SPECIAL SERIES ==> What 50,000 Bees Taught Me About Marketing 🐝 <== | BATHROOM Break #112 COLLAB: The Marketing Millennials + Do This, Not That

15 Jun 2026 · 12 min · 4 chapters

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In short

Jay Schwedelson and Daniel Murray (Marketing Millennials) discuss “The Bathroom Break” marketing tactics, using Jay’s bee experience as a hook for “aggressive” urgency and staying top-of-mind.

Guests

Jay Schwedelson is a bestselling author and host of Do This Not That and subjectline.com; Daniel Murray is from The Marketing Millennials.

Key claims

test sending two promotional emails in one day (e.g., morning “24 hours left” then later “80 spots left/almost sold out”); this can raise conversion/sign-up rates by 35%+; opt-outs are a small cost—focus on the right audience; repeat the same message often because people miss it.

Notable examples

Jay’s “50,000 bees” hotel experience in a hazmat suit; his book release email campaign where a friend didn’t notice until asked.

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Chapters

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Bee Experience and Personal Anecdotes

0:39 to 2:46

Jay shares a humorous story about his bee experience while on vacation.

“We are back with another bathroom break.”

Aggressive Email Marketing Tactics

2:46 to 6:32

Discussion on the effectiveness of sending multiple marketing emails in one day.

“I see you do some aggressive marketing where you double.”

Reinforcing Your Message

6:32 to 8:31

The importance of repeated messaging in marketing and overcoming the fear of opt-outs.

“I learned something actually last night.”

Fear of Bugs and Personal Preferences

8:31 to 10:38

A light-hearted conversation about fear of bugs and personal quirks related to animals.

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Transcript

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0:07Jay Schwedelson:Welcome to a new special series called The Bathroom Break. That extra 10 minutes, you either have to listen to marketing tips or use the bathroom or both. But I don't recommend both, but that's your choice. This collab is going to be super fun. We have Daniel Murray from The Marketing Millennials and me, Jay Schwedelson, from the Do This Not That podcast and subjectline.com. each episode in the series, we are going to go over quick tips about different marketing topics. And if you want to be in the bathroom, fine, just don't tell us about it. Thanks for checking it out. We are back with another bathroom break.

0:42Jay Schwedelson:I'm here with the bestselling author, Jay Shredelson. I'm excited to chat, but you know, what's really funny that I've always been wondering about you and because i saw a post lately is like you will go on a trip and you don't want to do a massage but you'll go and like hang out with bees like can you explain why you would go with bees and not do something relaxing on your time off yeah so i was time off i'm at this hotel right now and uh whenever i go to like on vacation or whatever i always ask what are the weirdest experiences that the hotel has going on because i really don't after all i hate massages I think they're so overrated.

1:20I can't relax. And so like at this hotel, they're like, we have a bee experience where we have a beehive dude and you can go out there and learn about like bees and making honey. And so I put on like this hazmat suit. And the reason I did it is my wife, anytime a bee is near me, like a wasp, I'm at a dinner table, I freak out and I start like trying to swat it. And she sits there still and she's like, you got to be still. And I'm like, I'll do this bee experience. Maybe I'll get over it. so um i put on this hazmat suit and we were around 50 000 bees and it was wild the wild this part was the dude i was with who was like the bee dude keeper whatever his name is he had nothing on like no gear none and he was just like in it and all i kept saying to him was you are wild you're out of your mind and he's like i love this bee this is my favorite bee and i love this dude i blew my mind so do you do anything like that no first of all i'm allergic to bees and

2:19Jay Schwedelson:second of all i'm thinking as you were talking i felt like my skin started crawling of bees all over no i don't ari is not very adventurous when it comes to adventure we've done some adventure stuff like in australia we did like luge thing down a mountain which was really cool and then we did like a bungee thing but we haven't done stuff like that for a while like bees i would not be near bees um the first thing i asked the guy who helped us i go have you seen the movie beekeeper with jason stratham and he's like no that's it i've seen that movie it's it's good it's good yeah it's decent yeah like every other movie he does but yeah it's great exactly it's always a fair question well talking about aggressive things you've been doing lately Can you talk about some aggressive marketing?

3:11Jay Schwedelson:I see you do some aggressive marketing where you double. I keep getting double emails from you every single day. So can you explain why you're doing that? Yeah. So there's an aggressive marketing tactic that everybody listening is going to be like, there's no way I could do that. I'm in a regulated industry or my brand wouldn't like that. But I am telling you, let's talk about email specifically. I am telling you everybody out there should test doing two email sends in one day to your database promoting your offer. What do I mean by that? So, and I'll give you some stats to back it up. And we do this all the time with our clients.

3:45So let's say you have a webinar, right? And it's 24 hours until your webinar. In the morning, you send out an email to your database saying, you know, 24 hours until the webinar. And then at 4 p.m., you send out another email to the database that says only 80 spots left. Or on the consumer side, you send out an email in the morning that says 24 hours left in our sale. And then at 5 p.m. you send out an email that says almost sold out. When you do two email sends in the same day where one is getting urgency going and the other one is like super urgent, we actually see conversion rates and sign-up rates go up over 35%.

4:24You're like, well, that's too much. We're going to get opt-outs. We're going to get whatever. Who cares? You get a handful of opt-outs of 35 % boosting conversions just by building up that urgency. So we're doing this a lot and it works incredibly well. The other thing we've also been testing is not just like a 9 a.m. send and like 3 p.m. send, but a 9 a.m. send and like a 7 p.m. send. So two cents, one day, consumer, B2B, nonprofit, it is crushing it. What is your take on that maneuver?

4:52Jay Schwedelson:I think it depends on like the tactic. And I think like if you're trying to get something to show up, I honestly think that I don't understand. And I've been thinking about this a lot lately, like why events don't collect text message. Because I feel like when you're going to, especially in person, because when you're going to, you're at an event or going somewhere, it's hard to always check your email. So like sending a text and an email that this is happening, like 15 minutes till the event or something like that. I think that when you're trying to get someone to show up, you have to create some sort of psychological urgency to do that.

5:29Jay Schwedelson:But also I think we talk about this all this time about email sends. I think that's really relevant to that person who wants to send. Like for me, I might forget that that event's ever happening and that extra bump is telling me, or I didn't see the morning send, so I might see the evening send. But I do get the argument of people saying, this person will opt out of your list, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. But it's better to have like the right people at your event and get those people off the list. I totally agree with you. I think people get just so scared about removes. And when they get removes, they're kind of nasty, right?

6:06Like we sent out a boatload of emails for our event that we had two weeks ago. And some of the removes were like aggressive, like you send out way too many emails, blah, blah, blah, blah. And I know at any organization, all of a sudden you're going to feel like, oh no, we are sending out too many emails. No, there's a small pocket of people who are too sensitive and that's great. Leave them over there. But for the lion's share of your database, you need to take a more aggressive posture. You think people care. They're not seeing your emails. They don't remember your emails at all. I learned something actually last night.

6:41I was out to a dinner with our mutual friend, Sean Holiday. And my book just released yesterday. And I've been putting this on social everywhere. I've been emailing at my database so hard saying my books coming out, my books coming out, my books coming out. And I thought every single person that is in my database was aware of this. How could they not be? Because I'm torturing my database. And so I had dinner last night and we were talking about whatever he goes, what do you got going on? I go, my book came out today. He was like, what? Really? And the dude It follows everything I do. And he's like, I had no idea.

7:18And it was such a reinforcement for me to realize people are not paying attention to what you think they're paying attention to. And you just need to constantly be reiterating and saying it again and again and again.

7:31Jay Schwedelson:And it's also like, I think people underestimate the same message over and over. That's the problem. I think that you need to be able to say the same message over and over. It's when you do too many different messages is where you would go. comfortable but like if you have something you could say the same thing over and over to get in someone's head that this is happening you have to stay top of mind with these things and people have so much going on through the day um like jay goes to be like when he's doing bee things he's not thinking about your virtual event that's happening in two hours um he's thinking about like i'm trying to survive like this bee experience because i'm scared of bees so i learned a long time that you got to get over your ego that like people are not paying attention to you as much as you as a company as a creator as whatever so put out as much content as you can that's relevant to your audience if it's not relevant then stop doing it yeah i've lived by the credo when in doubt send them out i also live by the credo when in doubt opt them out because i get rid of haters but keep pushing because i don't care how conservative or boring your industry is that's the way to do it you know back to the original thing so do you do anything like i mean you grew up in in in africa we've talked about that that's real great daniel moved when he was seven are you doing anything in nature that's like weird like now that you live in florida do you like go and like you know smell iguanas on the weekend or something no not at all i did go i the most adventurous thing is i was in chicago like a week ago and i took my son to the aquarium and they like the aquarium is really cool but they have like amazon fish and stuff and so that's like the extent i'm going near like big animals and there was like sharks and i'm not going in the wild the wild to do things i'll go in south africa you go on like game drives where it's like what you call safari and you go like right next to like lions and but that's like you're with someone who's a professional and it's not like you're staying in a tent in the middle of nowhere where there's a snake can bite you and i don't want that around so let me ask you though in your house if there's like a a cockroach that you see or a big wasp and ari's like oh my god there's a cockroach wasp is she the killer of that or does she call you in no she's a killer i'm not coming there i'm not going near it i hate birds i'm not going to call her to kill it if one i already get in here you get killing this she just she's not scared of that stuff she'll go in there she'll come and kill she's scared of she's scared of you're not scared of little things but she's deathly afraid of cats like deathly like she will like if i see she sees a cat she jumps in my arms like she would not be one or runs like no cat you grew up in africa and you ask your wife to kill a bug in your house oh yeah i hate bugs i hate them so much i hate them i like that's the craziest say I've ever heard oh my god she's she has no fear when it comes to bugs I'm like I get the feeling of when I see a bug it starts crawling all over me and I don't like that um feeling so wow everybody leave a bug emoji do you kill the bugs that's the question do you kill the bug you know it's so funny I I usually don't but then I came back from the bee experience and my daughter you know my son with us and then my daughter had uh there was a bug near her and she's like to have this wasp right here and i felt so ready for this moment because i just got back from the bee thing and i killed it in like one second and i was like i think it's a difference when you're protecting you're like yeah that's true if there's a bug near my son i'm going for it but if there's a bug in the room and nobody else is near i'm not touching that bug wow you're such a real like wow you're really taking one for the team by you're stepping around but i'm not like If an iguana was near me, I'm not scared of it.

11:24You're so tough. You're like the Chuck Norris of South Florida. Okay, right. Well, another great episode of The Bathroom Break. Make sure to leave Daniel a review and, I don't know, find other stuff with bees, and we'll see you at the next one. Daniel, come on, man. I got to get back to work. Get out of there. While he's still in there, this is Jay. check out my podcast do this not that for marketers each week we share really quick tips on stuff that can improve your marketing and hope you give it a try oh here's daniel

11:57Jay Schwedelson:he's finally out back from my bathroom break this is daniel go follow the mark and the land podcast but also tune into this series it's once a week the bathroom break we talk about marketing tips that we just spew out and it could be anything from email subject line to any marketing tips in the world. We'll talk about it. Just give us a shout on LinkedIn and tell us what you want to hear. Peace out. Later.

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Turns out the fastest way to get over flinching at every bug at the dinner table is to suit up and stand in a cloud of fifty thousand bees, which is roughly the same energy Daniel Murray and Jay Schwedelson bring to email strategy. The real payoff here is a tactic most marketers are too nervous to run: hitting your database twice in a single day. Stick around for why the angry opt-outs are worth it, and the humbling reminder that almost nobody remembers your messaging as well as you think they do.

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Best Moments:

(01:33) Jay suits up in a hazmat suit around 50,000 bees just to stop swatting at dinner

(03:20) The aggressive play most people swear they could never run, two email sends to the same database in one day

(04:15) Stacking urgency across two sends pushes conversions up more than thirty-five percent

(06:33) A book launch nobody noticed, even the friend who follows everything Jay does

(07:31) Why repeating the same message beats inventing a new one every time

(08:27) When in doubt, send them out, and when in doubt, opt them out

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