Outsmart Black Friday Hype and Tackle Credit Card Debt with a Budget Reset

24 Nov 2025 · 39 min · 27 chapters

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In short

Black Friday deal skepticism and how to budget for the holiday season without going into debt; includes a “budget rehab” segment for a listener with credit card debt.

Guests/backgrounds

Amanda Barroso, NerdWallet “Smart Money” nerd and Black Friday-focused content contributor. Elizabeth Ayola hosts. Budget rehab listener: Shelby, South Texas native living in Austin; works at a nonprofit; bought a condo in Dec 2024; has ~8 credit cards (4 with balances).

Key claims

Many Black Friday discounts are “red markup” and may be only a few dollars off; use price tracking by adding desired items to carts starting in early October. Avoid using Buy Now, Pay Later for gifts due to potential credit score impact from new FICO models and missed payments. For debt, consider balance transfer cards (0%/low APR) and use avalanche payoff.

Notable examples

Amanda suggests tracking big-ticket items (tech/electronics, kids’ toys, kitchen/beauty appliances), gift cards, and streaming promos; she reports thrifting $562 for $191. Shelby’s budget uses 50/30/20; housing is ~$2,400/month; credit card APRs include ~27% (Chase Freedom) and ~22–24% (Southwest); she’s saving toward a 3-month emergency fund (~$9,000 goal).

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Kickoff with Black Friday Talk

0:04 to 1:13

The hosts introduce the topic of Black Friday and their personal experiences.

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Kickoff with Black Friday Talk

1:26 to 1:49

The hosts introduce the topic of Black Friday and their personal experiences.

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Kickoff with Black Friday Talk

2:04 to 2:26

The hosts introduce the topic of Black Friday and their personal experiences.

“Welcome to NerdWallet Smart Money Podcast, where you send us your money questions and we answer them with the help of our genius nerds.”

The Evolution of Black Friday

2:26 to 3:36

Discussion on how Black Friday shopping has changed over the years.

“Hey girl, listen, I am reporting live from my guest room where I hide all of my Christmas gifts in the closet.”

Understanding Black Friday Discounts

3:36 to 4:28

Exploration of actual discounts and consumer behavior during Black Friday.

“Amanda, I know your team works hard to provide Black Friday content so that people get the best deals and they can actually identify real deals versus the little sketchy markdowns.”

Navigating Black Friday Trends

4:28 to 7:20

Advice on how to navigate Black Friday shopping trends and strategies.

“For me personally, I found some really great deals for kids' toys and gifts at Target and Walmart already.”

The Importance of Budgeting for Black Friday

7:20 to 8:23

The hosts discuss the necessity of budgeting for holiday shopping.

“So shoppers felt really confident that they were scoring the best price.”

Using Buy Now, Pay Later Wisely

8:23 to 13:14

Discussion on the pros and cons of Buy Now, Pay Later services.

“I think people are also entering this season with maybe a bit more caution and skepticism or I don't know, maybe they're just thinking more critically about where and how they want to spend their money.”

Thrifting for Holiday Gifts

13:14 to 14:01

Exploration of thrifting as a strategy for saving money on gifts.

“I'd recommend using it for one of your bigger ticket items, marking down those deadlines on your calendar, having calendar alerts set up so that you are aware.”

Mixing Old and New Gifts

14:01 to 14:48

Learn how Amanda is saving money by thrifting gifts and combining new items.

“So I really like doing the mix of the old and the new.”
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Listener Engagement Call

14:50 to 15:18

Discover how listeners can reach out with their money-related questions.

“Next up, we've got a budget rehab for one of our listeners.”

Listener Engagement Call

15:29 to 16:34

Discover how listeners can reach out with their money-related questions.

“Lighter fabrics, better materials, pieces that just feel good the moment you put them on and look effortless.”

Budget Rehab Introduction

17:22 to 18:08

Explore the budget rehab segment and its purpose for listeners.

“We're back and answering your money questions to help you make smarter financial decisions.”

Meet Shelby: The Listener

18:09 to 20:05

Get to know Shelby and her financial situation, including her new home.

“And ever since then, I've been working at the Same Place, which is a nonprofit agency here in Austin.”

Understanding Shelby's Budget

20:06 to 21:02

Analyze Shelby's budget, focusing on income and essential expenses.

“Because while I can only reduce spending so much, bills are what they are.”

Housing Costs and Savings

21:03 to 22:30

Discuss Shelby's housing expenses and strategies for saving on groceries.

“And then you just mentioned taking up part-time work, babysitting and things like that.”

Mortgage Insights

22:31 to 24:15

Dive into Shelby's mortgage details and strategies for future planning.

“I think that my job actually hosts a lot of luncheons for other people where they provide food at meetings and often there's leftover food.”

Savings Strategies and Goals

24:16 to 28:00

Explore Shelby's savings strategies and how to achieve her financial goals.

“And I was willing to spend the money on it.”

A Realistic Approach to Financial Goals

28:01 to 28:21

Learn about maintaining a temporary mindset while managing finances.

“And so I'm just trying to take a breather and say everything is temporary, right?”

Understanding Monthly Savings and Debt Impact

28:21 to 28:54

Explore the relationship between savings scores and credit card debt.

“Shelby, based on the information you've given us, your monthly savings score right now is 11.71%.”

Exploring Credit Card Debt Details

28:54 to 30:11

Delve into the specifics of a listener's credit card debt situation.

“So let's talk about your credit card debt.”

Strategies to Manage High Interest Debt

30:11 to 31:29

Find out effective strategies for managing high credit card interest rates.

“And what are the interest rates on these last two cards?”

Evaluating Debt Payoff Options

31:29 to 32:30

Consider various strategies for debt repayment and their implications.

“I have used a balance transfer credit card before in the past and actually do have one through Chase, but you can't transfer from one Chase card.”

Balancing Wants and Financial Responsibility

32:30 to 34:05

Discuss how to balance personal desires with financial responsibilities.

“Now we're going to go into your wants, Shelby.”

Managing Savings While Paying Off Debt

34:05 to 35:18

Discuss the importance of savings and possible adjustments during debt repayment.

“I feel like I'm already giving as much as I can and have adjusted everywhere I could.”

Understanding Balance Transfers and Their Benefits

35:18 to 37:09

Learn about the mechanics of balance transfers and choosing the right card.

“I forgot to mention, I have just a couple other savings accounts through two of my banks.”

Conclusion and Future Financial Goals

37:09 to 39:08

Wrap up discussions on managing finances and future financial strategies.

“But savings are so important to prevent you from going into debt again or even further in the future.”
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Transcript

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1:53Elizabeth Ayoola:They often need reworking, and this episode, you'll listen to us do that live with a listener.

2:04Elizabeth Ayoola:Welcome to NerdWallet Smart Money Podcast, where you send us your money questions and we answer them with the help of our genius nerds. I'm Elizabeth Ayola. This episode, we're doing another session in our budget rehab series. Yay! But first, we're joined once again by fellow nerd Amanda Barroso, and we're talking all things Black Friday. Amanda, hey girl, hey.

2:26Amanda Barroso:Hey girl, listen, I am reporting live from my guest room where I hide all of my Christmas gifts in the closet. So this is perfect timing.

2:35Elizabeth Ayoola:I love it. I haven't bought any Christmas gifts to hide yet, but shame on me.

2:39Amanda Barroso:Shame on you.

2:40Elizabeth Ayoola:All right, Black Friday is here again, and it's another reminder that I'm getting older because I've lived through 30-something of them. I've also been witness to how Black Friday has evolved over the years. Now, a core memory for me is when people would sleep outside of stores to bag a Black Friday deal, and I would see them on the news. And I always thought that was a little wild.

3:01Amanda Barroso:I can remember, I must have been like in middle school or something, going with my mom to Best Buy and standing in line to get a DVD player. That was the hot item that Black Friday. I have like very distinct memories of like the DVD players just stacked in boxes in the middle of a row and everybody just like grabbing one. It was like$20. What? And I know.

3:23Elizabeth Ayoola:Well, I will say that a couple of things that I do like about Black Friday are that it happens a few weeks before the holidays. So you can knock out some shopping before crunch time. It also gives shoppers like a chance to get some items on discount. Now, I want to mention that NerdWallet's holiday spending report found that some holiday shoppers plan to take advantage of big sales days like Cyber Monday, Black Friday, as we're talking about, and also Small Business Saturday. Amanda, I know your team works hard to provide Black Friday content so that people get the best deals and they can actually identify real deals versus the little sketchy markdowns.

3:58Elizabeth Ayoola:We see you companies doing that. Are people really saving that much in these Black Friday sales? Or are retailers mostly giving consumers subparc discounts?

4:07Amanda Barroso:We're still a few days out from the actual Black Friday weekend. So it's hard to know what deals we'll actually be seeing during this time. But you're right. People are gearing up to shop. I've shopped. Girl, I've been shopping since October. You know, that same NerdWallet study that you mentioned found that holiday shoppers plan to spend on average almost$200 more this year than last year. I know, but it's hard to know if that spending increase is due to people buying more things or if tariffs and things like that are making things just more expensive. For me personally, I found some really great deals for kids' toys and gifts at Target and Walmart already.

4:44Amanda Barroso:They've been having sales since October. I do think people should be side-eyeing the discounts like you mentioned. Pay attention to the actual percentages off that you're getting. I'm poking around on these websites. And to me, a deal isn't saving$3. Come on. I'm going to need retailers to do a little bit better than that for Black Friday.

5:03Elizabeth Ayoola:I'm telling you, and they'll try to distract you with all that red markup. And I'm like, wait a minute. Do I really need this for 50 cents less? Right, right. Speaking of which, what items usually do you see the best markdowns on?

5:15Amanda Barroso:Yeah, so every year, tech, electronics, those are always big holiday items. People are always looking for those things. Kids' toys, of course. so we got to make the kids happy. There's always a list of hot toys with a lot of hype. Basically anything in that Amazon toy catalog that hit everybody's mailboxes back in October. I know my six-year-old daughter, she about ran her marker dry, circling everything in that book. I think also if you're in the need for a small kitchen appliance or a beauty item, those things are always discounted pretty well during Black Friday. Some things people don't always think about.

5:51Amanda Barroso:Gift cards, it's a good time to buy those. Even streaming service deals, they'll come out with special promos for the year. If you're in need of that, might be a good time to look. We have an article on what to buy and skip during Black Friday, which we will include in the episode description. So if people are curious, that's a great resource.

6:09Elizabeth Ayoola:All right. I know we have tracked Black Friday prices at NerdWallet in the past. Is that something worth doing as a consumer though?

6:16Amanda Barroso:I don't think consumers need to be quite as intense as we were during our price tracking experiment. But my advice is to put big ticket items that you know you want into various online shopping carts across the internet, starting in early October, probably. That's when retailers start hosting their early Black Friday sales, and you can kind of get a gauge on what those prices are. So for me, that's a fairly low-lift way to kind of keep your eye on prices. Just open up that app, pull up that tab on your your browser, pop in, check the price. I think the reason I suggest this is because we've seen items sometimes dip to their lowest prices before a big sale even happens.

6:58Amanda Barroso:So like the week before Prime Day, for example. So if you're not keeping your eye on it, you'll miss out or you'll fall victim to those half deals that sometimes retailers are promoting that aren't as good as they are in other times of the year. The Black Friday shopping landscape has changed a lot. It used to be that many deals happened on that day alone. The day after Thanksgiving, that's when you did all your shopping. So shoppers felt really confident that they were scoring the best price. So now we're in the age of dynamic pricing and retailers are able to manipulate the prices by the hour.

7:33Amanda Barroso:They're able to change to compete with other big retailers. So it could be by the hour, by the day. And I think that this is really causing shoppers to be more proactive to save money.

7:43Elizabeth Ayoola:All right. Are you seeing any new trends for Black Friday that people should keep in mind while shopping?

7:48Amanda Barroso:So we mentioned that just the Black Friday shopping season has become really extended. Early October, you're seeing these sales that are marked early Black Friday. So the extended shopping season is something that you can take advantage of. I think we'll also continue to see members-only deals. This was big last year, and I think there's no stopping it now. So for example, prime member-only deals or discounts or deals for people with a Target card or Walmart Plus members. If you have a retailer card or membership, don't forget about it. Take advantage of those perks to shop early and start stacking those discounts while you can.

8:27Amanda Barroso:I think people are also entering this season with maybe a bit more caution and skepticism or I don't know, maybe they're just thinking more critically about where and how they want to spend their money. We're coming off the heels of the longest government shutdown in American history. And my family was personally impacted. My husband is an attorney for the VA and was working without pay during that whole time. So, you know, it changes the way that you think about money and how you want to spend it. I think people are also feeling the pinch of rising prices across nearly every budget category, from groceries to insurance to gas.

9:03Amanda Barroso:People might be buying less, mixing thrifted and new items or swapping brand names for house brands to try to save a little where they can.

9:12Elizabeth Ayoola:It also reminds me of something that you were mentioning earlier of people kind of going, do I really need this item or is it a want? And really, does it fit into my budget? So do you budget for Black Friday, Amanda?

9:22Amanda Barroso:I do. I have a sinking fund and a high yield savings account that my husband and I both have access to. And typically what we'll do is the interest that we earn every month on our total savings will redirect into that gift fund so that by the end of the year, we've got a couple hundred bucks that we're able to spend on the holidays. And sometimes we have to supplement here and there, especially if we've pulled money from that for birthday gifts and things like that. But we always have something to lean on. What about you?

9:53Elizabeth Ayoola:I do not budget for Black Friday because I am not a huge Black Friday shopper, actually. That, I think, is one of the times of the year where I'm able to decipher my needs for my wants.

10:03Amanda Barroso:What about your son? Is it hard not to spoil him?

10:06Elizabeth Ayoola:Oh my goodness. Have you seen the amount of toys I've stepped on? Matter of fact, it was his birthday earlier this month and I bought him, I don't know, five different things. They're all broken or lost now. So no, I do not go crazy buying him things in the Black Friday sale. Absolutely not.

10:20Amanda Barroso:It's funny that you say this because in our house, we do like a big toy clean out in the weeks before Black Friday just to kind of assess what's being played with, what we can donate to other children who might need it. And my daughter's old enough now to where I'm getting her involved and saying, okay, look, girl, you're going to be getting some new stuff. You got to make room. Let's have a generous heart this holiday season. And that's been kind of fun to like get her involved in that. But I hear you that most of these kids have plenty. I struggle because I do. I'm like, oh, I want to spoil you.

10:52Amanda Barroso:But that's a tragic flaw for sure.

10:54Elizabeth Ayoola:Yeah. And I will say I spoil him more with experiences, to be honest.

10:58Amanda Barroso:I love that. And you don't step on experiences. They're not like a Lego that hurts your foot in the middle of the night.

11:03Elizabeth Ayoola:Exactly. All right. I know people use different means to pay for gifts. For some people, it's cash. Other people use credit cards. And now we have an increasing number of consumers using buy now, pay later. Now, the latter is a tool that some shoppers plan to use to buy gifts this year. While I understand that Buy Now, Pay Later has its place, I don't think it should be used to buy gifts, as that's a want and not a need, my personal opinion. While it is kind to give gifts, is it really worth potentially going into debt over?

11:33Amanda Barroso:No, no, no, no, no. The holidays aren't worth going into debt over. And anyone who is in your circle who loves and cares about you will probably tell you the same thing. If it's between buying them a gift or making sure that you're not overdrafting your checking account, the folks that love and care about you will say, please keep that money in your account. But here's the thing. The temptation and the pressure are real for most of us. Going back to that NerdWallet survey that found that one in five 2025 holiday shoppers will use buy now, pay later services to purchase presents. Here's the thing.

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12:09Amanda Barroso:Starting now, for the first time ever, this could impact credit scores. This summer, FICO announced that they're going to be rolling out new scoring models with buy now, pay later data this year. And so if people aren't thinking about that, they're not used to that, they're not up on their credit scoring news like we are, they could see their credit scores hit pretty hard in 2026, especially if they miss a payment.

12:33Elizabeth Ayoola:If people do choose to buy now, pay later, how can they do so in a way that's financially smart, Amanda? especially considering all of the other holiday expenses that are coming up beyond gifts. We still got food and travel and just happy spending.

12:47Amanda Barroso:I think the key to using Buy Now, Pay Later, if you have to use it, is to do it responsibly by not overextending yourself. So when people are using installment loans from companies like Affirm, Klarna, for too many purchases, it becomes hard to keep up with payment schedules and deadlines. And again, like we said, one missed payment can really hurt your score. or you're overdrafting your account. I mean, there's a lot of stuff that can go wrong. So if you have to use buy now, pay later this holiday season, I'd recommend using it for one of your bigger ticket items, marking down those deadlines on your calendar, having calendar alerts set up so that you are aware.

13:25Amanda Barroso:This is not sort of a click yes and forget it kind of thing, right? We want to be responsible. We want to be staying on top of those payment schedules.

13:32Elizabeth Ayoola:I'll just throw another tip in there for saving on gifts outside of Black Friday. I think thrifting or buying secondhand gifts can be really handy, which you're doing, Amanda.

13:42Amanda Barroso:I spent August through October thrifting gifts for my kids' Christmas, and I have loved this challenge so much. I went to kids' secondhand shops, used Facebook Marketplace. With the money that I saved buying used, I was able to get a few new things too for my kids, like some Barbies and doll accessories and this huge Fisher-Price bus that I think my son's going to love. So I really like doing the mix of the old and the new.

14:09Elizabeth Ayoola:Sounds like a good way to save money. Now, Amanda, this year has been full of experimenting for you. You did a low buy challenge at the start of the year, and now you're thrifting gifts for the holidays this year. How many gifts have you gotten so far, and how much have you saved?

14:24Amanda Barroso:I'm so excited about this. Well, I have been kind of keeping this updated list of things. So as of today, I've scored$562 worth of stuff for about$191. That's a good savings. $370 worth of savings right there. Like, that I'm proud of.

14:42Elizabeth Ayoola:Thank you so much for chatting through Black Friday with me and sharing some of your tips and tricks. They're always helpful. I love being here. Thanks, Elizabeth. Next up, we've got a budget rehab for one of our listeners. But first, get out your phones and dial or text us. Maybe credit card debt has hurt your credit score and you need tips for fixing it. Or you want to start your generational wealth building journey and you don't know how. Whatever your money question, we nerds are here to help you. Leave us a voicemail, text us on the nerd hotline at 901-730-6373. One more time, that's 901-730-NERD.

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17:22Sean Pyles:We're back and answering your money questions to help you make smarter financial decisions. Today, we're doing a budget rehab segment, which is when we go through a listener's budget to help them optimize it and ensure it aligns with their financial goals and values. If you'd like us to look through your budget, fill out the form in today's episode description. So today we're joined by Shelby and we're gonna be looking at their budget with the 50-30-20 framework and go into all of what we just described around their values, their goals, and whatnot. So hey, Shelby, welcome to Smart Money.

17:49Elizabeth Ayoola:Hi, Sean Elizabeth. Hi, we're happy to have you here. So first of all, Shelby, tell us a little bit about you. Where are you from? And then where do you work as well?

17:58Amanda Barroso:So I am from South Texas, but I've been living in the Austin area since I came here for college. So that was fall of 2012. I graduated in 2015. And ever since then, I've been working at the Same Place, which is a nonprofit agency here in Austin.

18:16Elizabeth Ayoola:We love to hear it. We love a good nonprofit. Thank you. Now you're working at a nonprofit. You all do great work and you need help with your budget. So I want you to describe your budget in one word, Shelby.

18:27Amanda Barroso:One word. I'll use a phrase. It's a work in progress.

18:32Elizabeth Ayoola:Okay. I like that. I think a budget is always a work in progress. No matter how great it is, it can always be refined and updated. So I like that a lot. Now tell us why you sent in your budget.

18:42Amanda Barroso:My goal for this year was to become more financially educated and strategic. I bought my condo in December of 2024. So that used up the majority of my savings, which meant I was kind of starting from scratch again with rebuilding that, which meant really looking at my monthly budget because I had new home costs. with buying a new home. That means you've got to furnish it and paint it. So I quickly racked up more credit card debt than I am used to. So I've also been trying to like rebuild savings, but also work towards bringing down debt, which is kind of a conundrum and thought I could get some help there.

19:28Sean Pyles:Yeah. Well, congrats on buying your condo. That's a big step. How does it feel being a homeowner now?

19:32Amanda Barroso:It is good. I was a homeowner before and then I sold that one. I I haven't been a homeowner, though, for about two to three years. So being back in is a nice reminder of there's always something to fix and work on. And it's on me to do it.

19:48Sean Pyles:Yep. And I'm sure it changed your budget quite a bit. How did your finances change after you bought your condo?

19:53Amanda Barroso:Honestly, not too much because I've always been, I would say, financially responsible. It just meant I had a little less play money.

20:04Sean Pyles:So what would you say is maybe your biggest stressor in your budget right now?

20:09Amanda Barroso:I would say the credit card debt. Because while I can only reduce spending so much, bills are what they are. I can't really adjust that. I've adjusted once pretty well, but I have also started doing some part-time work. I've started doing nannying and babysitting just for supplemental income with the idea of I can just throw that towards credit card debt using the avalanche method. Hopefully I'm getting that right. Focusing on the credit cards with the higher interest.

20:39Sean Pyles:Yes, that is the avalanche method. Well, we're going to get deep into your credit card debt in a little bit. First, we want to talk about your budget at kind of a high level.

20:47Elizabeth Ayoola:Shelby, thank you for sending us in your budget. So we were able to have some numbers to look at. So we're going to go through each category, maybe ask you a couple of questions, talk through that, and then we'll look at your financial goals and how we can maybe rework your budget to align with those goals. Does that work? That works. Perfect. So your after-tax income is around$5 ,570. Is that right, Shelby? That's about right. Okay. And then you just mentioned taking up part-time work, babysitting and things like that. Does that include that income as well? It should. Okay. I'm not too far off.

21:17Elizabeth Ayoola:I'm about maybe a couple hundred. That still works. So now that we know your after-tax income, we're going to move to your must-haves. And I know you just mentioned that you feel like you've done a good job of kind of getting your must-have bucket into shape. So your monthly housing costs, can you tell us how much you're paying at the moment for that?

21:35Amanda Barroso:Yes, it's about$2 ,400. That would be my mortgage and my HOA. And the HOA does include my water bill as well as home insurance.

21:49Sean Pyles:What other expenses can you think of that are maybe a significant part of your must-have expenses? Do you have a car payment or insurance for your car?

21:57Amanda Barroso:I thankfully do not have a car payment. I was able to pay off my car, I think, in January of this year, which is great because that's a really good feeling. I could afford my HOA.

22:09Sean Pyles:Yeah.

22:09Amanda Barroso:Yeah. But I still, of course, have insurance. That includes home insurance also. Those are bundled together, and that's about$165. Okay. And then, of course, all other utilities.

22:20Sean Pyles:One thing I noticed in your budget spreadsheet, Shelby, is that you're spending around$300 a month on groceries, which is actually really good. How do you save money on groceries? Because that's something that I struggle with personally.

22:32Amanda Barroso:I think that my job actually hosts a lot of luncheons for other people where they provide food at meetings and often there's leftover food. So I find myself eating more at work just from things that are brought to the break room than actually having to eat my food that I brought. So I feel like I'm able to stretch it out a bit.

22:54Elizabeth Ayoola:Oh, I love free food. One of the downsides of working from home is we don't get any free food. No.

23:01Sean Pyles:But looking at your housing costs and your income, I noticed that your housing costs are a little high relative to your budget. You're spending about 44 % of your take-home pay on your housing. Does that feel comfortable for you or does it feel a little bit tight?

23:16Amanda Barroso:It feels okay because I kind of knew what I was getting into and I'm trying to tell myself this is an investment. It's an investment, right? It's not like I'm spending this money on wants.

23:29Sean Pyles:Yeah, and it's a roof over your head.

23:31Amanda Barroso:Yeah, yeah. I feel like every month I'm able to pay everything that I need to and still have money left over for my groceries, for going out with friends on occasion. So yeah, I'm not overly stressed with the money I have left over after all the must-haves, but that does mean I can't be as aggressive towards paying down my credit card debt as I'd like to be.

23:52Sean Pyles:And what's your interest rate on your mortgage?

23:55Amanda Barroso:Right now, it is 4.25 because I did a 3-2-1 buy down. So come January of next year, it'll go up to 5.25. And then the third year, it's 6.25. And that will remain on until I hopefully refinance at a lower rate. I did that because at the time, it seemed like the better deal for me in the long run. And I was willing to spend the money on it.

24:23Sean Pyles:I think that's a smart move because interest rates have been pretty difficult for the past few years, especially. And you're right when you were closing. I don't have the exact numbers, but they weren't great. I'll tell you that. So looking ahead to when your interest rate might kick up to higher around five, six percent, you might want to look at what it might cost you to refinance, because typically if you can get an interest rate that's around three quarters of a percent lower than what you currently have, it's often worth it to refinance.

24:47Amanda Barroso:I did hear that on maybe this podcast. You probably did.

24:53Sean Pyles:That's great. Well, I'm glad it's stuck in your brain.

24:55Amanda Barroso:Because I'm trying to plan ahead for that.

24:57Sean Pyles:Well, that's great. We're all about planning for the future with your money here. Shelby, looking at all of your must-have expenses, you're spending a little over 60 % of your take-home pay on your needs, which isn't unheard of. I mean, with a 50, 30, 20 budget, ideally you'll have 50 % covering your needs. But given how expensive the world is and mortgages and condos are, I think that you're doing pretty well, all things considered. So, Elizabeth, do you want to dive into savings?

25:25Elizabeth Ayoola:I do. And before I do, I'm not going to assume everyone listening knows what the 50, 30, 20 budget is. So 50 % usually goes to your needs, 30 % to wants, and 20 % to debt and savings. All right, Shelby, so tell us what accounts you're currently saving in.

25:40Amanda Barroso:So I have a high yield savings account that I opened earlier this year, maybe around in the summertime. Then I have a 401k through my employer, which also offers an IRA that I just recently started contributing to as of like a week ago. And then I have personal banking savings accounts that I use. So kind of like Sean, I have multiple accounts where I kind of automatically transfer things into because that is helpful for my mind. So I have those already pulled out of what comes through my check and then I can use whatever balance is left there to start

26:16Elizabeth Ayoola:divvying up towards all of my needs. And you also mentioned in your budget that you sent over that you have an HSA. Is that correct? Oh, yes. I do have that as well. So let's rewind a little bit since we're on the topic of savings. Do you currently have an emergency saving fund? Because I know that was a priority for you. I have one that I am building.

26:36Amanda Barroso:So the high yield savings account is what I'm using to build up at least three months worth of my living expenses. So right now I would say I'm about a fourth of the way there.

26:49Elizabeth Ayoola:How much do you need to save to get to three months?

26:51Amanda Barroso:To get to three months, let's see, I think it should be around$9 ,000.

26:55Elizabeth Ayoola:$9 ,000 is my goal for three months worth. And then how much are you currently saving in each of those accounts? How much are you saving in your health savings account, your high yield savings account, your 401k monthly?

27:04Amanda Barroso:The high yield savings is, the goal was 200 monthly, but that's changed to 100 monthly. The HSA is 100 per paycheck. The IRA is$50 per paycheck. And remind me what the other one was. Oh, the 401k. I contribute 6 % and then my employer matches 3%.

27:26Elizabeth Ayoola:I know you said that you want to save more, but in order to achieve, let's just round it off and say$10 ,000, right? Which is three months worth of expenses for you. If you continue saving, let's say$200 a month, that would come up to you saving$2 ,400 a year. And it would take about four years, assuming you didn't take out any money for emergencies for you to rebuild that emergency fund. So how are you thinking in terms of your time horizon of how fast you would like to rebuild your savings?

27:53Amanda Barroso:The sooner the better is always great because I've never been a patient person.

27:59Sean Pyles:I can relate to that.

28:00Amanda Barroso:Yeah. I'm also a very realistic person. And so I'm just trying to take a breather and say everything is temporary, right? So all of my, like the supplemental work that I'm doing with the nannying, hopefully that's not forever. So the more I do that, the quicker I can achieve my goals. And the sooner I can hopefully just have one job.

28:20Elizabeth Ayoola:That's right.

28:21Sean Pyles:And pay off your credit card debt.

28:22Elizabeth Ayoola:Shelby, based on the information you've given us, your monthly savings score right now is 11.71%. So it's shy of the 20 % that's recommended in the framework. But again, you have different financial priorities right now, but we'll see later if we can bump that up to 20%.

28:39Sean Pyles:And one thing we should know is that your monthly debt payments are eating into your savings score. So you're putting a lot of money into these different goals. And it might feel like you're saving a lot of money. But because of this credit card debt, you're just not able to save in the way that you want to, as you know well. So let's talk about your credit card debt. How much do you have? How many credit cards do you have? Talk with us about the story of your credit card debt. I believe I have about eight credit cards right now, but only four of them currently have a balance.

29:11Amanda Barroso:So one of them is strictly for car maintenance, repairs, and that one has a no interest for six months if the purchase is over$150, which every car purchase is over$150. So right now, that card has a balance of$1 ,000. Then the other credit card that I just got this year, that one is about$1 ,600. And that one also has a promotional interest rate right now of 3.99 % until, I want to say February or March of next year. Then my two others, so one of them is my Southwest card. Yes, I'm a Southwest girly. Not super happy about all the different changes that have come up recently. That one is just under$4K.

30:01Amanda Barroso:And then my other, which is just a, it's the Chase Freedom, which does have reward benefits on it. That one is just over$2K.

30:11Sean Pyles:And what are the interest rates on these last two cards?

30:13Amanda Barroso:The Freedom is the highest. So that's the one I've been paying most aggressively. I want to say it's like around 27. And then my Southwest is the next highest, which would be about 22, 24.

30:29Sean Pyles:And what's your credit score?

30:30Amanda Barroso:Most recently was 759.

30:33Sean Pyles:That's pretty good. So I hate when people pay egregious amounts of interest and anything north of 20 % is going to be in that category. And often if you have a credit card that has rewards like the two you mentioned, the Southwest and the Freedom, any amount that you're paying an interest is going to wipe out the value of those perks. So one thing that I would encourage you to look into, even though these balances might feel relatively small, is maybe getting a balance transfer credit card where you can have a zero APR period, often between 18, maybe even 24 months, depending on the card itself.

31:08Sean Pyles:So NerveWallet has roundups. We have refresh roundups every single month where you can look at the best balance transfer credit cards. That way you can just accelerate your debt payoff and pay less in interest and put as much money as possible toward really zeroing out that balance. It'll accelerate the amount that you're able to pay and how quickly you'll be able to get out of debt. Have you looked into this option thus far?

31:29Amanda Barroso:Not too much. I have used a balance transfer credit card before in the past and actually do have one through Chase, but you can't transfer from one Chase card. Yeah. So the card that I got this year that does have that 3.99 promotional interest rate, they are also offering different promotional transfer balances. So I have considered that. I think there is one offer that is zero interest and there's another, but a much smaller interest rate for a longer period of time. So it is something that I have thought of, but haven't deeply considered.

32:01Sean Pyles:I would encourage you to play with a debt payoff calculator and see with these different interest rates. If you have a credit card interest rate that's like 27 % versus 0%, how long it would take you to pay off debt with these different scenarios. So that way it can make these numbers and these different scenarios feel really concrete. That might be some good motivation too, because I want your money to go towards more fun things than paying interest to a bank. And transferring your balance might be the best way to do that.

32:29Elizabeth Ayoola:Maybe so. Now we're going to go into your wants, Shelby. I think this is the fun part. You are very responsible looking at your budget. You have all these responsible things you're doing. What do you typically spend your wants budget on?

32:41Amanda Barroso:I think most is experiences. So that would be like dinners, drinks, trips with friends. But all my friends are kind of in the same financial space as I am, right? Because we're all living in this wonderful economy and state of the world. So we're trying to all balance how many trips we're going on or how extravagant the trips are, how often we're going out to eat or maybe where we're going out to eat. But when it's someone's birthday, you know, all of that doesn't matter.

33:09Sean Pyles:Of course. After one margarita, who cares about your credit card?

33:12Amanda Barroso:Exactly.

33:13Sean Pyles:Yeah. It's like

33:13Elizabeth Ayoola:calories don't count on your birthday and neither does the budget. So I guess we'll now share the percentage of your wants bucket. So it's taking up 28 % of your income. So in the 50, 30, 20 grand scheme of things, you're just below 30%, which is doing pretty good. You're pretty conservative in that way.

33:33Sean Pyles:I don't want to restrict fun in your life, Shelby, but I'm wondering if there might be a place or two where you could pull back a little bit on the wants just to funnel any extra cash toward your debt payoff, at least momentarily. I think you might be able to skirt that if you end up getting a balance transfer card. Your credit score should qualify you. That might be one way to avoid pulling back on your wants. But if you keep going the path you're currently on, doing just debt avalanche and paying these really high interest rates, you may want to consider pulling back on wants at least in one or two areas.

34:05Amanda Barroso:I feel like I'm already giving as much as I can and have adjusted everywhere I could. Right. So that's what prompted me to get supplemental income was because, you know, I was already working with what I had, but I need to have a little more to work with.

34:23Sean Pyles:So the question kind of becomes, where can you create slack in your finances? Because it is fairly tight currently. And I think based on what I've seen so far, the interest rate is probably going to be your best bet. It seems like you got into this debt because of household expenses. You weren't racking up vacations on them, correct? I wish. Except you don't, because that would be indicative of a worse behavioral issue around how you manage your money. So that's a good thing. So take some solace in that you were going into what's maybe a more responsible form of credit card debt. But as you know, it's all too easy to slip into credit card debt.

34:59Sean Pyles:So just take some precautions to avoid going into more as you know, well, I don't need to tell you this, but I always have to remind everyone. Okay, so Shelby, based on what we've talked about so far, what other questions do you have about how you might be able to improve where your finances are going, how you're managing your budget, what you're going to be doing around your debt payoff. Any other questions? I know we talked about the HSA, the 401k, the IRA that I recently

35:23Amanda Barroso:started and then the high yield. I forgot to mention, I have just a couple other savings accounts through two of my banks. So one of them is a credit union. That one, I save$50 per paycheck. So that's a hundred monthly. And then I kind of just throw in extra there whenever I can. So I have my larger lump sum go to my primary bank where I primarily do bills. And then I have my credit union, which is where I do like smaller savings, but also that's more like my play money. So the primary savings that when I put in 250 monthly. So I forgot to mention that. My question is, and I bet you guys would never recommend this, but what are your thoughts on like temporarily pausing savings, right, or doing minimal savings so that way that money can go towards the more aggressive debt repayment?

36:18Elizabeth Ayoola:That is not a terrible idea when you have high interest debt to pay. But something that we do suggest is that you at least get your 401k match. Are you getting that with your employer currently? Yeah, I do believe so. and then you at least have$1 ,000 in your emergency savings fund. But obviously, three months, three to six months is ideal.

36:37Sean Pyles:Yeah, I don't hate the idea of pulling back. I would caution against pulling back entirely, just because we want to see you making progress on your savings goals. I think that might be something to consider more seriously if you aren't able to transfer the balance of your credit cards to a zero interest card. Because I don't know exactly how much you're paying in interest each month, but you might find that the amount that you're saving in interest, if you can transfer the balance, would be about the amount you would sacrifice from your savings to put it toward your credit card debt. So just run some numbers there.

37:11Sean Pyles:But savings are so important to prevent you from going into debt again or even further in the future. As you know, something could happen to your condo tomorrow and you might have to pay for it. So it's just the best key to long-term financial resilience is your saving.

37:26Amanda Barroso:Okay, here's another question. So let's say I do look more into the balance transfer. I haven't done it in quite a while, but I can't remember if you're able to transfer balances like from multiple credit cards into one or does it have to be a one-to-one?

37:43Sean Pyles:It depends on the card, but you can transfer often multiple cards onto one card.

37:48Amanda Barroso:Okay, If I did do a balance transfer and it was only one card, what are your thoughts on transferring the balance that is lower but has the highest interest rate versus the balance that is twice as high but has a smaller interest rate?

38:03Sean Pyles:Yeah. Remind me again of each interest rate. One's 27, one's 21. Is that right?

38:07Amanda Barroso:Yeah, it's not very far off.

38:10Sean Pyles:I think it'd be worth running the numbers to see how much you would pay in interest over the life of each debt. but kind of back of the napkin mental math, it seems like you would probably save the most money by transferring the higher balance, even though there's a slightly lower interest rate. But ideally you could get a card where you'd be able to transfer multiple balances onto one new card. And that shouldn't be too hard to find.

38:30Amanda Barroso:Yeah. I'm pretty sure that the credit card that I got earlier this year still has a transfer balance option on it. So I'll look more into that so that way I'm not having to open up a new line of credit. Yeah. And I'll go from there.

38:42Sean Pyles:And that's the 3 %?

38:44Amanda Barroso:I think so. It's around that.

38:45Sean Pyles:Yeah. Way better than 27. Well, Shelby, thank you so much for being so open with us about your finances here. Maybe we can have a follow-up conversation when you have your debt somewhat more resolved about how much you're saving for retirement, because that's a whole nother can of worms that we don't have time for today. But I would love to talk with you about that in the future. But in terms of spread of accounts, you have a good variety there. So congrats on that.

39:08Amanda Barroso:Okay. Thank you.

39:09Sean Pyles:Also, listeners may be able to hear that my cat has entered the picture. He is meowing on my lap as I'm recording this. Maybe he's got an opinion. Yeah.

39:18Elizabeth Ayoola:I know.

39:19Sean Pyles:Maybe she has something to say about Shelby's budget. All right. Well, thanks so much for coming on. Thank you for having me. And that is all we have for this episode. Remember, listener, that we are here to answer your money questions. So turn to the Nerds and call or text us your questions at 901-730-6373. That's 901-730-NERD. You can also email us at podcast at nerdwallet.com.

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Learn how to spot real Black Friday deals and reshape your budget with a step-by-step money makeover.

What should you watch for on Black Friday to avoid fake discounts? How can you reset your budget when debt and housing costs squeeze you? Hosts Sean Pyles and Elizabeth Ayoola discuss holiday shopping and budgeting to help you spend smarter without regrets. First, Amanda Barroso joins Elizabeth to break down Black Friday 2025: why the season now stretches from October through Cyber Monday, how members-only promos (think Prime, store cards, Walmart+) and stacked discounts can boost real savings, and why Buy Now, Pay Later could hit your credit score if you miss payments as new scoring models roll out. They also talk about dynamic pricing, where to expect the deepest markdowns (tech, toys, beauty, small appliances), and low-lift ways to track prices so you don’t fall for “half deals.”

Then, listener Shelby joins Sean and Elizabeth for a Budget Rehab using the 50/30/20 framework. They discuss right-sizing “needs” when housing is eating up a large chunk of take-home pay, ways to accelerate payoff on 20%+ APR cards (including a 0% balance transfer and when to combine multiple balances), and how to keep momentum while protecting essentials like a starter emergency fund and capturing a 401(k) match. They also cover fine-tuning wants so they take up less income, using side hustles to help with debt payoff, planning ahead for a 3-2-1 mortgage buydown reset and possible refinance, and simple tracking tactics that align spending with values.

Resources mentioned in this episode:

What to Buy (and Skip) on Black Friday 2025: https://www.nerdwallet.com/finance/learn/what-to-buy-skip-black-friday 

NerdWallet Advisor Match: https://www.nerdwallet.com/l/advisor-match-sem-fiduciary 

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