The Power Of Healing Through Mindset & Affirmations, Neuro-Cosmetics, & Spiritual Journeys Ft, Margo & Roxy Marrone of Eyeam

6 Feb 2026 · 1 h 24 min · 37 chapters

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Podcast Summary: The Power Of Healing Through Mindset & Affirmations, Neuro-Cosmetics, & Spiritual Journeys

Podcast Title: The Skinny Confidential Him And Her Show Episode Number: 937 Hosts: Lauryn Evarts Bosstick & Michael Bosstick Guests: Margo & Roxy Marrone of Eyeam

Episode Overview In this episode, hosts Lauryn and Michael Bosstick interview mother-daughter duo Margo and Roxy Marrone, founders of Eyeam, a neuro-cosmetics brand that integrates mind, body, spirit, and skin health. Margo, a pharmacist and energy healer with over 30 years of experience, and Roxy, an integrative nutrition coach, discuss their personal healing journeys and share insights on the importance of mindset, affirmations, and the impact of inflammation on hormonal imbalances and skin issues.

Key Themes and Discussions

  1. Introduction to Eyeam
  2. Neuro-Cosmetics: Eyeam is the first brand in neuro-cosmetics, focusing on the connection between mental and physical health through intentional self-care rituals.
  3. Products Highlighted:
  4. Magnesium Spray: Used for relaxation and skin health.
  5. Hormonal Drops: Aimed at balancing hormones and alleviating PMS symptoms.
  1. Personal Healing Journeys
  2. Margo's Background:
  3. Combines pharmacy and energy healing.
  4. Experienced a shift in her worldview through spirituality.
  5. Roxy's Struggles:
  6. Faced severe hormonal acne and PCOS, which led her to explore integrative and holistic healing approaches.
  7. Emphasizes the importance of mindset in healing, highlighting her journey from self-criticism to self-acceptance.
  1. The Role of Mindset and Affirmations
  2. Power of Affirmations:
  3. Affirmations are seen as a tool to reprogram negative thought patterns and promote self-love.
  4. Importance of pairing physical treatments with psychological healing for holistic well-being.
  5. Mind-Body Connection:
  6. Discussed how stress and negative thinking manifest physically, leading to skin issues and hormonal imbalances.
  7. The notion that improving mental health can catalyze physical healing.
  1. Spiritual Perspectives
  2. Energy Healing and Demon Attachments:
  3. A significant portion of the conversation revolves around the concept of “demon attachments” and energy cleansing.
  4. Margo and Roxy discuss the role of spirituality in their healing journeys, emphasizing the empowerment they found through faith.
  1. Practical Tips for Listeners
  2. Detoxification and Health:
  3. Importance of detoxing the body to alleviate symptoms of toxicity.
  4. Practical rituals for improving physical and mental health, including dietary changes, mindfulness practices, and regular affirmations.
  5. Creating a Healing Toolbox:
  6. Encouragement to cultivate a "healing toolbox" that includes stress management, community support, and self-care practices.

Key Takeaways

  • Mindset Matters: The way we think influences our physical health.
  • Holistic Healing: True wellness requires addressing both the mind and body.
  • Affirmations as Tools: Positive self-talk is essential for healing and self-acceptance.
  • Spirituality in Healing: Embracing spiritual beliefs can enhance personal healing journeys.
  • Community and Relationships: Strong, open communication and support can strengthen relationships, especially in family dynamics.

Final Thoughts This episode serves as a powerful reminder of the interconnectedness of physical health, mental well-being, and spiritual fulfillment. Margo and Roxy's insights encourage listeners to explore their own healing journeys and to consider the profound effects of mindset and holistic practices in their lives.

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Chapters

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Guest Backgrounds

1:10 to 1:50

Introduction to Margo and Roxy, their backgrounds, and their expertise.

“I like have been raving to all my friends about those two specific products.”

The Concept of Energy Healing

1:50 to 3:00

Discussion about energy healing, including personal stories of demon attachments.

“This is the Skinny Confidential, him and her.”

Understanding Demons and Spirituality

3:00 to 4:50

Exploration of how demons relate to spirituality and personal health.

“So if you read the Bible, it will tell you that Jesus came to cast out demons.”

Personal Experiences with Health Struggles

4:50 to 6:10

Roxy shares her journey with acne and hormonal imbalances.

“And he came back with that and your demons are cleared.”

Mother-Daughter Dynamic in Healing

6:10 to 7:30

Margo discusses the challenges of watching Roxy struggle with health issues and how they navigated it together.

“nightmares visions these types of things during the night because that's also when we're accessed so having a okay you started off by saying you i'm gonna think you're crazy now you're gonna to think I'm crazy.”

Finding Solutions Through Family

7:30 to 10:00

Discussion on how Roxy's health challenges led to creating their brand and products.

“And so the great thing about deliverance is that you also need to renew your mind, if that makes sense.”

Navigating Teenage Challenges

10:00 to 14:00

Margo shares her parenting approach during Roxy's teenage years and the importance of support.

“So the important thing for you now is to say goodbye to them.”

Navigating Teenage Years as a Parent

14:00 to 15:02

Learn how to build a strong foundation for your teenagers while allowing them independence.

Healing Through Mindset and Nutrition

15:02 to 17:54

Discover the importance of mindset and nutrition for treating acne and skin issues.

“And it was really interesting because now that I understand what was happening from a nervous system regulation point, I had been so used to that programming with my body.”

Power of Positive Self-Talk

17:54 to 19:43

Understand how self-talk influences your perception of self and overall reality.

“We didn't have the awareness at the time.”
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Affirmations and Their Impact

19:43 to 22:04

Learn the role of affirmations in changing mindset and manifesting desired outcomes.

“They can't read your mind, but they can put thoughts into your mind.”

The Science Behind Positive Thoughts

22:04 to 24:24

Explore the neuroscience behind positive thinking and its effects on your life.

“all the principles that Jesus followed was forgive, be kind, be grateful, love one another, and declare your truth.”

Manifesting Your Goals

24:24 to 27:20

Learn a structured approach to manifesting your desires using clarity and action.

“trauma clinicians david kessler vessel vandakar anyone and and positive self-talk is an actual neuroscience.”

Spiritual Journeys and Finding Peace

27:20 to 28:00

Understand how spiritual exploration led to a greater sense of peace and joy.

“And it's interesting because when you don't know, you look in all sorts of places to see if it's there.”

Exploring Spiritual Journeys and Blockages

28:00 to 29:00

Learn about the challenges and revelations in personal spiritual journeys.

“What other rabbit holes have you been down?”

Shamanism and Healing Practices

29:00 to 30:00

Discover the complexities of shamanism and its role in healing.

“For someone like myself who is curious, what is shamanism?”

The Intersection of Christianity and Spiritual Healing

30:00 to 31:20

Explore how traditional religious practices intersect with spiritual healing.

“because I mean, I participated in a few, but that's a whole other story.”

The Birth of a Brand: 'I Am'

31:20 to 32:00

Learn about the creation of a brand rooted in spiritual and personal healing.

“And, you know, when people are there, he just heals them.”

Integrating Affirmations into Healing

36:28 to 37:38

Learn how affirmations can enhance skincare and healing routines.

“I knew that affirmations were such an integral part of that, but I could never remember them.”

The Power of Mindset in Weight Loss

37:38 to 39:40

Discover how mindset influences weight loss and personal transformation.

“But when I started pairing the two together, it then became an automatic response because it actually takes 28 days to make or break a habit.”

Experiences with Spiritual Retreats

39:40 to 42:08

Hear about the impact of spiritual retreats and their challenges.

“I cannot make this up that we would have someone on the show.”

Exploring Psychedelic Experiences

42:08 to 44:12

Learn about the impact of psychedelic experiences on mental health and spirituality.

Healing Through Energy and Mindset

44:12 to 46:02

Discover how energy healing and mindset shifts contributed to healing.

“And that's what we call the Holy Spirit.”

The Power of the Bible and Forgiveness

46:02 to 48:43

Understand the role of biblical teachings and forgiveness in personal transformation.

“I don't have any critical thoughts, any comparison, in, which I used to have any obsessive thinking, like very, very bad obsessive thinking before.”

Breaking Negative Patterns

48:43 to 51:21

Examine how trauma and negative thinking create barriers to well-being.

“That's probably where a lot of demons come from.”

Mindset, Gratitude, and Health Connection

51:21 to 56:00

Learn how gratitude and positive mindset can impact health and well-being.

“One is that she is a woman of faith because that is what it is.”

Neuro-Cosmetics and Mindset Healing

56:00 to 58:09

Learn how neurocosmetics combine skincare and neuroscience for holistic healing.

“So when we're in the embryo, it comes from the same place.”

Reconnecting with Human Nature

58:10 to 59:16

Discover the importance of reconnecting with our bodies and emotions in a tech-driven world.

“Well, you know, like not, you know, I was raised in a religious household.”

The New Ice Roller

59:17 to 1:02:11

Explore the features and benefits of the newly redesigned Skinny Confidential Ice Roller.

“So if you can do that through, you know, so many tools, whether it be our products, even there are some technologies that really do help.”

Healing Toolbox and Detoxification

1:03:27 to 1:10:03

Understand the concept of a healing toolbox and the benefits of detoxification.

“That might sound like woo-woo coming from me, but I do think about it a lot.”

Spray Tan Stories

1:10:03 to 1:10:33

The hosts share humorous anecdotes about spray tanning and its effects.

“You will whine about my little hairspray.”

Detox and Self-Healing

1:10:33 to 1:11:26

Discussion on the body's self-healing capabilities and the importance of detoxing.

“So I noticed that 50 % of their symptoms would just go.”

The Impact of Stress on Skin

1:11:26 to 1:12:41

Exploring how stress influences skin conditions and overall health.

Navigating Family Business Dynamics

1:12:41 to 1:14:20

Insights into working with family and maintaining healthy communication.

The Joys of Working Together

1:14:20 to 1:18:46

The hosts discuss the rewarding aspects of collaborating as family members.

“So I think our first year working together, we had to find the dance.”

Essential Products for Health

1:18:46 to 1:20:18

Recommendations for products aimed at balancing hormones and skin health.

“Yeah, it's really, we call it a gloss because it's not sticky, but it looks glossy.”

Blessings and Spiritual Insights

1:22:16 to 1:23:30

Conversation about personal growth, blessings, and spiritual cleansing.

“Sometimes conversations can be draining.”
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0:00The following podcast is a Dear Media Production. She's a lifestyle blogger extraordinaire. Fantastic. And he's a serial entrepreneur. A very smart cookie. And now Lauren Everts and Michael Bostic are bringing you along for the ride. Get ready for some major realness. Welcome to the skinny confidential, him and her. Margo and Roxy Morone are on the show today. They are a mother daughter duo who are the founders of I am. This is the first brand in neurocosmetics, uniting mind, body, spirit, and skin. And before we even go into this episode, I have to tell you I am addicted. And if they're listening, hear this.

0:46I am addicted to two products from this brand. The first one I'm using every single night is their magnesium spray. It's this gorgeous, stunning, kind of like spiritual spray and it's magnesium and I put it on my neck every single night and I'm also obsessed with their hormone drops. So when you're listening to the episode, know that those two products, you got to try. I like have been raving to all my friends about those two specific products. Margo is an award-winning cosmetic formulator. She's a pharmacist and she's an energy healer. She has over 30 years of experience. And Roxy, her daughter, is an integrative nutrition coach, and she is the founder of Healing with Roxy.

1:31On this episode, we have a really candid, open conversation that talks about personal healing journeys, energy, demon attachment clearings. We'll get to that, don't you worry. We talk about the power of mindset affirmations and hormone imbalances. Margo and Roxy, welcome to the show. This is the Skinny Confidential, him and her. So I was really excited to have you guys on because I want to hear all about this energy healing situation. I just had demon attachments. Oh, did you? Cleared from our house. Okay. Wow. Okay. No, no, you're speaking to the pro. I want to know, and you can be brutally honest if you think this is crazy, but basically there's this energetic healer that I worked with.

2:16He scans your entire house and everyone who's in it all the time. Yeah. From assistants to even like nannies, whatever. Dogs. Yeah. Everything. And he scans it for demon attachments. Yeah. And Michael had, Michael came back as the only one in our house that had 12 demon attachments. Okay. Okay. And three were in the bed. Okay. So I was sleeping with the demon. Are you lonely at night? It's very normal, by the way. Actually, I'm so happy that you have brought this up straight in. Welcome to the show. I love it. Demon attachment is a real thing. Yeah. It's biblical. It is. So if you read the Bible, it will tell you that Jesus came to cast out demons.

3:07And all his disciples have authority against that too. And, you know, going even before Jesus, the Jewish faith, which is where Christianity comes from, also talks about casting out demons. But nobody until that moment had authority to cast out demons. So the only people with real authority to cast out demons are the ones who walk with God, because God is the only one that has the authority to cast out demons. Right. And so that's how Jesus could do it in the Bible. So now you would go to a pastor who is anointed and has the authority to do that because you have to do it through that source. Am I making sense?

3:55Yes. And the person who did it that makes so much sense is religious. Yeah. Pastor, right? Was he a pastor? I think so. Okay, good. Because she's a pastor also. Because you have to use Jesus as your source. Yeah. So can you... You know, Lauren, I was named after the archangel Michael. Yeah. That's true. I don't know. That has to do, though, with your esteem and attachment. Well, you don't know what you need to know. Michael was the one who cast the devil out of heaven and into hell. He's fine. Yeah. Yeah. So I think if more people understood what you just said, the world would be a much better place.

4:35You know what? You couldn't pay me. Did you pay them to come to do this? I said yesterday, I said, I want to tell you, I read a book about demon attachments. I read the whole book that he wrote. He's a doctor. He charged like nothing. It was like if anyone think I got scammed, it was like$20. Yeah. And he came back with that and your demons are cleared. So you can literally thank your wife every day of your life. There's a big thank you. Well, thank you. I did wake up a little groggy the next day. Okay. True. Yeah. detox yeah maybe so okay let's go I'll go along I'll get on this path how did I accumulate these demons while nobody else oh no no lovely question everybody has I had many so did I multiple multiple multiple did you have 12 so probably close the reason I was sick before and why we started our brand was because I definitely had demon attachments and they looked like eating disorder anxiety acne these these actually are all spiritual things yeah happens in the spirit first yeah and then it manifests physically i'm not gonna say it so i'm clairvoyant i guys here's my i'm not gonna lie i was feeling pretty good i was kind of like now i'm kind of like well you got rid of them like what if they were what if they're helping me no no that's a real thing so some people are attached to their demon attachments i was bringing three to bed apparently well this is this is actually a very important thing that you're saying because not most but a lot of people will have different types of dreams sleep paralysis nightmares visions these types of things during the night because that's also when we're accessed so having a okay you started off by saying you i'm gonna think you're crazy now you're gonna to think I'm crazy.

6:30I love it all. Welcome to the show. So, so there is such a, uh, I'm just going to just say it. So there is, there are two spirits called incubus and succubus. And by the way, these are all in the Bible and they are demon spouses. So one is for women, one is for men. And if you have one of these, then it ruins your marriage because they don't want you to be in a great relationship with Lauren. That's not what they want. They want you just for themselves. So they will... So you could have dreams during the night when you're in activities... With someone else. With someone else. Don't tell Lauren that.

7:23You better not be having dreams with anyone else. No, but not a physical person. it's energetic energetic so yeah so if someone's listening and they want to know if they have demon attachments what would you say i would say find yourself a really great church yeah who has a really great pastor who has the authority to speak about these things who follows the bible and is able to help you because it's called deliverance yeah deliverance is the removal of demons from your body, but you also need to be in a state to receive it. And so the great thing about deliverance is that you also need to renew your mind, if that makes sense.

8:08It does make sense. And it's so weird that I was called to this random book on Amazon. It's a random book. I can tell you guys what it's called, but it's weird that you guys were coming on the podcast today because I just did this and he looked at me yesterday like I had 12 heads and And I was like, I just want to let you know that I've cleared your demons. Someone else, my assistant Katie had seven and we got her cleared. Well, let me give you the context. We were going yesterday to speak at an event for Axios about like media and marketing. We're in the car and on the way to prep to go speak in front of this audience.

8:44Big crowd. Lauren's like, by the way, I cleared your demons. You had 12 of them. Three were sleeping with you. There's a guy that did it. And so you could imagine why I'd be like, what are you talking about? I'm trying to prep about talking about the state of podcasts or something. You can understand what I'm saying. It's hard sometimes to talk to people that they don't get it. I fully understand. And listen, I mean, our own journey. I used to practice shamanism. I was a shaman. I did yoga and Ayurveda and all of that sort of stuff. But the issue is that we're all looking for the truth. We're all looking for something to fill us.

9:24And that is God. That is the Holy Spirit. That's what we're looking for. Everybody, every human being on the face of the earth is looking for the Holy Spirit. So on that note, just really quick. I got to tell everyone the book and then we can move on from demons. It's called Demons Among Us. A practical guide to understanding, finding and removing demons. I'm obsessed. It's a little book. I read the whole thing and it's by Dr. Mark Banz. Okay, nice. And that is who did the clearing. Beautiful. I highly recommend it to clear the energy in your house. It's imperative, actually, because it actually affects all areas of your life, including your business.

10:01Every area. So the important thing for you now is to say goodbye to them. Yeah, say goodbye. And not wonder if you're better off with them because you weren't. Well, it's going to be easy to say goodbye because I wasn't aware of them to begin with. I honestly would rather that you have mistresses than demons. well okay i think i'm clear she doesn't mean that i feel good now i feel like the energy is good in here yeah the demons are gone yeah let's start let's start with you guys let's start with you guys okay so okay that was a great start let's get back on track thank you for that yeah it's fun to kick it off like that okay so so take us back through the journey of why you guys started what you started you mentioned you had demons you mentioned you were a shaman i want to go back to that yeah so really i am was all founded on my personal healing journey with hormonal acne and pcos at 24 i randomly and i say randomly in abbreviations because it wasn't so random you know i had cystic acne all of a sudden but i was doing five out of five things to unbalance my hormones and cause inflammation in my body which looked like under eating over exercising using you know party lifestyle drinking excessively eating you know not so good foods and really having the worst part was the negative thought loop in my mind constant negative thinking constant self-critical thinking and the environment that I was around really just built up this overflow of inflammation and so eventually I started to have symptoms and you know my mom's been in the wellness industry for over 30 years I knew everything about organic everything about natural but I always looked at things to look good over feel good wasn't really I was everything was to do with aesthetics more than actually feeling good inside and so when I started to have these symptoms I felt like my whole life was my whole identity was just falling apart and I thought who am I am meant to be the girl with great skin I meant to be the daughter of Margo founder of the organic pharmacy that is does xyz and i'm here with cystic acne i have so much inflammation and so much anxiety that i couldn't even leave the house i didn't want to be seen don't want to wear you know speak to people look them in the eye because i thought they were staring at my skin it's interesting to meet you now because when i walked in the first thing i noticed was how beautiful your skin was and you seemed so confident yeah so when you say that you couldn't even leave the house I mean that's a big difference no no and that's how I know I had demons do you know what I mean you see what like the two different types of things is that really it was I was a shell of a person but it was imperative because I had to shed my old life in order to find my purpose which is what we do now and then at the time so mom's background is in cosmetic formulation and pharmacy so I begged her to make me something I said please I can't find anything that's working and you know the only options that I had were to go back on birth control because I had been on it for eight years came off and it all my symptoms got way worse and then when that was my other option or raccetane I was like no surely I can treat the root and not just the symptoms I'm having so I came to her I said please help me and that's where she made our first two products which is our hormone balancing supplement and our spot treatment and they work so well yeah I mean I think for for a mother you guys will understand in the future hopefully not when you see your child in so much pain and suffering so much it's a terrible thing for a mother to see and because she you know as you said you walked in and she was so confident she's always been confident her whole life but there is a stage that every teenager goes through which is the social scene and as a parent you just have to pray you just have to to hover and and just you know hang around them to catch them whenever they fall because you can't really stop them from partying and doing stuff and and just being free so what did you do personally during that period of time because i imagine now as a parent we're not as far along our kids are young yeah i'm very interested in how you navigated that because we're we're going to at some point yeah well i think in the teenager the thing is i always thought that they don't listen but actually they listen to everything you say and and so you just have to build a really strong foundation for them as they're growing up and then there comes the teenage years where they don't want to know you they don't want to speak to you and they don't want to be around you and that's okay you have to let them go and that's when as a parent you have to behave towards them as an adult it's going to be really hard though it's really hard it's so hard if we could do that it's like a it's like a heartbreak you totally can do that and unfortunately it is something that you have to do otherwise your relationship suffers so so i always used to joke i always used to say amongst my friends don't worry by the time she's 24 she's going to be a she'd have done it all and then it's yeah which is exactly what happened I'm sober I haven't drunk alcohol in two years I stopped like four years ago and then cut a teetotal two years ago yeah yeah so when she came to me in in the state of severe cystic acne and just constantly crying I literally sat her down I said okay I can make you a topical treatment I can make you an internal treatment that's all good but that's just the tip of the iceberg what we need to do is change everything yeah so I'm not going to put you on racutane I'm not going to okay that because that's not my ethos or philosophy so now what we need to do is you use the topical you take the internal but you also have to change your diet you also have to change your mindset so you cannot look in the mirror and say I'm ugly you have to change that yeah because that's what I was doing when I had acne, I thought I would obsessively check my skin every single morning.

16:16And it was really interesting because now that I understand what was happening from a nervous system regulation point, I had been so used to that programming with my body. I would obsessively check my body every morning. And when I decided to let that go, it then turned to my skin and my body had to produce a reaction because my nervous system felt unsafe in that safe, in that, oh, I don't need to check my body anymore but it needed to cause another reaction in order for me to check something because that's what my nervous system was used to talk about the nervous system in general i just was reading something about something very similar that you said that says the nervous system is when when a trigger happens the trigger activates something in the nervous system exactly it's maybe it's not a big deal but you have a trigger towards it because your nervous system is program that way.

17:06Yeah. So that's exactly what I had to break. And really that's what led me. So I'm my background now is in nutritional coaching because I needed to understand why what was happening to me was happening because all the information out there wasn't working for me. I didn't know why I had PCOS. I didn't know why I had cystic acne and he didn't know why I felt anxious all of a sudden. And when I did all my nervous system regulation training, I realized that the attachments that I had, that's what my body felt safe in, in that unsafe place. Actually, the unknowing of feeling good was too scary that my body had a physical reaction.

17:46And so that's what I had to break and unlearn. And that's why we created neurocosmetics because two are in one. You can't just treat your skin topically and then not the mindset and the nervous system with that yeah it makes so much sense yeah i'm such a big fan of louise hay oh my favorite amazing she's just met david kessler who wrote a book with her he's been on the show we love david kessler he was on an i am stage in london at oxford university he's he's a really special person yeah it's so weird because on the show i i asked him i was like there's something about you that reminds me of Louise Hay.

18:24We didn't have the awareness at the time. He tripped out. I didn't know he wrote a book with her. He told me all these stories about her. Wasn't that the book of hers that you didn't read was the one that he wrote at the time? It was the only book that I had never read was the one they wrote together. I totally agree with what you're saying about the mindset. Michael always says that the way he talks to himself, people would think he's an arrogant no no it's the opposite actually it's exactly i mean i i just think i i just firmly believe and i've known this my entire life that the way you talk to yourself is what is going like if you it doesn't matter what's being said around you it matters what you say to yourself one million and you know sometimes if i've made a mistake i can acknowledge mistakes but i refuse to call myself a failure or yes to call myself like i talk about myself in a very I guess uplifting crazy way more so than I would admit out loud yeah and I guess if you heard it out loud you'd be like this guy is so full of it but I just think that if you don't cheer for yourself that way then you can't expect anyone else to you have to you have to because words are so powerful yeah and thoughts are so powerful we create our whole world through our thoughts yeah which manifests through our words and then manifests through our actions so it's a three-way stage thoughts words action like even when i was dating or when i was i would tell i'd be like listen like this girl is going to be so lucky if she gets with me like i would i would tell but it's important because well then i think like from an approach perspective because a lot of women and men get nervous like if you talk to yourself and you have that perspective yeah you would speak to somebody is much different and again like you're so right like if you go to yourself like oh like i'm a loser and i don't think this person will like me and i'm never percent and people pick up on that stuff they do i would love for you to speak a little bit more on how your thoughts create your reality okay just explain like explain how if someone's listening and they're having negative thoughts and both of you guys can speak on this what is a shift that they can make to create a reality that's beautiful and flourishing okay so negative thoughts are completely useless and in fact it's one of the areas where the demonic realm can attack you by putting negative thoughts into your mind.

20:46They can't read your mind, but they can put thoughts into your mind. You're no good. You're useless. Why did you do that? Nobody likes you. The list is endless. And we're all familiar with that, right? So speaking positively about yourself, every word, every thought has energy and frequency and vibration. We know this. We know that the entire world around us is made of energy frequency and vibration so our thoughts have the same and so the more positively we think and this is not you know it's not what did they call it toxic it's not like gaslighting yeah toxic positivity toxic but it's not it's not that that is a different thing where you put on a mask and but this is actually saying right i've woken up this morning and I feel terrible I feel sad then you go into warrior mode yeah and your warrior mode is I am grateful I am lifted I am happy I am this you just talk yourself out of it yeah an affirmation is a declaration of how you want to feel so we love affirmations as a tool to really program reprogram your mindset or we call them cancelling of negative that negative thought loop and you do that through affirmation practice, through gratitude, through forgiveness.

22:03Basically, all the principles that Jesus followed was forgive, be kind, be grateful, love one another, and declare your truth. It says, let the weak say, I am strong. Let the poor say, I'm rich. It's not a mistake that this has been around for such a long time because our words can dictate our whole that's where manifestation comes from you know manifestation is not the law of manifestation comes from this principle and there's so much science behind it everything in my life i've manifested and every time i talk about it and i try to give tips i get torn apart why that's that's an affirmation though what i just said did you hear that i shouldn't say exactly say i'm gonna attract the right energy some people don't like to hear the word manifest and it's it's a unique spot to be in because I want to share how I have manifested what I have in my life but I also don't want to project it onto anyone and I don't want to sound self-righteous and be a know-it-all I just believe in it so much and immediately it gets labeled as woo-woo but more importantly to that end the way that I've always approached it is what you said in the beginning is I don't see the point whatsoever in negative self-talk negative thoughts meaning like none whatsoever there's no use out of it and that's why you know sometimes you have people playing the victim that have some of those things on repeat and what i want to tell a lot of those people that get stuck oh my you know i didn't have this parent i didn't have that upbringing or this guy did this or that girl did that i go yeah yeah but it's not useful whatsoever to you to continue to repeat that or think about it it doesn't it doesn't affect the person you're saying it to outside of maybe they don't want to be around you yeah and it sure doesn't help the person saying it so like from a logical perspective if you if we can rule out and say okay negative self-talk and thoughts are not useful at all at all at least we can all agree like there's no point in doing them because it just makes people around you want to be away and makes you miserable exactly it damages you and then on the flip side of that is that would have to mean then that positive self-talk has the potential of being very useful it's it's it's physics yeah that's what it is is quantum physics can you explain you said it's you said it's neuroscience it's neuroscience okay can you explain so we were in oxford not that long ago last month with all the top trauma clinicians trauma clinicians david kessler vessel vandakar anyone and and positive self-talk is an actual neuroscience.

24:41Yeah. Proven. It's proven. So let's say that you want to manifest. Yeah. I'm just going to make this up. You want to manifest making a million dollars next year. Right. Right. How do you do that from a science perspective? Okay. So first you create the vision. Yeah. Get clear on the vision. Which is in your mind. Yeah. You create the vision of what you want and you make it clear and then you write it down and then you action it that's what i do yeah it's really simple and it's not it's not woo because quantum physics and all of these different fields of energy they prove it but also can i can you take it a step further with i also think like i manifested my family too yeah it can is that i'll give you a weird is there is there a science behind like i wrote down exactly what I wanted don't you think that everyone could easily do that just think what they want but it's them it's their mindset that stops them that oh I'm not good enough oh that would never happen to me the fear is what blocks them from getting to their full potential because it's a process yeah so you have to think it then you have to write it speak it and do it I'll give you a weird one it's true and I've showed I've lit you've seen this paper I've showed it to Lauren.

25:58I have a piece of paper from 2015 and on it, there's a bunch of vague things. And one of them says, you know, Lauren and I will speak to an audience. Number two is we would have a platform to help other people speak to other audiences. Number three is like you would have then a business and we'd have to show it like literally like every single thing that Dear Media has become in that business and the family we've built was on a paper from 2015. And there was no, like it's, it's, it's a little bit vague, but the, but the high level vision of like the goals are there and then it was but to your point is like once it's there you have to we had to work back like how do you do it exactly exactly but the great thing about that is then suddenly you find that people come your way and they're like oh you meet someone randomly who can help you yeah or you meet someone else who's a connection who then takes you one step further on that path and and people call it magic but it really isn't it's flow state it's when you're in that flow state of alignment then and your vessel is clean you know you'll do it you're moving you're eating well you're breathing you're self-regulated you're not coming from a place of fear but you're coming from a place of trust you're like i know i'm gonna do this i know i'm gonna get this and i know in our case i know that god is behind us and he's gonna open every door which he has so really sometimes we wonder sometimes we wonder how are we going to do this truly but the vision is there and then it's like then it just falls into place and sometimes I look at her and I think how did that just happen well I'm like I'm flabbergasted honestly always been spiritual yes always because you said you practice shamanism I did and how did you come to start doing that so my whole life I've been looking for the truth.

27:44And it's interesting because when you don't know, you look in all sorts of places to see if it's there. And so I've been down many, many rabbit holes. I've been down the UFO rabbit hole. And my children always roll their eyes at me because it's like, it's like, mom, what are you into now? Keep it going. Where did you grow up? What other rabbit holes have you been down? So I've been down the UFO rabbit hole for many years. Led me nowhere. Yeah. I've been down the, obviously, this sort of pseudo-spiritual rabbit hole. Or even just more like New Age spiritualism. New Age, yeah. Yeah, I've been down that.

28:22Led me nowhere. Yeah. It takes you to as far as you can go. Yeah. And then you're like, no, this is not it. I don't have the answers. There's just... It's not there. There was just one element missing. It was more the peace we were missing. And then that's when we found... The peace, the joy, the love, all the things that we all want. We were able to manifest, but it just was like there was something, a blockage. And then when we found our pastor, which we've never seen anything. I've never seen such supernatural things happen before and miracles like that of what he's done. And then that's when everything started to overflow in excess when we opened that door.

28:59So when you found God, that's when you felt like you could go through to the next level. through every practice there is power yeah but it's not clean power so it's only when you when and my my journey really was because I really wanted to know the truth like where where do we come from where do we go what what are we meant to do why are we here who are we and and they couldn't really give the answers in in most of the things and it was just so complicated like Shamanism was so complicated. It was such complicated rituals. And it's not complicated. This is not complicated. Yeah, it's not complicated.

29:42It's easy. For someone like myself who is curious, what is shamanism? What do you do and what do you follow? Are you giving ayahuasca in the desert? I didn't do that, but there are shamans who use drugs. because I mean, I participated in a few, but that's a whole other story. Yeah, I think that's another episode. That introduced me to quite a few demons, which I brought back with me. That one we're going to have to go come to London and discuss. Yeah, we'll save that for another episode. That'll be the first episode we record in London. Yeah, I'm down. Yeah, because we've got lots of stories on that.

30:24But then, you know, just like I say, when you're looking for it, somehow it finds you. yeah and so for me on on a particular day it was I I met this lady who then I started asking her questions she was telling me things that I was learning as a shaman like you go into your dreams and you manipulate your dreams like if something happens in your dream you can go back in and change it and I was like oh how did you do that is it did you are you doing soul retrieval or blah blah blah she went no no my pastor taught me and I said well is your pastor a shaman is that what he does because I didn't know that Christianity offered that.

31:02I had no idea. I wasn't a Christian, wasn't interested in religion. I didn't want to know, didn't want to go to church, didn't want to go to a mosque, didn't want to go anywhere. Like it wasn't my, religion was out for me. It was not part of my search. So she said, no, no, he does all of this. And, you know, when people are there, he just heals them. And I was like, how is he doing that? Also, she had been practicing healing, like energy healing. And she used to do it on me all the time. But when we met our pastor, he can do that 10 times. Was it like Reiki? So I guess what you practiced was similar to Reiki.

31:40I practiced, it's called energy healing through the shaman process. Yeah, whereas our pastor does it through the power of Jesus, which is, I've never seen anything so powerful like that in all the energy healings I've done. And we've done a lot. We've tried everything. so it was really and for me accelerated my personal healing journey and accelerated our brand and actually our brand if unknowingly at the time when we called it i am i am is another word for god yeah and i had no idea when i named it that let's talk about branch basics we love branch basics the company we love the people behind the company we've had the founder allison on this podcast twice and that is because they are making a huge difference when it comes to people's health and well-being, and also keeping people's homes clean.

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40:41I cannot make this up that we would have someone on the show. It's crazy. I thought you were going to be like, yeah, I don't know what you're talking about. I cannot make this up that this is happening the day after I told you this. I'm sorry. You have to give me my flowers right now. You have to. I will give you the flowers. This is insane. The problem is I haven't met the pastor and she just told me that a guy reached in from across the world and sometimes i've realized that my delivery i deliver it how it makes sense to me but it doesn't make sense to other people who are a little more close wrong so in answer to your question you don't need to be in the same room yep as somebody because we're talking about quantum physics so we're talking about energy frequency and vibration which is it's you don't need to physically be yeah in someone's presence in order for that to happen i'm not going to debate or argue all that i'm just saying i learned about this yesterday in a car so you need you process it i hear you i'm processing yeah yeah i'm thinking about it that's okay that takes listen it took me six months i literally turned up yeah non-religious non-interested in that kind of thing i had just been to a retreat which which was wonderful it was beautifully organized beautiful people it was fabulous but we did three different ceremonies which was cambo to detox and then bufo which is the the frog one but they poke right yeah the cambo is the one that they poke you and then the bufo is the one where they where you it's a psychedelic you smoke it and then mushrooms and i i'm they have you do all three of those in three days three days yeah i i'm not one to do those types of things i just don't like drugs i don't like anything of that nature but I was like okay you know it's with friends I'll try it and it was a spiritual reason yeah you thought that you were going to get spiritual enlightenment I did yeah and the journey itself was beautiful but oh my goodness afterwards so we're talking about negative thoughts these thoughts were so dark and so deep and so strong like you are you are ugly you are no good nobody loves you you will never be loved these were the thoughts that were pounding in my head the whole time afterwards after that event happens these are your thoughts and so would you say that you were worse after that than before a thousand times worse a thousand i literally i'm not a crier yes you're not i would cry every day it was weird people will call me and i'll say i can't talk i can't speak to you i have to and i would just go to the park sit by myself feel sorry for myself pity party pity part and i'm not she knows i do not do pity yeah not for anyone like if i see someone in a pity party i'm like come on get yourself if i'm having a meltdown she's like get up just get up get yourself together i love that but can i ask you this don't you think though that maybe the plant medicine and the bufo and all that had to take you to this spot so you could get to the next spot because maybe if you hadn't have gone that low and had the pity party and and had these negative thoughts you then wouldn't have found the next thing to me it's almost like you were supposed to do the bufo because it gets you you have to go through that to get to there yes you're 100 % right and also a part of me would have always wondered what if yeah what if I tried that what if I tried that but you know I've tried so many things now that I don't have a wonder of what if because I know so in the six months that you started healing what what does that look like and how does it affect you as her daughter yeah so the first the first few months they were going my mom my brother I was really I just thought oh my goodness like I thought this is the next thing that they're into and whatever at the time though I didn't have my period and I didn't have my period for almost three years after coming off the pill and our hormone check drops is one of the reasons that I got back my period but the reason I went to the pastor initially was to get my period back I was like I have acne don't have my period I would just really like to be healed and my mom said well why don't you just come and try you know the energy healing I used to do on New Works so you know what's any different to this and I thought okay like you know I'm into I can get a bit crazy and you know try different things so I thought I'll go didn't you know it was very reserved didn't have any expectations but the moment I walked in I felt like I was being cleansed from the inside out like you just feel like you want to cry so much and they're not even saying anything to you.

45:37And that's what we call the Holy Spirit. It's when the Holy Spirit touches you and it basically just cleanses you from the inside. So the guy that you had worked with used the Holy Spirit and entered your house to clear everything out. That's the tool, basically. It's awesome. And it's a feeling now that I'm addicted to. I couldn't live without it because now all my negative thinking has dissipated. I don't have any critical thoughts, any comparison, in, which I used to have any obsessive thinking, like very, very bad obsessive thinking before. And all of that has disappeared thanks to not only the pastor, but also just the lifestyle.

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46:18What were some things that you both noticed that happened in the church specifically? Like, did the pastor tell you to change your mindset? What are the things that he used? It's very, very gentle. So gentle. So I think at one point he probably wanted to throw me out because I was so stubborn. You know, I had spent 55 years of my life learning a certain way. And so when you come with all of that information, which is incorrect, by the way, part truths, you have to shed that in order to renew your mind. Because let's face it, it wasn't working, really, was it? Otherwise, I wouldn't be in that situation.

47:04So it was a very gentle and very slow process of me just showing up. It takes discipline. And starting to read the Bible, I'd never read the Bible in my life. And it was just those words were renewing my mind because actually what is taught in there is so pure and so good that I feel like a lot of religion has twisted it to suit man rather than the other way around, if that makes sense. It makes total sense. What are some things that speak to you in the Bible? Well, first of all is forgiveness. I think if we forgave and accepted our forgiveness, then we'd be so free. yeah it's free also there's one of my favorite quotes is do not be anxious for anything but in everything prayer thanksgiving and supplication to god in everything that you do so you know it's like what is the point of worrying about anything when we don't actually have control over anything it's an illusion of control and the control actually causes the inflammation inside your body which is causing your symptoms do you want to get that tattooed on your arm yeah i think another demon just attached to me because no one's chirping i think that's why i said that his demons came from when he had too much fun in college he had a couple demons that i had to get rid of it's possible it's normal but the way that the world works it's it's cultural conditioning society movies you know we i always say your diet isn't only what you eat it's about what you listen to agreed about what you watch books you read the bible also says that demons come when your wife is nagging at you?

48:45I think that's... What is that? And like... And Matthew... Look that up. I think that's probably... That's probably where a lot of demons come from. How come that some people in my house didn't have demons, though, if they attach so easily? So the door... There's door... We call them doors. They either open or they don't open. And you can... Trauma is one way that you can open a door. Oh, no wonder I got so many. So... We all do. That's why it's very common that most people have some sort of attachment because of traumas. They will open the door to negative thinking. Fear. Fear is the biggest door.

49:20It's like when we are scared or feel abandoned or feel that we have to take control of everything, then that's how these sort of energetic entities can become attached. So if someone doesn't have them, though, what does that mean? That they just haven't attached? like my kids didn't have any the dogs didn't have any because they're they don't they don't have the logical sort of understanding of the society does that make sense but i don't mean to brag i didn't have any where where's mine i don't have a clean vessel yeah you've done a lot of work you've done see you the programming that you've got it's all about your programming we need to record this episode and put it on repeat on a cd for michael to listen to i'm a clear vessel also so so correct me if i'm an able man bears many burdens yeah you seem to be quite aware energetically yeah and i am so do you get dreams do you get information do you get things like that intuition you just feel like something's right or it's wrong like out of control to the point where sometimes and i know i can already tell that you are going to know exactly what i mean you you you feel drained and you have to reset yeah because it it becomes an able man but it becomes sort of like you have to be careful because it's it's a blessing and it's also well here's what i gift here's what i would it's a gift it's a gift but i will say it's not a the other i get a lot of cranial i will say this about my wife and i and people gonna you know maybe the people that are not open this probably already turned this one off but the i have seen her two times after going and doing ultrasounds with the baby naturally flip two babies in her stomach after being told that she was not going to be able to and that they were going to have to have a season i've seen her do it twice i saw her call on the exact date that our son was delivered on it that was not the due date that's because i had a dream i have seen her blow up and have a huge infection recently in the face he wanted to rush me to the emergency doctor said er and antibiotics and literally the next day she she healed it and it was my healing it was gone and i swear and i'm not like i'm not a everyone that listens to the show knows i'm not woo i've so i've seen her do a lot of these things and I've also seen her you know get sick like I do see her do a lot of that kind of stuff which is open my eyes to the perspective of like having a different mindset and being able to do that so yeah I mean a lot of people say that's woo woo but then the more shows like this that I've done and what you were talking about earlier is if you have like there is something that is going on our bodies when you think certain way and have certain thought patterns if you're anxious all the time if you're stressed all the time like for me i realized that like probably a lot of the issues like i was a control anxious person for a long time and i was probably not doing good for my health i also think a lot of people that have got issues and got health problems like for sure it's a lot of you know it's connected for sure yeah so i just say that to say that like there's there i do believe that there is more than like than just some of the things we've been taught don't let him fool you he's listening to five two eight hearts every night Two things that I would like to say to that.

52:43One is that she is a woman of faith because that is what it is. And if I was to hazard a guess, you are most definitely a prophetess and a healer. What does that mean? That's what I would say. What does that mean? A prophetess is... I don't have to write this down. You can see things. It's not a clairvoyant because a clairvoyant is a different source. Something that doesn't use God. source yeah so a prophetess is someone who uses god god as their messaging that's so weird that you say that because two days ago i was like what is going on with me there's something going on so i was talking i was like am i a clairvoyant that's the word that kept coming to me and i would read it and i'd be like no because this is like i feel like you see colors or something with the clear it's like no yeah so if you think about it like it couldn't give me a word yeah so your the word is you are a prophetess, which means you're a vessel for God to speak through.

53:44And so your channel is clear. That's why you can hear him so clearly. Do you hear that? And that's why you were clean. Wow. So that's the first one. And the second one is that, I mean, you guys obviously have heard of Gabor Mate. He says, your psychology dictates your physiology. And this is where we get into the science of it what you think dictates your physical response yeah so you cannot separate the body from the mind from the spirit yeah if you practice gratitude every day your whole life will change it's true your whole life will change it's true you will go from being a miserable grumpy for lack of another word loser to someone who is beaming with joy yeah full of gratitude and peace and love and I mean come on which one would we choose I also think you have to think about if you're locked in an elevator with somebody and the person is just so negative and all they're telling you is this this is we're never going to get out of this this sucks how can we ever this what are we going to do?

54:56I need to be around someone that's like, okay, we got this. Yeah. We're going to make a plan. I want to be around that in every interaction of my life or I don't want to do it. I don't care how much money it is. If it's not that kind of interaction, I'm not interested. And I think that, that, that it does start with the gratitude. Cause if you have the gratitude, then it gives you a foundation for when something does happen, like being stuck in an elevator or whatever it is because stuff happens yeah happens to everyone yeah so we have to be in a a mindset an energy set that we're able to deal with that with as little intrusion possible to our state of being yeah that's why i think that your brand is really so genius because anyone who's listening can go get your affirmations and get a product and do them together and solve a problem and solve the problem of the mind because even though i practice so much louise hay and wayne dry or whatever it is like i'm practicing practicing you have to practice it or it does the negative thoughts do come exactly and that's why we paired it so that it's a day you know everybody does their skincare which products did you guys use i'm obsessed with your lip okay this is what i'm using everyone go look at the youtube it's first of all the applicator is rose yeah the rose gold crystal cool it's a rose gold a rose quartz yeah crystal yeah you're putting energy on your lips yeah literally and by the way we bless everything and cleanse it before it goes out to anyone i haven't tried the spot treatment yet that's the one i want to try because i'm having some pimples right now okay yeah post pregnancy yes but i'm gonna try it with the affirmations because i've been looking in the mirror and doing what you i'm like oh my gosh where are these pimples coming exactly exactly but this rose quartz thing is genius it's honestly we really wanted to do something that was different and the reason that we want to you know we have to treat the body the way that we do is because neurocosmetics is really skincare meeting neuroscience together and that's because the skin and the mind come from the same embryotic sort of source.

57:12So when we're in the embryo, it comes from the same place. So treating them separately doesn't make sense. That's why you have to treat them together. And so through our brand, we treat it through the ingredients that we use and through the affirmation prescription. We call it a prescription because it is meant to be taken like a supplement, just like the ingredients that we use, depending on, you know, we have a stress supplement, we have a hormone a balancing supplement we have magnesium supplements actually really good post pregnancy really like fantastic for supporting the full body detoxification because if you don't have all of that then your body and your brain can't think properly and you can't process emotions properly this is you guys are really on to something this is very very smart it's it's matching the frequency of solving a problem with with the skincare or with with the spot treatment but then it's pairing it, like you said, with the prescription of changing your mindset.

58:12Yeah. Well, you know, like not, you know, I was raised in a religious household. And then as you get older, you get a little bit away from it. But then you do get back to your roots. And I think that there is like there is something happening now where people are starting to, I think, look to God again a little bit more. Right. And like whatever form that takes you. But yeah, I was even reading a stat the other day. Like it was like Bible sales in this country up like 40 percent. So people are seeking things out. And without going so religious, what I will say, one of the things that we talk about consistently on this show is people just getting so far away from human nature with the rise of technology and cities and the way that we live.

58:51We're so disconnected from our bodies and minds. Even just like listening to ourselves. The other day we were talking about how people even just ignore basic pains in their body because they're just so disconnected and unselfaware. And so I think like there is something about just like kind of getting back and centering to self. Yeah, back into the body. That's actually how you process trauma. One way that you will go through trauma therapy is getting back into the body and the feeling of the body into the five senses. So if you can do that through, you know, so many tools, whether it be our products, even there are some technologies that really do help.

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1:04:06That might sound like woo-woo coming from me, but I do think about it a lot. You know, there's one of my favorite quotes from the Bible says, guard your heart with all diligence because of the issues of life flow through it. So if you are so caught up in the issues of life, which by the way is so normal because there are so many issues of life, you know, am I going to be able to pay my bills? Am I going to be able to, you know, feed my family? Are my family okay? Are my friends talking about me behind my back? There are so many different thoughts that we're having constantly but if we can put ourselves in an environment that protects us from that outside noise and really set i call it the healing toolbox you have your healing toolbox and you get your weapons when you need them so that when you're in a situation where you're either getting the thoughts or you're feeling overwhelmed or you're feeling like you want to control everything you come back to the basics breathing moving community uh forgiveness love gratitude and diet and diet you know when i was going through my skin journey i adopted an anti-inflammatory lifestyle which i still live now you know when people sign up to our newsletter they get a free ebook which has like eight recipes and a whole bunch of free all the tips that i did to clear my skin through an anti-inflammatory you're gonna have to send me that i'm gonna have to sign up for the newsletter so no i'll send it to you it's it's you know it's such a labor of love because when my true passion in life is to help people and to teach people that's why we offer a lot of free education on our website and we have a biohack section and we write a whole bunch of blogs and biohacks and programs that you can do because we really believe that everybody deserves to be healed whether you can afford it or not what are some biohacking things that you both do and some rituals that you do so many things so i actually listened to your episode with the guy that does the miracle morning yeah and it's so funny because i never heard of the miracle morning before but that's exactly what I do and that's like normal for me and that's basically how I live my life I we start our morning we pray with our church on zoom we then I then do like 20 minutes of like led mask and meditation and silence then we like read the bible I journal I have a conversation with God I'm like you say we are you talking about you and your mom together yeah because we just like do it we do everything together we still live together yeah That is...

1:06:27I know. Yeah, with my brother as well. So like, you know... I hope I'm doing this with my daughter. It's the best, honestly. Oh my God, that is so cute. So you guys do all this together. Yeah. Okay, keep going. All of it together. Then, you know, like I'll have my bone broth and my matcha, or maybe I'll have a coffee, my mold-free coffee. Very, very important. What's the brand? Exhale is the one that I'm using right now. It's from the UK. So I'm sure there's a better one from like, you know, within the States that you guys can get that won't cost loads of shipping. so really having all of that and then practicing my affirmations doing my skincare it just sets me up that I'm so ready for the day that no matter what comes oh like and I can never forget my magnesium spray if I don't spray my magnesium spray I notice a huge difference in not only how I feel physically but mentally you know I have more brain fog and my body feels more lethargic and tired we we have mom honestly mom's one of her gifts is that she can make the best products that really do work so well i want to try the magnesium yeah we've got we've got i didn't try that yeah we've got stuff for you guys and it's a bi-phase spray so it's got two phases and it basically mimics the cell so we made it so that it's got water soluble vitamins and oil soluble vitamins that go into different parts of the body to of those vitamins and you spray it on your body and not only does it give you magnesium but it actually helps with the texture of skin because we like to do form and function so we want the skin texture stretch marks cellulite body acne to all go away but then also have the magnesium so it gives that glymphatic boost yeah so I mean one of the things that I noticed there's two things that I love very much one is detoxification yeah and that's really through diet so you you sort of do I don't know seven days.

1:08:18But in my previous life, I noticed that I used to see patients, thousands and thousands of them. And I noticed that everyone was toxic. As in, when I say toxic, showed symptoms of physical toxicity. What are some of those symptoms? Any kind of skin issue. It simply means that your body is overloaded. That's all it means. And so it presents itself as symptoms. So it could be mood swings, bad breath, digestion, tiredness, brain fog. These are all symptoms of that you need to do a detox. And so I would put all my patients or clients on a detox. What's the detox? Well, this is from my previous brand, which was called The Organic Pharmacy, which is called The Organic Pharmacy.

1:09:04And the detox is under that brand. It's a 10-day detox, which I developed for my patients. Like 25 years ago. Do you guys still do it? Yeah. I want to check it out. It's a 10 day detox. Yeah, we'll get them to send it to you. But it's like mom has been. I remember when she first opened the first shop that she ever did organic pharmacy. I think I was three. You were three. My brother was born. I had a little lab coat. Cute. And yeah. And really like there was no other organic brands. There was no natural skincare. There was none of that. You know, people used to say that she was crazy. So why are you doing this?

1:09:38What's organic skincare? Yeah, why would you use organic skincare? And I was like, I was a little evangelist. I was like, do you know what you're putting on your body? Do you know what you're putting on your skin? Yeah, your skin is your largest organs. The power bands. These are endocrine disruptors. They cause cancer. Why, you know, like I was. Hairspray. Hairspray. Yeah. Please, you're spraying endocrine disrupting cancer causing hairspray. Let me set the record straight. I'm going to just blast you now on the show. You will whine about my little hairspray. Not little hairspray. A woman will show up to her house with a literal paint booth to spray tan your entire body.

1:10:14Once in a while, not all the time. I would say once every two months. Okay. It covers you from head to toe. Yeah, it's pretty bad. That is pretty bad. Okay. I have like a little spray up here. Like literally you come out as a different person. So when you gave this 10-day detox to all these people who had toxicity, what happened? So I noticed that 50 % of their symptoms would just go. So the body is a self-healing, I don't want to use the word machine, but our bodies are designed to self-cleanse and self-heal. But we're so overloaded with different things from all different places, including emotions.

1:10:50Yeah, stress. Demon attachments. Yeah, literally. So once you cleanse that and you also process the mind. And the other thing that I wanted to say was that I noticed that most people were deficient in magnesium. Huh. And that is a huge problem because it causes insomnia. It causes muscle cramps, anxiety, mood swings, all sorts of things like that. Also hormonal imbalance. I noticed when I, when, so when mom formulated the new magnesium line, we use transdermal magnesium because it's more bioavailable. I noticed that all my PMS symptoms went away. Like my, my, every time my cycle would come, it would be significantly easier.

1:11:30that's really interesting because when i get period cramps i spray magnesium on my stomach that's exactly what you should so that's exactly what you're gonna get and i don't even know why i do that until you just told me that you have it you're naturally it's a hard burden to carry it's a great gift yeah and trust yourself oh i i do but sometimes i'm glad that you were able to do this episode these episodes are like therapy for us because yeah we're sometimes talking two different languages and he hears this but in the last like few years i don't question when she does things like that like when you know when she has an intuition about how to take care of herself i don't i don't ever know you've been i do say like if this thing starts to go real south we have to be able to like go somewhere and get some help yeah okay what does self mean mean like if like like the other day when she had that infection her face or so i said like if this gets to a certain point we have to go i was like can you stop talking to me you're bringing my cortisol up i need to keep the cortisol that's a real thing yeah you know if i get stressed that it gets bigger and for sure and you know actually when we have increased cortisol it actually helps affects the skin barrier function so this is all it's all interlinked you know when people say you know stress doesn't cause skin issues or physical body issues it does it will manifest in the body because you know if you're stressed you're more likely to have inflammation in the body which will increase any inflammatory problems that you're having which can look like acne psoriasis eczema rosacea rosacea ibs ibs really any anything that's displaying an anti an inflammatory problem that's what's going to happen and hormonal imbalance is an inflammatory problem pcos comes from inflammation inside the body so if you treat all of that together then you know you won't display symptoms i think the coolest thing about what you guys are doing is you're doing it together i know it's so fun how do you guys have such a great relationship what are the tips if someone's listening and they're like god i wish i had a relationship like this with my parent what would you tell them okay such a good question and and i'm i'm gonna share something please which is quite personal but i started my first business with my husband and over the years and he's a wonderful man absolutely wonderful man but and this is your father yeah yeah yeah so but over the years the communication had broken down to a point where i don't know how how to put this um he's italian so i feel like i don't know if that well we can't tarnish all italians with that brush but but let's just say that he wasn't conscious of his words and so sometimes he would say things to me that I would resent and that would accumulate you know it was like a little layer on top of each other and so the reason why I'm sharing this is that that eventually led to a breakdown of our marriage and a divorce which is exactly how it should be yeah for us in particular but why i'm sharing this is with roxy working together as i'm sure you will attest is a beautiful thing but it's also stressful at times yeah like there are times when the great thing i think is that you can be honest with each other like you guys probably don't waste any time i don't like we don't mince words yeah yeah i don't like that exactly what we do like if we don't like if i don't like something or she doesn't like something we'll say it so plainly without being worried about hurting each other's feelings whereas someone that's not your family you're not going to say oh that's disgusting why would you do that or maybe we'd use different words or like you know just like things that you just say it more plainly but if you were with like a certain co-worker and you say I've got this great idea and they don't believe it they're going to say oh I like this but then we'll try it we almost got a member cut off his body last night giving me critical feedback while I was doing my nighttime routine.

1:15:38I was right on the feedback.

1:15:42It's challenging, but it's rewarding. Yeah, so much. So I think our first year working together, we had to find the dance. Yeah. And also what's but what's so beautiful is that we don't harbor feelings. And we can always like if I'm feeling a type of way, I'll just say and then she'll say it vice versa. And then we'll move through it very quickly. It will be like a two second thing where we've had maybe we've had a bit of a heated discussion. And then two minutes later, I'll be like, I'm really sorry. I feel that way because of X reason. And she'll be like, no, I understand. And this is why I reacted in X reason.

1:16:18And then we move on and then we're operating the business. So we're very and that comes back to forgiveness is that we're not holding on to anything. And love and gratitude and a lot of respect. And you want it seems like you'd want to hang out with your mom. all the time my my mom is my favorite person to hang out with because like we can just like be in silence and not speak and yeah we don't need to say anything you know we just know what we're thinking and feeling and we have the same taste we do she trusts my areas of expertise i trust her areas of expertise and it just works that way where we're not we have our set lanes and we're not kind of getting into each other's lanes but we also respect each other's opinions when we're talking about each other's lanes, if that makes sense.

1:17:03Well, if it reinforces what you guys are doing for the first part of my career, I worked with my father and we were partners and we built a great business together. And of course, there was ups and downs. And I think the hard dynamic looking back now that I've got a few years on me with the parent, maybe is watching your child do something and you're used to being the one who's kind of setting the direction and making the decisions. but then having allowing for the space for them to have good ideas yeah but then at the same time allowing your parent to navigate that a bit so like me and my dad we had a great working relationship but there were some moments where it was like i'm trying to fly yeah he's been flying yeah trying to figure out how to make that work and now it's you know one of the we have a great i just i talk to him almost every day we have an amazing relationship but it was an interesting yeah it's an interesting dance and dynamic for sure yeah and i think that if you're it's great because we work the same way also.

1:18:01So, you know, we operate the same way. We hustle the same way. I'm very grateful that I learned that from my mother. You know, she's been working since the day I was born. I had my first job when I was three years old in the shop. I was a sales assistant at three. Self-appointed. Yeah. You know, I would put products into people's baskets with my little lab coat that my dad made me. And I would say, you know, to the customer, are you going to buy this? And she was a natural, honestly but the best part about having a business partner like your mother is you have someone that you for sure 100 % know wants the absolute best for you yeah exactly yeah that's a and same with my wife and with me but like sometimes you'll get into a partnership with people and that's like there's a lot of you know friction and maybe they have their interest and not yours yeah exactly so you can't do that that way i know it's like fully trustworthy and that we're aligned on the vision we're aligned on what we want to do and you know we're always going to do what's best for the business not and what's best for ourselves is what's best for the business if you both were to start with one product from your line roxy i'll start with you what would it be i'm going to just say mine real quick would be definitely this the rose quartz little rollerball yeah the lip balm and it's got castor oil in it which is honestly so incredible for lip products i love castor oil i have it in my brow peptide i love it i'm a big castor oil fan but it goes on so nice i think you're wearing it too.

1:19:26Yeah, it's really, we call it a gloss because it's not sticky, but it looks glossy. It's beautiful. It's really, really nice. Because when, when mom was formulating it, I said to her, let's make something or obviously all our products are non-toxic and non-endocrine disrupting because that's really important to us. And I said, but all the natural ones don't have that glossy effect that I want. So can you make one that's like that? And she just whipped it up. You know, we our lab is in London. We make everything in London. So, you know, she mom oversees the lab and the team and they, you know, she went to the lab.

1:19:58She made it with them, brought it back to me. I tried it. I was like, yeah, yeah, this is it. This is it. Which product would you start with? Yeah, so I would start with, it depends on, you know, all our treatments are targeted for different problems. For me personally, I can't live without our hormone check drops, which is a hormone balancing supplement. And it really reversed all my PCOS symptoms and got my period back, reduced the inflammation in my body, helped me just, you know, self-regulate with the sort of nootropics in it, but then also the blood sugar benefits. it's just got so many different things like so many clients with endocrine disrupting problems or endometriosis pms they all say that this is like a miracle treatment i think what i will do because i feel like i'm having hormonal acne so i'll do the drops yeah with the affirmations with the spot treatment and then also the serum hybrid moisturizer which is our inflammating skin solution, which basically gives you glass skin in one step, but it helps calm irritation and redness and sort of that inflammation that's happening on the skin.

1:21:08But it's kind of like a natural Botox in a bottle. That's really how it works. And it's so good. You know, the reason that you see this glow is partly because of that. Yeah, your skin looks great. Yeah. What would you pick? It's the inflammation skin solution. Okay, that's what you would pick. That's what would pick because i've been wanting to formulate something like that for 30 years wow and you know you either have to have like a light cream or a heavy one yeah and nothing in between but this one it's just it's really rich but really light yeah does it work on broken capillaries oh so well it reduces redness inflammation pigmentation it's really good for really we got it independently tested and it got almost 100 in non-reactivity for all skin types i love it yeah we have a code yeah do you want to share the code tell us where we can go shop so you can go to i am world which is e-y-e-a-m world.com slash skinny and you will get 30 off you guys gave us 30 off that is so nice I swear that the universe is listening because this conversation was so fulfilling.

1:22:23Sometimes conversations can be draining. This is definitely not. That's an affirmation I shouldn't say. But this was so fulfilling for me and it's so incredible. And it's like so weird that it happens today. Last prediction. Now that my demons have been cleansed and removed, what do you think is going to happen to me? How will you feel? What am I supposed to notice now? So many blessings. Imagine just every single door opening at super speed. And also peace, indescribable peace. You're just peaceful for no reason. I think peace and joy and just a lightness and a clarity. Because the only voice that you should be hearing is the voice of God.

1:23:10Excuse me, can you thank me for clearing your demon attachments? I think thank you I want to see I want to see if I see doors blessing number one me oh for sure for sure I mean you would have been carrying those guys till you're dead in the coffin you would have had demons imagine if you were with another girl you would have had demons literally hanging on your shoulders you had three in your bed think about all that I've done with 12 demons that I've been dragging around you can still be successful so imagine what you can do without them Wait a minute. What if it makes me less successful? No, it's impossible.

1:23:46It's actually impossible. That's the other way. Alright, I'll keep you updated. Call me the demon clearer. Thank you both. Thank you both. Where can everyone find you both on Instagram to say hi to you two? Yeah, so my handle is HealingWithRoxy and mom's is just Margot Morone. I love it. Big fan. Thank you so much for having us. Thank you.

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#937: Join us as we sit down with Margo & Roxy Marrone – a mother-daughter duo who are the Founders of Eyeam, the first brand in neuro-cosmetics uniting mind, body, spirit, & skin. Margo is an award-winning Cosmetic Formulator, Pharmacist, Homeopath, & Energy Healer with over 30 years of experience in wellness. Roxy is an Integrative Nutrition Coach and founder of Healing with Roxy, known for her approach to healing through food, lifestyle, and self-development. Together, they're redefining self-care through science, affirmations, and intentional rituals that heal far more than just the surface. In this episode, Margo & Roxy open up about their personal healing journeys involving energy & demon attachment clearings, discuss the development of neurocosmetics with Eyeam, the power of mindset affirmations, & inflammations role contributing to hormonal imbalances and skin issues. 


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