Travis Kalanick's founder rule, why pushed kids lose, & what excellence really costs

24 Aug 2026 · 28 min · 8 chapters

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In short

Founder “pusher vs driver” roles, why pushed kids may underperform as adults, and how “excellence” is tied to tolerating pain and trade-offs in life.

Guests

Travis Kalanick (Uber co-founder; discusses VC dynamics and founder incentives). David Center (host; founder-focused podcast interviewer). Neil/“Yaniv” are referenced as co-hosts/mutual friends; one speaker describes being a founder/CEO without the title and having a co-founder named Mike Camo plus an executive team.

Key claims

Founders naturally push because they own large equity; “bench/VC” investing can be harmful (Kalanick’s quoted stance). It’s rare for both co-founders to be true drivers; one may “push” while a CEO “drives.” For kids, intense drilling can produce early excellence but fewer “superstars” later; forcing hated activities breeds resentment. Excellence is the capacity to take pain and keep improving.

Notable examples

Kalanick’s Uber/VC anecdotes; a tennis 14-year-old coached since age 4 who appears to hate training; a fisherman-in-Alaska story about not needing investors; reverse first-principles thinking to scale M&A integration beyond two deals/year.

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Chapters

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The Role of the Entrepreneur

0:56 to 5:22

Explore the significance of founders in driving company success and their unique challenges.

“So he had a conversation with David Center, who does the founders podcast, and this one's called David Center.”

Seasons of Entrepreneurship

5:23 to 7:48

Discuss the different phases in an entrepreneur's life and the importance of evolving roles.

“They're willing to put in$7 million of it, roughly.”

First Principles Thinking

7:49 to 12:20

Learn about reverse first principles thinking and how it can improve decision-making.

“We have different seasons of entrepreneurship.”

Diet and Protein Insights

13:26 to 14:00

Discuss the importance of protein intake and diet adjustments for fitness.

Diet and Protein Intake Insights

14:00 to 15:49

Learn about the importance of protein in diet and its impact on fitness.

“So for 20 years, I've had 200 grams of protein every single day.”

The Trade-offs in Life Decisions

15:50 to 17:48

Discuss the trade-offs involved in personal choices, including parenting and lifestyle.

“Some may be really minor, but I wouldn't want to restitute my life.”

Cultural Perspectives on Parenting

17:49 to 24:15

Explore cultural influences on parenting styles and the impact of pressure on children.

Defining Excellence and Suffering

24:16 to 26:40

Examine the concept of excellence and the role of suffering in personal and professional growth.

“I don't really have a definition of excellence.”
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0:56Eric Siu:that co-founder of Uber. So he had a conversation with David Center, who does the founders podcast, and this one's called David Center. But anyway, so there's a couple of lines in there that I think stick out that I think we can react to. He did actually say, I'll tell you one thing, don't put money into bench, don't let benchmark invest in you, right? Or in like Bill Gurley, like he's looking, he's talking about VCs, he's bad mouthing them because he got kicked out of his company because of that. Now, that has nothing to do with us. But I do want to talk about the true lifestyle of an entrepreneur.

1:22Eric Siu:And one of our mutual friends were I spent like nine hours playing tennis Monday through Wednesday, right? And we're just like, dude, like at the end of the day, one of the main things is the founder has to be involved, right? And the funny thing is, I think about you for a moment, right? Like, I think about one of our mutual friends. So he was out of the company for two years or so, okay? And when he was out of the company, his CEO was alone. He basically had like a dad was there, right? But when he came back in, it's almost like mom came back, right? And when mom came back, and you split the load, the company was able to move forward like that.

1:52Eric Siu:I think about you, I look at you, even though you don't really have a title at your company, I still look at you as a CEO because you're driving things. But I'm not the CEO. Whatever. You look at Elon Musk. He's not really the CEO, right? Like he's driving things. And remember, long time ago when he put money into Tesla, Elon said, I don't want to be a CEO. He's like, I never want to be the CEO, right? And then he realized to get things done, you have to have the CEO title, right? And then he's driving things that way. And he's not like a typical CEO. You'd agree with that, right? So I still like, despite you not having a title, you drive things like a CEO.

2:26Eric Siu:And I think Mike Camo, who's your co-founder, you both are the drivers, right? And I think it's so important to have, it's so helpful to have a co-founder there because when you only have one driver, right? It's a lot more difficult when you don't have mom and dad both there.

2:42Neil Patel:Yeah. That's why Y Combinator typically only invests in three people, founding teams or two, but it's either two or three. I haven't really, there must be some examples, but Y Combinator usually doesn't invest in a one-person-led or one-person founding team.

2:59Eric Siu:Yeah. You know what though? What's interesting is, I forgot, I was listening to another podcast recently and it was like, I think it was A6 News. I think it was, it might've been Ben Horowitz talking about this, right? What they've noticed is this. You might have two co-founders, you might have a technical co-founder and a founder, right? The founder might be more sales-led, marketing-led, And you have the product person. But usually what happens there is only one of them is the true driver. You usually don't have two drivers in the company, right? One of our mutual friends, I would say both of them are drivers.

3:26Eric Siu:I look at you and Mike, I would say both of you are drivers. It's actually fairly rare to have both of the co-founders being drivers. And you call it the pusher.

3:36Neil Patel:Yeah, I agree with you. So it's semantics here, but I think we're speaking the same thing. I look at it as I don't drive. I push. It's the same thing. A real life example of this. Or let's go back to driving. The reason I don't consider myself a driver is, and even Mike Camel, my co-founder, we genuinely don't run the business. The CEO runs everything. He knows so much more about the business than us. I would be in trouble without him being really honest. Although at this point, we have a big enough executive team. I'm not saying the CEO could be easily replaced. I don't agree with that. but he has built a really solid team underneath him and he has told me if something happens to him here are the few people who should help run the business he's been very explicit about that yep when i look at um mike camo and i i would say we're more pushers than anything else and i don't think mike knows what i do on a daily basis mike camo my ceo is also named mike so just trying to reduce confusion here.

4:42Neil Patel:And I also don't know what my co-founder does on a daily basis. We have ideas of what we're focusing on. But we're also in a point in our career where I don't think we're really grinders anymore. I don't have it in me to really grind it out. And I'll give you an example with Fuse. You know, Kellen, you met up with Kellen. We did dinner together. So Kellen and I were talking about doing a business together. there. They would fund it. We would end up creating a company that would help automate a lot of the work that marketing agencies are doing. He was down to fund it. I would own a large chunk of it.

5:21Neil Patel:If I wanted a bigger chunk, I would just put in some of the money that would be raised. Let's call it a$10 million round. They're willing to put in$7 million of it, roughly. I'm speaking on their behalf, but that's roughly what they would have put in for a first round for 20%. So 10 million, you lose 20%. So call it 40 million pre-money valuation 50 million posts. And I remember I was walking up and down in my driveway. My son was kicking the soccer ball to me. And you're ignoring it. I'm just kidding. I was half paying attention. I tend to kick the soccer ball within probably like four or five times a week.

5:57Neil Patel:I don't like when my daughter gets involved playing soccer with us. I know that sounds really bad to say I love my daughter, but my son and I do stuff we're not supposed to do. Like let's kick the soccer ball on the roof and see if we can get it stuck. And like, we'll break like shingles on the roof and do stuff that you're not supposed to do. But I have fun just messing around and like, let's kick the soccer ball into our balcony and like, we'll break furniture and pots. And I know that's a really bad example and we're wasting thousands of dollars, but I'm really bonding with my son and we're having a blast.

6:28Neil Patel:But I'm talking with him, I'm kicking the ball with my son and I'm like, he's i'm telling him like i'm at or i'm asking him like what's required of me and he's breaking down usually what people do in these kind of roles and i'm like dude i don't know if this is for me and he's like why not i'm like i gotta kind of answer to someone because i have investors even though i'm an lp in his fund yeah and well it's work yeah so i was just like i gotta sign up for all this kind of work and i'm like this isn't me and he was just laughing he's just like I know, but he's like, it's a big opportunity. I'm like, yeah, I'm like, he's like, I respect it.

7:04Neil Patel:And I'm like, look, dude, I don't mind writing you checks for your venture fund. And you guys can invest my money in other places like they do with a lot of other investors. I don't want to do the work.

7:12Eric Siu:But here's a side thing, right? So you've heard of the story before where there's a fisherman in Alaska. He's very successful, right? He's fishing all these fish. And then the investor comes up and is like, dude, let me invest in your, let's build this into a company, right? And the fisherman's like, well, why do I need that? Well, what we're going to do is we're going to expand. And then we're going to build this into a huge multi-billion dollar operation, right? And then the fisherman's like, well, then what am I going to do after that? Right? He's like, well, then you can do what you're doing.

7:36Eric Siu:Like you can chill and you can catch fish every day. He's like, well, I'm already doing that right now, right? So the point is you've already worked. And this is not saying don't work hard. Like Neil's already paid his dues. He's already worked very hard. He's just not in that season anymore. We have different seasons of entrepreneurship. But going back to this, if we think about, when I think about driver pusher at the end of the day, the reason why I think the founder is so important is because the founder is naturally incentivized to care the most. And that's because naturally you have a big chunk of the company, right?

8:06Eric Siu:And so of course you're going to push the most. Of course you're going to drive. And our mutual friend was talking about another friend that we knew. And we've talked to those before. We have a lot of people that they will hire someone and then get out of their way completely. And I think that's one of the biggest fallacies, I think, in entrepreneurship, because we know someone on Twitter that likes to talk about how he owns all these different businesses and all that, right? And not even he, or it could be a she as well. But to say you're going to sit out of the business and not push, I think is broken.

8:36Eric Siu:And the reason why I'm even bringing this up right now, because we're talking about that clip, right? So this is what Travis Kalanick says. The lifestyle of an entrepreneur at its core is I can take more pain than the other guy and I'll prove it. There's a Zen that can happen when a warrior has fought for a long time, you can get used to it right and so by the way if you and i put through poo poo moments right now we deal with them pretty well right unless someone tries to screw you over and like you know maybe you're buying something at a store that's a different story then you lose your your stuff

9:02Neil Patel:so yeah i actually get upset on that end but normally i haven't really i don't ever have a temper um or get upset i i used to as a kid but i do get upset when someone tries to pull one on me and screw me over uh but you were spot on to go back to the pusher and the driver i went through this this week because when we look at M &A at my company, two deals a year is no problem. When you start doing three, four, five, six deals a year, it puts a lot of burden on the team and it makes more work on the integration and it's just harder, especially if you do them in the same regions. But right now, I have an LOI out for a company in Latin America, which I think we'll go through.

9:51Neil Patel:We have terms agreed upon in one company in the United States, which I think we'll go through. We're in negotiation with one company in France, and we've already discussed pricing and everything, and they want to sell to us. So I think if we want it, it would go through. There's one in Germany that I want, my team wants, but how many deals can you end up doing? And we think that one's probably one of the better ones. And then there's another one in the US that has some hair on it, but they work with our ideal customers in a service that we don't do a ton of. But the business isn't growing like a hockey stick, but you combine both.

10:37Neil Patel:They work with our ideal customers. They don't sell all the services we sell. We don't really sell. Yeah, we can make the math work out on that so roughly i don't know how many of them will go through but it's more than two and you're talking about in a period of six months where maybe three on the low end five on the high end right and i'm still building the pipe but i keep telling my team i'm like you can do it right why not and i keep pushing them and i remember them saying two we don't need to do more than two a year it becomes really hard to now my team is coming back to me like yeah this third one's not bad yeah maybe this fourth one too and they're changing their attitude because it's a muscle yes i keep pushing and pushing and getting them you so i'm like i'm like i instead of saying hey i get you can't do it all right let's do only two i start asking why is it that people only do one or two a year what are the bottlenecks what's the main reason behind this What are the big things that I'm missing and I'm not thinking through?

11:37Neil Patel:And then they break it down. I'm like, then how would you solve for that? Oh, this is how I solved for it in the past. And this is what we do. We'd build a pure integration team that just focuses on X, Y, and Z. And then it becomes more manageable. I'm like, okay, then go do all of that.

11:49Eric Siu:So this is what we call reverse first principles thinking. And I just came up with it. So, you know, Elon likes to talk about, you know, I think about from first principles. Jensen Huang, I like to think about from first principles. And what that really means, by the way, for everyone, when you think about a rocket, right? The Russians were trying to charge Elon an arm and a leg to buy these rockets back in the day, like$6 million or something. And then Elon's like, well, what actually needs to go into a rocket? Well, actually, the components actually lead up to about 300 grand or so. So you actually end up saving like what, like 95 % plus, right?

12:19Eric Siu:Something like that, right? But he broke it down to the first principles components. This is the same thing here. What's required to get a deal done? That's what you're basically asking your team. When I say reverse, you're basically putting on your team to think from first principles. Now, Neil doesn't read these things. I'm just giving it. But that's what he's doing intuitively, which is amazing, right? But this is no different than like we look at Noah over here. He's got a six pack, right? He's working out all the time. But you're just stacking on a little more weight each week, a little more weight, a little more weight.

12:48Eric Siu:And eventually it's like, oh, damn. Yeah, I can actually put up 225. Like easy. No problem, right? And, you know, there's a lot of examples like that.

12:55Neil Patel:But I can't do it. He doesn't have a six pack.

12:57Eric Siu:I don't think I would ever achieve that. Well, that's because you don't eat enough. We can talk about you for a moment. I would have to eat less to get rid of body fat. How many grams of protein do you get for a day? Real quick, if you want to acquire customers faster and more efficiently this year with the latest strategies and tactics, then check out singlegrain.com. That is my ad agency. Again, www.singlegrain.com. Check it out. And if it seems like a fit, we'll get in touch and help you with a free marketing plan. Recently or when I try?

13:26Neil Patel:When you try. When I try maybe 80 to 100. It's not enough. you're like 120 right i weigh 125 this morning so so this is so here's the hack for you okay this

13:36Eric Siu:is funny so you guys can go to chick-fil-a okay go to chick-fil-a you get the 24 pieces you will actually get 76 grams of protein on 24 pieces and it's only 400 calories right and it's not that

13:46Neil Patel:expensive either but i don't care for a six pack you don't need a six pack but you need more macros

13:51Eric Siu:you need if there's anything you know what's funny um uh hormozy he when there's a period of time where he's making these videos like workout videos and things like that right and he's like you know So for 20 years, I've had 200 grams of protein every single day. And literally, he'll eat like a giant tub of like, you know, Greek yogurt and all that. Yeah. But the thing is this. He'll get his 200 grams and he'll eat whatever he wants, like cupcakes, dinner, dessert and all that. Right. And so as long as you get your macros, like it shouldn't be a problem for you because you're already at the right weight.

14:18Eric Siu:And this is not a workout podcast, but I'm pretty sure if you wanted to get it, you just need to, you know, adjust your diet a little bit. Right. Right. Noah. See.

14:25Neil Patel:But I don't want to adjust my diet.

14:27Eric Siu:Your diet is fine. It's fine.

14:29Neil Patel:Yeah. Yeah, no, overall I eat pretty healthy, but I agree with you. I do work out enough. I don't eat enough protein. And just in general, if I get 100 grams of protein a day, I'm happy. And my goal is to get there. And I think I can consistently get there. I don't know if I can get enough protein to build like mass and muscle, but I'm okay just having 100 grams and eating sort of healthy. I think 100 is perfect

14:53Eric Siu:because 100, you'll be satiated. It's already like 80, more than 80%. That's all you really need. I think some people like it's got to be one-to-one, but honestly, 80 % is fine.

15:01Neil Patel:Yeah. So even 70%, I don't think it's the end of the world. Well, I don't want, and this is the problem with, I think some people who are in fitness, I was talking to someone the other day and he's, he was just like, dude, I'm more jacked than ever. Cause my friend was at a gym, Curtis, you know, Curtis. Oh yeah. Curtis was at a gym. He sends me a picture of another guy that I know. And the other guy, I don't, I'm not that close to him or anything like that, but he sends me a picture of him. So I text the guy and I text him and I was just like messing around, you know, my personality. So I text him like, you're looking a little weak there, bro.

15:35Neil Patel:Yeah. Yeah. And the guy's in pretty good shape. He has a six pack. He posts images of his six pack online. I don't follow him. I think that's, you can post whatever you want on, but I think to some extent it starts becoming a little douchey. Just my own two cents. I've told him this too. Yeah. and as he's responding to me and i'm just joking he's like dude i'm more uh ripped than ever i'm taking repetitide or repetitide it's something like that okay it's like this peptide yeah yeah

16:07Eric Siu:i think it's like a ozempic alternative it's like a gop one yeah it's powerful it's a little too

16:11Neil Patel:powerful and he's telling me he's like he's like i now have my bottom six pack i never had the bottom i only had the top two yeah and he's like you're gonna send your picture like no i don't you know pictures or anything like that so he's going in real in-depth and i'm telling him i was like why would you want to take this medicine to just get your bottom six pack like to me you're already in good enough shape he's like dude this medicine's really good for you and all this and i just stopped the conversation i'm like you should google it whatever it is there's side effects it causes mood problems that one well not just mood problems yeah you can't take drugs and medicine or a magic pill and expect it to not have many side effects.

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16:54Neil Patel:Some may be really minor, but I wouldn't want to restitute my life.

16:57Eric Siu:One of my favorite quotes in business or life in general is there are no solutions, only trade-offs. Yes. So everything has a trade-off, right? There's no perfect thing. You live in a big house, guess what? There's a trade-off, right? You have bugs. You live in a high-rise, right? You don't have to deal with bugs, right? But then there's a high-rise. You have to go all the way. There's a trade-off to everything.

17:15Neil Patel:Dude, you're so right. There's a trade-off in every decision you end up making in life.

17:21Eric Siu:Let's do kids versus no kids. You have kids, like you're very happy, right? But sometimes like, you know, this is a good trade-off, right? Like you have to take care of them. There's a lot of work that goes into it, but it's worth it, right? Now on the flip side, I don't have kids, but I'm like, man, the grass is greener. Like I wish I do have kids, right? But there's always the trade-off that comes with it, right? And you have to decide what's acceptable to you, what isn't acceptable to you.

17:41Neil Patel:Kids are short-term, not a short-term. It's a long-term pain, but in the longer, longer run, like when they're older it gets much better i think it's short-term pain because 18 years goes by so quickly and then long-term years is a long time dude look at how fast how long have we known

17:57Eric Siu:each other 10 years 15 15 16 years look at how fast the time has gone yeah time has gone by yeah

18:04Neil Patel:so it's it's fast 16 years that's a long time yeah no how long have we known each other to 2017

18:09Eric Siu:almost 10 10 years look at that it was like yesterday when i met him right yeah so anyway but you know what's interesting so i was playing tennis the other day i want to show you this because remember we're talking about um the lobo laureates right when you when you're like a the what nobel laureate oh nobel laureate right so uh performance of physics and chemistry nobel laureates and nominees right so remember we talked about um kids that get pushed really hard so i'm chinese right uh and then neil's neil's indian right so um growing up in my culture because i grew up in like a chinese dominant area taiwanese more specifically um the parents push them really hard so um yaniv and i were watching um this girl playing tennis because we were walking up to the tennis courts on tuesday or so right the first thing that yaniv noticed like dude she's really freaking good right this is like a 14 year old you know what the first thing i noticed was she's asian no no dude like that is the first thing i noticed yes i guess but but but like as as yaniv's admiring her skill she's really good at age 14 i was looking at her i'm like she hates it and and then he's like what do you mean i'm like and then i walked up to to the coach that see her playing a lot i'm like she hates it doesn't he he's like yeah he's like how could like most like you're the only one that's noticed like everyone notices how good she is the first thing you called out was how much she hates it because i'm looking at her body language she's hitting it hard like she's doing she's doing really well the coach is coming out hard on it we can keep doing this all day like if you want to do this we can do this like she does not give a damn she's just like looking at the floor when she's like in between sets she's just like looking at her hands or whatever.

19:40Eric Siu:And the coach we're talking to is like, I've seen that girl coach up since she was four years old to 14 years old. Right. And she has cried all the time. She has never in one second or one minute even looked like she enjoyed it. And I'm looking at the dad. I'm like, Hey, what's her last name? By the way, he gives me their last name, Jing. I'm like, Oh, they're Chinese, right? I could say this because I'm Chinese, right? I'm like, that is an example of a tiger parent that's pushed them so hard. But remember, we saw this study before where if you have like elite kid that that learns piano or they learn tennis they become number one the issue with that is they're so narrow-minded that they actually end up average later because they never actually enjoyed it and the people that are more well-rounded that are like exploring all the time they actually end up being top one percent they never had to try that hard and so like i'm looking at that i'm like man it's like as much as like i i want to be a dad right but it's like i look at the parenting piece.

20:32Eric Siu:And it's like, dude, trying to drive, trying to drive, I think your company is one thing, but trying to drive your kids is another thing. And you're a parent, right? And maybe it's too early for you to say, but I'm actually curious to see what you would say here. Because again, like, look, same individuals, elite university and top 5 % late twenties, only 15 % of those people actually become elite. The other 85 % comes from people that weren't pushed that hard growing up. I thought that was fascinating.

20:58Neil Patel:Yeah. So my wife and I have this philosophy when it comes to raising children or our kids specifically, if they don't want to do something and they've never done it, we push them to it and we actually do force them to try it out. If they try something out and they hate it, we don't keep pushing them to do it over and over again. And to be very specific, if they try it once and they say they hate it, but we think they're good at it, or the coach says they're really good at it and they have potential, or we think they may like it, we push them to do it one or two more times. But if they keep saying after three times, they don't like it, they don't want to do it, we don't make them do it.

21:41Neil Patel:Even if that sport or that activity would be like, this gets you in a ride into Harvard or Stanford, and I'm making up the school, I don't care. I don't understand why people force their kids to do something that you know they hate because like your childhood memory should be some of your best memories. You shouldn't have resentment for your parents for making you do stuff that you hate. Now, on the flip side, if they have to do homework and they hate doing homework, I will force them to do it because there's certain things that are good for them like eating balanced meals. and we'll still give them ice cream and stuff here and there, but eating balanced meals, doing your homework, reading books before you go to sleep every single night.

22:24Neil Patel:And we make it fun. If our kids don't want to read, why don't you want to read? Oh, you find this boring? Well, let me go find different books that you actually will like and I'll read it to you and eventually you'll see other people reading than you're going to want to read too. But I just believe it's a really bad parenting model to just force your kids into something like tennis because you know it's a great ticket for them to get into a good college when they hate it.

22:47Eric Siu:So what I would say is this, because Yaniv was asking me, our mutual friend was asking me, he's like, so why does this happen, right? I was like, because in Asian cultures, like if you can get through this, if you can get through the suck here, the whole idea is that you have the wherewithal to get through anything tough, right? Because if you've gone through like 10, 15 years of this pain, right? But to your point, I actually subscribe to your point. There's no point in making, I think the goal of not even kids, but just in life in general, is just learn and explore things. And there's some things that you like, some things that you hate.

23:18Eric Siu:So let me read the study to you real quick and then we can move on. So this study was led by Arne Gulick. I'm butchering it. But a sports scientist at the RPTU University in Germany. They crunched data on more than 34 ,000 elite performers, Neil. So including sports, chess, classical music, and academia. And including that, although they often reach a high level, the best performing, most intensely drilled teenagers tend to not become true superstars as adults. Those who do make that grade by contrast tend to not stand out early on. They take longer to reach their peaks and seem to keep their interests wider for longer.

23:53Eric Siu:So I just think that's really interesting. And I think at work, certainly be the driver. I think in other areas, maybe not so much. But that was eye-opening to me because in that moment, I was like, okay, maybe I don't wanna push my kids, my future kids that hard because seeing her suffer like that was painful so yep and on a random

24:12Neil Patel:remember i talked about the person who's taking those drugs and there's always sex with you he just texted me he's like getting ripped he's at the gym with his shirt off i'm like why are you texting me a picture i'm like i don't know this guy does it start with the n no you don't know i don't know him well either i met him at a conference a few times and spoke to this guy

24:29Eric Siu:i'm like dude don't send me this crap that's funny that's funny um by the way one more quote from uh So the, remember the four seasons quote? No. Neil, what do you define excellence as?

24:45Neil Patel:I don't really have a definition of excellence. All right, go for it.

24:49Eric Siu:So defined by the four seasons founder, okay? Excellence is the capacity to take pain, right? And that's why Travis Kalanick is like everything that you go through, like you think about a marathon runner, for example, right? If they're smiling at mile 21, they're not a true killer, right? They need to be grinding through it. Because if you start to let up at that point, someone else is going to come and eat your lunch, right? And it's crazy to me because to your point on like, Travis Kalanick is post-economic, but he's still grinding so hard, right? He wants to work on harder and harder problems over time.

25:19Eric Siu:And, you know, some people are built differently. I don't think there's any right or wrong way to entrepreneur, but, you know, suffering is built into it. And so.

25:28Neil Patel:Yes. When I look at excellence, I didn't really think too much about suffering. I look at it as you're never really excellent. To me, excellence is like continually trying to improve and get better and never really being satisfied with what was achieved. Isn't improving a lot of pain? That's true. To go through it, you are suffering because you're always trying to achieve more and more. You almost have to enjoy it.

25:51Eric Siu:Yeah.

25:52Neil Patel:Like that's why we've become a little numb to it over time. And I can't speak specifically for Travis because I don't know him. But what I found, and he's much more successful than I am, once entrepreneurs have made enough money a lot of them still do more because it's not about the money it's about purpose in life but the grind that they have later on usually isn't as nearly as much of a grind as they had before they really started making i mean look at bill gates do you think he grinds anymore no even travis like i do think he works hard i'm not doubting that people say i work hard i don't think and again i'm just taking a guess here i don't know him i don't think he works as hard as he did when he first founded Uber.

26:34Eric Siu:Probably not. Also, you have a lot more leverage when you're a little older, right? Like the success that he's had, the team that he has now and all of that. So that's what I would say. So anyway, that's it for today. And we'll catch you later.

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Eric and Neil open on Travis Kalanick's take on founders, and end up somewhere much less comfortable: the research says the people pushed hardest early on are rarely the ones who end up best. They get into what founder drive actually is, why the two of them handle being crossed differently, how first-principles thinking changes a deal, and the Four Seasons founder's brutal one-line definition of excellence.

Key takeaways

◾Being a founder is about pushing, not driving. The title on the org chart is not what makes it work.

◾Across 34,000 top performers, early standouts and eventual world-class performers are almost never the same people.

◾Excellence, per the Four Seasons founder, is the capacity to take pain. Suffering is built into the job.

Chapters

00:00 Founder Drive

04:20 Seasons of Work

08:32 What Actually Makes Them Angry

11:53 First Principles Dealmaking

13:58 Protein and Macros

16:25 Trade-Offs Everywhere

17:55 Tiger Parent Pressure

20:27 Raising Without Resentment

24:01 Defining Excellence

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