some trust fund kid does. Judy, you know, I want to ask you about trusting yourself, because I think that's really hard, and that's something that stood out to me. And I think it relates to what we're talking about now. But when you wrote, you'll have to know when to refuse to settle, to insist on something better for yourself, to take yourself seriously and take on some risk, the decision is yours to make.

32:33I think for so many people, that level of self-awareness is hard and it's scary. And as we've been talking about, when the stakes are so much higher for some people who have to, you know, if you're literally thinking about how am I going to put food on the table, how do you start to build that? It's really hard. And it's, I think you're describing the moment exactly right. Everybody wants stability right now. It's such a scary moment. Everything is topsy-turvy. The quest to do the safe thing is completely rational. I get it. But the problem is that nobody really gets anywhere good in a career without some risk.

33:13And so how do we reintroduce risk to the equation in this environment? And I think the reason I feel so strongly, to be honest, is personal, which is, you know, another part of my own story I tell in the book is that I dropped out of law school to be a journalist and everybody thought I was crazy. I mean, it was Harvard. Especially your parents. Yeah. Yeah. I'm mentioning Harvard not to sound like, you know, a total jerk, but, but to explain how my parents felt about this. You know, my dad is an economic rationalist who, I think, believed that, you know, people should earn every last dollar they could earn.

33:50And here I was, like taking my earning power, you know, and like setting a match to it and then dropping it off a bridge, you know, leaving law school for a very uncertain career as a journalist. But it was the moment I became the author of my own life. It was the moment I set myself a path to happiness and satisfaction. And also when I look at what I've been able to accomplish in journalism, writing this book, I did say, God, if I had listened to everybody else and listened to my parents' fears and stayed in law school, we wouldn't have broken the Weinstein story and the Me Too movement probably wouldn't have exploded the way it did.

34:36And so in the book, I discuss the question of what a good risk and a worthy risk looks like and how to introduce those into your formative years, even now. Jodi, thank you so much for joining us today. Oh, absolutely. It's a pleasure. And I just want to say it is such a hard time out there. And if this book can make young people or their parents feel a little more reassured or a little more hopeful that both success and happiness are still possible, that would truly be a dream. That was Jodi Kantor, Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist at the New York Times, talking with 1A's Nyla Boodoo about her new book, How to Start, Discovering Your Life's Work.

35:21Today's producers were Alexandra Bouttee and Alison Brody. And this program comes to you from WAMU, part of American University in Washington, distributed by NPR. I'm Jen White. Thanks for listening. Let's talk more soon. This is 1A.

35:55Jodi Kantor:This week on Newsmakers, Dana White, the head of the UFC. We're at a place where people can't even talk anymore. And if they find out that I'm friends with the president, I'm a MAGA piece of s**t. I mean, I'm talking to NPR right now, right? I talk to everybody. A dialogue with Dana White about politics, culture, and masculinity on NPR's Newsmakers. Listen or watch wherever you get your podcasts.

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Last year, when Columbia University found itself embroiled by anti-war protests and fighting with the Trump administration, journalist Jodi Kantor was invited to speak at the school’s commencement.

“My friends actually tried to stop me. Like, ‘Don’t do it. Call in sick,'” remembers Kantor.

The Pulitzer prize-winner did wind up giving that speech. And that experience led her to write a new book about how young people can find their life’s work. We sit down with Kantor to talk about ‘How to Start.’

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