If You Feel Like You Can't Be Yourself Anymore, Listen To This | Gabriel Iglesias

0:00Hi, my name is Lewis Howes and welcome to the Daily Motivation Show.

0:11I used to use a lot of words growing up about myself to myself and to others. I would say, I'm an idiot. I'm stupid. I'll never learn these things. I'm not smart. I was in the bottom of my class, bottom of four in my class. They used to grade us or rank us in our classes where I was in school. So I could always see that was in the bottom four consistently all through middle school and high school. So I was just like, I'm never going to be good enough. I'm never going to learn like you guys. I would say these words and build an identity about me to self that would limit me and to others that would limit me.

0:45How much does the identity you've built for yourself empower you or hold you back, would you say? I know that when people see me on the streets, I'm fluffy. Hey, fluffy! you know it's very rare that i'll get you know uh gabriel really they'll say fluffy and then like who is it it's gabriel iglesias you know i mean it's all tied together but it's so much easier to call somebody by the nickname it's an easy nickname and it's not like it's a different person it's just it's a nickname that's you know it's me but um i am seen a certain way because of the shows and the consistency that oh you know he's the guy that talks about his son he's the guy that talks about his friend he's the guy that so i'm limited in the sense that if i was to all of a sudden start talking about politics or become you know start venting and being very vulgar being you know that you know and there are times when i do want to vent and i can't on stage because it's not something that goes with with what i've created and and it's not going to be well received by everyone.

1:57I might hit a few. There might be some people that will relate to what I'm saying but I'm going to ruffle a lot of feathers in the process. And so, I have to remind myself this is not the place to do that. So, because of what I built there, I can't you know, I can't be 100 right here. This is not going to go well. But what about the identity with Fluffy? The identity with Fluffy? No. Always happy. And that's not always the case you know uh always happy always in a good mood i'm not always in a good mood and i every time i go out in public i always i'm afraid that people are gonna like i don't want to meet somebody run into somebody if i'm not having the best of days so i try not to not to put myself in environments where i'm going to run into people um i'm not one who's going to be like no i don't want to take a picture i'm not going to snap on somebody and and photos is it's part of the deal if i can do it and there's time for it absolutely no problem but there are times when i'm dealing with issues problems and i'm just like oh i just want to go to the drive-thru get something to eat and just go back home but you know uh because of the fact that i'm seeing a certain way it's like you got to always be smiling you got to always be happy you got to always be that and and that that is hard because sometimes you just want to be a normal person.

3:24I understand that. Yeah. You know, you just, you know, like, how's he doing? Don't talk to him right now. He's in one of the moments. I'm a big believer that our, that our habits and our identity will shape our, our lives and our goals and the way we feel about ourselves will naturally take care of themselves based on the consistency of our habits and on the identity that we give ourselves. And so I guess I just wanted to ask about the identity of Fluffy. You mentioned this, how, you know, people call you Fluffy. Do you think that supports your success, but holds you back in other ways? Or do you feel like that is an empowering thing for you with your identity and where you want to be?

4:09There are so many more pros than there are cons. The cons are very small. They're very small. um no man let me tell you when people when you get recognized you know i i have other friends that are you know other comics and i know a lot of people that are that are famous and i don't know man i get i don't want to say that mine is is better but for some reason when i get recognized it's i'm not seeing like like oh it's it's Taylor Swift kind of a thing you know the recognition i get from people the the the look is almost like hey man this guy's like like it's like seeing a family member you haven't seen in a long time and i feel i feel that from people when i when i get recognized it's not it's very different i see how other people get recognized and i'm like wow okay with with me it's a lot it's a lot different i get people right away that are like like the the glow and the energy is very it's like it feels like family it like like a moment like a real sweet sweet thing and um i love that it's it's it tells me that what i'm doing is making a difference what i'm doing because i get a lot of people also that will open up you know hey man i was going through this and i was watching and hey man uh just so you know you i've heard you've helped me get through so many times and it's that's an incredible feeling and that's a game changer so when i hear something like that it changes the whatever mood i'm in it it corrects it i'm like you know what stop that stop thinking like that you know you're whatever you're dealing with is nothing this dude is like you just you know put things into perspective sure so being fluffy is is very much a uh it's a good thing a lot of pros to it yeah a lot of pros do i wish i could vent about certain things of course i do but uh i think that it's it's part of the deal you have to sacrifice this is part of the sacrifice to be where i'm at you mentioned some people will just say hey Fluffy on the streets or whatever and they'd be like, oh, it's Gabriel Iglesias.

6:15You know. Who is Fluffy versus who is Gabriel in your mind? They're pretty much like this. But, you know, Gabriel does have bad days. Really? Fluffy can't have bad days. He's not supposed to. And if I do, I try to find a way to push it into the show. Like, for example, in my show right now, without giving too much away, because I have a new special coming out, one of the things I'm talking about is, I'm talking about things that happened to me that weren't great, weren't fun, weren't awesome. I'm starting to incorporate more of, you know, after so many years and now I'm almost, I'm coming up on 50 pretty soon.

6:53Wow. You know, there's more things that have happened. For example, I'm talking about the fact that I almost died in a plane crash that made the news. Wow. I'm talking about the fact that they broke into my house, you know, someone broke into my house and went through my things and just, you know, a bad situation. I'm talking about that. I reunited with my father who I haven't seen in 15 years and how awkward that was. And so there's now moments where I'm like, okay, you know, so it's not all like, hey, rainbows and unicorns type of thing. It's like, okay, you know. So the challenge now is making those situations funny.

7:27Near death, how can you make that funny? That's, you know, that's a challenge. Wow. But I am talking more about things that aren't as fun and pleasant.

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