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Podcast Notes: The Daily Motivation - Episode 863: Muniba Mazari: Finding Joy Through Pain
Episode Overview
- Host: Lewis Howes
- Guest: Muniba Mazari
- Key Themes: Self-acceptance, overcoming fear, reframing challenges, personal growth
Key Quotes
- “When you accept yourself the way you are, the world recognizes you.” - Muniba Mazari
Guest Background
- Muniba Mazari:
- Pakistan's first wheelchair-bound TV host and model.
- Goodwill Ambassador to UN Women.
- Globally exhibited artist.
- Featured in BBC's Top 100 Women and Forbes 30 Under 30.
Episode Highlights
Introduction
- Lewis Howes shares his experience of fatherhood and the inspiration he draws from his son, Niall.
Key Life Lessons from Niall
- Moment of Reflection: As a young child, Niall’s request to kick a soccer ball leads to a profound lesson about focusing on abilities rather than limitations.
- Life Lesson: Reframe the mindset from “half empty” to “half full”.
Overcoming Fears
- Fear of Abandonment:
- Mazari discusses the universal fear of abandonment and how it can be liberating to release relationships that do not serve one’s growth.
- Emphasizes that letting go can make space for healthier relationships.
Self-Acceptance
- Journey of Self-Acceptance:
- Accepting oneself is crucial for happiness; one must work on personal happiness independently.
- Highlights the importance of self-respect and internal validation over external approval.
Professional Achievements
- Mazari reflects on her journey from lack of a “plan B” to becoming a successful artist and advocate.
- Discusses her work as a model and TV host, aiming to change narratives around disability in media.
Significance of Her Work
- As a pioneer, Mazari aims to pave the way for young people with disabilities, providing them with role models and visibility in mainstream media.
Key Takeaways
- Reframing Challenges: Turning perceived limitations into opportunities for growth.
- Value of Self-Work: Personal happiness and fulfillment come from within.
- Empowering Others: Using one’s own journey to inspire and uplift those in similar situations.
Conclusion
- Lewis Howes encourages listeners to embrace their own stories and consider what they are writing in their lives.
- Invitation to engage with more content through the School of Greatness podcast and other resources.
Call to Action
- Follow the podcast on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.
- Sign up for the Greatness newsletter for more inspiration and exclusive content.
Additional Resources
- [Full Episode Link](http://lewishowes.com/1684)
- [Greatness Newsletter Signup](https://info.lewishowes.com/newsletter?source=podcast-post-roll)
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Transcript
Automatic transcript. May contain errors.0:00Hi, my name is Lewis Howes and welcome to the Daily Motivation Show.
0:11I adopted this beautiful little human being when he was a few days old. He's my son. His name is Niall. And when I held him in my arms for the first time, I felt so complete. I always say that Niall is the fruit of all the pain that I've been through. I love him not because he's my son. I love him because he's such a kind and considerate human being and he's an excellent teacher. I remember when he was four years old, he's obsessed with soccer. He wants to become a soccer player when he grows up till date. So we got him his very first football when he was four years old. Poor child got so excited that he forgot that his mother is paralyzed.
0:56He held the ball and he kept that in my feet and he said, mom, kick the ball.
1:05and I looked at him and I had tears in my eyes and I said Niall remember mom's legs don't work I can't kick the ball I felt so helpless and hopeless as a mother that this was a little thing that my son wanted me to do and I couldn't do it bless his kind heart he came to me and he I said, Mom, don't be sad. It's okay. Sorry I forgot. But listen, your hands are working. We can play catch ball. And with that football, we play catch ball. And you know what he taught me?
1:48In that moment, my little son, Niall, taught me a very powerful life lesson. If you're thinking that your glass is half empty, rethink. Think all about what you have, and you will realize that your glass is half full. Today, my son is a teenager. He's 13 years old.
2:16We recently celebrated his 13th birthday in April, and now he says, Mom, I'm so strong, I can lift you up. No big deal. So when I overcame the fear of not becoming a mother, I became Niall's mother. Another biggest fear that we all human beings have, and it's very common and it's okay to be scared of, that is the fear of abandonment. What will happen if people that we depend on so much or lean on so much leave? What will happen? Guess what? Nothing happens. We are better off. Been there, done that.
3:05Sometimes it takes letting go to realize that we are holding on to nothing. There are times when we cling on to the wrong people. People who do not belong to our journey. people who do not add on to what we are supposed to be in life. Sometimes we cling on to the people who do not even see our value in their lives. I had to liberate myself by setting all those people free who did not belong to my journey. And let me tell you something. When wrong people leave, right things start to happen.
3:49When wrong people leave, they create space for the right people to come in. And it takes time. And it's okay to be on our own. I think when I overcame this fear of abandonment, I became my own best friend. It made me realize that... Thank you.
4:14It just made me realize something so profound and so real that people, relationships, material world, these things cannot make us happy. They can only make us happier. So in order to be happy, you need to work on yourself. You need to be your own best friend, and you should create your own happiness. Everything else will fall into place. And do not rush. Let the right person come to you. Sooner or later, they will arrive. Be patient. So when I...
4:54So when I overcame these fears, self-acceptance became so much easier. I was able to accept myself the way I was. and most importantly, I was able to respect myself for who I was. And that's where I always say that when you accept yourself the way you are, the world recognizes you. It all starts from within. Today, I'm an artist and I've been exhibiting my work globally. Remember, the same artist who did not have a plan B and I stick to the plan A.
5:37I've been exhibiting my artwork globally, and since I've recently moved to the U.S., I'm so happy to share this. I recently had an exhibition here in U.S. in Rhode Island, and it just gives me so much joy.
5:57I'm Pakistan's first goodwill ambassador to UN women.
6:09I was featured in the list of BBC Top 100 Women. I was in the list of Forbes 30 Under 30.
6:23I'm Pakistan's first wheelchair-bound model. Someone who's...
6:35trying to change the narrative in the mainstream media, trying to let the world know that we are all perfectly imperfect and that's perfectly all right. I'm Pakistan's first wheelchair-bound TV host and I have been hosting TV shows for the last 10 years on national TV.
6:58Again, the idea of saying the first wheelchair-bound is because it's not just about me. It's about so many young boys and girls who happen to be in the wheelchair who will come after me. At least they will have a path to follow, which I didn't have.
7:25Thank you so much for listening to today's episode of The Daily Motivation, and I hope you have an amazing rest of your day. If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to click the link in the description. That will take you to the full episode of our main podcast on the School of Greatness. And if you are loving the daily motivation, please follow us over on Apple Podcasts and Spotify and leave us a review over on Apple Podcasts right now. And if you want more exclusive content and ad-free listening experience, make sure to subscribe to our Greatness Plus channel on Apple Podcasts right now. And if you want to get even more inspiration from our world-class guests and learn how to improve your life and take it to the next level, then make sure to sign up for the Greatness newsletter and get it delivered right to your inbox over at greatness.com slash newsletter.
8:15Again, have an amazing day, and I'll see you tomorrow with another episode of the Daily Motivation Show.
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"When you accept yourself the way you are, the world recognizes you." - Muniba Mazari
From adopting her son Niall to becoming Pakistan's first wheelchair-bound TV host and model, Muniba Mazari's journey is a testament to the power of reframing life's challenges. When her four-year-old son asked her to kick a soccer ball, a moment that could have been devastating became a profound lesson in focusing on possibilities rather than limitations. Through her son's simple wisdom of suggesting catch ball instead, Muniba learned to see her glass as half full, embracing what she could do rather than dwelling on what she couldn't.
As Pakistan's first Goodwill Ambassador to UN Women and a globally exhibited artist, Muniba has transformed her personal journey into a platform for change. Her story extends beyond professional achievements to deep insights about overcoming the fear of abandonment and finding self-acceptance. Featured in BBC's Top 100 Women and Forbes 30 under 30, she's dedicated herself to changing narratives in mainstream media, showing that being "perfectly imperfect" is perfectly alright. Her path as a wheelchair-bound pioneer in television and modeling has created a roadmap for future generations, turning personal challenges into stepping stones for others to follow.
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