Social Media Bans: Are We at a Global Turning Point? (Jonathan Haidt)

5 Feb 2026 · 56 min · 24 chapters

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Podcast Episode Summary: Radical with Amol Rajan - Social Media Bans: Are We at a Global Turning Point? (Jonathan Haidt)

Episode Overview In this episode, Amol Rajan speaks with social psychologist Jonathan Haidt about the escalating concerns regarding social media's impact on children, especially in light of Haidt's advocacy for banning social media use for individuals under 16. The discussion revolves around Haidt's recent book, *The Anxious Generation*, and examines trends, evidence, and the implications of technology on childhood development.

Key Points Discussed

  1. Tipping Point for Social Media Regulation
  2. Haidt argues that we are at a crucial juncture where public opinion is finally aligning with the need for stricter regulations on social media for minors.
  3. Countries like Australia and Spain have begun implementing laws to limit access to social media for children.
  1. Effects of Technology on Youth
  2. Haidt discusses the idea that the pervasive use of smartphones and social media is causing harm, leading to mental health issues, loneliness, and a decline in cognitive abilities.
  3. He highlights the rise of "phone-based childhoods," where children’s experiences are significantly altered by constant access to digital devices.
  1. Correlations vs. Causation
  2. A significant part of the discussion focuses on the debate about whether there is a direct causal link between social media use and mental health issues in children.
  3. Haidt presents evidence suggesting that heavy social media use correlates with increased rates of depression and anxiety among youth, especially girls.
  1. Importance of Adversity for Development
  2. Haidt talks about the necessity for children to face challenges and hardships in order to develop resilience and social skills.
  1. Parental Guidance and Community Action
  2. Haidt emphasizes the role of parents in regulating their children’s technology use, suggesting the creation of organized "play-bourhoods" to promote offline interactions.
  3. He encourages parents to collaborate with other families to establish boundaries around technology use.
  1. Criticism and Defense of Perspectives
  2. The episode includes a discussion of the backlash Haidt has faced from social media companies and fellow academics regarding his views.
  3. A statement from Meta (parent company of Facebook) is shared, arguing that the relationship between social media and mental health is complex and multifaceted.

Key Takeaways

  • Public Sentiment: There is a growing consensus among parents and young adults that social media negatively affects youth, supporting calls for regulation.
  • Educational Impact: The decline in test scores and cognitive abilities among youth is alarming and correlates with increased screen time.
  • Community Support: Building supportive networks of families can help children engage in more meaningful offline interactions.
  • Developmental Needs: Children benefit from facing real-life challenges rather than relying on technology to navigate social interactions.

Conclusion Jonathan Haidt's arguments present a compelling case for reevaluating the role of social media in children's lives. The episode underscores the urgency of addressing these concerns at both the societal and policy levels, aiming to foster healthier childhood experiences in an increasingly digital world.

Additional Resources

  • Listen to the full episode: [Radical with Amol Rajan on BBC Sounds](https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/brand/p04z203l)
  • Further Reading: Jonathan Haidt's books, including *The Anxious Generation* and *The Righteous Mind*.
  • Follow-up Discussions: Join the next Q&A with Jonathan Haidt to explore listener questions and concerns regarding technology and youth.

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Hidden Hunger and Nutrition in Food

0:45 to 3:00

Discussion on hidden hunger and the role of food businesses in addressing nutrition.

“You can send us your questions on WhatsApp.”

Emerging Concerns Over Kids and Smartphones

3:00 to 5:30

Amol shares the growing concerns regarding children's access to smartphones and social media.

“I am so excited to be in Britain just as everything's changing on this issue.”

The Case for a Smartphone-Free Childhood

5:30 to 8:00

Jonathan Haidt discusses the need for a childhood free from smartphones and social media.

“and therefore they were afraid to do it.”

Public Health Crisis Linked to Technology

8:00 to 11:00

Haidt explains how technology contributes to public health and education crises among youth.

“is so confusing and it's on all sides and lots of organizations think that social media can be helpful for kids.”

The Correlation Between Social Media and Mental Health

11:00 to 14:00

Discussion on how social media use correlates with rising mental health issues among youth.

“and trends regarding teens' well-being aren't clear-cut or universal.”

Trends in Student Performance

14:00 to 15:50

Explore the decline in performance among students starting from 2015.

“and a lot of people said, oh, it's just COVID.”

Impact of Technology on Education

15:51 to 18:38

Discuss how technology, particularly devices in classrooms, affects learning.

“In advance of your meeting in Downing Street, in advance of what you're going to be saying to British politicians, have you a sense of where this country is?”

Social Media and School Policies

18:39 to 21:04

Examine the challenges schools face regarding smartphone use among students.

“And I can tell you from our success in the United States, whenever it's done, some people say, oh, there's going to be all kinds of problems.”

Decline of Social Capital

21:05 to 22:48

Analyze the decline of social capital in America and its historical context.

“So you don't even bother trying to figure it out unless you understand how the ground shifted.”

The Evolution of Loneliness

22:49 to 26:11

Investigate how loneliness is increasingly affecting younger generations.

“Kids still went out and play, but people aren't knowing their neighbors as much.”
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Causation of Mental Health Issues

26:12 to 28:00

Present evidence linking smartphones and social media to mental health declines.

“And so what Zach Rausch and I, my lead research, what we did was we gathered all the evidence and we realized it's not just experiments and correlational studies.”

Evidence of Social Media Impact

28:00 to 29:00

Explore various lines of evidence linking social media use to mental health issues.

“And now the prosecutor says, and here I present you text messages that this guy had with his friend, where he said, I'm going to mug this girl at three o 'clock.”

Correlational Studies and Their Significance

29:00 to 30:10

Discuss the correlation between social media use and anxiety or depression.

“Let's bring in the experts who analyzed data to try to confirm that this guy was there.”

Randomized Control Trials on Social Media Use

30:10 to 31:30

Examine findings from randomized control trials on social media's effects.

“then sometimes you get a correlation of zero or 0.03.”

Longitudinal Studies and Backward Correlation

31:30 to 32:50

Analyze longitudinal studies to understand the relationship between social media use and depression.

“But once they go through withdrawal, they're much happier.”

Natural Experiments and Social Media's Rise

32:50 to 34:00

Discuss findings from natural experiments on the impact of high-speed internet and social media.

“And point seven, so longitudinal is six, seven.”

Engaging with Critics: Addressing Concerns

34:00 to 35:20

Explore the pushback from critics regarding the claims about social media's effects.

“Worse, the bold proposal that social media is to blame might distract us from effectively responding to the real causes of the current mental health crisis in young people.”

The Impact of Digital Technology on Youth

35:20 to 37:40

Investigate how digital technology affects developing brains and childhood experiences.

“If you get a tiny change, so suppose you've got a boy who plays a lot of video games, gets a lot of quick dopamine.”

Encouraging Independence in Childhood

37:40 to 40:00

Discuss the importance of allowing children to experience independence and challenges.

“There's two things I want to help people understand.”

The Rebel's Code: A Message for Children

40:00 to 42:05

Present guidelines for children on navigating technology and social media use.

“And now back to Professor Jonathan Haidt.”

Navigating Childhood Play and Cooperation

42:05 to 44:40

Learn about the importance of play in childhood and its role in fostering cooperation and social skills.

“And childhood is a good place for learning to deal with those other people.”

Guidelines for Parents on Device Regulation

44:40 to 46:14

Discover practical guidelines for parents regarding screen time and device regulation.

“But even negotiating the fact that a neighbor comes out.”

Understanding Good and Bad Screen Time

46:14 to 49:09

Explore the difference between healthy and unhealthy screen time activities for children.

“But you had the decency, little authoritarians.”

Debating Social Media Restrictions for Teens

49:09 to 51:54

Engage in a discussion around the implications of social media bans for teenagers.

“The worst thing you can do is hand your kid a touchscreen device because a touchscreen device is a little Skinner box.”
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0:00Now then, just before we hear from Professor Jonathan Haidt for this week's episode, the next person I need your radical questions for is the former Masterchefif winner and founder of Oaxe. restaurants, Thomasina Myers. She is very concerned about what she calls hidden hunger, a lack of nutritious food in all of our everyday diets. She's got some very specific, very radical ideas about how to incentivize restaurants and other food businesses to prioritize nutrition. And she's going to explain that in our main episode. And we want your questions for her about these issues for our bonus Q &A. It's called Your Radical Questions, and we release it on Monday.

0:38So we're going to cover ultra processed foods. We're going to talk about the power of the big food lobby. We're going to talk about how to get families up and down the country eating healthier food and also what we need to do to help our battered hospitality sector. You can send us your questions on WhatsApp. The number is 0-330-123-9480 or you can email us on radical at bbc.co.uk.

1:10Hello, it's Amol here. Welcome to Radical, conversations about the deep global trends changing our world and offering you some pretty radical ideas for the future. Doing all of that with smart, influential people that have real power to shape our world. And good as me, our guest today certainly does. Look, for a while we've known there's a kind of growing counter-revolution against the idea that children should have access to smartphones and social media. What began with concerned parents just simply stopping their kids using the technology in their bedrooms or or maybe saying, you know, sometimes organizing into small groups to support one another has now led into a big international movement and perhaps a big international moment.

1:55The man who is at the forefront of the movement from an academic or intellectual standpoint, I would argue, for a smartphone-free childhood, for a childhood that looked a bit like childhood used to be, more like childhood was before social media, is the social psychologist Professor Jonathan Haidt. He's written many, many books, which I strongly recommend, including The Righteous Mind and The Calling of the American Mind, which he co-authored. But his book, The Anxious Generation, sets out in detail why he thinks there has been a kind of great rewiring of childhood, which is causing a massive epidemic of, well, multiple epidemics that are really causing harm to our children.

2:33Now, as you'd expect, he has faced, Jonathan has faced some challenge from both the social media giants and indeed fellow academics. And you know what? This is a podcast that has the best Reethian values of the BBC. So you're going to hear me challenge him with both the arguments and facts marshaled by some of his opponents. But what's really interesting as we begin this conversation with Jonathan Hyde is the sense that he has that we are at something like a tipping point, A moment where many, many countries separately, but at the same time, decide that they want to fundamentally undo what they see as the growing harms caused by smartphones and social media on our kids.

3:15Jonathan, Professor Haidt, how are you? Very well. I am so excited to be in Britain just as everything's changing on this issue. Just as everything's changing. So you've just come from Davos, where among the luminaries you saw was Emmanuel Macron, where the leader of a country where everything is changing on this issue of social media, smartphones and young people. And I think I can say, am I allowed to say that you're shortly after we record this, you're on your way to Downing Street to see West Streeting. What's the case that you'll be making to Britain's health secretary? It's the case that we're going to talk about throughout this hour, which is that there is a public health disaster.

3:53There is an education disaster. It all can be traced to the same cause, which is the change technology has made in our kids' childhood. And is your sense, coming up for two years since you published The Anxious Generation, and in fact you've got a new book I'm holding now, which you've co-authored called The Amazing Generation, which is a kids' book we'll come to. But is your sense that we're at something of a global turning point when it comes to kids and technology? Oh, we are absolutely at a tipping point. It's so exciting. And I only figured it out this morning, like, exactly why. Because I've been talking with some politicians and leaders and MPs on the left and the right here in Britain.

4:32And here's what I just realized. So when law gets ahead of public opinion by a lot, like if you're going to ban or criminalize something that the people desperately are using or want, you're going to have a rebellion. And so that's a problem, okay? And so political leaders in your country and my country everywhere, they were reluctant to act on this because they thought they were getting ahead of public opinion. But what the public opinion surveys show very, very clearly is that all around the world, wherever there are parents with children with phones, family life has become a constant fight.

5:08We're all sick of it. We all see what's happened to our kids. Public opinion desperately wants an under-16 ban. More in Common did a lot of surveys in Britain. I've done surveys in America. Pew has also. Parents support it. And not only parents support it, young adults support it. The people who just went through this, they also say ban it for under 16s. This was really bad for us. What I'm saying is politicians thought that they were getting way out ahead of public opinion, and therefore they were afraid to do it. They were moving slowly. But in the last couple of weeks, I think there's been a global understanding that, wait a second, the politicians are way behind the public.

5:44The public is calling out for this. And every place that's done surveys in France, America, Britain, what they always find is that there's almost no difference between the left and the right. or the North and the South, or the rich and the poor. We're all suffering from this. Why has it not happened so far? Why has it seemed to be, and I was for many years, when we last met shortly after you co-authored a book called The Coddling of the American Mind, I used to cover technology for the BBC. I was the BBC's media editor. And one of the defining themes of the age is the sense that technology is happening so fast.

6:14It's this uncontrollable exponential curve unfolding in front of us. And democracy is always slow to catch up. But then you think what drives democracy is the need to get re-elected. And given what you say about public opinion, why have Democrats across the world, by which I mean people who need to get re-elected, why do they seem to have been slightly behind? Gene Twenge is the psychologist who first raised the alarm in 2017 with an article titled, Have Smartphones Destroyed a Generation? And a lot of other psychologists said, oh, no, you're, you know, there's no mental health crisis. And even if there is, it's just a correlation.

6:48There's no evidence of causation. So that was where we were 2017 through the beginning of COVID. And then COVID comes in and everybody's on devices and we don't really know what's going on. And the kids continue to decline. They're doing worse and worse and worse. And everyone thinks it's COVID. And then COVID goes away and the kids aren't getting better. I mean, there's some numbers come up a little bit, but in general, they're nowhere back to where they were and some continue to go down. So it's only around maybe 23, 24 that we begin to realize, wait, there's something really serious happening to our kids.

7:19It's not just their mental health is declining and suicide is rising. It's that test scores are going down in many countries. So something big is going wrong. And also during this time, Meta in particular, they have a giant PR department. They are doing their job, which is to manipulate public sentiment. So now we know from all the lawsuits going on and all the leaks and all the documents that have come out during discovery, we know that they support a lot of civil society organizations to try to get them to co-brand things, to say, oh, digital citizenship, oh, you know, digital merit badge for the girls.

7:55So Meta has been working very, very hard following the tobacco lobby, the tobacco industry playbook, to make it seem as though, oh, there's, you know, the research is so confusing and it's on all sides and lots of organizations think that social media can be helpful for kids. So I think Meta tried to slow things down and confuse things. They were able to block the one bill we had in the US, the Kids Online Safety Act. Meta basically blocked it with its influence on the Republican Party and Congress. By lobbying. By lobbying, yeah. So Meta is the parent company of Facebook. Facebook, Instagram, yeah.

8:27Of Instagram and indeed WhatsApp. And obviously I'm going to put their response to you in a moment. What is the big tobacco playbook that you think Meta are following? There's a book called Merchants of Doubt, which goes through how the tobacco lobby did it. Because even in the 40s and 50s, I don't know when they started calling cigarettes cancer sticks. People kind of knew that if you smoke a lot, you're likely to get cancer. But they kept saying it's just correlation, not causation. They argued that, well, there's some other factor that makes some people smoke and get cancer, but it's not the cigarettes that cause cancer.

9:04And it took a long time to prove causality because you can't do experiments. You can't randomly assign people to smoke for 30 years and not. But ultimately, it was proven. We didn't need experiments. It's a whole set of series called the Bradford Hill criteria that were used to prove, to demonstrate that, yeah, if you're a heavy smoker, that's what's causing the cancer. That took a long time. So Metta is following that playbook. They make the exact same arguments as tobacco. They say, and Mark Zuckerberg said this in his testimony before the U.S. Senate two years ago when he was pressed by Senator Ossoff who said, but you agree that there is a correlation.

9:40that is that kids, especially girls who use social media a lot, have worse mental health. That's very, very clear. And Zuckerberg said, yes, but correlation is not causation. And that's the central sticking point. That's what Meta's defense rests on, is that they claim there's no evidence of causation. And you've, so people who are interested in your work, and millions of people, I'm cool enough that I knew about Jonathan Haidt long before The Anxious Generation came out. And there's a book that you published in 2013 called The Righteous Mind, which I think is one of the most important books for understanding what drives politics.

10:09but the millions of people who came to you and your work, perhaps as anxious parents, perhaps as teachers, perhaps as people in technology through the anxious generation should know that you also have a substat. Substat is a blogging platform called After Babel. If they look at your substat, they'll find a recent post which has the headline Mountains of Evidence. Before I ask you to get into those mountains of evidence, I want in a spirit of fairness and fullness to put Meta's response to you. And you've had lots of... Oh, good. Let's hear it. Let's hear it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You've had lots of, well, let's be fair in saying that you've had scientists and Meta come at you in various ways.

10:42And you've, in a spirit of, I think, academic inquiry and humility, countered them. Meta say, recently, a number of lawsuits have attempted to place the blame for teen mental health struggles squarely on social media companies. But this oversimplifies a serious issue. Clinicians and researchers find that mental health is a deeply complex and multifaceted issue. and trends regarding teens' well-being aren't clear-cut or universal. Narrowing the challenges faced by teens to a single factor ignores the scientific research and the many stresses impacting young people today, like academic pressure, school safety, socioeconomic challenges and substance abuse.

11:20What's the issue you're addressing? So the central issue of the academic debate is just one of the many harmful outcomes. It is depression and anxiety, what we call internalising disorders. And so my argument and Jean Twenge's argument all along has been, wow, you look at the girls who are spending a lot of time on social media and they're two to three times more depressed or anxious than girls who have light usage or often no usage. It's especially true for girls. So that's a correlation. okay um there's also an historical correlation which is mental health rate mental illness rates were at a certain level in the 90s at least in american and british data it's fairly flat in the 90s the early 2000s up to 2010 2011 there's no sign of any real change and all of a sudden around 2012 in both of our countries those numbers go shooting up very sharply for girls and a little more gradually for boys um so that's also a correlation something has happened something has happened something's happened since 2012 2013 something big has happened and something has happened which is getting progressively worse.

12:20The more people do that thing, the more it's getting worse on certain very measurable indices. One is depression, anxiety. Another is, how can I put this, lack of intelligence or stupidity. And you mentioned a moment ago that test scores have been falling. I think people listening to this podcast or watching it should know global IQ levels rose steadily during the 20th century. Global IQ levels are now falling. We are getting less smart. Why? Yes. So it was called the Flynn effect by James Flynn, a New Zealand psychologist, who noted that every 10 years when they have to re-norm the IQ test and check that middle person is 100, they had to keep making the test a little harder, a little harder every decade.

13:04And this was thought to be due to better nutrition, better health care, and even television and radio. There was more stimulation brought into households, rural households especially. So we took that almost for granted, like, wow, modernity is making us smarter. And that was true. And it begins to level off, I think, in the 90s, begins to level off. But just recently, it's now clear it's been dropping a little bit. And let's think about why. We have much more fine-grained data on education in the United States. We have several tests. We have the PISA test internationally, and we have the NAEP, the National Assessment of Education Progress in the US.

13:37So we track their actual abilities in several subjects every year. And what we find is that test scores were rising from the 1970s when we first started running those surveys. 1970s through 2012, test scores were rising. Not a lot. It's hard to lift the education level of a whole country, especially with some negative demographic trends, decline of marriage, all sorts of things. But we did it until 2012. And then by 2015, it starts to go down. It wasn't COVID. It starts to go down in 2015. And it goes down steeper in COVID. and a lot of people said, oh, it's just COVID. It'll come back as soon as COVID is over.

14:14But here's what you see when you dig into the data in multiple tests. If you look at the top students, the ones who are doing the best, they don't drop in 2015. They don't drop until COVID. And then after COVID, they come back. All right, so the top 10 % are doing okay. We look at the bottom 50%. What we find is that they were going up even faster in the 20th century. and then they peak in 2012 and then they start dropping. And after 2015, they drop more steeply. And after COVID goes, they keep dropping. And now I can't prove it, but I believe what's happening and it fits the timing perfectly is in the US, it was around 2014, 2015 that we put Chromebooks and iPads on everyone's desk.

14:59This was a goal of education policy. It was called one-to-one devices. The rich kids all have computers. We've got to raise money, philanthropy. We've got to get a computer on every kid's desk because this will be an equity move. This will improve equity, we thought. What actually happens? You put a multifunction device on a kid's desk. You ask them to do a math thing. You ask them to do their homework here. What do they do? Mostly video games and short videos. That's what they do. Okay, we put controls on it. They can't do that. Yeah, but then it's a cat and mouse game forever. A nightmare for parents.

15:31That's right, because then they take the laptop home and parents who are trying to keep a lid on it, The kid has everything on their school computer. So if you think about it, if we're asking kids to sit in class and learn, and they have the most incredibly tempting devices ever, and a lot of them are addicted to specific apps which they can get, is it any surprise that test scores are dropping? They're learning less. We're getting stupider. In advance of your meeting in Downing Street, in advance of what you're going to be saying to British politicians, have you a sense of where this country is?

16:00I mean, we don't have an explicit Chromebook policy, but there's a huge amount of concern here. And as you say, we might be at a tipping point. What's your sense of how Britain is doing on this front? So in general, our two countries are very, very linked culturally, technologically. You know, that's been happening for decades. So whatever trends we find in the U.S., we always find also in Canada and the U.K. Our countries are very, very linked. One disappointment has been that your country has not gone phone free. Now, some people say, oh, well, most of our schools are phone free. But from what I hear, they'll have a policy.

16:31Almost all schools have a policy. But phone-free has a very specific meaning. Phone-free means when the child arrives at school, they take their phone and they put it someplace where they can't get it. It could be as simple, as cheap as their own little manila envelope in a milk carton at the front of the classroom for the younger grades. It could be a yonder pouch, a lockable pouch. In my daughter's school in New York City, it's a pouch which isn't even locked. It just has a loud Velcro thing. So if you open it, they hear it. The best, it turns out, is a phone locker, a place where they lock it up.

17:02That turns out to have the best educational effects. But the point is there has to be a norm and an understanding that your smartphone might be useful for getting to school, but you do not have access to it and not at lunch and not in between classes. That's crucial. And my sense is that most British schools are not phone free. They have a policy, but it's not that full day. And Keir Starmer's position has been it should be left to the schools. Why is that insufficient? It's insufficient because it leaves the school head in the same trap that we parents are in. So we parents are facing like, I'm not going to let you have a phone.

17:34But Billy's parents let him have a phone. Tommy has one. I'm left out. And so it's constant struggle, constant fighting. I can tell you this. Almost every headmaster, almost every school principal in America, they all hate the phones. The phones and social media are associated with almost all discipline, most discipline problems. The severe fights, all of it starts on social media. Even your police have been saying this, that knife crime, physical violence among youth, it often generally starts on social media. So the heads all hate it. They wish they could ban it. They wish they could get it away.

18:06But they get pressure from some parents. They get pressure from some students. And the amazing thing, when a law is simply passed at a national level, is now the headmaster says, it's not me. It's the national law. And then it gets done. And it removes the fight. And so what I can tell you, what I can tell you, Britain, is your parents are calling out for help. The government isn't telling you how to raise your kids. It's coming to your aid because we can't do this on our own. We're all struggling. And same thing with the schools. The government needs to say the evidence is clear. These distraction machines are interfering with national education.

18:40Therefore, we have this policy. And I can tell you from our success in the United States, whenever it's done, some people say, oh, there's going to be all kinds of problems. Oh, terrible things are going to happen. No, it is always much easier than they think. And while some kids object beforehand, a couple of weeks in, they generally say, wow, this is so much better. My daughter goes to New York City public school. She said two weeks in, she said, Daddy, lunch is so much better. We're making up games that I just I love we're making. They're being children again. They're being creative. They're talking.

19:12And they're interacting with their peers. One of the other things. So we've talked about the evidence around depression and anxiety. We've talked about the evidence around stupidity, falling IQ scores. At the extreme end, there's cyberbullying. I want to talk about something else, which is loneliness. We have an extraordinary, I think massively underappreciated loneliness epidemic in this country. And you have taken a very great interest, given your distinguished career, in the work of a brilliant sociologist called Robert Putnam. Robert Putnam wrote a seminal book in 2000 called Bowling Alone.

19:42It's based on an essay in 1995. It was about the decline of social capital in America and voluntary associations. So what some people in this country, David Cameron, would have called the big society. So women's groups, sports clubs, Rotary Club, that sort of thing. You know, the big society, those institutions between the state and the individual and very much not part of the market. And I always find it amazing to think that Robert Putnam wrote that book 2000 before the iPhone. That's right. And if we look at loneliness now, millions and millions and millions of people say, A, that in the UK say, A, that they're lonely, B, that they're lonelier than they used to be.

20:16But the really interesting thing, and I'm sure there's the evidence in America is consistent with this, is that loneliness used to be a phenomenon of the very old. It's increasingly a phenomenon of the young. And could it be that this thing that happened in 2012 and onwards, which led to specific consistent rises in depression and anxiety, which also has led possibly to lower test scores, which has also led to cyberbullying? Could it be that technology is also driving loneliness? Absolutely. I think there's no doubt about that. Here's the way to think about it. So I've begun calling myself a techno-determinist.

20:53And that doesn't mean that the technology causes everything. That state from Femme, of course it's fine. I'm a social scientist. There's lots of contributors, lots of causes. But by techno-determinants, what I mean is that when we go through a technological revolution, whether it be fire or agriculture or metal weapons or railroads or electricity or television, whenever we go through a major technological change, you have to start there because that restructures a lot else that happens. So you don't even bother trying to figure it out unless you understand how the ground shifted. And so returning to Putnam's amazing book, it's so important.

21:30What does he say? What were the reasons for why we lost trust? Why did we lose social capital? He says, the number one reason is that the World War II generation, I mean, my God, what your country went through, of course that bound people together. And as the World War II generation dies off, you get less trust. That's part of it. But the second biggest factor, if I remember correctly, the second biggest factor is television. Because before television and air conditioning, the two of them, before television and air conditioning, People were outside. They were on their front porch. They knew their neighbors.

21:58They saw their neighbors. There was a sense of neighborhood. In America, I mean, you had post-war poverty, but in America, we had boom years. Everyone was getting a television, an air conditioner, a car, a bigger house. There really was that sort of idyllic representation of post-war America. It's true. It really was true. It was a high social trust. It was a low crime country. It was economic boom time. And when people talk about the nostalgia of Trump's generation for that period, there's a sense in which that nostalgia is justified. That's right. And it wasn't polarized in the way it is now.

22:27That's right. So what happened was your daily life now revolves around the television. It's the family room. But even then, it's social. My sisters and I watched a lot of television and we would fight over who gets to watch their show. But that's great. Those negotiations are great. It was social. And we couldn't watch eight hours of television a day. My mom would kick, you know, parents would kick you out and they say, don't come back till the streetlights come on. That was the phrase. So it revolves around television. Kids still went out and play, but people aren't knowing their neighbors as much.

22:55Okay, I go through this because if we look at what television did, it created this more bubbled life. We don't know our neighbors. And that Putnam says is the second biggest reason, I think, for why we get the decline of social capital. Okay, now we get the smartphone and social media. And here, I just wanna briefly walk you through or walk listeners through. The key period is 2010 to 2015. And many of the listeners will remember those periods. In 2010, the iPhone had come out, but most people didn't have it. And teens, very few teens had one in 2010. They had flip phones. They had the Motorola Razr.

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23:27It was kind of cool. And what could you do? You could call your friends and family. You could text them. And you could play a game called Snake. And that was it. That was it. It was a communication device. And the millennials' mental health was fine. And so if you are a millennial, it means you finished puberty by 2010, 2012. You were done with puberty and you went through puberty on a brick phone or a flip phone, a basic phone. Okay, what happens if you're born, say, in the year 2000, you're Gen Z? So you hit puberty right around, say, 2012. That's the year that Facebook buys Instagram. That's two years after the front-facing camera came out.

24:042012 is the pivotal year when in America we flip from mostly brick phones to mostly smartphones. So by 2015, almost all teens have a smartphone with a front-facing camera and Instagram and other apps, unlimited texting, unlimited data. And now, especially for the girls, it warps their life much more quickly. And now for the girls, it's all this. It's all being a brand manager all the time. It's all constant social comparison. And that's why we see this incredibly sharp elbow for the girls. No trend at all in rates of self-harm or depression or anxiety. No trend at all. And then all of a sudden, like a hockey stick.

24:37So why do you, and people can see the evidence that you marshal in your substacks, the particular post I'm referring to is called Mountains of Evidence. Why do you say that it goes beyond correlation to causation? Because I should say in the spirit of seriousness that Metta would say that you have these deep underlying trends. You have these deep, deep trends in depression, anxiety, which may be explained by other factors that social psychologists like Jonathan Haidt looked at in great detail over many, many years, like better understanding what depression and anxiety are. a greater willingness in society to medicalize what might be everyday problems.

25:11Why do you go beyond that to say actually that smartphones and social media is a technology which is a determinant that is driving and that is causing it? So first we need to distinguish between two very different questions. One is the historical trends question. Why do we get those elbows? Why does it happen? And if it just happened in the United States, there could be all kinds of theories, something about Obama, something about changing insurance criteria. But it was when we discovered, my team and I, we discovered that the exact same thing is happening in Canada, the UK, Australia, Scandinavia.

25:41And now we know the decline of happiness among young is global. When it's happening everywhere at the same time, no one has come up with an alternate explanation other than the technological change that we just discussed. But what parents really care about, what legislators really care about is the product safety question. Here we have the most widely used consumer product among young people. It's universally used. It's been linked, at least correlated, with all kinds of terrible things happening. And if it was any other consumer product, it would have been banned long ago. So let's look at the evidence that this widely used consumer product is causing harms.

26:17And so what Zach Rausch and I, my lead research, what we did was we gathered all the evidence and we realized it's not just experiments and correlational studies. There are seven different lines of evidence that are all evidence of causality. So let me just, I'll just very briefly run through that. No, no, no, take it through. Take us through that. Okay. So imagine that a woman is mugged. A man comes up and he punches her and he takes her wallet and he runs off. How do we prove that he did it? How do we prove that? Well, the woman goes to the police and she says, here's the guy. I know him. I know his name.

26:52I've known him for a long time. He did this to me. Okay. Is that proof? She could be lying, but that is evidence. Okay. What do we have with social media? Survey the kids. What do they say? Young adults have very negative views of social media. The surveys show they think it does more harm than good. About 20 to 30 % say it harmed their own mental health. So you've got the victim, it's himself or herself is saying, he did it. Okay. So that's line one. That's line one. Now, maybe they're wrong. What do we do? We bring in witnesses. Suppose there are a bunch of bystanders who say, I saw it. I saw him punch her.

27:28I saw it. Is that evidence of causation or is that just a correlation? That's evidence. So who are the witnesses? Who has the best view of what happened? The parents, the teachers, the psychotherapists, the psychiatrists, everybody working with kids, they're witnesses. What do they say? Surveys of all of them show they blame social media. It's very hard. You can't find a group that works with kids that has a positive view of social media. Okay. So now let's suppose it's a court case, the prosecutor called the called the victim up, called the witnesses up. And now the prosecutor says, and here I present you text messages that this guy had with his friend, where he said, I'm going to mug this girl at three o 'clock.

28:10And then later I mugged her at three o 'clock. Okay, is that a correlation or is that evidence? We have so many internal emails and reports and studies from within Meta, Snap, and TikTok. We found 28 different experiments described in the material that's come out from whistleblowers and lawsuits. A lot of it from Meta. Meta say that this has been selectively cited and that the full picture is not one of causality. But you would say go and read it for yourself is pretty abundant. Yeah, read it for yourself. And if Meta has 50 studies proving the benefits, let them publish them. If they say we cherry-picked, we took everything we could find, let them publish the evidence of benefit.

28:49I'm waiting. So that's line three of the evidence. That's the evidence, the text messages that were before and after the mugging. What about line four, five, six, seven? Okay. So now if the jury isn't convinced at this point from those first three lines of evidence, let's bring in the forensic evidence. Let's bring in the experts who analyzed data to try to confirm that this guy was there. So line four is the correlational studies. Now, there are thousands of these, and they almost all show that the kids who are using it heavily are doing worse than the kids who are using it. And that's true for video games.

29:20That's true for all these technologies. And the argument is, well, the correlations are too small to matter because the correlation coefficient is typically around 0.1 to 0.15. I don't want to get into technical details. So it's highly significant statistically, but then we debate, is it big or small? And some of my critics say, well, some studies don't show any correlation. And what we show is that if you look at the studies they cite that show no correlation, they always get it by blending. That is, if you just look at hours on social media by girls and measure anxiety or depression, you always find a substantial relationship, usually 0.15 to 0.2, which is substantially larger.

29:58And that's similar to what other public health effects are. But when you mix in, this is what often happens, it's hours spent on any screen, including TV, including watching Netflix, including doing your email, time on a screen for boys and girls, including young adults. then sometimes you get a correlation of zero or 0.03. But what we do is we go into these studies. We say, if you can zoom in on girls' social media depression, you always find it. So the correlation of studies, it doesn't prove causation, but it's not random effects. It's a very consistent effect that gets blended. It gets diluted as it gets blended.

30:35So that's line four. Line five is the experiments. There's a body of experiments where you say to young people, randomly assigned, you guys reduce your social media use for some period of time. And we're gonna measure whether you get less depressed and anxious. And what do we find? When you go for more than a week and you look at depression anxiety, you, in almost all the studies, published studies, you do find a benefit. You do find they're better off, especially those who have any sort of preexisting depression. So you do find it. These are RCTs, random control trials. This is how we, this is our best way of proving causeality.

31:12That's academic research works, yeah. And the debate is that some studies don't find it. Well, guess what? Those studies tend to blend in one-day experiments, meaning you tell kids you can't have your phone or you can't have social media for one day. That's withdrawal effects. Nobody expects, you know, like you take heroin addicts, you take away their heroin. Are they happier? No. But once they go through withdrawal, they're much happier. One day is not long enough, in short, to be able to judge the effects. It's interesting. We're talking at the start of, towards the beginning of 2026. Huge numbers of people listening to this will know someone who's decided in January we're going to do less time on social media.

31:48Just ask them. Just ask them. My wife is one of them. Just ask them. Do you know what they say? They say it's great. And suddenly I'm doing these other things. I'm reading. I'm talking to someone. Okay, that's line five. Let's get six or seven. Yeah, just very briefly. Then you also have longitudinal studies, which are more statistically complex because you're just looking at does an increase or a large amount of use at time one. predict that you will be more depressed at time two? Or is it that depressed people at time one use more social media to look for information, whatever? That's Meta's argument has always been that it's the reverse correlation.

32:20That, well, yeah, there's a correlation, but it's because depressed people, they use our product to find community. They use it to find information. That's why depressed people, that's why there's a correlation. That's their claim. But what we found when we dig into the longitudinal studies that are cited by our critics, They point to three studies in particular. We go into them. Two don't show anything of the sort. They don't show anything. And one of them does show a little bit of reverse predictability, but also forward predictability. In other words, both ways. So depressed people are more likely to use it, and using it makes you more depressed.

32:51So that still points to guilt. Okay. And point seven, so longitudinal is six, seven. And seven is the natural experiments. And so there are now, we found seven or now eight studies published around the world in which they look, like in British Columbia, high speed internet arrived in different places at different times, in Spain, in Italy, in the US, Germany. So we have studies from a lot of these countries. And what they do is they say, you assume that modern social media, which is very video based, you can't do that without high speed. I mean, remember how long it used to take to load things?

33:23So you only get the big jump in social media use, especially photo and video stuff, when you get high speed internet. So what happens when it comes into a region as opposed to another region? Answer, psychiatric disorders, especially among young women, increase after it comes in. So when you have critics say to you, you're misrepresenting the science, are there sort of two pillars to what you do? One is these seven pillars of evidence you've just cited. And the other is kind of a kind of pushback where you say, what do you think is going on? And I wonder if in this context, I could raise developmental psychologist Candice Odgers, professor at University of California, Irvine and Duke University and I should say again, in this bit I think is, if I may say impartially admirable, you really engage with your critics, you're not one to shy away Candice Rogers wrote a review of your book in Nature where she said first, this book is going to sell a lot of copies because Jonathan Haidt is telling a scary story, dot dot dot, that many parents are primed to believe, second, the book's repeated suggestion that digital technologies are rewiring our children's brains and causing an epidemic of mental illness is not supported by science.

34:28Worse, the bold proposal that social media is to blame might distract us from effectively responding to the real causes of the current mental health crisis in young people. Well, what Candice says in that article is that the real causes are poverty, racism, and inequality. Okay, those do make you at higher risk for mental illness. Did those suddenly radically increase in 2012 in the US, Canada, Australia, New Zealand, in Scandinavia Europe I don't think so so I keep saying okay if you have an explanation for why the historical trans stuff why why did it go up so much you got to come up with another explanation for what changed and her explanation doesn't fit at all one of the uh striking things about some of your earlier work is you looked at what um engaging with taboo subjects like incest whatever it does to the brain what have you seen you're a social psychologist and social scientist in terms of the neuroscience here what evidence do we have about the impact of social media and smartphones on developing young brains yeah so what candace says in that article is that there's no evidence that this is affecting that this is changing brains in a major way or something like that there's no big change okay if this was causing big changes like you could see oh there's a hole in the brain okay that would be incredibly serious um but nothing does that other than prenatal alcohol.

35:50If you get a tiny change, so suppose you've got a boy who plays a lot of video games, gets a lot of quick dopamine. If you get a tiny, tiny little change in the reward circuitry or in the attentional circuitry, that's going to determine the course of his life. That's going to make him successful or a failure. So tiny, tiny changes in the brain can have an enormous impact. And there is a literature, I haven't reviewed it, so I can't say which study, But Candace's suggestion that it's only a big change that counts. No, any tiny change. And as I think she would acknowledge, learning, anything you do habitually is going to change the brain.

36:25Neuroscientists say neurons that fire together wire together. And so in the first five years, there's incredibly rapid change. And then in puberty, again, a second sensitive period, incredibly rapid change. The brain is changing based on its interaction with the environment. And so nobody, I mean, you couldn't be a psychologist and believe that a kid who plays video games and porn and social media eight hours a day is going to not have his brain changed compared to that same kid if he'd gone out and played soccer, football, talked with kids, flirted with girls. And on that point, you're a parent.

36:57You mentioned your daughter. I think you've got two teenagers. You've been very, very keen for them to have a childhood where they, for instance, walk to school on their own. There's huge numbers of stories. I think, funny enough, just by coincidence last night as I was looking through your substack, my algorithms must know me so well, that a clip of Rahm Emanuel, former chief of staff to Barack Obama, former mayor of Chicago and ambassador to Japan. And Rahm Emanuel was saying, I'll tell you what, words to the effect, I'll tell you what a beautiful life is. A beautiful life is a kid that can walk eight blocks to school on their own.

37:32And, you know, it's such a low bar. It's such a low bar. We're just so intuitive. I've got a nine-year-old. I feel queasy. I live in a nice part of North London. I feel queasy about it. There's two things I want to help people understand. One is I don't think there's anyone that really is engaged with your work that could argue that you're against technology full stop. I think you celebrate these extraordinary machines. I think you recognize the engineering power that's behind them. But the other thing is I think there's a spirit of your work, which is just to let children be children. Exactly.

38:01And that most human societies have flourished on the understanding that there are some things kids should not be allowed to do up until a certain point. That's right. And it's up to parents to say that you can do that, just not yet. That's right. So let's understand. Technology makes things easy for us. You and I are very busy. We get too much email. We use technology to take shortcuts. It makes us more efficient. Children need to do hard things thousands and thousands of times. They need to do hard social things thousands and thousands of times. They need to start conversations and be rebuffed but not wilt and run away.

38:32They need to learn how to flirt with whatever sex they're attracted to. This is hard work. And when they have a phone, they don't have to do it. They don't have to ask anyone for help or information. They don't have to approach anyone in person. They can go on dating apps when they're older. So the technology makes things easy, but you don't want to make everything easy for your child. You want your child to struggle and learn. That's how they learn. In The Amazing Generation, which is a version of The Anxious Generation, but for kids ages eight to 13, Catherine Price, who's the genius who figured out how to, it's not a translation of The Anxious Generation.

39:07It's a totally new book that goes over the same material and makes the case for kids. And it's not, you know, kids, don't be on smartphones. It's bad for you. It's kids. Ask your parents what they did after school. Ask your grandparents. Did they have fun after school? What did they do on weekends? Have you ever seen a movie that took place in the 80s or 90s? What do you think? So all kids know that kids used to be out having fun. And that stopped. That stopped in both of our countries in the 90s and early 2000s. Now, we had a crime wave we could blame it on. You didn't. But it's just part of the Anglo thing.

39:38We're overprotective.

40:05miss out. Thank you so much. And now back to Professor Jonathan Haidt.

40:18So the subtitle to The Amazing Generation is Your Guide to Fun and Freedom in a Screen-Filled World. I've read The Anxious Generation as I have a couple of your previous books. I haven't read this yet and I'm looking at it now and I'm very excited about watching my own son, read this tonight, as he will. You've written this as a sort of mindful that there are different messages for different audiences. You've got a message for politicians, which I want to get to. You've got a message for parents. What's your message for children? The message for children? Well, we boil it down to the rebel's code.

40:53We say, look, listen to the older teenagers, listen to Gen Z and the degree of regret, the way they say, I lost my childhood. I didn't really do anything. I wish I hadn't spent so much time on my video games when my grandfather was visiting because then he died and I never got to know him. So there's enormous regret in the older generation. What we're saying is be a rebel. Don't let the tech companies, because we show here's how they get you. Here's what they do with dopamine. Here's how they don't let their own kids use it. They want you to live your life on a screen, but you don't have to be a rebel.

41:30And so we have the rebel's code. It's two simple principles. One, use technology as a tool. Don't let technology use you. So we're not saying, you know, grow up with sticks and stones only. And the other is fill your life with real friendship, freedom, and fun. Because once you go on social media, you're going to have hundreds and hundreds of friends. But if you have hundreds of friends, you have very few real friends, very few close friends. And Catherine also wrote a book called The Power of Fun. And fun is just such a clever formulation. Fun is playful connected flow you're in a play state you're connected to another person and we are physical creatures who really we we affect each other the synchrony of our bodies and flow you get lost in this in the zone when we remember our being kids you remember like playing dodgeball or sharks and minnow or tags or whatever it was there's an intensity an intensity with you you and your teammates are doing something it's also in those in those in those it's in those flow states that you learn, amongst other things, stratagems for cooperation, give and take, sacrifice, the necessary, I mean, unless we get to a world in which Mark Zuckerberg's chatbots replace all social relationships, you're going to have to deal with other people.

42:40And childhood is a good place for learning to deal with those other people. That's an incredibly persuasive, I think, message for children. What's your message to parents? Basic guidelines. I mean, there will be people here who are aware of your work, some who are less so, some who are deep in it, some who oppose what you're doing. As a broad principle, just give us three or four rules that parents could live by, for instance, about screens in bedrooms. Let me just first start that by saying I have incredible sympathy because I'm in the same situation. I made some mistakes. I did a good job on social media, but I didn't do a good job on device regulation.

43:11So I sympathize. As a social psychologist, my rule is if one person does some bad thing, that might be a bad person. But if 90 % of people are doing something bad, that's a bad situation. We're all stuck in a bad situation. We're all sick of it. It's not your fault that there's this pressure for all kids to be on because all other kids are on. That's not your fault. So that's the prologue. So now what are the principles? The first principle is once you understand it's a collective action problem, that everyone is trapped. And if you try to get off and you're alone, you're in worse shape. So principle number one, find allies, find other families.

43:47Okay. So you're raising your kid in North London, you said? How many kids? You have four kids? Four. How many other families are there within walking distance for your nine-year-old? Plenty. Plenty. Okay. Plenty. So what you do is you form a playboyhood. You say, hey, look, do you want to have our kids have more of the kind of childhood we had? And let's say four of the seven families say, yes, okay, let's form a playboyhood. The kids, they can connect either by landlines. Americans are putting in landlines now again for the kids. Or when they start secondary school, they have a brick phone, a flip phone, whatever.

44:19The kids can connect. And the idea is all of our houses are open. The kids decide. And maybe it's just on Fridays. Maybe just do it on Fridays to start. Every Friday after school, the kids decide we're going to start at Billy's house. And you might even say, you know, mom says we can play half an hour of video games if we're together. So playing videos together isn't so bad. Although I shouldn't have said that. I don't. But the point is the kids get to decide. I do exactly. I'm obsessed with outside play. Yes. And even negotiating. I mean, I live on a one-way street. But even negotiating the fact that a neighbor comes out.

44:48Do you know what? it's that which they want to recall when they're older. You think about what does your child, when they get to your age, what do they want to recall about? They want to recall the fact that they could run on the street. When you said a moment ago that you, when you're growing up, your parents said in the age of sort of growing TV consumption and families coming together. Get out of the house. Get out of the house. What was it you said? Don't come back until the lab's coming. Speedlights come on, yeah. I can't imagine saying that. And I feel so sad that I've never said that to my children.

45:12Actually, think about it. That's actually a good ambition for maybe the next few years. Yeah, but because play is a collective action problem too. If you send your nine-year-old out and there's nobody else out there, he's worse off. There's no benefit to that. So it's a collective action problem. If you have a group of families, you send the kids out and they are so excited. I promise you at school, they're all going to be challenged. What should we do today? Oh, you want to go to the pizzeria? You want to go get ice cream? No, let's go down to the stream. Let's go to the park. They're going to be so excited and they are self-governing.

45:36Now we live in democracies. The whole point of a democracy, the whole reason that my country broke away from yours is that we said, you know what? We think we can be self-governing. We think we don't need a king. And you guys said, oh, you'll be back, you know, as in Hamilton. But we made a go of it. We discovered that you can be self-governing if you teach the skills of democratic citizenship to your kids. And that especially happens on the playground. Because what's happening? The kids learn to make the rules, to enforce the rules, to resolve disputes, to keep the game going. So when the kids have that independence, they learn to be self-governing.

46:07We've got to – if we want our democracies to survive, we have to raise a generation that is suited for democracy. Instead, we're raising little authoritarians. But you had the decency, little authoritarians. Or prepped for authoritarianism. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That sounds like a pun on Edmund Burke's little platoons. We've gone from little platoons to little authoritarians. Yes, oh, I like that. You were decent enough to say you made mistakes when it comes to device regulation. Looking back, what are some of the guidelines? This is not a sort of sanction manifesto. You're not seeking office. But what are some of the guidelines you might say to parents?

46:38For instance, might you say no screens in bedrooms, no social media until a certain age? How would you do device regulation better? Yeah. So let me give you two principles here. So the first principle, this is the one I wish I'd done, is no screens of any kind in bedrooms ever. Now, you can start that. When your kids are young, you can start that. And you can have a TV in the common room or family room or kitchen. You can have a computer. There are all kinds of reasons why they might use those. But you say no screens in the bedroom. When I was a kid, the idea that you'd have a TV in your bedroom was insane because you'd watch it all the time.

47:10So if you start with that rule when they're young, then they're not going to – the stuff is like a gas that expands to fill every moment. So if you have that rule, it won't fill every moment of your kid's day. You might have to make an exception when they have a lot of homework and they need to take their laptop in for two hours in the evening when they're 12, 13, whatever. But if you start with that rule, your life's going to be a lot better, a lot less conflict. So that's one. The second is let's talk about good screen time versus bad screen time. It's actually very simple. Here's what's good.

47:38Stories. Stories are good because humans are storytelling animals. Humans have always raised their kids in a sea of stories inherited from previous generations with some modification. Our brains are like LLMs. Our brains are like they are neural networks. They need lots of patterns. And fiction, stories, myths are the fastest way that we tune up along with real experience and travel, things like that. So your kid needs a lot of that to get smart. So what do you think about doing movie night with your kids? Does that seem like a healthy thing or is that screen time? I've erred on the side of quite enjoying it.

48:12Yes, you're right. And partly because it's just a communal experience, particularly if you invite some neighbors around, which you might well do this Friday, but also that feeling that there are certain traditions you want them to know, famous things, but also that sense that they can actually sustain attention. Yes, you got it. That's the key. Rather than just doom scrolling, flick, flick, flick, flick, flick, flick. Exactly. You know, that's a different kind of neurological experience. I'm going to follow, you know, Dracula or whatever it might be for a long time. Exactly. Those are the two endpoints.

48:43So watching a good story, a long story, ideally an hour or longer, teaches skills of attention about characters in a moral world that have dilemmas, teaches moral development. Watching it socially improves relationships. So all that's good. You know, a movie or two a week for your kid is great. And if you use that to get some time to prepare dinner, you know, okay, you can have a half hour of the movie at five o 'clock every day. Like, that's great. There's no problem with that, okay? The opposite is what you just said. The opposite is fragmenting time. The worst thing you can do is hand your kid a touchscreen device because a touchscreen device is a little Skinner box.

49:21Stimulus, dopamine, response, reward, repeat over and over again. And it mostly ends at short videos. and the short readers are not stories. There's no morality. On the question, you very kindly said that you're going to stick around and answer some of our listeners' questions and we've had loads of them, often from parents, but not only, and some from skeptics. You'd be very generous with your time. I just want to put one thought to you about where this all goes. We're talking at a time when there's new guidelines coming out from the UK government. As you say, we could be at a global tipping point.

49:48The argument against a social media ban for under-16s that I hear most often, sometimes from surprising places, is that if you do that, what you end up really in practice doing is sending kids to darker corners of the internet. And if you move them away from regulated big platforms of the kinds that we've talked of here, you'll end up sending them to kind of, you know, the old school chat rooms and dark places where cyberbullying is more prevalent. And it's a problem of implementation. What do you say to that argument? So this assumes that the kids are desperate to be on social media. And if you block them from some, they're going to find others.

50:24And what we see over and over again is what the kids are desperate about is not being the only one out. They're desperate to not be left out. So it's too soon to know exactly what's happening in Australia, but I can tell you this much. I had a good long talk with Jeff Hancock from the Stanford Social Media Lab. He is the psychologist who's been selected to be in charge of the evaluation of what's happening in Australia. And he told me last week, just a quick update in Australia, Julie and Grant, their eSafety Commissioner, reported that Australia removed something like 4.7 million accounts from Australia's 2.5 million kids in that range.

50:59So the platforms have complied. That's going down. More accounts than children. Okay. So now then how do the kids adapt? Now, if you're a 14-year-old who's been kicked off, you're going to be mad and you're going to say, well, I'm going to use a VPN. And sure enough, VPN use spiked at first. But what Jeff told me is it went way up and then it went back down to where it was. Because the damnable thing about social media on a smartphone is that the kids can use it literally 500 times a day. Whenever there's five seconds down, they take it out. But if every time they take it out, they have to load up the VPN and then go on, that's a little bit of friction.

51:35A little bit of friction and they find something else. Do you know, I spoke to, on the radio show I work on, I spoke to some 13-year-olds, sorry, 12-year-olds last week. And they were so clear. they said they'd hate it at first, but after a week they'd be absolutely fine. And isn't that what it is to be a parent? What it is to be a parent is to say no in order to, you know, tough love, whatever you want to call it. Listen, you've been so incredibly generous. And the one thing I'd say before we conclude this episode, and we answer some listeners' questions for our next bonus episode, is I really, I know you're so in demand.

52:03And I know that Emmanuel Macron in Davos and Keir Starmer in West Street and in Downstreet want you. But I would love at some other point to talk to you about The Righteous Mind because there is a long history of Jonathan Haidt's social psychology before you got to this extraordinary cause. And I think the one thing I'd say even more in the anxious generation or the amazing generation is if people want to understand why politics and religion seems to defy good people, I think a lot of it is explained in your book of 2013. So one day I hope you and I can talk about that as well. I'd be very happy to.

52:33Our democracies are going kind of crazy for the same reasons in the same ways. And again, I believe it has to do with the technological change. If democracy is a conversation, it was one thing when the conversation was in books, magazines, newspapers, television, news. And it's another thing when it moves on to Twitter. And that's what's happening now is we have democracy on Twitter and it's not working very well. At least we've got podcasts. Yes, long podcasts. Yes, they are a blessing. I love a lot of technology. Jonathan, it's great to speak to you. Thank you so much. You too. Thank you.

53:08now you heard jonathan mention meta quite a lot in that interview and i think you heard me push back uh consistently and also put their position to him meta have sent us a statement and i think it's important uh that we convey that to you so a spokesperson for meta said the following and i quote we agree with jonathan height that keeping teens safe online is critical that's why we've made meaningful changes like teen accounts to limit who can contact teens, what they see and their time on our apps. However, two recent independent large-scale studies in the UK and Australia, including one from Oxford, show the complexity of teen mental health and that many factors beyond social media influence it.

53:48Any serious conversation should reflect all the evidence and social media's positive role for teens, friendship, skill building and finding community. Friendship skill building and finding community. And I should also say that we also approached TikTok and Snapchat, but didn't receive statements from either company.

54:12Now, you might remember that last year I had a truly extraordinary conversation, one of the most amazing encounters I've ever had, frankly, with a remarkable man called Jacob Dunn. He was possibly the most interesting person I've ever met. He also is possibly the only person I've ever met who's killed someone because he killed James Hodgkinson with one punch whilst on a night out in Nottingham well over a decade ago. Jacob went to prison for manslaughter and since then he's developed a really extraordinary relationship with James' parents, the parents of the man he killed with that one punch through restorative justice.

54:48and his story is so extraordinary that it's the subject of a play called Punch which sold out on the West End, sold out on Broadway and it was written by the great James Graham. James Graham, who also wrote things like the TV show Quiz or Brexit and Uncivil War and Inc and lots and lots of remarkable plays including Dear England, which was the one about Gareth Southgate, is Nick's guest on Political Thinking this week. So if you enjoyed the conversation with Jacob Dunn and I know from the numbers a lot of you did, please do make sure you check out Nick's interview with James Graham. Just search for Political Thinking with Nick Robinson on BBC Sounds.

55:27And that is it for this episode. To make sure you don't miss your Radical questions and Jonathan Haidt's answers, do please subscribe to Radical with Amol Rajan. If you do that, life just gets better. I mean, I'd say my own academic research and anecdotal evidence would suggest that more than 99 % of people who have subscribed to Radical have loved doing it because that's what you say to me in your wonderful messages. So to make sure you don't miss future conversations, including question and answer episodes, please subscribe to Radical with Amol Rajan on BBC Sounds. And remember, if you want to watch this as a vodcast or what we used to call television, you can do so on the iPlayer.

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From the publisher

Social psychologist Jonathan Haidt is at the forefront of the campaign to ban social media for under-16s and end what he calls “phone-based childhoods”.

His book, The Anxious Generation, sparked a global reckoning that has led countries like Australia and Spain to introduce laws restricting access to social media platforms.

He spoke to Amol ahead of a meeting with UK health secretary Wes Streeting about why he thinks we’re at a tipping point, whether technology is making us “stupider” and how parents can reduce their child’s smartphone use by organising local “play-bourhoods”.

A Meta spokesperson said: “We agree with Jonathan Haidt that keeping teens safe online is critical. That’s why we've made meaningful changes - like Teen Accounts - to limit who can contact teens, what they see, and their time on our apps. However, two recent independent, large-scale studies in the UK and Australia, including one from Oxford, show the complexity of teen mental health and that many factors beyond social media influence it. Any serious conversation should reflect all the evidence and social media's positive role for teens: friendship, skill-building and finding community."

Snapchat and TikTok were approached for comment.

TIMECODES

(00:03:45) Are we reaching a global turning point in how children interact with technology?

(00:05:58) Understanding why governments have been slow to respond

(00:10:23) How Meta has reacted to Jonathan Haidt’s research

(00:12:35) Exploring the claim that we are becoming ‘stupider’

(00:15:58) Phone-free schools

(00:19:13) The rise and impact of the loneliness epidemic

(00:24:38) Jonathan presents his evidence on the ‘correlation vs. causation’ debate

(00:34:09) How Jonathan addresses criticism of his work

(00:35:17) What the science shows about social media, smartphones and developing brains

(00:37:44) Why children benefit from facing adversity

(00:40:18) Jonathan Haidt’s message to children

(00:42:47) Jonathan Haidt’s message to parents

(00:49:48) Examining the argument that kids will always find ways around social media restrictions

(00:53:08) Meta’s response

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