Sir Paul Smith - ‘People In Fashion Are Insecure’

23 Sep 2026 · 52 min · 23 chapters

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In short

Sir Paul Smith discusses “How to Fail” through personal setbacks and creative principles: insecurity in fashion, believing your own hype, and how attention, home security, and humor keep him grounded. He also covers his career origins, tailoring philosophy (relaxed suits, and knowing clients’ characters), the birth of Paul Smith’s pink LA store and signature stripes, and major life failures like a cycling accident at 17 and business shocks from Brexit and COVID.

Key claims

fashion people are insecure and compare constantly; true confidence comes from home security and focusing on your own identity; ego can inflate when publicity becomes overwhelming; independence protects creative focus.

Notable examples

a 3-month hospital recovery after a cycling crash (broken femur/collarbone/ribs), the Melrose Avenue “pink shoebox” store inspired by Luis Barragán, stripes returning after retailers demanded them (costing him about £5m when he stopped them), and COVID’s “18 litres of milk exploded” incident while running the business alone.

Guests

Sir Paul Smith (British fashion designer; founded Paul Smith in 1970; knighthood; known for tailoring, stripes, and fabric photography). Host: Elizabeth Day (podcast interviewer).

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Chapters

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Introducing Sir Paul Smith

0:30 to 1:35

Elizabeth introduces Sir Paul Smith, his achievements, and his memoir.

“This is the podcast that believes you can dress for success, but only if you've understood your failures first.”

Introducing Sir Paul Smith

1:41 to 4:10

Elizabeth introduces Sir Paul Smith, his achievements, and his memoir.

“And slowly the things you love begin to find each other.”

Paul's Journey in Fashion

4:10 to 6:12

Sir Paul shares his journey from cycling to fashion, including key influences.

“That was a very, very nice introduction.”

Creating for Women

6:12 to 8:06

Sir Paul discusses his approach to designing women's clothing.

“When you're fitting someone for a suit, do you feel that you get to know them?”

The Iconic Stripes

8:06 to 11:12

Sir Paul explains the evolution and significance of his signature stripes.

“I've been concentrating on making suits and tailoring.”

Turning 80 and Staying Active

11:12 to 13:20

Sir Paul reflects on turning 80 and maintaining an active lifestyle.

“And everybody was going, oh, he's taking the stripe away.”

First Failure: The Cycling Accident

13:20 to 14:00

Sir Paul recounts his early love for cycling and the accident that changed his path.

“Yes, I mean it started really, life, I honestly can't really, which is mentioned in the book actually, I had a lovely childhood but I can't really remember it.”

The Early Days of Cycling

14:00 to 15:10

Learn about Paul Smith's early cycling experiences and the sense of freedom it provided.

“And the chap that we bought it from said, I'm a member of the local cycle club.”

Family Influences and Upbringing

15:10 to 16:43

Discover how Paul Smith's family dynamics shaped his character and creativity.

“And that's where my life, that's why I'm here probably with you.”

Design Philosophy: Classic with a Twist

16:43 to 18:39

Explore Paul Smith's design philosophy and how personal experiences inform his clothing style.

“That's one of your father's photographs?”
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The Road Traffic Accident

18:39 to 20:49

Listen to Paul recount his serious cycling accident and its impact on his life.

“there wasn't really any high fashion for men, especially a lot for women.”

Humor as a Coping Mechanism

20:49 to 22:08

Understand the role of humor in Paul’s recovery and career.

“So you were eating yogurt with your foot, basically.”

A New Path: Entering Fashion

22:08 to 25:41

Hear how Paul transitioned from cycling to the fashion industry and his first experiences.

“And then suddenly they came but didn't talk about it and I thought, I know my dad's had a word with them.”

Relationship with Pauline and Step-Parenting

25:41 to 28:00

Explore Paul Smith's long-standing relationship with Pauline and his experiences as a step-parent.

“But that night on your 21st birthday, the serendipity of it, you didn't know.”

Navigating Step-Parenting

28:00 to 29:45

Learn about the challenges and experiences of step-parenting.

“But step-parenting, I feel, doesn't get spoken about that much.”

Insecurities in Fashion

31:35 to 36:47

Understand the common insecurities faced by those in the fashion industry.

“Yeah, I mean, them have been in the early days, just another boutique, as they were called then, opening in Nottingham.”

Impact of Brexit and COVID

36:47 to 41:30

Hear how external factors like Brexit and COVID affected business operations.

“You have to say where the yarn comes from.”

Introducing Lucky 22

41:30 to 42:00

Learn about the romance novel 'Lucky 22' and its themes of timing and connection.

“And that's at the heart of a new romance novel, Lucky 22, a story about timing, trust, and the kind of connection that grows softly but surely.”

Home and Personal Spaces

42:00 to 43:19

Explore the significance of creating a comfortable home environment.

“They're built on faith, on timing, on believing that when the moment comes, you'll be brave enough to say yes, and a little bit of luck.”

The Dangers of Ego in Fashion

43:26 to 47:38

Discuss the impact of ego and publicity in the fashion industry.

“First the air, then the light, and slowly the things you love begin to find each other.”

Respecting Culture in Business

47:38 to 48:29

Learn how respecting local culture can lead to success in international markets.

“Of course, it's very popular now with tourism now because of the yen and there are many, many visitors now.”

Creativity and Inspiration

48:29 to 52:05

Understand the connection between personal memories and creative inspiration.

“And I think there's 145 shops now in Japan.”

Reflections on Family and Legacy

52:05 to 54:08

Consider how familial relationships influence personal and professional growth.

“There were two things that impressed my dad with me.”
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0:00It's everybody else that's noticed I'm 80. You know, if nobody had told me, I wouldn't have made any difference. They say, oh, Paul's job. Yes, head of happiness. That's my job. What a great time. I do clothes as well. Yeah. I was leaving home with my mum and dad and suddenly I had a lady from London with two children, two dogs and two cats. So it was quite a move forward. Hello and welcome to How To Fail with me, Elizabeth Day. This is the podcast that believes you can dress for success, but only if you've understood your failures first. Before we get into this conversation, please do remember to like, follow and subscribe so that you never miss a single episode.

0:47home is one of those things i really care about it's where i write it's where i decompress it's where my husband and i debrief after a hectic day so i am obsessed with making it feel nice and there's been one thing in our sitting room that has driven me mad for ages and that's the rug it's just too small and it's kind of floating in the middle of the room and i've known it's not right for ages but not quite done anything about it. Then I discovered Ernesta, who make designer quality rugs custom cut to the exact dimensions of your space. You simply send Ernesta's design team photos and the dimensions of your room and they'll help you work out exactly what size you need, completely free of charge.

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2:25His winks of mischief, brightly coloured suit linings, an affinity for stripes are part of what give his classic clothes a uniquely modern perspective. Although probably too modest to claim the label, he's also a revolutionary. In the 1990s, he was one of the first designers to print photographs on fabric, and he's also credited with reinventing the humble boxer short. The youngest of three children, Sir Paul's father was a draper. It was his dad who took his youngest son to work as an errand boy in a Nottingham clothing warehouse after the young Paul left school at 15 with no formal qualifications.

3:04Initially, Sir Paul wanted to be a cyclist, but a serious road accident at the age of 17 put paid to those ambitions. He began taking evening classes in tailoring and was later spotted by the Savile Row tailor Harold Tillman, who offered him a job. In 1970, he and his wife Pauline opened their first shop in his hometown of Nottingham. His first full menswear collection was shown in Paris six years later. By the year 2000, he had established a globally successful business and was awarded a knighthood. His devoted clients include Gary Oldman, Bill Nighy and Matty Healy, who wore a Paul Smith suit to his recent wedding.

3:45And as if that weren't enough, Sir Paul has even had a tram named after him. His new memoir, Threads, My Life in Style, paints a picture of a man who is a lifelong observer and who built a world by paying attention. As Sir Paul puts it, I always say that you can find inspiration in everything. And if you can't, look again. Sir Paul Smith, welcome to How to Fail. That was a very, very nice introduction. Very posh. Well, good one. It said very, what was it, smart or elegant, sartorial. And I'm in a purposely washed suit today. You look wonderful. So more relaxed today. You always look wonderful.

4:33And I must say, I am wearing one of my many Paul Smith suits. I know, you look great. Yeah, I think I look relaxed. No, you look great. And I want to give you a personal thank you because Paul Smith suits have been a mainstay of my wardrobe ever since I launched this podcast. And it's partly because when I first did a live How to Fail show, your amazing team, and they are amazing, you work with great people, and that comes from the top, reached out and said, we'd like to dress you. And I discovered the joy of great tailoring. Yes, I mean, and that's the background of Portsmouth, really, tailoring, mostly because of what you described, night school.

5:18And Pauline, of course, who was my teacher at home, who studied couture, fashion at the Royal College of Arts. So I had two good aspects of training, really. I also just want to thank you for designing for women, because that was something that came along a bit later, wasn't it? You realised that 15 % of your client base was female. That's right, yes. And it was Grace Coddington, the well-known lady from British Vogue and American Vogue, a stylist, who just kept putting people in Paul Smith men's clothes. And then one day she was saying, yeah, we do need occasionally a skirt or we do need occasionally a coat that sort of fits a bit more correctly.

6:06and that was how I started really. But I love that androgynous sort of masculine look and so Paul Smith's women's is essentially tailoring really. When you're fitting someone for a suit, do you feel that you get to know them? It's important to get to know them because it's important to know, especially in today's world, since COVID, when so many people are not wearing tailoring. You know, they sort of spent time at home in hoodies and things. So getting them back into more structured clothes. But that's why the suit I'm wearing, for instance, has no structure. It's washed and it purposely created for all those men and ladies that have over the years think, oh, well, it's too rigid.

6:59A suit is too rigid. And so we're saying yes, but you can make a suit which is more relaxed as well. Do you get to know their insecurities as well? I mean, yes. We do, of course, we have ready to wear. That means off the peg. And we do make to measure, which is where you can make things fairly accurate for most bodies. and then we do a full bespoke, which is that's where you get to know people's characters. And that's obviously quite expensive these days because it's all handmade. There's three fittings and that's where you start to learn why. When you think you're using this, is it for business?

7:45Do you tend to want to look very elegant and smart or are you more of a relaxed person? And are you likely to wear it with a crisp white shirt and a tie or a denim shirt? Is it difficult to make a suit for someone you don't like? Actually, I'm a very strange person because I like people. So, you know, you don't like their politics or their behaviour or their bad manners. But essentially, they're a human being. So try to behave. I've been concentrating on making suits and tailoring. But of course, Paul Smith is a globally successful business. We've been going for 56 years, still independent, absolutely phenomenal achievement.

8:29And I really loved that quote that you gave about paying attention to find inspiration. And one of the things that I know many people will associate with Paul Smith is that bright pink store in Los Angeles. Tell us the story of how that came about. I mean, the joy of independence is the fact that you can think, hmm, maybe I'll build a pink shoebox on Melrose Avenue. And the only person you ask is the guy when you're shaving in the morning and you see yourself in the mirror. Melrose Avenue is about 20 miles long. Los Angeles is flat and wide, about 40 miles across. Almost everybody drives. So I thought that if I'm putting a shop in this city, then it's got to be a sore thumb.

9:21It's got to be a big statement. So I've always been in love with a Mexican architect called Luis Barragan, who is famous for his color. So Pauline and I, my wife and I, went to Mexico City to look at his home that he built, some chapel, some ranch. They were always in bright colors. And so that's how it came about. And now it's the most Instagrammed wall in California and probably in America. It's ridiculous how many, I think about 400 people a day. Amazing. Yeah, I mean, that was all by chance. Yeah. And stripes, that's another thing people associate with you. Are you sick of them? No. The stripes became my logo without, you know, by default, really.

10:13because in the 90s I just created a stripe that had lots of colours in it, thinking it was just for one season. It was a summer season. And then in the winter I didn't include it in the collection. And then several of the retailers that buy from us saying, where's the stripe? Where's the stripe? And I said, oh, I only did it for one season. No, we want it again. We want it again. And then suddenly it became the stripe. and any logo, any logo, I would imagine at some point becomes a bit of a burden or you feel like you want to reinvent it because it's attached to a period of time or something, which in fact did happen to me, I can't remember how many years ago now, when I completely stopped it, which was an incredibly foolish thing to do financially.

11:06I mean, that's a good failure. Yeah, it cost me five million quid, I seem to remember. And everybody was going, oh, he's taking the stripe away. He's mad. But what happened is it was mostly primary colors and I thought it looked too crude. And so, yes, it was a dangerous thing to do. But I redesigned it in more gentle colors and continue it. But the key thing is using it with care. Yes. You've got a few things like an entire sweater, which is very popular actually. But often it's just a little piece of a lining or tiny thing. You turned 80 in July. Sorry, was that me? Was that me? Which I actually can't believe at all.

11:57I mean, what's your secret, Sir Paul? You do seem so vibrant and vital and you're still going to the shop every week. Yep, Saturday boy. Saturday boy. How does it feel being 80? I mean, honestly, it's everybody else that's noticed I'm 80. You know, if nobody had told me, I wouldn't have made any difference. That's a burden as well, you know, because people obviously rather beautifully want to celebrate for you and send you cards and have parties and things. And I was like, no, no, I'm fine, I'm fine. And they've sneaked a few little events in without me knowing. But it's just a number, I think, for me.

12:43Luckily, so far, is there any award here? Yeah, here we go. Yeah, so far, you know, active, very active, big cyclist, pilates, swim every morning at five. I've always done that, not for any other reason, just that I quite like doing it, you know. So hopefully I can still put my leg into the air. Stop it. This is amazing. If you're listening to this podcast rather than watching it, Sir Paul has just lifted with total ease his leg up in a balletic posture by his ear. That's extremely impressive. I'm not going to try and echo it. But talking of cycling and of fitness brings us on to your first failure, which is that cycling accident that I mentioned in the introduction.

13:24Yeah. So you loved cycling from a young age. Yes, I mean it started really, life, I honestly can't really, which is mentioned in the book actually, I had a lovely childhood but I can't really remember it. My sister is eight years older and my brother was 11 years older and life really began at 11 for me for two reasons. One is my father bought me a camera because he was an amateur photographer. That was amazing because using a camera, that's about looking and seeing. But the other thing he bought me was a bicycle. And it was a second-hand bicycle. And the chap that we bought it from said, I'm a member of the local cycle club.

14:10If your lad wants to come out on what they call the club runs at the weekend, he's always welcome. Don't worry, we'll take care of him. because I was by that time 11 and a half or 12. No, 11. Still 11. And then so I started going out on the weekends and then you'd go out looking around. I'm looking around, everybody, left and right, and saying, there's no parents. Yeah. It was sort of strange and wonderful that you're out with about 20 people and doing 40 miles or 50 miles and eventually more. and that there was an amazing feeling so then they persuaded me to start racing at 12 uh because they have three categories in cycling a school boy junior and then the grown-ups and so I started a school boy then I had a junior license and then as many many people uh know I had a an accident where I hit a car or the car hit me at 17.

15:15And that's where my life, that's why I'm here probably with you. Before we get back to that, I'm very interested by what you said there about the sense of freedom. And it's definitely something I, as an amateur cyclist, always feel on a bicycle because you're so in the environment and that whoosh of fresh air and being able to watch everything go by. but the experience you had of childhood was essentially that of an only child because your siblings were much older, weren't they? So was there a sort of quietness to your household? Yeah. People often ask me about my parents. And my father had a lovely character, really good with people, and hopefully I get some of that from him.

15:58And my mum, if you want to say, oh, my mum. My mum was a mum and she had a lovely voice. And that's what I really remember from her. So it was a very quiet childhood, but with this quite creative dad who's a photographer and has a hobby. And had a dark room in the attic, which we had to climb a little ladder to get to. And he built, of course, my father did everything himself. not for financial reasons just because he could do it You said also that your mother you inherited a kind of conflict avoidance from her Yes Yes I definitely I think it's a good thing and a bad thing I think from a business point of view I don't think it's with the public I think it's been a great thing but in house it's probably me not being very confrontational and sometimes addressing problems not that we've had many but um it's probably considered a weakness really and and of course my clothes are designed in a non-confrontational manner whereas you know when we were starting there was vivian westwood around that time john paul gautier a lot of famous designers that were very designing very very outrageous clothes whereas mine that's why the a term classic with a twist came about because, you know, if you look inside something, there's always the little secret, like on the back of your waistcoat that you're wearing, the gilet that you're wearing has got a very beautiful printed photograph, actually, from my father, actually.

17:44That's one of your father's photographs? Yeah, of something that we've enlarged, so it looks rather abstract, but it's a flower, actually. Oh, I love knowing that. Yeah, yeah. That's fascinating. What's interesting about it is that when I wear a Paul Smith suit, I feel confident. So in a way, I can dress in a way that's comfortable. But if I did have to have a confrontation, I'd feel more confident doing it. Yeah. Well, that's fabulous to hear. And also, you know, then you open up and there's a little different colour jetting in the pocket or there's something hidden under the sleeve. And I remember French film director Truffaut, and he got a Portsmouth jacket and he was so classical, but then he was so cheeky when he opened it up and there was a little bit of colour in there.

18:34I thought that was, I mean, because if you imagine 1970s, late, there wasn't really any high fashion for men, especially a lot for women. So having that just little secret was quite nice. And of course, the first shop was far smaller than the studio where we are now. It was 12 foot by 12 foot. And so therefore, there was a real problem with making people relax straight away because they walked in and they were in front of you straight away. So that's how Paul Smith shops, how the birth of having things like some ceramics or some art or something I'd found on a trip somewhere as well as clothes so that you could walk in and the customer was quite right in front of you and say, oh, hi, I just came on a trip and I found this lovely poster and it was an icebreaker, which made customers feel relaxed.

19:35I love that you dressed Francois Truffaut. I mean, there's not many people can say that. That's pretty impressive. Yeah, and Goddard. Wow. Yeah. I mean, I knew about David Bowie, but I didn't know about Truffaut and Goddard. That's very cool. Okay, going back to the teenage Paul, this road traffic accident that you had, it was very serious, wasn't it? Yeah, I mean, it was a three-month-in-hospital job. Yeah. Broke of femur, which I'm now pointing out. Femur, collarbone, two ribs, fingers, nose. So in those days, because it was a long time ago now, it took a long time to heal from that because it was a very slow process.

20:17Now I think they just probably put a bit of stainless steel in your hand and you're out in a month or something. But it was a growing up period for me. Of course, Nottinghamshire, which is where I come from, was famous for coal miners. So there was a lot of coal mine accidents. So, you know, when I was in there for three months, 16 people died. And, you know, I'd never witnessed that. You know, you see the curtain that go around the bed and you know that some of them were coal mine accidents, motorbike accidents, car accidents. my flexibility helped and they in those days even because they nicknamed me the praying mantis so because I had one leg that was free and one leg that was in traction and I developed the ability to have a spoon in the in the foot and make make jokes about oh I'm just going to get my own lunch with my flexibility.

21:24So you were eating yogurt with your foot, basically. Basically, yeah. The spoon held in your foot. In my toes, yeah. Amazing. Yeah, so that amused a lot of the other patients and cheered them up. Humour has been such an important part of my life, and I think it's a vital ingredient. My Japanese team, you know, I have quite a lot of shops in Japan and a big office there. They say, oh, Paul's job, yes, head of happiness. That's my job. What a great job. I do clothes as well. So at 17, you have these three months in hospital. Are you ever scared? Yeah, I mean, while I was scared I wouldn't be able to walk or ride a bike again because, you know, your joints lock up, even at that young age.

22:08My sweet dad, I knew that he did it. He never told me he did it, but my cycling friends were coming in and we said, oh, we did this run last week and I was in that race and I was getting more and more sad by hearing, I suppose, envious of the fact that they were doing it. And then suddenly they came but didn't talk about it and I thought, I know my dad's had a word with them. It's a sweet man. You've left school by this point. Fifteen. Fifteen. Yes, I was not good at school. Well, I probably was okay but I just couldn't concentrate. And also I didn't know until a lot later that I suffered from dyslexia, which I'd love to be able to spell.

22:55So this cycling accident at 17 actually changes the course of your life in many ways. How do you then end up in fashion? Well, what happened was that because of my activities and sort of chatting to other people in the ward, the hospital, two of the other patients, we got to know each other, even though we never actually shook hands because they were locked in beds as well. And by chance, we were all released at the same time. And one of them said, why don't we just keep in touch, you know, because we all got on so well. And one of them just said, oh, well, let's meet in Nottingham and chose a place called the Berlin in Nottingham, which is where the art students, that was their watering hole.

23:47It's now called the university, but then it was called an art school. So there was architecture students, photography students, fine artists and fashion. and then meeting them with my sort of ability to be able to chat to people, suddenly this world opened up to me and one of the little groups I got to know, there was a girl that was, her father was setting her up with a little shop, a clothes shop, and she said, oh, Paul, do you mind trying to help me with a shop? I don't know how to open a shop. I don't know how you get a shop. I can make the clothes. And I said, yeah, sure. Like I really knew, which I, of course, didn't really know.

24:28So suddenly at 17, 18 by then, I was talking to, which is completely normal now, but then talking to somebody called an estate agent or a solicitor about a lease. So that was amazing. So I helped her and then worked as a shop assistant there, then did the window dressing. Then eventually we started to buy men's clothes because she was a women's designer. And then the big turning point was Pauline, of course, three years in to that job. Because I'd stayed close to the art school, whenever there were events on, I was always invited to the art school events. And then when my 21st birthday, my father very generously gave me£21, which he immediately spent on alcohol.

25:19and all my pals, we went to this place called the Yates's Wine Lodge in Nottingham and with the arts students and Pauline came along with the students because she was teaching two days a week in Nottingham. She lived in London and had two children. Did you know straight away, I mean, of course she's called Pauline, so in many ways it feels destined. Yeah. But that night on your 21st birthday, the serendipity of it, you didn't know. Not at all. And all my friends were saying, oh, she's amazing. You see, she looks so cool. And I was just a boy, you know. I was like into Dylan and Zeppelin and all the bands and drinking and mucking about.

26:04I used the word mucking about intentionally because it was just boyish, you know. And, I mean, she was the main reason I'm here with you now, really. The crash, of course. Yes. And then Pauline because she set a standard, which is very important, So the suit you're wearing is really beautiful because she set the standard of the correct pads, how it's constructed, what the interlining is, quality of the button, the quality of the buttonhole. And that's been very important for longevity. Pauline sounds an extraordinary woman. You have known her now for almost 60 years. Yeah, we met in 67. How have you kept your relationship, both personal and professional, on a secure footing in all that time?

26:58Well, I mean, I think with this interview, with everything we do, we both hope we get a nice interview out of it. So it's very much about balance. It's very much about knowing when to listen, which I'm not very good at this morning. Sorry about that. I'm talking too much. No, you're talking wonderfully. When to listen, when to talk, try to be interested, interesting. Key thing is when you come at home, home at night is don't just keep talking about what you've done. Just be interested in what she's done and how her day was and how she's feeling. And then, of course, the other thing is she's fantastic, which probably I think you hinted at.

27:43We might be talking about it later on. But, you know, feet on the ground. Yeah. Before we get on to that, you mentioned that she had two children when you met. So age 21, I speak as a step-parent myself. That's a lot to take on and also a joy in many ways. But step-parenting, I feel, doesn't get spoken about that much. And I would love to know about your experience. How have you found it? We're purposely quite private about that aspect of it. If you can imagine, without me dwelling on it too much, I was living at home with my mum and dad. And suddenly I had a lady from London with two children, two dogs and two cats.

28:25So it was quite a move forward. But the age group, of course, it was quite different. Seven and what was it? Six and eight or something. But I mean, in a way, you're similar, especially because of my playfulness. Have you ever gone through a period of your life where you've lost your playfulness? Never Oh, that's good I adore it And it's not a forced thing It's a completely natural thing Home is one of those things I really care about It's where I write It's where I decompress It's where my husband and I debrief after a hectic day So I am obsessed with making it feel nice And there's been one thing in our sitting room that has driven me mad for ages, and that's the rug.

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31:12An old cap finds a new scarf. Because you don't simply step into the season. You create it layer by layer until it finally feels like fall. Find fall your way at Ross. Okay, so going on to your second failure, it is about the people that Pauline calls them. Who are they? Yeah, I mean, them have been in the early days, just another boutique, as they were called then, opening in Nottingham. You know, which if you can imagine when we first opened October the 9th, 1970, there was really no fashion shops in provincial towns around the country. But then, you know, probably into two years in, there'd be a boutique open and it'd be like, oh, they've opened and people are going to them.

32:10This would be you fearing this, over fixating your competition. Yeah, worried about them. Yes, yes. And then, of course, so that's on a very small level. But then what happens in, this is not just me for sure. It's almost everybody in the fashion industry probably fairly insecure. Around the table where I work with my designers, there's always the comparison of oh have you seen what this brand's doing or what that's brand oh we really should be doing that or it's gone very minimal or our shops look you know too dated now shouldn't we be doing so there was there's always this comparison of you know what other people are doing and so the danger is and this is a failure or a or a joy I don't know which losing your focus and worrying too much about them and that can be seen as a failure really for instance if suddenly you walked in a porcelain shop and it was you know white with black floor and everybody was wearing black and there was no music people would feel very what's happened here so it's the danger the failure is is worrying too much about what other people do oh that's amazing to hear because i'm also someone who falls into comparisonitis and have had periods in the past of feeling like well look at all these other people and they're doing so much better and i should exactly as you say be more like them and it's taken me quite a while to work out that as you say you should actually drill deeper down into what makes you you than trying to please absolutely everyone.

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34:03And it takes a certain mind to be able to do that. You've got to feel quite confident without being arrogant. That's the important thing. And be yourself as well. But the problem is the communication now and the information that we get through that little thing we carry in our pocket. You know Pauline has no telephone. Really? Yes, again. And we have no email. And we have no computer. Okay. So, you know, when you don't allow yourself to be bombarded with comparisons, they've got two cars, oh, they've got three houses, oh, my God, they just sold for a billion pounds. Don't worry about it. You've got your health, you've got your happiness, you enjoy the sunshine, you enjoy the rain, camaraderie, talk, speech, conversation.

35:02I mean, there's so many joys in everyday life that we seem to be missing the point. You know, large amounts of money can't bring you health and happiness. So wise. How long and how, how long did it take you to feel secure in yourself and what you offered and how did you get there? I think the security at home has always been very important. And a lot of my colleagues and friends haven't had security at home. And I think that's difficult because you're always looking, you're always searching for friendship or love. and that's insecure obviously and uses a lot of energy up which isn't to do with your work.

35:55So I was just really lucky to have that at home which means that my day is very much about concentrating on the job. And has Pauline always been someone who is very clear, who is able to delineate between us and them more clearly? Without question, yeah. Very, very, I'm very shy person, very well read, very simple in her way of thinking about things. Just not at all impressed by wealth or material things, not at all. No, far more interested in the beauty of a day. Talking about this failure specifically, has there ever been a time with your business where you have really worried about its future and found yourself straying and thinking, well, maybe we should be slightly different?

36:57Definitely Brexit and COVID. And that's in the book, very honestly, very, very honestly, because it was a complete nightmare, you know, because Brexit was just something that we absolutely didn't want and that immediately we had all these new rules about trading with the various countries around the world and more paperwork and a different way of doing things and having to itemize absolutely where everything came from. You can't say made in Italy. You have to say where the yarn comes from. So it was massively complicated. A big user of money and time and energy. And then, of course, COVID, 16 weeks without trading anywhere in the world.

37:46So as an independent company, you haven't got any secret, you know a lot of the big brands have so many diverse businesses so there might be a fashion they might have 60 fashion brands but also they have sports centers and water or alcohol or yeah so they've got different uh income streams whereas when you Paul Smith he's Paul Smith so that was real user of money of course just as a little side thing you know I was in my building on my own every day during COVID. And that's the start of the book is quite amusing about some of the things that happened. The milk. Did you remember? Yeah, yeah. Tell us the milk story.

38:33And then I will. I only realised the other day I wore a suit every day and I was on my own in the building because I just find suits really useful. pocket for the specs handkerchief keys credit card notebook pen uh the milk yeah i mean obviously you it wasn't it a tuesday we got told to stop work and on the wednesday i was allowed to go in because i went in a car on my own into a building on my own and the first thing was of course 120 waste bins with leftover sandwiches from the day before so i emptied those and i was i was like I wonder if Giorgio, Mr. Omani's doing this right now. And then about two weeks in, I arrived and there was this terrible, terrible smell.

39:26And I realised that 18 litres of milk in the kitchen, when we have guests, had exploded. And it took me three hours to clean it off the floor. You know what? It was great. It didn't matter at all. It was fantastic. I had to mend the electric gate because my car got stuck in. I had to work out the irrigation system of the roof garden. Just don't worry about it. Just get on with it. It's fine. I thought it was brilliant. Yeah, well, it sounds to me like your dad. Oh, yeah, exactly. I'm like my dad. It's very impressive that you have stayed true to Paul Smith values in a world of homogeneity, especially in fashion.

40:13And you've combined that with doing a lot of collaborations, that you've actually stayed true to your identity no matter what. Yeah. How hard has that been sometimes? Well, saying no to most collaborations is the key. Listen to your tummy and just go, Barber. I've always loved Barber. It's a British brand. It's fantastic. it goes from a trendy person Gladstonebury to the king it's so fabulous yes, Barber, we do that and there's one out at the moment which is extraordinarily popular, Mini I've always driven a Mini car so we've got a Paul Smith Mini so it's just a matter of doing things that feel correct I'd love to know some of those collaborations you've turned down but I'm not going to ask you because I know you Well I can tell you a very ridiculous one I got a sketch sent to me of a very bad drawing of me at an ironing board.

41:11As an ironing board. And an iron. So I did decline that one. Of course, with ironing board. That's brilliant. We're going to take a quick break now. But Sir Paul, you will be back to discuss a failure about believing your own hype. One of the things we talk about so often on this podcast is how life can change in the quietest, most unexpected ways. And that's at the heart of a new romance novel, Lucky 22, a story about timing, trust, and the kind of connection that grows softly but surely. It follows Ella Rose Holt, an actress in Los Angeles who believes in small everyday magic, and Christian Lucas, a professional baseball player, when a chance encounter, a lucky number, and a not-so-blind date brings them together, it becomes clear that sometimes the most extraordinary love stories aren't loud or dramatic.

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43:26That's e-r-n-e-s-t-a.com. Fall never arrives all at once. First the air, then the light, and slowly the things you love begin to find each other. A jacket meets a dress, A hoodie slips beneath a blazer. An old cap finds a new scarf. Because you don't simply step into the season. You create it layer by layer until it finally feels like fall. Find fall your way at Ross. Your final failure is the danger of believing your own hype. Yes. Tell us about this. I mean, that's a big problem for masses of human beings. I don't know whether you agree, but I mean, we've seen it happen so much with ego and narcissism.

44:19And of course, this unbelievable narcissistic society we live in today. You know, when I'm driving around London, you know, just the quantity of people posing and taking photographs of themselves and then taking 40 pictures and looking at them immediately. So that whole thing about self-importance is baffling to me. And then, of course, you've done amazing things. And so if you're not careful, you start thinking, believe in your own over publicity in some cases or a lot of publicity. So I've never, I mean, Paulie's been brilliant with that. I mean, you know, you get back from a very important trip and she reminds you that you've got to put the rubbish out and have the car MOT'd.

45:18You know, it's great. Were there moments when you feel that your ego was being inflated, that you needed that? I mean, you just have to pinch yourself and, you know, stop yourself from getting carried away with it. In Japan, for many, many years, I was really like a rock star over there. You get there, you get mobbed, you get cornered in the street and had to escape through a fire escape and all sorts of things. I did a talk in a university there and they said, oh, there's going to be at least 600 people in the audience. And we arrived and there was 2 ,800 people. and I did the talk twice back to back for everybody.

46:01And so, you know, if you're not careful, you could end up thinking how wonderful you are, whereas you're just hopefully just interesting and full of character. Why do you think you are so beloved in Japan? Hard work, I think, and respecting their ways. I went there in the 80s. I was invited there in 82. And during that time, a lot of European and American designers were invited over because they were very cash rich as a country then, and they were trying to invest in the future. So they invited a lot of not just fashion designers, product designers, furniture designers, interior designers. And many, many, many of them went and, in my opinion, were very disrespectful in the fact that they were like, oh yes we go there we yeah we're treated vip and we earn money great money and you don't really have to do anything and of course a lot of people went there that were very demanding about first class travel chauffeur driven car top hotel and and and so many of them just fell by the wayside i just got this invitation to go to japan i was like japan wow how exciting is that and then i I said, oh, my director must come as well, Pauline.

47:27And so we went 18 hours via Anchorage economy class. We could hardly stand up after we were so tiny. The aeroplane was so tiny. And just to go there and just think this amazing opportunity to come here. Of course, it's very popular now with tourism now because of the yen and there are many, many visitors now. But then, 82, almost nobody spoke English. And of course, I'm quite tall. So everybody was like looking at you taking pictures. All the pictures, of course, was up your nose because they were all quite tiny. And there were photographs from below. But I went there thinking, wow, this is amazing.

48:09And respecting the history, respecting the way of working, their humble approach to things. But then the only thing I could not fault but observe that it was a bit too chauvinistic. But we as a company, we adjusted that enormously. So we've got a lot of our key staff from ladies as well as gentlemen. And I think there's 145 shops now in Japan. Incredible. Mr. Omani, who sadly passed away last year, but he was a friend of mine. And he always said to me, how did you break into the Japanese market? So interesting. So interesting. I just said by going and listening and absorbing and then trying to integrate rather than, you know, just go like a, you know, too strong.

49:02How interesting. And it takes us right back to the beginning when we were talking about the power of attention, because attention is a form of politeness and generosity. and that combined with your curiosity, what a success story. I'm very interested in how your mind works. You said earlier you feel like your mind is a bit crazy. Yeah, I don't really know. I mean, it's very lateral. Right. I'm a huge lateral thinker. Big fan of Edward de Bono, the famous lateral thinker. I always think left and right of the obvious. So go left and right of the obvious But still respecting the principle of what it is you're trying to do And then you'll be okay When it comes to inspiration for collections I know because your Spring Summer 2027 Which I love the label you gave it Suits in Unsuitable Situations Yeah And that came from a specific memory Yeah, that was a picture of my granddad On the beach in Skegness in Lincolnshire With his trousers rolled in a suit in the sea with his trousers rolled up with me age three or something.

50:17And just the fact that my father passed away when he was 92, he wore a suit every day, a shirt and tie every day at home, every day. Almost every human being, male, wore a suit. You wore a suit for school. There wasn't anything called casual wear. It was always suits. And then so that made me think about suits in the wrong place, you know, which is quite fun, I think. And do you often get sort of an image that will then spark a creative thought? Yes. Yep. I mean, I was just with a Spanish magazine is doing a big project with me at the moment. And they were fascinated by this folder I've got of all my little notes, which are just pieces of paper that when I write things down, and they said, oh, what's this one?

51:10It says butterfly wings. And I said, oh, well, I just love the iridescent quality of a butterfly wing that's got this shine to it. So that, for me, interpreted into mercerising a cotton. Mercerising means to give it a shiny finish. just came from looking at a butterfly. So very strange. I'm sorry I'm a bit weird. No, it's very beautiful. I've learnt something today, mercerising. Never heard that before. Yeah, mercerised cotton. It gives it a shiny, crunchy quality. And if you look at the centre of a butterfly's wing, it's sort of very odd because there's two incorrect colours together often that go...

51:58Gosh, I could listen to you talk all day about creativity and staying true to yourself. I wonder, final question, what your lovely father, what do you think he'd make of you now? There were two things that impressed my dad with me. He never really knew exactly what I did, really. But when there was a little feature in the Beeston Gazette and Echo, which was the local newspaper, My mum and dad were very pleased. And then when I got the freedom of the city of Nottingham, they were very pleased. So he was pleased at those two things and a lot more probably. But I think he'd be pleased with my good manners.

52:43I'm sure he would. And I'm sure he'd be pleased that you worked out the irrigation system on the roof gardens. He'd be very pleased about that. Yeah, so was I, to be honest. I got this call one day from an emergency call that said that he was in our room where all the computers are. Is it overheating? I didn't even know we had a room with computers. Then I had to find out the code to get into the room. And then I had to find a fan and put the fan to try and cool it down. Then I opened the window and then a seagull tried to come in. And so I thought, I can't have you in here. So I had to close the door.

53:27So I thought, how can I get some wind into the room, air into the room? So I built out of wood a frame with gaps in it and put the wood there so the seagull couldn't get in, but the wind could get in. So we kept the whatever that big computer, probably worth a grillion pounds, kept cool. Is this during COVID as well? Yeah. Oh my gosh. So Paul, you are a phenomenon. You really are. You fix things and you make us all feel better while doing so. Thank you so much. You're welcome. Thank you for dressing me for many years and thank you for being here. Well, it's lovely to talk to you. Thank you. Oh, it's so lovely to talk to you too.

54:08Before you go, we're going to dive into some listener questions over on Failing With Friends. Recently, I had David Sedaris on and he gave some quite bold advice, particularly to a listener who was failing to feel content in their own life. So stay put and we'll do that next. Thank you so much for coming on How To Fail. Thank you. Bye.

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Sir Paul Smith is one of Britain’s most iconic fashion designers, renowned for his sharp tailoring and his sartorial flair. His clothes have an innate sense of mischief: brightly coloured linings, unexpected stripes and a determination never to take themselves too seriously. His devoted clients include Gary Oldman, Bill Nighy and Matty Healy, who wore a Paul Smith suit for his recent wedding.

Behind the stripes and the suits is a man with a simple life philosophy: stay humble, work hard, be kind. On this episode we talk about the cycling accident that set him on a path to fashion and how he’s kept his global business independent for 56 years. Plus, the secret to a long marriage, what tailoring teaches him about people’s insecurities - and why he wore a suit every day during the Covid lockdowns.

IN THIS EPISODE:

00:00 Intro

03:40 Tailoring for Everyone

06:48 The Pink Wall Story

08:31 Stripes and Reinvention

10:20 Turning 80

11:33 Cycling Freedom and Family

18:20 Crash That Changed Everything

24:20 Pauline Sets The Standard

25:19 Keeping Love And Work Balanced

26:19 Step Parenting And Playfulness

27:28 The Trap Of Comparison

32:43 Brexit COVID And Staying Independent

36:02 Choosing The Right Collaborations

37:21 Believing Your Own Hype

42:47 Creativity Legacy And Farewell

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Pauline [my wife] set the standard - it’s been very important for longevity.

A successful relationship is about balance. Knowing when to talk, when to listen… and have both feet on the ground.

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