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Podcast Summary: Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Episode Title
Kat Von D on Good Business and Bad Contracts
Podcast Overview
- Host: Nicole Lapin
- Description: Aimed at breaking the taboo surrounding money discussions, Money Rehab offers accessible financial advice in bite-sized episodes.
- Episode Duration: Approximately 10 minutes
Episode Description In this episode, Kat Von D, famous for her appearances on *Miami Ink* and *LA Ink*, shares her journey from being an outsider to becoming a successful entrepreneur. Kat discusses her early experiences, the mistakes made along the way, including bad contracts, and her pursuit of peace and sobriety. This episode is intended for listeners seeking inspiration and tools for transforming their passions into careers.
Key Themes and Discussions
- Background and Early Years
- Insider Perspective: Kat shares her upbringing in a missionary family and her experiences feeling like an outsider, which later influenced her career choices.
- Cultural Identity: The conversation touches on her Mexican and Argentine heritage and how it shaped her identity.
- Journey into Tattoos and Punk Rock
- Early Interests: Kat's love for punk rock and tattoos began in her youth, where she felt a strong sense of belonging within the punk community.
- First Tattoo: At age 14, she did her first tattoo, showcasing her natural artistic abilities despite lacking formal training.
- Transition to Professional Tattooing
- Tattoo Shop Experience: At 16, Kat entered a tattoo shop, where she honed her skills and learned from experienced artists, leading to her successful career.
- Mastery and Recognition: It took nearly a decade for her to feel grounded in her craft, reinforcing the idea that mastery requires time and perseverance.
- Television and Fame
- Television Breakthrough: Kat discusses her initial reluctance to join a tattoo-themed TV show and the challenges she faced while navigating reality television.
- Impact of Reality TV: The shift in television from documenting artistry to sensationalism altered her perspective on media and personal branding.
- Business Ventures and Lessons Learned
- Makeup Line: Kat’s makeup line was seen as an extension of her brand, but the growth became overwhelming, leading her to ultimately step back.
- Ownership and Contracts: The discussion highlights the importance of understanding contracts and retaining ownership of one's brand to avoid future pitfalls.
- Personal Growth and Sobriety
- Turning Point: Kat recounts her journey to sobriety and how it transformed her life and work ethic.
- Artistic Integrity: She emphasizes the need for authenticity in both personal and professional life, advocating for self-empowerment.
- Evolving Perspectives on Work and Family
- Balancing Family Life: Kat discusses her desire to create a nurturing environment for her son, blending her entrepreneurial spirit with family life.
- Home and Community: The search for a simpler life away from Hollywood highlights the importance of community and family values.
Key Takeaways
- Follow Your Passion but Be Practical: While chasing dreams is essential, understanding market realities and personal strengths can guide successful career transitions.
- The Importance of Documentation: Keeping records of one's journey can serve as both a historical reference and a source of personal pride.
- Financial Empowerment: Financial independence enables individuals, particularly women, to make choices and stand up for their self-worth.
- Mentorship and Support: Seeking guidance from those with more experience can help navigate complex industries and prevent costly mistakes.
Conclusion Kat Von D’s story exemplifies resilience, creativity, and the complexities of navigating the world of entrepreneurship. Her insights into contracts, personal growth, and the balance of work and family provide meaningful lessons for listeners looking to follow their passions while making informed financial decisions.
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3:14If your dream job lands in front of you, you'd take it, right? You might even take it no questions asked without reading the fine print. That's exactly what happened to Kat Von D, tattoo artist and entrepreneur. Kat recently sat down with Nelly Galan on her M &N podcast Moneymaker, Mi Mundo Rico, to talk about the dreamy contract she signed that turned into a complete and utter nightmare and how she got out of it. If you know Kat from Miami Inc. and LA Inc., you are in for a surprise because she is so much more than what you saw on TV. And for anyone interested in turning their hobby into a jobby, Kat is the master and has lessons for days.
3:55Welcome to Moneymaker, the podcast that gives you the tools to enrich your life in every sense of the word. I'm your host, Nelly Gallant. Let's get started. So Kat Mundy, I'm so, I can't even believe I'm here with you. you have i mean you're latina i'm latina so you can imagine that latinos follow other latinos and i've just loved everything you've done now you're a singer yeah you're a goat tattoo you're the goat in tattoo and you also have had my favorite makeup line i'm obsessed and you've just done so many businesses so i'm just so happy to have you here oh thank you what comes up for me with you because we're both latinas and you're very american yeah is you know that saying follow your bliss and the money will come.
4:39Yeah. Which is very Joseph Campbell. And I think that as Latinas, we also know that that's a little bit entitled and true, but not true because, you know, you follow your bliss. There are many blisses of your life. Some make money and some don't. Yeah. Yeah. You have followed all your blisses and, and also you've done parallel lives where you made money in different ways. So super excited to get the whole scoop from you. So, you know, you were born in Mexico, which I don't know if a lot of people know that about you. I don't think a lot of people know that I'm Latina. That you're Latina, man. You're so Latina.
5:10And your parents were like Argentinos and then they moved to Mexico and then you came from Mexico here. Yeah. I have to ask you because I left school when I was 15 and you left school very young. You're like my parallel life sister. Yes, parallel life. And so my parents lost it. Yeah. And so I know that the Latino parents must have freaking lost it. Yeah. So can you tell us what happened? Yeah. So I was born in Mexico. I was born in a little pueblito que se llama Montemorelos. Yes, of course. It's right next to Monterrey. So, you know, it's like. Norteña. Yeah. From the northern part of Mexico.
5:42Yeah. But my family is from Argentina. So we're all kind of mixed up. But my parents were missionaries for the church. So my dad was building hospitals in these little towns where there was no access to hospitals. Just, you know, doing amazing work. And I'm so grateful for that because to me, like my heart is in Mexico. That's like my motherland. So, and I love Argentina too. I'm not, you know, dismissing that side either. But, you know, the way that I speak Spanish is a lot more Mexican. I mean, it's mixed, but you know, so many people don't, they think Latinos are all the same. Yeah. And we all have different accents.
6:12It's like America where you have a Southern accent and whatever. And so it is a little different. Yeah. And then we moved to America in the eighties. I was like, you know, five or six. And then we moved to a little town called Loma Linda, which is two hours, you know, east of LA. And, you know, my parents, they weren't Americanized at all, you know, and I, which I love, you know and my siblings and we we led a pretty humble like modest life went to church you know on the sabbath we were sent the evidence so when i when i started you know falling into the tattoo world i don't think people realize latinos are not into tattoos no i'm now it's a lot more but back then i mean no it's like it's like almost like the only the only two people that get tattoos are like bandilleros or prostitutes yeah it's prostitutes or these gang members right So they really see it as, and by the way, I got into the entertainment business, which to them is, you know, in Latin America, if you're in the entertainment, it's prostitution.
7:11So Latinos don't get it. Yeah, yeah. So I can't imagine your parents during this period. What happened is I got into punk rock music. And so I think that to me spoke on a very like profound level, like just this feeling of being an outsider. And I've always felt that. I felt that within my own family unit. I never really felt like I fit into a lot of places. And, and I don't know if part of that is that like, I am mixed. So it's kind of like, I don't fit in here. I don't fit in there. Like where do I belong? And then this kind of revolutionary music to me was like embraced all of that. And I love that.
7:43It wasn't anything having to do with rebelling. It was more about embracing that like we're outsiders and it's okay. And so I shaved my head into a Mohawk and I think my parents just, that was worse than the tattoos, you know? And because for them, it's like, how are we going to explain it to the church? You know? And I get it. It was very in your face. And at that time there wasn't, you know, people weren't dying their hair. Like this was not considered acceptable. I gave them probably a lot of white hairs, but you know, now they've seen, you know, what I've done with my life and they're very proud of me, but you know, I've apologized for the hell that I put them through and stuff, but that's part of having kids.
8:19Yeah. Well, when you have kids, you realize it, but I think you're talking about something also very important that when you come from another place and you come into this country and then you're a little bit of americana yeah whatever that version of americana is you do feel like weird yeah but in a weird way it's a building block toward a business because sure you also know you understand differences in people and you understand desires in people yeah and you can code switch yeah totally between a latino culture and a this and the punk culture yeah yeah so i look at that in your trajectory yeah yeah no i love that switching yeah i love that yeah that is true.
8:56I mean, I've always, you know, when it comes to building a brand or any kind of project that I, you know, pour myself into, I really come at it from the perspective of being a fan. I know that things can become corporate and they can become big and mainstream, but at the end of the day, I'm a fan of music. I'm the person that will stand in line and buy a ticket. You know, I will buy the artwork. And so if I don't want it, why would I make it? You know, and even though what I like might not be what everybody likes, I know that I'm not alone. There's other people that are outsiders that can relate.
9:25So how did you go from loving punk and loving tattoos for yourself to turning tattoos into a business for you? So I was 14 when I did my first tattoo and I know I did it. I'm cringing for your parents already. Well, it's crazy because I have a son now and he's four and I can't imagine him doing half of the things that I was doing, you know, just like, like living on my own at such an early age and running away and moving across the country on a Greyhound bus and smoking cigarettes. You and our twins. Yeah. I just grew up too fast. So, you know, again, I don't think I would necessarily change a lot of things about, you know, my path, but it's interesting.
10:03I'm like, man, at 14, I already knew what I wanted to do. And basically my neighborhood punk rock friend had this like homemade tattoo machine. He said, Hey, you know, I was, I was painting on, on like punk rock jackets at the time. And he's like, you're really good. You know, you draw really well. So you're really an artist. Yeah. I mean, I've always been drawing since I was a kid. My mom said since I could hold a pencil. So he said, Hey, you should tattoo me. And I said, okay. And I didn't know anything about the tattoo industry. I didn't have a point of reference. And I think that that was kind of a good thing.
10:31Most people go through traditional apprenticeship where somebody that's more experienced shows them how to tattoo. And for me, I had no idea what was bad or what was good. I was just doing it. It's kind of liberating in that sense, but I tracked down the first tattoo I ever did. And I, to photograph it when I came out with my first book and oh my god it was like the art was there the heart was there but the the skill and technique the equipment was not there you know so poor person that got that yeah but it also too i mean you know he's that now he has a cat monday tattoo the original yeah so yeah so then i got into my first tattoo shop when i was 16 and that's kind of when i had unlearned a lot of ghetto habits that i picked up along the way and it was you know kind of refreshing to be around like bikers who it wasn't about a business.
11:16It was like, we lived for this art. It's like, yes, it's a profession. Yes. It's a job. It means to the end, but that's not why we do it. You know, we don't do it because we have to do it because we, we, we need to, you know, it's like in you. And I think that's like such an exciting thing. And I don't like to use the word blessing because it's like so contrived sometime, but I really feel blessed that I got to know at an early age what I wanted to do. So then I went to school. I was going to, I went to junior high and then I went to my first two weeks of high school, my freshman year. And then I already knew I wanted to do this for the rest of my life.
11:49So I just dropped out much to my parents' dismay and then dedicated myself to tattooing. And so in that period that you dedicate yourself, because there's one thing of, you know, loving something and then mastering it. So how long did it take you to really feel like grounded in that mastery? A little bit less than 10 years. See? Yeah. I've been hearing that a lot from people. I mean, for me, I didn't make money for 10 years and then it all, I made money. I remember the point where I was like, oh, um, this is becoming second nature. Right. In the beginning I would do tattoos and I'm like, I'm doing a good job, but I could do better and you can always do better.
12:27But there's a point where you're like, okay, I'm doing a portrait tattoo and it really resembles the original or, you know, and it's, it's, I feel satisfied. I feel comfortable in your skin doing it. Like I don't feel afraid in any way. And so I think that took a little longer, but along the way I was making money. I was providing for my family. I was taking on a lot of responsibilities that teenagers shouldn't have to, you know, just growing up way too fast. So you're, you're learning all this. And then how does the first TV show come up? Yeah. So the TV show was interesting. At that point I was already doing portraits and I was already booked out for almost like two years in advance.
12:59It was just, uh, I was really doing great. People in the tattoo world become obsessed with a specific artist. Well, yeah. Um, I mean, I wouldn't call it obsessed. I think that there's an artist for everybody. You know, I have weaknesses. There's things that I don't do because I'm not good at them. And you should go to those people who mastered that, you know, genre of tattooing. But yeah, a lot of people become very loyal to their artists or to a certain style, you know, like I personally always loved black and realism. So that's kind of what I gravitated towards. So I was tattooing, I was in my twenties at that point and I was tattooing at a shop in Hollywood.
13:31You know, I was drinking a lot at the time and partying as 20 year olds do. And I was, I think I was in Finland actually, like at a metal concert, there was like a festival and I was tattooing a bunch of metal bands. And I got the call saying that they wanted me to come out to do this tattoo show. And I was like, who's going to watch that? That's so stupid. Like so boring. Cause we just sit there and we just do this. and that's like the world's most boring show. But then there was a part of me that was like, at the time there was not a lot of female tattooers, you know, I could probably name all of them on two hands.
14:02You know, I felt like a certain sense of responsibility because I know how networks are and like, you're, they're going to hire people based on looks versus like what they're capable of doing. There was a little bit of gatekeeping, I guess, in that sense. And so I said, okay, I'm going to give it a try. And I showed up and, you know, I wasn't familiar with the other artists. Like we didn't know each other and I don't think we had a great chemistry at all. So it was not fun. You know, it was like, I didn't connect with the people in Miami because it's, it's very, it's different. It's different.
14:31Like, you know, I really stuck out like a sore thumb, not in a good way, you know? And so I felt, I felt, I felt very isolated and alone, to be honest, I didn't have any friends. And I started just really like diving deeper into my addiction, you know, as a form of coping. And so I started doing a lot of drugs at that time. and at one point I just had enough I just had to get out of it so I got offered my own tv show they want to do a spin-off show in LA LA Inc I agreed to it mainly because it nullified my first contract which I signed completely drunk and it just had a lot of things where I was like signing rights away that you know I should have had a lawyer present I didn't know because I was a young kid and and so I said okay well now I've grown up and I've got a lawyer and I know what I'm gonna do and so I built this shop and shortly after that is when I got sober and that is really when my life turned around and that's like I won't be too preachy about it but it is a big part of my story it's like when I first started tattooing I made an agreement with myself where I said if anything ever gets in the way of my passion that gets cut out during that time I broke up with boyfriends like if they you know they felt I worked too much or whatever it was and then when I realized that like drinking and drugs was getting in the way that's when I was like, I got to break up with drinking and drugs.
15:43And overnight I just stopped. I like cut out all my friends that I drank with and deleted all my drug dealers. Like I stopped going to the places where I used to go. And it was again, this kind of lonely place to be in because I was like figuring out, I didn't have any real friends, you know, even like when I look back at like certain production, when I was filming and I'm like, Oh, they liked me better when I was drunk or when I was wild. Well, because that's good TV, right? That's good ratings. Yeah. And now I like, you know, when people are like, Oh, I watched Ellie and I'm like, like, I get like a little bit cringy because you know, I've grown up a lot.
16:16I'm 40 now. So it's like, I was in my twenties and thirties during that time. So I like myself a lot better now than I was then, but I was really grateful for the opportunity to be on TV because a, I'm not afraid of documenting things. I think documenting things is amazing. I'm like a really crazy obsessive archiver. So So I archive everything. Like I own the first five of everything I've ever made. And we have everything like neatly archived. And I have every line drawing for every tattoo I've ever done. So to me, documenting my life for that decade was amazing. I think that's a really interesting point.
16:52You know, I've spent a lot of time at the Library of Congress. And I noticed the common denominator between successful people is they keep their archives. Yeah. You know, it's so interesting. you know george washington and lincoln kept everything in their life and i think that that's just something interesting to hear from you yeah it's true it's almost like you know yeah that you're gonna need it yeah or i don't know why it's like i think i think at the time i you know i was like i'm never gonna have kids i'm married to my job and all that stuff and i thought like i'm not passing this down to anybody but is this like a legacy is this like my mark you know and to a certain degree and also i get emotionally attached to like you know nostalgia yeah so i like seeing the the growth like i have like the first drawings from when i was a child up until now and it's like wow like i got better and that's like something to be proud of of course but it's interesting because you do a tv show and what no matter what we say let's be honest a tv show is a commercial for your brand yeah of course and it does create a whole other parallel track for you business wise that you could never have scaled to the degree that you scaled it.
17:57So can we talk a little bit about that? I will say that like times have changed since I've been on TV. Like I don't think people watch TV the same way they did as back then. So back then, I mean, we were competing with like shows like Sopranos and then my heart really just kind of broke up with television once it turned into reality because we were like a docu-series at first. It was like more documenting tattoos and the stories behind them. And then it turned into like, okay, now we're competing with Jersey Shore. And there's something for everybody, you know, like there's, I'm not knocking that at all.
18:28I just think like, that's not what I do. And like, I don't have that within me to like make that kind of television. So I saw myself kind of growing out of it at that time. I think like whatever you put out into the world is what you're going to get. So whatever it is that you want to do, put more of that out there, you know? So I don't understand people like on Instagram or on social media now, like putting garbage out or just things that are fleeting because I'm like, that's what you put out. It's what you're going to be demanded of, you know? So like, to me, I like to put out what I like to create.
18:56So I love reading. I love writing. So I started writing books and then I learned how to photograph. And then I started, I photographed my second book. And then I was actually approached for my makeup line. That was never something that I was like, I want to have a makeup line, but actually, but when, you know what, when I saw it, I was like, what a cool kind of brand extension in a weird way because look you have great makeup yourself but also you i don't know i thought your makeup line was very tied like the way you even named yeah like tattoo eyeliner and it was just very appropriate yeah it's a form of self-expression and that's what i was selling i wasn't selling like a beauty standard because i'm like you know a beauty standard you know but it to me it's more just but it was vegan so that's something that was weren't you?
19:37Yeah. I mean, I later like formulated things to be vegan, but to me, originally the, like the purpose of my makeup line was just to show like an artistic expression in a world where like beauty is more defined by like personal aesthetics or something like that, you know? And so I think it was fun, like the first five years. And then after the five years, I feel like it got so big that I just lost control of it. And then I saw the mutation of YouTube happen. And that to me was like, I'm just not anything I want to be a part of. Again, I'm not criticizing anybody's approach to stuff because there's a lot of great entrepreneur YouTubers and influencers.
20:16But is that what I want to contribute to? I knew in my heart that's not what I wanted to do anymore. The last half of owning my makeup line, I was quite miserable, to be honest. You know, it's like kind of just, OK, let's see what we could do. You know, like where's the compromise here? You know, and that's OK. I feel like I got out kind of at the perfect time before the piece of the pie was getting very divided. I have to ask you because, you know, when you put your name on something and then you sell it, you know, so many times they own your name. I know that they've taken your name and now they've turned it into something else.
20:50We basically agreed that like I would take my name back. And at the time I thought, oh, well, it's just my initials. It'll be fine. And now I regret it, you know, because I feel like people still think I own it. and I hate it. Like I have nothing to do with it. Like, I don't know who they're hiring. I don't look at, like, I don't follow them. I don't know what products they're making. And it is hard because people think like, oh, you know, Kat made that. And it's like, I have no idea what the creative direction is. Like, you know, I kind of wish they would change their name. Yeah. So it is. So that's a cautionary tale.
21:22Yeah. Totally. If I could go back in time, that's one thing I would change. I'd be like, just change it to like something else, you know? Right. But it's hard because they're buying a brand, right? Yeah, yeah. So a lot of business information here because you do a show. Yeah. The show is a commercial for a brand that sometimes you can brand extend, but people then come to you. Yeah. And how many people do licenses and do all kinds of stuff? You do them and it sounds great, but they don't always work out. Yeah. And then you have to figure out, you know, did I put my name? Should I have called it something else?
21:52And maybe when we're the first time you do it, you don't think of that. Sure. That it may be a divorce. Yeah. And then somebody else has your name. Right. So like when I did Miami Inc., for example, they owned the rights to my name, my likeness, all my artwork. I mean, that was what I was fighting for because I was like, oh, this is I can't even believe that that's legal. Like, you know, how can somebody own while you're alive your name and likeness, you know? So like meaning that I couldn't do anything with my name without their permission. That's terrible. So then when I did LA Inc., at that point, I got a good lawyer and he was like, oh no, we got to get rid of this deal.
22:28And this is all very cautionary because when you're the brand you're selling versus you come up with a line of which, you know, you now are doing a lot of other business deals. And we'll talk about that. So when you're selling yourself, then it's very connected to you. And if something goes wrong and it's a divorce in business, they own you. And that's happened to a lot of designers, a lot of people. And then the other part of it is that But like, to me, the maybe the more emotionally important part is that when something fails, nobody knows the Wizard of Oz that's behind that's actually running things.
23:03You have to deal with that. Like if the makeup line were to fail now, people would think it's me and it's not. But at the same time, I think like you pick your battles. Well, you know, entrepreneurs, I mean, you think of yourself, I see as an artist, but you're really an artist and an entrepreneur. and I think the entrepreneur part of you has to make mistakes. I've made a million mistakes. I have failed. I tell everybody I have failed more than I succeeded. You only have to succeed two or three times and that's all people remember. But you have to fail to learn to go to the next level. Totally.
23:36So I also love it because you've talked a lot about your entrepreneurial life and also buying homes and all kinds of stuff. Where did you go after this whole makeup thing? Because I know you're doing your own businesses. The makeup stuff started just consuming my whole life. We were based out of San Francisco. So I was flying out there sometimes twice a week. I mean, it was like, just, I didn't really have a life outside of it. Were you still tattooing at that point? Yeah. I was balancing it whenever I was in town, but I haven't done tattoos for money in like, it's been over a decade now. Like I only tattoo my friends and it's more of a gift that I do.
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24:08I don't really depend on that. And my first and foremost passion in life has always been music. I started playing piano when I was five years old. I was a classically trained pianist and music influences everything I've ever done. I had been working on an album for about 10 years prior to releasing it two years ago or a year ago. So when I sold my makeup line, I said, hey, like, I really want to tour. I want to make this my next focus. And the only way I'm going to do that is going to be compartmentalizing and choosing. Like, you know, you cannot do it all. Like you can. It just won't be good.
24:41well that's why i said follow your bliss maybe in spanish thing in epocas right in periods of your life yeah they've run other courses you know right and then this was a perfect time for me so i did that and then i have a shoe line too that i i learned so much from the makeup yeah just from production and it's interesting because now we're at the a little bit of a tipping point where it's like okay we were a baby brand and now we're starting to grow and i'm like like you know i still want to keep you small because it's it's nice to be in control of all of that and i you know, and I'm a little traumatized with, you know, other experiences.
25:12So it's like, but it's a good thing. It's a good thing to be able to do that and grow things that they do stand up on their own. And, you know, we'll see how that goes as well. Hold on. Moneymaker will be right back.
25:29Me again. If you are loving this conversation, and I know you are, duh, don't forget to subscribe to Moneymaker. The link is right there in the episode description. okay back to Nelly and Kat let's get back to the show so you're doing the music which you love this next fashion but you do have an entrepreneurial life because you know I always say to to especially to women you know life is about mission and money and we forget that money has to be in a part of the equation because you can't do your mission without money yeah exactly so can you talk a little bit about that yeah and I will say you know I have like changed a little bit of my perspective i used to be a workhorse like i used to be one of the workaholic yeah yeah i just hate the term boss i know but uh i used to be like oh that's so cool you know and now after i got married and had a kid i realized that stay at home mom's uh you know i have a little bit of an envy to that the idea of making your empire be your family is like a really enticing thing for me it doesn't I have to like let go of what I do because I do think you can do both.
26:39Well, I think also coming from our background as immigrant kids, I think when you spend so much time also taking care of your family, which I don't think people realize. Yeah. And you are so motivated to succeed. And maybe you don't even know why. Yeah. But it's because your parents have gone through so much. Yeah. And then it kind of catches up with you where you go. I am the moneymaker. Yeah. You know, that's why the show is called Moneymaker because I was the moneymaker of my family. Right. that you are the moneymaker and that maybe you also need to take a break and give yourself some space right i think so i mean i i have no problem admitting that i've gotten something wrong you know and there's been many times in my life that i've gotten things very wrong but i think in this case i used to like make fun of domestication and like maybe because it wasn't cool to you and now it's very because i saw my mom was a stay-at-home mom and my dad was away working most of the time I'm, I don't know.
27:33It's, it's, it's not what I want for my family. And my husband's so on board with the same thing. You know, he's a musician as well. And he's an artist. And we, we do feel like lucky that we're able to stay at home as much as we do with our son. But like, you know, I want to homeschool my son. Like I want to like live on a homestead. Like, so, you know, I know earlier today we were talking about moving and everything. And I've lived in Hollywood a majority of my life and I love, I love California. You know, I love the weather. I love the dirt. I love my friends here. What happened that you decided to pick up and leave?
28:02I think I want to give my son similar upbringing that I had when I lived in Mexico, even though I was only there up until I was six. There was a feeling of simplicity, modesty and nature. There wasn't all these complications of life. And now in this day and age is even more. And I fear that it's going to be a lot of work to go against the grain of what is normal now. Like, I think what we have as normal is not good. there's great things about social media, but I think there's terrible things about it, especially like with children. And this is obviously my own perspective. You know, some people were like, I love giving my baby an iPad.
28:39That's fine. We don't do that. It's funny. You're, you're almost becoming more traditional. Yeah. So, so basically I found a similar house as the one we're in right now. Cause I like a lot of Victorian architecture and it's in the middle of nowhere in Indiana. Like even my friends in Indiana have never heard of this place. And it's a town with a population of 10 ,000 people. it's right on the ohio river and the house is on 14 acres of land you know we're going to build a lake and have you know and you probably bought it for a lot less money than in la oh yeah yeah but i'll tell you really quick what was the most appealing thing to me when we went there because i remember seeing this house that i loved for the longest time it was on like the historical homes of america listing and well it was a bed and breakfast for for 10 or 20 years but now it's on the market let's just go and see it you know and you were just looking yeah we weren't even looking for a house.
29:28I just said, this house is on the market. I don't know anything about this place. Let's just go to my husband. And we bought a plane ticket, went there and we drove up to this majestic house on a hill and we loved it. And at nighttime, we walked around the little town. And what I loved was that in every little house, there was a light on in the dining room and families were seated at the dining table. And I was like, this is my childhood. Like, you know, we sat down, we prayed before we ate and we unwrapped our day together as a family, whether we liked it or not. That was what we did. I live in Hancock park right now.
30:05And it's like, you walk around and I don't see that here. And it's like over there, it's just very working class people, very simple. And I love that. Like they don't give a shit who I am. It's awesome. Like the first time we went there, we went to like AJ's diner. It was like this little, like, you know, kind of David Lynch looking like greasy spoon place. And the lady was just like, oh are you the lady that bought the the house i'm like yeah like i'm like how'd you know she's like i don't know you have black hair like you know it's like they don't they don't care about you you know and it's and i love that they care about you as a neighbor you know they'll bring you over a loaf of bread and then leave it at your doorstep but do you think it's also that we're craving home yes that feeling of home yes and i think as i lived in hancock park for seven years and i don't know my neighbors that's right well it's because you come from a country where there's a sense of home and when we sometimes when we come here we feel like we don't fit anywhere no right so you're trying to recreate that but also i think going back to young people and talking about money yeah everybody wants to go to new york la all this you don't realize like there's many places to go live yeah that are still small towns that you can actually buy a house for cheap and actually own it for 20 years and retire off of that house or whatever and we're forgetting to talk about that.
31:19And everybody just wants to go to LA, you know, and be famous and be on, be an influencer or be on social media. And there's so many other places, especially in today's world where you can work from home that we can populate and create small town communities that are. Yeah. I mean, I will say this, look, if you're young and you want to move to LA or New York and pursue, you should do that. Like, you know, like there's certain opportunities here that you will not get elsewhere. Like there's pros and cons to everything. So what would be like for young people, what would be the three things that you would say to them that you've learned in this mission and money life and, and really following your bliss and also evolving.
31:57It sounds like your bliss has changed, right? And what you focused on has changed. And how do you, how do you kind of track that trajectory? You know, I think the whole follow your bliss thing, like I was reading something the other day about like how to choose wisely what your dream is, you know, because a lot of times some stuff is like not realistic. And like, do you really want to waste your time? Like being realistic or getting the feedback of what you're really good at? Yeah. Yeah. Or, or what people are responding to. And, you know, it's like, sometimes you can be good at stuff. It just doesn't work, you know, like I'm doing this music thing and like, I'm going to keep trying and we'll see how it goes.
32:33And hopefully like people like it, you know, but I don't know, I'm just doing things because I believe in it and I love it. And we're going sometimes it's okay to say, Hey, maybe this isn't working out. Sometimes there's other practical things that are equally important. You know, like I was telling my husband, I'm like, man, I don't, I'm useless if I'm not creating art, but that's like scary. Like, because, you know, it might not have as long of a lifeline as like somebody who has an actual trade, you know, like, I don't know how to frame a house. I don't know how to, you know, and that's why I think like lately people knock, like stay at home moms.
33:09And I think that is an amazing job to have. Like if you can do that, that's so cool. And if you find the right partner to do that and have a little nuclear family, that is, that is such a beautiful balance too. For me, I need to have both worlds. Like I can't just be a stay at home mom. I have to create, like, even my husband says, like, you'd be so miserable if that's all you did. You know, I'm like, yeah, it's true. I need to, I think what you're saying too, is that the things that you do that, that succeed or make you money are not always forever. Like if you're a professional athlete yeah that's not going to be forever right like influencers like i wonder what does that look like in in 10 years that's right so you have to cultivate other things friends who are strippers like there's a very like short life yeah you you don't see in your 60 year old stripper no no you do have to kind of cultivate both sides sure yeah on the other hand we can all evolve and switch gears but do we switch gears in what we're good at versus something we may love but isn't really where our gifts lie yeah and that's the question yeah and also you're very lucky yeah that you that you love something and you've known it early yeah totally and that also you had that platform that scaled it for you good or bad totally one thing that it's very clear to me to hear from you is life is also about timing right if you you land in the right place at the right time and then maybe the media changes and we don't like or we don't want to do it or whatever and today that world is based on tiktok yeah and and sort of short form media and people do even quicker faster stuff but they're monetizing it so it's a business now will it be a business in 10 years we don't know no yeah i mean now that you say i think like what would I'd be doing if I, let's say, didn't have a TV show, I would be, I think, a successful tattooer.
35:01You know, at the end of the day, like I was still doing, regardless of what came my way, I was still doing what I love and making great money at it, you know, consistent, you know, I was booked out, you know, two years prior to be on the show. That's how like, and it was like, you know, five to six tattoos a day, averaging, you know, anywhere from a thousand to two thousand. So your mastery in a focused area is what brings you to everything else. And then you have to decide. Yeah. I mean, for me, at least it worked that way. But I think it's true. Yeah. I think, you know, that's true of an athlete.
35:34It's true of anybody that does something and masters it. Like sticks to it. Yeah. For a period of time. Sometimes I think it's so much better to be that kind of famous. That you're famous for a specific thing. Yeah. That people respect you for. Totally. Because then it's very grounded in something you really know how to do. Yeah. You're not a fraud. You didn't just show up and become famous because you happen to be in. Yeah. It's because you do have a skill that no one else has and that you've mastered. Yeah. No, I agree with that for sure. But it's the finding that for people that's not so easy.
36:06Yeah. Finding that passion that's not so easy. Yeah. I want to talk about being a moneymaker and being a woman that's made money. Yeah. And how has that changed your life compared to other women? Like, how are you empowered in a way that most women aren't? because somehow what you've done for a living has brought you some level of wealth. Right. Of course. So how does that feel? And what do you think about that? It's interesting because I was having a conversation with my friend, Alex. She has like a jewelry line that does really well. And she was saying, you know, when you sold your makeup line, you made a bunch of money.
36:41Like, you're all set. Like, what do you what more do you want? I'm like, yeah, what more do I want? I think mainly because I still feel young and there's so much that I want to do. I think the hardest failure that I will ever face is like not being able to do all the things that I want to do before I die. Right. But I'm going to die trying. But I think now that I have a kid, it's changed certain things that I'd like in life. It's a weird balance. Like I want my son to not, I want him to have a clear understanding that the luxuries we have are not given. You can't be entitled to this. You have to work hard for it.
37:20But then I also want to have the means to be able to have him in whatever classes and extracurricular he wants to do. I want to have like tutors. We want to do homeschool. Like there's certain things that require money. I want that. And so you're saying not, not necessarily grandiose things, but that money has given you choices. Yeah. I want the, the ability to be able to stay at home and like to a certain degree and, and enjoy my life with my son. And you can't do that if I don't make money. You know, what I will say is that something that you said earlier today that I loved was that like about, about the means, you know, means for the mission.
37:54Like, I think that's the important part is that like, what is it that you'd love to do and figure out a way to make money doing that? It's not that simple, but it's like, that's the, that's the dream. The dream is to be able to do do what you love and make money. But as a woman that has interviewed a lot of women entrepreneurs, I think there's another piece we're missing, which is very important, which is we just went through the whole me too thing and women kind of coming out and saying they put up with a lot of shit, not just in relationships, in bosses and this and that. And I think what I've gathered from so many women I've talked to is this idea of becoming self-made and everyone becomes self-made in a different way, right?
38:35and does give you this empowerment to not put up when you have f you money you don't put up with a lot from a bad relationship or a boss that's horrible or whatever and the empowerment that being self-reliant economically brings to a woman is very powerful i want to know if that's i don't know if i agree with that i mean i guess i know what you're saying but i feel like it shouldn't take money for you to be able to tell somebody to fuck off but there are a lot of women that are i think a lot of like economically attached to a man or attached to a woman whoever they're with yeah but that's i mean don't do that i mean it's like i know a lot of people don't like jordan peterson you're a chingoner you're chingoner but he you know he talks about like how women are just so agreeable sometimes and i and i look back at my life and i go i was not agreeable and maybe that's why I pushed forward because I didn't make my agenda an issue.
39:32You know, I just was like, I'm going to be better than I can possibly be. And most likely be better than you, you know? And it's like that way, by the time that I like went to Miami Inc and these like fucking just insecure men would like give me the hardest time. I was like, at the end of the day, I'd come home and I'm like, I tattooed circles around you. So what are you holding over my head? Like at the end of the day, like, I know my power because I've worked for this, you know? So it wasn't about money. They were probably making more money than I was, but I mean, I definitely wasn't making money off of the contract, you know?
40:07So it's like, it was just more about like, you know, your self-worth. So why, why would you put up with it? Like, I don't need a guy or money or what the world thinks of me to, to know my value. Well, you certainly are an incredible, Well, you're an incredible artist and an incredible moneymaker, which doesn't always go together. I love that. I'm so happy.
40:35Moneymaker is a production of Money News Network. Moneymaker is written and hosted by me, Nelly Galan. Our executive producer is Morgan Lavoie. Thanks for listening. See you next time.
40:53Thank you.
41:31Thank you.
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