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TED Radio Hour: Shock Value
Episode Overview In this episode titled "Shock Value," host Manoush Zomorodi explores how being jolted out of the ordinary can lead to productive conversations and unexpected changes. Drawing on stories and insights from notable TED speakers, the episode features discussions with Peter McIndoe, Paul Bloom, and Maya Shankar, examining how shock can inspire dialogue, connection, and personal growth.
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Key Speakers and Topics
Peter McIndoe
Birds Aren't Real
- Overview: Founder of the satirical movement "Birds Aren't Real," which began as a humorous social commentary on conspiracy theories and government surveillance.
- Concept: The movement claims that all birds are actually surveillance drones created by the U.S. government.
- Accidental Origin: McIndoe created the character during a rally in 2016, leading to unexpected nationwide interest.
- Media Involvement: The movement became widely reported as a legitimate conspiracy, demonstrating how satire can blur the lines of reality.
- Impact: McIndoe discusses how people react to conspiracy theories and the importance of having conversations without judgment. He highlights that many who believe in conspiracy theories seek community and connection.
Paul Bloom
The Psychology of Perversity
- Overview: Bloom shares insights on why people are drawn to doing "bad" things, referencing St. Augustine's reflections on sin.
- Perversity Project: A project where individuals share examples of doing wrong for the sake of it — not for gain but simply because it feels rebellious.
- Human Nature: Bloom examines why people, when told not to do something, often feel compelled to do it anyway, emphasizing the psychological need for autonomy.
- Art and Shock: He explores the role of shock in art, using examples like Banksy's shredded artwork to illustrate how shocking actions can provoke thought and change perceptions.
Maya Shankar
Navigating Change
- Personal Journey: Shankar shares her experience as a former violinist whose career was derailed by an injury, prompting a deep identity crisis.
- Growth through Change: She discusses how unexpected life changes can lead to self-discovery and redefine one's values and identity.
- Finding Meaning: Shankar emphasizes the importance of understanding the underlying passions that drive us, suggesting that we can find fulfillment in new pursuits when our original paths are disrupted.
- Future Perspectives: Reflecting on her struggles with motherhood and fertility, she encourages others to explore the broader meanings of their aspirations.
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Key Concepts and Takeaways
- Shock as a Catalyst: Provocative actions and ideas can serve as powerful tools for sparking conversations and encouraging personal growth.
- Community in Conspiracy: Understanding the social aspects of belief in conspiracy theories can lead to more empathetic discussions, rather than dismissive judgments.
- The Nature of Perversity: The human tendency to rebel against authority can manifest in benign acts of defiance, revealing deeper psychological motivations.
- Identity and Change: Life-altering events can challenge our identities, but they also present opportunities for rediscovery and personal evolution.
- Connecting through Experience: Shared human experiences, like dealing with loss and change, can foster connections and understanding across diverse life paths.
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Conclusion "Shock Value" illuminates the complexity of human behavior when faced with the extraordinary. Through humor, psychology, and personal narratives, the episode encourages listeners to embrace change and engage with differing perspectives in meaningful ways. By understanding the underlying motivations behind our actions—whether rebellious, satirical, or vulnerable—we can foster deeper connections and navigate life's unpredictability with resilience.
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0:44And even change you. I literally feel like I'm a different person. Yes. Do you feel that way? Ideas worth spreading. From TED and NPR. I'm Manoush Zomorodi. I want to start with a story that, well, it might seem unbelievable. Birds aren't real! Birds aren't real! On October 15, 2022, thousands of protesters gathered in Washington Square Park in New York City. Go, Hopeers! Go, Hopeers! I get flashbacks to that moment, to that rally all the time. Because it was the most beautiful moment of my life. There were 3 ,000 people of all ages, all races, all beliefs coming together for a shared truth, something we can all agree on.
1:40We flooded the streets. We had banners, we had signs, we had our bagpiper with us just to commemorate and remember why we're there, which is because of a tragedy. because, you know, 12 billion birds died at the hands of the United States government, and they've never received justice for that. So we're here to avenge them. We're the ones around New York City! I want to take this kid! Let's go! This is Peter McIndoo. I'm the public information officer for the Birds Aren't Real movement, which has been active since 1976. Since 76, but you've not been involved since then. Oh, no, I'm 25 years old.
2:24Kind of a brief history of the movement is it started when animal rights activists and anti-surveillance activists learned about the government's plot to replace every bird with a surveillance drone. And they teamed up to create a movement called Birds Aren't Real to protest this. From 1969 through 2001, the U.S. government murdered over 12 billion birds in the American skies. Here's Peter McIndoo on the TED stage. They did this using poisonous toxins dropped from airplanes that was contagious and murdered all of the birds over the course of about 40 years. For each bird the government killed, they replaced it with a surveillance drone replica in disguise designed to spy on the American people.
3:10The proof that birds are robots is all around us if you start looking. For starters, birds charge their batteries on power lines.
3:23They also track civilians using a liquid tracking device. Over the years, as I began putting this information together, there were times I wished I never even learned this. My life would be so much easier. But I always come back to this. It is my moral obligation as one of the few privileged enough to know this to share it with you. So this whole thing, it got big. Like you went to CNN headquarters to protest their coverage of the movement. You went to Twitter headquarters to protest their logo.
4:05What's your overall strategy here? How does it work? Yeah, so we have a van that we drive around the country. We hold rallies. That's my primary responsibility as public information officer. I drive around the country in a van that we covered in decals, kind of full of facts and, you know, questions that we want people to ask when they're driving. Like, have you ever seen a baby pigeon? You ever wonder? I've never seen a baby pigeon! Why? They come out of the factory as adults! Why? Throughout my time doing Birds Not Real, I've had multiple kind of people come forward and seen some leaked documents that prove that they come out of the factory as adults.
4:47So there's no organic growth from baby to adult pigeon. So back to Washington Square, you had the van parked there. Presumably, since it was Washington Square Park in New York City, there were a lot of pigeons. There were a lot of pigeons. And any time that, you know, a flock of pigeons flew over the crowd, there would be just a cacophony of boos. It was like a heavenly choir to my ears, just hearing everyone collectively, you know, come together and let the government know that we know what they're doing and we don't like it. How shocked would you say people are when they first hear about your theory that birds aren't in fact real?
5:39Yeah, that's a tough one. unfortunately i try to tell people what's going on and they look at me like i'm a freak and those scream at me telling that to tell me i'm the i'm the problem with with this country you're so stupid but that's why i'm doing this it's clear we have a lot of work to do uh and so i'm hoping you know my grandchildren will be living in a world where being a bird shrew there's the norm you know where it's weird if you believe in birds you know that's this old that's boomer belief you know know what? You know, we know, we know the truth. So that's the world I'm working toward.
6:17And, you know, that is, that is what's, what drives me forward every day. All right. Tell us who you really are. That was really fun, by the way. That was fun. My name is Peter McIndoe, but I do not believe the birds are robots. And that is a character that I just did, that I've been playing for years and years now. I started this by accident in 2016. What? How does one do that by accident? What do you mean? It was an actual accident, I swear. I was in Memphis, Tennessee, visiting a friend. It was shortly after Trump got elected. And there was a rally happening in Memphis. It was a woman's march.
7:10And there were also people in red hats shouting things at them. And it was just kind of this chaos. And I'm not really sure why I did this. I think I was just maybe overwhelmed or maybe it felt like there was so much madness happening. but I decided to pick up a sign and write my own thing on it. So I wrote on the sign the three most random words I could think of to pair together and as you can guess they were birds aren't real. And then I started walking around chanting birds aren't real and people were asking me what does that mean? And unbeknownst to me, I was being filmed the entire time. The next week I started being sent pictures of birds aren't real spray painted on walls in Memphis and high school classrooms, writing it on the chalkboard, chanting it in the cafeteria.
8:11No, no kidding. And I was Sitting, looking at all this, and just thinking I would always regret it if I didn't try to lean into that energy that was already there. We live in an attention-seeking age with companies and influencers vying for our eyeballs, one-upping each other with outrageous and shocking images. It can feel exhausting and exploitative. But what if being jolted out of the everyday can actually be helpful? Today on the show, shock value. Ideas about how provocative stories, surprising actions, and bolts from the blue can set the stage for productive dialogue, connections between adversaries, and ultimately positive change.
9:10For Peter McIndoe, Birds Aren't Real started as a funny bit to make people laugh or to ruffle some feathers. But he decided he wanted to see how far he could take the farce. Our goal was to convince the public that our satirical movement was a real one. And see if the media would believe what we were saying. To do this, I played this character that I just showed you. We held rallies, put up billboards. We even sent the media a lot of fake evidence. We hired an old actor to pose as an ex-CIA agent, confessing to his crimes. We sent them a historic email leak called Poultry Gate that came out of the Pentagon, where we forged hundreds of fake emails exposing elites and government officials in the bird drone surveillance plot.
10:03It didn't take much to convince the media. After just one summer holding rallies, like this, it became nationally syndicated news on tons of local news stations that we were a real movement that had been around for 50 years. And there was a resurgence happening where it was coming back and there was a radical new leader, myself, bringing the movement back as the rise of conspiracy theories swept the nation. At this point, I'm sitting on my couch watching the media report on my fake movement as a real one, and figured it was probably time to come out of character. One, because we'd accomplished what we came there to do.
10:41But also, I didn't want this to snowball into anything it was never supposed to. So in 2021, I broke character, revealed the movement was a farce on the front page of the New York Times. I mean, it's pretty impressive how much you committed to the bit. And I read that it was partly because you identified with the character, because you grew up in an environment where you were exposed to some conspiracy theories. So what was your childhood like? Yeah, like you said, I grew up in kind of a hyper-conservative religious community where I was homeschooled in the outskirts of town in Arkansas, actually.
11:28And a big reason why I was homeschooled is because there's a conspiracy theory that's still very prominent to this day, that the common core school system is brainwashing children. So that's a big reason why I was homeschooled, but still had some access to the real world. And I had neighbors when I was very, very young who were Muslim. And I remember asking my parents about what they believed in. And they said that, you know, they believed in their God just like we believe in ours. And I remember thinking, oh, well, then how do we know that ours is the one, you know? And that was before I was 10.
12:13A family friend gave me a book called The Power of Myth by Joseph Campbell. So that was one of the first books I read. in like my teenage years. Wow, a family member gave you that book? Well, he's a very close friend of my dad's, which I've always respected. They do have very different beliefs. I mean, that's actually a very constructive way to talk to you by giving you a copy of Joseph Campbell. Yeah. And showing you the power of story. Yes, it really was because that book talked about the power of story and myth and how maybe we weren't so different from those neighbors after all. And yeah, I think that a big part of the way that I got through that was through humor and not making fun of my surroundings, but definitely joking about them a lot.
13:03When we come back, how Peter channeled that curiosity to grow his fake movement and walk the fine line between comedy and condescension. On the show today, shock value. I'm Manoush Zomorodi, and you're listening to the TED Radio Hour from NPR.
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17:24So I remember at the beginning looking at it, less like a conspiracy theorist satire, but more like just this absurdist belief satire that could be applied to either side of the political spectrum. And so from there, it was really interesting. When the idea was growing, it sort of became this Rorschach test for who people thought believed something ridiculous. and a lot of people think that, you know, the other side you could say or people that, you know, disagree with fundamental core beliefs of theirs are crazy or brainwashed. There were hundreds, maybe thousands of instances over the years where strangers would approach me.
18:09You know, they'd see me in public and I'd see them notice me. They'd walk up to me with complete disdain on their face. They thought that I was a real conspiracy theorist. And time and time again, they'd come up to me, and they would tell me how stupid I am. My out-of-character self may interpret these interactions as a funny response to someone that fell for the comedy project, but instead I felt the emotions of the character. I felt emboldened, and I felt sad and angry, like they didn't even take the time to know me. And in those moments when those people were talking to me, they could not have been more ineffective at what I would assume they really want.
18:55Less conspiracy theorists in the world. What if by talking to conspiracy theorists like they're ignorant and stupid, we're actually pushing them farther away from the truth that we want them to see? Because what happens when someone tells you that you're stupid, you're all wrong, you're the problem? You'll feel judged and dismissed. and most importantly, you'll feel othered, which may lead you to look for safety in those who are like-minded to do what they have been doing for you. Affirm your selfhood, give you a sense of identity, belonging. These are some of the most basic human desires. I think as the time has gone on, we started building more of a character and a person out of this Birds Aren't Real guy to where he wasn't just this random guy who shouts on the street because that's really not who conspiracy theorists are.
19:50A lot of the time, you know, they're talking about these forums that they're on online and they really don't have a lot of real life friends or community. And so as the time's gone on, it really hasn't even been about the bird robot thing at all. It's been about a character that is finding purpose and meaning and community through this idea. and that is what's making him go deeper and deeper into it. Did you ever have conversations with real conspiracy theorists? There was one time that I'm happy that it was just one time. Because at the first rally we ever held was in Springfield, Missouri. I didn't know who was going to show up.
20:35I didn't know if we'd have 20 people show up. I didn't know if we'd have a bunch of old men show up who really believed this. And so we showed up and it was just all a couple hundred actually. It's like Gen Z kids who totally understood and got the wink in the eye. And from there, that's when I learned that that really was our whole audience. But there was one time at the CNN rally actually, this guy walked up to me and starts talking about how he's a member of this very elite family with this famous name. and he was saying, you know, I love how a lot of the information you present is absurd, but it's true.
21:18But it's true. The way you present it is absurd, which is a smart way to get it out to people, but it is true. Interesting. And later that day, I got an Instagram message from this guy. I said, oh my God, it's the guy from the rally. And I opened up his profile and it was just years and years of thousands of posts of conspiracy theories. Oh. Yeah. Which I think that a lot of times it is one conspiracy theory can lead to another and then reality really can kind of unravel. And yeah, that was the first time that I'd ever experienced that. It kind of shocked me at how similarly he spoke like the character and how much he identified with it.
22:02Did you ever have anyone who was angry at you about this? about birds aren't real in general yeah like like this is not funny like conspiracy theories aren't something to laugh at yeah there have been there have been people who have said that and i really think it's important that we can talk about these things in a space that's not intense i think comedy is a very disarming way to enter a thought space you can enter this idea through something with with levity and then once we're past that then we can maybe get into some ideas in a more disarmed way. You know, obviously there are a lot of harmful conspiracy theories and that's important to talk about too, is that there are some ideas that are truly hateful and very hurtful.
22:48But I think that with the general person in our life that believes in conspiracy theories or that friend group where someone says something that makes us raise an eyebrow and responding to that in a way that isn't shaming, but that is curious about how they got there. If we can have more people talking about it like that, looking at the problem as an issue of belonging rather than belief, that might be the most productive thing we can do to fight the problem of misinformation. That's Peter McIndoo. He's the founder of the fake movement, Birds Aren't Real. We are planning on running for president ourselves as a movement, not as a person.
23:33In 2024, this is a TED Radio Hour exclusive. Oh, thank you for that. Of course. And you can see his full talk at TED.com.
23:49On the show today, shock value, which can include the irresistible desire to do something bad. And if we're going to talk about being bad, psychology professor Paul Bloom suggests that there's no better person to start with than the original bad boy, St. Augustine. So Augustine wrote a very famous book called The Confessions about 1 ,600 years ago. And it's famous because it tells the story of his youthful descent into sin and his subsequent conversion to Christianity. And he begins book two with this great line. I propose now to set down my past wickedness and a carnal corruption of my soul. Which sounds like Augustine's about to dish out some pretty racy stuff.
24:38But... The sand he spends the most time talking about is, you might think it's fairly mild. There was a pear tree near our vineyard, weighed down with fruit, alluring neither in appearance nor in flavor. And one day, 16-year-old Augustine and his buddies decided they were going to steal those pears. And we carried off from there enormous loads of fruit. Not to our meals, but rather to cast before swine. And that was it. That was it. That was the beginning and the end of the sin. But it fascinated Augustine. Because he said, look, why did I do this? Behold my heart, God. Behold my heart. I wasn't hungry.
25:25I threw most of the pears to pigs. I had nothing against the person who owned the orchard. And he concluded that he did it because he had no motivation for wickedness except for wickedness itself. If any part of one of those pairs passed my lips, it was the sin that gave it flavor. I had no motivation for wickedness except wickedness itself. I was foul and I loved it. He wanted to do it simply because it was wrong. And unlike his sexual sins, where he had motivations, he had drives, he understood what he was up to, this fascinated and horrified him. This seemed to him like a glimmer of pure evil.
26:09Paul loves stories like these. I love it because it's so paradoxical. Because sure, we sometimes do bad things. Because we think that we're actually in the right, that morality is on our side. We fight back because we're overwhelmed with anger and injustice. Or because we want to get revenge against someone who's wronged us. Usually we have some sort of reason. But stealing pears just for the hell of it? These perverse acts fall outside all of that. Perverse, as in illogical, irrational. They seem to be cases where people know something is wrong and they do it. Not despite the fact that it's wrong, but because it's wrong.
26:53So in an attempt to understand what drives us to do these thoroughly unhelpful acts, Paul launched the Perversity Project, where he asked people to submit their everyday examples of doing wrong just for the sake of it. So one of the first stories I got was, flirted with a woman's boyfriend knowing fully well he liked me. I knew I could steal him if I wanted, but I didn't want to do that. I just wanted her to feel uncomfortable whenever the three of us were in the same room. Here's Paul Bloom on the TED stage. Causing people pain is wrong, but that's exactly why I did it. And in fact, this is the plot of the Dolly Parton song, Jolene.
27:34Sometimes it's self-destructive. A young man wrote to me, ice skating on a pond, dark and frozen spot 30 yards out. Instead of avoiding it, I skate towards it, knowing but wondering, knowing but wondering, and splash. But not all the stories I got had that kind of nature. Some were a little bit more benign. Here's one of my favorites. When I was in a professional choir, at every concert I felt the desire to sing a few notes very incorrectly on purpose. To this day, I don't completely understand why. Someone else wrote me, and this is going to sweetest, sadness, little example of modest perversity.
28:08Sometimes I walk on the grass instead of the path just because I know it's wrong. You know, I think my favorite from your survey is the ice cream guy. You remember that one? This was, I think, the first entry I got from the perversity project. You hit the jackpot right from the start. I just loved it. And he wrote, on one occasion in my early 20s, I was out with a friend. He decided to get himself ice cream. And before he had a chance to try it, I stuck my finger in it. I played it off as a joke. But really, I had the sudden thought, man, it would be messed up if I just jammed my finger in his ice cream.
28:50And for full clarity, he didn't use the word messed up. I mean, there's something about a person who decides to give you an entry for your perversity project that they have a sort of self appreciation or they're trying to understand their own motivation. It does not pass them by that something wicked was within them or they wanted to shock someone. They know themselves well enough to have recognized that this was what was happening when they committed these acts. I think that's exactly right. It is the kind of sweet spot where people know this is strange. This is outside of the usual. and a lot of the perversity examples that we could talk about don't make sense to the person doing them.
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29:42And one of the theories that I'm interested in for why we do this, which is to shock others, to shock and scare and impress others in a nice way. You just want to surprise or sometimes amuse other people. It could be funny. On the other hand, in the extremes, perversity becomes terrible. It becomes people doing cruel, rotten, violent things simply, you know, for the sake of doing them. Psychologists have long been interested in violent, disruptive, perverse acts and the kinds of people who do them. An example people often give is the Joker from the Batman comics. In Christopher Nolan's film The Dark Knight, Alfred, Batman's butler, describes the Joker by saying, some men can't be bought, bullied, reasoned, or negotiated with.
30:35Some men just want to watch the world burn. And psychologists have thought up a need for chaos scale. That gives you a bunch of statements, and how much you agree with them will tell you how much you want to watch the world burn. So just do this quietly in your head. I need chaos around me. It's too boring if nothing is going on. Sometimes I just like destroying beautiful things. I've spent back in the day covering a lot of political protests and oftentimes we saw that they would be completely nonviolent and rational. And then you would see the anarchists show up in black hoods and things would just descend into utter chaos, not because they felt strongly for either side of the issue that people were protesting, but because they just wanted to mess things up.
31:30Yeah. And I think there you see the dark side of perversity where there are some people around who just want to make trouble. And sometimes the making trouble can be funny. They may want to amuse people or surprise people in a benign way. But sometimes they might really want to hurt people. They might want to destroy things and hurt people. And there's something apolitical about it. You know, they'll dress up, they'll put on masks, and at root, they don't care what the demonstration is about. No. But if they could throw some rocks and get some trouble going, their day is done. They tend to be male.
32:07They tend to be young. I think many people age out of it. It's kind of in a sort of hormonal rage of being a teenager. But it is the scary side of perversity. And then there's another side, which I think is more common and something really worth knowing, which also connects to politics, where people don't like being told what to do. Part of a perverse actor is somebody who wants to maintain their autonomy. They want to maintain their freedom. And there's a lot of evidence that if you tell people, look, you are forbidden to smoke. Look, you must take these vaccines. Look, anybody who votes for this person is a total moron.
32:53Don't vote for this person. Some proportions say, okay, I'll do what you tell me to. And some proportions say, hell of that. I'm going to do the opposite. And I think political scientists underestimate how often people go to polls and do what they are told not to do just because they are told not to do it.
33:18OK, so these acts can be troublesome, but you also think that they can be pretty interesting, maybe even positive. And you use the example of the art world and certain pieces of art. Yes. Maybe the newest one was by Banksy. Yeah, we've had a lot of interest on it, as you can imagine. Where he had a canvas girl with a balloon. It was on auction at Sotheby's. It was all set up in a frame. And then the moment the gavel went down, a machine in the frame started to be activated. And the artwork was partially shredded. and if you go to YouTube and you watch people are shocked they had never seen me like it they were horrified but this became a classic and people thought it was wonderful and ingenious and clever maybe the origin of modern art started when Marcel Duchamp when there was an art competition in New York and he said send in any artwork you want so he sent in a urinal and they said no, no, no, no, no, we're not accepting that.
34:31We're talking about art. And he said, it is art. And there's a big debate. And then the conception of what art is changed. I think society and science and art wouldn't work unless most people play by the rules. But these geniuses, who are often weird people and often perverse in other ways as well, make things more interesting. They push us to different levels. When we return, Paul explains why telling someone not to do something will just make them want to do it even more. On the show today, shock value. I'm Manoush Zomorodi, and you're listening to the TED Radio Hour from NPR. Stay tuned.
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37:36But like I said, I'm a psychologist. I don't believe in imps. I think what we do has reasons, has motivations. And I think for perverse actions, there's a range of them. One of them was mentioned by Augustine. So later on, after describing the incident with the Pears, he writes, I would not have done it by myself. My satisfaction did not lie in the Pears that lay in the crime itself committed in a league with a gang of sinners. The social force drove him. A warning for parents tonight. The Tide Pod Challenge is the latest fad among teens and social media. Jonah Berger gives this great example of the Tide Pod Challenge.
38:09where a few years ago, kids would just be sticking Tide Pods in their mouth and filming it. I mean, this is nothing to laugh at. It's no joke. They do look yummy. I understand. We are going to get into legal problems. Yeah, let's not do that. You're right. We should really say it is not safe to put Tide Pods in your mouth. No. But actually, maybe we shouldn't say this because the company that owned Tide Pods, I think Procter & Gamble, put up some extremely expensive ads. Keep laundry packs out of reach and away from children. Berger points out when this ad came up, consumption of the pods shot up.
38:43Not that. Nobody's going to tell me what to do. I'm going to be an autonomous, free being. Or take threats of reprisal. There's a lovely study by a team of political scientists which asked the subjects to imagine that they're an ambassador to a country and they're deciding whether or not to have sanctions towards that country. In one condition, the dictator says, if you do sanctions towards our country, that's okay. I won't do anything. In the second condition, the dictator says, if you do sanctions towards our country, I will unleash terrorist attacks against you. What's the stunning finding from this is that in the second condition, not the first, they were more likely to do it.
39:24A lot of our perverse actions are in response to people telling us not to do what we want to do. And it makes us want all the more to do that thing. So much of global conflict involves sending off a message saying, don't expect me to be reasonable. Don't expect me to only care about my own best interests. And people talk about the evolution of our minds, the evolution of emotions, say, this is where emotions like losing your temper, like rage, come from. Rage is an honest signal that I am about to make threats that are not reasonable, but nonetheless I'm going to follow up on. It's one of the great quirks in human interaction that a perfectly rational being, a perfectly intelligent, rational being who weighs the costs and benefits, a Mr.
40:20Spock, is going to be less effective at life than someone who's a little bit crazy. and we're being grim but it also works for positive things too who would you find most compelling? somebody who says to you I want to be with you I want to spend the rest of my life with you because the benefits of being with you outweigh the costs you were the most attractive promising mate I have seen based on searching for the last little while and up until I find somebody better than you, I will stick with you. Or would you rather have somebody who's sobbing at your feet and say, I am so crazy in love with you.
41:06I will never leave you. You are the one for me. And now the second person isn't thinking rationally. You know, dude, cost benefits. But he's making a much more compelling deal. Love is basically a sort of irrational bet that when somebody better comes along, you're not going to stray. Human relations. We are so weird and complicated and strange and delightful. We are. We are. We are perverse. That's Paul Bloom. He's a psychology professor at the University of Toronto and professor emeritus at Yale University. His latest book is Psych, The Story of the Human Mind. You can see his talks at TED.com.
41:57And thank you so much to J.C. Howard for giving voice to St. Augustine. On the show today, shock value. We've talked about perverse thoughts and outrageous conspiracy theories. But what about a shock that's more personal? The kind of shock that can upend our big plans in life. When it comes to navigating change and trying to sustain hope during hard times, as someone who's not a particularly spiritual or religious person, I try to have as open a mind as I can day to day. That's my soft landing. It's human psychology. Maya Shankar is a cognitive scientist. That was not what she wanted to be when she grew up.
42:44When I was six, my mom went up to her attic and brought down my grandmother's violin that she had brought with her from India to the United States. And I just remember being so captivated by the instrument. I was really close to my grandmother, and I knew she had played it as a little girl. And so I very quickly asked my mom if I could have a quarter-sized violin of my own to play. Maya's childhood revolved around her violin. My focus each and every day when I woke up, it was always about the violin. Like, that's what I woke up thinking about. That's usually what I fell asleep thinking about. Kind of remarkably, my parents never had to ask me to practice.
43:22Music seemed like it was striking at something that was so intrinsic. At age nine, she was accepted into the Juilliard School. We lived in Connecticut, and every Saturday, my mom and I would wake up at 4.30 in the morning and take a train into Manhattan, and I would have, you know, up to 10 hours of classes. And then we'd come home and, you know, get back at around 10 or so at night. After years of intensive training, her hard work paid off. When I was a teenager, the renowned violinist Itzhak Perlman invited me to be his private student. This was around when I was 13 or so. And so I was like living the dream, Manoush, I really was.
44:02What was the dream? Like, what did you envision for yourself? It was really when Perlman took me on as a student that I received that vote of confidence that, hey, maybe I could actually do this. Maybe this could really be my career. You know, I had a special schedule at school to accommodate more practicing. Even physically, my body grew around the violin. So, you know, to this day, my right shoulder is slightly elevated compared to my left. And my spine is slightly curved because of all the hours I spent, you know, in that violin position. Yeah, it really became an extension of my body. And then that brings us to one day when you were 15.
44:45Yeah, so I was at summer music camp. I was practicing this very, very technical, very challenging passage of a Paganini caprice. I overstretched my finger on a note and I heard a popping sound and was alarmed to find that it wasn't a string that had popped that actually attended in my left hand. Hmm. How did you respond? Yeah, I responded really poorly. I was frustrated. I was very impatient. And so every day and probably 200 times over the course of the day, I would like touch my hand, move it around and see whether maybe things had improved and then they wouldn't have improved. And then I would pick up the violin and think, you know what, I'm just going to like bulldoze my way through this injury.
45:31And I played through months of pain, you know, just using anti-inflammatories and trying my best at physical therapy. I was just willing to do anything at all. Did it work? Like, were you? It didn't work. No? It didn't work. And so eventually doctors suggested surgery. That didn't help me. Finally, I was told I had to stop playing altogether. When I lost the violin, I expected to grieve the loss of the instrument. right, and grieve not being able to play anymore. But I did not expect that I would grieve the loss of myself. Without it, I really felt unmoored. And sometimes it's when we're thrown these big changes in our lives that it brings to the surface just how much certain things in our life matter to us, right, and how defining they were.
46:17So Maya started to ask herself, who was she, if not a violinist? because, you know, I was wearing blinders and I was on this speed train trying to become a professional violinist. And so I closed out all these other worlds. And so it's not just about discovering other pursuits, it's about rediscovering myself at this more fundamental level. But it turned out, once a high achiever, always a high achiever. Maya ended up earning a PhD in cognitive psychology from Oxford University. From there, she served in the Obama administration as founder and chair of the White House Behavioral Sciences team.
46:56Now she's a behavioral scientist at Google. And a couple years ago, she started her podcast, A Slight Change of Plans, which is about, you guessed it, life-changing moments. So I realized through that experience that it can be more sturdy to anchor your identity not to specific pursuits, but to the underlying features of those pursuits that really make you tick, that light you up. And when it came to the violin, what I really loved about music is that it gave me the ability to emotionally connect with other people. And that underlying passion persisted. I mean, that's a core part of who I am. It gave me like a through line because I, well, I lost the violin.
47:42And since then, I've lost the ability to do other things, or maybe life took an unexpected turn. But I can still find that same love of human connection in other pursuits. And so I would urge people who are listening to ask themselves, like, what is my through line, right? What is the defining feature of the things that I love to do? And can I find that elsewhere when life throws me a curveball? Maya Shunker continues from the TED stage. Change is scary for a lot of us. For one, it is filled with uncertainty, and we hate uncertainty. Research shows that we're more stressed when we're told we have a 50 % chance of getting an electric shock than when we're told we have a 100 % chance.
48:25I mean, we'd rather be sure that a bad thing is going to happen than to have to deal with any uncertainty. Change is also scary because it involves loss of some kind. By definition, we're departing from an old way of being and entering a new one. And when we experience a change that we wouldn't have chosen for ourselves, it's easy to feel that our lives are contracting, that we're more limited than before. But when we take this perspective, we fail to account for an important fact, that when an unexpected change happens to us, it can also inspire lasting change within us. we become different people on the other side of change.
49:08What we're capable of, what we value, and how we define ourselves, these things can all shift. And if we can learn to pay close attention to these internal shifts, we may just find that rather than limiting us, change can actually expand us. So clearly you have bounced back. Are you, I don't know, is grateful the right word? What do you, when you think back on that moment and where you are now, can you draw a straight line? Yeah, it's a great question. I mean, I think it's too high a bar for all of us to try and reach gratitude in the face of every change. That might be unreasonable. But one thing that I felt time and time again through all of the changes that I've endured is that there's a huge amount of self-discovery and growth that happens along the way.
50:02And there's so much mystery around the ways in which change in turn changes us inside. You can take two people who are experiencing the same external change situation and their internal response is markedly different. And I think when we can tap into people's internal states as they're navigating change, that's where the true wisdom lies. Often we're united by our psychological response to any situation. So someone going through a divorce might find the most resonance in the story of a cancer patient who feels their body has betrayed them in some way. And I think there's a hopeful message there.
50:40I think it helps us feel connected across all of the challenges that we face in our lives. You mentioned that you are going through another change yourself or you had an idea of what your life was going to be like. and it's not working out exactly how you'd pictured it when it comes to starting a family. Are you okay to talk about that? Yeah. So in 2020, after years of fertility treatment and trying to match with a gestational surrogate, we found this wonderful woman, Haley, who is pregnant with our baby girl. My husband, Jimmy, and I were just over the moon that finally this dream of parenthood was coming true.
51:21And then we found out that Haley had miscarried. Oh, gosh. And I remember thinking in that moment, wow, I feel so unprepared for this change. Like, I might have navigated change earlier in my life, but man, the emotional, like, gut punch of this is so overwhelming. And I don't feel like I have the tools needed to get through this moment. And I felt really discouraged and just felt like I needed help and I needed human connection. Fast forward about a year and a half and Haley was now pregnant with our identical twin girls. And we were, again, so thrilled. And then unfortunately she miscarried.
52:02And I... Oh my gosh. Yeah. And I think more recently I've been reflecting on my current journey when it comes to parenthood. And one thing I learned with the violin was, what is it that I loved about the violin? And can I find that elsewhere? And I think in the domain of parenthood, I'm asking myself a similar question, which is, what was I craving from parenthood and can I find that elsewhere? I mean, it also sounds like a very organic process. I don't hear you slipping into clinical speak in any way, you know, saying, well, I'm just suffering from PTSD or whatever else. You're not labeling it.
52:46You're talking about the human experience. Yeah, I think that I, that's how I'm processing this, is just as a human experience. So... A hard one. Yeah. I've always wanted to be a mom, but becoming one has been difficult. And my husband and I have had to navigate pregnancy losses and other heartbreaks over the years. And now I'm not sure what will happen. I'm asking myself how this unexpected challenge might change what I'm capable of. what I value, and how I define myself. I'm still figuring things out, but what I can tell you right now is that I'm imagining a future me who is expanding her definition of what it means to parent, who's perhaps finding what she craved from motherhood in other places.
53:41At a minimum, this exploration has allowed me to loosen my grip on the identity of mom just a bit, and I found it freeing. I'm beginning to see change with more possibility, and I'm hoping you can too. Thank you so much. That was Maya Shankar. She hosts the podcast, A Slight Change of Plans. You can see her full talk at TED.com. Thank you so much for listening to our show today, Shock Value. This episode was produced by Katie Monteleone, James De La Housie, and Harsha Nahada. It was edited by Sanaz Meshkinpour. Our production staff at NPR also includes Rachel Faulkner-White, Matthew Cloutier, and Fiona Guerin.
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