In short
Emerald Fennell (writer-director) discusses her ambitious, romantic-sexy-but-painful take on Wuthering Heights, emphasizing worldbuilding, dread, and how she adapts Emily Brontë without doing a literal version. She also talks about directing sex scenes as power/romance dynamics, keeping nudity minimal, and her broader influences (Romeo and Juliet, Titanic, Dracula, Young Frankenstein).
Key claims
Heathcliff is designed to “never quite fit” physically into spaces; the film is meant to feel like a 14-year-old girl’s imagining; gothic emotion should include humor/camp; “explicit” comes from what characters feel, not on-screen nudity; sex scenes are just romantic/power scenes.
Notable examples
building Wuthering Heights sets “too small” for Jacob Elordi; the “hand on the ankle” as a standout romantic image; Saltburn’s grave scene/gravity of Wuthering Heights; Dracula Dead and Loving It as a reference for camp.
Guests
Emerald Fennell; host Josh (Happy, Sad, Confused).
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Chapters
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0:00 to 0:30
Emerald discusses the bold new take on Wuthering Heights.
“You know back to school is coming in fast.”
Emerald's New Film: Wuthering Heights
0:33 to 0:56
Emerald discusses the bold new take on Wuthering Heights.
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Emerald's New Film: Wuthering Heights
3:05 to 4:15
Emerald discusses the bold new take on Wuthering Heights.
“The Fly is on my list of movies to bring up today.”
Casting Choices and Character Depth
4:15 to 7:45
Emerald talks about casting Jacob Elordi and the complexity of Heathcliff.
“I think also the thing about both, and Margot too, you know, spending whatever it's been now, a year of my life looking at the, and just Anshazad and Hong and Alison, basically staring at these faces for the last year.”
Influences and Inspirations
7:45 to 11:15
Emerald reflects on the cinematic influences from her youth.
“It felt like it was something that I could connect to.”
The Emotional Impact of Film
11:15 to 14:27
Emerald and Josh discuss the importance of emotion in storytelling.
“And I feel like people aren't even attempting the big swings like that anymore.”
The Emotional Impact of Film
14:59 to 16:14
Emerald and Josh discuss the importance of emotion in storytelling.
“Your to-do list may feel endless with new tasks and lists can easily begin to overrun your life.”
Adapting Wuthering Heights: A Personal Journey
16:27 to 17:46
Emerald Fennell discusses her unique approach to adapting 'Wuthering Heights' and the emotional themes she wanted to capture.
“You can go a thousand different ways in adapting anything.”
The Complexity of Literary Adaptations
17:46 to 19:54
Fennell reflects on the challenges and creative processes involved in bringing classic literature to the screen.
“Like there's so much of when something is this old, it sort of has its own.”
Exploring Gothic Elements in Film
19:54 to 21:36
The conversation explores the use of gothic themes and humor in adaptations, particularly in Fennell's work.
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Dread and Personal Hauntings
21:36 to 23:21
Emerald shares her experiences with dread and anxiety, relating them to her artistic process.
“as additive to the canon of Dracula as anything else.”
World-Building in Cinematic Storytelling
23:21 to 28:07
Fennell discusses the importance of world-building in film and how it enhances storytelling.
“It sounds like you would be very susceptible to a cult.”
Emotional Connection in Storytelling
28:07 to 31:28
Explore how emotional experiences shape narrative and character development in film.
Emotional Connection in Storytelling
32:07 to 32:34
Explore how emotional experiences shape narrative and character development in film.
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Directing Intimacy in Film
32:34 to 36:21
Uncover the nuances of directing romantic and sexual scenes in film, exploring character dynamics and emotional depth.
“you can't say to an actor, be more sexy in a scene.”
The Complexity of Love and Cruelty
36:21 to 42:06
Delve into the themes of love, obsession, and the cruelty that comes with it in storytelling.
“What's the, in your opinion, the most romantic image in this film?”
Emerging Themes in Emerald Fennell's Films
42:06 to 46:40
Explore the emotional depth and risks in Fennell's storytelling style.
“So we joked about this possibly being Emerald Fennell's Wuthering Heights.”
The Personal Touch in Screenwriting
46:40 to 49:20
Fennell discusses her unique approach to writing and making films.
“And I think the thing is, is I can't help, but I'm not, I think what I've learned now, and then I just finished Promising a Woman, and there was this huge thing in this world that I'd never operated in.”
Fun and Random Questions with Emerald Fennell
49:20 to 54:04
A lighthearted segment with quirky questions about pets and favorite things.
“Anything owned by, mostly female, so anything kind of owned by witches.”
Transcript
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1:24Happy, sad, confused begins.
1:30Hey guys, I'm Josh. Welcome to another edition of Happy, Sad, Confused. Today on the show, a returning champion, the wonderful writer-director that is Emerald Fennell. Her new film is Wuthering Heights. This is a great chat with one of our most talented filmmakers working today. More on that in a second. Before we get to Emerald, I want to remind you guys, if you enjoy what I do, check out the Patreon. Come on, patreon.com slash happy, sad, confused, early access, discount codes, the heads up on our live events. We've got some cool ones cooking. If you like what I do, check that out. Support us over there.
2:03It helps us make more stuff over here. Okay. Not much preamble here except to say Emerald Fennell, you know her, you love her, Promising Young Woman. She won the Oscar for writing that one. Saltburn, I don't need to tell you about that one. She is reteaming with Jacob Elordi and now Margot Robbie in this very bold, big take on Wuthering Heights. This is not your mom and dad's Wuthering Heights. This This is a take on Wuthering Heights, as only Emerald Fennell could deliver. It's gorgeous, it's romantic, it's sexy, it's all the things you want in an Emerald Fennell movie, in a Wuthering Heights film.
2:37And if you've never heard her chat about her work, her writing, she's a cinephile, she's smart, she's funny, she's everything we like on this podcast. And this is a delight, as always. So I want to thank you guys for watching and listening. Remember to hit that subscribe button, however you're enjoying this. I appreciate you guys. I want to thank not only Emerald, but the folks at Hoff Studios who gave us their facilities here to record this in person. And without any further ado, here's my chat with the one and only Emerald Fennell. Wait, look, it's Emerald Fennell. I didn't see you there. Yes, sorry, I just appeared.
3:14You just like swooped down, repelled. Yeah, absolutely. Like The Fly, I just like zapped in. The Fly is on my list of movies to bring up today. We were just talking Cronenberg. The Fly is a perfect movie. Correct me if I'm wrong. No, I won't. I'll correct you for being right. Very jet lagged. It is a perfect movie. Also, Jeff Goldblum as a fly still would. As half man, half fly. Great. In fact, more. The grundle fly is preferable just to the. The more the merrier. Oh my, we're off to a perfect start. Emerald, it's good to have you back on the podcast. Thank you. Congratulations on this ambitious, big, bold, wild, beautiful movie.
3:54Wuthering Heights is the film we're talking about. Thank you. It will drive us mad, as the poster promises. I think probably, yeah. It's driving me mad. In the best possible way. Yeah. It's also a good reminder for men like myself of normal height that there are people like Jacob that make me feel inferior. Like, not even like a man. Like, he's a tall drink of water, to say the least. I think also the thing about both, and Margot too, you know, spending whatever it's been now, a year of my life looking at the, and just Anshazad and Hong and Alison, basically staring at these faces for the last year.
4:30Right. It's really, it's kind of changed me profoundly. I'm now like, they're so beautiful and they're so amazing. If Jacob were a foot shorter, is he your Heathcliff? Yes. Really? Yes. I think that. That speaks to his. Totally. Well, because I think that he's, it's to do with, look it's to do with his eyes and it's to do with who he is like I think the thing about Jacob that I find really fascinating and wonderful is that he's he sort of emanates this kind of tenderness and goodness and and I don't know there's something very unusual about him that's hard to kind of explain and that's the thing that I loved for this was that you know if you have to play kind of the biggest anti-hero of all time.
5:23You have to play somebody who's extremely hard to love. You have to be a person that's not just a deeply talented actor, but somebody who's sort of got this, I don't know, innate kind of sympathy that they bring with them. And that's what he's got. I mean, if anything, being so tall is complicated for shooting. I would think. Yeah, just the practicalities of it. Yeah, the practicalities. But it does feel like you utilize that, not to harp on the height thing, but it is striking. I feel like you're utilizing it. You're leaning into it in the film. That differential is important. And sometimes it's like he almost can't fit into the physical spaces you put him in.
6:01Well, we built, I mean, Susie Davis, who's the production designer on this and who worked on Saltburn too, and it's just like the best, the best ever. One of the early conversations about building the set was to build Wuthering Heights to be too small for him. to have that idea that he's never quite fitting into any place that he's in. And even later when he kind of comes back and he's wearing these kind of beautiful clothes, again, you know, working with Jacqueline, the costume side, about nothing quite, he's never comfortable. He's always sort of straining against the kind of physical reality of the place he's in.
6:37So at what point in the process were you, you're making Salt Burn, was Wuthering Heights I mean obviously I know this is this is the book for you this is a book for you um how far along were you in thinking about this seriously as your next project and when did Jacob emerge as your Heathcliff? So I um I talk I've talked about this a bit in the past and I always think I sound like increasingly mad but I live I just live in kind of imaginary universe the way that I write is I've always lived in a few parallel universes at once and And so one was Saltburn and one was Promising a Woman. And, you know, one was my book Monsters.
7:14And one has always been Wuthering Heights since I was 14 and I read it. And I never know what the next thing is going to be because I only do one thing at a time. And what kind of happens is I go to these little places of my imagination and one of them sometimes just like pulls into focus a bit more sharply than others. And it's never necessarily the one that I expect it to be. and so part of that process with this was obviously it wasn't just Jacob you know when Jacob came out in his 2005 sideburns and I was like oh he's he's the Heathcliff on the cover of my book you know that's the kind of that was my 14 year old girl self and that was the kind of thing that sort of like you know that image in that book kind of destroyed my life and I was like oh wow and so that was sort of folded into it but also but also for saltburn you know the grave scene in saltburn is kind of taken from wuthering heights and everything that i think about in a funny way is taken from wuthering heights because it was like the first thing that made me think that you can make something i don't know difficult and transgressive and and you can make something that speaks across century you know it just kind of like changed my life so much and so I'm always thinking about it but yeah it was um it felt Wuthering Heights felt so much a part of Saltburn and perhaps that's kind of what it was but yeah and then and then of course it was just I just thought he'd be he'd be amazing it's interesting so you mentioned like you know the 14 year old self like I was doing to some of the math of like where you were as a kid in terms of films that you've referenced or maybe haven't referenced and these two you have but you're 11 and 12 I think respectively when Basil Orman's Romeo and Juliet comes out and Titanic come out the following year is it safe to say those two have informed everything including this so I realized I was just nodding so emphatically and this is a this is an oral medium so I should say yes like any young woman I would say particularly those movies were just completely transformative not just because of my lifelong truly psychotic love of Leonardo DiCaprio in those movies but but because they were kind of disruptive actually you know Baz Luhrmann's Romeo and Juliet was so kind of audacious and beautiful and it felt so young.
9:51It felt like it was something that I could connect to. And he was using Shakespeare's actual words, you know. And then Titanic, which could have been, you know, in many ways could have been an action movie and is an action movie. What it was was the most moving film about being in love. And it just so happened to have like an enormous iceberg. And so those two, yeah, those two films just kind of, I think, changed all of us. And also they changed the way I kind of maybe that I like to make movies that people would want to go and see multiple times that would become kind of like part of you. Because I think I realized early on that I wasn't going to make stuff for everyone, that not everyone would love anything I could make.
10:39But that hopefully for the people that do love it, they'd love it like I loved Romeo and Juliet. Well, yeah. So I remember, I'm a couple years older than you, I think, actually more than a couple, sadly. But I was watching Titanic and going back and back and back. And it was like, you know, it wasn't, it was designed for everybody. Yes, it was ostensibly for teenage girls, but it was like, I was probably 18 when it came out. and wanting that experience, wanting to feel and just go through that experience over and over again. And those movies are very rare. And I feel like people aren't even attempting the big swings like that anymore.
11:22No, and also I think feeling right now, feeling emotionally or physically is kind of embarrassing. We're in a real world of kind of, we live in a state of constant embarrassment and shame, I think, all of us. And so to make anything that you say, I feel things, maybe you might feel things too, is sort of gauche. Right. And so I feel like I can be cheesy. This is your way of being unironic and earnest. I think so. And I think that is dangerous to be a feeling person now because it is sort of an act of transgression. And I think that I am, but also like, I think the movies are also sort of, you know, they can be sharp and they can be, you know, all the things that they are a little bit like ironic and things.
12:15But mostly what I want is for people to feel something. And that's like scary because it's much easier or I think it would be easier to be restrained and subtle and to kind of not be so extra all the time. but I you know but I think I don't know I don't really know how to do it any other way I love the maximalists I love like the bat the bazes the George Millers like I want it all I want that I mean I can subtleties great too yeah of course absolutely there's totally room for all of it and I think it's just we've been it's now and I feel actually now more and more things are feeling a bit like we're getting into a much more like expressive world of movie and tv making again so that's really fun we'll be right back with more happy sad confused
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16:26Okay, so talk to me a little bit about your approach to this. You can go a thousand different ways in adapting anything. Did you know, when you started to adapt this, did you know what you wanted to use, what your way in was? Or did you go through different iterations of what your Wuthering Heights would be? I think, well, I think what I knew was, because I'm such a big fan of it, and I'm so obsessed by it, I knew really early on that I wasn't going to be able to do, that I don't think anyone could do a very literal adaptation of the book. Because the book is not a very literal book. It's very emotional.
17:02It's very strange. But what I really wanted to do was try and make something that felt like a 14-year-old girl's imagining of the book. So then I wrote down, having read it then, of course, for the first time and then many, many times since, I probably hadn't read it for a couple of years when I was really thinking about it. And I wrote down everything I remembered from the book. And some of it was right. And some of it was nearly right. and some of it was just absolute outright fantasy and wish fulfillment and so then it was a kind of and then it was that thing of deciding which of those things to preserve which of that hopefulness to keep or or the kind of you know I don't know the sort of your own relationship to something and and of course part of that was then like just doing because I'm you know I'm a nerd just a huge amount of research and not just of all the other movies and you know because you really want to make sure that you've so much of things can be absorbed you know so there are I think 11 or 12 movies of this of this book all of them are different in some ways and the same in some ways they all kind of share a DNA but profoundly different and so I needed to obviously having watched all of them make sure I hadn't accidentally absorbed something so there was that and then And there was all of the thousands of sort of illustrations and then like figurines, posters, decorative plates, all the and Kate Bush's song and all the other songs.
18:34Like there's so much of when something is this old, it sort of has its own. You know, you go up to the old parsonage where the Brontes lived and it's still and it's an industry. Right. And so it's sort of trying to find a way somehow of responding to all of that. Yeah. So you put the title in quotes as kind of an announcement of like, this is Wuthering Heights, but this is a version of Wuthering Heights. This is my Wuthering Heights. You could have called this Emerald Fennell's Wuthering Heights. That could have been the title. Can you imagine how pompous that would have been? I mean, others have done it.
19:08I would have. No, no. I think others have done it and others have done it deservedly. But I think with your third film, also, I think my reputation is such that I don't think it's a great, you know, you want to. you want to yeah kind of keep away from that a bit i mean i always found it funny like i was saying before we started like dracula always comes up in our conversations like that it was called bram stoker's dracula when ironically that was also a very similar kind of like that was a take that was a that was such a great take a great can we just talk about that take and but but i do think but it's but it's important because i mean basil london's romeo and juliet is william shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet because it is literally word for word the text and actually for me I really did keep as much of Emily Bronte's like I would say I would say it would be up there in terms of adaptations with with the kind of word for word I hope it's quite high in terms of her words so I think but yeah I mean of course I had to put it in inverted commas because there's no way of even attempting something like this that is going to even touch how good it is or how rich and complicated and difficult and you know and I think that I knew being a kind of fanatic about the book myself I knew that whatever I did could never encompass everyone's love of the book so I wanted to kind of be clear that I know that it's an attempt and only that but also like yeah when it comes to like something like Coppola's Dracula I mean that's a perfect example that is just I mean it's it's the feeling it's like the distillation of the gothic to a degree the sexiness the camp you know because I feel very strongly and definitely was sort of thinking with when making Wuthering Heights like you cannot acknowledge that the gothic which is so emotionally overwrought and so often in a lot of ways far-fetched you have to exist with some amount of humor and some amount of of of camp i think i think that's like a wonderful thing that's why i love that movie because it's just it's just marvelous and also i should a shout out to um to Dracula Dead and Loving It, the Leslie Nielsen banger.
21:34Because that is also, I would say, as additive to the canon of Dracula as anything else. And if I had to sit down and write, if I had to write about, if I had to do what I did for Wuthering Heights for Dracula, so much of Dracula Dead and Loving It would be there. Because I don't know anymore what ends. Well, and Mel Brooks did that with Frankenstein, Young Frankenstein, part of why that works, and it's my favorite comedy of all time, is it's, take away the comedy, it's a gorgeously shot, faithful Frankenstein movie. Yes, it's a masterpiece. They shot on the same sets as the original James Whale.
22:10I didn't know that. That's amazing. Well, I mean, Robin Hood, Men in Tights. Where does the Robin Hood myth and that begin? You know, so I think all of that stuff, I think, you know, when you make a movie, especially a movie of a story that's so enduring and that people know very intimately or don't know and have heard of, you're kind of having to somehow, I think, engage with all of that stuff, too, the sort of echoes that it leaves. You are, you have been making vampire movies, I think, secretly or not so secretly the last few times. out like heathlis heathlis could have been a vampire reveal in the third act of the film well so could kathy true yeah they're feeding off of each other yeah so have you ever considered an actual vampire tale yes of course i mean i i think horror is the place that i start from like horror is my natural space you're good at dread you're good at thanks thanks well you know that that's what haunts me no sorry why would you know you know you know when i got hypnotized this is so crazy when i got hypnotized firstly the first thing that happened was the hypnotist said that nobody had ever gone under as fast as me he was like hello lovely to meet you and i was already under he was like ma 'am we haven't started we have not started i haven't hypnotized you i was so ready to go but the thing that wouldn't they so they do a thing when they hypnotize you for like various phobias of course I'm riddled with them they they ask who's in the room with you and they personify the things and my first one was like you know whatever basic bitch anxiety there's like please Lee please ask anxiety to go say thank you you're trying to protect me go and I was like thank you babe they all go one by one all these little freaks that torment me but then the last one is dread and he said okay asked red to leave and I just went sort of silent and he said has dread left and i was like no and he said ask well what happened and i said she won't leave and she never left still there she never left they got rid of all of the other stuff we know it's a she i think so i'm haunted by i'm quite i'm quite haunted but so dread i think is my and when i think of the the artists that i love i mean they they call patricia highsmith the the kind of grand priestess of dread right and dread is something that i think we're all very familiar with and it's part of love and it's part of rage and it's part of shame and all of those things are something that I think about a lot.
24:49Were you at in cults? It sounds like you would be very susceptible to a cult. Oh my god of course I would be. Look at me. I'm desperate. I'm desperate for somebody to just take you away and give you give you a oh just put pop me in a cloak. Just pop me in a cloak babe. I just you know it's it's well it's why I think Fleabag 2 was so moving and so connective to so many people is that, you know, what she says, and I won't be able to do a direct quote because I couldn't because you're so good, but just want somebody to tell me what to do. And I think that that's a very profound, and that's where Phoebe's genius, you know, it's just so connected, I think, to have so many of us feel now.
25:30We have so much autonomy, so much apparent autonomy in our lives, and yet we're so powerless. And so I think, and especially like, you know, of course. Would you be susceptible to a cult? I don't think so. I'm obsessed with them. I mean, Jonestown, like, give me a Jonestown doc and I'm like... Why haven't they made... Do you know what... And then the studio thing. I was just going to say, in the studio, the Kool-Aid movie, I was like, I know we're all laughing about this, but I would die to see Scorsese's Kool-Aid, the movie. Of course. Someone needs to do like the real... They do actually need to make that movie.
26:02No, it's so chilling. It's so chilling. Well, it's... Well, but also, I mean, if we may, if we touch on the terror of these times we live in, it is suddenly we see how... I don't know what you're referencing. No, I don't know what I'm referencing either. I don't know the kind of the pressing of hell against our windows. Let's talk more about Dredd. She's here, don't worry. She's in this room. I feel her, yeah, yeah. Can you feel her? She's here. There is that palpable... I mean, we were talking about Baz and I think about world building And I think this movie really, your first two films are fantastic, but this movie you have leveled up in such a way as a true world builder.
26:42There is such a palpable sense of this world from costume, production, design. It's all there. Talk to me about sort of like leaning in and how much of that is in the script. Just how satisfying it is to like get to have the tools at your disposal to make something like this. It's so satisfying. It's so wonderful. As somebody who loves movies, and, you know, I went to Universal Studios when I was a kid, and I was like, and somebody was painting a white picket fence on one of the sort of lots on one of the, and I was like, oh, people do this. This is someone's job to make these things. You can, you know, as somebody just living in England who watched movies, I was like, oh, it's a physical reality.
27:26and that's such a huge thing for me is that if you're if you're building worlds they better be real even if they're surreal I want to I want to feel them texturally and so I've been so lucky I've been so extremely lucky to get to work with the people that I work with and the crew that I work with as well as the actors who are wanting to come and make something that could be terrible like that's where we approach everything from the beginning is like let's imagine we've never seen a period drama let's imagine that we're we're approaching this from a purely emotional place let's imagine we can do whatever we want without judgment and and that we can do something that has a kind of emotional physical connection to an audience and let's start from there and everyone I work with loves that and so it means that you know we could make and it's a sort of combination to go back to the kind of question of how does it start it there is some is in the script because it's a kind of a necessary sort of bit of plot or kind of character development whatever but a lot of it is just lots of conversations about how things make us feel and you know with Susie a lot of the conversations were about were about dread and about what what kind of how places give you a primal response and so Wuthering Heights was we kind of made it wet and it and it sort of built out of this rock and nature's sort of invading it and then at Thrushcross it's this seemingly lovely place where nature's been sort of contained to a kind of really psychotic degree and both places give you a sort of uncanny slightly repellent feeling and i think that's that's the that's where i like to be is in that space of like you're leaning in but your face is going to get burnt right or you yeah well and i can imagine this is going to be i've only seen this film once but this is this is a film that will reward going back and because you're using production design and and set and and costume as metaphor and and and you're again leaning into that this is this is hopefully i don't know if this is part of the mission statement this is the poster on the wall of the teenage girl and the film that they're going to keep coming back to i hope so you know because i i guess it's sort of that's who i always am speaking to like i'm the first audience i guess like how subconsciously are you thinking about that in the screenwriting process or even on set of like I'm speaking to my 14 year old self here or is that just sort of intrinsic to I think it's just yeah it is kind of intrinsic you know there's I I'm not I'm not very some I I'm not very uh I suppose I I it's quite an intuitive process and it's quite and it's a and it's a bit of a like um i yeah i i'm not very thematic even though i think i think that the films have strong themes it's not i'm not working from that place i'm usually working you know with promising young woman i was just working from a kind of personal place of this thing that people keep telling me isn't bad if it isn't bad then what if this then if i did this why would people be so scared you You know, and it's like, or with Saltburn, you know, it was about, you know, it was about these books that I've been obsessed with my whole life.
31:00These like what happened in a country house one summer and why we're all so kind of obsessed with looking at people's lives and, you know, what we do. You know, it's just it's all it all comes from this kind of very personal place. And so, yeah, I'm never very. Mostly, I'm just looking to feel myself. and if a performance makes me feel something or a prop makes me feel something, then I'm hoping it will make somebody else feel something. More Happy Say Confused coming up.
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32:33When you're directing actors on set and you know a scene has to achieve a certain level of romance, of sexiness, you can't say to an actor, be more sexy in a scene. So how do you get them there if you're not feeling it in that moment? It's honestly the same as every other scene. So I think that the thing that is, the main thing that starts is rehearsal, casting, the very beginning conversations. And we do so much rehearsal and with everyone in the cast and all of those sorts of things. So by the time we get to filming, we kind of know where we want to be. And sex scenes are just romantic scenes.
33:20They're just connected scenes. Or they're scenes about power. Or they're scenes about rage. You know, they're no different. It's a power dynamic that you're looking at. And so therefore, it's never about the thing that it's about. Right. and so I think for me it's always like how do we communicate what this very specific scene needs to do and that's why they're just such great actors is that they understand that as much as anyone else none of us you know we're not a sex scene isn't in there for no reason it's in there because it kind of tells you something about the characters and I think I think in this movie and in Saltburn very much so.
34:03I think it might surprise some people when they finally see this movie that it's not an explicit movie. It's a very sexy movie. It's a very romantic movie. But there's almost no actual nudity in the film, if at all. Right. Is that is that something that was considered at some point in the script stage? Or is that a definitive early idea? Like, I don't it doesn't. It's not what I need in a film. It's not what this film needs. how did you get there? Well, Saltburn wasn't explicit either and everyone like but the thing is that the only nude scenes in Saltburn are when alone so they are one actor and one is about grief and the other is about joy the sex scenes you never see any nudity at all and you never I don't think you ever see below the weight I mean you rarely see below the shoulders you know the most the biggest erotic scene in that movie is between a man and a bathtub.
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35:03So when we talk about explicitness, it's sort of interesting because it's explicit because of what we're thinking. But the movies that I grew up with and the way that they used bodies and the way that they in particular used female bodies, those were really explicit because often, you know, there was nudity and sex for absolutely no reason except for like, whereas I think that the trick for me is always making people feel that they've seen more than they have. And so in that way, I think that, you know, Wuthering Heights is an extremely sexy book. Like, it's so sexy. Lots of people argue about that.
35:40Lots of people feel that it is not a sexy book at all. I believe it's a very sexy book. I felt it was a very sexy book. But, you know, nothing happens. So that's the other side of things. But, you know, it's interesting. The perception of something and the thing itself are so different. I mean, you're good at playing with expectations, too, even like the start of the film, the very opening of the film. We think we're in the middle of some hot, sexy scene and it's the pain, not the pleasure. And it's the pain, not the pleasure. But that is what the gothic is. And that is what Wuthering Heights is.
36:15It's all pain. It's all pain. But there's so much pleasure in that pain. You know, and so that's kind of the that was the center of trying to make the movie. What's the, in your opinion, the most romantic image in this film? And was it something that was preconceived or something you found on set? Oh, God. I mean, the thing is, it's all so good. I think the foot, I think the hand on the ankle, for me, is the most connected and devastating feeling for me. but I mean I could pick a dozen depending on the day because it is yeah it is it is I hope a deeply romantic film. I bet you're a fan of Age of Innocence.
37:03Oh yes of course. Because when you're talking about that I think of just like him unbuttoning the glove. Do you know what hands in general in these movies are crucial? Yeah. But no of course the Age of Innocence is just a masterpiece. Also DDL. Come on. Can we just, oh, can we just. Last of the Mohicans, like, what a romantic hero in that. He's just, but the thing is, I feel similar, I really do feel similarly about Jacob, because I think as Jacob, because he is so beautiful, it's easy to forget that he's just like, he's profoundly talented also. And I think it was maybe similar with Daniel J.
37:41Lewis, is that, of course, he is a very, very handsome actor and man. and but it's it's not the thing that you necessarily first think of when you think of Daniel Day-Lewis because he's just made such great choices but no of course I mean he was such a good and also um my beautiful André yeah you know like so many amazingly but again I think romance or sort of films about love have fallen slightly out of fashion right but but I they're all the movies I go back to according to I wasn't at Sundance sex is back in film apparently oh I love I love it don't they say they say it every two years guys sex is back westerns and sex back oh it's always back is it not back i think no it's funny there's because people have talked a lot during this process um about this like gen z you know the the whatever it is that they did a poll about and people don't and i was like what is that poll find me the poll find me how many people actually responded to it who made the poll like it's so funny the way we absorb things i just in my experience everyone has been kind of the same as time has gone on which is that everyone's horny everyone's sad that's never changed so like you know i'm gonna change the name of the podcast the horny sad confused in your honor you actually could that's the time right yeah horny sad confused that is kind of where we live that is why well it's why people are so interesting and so sad What do you think of Jacob as the next James Bond?
39:13Oh, absolutely no comment. Do you know what? I'm not. The thing is also, I'm not. You're not a Bond lady. I'm not saying anything. I can't say. What happened? I'm not asking you, do you know anything? I'm just asking as an opinion. No, no. It's just more that I don't. I don't even exist in a world where Bond discourse exists. Do you know what I mean? I'm just like, I'm too scared. I'm too scared. It's like that in Star Wars. You can't, you know, you can't, you can't. I'm too frightened. I'm too frightened. I found your, this is the dread. This is the source of my dread. This is the source of my dread.
39:50No, it's more that like it's none of my business. Do you know what I mean? I suppose. A couple of random things for you. We only touched on Killing Eve last time, but I've done a lot with Jodi over the years. I'm obsessed with her as we all should be. That was your sweet spot too. I mean, you love murder. Yes, thanks. Did you have a favorite murder you got to write on screen in Killing Eve? I love Jodie and Sandra. Those guys, that show, and Phoebe, that show. What an amazing thing. My favorite murder, actually, on that show, I loved, well, look, I loved being axed to death. I loved Sandra having to ax someone to death.
40:34I did love, you know what, because I think about how I would kill people a lot. Sure. All the time. Specific people or just like general? No, just general. Okay, got it. Generally, I think, yeah, so I think about, well, I mean, again, like there's, so did Patricia Highsmith. She has this amazing list that they found in one of her diaries called Little Crimes for Little Tots. Okay. And it's what children could do about the house to kill or maim their parents. And it's just such a great list. A kindred spirit across time and space. with you but um no but one of the ones was tying a lift so in i think episode two or three um villanelle just there's just a man in a lift and just before the lift doors close she just takes the she just takes the tie and it just garrots him and it's just such a simple one you know and i like those because it's just like oh you could just it doesn't take yeah you don't need much nothing takes much with the will that's what's scary and wonderful there's dread in this podcast studio that you've just well no but i just mean if we choose to if we choose to be cruel we could all do terrible things and that's why life is sort of so fascinating that we all actually don't like most of the time people are just really kind and really generous and really good and that's just amazing when you think that we could not be well and yet to bring it back to this film this film is about the cruelty we inflict on those we are obsessed and love the most and the irony of that yeah totally and also just like i think we all relate to that thing of pushing of pushing to see if someone will still love us like that how much do you really yeah if i do this we all kind of do that to some degree in our own lives and that is you know and also and also that's not not just within the characters, but that's also in the book and in the film and in all the films.
42:30How much will we endure? So we joked about this possibly being Emerald Fennell's Wuthering Heights. It could have been, but you didn't want to invite that kind of conversation. But you are at a place, three films in, where your name does mean something to an audience. That's rarefied, exciting air for you. So if Christopher Nolan's name means X, what does Emerald Fennell's name you think mean on future projects? What do you hope it means to an audience going in based on your name? Well, I think what I hope and what is the case are probably two different things. I think what has been, it's so funny because I feel that I feel so much, I'm quite a scared person in my life.
43:17I'm quite a worried anxious we know this by now we've got it I'm quite a like you know whatever boring person actually and then and so it's so it's been I suppose it's been a real learning because I've these movies have come out in six years you know and so that's a huge like yeah it's just a huge sort of thing to have happened and so it's always it's I'm still kind of learning what that means. But I hope, what I hope for some people it will mean is that I'm going to try something. And I'm going to try something that hopefully people will, you know, respond to. And that you're going to experience something.
44:09And it's going to be, you know, I don't know that it's going to be surprising. I don't really know. You know, I can't really speak for myself because I find that person, I suppose, that you're talking about so far away from who I am. But it's interesting because even on our last conversation for Salt Burn, you said to me, you said two things. You said you like messy movies, and I agree. I like messy, big swing movies. Sometimes they work, sometimes they don't. That's the best stuff. but you also said like oh I like a like a reasonable budget and this is a reason I don't think this is like a 200 million dollar movie but this is a bigger scale movie so have your have your ambitions changed again you get to play with the department heads that are the best yes can possibly be in something like this so I would think that going forward like yes I like to work on that that's true I mean I think I think certainly there was something about this that I I feel like as a woman, I think sometimes to do something like this on this scale, especially when you're making a romance.
45:17Let's, you know, arguably that's what this is. I think, you know, it meant so much to me to see Greta make Barbie on that scale. Right. And she's so inspiring to me. And it means a lot to me to see Nia DaCosta making, like, not just one, but two movies in a year. both of wildly different genre and scale you know and it means a lot to me to see the bride like that is not something I grew up with and without kind of sounding twee it means a lot to me and so actually I probably I think the next thing I do maybe I'm completely wrong I don't know what it will be yet but I would probably want to make something a little more contained again just because just as because I like to do sort of things that's like different but it also meant a lot to me to be like you know we can do this it is possible and it's possible to make things at a big scale and you know with huge movie stars and all that kind of stuff and so and i think that it i know it would have meant a lot to me going back to that 14 year old girl to see that because it didn't you know we maybe had count on one hand catherine bigelow absolutely i was just going to say catherine bigelow but even you know mary heron and and american psycho that was a really transformative because it's such a masculine film yeah you know and such a brilliant brilliant movie and so i do feel like that for me is i think partly why i wanted to do this here's another random one for you last time you told me this is way back in the past but your zatanna script you said was super demented the one that you oh my god yes zatanna can you give me an example of what that what how demented it was well i think i think it was demented because Because I was probably going through it at the time.
47:02And I think the thing is, is I can't help, but I'm not, I think what I've learned now, and then I just finished Promising a Woman, and there was this huge thing in this world that I'd never operated in. And, you know, again, it was kind of superhero movie. And I was like, okay, how do I make the version of a superhero movie that like I would connect to emotionally, which is sort of the woman in the middle of a nervous breakdown. So it's a script reflective of a woman in the middle of a nervous breakdown, I would say. And in terms of what that means, well, I suppose it just meant that it was probably too far away from, maybe a little too far away from the genre.
47:42Okay. You know, and it was too... You made it personal and maybe too personal for the studio. Yeah, maybe. For me, there was quite a lot of, it was really dark. And I'm not sure that, you know, I haven't read it for a really long time because I found it really difficult. Because also the thing is I love JJ so much. And he took a chance on offering me to do it. And I really wanted to deliver something amazing for them. And I always felt like I hadn't quite, you know, maybe delivered the thing that they wanted. And so I feel about that. Like I haven't read it since. And I wonder if I read it now, I'd be more generous towards myself.
48:22But I felt like I wish I'd been able to like deliver the thing that they wanted. And I think, you know, they were really lovely about it. It's just even just remembering like you're making me remember scenes. I'm like, oh, nobody would have made that. Nobody would have made it. So James Gunn calls you tomorrow and says, Emerald, Wonder Woman is yours. Well, that would be that would be wonderful. I think it's, do you know, I know, what I do know is I can only make the one thing that I'm preoccupied with at a time. I can't really work, I can't really do other people's things. You know, or maybe that's not, maybe it will happen.
48:59But I like to just, you know, if I can't go to my imaginary worlds, then I feel very marooned. So those are really kind of the only places I can work from, I think. because I'm not confident enough as a director to work on somebody else's thing. We're going to let you get back to your private imaginary world in a second. Oh, thanks. But we end the podcast with our profoundly random questions. Oh, yeah. Okay. Are you a dog or a cat person? Snake. We were talking before about wizards. Yeah, I wanted a pet snake. Yeah, okay. What do you collect, if anything? Oh, sort of haunted artifacts. Anything owned by, mostly female, so anything kind of owned by witches.
49:43or are they just around the house is there one room I'm not allowed to keep them in my house because my husband says they're too scary so they're in my office they are really scary what's the scariest object what's the one that freaks you out oh oh they don't freak me out because actually I feel very kindly disposed towards witches and I feel very loving and I and like protective of them there is a sort of there's a witch from the Victorian times there's a woman she's a fortune teller and her finger is pointed she's a small little model Her finger is pointed and you spin her barrel and it tells you, you know, if you're going to have a good year or you're going to die, your children will be afflicted by some terrible pestilence.
50:22You know, it's just that kind of vibe. The original Magic 8-Ball. It's the precursor to it. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. But she's got real hair, you know. Yeah, well, that's... Of course. You demand that. Yeah, yeah. Do you have a favorite video game of all time? Oh, my God, Tomb Raider. Nice. Okay. Would you rather have a mouth... This is a Dakota Johnson memorial question. Would I rather have a mouth just... I can't... Would you rather have a mouth or... No, no. I don't know. It's what you imagine. Would you rather have a mouthful of bees or one bee in your butt? That's the Dakota Johnson. Oh, bee in my butt?
50:47Yeah, right. Obviously. I mean, I didn't even think I'd necessarily feel a bee. Would you feel a bee in your butt? It depends on the size of the bee, I guess, and the stinger. I guess so. Yeah. Anywho, what's the wallpaper on your phone? My children. Eww. Do you know what I mean? Boo! Lame! Last actor you were mistaken for? do you ever get? Nobody ever. What? Like, I wish, I wish. I don't think, I can't think of who, oh, there was, do you know what? Somebody once said that they reminded me of who was death, not death becomes death, who was murder she wrote. Angela Ransbury. Lansbury. Lansbury.
51:27Yeah, yeah, yeah. That was one somebody thought that I, and actually I love that because she was absolutely gorgeous. Yeah. Picture of Dorian Gray. Remember that? She's. I actually don't think I've seen her version of Dorian Gray. She's, yeah, amazing in it. um what's the as an actor what's the worst note a director ever gave you can you take your knickers off and let me film up your skirt that's not a cool note no it was one it was it was not a cool note wow that okay yeah there you go how'd that go over not great wait more no but you know that's it wasn't how long ago when did i start you know it's not long ago is it wow there you go okay um in spirit yeah what do you do with that sorry no you know but these are the real world we live in it is uh in the spirit of happy set confused an actor who always makes you happy um uh it is um um hang on because my brain's gone steve buscemi forever and always my first crush my forever actor i love him so much you've said it in in armageddon the sea of beautiful men in Armageddon.
52:37I love him so much. I think he's the best actor in the world. And he always will be. And I'll watch anything. Have you ever tried to get him in one of your films? I can't go near him. I don't want to see him in real life because I'll cry. It's not for me. But I love him. A movie that makes you sad. So many. What do you think? A movie that makes me sad. Oh, I'm trying to think of a new one because I always talk about the same one. A movie that makes me sad, Random Harvest. Okay. Okay. And a food that makes you confused. You don't get it. Anything savory with raisins in. Oh, okay. Like a lovely salad and there are raisins in.
53:09Right. No. Thank you. Okay. But raisins in general, disconcerting. Just the... The fact of them. They're not right. They're not right. They're not right in the head. They're not right. They've been... You feel their degeneration, right? You feel that they're wizened. Yes. That they're apologetic. Like nobody's like, you know, my favorite thing of all time is the raisin. A good raisin. It's a raisin. You know, a raisin is an apology. We've really covered everything. I think so. We've covered the movie, which is fantastic, Wuthering Heights. We've covered raisins, Steve Buscemi's sexiness, Worth as an actor, Daniel Day-Lewis.
53:45Also, as an actor, I don't want to objectify him. He's used to it. It's okay. Okay, that's true. That's true. That is true, yeah, yeah. It's always good to catch up. Congrats. Best of luck on the film. Thank you. And back into your hole with your weird dreams. Yeah, go back to my witch hole. Yeah, your witch hole. Yeah, my lovely Wichel. Thank you. Thanks for reading on Horny, Sad, Confused. Oh, thank you so much. Yeah. And so ends another edition of Happy, Sad, Confused. Remember to review, rate, and subscribe to this show on iTunes or wherever you get your podcasts. I'm a big podcast person.
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