Neil Patel Risked His Parents’ Life Savings… Then Built a $100M Marketing Empire. Here’s How He Did It

11 Feb 2026 · 1 h 9 min · 28 chapters

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Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin: Episode Summary

Episode Title

Neil Patel Risked His Parents’ Life Savings… Then Built a $100M Marketing Empire. Here’s How He Did It

Key Guest

Neil Patel

  • Digital marketing expert and entrepreneur.
  • Worked with major companies like Amazon, Google, and Microsoft.
  • Founder of NP Digital, generating over $100 million in revenue.
  • Recognized as a top entrepreneur by President Obama and the United Nations.

Episode Highlights

  • Introduction to Neil Patel's Journey:
  • Borrowed from parents’ life savings to fund his startup, Crazy Egg.
  • Achieved profitability and later built Kissmetrics and NP Digital.
  • Key Money Lessons:
  • Risks taken during the startup phase, including financial backing from family.
  • Importance of maintaining financial habits and ethics in entrepreneurship.
  • Personal Insights on Wealth vs. Success:
  • Defines wealth and success differently; emphasizes financial comfort and personal fulfillment.
  • Discusses the "Big R" framework of wealth: small r (financial comfort) vs. big R (being wealthy enough to buy a sports team).

Practical Financial Advice

  • Living Within Means:
  • Neil shares his choice to drive a practical Honda Odyssey despite wealth, highlighting the importance of value over extravagance.
  • Discusses how he teaches his children about money, taxes, and the concept of financial responsibility.
  • Teaching Kids about Money:
  • Engages his children in financial lessons through relatable examples, such as "taxing" their ice cream to understand expenses.

Digital Marketing Insights

  • The State of Online Discovery:
  • Traditional search engines like Google are less effective; social media platforms and AI models are now crucial for online visibility.
  • Emphasizes the need for businesses to diversify their marketing channels, leveraging platforms like Instagram and TikTok.
  • SEO vs. AEO:
  • Distinguishes between Search Engine Optimization (SEO) and Answer Engine Optimization (AEO), stressing the importance of quality content and mentions in building online presence.
  • Tips for Small Business Owners:
  • Encourages businesses to create quality content answering customer questions, using tools like Answer the Public and ChatGPT.
  • Advises against relying solely on paid ads without optimizing conversion funnels first.

Actionable Marketing Strategies

  • Building a Digital Presence:
  • Focus on organic traffic generation before investing heavily in paid ads.
  • Use social media for outreach and promotion, leveraging relationships to build credibility.
  • The Importance of Feedback:
  • Gather customer insights to refine products and messaging, increasing conversion rates.

Money Tip to Take Straight to the Bank

  • Debt Management Advice:
  • Neil advises against aggressively paying off low-interest debt (below 6%).
  • Recommends investing excess funds instead, as historical returns in the market often exceed the costs of cheap debt.

Episode Structure

  1. Introduction (00:00)
  2. Launching Crazy Egg and Borrowing From Parents (01:09)
  3. Next Ventures and Kissmetrics (06:42)
  4. Do’s and Don’ts of Naming Businesses (09:43)
  5. NP Digital’s Success vs Personal Success (15:31)
  6. Neil’s Perspective on Wealth (21:19)
  7. Teaching Taxes Through Ice Cream (30:07)
  8. Living with Less and Financial Goals (32:15)
  9. Trust Funds and Regrets (38:45)
  10. Actionable Marketing Advice for Business Owners (42:09)
  11. Why Traditional Search is Dead (44:59)
  12. SEO vs AEO (46:59)
  13. Marketing Tips for a $0 Budget (55:29)
  14. Final Tip for Listeners (01:00:49)

Conclusion This episode provides valuable insights into the intersection of personal finance and digital marketing, offering listeners practical advice on managing money, building wealth, and growing a business in the modern marketing landscape. Neil Patel's experiences and practical tips serve as a guide for both aspiring entrepreneurs and established business owners.

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Chapters

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Starting Crazy Egg: Financial Risks and Family Support

4:23 to 7:52

Neil shares the financial risks taken in building Crazy Egg and family involvement.

“You are like the ultimate scrappy entrepreneur.”

Lessons from Business Failures and Legal Challenges

7:52 to 10:41

Neil discusses the challenges faced with Kissmetrics and the impact of lawsuits.

“His dad is retired, doesn't need money as an anesthesiologist.”

Naming Strategies and Digital Marketing Insights

10:41 to 14:00

Neil shares thoughts on company naming conventions and marketing strategies.

“One, because Kissmetrics didn't work out.”

The Importance of Domain Names in Branding

14:00 to 14:52

Learn why a memorable and clear domain name is crucial for digital marketing.

“the Tumblr forgetting their vowels or a lift using a Y?”

Choosing the Right Business Name

14:52 to 18:01

Discover key tips for picking a business name that resonates in the digital age.

“What would you tell them in terms of coming up with a name that will be digital marketing friendly?”

The Challenges of Public Companies

18:01 to 21:06

Understand the drawbacks of running a public company versus a private one.

“Dot-com, short, memorable, and easy to spell.”

Acquisition Strategies in Business

21:06 to 23:01

Learn about the acquisition process and the considerations involved in buying companies.

“people be like whoa you're going a little too crazy there slow down you got to watch out for quarterly earnings, your business growth rate slowing down and you want to spend more money, the markets would crush you.”

Measuring Success in Business

23:01 to 28:00

Explore different perspectives on what defines success in business and personal life.

“Maybe I'm wrong here, but you get the point.”

Defining Success in Business and Life

28:00 to 29:20

Explore how success is measured in business and personal life.

“at numbers the way i do is i want to beat my friends has nothing to do with if one of my I have a lot of friends who are worth more money than me and I'll never beat them.”

The Three Pillars of Personal Success

29:20 to 31:50

Learn about the three key areas of life that define personal success.

“I used to play fantasy football, but yeah, I haven't in years, but I love it.”
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Teaching Kids about Money and Taxes

31:50 to 33:50

Discover innovative ways to teach children about taxes and financial realities.

“You need to have all three in my eyes to be successful on a personal level.”

Instilling Values of Work and Charity in Kids

33:50 to 37:20

Understand the importance of teaching children to balance work and giving back.

“my daughter's one and i'm i'm thinking about doing that because i've heard warren buffett say to eat 30 % of their ice cream.”

Financial Responsibility and Luxury

37:20 to 39:00

Discuss the balance between enjoying wealth and recognizing others' needs.

“When they grow up, there's a lot, a lot of things that have put them at a disadvantage because they don't have some of the aspects that you get from dual earning income households.”

Future Planning for Children

39:00 to 42:00

Explore the considerations of setting up a trust and raising financially savvy kids.

“But if you're a standard rich person or wealthy person, whatever you want to call it, capital R, little w, you could just charter and you can use some of the other money for good.”

Balancing Wealth and Drive in Parenting

42:00 to 44:28

Discover the challenges of raising motivated children in the face of privilege.

“The reason I regret that is when I put in the shares of the business, the business was much smaller and it's cash flow.”

Trust Structure Reflection

44:28 to 44:48

Explore the decision-making process around trust structures for children.

“teach them a win for me would be if my kids give back and try to help others.”

Business Growth and Unforeseen Circumstances

44:48 to 45:30

Learn how unexpected events like COVID can accelerate business growth.

“And I felt I just gave them too much where they won't be as hungry.”

Digital Marketing Strategy for Businesses

45:30 to 47:21

Gain insights into effective digital marketing strategies for small businesses.

“So let's talk to small business owners, solopreneurs, creators out there.”

The Importance of Multi-Platform Presence

47:21 to 49:50

Understand the need for a diverse marketing strategy across multiple platforms.

“So the reality is, is you need to leverage multiple platforms.”

SEO vs AEO: Understanding Optimization

49:50 to 51:09

Differentiate between SEO and AEO and their importance in digital marketing.

“to only do Google ads or only optimize for chat GPT or only do Instagram.”

Building Authority in Digital Content

51:09 to 53:49

Learn how to establish authority through mentions and backlinks for success.

“I've been pitched a bunch of companies to help me with AEO.”

The Influence of External Signals on Algorithms

53:49 to 55:53

Explore how external signals affect content visibility and algorithm decisions.

“That's for SEO too, but SEO, you want the links, not the mention.”

Understanding Algorithmic Choices in Marketing

56:00 to 56:46

Explore how algorithms choose content based on social signals and authority.

“There's also a lot of people social sharing each viewpoint as well.”

Building Authority through Content Creation

56:46 to 58:39

Learn the importance of building trust and authority for better content visibility.

“But if President Trump or Biden or Obama, I'm not trying to skew left or right, say something about marketing, most people will say that's a president.”

Practical SEO Tips for Side Hustlers

58:39 to 1:00:04

Discover actionable SEO strategies to boost your side business income.

“If somebody's side hustle is bringing in like 2K a month, what's an SEO or AEO change that they could make to try and double that money?”

Improving Conversion Rates for Better Profitability

1:00:04 to 1:02:21

Understand how to enhance your conversion rates for effective marketing.

“You can publish it on Tumblr or what's that?”

Financial Strategies for Managing Debt

1:02:21 to 1:04:14

Learn crucial financial advice on debt management and investing wisely.

“No, because then it takes away the freedom and flexibility in life.”

The Six Percent Rule in Mortgage Decisions

1:04:14 to 1:07:26

Explore the implications of interest rates on mortgage and investment strategies.

“I'm going to give you guys a money tip if that's okay.”
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3:30If you want your work to be discovered on the internet, Neil Patel is the person to tell you how to do it. Neil has worked with giant companies on just that. Amazon, Microsoft, Airbnb, Google. And his digital marketing company, NP Digital, does more than$100 million in revenue. He was recognized as a top 100 entrepreneur under the age of 30 by President Obama and a top 100 entrepreneur under the age of 35 by the United Nations. So in other words, Neil is an SEO magician and he is here to share his secrets and how ChatGBT is changing the way we discover things online. But that's not all we talk about.

4:05Neil also shares some hot money takes like why he wants to tax his kids. And he tells us some crazy stories from his early days of trying to make it as an entrepreneur. So whether you're trying to get more eyeballs on the internet or just want some spicy money stories, this episode is for you. Neil Patel, welcome to Money Rehab. Thanks for having me. It's so cool to talk to you. You are like the ultimate scrappy entrepreneur. So I want to go back and talk about some unhinged money things because we're on Money Rehab that you did early out. So when you were starting your first company that you're known for, Crazy Egg, what's some of the crazy financial stuff that you got yourself into?

4:42Debt or profitability. Let's talk about both. So when we first created Crazy Egg, the whole premise behind is we worked with large corporations at that time. And they were spending money on Google Ads. But a lot of their money was being wasted. So they didn't know what was driving ROI, what wasn't. And a lot of these companies would spend like$5 million a month, whatever it was, right? Because some of these big companies will spend like$100 million a year. Now it's much more. But back then, you're talking about roughly 20 years ago. So we want to show them a visual way to see where people are interacting with their webpage and where they're not.

5:20So that way they can generate a better ROI from their marketing spend so they can see where the wastage is and fine tune their landing pages to generate more revenue. And as we were building that, we had an ad agency at the same time. The ad agency did not work out. Eventually, it ended up closing shop because we started going upstream, focusing on big customers. And as the recession happened in 2008, the real estate housing crash, we saw a lot of people pull back on budgets and we started getting hit a lot. But right before that happened, we created Crazy Egg. The ad agency was funding Crazy Egg.

5:57There was a moment in time where the ad agency could not fund Crazy Egg anymore and we didn't have enough capital. My co-founder, Heathen Shaw, his dad is an anesthesiologist. he lived in a normal house saved up tons of money from being anesthesiologist over the years probably bought a home for like 400 grand i don't know what the price is but let's call it four or 500 grand in you know somewhere in la or orange county it adds up over time you build up equity you don't spend much money you drive a toyota like you'll save up a lot of cash over the years uh he ended up giving us the line of credit on his house of i believe it was two hundred thousand dollars at the time and we used that to get crazy at going and get it into a place that was working out but i thought you were gonna say he put you under anesthesia until no no no times were better but we got the 200 grand and and uh we had to turn around the business we used the 200 grand it still wasn't enough though but that's really all we had but that was his only son and he married my sister i only have one sibling my parents also had around 200 and something thousand dollars in their life savings um i think it was around 250 we started pulling like crunches of like 50 grand at a time because my sister and i were on their bank accounts so we kind of didn't ask it's more like, you know, they say ask for forgiveness, not permission.

7:30So we started taking it. And then my dad, you know, pulled me aside. And he's like, you know, if things don't work out, that's okay. Just make sure you take care of mom and I when we get older. And that was our deal. So we took care of our parents eventually with the money his dad gave us, and the money my parents gave us, we were able to make it work. So you use their, their life savings, you used your co founders, parents home equity line of credit i hope and cash paid them back really nicely like i hope they got a good payback from you guys eventually so business turned around within 12 months we were able to pay back all back because we had to make the money pay taxes on the profits and then pay them back right and then some i hope a little bit for the parents uh no we did not give them and then some but we've taken care of them for life.

8:24So then my parents have been retired. His dad is retired, doesn't need money as an anesthesiologist. My parents ended up doing okay in life, not because of us giving back the money. They took all that money back in the day and put it into like Apple and Google stock. So then it went up and they did well from that. But we always buy the cars whenever they need new cars. My parents use my credit card every month so they don't actually spend their own money. Anytime they're going somewhere, like they're just like, Neil, we want to go to India. So I book them like business class airfare. I don't go first class, but I'll book them business class airfare on Emirates, you know, going to India from LA.

9:05It's like, we take care of them. Whatever they want, we end up getting them. They just don't ask for much. Holy cow though. I'm sure that was so anxiety provoking. Not really, because when you're young and you don't have much, there's nothing to really lose. But you're talking about somebody else's money and their home and their life savings. You weren't nervous about using that for capital? They both had good enough jobs on both sides of the family where they can keep paying the payments for mortgage or whatever it may be. So no one was really worried. There was a floor where we knew we couldn't take every single penny.

9:41They needed enough savings to just survive. But they were OK with it. And we believed in ourselves. And we're like, well, worst case scenario, we'll go get a job like at Microsoft or somewhere. and then pay you back because we believe that we could get a high paying job. That's a good worst case scenario for sure. And at the time you were trying to raise VC, right? And then you couldn't get any venture capital and ultimately you were like, forget this. Let's try to get profitable instead. Was that a blessing in disguise? It was. So the route we went is we tried raising money for Crazy Egg. We got it profitable.

10:14We got it to profit in the millions. and then we had a new version of crazy egg at that time the company was going to be called kiss metrics but it was just crazy egg 2.0 like an evolution of the company and we pitched this venture fund called true ventures and like why don't you spin out this company do it separate and do something and name it something else and we raised venture capital for that company i don't know how much we raised in total it was more than 10 i think less than 20 um it was a long time ago and it was a blessing in disguise. One, because Kissmetrics didn't work out. I don't have 100 % success rate.

10:53We went through some lawsuits on that and for data privacy, which is why it didn't work out. We didn't do anything shady. It was just Wired Magazine published an article saying we were sharing data like if you're Nordstrom's, we would share it with Macy's, which we didn't. But when you get an investigation from the FTC and stuff like that, a lot of your customers are like, bye-bye, we don't want to deal with this. And we had a few players who wanted to buy us at the time. I remember us doing interviews at Facebook's offices and talking to Microsoft's team about a potential deal as well. And it got pretty far where like we were even having our employees go into like Facebook's office and doing tests, right, to like evaluate their skill level and stuff to see if it was like a cultural fit.

11:33But the lawsuit really screwed that one up. So it's not guilty until proven innocent in the business world. That's correct. but with the lawsuit no publicly traded company wanted to take on the liability so a chance of acquisition was dead in the water and because crazy was separate that company was still spitting off millions of dollars and growing each and every single year so it's a blessing in disguise that we didn't take venture capital for crazy because then we wouldn't have that cash cow what's up with these names so kiss like k-i-s-s capital i'm assuming keep it simple silly or stupid i was trying to be nice but yes internally we would say stupid externally we would say silly that was like in the zeitgeist at the time yeah okay and then crazy egg uh back in the day when i was 16 i started my first business it was a job board failed i registered a few domain names one of one of the students that I went to high school with gave me the idea of crazy egg.

12:34I'm Indian. I don't mean to stereotype, but the place I'm from in India, we're known to be penny pinchers. And I was like, well, I don't want to buy a new domain name. I already have one that I'm paying for. Let's save the money. And that's how we ended up using crazy egg. Stupid reason, but that's how it ended up happening. Silly reason, I should say. And so what are those names as far as SEO friendly or not. They're not SEO friendly. Yeah. So it's better to have these days. I don't think it matters as much. It actually doesn't matter at all. Back in the days, it did matter more. And did that affect you guys?

13:13No, which is ironic. It didn't because I would say out of everything that we did, I've always been pretty decent at marketing my co-founder at that time in that company. And still today, he is really good at product. So you can market your way out of a crazy name? Exactly. I can market my way out of most things and my brother-in-law can build products that solve most problems. What do you think about, I love a literal naming convention, as you can see, Money News Network, you know exactly what we do here. Money Rehab, you get it right away. I think money is really complicated. And so I like to keep it simple, silly, um, and, and really lean into the literal naming conventions, but there's some crazy, obviously names out there.

13:59What do you think about the disembowelment, like the flicker and the Tumblr forgetting their vowels or a lift using a Y? I don't like that. I think that's, uh, out there. And what I mean by out there is you're going to have too many people typing in the wrong domain name and going to the wrong site. And unless you own all those variations of it, which the likelihood is very unlikely in today's world, you're going to lose potential customers. Even if it's one, two, three percent still adds up. I just yes, I dislike the lack of vowels in a name. I think that just confuses me, especially being audio forward.

14:40And in the podcast world, when you hear it, you're like, wait a minute. You know, when we even work with brands, sometimes I'm like, well, we need to clarify this when we're saying it in audio so people can really understand where they're supposed to be going. So if somebody is starting to name a company for the first time, obviously it's easier now than ever before to be an entrepreneur. What would you tell them in terms of coming up with a name that will be digital marketing friendly? You don't need your keyword in there like money. It does help, but you don't need it. because and the reason I say that is a lot of those keyword named domains are already taken.

15:18So it's OK if you don't get that. But short to the point, memorable and you need a dot com, not a dot net, you know, like, you know, the app lovable. Yes, I love lovable and replet. Yeah. So when I went to lovable the first time, I did not go to the actual lovable site. and then I had a google lovable and then I'm like man like it's dot ai or something like that or dot net or I forgot what the extension was it was spelled differently or whatever it was but I know it wasn't dot com and I'm pretty sure it was dot ai and I'm like these people just make it complicated I cannot wait to go to that side and see what you saw I can only imagine uh yeah I so agree with the dot com i i felt like maybe i was just being ocd in making sure that we always had a dot com like i paid a premium for our dot com um you know if i'm looking for a new website i'm always about the dot com life yeah so i'm not crazy i mean i'm crazy for other reasons but not for this no you're not crazy feels so vindicated right now you need a dot com any big corporation i was talking to someone earlier today and they're planning on going public on the stock exchange and you know how some people have like hey in front of their domain name or like um go or hey or random words like that uh i was just like you can't go public with this random word in your domain like we couldn't get the other one i'm like if you look at the main root domain the name of your company it's available and you know they're just like oh it could be a million bucks and i'm like if you're worth billions and billions and billions of dollars, spend the million dollars to have your proper domain name.

17:04You can also lease them now. I did not know that. Yeah. But at that point, I wouldn't lease it. Like if you're telling me you spit off tons of cash and you're worth billions of dollars, just go spend a million bucks. And so why do you say that that's necessary? Is there like a real connection between the digital marketing and the dot com or is it just the brand confusion or are you also equally OCD like I am? It helps with marketing because a lot of times when people link to you, they're going to link to the wrong domain name and not everyone checks it. You probably check it each and every single time and your team does, but not everyone really does.

17:38People make mistakes. The second thing is, is if you want to be a serious company, but you don't have a serious domain name, people will take you as a joke as well. And they're like, is this company even grown up? Should we buy this stock? Should we invest in this company? It creates a bad perception. Still? Still, yes. Okay. So if you're going to start a company, make sure you get the dot-com. What else for a name? Dot-com, short, memorable, and easy to spell. Okay. Those three things, or technically four, other than the dot-com, but yes. So don't get cute, or don't make up a word. You can get cute if you're in a cutesy type of industry.

18:21Like what? My daughter has that toy. It looks like a little gnome or a little creature that buys it. You put it on a purse. I don't know what it's called. The Lou Boo Boo. The Lou Boo Boo. There you go. But you can get cute if you're doing stuff like that. But not if you're selling chips. Not if you're selling chips, you know, for data centers. No. Okay. So fast forward beyond Kissmetrics and you started NP Digital, which now makes, is it still a hundred million in revenue? Yeah. We surpassed that a long time ago. Oh, congratulations. So we've been growing and we've been doing well pretty much every single year.

18:56You said that you're going to run this company until you die. You're not taking on outside capital. You're not going public. We have not taken on outside capital. I wouldn't say we won't ever take on outside capital. We keep getting offers. So I think one day we may end up buying. But not public. No, that's not my vibe. Does it sound terrible? It sounds terrible to me to run a public company. I have a really close friend who took his company public during the dot-com boom. And he was mentioned by all the popular business magazines that you know about. Took it public. The company didn't do as well.

19:42He still did well with the money that he made. Well enough where he's pretty high up on the Forbes list. and he always tells me i hang out with him probably like once every two months when he flies in and he always tells me he's like don't take your company public he's like it's biggest pain in the butt in my life and if i already have a cash flow system going i already have the management team i can make decisions on what i think is best for the company not what's best for a shareholder but really what's best for the company which usually you would think is best for the shareholder, but because of quarterly earnings, right?

20:19And I know they're thinking about revamping that. I know Trump made that announcement months ago, but I don't know what's happening with it. You can't just do whatever you want. Like, for example, my business spits off cash flow. We have no outside holders. In good economies, it's hard for me to buy more companies. You want to guess why? Because? Everything is expensive. Everything. so i'm spitting off a good a good amount of profit in a good economy and everything's expensive so it's hard for me to deploy the money in a bad economy valuations everything goes down companies growth rates go down it's the easiest time for me to pick up companies and i can pick it up for cheap but if i start spending all my money and more money than i should be spending if i was public people be like whoa you're going a little too crazy there slow down you got to watch out for quarterly earnings, your business growth rate slowing down and you want to spend more money, the markets would crush you.

21:19But that's what I do. And during this time, I've been doing that for three years, I've been investing so much into the business. It's been painful because my growth has slowed down and I'm spending more money than ever. But when during a good economy, I'll see the fruits of all my investments or the flowers will start blooming, whatever analogy you want to end of using and it's worth it but it's hard to do that kind of stuff when you have investors or outside shareholders and you're public so you guys have been doing a bunch of m &a yes we buy a lot so much so that i a lot of times now i tend to meet the entrepreneurs after we buy the company not before because it's too many deals you're looking at i'll talk to them before we close a transaction but usually my m &a team comes to me and says hey we're gonna buy this company it's in uk or germany or wherever and these are the numbers we just need you to approve uh that we're going to spend x dollars you cool with it i'm like sounds good just can you at least put me on the phone with them for 30 minutes before we send them the money or sign the contract like sounds good like how much are we talking like 10 million bucks so ideal sweet spot to buy a company is 5 million on the low end uh call it 20 to 30 on the high end so that's our sweet spot so if you're buying a company for 20 million bucks you don't even talk to the person before you wire the money no i talked to them right before not right before like maybe a month before okay okay because then the rest is you know they're still going through legal and all that kind of stuff okay it takes at least six months to buy a company for sure so for the first five months i don't really talk to them and then month five i usually talk to them on six we tend to do the transaction if it's small like let's say it was like five million dollars i may just talk to them kind of after it's a really cool thing to be able to say it's perspective right i look at us as a really tiny company i don't think we do that well i look at nvidia as someone who does extremely well so for nvidia the ceo probably doesn't get on the phone for someone when they buy a company for$500 million, right?

23:31Maybe I'm wrong here, but you get the point. If it's$100 million, he probably doesn't even know about the deal and someone did it without his knowledge. So you're comparing, those are your comps. Those are my comps. And I don't think in my lifetime I'll ever build a successful company like that. I don't think I'll be able to get there. So you don't think you're successful? No, I don't think I'll ever be successful. At more than 100 million, and it sounds like maybe close to two at this point. Yeah, we do really well on the revenue from a S &B standpoint. We're bigger than most startups and we're bootstrapped and we cashflow extremely well.

24:11So eight figures of cashflow. Yeah, easily, yeah. Maybe nine and you're not successful. No, we don't cashflow nine yet. That's the goal. And I know we'll get to nine in cashflow. It's just time. I don't think it's gonna actually take too much time, but I think we'll eventually get there. So at what point would you say you're successful? I don't think I'll ever get there. It's like, do I ever think I can make a company that generates a billion a year in profit? No. If I got to a billion a year, I would say I did well. I measure success. I was talking to one of my buddies and he was breaking down what's the difference of being wealthy and rich.

24:49So he calls me, he breaks it down as little R, big R, little W, big W, okay? so he's a big w and i said what's the difference between a big w and a little w and uh he puts me as a capital r so he's like neil you're a capital r and i'm like what does that mean he's like you can't buy the los angeles lakers if you want to buy the los angeles i'm like yeah i can't afford it he's like yeah he's like a lowercase w is i can buy a sports team like the lakers or an nfl team like the rams or whatever it may be you get the point and he's a capital w i'm like what's the difference between a capital w and a lowercase w he's like i can buy the lakers and i can buy the rams and if they both don't work out i still have enough money to keep buying sports teams and that is like capital w i look at that as like you made it i can't say i've made it can i get a boat or a plane yeah but still hurts to buy you know a hundred million dollar yacht that's expensive plus i get seasick so i wouldn't ever want to do that but i can't go buy the los angeles lakers i can buy a nice home but how big of a home do you need so what's little r uh we didn't get to little r i think little r is like uh we kind of discussed it but not really I think it's like you have less than like a hundred million dollars cash.

26:19Which is still a lot of money. I'm not trying to say it's not a lot of money. But we're looking at it like a sports game. We're not looking at like a judgmental as you've done well or you've not. It's more like a sports game and you just want to win. And it's not to buy something like I drove here today. And most people think I have like fancy cars. They would never guess what car I drive. You have a Honda Odyssey. I have a Honda Odyssey. Why? It's very practical and it works well. You push a button, the kids can jump in and out of the car. They can eat chicken nuggets and spill it in. You can vacuum it up.

26:54Like, it's practical. I don't want my kids eating chicken nuggets, but you get the point. And I look at that car as practical. I go to the Waldorf Astoria in Beverly Hills for meetings a lot. No joke. A lot of times when I pull up, the valet will tell me to keep moving forward. They'll take all the cars behind me. and every once in a while they'll tell me to roll down my window because i'm still there they're like can we help you with anything they're like are you here to pick up anyone i'm like oh i'm here to valet and they'll be like oh no way yeah and they're like oh it's 20 something dollars you okay with that and i'm like yeah i'm okay with it and i don't say anything and i still tip them well because i know it's a hard job they think you're an uber or uh sometimes uber or sometimes usually they're just like are you lost like what are you doing here like are you trying to pick up someone in the hotel and take them not like as an uber but like meeting a friend or something like that and they're just like valet is expensive how does that make you feel doesn't bother me one bit but i don't care what people think from that i started my life picking up trash and cleaning restrooms at knott's berry farm in orange county like i don't think money defines you the reason i look at numbers the way i do is i want to beat my friends has nothing to do with if one of my I have a lot of friends who are worth more money than me and I'll never beat them.

28:11And when they do well, it's not like, damn it, you're doing better than me. I still want to root them on and have them win, but I still want to win as well. And why can't I get to their level? I just don't think I'll actually get to a lot of my friends level in my lifetime because I picked too small of a TAM, which is total addressable market. it's like if you look at the ad agency space the WPPs of the world the publicists of the world they've been around for a long time most of them are worth the big ones are lucky if there were 10 to 20 billion dollars it requires a lot of capital to get there it's not efficient like software companies or some of these tech companies which have much better margins so who do you think is successful in a business aspect or in just general life aspect in a business aspect people have really hit the home runs where you can do whatever you want and what i mean do whatever you want is you can buy a sports team you can buy multiple sports teams you can buy you know you have enough money to buy your own private islands that to me is successful from a business aspect.

29:19So it sounds like you look at business success kind of like a fantasy football league. Yes. That's spot on. Very spot on. I used to play fantasy football, but yeah, I haven't in years, but I love it. Do you consider yourself successful personally? Personally, I look at success as very different. I look at success in different buckets. How's your relationships with your family and your children? Okay. Which I think I have pretty good relationships i try to be the one when i'm here not traveling because we have offices i think in 20 something countries when i'm here i try to be the one picking up my kids and bringing them home from school so dropping and picking up i try to do puzzles with them i read books with them about space and black holes and stuff like that by the way they're like four and six so okay which i think is really fun my four-year-old really loves that um my daughter not as much she likes reading like princess books literally the book she read is called like the princess in black um and she'll read it to me at nighttime i also think another success of success is health how healthier you are i'm not talking about you have to be jacked with the six pack or anything like that but like how are your body scans how is your muscle uh not like uh muscle percentage because they say one of the things that impacts how long you'll live and be healthy is uh your muscles and And over time, as you get older, they slowly and slowly deplete.

30:46So I try to maintain my health and be healthy and eat healthy and feel energized. I work out four or five times a week at least. And then the third aspect is wealth. Do you have enough to be content in life? You're never going to be happy. Most people want more. They say that, but then when they make more, they want more. And there's always new shiny objects that you can buy and invest in. so do you have enough for a decent home to not worry about putting food on the table and a lot of people struggle sadly right life is not affordable for most people and hopefully one day which i don't think it'll happen but hopefully one day that kind of stuff gets into a better place and when you look at success you can have all the money in the world but if you're sitting on a hospital bed and you can't move and no one wants to visit you what use is that money or if If you have great relationships with your family, but you can't feed them and put food on the table and people in your family are sick, kind of sucks, right?

31:51You need to have all three in my eyes to be successful on a personal level. Now, that doesn't mean if you have cancer, you're not successful. It means, you know, you got cancer, you got bad luck, and hopefully there's a cure one day or hopefully you can fight it and do some of the things that people have talked about. like someone won i think it was like a noble prize uh i think it was a japanese person if you fast more than 24 hours i forgot the state that it is but uh it kills a lot of your bad cells it's like for me every thursday i don't eat so i'll fast for the whole day what day is it oh tomorrow okay and even on a normal day i'll eat between 12 and 6 so then i do intermittent fasting in between they say that sick people have one wish healthy people have many healthy people have many wishes and sick people have just one.

32:41That's to be healthy. You have said on different interviews, some really interesting things about work and money that I would love to double click on. And starting with your kids, you've said that you told your wife you want to tax your kids savings. Tell me more. So when my daughter was young, her name's Emma, I first started teaching her about taxes by eating a portion of her ice cream that's what warren puppet says so she would have uh uh like those uh yasso bars it's like a yogurt bar and i would take a bite and i would tell him and i still take bites and i'm like you got to pay taxes 30 daddy takes the government takes you know people take right now i say daddy takes because they don't understand the government um so i believe in teaching them that whatever money you make it doesn't all go to you there's other expenses so um i think taxing them is really important because it teaches them that they don't actually have everything they have it's a mirage you actually have less than what you're told you have and that's reality and you need to cope with that and understand how to live within your means my daughter's one and i'm i'm thinking about doing that because i've heard warren buffett say to eat 30 % of their ice cream.

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34:01How did they react when you started doing that? Then my daughter was pissed at first. And then she cried and was like, you owe me a whole new ice cream bar, but now they accept it. They pay their taxes. They pay their taxes. Okay. And now I've gotten to a point where I don't really eat it. I'll take the bite and I spit it out in the trash. Or like, you know, I'll take a spoon and take it and throw it in the trash. I'm not trying to be wasteful, but I'm trying to teach them. The concept. do you have your kids do they get allowance and would you have them negotiate when they do uh they don't get allowance they only make they get money for doing stuff chores working and stuff like that and we had around the clock help what i mean around the clock help we had nannies at one point from six or seven a.m all the way to like when they go to bed around 7 p.m so it shifts seven days a week and we had cleaners seven days a week eight hours a day and cooks and all that kind of stuff and drivers got rid of driver uh we only have a nanny that helps us out for a few hours in the morning when they have to get to school because the school is quite a bit far away from where we live uh cleaners are part-time and not every single day still close enough to seven days a week.

35:21I think we're at six days. No cook. And mom and dad drives him to school, picks him up, got rid of a lot of our fancy cars. They mainly drive in a Honda Odyssey. My son hates it. He always tells me, you know, our neighbors have a Bugatti. Why don't we have a Bugatti? And I'm like, they make more money. Daddy needs to work and save up. Right. And then the other thing we do now is they do their own chores. So, hey, you take a shower, you spilled water on the floor because you walk around mop it up you know take your clothes put it in the hamper that kind of stuff you don't get paid for hey dad's vacuuming you know i know we have cleaners but i still try to like pick up little stuff after they eat you want to help dad vacuum and clean the table and stuff and help with dishes like drying they don't wash like you'll make money from it two bucks that's typically what we give them for each task my son right now in his piggy bank we counted last night $517.

36:17Damn! So he's saving up. And if you ask him what he's saving up for, he's like, Bugatti, if I can't afford a Bugatti, a Ferrari. Okay, it's so LA that he's six years old and knows what a Bugatti is. Four, four. He's four and he knows what a Bugatti is. My God. So. How do you feel about that? I don't mind. If he wants a Bugatti, I tell him, good for you, you should have goals, go and earn it. You can have anything you want as long as you earn it? Not you can have anything you want as long as you earn it. We're right now trying to teach the concept of you should, if you want something, go and work hard for it.

36:51My wife at the same time spends all her time on philanthropy. She's trying to teach our kids just because you have the money doesn't mean you should keep it for yourself. So like at Christmas, birthdays, she teaches the concept of giving presents to other people like for Christmas. You don't need all these presents. How many people don't have toys and couldn't celebrate? So my wife will take them to volunteer, wrap presents give them to kids and we're trying to teach them the concept just because you have the money doesn't mean you should have everything you want and people who don't have everything or even the basic necessities shouldn't have it for reasons that they can't control so if you look at the United States a lot of the families that struggle are single parent families and they struggle in many aspects, not just money, but education.

37:42When they grow up, there's a lot, a lot of things that have put them at a disadvantage because they don't have some of the aspects that you get from dual earning income households. Right? So my wife looks at that and she loves helping out single mothers because she sees their pain and it's hard. Things like diapers are very expensive. They're not affordable. You don't have to tell me. Right? So we're trying to get our kids to understand that you could buy the Bugatti and we haven't pushed this on our son yet, our daughter more so because she's a little bit older. You can buy the item you really want, but do you really need it?

38:15What is it going to do your life? And after you get it, what's next? Are you really going to be satisfied? Are you going to keep wanting more? But what about that person who can't afford diapers, who couldn't afford that private school tuition that you go to, but they have the IQ and the ability, but they just weren't given the opportunity. If you don't need all this stuff, do you need five vacation homes? No, you could just rent whenever you need it and how can you give back? I'm not saying you have to give everything away, but there's a balance. What is that balance? I think it's gonna be different for each person, but I don't think people need, there are circumstances, but if you're not like an Elon Musk or a Bill Gates, like most people don't need a private plane or to buy one.

38:54You can charter one if you really wanna fly private, right? You don't have to spend 60 million for a plane that's sitting there and barely use. If you're Elon Musk, I get it. But if you're a standard rich person or wealthy person, whatever you want to call it, capital R, little w, you could just charter and you can use some of the other money for good. So because you're such an entrepreneur, if they said to you not$2, it's going to be$3 to dry the dishes. What would you say? I would say why. Why should I give you$3 when I can give someone else$2? So I would say to my son, if he asked me for$3, you say you want$3.

39:36But if I can convince your sister to give it to me for$2, I have someone else who's willing to do it for the same amount. So why should I pay you three? So then he would have to make a pitch. And he makes pitches all the time. So for example, yesterday, my son, when we were counting his money, wanted to turn in $50 of quarters for a$50 bill. Ali had a$100 bill. I started exchanging them for smaller bills because I use them for valet I'm not the best at parallel parking the minivan and as you know in LA there's a lot of parallel parking so I just tend to valet most times so I don't hit cars and when I when I was exchanging the money he said hey you took more and I'm like no I didn't steal any money from you it's even we went through we counted a few times just double check and then he said i'm doing you a favor because i picked his small bills he wanted to give me some of the bigger ones like 20s i wanted more of like the fives and tens and ones and he said because i'm doing you a favor i want two extra dollars and i'm like no i can go to the bank and he's like but you would have to walk to the bank this is you get the money now so then i was like all right and the bank is so close i could have walked but because he's four and that's a good enough argument for four-year-old in my opinion i said sure i gave him the two dollar difference so then i got 98 bucks back for 100 bucks and 50 of it was in quarters this is interesting because it reminds me of something else that you've said this is the idea that in business, you have to understand what the other party wants in order to get a good deal.

41:20So you've said that you would buy your kids a house if they live next door, but not somewhere else. Correct. If they want to live next door to me in LA, same street, I will buy them a house. Same street? That's so aggressive. I'm already looking for the homes on the same street. They're four and six. Yeah, but it's going to cost more 10 years from now. You're going to buy them a house for their future now on your street? No, I'll have them by the house with their own money and their trust. Okay, talk to me about that because you've also said - Assuming the trustees allow it, but yes. Who are the trustees?

41:51Three people, but yeah. Okay, it's an irrevocable trust. Irrevocable trust. It's a dynasty trust. And you've said you regret that. I regret that. Why? The reason I regret that is when I put in the shares of the business, the business was much smaller and it's cash flow. So they A, make cash, but B, the shares are worth a good amount. And I want my kids to still have the hunger where they want to work. And I won't ever tell them that they have money coming from a trust or anything like that. We'll tell them years and years later. They won't listen to this podcast. They won't listen to this podcast because by the time they understand this podcast, you're talking about like 15 years from now, right?

42:34so I just want them to earn it have that drive and hunger and that's a really hard thing to give to kids because they grew up with privilege am I going to cut back on my lifestyle and be like I don't want a theater in my house I don't need a theater in my house but one of my passions as a kid and I always wanted to be in the movie industry I always loved movies and films and television shows I don't really get to watch any of them but I always wanted that that was like a dream as a kid and it works so hard i just want it and when i was on a trip and my wife found a house and she wanted to buy it she's like hey this is a perfect house to check some boxes i forgot where i was i think brazil or something like that i was like if you want it go for it um and when we were going through that process like why should i not have some of the things i've worked so hard for so i could have but then it makes my kids less hungry because they think it's normal it really does so then they don't have the hunger that i had because when i was growing up i had no choice but to figure it out and figure out how to make money because no one was going to give it to it give it to me and i'm not saying i struggled i did not struggle yes i grew up in low income housing and we used to get um free lunch from schools and stuff i forgot what the benefits were called i appreciate the government for giving free uh food to my sister and I and then we also had I had college grants because of low income from parents so I really do appreciate the state and the government for helping me out but where I was getting with this is I had that hunger and drive I didn't have it really tough because eventually my parents saved enough and they were able to give us a leg up because I was able to borrow some of that money for your company yeah yeah but I still had enough hunger and I don't think my kids will have the drive that I did because they don't really have a good sense of reality.

44:27So I'm just trying to teach them a win for me would be if my kids give back and try to help others. I would be very happy with that. So if you could go back, you would have done a revocable instead of irrevocable trust? No, I just would have given them zero and then give it to them as they got older. And then I wouldn't have been able to put as much in the trust because the shares would have been worth more the money would have been you know dollar for dollar usually what people do is they put shares in a company you get valuations but if you know a company's having a good growth rate you're like well 10 years from now it'll be worth a crap load it's great but the problem with that is is i didn't expect the growth rate to keep going and covet to happen and covet really caused the business to boom.

45:15And I felt I just gave them too much where they won't be as hungry. I would love to get into your expertise and give our listeners some advice about digital marketing. Down? I'm down. Okay. So let's talk to small business owners, solopreneurs, creators out there. It's a crazy world right now with AI. If you're, let's say, selling a CPG product and you can only pick one area to realistically invest in an email list, a website or Instagram, what are you picking? Email list, Instagram. And what was the other one? Or you're saying pick any? An email list, Instagram or your website. If you because I think a lot of advice around digital marketing assumes that you have unlimited time and unlimited budget.

46:03Yeah, here's the problem. So if you asked me this question 10 years ago, I would say just pick a website and then build your email list over time and then add other channels but even back then if you couldn't do the other channels a website was enough the problem in today's world is instagram tries to keep you in their ecosystem and gets like a cpg company they try to get you to sell their products within instagram so that way the person's still on instagram and they can monetize it again right so that way meta can keep making money from the same user without them leaving if you look at tiktok same if you look at chat gpt uh partnership with stripe i believe it is or shopify if not both etsy etsy stock went up the moment the partnership was announced and they want to make it where you can just buy within chat gpt if you look at city and paypal yes and they're all doing that and if you're doing amazon amazon wants you to be in their ecosystem get people to keep buying so they can add multiple products and stay there and buy more and more instead of going to your website.

47:04And because of that, the sad reality is, is you can't build a business, a large business just off of Amazon or just off of Instagram or just off of TikTok or just off of your website because platforms try to keep you on their platform. So the reality is, is you need to leverage multiple platforms. Now going back to a CPG company is it cpg or we're doing d2c let's start with cpg if you're doing cpg most of them sell through grocery stores right i would push harder on social media at the beginning and whether you want to choose instagram over tiktok because your ideal audience is on instagram or facebook pick whatever one and you can repurpose the content because they all accept the same format now that content won't do as well because it's not natively built for each platform but that's okay.

47:56Something is better than nothing. And that's where I would start. And D to C direct to consumer. Same. I would do the social platforms. Okay. And you say D to C, their social platforms, or I would do Amazon one or the other to start off with. And you say traditional searches dead. Traditional searches dead. So what's alive? Yeah. So to give you guys a perspective, there's over 50 billion searches that happen a day. Uh, Google owns roughly 27 % of the market share with 13.7 billion searches a day uh instagram is at 6.5 billion searches a day youtube's over 3 billion um chat gpt is roughly a billion apple app store for people watching apps or downloading apps 500 uh million searches a day so google is at the top 13.7 uh-huh Instagram is number two.

48:50Almost half of that. Uh-huh. Amazon is over 3 billion. Okay. Or it's over, yeah, over 3 billion. Search on Amazon, of course, is worth more than Instagram because people are looking for a product to buy versus friends. Now, people on Instagram do look for inspirations and products as well, but it's just a much smaller percentage of the searches. The point I'm getting at is searches everywhere. If you think that someone just goes to Google, does a search and buys, you're not wrong, but that's not the only way people search now. They also discover products on Instagram through search and also seeing content.

49:22They discover through searching and asking chat GPT questions. They discover products through searching on the app store or on Twitter or on Pinterest. It's everywhere and you now have to optimize for all the platforms. So you shouldn't buy Google ads anymore. You should still buy Google ads. You should look at Google ads as if you spend a dollar and you can make profit, not revenue, profit, you should keep doing it. but people had the notion before that you just only need Google ads. It doesn't work well anymore to only do Google ads or only optimize for chat GPT or only do Instagram. If trying to build a business that does a few million bucks or even 10,$20 million or 50 million a year, sure, you can only do Google ads or you could only do Instagram.

50:04But if you want to build a big business, you can't just focus on one channel. you mentioned chat gbt how do you think about aeo versus seo it's very similar so we have a diagram on this there's a lot of similarities if you look at google they care more about content quality than let's say a chat gbt but on the flip side a chat gbt cares more about your structure and your clarity on how quickly they can understand the content than let's say Google will. They both care about freshness. How fresh is the content because no one wants to see outdated information. Google cares more about links like other websites linking to you while ChatGPT and LLMs care about mentions.

50:52How often are people mentioning you and what is the sentiment around that mention? Is it positive? Is it negative? Right? So they're looking at a lot of similar factors. In essence, SEO on Google is very similar to SEO or AEO, whatever you want to call it, answer engine optimization on chat GPT. There's just some slight nuances. So you have to adapt. I've been pitched a bunch of companies to help me with AEO. I'm so confused, which are legit. How should I put my money into it? If I want somebody to ask their favorite, you know, ChatGPT, Perplexity, Gemini, whoever, what's the best financial podcast out there?

51:33And I want us to show up first, obviously. How should I do that? How can I do that? You get people to mention your podcast. So if a lot of bloggers write articles on how you're the number one financial podcast, all these answer engines like LLMs like ChatGPT and Perplexity and Gemini will say that you're the number one financial podcast. So what about these companies that are pitching me AEO services? Do small businesses need help that way by hiring an agency or a company? They could or they could try to do it on their own. The question is, do they have access to a lot of publishers who would be open to hearing about a story on why that company has an amazing product, service, or a podcast, whatever it may be, and talking about them all over the web?

52:23And that is a big part of answer engine optimization that a lot of people struggle with. Because imagine trying to convince 100 publishers per country, assuming you're going multi-language, or if you're just going English, you would have to do US, Canada, UK, Australia. Like it adds up. And trying to convince 100 publishers in each region, you're going to quickly have 500 articles that you have to convince people to write about on how you're the number one podcast for financial news or financial advice. I mean, all of this stuff is changing so quickly. So if you want to be relevant in AEO, what would be the best course of action now?

53:05And what's the biggest myth that you see out there? Yeah. So the biggest myth is you just need to create a lot of content on your own blog talking about how you're amazing. That works in the short run, but as the algorithms adapt and get smarter, and they do adapt, like Reddit used to get a lot more traffic from chat GPT than they do now. When people announced that Reddit gets less traffic, their stock price went down, right? That's an example of algorithm updating. So people believe you can just publish a lot of content on your own site talking about how you're amazing and you'll do well. That kind of is the case, but it won't last.

53:38That's the biggest myth. The first truth to what you had to do really well with AEO is you had to get other people on other sites to mention you, just like the example I gave you of getting - That's for SEO too. That's for SEO too, but SEO, you want the links, not the mention. Mention and a link are two different things. I can talk about how money rehab is amazing. But if I didn't link, that doesn't really help that much with SEO. If I link, that helps with SEO. Now, if I mention you and link, that helps with SEO and AEO. But I can link to you without mentioning your company name. That helps with SEO because I can link to financial advice and link to you, but not mention money rehab.

54:19Are you following me? Yeah, and that's not going to show up on ChatGPT because - That's not going to help really chat GPT, but that's going to help with SEO. Okay. So you got to get the mentions. You can either do outreach yourself to a lot of people in your space and build relationships or hire someone who has those relationships. The next thing that you have to do is publish really good content. The reason you do well isn't just the promotion side. The real honest truth is your podcast does well because the information is good. That's the most important part. If the information sucked, you can do all the promotion in the world.

54:51You may climb to the top of the charts, but then you're going to fall down. It's just a question of what I'm assuming you agree with this. Totally. You can't market your way out of a product. You can't. So you got to create good content and content that makes you look like authority. These LLMs know that there's a lot of fake information out there. How do they know who's good and who's bad? The only really way is based on their authority. And the reason I say that is there's too many variables that show the good stuff is good and the bad stuff is bad. And I'm going to use politics as an example, or actually I'll use a COVID vaccine, kind of political, but I don't mean to be political.

55:28And I'm not going to give you my opinion on the vaccine, but when the vaccine first came out, would you agree there was a lot of people saying, you can't be an anti-vaxxer. This is great for you. This is what it's going to do. Pfizer is doing this and doctors all saying you need it. I'm assuming you agree with that. For sure. Right? But at this flip side, you also saw a lot of people saying, you can't take the vaccine. There's not enough data on it. It hasn't been researched enough. You're going to get disease. Your fertility is going to go down, all sorts of stuff. Yep. There was enough people on both sides that had the signals of people linking to each viewpoint.

56:00That's a signal. There's also a lot of people social sharing each viewpoint as well. The good or not the four backs and pro and the con. Yeah, that's easier to put it. Thank you. And you also had people on television talking about both sides. But if you're just looking from the aspect of time on page, because they have the data from the browsers, if you look at social shares and links, the pro and the cons had both of them. So how do these platforms know which ones to choose? Assuming there's no interference from a third party like a government or something like that saying, hey, we want you to force your hand and choose that, which Zuckerberg came out and said that.

56:37I don't know if you saw that in which the government kind of pushed him to go a certain way with all the COVID stuff. And what I'm getting at is these LLMs, if they're using algorithms and signals, which is what they do, it's hard for them to know what is right or wrong because you have signals on both ends. But if President Trump or Biden or Obama, I'm not trying to skew left or right, say something about marketing, most people will say that's a president. whether left or right a president doesn't specialize in marketing right but if they say look at neil he's really good out he's a marketer and he's saying something about marketing the lms know my background is marketing i've been doing this for 20 years so when i talk about seo i should know more than president trump or president obama or biden but on the flip side if neil wants to talk about politics they'll say hey neil's not a politician what the heck does he about this president trump or president biden or obama they know more about politics than neil does we should take his opinions right and the same goes with politicians who aren't them i don't know much about politics i know there's levels underneath them you know just like there's marketers who are above me and have more experience and are better than me but um whoever that person is these platforms will look at trust and you gotta really put out good content to build that trust and build that authority.

58:07So that way you're respected by the platforms and they keep pushing you. And you can get that trust by follows, continue pushing out good information, having people say good things about you, speaking at events, getting press for your name. This all helps you build up authority. You can do this for an individual and you can do that for a company as well. But they both help you get cited by the LLMs because it creates what's called E, E-E-A-T, experience, expertise, authority, and trust by creating a lot of good information, putting it out there. That's what you're building up that these platforms love.

58:39And let's bring it back to earth. If somebody's side hustle is bringing in like 2K a month, what's an SEO or AEO change that they could make to try and double that money? And if they don't have a huge budget, where would you start? You can go to ChatGPT and use their free app and have them help you write content on things that you think you should educate your potential customer on related to questions they may face. So I'll actually break it down step-by-step to make it super simple. We have a free tool called Answer the Public. You can type in any keyword related to your industry. It shows you all the questions people are typing in and answering.

59:16You can take those keywords, put it into ChatGPT, and ask them to write your article solving that question. Answer the Public will show you what's up and coming and trending on the questions people are asking right now. Not from a year ago, not from five years ago, literally from right now today. You create content on that by asking ChatGPT to write your article on it. You review it to make sure it's accurate. And then you just upload it to your WordPress and click a publish button and ask your friends, no joke, to share it on LinkedIn. And you can share it yourself on LinkedIn and X and some of the social profiles.

59:48You may not get the play that you're looking for, but a lot of these LLMs like ChatGPT have data deals with these players. So then it'll start feeding their system and you will start getting mentioned more. and you can do this for like 10, 20 articles and it doesn't cost any money. And it doesn't matter what website, like it could be your own WordPress. It could be - Yeah, you own WordPress. You can publish it on Tumblr or what's that? I don't think people use Tumblr, but there's another one that one of the Twitter founders created, Ev Williams. I forgot what it was called. Oh, Medium. Medium.

1:00:23You can publish on Medium, right? You can pick whatever you want. You can even publish it on LinkedIn, straight up that article because a lot of these LLMs in Google are pulling from LinkedIn. Okay. And that'll help you get mentioned more because you're talking about your products and your services. I mean, I, as a business owner, worry when I think about investing in SEO or AO, buying ads that I'm lighting money on fire. What's a surefire way to light your money on fire when you're trying to optimize for digital marketing? The surefire way is to start by spending money on ads. ads are great, but the problem that most people have is they haven't figured out their funnel.

1:01:04So you want to build your traffic organically. You want to go on Instagram. You want to go on LinkedIn, build an audience, then promote your two grand a month business. I don't mean that in a bad way. I mean, that's amazing that you're at two grand a month, whoever it may be that's listening and try to get it to three or four grand. You then want to get feedback from your customers. How can I make my product better? What's wrong with my messaging? How can I make it more clear? How can I put in more reviews and ratings to build trust? You'll notice as time, as you start talking to customers, you'll get feedback.

1:01:34You take that feedback and you improve your business. When I say improve your business, not just your product and service, but also your messaging, your images, because they'll tell you what issues they have with your product or your company or why they chose to buy from you. And if you could make the changes that they're talking about, assuming you get enough feedback, so you're making changes based on the majority, not just based on one person, what you'll find is your conversion numbers will go up. When I say conversion numbers, if 100 people visit your website and only 100, one buy, that's a 1 % conversion.

1:02:04Now, if on average two buy, you're at 2%. When you're able to convince more people who saw your, you know, your storefront to actually go through the door and make a purchase, it's much more easier to make your ads profitable because you have a higher conversion rate. Because before, if you're spending$10 for a customer, now two people are actually buying so if you spent ten dollars and got a hundred visitors and only one bot you spent ten dollars for a customer now because you've optimized your site two out of a hundred buy now you spent ten dollars for two customers which is five bucks a customer which make your unit economics better what if i want to hire you how much is it uh me directly or my company your company sure so uh we have an s &b division and people can pay us all the way in the low thousands of dollars a month all the way up to we have packages well into the millions of dollars what if i want to hire you i've had really good offers well into the eight figures a year including stock comp from uh well-known companies that everyone uses every single day and you've said now?

1:03:19No, because then it takes away the freedom and flexibility in life. Also, what am I going to do with the money? My wife's good. But what if I ask you so nicely and put you on a show? Usually when people ask me really nicely, I'd be like, I don't want to work for anyone, but I'll help you out for free. And then I just give them advice and then they learn. And then, you know, it also gives me things to do throughout the day. And you do give advice on your social. So if somebody wants to ask you a question, Like you're answering stuff all the time. Usually my team is just to be very transparent. But yeah, someone is answering the questions.

1:03:54Well, thank you for all this free advice. I feel like if we were on the clock, I would get a bill that I would not want. So Neil, we end all of our episodes by asking our guests for a tip that listeners can take straight to the bank. It can be anything. A final tip on saving, investing, digital marketing, growth marketing. Sure. I'm going to give you guys a money tip if that's okay. to the right place yes i i had a conversation with um my trainer the other day and he's telling me how he's paying off his home faster and i'm meeting a lot of people in the last few months of like you know we think things are going to start picking up i'm going to start trying to pay off my home faster i'm like you got a two percent interest rate that you had from years ago do not pay off your home drag it out as long as you can if you have an interest rate that's dirt cheap do not pay off your home first that should be the last thing because you'll make more money just keeping your money in a bank account if you want no risk and pay off high yield account sure uh then you would from paying off your home or you make more money if you're just willing to put in the s &p 500 and just hold it for five ten years not a year not two years because things can go down but you know and i'm not i'm not saying i'm guaranteeing this i just want to give that asterisk but typically if you look at education education the s &p produces better returns than 2%.

1:05:12If you just look at historically, you're better off putting your money in there from a historical standpoint than paying off cheap debt. And I don't know why a lot of people want to be debt free. And they believe that's freedom. And they're trying to pay off really cheap debt. And that's like one of the worst things you can do financially. Even me, I have a mortgage, believe it or not, because I get really killer deals on mortgages. Like my mortgage, did you You know, there's banks that have programs. I use CABC. I can change my mortgage rate anytime I want by just calling them for$1 ,500. They will change the rate to whatever new market rate is, and they're aggressive on rates.

1:05:49But it could be more on their private banking side that they do that. So you're borrowing against, I'm assuming, securities to get your mortgage? Home. Yeah, so like assets. I have a traditional mortgage, but a lot of banks will just do interest only for me. So I never have to pay down the principal and the rate is so cheap because I'm not paying like 6 % or whatever most people are paying. So what you're talking about is the 6 % rule. So if your debt is lower than 6%, it's more advantageous to invest in the historic 7 % to 10 % return that you would get in the stock market. So it's a simple rule.

1:06:28so or let me rephrase right now based on today's uh 10-year right because mortgages are based off a 10-year i can probably get a mortgage rate of around 4.7 something percent interest only on a mortgage if i believe i can make more than 4.75 percent why wouldn't i just keep reinvesting my money somewhere else right but we're telling your trainer would be like the six percent or 5 % threshold like anything below that yes don't and and they have debt on other things like they got new veneers and they're paying higher rates on their veneers and I'm like pay the money off on the veneer and they're trying to train me and get me to lift more weights and I'm just getting really bothered that they're paying off a home at 2 % instead of their veneers which much higher and I'm like I'm just getting really irritated and I'm like pay off your car loan first I'm like This is backwards.

1:07:25It's the money we have right there.

From the publisher

Neil Patel’s origin story involves borrowing from his parents’ life savings to keep his startup alive. Not only did his plan work, but he built a million-dollar company, advised companies including Amazon, Google, and Microsoft— and, he paid his parents back.

Today, Neil breaks down the money lessons he learned once he made it big. He shares why he still drives a minivan despite being able to afford something bougie, the unusual way he teaches his kids about taxes, and the important distinction he makes between success and wealth.

Then, Nicole and Neil get tactical and dig into the future of getting discovered online. Neil explains why traditional search is dead and how to adapt, what founders can do if they have a $0 marketing budget, and the SEO do’s and don’ts of naming your business. 

Check out Nicole’s financial literacy course The Money School 

Find a Financial Advisor or Financial Coach from Nicole’s company Private Wealth Collective

Watch video clips from the pod on Money Rehab’s Instagram and Nicole Lapin’s Instagram

Check out Answer the Public, the free tool Neil mentioned in this conversation

Find more of Neil’s work and resources here

Here’s what Nicole covers with Neil:

00:00 Are You Ready for Some Money Rehab?

01:09 Launching Crazy Egg and Borrowing From Parents

06:42 Next Ventures and Kissmetrics 

09:43 Do’s and Don’ts of Naming Businesses

15:31 NP Digital’s Massive Success vs Personal Success

21:19 Neil’s Perspective on Wealth, and the “Big R” Framework

29:32 Hot Takes on Money

30:07 Teaching Taxes Through Ice Cream

32:15 Living with Less and Financial Goals

38:45 Trust Funds and Regrets

42:09 Actionable Digital Marketing Advice for Business Owners

42:26 Choose Your Fighter: Email List, Website or Instagram?

44:59 Why Traditional Search is Dead

46:59 SEO vs AEO

55:29 Marketing Tips for a $0 Budget

01:00:49 Tip You Can Take Straight to the Bank

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