Confidence Classic: How to Turn Up Your Frequency and Create the Life You Desire with Suzanne Adams

24:39So my theory didn't play out at all. I was totally wrong. However, the intention, the energy, and the focus allowed something so much greater to be created. And that is fact. I love that because what you did was you plugged in energetically, you plugged into the energy of abundance, you plugged into the energy of flow, and then you created spaciousness for the universe to surprise and delight you, you know, I mean, your mind was plugged in over here, but your energy was plugged in to possibility and to abundance. And that's exactly what I talk about in the book. So it's so funny. I have a similar story.

25:13So in 2019, I was like very busy, big on the speaker circuit, traveling, doing all of these wild things that were dreams at one time dreams, you know? So back when, when I had my quantum moment back in 2013, I didn't know I was going to be a speaker. I didn't know I was going to be, you know, teaching all of these things. And so it was, I was, had already watched so many dreams unfold that I didn't even know were dreams that, you know, for a long time in my life. And then when they registered, it was like, go big. And so with this particular thing, it was 2019. And I was in California for an event.

25:48And I had had two had two events, and I had two weeks in between them. And I looked at the map, and I saw Laguna Beach. And I had remembered coming here previously several years before and just enjoyed it. And so I thought, you know, all I need in the interim of the events is my computer to work, I'm going to hang out in Laguna Beach. It'd be a great time. I was living in Atlanta, so I didn't want to go back and forth. And there was this serendipitous moment the first day that I was here where I like walked out to the ocean and I walked out to get coffee, but there was the ocean. It was the coffee shop was right across the street from the ocean.

26:23And I look over and the ocean is just like this brilliant, deep sapphire blue, like, like beautiful. I'd never seen the ocean this color. And the sun is just dancing on the water, you know, like little fairies. And I feel the ocean breeze coming onto my skin. And this, this like huge intuitive knowing comes into my body. And it's like, I can hear my inner being with everything that I know saying like, you need to live here. And I was like, well, that's interesting and awesome. Like this would be amazing place to live. I wasn't even looking to move. Like, in fact, I had a couple years prior just built my dream home, basically.

27:08Like, I'd had a home that I bought at a young age, and I ended up busting out the ceilings, raising an in-law suite, pushing out the kitchen. It was a beautiful home. It made no logical sense. So about six months later, I packed a one-way ticket, booked a one-way ticket, shipped my car across the country, ran into my home, followed my heart. I didn't know one person in Laguna Beach, didn't know where I was going to live. I had rented a place. And over the past couple of years, I had had a vision board. And the vision board basically was just windows and ocean and a few other things. And it had sat across my bed because this is part of that reprogramming, rewiring.

27:47Like, what are you putting in your energy field? What are you looking at? And so I made it really pretty and I hung it on the wall right in front of the bed. So it was the first thing that I saw before I went to bed and the first thing that I saw when I woke up. and I'm chills. They were just telling the story. So as I'm looking, I just wanted something that was like, maybe like the little peek of boo ocean view, walking to the ocean. I was just so happy to be living. It just felt like so exciting. Cause I was just like following, you know, following the calling of my soul, following my heart.

28:15And I ended up having a conversation with a real estate agent. She said, I know the place for you. And I said, okay. And so I go and I park and I'm walking down this path and I see these beautiful pink flowers and I'm walking down and I'm getting closer and closer down a hill and I'm seeing that beautiful, brilliant ocean again. And the breeze is starting to hit my face and I'm seeing a palm tree and I go down the stairs and I turn to my right and I walk in and there are four big, huge, big floor to ceiling windows and ocean. And my whole body froze. And I was like, I'm standing in the middle of my vision board.

28:56It was just amazing. And it was way more than I wanted to spend, but I didn't care. I was like, this is what you move across the country for. And it's been a dream. It's been, you know, I've been here for several years now and it is like, I see dolphins almost every single day. I run down in between meetings and I'm able to just jump in the water or sit in the sand and meditate. I mean, it's so special at night. I'm just hearing the ocean vibes. It's like this healing vortex. And so I would not have dreamed big enough to like put myself here in this space and time. I always knew I'd live on the ocean.

29:36I thought it would be later. I didn't know where it would be. And so it's really when we can override that logical mind and plug into dreams and understand the power of our frequency and our energy and that we don't necessarily need to have the specifics. We just need to know our desires and we need to become an energetic match and we need to be open and we've got to take action from our heart and not our mind. And most people don't know how to do that. How did you tap into your intuition to listen to that calling? Because for a lot of people, myself included, for years, I never heard my intuition.

30:10I had silenced it. You know, instead it was just controlling and living a very linear life. and I found it hard to start dialing up and then scary to actually act on it. So how do you advise people to do that? So it's a practice just like anything else. I've meditated every day since May, 2014, eight years, over eight years. And it's like you clean your channel when you're meditating. So I have several free guided meditations on my website. It's, I'm one of the biggest advocates for this because speaking of turning up your frequency and opening up these channels, that's one of the best ways. And it doesn't have to be long, even 10 minutes every single day.

30:47So it's no different than if you wanted to like have a rocking body, you're not going to go to the gym just once and say like, oh, it didn't work. Or even like every day for a week and then say, oh, it doesn't work. Like, you know, it's the long-term game. It's what you're eating. It's the way that you're moving. It's, you know, there's a lot of different factors. It's the same with intuition. Everyone has it. Some people, you know, if you think about a piano, if there's a piano sitting in a room, some people can walk in and just naturally like oh they can play something beautiful some people might need a couple lessons and then they got it and some people may like fumble over the keys for five years before they get it so it's like everyone has their access to their intuition I do believe that the time that we're living in now the veil is getting thinner and thinner and thinner and what I mean by that is we're collectively raising the frequency together all of us and as we do that it becomes easier and more powerful and more potent to open it up.

31:46So for example, my clients, I've helped a lot of people really connect to their heart and soul and their intuition, because I'm holding that space for them. And I'm very intuitive. So I'm able to kind of help them see what their soul is saying. I've done this in corporations, but I'm not obviously standing there in corporations saying, I'm going to help you connect to your intuition. It's more like, let's play a game on how we can be guided by our feelings and create abundance and scale our businesses through our feelings you know so it's all of these tools are very very applicable and accessible and helpful in any business it's just we weren't taught that we were taught it was weird and strange and not to use it so how does someone create wealth success and abundance through the use of feelings?

32:35Because I know some people are scratching their head right now. Well, it's a process. And so again, it's about really plugging in to desire. What is the desire? So it depends, like, am I talking to the person that's an executive for a VP? Am I talking to the person that owns the company? Am I talking to the person that, you know, is middle of the road? It depends. It depends on what your desires are. If you're, are you looking to climb the corporate ladder? Are you looking to start your own business? Are you looking to lead a hundred other people and get them excited about it? So I would need to answer that question.

33:09I would need more specifics basically. But when you really understand the conversation around energy, which if you read Plant and Vibes, you will. You'll understand about energy. Then you start to play with it, okay? So for example, I have a client who's an amazing client, super successful, like owns multiple companies that have billions of dollars of assets. and you know we I tell him like you're you're creating from the past you're creating from your logical mind like let's throw that out the window and like sit and dream for a minute so this is a perfect example of someone that's created a lot of dreams and so he does this naturally already and I mean he hired me he found me on the internet and called me and was like calm to my office we just so happen to live very close to each other he's like calm to my office and I've worked with them for two years now.

33:57And it's so fun. It's the conversations that we have and the things we create together is amazing. So I like, but I love it because someone at his success level, even I'm like, you can go bigger. Like you're, you're trying to create with your mind and with what's happened. Let's create with energy. And when you create with energy, you collapse time. And when you create with energy, it's in so much more alignment. And so just understanding the energetics of dreams and playing with it will help you. So let me think of a concrete example I could give you. Like our logical mind will tell us that we can make X amount of dollars depending on what we've been able to make.

34:34But our heart will tell us like the true desire. So there's desire from like a place of like, yes, girl, go get it. So when I told you about my quantum moment, there was the desire of my soul to come forth that was saying, girl, what are you doing? And my soul put me in the right position to get me to finally hear that to the point where their time froze. So, and I had to listen. And then, you know, there's the logical mind that says, Suzanne, you're not a writer. You're not a teacher. You're not a speaker. And there's the, the, the energy, the feeling that says, Oh yes, you are go and get it.

35:13Show them what's possible, go and get it. And so it's like, we're trained in this society around what's logical and what's possible. And when you're going to, I wrote an Instagram post about this. If you want a logical life, listen to your logical mind. You know, if you want a life that like feels on fire and knocks your socks off in the best of ways, and really, really is just one of those like ooey gooey juicy, like kind of life. You have to check your logical mind. You have to override your logical mind every single day, because you're going to have the thoughts telling you you're crazy, telling you you're not worthy, telling you all of the things.

35:49And there are all of these nuances that come into it. And so while a conversation like this is an amazing starting point, it's just like anything else. You've got to stay in the energy of it, stay in the conversation, stay around the people that are activating you. So, you know, what I did along the way is when I found someone who, when their words activated me, I was like, I want to learn more. If I read a book and it resonated with me, I found the author and was like, what else do they have? And what can I learn, podcasts, like whatever it is, because it's all going to be different. And we all have a unique soul blueprint.

36:20And we try to mimic what, you know, what we're doing, what other people are doing. There's something to be said from learning, learning from someone who has accomplished what you want to accomplish. That's not what I'm saying here. What I'm saying is we all have a unique soul blueprint. My path is going to look different than your path, Heather, and the people's listening's path are going to look different. Can we be inspired from others? Absolutely. Can we learn how to collapse time from others? Yes. Can we get in the energy and calibrate to a dream from someone that has received it and that has done it?

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39:07Yours is very clear. You're like, you're so clear on it. You know exactly what lights you up. But when you work with people that don't know that yet, how do you help them lean into figuring out what their unique soul blueprint is? Well, it's a process. So the first thing is, if someone is searching for this, move your energy out of your head. We all go like right into our head. We got to really learn how to put our energy in our heart and in our body and let it be shown. The other thing is we've got to take the pressure off. If you're wanting to find your purpose, you set that intention and then you start to look at like what lights you up?

39:42What would you be doing if money was no object? What would feel amazing? If you had zero limits and could do anything, you start asking yourself the right questions. then, I mean, you do have to look at like, okay, you need to pay bills, right? So it's like, how do we create this dance and this balance of transitioning? And so what I've found in working with clients over the years, not everyone needs to leave their corporate job. Not everyone needs to go become a solo entrepreneur. Not everyone, you know, I work, I do work with a lot of execs and VPs too. So it's really about how can you bring more purpose and passion to what you're doing?

40:20because a lot of times if you're successful, you are in alignment. And if you're successful and you're in that place that we talked about at the beginning of the show where you feel like you're handcuffed to your job and there's no freedom, make the freedom. The people's minds tell them things aren't possible. I had a client one time who was like really good at her job and she wanted to do these things. And she's like, I'm gonna have to quit my job. And I'm like, why do you wanna quit your job? She's like, cause I want freedom. I'm like, do you like what you're doing? She's like, love it. I'm like, cause I can intuitively, I could see all of this.

40:48So I'm like, okay, great. what would be your dream scenario she's like my dream scenario would be xyz she wrote it out and I'm like so why don't you go present that to your company she's like they'll never buy it I'm like do you believe that you have provided value yes so anyways I helped her flush out this whole thing she took it to her company and next thing you know she's like she's like they did it now like she was on consulting instead of a direct employee she had everything she wanted and I'm like it was that was so fast it literally happened in like a week so like there is room and space for things in all different ways when you can really like start thinking outside of the box and start realizing that there is a quantum field of infinite possibilities and when you plug your energy in you can plug your energy into anything and that is a true true piece of the manifesting formula is just understanding the quantum field understanding how you can plug into it and overriding your logical mind, because the logical mind is always going to kick in and talk you out of it if you let it.

41:48You brought up an interesting point, and that was the speed at which that collapsed and materialized. Is there any rules or guidance you can share with us on? Like I was sharing with me with the situation selling that took forever. It seemed like it took months, right? Why is it that sometimes things can happen quickly and other times it takes so long? I think that we put expectation. It's like we contract our energy when we want things too bad to happen too fast. and so it's almost a more powerful thing to let go of the timing to let go of the timing of it okay I'm going to share a story I didn't know if I was going to share this but I'm going to tell you so in 2014 I was praying to be shown my own purpose I was like I want to know you know my quantum moment was 2013 2014 I spent a year learning to love myself and in that I wanted to find my purpose.

42:39I wanted to know. So I was setting the intention, show me my purpose, show me my purpose. And I thought when I would sit down and meditate, like, you know, it would be like a little memo that would be like, do, do, do, your purpose is bum, bum, bum. But that wasn't happening. It wasn't like there was no clarity, nothing was happening. And I was like, so I just continued, continued to keep the meditation, keep the intention. And a few months later, I'm out for a jog and I'm just running and I'm in flow. Like I've got music playing and I'm running and my energy is open. And in that moment, all of a sudden my feet hit the pavement and it was, it was this very clear vision, very clear vision.

43:23And I could see it so, so clear. And it felt so out there and so crazy. And it was like, okay, you want your purpose? Here you go. You're, You're going to write a book and you're going to write a book that's based on your own awakening, but it's going to be zhuzhed up a little bit. It's going to be like a fictional story with a lot of truth, but it's going to be fictional and it's going to be high vibrational. It's going to parallel the awakening that's happening on the planet. And it's going to be big. There's only going to be one of them. There's going to be three of them. It's going to be on the screen.

43:55It is going to be a movie. It's going to be like Twilight or Hunger Games, but it's your book and your story. And Heather, it was so strong. It was with every, like I could feel it in every cell in my body. And I was like, like it felt so big. So I started writing that book and it came through like, boom. So this was the, this was in 2014 is when I started writing it. It was done in 2015. So there was a first rendition and that book was called Musings of an Earth Angel. And that book was very, it was a catalyst. Like Hay House called me right after I had published, I self-published it. Hay House called me, invited me to be on a speaker's panel next to 26 New York Times bestselling authors and me right out of the gates.

44:37That was when I was like, none of this is real. And anyway, some things some things went on. And so I learned the power of purpose. I learned the power of trusting. I learned I had to really let go of the timing because I had no idea like when this book was going to take off, when this movie thing was going to happen. Over the years on stages, I have said multiple times like my book is going to be on the movie is going to be a movie. So what happened was my intuition was growing. I was meditating. I was nurturing my intuition. I got to where I could really, really see crystal clear like a lot.

45:10And everything in my body said that book needs to be reimagined. I pulled it off the market. I worked with an editor. We reworked the book. And in 2020, I launched Girl Awakened. so this is the cover just so you can see it is girl awakened and I launched it and I was like just it's just a fun passion playful book it's great for someone that's on the spiritual path that wants to be activated it wants a book that teaches some personal development but that's in like a fun and magical way you know that was the whole thing is because a lot of people get bored with personal development books even though I write those too I love those but sometimes you need something like, you know, that feels like it's, it's, it's entertainment.

45:51So about a month ago, not even a month ago, an investor dropped in and said, let's make Girl Awaken a movie. Look on your face. So cute. Yeah, that is incredible. And this is a yet again, another moment in your life where, you know, this came from you manifesting. Yes. And it still feels early to be talking about it. That's why I would, I know I have talked about it some, but it's still in the infancy. These things take a long time, but still like, I'm like, you know, and I teach this and I'm still blown away by it. I'm like the way it happened. I never, never could have, could have thought it would happen that way.

46:32Or, and there's still so many pieces that are coming into play. But my point in this is like dream big. And when we can dream from that space of heart connection. And when we can truly know that we are limitless and that we can plug into possibilities, anything can happen. And it's not gonna happen in the way you expect. In fact, if you put a timing on it that it has to happen, it makes it happen usually longer. So the more you can say like, this would be amazing if it happened in the next month and the next six weeks and the next six months and the next year. And I'm never gonna give up because this is my mission.

47:03And so, you know, there's a lot of different tools here. You can, I teach people to make ladder goals, which means there's, you know, there's a goal that you can grab right away that, you know, in your logical mind, you can get, there's a goal that would, would blow your mind. And then there's a goal that like, if you received it, you wouldn't even believe it's possible. And so you start playing with the energetics of goal setting and you learn how to goal set in a way where, you know, people used to teach. And I even used to teach it this way, like put a time on your manifestation. And then I learned that that actually can cripple it.

47:33And so like my example with the client, there was no time she was ready to quit her job. And I said, before you quit, let's do this thing and see what happens. And it worked, you know? I mean, so she was at the state of already being done. So there really wasn't attachment to it. Had she been like, I have to have this job no matter what, it might not have materialized that quickly. I think you're so spot on, right? That's for me, that's the hard part is that letting go. And, you know, what comes to mind for me and you brought up prayer is what role does God play in all of this? So for me, God is instrumental.

48:05no, you know, God is my divine power. That being said, I believe whatever your divine power is will work. So I grew up in the church. I've never needed proof of God. And I've also never needed to be one of those people that like memorize the scripture. I love scripture. I think it's beautiful. That just hasn't, you know, my sister can tell you every quote in the Bible, not me, but like, I'm all for it, you know, and I'm also for the person that, that if someone just believes in a higher power that's different, that's okay too, in my opinion. So that might be controversial in some places, but that's the way that I operate.

48:41And that's the way God wants to use me. Well, I love that because it's inclusive. It gives everybody something that they can align with, which is really what I think matters. All right. Tell us what's going on with the book. Where do we find the book? How do we find you? Okay. So Quantum Vibes, I'm going to show you this one too. It's got a pretty little sacred geometry on the front of it. This one is available now for order on Amazon pre-order. And I have a fun manifesting bundle gift that you get for free when you buy the book. So I don't know how much it is. It's, it's definitely under, I think it's even under$20.

49:14So you can even get the Kindle version. You get the free gift. When you go to my website, you just have to let me know you got the book so that I can give you the gift. And it's a, it's a manifesting training bundle where I take you through a manifesting formula that has worked for me. So it's kind of an extension of similar things that we've talked about with me just providing a process and a formula. It's available now. I don't know when this is gonna be aired. So October 11th is the actual date when it will be, you can hold the book in your hand. I'm so excited for that. And then Girl Awakened is also on Amazon and is available on Audible, Kindle, paperback, all of that.

49:48Quantum Vibes will be on Audible at some point, but I just don't know the date yet. And what's the website they go to to claim their bundle? It's www.SuzanneAdamsInc.com slash free dash gift. And I will put that in the show notes as well. Suzanne, how do people find you on social media? Come to Instagram. Say hi. My handle is at Suzanne Adams Inc. I love connecting with people on Instagram and I'm on Facebook as well. And then obviously my website has information too. Well, so excited for this book. So grateful for all the amazing work you're doing. and the fantastic energy you brought to the show today.

50:27Thank you for being here. Oh, so fun. Thank you so much for having me. And I'm so happy we connected. All right, guys, go check out the book. It's in the show notes below. Until next week, keep creating your confidence. I decided to change that dynamic. I couldn't be more excited for what you're going to hear. Start learning and growing. Inevitably, something will happen. No one succeeds alone. You don't stop and look around once in a while You could miss it I'm on this journey with me