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Podcast Notes: Do This, NOT That: Marketing Tips with Jay Schwedelson
Episode Overview
- Title: SPECIAL SERIES ==> The Right Amount of Emails to Send! (Relevancy = Frequency)📬
- Description: Jay Schwedelson and Daniel Murray discuss common myths around email frequency, timing, and audience engagement, emphasizing that marketers often don't send enough emails.
Key Themes and Concepts Email Frequency Myths
- Common Misconception: Many marketers believe they are sending too many emails.
- Reality Check: According to Jay and Daniel, most marketers are actually sending too few emails.
- Data Insight: Marketers who send at least five emails per month see over a 20% higher average open rate compared to those who send less.
Engagement and Inbox Placement
- Importance of Engagement: The frequency of email sending helps maintain a positive reputation with email service providers.
- More sends can improve open rates and keep emails out of the spam folder.
Best Days and Times to Send Emails
- Challenging the Norm: Jay argues against the idea that there is a single "best" day/time to send emails.
- He advocates for sending emails at various times to cater to different segments of the audience.
Role of AI in Email Marketing
- AI for Timing: Advanced email platforms now use AI to optimize send times based on individual subscriber habits.
Understanding Unsubscribes
- Unsubscribes as a Positive Indicator:
- Higher unsubscribe rates can suggest that emails are finally being noticed, rather than being ignored.
- Unsubscribes can signify that the content sparked engagement, even if it led to some users opting out.
The Power of Relevancy and Frequency
- Key Takeaway: Relevancy of content allows for more frequent emails to be sent without alienating the audience.
- If content is relevant and valuable, audiences will appreciate receiving more of it.
Best Moments of the Episode
- (01:05): Jay shares a humorous anecdote about skipping a VIP dinner for room service.
- (03:12): Discussion on how sending more emails can actually improve engagement rates.
- (06:40): Debunking the myth of the "best day and time" to send emails.
- (09:22): The role of AI in personalizing send times for individual subscribers.
- (13:00): Unsubscribes as a sign of effective engagement rather than a negative metric.
- (16:44): Emphasizing that great content justifies increased email frequency.
Practical Insights
- Testing and Experimentation: Marketers are encouraged to continually test different times and content types to see what resonates with their audience.
- Quality Over Quantity: While frequency is important, the content must still be high quality and relevant to the audience.
Final Thoughts
- Building a Relationship with the Audience: The conversation highlights the importance of nurturing a connection with subscribers through consistent, relevant communication.
- Call to Action: Listeners are invited to explore different strategies in their email marketing and to tune into both podcasts for ongoing insights.
Resources
- Jay Schwedelson's Links:
- [YouTube Channel](https://www.youtube.com/@schwedelson)
- [TikTok](https://www.tiktok.com/@schwedelson)
- [Instagram](https://www.instagram.com/jayschwedelson/)
- Daniel Murray's Links:
- [Marketing Millennials Podcast](https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-marketing-millennials/id1527434899)
Conclusion This episode provides valuable insights into email marketing strategies, particularly the importance of frequency and relevancy in fostering engagement. Marketers are encouraged to rethink their approaches to email campaigns, using the discussions as a foundation for enhancing their strategies.
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Transcript
Automatic transcript. May contain errors.0:01Welcome to a new special series called The Bathroom Break. That extra 10 minutes, you either have to listen to marketing tips or use the bathroom or both. But I don't recommend both, but that's your choice. This collab is going to be super fun. We have Daniel Murray from the Marketing Millennials and me, Jay Schwetelson, from the Do This Not That podcast and subjectline.com. Each episode in the series, we are going to go over quick tips about different marketing topics. And if you want to be in the bathroom, fine, just don't tell us about it. Thanks for checking it out. we are back with another episode of the bathroom break i am here with the conference hopper he just went to a huge conference which is like the conferences of conferences had three talks he's still he's still running on celsius you die you die so i walked by a booth and i see these people that i do work with and they go jay um we want to invite you to this vip dinner tonight you know we'd love for you to come and i'm such a jerk i'm vip dinner i sound like such a tool i just said that and they go will you come and i go actually i'm gonna lie to you and tell you i have another dinner but i'll be in my room hiding out and the guy's like you can't actually tell us that you're supposed to lie i'm like i don't care i mean you should you should have said you should have said if you listen to any of my content you know i put that out publicly that i'm not gonna go to any dinners.
1:27Yeah, it's amazing. At least you told the truth. That's it. That's a start. Listen, Chicken Wing Room Service is underrated. What are we talking about? I wanted to ask you, because you have been talking about this for a long time, and I think you have a take on it that I think people should know about. But with emails, how many emails should I send? Sending volumes, the holiday season's coming. what should I do with my email list? All right. So in general, everybody thinks they send too much to their list. And I don't care if you're in a boring B2B industry, you're in a nonprofit, you're in a consumer, you're direct to consumer.
2:02I don't care. You're actually not sending enough email. I know that sounds ridiculous. Two things. Number one, you stay in the inbox now based on engagement that you have in your database. How often are people opening, clicking, interacting with your emails? The weirdest stat of all time is that those marketers that send at least five times per month, okay, have over a 20 % higher average open rate than those that send less. And the reason being is if you don't generate enough opens and clicks on your overall email sending, then the receiving email infrastructures don't view you as a credible sender.
2:36So now the way you stay in the inbox is by sending out a lot. But here's my hot take, and I want to know what you think about this, Dan, is that I hate when people say the best day for my emails is Tuesday at 10 a.m. That's our number one day. That's when we send out our emails. And I'll tell you why I hate that. Because I also like sending emails out at 9 p.m. on a Thursday. I like sending emails out at 2 p.m. on a Sunday. And the reason I do is not to find what is the best day and time. I don't care about that. I believe, and I see it in the data, that different populations within your database interact with email at different times.
3:12There are people that read emails on Sunday mornings, people that read emails at night, people that read emails on Tuesday morning. So it's not what is your best day and your best time, but you need to be doing sends at all these different times ongoing to reach different segments of your database. And you can't just focus on that one. What is the best day and time? first i mean i'll pick over that first when someone says best time and we talk about this all the time is usually that a time you should probably avoid because now it's become a public knowledge that that's the best time but i also think that the best thing in marketing is just testing a bunch of things but also now that ai has come in the picture there are some sending platforms that can put emails in the inbox when people when your audience best time so that you If you have a stronger ESP or marketing automation platform, they probably have features like that where AI could predict, like, put this email in this inbox at this time or this person should have a text message versus an email.
4:15So think about that. But if you don't have something like that, for my emails for the Market Millennials, I will send it on Sunday at 2.30 one day and then Monday at 3.22 one day. I honestly believe that what matters more is putting out good content people want to open and having a good set. When you come in the inbox, they know it's your name. Versus trying to predict the perfect email. So subject line and who you are showing up in the inbox actually I think matters more than send time in my point of view. I totally agree with you. And I also think in terms of how much you are sending, people think, oh, the reason I'm getting unsubscribed is because I sent out that one extra email.
5:10That's why our unsubscribes went up, which is the most ridiculous thing in the world. Okay, you can't send out less and get more business. the reason you're getting unsubscribed is because people find your content epically boring or what people also don't know about unsubscribed is sometimes you've done something really great and unsubscribes do not hurt your deliverability they don't cause you go to the junk folder but the reason i say they're a great thing is because let's say you listen to us talk and you get out this idea oh i've never tested an emoji in my subject line i don't care if you're b2b b2c and you say i'm going to test an emoji in the subject i'm going to do an a b split whatever and then you hit send and when you send it out you get this really high open rate you get this really high click-through rate but you also get one of the highest unsubscribe rates you've ever gotten you might say jay and daniel have no idea what they're talking about but that's not what happened what happened was for the first time in a long time the people in your database noticed the email because you stuck an emoji in there they opened it up they checked it all and they said you know what i've changed my job function i've changed where i live i don't need the local services anymore i've changed something i'm not a fit on this list anymore let me unsubscribe they unsubscribe because you stood out for the first time in forever.
6:16So it's a good thing that you got the unsubscribe. Don't get turned off about sending out more because of ridiculous metrics. Yeah, I agree because I sometimes get unsubscribes that say, hey, Daniel, I like you said, I've changed jobs. And could you put me on it? I actually subscribe resubscribed with my new email or I like, oh, hey, Daniel, your content's great. But my inbox is like busy. I'm sorry, I need to like that happens all the time, but it's better. But also I truly believe you need to get closer to your customer and the closer you get to your like real audience is better than having people go off your list.
6:58So the people, the raving fans you are, you should care about. And if people don't want to be on the list, they can resubscribe later. Don't worry about those people are leaving. but i do agree that if you're sending more emails with bad content that's bad that's what we're not saying like don't send an email just to send an email like send an email that is above average in the inbox but send more emails that are above average good content that people want that are personalized to them and personalization doesn't have to mean hey daniel hey whatever i I mean, personalized, I mean the content's personalized to them.
7:35Whatever's in there is made for them. That's what I mean by personalized. No, I'm glad you called that out because sometimes I say this and I forget to say the most important part, which is relevancy and frequency are married together, right? If you're sending out relevant, engaging stuff that's good for that person, you have the license to send out stuff. I wish Daniel sent me your newsletter every single day because it's awesome content, right? So it's all about, are you being relevant? If you're being relevant, you could be more frequent. If you're being irrelevant, then you suck and you should send out less.
8:08All right, before we wrap up here, Daniel, I want to know something. You've now been on the daddy circuit here for a few months now, and you're operating with less sleep. What is that like? What is going on with you? Are you just miserable in terms of interacting with other humans? What is your deal now that you're in no sleep, man? i wouldn't say um miserable but the caffeine intake is at jay's level now where like before i was like at like one celsius per day now it's like six like five or six going so i think the caffeine intake has gone up and also yeah i i don't get grumpy but i i notice it like the headache levels go up the body aches go up so i'm just i'm just saying like that we'll get through this period he'll eventually sleep more than four hours at one time so no it never happens again it's over because then you get old like me and you just can't sleep anymore so that's it that's what happened your sleeping time is over i'm envious of people like sleep till like 11 o 'clock i'm like how do you do that um people probably slept through this episode but they shouldn't and they also should go and follow the marketing millennials podcast the greatest podcast that's ever been created leave daniel a review he deserves it he's a great dude ridiculousness but also um guru conference is coming up so everybody go register um nicole kidman what about yours mine's halloween eve so if you want to come show up in um costumes it's marking land 10markingland.com come on hang out 10markingland.com it is free it is virtual i'll be there Daniel will be there.
9:46It's going to be bunkers. All right. We'll see you at the next one.
9:53Daniel, come on, man. I got to get back to work. Get out of there. All right. While he's still in there, this is Jay. Check out my podcast, Do This, Not That for marketers. Each week, we share really quick tips on stuff that can improve your marketing and hope you give it a try. Oh, here's Daniel. He's finally out. Back from my bathroom break. This is Daniel. Go follow the Mark and Millet podcast, but also tune into this series. It's once a week, the bathroom break. We talk about marking tips that we just spew out. And it could be anything from email, subject line, to any marking tips in the world.
10:26We'll talk about it. Just give us a shout on LinkedIn and tell us what you want to hear. Peace out. Later.
From the publisher
Everyone thinks they’re sending too many emails, but according to Jay Schwedelson and Daniel Murray, the truth is you’re probably not sending enough. In this Bathroom Break episode, the duo dives into the myths around email frequency, timing, and those dreaded unsubscribes. They share hot takes, real data, and a few caffeine-fueled truths about what really keeps your emails in the inbox (and your audience engaged).
Follow Daniel on LinkedIn and check out The Marketing Millennials podcast for sharp, no-fluff marketing insights. Subscribe to Ari Murray’s newsletter at gotomillions.co for sharp, actionable marketing insights.
Best Moments:
(01:05) Jay admits to skipping a VIP dinner for room service and honesty wins the night
(03:12) Why sending more emails actually improves open rates and inbox placement
(06:40) The myth of the “best day and time” to send emails and why variety wins
(09:22) How AI tools can now auto-time your email sends to each subscriber’s habits
(13:00) Unsubscribes aren’t bad—they can be a sign your content finally stood out
(16:44) Relevancy and frequency are a power couple—great content earns more sends
(19:55) Daniel shares the real cost of parenting on six Celsius a day
Check out Jay’s YOUTUBE Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@schwedelson
Check out Jay’s TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@schwedelson
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