820. The Human Design Wake-Up Call: What’s Actually Coming in 2027 (Bonus)

25:50Like, that's not the answer. The answer is like, I've never heard of that one before. No. Can I sign up? Yeah. How much is it? 14 figs. 14 figs for space holding. The other day he's like, what is holding space? What's the container? I know. I know. My other half is exactly the same. You've lost me at all these words. What does that mean? You know what I mean? But like, you know, for example, like this beautiful neon sign you have on your wall, like maybe someone is like really interested in the signs or someone is super into interior design or someone is really into whatever, ever like, but they're also into electricity, or they're also into something else.

26:32They're like, oh, well, there has to be this one big consuming passion. Like I have to be like Mozart, where like music was my thing. Whereas actually, like, maybe you're going to bring some kind of electrical innovation into interior design, and you have to kind of like embrace both. So I think breaking it into micro really helps people. Yes. And the second one is I think this is where you bring in, you can bring in human design. But like, even with social media or things you watch or whatever, like, I think that jealousy is a really good one. Because like, where are you jealous of people is usually a sign of like, that's kind of what you'd wish you'd be, you'd like to be doing more similar.

27:08So I like to kind of maybe encourage people to distill down like if there's someone that you kind of envy or have a little bit of jealousy with that you look at on social media, like try and get very clear on what it is that you want of theirs. And maybe look at someone else and see what you want of theirs. And then you piecemeal it together and then you get like a good picture of like, okay, I want to have the freedom to work and also be with my kids or I want to whatever. I feel like with the, yes, I love that. Cause actually I've been having, I've been kind of jealous lately of a few people in our industry who actually I'm really dear friends with who I love, not jealous, but I've been like, oh my God, they're so in their truth and their power right now.

27:44And I don't feel my truth in my power. So I'm like, oh my God, I'm so like jealous of them because they're so in it. but on the jealousy piece I I wonder and I'm thinking about myself before I did self-work and understood that like that is a mirror for me and that's telling me about how I would love to be more in my power but I feel like a lot of people have jealousy and they have the judgment so it's like and so I'm trying to figure out how we can peel them back from like understanding that that says something about them because a lot of times it's like if you're jealous you're like well she's like she's fake or you know she's something and it's like it is kind of people aren't always getting to the self-realization part that like if you're saying she's fake that's not anything that's leading us to a further understanding of ourselves right so I'm trying to get offensive yes yeah I feel like the universe prefers to catch our attention with negative feelings and with positive feelings because they feel more jarring and so when you feel jealousy it's almost like, instead of then trying to get it into a shame thing of like, because you don't feel good enough compared to that person or whatever, it's almost like, firstly, how can you even prove that another human being is real?

28:51Other than they're just here to like be a part of your Game Boy to help you become how do you know you're not the only person on this whole planet? How can I prove that you're real? All I know is that you're here to make me feel something. So I almost think like being more selfish and saying, Oh, hold on, there's a negative feeling here. That's the universe trying to catch my attention, it's here to help me. Do you know what I mean? Like being more selfish in the right way, but I know what you mean. And like, we all do it what we think, like automatically we assume it makes us not good enough or that we don't measure it up.

29:20And so it's obviously more comfortable to be like, that person is just this and that. But then I also think we have another option where when we don't feel good enough, we can reframe that and say, oh, it's not that I'm not good enough compared to this person. It's just showing me that I have like a super quick route to get there actually. Or this is just temporary. and like to not take it so personal where we're at, where they're at. Like life is a long game anyway. And even just the fact that someone is feeling that means something. Like the fact that you can kind of feel that so much in your body and just kind of have that reaction.

29:52I always feel like, oh, I can. That's a tell for me that I could feel that way someday. And it's almost like the seed that's planted where you're like, yeah, yeah, yeah. And it just kind of because I don't know how to get there. that's where the pain comes. Oh, that's nice. So I'm like, how do I get there? Yeah. You know, that's where like, I think that's for me, like where the jealousy comes in. Cause I'm like, I feel that. I know I could be that, do that, live that. But how? You know? And it's so funny that we rely on our minds to solve that problem. I know. Like instead of thinking how, I've been trying something new recently where it's like, if I feel something, if I see something in someone that I like, Like instead of thinking, how am I going to get there?

30:37I really try to like embody it. Like I really try to like try it on for size in terms of like how I feel. Like how would I feel if I had that thing that that person has? How would I move like through it? How would I like act? How would I stand a bit taller? It's almost like it's a little bit of a fake it until you make it. But it's just like trying the energy on for size. Yes, I love that. For sure. And then it's much quicker. I feel like that's like a shortcut. Like how, how, how is this going to da da da da? And I can't do this. And I get logical. That's like a Joe Dispenza thing. Yeah. But it is interesting to like, you know, if we think about when we're looking at other people's lives, and we're like, Oh, that's like, amazing.

31:11It's like, maybe that's not God's plan. You know, like a lot of times, it's like, we're trying to force and figure out the plan for someone else's design. And it's like, maybe that's not our plan at all. You know, so it's like, yeah, I'm just, I'm on a tip right now with social media, because I just feel like it brings people so much further away from what they want than they think. Yeah. And it's like, we're just continually sitting in this like input brain mode. And we're very rarely like in our hearts or in our bodies and able to really digest the truth of what we are. And I feel like we're so spiritually starved that we just don't, people deserve to like live a life with purpose and passion and like know something that they love.

31:56but I feel like we've been so constantly distracted that it's hard to reach it. Yeah. Isn't it so funny that we live in a time where we have so much available to us and we can ascend to power and to grace and to success so quickly and yet it's probably never been harder because of those reasons. Yes. And you're so right. It becomes like a way to orient yourself, social media and things online. So I was talking about this recently with someone But when I do actually unplug and I go somewhere actually that's new to me, so say a solo trip or something like that, I'm able to disorient myself so that I'm not kind of falling into what Krista was saying, kind of like these distractions and just the way in which I identify, which is like, which is not true.

32:49But when I'm on my phone, it's like, okay, so I'm on Instagram. Who's engaging? What does that mean about me? Should I post more? What's happening? And there's all these points of orientation where when I get rid of them, I'm then able to be like, okay, how do I feel? Oh, I'm hungry. Oh, I... Or I get an idea like all of a sudden because it's not that input, you know? So it's such a barrage of like, not you. Yeah. All the time. Yeah. And I think it's as simple as our attention is our power and we are just pissing it all away. Big facts. That's the graphic quote. Yeah. Big facts. Sorry. No, I love it.

33:30No, for real. I love it. I love it. Yeah, it's true. The shaman who I learned human design from, he, I think in shamanism, it's like a big thing. When you come of age, you do what's called the vision quest. You guys know what that is? Yeah. And I think about that all the time. It's like you just go into nature for four days with no food, no distractions, no phone, no nothing and just be for four days. And he's like, it is so hard. Like people really struggle with it. And I get it. I'm sure. I can't even sit sometimes for an hour without like automatically, unconsciously. Yeah. Wow. Yeah. Strips away everything.

34:04Yeah, it's funny too. Like thinking about our actual reality and the way that we talk about the times. It's like, if we are people that could not spend four days, you know, without food and water, like, and how unwell we would be, it's like how luxurious we live. How luxurious that we live, that we're able to spend so much time on frivolous things. You know what I mean? Because the people that can't spend time on frivolous things are like working, watching kids, like, you know, doing all these things. It's like, because we have so much, we've created this like time block where we are spending and involved in this.

34:45It's like, it's just such a privilege to be able to do that. And I don't like to use that word. Yeah, it's so true. You know, my dad always says, I mean, when we were growing up, he was always like, you know, the people who are worried about putting food on the table, they don't have issues because they don't have time to think about their issues. And it's simplistic, but it's, there is truth in that where I do think about that a lot of how much is, how much of our overthinking and overanalyzing or hiding or numbing or distracting is part of being privileged because you don't have other like more important things to be even more basic things to be worrying about.

35:22Which is a lot, you know, when we think about a lot of the spiritual community, it's like when you get to that place where you're like, life is so good. Now I'm going to look at my trauma. I'm going to have the access and ability to like go to therapy. I'm going to have this like extra time to work on myself. You know, what a beautiful gift it is. And I think it can make you mad. And it's been making me a little mad. Like I can, I've had periods in my life where I'll get a little mad where I'm a little too much into my personal growth work. And it just can like drive you crazy.

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38:54I think that's also why people say that when you have children, we just don't have the time. I think that's the next step. I know. I just think it probably puts everything in perspective. Yeah, there's going to be a 10-year period where we're not going to fucking do a lick on our own self-work. Yeah, 100%. But it's also like, I think this phrase, like doing the work is like, it's an interesting one, because, and it's all semantics anyway. So it's just my interpretation of what that is. I almost wonder, like, is there a difference between do the work and just allow the work to like, whenever something comes up, that's the time to address it rather than like, maybe constantly looking for something that's wrong with you.

39:36You know what I mean? Or constantly needing to almost, and I've been there my whole 20s, like almost have working on yourself be this refuge from your actual life and from moving your own life forward in different ways and creating joy and, you know, finding a job that you love and that kind of stuff. So it's a balance, right? Yes. And it's also validating to know that you're working on yourself or it's something that you can kind of, whether you say it out loud or you just feel it, you're like, I'm working on myself. Yeah. But it can become a loop of sorts where it's like, whether it's a regular therapy appointment every week or whatever it is, it's like, you're kind of on that ride where you're like, okay, what am I bringing this week?

40:17Yeah. Totally. Oh my gosh. Yeah. Well, it's like, are you working on yourself because you love yourself or because you hate yourself? And there's both exist. Yeah. I've worked on myself because I hated myself. I've worked on myself because I love myself. That's what's so hard about all life. I know. You know, that is the thing is like, we assume that X outcome is because of Y inputs. And it's like, there's actually millions of inputs for the same thing. Like the three of us could do the same therapy appointment for exactly different reasons. And it will be a good thing for us at some point in our lives and a bad thing for us at some point in our lives.

40:51But all of us are so insecure that we need these like blanket statements or we need like, this is always good. This is always bad. This is always right. And it's like, actually, you just need to tune into the intention behind it or the fear or the lack or whatever's like driving it. And you always know. Yes, totally. That's what Kiki Robinson, our healer, was saying. She's like, you have to look into the heart of the witch for the intention. So I was asking because she's a witch. And so I was like asking, I'm like, so what about what people say about witches? And she's like, you have to tune into the heart of the witch to know their intention.

41:25I so agree. It was so cute. I was like, oh, I know. Absolutely. I wanted to talk about people were asking too about the 2027 shift. What is that? So this is more human design. Yeah. So essentially, the idea is that as humans, as a collective, we go through, I guess, like cycles of different karmic lessons or different evolutions. and this cycle that we're in now was all about building structure and building, you know, I guess like helpful boundaries and organizations and things that really would help us actually come together. So there are approximately 200 year cycles and they kind of switch between being very strategic cycles, very consistent, very proactive cycles.

42:15And then the next one that follows that will usually be more passive, more receiving more, you know, that kind of thing. And so neither is right or wrong. It just over time, as humans, we get the balance, you know what I mean, as like one as one kind of being, basically, obviously, the intention of building structures would be to support us coming together. But obviously, we've built many that have divided us and not help us come together and actually not serve the purpose, but the entire opposite. it. And so in 2027, when we're entering into a new era, which that era really depends how that unfolds really depends on how we finish this one.

42:50So people are always asking like, what's the next one going to be about? It could go several different ways. But what we do know is that all the structures and organizations and groups and collectives and banks and brands and everything that we've built to put above us, and that actually have ended up separating us are going to come crumbling down. And so that's why in human design, they always said it's like the end is always an acceleration because it's like a pressure to finish to get there to complete that karma as a as a human race. And so is it called anything like are the cycles called anything?

43:23Yeah, they're called them. Well, they're called cycles. Okay. Yeah. You know, this one we're in was really the whole lesson of it was to foster togetherness and to foster like family and unity and closeness and all those different types of things. So like how every human being, one of the things in your human design chart is your incarnation cross. We go through each cycle has an incarnation cross too. And so this incarnation cross was the one that we're in now is called the cross of planning. And planning is about everyone coming together, people being so happy because they're like connecting and talking around a table and therefore building things that would help support that.

44:00so anyone that is not in that consciousness all that stuff is going to come kind of going to come hushing down the one thing that we do know about the start of 2027 it's going to be so much more about the individual and so it kind of follows that once you know how to come together and have the support and blah blah blah that's when you're free to be so individualized and so different and so in your de-homogenization basically and so that's what the emphasis is going to be on 2027 and there are also going to be different mutations in how our charts look. So certain things are going to drop off, certain things are going to be emphasized based on, you know, the qualities that we're going to need more of to be more individualized rather than think about us as like a tribe or a group or a whole.

44:44Was there an energy type that was like integral in the build that was the last 200 years? Yeah, so projectors were actually, I don't want to say invented, but the first projector was at the beginning of this cycle. So 1781, when that was also the year that Saturn was discovered. And so, sorry, Uranus was discovered. Basically, the whole thing is, is like projectors came to help people who were, you know, doing and building and creating to do things in a slightly different way to tweak, to change, to optimize, to whatever. And so, how did you know it was Uranus? I just, I'm a space girl. That's insane.

45:23I was like, wow. When it came out of my mind. Anyway, so projectors were created, invented at the beginning of this cycle. And then in the new cycle, they're calling them rave children. That's hilarious. Yeah. Love it. I know. I know. That's hilarious. I've heard of like rainbow indigo. This one's like a party one. Yeah, so they'll be built completely differently than us and have nothing to do genetically with our history. And then there's also the prediction that we're going to get two more energy centers. Right now we have nine in human design. We have two more energy centers coming in the palms of our hands.

46:03Cool. Yeah. So it's cool. So how are they not already there? What? Like the energy centers in our hands? Well, I mean... It's like a chakra, right? Yeah. Oh, okay. And then we'll get some above... We keep getting some more above our heads. Yeah. So depending on who you speak to, different, like especially Indian doctors and healers, they already say we have like 108 chakras or we have like actually each chakra has its own chakra within more that chakras or whatever. So I think like the point is maybe not to take it as literally as, oh, they're literally appearing, but maybe like we're having more access to them or having more awareness to them or we're going to be more connected to them.

46:39And this is kind of the approach I encourage people to take with the whole of human design is not to be so like literal, you know what I mean? And not maybe to take it so dogmatically like, and also if it rings true for you, great. But if it doesn't, don't like just cherry pick the stuff you like, I feel like it's always for you. It's like projectors are like, I've been waiting for the invitation, like the invitation, waiting for the invitation thing. F trips everyone up. Really? I feel like whenever I see your stuff, everyone's like, should I wait for the invitation? Yeah. So it's interesting.

47:08So right now, because I built my own software this year, I had the opportunity to change the terms a little bit so that they made a bit more sense to people. And I think the whole thing about waiting, like generators are manifesting, generators waiting to respond as their strategy. Strategy is just the way that you make things happen in your life, the way that you bring success or bring opportunities, bring people, whatever. So the responding for generators and manifesting generators is wait to respond, right? For projectors, it's to wait for an invitation, reflectors, it's awaiting a lunar cycle, right?

47:43And I think this whole thing about waiting is like we have a very passive connotation with that word, because it means that we are not the ones who can initiate or start things up or whatever, right? So, you know, I like to say, I've really changed my the way that I talk about it, instead of saying waiting for an invitation, create invitations, you know, or be invited. And simply what that means is that obviously everything from the outside, whether that is an invitation, whether that is something you're responding to, whether that is people you're informing, that's all you creating that anyway, right?

48:14So if you're wanting to be invited as a projector, you have to be radiating. Like I always think of your aura as like your energetic billboard. It's advertising you at all times, right? So if you're saying I have value to give, this is my stuff, I know my shit, blah, blah, blah, then that's going to obviously bring people that are going to go, Oh, well, what is it that you know, can you tell me more about this? I want to know, I want to hear I want help, I want whatever. And so it all starts with you, you know, and I think this whole waiting thing is really like, yeah, the semantics of it is just not very empowering unfortunately I think it's also like the only thing that people if they come across human design it's like something that does stick out is that like should I wait for the invitation or should I not like it's that one like little fact so that's why I think it's such a common like yeah should I do it yeah but I get it too because especially when you don't know what it is you want people to invite you for then yeah hold on it's like I'm in a what you call that thing where you're in like a crossroads yeah you know like cross me quagmire yeah or it's like what is it crossroads for five whatever that is you know make trouble yeah so it's like hard to get yourself get that momentum going in your own checkmate you know what i mean yeah stalemate yeah we got it i also feel like you know i can relate to the question of waiting for the invitation but it's like if it's not it's like it's dogma then if it's not you're not listening to your intuition and asking your intuition if you should wait.

49:49Absolutely. Which I think is the point. Yeah. And the most important thing is that you don't need to wait. You only need to wait for an invitation when it comes to sharing what it is that you see. So you don't need to wait for an invitation to eat a sliced pineapple. You don't need to wait for an invitation to start a business to put yourself out there on social media to start sharing what it is you know and that's actually what creates invitations because people go oh, okay, this is what she's about. You're advertising yourself correctly again. So it's like people can then respond to that with saying, oh, tell me more.

50:19How do I know? How do I book? How do I buy? How do I whatever? So even if for example, you're like a projector who's a photographer, like share that, like make sure that people know that that's what you're up to. Love that. I had a question around deconditioning. I know you spoke about it on Instagram a little bit, but human design and nurture as we're like growing up with our parents and just how so much of those layers, I think can possibly maybe dampen our true design. So I'd love to just talk about that, like how we can start to kind of peel those layers back and recognize where we haven't truly been living our design because of our conditioning.

50:58So if you look at any chart, no matter what software you're using or anything, you can always look at there's things that are colored in and there are things that are white. And the white areas are the places where we're supposed to be very like open to taking in the world, right? So we could be psychic, we could be empathic, we could be feeling other people's fears, we could be riding off of other people's pressures and inspirations, like those things can all be good. And they're meant to be good. But the places where we're white are also obviously the places where I think about it when you're a kid, and you feel whiteness inside you.

51:29And that person looks like they're a bit colorful in that area. That's when you start to think, oh, I'm missing out on something or I'm, there's something that I don't have that I should have. And so the white area is always going to be the clue to where you've taken on conditioning, because that's where you're a sponge to the outside world. I love that word sponge. And actually a girl from my team said it to me just two days ago. And I was like, that's so much better than saying empath or saying whatever, because empath, again, is a word that people don't really know. Different people have different definitions of it.

52:00So if you're a sponge to people's thoughts or if you're a sponge to people's fears or a sponge to whatever. And so looking at the centers in your chart where you're white is a really good place to start of where you've maybe and then understanding what those centers mean, what they correspond to is a really good place to start of like where you absorb conditioning. But not to complicate things, but to add another layer to it is that we're constantly reconditioning each other all the time. So there is this layer of like, of course, look back into your past and this and that. But I'm starting to think like the more important work is looking into where you're still melding yourself to others.

52:34And I'm, I'm only saying this because I'm so guilty of it myself, where you're where you melt other people so easily is the fact that whenever we're in other people's or as we're constantly feeling like you have this, I need to be more like that. This little assumptions that we can't even hear ourselves thinking, but oh, I need to be more like this, or I need to be more like that, or so that this person can like me or whatever. So yeah, the it just never ends the layers that we add on to ourselves, but we can definitely be a better shield by awareness. That's the kind of unglamorous, unsexy, but key to everything.

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56:52Less prone. Really? Yep. And what is, I guess that sounds amazing. So what's the benefit? Like, wouldn't you want that then? Because you'd be living your design naturally. So it's interesting because sometimes, let's say you have nine centers, right? If you have eight of those centers filled in and one of them white, sometimes that's the universe putting blinkers on you and saying, you just need to concentrate on deconditioning around your sacral center, which is about productivity and creativity and all those different things. Whereas everything else, you kind of have a buffer because you have your own stuff going on.

57:27It looks different ways for different people. So what it could also look like, though, is that that person, maybe in many lives before, I believe in reincarnation, many lives before, that person was too much going into other people's energy, too much of being, you know, a bit codependent or whatever it is. And this life, they actually need that buffer because they need to concentrate more on themselves. Right? Or for example, they don't need to tune into people because actually, you know, for whatever it is they're here to accomplish, it's a better thing. So yes, you'd want it. But then also you could be given that design if you struggle with maybe learning to be compassionate.

58:05And therefore the universe is giving you your open solar plexus, which is about the emotions, just to focus on being open in those areas so that you're not open anywhere else, right? It's like focus on this one thing where you need to learn how to put yourself in other people's shoes or something like that. Totally. So it depends on the job. Love that. Past lifetimes. Are you, is there any correlation to human design at all? Like, do they talk about past lifetimes in human design? Well, so human design is based on a lot of other schools of thought. And it's like a melding of them all. And one of them is Kabbalah.

58:41And in Kabbalah, they really believe in reincarnation. And I've done a lot of Kabbalah. I did a lot of Kabbalah in my 20s. Is that why it led you to human design? it's kind of what opened me up from being the like totally scientific skeptic whatever um went to my first i met a kabbalistic astrologer for the first time when i was 23 and that totally changed my life um and i basically went to kabbalah once a week if not twice a week for the best part of 10 years wow yeah wait what are the prints sorry i want to go back to the question what are the principles of kabbalah oh my god there's so many there's so many it's just it's the most amazing beyond mystical school of thinking that just has an answer for everything.

59:26And it's all about, well, the main things are to live a happy life. You have to get rid of the desire to receive for the self alone, and change it into the desire to receive for the sake of sharing. Then it's based on the idea that we're all a vessel and that we have to just grow a vessel all the time so that we can hold more, right? And that's the whole thing about desire is it's actually a good thing because that's what allows you to share and be more like the light is what they call it. Like you want to be like the light in all the different qualities that God, the universe, divine, whatever you want to call it has.

1:00:01So that's like what they say our whole mission on this planet is to be. Then they have this concept, I'm like whizzing through this, but they have this concept called tikkun, which is your karmic correction that you have to make in this lifetime. So what is it that you have to overcome based on what you used to do, what you've done before in your previous life? What is it that you have to achieve? Then they have, it's all about like, as well, non-reaction. And they have this thing called the proactive formula, which is how you handle any type of situation that triggers you or that upsets you or whatever.

1:00:31It's actually really clever because you replace that person with the light. So it's like, Krista said this, that made me feel that, is I replaced that with the light said this, that made me feel that, because that's what's happening is God is working through you to make me feel something. So when I take you out of the equation, it's just my relationship with the light. Wow. These are just like the basic things that they teach you. But it's so deep and nuanced. I'm in. You guys should have, there's a couple of amazing people. You could definitely have them on your podcast because they would explain it in so much of a better way.

1:01:02I'm fascinated. But it's like so many tools for defeating ego and how to kill. It's all about killing your ego and that type of stuff too. Yeah, it's amazing. So I'm a believer for sure in reincarnation From a human design perspective, I believe that you can see the traits that you've always had as a soul and see the ones that you've chosen for this lifetime. And obviously, there's a difference because if you can tune into the ones that you've always been, that's like the eternal nature of your like soul essence. And then there's a couple of things that you pick up this time. So you're kind of like, oh, I really need to be gregarious this lifetime because it's going to help me with achieving.

1:01:40actually the fact that I used to shrink for people in my previous life or something like that. What do you think your past lifetime karma to balance this one is? Oh my gosh. So I've done, they do this in Kabbalah a lot. So I've done about four or five past lifetime regressions. And it's kind of crazy because you would think, or I used to think before I started one that I would, oh, I would just see this thing, this other life that I would make up or whatever. And then how do I even know that that's real? but when I did it with my teacher, she saw what I saw. So there's no way that I made that up.

1:02:15Wow. Do you know what I mean? Yeah. So it's like, okay, that's when you start to think maybe there's like a little bit of validity to this. Wow. But what do I think my karmic thing in this lifetime? I've been told that like warmth and relationships and getting over abandonment. I know that that's like a big thing for me. So I find it very easy to pull away when things get difficult and just to be like, I don't need you. That's fine. I'm fine by myself and almost lean away from things as like a false sense of security rather than to like lean in as much as the word vulnerable again, like what is it?

1:02:50We all think it means different things, but to really just be completely honest and share and be like from the heart, I find it so easy to be in the head. So I know that that's like a major one for me. And then a second one, I mean, that's probably, you know, I could think of 25, but a second one is really about probably truly connecting to people rather than just connecting on like a mind level. Because I think it's very easy for me to like sex with a lot of people. Yeah. Thanks, Krista. Like more than the mind. Yeah, absolutely.

1:03:30I'm just kidding. I get that from like a heart to heart soul level, like really that's And vulnerability as well. Yeah. Yeah, totally. Really, truly like, you know, not... I guess my mind comes up with reasons why it's safer to distance myself from people rather than actually to say, oh no, they're just human. Like not to take it so seriously. Totally. Okay, that person's hurting you. That person's this for you though. Okay, just go for them anyway. Do you know what I mean? Go towards them, run towards them. It's fine. You know, like people don't have all this power over you that you believe that they have.

1:04:00Yes. And so I think I really had that kind of like powerlessness thing. That I'm only just starting to kind of like get over where it's just like they're just humans and they're lovely and they're wonderful. Yes. The mind is powerful. It will create those truths. Would love to just touch on each energy type and just kind of like rounding out the year, like acknowledging like how they might have experienced this as that energy type and then what they can bring as far as their living their type into the new year. That's a really, that's such a good, I've never even thought about that. On the spot.

1:04:39Here we go. So the first thing I would say is that with generators, I always start with generators because I've, and Ra Uru, the man who started, who founded human design always said, if we can heal generators, then they'll heal the world. Wow. And so I really feel there's a strong emphasis on generators because they really have this conditioning of it's either my happiness or it's other people's happiness. Oh, that's the truest. Really? I just, I have a few generators in my life and that's like exactly who they are. They just love to make people happy. They love to give to other people, which is what they're here to do.

1:05:15Got it. But not in such a direct way, not where they're like literally going out of their way to compromise, but instead, but that trust, if they're doing something that they love, by, you know, almost default, it's going to happen. So with generators, I would say, and I like now I'm bored of saying it because it's like become a thing of like, just do what lights you up. It's not that simple. You know, like we always come back full circle to the beginning of the conversation. It's not that simple. But I guess just understanding that you can, it doesn't have to be so complicated. Like you can just find those little moments of joy that you can string together.

1:05:46And to really set up your day that way where a little bit of joy then creates more joy. And it's like a bit of a momentum. So even if you're just giving an hour to your passion, don't think, oh, well, an hour is not going to leave me anywhere. It's not going to whatever. It just always going to feed into the next thing. And I think it's really difficult for generators because they feel this responsibility to create that good energy and to lift other people up. Where it's like, actually, if you stop thinking about making other people happy and do what makes you happy, again, only by trying it, you're going to see that this works.

1:06:16But it really does work. And it's kind of magical. So that's number, that would be generators. Because I would just say like, look through your Instagram, look through your real life, look through the magazines, look through whatever. Again, it's about that responding. So you're not going to come up with what makes you happy necessarily on your own. But life will show you like life is a little buffet saying, do you like this? Do you like that? What about this? What about that? And so it's your job to respond by saying, oh, yeah, I do like that. Maybe note that one down. So I think that's probably a good exercise for generators to do, especially if they feel like they're depleted, because that's a sign that they're not doing enough of what makes them happy.

1:06:53The second thing I would say is manifestors. we're moving into a really interesting time where manifestors of your, I want to say, old time manifestors were people that took over countries and led wars and were kings and queens and all that type of thing. And manifestors of today, they don't want to do any of that. They just want to be left in peace. And so I think they feel this big responsibility to like lead, but they also, there's this conflict between also just leave me the F alone. So with manifestors, I would say like, take the pressure off yourself to come up with this like grand thing that you're going to end up doing and just go off and do it because people will follow you.

1:07:29Don't worry about bringing people with you. Just go off and do it and go down your rabbit hole. Like think of J.K. Rowling. She just went off and wrote Harry Potter and then people want to get on board and get into that world with her. You know, or Gloria Steinem. Like just go off and do it. Peter Kelly. You know what I mean? Peter, oh, she's just, I mean, the ultimate hero. and I want to be on her train everything she posts I'm like yes oh my god I'm your biggest fan love it love it I want to go wherever you're going to take me take me there exactly exactly it's so inspiring and then projectors it's going to be a little yeah I think it's interesting because a projector's not self so every type has a not self and that your not self in human design is the sign that happens to you when you're not living your design and so projectors sign is bitterness which means like, oh, well, screw them, or they had it better than me, or they're doing this wrong.

1:08:21And I think it can lead you into this constant fault finding cycle. And so I think the most liberating thing you can do as a projector, especially now that the world feels so triggering, and it's going to actually probably enable your not self so much more, where it's like, oh, yeah, here's all this reasons to be better. Here's all these reasons to be judgmental. And you kind of get like, an adrenaline hit, you temporarily feel better about yourself, because it affirms that you smart, that you know things, maybe that you're better than someone that you've got a more figured out than someone. I will literally say like, if you're looking for one quote unquote resolution for 2021, just like try and cut your not self off at the freaking knees and just be strict with yourself.

1:09:00Just be like your nanny and say, when you notice it come up, or you want that tendency to come up, just say no, Jenna, we're not doing this today. You can stop that. Don't have to follow that one down the rabbit hole. And then reflect it. what's Tommy I just feel for this Tommy's a projector is he yes oh that's so cool beauty boy that's awesome do you identify with that sacral authority yeah sacral what does sacral mean or splenic you might be splenic authority if you're a projector you might be a splenic authority I made it up maybe he's an artist who knows I love that I love it Lindsay you're outnumbered I'm outnumbered by a quiet 3 to 1 majority Reflectors, it's so interesting.

1:09:45I think there is also a pressure on reflectors nowadays, especially nowadays, because of the social media that, and what you were saying earlier, that we kind of like measure where we're at. It's like all relative to what other people, what other people are doing and stuff. And because for a reflector, their biggest journey is about embracing being all of it. I would almost not judge yourself for, I don't want to say copying people, But like, it's kind of okay that you want to like, be like loads of different people. It's not like a disempowering thing for a reflector. It's not like a copying thing.

1:10:20It's not, do you know what I mean? If you see a vibe that you're into, it's absolutely fine to just go and be that for a bit. You know what I mean? Because they are such blank slates and it's actually healthy for you for your karma because your karma is this temptation to label, to stay in one thing, to stay stuck, to say I'm this, to say I'm that. So anywhere where you're putting a restriction on who you can be, it's actually quite good medicine to just like have a couple of different costumes that you can like maybe go into and try on it actually helps you break the pattern whereas it's interesting right for maybe someone else trying to be like other people trying to you know that it would just come with a different intention or whatever whereas right for a reflector to use that as a little bit of a like rigidity breaking exercise can sometimes be a good thing cool

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1:13:18Well, there will be loads of other new designs, but there will also be completely DNA-wise, like structurally completely different to us. So I think about, was it you that were we talking about the Yogi Bhajan quote the other day of the prediction that in the Aquarian age, a third will wake up and a third will go mad and a third will die or something like that. I often think about from a human design perspective. And from a lot of other historical perspectives too are kind of coming to that nexus that human design is also at. Yeah, exactly. Of that same. To be honest, it's all these things that have any wisdom to share.

1:13:55They're all, it's all coming from the same place. they're all saying the same thing. So I usually say like tune into the person rather than the school thought. Like, you know what I mean? There's so many human design literatures, for example, that people feel limited by, you know? And it's technically still human design, but it's a different person's energy that you're plugging into. You know what I mean? So if so many people have had readings with like astrologers and they'll say, oh my God, my astrologer said the exact same thing that you said. And it's like, well, that's not because of the human design or this.

1:14:25You know what I mean? And it's just because they are different ways that we have of accessing truth. And I think of one day, hopefully we won't need these different tools because we'll just be so tapped into our own intuition. I don't think that human design is the be all and end all by any stretch of the imagination. It's just like training wheels, getting us to a certain place where we can be like, oh yeah, I remember what I was like as a kid and I never lost it. Maybe that's a little utopian, but who knows. But so the rave children, to go back, sorry, I'm so tangential. To go back to the rave children, it's when I think about it with that Yogi Bhajan quote is I just think that they will be people that are just so maybe because of all the work that we're doing on shedding and unbecoming we will have earned for humanity a new like up levels type of thing that will bring us a contribution you know like they'll also pay us back a little bit for the work that we're doing of like undoing all this generational crap and all these beliefs and mentalities and ways of operating to bring them in.

1:15:25So it's like we have a reciprocal relationship with them where we're bringing them in, but then they're going to help us. Wow. I don't know. I'm going to have a rave child. I'm going to have a rave child. With those furry boots. I know. Yeah, literally. Dressed for, what's it called? Dressed for rave. The place that everyone goes. Burning Man. Burning Man, yeah. Oh my God. Dressed for rave. She's got like little X tape over her nipples. speaking of like children in like garb yesterday i found out this is very random at the end of our show fashion nova has a kids line and it's disgusting it's called nova kids i know what i'm googling after this that is so weird fashion nova is like a brand it's just it's a brand i'm so glad you don't know what fashion nova is that makes me happy it's a brand and they have a kids line and it's oh it's a pedophile's dream it's so gross it's like tube tops that are like sheer I swear I can't I was like it was unreal last night it was unreal what is your biggest learning from this year?

1:16:25my biggest learning is learning to be warmer genuinely learning to be warmer to people I think you're so warm no but you say that with a frown because I've it's easy for me to be warm I guess it's with people that I'm really really intimate with it's very difficult for me to be warm with those people because I can easily be I can ice queen in and out. Oh, I feel that. Totally. Yeah. So learning to not ice queen, to defrost, that's been a huge one. And the reason why it really, like I've been working on it since I met him four years ago, but this year, because we had to be around each other 24 seven.

1:17:06I think like that level of intimacy just takes like all your crap up to the surface. Yes. And that's one of the reasons why I think it was so hard for us because there was no place. Like one of my best friends said like, I can't just go to the hair salon when I'm mad. Like my kid or, you know, you can't just, the guy can't just, you know, he can't just go off to the, whatever. Like, and it's that. So you get to see you're ugly and you're like, whoa, I freeze people out. And yet the thing I want the most is intimacy. And it's like, what? How hypocritical of me. I very much relate. If you haven't said it already on the podcast.

1:17:39I think that's a good one. I very much relate to like ice queen vibes. that's why we think each other is warm yeah 100 % literally no I think I think that I'm very very very very warm to everyone but I can get with people that are intimate more icy than like like there I have this girl that I grew up with and she's married to her husband and the way that she speaks about her husband always blows my mind. Like it's so crazy. Like she'll just like, he lost his job as an example. And she's like, yeah, I mean, we are going to make it through anything. And I love him and I support him. So, you know, we got this, like whatever he needs is just blah, blah, blah.

1:18:27I'm like, I would never say that. Like, it's just not, it's not like I wouldn't think it, but I would never say that. That's amazing. So it's just, I always like gives me pause. I'm like, why don't I ever think that sort of sweetly, you know, in an intimate relationship sometimes? Same. But maybe it's because of our voice. Like, I think it's obviously because of being hard on yourself. So you're very hard on the person. Yeah, that's so facts. Yeah, that's big facts. That's the biggest facts. I would say, I think that's a good one. Yeah, I think that's something. But what would I say? I think this year has been speaking my truth.

1:19:04And, you know, that's so annoying and overused. But really, it's like feeling like I can safely say what I feel and not being attached to the outcome of what it is. And so I'm really in process with that. I think it really shows, though. Like you can tell that you're so fine with what you feel, which is what speaking the truth is. It's like being fine with what your genuine reaction is to things, right? Like even your Instagram post from today, I'm just like oh you're just laying down you're just explaining it you're just laying it down as is yes not needing to sometimes speaking your truth becomes it's like motherhood is hard and it has to be this big giant like dramatic expression which is also true but I love what people like you do where it's like the middle like sometimes I feel pressure to do this and it's not as glamorous or not as earth shattering but it's and I'm not someone that like over like can fake anything I cannot fake anything.

1:20:02So it wouldn't be in my character to fake it. So people believe it. You know what I mean? I could never be like, over speaking a truth, so that people think I'm speaking my truth. So that then I'm convincing myself I'm speaking my truth. I always like, yeah, I just could never could never do that. Wow, you're like inside my head right now. Well, to your point of like that rah-rah, like going out there and speaking your truth, I think it like walks the line of like... I like saying rah-rah. Rah-rah. It walks the line of like just wanting attention over wanting to make personal impact. Or, you know, like there's just this line where it's like...

1:20:45Yes. And it gets lost. You know, you either have people with that or you absolutely don't. You know, it's definitely... I think you can tell right away when it's not for them. The energy. Yeah. Yeah. You're like, oh, yeah. Why are you yelling at me? Yeah. Or just making me feel bad about how. Yes. You know what I mean? Yeah. And why does speaking your truth involve shaming other people? And again, it's like we could all three of us say the same exact truth. But you could tell. You can tell what's behind it. Yes. And that's what we have to start doing more of instead of taking everything at face value.

1:21:19Yes. Definitely. I think people are actually very good at it. Same. You know, I think people are very good energy readers. Like it's actually very powerful to see what people see, people resonate with and what people don't. You know what I mean? Yeah. There's like a, especially digitally, that's very hard. Yeah. But I think everyone, you know, like this whole thing of like, I'm a psychic or I'm an empath or I can feel energies or I can read people. I'm intuitive. It's like, I think everyone is, but some people do it without even knowing that that's what they're doing. And even if you're not consciously doing it, you feel, I don't know, like maybe more attracted to that person when they're really in their vibe or what, you know, when there's something that they do that feels off, you're like, I don't like it so much when they do this or whatever.

1:22:00So we know, we know we're built for alignment. It's our language. Yes. We know it. What's yours? Mine, I'm the sponge. So I have been really working on like when that happens, because I know it's just kind of a part of... You're tired of it? Yes. it's just I know that's a part of me but it definitely funny you're touching where yeah where your concentrated sponges it definitely does not serve me all the time so I'm like kind of I forget how I feel in many moments where I'm picking up on what other people are feeling thinking and it just yeah it makes me forget yeah so I'm just working on that yeah big time staying in your center.

1:22:47It's like in your center. Yeah. And usually it's just like, how can I come back to my body? You know, because I feel like I just, I leave a little bit. And then I'm like, okay, so either doing something physical or even just like jumping up and down or just like remembering like, hi, you are here. Yeah. You can like ask me. Yeah. Like you can kind of go here to ask how you feel and what you want. Yeah. Rather than always feeling like my energy is like little tentacles like out there. So I have to like really work on pulling it back in. Yeah. Yeah, that's so cool. You know, this year also, I would say was the year that I learned how to have a deep breath.

1:23:23It was like a weird thing to say. But like actually breathe. And I don't just mean, it's funny, like all the breath work and stuff is like take a deep breath and you hear people like breathe like, yeah, like this almost. And I learned that actually that isn't what a deep breath feels to me. Like a deep breath is when you see a baby like literally like puffing in and out almost out of their control. No, yes. And I learned like, oh, I had one of those this year. And I remember being like, oh, that's restorative. Oh. Oh. That's beautiful. We hold our breaths all day long. All day long. We breathe in.

1:23:55You know, you like always breathe in instead of breathing out. Yeah. Yeah. It's crazy. And like when I learned how to like just breathe naturally, not consciously. You know, when people say like, take a deep breath in. I can't like, that's not, that's still trying to effort the breathing. Yeah. Whereas if I just like actually let my body breathe me, then there's like a difference. I'm like, oh, that feels so good. Wow. But it just makes you think like we really do, like most of my days I'm not breathing. Same. So here. 100%. This year, I think, yeah, so many different lessons.

1:24:39Bye.