Bad Dates Season 2 with Joel Kim Booster!

0:26Bad Dates all the gory details you loved in season one. And we'll still hear real letters and voice messages from listeners sharing their own worst dates. Plus, Joel will weigh in about his own lengthy and bizarre time in the dating trenches. We love the show because everybody has had them. Everybody can relate to them. And now it's time to laugh at them on season two of Bad Dates with your new host, Joel Kim Booster. Check out this clip from the show and follow Bad Dates wherever you get your podcasts. Bad Dates! And now, the very funny Justin Martindale. So it was a nice summer evening. This was probably about like almost, I want to say 10 years ago.

1:07Oh, wow. A child. You were a baby. No, I'll say like seven. I still am. So I went to the show. It was a show here in LA. And I met this guy and the lighting was just good. And I was very inebriated. And we were talking. We kind of hit it off. We started making out. And then we exchanged numbers. And he was living in New York. I was in L.A. So we were like, we're going to just do this bi-coastal, long-distance fantasy. And one day, if destiny allows us, we will meet up again. Right? We started talking regularly on the phone. And this was kind of before FaceTime kind of took off. So we were just, like, talking and flirting.

1:52And, you know, he started talking about, like, so when are you going to come to New York? and I'll make this like great weekend for us. And I'm like, okay, sure. Yeah, let's make it happen. So finally, I want to say like November, maybe like a couple of days before Thanksgiving, I got a flight, went out to New York and I'm waiting at the airport for him to pick me up. He shows up and I'm like, I don't know this person. Like he didn't look like the guy that I had seen that night. Of course it was blurry and shadowy, But I was like, oh, and New York can do a lot of damage to your in a month. Yeah.

2:31A couple months in New York. A couple months can change people. He was just like not the the person that I remember. Do you think you got twin switch? Do you think? Oh, I never thought about that. Oh, my God. Seriously. A twin catfish. Yeah. So we go into his apartment and I'm looking at his place and I'm like, oh, this is really weird. he had like a trench coat that was nailed to the wall. And I was like, what is that? And he was like, well, I love musical theater. And I'm like, shit, like immediately, because I'm not like a big musical theater gay. That's a logical response. Yeah, what musical is that referencing?

3:14I am so glad you asked, because he had stolen Lea Michele's trench coat when she was Eponine in Les Mis. Oh my God. Well, he just shot up in my estimation, I gotta say. Nailed it to his wall. Like, it wasn't even in a frame. It was just a trench coat crucified to the wall. So I'm like, oh, okay. And he had like a whole bunch of like other little Broadway knickknacks and everything. He didn't have time to steal a frame? What was the... Steal a frame. Like, do something. Like, it looks weird. We hadn't made any moves on each other. We hadn't even like kissed. It was just very, very, very awkward.

3:52Yeah. And then finally, he's like, I have a surprise for you. I got us tickets to go see Wicked. And so I had never seen Wicked. I was like, okay, cool. This is a Broadway show. Fine. He got us like orchestra seats. They were really good seats. And he said, I need you to be the lookout. You have to stand near the door. Yeah. I have to watch Elphaba so you don't steal her hat, right? The story is also very Boil the Frog. You're like, okay. All right. Yeah, I don't want to be a bad sport. You know, I'm like, I don't want to seem like I'm not grateful. Well, you flew across the country, and I'm assuming coach.

4:32Probably. Yes, I did. You weren't in Delta One back then. No, not bad. You know? Middle seat, back row. By the toilet. So we end up going to see Wicked, and I'd never seen Wicked. And it starts out, and it's all grand and everything. And then I realized, like, I'm hearing something that's not part of the show. And so I look over and he is belting every song like he is in the show, like every song. And I'm mortified. I'm sitting there and I'm like, shut the fuck up. To the point where one of the flying monkeys in one of the numbers looks at us and hushes us. I have never been hushed. To be hushed by a flying monkey?

5:21By Chistery? Hushed by a flying monkey, which is not a CBS sitcom. Like catty-pones. The flying monkey's looking at you like, be more civilized, please. Seriously. Returns to screeching, jumping around. And he, I'm like, you have to shut up. And he's like, okay, sorry, sorry. I just, it's like my favorite musical. I've seen it like 800 times. And I'm like, okay, well, I've never seen it. So shut the fuck up. So in my head, does he sing every time? Or is it for you? Do you know what I mean? Yeah. I have no idea. He was just like, was it for you or was he hoping a casting director was in the audience?

5:53Probably, probably so. Probably so. We went and saw bring it on as well. And I don't remember that musical. It was so bad. It was just, I couldn't do it, but the same thing. And he was just like, you know, curtain call came out and he was like, Natalie, Natalie, yes. And I'm just like, I've been sending you the packages. I've been sending you the packages, Natalie. He's like, girl, you nailed it, girl. And Natalie's not even looking. It was awful. And that was it. And did you ever hear from this man again? No, I didn't. But, I mean, can I get a little dark? Oh, boy. Oh, no. He died. You tell us that after we've been riffing on him, making fun of him.

6:38I got, like, a memory on Facebook. And I was like, oh, yeah, that guy. and I clicked and it was like, this is like an in memoriam like account now. And I was like, oh no. But I will say, because I knew him, I have been changed for good. So. Wow. Fuck you. Fuck you. Do you know if he died doing what he loved? Stealing Broadway memorabilia? Let's hope. I don't know. I wonder who got the Lea Michele trend. Yeah. I know, right? Who got that in the estate sale? He probably was trying to sneak backstage and get something from Funny Girl. And Lea Michele, you stand her ground laws, shocked him. Yeah, I know.

7:20This is so dark. We have to stop. Jeez. Bad dates. You can hear the rest of this episode by listening to Bad Dates wherever you get your podcasts. Smart. Blast. Media.

7:42Thank you.