Stop Worrying About Your Financial Advisor and Start Finding the Right One

25 Jun 2026 · 40 min · 24 chapters

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In short

The episode tackles two themes: (1) identity theft/scams and (2) whether financial advisors are “evil,” arguing that the real issue is conflicts of interest and fee structures. In the news segment, Rick VanderKneif interviews Mona Terry (Identity Theft Resource Center Chief Operating and Programs Officer).

Key claims

identity theft increasingly involves cascading incidents (over one in four victims faced two+ simultaneous incidents); unauthorized device access rose about 78% year over year; among victims reporting three+ financial impacts, 0% reached resolution; scams often use urgency to trigger emotional reactions; AI makes scam messages look more realistic. Examples: a parent denied benefits because a child’s Social Security number was used for work; scammers used stolen credentials to compromise multiple accounts. In the main segment, Elizabeth and wealth advisor Ryan Sterling (NerdWallet Wealth Partners) say not all advisors are evil. Notable examples/red flags: product pushing, unclear compensation, and commission-based/fee-based incentives. Sterling explains AUM fees (0.9% under $500k, then 0.8% with “cliffs”) and contrasts with hourly/one-time/retainer models.

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Mona Terry and Ryan Sterling.

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Introduction to Identity Theft and Scams

0:04 to 1:13

Discussing the rise of identity theft and scams in today's world.

“What happens when your internet drops during business hours and you're the one running the business?”

Introduction to Identity Theft and Scams

1:20 to 2:12

Discussing the rise of identity theft and scams in today's world.

“Avatar Fire and Ash is now streaming on Disney+.”

Weekly Money News Roundup

2:13 to 3:10

Exploring the latest trends in identity theft and scams.

“answer them with the help of our genius nerds.”

Understanding the Impact of Identity Theft

3:11 to 4:53

Insights into how compromised accounts can lead to larger identity crises.

“I'd love to start by touching on some of the trends that you're seeing in your latest report.”

Victims' Experiences and Emotional Toll

4:54 to 7:25

Real-life anecdotes highlighting the emotional impact of identity theft.

“Yeah, disconnect from the Internet is the very first thing.”

Prevention Strategies Against Identity Theft

7:26 to 11:35

Tips and strategies for individuals to protect themselves from identity theft.

“The biggest red flags are that sense of urgency.”

Prevention Strategies Against Identity Theft

13:18 to 14:23

Tips and strategies for individuals to protect themselves from identity theft.

“Lighter fabrics, better materials, pieces that just feel good the moment you put them on and look effortless.”

Understanding Financial Advisors

15:11 to 17:22

Exploring the question of whether all financial advisors are trustworthy.

“And can you actually trust any financial advisor to have your best interest at heart?”

Ryan Sterling Joins the Discussion

17:24 to 18:11

Ryan Sterling shares insights into the world of financial advising.

“Suspicious in Spokane has some good questions.”

Conflicts of Interest in Financial Advice

18:12 to 19:07

Discussing the potential conflicts of interest in financial advisory fees.

“I've been in the wealth management business for two decades now, and I've seen it done really well, and I've seen it done poorly.”
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The Emotional Component of Wealth Management

19:08 to 20:32

Examining why emotions play a vital role in financial decision-making.

“But I want to get to their concerns, starting with conflicts of interest in financial planning.”

The AUM Model Explained

20:33 to 21:33

Explaining the Assets Under Management (AUM) fee structure.

“But so where do some of the conflicts of interest arise?”

Understanding Fee Structures in Finance

21:34 to 23:04

Analyzing various fee structures and their implications for clients.

“And the general idea is that you have, you know, maybe a million dollars and they're being managed by a financial advisor and they're taking a small percentage of that.”

The One-Time Planning Fee Model

23:05 to 25:18

Discussing the pros and cons of a one-time planning fee for financial advice.

“But on a revenue standpoint or a fee standpoint, it's actually stayed the same.”

Hourly and Monthly Retainer Models

25:19 to 26:52

Exploring hourly and monthly retainer models for financial advising.

“And it was really hard to see where it's like, oh gosh, like this person paid so much money.”

Aligning Advisors with Client Needs

26:53 to 28:00

Understanding how financial advisors can better align their services with client needs.

“So for example, for clients that start with us with$100 ,000, that fees$900 a year.”

Understanding Conflicts of Interest in Financial Advice

28:00 to 29:14

Learn about how fee structures can create conflicts of interest for financial advisors.

“And like they get paid more for surgeries that they do.”

The Importance of Trust in Client-Adviser Relationships

29:14 to 31:05

Discover how trust is essential in maintaining long-term relationships with financial clients.

“Now, I will say, I'm sure there's an advisor out there who's listening, who's saying, I operate on that model.”

Identifying a Good Financial Advisor

31:05 to 33:02

Get tips on what to look for when searching for a trustworthy financial advisor.

“Well, what can people like Suspicious in Spokane, who are skeptical but maybe want to work with a financial advisor, what are some things that they can look out for?”

Evaluating Advisor Fees: Time vs. Expertise

33:02 to 34:24

Understand the value of advisor expertise compared to the time taken for financial advice.

“They reference something about, you know, how much time does it take an advisor to do something?”

Who Needs a Financial Advisor?

34:24 to 36:31

Learn about the types of clients who benefit from having a financial advisor.

“Like if I go to the doctor and I need a surgery and the surgery takes 10 minutes to do or 15 minutes to do and it's super easy, I don't want to skimp on that, right?”

Finding the Right Financial Advisor for You

36:31 to 39:28

Explore strategies for finding a financial advisor that fits your unique needs.

“And for someone who does want a financial advisor who isn't evil, who is competent and trustworthy, where do you think they can begin to look for that individual?”

Signs of a Bad Financial Advisor

39:28 to 39:44

Learn key red flags that indicate an advisor may not have your best interests at heart.

“This also opens up a conversation around what does it even mean to be evil?”

Finding the Right Financial Advisor for You

42:03 to 42:27

Explore strategies for finding a financial advisor that fits your unique needs.

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Transcript

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2:02Should we add financial advisors to the list? That's a question that came across our transom and one that we'll tackle head on. Welcome to NerdWallet's Smart Money Podcast, where you send us your money questions and we answer them with the help of our genius nerds. I'm Sean Piles. Later this episode, we'll be asking a really big question. Are financial advisors evil? Shoot, I mean, I certainly hope not since I am a financial advisor. But first, our weekly money news roundup where we break down the latest in the world of finance to help you be smarter with your money. Our news colleague, Rick VanderKneif, is back and he's talking with a guest about something truly evil, identity theft and scams.

2:43Hey, Rick. Hey, Sean. It's great to be here. And yes, We're here to talk about scams and ID theft. The Identity Theft Resource Center released its 2026 Trends in Identity Report, and it's got some new ways in which people are getting scammed, and we all need to know what to watch out for. So last week, I spoke with Mona Terry. She's the ITRC's Chief Operating and Programs Officer, and here's our conversation. Mona Terry, welcome to Smart Money. Thanks so much, Rick. Glad to be here. I'd love to start by touching on some of the trends that you're seeing in your latest report. For instance, more than one in four victims who contacted the ITRC were now dealing with two or more simultaneous incidents.

3:26Can you walk listeners through how one compromised account can cascade into a full identity crisis? One of the things that's jumped up is people saying that their devices have been hacked and then they're finding out that their email account was taken over or their social media account was taken over. They were in a data breach and it was their username and password. And now they're finding other accounts that with that username and password have been impacted. So it's no longer someone coming to us with kind of a one and done type scenario. It's really, hey, this one thing happened and now I'm starting to realize there's lots of other issues.

3:57Okay, yeah, that touches on another thing that the report spells out, unauthorized device access up something like 78 % year over year. Can you describe what this looks like and what the impacts could be? Yeah, I think what's hard for us is when people come to the ITRC, they're like, my device has been hacked. My phone's been hacked. My computer's been hacked. But they don't know how. They don't know what's happening. So the biggest concern for us when people say their device has been accessed is what's available, right? So what pictures do you have stored? We know that there's certain apps that don't close automatically.

4:31So emails, right? Email accounts typically don't close automatically. Social media accounts don't close automatically. So it's really understanding what apps are downloaded on that phone, what victims have kind of open already they don't log out of, and then what is protected. And then we kind of walk through what are all those apps, what's open, and what might happen, and walking through kind of all of those steps. Is there something particular that someone should do the moment they suspect their phone or laptop has been accessed without their permission? Yeah, disconnect from the Internet is the very first thing.

5:01Disconnect, especially if someone's installed malware, if you really don't know what's happening on your device, and then logging out of anything that's logged in. Here's a stat that caught my attention. Among victims who reported three or more financial impacts, the report says 0 % reached resolution. What's broken in the system and who bears responsibility for fixing it? I think what's hard with the financial impact is if it's something simple, like there's a credit card charge you don't recognize or kind of a single charge. A lot of times those are easy to fix and quick to resolve. It's easy to detect that type of fraud.

5:36But when it's more complex types, especially when it's new accounts being established in someone's name, that type of financial account is a lot harder to recover from. We know that the more accounts that have been accessed, right, so people need that immediate access to their money. So when those accounts are compromised and they're having to wait the 30 days, right, to go through that fraud process, they maybe didn't provide the right information up front or they aren't able to successfully show that it was a thief that was in their account, not themselves. I think that's where it starts to get a lot harder.

6:05So it's that burden of proof is really on the victim. So I think that especially when you're dealing with something like your finances, that's something that's impacting your everyday life. And so I think that, right, your emotions get involved. Everyday life is getting involved, especially if the accounts are with different institutions. Every institution has their own resolution process. So, right, you see one account with one institution, and that's going to take a certain amount of time. But as that goes across other institutions, it takes that much longer. Let's talk about scams a little bit.

6:35The report says that in 74 percent of what are called account problem scams reported to you, the victims shared high value PII or personally identifiable information. What kind of information are we talking about? It really depends on the scam. So when we know with job employment scams, they're sharing the most sensitive information. So they're sharing social security numbers, driver's licenses, those really super sensitive pieces of information that thieves can then misuse in so many different ways. A lot of times it's account information. So login information for certain accounts. Sometimes it's just financial information just up front.

7:15So it's just a lot of different types of information, but almost always involves some type of personal information. So a driver's license, something to identify that person as themselves. How do we know when we're being scammed? What are some of these scams look like? The biggest red flags are that sense of urgency. So kind of they start in kind of really hard and fast and, hey, there's a problem. And before you have a chance to start thinking through what's happening, they have you emotionally reacting to what's happening, right? You're going to be thrown in jail and kind of all of these big things that gets you to think, really not think and use your kind of react with your emotions.

7:46They're getting really good at that. And so I think that's the piece that is a big red flag is anything that says you have to take action right in that moment. You can't pause. You can't stop. You can't take a moment, call them back. Anyone who says you have to do something right now and you can't take a moment for yourself, that's the biggest red flag. We see that's where kind of the scammers have moved. They want to try and keep you engaged and just kind of throwing things at you at rapid fire for as long as possible to keep you on the phone as long as possible. So I'd say that's kind of the biggest red flag that you're dealing with.

8:17A scam is you have to do something right this moment and that you can't talk to anyone else about it is another red flag. I'd say those are the two biggest red flags we see. Is it too early to know if AI is changing the ID theft landscape? I think it is. I think what we are seeing is that AI is making a lot of those attempts to reach people more realistic. So if it's messages, whether it's text messages or email, they look like they're from a either an existing institution or company or it looks like a legitimate company. Right. If you're applying for a job with a company you're not familiar with, they have a website that looks real.

8:54They have people that look real. Everything looks legitimate. And I think that's where A.I. is really helping. I also think that where thieves may not have had the technical skills or the skills to really kind of enact their things at scale, AI is enabling that. So I think it's too soon to tell to what degree, but we absolutely know we're starting to see more of it. Are ID crimes in general getting more sophisticated? And are there more of them? I feel like the number of scam texts and phone calls I get is increasing pretty steadily. As the thieves become more successful, they are getting kind of braver.

9:30And so they are reaching out more. I do think that also because we are seeing, like we talked about, multiple types of identity theft. So it is becoming more sophisticated. I know the types of identity theft that we're hearing about at ITRC, we're just hearing more about people's information actually being misused than just hearing about compromises of information. So your organization works with real people facing real problems. Can you share any anecdotes about identity theft victims and what this looks like to them in real life? Yeah, it runs the gamut. I mean, I think it's people's everyday life.

10:05So their checking accounts, their social media accounts, kind of things that they interact with every day. We know that people are getting into those things like Venmo, right, where they're sending money to people. They're kind of buy now, pay later accounts. So they're getting into the accounts that people use every single day. And so it kind of goes from simple transactions to things that are a lot more complex, like someone committing a crime in their name. We had a parent, for example, who was renewing their benefits and they weren't able to because it showed that their child was working. Someone had used their child's Social Security number for work.

10:38And so they were denied those benefits because it showed that the child was applying, even though the child is a minor. So talk us through what the emotional impact can be in addition to over and above the financial impact. Yeah, people are talking about they feel angry. They feel frustrated. I think the one that's hardest for us to hear is scam victims feeling like it was their fault. They felt like they were to blame for what happened. Like you said, it's not just the financial impact, but it's really that serious emotional impact. We know the more serious the identity crime is, the more serious the emotional impact is.

11:10So we know that people who are facing criminal identity theft, for example, face higher rates of depression. It definitely has a serious emotional impact. So it sounds like one general takeaway is that being vigilant and taking maybe some of the right protection measures can help prevent a financially devastating mess. What's your main advice for people to try to avoid what can be a truly awful experience? The biggest things are freeze your credit so no one can open new financial accounts in your name. Set up any type of protective kind of monitoring that you can on your accounts. You know, you can set an alert for a dollar limit over a certain dollar limit.

11:48Kind of anything that you could do to regularly review your statements. Unfortunately, a lot of it is on the individual, but staying on top of those, setting up alerts to help automate that, freezing your credit, using unique passwords, setting up multi-factor authentication where you get that text code right to your phone, or using an authenticator app, setting up pass keys, making sure those are unique for each account. And really taking the time to do that with all your accounts. I think that we had a victim who had set up multi-factor authentication for all of their new accounts, but they had an older account that they had not even thought about doing that for.

12:22And the thief was able to get into that account and they were locked out. So really just making sure that everything you're doing for all of your new accounts, you're going back and looking at all your old accounts as well. We'll post a link to your annual report, along with NerdWallet articles on identity theft in the show notes. Mona Terry, thanks so much. Thanks, Rick. up next even though we just profiled some real evil elizabeth joins us and we'll answer a question that came to us asking if financial advisors are evil but before we get into that a reminder to send us your money questions whatever's on your mind hit us up on the nerd hotline at 901-730-6373 that's 901-730-NERD you can text us or leave us a voicemail there you can also email your questions to podcast at nervala.com or drop us a comment on Spotify or YouTube.

13:09We'll be right back.

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15:15And can you actually trust any financial advisor to have your best interest at heart? Today's question gets to these issues and more. The question is pretty long, so Elizabeth and I are going to trade off reading it. Here we go. Hey, Sean and Elizabeth, I would love your perspective on a debate I've been having in my head for years. Are all financial advisors evil? There's a little hyperbole there, but seriously, I've wrestled for years with how and or whether to enlist the services of an advisor. I've long been persuaded by books like The Index Card, which advises caution with advisors. And more recently, I've been reading Ramit Sethi, who is much bolder.

15:50He says never allow an advisor to manage your assets and run away as fast as you can if they also sell products like insurance and annuities. Part of me feels like I benefit from another set of eyes on our finances, even just to tell us we're good. And I know there might be some tax and other blind spots where an expert might be helpful. But, but, but I just can't get over my suspicion that the entire profession is built on one massive conflict of interest. If personal finance is simple and if most people can manage things on their own and if no one can beat low cost index funds, how will it ever make sense to pay someone a boatload of money for them to, in quotes, manage our assets?

16:31I know about the fiduciary standard, but I'm sorry. I can't believe that someone won't try to sell me stuff I don't need if it's their living. Sati says that if you must work with an advisor, then pay by the hour or for a plan. Maybe that is the answer, although that adds up fast too. One advisor I just checked asked$6 ,500 for a financial plan, which feels excessive. How many hours of work will that take them? I'm intrigued by subscription financial services where you pay a monthly or yearly fee for access, and there's supposedly no selling. Although I guess I wonder about the quality of advice and my suspicion of being upsold remains.

17:10Can't someone just offer some reasonably priced, unbiased, tailored financial advice? It's also frustrating that it feels like there are no objective voices in this debate, as everyone speaking has something to gain. Signed, Suspicious in Spokane. Suspicious in Spokane has some good questions. And to help us answer them, we are joined again by Ryan Sterling, wealth advisor with NerdWallet Wealth Partners and affiliate of NerdWallet, Inc. Welcome, Ryan. Welcome back. Thanks for having me back. Good to be here. Hey, Ryan. I think we should really get to the big question first, which is, are all financial advisors evil?

17:45And Ryan, are you evil? Okay, so are all financial advisors evil? Let's start there. The answer is no. Not all financial advisors are evil. Shocking. Are there some questionable financial advisors? Yes, there are some questionable financial advisors, just like any industry. Am I? Are we evil? No. But I do appreciate the question. I think it's an important question. I've been in the wealth management business for two decades now, and I've seen it done really well, and I've seen it done poorly. There are a number of advisors that I trust that I would refer my family to, and there are people who I, when they walk into a room, I get to the other side as quickly as possible.

18:30So how can you tell? It's hard to tell. And, you know, we could start with the fee arrangements because, of course, that does drive incentives. It's not as clear in black and white as if someone charges on the AUM model and someone charges on the flat fee model that the flat fee is better. I have a unique perspective here in the sense that I've tried everything. And I can tell you why we've settled on the AUM model. Even though it's not perfect, I find it to be the best, especially for people who are in the growing wealth stage of their life. Well, I want us to get into the different fee structures in a minute, and we'll talk more about assets intermanagement, which our listener referred to here.

19:12But I want to get to their concerns, starting with conflicts of interest in financial planning. So can you address some of these, starting with when it makes sense for someone to have their assets managed by an advisor versus doing it themselves when it's actually quite difficult for an advisor to, quote unquote, beat the market? So one of the things that she said that I thought was really interesting is she goes, if it's so simple. And I always like to say, is it like a lot of things in life? Well, there's simple, but not easy because they're two different things. So I think number one is like we say this all the time, that so much of this business is simple, but again, not easy.

19:45The distinction there is that everything in and of itself is very doable for people to read books, for people to watch YouTube, so on and so forth. But actually executing it is a completely different story. And the reason it's hard as it relates to wealth is because we're emotional. And I always say that, you know, so long as human beings remain emotional, it's going to be really hard for AI to replace financial advisors. I can say, like, I've been in this business for two decades. I have an advisor. And the reason being is because when it comes to my own wealth, I'm prone to emotional decision making.

20:19And I think that's where having an independent advisor, it's almost kind of like, why do therapists have a therapist? And why do therapists exist where you can read books and listen to podcasts and go to seminars? And the reason being is like, yes, you can understand all of this at a very intellectual level, but it's very different when you're trying to execute it at a very personal level. And that's where we come in to play. But so where do some of the conflicts of interest arise? Let's talk about the AUM model first. It really comes down to, you know, we make more money as we manage more money.

20:52Now, some firms will say that we are aligned with our clients' best interests and that we make more if our clients make more over time. So on the one hand, some people would say, well, it actually kind of solves that conflict because we're aligned with our clients' success. Other people would say, well, it just becomes an asset grab where if someone comes to us and says, hey, I'm thinking about paying down my mortgage. You know, should I? And it requires, you know,$200 ,000 to leave the portfolio. We're going to make less money if the person pays off their mortgage. So are we incentivized to say, no, no, no, no, keep it in the account because we want more money to manage?

21:26So that's where the skeptic would come in and to say, like, that's where incentives are. Ryan, you've mentioned AUM, that's Assets Under Management. It's a fee structure that's pretty common in the financial planning space. And the general idea is that you have, you know, maybe a million dollars and they're being managed by a financial advisor and they're taking a small percentage of that. And this is where it seems like our listeners pretty skeptical of how this whole thing works. Can you talk about how AUM is really structured and what the range might be and whether it's actually as bad as they maybe think it is?

21:58Yeah. So it's basically everything you just said in terms of it's a percentage of the assets that are being managed. Now, that range can be anything from as low as, call it half a percent on the low end, up to I've seen two or two and a half percent on the high end. It also depends on how much money you have being managed. So typically, smaller balances come with higher percentages, and it scales down over time. So that's how we're structured. So again, we're based on assets under management. The highest fee starts at 0.9%, and that's where balance is under$500 ,000. Once values get above$500 ,000, it goes down to 0.8%, and then it scales down from there.

22:39But it's important to note that, and this gets a little technical, a lot of firms, what they'll do is they'll charge, you know, 0.9 % in the first$500 ,000 or so, and then 0.8 % in the next$500 ,000. We actually have cliffs. So once someone gets above a certain asset point, everything gets charged the new lower percentage. And the reason we put those cliffs in place is to actually avoid some of these conflicts of interest. So there have actually been times where clients have taken money out of their account, and we've been completely neutral because they've gone from one fee to a higher one because their assets are lower.

23:14But on a revenue standpoint or a fee standpoint, it's actually stayed the same. So that's part of the reason we put those cliffs in place was to at least try to mitigate some of this conflict of interest. Mm-hmm. And AUM is in contrast to other fee structures like the hourly or per plan rate that they mentioned. That's how I have my financial planning firm structured, or also fee-based or commission-based. Can you talk about how each of those works and how they kind of compare on the spectrum of evil or not evil compared to AUM? Maybe where we can start is I can tell you all of the fee structures that we've experimented with.

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23:50So the first one was doing a one-time planning fee where someone comes to you and they just want a one-time plan and it's a one-time fee just like you would go to an attorney for a trust or any sort of kind of legal opinion or a legal document you'd pay a one-time fee and the reason that works well is because again there are zero up charges there are zero um commissions it's a very straightforward i'm going to charge you four thousand five thousand this listener was quoted six and a half thousand and we're going to do a one-time plan and that's going to be it. Okay. So what are the pros and cons of that?

24:25As again, I mentioned the pros. It's a very, it's very easy to know how you're paying the advisor. The cons are, this is why we stopped doing this, is that when you charge a one-time plan, at least for people who are in the wealth building stage of their life, life is so dynamic and things change. So I can build the world's best plan for you and charge you$5 ,000. And then two months from now, that plan could be completely obsolete. It then also goes back to this being simple, but not easy in that I just noticed when I was working under that fee structure that again, we'd have a plan that works and here's the plan, go execute.

25:02And then I'd check in six months later and people get busy. People have lives, they change jobs, they have young families and nothing gets done. And next thing you know, they paid$5 ,000 for something just that sat in a drawer. And I'm someone where like I'm very outcomes focused. And like when I work with my clients, like I want to see the transformation. And it was really hard to see where it's like, oh gosh, like this person paid so much money. And we built the plan for them that, you know, again, we felt was the right plan going forward. And then they just didn't execute on it. So that was where it just became kind of like really frustrating working under that model.

25:38And I just felt that the clients that were paying us under the flat fee model weren't having the best outcomes. Okay. So then there's the hourly model and I experimented with that. And the problem with that is that people then get obsessed with hours and then they don't reach out to you because they don't want to be charged. And it just becomes a very difficult kind of stream of communications because it's, again, it's very unclear about, oh, are you charging me or not? And again, it just felt hard to execute on the plan and strategy on the hourly model. Okay. what about kind of the monthly retainer model?

26:13We were paying a flat amount per month. Okay. Like there are some pros with that similar to the flat fee model. But the issue with that is what happens is, you know, there might be three or four months where like everything's on cruise control. And then they say, uh, I'm actually going to pause right now. And then they pause. And then next thing you know, life changes and they don't re-engage you. And then they come back, you know, a year and a half later. And it's like, we have to re-underwrite the entire plan. So that's why I I was like, gosh, the people that are having the best outcomes are the ones that stick with us for a long time.

26:45And for me, the fee model that scaled the best with people over time was the assets under management. I will also say too, there's a bit of also meeting people where they are. So for example, for clients that start with us with$100 ,000, that fees$900 a year. So it was hard to charge someone$5 ,000 a year when they have$100 ,000 in investable assets. So that's where it's like, gosh, like how can we align this over time? And that's where, again, the AUM model is it takes them to get above$500 ,000 before they're paying us$5 ,000 a year. But at that asset level, they're better equipped to be able to spend that.

27:22So it's kind of like I went back and I was like, I don't want us to get in our clients' way of building wealth. So how do we do that? And that's where having that percentage was the one that made the most sense. So, Ryan, it sounds a lot like from what I'm hearing you say, it's less about whether a financial advisor is evil or not and more about how the fee structure fits their values and also what they want to get out of their business. Is that right? Yeah, that's right. And again, like the evil piece because there are conflicts. Let's just like take a more of a global look at this. Like there's conflicts of interest within every industries.

27:56I think about I've had the change of that three or four times because there have been certain vets that have wanted to put my dog under the knife faster than others. And like they get paid more for surgeries that they do. I think about dentists like I've moved dentists a couple of times. I've been upsold in the chair so many times that it was just getting frustrating. The dentist that I have now who doesn't upsell me, I've referred like 30 or 40 patients to her. So I think about just across the board in every industry, there are conflicts of interest. So to me, I think just because conflicts exist doesn't mean professionals are evil.

28:32Yeah, but that said, there are certain fee structures where there may be more conflicts present than others. And I'm thinking here about commission-based or fee-based. In that case, someone might be getting a commission or they are getting a commission because they're selling you that insurance product or that annuity that our listener mentioned. And that could incentivize pushing products that people simply don't need. Whereas with AUM or with fee only or an hourly rate, there just isn't that same incentive to be directing a client into a specific product because you're not getting any money from it.

29:03That's exactly bang on. And that's where, you know, I've stayed away from any sort of commission fee structure, because once again, like that is where I think the most conflicts do exist. Now, I will say, I'm sure there's an advisor out there who's listening, who's saying, I operate on that model. And like, I'm doing what's right for my client. And I'm sure that is the case for a lot of those people. However, I think if there is a conflict that exists, that's probably where the biggest conflict where I would get paid a commission from putting clients into a certain investment vehicle. or annuity structure.

29:36And that's where, again, we don't have any of those types of conflicts. And again, I think it makes it a lot cleaner. Just the perception of a conflict can make people feel uncomfortable because like Suspicious in Spokane mentioned, you can still be a fiduciary and have a conflict. But at the end of the day, as a fiduciary, you do have to put your client's interest ahead of your own. And just because you're making a bit of money off of providing an insurance product for them doesn't mean that you are a bad advisor. When I think about what our greatest incentive is, it's to keep clients for a long period of time.

30:09We want to have multi-decade relationships with our clients. The only way that can exist is if trust exists. And if we're consistently telling clients to take action that benefit us only, at some point in time, there's a certain level of skepticism that's going to seep through and that trust is going to be eroded. so I think about this there's been plenty of times that I've recommended a client take money out of their portfolio to pay down a mortgage or to pay cash for a car or whatever it may be where yes technically speaking there's less money for us to manage so we're not making as much but it was the right thing to do for the clients and again it builds trust with those clients because they know even though we're making less now because of that move that we recommended it because it was the right thing for the client.

30:57So again, I look at my biggest incentive and everyone here on the team at Wealth Partners, our number one incentive is to keep clients for a long period of time. Well, what can people like Suspicious in Spokane, who are skeptical but maybe want to work with a financial advisor, what are some things that they can look out for? Because as a client, you don't know what you don't know, right? So they're coming to you because they have blind spots in their financial lives or portfolio. So what are some things that they can do, maybe some research on their end to maybe look out for some evil red flags.

31:26Yeah. Well, I mean, I think, you know, again, this isn't going to be perfect, but I think, you know, as Sean referenced, like working with firms that are on the fiduciary standard, like, again, yes, it's not going to be perfect, but that's a good first step. Looking at, you know, is the advisor you're working with, do they have a credential like the CFP? Because the CFP has really high standards. So if they're a fiduciary and they had their CFP, again, they are obligated to operate at a very high standard and there's a duty of care to the clients that those professionals take very seriously. Now, is that 100 % of the time?

31:59No. But again, you're inching towards the goal of finding someone that's going to have your best interest at heart. And then I think it's interviewing advisors and just getting a good sense of like, do they understand you? Are they listening to you? Do they know what your long-term goals and incentives are? Do they work with people who are similar to you. And ultimately, again, what do you pay for? You're paying somebody to build the plan. For a lot of people, they need help then executing on that plan. And then they need help staying accountable to that plan going forward. Is this someone that you're going to be able to work with who's going to be able to see the entire plan out in its entirety?

32:39One thing I always want to highlight when we talk about finding a good financial advisor is that the term financial advisor isn't regulated. Any Joe Schmo on the internet can call themselves a financial advisor. It really is having someone who is credentialed, like being a certified financial planner, a professional, a CFP, someone who has that designation is held to a certain code of conduct, which includes a fiduciary standard. So really look for those credentials as well. They reference something about, you know, how much time does it take an advisor to do something? And I would also say, like, I don't know that's the right way to look at it.

33:11Like, I'll just give one very quick example. So there's someone that I know who is looking for an advisor and they had a very specific issue in that they wanted to know how many options they should exercise at the company that they work at. And they met with an advisor who charges an hourly fee. And that person quoted them 20 hours because it was going to take a lot of time to research and execute this. And I told them, like, I can figure this out for you in 10 minutes. and I was able to pull up the spreadsheet because we have a lot of clients who have options and I was able to do it in 10 minutes.

33:44The reason I give this example is because executing the right way could translate into the thousands of dollars saved over time. So should you just want to pay somebody, you know,$25 for 10 minutes of their time to do it? Or again, are you paying for the expertise that even if it takes someone 10 minutes to do, they have decades of experience to be able to provide that advice to you very quickly, which saves you time and energy. But then also this person is saying, well, I'm going to have a lot of these questions over time that I don't want to be charged 20 hours every single time I have one of these questions.

34:19So I would say like the time to answer isn't necessarily the right metric. Like if I go to the doctor and I need a surgery and the surgery takes 10 minutes to do or 15 minutes to do and it's super easy, I don't want to skimp on that, right? Like I'm fine with the doctor paying what they have to pay. Like I don't need to elongate it. to three or four hours and have a much longer recovery to make the hourly rate go down, if that makes sense. Yeah, there could be almost an incentive to make things take longer at that hourly rate, right? That's exactly what I'm getting at here. So I don't know that that's necessarily the best measure to judge an advisor on.

34:52Ryan, also, I think the underlying question for Suspicious in Spokane here is, is a financial advisor valuable to me? Now, based on people that you've worked with, Ryan, in your almost two decades of doing this. Have you met people like Suspicious in Spokane who maybe have their stuff together, are not so emotional about investing, have done their research? And what other value do you add aside from helping them make money? Yeah. I mean, I tell people all the time that like, you might not need us, right? Like if you're someone who, you know, you're financially savvy, that, you know, you aren't prone to emotional decision making, that you're a good executor and that someone can give you a written out plan and you can execute it, yeah, depending on where you are, like, yeah, maybe spending a couple thousand dollars for a one-time plan is the right thing for you.

35:43We've directed plenty of people in that direction. I would say the clients that we work with are those who they know themselves and they know that life is gonna get busy and life is gonna evolve. So they want somebody in their corner for the next decade plus. For me, I would say that building wealth is like anything in life, that it can take you decades to build and a couple of bad decisions to erode it. And that's where I think having somebody in your corner, I think having a professional that's along with you on the journey, that adds an enormous amount of value over time. And I think our clients, especially our clients who are long-term clients with us, they see that value.

36:20But again, if someone's comfortable doing it on their own and they trust themselves and they're not gonna be prone to those emotional decisions and they're gonna be able to execute on it, you might not need an advisor or you might just need the kind of all one-time check-in every five years or so. And for someone who does want a financial advisor who isn't evil, who is competent and trustworthy, where do you think they can begin to look for that individual? Because it's not easy. There are so many advisors and you never know if they're going to be quite the right fit for you. Yeah. I mean, I think number one is, you know, getting personal recommendations, I think is a great place to start, especially for people who are like you and share the same level of skepticism or in the same place in life.

36:58If you have someone that's worked with someone who's been very helpful, that's probably a good place to start. Again, I think looking for people who are CFPs, looking for people who have years of experience, it's like anything. It's like, you know, when I've had to hire an attorney or hire a doctor, again, you look for credentials, you look for referrals. It's the exact same thing. And similarly, I would add that you can have some informational interviews with different advisors and really just get a feel for how they are in person. You might find through the conversation that they have a specialty that really suits your needs, or maybe they're lacking that specialty, and then you can carry on and talk with someone else.

37:29But take your time with this decision too. I will say too that when we meet with prospective clients, you say, hey, like, by the way, just like full transparency, I'm interviewing like four or five different advisors. I'd love hearing that. Like, yeah, you should. As people are interviewing advisors, like we also want to interview our clients and we want people that, again, that like we're going to want to work with over time. So I feel like when someone hires us after speaking with four or five other advisors, that usually is a good sign that this is going to be a good relationship over time.

38:01And what you're saying highlights how working with a financial advisor is really a professional partnership. It's not something where you're just going in, dumping all of your info and hoping for the best, almost like when you work with a CPA for your taxes, right? I think people assume you can just drop off all of your information and they do it all for you. The same thing isn't necessarily the case with a financial advisor. It's more of an ongoing dialogue if you're doing it in its best form. Mm-hmm. And it's funny. I mean, for listeners who've heard me before, I think I use this example almost every single interview I do.

38:29I have a personal trainer. And again, I can go on YouTube. I can listen to a health and wellness podcast. I can read books on it. I can watch instructional videos. But like, why do I pay a trainer a couple of times a week? It's because they get me to show up and they get me to just do a little bit more than I would do if left on my own devices. And I can tell you, like, I'm the type where if I don't feel like it, I'm probably not going to go. However, if I'm paying the trainer, I'm going to go. And I know people like one of my colleagues here who's incredibly fit. He doesn't need a personal trainer.

39:01He knows what to do. And like maybe he'll go in and just kind of do a session every now and then, but he doesn't need to pay one on a regular basis. I do. So what is the verdict? Are financial advisors evil? As the non-financial advisor, no. They're not evil, but there are some financial advisors that I would stay away from, just like any industry. And I think that's just the ethics and morals and values thing versus the industry itself, right? This also opens up a conversation around what does it even mean to be evil? We can go make this a philosophy podcast if we really care to. But just a quick wrap-up question, just in case people are still wondering, what might be one to three signs that an advisor you're working with doesn't actually have your best interests in mind?

39:43I would say if they are pushing products on you, specific products, I think that's number one. I think it's also important to understand that if they are recommending something for you, like how are they being compensated for it? If there are questions that they're not able or willing to answer, I think that's also a red flag. So again, I would say the biggest conflicts here are what you highlighted before, Sean, or like, again, the people who are pushing products. So again, if you're getting that feeling that they're pushing something on you versus listening to you, understanding your situation, and then again, delivering that roadmap of what the plan is going to be and how you're going to solve this financial pain point, I would stay away from it if, again, the main objective is to just push product on you.

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