Dr. Joe Dispenza: The Science of True Love - Beyond Pleasure to Pure Connection | EP 899

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0:58I think many people, I think I'll include myself, we confuse pleasure with love. And it's not the same thing. What's the difference? Well, pleasure is doing something that makes you feel good, but has nothing to do with love. Love has everything to do with something that you feel independent of pleasure. It's when you overcome yourself and you arrive at your goal, you reach your dream, you never give up on yourself. You had hard moments. You fell to your knees. You brushed yourself up. You got up and you showed up again for yourself. It's amazing to watch this. I watch it at week-long events. I watch people literally change in seven days and they showed up when they said, I'm too tired.

1:46I have a handicap. I have a disease. that I don't understand how rough my past is. I'm an addict. I was in jail. My mother was abusive. They showed up in spite of I'm too old, whatever that is. You keep showing up for yourself. You start feeling really worthy, really worthy to receive. And the universe only gives us what we think we're worthy of receiving, right? So when you're in love, you're in a whole lot less lack. And if you're in a whole lot less lack, in a sense, you're moving closer to source. And that's a really good feeling. That's a really good feeling. So, practice that every day. Practice that every day and your relationships with people, your relationship with your body, your relationship with money, your relationship with your phone, your relationship with your car, your relationship with everything would be different.

2:45Yes. And so the overcoming process is the becoming process. You make yourself happy. You no longer need anybody to do that for you. You have a person in your life who is conscious that wants to make themselves happy and share their joy and their love with somebody. Yes. Well, you have something really unique. It's really special. And love is a bonding, a very bonding chemical. It's a very bonding energy. If you look at oxytocin levels in mammals, you typically see it when the female has just given birth and she's grooming the offspring and she's touching it and licking it and nudging it and taking care of it.

3:33There's oxytocin levels are released through the limbic brain, through the midbrain. That's the bonding brain. they're smelling, they're connecting, and they're attracting one another. It's creating a connection. Honeymoon stage relationship where there's a lot of intense connection, a lot of intimacy, releases oxytocin, creates monogamy, creates a bond that creates unity, creates connection, right? So I show the values to some of the scientists and some of my colleagues, and they see oxytocin levels 200 times. Normally they're like, dude, what are you doing? What is going on? There's a couple's What is going on here?

4:06And I say, you know, I say the same thing. I say, number one, I want people to fall in love with the future, just like they fall in love with another person, because if they do, they're bonded to that future, just like they're bonded to another person. Secondly, if you truly, truly want to connect to pure love, to source, to singularity, to oneness, to wholeness, to the fertile void, to vacuum energy, whatever you want to call that universal intelligence. That's pure consciousness. That's pure love. If you hit you hit that moment where you hit connection, you will feel that arousal of love. It'll be it'll be profoundly memorable for you.

4:42And it's it's not chemical. It's electric. It's very electric. Wow. So you get a few of those. It becomes you and you become it. And so your love for the divine, your love for the mystical, your love for the unseen, your love for source, that the love affair begins. And it's like being in love. No one can tell you you're in love. You just know it. And it gets really hard to miss a date. Imagine you go and connect every day. And you start your day from that place. That's a relationship. That's a relationship with the world that you're bringing. So I think the overcoming process is part of it. I think it's practicing getting to that place.

5:26I think it's practicing opening our hearts more. Moving out of survival. Working with our bodies. and survival it's not a time to love it's just it's not a time to communicate so your relationship that's built on emotions other than love there's going to be a limit to love right and so you got betrayed someone else got betrayed you get together talk about your betrayal work yourself up into a froth feel the emotions get emotional agreement get a connection you're connecting the same energy the same emotion because you're sharing the same information you're sharing the same memories. And you can relate with one another.

6:02That's a certain level of consciousness.

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