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Podcast Episode Notes: Do This, NOT That: Marketing Tips with Jay Schwedelson
Episode Title
SPECIAL SERIES ==> STOP Believing Email HOT Takes <== | BATHROOM Break #85
Episode Description In this episode, Jay Schwedelson and Daniel Murray share insights on effective email marketing strategies as they prepare for 2026. They discuss five key lessons learned from their email programs throughout the year, debunk common misconceptions about email metrics, and offer actionable advice for immediate implementation.
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Key Takeaways
Introduction
- The hosts introduce the concept of a "Bathroom Break" series, aimed at providing quick marketing tips.
- Discussion of personal December routines and balancing work with family life during the holiday season.
Five Email Lessons for 2026
- Engagement through Conversational CTAs
- Daniel advocates for incorporating simple, low-effort reply questions in emails to encourage responses and build relationships with the audience.
- This approach leads to increased engagement rates and better deliverability.
- Rethinking Optimal Send Times
- Jay challenges the myth of a single "best send time" for emails, suggesting instead that marketers should focus on the unique number of individuals engaging with emails over time.
- Advocates for sending emails at different times to reach diverse segments of the audience.
- Verified Subscriber Metrics
- Daniel emphasizes the importance of distinguishing between verified subscribers (those fitting the Ideal Customer Profile) and the general list.
- This metric allows marketers to tailor content based on what resonates with true ICP subscribers.
- Domain Frequency Reports
- Jay shares the practice of running frequency reports by email domain to identify potential deliverability issues and uncover opportunities for engagement with specific organizations.
- This analysis can highlight problematic domains affecting deliverability rates.
- AI-Powered Content Repurposing
- Daniel suggests using AI tools to repurpose existing content (like webinars and podcasts) into email formats, allowing marketers to enhance their email output without overwhelming themselves.
- This can increase value for subscribers and direct traffic back to original content channels.
Debunking Email Metrics Myths
- The hosts argue that open rates and preheaders still hold significance in email marketing, contrary to some opinions circulating in the marketing community.
- They emphasize the importance of tracking these metrics as they provide valuable insights into email performance.
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Personal Insights and Humor
- The hosts share light-hearted banter about their experiences with December traditions, travel, and the weather, infusing humor into the conversation.
- Discusses their childhood experiences with snow and contrasts them with the typical holiday experiences in warmer climates.
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Closing Remarks
- The episode concludes with encouragement for listeners to adopt the discussed strategies and insights.
- Jay and Daniel invite listeners to engage with their content, follow their respective platforms, and provide feedback or topic requests for future episodes.
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Related Links
- Follow Daniel on [LinkedIn](https://www.linkedin.com/in/daniel-murray-marketing/)
- Check out [The Marketing Millennials podcast](https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-marketing-millennials/id1527434899)
- Jay’s [YouTube Channel](https://www.youtube.com/@schwedelson)
- Jay’s [TikTok](https://www.tiktok.com/@schwedelson)
- Jay's [Instagram](https://www.instagram.com/jayschwedelson/)
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These notes summarize the key discussions and actionable insights from "Do This, NOT That" while providing context around the hosts' personal lives, enriching the overall listener experience.
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Transcript
Automatic transcript. May contain errors.0:07Welcome to a new special series called The Bathroom Break. That extra 10 minutes, you either have to listen to marketing tips or use the bathroom or both. But I don't recommend both, but that's your choice. This collab is going to be super fun. We have Daniel Murray from the Marketing Millennials and me, Jay Schwetelson, from the Do This Not That podcast and subjectline.com. Each episode in the series, we are going to go over quick tips about different marketing topics. And if you want to be in the bathroom, fine, just don't tell us about it. Thanks for checking it out. we are back with another episode of the bathroom break i'm here with the jay swaleson um of do this not that podcast and guru and inventastic and it goes on and on um and i want to get started with what is what do you do in the month of december like what are you i like holiday person?
1:05Are you a vacation person? Are you a leave Florida? Are you stay Florida? What does, what does your December look like? So, um, I always really try to carve out a week where I might, my two kids are both teenagers. We always do some trip together. Uh, and I, and I encourage travel, even if you, it's like something local, like you can't, you don't want to spend a lot of money, but something where you, maybe it's just you and your partner or you and your kids. I think once a year, at least for a week, you lock in and you go do something. So we do that every single year. And it's good because if not, I would lose my mind.
1:40I didn't want to do it, but my wife forced me to do it years ago. And I'm very happy because I look back now and I have a lot of memories and crap and whatever. But I go full force work mode until that last week of the year. And then New Year's, I try to stay home and avoid everybody I know. What is your vibe in December? pretty much the same it's just it's hard being married to a person in e-com because this is like the peak year for e-com and then it's not the peak time for b2b except like close out the rest of the year type vibe it's not big sales websites breaking stuff like that it's more like figuring out what went right what did and preparing for 2026 so but usually like we like to the the Christmas, New Year time go on a trip, just not this year because Baby time.
2:33Baby time. You can't really do much. You can't do much. But I like it. It's fun. We'll figure out. We're going to start traditions with the baby and I think that's going to be fun. Which the baby won't remember for a solid five years. So get that started. But let's talk about what worked in email. We're going to talk about the five things this year that we learned in email heading in 2026 that matter that you should be thinking about for your email marketing, whether you're a business marketer, consumer marketer. So, Daniel, what's something that hit you this year about email that kind of was a game changer?
3:04Yeah, I think the one thing that I've been trying to do very hard is always incorporating something to get someone to reply to me in email. So I always add CTAs in the top of the email, the bottom of the email, in the middle of the email. I want people to have conversations. I also think that I don't make it too deep. I make it like an easy thing to reply to. Like, what is your favorite holiday cookie? Or what restaurants do you normally go to? Or what's your tradition for this? Like, I want a low lift response, but I want people to respond to my emails. I want to build a relationship with my audience.
3:47And I also think it helps my email list grow, get more opens. And I've seen like open rates stay consistent this way. I've seen deliverability stay consistent this way. So that's something that I think needs to be continued, especially in the age of AI of adding personalized CTAs for replies. Yeah, I think for us, what I've come to realize is that nobody should have their best day and time to send out an email. I think that is out the window and it's a misleading statistic. Oh, our best day is Tuesday at 8 a.m. I think that's absolutely garbage. And what everybody should be thinking about, what we look at is what is our weekly aggregate, unique number of humans that are opening and clicking and interacting with our emails.
4:32And why we look at it that way is you can send out an email on Tuesday morning at 8 a.m. You can send out the same email or different email on Thursday at 4 p.m. You send it again Sunday at 11 a.m. And it's not a matter of which one had the highest opens, clicks, whatever. it's that at those different times you're hitting different populations of people that are interacting with your email that like it at that time so i think this idea of having your best day and time is absolute garbage and the metric though you should be thinking about is what is the unique number of people that you are going to interact with your content and send out more sends so you can get to more people but send them out at different times yeah i added something along this lines that we've been doing in 2025 and continue to do 26 is we do verified subscriber and open rates, click rates, and verified meaning like we know who they are, they are in our ICP, and compare that to the list.
5:29So we have like a verified subscriber metrics versus not. So like verified are people in ICP that click the emails and open the emails because we want to know like truly in ICP what they like and what they don't like and separate it. We don't mind having a bigger email list, but we also want to know who are the perfect ICP that are opening the email, clicking the email, liking our content, going back through and seeing what topics they're opening, what topics they're clicking through, and having a verified subscriber versus a whole list metric. So we've been separating out those two metrics with our email metrics these days.
6:07I love that. And I'll tell you another thing that we're doing, which I think everybody should do, whether you're a nonprofit, business, consumer marketer, which is running domain frequency reports. One of the probably most biggest missed things is looking at your data this way. What I mean by that is take your database and run a report by domain, right? So at ford.com or at comcast.net or whatever, and run it in descending order. And what you will see is, of course, you might see like a boatload of Gmail, right? a boatload of big ones like that. But you'll be fine. You'll be shocked. You're going to see a boatload of people at baptishealth.com, a boatload of people at aol.com.
6:47And the reason you want to do that is this can be a boat anchor in your email deliverability, which is bad because all of a sudden you have a thousand people at Baptist Health. And when you try to send out your database, it's causing a bottleneck for deliverability. So that's one problem. Or AOL, those are dead addresses, get them out of there. But the opportunity side is, you might say, oh my god, we have 60 people at Ford Motor Company. We've been trying to work with them. I didn't realize that many people are getting our emails. By running a domain frequency report on your email database, it will uncover a lot of issues and opportunities.
7:19I don't think enough companies are doing that. I'll add, because we are in the age of AI and all that stuff, I would say something that I think should happen more, but do it with heavy editing, is repurposing long form piece of content for email marketing. I repurpose that talk you gave, repurpose that webinar you did, repurpose that podcast you did and break down the tactics. It's easy. It's an easy way to add an extra send to your database. It's helpful. And AI now you could put that transcript into AI, help find the key takeaways for your audience just by prompting correctly and using that as one of your sends that you send to your email list that's valuable and also could direct back to those channels.
8:08So if you have a podcast, you could get takeaways, direct back to the podcast, webinar recordings, ways to get people to interact with things, but use AI as a way to repurpose all your content into email. Yeah, and I guess the last one for me is that don't believe the garbage that's out there about certain metrics mattering or not mattering or whatever. So open rates still matter. I don't care what anybody says. I don't care about bots. I don't care about Apple. Open rates matter. Anybody that says otherwise is a dork. Preheaders still matter. People started saying at the beginning of the year because Apple's stripping out the preheader in their new iOS update that preheaders, the second subject line, that gray text, they don't matter.
8:49That is absolute garbage. whenever people say things don't matter, they do matter and they're losers and they have no life. I think people just say that to rage bait people and get clickable content. Yeah, it's like, email's dead. Don't do this. Don't care about open rates. These things matter to the extent that you should care about it over something else. Maybe not, but like, open rates are leading indicators. Click-through rates are leading indicators. Like all these are metrics that you should be looking at And that's what the platform gives you. So you should be caring about them. And yeah, that's why we get rid of subscribers all the time.
9:28Because we care about that metric. When in doubt, kick them out. Exactly. So speaking of December, now you're a Floridian, okay? Do you ever, and you're from Africa, which you are. I don't know why I always say you're from Africa. It makes me laugh. And you lived on the West Coast in warm weather. Have you ever seen snow? Or are you still like, I've never seen snow? I did go to the University of Cincinnati. Oh, yeah. So I went to Ohio and it was freezing there. So I did live in a snowy place. But I don't think I – I don't know about – you live from New York, but I didn't – I don't know about your kids, but I didn't, like, touch my, like, first piece of snow until I was, like, eight or nine years old.
10:10Like, it was, like, magic to me to see snow being from California. So I remember my first time, I think we went to, like, Lake Tahoe, and I'm like, wait, snow? Like, what is this? So, yeah, I didn't touch snow until I was like 9 or 10, which is a weird concept to some people. Have you ever made a snowman? Yeah, I've done that. I mean, now I'm probably 15 years old, but I didn't get the snow tradition. It's more sandcastles when you're from a beach city than snowmen. By the way, for everyone around the country that doesn't know, since South Florida, it's so pathetic. You get some community thing at a park, they'll bring in snow.
10:49They'll like blow ice into like a little mountain, whatever. And they let kids like play on the snow. And it's really, really embarrassing and weird. And I've gone. Oh, we used to do that at schools and they used to like spray like the whole like grass of that. I remember that. That was like the only version. And it would melt in five minutes, but it's, you still got it. I love how everybody around the country is listening. It's like, uh, Hey clown, you moron. Uh, it's, it's frigging three feet of snow here. and you guys are talking about you've never seen snow. Yeah, Daniel, by the way, you could DM him.
11:22He loves shoveling snow. He will come to your home and he will shovel out your sidewalk. Yeah, I would love to travel to Wisconsin right now or Minnesota. I'm really in need of heavy snowstorms right now. All right, well, now you can sing Do You Want to Make a Snowman? Or we'll skip that. We'll do that on the next episode. All right, Frozen Part 3. on the next episode. Daniel, we'll see you there, man. See you. Bye. Daniel, come on, man. I got to get back to work. Get out of there. All right. While he's still in there, this is Jay. Check out my podcast, Do This, Not That for marketers. Each week, we share really quick tips on stuff that can improve your marketing and hope you give it a try.
12:05Oh, here's Daniel. He's finally out. Back from my bathroom break. This is Daniel. Go follow the Mark and Millet podcast, but also tune into this series. It's once a week, the bathroom break. We talk about marking tips that we just spew out. And it could be anything from email, subject line, to any marking tips in the world. We'll talk about it. Just give us a shout on LinkedIn and tell us what you want to hear. Peace out. Later.
From the publisher
December might feel slow for B2B, but Jay Schwedelson and Daniel Murray are using it to double down on what actually worked in their email programs this year. They trade five real world email lessons headed into 2026 - from reply worthy CTAs and smarter list metrics to domain reports and AI powered repurposing - while calling out the bad hot takes about what does and does not matter in your metrics. You get practical tweaks you can ship immediately, plus a little peek into their real lives as humans who occasionally leave their inboxes.
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Best Moments:
(03:04) Daniel shares why every email now includes a simple, low lift reply question so he can spark real conversations and keep deliverability strong.
(04:07) Jay explains why the idea of a single "best send time" is garbage and why he tracks weekly unique humans engaging instead.
(05:11) Daniel breaks down his "verified subscriber" metrics to see how true ICP subscribers are opening, clicking, and shaping future email content.
(06:07) Jay walks through running a domain frequency report to spot deliverability bottlenecks and hidden account opportunities inside your list.
(07:21) Daniel shows how to repurpose talks, webinars, and podcasts into tactical emails using AI so you can add sends without adding burnout.
(08:23) Jay and Daniel rant about why open rates and preheaders still matter, how rage bait content confuses marketers, and why cleaning your list is still non negotiable.
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