If You're Struggling To Build Wealth, Stop Capturing Money | Rory Vaden

9 Jul 2025 · 7 min

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Podcast Episode Notes: The Daily Motivation - If You're Struggling To Build Wealth, Stop Capturing Money | Rory Vaden

Episode Overview

  • Podcast Title: The Daily Motivation
  • Hosted by: Lewis Howes
  • Guest: Rory Vaden
  • Episode Focus: Understanding wealth and the mindset around money, emphasizing the importance of viewing money as a conduit rather than something to hoard.

Key Concepts

  1. The Author of Your Life:
  2. You are in control of the narrative you tell yourself about money and abundance.
  3. The stories you create can lead to a mindset of scarcity or abundance.
  1. Money Management Mindset:
  2. Traditional approach: Capturing money and hoarding it.
  3. New perspective: Viewing money as a conduit that flows in and out.
  4. Rich individuals focus on allowing money to flow rather than trying to hold onto it.
  1. Spiritual Principles of Wealth:
  2. Operating from a place of scarcity blocks your nervous system's ability to receive.
  3. Generosity and giving money away can lead to a healthier relationship with money.
  4. The act of giving helps develop a sense of detachment, reinforcing the idea that you control money — it does not control you.
  1. Practical Strategies:
  2. Align your unique gifts and talents with service to create a fulfilling income.
  3. Focus on making money through activities that resonate with your purpose rather than chasing money for its own sake.
  1. Transforming Your Relationship with Money:
  2. Understand that money only holds value when used — whether to invest, buy necessities, or donate.
  3. Shifting your mindset from seeing money as an end goal to viewing it as a tool can lead to greater financial freedom.

Discussion Highlights

  • Lewis Howes shares his personal transformation in understanding wealth, moving from a scarcity mindset to one that embraces abundance.
  • Rory Vaden emphasizes that wealth is about the flow of money rather than its capture.
  • The conversation touches on the emotional and psychological barriers to receiving wealth, such as fear and past experiences.
  • Generosity is framed as a vital component of wealth creation, emphasizing that an open heart allows for greater financial flow.

Key Takeaways

  • Mindset Shift: Transition from capturing to being a conduit for money.
  • Scarcity vs. Abundance: Recognize how your beliefs might limit your potential for financial growth.
  • Value of Money: Money becomes useful only when it is actively used.
  • Healthy Detachment: Generosity fosters a relationship with money that is empowering rather than constraining.
  • Service and Purpose: Aligning your income-generating activities with your passions can lead to true abundance.

Call to Action

  • Encourage listeners to reflect on their own beliefs about money and to consider how they can shift from a scarcity mindset to one of abundance.
  • Promote the latest book by Lewis Howes, “Make Money Easy,” as a resource for those wanting to transform their relationship with money.

Links

  • Order Make Money Easy: [Make Money Easy Book](https://lewishowes.com/moneyyou)
  • Listen to Full Episode: [Full Episode Link](http://greatness.lnk.to/1792)
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Conclusion This episode of The Daily Motivation challenges traditional notions of wealth accumulation and encourages listeners to adopt a mindset that allows for financial freedom through generosity and the flow of money. By changing the narrative surrounding money, individuals can unlock greater abundance in their lives.

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0:00I have a brand new book called Make Money Easy and if you're looking to create more financial freedom in your life, you want abundance in your life and you want to stop making money hard in your life, but you wanna make it easier, you wanna make it flow, you wanna feel abundant, then make sure to go to makemoneyeasybook.com right now and get yourself a copy. I really think this is gonna help you transform your relationship with money this moment moving forward. We have some big guests and content coming up. Make sure you're following and stay tuned to this episode of The Daily Motivation Show.

0:38Hi, my name is Lewis Howes and welcome to The Daily Motivation Show.

0:50When I think about my own journey of sort of financial literacy, financial freedom, I think early in my life, I tried to capture money. Yes. And the idea was like, I want to gather as much in and have as little as much go out. And that is what I think a lot of people do. Yeah. How do I keep stacking as much as I can? What's interesting is part of why generosity, giving money is so good is because it allows you to develop a healthy detachment from money. I'm going, I can give money. It doesn't control me. I control it. And that's part of what I think financially giving does is it creates a healthy separation.

1:30Because what I noticed that ultra rich people do, they don't try to capture money. They try to be a conduit of money. Yes, it flows in and out. Flowing in and out. And what happens is when you capture it, you're trying to hold it. You're blocking the flow. And you're blocking the flow. But it's like if I'm a conduit, like a pipe, and I'm bigger, my pipe gets bigger and bigger and bigger. and more money just is constantly flowing through me. That's how I think it's like money leaves residue and it's like you capture a little bit of it stays. But the other thing is money captured is useless. Money is only, it only has value when we use it, right?

2:11When we give it to somebody, when we buy something we need, when we invest in an opportunity. And that's like, when your mindset is capture it, you're thinking of money as the end game. What rich people do is they think of money as a vehicle, right? It's just like, it's just a tool. It's part of the process. And that was like a big limiting belief or way that my relationship for much of my life was restricted. And this whole process of this book, Make Money Easy, is essentially about, actually before I even share that, about what this whole process is, I want you to leave in the comments on YouTube, on social media, the biggest takeaway or aha moments so far.

2:55Because there's a lot that me and Rory have been talking about that we probably never both shared together like this ever. Stuff that you don't talk about. No, no. That's even stuff coming up for you that you're like realizing as you're sharing some of this stuff. So share in the comments right now the biggest takeaway, the biggest aha, or the moment that you've enjoyed the most so far. and make sure to also get the book if you haven't yet. And all this stuff kind of is laid out in this process. This is not about investing or like finances. It's not what this is about. There's no like charts on how to like budget in here.

3:30This is not what this book is. It's everything we've been talking about, which is understanding the energy within you to create the life that you want. And this whole thing that you just said, what did you call it? Like a pipe or something? A conduit. Conduit. A conduit, yeah. The whole goal is for us to be able to expand our spiritual conduit, our soul's capacity, and our nervous system's capacity to receive more money so that we can receive and give it freely and be of service at the highest level and whatever that is for us. But if our nervous system is trapped because our beliefs are blocked from what is possible for us or because we're living in the past or the wounds or we've given meaning to pain and we don't feel we're deserving and worthy, then our nervous system is blocking our soul's ability to be a conduit, to expand, to receive and give greater.

4:27and that's what this whole thing is about. This process with the frameworks and the teachings and the lessons is how do we open our heart more to receive and give. And I don't even know if you knew that's what this was about before we even jumped in here because I was like, all right, Roy, we're going to talk about the energy of money and the mindset of money and then I want you to have, teach people the practical strategies that you've been doing with Brand Builders Group to help people really get focused in on what their unique gifts and talents are to serve at the greatest level so they can receive financially in the external world and feel like they're on mission and on purpose because that is true abundance.

5:08It's not making money on something you care nothing about. You and I can make a lot of money doing a lot of things, but like you say, just because you can doesn't mean you should. We could launch a, I don't know, shoe company tomorrow or a toothbrush company or whatever, skincare line. But it doesn't mean we don't enjoy those things, but it's not our main purpose right now. Yeah, totally. And just because we can make money doing something doesn't mean we should.

5:42Thank you so much for listening to today's episode of The Daily Motivation, and I hope you have an amazing rest of your day. If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to click the link in the description that will take you to the full episode of our main podcast on the School of Greatness. And if you are loving the daily motivation, please follow us over on Apple Podcasts and Spotify and leave us a review over on Apple Podcasts right now. And if you want more exclusive content and ad-free listening experience, make sure to subscribe to our Greatness Plus channel on Apple Podcasts right now. And if you want to get even more inspiration from our world-class guests and learn how to improve your life and take it to the next level, then make sure to sign up for the Greatness newsletter and get it delivered right to your inbox over at greatness.com slash newsletter.

6:32Again, have an amazing day and I'll see you tomorrow with another episode of the Daily Motivation Show.

From the publisher

Order my newest book Make Money Easy! https://lewishowes.com/moneyyou

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"Money captured is useless. Money only has value when we use it - when we give it to somebody, when we invest in an opportunity. Rich people don't try to capture money, they try to be a conduit of money." - Rory Vaden

Rory Vaden spent years doing what most of us do - desperately trying to capture and hoard every dollar that came his way. The irony? The harder he gripped, the more money seemed to slip through his fingers. Then he discovered something that completely flipped his understanding of wealth: ultra-rich people don't try to capture money at all. They become conduits for it. Instead of building walls around their cash, they expand their capacity to let money flow through them like water through an ever-widening pipe. This single shift in thinking transformed not just his bank account, but his entire relationship with abundance.

What makes this conversation so powerful isn't just the money strategy - it's the deeper spiritual principle behind it. Rory reveals how our nervous system literally blocks our ability to receive when we're operating from scarcity and fear. You'll discover why giving money away actually creates a healthy detachment that allows more to flow in, and how to align your unique gifts with service so that making money feels like a natural expression of who you are, not something you're desperately chasing.

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