The Kindbody Story: E1, The Fertility Spa

19 Sep 2025 · 31 min · 16 chapters

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In short

This episode of “IVF Disrupted: The Kindbody Story” (E1, “The Fertility Spa”) examines how Kindbody, a fast-growing women’s fertility clinic chain, marketed a spa-like, consumer-friendly experience while internal reporting suggests operational and medical problems tied to rapid expansion. It opens with Bloomberg reporter Jackie DeBalos describing her investigation using interviews with 100+ employees and 50 former patients, plus internal documents; Kindbody declined to comment on the record.

Guest backgrounds

Jackie DeBalos is a Bloomberg Tech reporter. Gina Bartesi (founder) is a fertility-industry entrepreneur (nearly 20 years; previously founded Progeny, an IVF referral network). Patient voices include Tracy Sosa (medical assistant, 20 years in healthcare) and Dina/Bea (a lesbian couple using donor sperm and reciprocal IVF).

Key claims

Kindbody promised “one-stop” care, lower costs, and seamless outcomes; critics say it sold “false hope” and that growth led to errors.

Notable examples

Dina/Bea report multiple failed retrievals and transfers; a Princeton clinic lacked a full-time doctor and an operating room/lab; and during a Bryan Park transfer, they were told the wrong embryo had been thawed.

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Introduction to AI and Business

0:00 to 0:30

Learn how IBM integrates AI into business processes to improve efficiency.

“So there's a lot of noise about AI, but time's too tight for more promises.”

The Rise of KindBody

2:31 to 4:25

Explore the innovative approach of KindBody in women's health and fertility care.

“KindBody promised an entirely different approach to fertility.”

Growth and Expansion of KindBody

4:25 to 5:39

Understand the rapid growth and expansion plans of KindBody and its founder.

“The company had signed lucrative contracts with Tesla and Walmart.”

Investigating KindBody's Challenges

5:39 to 7:48

Learn about the challenges and disillusionment faced by KindBody's patients and staff.

“Today on the show, the first episode of a new five-part series, IVF Disrupted, The Kind Body Story, from Bloomberg and iHeart Podcasts.”

Investigating KindBody's Challenges

9:02 to 9:49

Learn about the challenges and disillusionment faced by KindBody's patients and staff.

“Support for the show comes from public.com.”

Investigating KindBody's Challenges

10:13 to 11:05

Learn about the challenges and disillusionment faced by KindBody's patients and staff.

“If you've ever sent money internationally using a traditional bank, there's a good chance you've paid more than you realized.”

Gina Bartesi and KindBody's Vision

11:13 to 14:00

Examine the background of Gina Bartesi and her vision for KindBody's future.

“The thing about AI for business, it may not automatically fit the way your business works.”

The Vision Behind Kindbody

14:00 to 22:40

Explore how Gina envisioned Kindbody as a revolutionary fertility care provider.

“With Kindbody, Gina dreamed even bigger.”

The Vision Behind Kindbody

22:45 to 23:55

Explore how Gina envisioned Kindbody as a revolutionary fertility care provider.

“Brokered services by Open to the Public Investing, Inc., member FINRA and SIPC.”

Patient Experiences at Kindbody

24:35 to 28:00

Hear firsthand accounts of how Kindbody's approach impacts patient care.

“who joined KindBody in the early years, tell me they were drawn in.”
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Initial IVF Journey Challenges

28:00 to 29:23

Learn about the early challenges Dina and Bea faced in their IVF journey.

“I think initially we were planning on having them a year apart or so.”

The Struggles of Egg Retrieval

29:23 to 30:29

Discover the difficulties and emotional impact of egg retrieval failures.

“in Dina and Bea's case with donor sperm.”

Clinic Experiences and Miscommunication

30:29 to 33:19

Explore the miscommunication and issues faced at the Kindbody clinic.

“It's just like you just lose those years.”

Significant Transfer Day

33:19 to 35:38

Follow Dina and Bea's emotional and significant transfer day experience.

“and communication can suffer at a company growing as fast as Kindbody was.”

The Embryo Transfer Incident

35:38 to 37:51

Learn about the critical mistake during the embryo transfer process.

“You're in these tiny rooms because in the clinic in the city, I mean, space is short, right?”

The Embryo Transfer Incident

39:28 to 40:28

Learn about the critical mistake during the embryo transfer process.

“These days, it seems like AI agents are just about everywhere you turn, every field and every function.”
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0:00So there's a lot of noise about AI, but time's too tight for more promises. So let's talk about results. At IBM, we work with our employees to integrate technology right into the systems they need. Now, a global workforce of 300 ,000 can use AI to fill their HR questions, resolving 94 % of common questions. Not noise. Proof of how we can help companies get smarter by putting AI where it actually pays off, deep in the work that moves the business. Let's create smarter business. IBM. Support for this show comes from public.com. If you're actively involved in your portfolio, you probably catch yourself repeating the same actions.

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1:17Go to public.com slash market and fund your account in five minutes or less. That's public.com slash market. Paid for by Public Investing. Brokered services by Open to the Public Investing, Inc., member FINRA and SIPC. Advisory services by Public Advisors, LLC, SEC Registered Advisor. Complete disclosures available at public.com slash disclosures. Healthcare doesn't always work great. If you've ever waited on a refill or couldn't schedule an appointment, you get it. That's the kind of stuff Optum is changing. They're using data and technology to integrate patient care, pharmacy, and everything else.

1:53So healthcare is connected, not complicated. What's that look like? Cheaper prescriptions that are easier to get and care that looks at the whole person. How you need it. Optum is helping make healthcare work as one for everyone. Learn more at business.optum.com. Bloomberg Audio Studios. Podcasts. Radio. News. This episode features conversations about pregnancy complications and loss. Please take care while listening. In 2018, a brand new fertility company started building clinics across the country. Introducing KindBody, a new generation of women's health and fertility care. KindBody promised an entirely different approach to fertility.

2:41We believe that going to the doctor should feel like a visit with a trusted friend, where you can get all the care you need in one place. And in a world where costs are notoriously high and outcomes notoriously uncertain, for lots of women, this new approach sounded really appealing.

3:03My co-worker, we were walking past the Kind Body and she said, oh my God, look, they look so good. They're supposed to be really amazing. They're geared toward women and helping women and women's health. I saw it and was like, women doctors, and the way they made it seem like it was just so easy to do and seamless. Right away, I just was like, oh yeah, this is the easiest choice I've had to make. The vibe, it looked like it was just straight out of West Elm or something. It was very inviting for you to want to come in and sit in the bright colors and just really relaxing, almost like you were going to go get a massage, to be honest.

3:37I saw the aesthetics of it. I was so excited. I was like, finally, a place is going to get it. It's going to pamper our patients, give them that TLC that they need. You just got the feeling you were going to be taken care of and you weren't just a number and part of the masses. So I was like, great. And the company's founder, Gina Bartesi, had big plans to turn a lot more women into kindbody converts. We're opening in Washington, D.C. We're opening Brooklyn, a third location in New York. We're actually coming to Columbus before we're coming to Cleveland. Our plan costs for 50 locations within the next two years.

4:18That's Gina Bartesi speaking to Griffin Jones on the Inside Reproductive Health podcast in 2022. Under Gina, Kindbody grew quickly. The company had signed lucrative contracts with Tesla and Walmart. It bought a competing IVF chain, doubling the number of clinics it operated. Company leaders rang the bell at the New York Stock Exchange. Its valuation had reached$1.8 billion, and it seemed to be only going up. An initial public offering was in sight. It was around this time, in 2023, that KindBody got on the radar of Jackie DeValos, a Bloomberg tech reporter. I first heard about KindBody when its ads started showing up in my Instagram and TikTok feeds, encouraging me to think about freezing my eggs.

5:09I was right in its demographic. A professional woman in her early 30s, living in a big city. The company seemed to be offering something new, combining the vibe of a health club or spa with a part of medicine that can deliver pretty miraculous and life-changing outcomes. I got curious, so I started making some calls. And right away, it became clear that things at Kind Body were not as they appeared.

5:38This is The Big Take from Bloomberg News. I'm Sarah Holder. And I'm Jackie DeBalos. Today on the show, the first episode of a new five-part series, IVF Disrupted, The Kind Body Story, from Bloomberg and iHeart Podcasts. We'll hear the first three episodes through the weekend, and the rest next weekend. I'll let Jackie take it from here.

6:07I've talked to lots of former KindBody patients and employees, and many of them told me they felt disillusioned by their experiences with the company. When you take the rose-colored glasses off, because at first you don't want to see it, right? As I slowly start to say to myself, oh, this is not good. I should have done more research. I should have been looking into this more, and I would have found so much more. Looking back on that, I see it as a red flag now. I kind of had like a mental breakdown. I felt like I was lying to my patients and I'm just not that kind of person. And it just really broke my spirit.

6:41I'm like shaking just thinking about it. And it was a real pressing on all of us to go faster, faster, faster, faster, faster. And when you go faster, sometimes you miss an exit. I remember I was trying to collect payment for one of the services. And I couldn't collect the payment. And then my manager was like, oh, ha ha ha ha ha, we do it this way because he's in prison.

7:12I spent the last two and a half years trying to understand KindBody and how it fits into the larger fertility industry in the U.S. I've talked to more than 100 current and former employees and 50 former patients. I've seen internal company documents and heard from executives and investors about the company's finances and strategy. Along the way, I had a front row seat as the rocket ship sputtered. Kindbody declined to speak on the record for this podcast. But over the course of my reporting, it has acknowledged some incidents. The company said these are not unique to Kindbody and pointed to some other examples of errors across the fertility industry.

7:56And this is true. There are problems across fertility. But Kindbody is unique in that it is one of the fastest-growing players in the field. And its story shows some of the consequences of that rapid growth. Kindbody was pitched as a startup. And their approach will be familiar to anyone who knows about the saying, move fast and break things. That approach is mostly associated with consumer tech companies. but the lack of regulations in the fertility industry made it relatively easy to try it there too. I wanted to know what happens when a startup takes on one of the most intimate decisions in our lives.

8:37Making a baby, where the stakes are high, the customers are vulnerable, and people's dreams of starting a family hang in the balance.

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11:13The thing about AI for business, it may not automatically fit the way your business works. At IBM, we've seen this firsthand. But by embedding AI across HR, IT, and procurement processes, we've reduced costs by millions, slash repetitive tasks, and freed thousands of hours for strategic work. Now we're helping companies get smarter by putting AI where it actually pays off, deep in the work that moves the business. Let's create smarter business, IBM. To understand Kindbody, first, you need to understand the woman behind the company, Gina Bartesi. Gina, who is now in her 50s, has been in the fertility industry for nearly 20 years.

11:57So she's a well-known player. When Gina talks about her career in fertility, she always starts with her own story. She declined an interview for this series, but here she is telling it back in 2022 in a conversation with reporter Kristen V. Brown. At 38, I was eating well, I was working out all the time, and you have this false presumption that, oh, I'm a healthy person, I don't have any issues with my infertility. So we tried on our own for about the first six months, and then after six months, so many of my friends had gone through IVF and had success and had babies, and I was like, okay, we'll just go through IVF.

12:32But I can remember how, like, I was aghast. I knew it was going to be expensive, but even when he told me how much it was going to cost, I was like, wow, that's really expensive. Before starting Kind Body, Gina had founded another fertility startup, an IVF referral network which became known as Progeny. Progeny was a middleman between employers and fertility clinics. and negotiated the price of treatments with clinics by buying in bulk and then sold those packages to employers who offered them to their staff in their health insurance plans. Gina was in on the ground floor of a quickly expanding market.

13:11Now, the science of fertility is relatively new, but the business is booming. The upsurge is fueled by shifts in social norms, millennials putting off having kids, rising rates of infertility. One research firm, iMark, placed the global fertility market at$46 billion in 2024 and said that it would more than triple in the next decade. The demand has spelled opportunity for investors, from venture capital to private equity, who want to cash in on the lucrative business of fertility. And Gina's company, Progeny, became one of the biggest players in the industry and went public in 2019. But by the time Progeny IPO'd, Gina had left and was hard at work at her new company, Kindbody.

14:06With Kindbody, Gina dreamed even bigger. Progeny was just connecting company employees to medical providers. Kindbody did that too. But it would also be the medical provider. It would own the clinics. It would employ the doctors. It would treat the patients. What I learned after kind of being middleman with my previous businesses is the only way to control for patient experience, patient outcomes and cost is that you must be in the provision of care. So today we are in the care delivery business at our clinics. You see we have our own physicians, medical assistants, nurse practitioners to really prioritize the patient experience and reinvent family building care.

14:51That point Gina made about controlling costs, that was a big deal. Kindbody was promising to make fertility care more accessible by making it cheaper. IVF is very expensive. The average cost of one round of treatment is about$23 ,000. That's according to Fertility IQ, a platform that tracks prices and reviews for clinics. Most patients end up doing two or three rounds before getting pregnant. Kindbody promised to make all of this more efficient with its own medical record and patient portal software. And by building and running its own clinics and labs, Kindbody said it could control every aspect of operations and ultimately offer fertility treatment at a cheaper price.

15:41It would be part of a wave of startups, femtech companies, catering to women's health. The company had plans to offer an unusually wide range of services. It wanted to be the place where women would come for regular gynecology checkups, but also for IVF, egg freezing, embryo transfers, and storage for eggs, sperm, and embryos. There was nowhere else that offered this kind of one-stop shopping for fertility services. We are the doctors. We are the clinics. We are your end-to-end family building solution. Gina herself wasn't a doctor. Her expertise was in marketing. Early on, other people in the industry questioned whether someone without that medical knowledge actually understood how to put something like this together.

16:34I spoke to a dozen investors and founders of large chains of fertility clinics about Kindbody at the time. And they told me that they were skeptical that a startup could offer so many services at once. But of course, if you're a startup founder, having the incumbents tell you that you don't understand how things work can kind of feel like a sign you're on to something big. Here's Gina. So I get those criticisms. If you're the old guard or you're the legacy clinic and you've not changed in 30 years that somebody comes and disrupts the business, I don't anticipate them to go away anytime soon. Gina envisioned her new company as a consumer brand.

17:18She was inspired by SoulCycle and Drybar. Kindbody would have a millennial-friendly aesthetic. Clinics wouldn't be tucked away in a hospital. They'd be in storefronts and shopping malls and on busy streets with lots of foot traffic. Right next to the Barry's boot camps and the trendy juice bars. Here she is on CNBC in 2021. We believe in this consumerism of health care. You have to bring care to the patient. There is a retail nature to Kind Body. It's funny because not everyone agrees that health care is like any other consumer product. But for Gina, the experience of being a patient was just as important as the treatment itself.

18:00The lobby would have to be as carefully designed as the exam room. I think historically in healthcare, you really didn't think about your patient as your customer, right? You didn't think about hospitality. And we want to be intentional. How can we think about the robes that are more comfortable? How can we have cold water in the lobby? Healthcare is not wired like that. Almost every other industry is. Restaurants are. Retail is. Think about everything else is built around you. Gina had this idea to house everything under one roof, including the lab, where eggs and sperm are handled and where embryos are actually made.

18:39Until this point, most fertility clinics looked like a typical doctor's office. Patients seeking IVF treatment would usually go to a clinic that was operated by a university health system, like Cornell, Stanford, Northwestern, or a smaller, privately-owned clinic. They aren't exciting, vibey spaces on busy streets next to restaurants and boutiques. This was Gina's radically new idea. It would take a long time to build this sort of clinic. But Kind Body wanted to start attracting patients early. So it started constructing what it called mobile clinics. These were basically trailers, like the ones you would find on a movie set.

19:23The exteriors were painted with Kindbody's signature pastel yellow with the message, your fertility understood, in big, bold letters. Anyone off the street could go inside and take a free hormone test that measured roughly how many eggs they had left. We're here in front of our third mobile pop-up event, and we're here talking to women about their fertility. Here's an early Kind Body executive back in 2018 talking about a mobile clinic. This video comes from the website Well and Good's YouTube channel. So in the van, you will talk to our fertility specialist. A nurse will draw your blood and take a test, which is called the AMH test.

20:04We get your results back, and we send you a report that fully contextualizes what you need to know and helps you understand what your next steps might be. The first mobile clinic opened up in Manhattan on the corner of 25th Street and 5th Avenue, right near Madison Square Park. Kind Body took the bus on the road to San Francisco, Los Angeles, and the Hamptons. The hormone test was a great promotional tool. The results gave women the feeling of empowerment and control. If results showed eggs were dwindling, Kind Body said no problem, just freeze them. No need to stop your career to have children.

20:42Early on, this was Kindbody's message to women, particularly young women. Most women who seek IVF are typically in their late 30s or 40s. But Kindbody wanted to reach them sooner. In 2018, Gina told The Verge, What we want to do is help women live a life of no regrets and have children, when they want them, on their own time frame. End quote. This was a bold proposition. Egg freezing does not automatically guarantee a future pregnancy. Sometimes eggs don't survive thawing. And even if they do, some might not fertilize. It's not a perfect science. And it's very new. Some experts at the time criticized Kindbody for selling false hope and a misguided sense of security.

21:35But for others working in the field, KindBody's mission and messaging represented a welcome change for an industry that seems set in its ways. We'll be right back.

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24:03So there's a lot of noise about AI, but time's too tight for more promises. So let's talk about results. At IBM, we work with our employees to integrate technology right into the systems they need. Now, a global workforce of 300 ,000 can use AI to fill their HR questions, resolving 94 % of common questions. Not noise, proof of how we can help companies get smarter by putting AI where it actually pays off. deep in the work that moves the business. Let's create smarter business, IBM. Many former employees I spoke to, who joined KindBody in the early years, tell me they were drawn in. They loved the mission, the beauty, the way the company presented itself.

24:47One of those early employees was Tracy Sosa, a medical assistant who's been working in healthcare for 20 years. She was recruited in 2020 to work at KindBody's clinic in Princeton, New Jersey. When she started, the clinic wasn't up and running yet. But Tracy had the sense that this company was different. Once I Googled and I researched and I looked, I saw the aesthetics of it. I'm getting goosebumps right now just talking to you about it. I was so excited. Tracy accepted the job. And together with her coworkers, she set up the clinic from scratch. We were unpacking boxes. We were decorating. It was there in there.

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25:25and we built that thing and opened it fresh, cracked it right open, the three of us. There was a lot of good things that were there. It was warm, the color of the practice. It was homey. It was inviting. It wasn't cold. It wasn't sterile. It was clean. It was crisp. You would want to go there. I was so excited. I was like, finally, a place is going to get it. It's going to pamper our patients, hear them, give them not only just a medical, pharmaceutical approach, but also a holistic approach. Things from mind, body, and soul. I was drinking the Kool-Aid. I was all about it. And all the work that Tracy and her colleagues had done to make the Princeton Clinic look so inviting, it was working.

26:13They were giving gifts. I think we got little water bottles and a couple, you know, little, I don't know, maybe pens or whatnot. And it was obviously all women, which I thought was pretty cool. This is Dina. She visited an open house at the clinic in 2020. She and her partner, Bea, had started treatment at another clinic in New Jersey. But they were thinking of switching because Dina's employer was now covering Kindbody's services. The women are great. I mean, they were really upbeat and just really wanted you to know that they were going to take care of you and the options you had. Dina's reaction as soon as she got out of there and called me was, like, all positive.

26:52This place is, like, totally different to the other place. It's very personal. You weren't just a number and part of the masses. So I was like, great.

27:05Dina and Bea always knew they wanted to have kids. That was something that was always on the cards for us. That's Bea. She and Dina have been together for over a decade. Dina and Bea didn't want to share their last name when discussing this part of their lives. Six years ago, they decided to tie the knot and move to a suburb in New Jersey. It's a short drive away from the school where Dina works. We took a little while in getting married, but we knew that as soon as we were married, we planned to buy a house. And pretty quickly after we got married, we started the process of trying to have a family.

27:47They planned out how they wanted it to happen. They told me about it when we spoke last year. It was late in the evening. We just each knew that we wanted to carry a child. I think initially we were planning on having them a year apart or so. We were like, great, Dina will go and she'll get pregnant and then I'll go like a year or so later and it'll be great. We had no idea in the beginning what the journey was going to look like.

28:20Between the good vibes at the open house and the fact that Dina's job would cover a big chunk of the cost, they decided to switch from their previous clinic to Kindbody. Soon after, Dina and Bea met Tracy, the medical assistant who had helped open up the Princeton clinic they were now going to. They were lovely. They were literally our favorite patients. Dina and Bea spent a lot of time with Tracy. She became like their guide and a trusted friend. You go on this journey with them, and because when they start a cycle, you're drawing their blood every day. You're in the room with them when they're doing their ultrasound.

28:56You're in the room when they're doing all their pre-testing to get prepped for their cycles. After going through cycles with patients, you just build a bond with them. When I went on vacation and went to Vegas, I got them a keychain. Like, I love these two women. Like, I love them to death. For anyone going through IVF at any clinic, there's lots of highs and lows. Dina and Bea experienced a lot of disappointment in the early stages. The first step would be for a doctor to retrieve eggs that are healthy enough to be turned into embryos, in Dina and Bea's case with donor sperm. They both had multiple egg retrievals with KindBody.

29:34It's hard to remember. I remember them calling and saying that none of them ended up making it. we weren't getting a lot of them that ended up being viable to be implanted. Yeah, none of them were very successful at all, to be honest. The retrievals weren't yielding enough healthy eggs. Dina and Bea were both in their early 40s. Studies show that after 35, women see a decline in the quantity and quality of their eggs. Still, they kept trying. I mean, I thought the retrieval process was exhausting. I mean, the injections, it's a lot. It's a lot physically. It's a lot emotionally. It messes up your body.

30:13It messes up your head. And we didn't have success early on. So the amount of retrievals we had to do to be able to get embryos was a lot. So, I mean, our process was very long. Was it two and a half years? So a lot of retrievals, a lot of time. It's just like you just lose those years. You lose that part of your life because the emotional rollercoaster, like Dina's describing, is just incredibly exhausting in terms of your relationship, your extended family, your physical body. The hormones are insanely up and down. And that's just the drugs. And when they managed to retrieve healthy eggs, the next hurdle was combining those eggs with donor sperm to create viable embryos to be implanted.

31:06We didn't have many embryos at all. I can't remember how many we were down to, but it was not many to a point where every single one was so precious and valuable. Some embryos don't develop. Others might be ruled out during genetic testing. They both tried to have healthy embryos implanted multiple times. But none of these resulted in a pregnancy. I had two, you had three failed, so five total failed. So we didn't have many embryos. We both had unsuccessful transfers. IVF is hard. And it's not unusual for a woman to go through two to three cycles or spend tens of thousands of dollars on the process.

31:53But there were specific things about the way Kind Body worked that Dina and Bea said made things harder for them. Dina and Bea were so laser-focused on having a baby that, to this day, they struggle with remembering the warning signs that everything was not okay for them at Kind Body. Only now, those signs are coming into focus. Appointment reminders with Bea's name instead of Dina's Paperwork mix-ups on the day of a procedure For one thing, the clinic near them in New Jersey Wasn't the one-stop shop that Kind Body had been selling Their Kind Body clinic in Princeton didn't have a full-time doctor on staff Or an operating room And their IVF lab had yet to be built That made their medical assistant Tracy feel uneasy So after the first six months or so, I was like, all right, we still have a doctor.

32:50Like, what's going on? As I slowly start to, like, say to myself, oh, this is not good. This patient can't have XYZ or they have to go all the way into the city. It just wasn't appropriate. You need a full-time doctor there. Tracy wasn't the only Kindbody employee who was bothered by this. Other staff members told me it led to more mistakes. because they were coordinating important procedures for patients they didn't really know. A lot of information can be lost in the game of telephone between clinics, and communication can suffer at a company growing as fast as Kindbody was. But Dina and Bea didn't have a choice.

33:30They were ready to do another transfer, and so they had to go to Kindbody's office, more than an hour away near Manhattan's Bryan Park. So one day in the spring of 2021, they headed into the city. So we had our transfer day, which is always, you know, a big X in your calendar, and it's super exciting, and you're all hype about the fact that you're about to go and get pregnant. For any couple going through IVF, the transfer day is a big deal. But for Dina and Bea, this day had extra significance. This was the first time we were going to try transferring mine into Dina. The plan was to do reciprocal IVF.

34:17It's a technique in which one partner's eggs are used to create an embryo that is then implanted into the other partner. So Dina would get B's eggs. So I think being in a lesbian couple, it really meant a lot for us to be as genetically connected as we possibly could. So for me, not knowing whether I would be able to carry or not, because I'd not had a successful transfer at that point, it was huge. Like, okay, if I can't carry because my womb was, what did they call it? Not hospitable. Not hospitable. Yeah. How nice is that? It was important for us genetically for Dina to carry my embryo. That way, in the future, She may have been able to carry one of her own, but she would be able to, put it blunt, cuck my bun.

35:13So it was a really big deal, and we thought, if this turns out to be a successful pregnancy, this would be awesome. Like, a little piece of both of us in this new baby. Super excited. It's like the epitome of everything we've been building up to. They traveled into Kind Body's Bryan Park Clinic for their appointment, as they had with other procedures in the past. It's not the most comfortable spot. We get in the office. You're in these tiny rooms because in the clinic in the city, I mean, space is short, right? You're like shuffling past each other. You can't even open the door if someone's stood there.

35:50Like, this room is tiny. So we're in this tiny room. They tell us, this is great. We're here to do a transfer. Dina, get in the gown, get on the table. Everything seems to be normal. So we do all of that, and then nothing happens. They waited for someone to come into the room and tell them what would happen next. And we're like... We're just in there. Yeah, we're just in there, and we're like, okay, like, this has been a while. This has really been a while now. I know this sounds kind of crazy, but you also have to, like, you can't pee. When patients prepare for an embryo transfer, they're advised to go in with a full bladder.

36:33It helps doctors get a clearer view of the uterus on the ultrasound. I remember this vividly because I had to go to the bathroom so bad, and I was like, this is, like, I kept being like, we need them to come, like, they need to come now, but they wouldn't come. And I'm like, this is strange, like, why are they not coming in here right now? Over 30 minutes we were sitting there, for sure. So we were sitting there, sitting there, sitting there, and it's weird, and no one's coming in and telling us anything. Then, the doctor and embryologists walk into the room. The mood shifts. I don't even remember what it is they said exactly, but to the effect of there's been, I don't even know if they admitted to it being a mistake, but there's been a situation, let's say, there's been a situation where the embryo you chose to be defrosted was not, and we defrosted a different embryo.

37:31Coming up this weekend in episodes two and three of our series, IVF disrupted the kind body story. You don't even refreeze chicken. I didn't find out right away. It was like a few hours into the day. And then I was like, wait, what did you guys just say? Like, I think they were trying to keep it as much hush as possible. How can we establish ourselves so that we are building a lab? And like, what is our goal? Like, these were just never conversations that were had. These air handling systems, they're not cheap. I'm like shaking just thinking about it. Because that's something that's just hammered into your, like, oh my God, the chain of command, the hands that that goes through.

38:13IVF Disrupted, The Kind Body Story, is reported and hosted by me, Jackie DeVallos. The series is produced by Sean Nguyen and Jilda DeCarli. Editing by Caitlin Kenney, Jeff Grocott, and Joshua Brustein. Blake Maples is our sound engineer and composer Fact-checking by Anika Robbins Bloomberg's Senior Executive Editor for Technology is Tom Giles Our Head of Podcasting is Sage Baumann You can reach us at podcasts at bloomberg.net IVF Disrupted is a production of Bloomberg and iHeart Podcasts

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In 2018 a startup emerged, aiming to revolutionize fertility care with spa-like clinics and Silicon Valley swagger. Kindbody attracted millions from investors eager to disrupt a booming industry. But former employees describe a company that at times cut too many corners as it raced to expand.

In Episode 1 of IVF Disrupted: The Kindbody Story, reporter Jackie Davalos investigates what can happen when startup culture collides with the delicate science of creating life.

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