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Podcast Episode Summary: The Style and Grace of Michelle Obama, from IMO: The Look
Podcast Details
- Podcast Title: Fashion People
- Host: Lauren Sherman
- Episode Title: The Style and Grace of Michelle Obama, from IMO: The Look
- Release Frequency: Twice-weekly (Tuesdays and Fridays)
- Episode Description: This episode features a segment from the IMO podcast, where Michelle Obama discusses her legacy as a fashion icon, her journey from the South Side of Chicago to becoming the first Black First Lady, and the impact of her choices on cultural representation.
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Key Themes and Discussions
Michelle Obama's Influence on Fashion
- Michelle Obama opens up about her journey as a fashion icon, emphasizing that her fashion choices were deeply intertwined with her identity and message.
- The episode features intimate conversations with fashion insiders and collaborators who have been essential to her style evolution.
Candid Conversations
- The dialogue features Michelle Obama and Professor Farah Jasmine Griffin, moderated by Nina Garcia. They explore:
- Michelle's style evolution from her childhood in Chicago to her public image as First Lady.
- The scrutiny she faced as the first Black First Lady, balancing her fashion choices with cultural representation and expectations.
The Role of Fashion in Self-Expression
- Obama reflects on the significance of fashion as a medium of self-expression and cultural impact, stating that it was never solely about clothing but about a broader narrative of identity.
- The discussions highlight the importance of authenticity and representation in the fashion industry, particularly for women of color.
Legacy of Representation
- Michelle discusses the weight of representing a community and the stereotypes she faced. She emphasizes the importance of defining oneself rather than allowing others to dictate that narrative.
- The conversation touches on the historical context of being a Black woman in a prominent position and how her journey symbolizes progress.
Insights from Personal Experiences
- Obama shares anecdotes from her life, including her early fashion influences and how her upbringing shaped her understanding of style.
- She recounts pivotal fashion moments in her life and the strategic choices she made to balance personal expression with public perception.
The Trifecta of Style
- Michelle introduces the concept of "the trifecta," referring to her team responsible for her hair, makeup, and styling, and underscores the importance of collaboration in her public image.
- Emphasis on the meticulous planning that went into her wardrobe choices, especially during her husband's presidential campaign, illustrating the balance between fashion and function.
Cultural Reflection and Future Aspirations
- The episode concludes with reflections on the ongoing struggles for diversity and inclusion in fashion and culture.
- Michelle's hope for the future is that younger generations continue to embrace their identities and challenge stereotypes, fostering a more inclusive society.
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Key Quotes
- "It's about the next chapter of who we are, not just as Black people or as Black women, but as a nation."
- "Fashion is not just a catchword; it's about creating spaces where we know one another."
- "If any of us believe in a God at all, it is a God who believes in the equality of everyone."
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Takeaways
- Michelle Obama's journey as a fashion icon illustrates the intersection of style, identity, and cultural representation.
- The importance of self-definition in the face of societal scrutiny is a central theme in her narrative.
- Fashion can be a powerful tool for communication, enabling individuals to express their values and connect with broader cultural movements.
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Conclusion This episode of Fashion People provides an insightful look into Michelle Obama's experiences and perspectives on fashion as a means of self-expression and cultural representation. Her story serves as an inspiration for embracing diversity, authenticity, and the power of personal narrative in the public sphere.
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Transcript
Automatic transcript. May contain errors.0:03Hey fashion people, this week I am sharing something very special. It's a new series for one of my favorite podcasts, IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson. On IMO's special series, The Look, Michelle Obama opens up for the first time about her journey and legacy as a fashion icon in and beyond the White House. Through a series of candid, intimate conversations with her longtime beauty collaborators, fashion insiders, and legendary women, including Jane Fonda, Nina Garcia, Beth Ann Hardison, Elaine Welteroth, Jenna Lyons, among others, she reveals how she and her team leverage the scrutiny of her public image to boldly celebrate self-expression, inclusion, and cultural impact.
0:48A companion to her book, The Look celebrates an extraordinary legacy of authenticity and representation that continues to permeate culture, politics, and fashion today. In this episode, Project Runway host and editor-in-chief of Elle, Nina Garcia, guides a conversation between Michelle Obama and African-American literature professor Farrah Jasmine Griffin. They dive into the making of Michelle Obama as a defining force in style, what she wore growing up in the south side of Chicago, how she evolved herself a presentation in college, and how she stepped into her public image on the national stage as the first Black First Lady.
1:30You can hear the Look series by searching for IML with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson wherever you listen to podcasts. This isn't just about dresses and fabrics and designers. It never was. It's about the next chapter of who we are, not just as Black people or as Black women, but as a nation. We have women in charge, people running offices, diversity is important. You know, diversity and inclusion, it's not just a catch word. It's not about economics and people getting jobs. It's about us defining, creating spaces where we now know one another. So we cannot be one another's enemies. And I know this is a book about fashion, but I hope it's a reminder of what was.
2:21What was and what can be. what it can be.
2:36Hello and welcome to The Look, a special series on IMO based on Michelle Obama's latest book, which is available for purchase now. I'm today's moderator, Nina Garcia, editor-in-chief of Elle, and it is a pleasure to be joined today by Farrah Jasmine Griffin, who is an esteemed professor of English and Comparative Literature at Columbia University and wrote the foreword for this wonderful book. And of course, the former First Lady, Michelle Obama, a dear friend, true inspiration, and the reason we are all here today. Welcome, ladies. Today's topic is Mrs. Obama's style evolution on the world stage from childhood to where we are now.
3:21Thank you so much, Nina. I was going to actually also speak to Farah and tell you how wonderful your foreword was, how insightful, and how I felt it was so important to put into context Michelle's legacy in her style, not only in American history, but Black culture. I think it really set the stage and really explained so much. So really, I really enjoyed so much. And there was one part that I want to mention because I really love this line. The look like the woman was bold, powerful, forward-looking, visionary, and empowering for everyone who dares to believe in the possibility of better tomorrows.
4:16That was, you're a beautiful writer. Thank you, thank you. It was so easy to write about Michelle because she just makes it easy. She's a woman of style and substance. And so the fun part is the style, but the substance is the concrete part that she always gave us as First Lady and since then. So that sentence just came naturally when I thought about her time there at the White House, but also her legacy, that she stands in a particular culture and moment, but for all of us and for everyone. Michelle, you have stayed away from the conversation about style and clothing and what that represented.
5:03Why now? I think it's time. From a sort of strategic standpoint, my thinking when I was first lady was, you know, fashion is the monster that ate up New York. It could be. It's fun. It's interesting. It's something that I value. I cherish. But I also knew that fashion could define me before I defined myself. And as you know, at the outset of me being introduced and introducing myself to the country and to the world, there were people who were trying to define me. I felt the danger of letting other people write the narrative. uh so once i kind of broke through and entered i thought you know i've gotta i've gotta let me lead and i've gotta lead with substance and i know how important fashion is but if if we if we succumb to that conversation potentially that's all i'll be is the woman in the dress So I thought, let's put it on the back burner in terms of daily topics.
6:25But we always had a strategy for how I wanted to approach fashion and what fashion could be. But I thought it was much more powerful to wait and let that conversation happen later. Now I'm almost a decade out of the White House, two books already written. And I feel like now I think the world knows me. They know who I am. They know my heart. They know my history. They know my purpose. They know my mind. So now it's time to talk about fashion. I like to ask Farah, what moved you in those days of the administration? You talk a lot in the foreword about the context of being a Black woman, being the first woman to be the first lady and how Black women were perceived.
7:30Could you expand on that? Because I found that very interesting. And there was a lot of pressure riding on Mrs. Obama, Michelle Obama to carry that. And I mean, that must have been, that was a lot of work and a lot of responsibility, but you put it into a context that was very interesting. Yes, we wish we lived in a world where Michelle Obama could simply be an individual stepping into that role. That would be ideal. But we live in a world where we have a history and a lot of baggage that comes with that. And she stepped into the role as the first Black First Lady. and there were people who were resistant to that concept.
8:15There were people who were just unfamiliar with it and then there were people who were so proud but they also had a ton of expectations. So there was a kind of weight of the world on her and everything, every move, every word, every gesture and yes, everything she wore would be under a kind of scrutiny that all first ladies are under scrutiny But for an African-American woman to occupy that role, who is bringing with her a legacy of stereotypes and stereotypes about what Black women are and could be stereotypes that have come out of the mouths of some of our politicians, that she is resisting that, but not in a way that looks like she's fighting, in a way that looks like she's just casually being who she is.
9:08I think that that's what I had in mind, just how does she navigate that? And she navigated it so well. And style and clothing and fashion was one language that she used to navigate those treacherous territory. I want to go back to the beginning because part of what is wonderful about this book is that you share some images that I had never seen from your childhood, even from your prom. And I know that there are stylists involved, but even back then, she had it. She had the style. How do you feel, Michelle, when you look back at that picture of you in the prom? Because that was like such a moment for everyone, right?
10:00The prom date. How do you feel about her sense of self? How does that? Well, it's really interesting. That was my senior prom, and I still haven't found my junior prom picture, but both of those dresses I designed in my head. I knew the material, the fabric I wanted, and for that prom dress, it's the champagne color. And I think to myself, what did I know about champagne? And my mom made the dress, okay? Because my mom, like so many minority women, women of color, Black women, I came from a family of seamstresses. My great-grandmother was a seamstress. Most of my clothes as a child were sewn, which was a source of great stress and tension between me and my mother because I always wanted the store-bought things.
10:58I wanted the Gloria Vanderbilt jeans. I wanted, you know, so I was always a little resentful. But when it came time to prom, I thought, I know we probably can't afford the kind of dress that I would like, but I knew what I wanted. So we went to the fabric store, picked out a couple of buttermilk fabric patterns. The top was separate from the skirt because I couldn't find, that was a skirt and top set. and the skirt was just a straight pencil skirt that buttoned all the way up to the side. Yeah, no deal. It was a little sexy. Right, you could button it so I could leave the house with it. Two more button bars and then when I got the car, I could unbutton and have it a little more sexy and then the jacket underneath, I knew I wanted it all to be one color, one fabric.
11:52And in my little mind, my young mind, I knew that's what I wanted the dresses to be. Very simple, classic, timeless. I didn't want to do anything trendy. And I kind of think, I do wonder, how did I know that? My mom said, my mother said, well, you just always had a lot of opinions about who you were and what you wanted to be. And maybe that's it. But I also had an eye for color and fabrics and I knew what I wanted. But don't you think, and I'm deviating into this conversation about seamstress because I grew up in Latin America. And for us, a seamstress was very important. We couldn't travel sometimes and get clothes.
12:42So the seamstress was a very important part of the dress you were going to wear or something that you had to fix or a hand-me-down from your older sister that you were going to. But that, I feel, makes you creative because you have the opportunity to kind of think about it and dictate instead of buying off the rack, you're really thinking about the process. It gives you the liberty of decision-making. Absolutely. And I was tall. I was very thin always. So you needed your clothes to be fitted. So yeah, the whole notion of tailoring and the importance of, because back then, there weren't tall sizes.
13:33Now, you know, designers, clothing brands do a much better job of providing options for longer inseams, longer arms. But that wasn't the case when I was growing up. And it was very frustrating to pick up something from the rack and have it just be that inch or half inch too short. I was notorious for rolling up all my sleeves because I wasn't going to have it look short. So the trick of bunching everything up had to work for me. And so I appreciated the notion that tailoring people with the skills to make things that fit your body were important and valued. Farah, I know from your foreword that your mother was a seamstress.
14:23Absolutely. How did that inform your personal style? It informed everything. And like Michelle, I've come from generations of seamstresses, mother, grandmother, great aunt. They were all seamstresses. And it absolutely informed my sense of quality of clothing, clothing, self-expression, like getting to pick what you wanted, although sometimes you prefer the store-bought clothing. Always. You always wanted what you couldn't have. Now we want the opposite. Exactly. That this could be made for you, you know, that if you wanted something, someone would create it just for you according to what you desired.
15:05And that it was also, I think, you know, a sense of giving you a sense of self and a sense of style early on. And I think that we all have that too. You look back and you say, oh, I always liked that cut of dress. You know, something about the way I felt in it or the way I looked in it carries all the way through. Was there a fashion inspiration for you? When I was younger? When you were younger that you looked up to, was there someone that you... You know, the images were limited. You know, there was never a real direct connection because there were no models in media that looked like me, a young black girl.
15:50There were adults. There was Diana Ross. There was Christy Love. There were Diane Carroll. But they were older people. So this is why representation matters. I mean, I felt it growing up. The teenagers were Marsha Brady, Jan Brady, the Partridge family. Those were the after school shows. So when you don't see anybody like you, I can honestly say it was hard for me to sort of look at their fashion and the way they carried themselves as a direct model. I also think that going to a magnet high school in Chicago was, you know, it opened me up to a whole nother part of the city. It was a school that drew students from all over the city.
16:47So it was the first time I ran into kids, not just of all races, but all socioeconomic brackets. There were wealthy Black kids at that school who had access to designer clothes and had the best sneakers. So I think when I went to high school, I started seeing my peers and some just a bit older than me who had a different set of resources. It was also interesting that my commute to high school took me from the south side of Chicago through downtown Chicago to the west side. So my daily commute often took me through the downtown area. And because of that, our half-day sessions or our lunch breaks happened downtown.
17:36So we would go into the higher-end malls, Water Tower Place, Bonwit Teller, Marshall Fields. So it was those kind of atmospheric kind of experiences, those chance opportunities, the high school I went to, I think that helped to shape my sense of self in fashion more than any one image that I saw on television. Farah, I find this so interesting that you write in the foreword about Black girls. Black girls are reared to represent the race well, to counter stereotypes, to be respectable. And at the same time, African American culture prizes and prioritizes individual creativity. How have Black women managed this tension?
18:32That's a great question. Yeah, and I'm sure it's a tension that you felt all along, right? Right, especially those of us who were sent off to the magnet schools, right? Represent the race well. And it is a kind of respectability in how you present yourself, how you speak, but certainly how you dress and certain things you don't wear and certain ways of wearing things that you don't do. And yet we are a culture that prizes innovation and creativity. so I think the tension is where are you creative where are you trendy but not too trendy not too faddish not too over the line I think that's a tension that many black women in the public eye have to manage more so entertainers manage it but certainly no one had to deal with it in the same way that no one had ever occupied the position that Michelle Obama occupied In a way, that creativity that we push back on or you push back on in the black culture is also so incredible and has become so important and so defining.
19:46It defines American style. It defines American style. And it's brought so much to fashion. Right? Yes. So it's really such a paradox that we want to push back on that when it really is so important. And you speak so beautifully about growing, what it was growing up in the South Side of Chicago, where it was, I am sure there was so much inspiration in the streets, in the women who go to church, in the hats. And there is a lot of dignity and poise in how black women put themselves together. It's actually very, very interesting and very respectful. But we also counter, we have to counter the pressure, the feeling that we have to explain ourselves, who we are, what we look like, how we're shaped.
20:51Because the industry puts forward a model of what's ideal. And that model has been consistent throughout American history. It is generally a very thin, blonde, pale white woman. I think more recently, in the last decade or so, there's all the conversation about cultural appropriation. And now the figure of the typical Black girl is now coveted. People are doing butt implants and they're wearing their hair in braids. And so there's that debate among people that now folks are embracing parts of our culture that made us feel other and owning it as part of their style. It's just interesting. I'm hoping that this younger generation of girls of color feel more empowered.
21:59They feel more beautiful because they're seeing other races take on that style. But we didn't grow up that way. We didn't grow up with that at all. We didn't. We grew up with the opposite. Yeah, I think that any kind of standard of, because that standard that you talk about is very confining. Not only, it was most confining for us as black girls who did not fit it, but it's confining for so many women. Like black women, Asian women, Latino women, but a lot of white women. It's so confining. And I think that any one standard that says you have to look this way leaves out the vast majority of women.
22:39And so what I found so inspiring as I was looking through the years that you were in the White House was that there was this democratization, this kind of opening up of what you could be. It wasn't like you have to be this. It was just bring your best of who you are. Like, you know, just like if Mrs. Obama can embrace who she is and be beautiful, then you can embrace who you are and be beautiful. That's where I think the hard work is. And especially for girls, you don't have to look this way. You can look like you.
23:28I want to transition from your early years in the public eye. One of the first times the country saw you on a national stage was the 2004 Democratic National Convention where you wore an all-white, when you wore all-white. Can you tell us the story behind this look? I found that very interesting and relatable on so many levels. Yeah, I wrote about this in the book. I mean, just giving people a sense of there was my life before the White House, which was very much the life of a working mother with a partner that traveled often. I had a full-time big job. I had two little girls. My husband decided that he was gonna be a politician, which was like, oh my God, really?
24:14Can you pick just one other career? I mean, there's so much, you're very talented. You know, you could do almost anything. Are you sure politics is what you wanna do? And then he got the opportunity to speak at Kerry's convention. And I literally didn't think about it. I didn't have time to think about the speech. I know he was writing it and I was listening to drafts and I was like, ooh, that sounds good. It's gonna be exciting. But I didn't make the connection because I was busy, you know, dropping the girls off at ballet and doing pickup and making dinner and getting to my job. And it was maybe a week before the convention where I realized, oh, I've got to go with him.
24:54And then I've got to go on stage with him afterwards and be the wife and wave. I was like, oh my God, I have nothing to wear. You know, I can't just take one of my suits. I think I was working for the university at the time, so I didn't have my lawsuits. So I made one of those mad lunch hour dashes to probably Bloomingdale's. And I just happened upon this beautiful taffeta suit that looked white. It was white, but it had a sheen to it. And I thought this could be pretty. It could pop on a stage of primarily blue, but this was all done within an hour, right? So I took it off the rack with a couple of other, went and tried it on.
25:41The biggest thing was that it fit. I wasn't really thinking color. I wasn't making all the decisions that we would later make as First Lady about colors and background. And I just wasn't in that mindset. The suit fit. I bought it and I took it with us to Boston. And I write about how crazy a choice it was to pick white because I didn't come with a backup, which I later learned to always do. It was really instinctively, it was what the cut of it, the color worked with my complexion. It would feel sophisticated, but not too elevated, right? I mean, there were little subtle things in my mind but there was no strategy.
26:30There was no thought about what this meant because I didn't think it needed to mean anything. He was just giving a speech. We didn't know that it would, that that speech would be the speech that would catapult him to national attention. That was not the assignment. Farah, you saw a connection. Yes, immediately. Immediately. And it made me subconsciously there was a connection. Can you talk to me about that? Because I think that was very important. So, you know, he gives this amazing speech and immediately people are thinking, we think we've seen a future president. And then there are those of us who said, well, we think we've seen, if he's the future president, we've seen a future first lady and this is good.
27:16She looks great in white. I mean, the white was beautiful. And, you know, just thinking about what the color white means on the political stage, I think people often think about the Democratic women wearing white for the suffragist. But for those of us who come out of a kind of Black historical tradition, you think about white also being, you know, what some of the young women wore in the civil rights movement. Or you think about little ruby bridges, those first. Or one of my images, iconic images that almost mirrors your suit is Elizabeth Eckford of Little Rock Nine. So elegant in that. So beautiful.
27:56Beautiful. In that white, short-sleeved waist, you know, waist, and just calm and cool as she's surrounded by this crowd. And so we also saw that in the white, you know, just all of this. Oh, yeah, she can carry this legacy. She can carry this history. So we were, okay, that's our future First Lady, I think. Had you guys met at that point? No. We had not. You had parallel friends. Yeah, but we had not yet met. Right. I like how you write that you had a checklist that day. I think you had to buy a present for your daughter. You had to get the food. And then this was the last thing on your list.
28:41And so many women can relate to that, right? Your family is first, your work, and you are in that situation where you have an event or a wedding, whatever that is. I think we can all relate to that moment, but you continue to relate to that moment for a long time. You are scrambling to like, what am I going to wear? There is a beautiful photo on the book of Oprah. And she, tell us about how she came to your house and you pulled something really out of the closet. But if you see it, it is the chicest look. Really, it's in your bones. Oh, you know, one of my, well, the story you talk about is that after this major speech at the Democratic National Convention, Barack did become a nationally known name.
29:43so much so that the queen of daytime talk called our office and wanted to do an exclusive interview in O Magazine, and she wanted to come to our house. You can't imagine what that was like. Yeah, I'm thinking, oh my God, Oprah is coming to my house? I was like, first of all, we need to paint. Where do I start? It's like, where do I start? And you can see in the picture, the kids were little. You know, they were little and she wanted to meet Barack in his element and see his family. And, you know, her team said this was a casual interview. We wanted to be a day in the life. You know, this is not a big, we were then later invited to appear on her show.
30:30And she did an interview with us on the show. But this was just the first meeting. And I thought, well, it's casual. So I have a pencil capri length pants and a simple crew neck sweater in pink, just something that I would wear on any given weekend. And the girls had some pinkish, so I sort of tried to coordinate what they were wearing. So we were in the same color scheme. That's all I thought about. But that was thrown on me. And that was the first time I thought, well, this is going to be a hassle, this public image thing, because things come up and you just never know. I mean, the office calls like this is all that I was doing.
31:19Like, well, on Saturday, Oprah's coming to your house. And, you know, I'd start to get into arguments with my husband scheduling people. And it's like, you've got to give me a little more time than this. I have to get myself ready. I have two little girls. I'm working. It was just, you know, those early days were just, it would be the hassle that any woman who is working and has children would understand. You know, that we as women, we have the burden of doing our work, but then showing up in a certain way that takes time for us to curate. Yes. And you speak about how your husband only had to come in, change his tie, and he was ready to go.
32:06And he brags about, I've worn these same khaki pants for 10 years. And I was like, don't brag about that. Don't say that. And are you ready? It's been 10 minutes. Are you ready? It's like, do you know what I'm doing in here? And I'm getting the girls ready. So, you know, those days, that was the beginning of understanding that if this is going to continue, I've got to have a plan. I have to have a bigger strategy. And you did have a plan. Tell me about, because you had, you built, it wasn't a uniform, but you knew what shapes fit, what looked good. Tell me how you dealt with those early days. That's when, so as Barack, after he launched his presidential campaign, and I slowly but surely become an integral part of it, where the campaign has me going out on my own, primarily in Iowa, because that's the first primary state.
33:06And it's sort of the bellwether of who's going to be the leading nominee. So we spent a lot of time the summer before that, the primaries in Iowa, just because no one knew who Barack Obama was. And I was an integral part of that. I would go out for almost three days a week. And so I realized under this kind of schedule, I can't run to Bloomingdale's. I can't bit by bit just pick up clothes like a normal person. So I was introduced at the time, and I can't remember who introduced me to the first designer I really worked with, which was a wonderful woman, Maria Pinto. And she was a Chicago-based designer, had her own design studio with seamstresses, and that got me through the whole campaign season.
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34:05and it also helped that she had a ready-made set of seamstresses so they could make the pants the right length. They could make the hemstress. They could take it in. It's important. So I tell people that the clothes and the designs were beautiful, but the fit was always impeccable. And that is a tip, right? Right. Farah, in those times when you were seeing this, what were your thoughts back then about her style and about her representation? I think that, you know, just always proud and really loving the way that she was modernizing the, you know, at that time during the campaign, modernizing the candidate's wife.
35:01that, you know, just as interested in her as a person, you know, that this was somebody who was interesting, who was educated, who had something to say, who was thoughtful and who looked good, but also looked like she was involved and engaged, not like she was, you know, just this Barbie doll off on the side, but she was on the ground talking to little kids, lifting things up, doing things. And so, you know, there was a sense of style, but it was a style of being active and mobile in the world. And so the style was always a part of this larger story. It wasn't the only story. It was part of a larger story.
35:42Okay. By 2008, Farah, you write, you, Michelle, had been put through the gauntlet, labeled angry, unpatriotic, emasculating. In other words, you were smart and educated and very successful career woman. How did you feel to have so many outsized voices defining you and really going after you in such a way? Oh, gosh, yeah. I mean, it was... And why? Why was that happening? Yeah. I mean, personally, it was shocking, first and foremost, because those depictions were coming from many media writers who were not with me, right? I mean, so it was really interesting. I mean, as a campaigner, I wasn't drawing much media attention, but I was drawing a lot of crowds.
36:46I mean, I was really, I went from talking to people in their living rooms and backyards to talking to people in a packed high school gym. Authentic. It just sort of grew, you know? And I was doing this for almost a year before the media got hold and started writing about it until Barack's opponents, not just in the general election, but in the primary, right? So fellow Democrats started saying, okay, we're running against a candidate and his spouse who are both very powerful. And so we got to cut somebody off at the knees. That's what it felt like. It felt like now people know I'm out there. And so then it just becomes a game of this can't be this good.
37:42So now let me pick apart every word she says in a way that I, you know, so you imagine I'm doing this. The crowds are engaged and laughing and enjoying it. All these campaign events are upbeat and funny. And then the first story that comes out that says that I'm angry and that I have an ax to grind, it was so counter from what was really happening that it was a shock that it could happen. It's like, oh, so people can just write what they want. They don't even have to be there. They don't even have to see for themselves. They were looking at the tone. They would take pictures of me making a joke with a face that was a little different and they call it a scowl.
38:31And I was like, well, I was in the middle of telling a joke in that picture. So it was truly shocking. It made me want to initially just walk away from it because it was the politics that I knew. I mean, I was shocked that it was happening so blatantly, but I was also kind of like, yeah, this is what politics is. This is why I don't like it. This is why I will never do it. And so, yeah, it was scary because it's like, wow, if I am not careful, I will be defined in such a way that I won't recognize myself. but fortunately instead of backing away I said I gotta get smarter you know I mean it really woke me up to oh I've got a really really I have to figure out how to do this thing in a way that is smart and strategic and I have to think ahead of the critics it's like I should have known I kind of felt to myself, I should have known that this was going to happen.
39:44But being in Iowa with people made me feel like, well, people accept you for who you are. So I had to keep remembering to separate out the media and the politics from how regular people are. That face-to-face, people are accepting. But through the lens of the media, social media, that's where the distortion can happen. If people don't know you, they believe that image. So I knew that I had to define myself before they did. That that was a race. It was a race for me to define myself. And that I had to think about every move, every word I said, every shoe I wore, every piece of jewelry I put on.
40:30I had to be thoughtful and strategic, which ultimately wound up helping me. It helped me go into the White House really ready to take a hold of every aspect of what I was going to do, make decisions for myself, and own it throughout the eight years. And that included fashion.
41:08Farrah, why do you think the lens on Michelle was sharper than any of the other ladies? Because she was the first black woman. I think that, I think, and I don't want to belittle the fact that other first ladies had sharp lenses. For sure. You know, Hillary Clinton had a really sharp lens on her. other first ladies. And even Nancy Reagan had a sharp lens on her. So any woman in that position has a sharp lens, but there was something. But especially women. I feel like they really go for the women and they go really. Yes. And they go mean. They go mean because they could go, and they go after how we look.
41:48Exactly. They are very mean. And then Michelle's had a particular racial tinge to it. You know, she was a terrorist. She was the angry Black woman. She was, you know, and sometimes I'd be like, oh my God, can you at least be original? Like, do you have to stick into the bag of old stereotypes? Like, be original, come up with something new. Like, doesn't she inspire your creativity? But I think that, so there was that tendency to just be cruel to women anyway and to put them under the, you know, microscope. And we see it today. We see it all the time. In politics. I mean, I'm not in it in a certain way, but the way that some men feel like they can talk about women on either side, you know?
42:38It's unbelievable. One of the things I wrote is when people want to control women, the first thing they do is go after our beauty. Yes, the way we look. The way we look. And that's true across the board, across the political aisle. Women feeling like they have to show up in this one Barbie doll kind of image to afford being attacked. This happens to young actresses, young women on social media. It is the habit of the culture of the world to put women in their place by attacking their physical being. And it's vicious. It's absolutely vicious. Yeah. And so, I mean, I think, yeah, it's just, it hasn't stopped, unfortunately.
43:22It didn't begin with me and it's not ending. So we're going to go into winning the White House, 2008, you won. Had you, by then you knew that you needed help. I needed to be ready. Yeah. And this is the formation of the trifecta. Tell me a little bit about the trifecta. I love that. I love that expression. But I also love for the audience that is watching and that you can say it and I can tell you, all of these women that have to be public out there need help. It's not possible to do it alone. If you have a family, if you have a job, it's just not possible even for myself. And I am in fashion.
44:13And there are moments where I'm like, I don't know what I don't have the time I have a family too I yes this looks great on a runway but in reality yeah it is a real you needed the help yeah oh yeah so you found your trifecta tell me a little bit about them before we go move into that day the trifecta the trifecta is it's it's hair makeup styling, right? And Trifecta has looked different throughout this time of me in the public eye from the White House to today. I've had a couple of really good makeup artists, some who've lasted, some who were in for a year or two, hairdressers who were there during the White House, but not with me now.
45:02I've mentioned all the amazing stylists in my life from Maria Pinto to Ikram, introduced me to Jason Wu, and introduced me to my ultimate stylist and co-author of this book, Meredith Koop. The beautiful thing about the look for me is not just telling my fashion story, but it introduces people to some of the members of Trifecta. And you get to hear Merida's story, how we came to meet, her background, because so many people who work with us, you guys, they were young. They were in their 20s when they started. They didn't really know what they were getting into. A lot of it is described in the book, sort of the process fascinating that process that we set up and it's like a really opening the curtain behind the scenes what it takes to be that public persona and to have that responsibility that you carried so so well because I think that really when you look back and I remember when you were in office being fascinated by your choices, being, and I wasn't alone.
46:27It was the entire country. Then it was the entire world because you were able to take what clothes and they weren't just about clothes. It was really style with the substance, helping you communicate. And that was all intentional. Yes. Communicate not only your husband's vision, right? But your own values. Absolutely. Your own values. I mean, in everything you talk the talk, but you walk the walk. And it helps to have, I mean, it starts with the vision of the president, right? Everything aligned, but not only the clothes. Everything had to align. The art. Right. The home. The music. The music.
47:20Who was invited into the White House. What designers got pulled. Right. It all had to send a message. The decision of who was going to do my inaugural gown. Jason Wu, that was an affirmative decision. But the power of this platform in every way, from fashion to food to the events we did, it was about opening up the aperture of opportunity. And I wanted in everything we did, especially the fashion, to say, who's new? Who hasn't had a chance at this? And Jason Wu, his story, but his clothing. you know because we we weren't we we weren't doing anybody any favors if I didn't like what what was yes you would not go to wear it if I didn't feel good in it right it wasn't beautiful but I love also when you say when you describe that you would you you would try it you would kneel you would spin you would do all of this to make sure that yes I can wear this I can wear this because it was like I was working.
48:24But Jason Wu, because you wore Jason Wu, and I think it was you who pointed it out. I'm not quite sure. You wore him to the inaugural ball the second time as well. Yes, yes. And then the last time. Yes, yes. And it was almost like, it was such a beautiful full circle. Yeah, yeah. You loved his clothes. You connected to his fashion. it was wonderful but you connected with so many people I remember I remember obviously the red Narciso Rodriguez yes oh so beautiful so beautiful so modern oh my god it was that was in a crom that was so modern but Narciso was established already yes but then you wore the coat the Isabel Toledo Yes, yes, yes.
49:23Who is or was, rest in peace, such a good friend, but such an incredible talent that didn't really get the recognition that she deserved. That day, I will never forget it. When I saw that, I felt so proud. I felt so proud to be Latina. I felt so proud for you. I felt so proud for the Toledos. It was just a moment where I knew this is someone that understands. This is somebody that understands. No, no. It was one of those choices I was thinking when you were talking about being proud. And I think about being proud. And those were also about being proud for our country. Yeah, yeah. And you really worked on giving us, presenting through fashion.
50:19Well, you said, Farrah, that fashion was just one of the many languages. Correct. But one that is often, as we all know, everybody thinks is so frivolous. Everybody thinks it's so, but can communicate so much. So much. And that you used it in such a special way to uplift designers, to connect with, to wear brands that were not necessarily luxury brands. No, no. That really connected with the everyday woman. And using American designers. And using, yes. Again, you know, the international designing community. Fabulous. Of course. You know, I love them all. But I felt like in the role of first lady and president that we had a responsibility to speak to American design in a very clear way.
51:27All of that stuff was intentional and still not without risk, right? Not without criticism, because even when I got into the White House, we spent so much time trying to get it right. I talked about the time that I got off of Air Force One wearing shorts and was crucified by - And they were not even shorts. They were almost like Bermuda. They were hiking. But this is where we learned that the information we got from the West Wing team about a trip was important. because we were told we were going to get off the plane and we're going on a hike. We're going on a hike in the Grand Canyon and it was a hundred degrees.
52:14Barack just had to, he was, I was like, well, what are you wearing? He's like, well, I'm gonna throw in some sneakers. I'm gonna take my jacket off and roll my sleeves up because that's what men can do. White shirt, no collar, no tie. That was how he changed. And I was like, but after this, we're supposed to go to somebody's house and there's a tee. I can't wear hiking shorts there. And I can't wear a dress to hike. That would be crazy. Crazy, crazy. People would call me disconnected and un-American. I'm at the Grand Canyon in a T-lay dress with flats. I was like, that's not how people go to the Grand Canyon.
52:51So literally, me and Meredith, we're on the plane going, shorts, no shorts. Because if you get off the plane in shorts, somebody's going to have something to say about it. I eventually opted for the thing that felt mostly me. And it was the Bermuda shorts. Because if we're going on a hike, this is how a normal person would go on a hike. Of course, I have lots of clothes in this plane. I could come off in anything, but I'm told that we were going on a hike. The fact that we had to spend time thinking about that kind of stuff in ways that my husband didn't, It was really infuriating. And then an article, a negative article still happened.
53:34And it was like, be original. Don't you think I know? You know, it's like, why don't, and women aren't given the benefit of the doubt. It's like, why didn't you think, you know what? There must've been something going on where she was in shorts. There might be something that I don't know, beyond fashion that might've dictated this, but to find people who, and the writer of this article was a black woman. I felt like, I really felt like, come on, girl. I got so much going on. I want to see you rocking something else. And I've got so many people coming after me, right? I feel like, could you not have just given me a point?
54:17I have to tell you that that was a little detail, But all in all, it was really spectacular. And most importantly, I really do, in retrospect, when I look at how fashion has progressed and what happened during that era, you put American fashion back in fashion. American fashion was in fashion because of you. That is a very big deal. It was an incredible moment. All these designers were uplifted. All this, it was just a great moment for American fashion. And it was fun. And it was fun. It was so much fun. The big thing in this book that we wanted to show, because it's a coffee table book with beautiful essays, but the pictures we chose, it was like, okay, it could have been a series of fashion shots.
55:17But I was like, that eight years was alive. It was alive with fashion. There was always movement. There was me physically moving. There was movement in the colors and the selections and the choices. There was energy. And so we wanted to make sure that the pictures in this book evoked that kind of energy, that aliveness. This isn't a fashion book. It's a book with beautiful pictures of the history that fashion happened to be a part of because fashion is so much bigger. It's a statement. The power that we have as people, as women in particular, to say something meaningful with what we have on is real.
56:06It was almost like the clothes had to be so good and fit so well that they almost disappeared for me mentally. Like once I got dressed, as I told the team, I was like, don't touch me, don't fix me, because now I don't want to think about it. I don't want to think about how I look. I don't want to worry about it because I want to be here for that little kid that I'm talking to. I want to be here for the people that are right in front of me. And if I'm tugging on a thing or holding a jacket on, if I'm worrying about getting smudged, now I've lost the plot. And the plot is the work. The plot is the people.
56:43Or if your outfit is too much, is wearing you, that also detracts from you and ultimately your values, your message, what you want to connect with a people. It's a delicate balance. I always said I don't want the button, the pin to walk in before me. I don't want people to say, oh my God, who's that wearing that big flower? Right. Who's that behind the flower? It's like the message, the work. And it wasn't, it didn't have to do with the designer labels. It really wasn't. You were wearing J.Crew. You were wearing Target. You were mixing high and low. It really had nothing to do with designer. It had everything to do with the delivery, with the style, with the message, with connecting, with having that person at home be like, if she's the first lady, that is a dream.
57:42I could be in that, I could be that dream. That little girl could see themselves in you being like, I could be that, that is a real connection with people. It's not being so impossible, right? To meet in the fashion, it was so real what you wore that it really - Well, that means a lot coming from you. No, it really impacted us. And I think, you know, in fashion, in my industry, we were fascinated by every move you made. And we really followed it very closely.
58:29Farah, I'm going to come and completely change tacks here. You said because the term lady has historically been denied Black women, some believe that Black First Lady to be an oxymoron. What do you mean by that? Because I am sure a lot of people felt that way. Yeah. Well, lady was a term that was, you know, had so much meaning instilled in it. And it was racial meaning. It was a class meaning, right? A certain kind of upper class white woman. And we're not talking about Britain where it's a status, but here that Black women were not ladies. They were women, but they were not ladies. There were even years before Black women would be married.
59:19Black women would be called Mrs., right? So the idea of a first lady being a Black woman or a woman of any color other than a white woman was just an anathema. Like, what does that mean? They couldn't even imagine it, right? And so for Mrs. Obama to step into that role, for many people, was just like the sun falling out of the sky. It just, you know, it just did not make sense to them at all. And for some of them, there was a kind of hostility about that. And for others, I think it was just something that they had to get used to. They had to grow into that. You know, we've adopted the term first lady for the women who are the wives of pastors, like Black culture has adopted that term.
1:00:04But for the general culture, I think that for some people, not all, but for some people, there was real resistance because we've got this long history that Black women are women, but they are not ladies. I think, thankfully, our kids have had more freedom, more opportunities, but they take so much for granted. They do. And it really wasn't that long ago. Yeah, that's my mother's generation, my grandmothers. These are people that this generation of kids they know, they knew. But that's where history, and one of the reasons why Farrah's forward, you know, when I did this book, I knew I wanted, and I knew Farrah in particular could put the sociological historical impact context, which I think is so important, because we are in a battle now of who gets to define history in a way that intentionally keeps a lot of this stuff out so the next generation of kids don't even know that it exists.
1:01:13I mean, if we don't talk about segregation and slavery, if we don't talk about the suffragist movement, if we don't talk about the struggles of the LGBT community and the history of who we were and why that was problematic. Not to place blame, not to say that it's your fault today, but it's like, if we don't know our history, we are doomed to repeat it. And so putting even my fashion journey into some kind of important historical context, I think was essential in telling this story. This isn't just about dresses and fabrics and designers. And it never was for you. It never was. You know, it's about all the symbolism.
1:01:58It's about the language. It's about the retelling. It's about the next chapter of who we are, not just as Black people or as Black women, but as a nation. I mean, we should all be proud of the growth that we've made, right? We were this way, but then we learned. And a lot of that learning comes from exposure. You know, people don't know because they don't know. I mean, this is why I don't like labeling people as racist. right? People are uneducated. People are disconnected. People just don't know. But in their hearts, they don't harbor the kind of ill will that may subconsciously come out, right?
1:02:41I mean, I learned as First Lady that I say this all the time, it's hard to hate up close. And I found that when we were in the White House, we experienced so much love and support from all factions of not just this country, but of the world. Because that's who we are. That is fundamentally who we are. Yes, we had some rough times and we need to remember that because that was based on lack of exposure. Races were segregated. They didn't know each other. They weren't allowed to interact with each other. And when you don't interact with people, it's easy for somebody to place a wedge between those relationships, to paint the other group as something different and scary and bad.
1:03:31But over the years, we started breaking down those barriers. We have women in charge, people running offices. Diversity is important. You know, diversity and inclusion, it's not just a catchword. It's not about economics and people getting jobs. It's about us defining, creating spaces where we now know one another. So we cannot be one another's enemies. And that was true in the White House. And sadly, now we're experiencing something completely different. And I know this is a book about fashion, but I hope it's a reminder of what was. What was and what can be. And what it can be. and how different it makes us feel when it's good.
1:04:18How proud we felt. How proud we felt. We also, I didn't touch on this, but I would love to hear about the 2016 National Convention. She made that famous speech, which I use all the time. When they go low, we go high. You noted that she wore a cobalt blue dress during the speech to represent the party and the nation. Can you talk about how you interpreted the dress and the comparison and contrast to the earlier DNC speeches? Well, I just think that by then, you know, she didn't have to introduce herself to the nation. Like we knew who she was. She didn't have to be, there was no tentativeness. There was no like, will the nation accept her?
1:05:04The nation had accepted her, had accepted her and proudly claimed her as the person, a person that we wanted to represent us at home and abroad. And so there just seemed to be a confidence and a comfort and a confidence in who she was and who we knew her to be. And I think that was a little bit different from that first where that very first was in 2008, where, you know, she has to introduce herself to the American public. And it was a slightly different color. Yeah, it was very slight. Teal versus that cobalt blue, which is just powerful. Powerful. Exactly, exactly. It's just very powerful. Was that intentional?
1:05:48It was. It was pretty full circle. The teal dress of the first convention, actually, Michael Smith, our designer, labeled it Kailua blue. And we use that. That's the blue in the Obama China for the presidential, his set of presidential China, because it was that first speech, but it's also the blue of Hawaiian water, which is reminiscent of his upbringing. You know, so again, it was so for the what would have been the last speech. It wasn't because I ultimately made my what is my last campaign speech just this past election. But yes, you know, going back with a different kind of blue, you know, the second term, as we talked about, was completely different.
1:06:43We were no longer we could experiment more. We could be freer with hair. But we still, I was still the first lady. And so what I did truly post White House in terms of fashion and risk taking, returning to braids like I had in college, that was an evolution. You know, I mean, the Becoming Book Tour was about glam and style. And we knew we wanted to do pantsuits because we were in dresses for the T-Link dresses and the arms out. And it's like, oh, enough of that. You know, I'm going to be talking to ladies and in arenas filled with tens of thousands of people who are going to be excited. So we knew that it should feel special.
1:07:34You know, there should be a little glitz and, you know, there should be sparkle because it was just fun and invigorating and people needed to feel that energy. So I found the quote that I think is your final speech. Our glorious diversity, our diversity of faith and of colors and creed, that is not a threat to who we are. It makes us who we are. That was beautiful. So beautiful. and it really, again, this administration believed it, acted, and that was the embrace and we all felt it. And we know it's right. Yes, of course. We know it's right. And when we second guess it, I guess my message to listeners is do not let any time in history make us second guess the truth of that statement.
1:08:37Diversity matters. It's important. It's important for us to embrace ourselves first and foremost, because we can't embrace anyone else if we don't like and love ourselves, if we don't value ourselves. It starts there. But we know better. We know that inclusion, that opening things up, it's not just the right politics, but it's the right spirit. If any of us believe in a God at all, it is a God who believes in the equality of everyone, that no one owns this earth, no one owns this planet. We all share it together. And we are all brothers and sisters. We are. We rise and fall together. Correct. And if we're lucky, we do it in a pretty suit.
1:09:31thank you thank you so much Farrah yeah Michelle thank you for this gift oh thank you it's it's a beautiful book thank you your foreword is incredible thank you for having me here to discuss this very important moment really wonderful conversation and what it did to our country
1:09:59Thank you.
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