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30:24As powerful as those are, I can't get myself to sit down and do them. It doesn't have to be that way also. Yes. What is it, Abraham Mix says 17 seconds? For some reason, Abraham Mix says 17 seconds is like how to hold the feeling and the emotion. I was at this dinner one time with these women. They were all like billionaire women founders. They were so successful. I was standing among giants. And the thing that they said that that made them most successful was doing mind movies. Wow. And they basically take like Pinterest boards where they do like images of the things that they want, that they want to manifest and experience.

30:59And then they put their favorite music underneath it. So it evokes the emotion at the same time. And then they just play it. So powerful. And like allow the feeling. So them just like doing that. I actually did that on my Pinterest board as well. Like with some music where you can just kind of like watch to like be in the feeling, evoke the feeling. And then also see the images of the thing that you want to create. I had this weird part of me though with Pinterest or like images where I'm also like, I think there's a part of me that knows how powerful my mind is and sometimes gets afraid that I'm going to create something in my reality that God is not my number one like aligned experience.

31:35Oh, interesting. Do you know what I mean? Like where it's like, if it's my desire, it's good. But it's like, sometimes I think God's plan's better. So sometimes I just like want to not be so precise about what I'm trying to manifest because I just, I think I'm limited sometimes. Like if I think I was like years ago when I manifested a relationship that I was in, I got every single thing I wanted, but I was short-sighted in what I knew I should have. And so sometimes I'm like trying to play with that. So how do you play? How do you think about that? How do you think about like God's plan versus like what we want to manifest in life?

32:08I actually see the two as really beautifully interconnected to a certain extent. So like if there's something that you feel really called to do with your life or a place that you really want to move or a general relationship you want to have, not necessarily with a specific person. I personally don't believe in that. I think God knows who we are supposed to be with ultimately or the journeys we're supposed to take with different souls. I think God places on our hearts certain things like, oh, I really feel called to live in this city because who are you going to meet there? Think about all the things that will happen as a result of you being in that city.

32:42and I think that we all have been given very specific like destinies and callings and it's the thing that excites you the very very most because it's how you're doing God's work on God's earth however I think where we get stuck is when we get so focused on the hyper specifics and this is just my experience because I'm a non-specific manifester in human design same so I found that when I get really obsessed with like I was just thinking today about when I was graduating college, I really wanted to work at a consulting firm, which is kind of funny. And I was like, I worked at a consulting firm. I wanted to work at like a advertising firm.

33:16Oh, my friends are doing ads for Kellogg's. Yeah. And so yeah, you see everybody else doing it. And like a little like what we would like to do, you know, like business or advertising. It was like just enough of what I like to do that. I was like, this is the way. Totally. And yeah, I just wanted it so badly. And like, I've always been into manifestation. So I was like, envisioning it and I had the vision boards and everything and I'm so grateful God was like no you know and like at that I could have taken that to mean something at the time about like my worthiness because I worked so hard for those case study interviews for console oh my god that was crazy yeah and I thought I slayed the interview no none of it it was like pure just complete practice yeah yeah grit I had a case study partner we would have to quiz the number of hours I put in for quite literally nothing.

34:04I'll never forget my interview. I this is when I knew I was a woman. She's the most amazing boss. I had really amazing actually female bosses in all my career of that. And she I met her at the door and it was in Chicago and I was sweating so bad. I was so hot. And I was like and we were I got out of the elevator and she said nice to see you. I was like, yeah, great weather today. And she's like looks at me like sideways. And I was like I'm kidding and we both laughed and I was like I've got this in the fucking bag I love that and then I crushed it I was like yes so good she's funny I was like yes and then the whole rest of the interview she's like tell me about how you were a server at the chicken joint and you can increase sales and I was like okay it's like let me show you this case study I love that it was like literally the best but so yeah you thought you wanted to be that but God had other plans exactly yeah but I just that's my point like it's like if God had given me the pen and was like hey write down exactly what you want at that time I could not see that something so much bigger and better was unfolding for me.

34:59And now I genuinely have my dream career, but like I never, and I would have known that if you'd asked me my senior year of college, if you would have been like, Haley, like this is what you're doing with your life. I would have been like, that's amazing. But like, I never would have known to ask for that. And I never would have seen the path forward. And so it's just trusting so entirely and totally in all the guidance and just like continuing to just surrender, surrender, surrender. Like I only want the highest timeline. And if the highest timeline for me means that it's not that job not that opportunity not the agency not that publisher please please take it away from me please because I don't know I can't see what I can't see it's like you look at that door and I want that door because the door looks pretty and I have an assumption about what's on the other side of it but I actually have no idea and it could derail my whole life so like it's really best to just let God take care of it yeah you've got it but I mean you've done that prayer and I've done that prayer too where you're like please remove anything from my life and I'm like yes oh no where is it oh my god girl I had this one thing where it was like one morning I was in yoga and I was like I don't usually do protective or removal prayers that's just not I'm usually like blessings abundant I'm usually just more a little bit more positive and I was like I just felt very called and it was like god please remove from my life any relationships people or things that like are not supporting me in my highest timeline greatest truth whatever girl hours later hours hours later just wow wow what happened traumatic helpful in the end but like it is just like such a powerful one when you really pray yes so your relationship with god people ask me this all the time like i had someone come on the podcast like i think months ago and she's like so you're religious right and i was like no i'm not no But people assume that when you say God.

36:49What was your journey with God? Like, how do you make sense of God? So, I mean, I used to call it the universe. And I still do because I'm referring to the same thing. But I would say back in 2024, I just, God started to resonate more with me. And similar to you, like, really getting into Neville Goddard, looking at the Bible differently, and starting to read the Bible, like, you get moved. It's an evocation. Absolutely. Yeah. moved. Moves you. Like listening to a lot of worship music. Girl, say less. Moved. Like I had chills talking about it. Worship music was what brought me to God. Wow. Like crying, weeping at gospel, weeping at elevation worship, weeping at Maverick City music, weeping at Chandler Moore.

37:32Weeping. Just like there is nothing like the vibrational frequency of the Holy Spirit in music. Absolutely. I have chills all over again, completely. And so yeah, doing everything through God and the more that I've leaned into that the more I have felt such a peace around my life um more of like a direction I really love like astrology as well and like understanding myself I get so validated for through astrology looking at my transits and I see actually that as an extension of God and I think that's where like the conversation around religion when it's really restrictive and it's like no not a strong I'm like well is it possible yeah is it possible okay just like in my perception totally that they're intertwined right if it's all working for good yeah and it's helping us understand ourselves use like the tools at our disposal like it's so powerful if it's bringing us to healing and like a deep validation of who we are and it's guiding us to live the best lives possible and to be of the greatest service to others so yeah i don't have the answers i think for all all of us like faith is such an individual journey and it's just figuring out what resonates most for you and what deeply deeply deeply moves you and the language around it too honestly matters because for me when I say God I feel an axis shift yeah that like when I say the universe it feels a little more whimsical and cosmic and like synchronistic which like love that but it's been such a deepening to say God I would love your thoughts oh my gosh I just so many points I think the first part that I deeply resonate on and I was really feeling the impact of even recently was the anchorship of God and the peace of having God and I used to be someone that was so um consumed by my desire for success and and to become who I came here to be and to have more and more and you would never be friends with me and be like she like it was just an internal everything for me has always collapsed in yeah where I was just like I need to be better I need to do more I need to be doing this I never stopped working I was burning myself out doing the most just the never enoughness like when are they going to see me when am I going to get recognized when am I when are people going to see how great of an interviewer whatever it was just this constant constant thing and recently just truly feeling this like deep sense of peace and like I just if this is my life at this point I'm so happy oh if this is how good it gets I'm so happy I'm not married I don't have children if this is it I'm so happy like I never thought it makes me emotional to think that I would be at a place where I feel absolute peace in my life and I'm so grateful because having that anchor really gave me that and working with women very deeply in my coaching practice I noticed my women all of my women all over they can be with God or not most of them are because if you're working with me it's it's it's a part of how I'm moving you can move how you want but when they don't have God as as center and foundation I can tell and they're so much less peaceful and there's so much more reaching and searching and I was that for so long so having the clarity of that has just been essential and you're so right there's like a there's just a declaration energy like when you say Jesus that happens that's just so much more powerful than the universe it's almost like the universe you're like avoiding it a little bit I feel like um and I agree I love astrology I love human design like I love all of that I know who like the boss is but I just love to use the tools as well and when you really study the bible like I always study the bible too because I just want to really understand it and it's like divination is only named a few times in it as bad like it's not as intense as we think but I think religion has taken certain things and really run with it to kind of like define itself or keep us from things um yeah but it's it's just been such an important part of my life and I hope for everyone to have an experience where they can feel peace and loved by something that is so ready and willing and excited to love and work with them and guide them more deeply to their life that's so beautiful yes every i'm so glad we're so aligned same i know it's just like do people ever like ask you about it or like say anything a little i feel like i would always get comments on my tiktoks where like when i would call it the universe people would say oh you're talking about god okay and then now that i'm talking about god people are like oh is this

42:08Lindsey Simcik:a religion account and i'm like guys no i'm the same person we're just like relating to things differently and I honestly think I'm like deepening into my faith I'm not suddenly a pastor yeah I mean kind of no okay sometimes when I'm at my events I'm like can I get an amen exactly exactly if I move to tears singing the blessing yes if you catch me crying to gyra yeah it's all good watching Stephen Furtick on the weekends but I think with with worship music and gospel and all of that it's like whatever people it's like just you can't help but be moved even chancing oh my just by the like there is some shift change that happens and you know having that has just been so essential in my path um I was just curious when you were just hearing too with your journey like we were talking about God and then the music and just you're wanting to be a consultant like I would love in this I just would love to hear like in your life have you always been deeply intuitive have you always been spiritual was there ever like a rock bottom moment where you reclaimed spirituality like if someone met you 10 years ago would they say oh yeah she's going to be this person she's so positive she's so spiritual or did you become that I think 10 years ago yes but before that I actually going back to astrology went through a huge transit before my senior year of high school um i believe it was like pluto conjuncting my son or squaring my son but like a major death and rebirth fun time for that fun time fun time for that in high school are you kidding me turn up like yeah when you're the most wanting other people's approval exactly you're the most afraid of being anything else that's yes different exactly yeah it was actually right before the last time jupiter was in leo now today is the first day of jupiter in leo i'm like At that time, I was just really deeply struggling.

44:05It's like I always kind of knew who I was, but again, I'd gotten so far away from it

44:08Lindsey Simcik:because I'd suppressed it so much of like, I should pursue what I can guarantee success in and it's not going to be music and it's not going to be being on stage or being a performer or anything. And so, yeah, because that was like a true, true, true rock bottom, the way it manifested was really interesting. I had my first love and I dated when I was a junior in high school. And I know that's like so young, but. No, that was my first love. Oh, love it. I dated a few men before that, but my first love, I think I was a junior. Okay, there you go. Yeah. Deep. Deep love. Deep love. Yes. And I, because I didn't really know who I was at that time, I had like absorbed his identity.

44:44Like I was, I just fall, because he knew who he was. And so he was about to go off to college and we broke up because I was like, I can't do long distance. I don't know what I was leading into with that because he was like, okay, well then we have to break up. Yeah, I know.

44:59Lindsey Simcik:So like cancel college. you know like if you love me you're like i can't do this you're like looking back he's coming don't worry so funny i mean uh but basically like when we broke up then i was like wait like i don't have anything to fill the void or the emptiness of like not knowing who i am and at first i remember i was like still kind of leaning into like his identity which was very like wilderness hiking which like that's just i here we are in new york city i am the most cosmopolitan girl so like it It was not me, you know, but like, I just did not know who I was. Totally, girl. I had to do like the little experimentation and all that.

45:32But I ended up taking a meditation and energy work class that summer. And it was so powerful for me because I learned how to ground my energy and call all my energy back. And I mean, I was 17 years old learning this, which is like so profound. Yes. And honestly, so much shifted after that. Like I started having realizations dropping in. I just, I felt like it kind of woke me up to this sense of like, I don't fully know where, it's not like I suddenly was like, oh, I want to be a singer songwriter. That took a while, but it woke me back up to my power and the fact that like I can create my life and I wanted to pursue and like be the very, very, very best version of myself.

46:10And then of course, again, it's like this evolutionary unfolding process of all these stages of the journey. The next big, like rock bottom I would say was in 2019 I'd graduated college in 2018 felt so successful because I graduated top of my class from brown thank you I was working at this startup that I really loved but I wanted to do my own thing and so I had quit the startup to do my own thing feeling like on top of the world but my subconscious panicked completely completely panicked and I got so so so stuck like so stuck that like my face was swollen like I looked super puffy I had no motivation everything that I was trying to do at that time I was doing motivational speaking like everywhere that I was pitching myself whereas before I was getting all these speaking gigs when I actually had the job now that I was like your motivational speaking at your what well not at I when I was working at the startup I was also doing motivational speaking

47:04Lindsey Simcik:it was really fun so I was like oh I'm gonna be a motivational speaker like I'm gonna go after this whoa and then I quit my job and now there's all this pressure on it yeah and then suddenly I'm not getting a singular gig and I'm like what have I done I slash like I don't really think I want to get another job because I really felt called to do my own thing um so stuck really miserable year but that's where I found EFT tapping and once I started tapping and I rewired those beliefs and just cleared a lot out of my subconscious then I moved to New York City and within that year grew to 250 ,000 on TikTok and just completely changed my entire life.

47:44And it was the biggest 180 that like I've ever gone through in the most exhilarating way. And it's just continued to grow from there. And a lot of it, honestly, at the beginning, I was like, oh, I just kind of same to you. Like I have these goals and I want to build towards something and I want a large audience and all these things.

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51:23What was like your topics? Like, tell me about that. So it was about business. So I had a book at that time called, I still do it technically, but it's called Her Big Idea. And it was based off the honors thesis that I did in college about female self-agency and entrepreneurship and venture capital. And so I'd like turned it into a book for people who wanted to pursue starting a business. And so I turned that then into a speech called Your Big Idea, and I would go speak mainly at a few Panhellenic organizations, but mostly entrepreneurship organizations at colleges, and just encourage everybody to pursue their big idea.

51:59And it was very similar, I guess, to what I do now, because now it's more about like pursue your dream, because it doesn't have to be a business. But it was really fun, and it was really cool to see people kind of have that lightning bolt in their head of like, wait, I have an idea and I should do something about it like the idea was given to me it was really it was also just kind of scary you know getting on stage yeah like wow to college kids it's like either we did a college tour and I was like it's it's either like they're like yeah they don't give up yes yeah you know so it was tough it was very tough but I really had to learn I remember there was this one time I was actually speaking at Harvard and so I was so obviously like stoked and proud of myself and there was like one of the students dads was in the audience and the entire time like I think now well I don't know I've tapped on it so the memory is hazy so I think maybe he's like he like phased out but I just remember him just like looking at me like girl he'd never seen someone more annoying and I was like so real how do I stand here and like keep you know when there's like that one person I'm like okay focus on everyone else yeah it was such a good growth opportunity yes I always say with people speaking I'm like find a soft place to land find your one or two people that are just the soft smile the soft face everything you say that gives you that But I also had to realize too, I forget who I, I was an audience member one time when I saw someone speak on stage and I just was like listening and I tuned into myself for a second and I was like this.

53:22Because they were saying something that was actually so profound that I was processing it. And it rewired how I think about being a speaker because not everyone on, when you're speaking is going to be like, oh yeah. And actually, usually they're not paying attention if they're doing that. They want you to like validate them. There's this like cycle happening. And so, so often I have to like remember that when I look at faces on stage of like the people that are like, I'm like, they are really being blown away. That's my number one fan right there. Honestly, life is being changed. They're like sleeping.

53:56Confirm, yes. Confirm. They are meditating and letting it soak in. I've sent them to another dimension. Yes, holding back emotion right there. Yes, they're on their phone. They are taking notes because they have to tell everybody that the speech is changing.

54:08Lindsey Simcik:them. They're blowing me up right now. They're literally following me and tagging me. I mean, okay. So you were a motivational speaker, top of your class. You wanted to be in consulting, made music. You have your business. You've done so many different things and you've pivoted so much. What is your pivot right now? What kind of transformation and changes are you experiencing right now in your life? I really feel called to do lifestyle and blogging content. Cool. Oh my God. I've been loving. You're so good. thanks thank you looks so good i just want to have fun you know say less honey girl i think that's the whole thing is even when you were like oh i don't know if it was before we're talking about aliens i was like girl i started talking about aliens in like 2020 and i'm like i'm kind of over that i just want to like talk about like basic shit yeah you know like you kind of like in the spiritual journey like it's like i've gone so deep on so many different things and even like conspiracy land i know so many of them and it's just like at some point i'm like i just want to kiki yeah i just want to like lay back in a hammock read a good fiction book so real you know make a nice or this is the time and like i feel like i don't know if it's a combination because but then i don't know my reticular activating system is obviously like tuned in for that but i'm seeing so many people say that and feel that way in general of just like you know the last phase of being super spiritual is like becoming materialistic yeah i saw that yeah i saw that like on the private jet i'm like yes or just like yeah just wanting to have fun yes okay great I'm a human like now let's enjoy it you know now that I really do feel peaceful and happy and like now I just want to like express myself and like connect with people and like yes isn't that all I really wanted period so but I like thought I needed the success first or so real yeah I also think for me too with the spirituality this is I think me personally like I um I think sometimes in the spirituality space there's so much spiritual ego that I've always realized over the years of like you know oh I channel Mary Magdalene and also I am like you know where people kind of one up use spirituality to one up stuff and so I've always felt like a little bit adverse to sharing publicly about so much spiritual topics because I'm like there's that and then also too I'm like what is the best most efficient way to get them into spirituality is like God and prayer yes completely and like bringing them to that you know what I mean yeah I think also when I first started doing a lot of spiritual content is so many people would come to me with such profound questions that I'm like, I don't think I'm equipped to be answering these questions.

56:38You know what I mean? Yeah, real. And so I'm like, well, here's how I would think about it. Then I'm like, I, that's not on me. Like, I don't know. I'm also just a human trying to figure it out.

56:48Lindsey Simcik:Totally. And like, yeah, I obsess over this stuff and I pour over the books on it. And like, I'm constantly learning. I'm genuinely geek out over it. Totally. But I don't have all the answers. And I'm not supposed to. Totally. I think for a while there, I was like, I have to have all the answers. So let me figure this out so I can help so many people. Lately, I'm like, let me just share what I feel called to share, what's working for me. And I hope it resonates with people. And that's all I can do. I don't need to be, I don't need to have all the answers. What a relief. What have been your tried and true things that you always come back to in your routine of spirituality?

57:22What have been your favorites? EFT Tappy, my obsession. It is really good. It's so good. Whenever I tap every morning, I literally use my own replays from Dream Away. I love that. Obsessively use them. Whenever I do that consistently, like every single morning, I just feel phenomenal all the time. I'm like, wow, I feel so good having realizations, left, right, up, down. It's just amazing. I also really love reading the Bible. I like to just close my eyes, ask God what God wants to show me today, open to a random page, and then see what it says. And sometimes I have no idea what it's saying. Other times it's hitting really hard.

58:00That happens too often for me, actually. Like I just actually was like, God, if you want me to read the Bible, have it come to me. Because like there's some things in life I just, I need like an invitation almost. Totally. And so I had a friend randomly send me a Bible. And I'll keep it 100. It's an evocation. But also a lot of times I open, I'm like, what's going on? Yeah. sometimes I really don't know sometimes I okay let me try again let's go back to John yes exactly I know my tried and true spot John James I'll just review the ones I understand I'll go back to my faves but I'll read some and I'm like what story are we talking about it's crazy I mean the bible is like poems, stories haikus, talking directly long list of names sometimes when I open to those I'm like I don't know what to do with this what is the message here I opened the wrong page clearly.

58:55Yeah, you got in another one. Yeah. Okay, so the Bible's one. What else? Yes. Honestly, lately it's kind of just been those two. I really love just reading something that gets me beyond myself or returns me to truth. And lately I just really have been finding that in the Bible and asking like, what would God want me to believe about this? Like something that I say a lot in Dream Away is what is the divine truest truth of the situation?

59:20Lindsey Simcik:Love that. And the truest truth is the thing that makes you feel the most relieved, excited, delighted, because, you know, that's the closest to truth. And through that, it guides me a lot back to whatever it is that I need to know. And then again, I do love Neville Goddard. I feel like I was last fall, I was really watching like a YouTube video of listening to Neville Goddard most days. I would say, you know, every few weeks or so, do a good deep dive. take myself to university i'm writing notes like yes his lecture i love him um it's so okay so what would you i guess if someone was like i want to use your quote that you use in dream away membership to their life of like what is the divine truth right truest truth what is the truest truth how could they use that in their life like say they are in a job they don't really like they know they're made for more and they want to become that more but they don't really know what to do like how could they use that in their life to make to move them forward well okay then I'm getting into Nancy Drew mode every time I hear one of these situations I'm like okay well first yes yes first we have to understand why you don't believe you can leave your job and create the new thing like what is the main assumption or belief that's running the show and I go ahead role play okay so I I just don't think I can make money like I I make good money at my job and I don't I can make money doing the thing that I want to do.

1:00:44Where did you learn that? I think I just see it everywhere. Like I don't, at my house and with my family, like not a lot of people do podcasting or do content creation. So I don't really know anybody that makes money doing that. Do you, like when you look to people who are podcasting or doing content creation, like do you have a few people in mind, even if you don't personally know them? Yeah, I love Haley Hoffman Smith. And what do you think she believes about herself? That she's amazing and she's capable of anything and that if it's in God's will she can have it. I love that. So how are those beliefs not a fit for what you currently believe about yourself?

1:01:20I think it can happen for her but not me. And when you were growing up was there somebody who seemed to have it happen for them but it didn't happen for you? My big sister. And what did that make you believe about yourself? That it happens easily for her but not for me. And what would have to happen in your life so that it would happen easily for you? I think I would have to have, I guess, proof that it would happen easily for me. But I don't know how it's going to happen because I don't know if I'm going to quit my job. Got it. Well, what do you think the divine truest truth of this would be?

1:01:50What would you rather believe about yourself? What I rather believe? That I'm capable of making money being myself. And I'm capable of having the podcast and having the Instagram where I can just share my truth and my heart and my spiritual teachings and make money. And if we can make that truth even truer, even more divine, what would excite you even more about that? That I can have the podcast and Instagram account of my dreams and I can make money being myself and I can live abundantly and it can happen really easily for me. And in a way that's really organic and natural. And how would that be like you as a vessel for God by pursuing that dream?

1:02:31Because I'd make people feel really happy and I'd make them feel aligned and excited. and I'd remember and I'd remind them who they truly are. And so does it make sense that you're called to that for a reason and the path is already paved for you? Now what? Now it's happening. Now it's time to do it. Now we tap it in. Now we tap it in. Yeah, now we tap it in. And now every time the memories of your sister and this hypothetical situation come up, we tap and we clear those memories. And it's like, okay. What would I rather believe? And so I'd be clearing the memories of like, my sister having it easily for me.

1:03:00I'd be like, my sister has it happen easily for her. It can happen easily for me too. So actually, in the way that I have learned to do it that's so wildly effective is we would go back into the memory bank. So like, do we have specific memories of times that your sister?

1:03:13Lindsey Simcik:Yeah. Got it. Got it easily. Okay, let's go back into those memories. How do you know you're there? Do you see it? Do you feel it? And then let's tap and let's clear it. Let's tap on the memory because then it's changing the neural pathway from the root. And then let's envision a new truth about it. We could even imagine the memory differently. you're not going to get amnesia and suddenly like literally forget everything that happened but like can you also see yourself getting what you wanted easily when you were a kid even if you're like making it up but it's like a past visualization yeah let's imagine doing like the instagram and the podcast and it going so well and like the best message you get messages you could get from people who really love you yeah and people you're really resonating with and yeah as you tap and you clear the memories it really does change the belief it's like that's what i love about tapping too is it's so satisfying yeah like in real time you're going back and you're like okay let me check it and you're like where'd it go or like i'm really feeling a change yeah i know i do that i do something called um bars do you know access consciousness so i got trained in something called access consciousness in la i have like a bunch of weird trainings that i've done but um and there's something called bars and basically you're holding at certain points on the the head and because it's almost like cranial sacral in the way of like your energy creates um energy between you're able to rewire things wow and um I've literally been in mid talking about a limiting belief and I'm like I don't know what we're talking about like I will be like I have no idea what we're talking about and I'll notice myself trying to catch it and then I'll be like don't catch it like I have to tell myself to not catch it and I'll be like let it go no I'll be driving home and I'll be like I have no idea what that session was about that's iconic no it's so there was a period in time it was like January of 2024 I think I was having a kundalini awakening it was kind of a like manic episode kundalini waking I'm not even really sure but I was doing it every week and I was like cracked out because it was just so many beliefs so many things at once and even with you know you know what's happening it's just like can move things so yeah so quickly it's like it's crazy it's so good I'm obsessed I'm like when in doubt tap it out I know when in doubt tap it out Okay, so the Bible tapping are your favorite things.

1:05:24What are some of the things you see in your community that are like, what are some of the things that they're struggling with right now? And like, what is the message that you'd want to give them? I think it's a lot around worthiness is the main thing that came to mind. So real. A classic. So real. A classic. Classic. Because it factors into everything. It's like a few months ago, I hosted a session in Dream Away called The Hope Wound around, you know, all the times in the past that you wanted something and it didn't work out. And so now it feels scary to hope. Real. and that feels really connected to worthiness very real like bringing faith back in yes and so yeah i would say it's and not to sound cliche but like it is safe to hope and to see like what god is doing in your life like there's that bible verse that says like i am doing a new thing and that just keeps playing in my head the last several weeks and it's like you just never know

1:06:13Lindsey Simcik:when things can just turn around on a dime and also knowing too like it always helps me to remember that we experience what we believe, even if what we believe isn't true. And for so long, I was living by limiting belief. So I was only experiencing it. It wasn't true about myself, but it was the only thing I believed. And therefore, it was the only thing I could experience or discern in my reality. And so knowing that we can change the belief and it changes our experience. And so anything in your life that you're unhappy with can change. And it can change through the Holy Spirit. It can change through you rewiring your subconscious mind, a combination of them both together.

1:06:53And it's safe to hope again because there's so many tools nowadays to help you rewire it, to genuinely change. And when you're called to something, you're called to it for a reason. It's like that song, like, you've called me higher, you've called me deeper, and I will go where you will lead me, Lord. Woo, gave me chills. You are being called to something higher. And it's answering that call knowing it's not just a silly little desire that you just came up with in your head it's an actual calling which means

1:07:19Lindsey Simcik:the way has already been prepared for you it's just about taking the steps to walk forward and to let go of anything in the way any old mindsets or beliefs that say it can't be that way for me god that's so good hope wound that is so good yeah because you can see people stop themselves from dreaming or wishing like that's like most people they're like totally you know i got my heartbroken or I didn't get this thing and they are afraid yeah and it's like painful to hope again in those cases but it doesn't have to and we have to hope in order to let it in yeah right because we're like no no no no way then like God can't work in our lives I remember that so much with my someone close to me in my life with love and relationships they had struggled a lot in love and relationships and in the end just really completely lost hope for themselves with love and yeah it was really tough to see because you could see and I do you know parts work is like my thing so I could see the part of them that was just protecting them from having their heart broken again by telling them that they shouldn't hope yes and you know for the work that I do it's like really being present to the heartbroken one the one that had hope and got you know sad or all of that and rewiring that because you actually with anything you want in your life you do have to have hope hope is like the motivating factor hope is like the belief in action it's almost like faith faith and hope are very similar similar like cousins and so believing that you know is an essential part of the process and I think it'd be an interesting inventory for people and I'll even do this myself of like what is something that I've lost hope on in my life and like where could I bring back that hope of like whatever that is whether it's relationship whether it's friendship whether it's like career and it's interesting and I'm just kind of going on like a little riff but I'm thinking about being surrendered and having hope because hope there is like a there's kind of skin in the game energetically and it's like how would someone stay surrendered but also have hope yeah I think it goes back to make those full circle yeah just have like God's plan first.

1:09:34So I have hope for ultimately being in a marriage or I have hope for ultimately having the career of my dreams. Okay.

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1:12:10Lindsey Simcik:is offering our listeners up to 50 % off at bylaurene.com slash almost 30. That's B-U-Y-L-A-R-I-N-E.com slash almost 30 for up to 50 % off. But I'm surrendered to how that comes into my life. Yeah. And I trust that the presence of the hope, the fact that it lights me up to imagine having it means that I'm meant for it. Yeah. But in the past, a lot of times too, like the hope wound came from being hyper attached to things that were so specific and so not meant for us a good one right because then we're like oh it must mean about me that i'm not worthy of being in a relationship because i was focused on that guy who was so avoidant like no it was just like god was like no yeah that is not the path that is not the one honey or i oh i'm not worth having the career of my dreams because that one job i wanted so so so badly which like i couldn't see behind the scenes but like had a really toxic workplace yes or there was a better opportunity for me but like we took it to mean we shouldn't have hope anymore yes like sometimes I imagine the divine is like what where are they coming up with this like these are the craziest stories honestly yeah they're like these people are just so yeah I see worthiness a lot do you also see like a lot of women right now I don't know why this is coming through around like abundance yeah and money like how do you see your your audience relating to that like what advice would you give for them to feel more abundant.

1:13:34I think too, last night I was hosting a dream away money date called the responsibility wound. And what was really coming through was money feeling heavy or feeling like you need to be overly responsible because what if it doesn't stay forever? Yeah. And even if more comes in, what if it's just temporary? Yep. Which is also kind of a hope wound, right? Yeah. Or like there's a deeper belief there that like it couldn't possibly be good forever. And I was reading the miracle power of your mind by joseph d murphy at the beginning of this year and there was a line in the book that just really rocked me and it basically just said if the forecast is doom and

1:14:11Lindsey Simcik:gloom then it's not from god and it's not true and our subconscious minds are so rigged to be like what is possibly going to go wrong and to attach the fear story because it makes us feel safe but then we're carrying the heaviness of that feeling responsibility wounds let me be so so so responsible let me always make sure let me double check and it's like keeping our hands completely completely clenched versus like I just think about all the times in the past that I was so worried about money and I'd be like I'm not okay like I would just think that out of nowhere and then I was always fine right but like the fear and what the fear is saying it's never true like all think about all the times in your life you felt genuine fear it was so real for you and yet the thing that you were afraid of didn't even happen yep and so what's the divine truth of that what's the divine And true is true.

1:14:57We're always provided for. And it can actually keep getting better and better and better. And then going back to like rewiring beliefs around it, a lot of us have beliefs around like making more than a certain amount of money, holding more than a certain amount of money. What are the costs associated with making more money and how people might feel about that or what I need to do? And then it's just about rewiring those beliefs so that we can allow in more and feel more safe having and holding and making and earning more. so it's again it's like this combination the stance of like trusting the divine and then also rewiring the beliefs that are in the way of like stepping into the abundance that we that we seek and desire i think with i'm i don't know if this is related to the responsibility one but i see it's because it sounds similar to me but i feel like a lot of times with my women it's like they're like i want to be creative i want to be expressed i want to kind of just be in my feminine and they think that means they don't have to look at money relate to money work with money be you know like in relationship with money and I see that as like oftentimes for me one of the reasons why so many women are not more abundant or successful because of their fear of really being in relationship and being a steward yeah of money and being um having respect for money and having a way to be with money that allows them to be more abundant from a foundational level because they just don't want to look at it yeah they're like I just want to make more like kind of do do my thing and it's like you actually have to have that masculine frame and that relationship with money where you can relate to money in a way that allows your creativity to flow and so I love the point of like a responsibility wound because it is like people assume they have to work harder for money people assume they have to like like continue to like do something they don't love for money like there's so many ways in which and I think right now women are really rewriting their relationship to money like really yeah women are just completely changing the game um what would you say last two questions what would you say like your favorite books to recommend people are like some of your book favorite recs that you love to share with people I love Miracle Power of Your Mind by Joseph D.

1:17:06Murphy. It is a huge book. It is like a giant textbook, almost like a coffee table book. And I will just like leaf through it at various times. It's another one that sometimes I'll just like open up to. I have a book called You Have the Magic. It's about tapping and rewiring your subconscious mind. And let's think. I also, let's do a fiction recommendation. I just read this amazing book called The Seven Year Slip by Ashley Postet. I've heard of it. it is so good deeply moved me what's it about it's about this girl who basically like her great her aunt passed away wasn't her great aunt i don't know why i said that it was an aunt who was great and she's it's a great aunt sounds more like a book yeah yeah it's a magical realism book so whenever she's in the apartment sometimes it flashes back seven years in the past and this like boy is staying there at that apartment from seven years ago but I don't want to give anything else away yeah but it's really good and when I it was my first fiction book back in the fiction world because I had like only read non-fiction for a decade and so when I was starting out the book I'm like this didn't happen like it's also like fantasy like this would never happen and then by the end I'm like like literally sobbing I'm like this book changed me so good that's blowing my mind because I actually started to read that's non-fiction or fiction fiction um there's some things in life I will never understand and that's fiction and non-fiction yeah like I oh okay no no you're like fiction like it's made up fiction's made up fiction non-fiction fake not made up okay okay no I'm never gonna know this I know it's a lot left my mind already so I read some my one of my friends is like you have to read fiction so I started to read some and I think I came at it with the same brain that had been reading self-help and like yeah of course the miracles and like c.s lewis and richard and all these people and i actually came in the first book i read i was like so fake yeah literally i was like what's the point no i was like typical story i was like two guys want her one's bad one's the good guy like i just was kind of like picking it apart totally and that's so interesting because you do kind of come at that frame with things and you kind of have to let yourself remarinate in like a fantasy or like a dream book yes instead of also for me i'm always like she needs to tap on that belief like about the character of course now it's like gilmore girls which i've watched literally 12 times so now when i watch it i'm like if they would just tap their relationship would be amazing people that love gilmore girls i was actually talking to someone the other day she's seen it like 12 times too yeah i'm like it's a vibe it's like energy have you watched it never seen it this fall it's your moment i don't know it is such a it's like a vibe like that's what i mean though it like holds you in its embrace like it feels like yes fall and cozies and it's like the warmest feeling okay yes i will try i most things in life i've never seen like it's i just am i don't know what i love about gilmore girls is it's so good for your nervous system great there's no drama really like she has like some issues with her mom it's like about moms and daughters basically which is where i'm like you guys need to tap but it's very like light-hearted yes and comforting that's what i like i was just watching dallas cowboys cheerleaders except this season things are getting heated so i was like just like intense with them yeah so my

1:20:17Lindsey Simcik:nervous system was a little activated yeah but I need because I was like god she's gonna I was like she has to get hip surgery she's 24 like I was like it's insane that's a lot you should watch it okay I'll check it out it's so good um what are you excited about right now where can people connect with you where can people find with you anything you want to leave with our women today well I have a song coming out next week called sun kissed and actually the whole song the sun kissed is like a metaphor in the song for feeling like touched and guided by the divine wow so all All the lyrics in the song are about like, I prayed for this, I got this.

1:20:47Like, I prayed for a spark, now it's all aglow. Or I once like wanted to go faster, but now I love this pace. Wow. I prayed for true love and was led to him. My fiance, so I'm excited about planning a wedding right now. I'm getting married next September in Lake Como.

1:21:02Lindsey Simcik:Oh, bless me. So that's a big one. So yeah, it's a very happy season in many ways. So good. And everything I'm doing in Dream Away, I'm just literally obsessed with. I feel really grateful to have a business that I genuinely use religiously and obsessively and get to connect with so many other people who want to do the same through it. Yes. Yeah. So we have some Dreamway up levels coming soon and it's all good stuff. Oh, I love the idea of up levels. Yeah. That is so dope. I can't wait to watch your wedding stuff. Wedding is such a portal. Yeah. Like engagement is such a portal and it's going to be so beautiful.

1:21:39Thank you. Like it's so good. Thank you. Thank you so much. Okay, guys. Well, I hope you enjoyed. Share this with a friend. And I'll see you soon. Yay. I love you. Bye. Bye. Thank you so much, Haley, for coming on Almost 30. And thank you guys for joining us today. It's been such a pleasure to have you in on this conversation. Almost 30 podcast on Instagram. Almost 30 podcast on TikTok. Almost 30 podcast on YouTube. I am on Instagram at itskrista. It's I-T-S-K-R-I-S-T-A. I host retreats. I coach women. I do my thing all over the world, helping you feel like your hottest, best self. And we will see you on the next one.

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