In short
Mass customization in the workplace—how far organizations should individualize work (especially in-office/remote policies) while maintaining fairness, trust, and business performance sustainability.
Guests
Erin Koob, strategic advisor and company leader working with executive teams on sustainable performance and cultural/behavioral shifts; keynote speaker. Tyler Blackwell, leads workforce strategy and transformation at Morningstar.
Key claims
Flexibility must have clear boundaries; otherwise it becomes a “manager lottery” and erodes trust. RTO changes can feel like breaking implicit “culture contracts,” especially when time/visibility metrics persist. Leadership creates “microcultures,” so manager communication determines whether customization helps or harms. Self-awareness is required for employees to identify where/when they work best.
Notable examples
Gen Z voting more for five days in office; a “would you rather” at Neocon. “Shadow customization” (Japan height-adjustable desks unused due to neighbor noise). Morningstar’s increased education/wellness stipend to $1,000 with transparent, stable options. “NNTR” email subject line to reduce after-hours responsiveness.
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Chapters
Tap a time to open that second in VOWorkplace Flexibility vs Rigidity
0:00 to 0:17
Explore the balance between workplace flexibility and organizational needs.
“Some managers are like, hey, you need to be here five days a week.”
Mass Customization in the Workplace
0:39 to 1:49
Discussion on the mass customization trend in workplace design and flexibility.
“Now, there's a tension that I've been thinking a lot about since writing the book.”
Panelist Introductions and Perspectives
1:49 to 2:25
Introduction of panelists and their perspectives on workplace challenges.
“But if we have so much flexibility that the business can't meet its goals, probably not effective because we all need paychecks, right?”
Trust and Mistrust in the Workplace
2:25 to 3:35
Exploration of the concepts of trust and mistrust between employees and organizations.
“So I've invited two phenomenal panelists here to help us unpack from very different perspectives, kind of where we are.”
Gen Z's Perspective on Work
3:35 to 6:46
Examining how Gen Z views the workplace and their expectations for flexibility.
“I love this one word exercise, because when you see these words come together, friction and trust or mistrust, it kind of gives us a quick snapshot of what's happening between individual worker and employer today.”
Customization vs. Organizational Needs
6:46 to 10:12
Balancing individual customization requests with organizational policies.
“But Tyler, I'm sure you have something to say about this because we can't accommodate 400 people's desires with 400 different policies.”
Leadership's Role in Workplace Culture
10:12 to 14:00
Discussion on the impact of leadership on workplace culture and employee satisfaction.
“I know Aaron probably has thoughts about this, but I really think about the importance of leadership when it comes to this.”
Analyzing Work Patterns and Employee Mindsets
14:00 to 15:41
Learn about how work patterns and mindsets affect productivity and employee well-being.
“People are logging out before four o 'clock on Fridays.”
The Importance of Self-Awareness in the Workplace
16:54 to 18:10
Understand how self-awareness is crucial for personal productivity and workplace dynamics.
“Let's connect and work together for what's next.”
Identifying Work Preferences and Patterns
18:10 to 20:54
Explore how recognizing personal work patterns can lead to better workplace design.
“You know, it all starts with self-awareness.”
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Building Trust and Customization in Organizations
20:54 to 24:15
Learn how to foster trust and customize employee experiences within organizations.
“Like how do we start to build this trust in a way that benefits the individuals and still make sense for what you're trying to do in the business you're trying to run?”
Time Management and Workplace Efficiency
24:15 to 28:01
Discover strategies to manage time effectively and enhance productivity at work.
“But I think just like building trust in some of these smaller ways goes a long way.”
Maximizing Work Efficiency
28:01 to 29:18
Learn strategies for improving focus and productivity in the workplace.
“Like what, what is your advice, I guess, to those organizations?”
Sustainable Work Practices
29:19 to 31:28
Explore the importance of sustainability for both businesses and employees.
“And being clear and transparent with each other.”
Effective Communication for Leaders
31:29 to 33:56
Understand the critical role of clear communication in leadership.
“If it's not sustainable for the business, we don't have paychecks and neither is a good thing.”
Navigating AI in the Workplace
33:57 to 36:50
Discuss the impact of AI on jobs and the need for clear expectations.
“Those human skills are so important and they're not soft.”
Addressing Burnout in the Workplace
36:51 to 37:45
Recognize the signs of burnout and the importance of work-life balance.
“I'm going to raise my hand so that y 'all don't feel any shame.”
Transcript
Automatic transcript. May contain errors.0:00Some managers are like, hey, you need to be here five days a week. I don't care if you've got a dentist appointment on Friday, whereas other managers are more flexible. They understand your productivity and success in this role is not going to be measured on time in office. Welcome to Design Nerds Anonymous, the podcast that sparks curiosity at the intersection of business and design. I'm your host, Amanda Schneider. We're back on the road with Work For What's Next. And this stop takes us once again to a showroom in Chicago, where we recorded live from the Hayworth showroom with their newest dealer, Office Revolution.
0:39Now, there's a tension that I've been thinking a lot about since writing the book. We've spent the last few years giving people more choice than ever in how they work. And for good reason. As we learned on last week's episode, one size fits all never really fit everyone. But how far can we take that? If everyone wants something different, how do you create a workplace that still feels fair? How much should an organization bend to the needs of an individual? And at what point does flexibility stop helping the business actually work? That's what we're unpacking today. Because this conversation gets into something much bigger than where or when we work.
1:21It gets into trust, leadership, fairness, and what happens when the needs of the individual collide with the needs of the organization. So come with us to Chicago and listen in on the conversation. First of all, I just want to thank you all for coming. We are recording live from the Hayworth showroom in the Merchandise Mart in Chicago. We've been brought here by their newest dealer, Office Revolution. So we've titled the episode Mass Customization. We know that people are looking for flexibility today. Since 2020, how we work has changed. But if we have so much flexibility that the business can't meet its goals, probably not effective because we all need paychecks, right?
2:03And then if we have so much rigidity that we don't have flexibility, suddenly the human sustainability is not there. We're all burning out. We're all struggling. So when we talk about mass customization, it's really about how do we meet individual workers where they are and help to figure out something that's going to work for the sustainability of the humans and the sustainability of the business. All right. So I've invited two phenomenal panelists here to help us unpack from very different perspectives, kind of where we are. So introduce yourself then in one word, how would you describe the tension between what individuals need to thrive and what organizations need to thrive today?
2:42Hi, my name is Erin Koob. I am a strategic advisor. I run a company where we go in and work mainly with executive teams on helping them decide how to help their people perform more sustainably and create behavioral and cultural shifts. I also do a lot of keynote speaking around a lot of these topics. That one word I would use, friction. I'm Tyler Blackwell. I work for a company called Morningstar. I lead workforce strategy and transformation. And I guess like one word I would use that comes to mind is like trust. And do you think it's trust or mistrust right now? I think it's a mix. I think like your employer is one of the last like remaining places where we can place our trust.
3:26And I think it's like shifting even now, though, a little bit not in a good way for organizations. I think, yeah, I think it's a mixed bag. It's interesting. I love this one word exercise, because when you see these words come together, friction and trust or mistrust, it kind of gives us a quick snapshot of what's happening between individual worker and employer today. And I like that you said a mix of trust and mistrust, because I think that's definitely true. Everyone in this room knows I was recently on the Oprah podcast and there was a viral Gen Z-er and they're talking about the Gen Z stare.
3:59The Gen Z stare is when they look at you like buffering, buffering, buffering, like I'm trying to figure out what you're saying. But all of this friction, trust, mistrust, balance is normal to us. Like we've watched it form. But Gen Z is coming into this environment with no background and understanding. And so a bit of that Gen Z stare, I feel like they're looking at the workforce right now and looking at jobs and looking at some of our norms. Like you stay loyal to a company for 20 years, even though inflation is rising like this and our cost of living raises are rising like this. Right. Like they look at some of these things with their own Gen Z stare about how we got to this moment.
4:40So I guess let's unpack these words a little bit. How did we get here? Why do you think we're in this moment? I look at things as taking a step back for the person behind the performance. And so when we think about an organization, we think about growth, we think about results, business outcomes, and strategy. And none of that is possible without the people. People are the ones that produce those results and outcomes. And yes, we have technology that will help us do that and do that better and faster. But at the end of the day, it's the people. And so I think what has happened or what I've experienced both myself and with clients is that over the last call it 10 to 15 years and certainly since the pandemic we have had this friction between people wanting agency and autonomy and ownership over their days their time their energy their attention and at the same time needing to produce results and perform at a high level for the organization and what I find very interesting is that these two things can coexist.
5:43And so there's this like almost black and white scenario where people are looking at it like, I either need to make it to 65 so I can retire and not have to work and then I get to live, or I have to just sell my soul and let it be crushed and like have no life and be miserable. And I don't agree with that. I absolutely disagree with that. But I believe that is where the friction comes in. And it's why I do the work I do because I changed my own perspective of that from the person that would tell myself, I'm just going to be miserable until I'm 65 and then I get to live to the person that's like, oh no, I'm going to be in this and perform well and actually crush it and make the most of the money I'm earning and my potential so that I can live more now and not just wait for a vacation or to be 65.
6:29Which is interesting because I feel like Gen Z is starting there. The book really talks about using Gen Z as a lens. And they're getting a bad rap for it. People are like, oh, these kids, they have no grit. They have no, you know. So I think what's interesting is what all of us really need to is what Gen Z is coming into the workplace asking for. But Tyler, I'm sure you have something to say about this because we can't accommodate 400 people's desires with 400 different policies. What would you add to this? Certainly Gen Z has come into the workplace in the last six years in a challenging time.
7:01But I mean, it's also impacted all of us in the same way since I'm not Gen Z. And I guess like some of it's certainly related to in-office versus remote kind of work. And then some of it's also related to how work is changing because of new technologies and what that means for us and for people at a more entry-level role. Your question about like customization or like personalization, I think is an interesting one. So if you are working for a company and you accept a job there, and let's say you are three days in office, and then a year later, they go to four days in office, from the employee perspective, that feels tough.
7:46And I think to name it, in some ways, it can start to erode trust because you signed on to something like a contract, right? Certain working norms, right? And then there are other elements of work that are not necessarily a part of that contract, but we often like blend them into the same thing. And so by the contract, I mean like what you do every single day, who you work with, what's expected of you, you know, how are you going to be graded in your performance, these kinds of things. And then like the other element of it, which isn't contractual, when do you go to work? How long do you go to work?
8:23For a lot of us, this is ingrained in the culture, but it's not necessarily written down anywhere. All those sorts of things that are a part of an organizational culture, but it's not like you signed on to them, right? And I think a lot of organizations are sort of thinking about personalization and they're trying to like boil the ocean. As you start to take things away two days remote and now you have one, it starts to erode trust. And I think that that impacts people a lot. It's interesting that you brought up kind of this RTO as one of these things that's like trust, mistrust, you know, where does it fall in that balance?
8:59And I love something that you said in our prep call is this standoff is a zero-sum game because we still measure contribution by time and visibility, an analog norm that survived into a digital world. And it's interesting, again, why I love to look at it through this generational lens. We did a little would you rather question at Neocon, a little trade show here, and we asked, would you rather work five days a week fully remote or five days a week fully in office? Now, most people tried to put it on the line, but we discounted their votes. They didn't count. But the only generation to vote more, a higher percentage of five days a week back in the office was Gen Z.
9:36So as we look at this trust mistrust, I think one thing that's happening is Gen Z and others are told that they have to come into the office for mentorship or they have to come into the office for collaboration and then they get there and their superiors aren't there because they're traveling for business, because responsibilities, because whatever else, we don't know. So this policy that's designed to create camaraderie is actually starting to destroy it. So talk a little bit more about that optionality and maybe, Tyler, what you've found that helps to create that customization without, I guess, fueling that mistrust.
10:13I know Aaron probably has thoughts about this, but I really think about the importance of leadership when it comes to this. Like when you have an RTO policy and, you know, there's built in flexibility that people end up getting depending on who their manager is, right? Some managers are like, hey, you need to be here five days a week. I don't care if you've got a dentist appointment on Friday at 10 o 'clock, like you got to reschedule that. Or, you know, I don't, I don't care if you You need to go pick up your kids from school on whatever day. Whereas other managers are more flexible. They understand your productivity and success in this role is not going to be measured on time in office and whatever other old metrics we have.
10:56And so it's not really personalization at that point. It's a lottery, the lottery of who your manager is. And so I think so much of this is dependent on leadership. And if your leaders are not in the office and it's five days a week, that's ridiculous. is that that's not a good thing. And it's going to build a really bad organizational culture if it's not already a bad organizational culture. I think it's interesting Gen Z are the folks that want to be in the office five days a week. But I think it's directly related to the lack of camaraderie community that I think we all have coming out of COVID and then having like so much of us working remotely.
11:35Community is a big thing, I think, missing, not just in the workplace, but like in life. So I agree with a lot of the things that you're saying, Tyler. And I do look at things from the leadership lens because every leader sets a microculture in an organization. And then those compound and add up to the overall culture of what does it actually feel like to work for this company, right? And one of the things that I've noticed happened, so I worked at Goldman throughout my 20s on Wall Street. And I actually believe I'm where I am today because I learned the professional foundation of what leadership is not and should not be.
12:07And so I reported to someone who was all about FaceTime before it was an app on a phone. It meant butt in seat 15 hours a day, right? You came in before your boss, so you didn't leave till your boss left. And usually your boss was there at least a minimum of 12, 13 hours. Was I productive during all those hours? Absolutely not. I had instant messenger and someone would send me a little lightning bolt when my boss is walking up behind me. So that means I can stop planning my next trip and start working again. But of course, we know that we cannot be productive for all of those hours. It's just, it's not even a human thing.
12:40It's just our brains don't want to do that, right? So we're going to find distractions. Now that said, the boss that I had in that instance, and I've seen so many since, not that I've reported to necessarily, but so many people that I have met along the way who either operate this way or report to someone who does. There's this like rite of passage that because I went through this, because this is how I came up through the ranks, this is how I will then treat you. You got to suffer too. Exactly. And that is what I believe actually has to start to shift. My belief is not that it is an employer's job to make their employees happy.
13:16Like that's an inside job for each of us. You know, that's our personal responsibility. And at the same time, we do not need to treat those younger than us in a way where it is our rite of passage to mistreat them. So a little story about this. I have a client contact who I worked with in a different company. She joined as a chief people officer over at a company that's around 120 ,000 people globally. They have a very young distributed workforce. A new CEO came in who was McKinsey trained for 35 years. So we all know that type. And this man was within six months going to his C-suite leadership team saying, we have a problem.
14:01People are logging out before four o 'clock on Fridays. And that's what he looked at. This is the metric that he was looking at. Meanwhile, there's no problem showing up elsewhere in the organization. So when she calls me and she says, what are some things I can talk to my CEO about? What are some things you could help us with? And so I asked some very deep questions after about 45 minutes of chatting with her. where I got to is I'm happy to join you on a call, but you aren't going to solve this problem by solving your people's issues. You're going to change the mindset of the CEO. So don't spend money on all these services that, by the way, a million consulting firms would love to sell you because they're not going to work.
14:44They're a band-aid solution to a problem that is actually a mindset issue for him. And meanwhile, this company, their stock price was phenomenal. The employee engagement surveys, scores are through the roof. People enjoy their jobs. But what he wasn't looking at is who's logging in at 8 o 'clock at night on Tuesdays? Who is maybe leaving at 4 o 'clock on Friday but then works on Saturday or Sunday? He wasn't looking at any of those things. And that is where measuring contribution versus time is really where we have to start to make this shift and help those older than us even start to understand what those shifts are.
15:22Yeah. And I love that you kind of brought in that, what did you say, 15, 18 hour workday? Right. Because as we talk about sustainability, the business and sustainability, the individual, that's not sustainable for either. Your people are going to burn out. You're not going to be able to keep that up.
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17:04I want to talk about a quick moment. When I was preparing for my TEDx talk, I was practicing on my best friend and running through. and one of the lines in it is the future of work starts with each of us understanding when and where we work best. And so funny, she pushed back and was like, Amanda, because of the industry you're in, you think about this all the time. But she's like, I've honestly never, ever thought about that because for many of us, work is just something we do, right? You get the job, you get a key card, you come into the office because that's what we do. But if you think back to how you could be most productive in that workday, some of us are wired for early morning.
17:40I love. I wrote this book between 4 and 6 a.m. Most people think I'm crazy, right? I know, not normal. But other people are wired to be night owls, right? So Erin, I know this is a big part of your book. I have one little chapter, chapter three in work for What's Next talks about this. But talk about how you start this process of just even self-discovery and identifying where and how you work best. Because I feel like we can't design the future of work for all these different needs if you yourself don't understand your needs. Absolutely. You know, it all starts with self-awareness. And that is where I begin the process with any organization, with the executive team, because they are setting the tone.
18:19And that will help inform these decisions they make on a personalization scale, customization scale, and all of the above for their teams and for the company. When I think about self-awareness, and there's this metric that I learned in a neuroscience course I took at MIT that says 85 % of people think they're self-aware. Guess how many are? Barely 10%. The other five or six don't even think about it. Everyone's thinking of someone in their office right now. Yeah. But seriously, like look around this room, you know, it's like, we're not all self-aware and self-awareness is a practice. It is a practice and it is a choice and it requires intention in order to develop self-awareness, but then to maintain it.
18:59And so in my book, I do write three full chapters in the beginning, all about how do we start to notice patterns in the ways that we think and the ways that we operate or show up in our behaviors and look at where those patterns are stemming from. They're usually stemming from some sort of antiquated or outdated belief, right? So case in point, I was at a talk not long ago for the book and there was a room of about this size and I didn't know anyone in the room. I was asked to join a Chamber of Commerce event. And this guy, towards the end, everyone got the book and they're asking questions. And this guy says, I've got a real problem with something that I do is a dichotomy of rituals and routines and how we look at our lives.
19:40He goes, I have a real problem with this because my whole life is routine. Every single day, it's so structured. And I said, okay, that's great. There's nothing wrong with that if it works for you. And I said, rituals and routines both have structure. So tell me, is there any part of your routine, your structured day that does not energize you, that absolutely zaps you and drains you? And he goes, yeah, the part where I have to go to work. And I said, bingo. Okay. So this is where you've got to pull back the hood and you've got to start looking at your relationship to what work actually means for you.
20:15Is it just a paycheck? Is it a livelihood? Is it a pathway to something else? Like you have to figure out how does that serve you and then embrace that. And really, and honestly, if you're in a toxic environment, find a new job. If you have a toxic boss, see if you can do something else in the company. And that is, that's a very real thing people go through. But if that's not the case, like you have to change your relationship to it, which requires self-awareness and asking some deeper questions. So we get all this self-awareness and now 400 people come to Tyler with their newfound self-awareness from chapter three in my book and from your whole book.
20:53And they have all of these different needs. Tyler, where do we start there? Like how do we start to build this trust in a way that benefits the individuals and still make sense for what you're trying to do in the business you're trying to run? Well, I would say, first of all, Well, thankfully that's not my job in real life. I mean, it is and it isn't. We of course survey our employees all the time and we do take that really seriously. And we do try to demonstrate that we're doing something about it. Because of course, a lot of people feel like they take a survey and nothing's ever done with it.
21:30But we do try to do things all the time. Our chief people officer is very serious about that. And so each year she tries to do something related to what we found in our poll survey globally. We have a little bit more than 11 ,000 people globally and 31 different offices. So it's not like it's not ginormous like this 120 ,000 person, but it's not it's not tiny. and so what we do try to do is to think about what's actually like actionable here that we can commit to and actually commit to for a long time instead of doing it next year because it's like kind of in the moment and and then maybe like next year we oh god that's too costly we won't be able to do that and so I think we've tried to take the approach of a smaller menu of items that can feel personalized and, and customized for our global audience, which again, like that you have to take lots of things into consideration with a global audience.
22:35Like what Americans might want is very different than what our employees in Japan might want versus what our employees in Sydney might, you know, so there's a lot of like factors there. But I think the answer really is to, again, don't try to boil the ocean and do everything for everybody. an example is a change we made to our sort of like stipend that we give folks at first it was just like an education statement you got i think five hundred dollars and you could use that for a variety of different things like going to a conference or you know um books and things that you want to read and people were kind of like that you know i don't know i'm not i don't feel that so much um it's fine but like it's also not that much money what else could we do people were talking about like doing something more in fitness and well-being and so we increased it to a thousand dollars and also made more flexibility in terms of what people could do with that money they could they could still use it for education but they could also do something like within wellness if you demonstrate that you're doing something for people when they say x y and z and and you're open and transparent about what you can't do and what you can do and then you stick with those things instead of like taking them away the next year.
23:51I think that builds trust. And I think any employee understands like you're not going to get everything that you want. Hopefully you're not being exploited and you don't feel like an unbelievable amount of gratitude just for having the job, which I think a lot of people do feel right now. And I think there's a lot of fear and anxiety that people feel around changes to the economy and how we do work and what that looks like. But I think just like building trust in some of these smaller ways goes a long way. And I think that anxiety is probably increasing as AI comes into the picture and some of this.
24:27And interesting story, you mentioned your global survey and some differences in cultures. So I was speaking at a recent event and there was a woman from Japan in the audience. And she was talking about in Japan, they have height adjustable desks, but no one will use them because the sound, they're too afraid that it's going to bother their neighbors. All the Americans in the audience are like, well, that's not happening here.
25:00You talk, Tyler, about what you call shadow customization. And I think this is a really important piece because you mentioned earlier, you know, it's that contract between your manager. So that means some people get this and some people do not. Talk about that shadow customization and what that means, first of all, for anyone who hasn't heard the term and how you at Morningstar kind of overcome that. I do think it's important to say Morningstar is a great place to work. And I've only been there two years, but it's the best place I've ever worked. And I was attracted to Morningstar in part because of their commitment to design.
25:36Design is really important to Morningstar. We have a chief design officer. Our design ethos and values are directly related to our mission and our values as a company. And Morningstar was founded in 1984 because the guy that started Morningstar wanted to make data more transparent and available to everybody. And I'd never thought about this stuff until I got to Morningstar. but nobody has an office globally at Morningstar. Our CEO sits on the floor like everyone else, not literally, but like, you know. Thanks for clarifying. We have desks and he sits on it. Like, I love that personally. Shadow customization means that you may have your policies and the contracts that you have as an employee and HR may come up with policies X, Y, and Z and that's great, but then you have things happening on the side.
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26:29between a manager and an employee. That happens all the time. And I think it's, I mean, personally, I think it's fine, especially in an organization where there's trust, right? But it's hard to write these policies. So when we went from three to four days in the office, we had to rewrite our work from anywhere policy. This was like, you get a certain amount of days to work from anywhere. Part of the reason is like tax reasons, right? You kind of want to know where people are, blah, blah, blah. Ultimately, it comes down to how do you communicate with your manager? If you're a manager, how do you communicate with your employees and your teams about what's really important here?
27:06We're not trying to track your time in the office. I think the shadow customization happens when there are bad policies in place or no policies in place. I guess I advocate for, again, it coming down to a leadership thing. Even your ability as an employee, no matter where you are, hierarchically in an organization to speak, to advocate for yourself and to be like honest about the things happening in your life. You know, like if, if you need to be at home more because of X, Y, and Z reason, you can figure that out with your manager and that's okay. So let's build on that, Aaron, because I think I like that advocacy, that connection with your manager.
27:47And I know you're up here kind of advocating for the individual and helping state what you need. Let's flip that a minute. Like what are the best managers, the best organizations doing to keep the best talent today? Like what, what is your advice, I guess, to those organizations? Yeah. I'm glad you asked that. One of the things that I see a lot of companies doing, and I work specifically with teams on this, and this is, this is a really important aspect of getting to the, what actually matters. People want more time during their workday for the work that actually matters. Now, fortunately or unfortunately, we have these reptilian brains that haven't evolved in millennia, even though our world looks very different.
28:26What does our brain do? What is the tendency? The brain wants to check off and get the dopamine hit of the most things it can get done. So this happens. Inbox urgency. Who's a refresher in this room? And if you don't raise your hands, that's okay. But I almost guarantee most of you are. You're waiting for that to come in. And so you're just wasting time throughout the day just checking the inbox. You're reading every single email the moment it comes in and it's this urgency, this need to react. And why? Because we get a dopamine hit when we do. Boom. I reacted. I sent it. It's out of my inbox, right?
29:00Versus protecting time and saying, I'll check my email three times a day and I'll make sure that one of those is at the end of the day so that I respond to everything I need to. So what I see teams doing is getting clear, the leader getting clear with their team on here is what actually matters. This is the work that moves the needle. These are the priorities and you all know your role in that. And if you don't, let's chat, right? And being clear and transparent with each other. But also what are the things that are taking us away from doing that heads down focus work that we need to do or from focusing on the priorities and the work that is actually, that needs to get done and that will move the needle.
29:37So I've seen some teams come up with various solutions. One is, for example, putting the letters NNTR in a subject line in the beginning of the subject line for emails that are in between the team or other people on another team. And they communicate this by saying, if you see NNTR in your subject line, that means no need to respond. So you know what that means? Susan likes to read those emails at 10 o 'clock at night. Jim likes to read them at 5 a.m. the next day. You know, John likes to read them on the train on the way home at 5 30 p.m. So each of those people get to choose when they are looking at those no need to respond emails.
30:15So they're still informed, but they don't have to take time away from what they're trying to focus on. And there's a lot of tension that does get created for people when they feel like they get to the end of the week and life has been so busy because there is life outside of work. You know, when you were a kid, remember how you look at a teacher as if like they live at the school and they don't know another person. And it's like you see them at a grocery store, you're like, oh like you have a life but no we all have lives and we all have these other things pulling on our energy and our time and our attention so if we can help people be clear like during the work day like this is the stuff that we have to focus on and how can we start to remove some of the things that you find draining and talk about that so that we can all really be more focused and ultimately more energized by our work.
31:01I also feel like maybe that NNTR will help Debbie from replying all and saying, thanks. Absolutely. Yeah. Yeah. That is draining. And I think this has been kind of a fascinating exploration of really how to think about these both as things that are needed and kind of the individual and the business together against the problem and the problem being sustainability for the business and for the humans that are doing it. Because again, if it's not sustainable for the humans, you don't have people to do the work. If it's not sustainable for the business, we don't have paychecks and neither is a good thing.
31:34So let's think about kind of uniting those perspectives as we kind of start to wrap here. If you could leave leaders with one thing that's within their control this month, maybe one conversation to have, an assumption to challenge, or a small change to make, what would that be? It's really just about having honest conversations with your teams to set expectations, just to build off what you just said, probably the worst employee experiences I've ever had were with leaders that just weren't good at communicating what they expected of me. Whereas the best managers I've ever had have been really clear about what they expected of me.
32:10And that helps build trust and it helps build the relationship. And then we can actually have conversations, not just about how I'm being measured, but also about like life so that he understands what's happening so that if something comes up you know i don't have to like spend an hour explaining that this tree fell down in my backyard because illinois is now tornado valley or whatever you know like he just he knows like about my life in terms of and trust me and trust that the work is going to get done and i also understand what he expects of me like and so i think just having a conversation about what you really expect of your team, that is assuming you know what you expect of your team.
32:54And that they know what they need for themselves. Yeah. And I think, but I do think a lot of leaders don't actually know how to convey that, especially I think with how AI is changing roles. It's like, I don't know if this happens for y 'all, but I hear a lot of leaders just being like, you guys got to do AI. You got to go out there and do it. And you're like, what are you saying? do what with what? And so I think being really, you know, just being like really explicit about what you expect of your people and whether it's a new tool or a new technology or how they spend their days. Like, I think just being really clear about what you expect of people is, goes so far.
33:39That's not always a natural skill that comes to us, right? What made you good at the thing that got you promoted to manager doesn't necessarily mean that you're a great communicator. So maybe that's another one to add on to yours that train your managers and help them develop these people skills, the things that make them so human in this age of AI. Erin, what's your advice? Well, you also just said it. Those human skills are so important and they're not soft. They are literally what it takes to be a good leader. Whether you're leading client accounts, you're leading a team, you're leading a department or the overall company, it absolutely matters how you connect with other people.
34:13But first and foremost, that stems from how you connect with yourself. And so, you know, I mean, you know what it's like to be around someone who's burnt out or someone who's miserable or someone who just doesn't know how to relate to another person. We don't want to be around those kinds of people. And so we're not going to be perfect and we're not going to be at 100 percent every day. But it's up to each of us to, again, take that ownership and responsibility over how do we navigate our days so that we can bring our best when we're there. their meaning in the work that we're doing, wherever we're physically located, and be able to give to our clients, our teams, and the work that actually needs us to perform at our best.
34:51Really, really quick on the AI front, this is so interesting because I am now seeing all these conversations take place that are very different than six months, 12 months, 18 months ago. And I did this big keynote earlier last week with a bunch of Fortune 500 execs, and it was all women executives. And one of them afterwards, when I'm signing a book, she says she's CFO at a technology communications company. So she says to me, you know, what's so funny about all this AI stuff is we've told people go do it. Right. And yeah. And that is so like, it's oblivious to like, what are we actually doing here?
35:27But people have gone and started to learn how to use the AI. And then they've been told they have to use it for their jobs. And if not, they'll fall behind and be left behind. So now they're using it, but the companies had not looked at how much all these tokens are going to cost them. And so now there's this line item in tech budgets that was not accounted for before. And so companies are now having to figure out, you can't backtrack. You now can't tell people, oh, wait a minute, we know we told you to use that, but don't use it right now. Back to the trust issue. Yeah. Exactly. Back to the, and creating mistrust for sure, but also being transparent with people, what are the expectations?
36:07And now also on the executive level, figuring out where are we setting the standards for how we are going to use this, where we're going to pay for it, and then what budgets does it come from? Because I will tell you the last place I would like to see that come from is people development. But I am not naive to think that they're not going to start pulling from a people development budget and or a marketing budget or you name it because where are you going to pay for this stuff? So interesting. And we could go down the AI rabbit hole. I will say another stop right here in the Hayworth showroom is going to be an episode of this specifically diving into AI and how that's going to change our physical workplaces.
36:47So all of y 'all in the audience, you can come back for that one. How many of you have had your own moment of burnout sometime in the last 10 years? I'm going to raise my hand so that y 'all don't feel any shame. I think it's a lot of us. And I think it's really this moment of time that we're in. We know this go back, go back, go back message is not working. We know that we didn't like where we were in the pandemic, but we haven't quite figured out where to go to move forward. I think hybrid work was really exciting at first, right? You can work anytime, anywhere. And then that became working all the time everywhere.
37:20So I just want to close with kind of a call to action for those podcast listeners that can't see this room right now, nearly 100 % of this room raised their hand of who's had a moment of burnout. And I think that that's what we're headed for collectively. If we can't figure out how to balance both the companies and individuals against the problem of burnout, the sustainability of the business and the sustainability of the individuals. So I hope this sparked something for all of you today. I hope you'll continue to follow the podcast as we explore more of these topics and explore it with more experts like the two of you.
37:51So I want to thank you guys so much for joining us. And thank you guys so much for listening. So here's what I keep coming back to from this conversation. Flexibility sounds great, but flexibility without clear boundaries can very quickly become the manager lottery. One manager says yes, another says no, one team has freedom and another doesn't, and suddenly something designed to give people more autonomy actually creates more confusion, more inconsistency, and potentially more mistrust. So maybe the real challenge of mass customization isn't figuring out how to give everyone something different.
38:29It's getting much clearer about the guardrails. What is actually flexible and what isn't? Where does the individual get to choose? And where does the business need consistency? Because you can give people a lot of freedom when everyone understands the boundaries. And that idea of Clarity around expectations is a pretty perfect setup for where we're headed next. Our next stop on the Work for What's Next Roadshow takes us live to Mannington Commercial in Atlanta. And I have to tell you, this may be the conversation that I am most excited about, though it's hard to pick a favorite child. We're bringing employers, educators, and importantly, students into the same room to ask, Gen Z is entering the workforce?
39:12Are we actually setting them up to succeed? But this is not a conversation about what Gen Z is doing wrong. And it's not education versus employers or students versus the workplace. It's all of us together versus the problem. Because AI is changing how work gets done. Communication norms are shifting. Career paths look different today. Even what it means to be work-ready is changing. So what does the next generation need to learn? And what does the workplace need to unlearn? and what might all of us need to do differently to meet what's next. That's what's next live from Atlanta. Until then, stay curious, my fellow design nerds.
39:54Design Nerds Anonymous is a proud member of the Surround Podcast Network. Special thanks to the podcast production team, Rachel Senator and Rob Schulte.
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Recorded live with Office Revolution in Chicago in the Haworth showroom, this episode explores what may be the next great workplace challenge: how organizations can deliver individualized experiences while maintaining alignment, efficiency, and culture.
Inspired by ideas from I Can Fit That In and Work for What's Next, Amanda is joined by leadership coach and author Erin Coupe alongside Tyler Blackwell, a corporate leader who is navigating these tensions in real time. Together, they examine why flexibility looks different for everyone, why most people have never stopped to define what "better" actually means for themselves, and what organizations can do when individual preferences collide with business realities.
Because employees increasingly expect work to fit their lives, yet businesses still need systems that are fair, scalable, and effective. Here's what we're learning—and what it could mean for how your organization works next.
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