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24 Nov 2025 · 13 min

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Podcast Summary: Do This, NOT That - Marketing Tips with Jay Schwedelson

Episode Title

SPECIAL SERIES ==> Growing Email Tactic in 2026! and Daniel's Thanksgiving Plan <== | BATHROOM Break #83 COLLAB: The Marketing Millennials + Do This, Not That

Podcast Description

"Do This, NOT That!" is a marketing podcast that delves into effective marketing strategies and tactics. The show provides actionable insights to improve marketing effectiveness, emphasizing understanding audience behavior and leveraging behavioral science principles.

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Episode Overview In this special episode, hosts Jay Schwedelson and Daniel Murray engage in a light-hearted discussion that mixes personal Thanksgiving anecdotes with insightful marketing strategies. The focus is on the importance of email reply rates and how to enhance engagement through conversational marketing tactics.

Key Themes

  • The Importance of Email Replies: The episode highlights why engagement through replies is critical for email marketing success.
  • AI in Email Marketing: Discusses how artificial intelligence can improve response rates and track interactions.
  • Conversational Marketing Techniques: Strategies to turn one-way emails into interactive conversations.
  • Behavioral Insights: Understanding audience preferences and using that knowledge to drive marketing decisions.

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Key Discussions & Insights

  1. Thanksgiving Food Preferences
  2. Daniel's Thanksgiving Background:
  3. Grew up in South Africa; Thanksgiving wasn't a traditional holiday in his family.
  4. Expresses dislike for dry turkey.
  • Jay’s Thanksgiving Rules:
  • Advocates for mac and cheese on Thanksgiving and believes salad has no place in the meal.
  1. The Power of Email Reply Rates
  2. Reply Rates as Signals:
  3. High reply rates indicate that content is resonating with the audience.
  4. AI tools can enhance the tracking and management of these replies.
  • Tactics for Encouraging Replies:
  • Personal Questions: Include relatable questions in emails, such as favorite hobbies or Thanksgiving dishes.
  • Easter Eggs: Add hidden prompts within emails to encourage reading and replies.
  1. Conversational Techniques
  2. Direct Response Requests:
  3. Instead of traditional links/forms, ask readers to reply to emails with specific keywords (e.g., "Reply GUIDE" for a resource).
  4. This method is shown to increase response rates significantly.
  • Utilizing Social Media:
  • Similar techniques apply to platforms like Instagram—encouraging replies can boost visibility and engagement.
  1. Data Insights and Content Development
  2. First-Party Data Collection:
  3. Engaging in conversations through replies can provide valuable insights into audience preferences, which can inform future content topics.
  1. Thanksgiving Movie Discussion
  2. Casual banter about favorite holiday movies, including:
  3. Die Hard as a holiday movie.
  4. Other favorites like Home Alone, The Grinch, and Hallmark films.
  1. Holiday Strategy
  2. Jay and Daniel humorously suggest their strategy of gaining weight during the holidays to make post-holiday resolutions easier.

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Actionable Takeaways

  • Incorporate personal and light-hearted prompts in emails to increase engagement.
  • Utilize AI to manage and track email interactions effectively.
  • Shift from one-way marketing communication to creating open-ended, engaging conversations.
  • Leverage social media engagement techniques to increase visibility and interaction.

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Closing Thoughts

The episode combines humor with serious marketing advice, making it both entertaining and educational. The insights provided around email reply strategies are particularly relevant as the marketing landscape continues to evolve with technology.

Follow Jay and Daniel

  • Jay Schwedelson:
  • [YouTube](https://www.youtube.com/@schwedelson)
  • [TikTok](https://www.tiktok.com/@schwedelson)
  • [Instagram](https://www.instagram.com/jayschwedelson/)
  • Daniel Murray:
  • [LinkedIn](https://www.linkedin.com/in/daniel-murray-marketing/)

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0:07Welcome to a new special series called The Bathroom Break. That extra 10 minutes, you either have to listen to marketing tips or use the bathroom or both. But I don't recommend both, but that's your choice. This collab is going to be super fun. We have Daniel Murray from the Marketing Millennials and me, Jay Schwetelson, from the Do This Not That podcast and subjectline.com. Each episode in the series, we are going to go over quick tips about different marketing topics. And if you want to be in the bathroom, fine, just don't tell us about it. Thanks for checking it out. We are back for the bathroom break.

0:41I'm Jay Schwetelson from Do This, Not That. I'm here with the Marking Millennial, Daniel Murray. And we're going to talk about some really important marking stuff or not. But before that, Thanksgiving is right here. So, Daniel, I want to know something. You know, you were born in Africa. That's not a joke. You were. You moved here when you were seven. And so for, like, Thanksgiving, do you, like, eat, like, giraffe and stuff? before you before you say i used to tell people growing up that that i lived in a hut number six and my my like like the hut name was hakuna matata and like i used to like get to my hut and there was a bunch of huts in this village and i used to ride elephants and and people would straight to believe me for i believe it right now and no it's a civilized place it's um in south africa but i didn't really thanksgiving was never really huge in my family uh so we never really had a tradition about ronda now i wish i had a tradition around it uh but i do not i'm not a fan of dried turkey i just okay yeah i'm not a fan of it do you eat like will you eat the uh like uh sweet potatoes with marshmallows on it?

1:56Are you not on that team? No, I think that's good. I think, do you think the big question is, do you think Thanksgiving should have mac and cheese or not? A hundred percent should have mac and cheese. The only thing that Thanksgiving shouldn't have is salad. Like if somebody's like, we need a salad at Thanksgiving, like you missed the memo. This is the one day of the year we could like get stretchy pants, get out of control. We don't need salad. I also don't like when you go to a place where you're ordering good food and someone says, can we add a veggie? And it's like, we're ready. What is that going to do to this meal of pizza, pasta and stuff?

2:29It makes you feel better. Yeah, it makes you feel better. Oh, this episode is going to make everyone feel better. We're talking about something I think is going to really explode more in 2026, which is the idea of when you're sending out your campaigns, newsletter campaigns, promotional email campaigns, whatever the email marketing is that you're doing, people actually replying to those emails and thinking they're interacting with you or your brand or your company. And it's going to explode because AI is allowing us to kind of react to these replies faster. And there's a lot that we could be doing there.

3:05And I don't think enough people realize that this kind of reply rate on promotional emails is going to be a game changer. So Daniel, what do you think about kind of this idea of replying to promotional emails? Yeah, so Jay says that AI is going to be able to track it better, but I think the reason why you should track this metric is showing that your content is resonating with humans and humans are actually interacting with you. And that means you're writing content that is above what's going out in the market of all this AI only email. So a couple of ways you can think about it is a couple of ways I do it personally.

3:44And I'll tell what I do is I always have like a personalized question because people you you're talking to humans here that have lives. So I always make the question something like, what is your favorite hobby? I'm looking for new hobbies right now. Or what is your favorite dish on Thanksgiving or send me recipes for something like that? Something that just lightens the mood of the email. another thing i like to do is add easter eggs into like the the email so i'll be like if you see this reply this like in the middle of the email reply a word and um i will send you something or something like that like just it just shows that they're reading your email if you add an easter egg in the middle of your email that says if you see this like one time i did this i had a picture of these two like people from the 1980s or something no no 1880s like and i said reply this and me you should me and ari should dress up like this and and people i got a bunch of replies but it showed that people were reading to the middle of my email which was a good sign for me that people are reading so adding things into your email where you could add replies and also show that people are making it to the bottom of your email making it to the middle of your email are really good signs.

5:06First of all, I've never done the Easter egg thing in the middle of my email. So I'm definitely going to do that. I think that's a really interesting thing to test. But if you're out there and it's not even your newsletter, let's say you're trying to get a piece of content downloaded, or you're trying to get a discount code utilized, what is such an underrated tactic, which can exponentially increase your response rate is, let's say you have the 2026 guide to HR law changes, whatever boring thing that you're in that you think you can't promote right. If you send it out and you say, all you have to do, you're not sending people to a link to click to a form, whatever you're sending people.

5:38And you say, if you want the guide, just reply to this email and write the word guide. Okay. You're going to get flooded with people replying and saying the word guide. You're going to get a much, much higher number of people doing that than going to fill out your form. And you could also do this with discount code. Say, Hey, you want the 20 % off? Just reply back to this and say discount. And then what's going to happen is you're going to get flooded with that. And here's the great benefit of that. Not only is your response rate going to go up, but when you get the number one signal to stay in somebody's inbox in email marketing, the way that you don't go to the spam or junk folder is getting them to actually reply to an email that you sent.

6:18It is a signal that they like your stuff. So getting them to reply will get you more interaction, but also allows your future emails to stay in the inbox. I want to add another thing. It's on the reply rate, but it isn't for email. Things on social like Instagram stories, if you get people to reply to Instagram stories, it will show your Instagram story to more and more people because they think that's an interactive story and they want more and more people to do that. So if you do the same thing, like I do this for events, I do this for guides, I do this for anything. outputs hey i'm giving away this free thing reply guide to and we'll send you in the dms uh a the guide or the link to a private event or a link to this or link to that um it excellently gets you more in the story feed on instagram as well so like reply rate is going to get even more better because people want to interact with you as a brand interact with you as a human but it also helps you get more attention in the email inbox and on social as well.

7:28It's so true. It was so funny. So I was just doing, this is not a flex, but I was giving a speech at this conference this past week and this dude comes up to me after the session and, you know, we got stuff running on Instagram all the time. We use many chat, you know, where somebody comments a word and then instantly sends them a link to whatever the content pieces that we're pushing out there, whatever. He goes, Oh, while you were speaking, I saw one of your social posts And I commented and you DM me instantly the thing. He goes, how did you do that while you were on stage? I'm like, are you kidding me, bro?

8:00I didn't do that. Okay. Like it wasn't me. Like it wasn't like a magic trick. Wait, it's not you. I thought you do magic tricks, but I think I do. I do think that, I mean, another, I also think you do something really cool. if you're if you are going to events and you're trying to be get yourself in front of brands where you do the reply technique to your your to get all my my stuff at the end i think what we're trying to say is getting people to reply in your inbox in 20 is one will get you more deliverability but it also will get you human human interaction the amount of first-party data i get from replies and insights about my audience from reply rate is astronomical.

8:50And now I know, like, you talking about, like, if you weren't talking about reality TV and nobody replied, I think you would stop talking. But you know your audience loves reality TV, so you keep doing it because people are replying and showing your interest that they like that topic. So marketing doesn't always have to be about your thing. You can integrate, like, pop culture and stuff and understand your audience in a deeper level where you can integrate these two obsolete things and make your marketing more fun and interesting because you know your audience likes reality tv and this and um they're interested in your offer as well so well along those lines and that leads into the end of this whole thing which is on my last newsletter or whatever i sent out i said uh i need a new holiday movies or whatever reply back and let me know your favorite holiday movies So, Daniel, right now, for all of humanity, what are Daniel Murray's favorite holiday movies?

9:48My goodness, you're putting me on the spot right now. Well, I'll give you some examples, like Die Hard, obviously, a holiday movie. Yeah, I mean, that's like the biggest debate in history, Die Hard, a holiday movie. I love Die Hard. I think Die Hard. I like Home Alone. I think that's a great holiday movie. I think The Grinch. I love The Grinch. The Grinch? What about Love Actually or The Holiday? Oh, The Holiday is great. But the thing is, if I recommend it to Ari, we just go down a rabbit hole of all rom-coms. What's wrong with that? Rom-coms are great. I watched Hallmark channels where magic happens.

10:31And there was a Netflix movie that came out last year called Noel Christmas or something. that was really good. Actually, I think Hallmark is one of the most underrated movie channel in the world. They're so badly promoted how they promote their movies, but some of the movies are just so good and they get lost in the ether because they don't get distributed well. You have to be on Hallmark channel to know that they also release a new movie every day. I mean, but that's a good lesson And then you'll have one hit if you, if you like launch. Something that found a stick. Right. They're a volume game.

11:12Well, everybody have an amazing Thanksgiving. Eat an enormous amount. This is the day. Cause here's what I believe. If you go into the end of the year and you just eat as much as possible and your news resolution is to lose some weight, you want to start out high. And that way it's easier to lose weight. So crush it now. Get really high. Yeah. I mean, go gain five pounds on Thanksgiving and then lose it. And then you've lost five pounds. 100%. You're back where you started, but at least you lost the five pounds. All right. Follow our shows. I don't know. Have a good Thanksgiving later. Daniel, come on, man.

11:49I got to get back to work. Get out of there. All right. While he's still in there, this is Jay. Check out my podcast. Do This, Not That for marketers. Each week we share really quick tips on stuff that can improve your marketing. and hope you give it a try. Oh, here's Daniel. He's finally out. Back from my bathroom break. This is Daniel. Go follow the Mark and Millet podcast, but also tune into this series. It's once a week, the bathroom break. We talk about marking tips that we just spew out and it could be anything from email, subject line to any marking tips in the world. We'll talk about it.

12:23Just give us a shout on LinkedIn and tell us what you want to hear. Peace out. Later.

From the publisher

Holiday email engagement is somehow both nerdy and genuinely fun here, as Jay Schwedelson and Daniel Murray use Thanksgiving food opinions, Hallmark movies, and Bathroom-Break banter to get into why replies matter way more than most marketers think. They dig into how to engineer responses in your emails and stories, why reply rate is a killer signal for both humans and algorithms, and how AI plus simple prompts like “Reply GUIDE” can quietly blow up your results. It’s basically a playbook for turning “one-way” campaigns into conversations people actually want to have.

Follow Daniel on LinkedIn and check out The Marketing Millennials podcast for sharp, no-fluff marketing insights. Subscribe to Ari Murray’s newsletter at gotomillions.co for sharp, actionable marketing insights.

Best Moments:

(00:50) Daniel shares his not-so-traditional Thanksgiving background and why dry turkey is an instant no.

(02:06) Jay’s hard rule for Thanksgiving dinner: mac and cheese is required, salad is banned.

(02:49) Jay explains why the reply rate on promotional emails is about to explode thanks to AI and better follow-up.

(03:28) Daniel’s tricks for prompting real human replies, from light personal questions to hidden Easter eggs in the middle of an email.

(05:20) Jay’s “just reply GUIDE” tactic for content and discounts that crushes landing page forms and boosts inbox placement.

(07:14) Daniel shows how the same reply mindset on Instagram Stories boosts distribution while keeping interactions feeling human.

(09:28) They break down how replies become a goldmine of first-party data and even shape future content topics like reality TV.

(09:49) A rapid-fire holiday movie riff that goes from Die Hard and Home Alone to The Grinch, romcoms, and why Hallmark is secretly elite.

(11:15) Jay and Daniel pitch their very on-brand Thanksgiving “gain 5 pounds, then lose it” logic as the ultimate holiday hack.

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