Break Free from Unworthiness to Unlock Your Manifesting Power | Lucy Hale

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0:49What's the difference between manifesting from a pure connection to God versus manifesting from a darkness and a disconnection from God? So there's a couple elements to this. Now, do I believe in manifesting? You don't have to believe in manifesting. It is law. But I feel like my destiny as a person was always to be in L.A. So does that make sense? So like even if I was in a bad place in my life, like my soul wanted to be here. But I would say the biggest difference in manifesting from it's like I was manifesting things and they would happen. But I'd still have the feelings of unworthiness. Really?

1:28Yes. And what's really interesting about, like I manifested some things after Pretty Little Liars and it was a couple of TV shows. And I'm talking, I did like three TV shows in a row that got canceled. And I was like, but you know what it was? It's because I had this limiting belief that I didn't deserve. What you had already before. What I had already or that I had already peaked or that, you know. And so I was manifesting jobs that weren't going to follow through. Oh, my God. And we were talking about like money beliefs earlier. Everyone read this house book. But like I've had to really reestablish a healthy relationship with money and with success and realizing that success doesn't equal bad or evil.

2:16To me, more success equals, wow, I get to connect with so many people. Or, wow, I get to create content, movies, TV, films, that's really going to help people or entertain them or give them a break from their day. David has really helped me with all of this stuff. And so my life has felt like a series of trial and errors, like most people's. But then I realized, oh, my God, I realized my part in it. because we are manifesting every second of every freaking day. And the biggest, like if anyone takes anything from this podcast, it is get really comfortable with your thoughts and make sure you're focusing more on the positive than the negative.

3:07I feel like what I realized was I was latching on to so many negative limiting beliefs that were really hindering my growth as both an artist and a human. Interesting. And I was blaming other people. That is the worst thing you can do is say, well, I'm not getting this job because this person's not working hard enough for me. And it's like, no, no, no, no, no. We are so in control of whatever we want to create. And that's a scary concept for a lot of people to accept. A lot of people don't want to accept that. But it is my belief. It is my belief that we are master, master creators, and we are so powerful.

3:47And like how cool that, I mean, look, I'm sitting here like two years ago. I was like, dang, I really love this podcast. And I was like, I can really see myself on this podcast. And here I am. But we're also manifesting little things like a cup of tea. It's just, I love it. I think it's fun to play. It is fun. Once you get familiar with how it all works, it's fun to. Now, but you mentioned something earlier about like you felt like you were a victim for a long time, right? Like you were living in victim energy. Yes. Obviously, you were creating stuff. And from the outside, you know, people didn't see your failures.

4:22Even though you had three shows that didn't extend after the first season or didn't get picked up after the pilot or whatever. Yeah. But everyone else on the outside is seeing you win except for maybe close industry friends hearing about something. One of the 10 trolls on the internet. Yeah, exactly. Whatever. Like, oh, it didn't work out for you. Yeah. but it's not like you were living in a victim energy inside of you. And it's because you weren't feeling worthy or deserving of the success or like, I've already received too much success and I shouldn't have received that much anyways. When did you start to shift out of victim and unworthiness energy into hero or main character energy?

5:02Yeah, I love that. And into, I am deserving and worthy of all the blessings that come to my life. Yeah. How did you shift that energy from I'm undeserving to deserving? I mean, I feel like it was around the time I got sober. I mean, definitely a year or two before I got sober, I started having these little glimmers of hope. Or things were really connecting for me spiritually. Or how I was getting in my own way. how I was contributing to this sob story or like contributing to my own suffering, you know? And that is the biggest wake-up call a soul can have is when they're like, oh my God, this is my part in why I'm in so much pain.

5:42Because I think it's so easy for us to just like blame, blame, blame, blame, blame. So you're blaming who? Like managers or agents or like studios or... No, I mean, I think I was just, yeah, it was like people around me or other people in the industry. or you saying like, oh, this girl got it because of some other reason or what? Yeah. It was like, oh, I'm not, I don't look a certain way or I'm not a good enough actor or like whatever these stupid stories that we tell ourselves that aren't true. Like I was just giving my power away too easily. And, and, and all of that started to shift when I, first I had to get clear headed, right?

6:19It was like, okay, stop drinking, stop doing all this stuff. And just like really let's get back in alignment and I had to be really clear-headed and you know the first year of sobriety was really about just in my environment changed the people I was with changed the second year was because you're not hanging out with the same people who are drinking my whole life completely changed but I have been lucky that a lot of like my family I have some all of my closest friends have been my friends for years years years and they were you know stood by my side but a lot of my life changed look different the second year was more about like okay I need to integrate into the world and have fun but I was you know I can't like sit at home in my house all day with my dogs although it's pretty fun too though and then the third year so the year I just came out because I'm in my going to my fourth year my third year was like everything changed Really?

7:16Last year? Everything I had bottled up came to the surface. It was like I got hit with everything one after one. I was like emotional whiplash. And luckily, work was, I had a lot of time last year to deal. You know, it's funny how those things, I was like, thank you, universe, because I really needed time to sit with it. And if you're working all the time, you don't have time to sit. Oh, no. It's like I'm busy. Like I'm booked and busy. I don't have to worry about my like emotions or whatever. Like stupid. But I had the time. And it was during that year where I realized, oh, like if I change the way I think and I believe it and I embody that, like I can change everything in my life.

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